That's why I don't text or call sometimes, if I do call I keep it short and to the point. Texting is a women's game that you will never win so don't even play.
I’m doing something wrong.. I always make the plans and the first steps. I’m not expecting a guy to do all those things. When I like someone I do that. I mean good lord, it’s 2018! Why should a guy be tiptoeing around a girl watching his every step and doing all the work on his own. Sometimes I feel like men are so scared of rejection because they always get told about those absurd high standards women have, that they don’t even dare to ask you out or talk to you. So us ladies should help them out and take matter into our own hands!
As a man seeing all the demands women have these days and the extreme effort it takes on only one side, my side, it really discourages me and makes it feel as if it's not worth all the trouble and stress i will have to go through. In the current dating scene IMO it's men having to do everything and be perfect and abide the 100000 rules women have set up and women can just receive, get free dinners etc. and if the guy does one wrong move they already got another guy lined up. Although there are exceptions but not many it feels like.
KitetheTidecaller I’ve been seeing a lot of comments like yours down here and 100% do not agree. You don’t need to be perfect or go through any trouble or stress, in my experience if that’s you your doing something wrong. The harder you try the harder it’s going to be to actually get a girl. It’s like trying to swim up stream, good fucking luck. Idk why all guys think this is such a hard and complex thing cuhz it isn’t. Just be real, straight up, and stop thinking so goddamn hard.
guy - can’t make a decision, seen as weak.... guy - makes a decision, seen as controlling no wonder men are confused......all you women just got to get off your high horses, cause you aren’t too much better yourselves harsh but true...
never believe any female that tells you she’s a bad texter. there’s no such thing. if a female is interested she will always reply no matter how busy she may be!
pixel strength cause she has a life apart from your conversation? I sometimes go hours between messages with the guy I’m seeing. if you can’t take a 10-20 min gap you have some issues
Listen, everybody what RainbowAnimeCupcake is giving you. This information handed over to you on a silver platter. "cause she has a life apart from your conversation? I sometimes go hours between messages with the guy I’m seeing. if you can’t take a 10-20 min gap you have some issues" - Here she is talking about someone she is actually seeing. So as you can see even though the girl doesn´t reply right away, doesn´t mean you have to panic and assume she fucking someone else or that she isn´t your like someone commented.. Its simple it just means that she is not clingy and has a life.
From a guy point of view, the reason for the "Let's hang out sometime" text is because we don't want to see too forceful. We are leaving it in your decision if you want to see us again or not. Nothing really to do with not being able to make a decision. We don't know your boundaries or limits to any relationship, so we try to take the safest route possible so we don't seem forceful or creepy.
"would you like to get together for a drink Friday night?" Response is either going to be yes, or I can't Friday, but I'm free on such and such day... or, I'm busy that night (
to right man. and the whole emoji thing. men don't do that thing in a text. that is a woman thing. like omg look at this emoji it's so cute. and the man is like, send me another fucking emoji and i will burn down your house.
Young women live by text. They will not talk to you on the phone, so forget it. Don't waste time on the text game. If they need a week of texting forget them and move on.
agreed. don't play that game. when you meet a girl and get her number, by the third text you send you should be suggesting a concrete plan, if she hems and haws about it, or worse, makes it and flakes on short notice with a flimsy excuse, just move on in 90% of the cases. sure, occasionally the reasons are valid and the connection is strong, but usually you are dealing with an immature girl, or one with a boyfriend that just likes guys to boost her ego.
Wifredo El Velloso yep, but women haven't changed bro. They will jerk you around the old fashioned way or with the new way of texting. You'll figure that out if you play the txt game.
John Boulding yeah, i wanna say that text game is a new useful element that can helps. I only use that for basic conversation, the clue are the dates. At that moment all "old fashioned" elements are patents hahahahaha
John Boulding: better yet, meet women, have great conversations, then, leave her with yr number. Those women who don't call within a certain time, say a month, forget them.
When two persons like each others, they are on the same wave length, they will make everything possible to see each others and spend time together. True advice that is still reliable in 2018, keep things simple. 😎
Marian Kotúč clueless men that destroy their chance->> story of my life 😉. Some men also rush in and some stay cripple or clueless as you said, We should know when we have to make the right move. By the way, do you know what is the best part of a relationship?
That's cause all they have to do is reject all the "weak & unconfident" men who don't follow these set of rules, and they get to choose from all the confident men that follow these methods.
mukta rain facts ...THE MAIN THING EVERYBODY IS MISSING IS NATURAL CHEMISTRY... EVERY MAN IS A TYPE ..SHE MIGHT JUST LIKE UR TYPE .. STOP TRYING TO FISRT FIGUER OUT HER TYPE AND THEN FAKING LIKE UR HER TYPE ... THESE CRAZY PEOPLE ARE TEACHING U NOT TO BE UR SELF ..
Don't call her or text her make her call you if she expects you to call or text & she don't call you or text you back she not the right girl for you. Communicate in person not by phones don't wait 4 one girl to call you who might be leading you on. If she cares about you she will call you if not she not worth your time & effort Communication in person works to talk to a girl to have a friendship grow & ask girl out on a date.
Dano smith hahaha ur do right😂if u want to use a girl for sex do that. If ur looking for a girl to marry and have kids with, then good luck and just wait till a non goldigger with a good heart comes ur way☺️terrible these days find a girl with a stereotypical japanese inner beauty (doesnt have to be a japanese woman) but those characteristics
Anyone else think this is just entirely too much trouble with little to no return for the investment. I really hate what dating has turned into it's not even fun anymore.
Especially first dates. Men have to pay for everything just to get a chance to get to know a woman and the woman can literally eat for free and move on to the next moron willingly to pay for her food. Fuck that.
I have two words: TARGET DEMOGRAPHICS If you do not know who the most efficient women are for you to target based on WHO YOU ARE, then you are going to waste your time for YEARS! Not who you want, but who are most likely to be appealing to you and you to them. Without that work put in first you are doomed.
Everything she talks about (telling men not to do) is what women actually do. Drunk text at 4am, check. Bad grammar and lots of emojis, check. Naked pics, check. Indirect non committal (so they can't get rejected) responses, check. I am just a guy, not a material item to be scrutinized over and picked apart piece by piece for all my faults. I do have faults because I am human, get over it or get out.
If a woman wants you, she will stop at nothing, certainly not a bad text. Initiate and keep your text short (state day and time of date, don't ask) and only send one (two if she gave you a reason to send a second) - if response not adequate/ no response, forget about her and move on. If by some chance she does want you, you will certainly hear from her. This is just the way it is with women. PS As a Gen X man, I appreciate your calling out the power of a direct phone call - this used to / still does, take balls - texting is just too easy.
not true. you have to make a compliment but at the same time restrict it like "you have the best looking eyes of our class". You give her a compliment but at the same time you say "in our class" which leaves her wondering if she hasnt the best eyes of the school f.e.!
The assumption of the video is that a woman has already given you her number, something she's not going to do unless she's at least somewhat attracted (unless you're so psycho she's afraid you'll kill her if you don't get the number, in which case she'll give you somebody else's number.)
Sounds like you have a social phobia or anti social, however you say it in english. I am not attacking you, just stating the facts, based on this sentence "not in the mood for a real time conversation"
Set up the date, get off the phone. That's all you need to do. If she gives you anything but a yes, then your wasting your time. Tell her to call you when she figures out her schedule.
AMEN!!! What I've been saying. One American women told me it's the fault of American women's fathers. CAN YOU BELIEVE IT! Blaming the men again for them not wanting to be women.
Men don't care when you sneeze. For some reason she cares. This is immature. Sneezing might not be cute but it's not a personality trait. No guy will judge a person for sneezing.
You don’t get the point, I will explain it to you and why this work 80 percent of the time. Les say you see this girl, If you want to text or call her and keep the conversation going is easy to pick a topic something about every day you see her something that could be funny or interesting dont do it everyday do it like every few days, but the first day should be a most, that way you have a topic to always talk to her and be more relax when you text or call. She will feel more into talking to you and maybe see you. It works 80 percent of the time. Also don’t text all day or call or day, You stand out because most man will say a lame whatsup?, how are you?, picture, or want to score quick.
You both kinda right. I'm an attractive Male. While a woman will settle with a less attractive man with more money. That does not stop her from attempting to sleep with attractive male counterparts. Dude paying her rent, buying her groceries, call her 24/7, take her out to eat. But she want my company. Suggesting we get hotel together after eating at McDonalds together.
Read the comments above in order and notice how they follow every troupe you see in movies ;) It's all luck and skill. Ugly handsome rich poor tall short it's all the same of you're skilled and find the right girls. G'luck
The attractive Male named "triplenaruto1" that takes all the sexy ladies to McDonald's. Not believable at all but I'll give you a solid C for effort kid 😂
If I can offer some advice; next time when they respond to a call with a text, respond in kind with a text requesting that they call you or you call them, as you would rather not speak through text.
thats why you try to set up a date by the 2nd or 3rd text...minimize that shit..i could list about a dozen reasons why long, drawn out text conversations are just a bad idea. if a girl doesn't want to spend time with me (a public place is fine too) then she doesn't and all the bullshit texting in the world is not likely to change that. find out early i have to give the girl in this video a lot of credit for suggesting that..she is not typical..she is trying to empower men to some degree here.
If I try to make plans too early most girls get weird, like I’m coming on too hard. So I have to spend two weeks texting for them to be comfortable to go on a date. Yes I’m using tinder and bumble. It’s all ridiculous logic at the end of the day
The worst thing I did was text her. Now today I have a date....... In court setting in front of a judge and my life is at the mercy of the firing squad.
I never comment on videos, however, your tip to call her worked. She had said she wanted to hang out Friday a couple days ago, no texting today I called, asked if she was good to go, sure why not. While out she had said she was glad I called because if I texted she would've came up with an excuse not to. So thank you very much!
Texting a girl these days is like winning the lottery. Hey whats up wanna hang out? - Not special enough, she wont answer. You tell her how beautiful she is. - Not special enough, you are the 100th guy who texted this to her today, no answer. You tell her a joke. - Yeah cool dude, but not enough.... You text her an icebreaker text. - She read knows them all already, guess what? NO ANSWER
actually asking them to "hang out sometime" is good as long as it is a little more specific like mentioning a specific activity. Afterwards you can find out the specific schedule
This only works if you are an attractive man. Look at her text examples, The headline says "Attractive man" she is already into him without him even going on the date. Moral of the story, if you are good looking you can get good looking girls. If you take a guy who is extremely confident and knows how to speak well but he doesn't look good. He will still get rejected because of his looks. This has been proven already.
I told a coworker who I like that she has a beautiful heart and I am happy to know her in the text . That really helped me as she really appreciated it. Calling her is the next step and she is right.
Honestly, I personally have learned to keep the compliments out, too. Actually complimenting a lot really just puts her on a pedestrial, which she doesn't need - She is already offered one all the time by her environment. What is more useful is showing appreciation when she actually does something nice or is punctual and straightforward for instance. "Compliment" that, if you feel the need. She will like that you noticed the little things.
Mayhzon - great comment. i think a few compliments are a good idea when you are breaking the ice though, just to get their attention...indirect ones such as about her choices in clothing or taste in art, food, and the like - not about appearance if you can help it - pretty women do hear that too much for sure, from age 1, and if you call a 6 "pretty" she will know you are lying. i'm still trying to figure out if comments like "great tits" or "nice ass" are constructive or not though...close call..what do you think?
It makes you wonder about this girl. If the last guy was so great, how come she’s still single? There’s something she’s not telling us. Did he fuck up, or is she high-maintenance-crazy?
Yeah you'll come to notice over time all this self proclaimed experts and even the ones with degrees in this shit are the last people you should take relationship advice from
So why would men ever want relationships if they just the one upper of the other. I see why guys just pay for pussy. You tryna pretend you love a shallow person is insanity.
Just be yourself and not care and realize you can easily get another girl and it becomes easy. Also the annoying ones go away faster and gives you less wasted time.
Personally, I don't chase. I let women chase me...just dress and groom really nice like the women do and throw on some expensive cologne and hit the streets...at this point, you won't have to make any moves, the women will do all the work. Now you can pick and choose only the women that you are attracted to and you don't have to waste your time sifting through all the madness.
The Guy bro even if your ugly confidence will have to be your way out. Like if your insecure if your looks a lot women will be turned off by that I'm not trying to put you down I'm honestly just trying to give a valid opinion that may or may not help you
what make me laugh is that girls put up a large list of rules to follow so that you may get her , you don't do this you don't do that , don't over text to her don't be sticky and on and on .... , but once you smatch it , they change completly , and they want to see you everytime , they would want to over text all the night they don't want you to have fun outside them (yeah when u have plan for the week end with ur friends , or play video game , or hanging out with ur mother every monday , yeah they wont admit it but they want all the focus on them) , when you smatch a girl she start to want you to do the overdose ... (with the only exeption for jealousy ) lol
Girls are way easier after closing. yes this is what i am talkin about , before the smatch , she's inavailable , after that she become your best follower , ok she try to convince that she's your best follower
"Yea make plans. Be confident, do everything right" what does that really means. Yea calling them is a good technique but what's the background. Teach us the real techniques to get you real interested. Texting you in the phone means nothing. Aaaagh I guess I'm talking to the wrong pickup guru. Like the old saying. Never listen to the fish always listen to the fishermen.
I feel like this was just the basic idea of texting. Really just for the guys who are doing things wrong. But very often you can do nothing fundamentally wrong and end up still getting flaked on or left on "read".
yeah but their needs include physical affection too...and women can be a lot funner than "the guys". and also, any real woman is very giving and supportive. the way i see it is that the big problem is that modern culture in many places allows women into their 20s and even 30s to remain children.. historically people were pretty much grown up in the their mid-late teens, but with public education, extended university life for many, over-protective parents, the rise of a very isolating suburban lifestyle, and other reasons, a lot of people just stay children for a good part of their lives. children in adult bodies are a big hazard of modern life, but stil, keep your head up and dont be so negative...there are some good and real women around.
B. Alvn that's brilliantly said. Nothing worse than seeing a woman 30+ talk like she's always 16 years old. Yet they're quick to state how they want a "Real Man" lol. Great observation, and well spoken.
When a fish teaches you how to fish. Meaningless texts work so well. Never be so clear in your tests to them. Keep their minds craving for what you really wanted to say. Be unpredictable. start a phrase and dont complete it and you see her coming for the details.... They like tricks which the bad guys have best. That's why they get them. Be tricky and smart .... Girls like bad guys and do not encourage guys that treat them soo soo good. Give them their love and make sure she sees the risk of loosing your love. Only then will you get the best from her. Don't be just too nice without principles. Let her know you can do without her. Sad but the truth.
Every person is different. If a girl tells me we should hand out sometime..... that's a green light for me to ask her out for specific plans. No busy bars...ewwww. daytime wine at the riverside park in philly or a bike ride. And yes.....I'm 37.
Take this shit for what its worth gentlemen. This is her point of view. She makes valid points and other points that I don't share. She's spot on about some shit and other shit it's not so black and white.
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Cheating before a relationship even gets started. Tisk tisk. ;)
Worked for me.
6:10 "I probably sneezed 20 times in 30 seconds it was really embarrassing and I thought I blew it" Like you blew your nose? hahaahahah
Texting girls these days is like disarming a nuclear bomb. Every little thing triggers them.
haha love the analogy
Yeti that's why we have to get tons of girl. So if 1 fails, fuck it, there are 20 more girls to chat with.
Bravo!
Or reading ancient Egyptian hieroglyphics... we can take a guess at what it means, but really we have no fucking clue 😂
That's why I don't text or call sometimes, if I do call I keep it short and to the point. Texting is a women's game that you will never win so don't even play.
I thought learning Javascript was hard. Texting girls in 2019 might be the toughest coding language in the world.
Try Python my guy
I told you cats are less complicate.I do not understand my cat and me we communicate whithout said. A word.
Astrophysique is so simple and metaphysique is a piece cake .
@@bgtheone2903 eh.. no, comparing women and programming. At least, c++ .. managing memory, pointers, etc...
@@michelgregoire799 metaphysique is more vague than astrophysique mu antique. Try epistemique before you retreat.
Best way to stand out..... not give a fuukk if they like you or not.
Thomas Bruh Dis Shitt so truee
haha, but I think it is ture
This, This is the best advice on this page
That and thinking you can easily get them and thinking that you are way better.
My fellow red pill members
I’m doing something wrong.. I always make the plans and the first steps. I’m not expecting a guy to do all those things. When I like someone I do that.
I mean good lord, it’s 2018! Why should a guy be tiptoeing around a girl watching his every step and doing all the work on his own. Sometimes I feel like men are so scared of rejection because they always get told about those absurd high standards women have, that they don’t even dare to ask you out or talk to you. So us ladies should help them out and take matter into our own hands!
As a man seeing all the demands women have these days and the extreme effort it takes on only one side, my side, it really discourages me and makes it feel as if it's not worth all the trouble and stress i will have to go through. In the current dating scene IMO it's men having to do everything and be perfect and abide the 100000 rules women have set up and women can just receive, get free dinners etc. and if the guy does one wrong move they already got another guy lined up. Although there are exceptions but not many it feels like.
Spot on. Wish more girls had empathy and understanding for men like you do. Honestly thought i'd never see a comment like this coming from a girl.
wow you are the last great woman of times alive thankyou for being as you are you are awesome
KitetheTidecaller I’ve been seeing a lot of comments like yours down here and 100% do not agree. You don’t need to be perfect or go through any trouble or stress, in my experience if that’s you your doing something wrong. The harder you try the harder it’s going to be to actually get a girl. It’s like trying to swim up stream, good fucking luck. Idk why all guys think this is such a hard and complex thing cuhz it isn’t. Just be real, straight up, and stop thinking so goddamn hard.
Help us out? We don't need help, maybe help yourselves
guy - can’t make a decision, seen as weak....
guy - makes a decision, seen as controlling
no wonder men are confused......all you women just got to get off your high horses, cause you aren’t too much better yourselves
harsh but true...
this
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H3AVYHAUL3R holy shit you right my dude
They pick em out now days. They dont care about the future.
Don’t put a woman on a pedestal, just admire them on their high horse
Never ask a fish how to hook other fishes. Ask a fisherman how to do it.
Ya ya...same old motherfuckin stupid ass meme everywhere posted by a bunch of fools ..you think this is even funny??
the gradient haha
😂😂😂
Zack Sim I asked a fish to show me how to get other. Fishes , but guess what I did get a fish
No ask a cook
never believe any female that tells you she’s a bad texter. there’s no such thing. if a female is interested she will always reply no matter how busy she may be!
pixel strength cause she has a life apart from your conversation? I sometimes go hours between messages with the guy I’m seeing. if you can’t take a 10-20 min gap you have some issues
Rule one bitches ALWAYS have their phone in they hand if she don't text back she's fuckin someone else
Rule two she never yours it's just your turn
Only ones that are 'bad texters' are the ones with 100s of male options a finger tip away on social media..
Listen, everybody what RainbowAnimeCupcake is giving you. This information handed over to you on a silver platter. "cause she has a life apart from your conversation? I sometimes go hours between messages with the guy I’m seeing. if you can’t take a 10-20 min gap you have some issues" - Here she is talking about someone she is actually seeing. So as you can see even though the girl doesn´t reply right away, doesn´t mean you have to panic and assume she fucking someone else or that she isn´t your like someone commented.. Its simple it just means that she is not clingy and has a life.
Your right
From a guy point of view, the reason for the "Let's hang out sometime" text is because we don't want to see too forceful. We are leaving it in your decision if you want to see us again or not. Nothing really to do with not being able to make a decision. We don't know your boundaries or limits to any relationship, so we try to take the safest route possible so we don't seem forceful or creepy.
"would you like to get together for a drink Friday night?" Response is either going to be yes, or I can't Friday, but I'm free on such and such day... or, I'm busy that night (
So a man has to make all this effort while girl does nothing but dress up?
Haha, talk about equality.
I feel that on a spiritual level
You are the man, u sound like a pussy. She's a lady not another man, do it urself
Be the man for once in your life. It might just get you laid.... maybe
who cares about gender roles they are old and stupid.
It takes 4hrs for her to look hot😁
"Where have all the good men gone???" 'I dint like their txt style'.
MGTOWGreatestHits🤣🤣🤣
Lol
😂😂😂😂😂
to right man. and the whole emoji thing. men don't do that thing in a text. that is a woman thing. like omg look at this emoji it's so cute. and the man is like, send me another fucking emoji and i will burn down your house.
@@demonpride1975 My ex and I use to exchange emojis quite often. Oh well. I was just playing along.
Step 1: don’t listen to a girl about how to get a date.
Step 2: I have no idea what to do next
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My thoughts there lol
Young women live by text. They will not talk to you on the phone, so forget it. Don't waste time on the text game. If they need a week of texting forget them and move on.
agreed. don't play that game. when you meet a girl and get her number, by the third text you send you should be suggesting a concrete plan, if she hems and haws about it, or worse, makes it and flakes on short notice with a flimsy excuse, just move on in 90% of the cases. sure, occasionally the reasons are valid and the connection is strong, but usually you are dealing with an immature girl, or one with a boyfriend that just likes guys to boost her ego.
This is the new age bro
Wifredo El Velloso yep, but women haven't changed bro. They will jerk you around the old fashioned way or with the new way of texting. You'll figure that out if you play the txt game.
John Boulding yeah, i wanna say that text game is a new useful element that can helps. I only use that for basic conversation, the clue are the dates. At that moment all "old fashioned" elements are patents hahahahaha
John Boulding: better yet, meet women, have great conversations, then, leave her with yr number. Those women who don't call within a certain time, say a month, forget them.
When two persons like each others, they are on the same wave length, they will make everything possible to see each others and spend time together. True advice that is still reliable in 2018, keep things simple. 😎
Marian Kotúč clueless men that destroy their chance->> story of my life 😉. Some men also rush in and some stay cripple or clueless as you said, We should know when we have to make the right move. By the way, do you know what is the best part of a relationship?
Exactly. Women most of the time will not be interested. She will mostly be interested on the guy she can't get
Marian Kotúč Hello my Slovak fellow
@@tonizukaka7263 Two people just liking eachother isn't enough. There's alot more to it than that.
@Marian Kotúč How do they destroy their chances?
I love how they make it look like it's so f*cking easy.
That's cause all they have to do is reject all the "weak & unconfident" men who don't follow these set of rules, and they get to choose from all the confident men that follow these methods.
No
It is ez
If you put that much effort into texting just to make a girl happy then you're wasting your time.
Lord Hades once you know what to do, it's effortless
It’s some
Genuine shit
@marchie monroe it shouldn't be a set rule on how to do things. that's fucking jumping through hoops. and that is fucking lame.
There is no rules for texting to a girl. ..if a girl like a guy she will get laugh when you do boring jokes to her. ...
mukta rain exactly
mukta rain facts ...THE MAIN THING EVERYBODY IS MISSING IS NATURAL CHEMISTRY...
EVERY MAN IS A TYPE ..SHE MIGHT JUST LIKE UR TYPE ..
STOP TRYING TO FISRT FIGUER OUT HER TYPE AND THEN FAKING LIKE UR HER TYPE ...
THESE CRAZY PEOPLE ARE TEACHING U NOT TO BE UR SELF ..
mukta rain truer words have never been spoken!
I once called this girl and never heard from her again. I think i scared her off. I definitely stood out
She might not like you but at least she’ll remember you
Any girl under 23/24 will think ur crazy if u call her b4 texting...
Don't call her or text her make her call you if she expects you to call or text & she don't call you or text you back she not the right girl for you. Communicate in person not by phones don't wait 4 one girl to call you who might be leading you on. If she cares about you she will call you if not she not worth your time & effort Communication in person works to talk to a girl to have a friendship grow & ask girl out on a date.
Facts
Text her your bank account, or someone else's that shows a 6 figure income... Or, just avoid western women in general..
lol
Dano smith so true
Dano smith you’re a boy
Dano smith hahaha ur do right😂if u want to use a girl for sex do that. If ur looking for a girl to marry and have kids with, then good luck and just wait till a non goldigger with a good heart comes ur way☺️terrible these days find a girl with a stereotypical japanese inner beauty (doesnt have to be a japanese woman) but those characteristics
😁😁😁
After watching this vid I have become more lost.
I give up mate. I just can't deal with all this shit
Anyone else think this is just entirely too much trouble with little to no return for the investment. I really hate what dating has turned into it's not even fun anymore.
Especially first dates. Men have to pay for everything just to get a chance to get to know a woman and the woman can literally eat for free and move on to the next moron willingly to pay for her food. Fuck that.
Women choose in western societies.
Listen to me brother my frustration is through the roof with this texting perfectly crap 2018 is horrid for trying to meet a girl
I have two words: TARGET DEMOGRAPHICS If you do not know who the most efficient women are for you to target based on WHO YOU ARE, then you are going to waste your time for YEARS! Not who you want, but who are most likely to be appealing to you and you to them. Without that work put in first you are doomed.
yes too many fucking games
Everything she talks about (telling men not to do) is what women actually do. Drunk text at 4am, check. Bad grammar and lots of emojis, check. Naked pics, check. Indirect non committal (so they can't get rejected) responses, check. I am just a guy, not a material item to be scrutinized over and picked apart piece by piece for all my faults. I do have faults because I am human, get over it or get out.
most woman would have gotten out then
they are 50 IQ living fleshlights, not really human by my sorts of standards
I haven’t met many girls like you described.. might be the ones your picking
In denial
@@andrewvanos2916 Ever guy overlooks a girls flaws when he tryna put his dick in her.
@@triplenaruto1 LMAO. How true and if anyone denies this...... they are liars or gay. (not that there is anything wrong with that)
The best thing is speak to them in person
U the type of gorl I don't talk to
If a woman wants you, she will stop at nothing, certainly not a bad text. Initiate and keep your text short (state day and time of date, don't ask) and only send one (two if she gave you a reason to send a second) - if response not adequate/ no response, forget about her and move on. If by some chance she does want you, you will certainly hear from her. This is just the way it is with women. PS As a Gen X man, I appreciate your calling out the power of a direct phone call - this used to / still does, take balls - texting is just too easy.
Agirl who texts first? IS THIS LALA LAND?!
Ramu's Badis fish the girl will make it easy for you if she thinks you are a man who gets other girls. Call her.
How to text:
Don't text.
Don't ever compliment, treat her like your girlfriend and be playful.
not true. you have to make a compliment but at the same time restrict it like "you have the best looking eyes of our class". You give her a compliment but at the same time you say "in our class" which leaves her wondering if she hasnt the best eyes of the school f.e.!
That's how you get friendzoned.
Keone Ramos 100% true
Jonathan Fisher that's no joke what I do"hey babe when we grabbing dinner"
Not exactly true... you just need to give the right kind of compliments and in the right way
Her eyebrows make my eyes go cross eyed😂😂😭😭🤦🏽♂️
Jesus Christ this dude complaining about her eyebrows need to get his hair cut. Bro the new jersey douchebag hairstyle isn't cool anymore.
Ur hair makes my hair itch bro😂
Thoooo
her entire face is not symmetrical at all and she thinks she is a 10 LOL
Forget about your comments but those five emojis will set her off forever!
*It’s true that building curiosity without coming off as too intense helps create a fun and flirty vibe, which leads to an easy yes for a date.*
lol I don’t want a girlfriend tho!
I just want a Lamborghini and hoes
Cloudy Johnny So you want to be Bruce Wayne in Batman Begins towards the middle of the movie. I know I wouldn't mind haha
Sounds about right
Same 💀🤷🏾♂️
wow this is so dumb...if she isnt attracted to you no magical texts will get you anywhere.
Kynnigos facts ..they are teaching mind control ..freaks phycos ..
The assumption of the video is that a woman has already given you her number, something she's not going to do unless she's at least somewhat attracted (unless you're so psycho she's afraid you'll kill her if you don't get the number, in which case she'll give you somebody else's number.)
tell me about it.
this guy isn't very good looking. but he text's like a king. bull fucking shit.
I have to agree with making a call rather than texting, that really works!
Only a millennial could describe receiving a phone call as nerve wrecking lmao
Blinky Pinky Inky and Clyde . I won't lie. I have ignored phone calls before because I simply was not in the mood for a real time conversation.
Sounds like you have a social phobia or anti social, however you say it in english. I am not attacking you, just stating the facts, based on this sentence "not in the mood for a real time conversation"
hahah, yeah you are right on the money with that one.
Ok boomer
240 thousand guys are taking lessons on how to be a shark from a penguin 😂😂😂🤦🏻♂️
Very true
yeah calling is the best one
what worked for me 100% of the time:
be yourself
if she doesnt likes it
dont be with her
A good amount of women are of low quality anyway, and do you a favor when they reject you.
But I don't want to act idiot anymore, I want girls to like me.
If she dosent 'tie her up'
Being yourself is good, but knowledge about the reality of things, makes the "being yourself" trait so much better.
Set up the date, get off the phone. That's all you need to do. If she gives you anything but a yes, then your wasting your time. Tell her to call you when she figures out her schedule.
NOW I SEE WHY THIS VIDEO IS RECOMMENDED TO ME😊
1:Energy
2:Beauty
3:Quality 4k
Your hair is unusually long and blond, but I have to say, you are an attractive man.
he really is!
hahaha
she kinda looks like Gollum's sister with those eyes and face shape....
LOL
LOL
How am I to take you for serious you keep giving random guys your number?
This is one of the few videos on the topic that's solid. I didn't think about girls sharing our texts with their friends... that's good to remember.
The internet and Kardashian's have brain washed our women.
ULTRA HAZE MAN 🤣
He’s Correct! 🤣
& what do they know about relationships when they can't stay loyal to there men for long enough but I agree with you Hurricane Haze.
This is all bs. This is for high schoolers.
You'd be surprised how true some of this holds in adult life. Not every time obviously, but this is a normie guide after all.
true. She is a total bitch tbh xD
real men propose as soon as he see her
Christopher Bachtiar High School Squad!!
Milenko Radmilovic your right.
Videos like this make me miss dating non-American women. Nothing is worse than entitlement.
Thanks for the comment!
You're welcome!
I can’t tell if that’s Matt or that woman responding back 😂
AMEN!!! What I've been saying. One American women told me it's the fault of American women's fathers. CAN YOU BELIEVE IT! Blaming the men again for them not wanting to be women.
Correct. Try messaging a girl from the US. Then try messaging a girl from South America. The difference is night and day.
One word sums up girls these days Superficial. Who the hell gets to know someone via text.
I'm only here to have a greater understanding of a few things for better conversation with my daughter.
Unhkl Flex You're a good father.
She said a unique compliment. Sure because we know what compliments you've heard before to know if ours will be unique or not.
Men don't care when you sneeze.
For some reason she cares.
This is immature.
Sneezing might not be cute but it's not a personality trait. No guy will judge a person for sneezing.
50 IQ living fleshlights with opinions
they should be property
My ex sneezed like donald the duck😑
@@obywan7901 loll
You don’t get the point, I will explain it to you and why this work 80 percent of the time. Les say you see this girl, If you want to text or call her and keep the conversation going is easy to pick a topic something about every day you see her something that could be funny or interesting dont do it everyday do it like every few days, but the first day should be a most, that way you have a topic to always talk to her and be more relax when you text or call. She will feel more into talking to you and maybe see you. It works 80 percent of the time. Also don’t text all day or call or day, You stand out because most man will say a lame whatsup?, how are you?, picture, or want to score quick.
Exactly 😅
never take a relationship advice from girls ,they com over too needy , do things by ur ways bcuz ur are yourself
You both kinda right. I'm an attractive Male. While a woman will settle with a less attractive man with more money. That does not stop her from attempting to sleep with attractive male counterparts. Dude paying her rent, buying her groceries, call her 24/7, take her out to eat. But she want my company. Suggesting we get hotel together after eating at McDonalds together.
Read the comments above in order and notice how they follow every troupe you see in movies ;)
It's all luck and skill. Ugly handsome rich poor tall short it's all the same of you're skilled and find the right girls.
G'luck
The attractive Male named "triplenaruto1" that takes all the sexy ladies to McDonald's. Not believable at all but I'll give you a solid C for effort kid 😂
I always call... 90% of the time they don't answer... 10% of those times, they call back... usually they text... annoying
If I can offer some advice; next time when they respond to a call with a text, respond in kind with a text requesting that they call you or you call them, as you would rather not speak through text.
@@FranG1214 Yea that will work
This video should be called “ways to take me out on a date”
Same shit, every girl is basically the same
Dont compliment. its a trap.
like that whole. do these jeans make my ass look big, i responded once with. no your ass makes the jeans look big, in fact i feel sorry for the jeans.
Today a girl came up to me to say hi to me !!!! Was so encouraging I didn’t have to nudge my finger other then to exchange my number
Texting a girl is like messing with a Formula 1 car you get one part wrong, your done
thats why you try to set up a date by the 2nd or 3rd text...minimize that shit..i could list about a dozen reasons why long, drawn out text conversations are just a bad idea. if a girl doesn't want to spend time with me (a public place is fine too) then she doesn't and all the bullshit texting in the world is not likely to change that. find out early i have to give the girl in this video a lot of credit for suggesting that..she is not typical..she is trying to empower men to some degree here.
1. Compliment her!
2. MAKE PLANS!
3. Call her!
If I try to make plans too early most girls get weird, like I’m coming on too hard.
So I have to spend two weeks texting for them to be comfortable to go on a date.
Yes I’m using tinder and bumble.
It’s all ridiculous logic at the end of the day
3 weeks for me Man
I hear harvard is offering a texting degree now a days, only a 3 year course and guaranteed to be a boss at texting by the end of the course :D
The worst thing I did was text her. Now today I have a date....... In court setting in front of a judge and my life is at the mercy of the firing squad.
Should have check the ID lol
I never comment on videos, however, your tip to call her worked. She had said she wanted to hang out Friday a couple days ago, no texting today I called, asked if she was good to go, sure why not. While out she had said she was glad I called because if I texted she would've came up with an excuse not to. So thank you very much!
Thats why it works, man. Great job!
Honestly you're not worth fighting for....so stop judging guys... but yeah tricks actually works...
Texting a girl these days is like winning the lottery.
Hey whats up wanna hang out? - Not special enough, she wont answer.
You tell her how beautiful she is. - Not special enough, you are the 100th guy who texted this to her today, no answer.
You tell her a joke. - Yeah cool dude, but not enough....
You text her an icebreaker text. - She read knows them all already, guess what? NO ANSWER
That's funny lmao 😂
Truth right here
actually asking them to "hang out sometime" is good as long as it is a little more specific like mentioning a specific activity. Afterwards you can find out the specific schedule
8:35 is what you're here for
THX man
BHen much obliged, partner
This only works if you are an attractive man. Look at her text examples, The headline says "Attractive man" she is already into him without him even going on the date. Moral of the story, if you are good looking you can get good looking girls. If you take a guy who is extremely confident and knows how to speak well but he doesn't look good. He will still get rejected because of his looks. This has been proven already.
Thats why you have to follow the 2 rules
1. Be attractive
2. Dont be unattractive
It’s an example...the channels name is “attractive man”. Smh.
Best thing to do be yourself be mysterious and honest...
My texting strategy.
Would you like to go fishing with me tonight? No? Blocked. I am not wasting any more of my life on girls who don’t fish.
Texting isn't my strong suit at all
basshole
Hell yeah
Apparently Don Lemon is on the prowl
You got futuristic eyes woman! 10,000 years from now people will look like you.
Nasim Delawar are you serious she is ugly .!!
Nasim Delawar They’re not that big it’s the make up they are above normal but they’re not as big as they look
I told a coworker who I like that she has a beautiful heart and I am happy to know her in the text . That really helped me as she really appreciated it. Calling her is the next step and she is right.
Drunk texts are the best 😊👌
M😀
Or while you're high on weed
they are man💥
Definitely NEVER COMPLEMENT A GIRL EARLY IN THE RELATIONSHIP ! Why should you stroke her ego !!
Tee totally agree! Every other guy is slobbering all over her. They don’t like it. Don’t compliment her yet.
Oh shit!!!!! Mind blown.. you'r a scholar
Negative, depends on the girl. A leo for example never gets her head blown up and takes u far
As a girl, I agree with all of her points. 👌
Unique compliment? Where'd you get this shit, Disney?
garbajful 👻
Honestly, I personally have learned to keep the compliments out, too. Actually complimenting a lot really just puts her on a pedestrial, which she doesn't need - She is already offered one all the time by her environment.
What is more useful is showing appreciation when she actually does something nice or is punctual and straightforward for instance. "Compliment" that, if you feel the need. She will like that you noticed the little things.
Mayhzon - great comment. i think a few compliments are a good idea when you are breaking the ice though, just to get their attention...indirect ones such as about her choices in clothing or taste in art, food, and the like - not about appearance if you can help it - pretty women do hear that too much for sure, from age 1, and if you call a 6 "pretty" she will know you are lying.
i'm still trying to figure out if comments like "great tits" or "nice ass" are constructive or not though...close call..what do you think?
I text my crush. she never reply
Deep.
Move on
Outta your leauge
I feel you bro
Then she isn't interested
your trick was really worked to me. she replied immediately when I complement her.
Trick number 1 for getting a girl on a date. BE GOOD LOOKING
lol you aint all that honey
@@TheDarkDragonDemon XD fr
Lol XD facts
Her: I sneezed like 20 times
Me as soon as she said that: *sneezes 3 times*
Sneezes really are contagious
I'm a 35 year old man I was talking to a girl that was 28 she literally did everything thing you said
It makes you wonder about this girl. If the last guy was so great, how come she’s still single? There’s something she’s not telling us. Did he fuck up, or is she high-maintenance-crazy?
Yeah you'll come to notice over time all this self proclaimed experts and even the ones with degrees in this shit are the last people you should take relationship advice from
Maybe he watched lord of the rings and realized she was Gollum.... Those eyes and face shape give it away....
So these are in essence instructions on how not to be yourself when courting a woman.
So why would men ever want relationships if they just the one upper of the other. I see why guys just pay for pussy. You tryna pretend you love a shallow person is insanity.
For losers, yes. You are exactly correct. But it should be permanent changes, not facades.
Hahaha if you want to be a playboy just dont be yourself. Of a datingcoach say this i should run and fast
Just be yourself and not care and realize you can easily get another girl and it becomes easy. Also the annoying ones go away faster and gives you less wasted time.
Facts
Personally, I don't chase. I let women chase me...just dress and groom really nice like the women do and throw on some expensive cologne and hit the streets...at this point, you won't have to make any moves, the women will do all the work. Now you can pick and choose only the women that you are attracted to and you don't have to waste your time sifting through all the madness.
My man. Pick up a bottle of Sauvage and look handsome. That's the key! Be yourself and be simple.
Alberto Encinas Truth
@The Guy that don't work anyway
The Guy bro even if your ugly confidence will have to be your way out. Like if your insecure if your looks a lot women will be turned off by that I'm not trying to put you down I'm honestly just trying to give a valid opinion that may or may not help you
Yeah maybe If your like 22 and a greek god, otherwise it's going to take more than just your image to get laid. Lol
what make me laugh is that girls put up a large list of rules to follow so that you may get her , you don't do this you don't do that , don't over text to her don't be sticky and on and on .... , but once you smatch it , they change completly , and they want to see you everytime , they would want to over text all the night they don't want you to have fun outside them (yeah when u have plan for the week end with ur friends , or play video game , or hanging out with ur mother every monday , yeah they wont admit it but they want all the focus on them) , when you smatch a girl she start to want you to do the overdose ... (with the only exeption for jealousy ) lol
Girls are way easier after closing. yes this is what i am talkin about , before the smatch , she's inavailable , after that she become your best follower , ok she try to convince that she's your best follower
not bad advice... the idea of calling rather than texting makes sense. thx
When sex bots roll out, no more of this bollocks.
Brfić Mclean saving up for sex bot
"Yea make plans. Be confident, do everything right" what does that really means. Yea calling them is a good technique but what's the background. Teach us the real techniques to get you real interested. Texting you in the phone means nothing. Aaaagh I guess I'm talking to the wrong pickup guru. Like the old saying. Never listen to the fish always listen to the fishermen.
every single video i watch from this channel basically brings more evidence to me that im never gonna get married (even tho i already knew that)
I feel like this was just the basic idea of texting. Really just for the guys who are doing things wrong. But very often you can do nothing fundamentally wrong and end up still getting flaked on or left on "read".
Once you learn the nature of women you will run the other way,Just like in this video its all about their needs ,Go Mgtow !!
Umit Altay 😂😂😂😂
yeah but their needs include physical affection too...and women can be a lot funner than "the guys". and also, any real woman is very giving and supportive.
the way i see it is that the big problem is that modern culture in many places allows women into their 20s and even 30s to remain children.. historically people were pretty much grown up in the their mid-late teens, but with public education, extended university life for many, over-protective parents, the rise of a very isolating suburban lifestyle, and other reasons, a lot of people just stay children for a good part of their lives.
children in adult bodies are a big hazard of modern life, but stil, keep your head up and dont be so negative...there are some good and real women around.
B. Alvn that's brilliantly said. Nothing worse than seeing a woman 30+ talk like she's always 16 years old. Yet they're quick to state how they want a "Real Man" lol. Great observation, and well spoken.
Wow. Who knew? I do almost all the good things.
she likes me or she doesn't, not kissing her ass or pretending I am something I'm not.....
Right on Barry A.
When a fish teaches you how to fish.
Meaningless texts work so well. Never be so clear in your tests to them. Keep their minds craving for what you really wanted to say. Be unpredictable. start a phrase and dont complete it and you see her coming for the details.... They like tricks which the bad guys have best. That's why they get them. Be tricky and smart .... Girls like bad guys and do not encourage guys that treat them soo soo good. Give them their love and make sure she sees the risk of loosing your love. Only then will you get the best from her. Don't be just too nice without principles. Let her know you can do without her. Sad but the truth.
Every person is different. If a girl tells me we should hand out sometime..... that's a green light for me to ask her out for specific plans. No busy bars...ewwww. daytime wine at the riverside park in philly or a bike ride. And yes.....I'm 37.
Cutest sneeze lol. WTH
Chris Charles why what did she do wrong
Chris Charles if you don’t like her attitude you still don’t have to call her a asshole show her some respect
Chris Charles there is nothing wrong with milk😏
Chris Charles fruitcake?? You are 100% gay
There is nothing wrong with being gay btw
They always said never ask a fish how to catch a fish
Take this shit for what its worth gentlemen. This is her point of view. She makes valid points and other points that I don't share. She's spot on about some shit and other shit it's not so black and white.
Thanks, Mikus!
This actually really helped
no it didn't
I prefer face to face
It was a Daft Punk reference as well...
This was theee only helpful video on the internet. Thank you😊
Glad it was helpful!