Would highly recommend checking out Brilliant, go to brilliant.org/Ali to get a 30-day free trial + the first 200 people will get 20% off their annual subscription.
This is the post-date 8: 1. What side of me did they bring out? 2. How did my body feel during the date? 3. Do I feel more energized or de-energized than before the date? 4. Is there something about them I’m curious about? 5. Did they make me laugh? 6. Did I feel heard? 7. Did I feel attractive in their presence? 8. Did I feel captivated, bored, or something in between?
Always put your finances in good care to ensure that your income rises. Wealthy people achieve there financial goals and acquire riches by seeking help from finance pro(s) but many claim to have achieved success themselves.
“The greater the passive income you can build, the FREER you will become.” I feel fortunate to have made productive decisions that have had a lasting impact on my life. Through my finance coach, I've accumulated over a million and recently purchased my first house in January. I've also managed to pay off my mortgage and student loans, and now I'm focused on working towards my retirement by next year.
I operate a wide range of investments and have achieved massive growth in my finances with the help of my financial professional, making my financial goal a reality.
I’m 17 and friends with many people. Online dating isn’t the greatest method, as if you just so happen to live in different countries, or even regions, then chances are you won’t meet. I haven’t seen a single online relationship - and I’ve seen many - go past a year or end in meeting up. Good for you, however. Hope you’re doing well!
I've been meeting people from the Internet since 2001-- sometimes for dating, other times just to meet up with friends. I've always been open to meeting outside of my geographical area, way way outside of it. I currently live in North Dakota where the dating pool is just a tiny puddle, and it's difficult to make friends here, too. Meeting friends or dating from the Internet has given me opportunities to learn about new cultures, travel hundreds if not thousands of miles away to meet up with friends, show friends around when they have traveled here, and opened up entirely new worlds for me.
The thing about dating is app that they make money based on user retention. The longer single you are the more money they make. There will be matches and dates but it won’t meet the effort you put. I think joining social clubs and activities are much better to have dates.
some people don’t have much of those in their area tho or they don’t really have the time to actively participate. tbh dating apps are cashing on people who are busy and don’t have the time to go out, meet and connect with people regularly enough to build a relationship with someone organically. or lonely people who have no friends and don’t get introduced to new faces often. kinda sad but nowadays this is the reality for many of us
It's weird but ever since I have known you married Izzy, I can't stop thinking how you're so good together. It's just crazy for me how two seemingly unrelated TH-camr from billions of TH-camrs have found each other and get married? I adore you both and I extend my warmest congratulations. 🎉🎉
Appreciate this. I’m about to try it, because I’m tired of being alone in life and want to meet someone that actually wants to be around me. Tired of fakes and flakes.
Security concern should be for everyone. I've had multiple female stalkers in the past despite telling them I'm gay and I've had unwanted touching/flirting at work from men. I'm sure victimization of men is underreported, I've never gotten interviewed or surveyed. I've heard some stories about Grindr so I'm keeping my guard up and letting my family know what I'm doing and stuff lol.
I understand the "stalking" women. Gayism is in fashion right now so when you say you are gay they do not automatically fall for it. If you want to shake women you will need to be more original.
Good "How to" video. Great content. I like it when you combine information from your personal experience, interviews with thought leaders, and insights you gained from books in your videos. Thanks!
My productive guide to online dating: delete dating apps from your phone = save yourself loads of potentially wasted time. Go enjoy your life out in the world.
Know what people also never do, stike up conversation on dating apps. From personal experience. I actually get more conversation from someone in person cos they feel rude ignoring you like they apparently do on dating apps.
This is beyond my expectations. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was absolutely astonishing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
The lady said so many messed up things. Like as a woman I would rather meet my date for the first time in a crowded and safe place like a cafe, I dont care if it looks like a job interview, go to the park with them and what? Let them murder you in the bushes in case they are a psycopath?
Greetings and Salutations Well, online dating is a match making service It's nothing serious about giving someone the address you have for contact because only certain places are approved & appropriate for your lifestyle Great Upload Thanks good luck 👍
2:58 I strongly disagree with allowing payment barriers to build up around one of the more fundamental aspects of social life. This is bordering on the commodification of people, given that the people are essentially the products of these dating apps that you are incentivising us to spend money on.
Never been on a dating app, but they say that a large percentage of the women are just bots. And that the actual women only go for the top 10% of guys. Whereas the guys will go for anything with a pulse. So it just doesn’t work.
Would highly recommend checking out Brilliant, go to brilliant.org/Ali to get a 30-day free trial + the first 200 people will get 20% off their annual subscription.
This is the post-date 8:
1. What side of me did they bring out?
2. How did my body feel during the date?
3. Do I feel more energized or de-energized than before the date?
4. Is there something about them I’m curious about?
5. Did they make me laugh?
6. Did I feel heard?
7. Did I feel attractive in their presence?
8. Did I feel captivated, bored, or something in between?
Sounds like these apply mostly to women. #7 Specifically confuses me as how are you supposed to feel attractive without obvious cues?
I love the fact that you associate dating with productivity 😂
Only Ali can do 6 step routine for dating. 😂
When brand deals calls 😀. Ali will always deliver
😂😂😂
I swear😂
Dude is methodical in everything. Not a bad thing. Glad he has found a formula that works 😅
I laughed so hard when I read the title of the video
*I don't know who needs to hear this, but don't chase comfort at the age of labor, so you won't labor at the age of comfort.*
Always put your finances in good care to ensure that your income rises. Wealthy people achieve there financial goals and acquire riches by seeking help from finance pro(s) but many claim to have achieved success themselves.
“The greater the passive income you can build, the FREER you will become.” I feel fortunate to have made productive decisions that have had a lasting impact on my life. Through my finance coach, I've accumulated over a million and recently purchased my first house in January. I've also managed to pay off my mortgage and student loans, and now I'm focused on working towards my retirement by next year.
I operate a wide range of investments and have achieved massive growth in my finances with the help of my financial professional, making my financial goal a reality.
Sear ch the names if you care!
*DONALD NATHAN SCOTT.*
Me & hubby met online. 10 years later we are happy married with 2 great kids. Good luck for you Ali 😊
I’m 17 and friends with many people. Online dating isn’t the greatest method, as if you just so happen to live in different countries, or even regions, then chances are you won’t meet. I haven’t seen a single online relationship - and I’ve seen many - go past a year or end in meeting up. Good for you, however. Hope you’re doing well!
@@someonev3ur comfusing online dating with internet relationships
I've been meeting people from the Internet since 2001-- sometimes for dating, other times just to meet up with friends. I've always been open to meeting outside of my geographical area, way way outside of it. I currently live in North Dakota where the dating pool is just a tiny puddle, and it's difficult to make friends here, too. Meeting friends or dating from the Internet has given me opportunities to learn about new cultures, travel hundreds if not thousands of miles away to meet up with friends, show friends around when they have traveled here, and opened up entirely new worlds for me.
I’m just happy that Ali is dating someone and is happy in life. I wish you both well.
I do not know you but i hope you are (or will) date someone and be happy as well.
@LaMelo Ball he’s dating his girlfriend
good luck to you and everyone who reads this comment!!!!
@LaMelo Ball Izzy Sealey is his GF.
lol, that transition to the Brilliant sponsorship was so smooth! Nicely done 6:30
The romantic in me is quaking. The scientist in me appreciates this and is invigorated 😂
The thing about dating is app that they make money based on user retention. The longer single you are the more money they make. There will be matches and dates but it won’t meet the effort you put. I think joining social clubs and activities are much better to have dates.
some people don’t have much of those in their area tho or they don’t really have the time to actively participate. tbh dating apps are cashing on people who are busy and don’t have the time to go out, meet and connect with people regularly enough to build a relationship with someone organically. or lonely people who have no friends and don’t get introduced to new faces often. kinda sad but nowadays this is the reality for many of us
Step 1: Do Not Buy Any Paid Subscriptions. Ever. Even outside of dating apps.
Step 2: idk man what else am i supposed to do, talk to people?
It's weird but ever since I have known you married Izzy, I can't stop thinking how you're so good together. It's just crazy for me how two seemingly unrelated TH-camr from billions of TH-camrs have found each other and get married? I adore you both and I extend my warmest congratulations. 🎉🎉
The way you integrated sponsorship into this video killed me 😂 great video as always!
lol the way he did it so funny🤣🤣🤣
@@kagisot5479 definitely didn't skip the ad this time 🤣🤣
It was the worst!
Hey lets be friends if u don't mind me
I tried for online for 3 years. It’s only people trying to catfish me. Fake accounts. I never got 1 date
Appreciate this. I’m about to try it, because I’m tired of being alone in life and want to meet someone that actually wants to be around me. Tired of fakes and flakes.
Your videos are so professional! I love your style of editing and I can clearly see the amount of work you've put in :)
Thanks Ali this really worked , I know have 3 wives and am struggling witth child support
I really appreciate those Date Evaluation questions, super helpful with determining how to move forward!
Security concern should be for everyone. I've had multiple female stalkers in the past despite telling them I'm gay and I've had unwanted touching/flirting at work from men. I'm sure victimization of men is underreported, I've never gotten interviewed or surveyed. I've heard some stories about Grindr so I'm keeping my guard up and letting my family know what I'm doing and stuff lol.
Hope you doin well man
I understand the "stalking" women. Gayism is in fashion right now so when you say you are gay they do not automatically fall for it. If you want to shake women you will need to be more original.
Good "How to" video. Great content. I like it when you combine information from your personal experience, interviews with thought leaders, and insights you gained from books in your videos. Thanks!
Hey hammad here nice to meet u lets be friends if u don't mind
My productive guide to online dating: delete dating apps from your phone = save yourself loads of potentially wasted time. Go enjoy your life out in the world.
yup, absolutely
Man I was not prepared for that advertisement transition. I fell for it
Omg thank you so much for this video, I think it will save lots of people from trauma.
The "I'll fall for you if.." transition was smooth
I absolutely love how he blends the ads with the content! 😂❤
That Brilliant Sponsorship transition just popped out the almonds & raisins i was eating out of my mouth😦
Dating market is market. You should understand demand and supply and your competitive advantages.
I am probably losing in stock then.
im bankrupt
Hey buddy, what can I do for you to feel better
7:10 The sponsor turned up unexpectedly😂
that sponsor transition caught me off guard! well played Ali
i gotta say that ad was smooth, didnt see it coming...
I'm a muslim, and I was on online dating but this is my first time hear about Mus, lol. Gonna find someone potential in the local Mosque, ig.
The beginning is so ridiculous lol. "Why should we care about dating?"
"WELL THIS STUDY SAYS... !!!"
🥺🥺Never thought I'd see a video with him talking about dating ❤️❤️
Thanks for the video! I read also the book that you in the past proposed "How to not die alone" and it was SUPER HELPFUL! thanks also for that!💙
Know what people also never do, stike up conversation on dating apps. From personal experience. I actually get more conversation from someone in person cos they feel rude ignoring you like they apparently do on dating apps.
Your sponsor plug in was (wait for it..) Brilliant!
Your videos have been helpful Ali. I hope to jump on this as well.
I also love the quality of your videos, this is so clean and professional 👏👏👏👌
This is legit reverse clickbait. I thought its gonna be fake and it was exactly as advertised
That segue was probably the smoothest one I have ever seen on TH-cam 6:35
Your placements are great, they almost fit seamless into the video.
He is the only guy in the world who can associate the word productive with anything and I would believe him 😂
Congrats on your relationship for both of you!
That ending speaks volumes
Very smooth sponsor transition, Ali. Have you been taking cues from Graham?
This is beyond my expectations. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was absolutely astonishing. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Didn't see that Brilliant sponsorship coming. Nicely put!
Never expected to see "Productive Dating" line in my life lol
This is so on brand, I love it!
My Top 3 Favourite Channels: Ali Abdaal, Alex Renko, Iman Gadzhi! Make my week complete!
Ali is so smooth with the sponsored ads 👏🏻👏🏻 well played 👏🏻👏🏻
loved that photo in the right upper corner at 3:47 😂
What was that 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Activity dates are the way to go
The very title of the video got me goosebumps 😂
his next video, will be like: How to enjoy productively
Yooo productive dating 🧠🧠
This is absolutely one of the best channels for life!
Not everything has to be "productive" smh🤦♂️
It's not that deep, nothing wrong in optimising all aspects of life, plus the term is just part of his videos brand...
Agreed
Idk why I’m watching (I’m married) but I also co-sign Hinge! I met my husband off there 3 years ago !
12:55 cuz yall don’t want that
thanks for sharing your perspectives around this!
Hey hammad here nice to meet u lets be friends if u don't mind
Why jump from texting to meeting? Usually a phone or video call can rule out wronguns
You never disappoint on your content . I like your contents.
I am literally on my way to my first date and this video popped up 😅😂😂they are spying on ussss😭😩
You should make a vid on making genuine friendships in your 20s
Ali talk about anything else but dating. Ali ain't red-pilled
Omg Ali is in love so cute 🥰
Productive Dating.... Letsss goooooooo!!!!
Is there an app to meet fellow creatives and musicians?😊
Captain simbad’s video came true
Great tips Ali! 👌🏻
funny how this is not joke video
that sponsorship timing tho - too smooth
The lady said so many messed up things. Like as a woman I would rather meet my date for the first time in a crowded and safe place like a cafe, I dont care if it looks like a job interview, go to the park with them and what? Let them murder you in the bushes in case they are a psycopath?
Next video, Six step process of managing your girls tantrum.
An evidence based guide
@@cedriceric9730 😂😂😂
Just say "relax", if that doesnt work say these, "you must be on your period", "Now i understand why your ex dumped you"
Hi
4:31 This photo is so funny XD
Step 1: Don’t
I wish the ad didn't interrupt step 2. That being said, what if you have a deal breaker that you want to express even if it comes off as "negative"?
“Prospects” oh Lord god
Greetings and Salutations
Well, online dating is a match making service
It's nothing serious about giving someone the address you have for contact because only certain places are approved & appropriate for your lifestyle
Great Upload Thanks good luck 👍
Hey Ali, I really enjoy when I am watching your TH-cam.
Online dating apps consist of 66% men and 34% woman. Those 34% woman have more messages, likes, and more then men. That’s a fact
NEVER DO IT !! time and $ waste
despite of how much they've improved, everyone must still stay safe during online chats.
What do you do about burnout? That part is very very real.
A lot of people miss step 2.
I want a dating app that is more safe and secure, not popular.
I cant fathom why some girls have profile photos with guys 🤯
Forgot to mention divorce rates are now higher 🤣🤣
The "players" wink! 🤣
How do you meet someone in a restaurant?! 🤷♀🤔
I haz so many deal breakers I can only match with K drama characters 😂
Amazing stuff bro
i feel like dating is more complex than studying physics 😒😒😒
Not have others controlling thy phone 24/7 would be a good tip.
productive dating? okay.
2:58 I strongly disagree with allowing payment barriers to build up around one of the more fundamental aspects of social life. This is bordering on the commodification of people, given that the people are essentially the products of these dating apps that you are incentivising us to spend money on.
Lmao that title is wild. Only Ali could pull that off 😂
Never been on a dating app, but they say that a large percentage of the women are just bots. And that the actual women only go for the top 10% of guys. Whereas the guys will go for anything with a pulse. So it just doesn’t work.
Time to increase my productivity on Tinder😂
instructions unclear, they're all signing up for brilliant