Hi Blaine, I really struggle with texting because there is no environment to create a context backdrop for conversation so I never know what to talk about. This video is extremely helpful. Thank you.
Good stuff. I'll use some of these principles with a girl I just matched with. The background music makes it feel sorta like a retail employee training video though.
Hi Blaine, thankyou so much for this video, it's so incredibly helpful. I find all of your content to the point, logical and easy to understand. So extremely useful! Thankyou so much 😊🙏
New to your channel Great helpful advice: however, I'm old school I would rather call because things get lost in a text conversation, misspelled words typo's Etc... I think women who are older prefer a phone conversation. I'm down for; but I would rather call. Somehow, we've gotten away from an old fashion phone call.
Heretofore, MOST the girls that are willing to end up having the longest conversations with me on texting... are the ones that meetup and then end up being too shy to actually talk, the date sucks, and a second one doesn't happen because I feel uncomfortable and like my time was wasted. Which is frustrating, because the opposite tends to be true - the ones who don't send too many messages, end up being normal in-person, the dates are great, but then the second date doesn't usually happen, or we meet a second time just for sex, and she usually ghosts soon after. The pattern that I'm noticing is that texting and in-person are supposed to back each other up. When one of those isn't happening, namely meeting up in person, and not for my lack of asking, then the conversation is going to fall apart pretty quickly. So it's a two-point dilemma for most guys. Yes, they're asking a girl out, but also the more we get told, no over and over again, it makes us less likely to ask in the first place if the text messages look a certain way. Which, in a way is unfair to the girl, the same "okay dude" means two different things in two different contexts. Her texts can _look_ bitchy but then in-person she is receptive. In a way, I'm kind of just at a point where I'd rather not have her number at all if it means my time is going to be wasted. But I think a strategy of _calling and texting_ might work better for me.
Your editing throughout is fantastic! The small zooms are great at emphasizing different points! I’m not sure if you’ve fixed it or just angled the camera down from it, but in the past there’s been a dent in the drywall or maybe a spot that was painted weird which got distracting. Thanks for changing it up!
Fellas, this is how you get friend zoned. The way to keep a conversation going thru text is. . . DON'T. Briefly text while flirting or arranging plans to meet.
I respect her for what she does to men like us and I see her like my teacher and not some sexy women or slut. Atleast respect women who is trying to change your life
Hi Blaine, I really struggle with texting because there is no environment to create a context backdrop for conversation so I never know what to talk about. This video is extremely helpful. Thank you.
Glad to help!!
@@DatingByBlaine that's right
Good stuff. I'll use some of these principles with a girl I just matched with.
The background music makes it feel sorta like a retail employee training video though.
Thank you for the feedback. I appreciate that.
this is how you land in the friendzone
Not the first suggestions
Really good work, great to see you on YT! You have come so far in the last couple of months! Thanks for all your tips
Hi Blaine, thankyou so much for this video, it's so incredibly helpful. I find all of your content to the point, logical and easy to understand. So extremely useful! Thankyou so much 😊🙏
Solid advice, thank you, Blaine!!
Fine as hell
Great tips and video Blaine! Very helpful!
Glad to help!
New to your channel
Great helpful advice: however, I'm old school I would rather call because things get lost in a text conversation, misspelled words typo's Etc... I think women who are older prefer a phone conversation. I'm down for; but I would rather call.
Somehow, we've gotten away from an old fashion phone call.
Great content Blaine, thank you 😊
glad to help!
It is great just to answer all her questions in Whatsapp and switch to home tasks
Heretofore, MOST the girls that are willing to end up having the longest conversations with me on texting... are the ones that meetup and then end up being too shy to actually talk, the date sucks, and a second one doesn't happen because I feel uncomfortable and like my time was wasted. Which is frustrating, because the opposite tends to be true - the ones who don't send too many messages, end up being normal in-person, the dates are great, but then the second date doesn't usually happen, or we meet a second time just for sex, and she usually ghosts soon after.
The pattern that I'm noticing is that texting and in-person are supposed to back each other up. When one of those isn't happening, namely meeting up in person, and not for my lack of asking, then the conversation is going to fall apart pretty quickly. So it's a two-point dilemma for most guys. Yes, they're asking a girl out, but also the more we get told, no over and over again, it makes us less likely to ask in the first place if the text messages look a certain way. Which, in a way is unfair to the girl, the same "okay dude" means two different things in two different contexts. Her texts can _look_ bitchy but then in-person she is receptive.
In a way, I'm kind of just at a point where I'd rather not have her number at all if it means my time is going to be wasted. But I think a strategy of _calling and texting_ might work better for me.
Can teach me to text?
Thanks for the share. I haven't heard of "rec" interesting
Hope you learned something :)
Your editing throughout is fantastic! The small zooms are great at emphasizing different points!
I’m not sure if you’ve fixed it or just angled the camera down from it, but in the past there’s been a dent in the drywall or maybe a spot that was painted weird which got distracting. Thanks for changing it up!
Thank you so much for the feedback. That's helpful!
Fellas, this is how you get friend zoned.
The way to keep a conversation going thru text is. . . DON'T. Briefly text while flirting or arranging plans to meet.
lookin cute :)
These are generally good ideas for an in-person conversation, but I think it’s a bad idea to talk this much over text.
hell nah😭 this not it
I’m a bit distracted by that skirt but ok I’ll go back and listen
She’s married
Andrew Tate would have hooked up with Blaine after one date even if she is married.
@@seanm.collins9888 Nope
I respect her for what she does to men like us and I see her like my teacher and not some sexy women or slut. Atleast respect women who is trying to change your life
Blaine during your lesson you are moving your hands and jerking your body constantly. Watch yourself, it is very distracting l