DATING ADVICE Q&A | when to kiss, who pays, being nervous, missionary dating & more!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ต.ค. 2024
- Hi! We had no idea how popular this topic was... the questions we were getting were fire and so we recorded 45 minutes for a video and then we realized that for 50% of our audience that is too long lol. So we decided to make this two parts! Guess you will have to stick around for Thursday to see part 2!
If you liked this video would you mind sharing it? No worries if you don’t feel comfortable doing so, just thought I’d ask. Because like scripture says, we have not because we ask not lol.
Anywho, let’s get to the encouragement for the 12 people who read the description! Also a little heads up for those who read this... we are dropping new products late summer and if you continue reading the description you will find little clues as to what they are and maybe a discount code or two! So we hope that you feel slightly rewarded for indulging these rant style descriptions...
What is on my heart right now is to not pick the low hanging fruit. It’s easy to take the easy way out and not push ourselves for more. But even a dead salmon can float downstream. Let’s be alive and push our limits and challenge ourselves. Whether that is in financial budgeting, cutting down time on social media, or even reading a book a month! Let’s pick things that are difficult for us but also really help our mental health! It’s not easy but it’s worth it!
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I got one....how to flirt😂as a Christian...do I go all crazy....do I not try....do I pull up random verses...like what do I do😂😂 I feel like I only know how to flirt in a world way
Awwww that's so cute that you make a video for the people who never been on a date😊❤️ thanks 🥺
We couldn't help but do it!
I'm 39 and still looking for a spouse, but working on my relationship with God. I haven't dated much at all. It's hard, but I know God has a plan. Thank you both for this. You have so much wisdom💓 love you guys
Thanks for taking the time to watch it! We appreciate and love you!
Loved : "You need to seek to guard other people's hearts too at the same time you guard your own" man that was so good and so important!
Such wisdom!! I love especially this idea that your dream person is not going to be someone who doesn’t want to be with you. Hard to hear sometimes but so profoundly true!
hard to hear but def true haha
How to start a conversation with a guy you like ?
Chad : put on worship music in your car, then turn it down , get out and knock on his door and say - excuse me sir, do you have a moment to talk about our Lord and savior Jesus Christ ?
Hahahahaha good one !
hahahaha had to
THAT WAS GOLD
literally so funny
“I spy an idol” 😂😂😂 T-shirt material right there
hahahahahahahaha
I just left a relationship not because it was toxic, but I strongly feel that God wants us both to Himself since we are young
Please say a prayer for us. I don't want either of us to destroy our lives cos of this
Praying now!
Your second name is Euodia too😆😆
@@ItsEverythingEuodia is that your name?
@@akasieuodia284 it's my second name 😊😊
Appreciate the wisdom in this video! Missed the tiny hands, though...
hahaha hthey will come back when there is enough desire for them come back!
I saw a quote once that said something like “keep running towards God and the right one will keep up and introduce himself” 🙌🏻 once again a fabbbb video! I agree, it’s a blessing to be less experienced lol, I wish I hadn’t gained so much ‘experience’
I love how this just screams: "Ask and you shall receive" 👏
hahahah even the description shouts that down!
Loved this video! I have been in relationships where boundaries weren’t clearly set and that always created so much room for sin. Also advice from my experiences, just take your time and allow the Lord to guide each step! And if you’ve never been on a date (guy or girl) own that because that is amazing!! Thank you Tori and Chad for the wise counsel you provide for our little fam 💛
YES taking yoru time is so so so important... thanks for tuning in and sharing from your experience! We love you!
@@ToriAndChad love yall!!!
the important thing is that you make a lot of beautiful european babies
I almost didn't click on this video because this is so not a topic I want to think about because it frustrates me beyond belief... Alas, you guys never disappoint and I do feel encouraged especially after reading the description!
Oh and I just have to say, I'd totally watch a 45 minute video without hesitating. We shouldn't leave the other 50% off the Masters Fam out though so I'll be sure to keep an eye out for part 2 on Thursday.
One more thing, May's bible study was amazing! Truly just what I needed and Tori's prayer at the end... SHEESH. Hit close to home in the best way - got me all choked up! Really struggling over here but grateful for you guys and the brightness you bring to each one of my days. You're making a difference for the kingdom and I'm honored to be a part of the fam!!
SO FIREEEEE!! Can relate to being 19 and having 'no experience'... thankful for this insight & truth and bible-focussed wisdom. Love you guys!!
Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and these things will be added unto you. if we just fix our eyes on the King, our desires will be fulfilled. and that’s because our desires will be His.
YES AND AMEN! That is something we shared in our devo today (I think lol)
Also, I love reading the descriptions for each video you post! Can’t wait to see what products you guys are coming out with and I love that challenge of not picking the low-hanging fruit! I can’t wait for part 2 on Thursday ‘Chadizzle and Torisizzle’. Hahaha
Aww thanks a lot for reading that! We can't wait to share more!!!
i’ve never been on a date BUT i’m excited for this vid!
Well this video was for you then!!!
I love how open you both are and how aware you are of others and know that topic like these are very popular! Love you both! Y’all are the best!
We love you, sweet Kelly!!!
They way you guys left us on a cliff hanger!!! Ughhh cannot wait for the next video! This was so inspirational and helpful 🥺🤍 God bless y’all
hahah we can't wait to share with you!
I love how you touched on the importance of seeing that our desires for relationship are OF God!! And I think especially for a woman to know that their desires for a relationship are important. I struggled for a long feeling like I just had to be "desirable" for a man, but this year I learned that it is okay that I have desires too! They are NOT something to carry shame about but to know that God created for a reason.
Chad and Tori!!! Thank you for this video! Chads explanation of a dream girl.... is so perfectly on point. I’ve struggled with this in my life, meeting amazing people who have so many qualities that I would desire in a partner, but without their mutual interest/desire they are really empty relationships., not that they are bad people, just there has to be both sides!!!
The description is🔥!! So encouraging!! I always look forward to read it! 💛
Aww thanks for reading that!!
the description was so tiny, but is perfect for me right now.
which i love. thankyou. you guys get so much love..you deserve it.
awww thanks for reading it!!
Absolutely love your videos. Three words, genuine, centered and focused.
The last question is basically what is happening to me.uhhh... I decided to date him. He is my first boyfriend (and I am 22). He accepts me, my boundaries, he came to church with me... I pray for him, and i believe in Gods plans and that He can do everything. It was a hard decision and it is hard every day. But he is basically my best friend, the most loving, trying-hard, accepting human ever. We actually have the same picture of the future we want. It is crazy how similar we are even though we have different beliefs. God is on the first place in my life and i would LOVED it if my husband believed as much as i did. But the reality is so much more complicated.. We have to sacrifice something, it is so hard so so hard to find a good man, educated, accepting... I think there is no right answer, but i can't wait for next video! Greetings and love from Croatia
There will always be a right answer although it might be the toughest answer to swallow. It’s always best to choose God because the goal is always to have a spouse who can encourage/lead you in your faith through the good and the bad times. That’s not really going to be the case with a nonbeliever. It’s a hard choice to make but God is able to see you through your decision in honouring Him with the choices you make. God’s plans are so much bigger than what we can imagine and although the pool might look really small for godly men, He will always come through in some way 💕
Excited to share the next video with you!
@@caribanna Thank you for your answer.
@@ToriAndChad Can't wait
@@Akichinay584 I completely understand how you feel. Especially with us being in Europe where atheism is pretty much the mainstream, it is very difficult to find a godly man. Here in the U.K. it’s the same with the ratio of men to women in church being so skewed to be majority women. I’m also in my early 20s and I do see many women in my church young adults group that are in their mid-20s/30s that are still single and wonder if I’ll be in that same position in a few years as well. Although sometimes I do feel discouraged, I just know deep down in my heart that I won’t be happy with someone who doesn’t share the same faith as me. I’ve tried it but it always felt empty and like my faith would be an offence to them in some way because I believe that believing in Jesus is the only way to eternal life. All in all trusting in God’s plan and timing is the challenge. He’s got your back no matter what. We all need to find contentment in whichever season of life God has us in even if that is singleness in mid-30s or 40s. There will come a season where He will grant you the desires of your heart. Don’t lose hope! 💕
Thank you so much guys! Love your channel. My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for the past few months and this is very new for both of us. He is moving out my way soon and the timing of this video is perfect!! We both want to honor the Lord and put him first.
Awww so good!
Tori loved the quote you mentioned because that’s what happened with me!
I stopped really trying to pursue and let God take control and literally less then a month later God sent a girl.
It is amazing how God works!
This video is really important to me because I’m planning on telling my friend I have feelings for him. I’m a little nervous lol
whether he reciprocates the feelings or he doesnt it will be for the best because if he doesn't you will be able to move on and enjoy the company of someone who will want to share the mutual affections with you!
Thank you for this! I love how you two come up with such an interesting mix bag of videos that are so relatable and super interesting and crazy helpful!! 👏
You two are truly God's gifts which we are so happy to uncover and take in as much as we can. May you be blessed with abundance of all that you desire! ❤
Love you both!
Aww we love you so much, Shweta!! You are a gift to us and always leave us feeling great!
:))) Same pinch then ..hahaha
And we aren't just 12 .. am sure we ALL read that description and its legit gold!! ❤ Learnt sooo much from it!
I’m happily married but still here cause I can’t not watch any of your videos 😂😂
hahah Anna is changing livesss I love it!!
i love the T-shirt- merch … idea
kiss awkward like a t-shirt 🥰
love the nervous advice and as well confident- this channel can help our young adults!!!
You know what...I better run to make a prayer journal about myself and my future husband.
Tori&Chad, I just want to thank you for allowing God to use you. Am really learning so much from you guys. Love yall❤❤❤❤❤❤
Great tips! Will try to remember them when I go on my first date!! Thanks for doing these type of videos!!!
Well buckle up! We have a lot of them getting ready to come out!
Super pumped to watch this one, you guys are the best!! 💜💜
You're the best!
Well hellooo you guys !
I’m late by a few minutes because I just prayed for you and Tori ☺️
Happy June to y’all !
well your tardiness is only acceptable for that reason and that reason only. lololol jk. Can't wait to check out all the messages youve sent (including the formula 1 ones lol) Happy June to our main man, Sam!
Hey great to see you!!
@@meganshank4800 hey Megan !
@@ToriAndChad haha !!!
Bro CHECK YOUR MESSAGES ASAP !
(I’m pulling a Stacey on you lol 😆)
I didn’t mention any details in my personal message. I’ll share it when you’re free to talk
Congratulations 🍾🎉🎈🎊 on 72.9k subscribers almost to 73k subscribers l
Thank you!
@@ToriAndChad no problem 😉 tori and chad hope that you guys enjoy 😉 😊 ☺️ upon this rock by newsboys it’s a long song 🎧 🎵 🎶 roughly about 4:40 which is a full second but it’s definitely a half second roughly 4:39.
sweet!
@@ToriAndChad I told you it’s a fun song 🎧 🎵 🎶 fun fact not ashamed was the very first album 💿 to be produced in the USA 🇺🇸 and their producer was actually steve taylor and Steve Taylor was interviewed on Christopher Duffey TH-cam channel and when I saw him he was the guy that produced newsboys albums in America like not ashamed and going public and etc.
I’ve been struggling loving someone who isn’t a believer, but has an openness to the Lord, just still has questions and wondering. We’re not like officially dating, but we pretty much are. I love him so much and he’s my bestfriend and I’m praying that he’ll become a believer. I just want to believe it’s a possibility and no turn him away
A great channel you could check out is @Mike Winger
He has great content on the evidence that supports the resurrection and proof that Christianity is true. Just search his name and whatever topic next to it
The bible project is great too! And we totally get what you are goin through, Olivia! It's super hard.. it will be great for him to continue seeking and exploring... So many great resources out there to continue learning!
i dont think turning him away is cool if he loves you too,you can be in a soul mates kind of relationship even if one is beleiver and other is not(my parents) just that you both gotta be understanding
Hey!! The last paragraph in the description really encouraged me...
Missionary dating is something i have come across the first time...Can't wait to watch the video after work!
Hope you like the video!!!
Whhhaaatttttttttt. That cliff hanger actually left my jaw on the floor 😂 Loving this series and excited for part 2!
So good and helpful!! Great description as well!
Aww thanks for taking the time to read it!!! We appreciate it!
You guys are literally the ideal couple for me!!! God bless you both with more and more love 😇🤗 love love 💞
You're too kind!!! God bless you too, Precilla!!
Love the dating videos for us single folks..And your advice is always timely and seasoned in the exact way I need to hear it. Also, as part of the 12 people who read the description😂, just want to say I always appreciate the insight in the description. God Bless You Chadizzle and Torisizzle😂
So good!! Thank you guys so much! FYI when you want to point to the video cards that link to your other videos you mention, point to your upper left corner! I figured this out because when Tori tapped Chad's heart, it looked like the right side from our viewpoint, but obviously the heart is on the left, so for you guys, the video cards are floating on the left corner :) Ya'll rock and have helped me more than you know. Blessings to you guys!
Love the description, always, thanks for writing them!! ☺️ Nice codes 😜 And nice that your working on something! Good luck with finishing it!
Thanks for taking the time to read it! That means a lot!!!
You guys are truely an inspiration, you never fail us(an avid viewer) of your vlogs😍😍 God bless you more wisdom❣
It's so true about how when you work on yourself and your relationship with Christ, it's preparing you for the person you're going to date. I never had a clue how I'd meet my future bf or even start dating. Didn't even plan on it until maybe my mid 20's? I'll be turning 23 soon and I've been dating a gentleman for just over 2 years. God brought him into my life unexpectedly! But I know he did it because I was in a good place in my relationship with God.
Also... Such a TEASE!!! I know I've gone on lots of dates now but I still want to know what you're gonna say! 😂
Such a good conversation! I just went on my first date this year (at 22) and have been navigating these questions a lot recently. Something I've found to be super beneficial for me while learning through this season is to learn first about how to make and maintain solid friendships, and of course solidify my relationship with the Lord. My favorite resources lately are the Prompt Us Podcast and Relationship Goals Reloaded with Pastor Mike Todd!
ughhhh the SUSPENSE at the end i wasn’t ready for it😩😩 wish it could’ve just kept going
well we will on Thursday!!!
YESSS!!! Preach! This was fantastic. Thank you for putting the time in for this video. You guys are so easy going and you make the conversation so natural! Thanks again.
So excited for this!! 💛
yayyyy!!
Love ur Chadizzle and torisizzle; most def made my dayyyy!!!
hahahah love it!
This video was so good!!
The description was so good - I am so excited for the rest of the series!! Definitely sharing this video with my single girls life group 💛
Aww thanks for taking the time to read it, Whit! We appreciate you!!!
The only person who loves this channel more than I do is my grandma. Well done.
hahahahah
and our moms
That goes without saying
Heeeyyy I missed you guys 😁
I haven't watched ur videos cos I've been in school 📚
Aww well nice to see you back here!
@@ToriAndChad Yeeey 😊
Y’all definitely dropped some wisdom filled fire bombs . Love y’all and definitely appreciate this video . Also y’all are sooo cute ❤️
Hold up: new products!! Woohoo, that is so exciting
hahah so you read the description!
For a true Christian Man or Guy Modesty in Women is the best and it's VERY RARE TODAY!
I needed this kind of video. Thanks guys. You're the sweetest!
Awww yay! Happy you liked the video!!
Oh my gosh that ending was brutal🤯 but well planned😏😂😂😂😂 love you guys! ❤️
That ending though! Y’all don’t play games like this! Hhaha love it
hahahaha my bad!
Did I just read Chadizzle and Torisizzle in the description 😂😂 Anyways I'm going to focus on school but thanks for this goood video 🙌🏼
hope you like our new nicknames
@@ToriAndChad I do hehe
I have my Chemistry Final in an hour but this video couldn’t wait haha 🤣
hahaha that’s dedication!
Loved this video, can’t wait for the whole dating series!! But my goodness gracious can we talk about that cliffhanger Tori left us on.. 😂
So excited for this video!! You are so wise and encouraging 😊
awww you are too kind!!!
I’m SOOOO glad y’all are doing this!
We are glad that you are glad!
This video is so helpful!!!! Truly gave me a clearly idea of all the thoughts that were blurred in my mind... Let's enjoy the waiting season all you single people and enjoy Chad's lame jokes hahaha and love God 🤗🧡
Aww yay! glad you can handle the jokes!!!
Thank you All so much❤️
Super helpful for me in my dating life.
And I was able to share it with friends that are needing this!
Woww🥺❤️!!!
Loved this guys ..Excited for part 2🎉🎉
Yay! That makes us happy!
I was so excited to see this because it is so relevant for me! I'm currently struggling because I met someone recently who loves Jesus, deeply cares about people, has all the character traits of someone I would want to marry, and has shown an interest in me. I've gotten to know him a little bit in group situations. However, I'm not sure I'm really that physically attracted to him, and obviously that's not what the main priority is, but I'm having a hard time distinguishing between if I have feelings for the person or if I just enjoy being around them in more of a platonic sense. Not sure what to do because he is obviously a great guy. Also I know that isn't really a question but I thought maybe someone else was in the same boat and this question would be beneficial to more than one of us lol. Maybe it could be used in a future video or podcast?
Saving this video for future reference lol 😂😂😂
Single as a Pringle !
hahah this video is made for the single pringles!
lol
@@ToriAndChad Thank you for making this video ! Even more pumped it’s a series now…
Saaaam!! Wait, what happened to P----?!
Hahahaha
That was so good! I'm actually having my first date this week end and your video was a tender mercy.❤❤y'all are amazing!
Great video per use'...BUT such a mean endinggggg🤧 I don't want to wait 2 whole days to know the answer to that question😂
ahhhh yayy! advice that i can use in the future, can’t wait!!!! love you guys!❤️
WOOOO! We love you too!
That cliffhanger... NOOOO!
hahah my bad!
This was amazingly well done! Good, common sense, and very well delivered.
Thanks a ton for tuning in!
@@ToriAndChad Incredibly worth listening to!
So excited to watch this video and I’m so obsessed with your videos! I love the vlogs so much!
Awww thanks for tuning in to everything we post! We are so supportive and we appreciate that!
@@ToriAndChad you’re welcome and I can’t wait to see your next home update vlog!
We think you're gonna freak out!
@@ToriAndChad yeah haha
Tori you are beeeautiiifulll inside and out! Just thought I'd let you know :))
That's what I tell her all the time! (Chad here)
As you should! U guys are great together I can really see how God blessed both of you when he brought you together:) super encouraging to see! Happy for both of you :)
what perfect timing. God Bless you both!
Chad and Tori, my husband and I had the most awkward first kiss ever. We still talk about it to this day and laugh about it. But at the time we said and I quote “we will never ever ever kiss again.” On that note we celebrated our seven year wedding anniversary in February. We have five children their ages range from 6,5,4,2.5,5 months. We have three girls and two boys. But I am learning to appreciate and embrace the awkward moments of our relationship and you were right they do make it interesting in the years to come
ive been in relationships, but ive never been in a relationship with God in the center, so it's kinda like ive never been on a first date lol. because im pursuing something COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than i would have in the past
LOVE THIS
I thought I would disagree with something, but you guys surprised me in a very good way. I'm Catholic☺️ and obviously Protestant theology is different in some ways, but this was a great video. I think if you read "The Theology of the Body" or "Love and Responsibility" by Karol Wojtyla you would love it and go deeper in this kinds of topics. 💛🤗
Aww well that means a lot... Will be fun to check those books out!
Just recently discovered your channel and I love you guys 🥰☺️☺️
you GUYS. every video. Man, so good.
Love the way y’all begin your intro! Welcome to our CHANNELLLLL😆 This vid ended too soon. Just to add another question to the pile lol, how important is chemistry in a dating relationship?
Thanks guys for all your hard work and time spent on the channel. Love your dedication. Praying for y’all
Aww thanks for the love! And we love that question it's such an important one!
How did the video just end like that???😭...can’t wait for part two
can't wait to watch this!
Hope you like it!!!
Keeks in the house!
and STM!
@@ToriAndChad I’m here haha !!
Thank you for posting this video. I have never been on a date before.
love you both and your great advice :) 💓
We love you and appreciate the support!
Another amazing video from Chad and Tori 😃👍 God bless this channel 🙌😃
Y'all are such wonderful role models.
you are way too kind, Sherry!
Always with the wisdom 🥰❤ love you guys.
Aww we love you too!!!
Thank you guys for making this video!! I love that everything comes from a Christian perspective, I was looking for videos like this a while ago and now I’ve been watching you guys for the past 1-2 months! 🤍
Awe we are so happy the Lord led you to our channel!!!
Gotta love the cliffhanger! 😂
excited for part two?
@@ToriAndChad definitely!
With the 72 beats per minute that my heart beats, even if I appear to ignore her on the street. The heart speaks another language that's not at all comfortable to hear.
More people need to totally watch this channel, love y’all!!!
Thank you!! I’m so grateful for you all!
Awww we are grateful for you too!
I love this!, I have never been with anyone hahaha and watching this is sooo good!!! :)
we can't wait to share more!!
Great video guys!!! Really helps
Great advice guys the Lord’s wisdom is beautiful.. ❤️
Thank you internet mom and dad! Hahah
hahahahah