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How To Text A Girl - Texting Tips for Difficult Situations
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Bro this is the only channel that has genius solutions for difficult situations. Most coaches just say move on, he actually gets around it
Legit genius
Honestly one of your best videos. Everyone can share text interactions where things go smoothly but this is real gold right here.
best in the game
I find that reading these a number of times is starting to plant the seed in my head that i actually end up using some of my own lol. Awesome vid Alex.
I can say the same. From time to time i just re-watch some of the videos to refresh my memory and kinda boost my text game instantly :)
Absolute lifesaver in the day and age of hand sanitizer and chill
haha
"I'll treat you like a princess, you have to earn queen privileges." Genius.
It is really appreciable, the amount of work you put into these videos and also the depth of your knowledge of text game.
Just used the ”I am sorry to hear that I too have..” text in kombination with the ”if thats cool” text after suggesting a meet up, and it worked! Keep the knowledge coming amigo
13:47 "Can i think about it?" Needs to be adressed and Talked about, (in sales it leads to no sale 99% of the time)
"You dont like my plan?" Is a good answer.
Best video so far, I am getting in these type of tricky situations so often, and never knew how to get out of them. Now I know.
I tend to follow corey Wayne's how to set definite dates. Usually when you try to hit them up to confirm the date 90% of the time they try and flake or change something. But if you take out the need to confirm it avoids that. If you think they might flake saying you're running behind schedule and trying to push the date back a half hour is the best strat
Me: We aren't meeting? Why's that
Her: I don't want to bye
You couldve followed up with “curious, whats your concern?”
Keep up with the content. Have resecued my disasterous dating life with easy to understand examples.
Taking notes on this one. Absolute fire man
Can't believe I came across your channel a few months ago, it should have been sooner. You content is helping me out 10000%
Bro your videos have helped me from the bottom up I used to have zero game and now I actually feel confident talking to girls thank you
Tons of value, keep em coming
Literally come back to this same video for similar situations, great stuff man, saved me a few times now.
Bro I’m actively digging through his videos at 1.75 speed as I’m hitting up girls and it’s like a cheat code lmfao
Does this work? I m going to try it in a couple of hours
Really good rebutals and reframing technique Alex. Awesome video!
I like that you don't give up the girl so easily like others
I think this is one of the most important videos you've ever made. In general I learn a lot from your videos. Thank you.
Keep up the good work and content....Most videos out there have pick up ideas but you got the whole thing which is extremely rare on youtube..You deserve more subscribers
Thank you kindly
I’m glad that you do this kind of content for free , know I need to find someone that explains like you for cold approach and it’s complete
Todd v dating
Have you found anyone who explains cold approaches like this? I suck at that
The best thing I found out is not to text but call her once a week arrange a place to meet her and talk to her in person you can only build attraction in person and then not being available the rest of the time.
Idk how you have the patience for these chicks 😂. I lose all interest once they start acting up like that
Cuz he knows how to crack them
My text game after meeting a grown woman in real life: "Hey nice to meet you earlier, let's catch up over a drink sometime soon when we're both free", Her: "Yes nice to meet you too, sounds like a plan", few days later after living my life staying fit and having a grown up job, Me: "Let's get that drink. Could do Friday after 8 or Saturday after 7", Her: "Friday sounds good for me", Me: "Perfect, let's meet at Town Hall station at 8 pm, wear something cute.", Her: "Okay hahaha, see you then" Me: "Just getting ready now. I'll be a little late 5-10 mintues".
We ALL do. Then these are the same ones that complain there's no decent guys out there and yet each guy gets 8 shit tests and a month of leading him on. And the photos on her profile are from 7 years ago. I have cousins like this.
This guy could save a 747 from a stall
Bro you helping people, I do appreciate your struggle.
The fact that you actually talk to girls for a month is wild to me, my city is so fast paced I’m literally meeting new women everyday who are interested in going out/hooking up etc. I honestly don’t even save numbers until they’ve shown some serious interest. Anything else and it feels like I’m pushing for something they never wanted to begin with which is a turnoff for me.
seen you quite a few times on Destiny's stream. Always liked the way you think. Really impressed with your videos
bruh this man just gave me all the sauce
I've learned so much about women's psychology on this channel, it's crazy.
I heard 30K and I was thinking bruh what you mean, you at 116
Lol - my dude, jokes how close you hold the phone to your face - keep it up brother.
Really useful stuff. I can see where I went wrong with the few matches I had on these apps.
man, you're too good
Thanks for your vids bro, they help me a lot!
Glad they do
Don’t understand how a crappy weekend would keep a girl from meeting a cool guy but I forgot that I have male psychology. I’ll never fully understand why women do stupid shit so I’ll just listen and follow the tips. Thanks Alex
This was really educational and impressive.
I’d like to know where you learned how to do all this? Your content is brilliant.
he learned from himself.. obv
Great video as always. How about a response to the girl saying something like this, even after you've been texting for a while and building investment:
"Sorry I just started dating someone and I want to see where it goes". Or "sorry I just reconnected with my ex", etc. How would you persist in this situation?
She is not interested, if you try to convince her to date you she will find you as needy.
This is GOLD!
I think we should call him Mr Wine instead of Playing with Fire😂😂
This dude and his "romantic balcony" lol
you're a fucking genius and you don't waste time. that textgod dude just fluffs but you're straight up to the meat and potatoes.
Alex you are a Genius
Really thanks 🙏 I'll start to say to the girls I sleep with "Thank me but also Alex for this night". Then they'll say "who's Alex" and I'll say "ok we cannot be together"
At @15:40, she throws you a shit test "if you play your cards right you might get lucky". What did you say to that ? Your response isn't appearing in the video
Hey, big fan btw love the vids and content you create. I've recently gotten out of a relationship and my text game has gotten stale. Anyway i can get some help on how to respond to this? Is it a shit test? "You surf? That's cool. I love taking road trips, you should tell me more, definitely if you want to take me on a date ;) but I'm not easy, you'll have to pull out all the stops (humble emoji)" the ending seems like she wants me to submit to her. Any tips ?
Go ahead and make a post on our free forums please. Need more context so screenshots will help :)
I serioulsy learned a lot. Thank you
Clean and simple. Nice.
so in other words. stick to what you say aand build on only what you say by supporting it or defending it using reframe tactings and personal opinions ? right ?
5:57
Her: Don’t call me dear. You don’t know me like that. Thats the second time you have disrespected me. Just because you see it as a compliment doesn't mean it is a compliment. It’s condescending. Stop disrespecting me or im going to disrespect you right back.
7:03 this helped me:
Her: lol I guess
Me: you don’t sound confident
Her: you’re right. I need this.
Youre a genius
Bro works like a charm
Great vid, thanks!
exact same thing happen to me 2.00 of the video today oct 27 as im writing this. not even joking cus i got the texts for proof now and i could of reframe but i chose to get more girls. she was scared of covid in my texts. fixing that abundance mentality. long term success over short term.
and she also said she didnt know me that well.
Can you do a video on not getting emotionally attached and what are certain things that shouldn't be done to give off LTR vibes
It's usually pretty clear, if you're going out on dates frequently that's LTR, if she's coming straight to your place for a hookup that would be casual.
@@PlayingWithFireChannel Fair point, but i remember one time you said you go on adventures with some girls so thats why i'm unsure where the line is. I guess it's mostly about the vibe you give off..
@@mmbjproductions9889 Mostly that's to build more comfort if needed before we actually move the date to my place.
I must've misinterpreted you, because I thought you were talking about going on road trips and traveling with these girls. After having them come over for wine, a few times of course
If you're too nervous to comment I'd understand 😉
Can you make a video on when and how to call a girl? I tend to notice I have more success that way
This is the video I need right now. I am definitely going to be looking back on this one multiple times
Do it ;)
This man goes through some wine bottles
Could make so much money at the thrift shop
Can you show how to exit the text convo confidently when you’ve tried this and are still getting nowhere? Or do you not respond anymore at that point
Great tips!
Thanx chef
You've got game bro 🔥
Magneto is a hero to me!
do you have any tips for girls to pick up guys? nightclubs are opening in a few months hopefully and I worked hard all quarantine on my body.
and, because I feel its important: I'm goth
@@markansas101 no need 2 uber, I'm from vegas. which also means I have to complete with the hottest women in the world to go home with someone
Hey Alex, what about when you were having good conversation and there was already open hookup communication then she pulls the "I've got a bit going on atm tbh.... and I'm seeing a few other guys? Can you still proceed or re-engage? bare in mind this is in the DM's and this chick is in a non-monogamous relationship... so dunno if she's having a crisis about her current bf and cbf with guys or if I'm not engaging enough and didnt demonstrate enough high value. Appreciate any advice. Cheers. Like your content!
Great work
Give us a 2023 update video!
Bro every second video I swear you got black/bruised eyes and red fists. How often you be getting into fights man??
would you say your advice works in high school too or more toward college and adults?, i’m still taking notes regardless 😂
Lol
What if you text a reframe similar to the ones here and she starts typing something a few times on iPhone but then stops completely
Good video
What about a woman who keeps asking “do I know you?”
On Bumble
Her: Hi
Me: Ah I was waiting for you to message me ;)
Her: Do I know you? 👀 🤔
Me: You will after our big date 😏
Her: Clever and handsome im dead 🤣 ☠️
Me: Thanks. How’s your Monday funday going
Her: hol up.. u ain’t going to answer my question
so helpful
Pure gold
Hey Anthony, quick question that I don't think I've seen addressed for managing your "inner score" on apps. How much/little should you be swiping on bumble/tinder everyday?
I’m pretty much stuck right here 4:35. But she didn’t respond back after I brought up we’ll go on date. Not sure how to respond.
More vids like this!
My Guy is baked 😂
This showed up in my recommendations just a girl texted me trying to turn a house meet up into a more formal date lol..
so good
Amazing! Great examples. But a question for you Alex. Why do you always sit in such an alpha position for your vids? Looks slightly uncomfortable
these videos make me notice that I am in need of a dog lmao
Rhaegar carrying
Rhaegar’s his wing! 😂
Bro how tf do you think of these brilliant responses, i would Fuck that up so bad.
When we are saying we aren't replying to their messages, are we reading it or no?
Her: Thank you! I like your dog
Me: She’s the best! Do you have any pets
(2days later) Me: Don’t be shy
(5days later) Me: Are you always this talkative
Her: Only when I don’t like someone
There's no magical line man. What's the context? Just randomly you texted this?
Her: Can you afford to buy me dinner 🤔
"Why. Can you not"
You have a video with lela star?
How do you re-attract a women through text who doesn't want to role play or flirt with you anymore. She loves to be playful but just does not want to flirt back
Just do more take aways with her or even show a little interest in her friends. If she reacts to that in a jealous way she's into you but just not sure yet. Be a little bit edgy when texting her, don't respond right away everytime or when the conversation hits the climax read it and reply to it after 10 minutes. Let her text be the last text occasionally. Start talking to other females more. In directly ask her opinions about some topic you discussed with one of those girls but don't just go straight to that, build the conversation up first otherwise it's gonna be obvious that you trying to get her jealous. Don't text her so often, try to flirt with her again but make sure you put barriers, example ''I like you but I can't do sex before marriage'' and don't overdo it. If she still being difficult just completely walk away and mean it.
4:07 Do you want the King to treat you like his Queen already? We aren't married yet. ;)
I got the dreaded “lol”. That’s it. Haven’t responded to that because well there’s nothin to fuckin say… what’s the approach now? We got plans for Saturday still on.
I'd like to have seen the rest of the interaction with the girl who had the "incredibly bad experience" with some other guy. Did you guys meet at a 3rd party place or yours ?
Where’s the love report for 3:21
What to text when a girl says “ I’m not in mood”?
Tell her: Roses, chocolate, strawberry & wine will get you in mood my dear
How would you handle a situation with a girl whose frame is that she won’t date a man till he takes a personality test and meets her personality cutoff?
Move on. Some girls are just not worth it. She sounds silly
One girl texted me yesterday saying ‘Does your salary feed a family of four?’ This is before I’d even met her. Called her out and told her we won’t be meeting.
What if she changes her mind about going on a date because she says: "I spoke to my therapist, and I am in no way mentally ready to date. I actually deleted tinder already" EDIT: so I said something similar to 2:53 and she said "lol ok if you insist"
How can i get in contact with you with help texting? I'm also In nj too.
playingfire.com/contact
12:53 I’ve had a brat txt me “both “ on tinder. Is there a different approach in that kind of situation?
It could be "I really didn't think you were indecisive"
@@rohanserwer thanks