WHY YOU SHOULDN'T SETTLE inside your LONELINESS ! (SINGLENESS SERIES PART 2)

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  • @tiana5033
    @tiana5033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    "The goal of singleness is to become a self-sustainable vessel of love"
    Woah 🤯

  • @sarahallal9685
    @sarahallal9685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    "Don't accept good if great is just around the corner" best advice ever ❤

  • @NT-bz5nh
    @NT-bz5nh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Don’t settle out of fear or insecurities ladies. Take your time and wait on the lord. He will provide.

  • @laveniyavinod
    @laveniyavinod 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    13:23 'If we go buy a puzzle, we trust that the box is gonna have all the pieces so that we can make that puzzle. Why not trust God?'

    • @jr8694
      @jr8694 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That was a word

  • @brittanychapman5438
    @brittanychapman5438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    SO GOOD!!! Needed this in my single time. I heard God say to me "you are idolizing marriage remain in me and I in you and I will one day give you the desires of your heart" Its totally true, I was looking for someone to complete me. I am learning how to be ok just with me and God

    • @jamescolbert1
      @jamescolbert1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just curious, a year later, after writing your comment, how's that going for you? Are you still learning how to be ok with just you and God?

  • @BeccahJoy
    @BeccahJoy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    "Self sustained vessel of love." WOW. 🙌

  • @sofiagarrahan395
    @sofiagarrahan395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    OMG THERE AREN’T ENOUGH CAPITAL LETTERS TO EXPRESS THE EXCELLENCE OF THIS VIDEO. NO WORDS ARE ENOUGH.

  • @kilesl2733
    @kilesl2733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just got back in the season of singleness! Yes! I am 5 mos sober from an unhealthy attachment to probably my right person at the wrong time. Thank you for being a blessing and a messenger of God to reveal his wisdom & knowledge about things i shouldve equipped myself with before diving into a relationship.

    • @00kiryu00
      @00kiryu00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wow i totally resonate with your situation too. i was also in the season of an unhealthy attachment towards my relationship with my right person, wrong time. i still honestly don’t know what the future would hold about me and my “right person, wrong time” but God is teaching me patience and this season of singleness again! God bless you 🙏 it’s comforting to see that i’m not alone in this and we both literally had the same sort of season 😯

  • @jesuslovesyouandI
    @jesuslovesyouandI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thank you so much for your advice🥰am a 22 year old virgin waiting for the right man. The expectations from friends and family to date as am getting "old" makes it hard but I want to maximise the benefits from my singleness period to the fullest! Jesus is all I need and I love him so much

    • @vn.sa_2815
      @vn.sa_2815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's so cool and amazing!

    • @jesuslovesyouandI
      @jesuslovesyouandI 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vn.sa_2815 thank youu🥰

  • @emp5404
    @emp5404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I think it’s also important in that waiting season to not just wait around and expect but to do life, grow and learn, not just with the Lord but in your hobbies, interests and dreams as well. To be content and happy in your singleness and in yourself. Your singleness is a time of learning to love God and love yourself to be ready for when that partner come along.

  • @laveniyavinod
    @laveniyavinod 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I was feeling really lonely and sad today. I cried and asked for any sort of sign. 20 minutes later...I landed on another video of their channel and I scrolled through their channel because it made me happy and found this gem of a video. ❤️

  • @lizethrazorobledo7286
    @lizethrazorobledo7286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "There is purpose in the pain!!" Wowwww!!

  • @blondiewithabook
    @blondiewithabook 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love that mindset- why worry about forever when we are not promised tomorrow! puts a lot of things into perspective

  • @madisonamos8741
    @madisonamos8741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If you ever write a book, Mrs. Tori, I would LOVE it. I would end up carrying it with me EVERYWHERE.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tori definitely needs to write one! I keep telling her! lol

    • @shineyourlightlove
      @shineyourlightlove ปีที่แล้ว

      Please start a patreon for biblical women to connect ❤

  • @angelinadamiano8924
    @angelinadamiano8924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I really needed this series :) I've just surrendered my needs and love to God and I feel amazing :) I'm 22 and am still so how which isn't uncommon but I know that feeling of watching everyone fall in love :) I was not committed to God but now....I've given and devoted my life to him. He has showed me that I need to strengthen my bond with him first :) and now...I don't feel the urges I felt in regards to finding love. I'm completely content in his love and I will continue on this path :) thank you! I'm inspired

  • @jenniferchristine1943
    @jenniferchristine1943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love the joy radiating from this video!
    Jesus is more than enough! We will wrestle with our flesh for as long as we are on this side of heaven but God is there with us, He knows, He cares and He can be trusted.
    I totally relate to the prayer you prayed asking God to show you if that man was your husband ... and even though I am still single I am so grateful that God showed me that He is protecting me through the closing of doors.

  • @elaineyjoyce
    @elaineyjoyce 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Does your friend have a TH-cam channel? She has so much wisdom! By the way, love your channel, I subbed 😘❤️

  • @karen_hockaday
    @karen_hockaday 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this video. Riley, I really thought about how awesome it would be when you said to book a flight go on a trip,. That when we are single we have that freedom. And when you were talking about people asking you why you weren't with someone that's because most people look at us from the outside...oh because I'm pretty I have to have a boyfriend.. kind of mentality. When they don't see that it's what is inside of us that still needs developing. The Lord is still designing me and molding me into someone who can receive such a blessing (a godly man) thank y'all so much for this video!!! You two are so inspiring!

  • @klaudiaduzniewska6112
    @klaudiaduzniewska6112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Truly inspiring talk! You kinda opened my eyes and now I know that its worth to wait 😊thank you girls!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that makes my heart so happy!!

    • @gervas4935
      @gervas4935 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm giving up on women its just so hard. It just seems that if your an ugly guy or dont make enough money god tells women to not date you.

  • @alittledisciple4606
    @alittledisciple4606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i love the idea of a heart is like a butterfly..hold it like one
    so sweet
    also when tori talked bout the "rules" in Christianity, beautiful.

  • @daniellefaucher3347
    @daniellefaucher3347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God led me to this in the perfect timing 😭 crying but filled with so much hope and joy. Thank you 💗💗💗

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad! God knows what we need before we do thats for sure! Love u!💕

  • @ugolicious5835
    @ugolicious5835 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Great video. Waiting upon the LORD is important but it's hard most times so we need divine grace. Thanks for sharing. New friend here. Let's stay connected.
    Be inspired!!!

  • @Lovi_la
    @Lovi_la 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I could listen to the both of you talk forever! 🥺
    I so much needed to listen to this message and I'm glad I came here.
    Keep spreading light and love❣️
    God bless!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the love! God bless yoU!!!

  • @Marie_Garwood
    @Marie_Garwood 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my goodness, I LOVED this! I have a video on my channel about being single for 24 years! 😂 So it’s so, SO cool to hear from someone else who’s 24! There is so much wisdom here, and I know I’ll be revisiting this. Thank you so much for sharing and posting this! ❤️

  • @jenniferl5456
    @jenniferl5456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Im so glad I found your page! This is what I needed to hear right now in my life! God is so good!

  • @emmapatton4713
    @emmapatton4713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow...this is STRAIGHT TRUTH. Thank you for being so encouraging❤️

  • @4emystile
    @4emystile 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow ! So much truth and eye-openers in this 🙈🥰 i am Single right now and gone though some hard months where this was hard to accept for me, but i really needed to hear this and shift my perspective ! 💕 thank you girls 😘

  • @emmashayler8452
    @emmashayler8452 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So encouraging and a really good reminder that yes God knows the desires of my heart and I just need to find His purpose for my time of singleness and that it will be worth the wait. Thanks for sharing! Love from NZ 🇳🇿

  • @sarahpaigediaries2416
    @sarahpaigediaries2416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You girls have so much wisdom!! Thank you for sharing!

  • @bethanyeasling4911
    @bethanyeasling4911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great advice 👌! Although we are still the bride of Christ even after we are married. P.S. I lived in New Zealand for a year. Beautiful place!!

  • @gwenking6983
    @gwenking6983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey guys!!!! I just wanted to say that i have watched this video so many times and it just gets better every time. You guys have helped me so much in my break up which has been so hard for me. But you guys have assured me that the only thing that matters right now is my relationship with my Lord Jesus Christ. This video was, is, and will always be my saving grace. It puts my mind in such a good place and reminds me that God knows the desires of my heart and WILL EXCEED MY EXPECTATIONS. But also that my time of singleness right now is so vital for my growth as a child of God. Thank you beautiful angels for making this video!! You guys are my role models and please continue to make more videos like this :) So so happy and I will continue to praise God that I found this video. Thank you again so much.

  • @georgieread3038
    @georgieread3038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Such good advice, wow! Loved hearing from Riley - this gal should totally share again :) So many good words ladies, thank you xx

  • @autumnrose8091
    @autumnrose8091 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please make a part 3!! Soaking all this in! Love y'all !! 💗 May God bless you x

  • @bmm772
    @bmm772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Found your channel today through the prompt us podcast! Currently binge watching your videos and soooo glad I’ve found it. Love this video, and the process of being single, this has thought me a lot more for my journey 🙌

  • @colicolefromtheflo
    @colicolefromtheflo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Your partnership should be kingdom advancement”!! Sheesh🔥👍🏾👍🏾

  • @emmam3416
    @emmam3416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love this so encouraging and just great advice!!

  • @tamaemarschke7342
    @tamaemarschke7342 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You guys speak so well, it’s so inspirational and uplifting

  • @abigailwatts5902
    @abigailwatts5902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is just wow! Such godly wise advice. Thank you so much 💕

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you for the love!

  • @sarahdavid147
    @sarahdavid147 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oooo I loved the grape vineyard analogy.

  • @emilyspears8911
    @emilyspears8911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the best video on singleness I've ever seen (and I've seen a lot)! Thank you for speaking such truth, both of you!

  • @shereeparkernz
    @shereeparkernz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fellow Kiwi girl here! 🙋🏻‍♀️ hello Riley! I’m gonna go read your blog riiiiight now! I’ve just been binge watching your videos since I found you from Sebastian’s video today, and it’s exactly the inspiration I needed ❤️

  • @Chefbrehomner
    @Chefbrehomner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Please bring Riley back for another video!! I was soooo inspired by her :)

    • @loznoz6936
      @loznoz6936 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She should make her own channel!

    • @EugenePaull
      @EugenePaull 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Breanna Anderson Absolutely, She Got Some Really Great Energy!!.

  • @naomistokes9795
    @naomistokes9795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish that I could do so much more than just like and subscribe! This was EVERYTHING I needed to hear right now I can’t express it more! Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @bellis7772
    @bellis7772 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of my favorite videos, like ever.

  • @shekinahtagoe5365
    @shekinahtagoe5365 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was soo good and something that is soo important!! ❤❤🙌🏾

  • @w.k777
    @w.k777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You girls rock! 😎 May the Lord be with you.

  • @RoyalSpringsMusic
    @RoyalSpringsMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!!! This is what Jesus has been doing in my life and this video came at the perfect time! I appreciate you all so much!!! 💗💗💗

  • @miaconte6930
    @miaconte6930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video helped me so much

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That makes us happy!

  • @jeremyw9204
    @jeremyw9204 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really encouraging! Thank you

  • @haeleej1896
    @haeleej1896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this. Thank you x I’ve been in the waiting season for a few years now but I know it will be worth it in the end

  • @solarfanwings7330
    @solarfanwings7330 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such wisdom! Thank you.

  • @allibarrett6809
    @allibarrett6809 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was full of fire, truth, and wisdom! Loved it!

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    watching your ''old'' videos woahh they're all so good and inspiring!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stay tuned for more like this asap!

    • @angelavanoosten1
      @angelavanoosten1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ToriAndChad yay I am! but no pressure

  • @portiagulube3964
    @portiagulube3964 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 wow😭. This is amazing. Thank you guys, truly from the bottom of my heart. May God add more wisdom to you guys.

  • @marinachoban2607
    @marinachoban2607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7:08 wonderful metaphor!

  • @samcashdan1255
    @samcashdan1255 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how the friend laughs out loud when she says "we don't take any credit for when we don't treat men right." Perfectly encapsulates the attitude of women in the Church: treating men like crap is something to be laughed at.

  • @charnayadams9677
    @charnayadams9677 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am glad that I came across this video :)

  • @JaySoHo
    @JaySoHo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was soooo good, thank you for making this! As a man, I got so much from this

  • @crystalriver7772
    @crystalriver7772 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two girls are delightful and so radiant for Jesus!!

  • @reinebergez4800
    @reinebergez4800 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so thankful for your videos! I already was in this path to God thos year but you made it so much easier with your words. It gives me hope and above all it shows me the right path to follow! God made me watch your videos at such a good time, it's incredibles! Thank you so much!💓

  • @eileentracy5287
    @eileentracy5287 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    even having heard some of these things before, I needed to hear this again! Thanks for speaking what the Lord's given you to say!

  • @Sara-jd4gi
    @Sara-jd4gi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah I feel like now that I'm enjoying my single season...I'm scared by the thought of relationships. 1) Because there is so much brokenness in people 2) God always does more than double. That means your potential spouse is great. That also adds an element of "well what if I'm not that great when they arrive". God's blessings can sometimes be overwhelming and the thought of it is tough. I know this is a lame comment...but...you know...monsters hide only in the dark....🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @its_jem7636
    @its_jem7636 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for letting your own personal stories be an inspiration for others.yous are great role model.shine your light 💡 that the Lord has given you to Shine ❗️

  • @summerensor7414
    @summerensor7414 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this!!! Seriously been praying for breakthrough in my season of singleness and this is so insightful.

  • @nyashakamsasa4966
    @nyashakamsasa4966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Christian life "society say something and you say NO". That's it right there

  • @breecleveland9544
    @breecleveland9544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Needed this soooo much! This video was an reminder from god🙌🏻

  • @Shermaine29
    @Shermaine29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. This is really relatable and I love everything about what both of you share. Thanks for sharing 🤗❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      awe :) Im so glad you liked it!!

    • @Shermaine29
      @Shermaine29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tori Masters ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hannahgray9972
    @hannahgray9972 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So many good words. Exactly what I needed to hear today👏

  • @Derriann9705
    @Derriann9705 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow you two radiate God's love and light so beautifully! Amazing video. Thank you for sharing. God bless you both!

  • @ohyeah2269
    @ohyeah2269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow i love her. She's so deep. She's childlike too. Reminds me of me. 😊

  • @belindatolley
    @belindatolley 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you two Big! Thanks so much for the encouragement!!!! Jesus is so awesome!~♡

  • @sofiagarrahan395
    @sofiagarrahan395 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Btw THANK YOU❤️🙏🏼 for your perspectives and your clarity on this subject. I wish you could do a part 2 of this part 2😂

  • @krystpiccinini
    @krystpiccinini 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is so encouraging and inspiring...i learn so much from you guys...i hope God would give me the kind of relationship you have with your husband chad...God bless you...

  • @jennythefoof
    @jennythefoof 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this really touched my heart. Thank you ❤️

  • @faithsmith8911
    @faithsmith8911 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow wow wow so much light radiating out of this video 💛

  • @hildecortese452
    @hildecortese452 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so beautiful..Thank you so much girls!!!

  • @janahorakova6766
    @janahorakova6766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, this is real!! I want to know I am whole already!

  • @kaessey
    @kaessey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Tori! Im really happy I found your channel. I just want to ask, what’s your church?

  • @chanelbradford5353
    @chanelbradford5353 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so inspirational. Thank you, I needed this. x

  • @ksyudaily3655
    @ksyudaily3655 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is seriously so beautiful. God bless!!

  • @jarie9689
    @jarie9689 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy I found your channel! Loved this convo! 🤗

  • @lyndsayrichardson905
    @lyndsayrichardson905 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this!! Thanks for sharing your little nuggets of wisdom!! 💛💛

  • @hairlife7429
    @hairlife7429 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you guys!!💓So inspirational!

  • @CyntorriaElyse
    @CyntorriaElyse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I lovedddddd this 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @beverlyenriquez7089
    @beverlyenriquez7089 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved the vineyard example 🙌🏽💕🙌🏽

  • @DDR1610
    @DDR1610 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    GREAT VIDEO! So many tidbits of wisdom

  • @loveazlen
    @loveazlen 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    best advice video ever !! this is so timely !!

  • @shannonborton8826
    @shannonborton8826 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so good! You’re awesome, keep doing what you’re doing! 🙌🏼💓

  • @malisehargrove8971
    @malisehargrove8971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was too good

  • @Yoyomaster471
    @Yoyomaster471 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    May God keep blessing y’all

  • @danielscully9356
    @danielscully9356 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super good and helpful for men too!

  • @oliviaakemon1622
    @oliviaakemon1622 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    SO. MUCH. TRUTH.

  • @els8555
    @els8555 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so encouraging!! Thanks girls for sharing this :)

  • @benehanssens3816
    @benehanssens3816 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is sooooo empowering, girls ❤️🌸🌈💐😘

  • @jessicacarpenetti6479
    @jessicacarpenetti6479 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much truth!! Love it 😊

  • @itsel8950
    @itsel8950 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so good❤️ thank you sisters!

  • @stephaniemurray6759
    @stephaniemurray6759 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This helped me sistahs im so happy 🥰 i always fall too cus i care alot

  • @kailaneckles3224
    @kailaneckles3224 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    so much wisdom! thank you so much 💛

  • @jasminovaska3607
    @jasminovaska3607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this one!! ❤️ So inspiring to see you guys talk so vulnerably and wisely!!😍 Keep going 🔥🔥

  • @camillejacinto09
    @camillejacinto09 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this, girls❤️