Also, the write up at the end 😲😲😲 "The only people who would be upset about you having boundaries are those who were benefiting from you having none" This right here is gold🥺❤️
"If you don't start acting like your worth it guys are gonna start treating you like that." the hugest lightbulb just went off. I have been asking God why this relationship stuff has been going wrong and why guys just don't want to commit. the truth is that I need to start looking inwardly too me and realizing I am worth it. wowwwww!!! 🤩
I am completely embracing my single season right now and this is gold! Im only halfway through the video but I already feel so validated in my beliefs and you guys are spitting absolute wisdom. Thank you Tori and Chad :,) also I died “how mUch cAn I ToUUUUCHHHH”
y’all neeeeeeeed a podcast. i would be watching it all the time! you guys are so wise and it’s so helpful to hear from a godly christian perspective that is based from scripture. thankful for y’all :)
Listen, from the first 2 minutes I said to myself "Here goes another Beautiful Christian Couple frolicking in the meadows of Unity and Joy, reminiscing on their singleness as if it only lasted the dew of an early morning ". I literally asked God "Do I have to watch this" and I felt like I needed to continue. I learned about myself and my self pleasing tendencies when it comes to "friendly" guy relationships. I love the feeling of someone checking on me with cute texts. But, in my heart I know it won't lead to anything serious. Thanks for the video. Fellow viewers don't exit the video, they got GEMS
Also maybe can you do the boundaries you had with Chad when you friend zoned him? Placing boundaries on someone you don’t want to date, but want to stay friends with :)
I tried and the man kept flirting with me. A professed Christan. I was shaking and blocked him but I blocked him before also and then unblocked. God didn't bless me with good luck. Been alone for so long. Chad said to be strong and not negative naggy Nancy but some day I feel so low, then what. Its hard to let go. Maybe I need more self control. Sometimes I just want to die, to cry.
A muslim girl here! This video is amazing and I wished I found your channel before. Boundaries are so important and everyone should put your advices on practice. MUCH LOVE!
I just recently discovered y'alls channel and have been so encouraged by it! I so appreciate how open both of you are with your struggles and how God has moved in your life. I was just recently praying and hoping that God would provide godly resources that would help me in growing into the woman that He wants me to be. So stumbling across your channel was a huge blessing and answer to prayer! God has really spoken to me through your videos, so thank you for allowing Christ to speak through you!
Discovered you guys yesterday. Spent the day watching your videos back to back. And I couldn’t be more grateful for your content. I hope you know you are making a difference and inspiring many. Lots of love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Can definitely relate to chad about being a people pleaser and I was stuck In that pattern until I read this boundaries book. The book is life changing plus it’s from a biblical perspective!!!! Everyone needs to read it.. thank you for your wisdom guys 💕
This was so pure, loving, remarkable and overall, humble. It's amazing to me that I can find videos like this on the internet and have it be filled with so much grace and good intention. I think you guys are really going to become something special. Thank you for this ♥️
Sweet cheese!!! Its 2am😱😱i literally just finished my bedtime prayers then saw this! sadly I have exams tomorrow so imma save this for the weekend. Love you guys♥️
I’m currently going through a difficult time letting go of a guy who I have a romantic past with, but still talk to everyday because he’s my best friend. We’re both Christian’s, but have a deep history of living in sin when we’re together. When I saw this was the topic of this weeks video, it was such a sign from God. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. And tori your such a beautiful person inside and out. So glad I stumbled across your guy’s channel😊 Will continue to support you guys and watch your videos as I always walk away with such great Christian centred advice
I love how Chad puts the question to us of "Is what I'm doing giving me life?" I have found that statement to be so true. If we are focused on material, worldly things we aren't able to feel content or have true meaning. We find life through Christ. A lot of people have asked me when I'm going to start dating and I tell them that I want to find myself through God first. Watching your videos has helped me be content in this current phase of my life knowing that I'm taking this season to know God and myself better. Thank you for taking the time to put these videos together ❤
ahhhh yessss 🙌🏼 love how you talked about establishing boundaries. I struggled with people-pleasing too and the reminder that Jesus even established them went right to my spirit!!
WOW THIS WAS SO GOOD!!! & I needed this so much!! Tori you should seriously write a book 😂😂 no but for real this single girl absolutely loved all this truth!!
Love this!! Haha Tori is just doing so many mic drop statements of wisdom. Thank you for sharing all these series. So many people are learning from the wisdom you all have to share!💞
Do you guys ever miss?? The amount of wisdom and clarity that has come to me through videos like this from you guys is truly mind-blowing and I can't begin to tell you how grateful I am
I first listened to this video 2 years ago when I had come freshly out of a relationship and mehhnnnn did I forget all these nuggets you two are dropping and did the exact opposite this past two years!!! This is definitely hitting different! Gash you’ll definitely go round in circles till you learn the lesson mean for you smh
Guys, thank you SO MUCH! Really late to the dating game, and I just mustered up the courage to try online dating, but now I'm feeling insecure. Tori, your tips on spiritual boundaries are great - I've never heard that anywhere else! Keep it coming ya'll, my vulnerable soul needs it! :)
Aww we got yoru back Lindsey! Know your worth and remember 2 Tim 1:7, God does NOT work in the spirit of fear (aka insecurity...) that is a work of the enemy!
I’ve never had someone so accurately describe the struggles of being a people pleaser. Chad put words to my internal struggle no one sees or knows about. You both spoke beautifully 🤍
What you two shared is just so incredibly powerful!! Tori killed it with some wonderful words... especially about knowing ones worth as a girl. I could totally relate to that. The analogy Chad shared made total sense. The part about unhealthy dependability and being okay with oneself without looking out for someone else to complete us ..bang on!! (I was clapping all the way) I love how you heard us and made such videos which mean so much to us...I can derive more meaning the more I watch it. The pearls of wisdom you two share is legit gold! A big thank you for this series and the Q & A that will follow. :)
Awww wow thank you for taking the time to be so encouraging!!! Wish we could see you react to the video! hahah So thankful you comment how you feel because it makes us want to continue doing this! Thank you for supporting us!
Can totally relate to that feeling of distracting yourself Chad. Constantly texting and talking to people to get your fill, especially women. I totally get that and understand that feeling. Something I've become very aware of recently as a single person and have been working on for a while now. Thanks for sharing that!
I love this series! It would be super awesome if you guys could also talk about when to have the dreaded DTR (define the relationship) in the context of friendship to dating, and how to know when one should move on and not rot in the friend-zone. :) Thanks again!
I just want to say THANK YOU for addressing all these difficult topics. Do not think you understand how much it means to us that you talk about this, it helps so so much🤍🤍
before I start, just wanted to say that I came from part one and absolutely LOVED IT. as a teenager, ya'll are giving such great wisdom that I will definitely take to heart. Not only that but you guys seem like REAL PEOPLE. So many times I've seen series like this where Christian couples give good advice but it seems so mechanical. You guys are great! I'm glad the Lord is able to use you in this way. Thanks for this!
This convicted me and I’m so happy I got to hear this today. It’s was actually perfect timing. I watched this video 3times and sent it to a couple of friends. Thank you Chad and Tori, y’all are amazing!!!! THANK YOUUUUU 💛
It's amazing how the Father works with us. A few months ago, I watched this video and I knew it was very important, what you were saying but somewhere in my heart, I didn't really believe I needed to put it into action for myself. I thought I knew!! Here I am months later, the Holy Spirit having opened my eyes, my ears and my heart, after making these mistakes and now I see HOW MUCH this is for me. I personally have to pay attention and obey right away. The Holy Spirit brought the video back to my heart and now, my heart is all open to receive everything here. God bless you Mr. & Mrs. Masters.
I love love love seeing both of you. You complete each other wonderfully. And that messages are very valuable. I’m so thankful that i found this channel. I literally grab my notes and pause every minutes or so. May i live a life full of joy and love in God’s way like you guys. Thank you so much!
I'm finally getting around to watching the older videos and had to stop this one and save for later when I could take notes on all the truth bombs!! thank y'all for sharing such Godly wisdom!!
Just found your channel last night under recommended . Wow! Already just loved hearing about your love story segments and this video about singleness. God spoke to me through you both about being comfortable with being single and just trusting Him with my future husband. I'm 25 and this video encouraged me to continue to seek Christ and love myself. Loved the boundaries talk too. I'm going to try sobering to hear God's voice 🙂
Guys guys guys guys guys guys guys! OMG! I don't think I've ever taken more notes with one of your videos! I always save your videos for a rainy day and I'm glad I did because you always encourage my heart toward God and this video was no exception. I've been in my single season for a while and I finally was able to move past the idolization or marriage and a relationship! Three weeks later, I was DM'd and now it could all change BUT I knew I was ready because I was so content with Jesus that I didn't want to message him back in fear that I'd mess up the roll I had going (looking back now, it has some but I won't let it any longer). All that to say, this is EXACTLY what I needed as I navigate this in-between and make decisions about the future so THANK YOU! Chad, I hear what you're saying about being a people pleaser and self sabotaging! That's a lesson I learned the hard way and am so grateful for your encouragement as it's a daily battle. Tori, your note about being so in tune with God that they have to seek Him to discover your heart - SHEESH! I needed that challenge and appreciate all you said about value. I (and so many women) struggle with feeling valued apart from men BUT GOD gives us a different story and I need that reminder often! My cup is overflowing! Man, I love you guys and your willingness to be honest and show us Jesus. I can't thank you enough
I'm new to your channel. I am learning so much. I really struggle with boundaries on different levels but mostly with the opposite sex. I actually have that book & started reading it. I am a people pleaser and I self sabotage myself as well, BIG time!
Haven't started the video yet, but I'm single right now and I already know this video will be helpful, having watched all the other videos in this series! So thankful for you guys and this channel. God bless you both! also... TORI YOU ARE SO POWERFUL! ... with the strength that comes from God :)
I’m watching these videos so late lol bc I just discovered y’all, but can I just say WOW. So much wisdom and truth in this video!! It honestly really hit home with me. I appreciate y’all being so honest and real. Keep up the good work, i can definitely feel God speaking through y’all!! :)
@@ToriAndChad I also recently discovered 'Up close with Tori and Chad Masters' on the JUCE channel and literally just watched the emotional resilience episode. So thanks again for all that you do because that episode was posted a year ago but I am still reaping the fruit a year later so thank you so so much!!!
Thank you for talking about this. I've only ever heard about boundaries in dating relationships. No one ever told me I can (and should) have boundaries in my friendships with guys. Crazy man.
You are a beautiful couple, inside and out. Thank you for providing this comforting and helpful guidance. I am Jewish, however, we have a lot in common.
"If I don't know my worth in Christ, then I am going to be giving discounts out to people" wowwwwww I think many people know this in their hearts, but to be able to articulate such wisdom in quotes like these I feel like can only come from people who have learned this through experience. There is purpose to our suffering and mistakes.
This is awesome! Thank you for this I love that you pointed out the importance of knowing your worth in God, and having enough love for the other individual to put those boundaries 🤍 beautifully said 👏🏽
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this! I too struggle with thinking that I have "missed the boat" and wondering what is wrong with me after graduating college? All of my friends from college are getting married and having kids and I feel left out to a certain extent. Another verse that I was reminded of when watching your video was 1 Peter 3:4, which talks about letting your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit. This is what I am trying to do with my life and hope someday that some guy out there thinks that is the most attractive part about me, regardless of the timeline- obviously my perfectionist mentality can't be in control with this! Again, thank you for this relevant message. It really encouraged me!
Yes! Thank you so much. As a single person, I really needed this video. I'm hoping one day God will put a man in my life to share it with and to form a beautiful family, with God in the middle of it ❤️
Thank you! This whole series has been extremely helpful. You mentioned being okay alone in Christ. What are some ways you can learn to be more independent and not take advantage of other people?
It’s really hard when you care about someone so much even tho it and they honestly keep hurting you but you just want to care about them and help them. And sometimes I feel bad I wasn’t there for them more but I was
Wow...utterly speechless at the good truth spoken in this video 🙌💕 thank you for sharing your hearts and directing us back to the heart of who we are in Jesus. We can only truly love well when we set our identity in our creator, and to know our creator we have to seek to be in constant relationship with him first. Love you guys so much! This was really convicting and encouraging and the perfect video 💕 love you guys!!!
This video has spoken to literally EVERYTHING that the Lord has been speaking to me, laying on my heart and convicting me of recently. Thank you for your wisdom! I took three pages of notes ☺️ please PLEASE do the Q&A!!
Chad, To piggy back off of your comment about seeing people for who they really are, that’s why I believe it’s so important to be in a good friendship with the person before you decide if you have feelings for them or decide you two want to date each other. If two people start off as best friends, they’re already showing each other who they really are. Not putting on airs to try to impress the other person. That’s why they say “marry your best friend”. You already have the full knowledge of who you’re marrying if you’re friends THEN get into a relationship. Great video with sound, biblical truth!
You guys are like parents to me haha. Honestly such a blessing to have you share this wisdom I find your videos really beneficial! I love that idea of being hidden for someone to find and pursue. It also reflects on Jesus' love for us to seek and save us wherever we are
you guys are so inspirational! i hadn't realized till i listened to this video that it is so important to have boundaries . thank~ you guys ... you opened an eye for me!
Don't forget to like this video (only if you liked it tho) hahah.
Haha
Lol Chad wrote this 😆
dang this video!! I needed this AMEN
“You have to be so hidden in God’s word that they have to seek after Him to find you” now that is some wisdom if I ever saw it
WISDOMMMMM!!!
that. HIT.
C. S. Lewis
this one 💎
For real for real🤯
Love how you talked about how relationships complement you, not complete you. We are full and complete in Christ alone!
Yes and Amen, Lauren!!!
AMEN!
“I’m hidden because I know I’m meant to be discovered” PERIOD😍
But, we also have to position ourselves to be found. Example, Ruth positioned herself to be found by Boaz.
Amen Amen Amen Thank you Jennifer for noting this down💯❤
😍😍😍
Chad's facial expressions when tori was speaking were GOLD
She was crushing it!!!
@@ToriAndChad Tori is not beating around the bushes here! love it!
Also, the write up at the end 😲😲😲
"The only people who would be upset about you having boundaries are those who were benefiting from you having none"
This right here is gold🥺❤️
Absolute GOLD!!!
SHE SAIIDD DISCOUNT 😂😭 know your worth people... God gives good gifts that you don't have to force xx
You better preach, hope!!!!!!
Thank you!
I don’t have to force good things to happen to me
I grew up in a Christian household, but it never really stuck. Your videos have brought me back to Christ and I will forever be grateful!
"I'm hidden because I know that I'm meant to be discovered!" She's just dropping gems so casually 👏🏽
"If you don't start acting like your worth it guys are gonna start treating you like that." the hugest lightbulb just went off. I have been asking God why this relationship stuff has been going wrong and why guys just don't want to commit. the truth is that I need to start looking inwardly too me and realizing I am worth it. wowwwww!!! 🤩
hey guys!!! driving home now :) can’t wait to reply to your comments!!!! hope you enjoy the video!!!
I am completely embracing my single season right now and this is gold! Im only halfway through the video but I already feel so validated in my beliefs and you guys are spitting absolute wisdom. Thank you Tori and Chad :,) also I died “how mUch cAn I ToUUUUCHHHH”
Aww thanks for saying that and for being so kind!!!
y’all neeeeeeeed a podcast. i would be watching it all the time! you guys are so wise and it’s so helpful to hear from a godly christian perspective that is based from scripture. thankful for y’all :)
Awww we want to make one!!! Pray we can make it happen!!!
@@ToriAndChad YES PLEASE MAKE A PODCAST!!!!
Please do
Yessssss please start a podcast! I would loooooooove that!
@@oceansapphire926 Messy Masterpiece Podcast
Listen, from the first 2 minutes I said to myself "Here goes another Beautiful Christian Couple frolicking in the meadows of Unity and Joy, reminiscing on their singleness as if it only lasted the dew of an early morning ". I literally asked God "Do I have to watch this" and I felt like I needed to continue. I learned about myself and my self pleasing tendencies when it comes to "friendly" guy relationships. I love the feeling of someone checking on me with cute texts. But, in my heart I know it won't lead to anything serious. Thanks for the video. Fellow viewers don't exit the video, they got GEMS
Always look up at you guys for a Godly marriage, even though i shouldn't idolize marriage.
It's important to have good examples! We have TONS!!!
Also maybe can you do the boundaries you had with Chad when you friend zoned him? Placing boundaries on someone you don’t want to date, but want to stay friends with :)
Dang that is a great idea!!!
Ooooof dang this one hits home..:: this is what is happening to me rn from a cool friend 😂😂
Yes, personally struggling with this one right now!!
I tried and the man kept flirting with me. A professed Christan. I was shaking and blocked him but I blocked him before also and then unblocked. God didn't bless me with good luck. Been alone for so long. Chad said to be strong and not negative naggy Nancy but some day I feel so low, then what. Its hard to let go. Maybe I need more self control. Sometimes I just want to die, to cry.
@@justynak3867 hey listen up
Right when I watched this video is exactly when I needed to watch it. Thank-you both.
"I am hidden because I am meant to be discovered." - I like it!
A muslim girl here! This video is amazing and I wished I found your channel before. Boundaries are so important and everyone should put your advices on practice. MUCH LOVE!
Hello! How are you doing now? I know this comment was from 2 years ago! 🙊
whewwww tori was spitting that Holy Ghost fireeeeee
Just Holy Spirit was hitting everywhere!
I’m only in high school, but this was such eye opening and encouraging wisdom! God is using you two for sure!
I just recently discovered y'alls channel and have been so encouraged by it! I so appreciate how open both of you are with your struggles and how God has moved in your life. I was just recently praying and hoping that God would provide godly resources that would help me in growing into the woman that He wants me to be. So stumbling across your channel was a huge blessing and answer to prayer! God has really spoken to me through your videos, so thank you for allowing Christ to speak through you!
Aww dang that is an amazing testimony! We are so thankful you found us!!! Thank you for watching!
Discovered you guys yesterday. Spent the day watching your videos back to back. And I couldn’t be more grateful for your content. I hope you know you are making a difference and inspiring many. Lots of love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Aww thank you for watching our older content! That means a ton!
literally I’m screaming “GO OFF THEN TORI!” speaking only facts rn!
Can definitely relate to chad about being a people pleaser and I was stuck In that pattern until I read this boundaries book. The book is life changing plus it’s from a biblical perspective!!!! Everyone needs to read it.. thank you for your wisdom guys 💕
This was so pure, loving, remarkable and overall, humble. It's amazing to me that I can find videos like this on the internet and have it be filled with so much grace and good intention. I think you guys are really going to become something special. Thank you for this ♥️
Aww wow thank you so much for saying all of that! Thank you thank you thank you!
Sweet cheese!!! Its 2am😱😱i literally just finished my bedtime prayers then saw this! sadly I have exams tomorrow so imma save this for the weekend. Love you guys♥️
Aww don't stay up late to watch! Make sure to focus on your exams and getting good sleep! We love you! Praying it goes well!
Good luck with your exams.
good luck with the exams!
Thanks guys...now I'm just waiting to graduate
I’m currently going through a difficult time letting go of a guy who I have a romantic past with, but still talk to everyday because he’s my best friend. We’re both Christian’s, but have a deep history of living in sin when we’re together. When I saw this was the topic of this weeks video, it was such a sign from God. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. And tori your such a beautiful person inside and out. So glad I stumbled across your guy’s channel😊 Will continue to support you guys and watch your videos as I always walk away with such great Christian centred advice
I love how Chad puts the question to us of "Is what I'm doing giving me life?" I have found that statement to be so true. If we are focused on material, worldly things we aren't able to feel content or have true meaning. We find life through Christ. A lot of people have asked me when I'm going to start dating and I tell them that I want to find myself through God first. Watching your videos has helped me be content in this current phase of my life knowing that I'm taking this season to know God and myself better. Thank you for taking the time to put these videos together ❤
Do you ever just wanna go grab coffee with tori? Lol I do😂
Every day I do lol
Always
Y’all, my heart needed 👏 to 👏 hear 👏 this 👏 today 👏 Thank you!!
Mic DROP when Tori said “I’m hidden because I’m meant to be discovered”.
ahhhh yessss 🙌🏼 love how you talked about establishing boundaries. I struggled with people-pleasing too and the reminder that Jesus even established them went right to my spirit!!
Yes and AMEN!!!
WOW THIS WAS SO GOOD!!! & I needed this so much!! Tori you should seriously write a book 😂😂 no but for real this single girl absolutely loved all this truth!!
Yes she is so powerful!!!
Love this!! Haha Tori is just doing so many mic drop statements of wisdom. Thank you for sharing all these series. So many people are learning from the wisdom you all have to share!💞
Awww thanks for saying that!
Y’all are speaking truth over here!!👏🏼👏🏼
The only one that can satisfy our hearts is God🥰
AMEN!
Do you guys ever miss?? The amount of wisdom and clarity that has come to me through videos like this from you guys is truly mind-blowing and I can't begin to tell you how grateful I am
hahah if it means anything it took us three tries on three different days to get through this video because we felt like it just wasn't working...
I first listened to this video 2 years ago when I had come freshly out of a relationship and mehhnnnn did I forget all these nuggets you two are dropping and did the exact opposite this past two years!!!
This is definitely hitting different! Gash you’ll definitely go round in circles till you learn the lesson mean for you smh
Guys, thank you SO MUCH! Really late to the dating game, and I just mustered up the courage to try online dating, but now I'm feeling insecure. Tori, your tips on spiritual boundaries are great - I've never heard that anywhere else! Keep it coming ya'll, my vulnerable soul needs it! :)
Aww we got yoru back Lindsey! Know your worth and remember 2 Tim 1:7, God does NOT work in the spirit of fear (aka insecurity...) that is a work of the enemy!
This topic is an eye opener to all the girls out there who jump off to compromise their self worth because of holding on to someone continuously.
I’ve never had someone so accurately describe the struggles of being a people pleaser. Chad put words to my internal struggle no one sees or knows about. You both spoke beautifully 🤍
So many gems in this, loved it !! Definitely going to be on repeat.
So happy you liked it!!!
Your wisdom about relationships is just so mature and wise. I really love it.
Wow, perfect timing- this confirmed my interactions with some of my guy friends. Thank you 🙏 Dios les bendiga!
Thanks for the support and commenting!
Y'all literally give the best advice. Love to you both honestly 🤍🤍
We love you!!
What you two shared is just so incredibly powerful!! Tori killed it with some wonderful words... especially about knowing ones worth as a girl. I could totally relate to that.
The analogy Chad shared made total sense.
The part about unhealthy dependability and being okay with oneself without looking out for someone else to complete us ..bang on!! (I was clapping all the way)
I love how you heard us and made such videos which mean so much to us...I can derive more meaning the more I watch it. The pearls of wisdom you two share is legit gold!
A big thank you for this series and the Q & A that will follow. :)
Awww wow thank you for taking the time to be so encouraging!!! Wish we could see you react to the video! hahah So thankful you comment how you feel because it makes us want to continue doing this! Thank you for supporting us!
@@ToriAndChad Always! You deserve this and much much more!!
Now Monday seems verrryyyy far!! :D
It does right?!?! haha
Can totally relate to that feeling of distracting yourself Chad. Constantly texting and talking to people to get your fill, especially women. I totally get that and understand that feeling. Something I've become very aware of recently as a single person and have been working on for a while now. Thanks for sharing that!
I love this series! It would be super awesome if you guys could also talk about when to have the dreaded DTR (define the relationship) in the context of friendship to dating, and how to know when one should move on and not rot in the friend-zone. :) Thanks again!
Those are great things for us to focus on and talk about! Did you by chance watch our first Boundaries video?!
This is such a comfort channel for me lately.
I just want to say THANK YOU for addressing all these difficult topics. Do not think you understand how much it means to us that you talk about this, it helps so so much🤍🤍
this channel is such a safe place
before I start, just wanted to say that I came from part one and absolutely LOVED IT. as a teenager, ya'll are giving such great wisdom that I will definitely take to heart. Not only that but you guys seem like REAL PEOPLE. So many times I've seen series like this where Christian couples give good advice but it seems so mechanical. You guys are great! I'm glad the Lord is able to use you in this way. Thanks for this!
This convicted me and I’m so happy I got to hear this today. It’s was actually perfect timing. I watched this video 3times and sent it to a couple of friends. Thank you Chad and Tori, y’all are amazing!!!! THANK YOUUUUU 💛
SO happy you liked it! and thank you for watching and sending to other people! that helps a lot!
This was so beautifully said and so incredibly wise. Thank you for doing what Gods called you to do. This is exactly what I needed 🤍
"What you consume, you will end up wanting." I want your sweater lol 😍 Your video's are soo good! They helped me really! Thank you so much ❤
It's amazing how the Father works with us. A few months ago, I watched this video and I knew it was very important, what you were saying but somewhere in my heart, I didn't really believe I needed to put it into action for myself. I thought I knew!!
Here I am months later, the Holy Spirit having opened my eyes, my ears and my heart, after making these mistakes and now I see HOW MUCH this is for me. I personally have to pay attention and obey right away. The Holy Spirit brought the video back to my heart and now, my heart is all open to receive everything here.
God bless you Mr. & Mrs. Masters.
“I’m hidden because I’m meant to be discovered “ whew! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I love how he leans into her! It’s so endearing .
I love love love seeing both of you. You complete each other wonderfully. And that messages are very valuable. I’m so thankful that i found this channel. I literally grab my notes and pause every minutes or so. May i live a life full of joy and love in God’s way like you guys. Thank you so much!
I literally waited days to find a new video of you guys. You are awesome
hahah have you watched all the older ones?!
I am not even seven minutes in, and Tori, you were speaking on how I was feeling yesterday. That is crazy. Thank you for that message. I needed that.
I'm finally getting around to watching the older videos and had to stop this one and save for later when I could take notes on all the truth bombs!! thank y'all for sharing such Godly wisdom!!
Just found your channel last night under recommended
. Wow! Already just loved hearing about your love story segments and this video about singleness. God spoke to me through you both about being comfortable with being single and just trusting Him with my future husband. I'm 25 and this video encouraged me to continue to seek Christ and love myself. Loved the boundaries talk too. I'm going to try sobering to hear God's voice 🙂
So excited for this video! Thank you two for keeping me strong in this walk of purity! 😊
Thanks for being willing to watch our videos!!!
I watched all the ads just because I love y’all so much ❤️
That seriously means the world to us! You are too kind!
@@ToriAndChad Thank you so much and God bless you.
Guys guys guys guys guys guys guys! OMG!
I don't think I've ever taken more notes with one of your videos! I always save your videos for a rainy day and I'm glad I did because you always encourage my heart toward God and this video was no exception. I've been in my single season for a while and I finally was able to move past the idolization or marriage and a relationship! Three weeks later, I was DM'd and now it could all change BUT I knew I was ready because I was so content with Jesus that I didn't want to message him back in fear that I'd mess up the roll I had going (looking back now, it has some but I won't let it any longer).
All that to say, this is EXACTLY what I needed as I navigate this in-between and make decisions about the future so THANK YOU!
Chad, I hear what you're saying about being a people pleaser and self sabotaging! That's a lesson I learned the hard way and am so grateful for your encouragement as it's a daily battle.
Tori, your note about being so in tune with God that they have to seek Him to discover your heart - SHEESH! I needed that challenge and appreciate all you said about value. I (and so many women) struggle with feeling valued apart from men BUT GOD gives us a different story and I need that reminder often!
My cup is overflowing! Man, I love you guys and your willingness to be honest and show us Jesus. I can't thank you enough
Also Tori definitely killed it in this video but Chad you're rocking the caption game as always. You guys are both rock stars 😎
Aww thanks for saying that, Moriah! We love seeing your name pop up!
I'm new to your channel. I am learning so much. I really struggle with boundaries on different levels but mostly with the opposite sex.
I actually have that book & started reading it.
I am a people pleaser and I self sabotage myself as well, BIG time!
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this. It’s nice to here from someone the same age as me!
Haven't started the video yet, but I'm single right now and I already know this video will be helpful, having watched all the other videos in this series! So thankful for you guys and this channel. God bless you both!
also... TORI YOU ARE SO POWERFUL! ... with the strength that comes from God :)
Hope you loved it!!! Thanks for being so kind!!!
Thank you for encouraging me with every video to find my worth in Jesus! So excited to watch the new video.
Hope you liked it!!
I’m watching these videos so late lol bc I just discovered y’all, but can I just say WOW.
So much wisdom and truth in this video!! It honestly really hit home with me. I appreciate y’all being so honest and real. Keep up the good work, i can definitely feel God speaking through y’all!! :)
First line's already a banger. Always here for it. Thanks for sharing 😁
Thank you for taking the time to watch it!!
@@ToriAndChad I also recently discovered 'Up close with Tori and Chad Masters' on the JUCE channel and literally just watched the emotional resilience episode. So thanks again for all that you do because that episode was posted a year ago but I am still reaping the fruit a year later so thank you so so much!!!
Thank you for talking about this. I've only ever heard about boundaries in dating relationships. No one ever told me I can (and should) have boundaries in my friendships with guys. Crazy man.
Amen. Simply Amen 🙏🏾
You are a beautiful couple, inside and out. Thank you for providing this comforting and helpful guidance. I am Jewish, however, we have a lot in common.
OMG LAUGHING SOOO MUCH REPLAYING Chad's reactions to Tori's EPIC HOLY SPIRIT WORDS LOL!!! THIS IS A WORD TEACHING SPEAKING TO MY HEART!!!!!
"If I don't know my worth in Christ, then I am going to be giving discounts out to people" wowwwwww I think many people know this in their hearts, but to be able to articulate such wisdom in quotes like these I feel like can only come from people who have learned this through experience. There is purpose to our suffering and mistakes.
I haven’t even finished the video yet... but I just feel like they’re my parents, spitting straight FACTS right to me 🥺
This is awesome! Thank you for this I love that you pointed out the importance of knowing your worth in God, and having enough love for the other individual to put those boundaries 🤍 beautifully said 👏🏽
yessssss!!! thank you for the loveee!
Yall literally make the perfect balance of serious and funny vids. I love it!
Love this!! Thank you guys so much! I love your channel! it's so helpful and needed! God bless you guys!!
Thank you for the love!!!
The Holy Spirit is speaking through yall 😍
awwww
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this! I too struggle with thinking that I have "missed the boat" and wondering what is wrong with me after graduating college? All of my friends from college are getting married and having kids and I feel left out to a certain extent.
Another verse that I was reminded of when watching your video was 1 Peter 3:4, which talks about letting your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit. This is what I am trying to do with my life and hope someday that some guy out there thinks that is the most attractive part about me, regardless of the timeline- obviously my perfectionist mentality can't be in control with this!
Again, thank you for this relevant message. It really encouraged me!
Yes! Thank you so much. As a single person, I really needed this video. I'm hoping one day God will put a man in my life to share it with and to form a beautiful family, with God in the middle of it ❤️
Yes with God in the middle of it! We love that!
Boundaries and boundaries in dating are both my favorite books!!!! Thank you so much for the video! I needed this!
i look forward to these so much!! thank you thank you💗
Thank you!!!
Thank you! This whole series has been extremely helpful. You mentioned being okay alone in Christ. What are some ways you can learn to be more independent and not take advantage of other people?
This is a great question and we need to do a video on it, Esther!!! P.s. love the name!
This series is 🔥🔥 so needed
It’s really hard when you care about someone so much even tho it and they honestly keep hurting you but you just want to care about them and help them. And sometimes I feel bad I wasn’t there for them more but I was
Toriiiiii I love Celsius too!! Also, yes it is freezing down here in florida
hahah we're on the same page in a lot of ways!
Wow...utterly speechless at the good truth spoken in this video 🙌💕 thank you for sharing your hearts and directing us back to the heart of who we are in Jesus. We can only truly love well when we set our identity in our creator, and to know our creator we have to seek to be in constant relationship with him first. Love you guys so much! This was really convicting and encouraging and the perfect video 💕 love you guys!!!
We love you so much, Moriah! Thanks for supporting us!
I learned so much new wisdom! This video is awesome, know a lot of friends who need to hear this! God bless you guys
Tori you are so beautiful, inside and out!!! And your channel is so encouraging! Thanks guys!
Wow, I need to get my hands on that Boundaries book!!
This video has spoken to literally EVERYTHING that the Lord has been speaking to me, laying on my heart and convicting me of recently. Thank you for your wisdom! I took three pages of notes ☺️ please PLEASE do the Q&A!!
Thankyou Tori and Chad, for the advice, esp touched me that you said that you have to know the creater who made you to know yourself
Chad, To piggy back off of your comment about seeing people for who they really are, that’s why I believe it’s so important to be in a good friendship with the person before you decide if you have feelings for them or decide you two want to date each other. If two people start off as best friends, they’re already showing each other who they really are. Not putting on airs to try to impress the other person. That’s why they say “marry your best friend”. You already have the full knowledge of who you’re marrying if you’re friends THEN get into a relationship. Great video with sound, biblical truth!
You guys are like parents to me haha. Honestly such a blessing to have you share this wisdom I find your videos really beneficial! I love that idea of being hidden for someone to find and pursue. It also reflects on Jesus' love for us to seek and save us wherever we are
you guys are so inspirational! i hadn't realized till i listened to this video that it is so important to have boundaries . thank~ you guys ... you opened an eye for me!
I’ve read Boundaries toooooo!!!! It’s so amazing!!!!!!! It challenged me too!!!