How to make him THINK about me? THE TRUTH...

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  • @rebeccajones8628
    @rebeccajones8628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    You need to ignore him like Alex said. I did this for 3 weeks and he contacted me. Asked to see me please. So I did what Alex said: work on myself (great hair, clothes, happy). All guys were staring at me and trying to meet me in front of him. He became so jealous and into me. Thank you Alex. You are so right. I HAVE THE POWER. Do not text him first.....

  • @audreyhempburn5306
    @audreyhempburn5306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So take him off the pedestal you put him under and get your power back. Great advice!

  • @yenb4947
    @yenb4947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    "love needs no words "thats my bf lines everytime i say "i love u " to him..im always expecting from him to say "i love u "til one day i stop saying that and started to focus into othet things.. And u know what happened? He asked me this"do u love me? I miss u i miss us..pls dont change and hug me but i kept smiling that time i stay positive.. I can say this is very effective. Now we are married. My husband is from Australia and I am from Philippines.
    Lets spread the love

  • @sabiabasaiawmoit6676
    @sabiabasaiawmoit6676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Whenever i watch ur video 😂 i always forgot my bf....😂😂😂😂

  • @ak-47intelligence75
    @ak-47intelligence75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Hot and cold / emotionally unavailable all mean HE DOESNT WANT YOU !
    It's really that simple.

    • @mariade1473
      @mariade1473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      exactly, you can play with someone's fear of abandonment, which is what the so called dating coaches recommend in fact but it only works for sick, insecure people. normal and interessted guy never gets hot and cold/emotionally unavailable

  • @mihaelamihaela7460
    @mihaelamihaela7460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Stop wanting ppl that do not put effort on keeping you in their life ( i been in a shit relationship for so many years just because i was crazy for that person , i did manage to keep him in my life for so ling but never truly happy actually this became an abusive relationship) there are other million ppl that for sure want you more than you ever think

  • @katejuricak7941
    @katejuricak7941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    After 29 years of confused relationships, you’ve managed to open my mind and make relationships more understood.
    Thank you ❤️

  • @springfauna1465
    @springfauna1465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hi Alex 🙂 Merci beaucoup for all the great advice you give us!! My mom told me years ago that girls don't chase boys and I still believe it's true. No matter what age we are, men pursue, women set the pace. Love you mon brére! Stay cool 😊

  • @SL-tc6sd
    @SL-tc6sd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I really love your energy and enthusiasm when you talk about exactly what I needed to hear. Sometimes we can't help liking someone even though we know very well that person isn't right for us.

    • @carla89cc
      @carla89cc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's true.. but then its not fulfilling to us

  • @katrinarazberryandthepassi3580
    @katrinarazberryandthepassi3580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can't be nice to men anymore. The level of Immaturity is unreal. I refuse to teach someone else's Son how to treat me. They either have it or they don't. No 3 strikes any longer. DO YOU LADIES! Stop settling for less just to be in a relationship. You deserve the Best!

  • @sandybratt1905
    @sandybratt1905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    After 3 weeks ignoring me I will leave him definitely haha

    • @mritam123
      @mritam123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same here.. I m at day 17. Few more days and also, I have been observing he is pursuing other girls, so well yeah.. his test is on.

    • @elissaviola9404
      @elissaviola9404 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly 😇

  • @Vibenuggets
    @Vibenuggets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    How many are here after being ghosted😂🤣? This men will kill me😂🤣

    • @suebennister1969
      @suebennister1969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @fiae2897
      @fiae2897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Happened 2 times to me, never again will I do online dating especially long distance.
      Horrible experience.

    • @kirsten1007
      @kirsten1007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@fiae2897 Don't do long distance ever UNLESS he is super rich

    • @eagletmars
      @eagletmars 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same with me. 2 men within a month time span. This ghosting thing is really getting me in my feels. Not sure I want to date any time soon. But so glad to know I am not alone in being ghosted. It hurts🤕

    • @jocelynlladones8765
      @jocelynlladones8765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's gave a headache tho😕

  • @explorewitheksha
    @explorewitheksha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are amazing Alex..I will pray to God to bless you and always keep you happy and healthy

  • @mariceltorres8131
    @mariceltorres8131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tnx a lot Alex.. I just did what you said.. I turned off my fon for 3 days..and u know what??? When I opened my fon.. He was shouting at me... Asking me where I have been?? Why did I turned off my fon?? Omg I was like in cloud 9 that moment... Hahaa.. Thnk u so much coach Alex..

  • @user-tr4zv9ct2n
    @user-tr4zv9ct2n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girls !!! Remember You’re the price!!! 👑
    Thanks Alex for this Video !!!

  • @annemann9134
    @annemann9134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Know this...if he does not pursue...he did not care in the first place... And there are just way too many wonderful things to go see without waiting on them.

  • @deliavitale3643
    @deliavitale3643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    USA (Just found you and will continue to watch and yes, I have put your advice to actual use! In fact I have watched a few of your videos and your advice has already worked for me! I forced myself to NOT call him and he’s calling me now! Thank you and G-d bless you!!!)

  • @joonambeauty3161
    @joonambeauty3161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely love how passionate you are about your work, I listen to you a while ago but I think I was not in the correct relationship and I was also doing a lot of things wrong that ended up really in a negative place but this time around I want to listen and really pick apart what you were saying to reattract the man that I really want. Once again thank you for all the work that you do it’s so refreshing to see someone so passionate about helping women

  • @michellegale7137
    @michellegale7137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I DONT MEAN ANY DISRESPECT.. I JUST SO APPRECIATE YOUR HELP!!

  • @stuartfry4528
    @stuartfry4528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Playfulness is vital to a good relationship

    • @dianneciresi6324
      @dianneciresi6324 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah. I didn't know to do that with my previous dater. Was too serious/anxious that it drove him away to other available women cause I came out of a previous 25 yr abusive toxic relationship & didn't n know any better. Oh well..

  • @christelcoffee9397
    @christelcoffee9397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    BUT, WHEN THE PERSON IS DONE WITH YOU IN THEIR HEART. THEY'RE DONE!

  • @simpleminatv3004
    @simpleminatv3004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love the way you explain every point, it’s very clear

  • @lorettawilson9160
    @lorettawilson9160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YOU ARE GREAT AT WHAT YOU DO ALEX .HELPING US WOMEN UNDERSTAND THE MISTAKES THAT WE ARE MAKING THANKS SOO MUCH ALEX YOU ARE THE BEST.😘

  • @selamawitberhe4283
    @selamawitberhe4283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love your advice. God bless you with more wisdom and knowledge

  • @karenbishop895
    @karenbishop895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Affirmations: the word for to repeat the positive empowering statements. ❤️

  • @elisabethshaefer8849
    @elisabethshaefer8849 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ALEX I AM EXHAUSTED BUT WHEN I OPEN THE COMPUTER AND SEE YOUR VIDEO LISTEN TO U U ARE SUCH A GREAT ENERGY AND MAKE ME SMILE BESIDE U DO FIVE GOOD ADVICES MERCI BISES

  • @RosieMewan-fg5it
    @RosieMewan-fg5it 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alex you are so wonderful person to know Always watching your video from Png ❤❤

  • @familypfya
    @familypfya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are amazing! I wish you were my best friend!

  • @munecalinda1709
    @munecalinda1709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Always a pleasure to hear your advices, in French or in English :)

  • @mrskargbo001
    @mrskargbo001 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching from Sierra Leone, West Africa love you Alex

  • @aliceglamis
    @aliceglamis หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alex !!! Merci❤ beacoup for such valuables and gems❤❤

  • @janesainko7704
    @janesainko7704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much Alex, you are changing my love life.....

  • @changewemu
    @changewemu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am 100 % positive u made me like this thanks im from Sri Lanka

  • @queendija4249
    @queendija4249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Mr Alex your advices have already change my life style and my relationship status trust me🤗Awesome thanks again to you sir🙏🤗😍😄😄👍👍

  • @miriamrussell-brett6439
    @miriamrussell-brett6439 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very good advice Alex...Meci. South Africa...

  • @michellegale7137
    @michellegale7137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    WE HAVE TO LOVE OURSELVES, MEN CAN READ THE VIBES FROM THERE PARTNER WHEN SHE DOESNT HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE OR DOESNT LIKE HERSELF!!

  • @fatimaazzahra6672
    @fatimaazzahra6672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For me, ( that can't speak english so good...) Alex converation even easier than an American or Britshman. I understand what he talked about without text....
    For the beggining i came to this channel coz i was looking for the solution of ,"his suddently quiet" but.... now... i dont care at all.... Now i focuss to learn English and how to understand by listenning of Alex talks...

  • @MJ-tt2gz
    @MJ-tt2gz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This hit home & is just what I needed to hear. Thank you for making this video

  • @inspirationsbyheather4319
    @inspirationsbyheather4319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is exactly what I needed to hear

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers ปีที่แล้ว +2

    *Use these insights as a guide, but ultimately, focus on building a connection that aligns with your own values and brings genuine happiness and fulfillment to both partners. Prioritize nurturing the emotional bond and showing genuine care and interest in each other's lives.*

  • @lisachilman6868
    @lisachilman6868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Alex! This is the best video of yours!!
    I love a French man at my Cafe ....thank God I found your video!! 😆💖
    Liza x

  • @lanikalapa1510
    @lanikalapa1510 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn Yu a so 🔥Alex! Yu give me a life line to back to my game again!!!! Yu a so much help every time I’m watch your live! Its hit me to the point that ive been waiting for!!! Thank yu thank!!! ❤️❤️kingdom from Tongan🇹🇴🇹🇴Island 🌺

  • @naniabdullah9459
    @naniabdullah9459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Alex. I like hear your love advice TV. Me from Ethiopia

  • @mitziacosta9642
    @mitziacosta9642 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes im doing your advise now..hope it will work..that he will miss me every seconds of his life..im from the phillippines..

  • @nikkigoh9004
    @nikkigoh9004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love ❤️ & Big support from Singapore 🇸🇬

  • @yanabasri1602
    @yanabasri1602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your advise is work ... Thank you Alex 👍😀

  • @mantoasephiri4792
    @mantoasephiri4792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Alex. That's what I'm doing now. Being distance

  • @lanikalapa1510
    @lanikalapa1510 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t stop loving watching your show! Yu a alsome👍only ive start watch your show almost two weeks now an yu wer’e burn it🔥🔥❤️❤️it’s a good lesson to us women how valuable we a!

  • @nikitag421
    @nikitag421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alex you sounding sooooo Cuuuuuteeeee in the video. I enjoyed it thoroughly!!!!

  • @TarotFaithKeeper
    @TarotFaithKeeper 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Alex, I watched a few of your videos to see WHAT it was I was doing right....so even though I REALLY do not need your help, you are handsome and fun to watch and validate my methods. Thank you. I'm old ish 60 (young at heart) So I have lived and learned. Everyone should communicate openly and honestly and that will create harmonious relationship built on trust and respect.💖💖💖⭐Love and Light

  • @grasgi1grasgi164
    @grasgi1grasgi164 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Alex it’s Pina from Canada your great !!!!

  • @push_freebird6693
    @push_freebird6693 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes i feel the same if i dnr communicate i may loose...

  • @rheasapla2860
    @rheasapla2860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u so much alex... u wake me up from my nightmare(lovelife)

  • @andreaamos2262
    @andreaamos2262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you
    Allowing into the mind of men to treat and protect the heart of us beautiful and worthy of love at the highest value.
    Our value is priceless, our Worth cost a life. Jesus.

  • @rebeccajones8628
    @rebeccajones8628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like the way you say boolsheit. Such a great coach!

  • @colleenmoore9920
    @colleenmoore9920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Never text a man too much. Difference between lover & friend....

    • @salamatuibrahim8318
      @salamatuibrahim8318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fact

    • @ETIENNE9833
      @ETIENNE9833 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Alex ! Very educational. Love you, love your work
      Thanks a million

  • @lianitaaziska3728
    @lianitaaziska3728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree with u Alex..
    Salam from Indonesia 🙋

  • @christianaanaman7321
    @christianaanaman7321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Like the advice

  • @fantajabbi6928
    @fantajabbi6928 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks you very much I really follow your advice and I’m seeing the result ❤

  • @josieburila6381
    @josieburila6381 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good afternoon I'm from phillipines. First time I saw you sir. You're amazing

  • @michellegale7137
    @michellegale7137 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    AND ALWAYS CONTINUE DOING YOUR OWN THING.. HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE KEEP DOING WHAT YOU WERE BEFORE YOU MET..DONT GIVE UP GOING OUT AND DOING YOUR OWN THINGS..MAKE HIM MISS YOU A LITTLE BIT..AND KEEP HIM WONDERING WHAT UR UP TO,;))))

  • @daras1344
    @daras1344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your positivity and sweetness, thank you for your advice ❤️🙏🏼

  • @sandybratt1905
    @sandybratt1905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Guys are crazy sometimes the more you're pulling away from them they're chasing you 😂

  • @scarlettbarsky6069
    @scarlettbarsky6069 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening from Palm Beach Florida

  • @Mimi-ni3il
    @Mimi-ni3il 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Alex I always love your content. It’s hard to find creative ways to sell my life during covid with the long distance ex I have been trying to re attract! I bought myself a fun car and took a road trip to a place he told me about. He called a few weeks later and I told him about it. He said wow you are really re inventing yourself! Then he disappeared for three weeks. I waited and contacted him on Election Day. He replied right away but I have not heard from him since. He’s not calling as much and I think it’s because last time he called I suggested we have a fun phone date. I guess it was leading.

    • @therealyou5824
      @therealyou5824 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please update me Mimi, cos I'm in a similar situation. Did you reach out again, or did he? What happened

    • @Ra-rg1vk
      @Ra-rg1vk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When a guy is off with you he's on somewhere else

  • @furahayamoyo9193
    @furahayamoyo9193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Alex, I missed your live broadcast but I still enjoyed watching it now. Your advice is always on point and straight forward. I have a topic suggestion for your next live, please talk about when you are too emotionally attached to a guy/woman to the point it's affecting your daily life and the relationship, and how to deal with it in a positive way.
    Thank you 🖤

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your support and suggestion!

    • @furahayamoyo9193
      @furahayamoyo9193 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert You are welcome, and thank you for being such a beautiful, and caring soul!

  • @joyjoy-th7yg
    @joyjoy-th7yg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey ALEX am new here from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪 I like your video so much god bless you for your advice

  • @nicolenicole4372
    @nicolenicole4372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Merci pour tout les conseilles 🙏🏻

  • @louiselewis726
    @louiselewis726 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Alex love everything you say and do

  • @indraparagsingh414
    @indraparagsingh414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi I'm from Trinidad and l always take your advice thank you

  • @ethelynnefigueroa5455
    @ethelynnefigueroa5455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If i dont go first....he ignore....so bad
    Help pls...from 🇵🇭

    • @mizzynoufquiambao9034
      @mizzynoufquiambao9034 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Akex good am whatwill I do he has another woman he is now there but Iwant him to stay with me not alwalys go there

  • @devakiburman4039
    @devakiburman4039 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your the sweetest 💗I like ur voice n the way u explain the facts

  • @rashmishrivastav6311
    @rashmishrivastav6311 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you Alex

  • @marielim8224
    @marielim8224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your program always so intresting..

  • @lizcasper7857
    @lizcasper7857 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if he didn’t put me on a pedestal and showed interest in me to begin with (as I did him)
    He hasn’t pulled away (we’ve still gotten a little closer)
    But he still won’t commit and isn’t really, fully super into me as I’d like him to be.
    He’s just out of a stressful divorce, so I’ve been patient because I don’t want to loose him, think there’s potential.
    It’s just the opposite as you normally describe dynamic women are in at first and how it ends up (them pulling away)
    Do the same rules still apply?
    I really want to be with him long term,
    Just want him as interested in me/that
    As I am. 10:52

  • @jamiilamuthoni8949
    @jamiilamuthoni8949 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm watching from Uganda thanks for making my evening

  • @marywestlake6273
    @marywestlake6273 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Alex you are so good at this!

  • @revathirajah5830
    @revathirajah5830 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s not a difficult..... it’s very simple to keep distance..... I’m always...... it’s very true to keep distance ......

  • @loridagjoni5258
    @loridagjoni5258 ปีที่แล้ว

    I reached him out after 4 weeks of no contact and he already has started to date someone else doesn’t work in anyone but the problem is that I’m really heart because we live in same building

  • @belindagoco5768
    @belindagoco5768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good morning! Thank you so much for your nice advice Alex . . . God bless

  • @gracebanda8779
    @gracebanda8779 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex you are amazing thanks for your wisdom grace from zambia

  • @rizescoton3112
    @rizescoton3112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Alex.. I really love your videos and advice.. I've learn a lot from you. It helps me to regain my confidence. More videos to come. God Bless you and to your program.

  • @jennytran5873
    @jennytran5873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My boyfriend wanted space but he is contacting me and texting me but he still doesn’t want a relationship with me so I’m not too sure how to get him to go back to the relationship I’m doing no contact with him and let him contact me but I don’t know if he still want me back what can I do to make him change his mind?

  • @ETIENNE9833
    @ETIENNE9833 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Alex! Very informative. Thanks a million
    Love your work, love you

  • @aG-qr1fw
    @aG-qr1fw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome video, will definitely be taking this advice :)

  • @evadulla8045
    @evadulla8045 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Alex I'm from Philippines
    Thank you for all your advice I even apply it to my friends...

  • @shamylove3667
    @shamylove3667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Mr Alex 🤝🤝u changed my life 🤝may God bless you 🙏🙏

  • @kupaw9243
    @kupaw9243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is that good to make relationships with messages and on Facebook

  • @mollykam8294
    @mollykam8294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Push and pull is same as dancing 💃 Tango 😊 great video...keep on...I am so appreciate for your advice ✌🏻I watched all videos..I am meeting some new friends are French, I look forward to learn more about French.

  • @redroxas856
    @redroxas856 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your not only handsome guy your also amazing coach😍💯

  • @bumblebee3538
    @bumblebee3538 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hello Alex God bless you more.

  • @kobusingemerab8603
    @kobusingemerab8603 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning you thanks you for teaching us I have learned alot from you.

  • @christianaretno2671
    @christianaretno2671 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Iam watching from, Indonesia....Love, love, love your advices, its mean a lots to me, thanks.

  • @tianiemitchell5692
    @tianiemitchell5692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex thank you Alex it does work

  • @misstali6303
    @misstali6303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you Alex. Thank you. This information is very helpful

  • @JustJhess1995
    @JustJhess1995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watching this right now as I am heartbroken. I found out he was lying to me. He is the type of guy that if you lied to him even the smallest lie in the world he will be mad at you like crazy and use his ethics and culture against you to make his point. He will make you feel that you've done something so wrong that he will humiliate and step on you over and over and use that one mistake of yours everytime we have an argument.
    I once lied to him about deleting a blurred photo in his phone. I was actually playing around that time. I said no I did not delete it, then I was laughing. This is the first time we met. He came to my country to visit me. And he got so mad that he wants to send me home. Shouting and just getting really pissed off. I didn't realise that he will be mad for such a small playful lie. After that he told me that he doesn't want me to lie even the whitest lie ever. And I found out tonight that he lied to me bigtime. It wasn't even the lie it's that feeling where you felt so betrayed and that he doesn't care about your feelings or thought. He asked me can I messaged this person? I said I prefer that you just don't because you know what that person has done to me and our relationship. And ge said okay I won't messaged then. But then he messaged this someone and he lied to me about it eventhough he knows that that person almost ruin our relationship. He chose to hurt my feelings than prove to me that my request of not being in contact with that person is more valuable and important. I feel so heartbroken knowing that the person you loved and cared so much has lied to you and chose to hurt me than sparing my feelings and think about our relationship. Again I felt like an option. I felt like my feelings doesn't matter and when I confronted him he tried to blame it on me like it was my fault he lied. He said if you just let me message this person I do not have to lie to you. But the thing is this person hurt me and almost ruin our relationship. I have the right to protect our relationship and if me feelings truly matters and he cared he doesn't even have to ask me permission. He should have known it wasn't a good idea that it was disrpectful for me. And I will feel hurt by even him having that thoughts in his mind.
    He just finished his chemotherapy and now he is well, I was there for him althrought out. I was away from my family for a year living in this foreign country to take care of him and be there for him through his tough times and yet this is what I get from all of that. His family left him while he was doing his chemotherapy because his split up with his ex wife didn't really went well. I was the only one who was there for him.
    He deleted his Facebook messenger and when I asked him to open it up I saw all this messages from different girls. And that person who hurt me messaged him as well. When I ask if I can see the message he refused and snatch his phone away and deleted the messages...
    Who wouldn't feel hurt ? Who wouldn't doubt ? Was i wrong for feeling this way ?? Don't I have the right to be hurt after what I saw ???
    This is our always issue and he refuse to not be in contact with his ex and girls he met on the dating site. Saying were just friends. He keeps throwing on the side make me feel that I dont matter to him. That even I cried a river he won't care. He always just let me comfort myself after a fight. Even it was his fault. He would accuse me of his doings.
    No woman deserves that. If you are not happy tell her. Hurt her with the truth and do not comfort her with a lie. Do not make her feel like she's worthless. No one deserve this pain. I been with the same kind of relationship twice. This one's worst. There much more awful things he has done to me but I stayed with him because I loved him and I care for him. I do not want him to be alone. I set my own feelings aside for our relationship because that's how much I cherish it. I cried forgave him for all the emotional abuse he has done to me and yet it wasn't enough.
    Maybe I gave it all that nothings left for me anymore same as my past relationship. Was engaged. He cheated so many times I took him back hoping he will change but eventhough we are engaged he still cheated and that was the end of us. I have trust issues and I am very insecure. I feel like I am not good enough that eventhough I give my all no man will appreciate me for who I am. I think I am too weak and I love too much. I keep forgetting about myself. He knew my past. I was very vulnerable to him. I told him everything. And he promised not to hurt me and he will love the way I deserved to be loved.
    For the second time I am heartbroken again. And to feel betrayed is the worst thing and I said to myself that it's enough one lie is enough. I do not have to go through the same shit again. I have to stop forgiving people who doesn't deserve it. I have to stop giving chances. I have to stop chasing love. I need to be patient and wait for the right person. I want to be loved. I deserve to be loved. I am not a bad person. I care about people and I may not be perfect but I always give my all to the man I love just because I don't want to regret. I want him to feel so loved and accepted. My sacrifice in this relationship is very unimaginable and in the end he betrayed me. He chose someone's feelings over mine. I had enough of men who takes women for granted. No woman is good to a man who never get satisfied of what he has. The more you love they pull away ... you don't show too much love they pull away as well and cheat. I am so broken-hearted and alone. No family no friends. Love is really testing me. I hope that I can get through this again and stand up again, be happy and be loved just the way I always wished. I hope someday I can smile again with a joy in my heart not worrying of it being broken again.
    Thanks for the video. For now nothing makes sense to me. I am too broken. I feel like I am floating in the air and my heart is being squeezed.
    I know I'm not only only person experiencing this pain right now. I hope we all heal and be happy again. Let's be strong and try our best to live our life to the fullest.

    • @robynheins5252
      @robynheins5252 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl it seems you are a co-dependant and attract narcistic men. The guy you describe sure sounds like one! If you are willing to look for information about narcisstic abuse and codependancy please I suggest you look up Dr Ramani in youtube. She is an expert on this subject. But you have to be honest with yourself and willing to change and face your own behaviour. If YOU change and start loving yourself the men you attract change to. I wish you all the best!

    • @fgt2078
      @fgt2078 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This person you are describing is a narcissist. Read as much as you can about it a run far away from this guy

    • @toscadonna
      @toscadonna 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He sounds like a psycho. He’s so mad at you for a little white lie, and that’s him projecting onto you. His entire life is probably a lie. Run.

    • @lubicacavojcova1868
      @lubicacavojcova1868 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is a narcist and manipulator. Be happy you are away from him ! Work on your self love girl and your value. Don’t ever allow a man treat you like this, you deserve a good man not a shit like him !!! Keep working on yourself and self love. ❤❤❤

  • @estherkudolo8357
    @estherkudolo8357 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Many thanks Alex,your videos are helping me alot .

  • @Jennifer83
    @Jennifer83 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband is going through a midlife crisis and is severely depressed for almost 3 years. I’m becoming hopeless that I can get my needs met in this marriage. What kind I do to relight the spark and inspire him to figure his way out of this crisis and depression? He ignores me a lot, including almost the entire month he was back in his country visiting his family.

  • @princesskath4435
    @princesskath4435 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much sir.Alex I try my best what u said even its a little bit difficult but I need it...godblessed u sir.

  • @julienne5313
    @julienne5313 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Alex sm julienne from Rwanda 🇷🇼