1. Be a challenge 2. Teasing 3. Talk to him like he is ur best friend 4. Specific compliment him that boost his ego 5. Avoidant sensational or independent
What compliment did I recently give him? In our protest in the city center on Human Rights Day, I told him, "I just love how you led us so strongly and shouted so courageously for our rights!" And I meant it from my heart!!
I told the guy we met 4 times, and it develops so slowly, he is not a man of action , that how I felt… and I asked him what is his expectation about our connection . And what he wrote:
It’s best for a man to say he is falling first, and it be accepted by the lady not met with haste agreement, but held with acceptance and a smile- see what him saying does to you internally and how it makes you feel. Carry yourself in a way that shows tenderness towards his attempt to express his fondness for you. Ladies- approach with more of a “that makes me feel good to hear ☺️” instead of a ‘jumping in the boat’ ALL INreaction because of excitement. We must keep our cool so he can be okay with his vulnerability and not retract after being vulnerable…. And if he says he loves you, which should be from him first, it’s okay to say it back as long as it isn’t being said with any further cognitions or fantasies about what it will now bring. Take it lightly and lovingly, which an air of reservation so he can be drawn in rather than pull away
Alex we had an argument he called on video off course he like calling me on video I was just looking at him cos I was upset he hung up the call and text me that he will not call me until after 4days 😂I told him to make it 10days he said cool. I didn’t call or text him the next days he started sending me nice pictures of him self and text me that he is sorry 😂 I told him until after 10days he said pls I love you I can’t handle 10days pls forgive me. He called on video this is a guy that accept 10days, ladies don’t pet this men so much they will come back to there sence 😂. You are the best Alex thanks for your good teachings ❤
You have to observe certain specific behaviors. An avoidant man will tend to shy away from emotional intimacy, avoid deep discussions, or walk away as soon as the relationship becomes serious. He may also be distant, not show his emotions, or have difficulty fully committing to the relationship. On the other hand, a sensational man will often be more expressive, enthusiastic and charismatic. He may be very present and show great interest at first, but this can sometimes be accompanied by inconsistency or a constant need for new experiences.
A specific compliment I would like to give a cute man of similar age: who shows his confidence- it is so impressive because he can approach a woman flawlessly, nicely, and attract her...wow, hott. His confidence is a 10/10.
Hello Alex, trust me you are the best. I did a tip that you thought us in one of your videos and it worked. Am in a distance relationship this guy is a complicated man 😂 when we stated he was stressing me this time around I challenge in in some things that he will come begging 😂
I would love to know how to keep the spice and right communication going in a relationship that has been in motion for over 30 years, since childhood but now work is long distance
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Hello. Thanks for sharing. The distance is only due to road work. The chemistry though is everything better than when first met. We grew up with each other and first loves....
Alex, thank you for all of your amazing tips and genuine advice. Your perspective from a man’s POV really helps too. I always look forward to your videos. Merci encore, j’apprécie vraiment😊
My ex husband, used to loved me very much; we were married for 33 years but he became very grumpy and I thought that it’s was okay to get divorced, now I regret that decision and I tried to get him back , he was talking good to me until I was begging, now he’s dating someone and doesn’t respond my messages, I’ve been in no contact for a month since I started listening to you and watching your videos, but I don’t know if is going to workout or if is too late for me😢 14:22
Me ex has not talk to me in month and half so I seen him and asked him how he was and he told me that it’s not the same as it was with me but he don’t know how to get out of the relationship he’s in I said sorry then I started talking about my seeing my grandkids
Yo Alex, we can tell a guy who's distant that 'we had such great connection I think we'll have fun together', aren't we supposed to just be distant like he's distant as well? I am a bit confused isn't this false hopes that by merely this teasing he will come back😮
Alex u knw lyk i met a guy online kinda long distance , he liked me& i too liked him ...later i come to know he had rebound relationship with me...he distanced himself after his ex girlfriend come back but we sharing friendship i want to know how to win him back
Hi Ranjani, I would love to help you try to qet him back but I would need to know a little more about what happened between you guys in order to give you advice on this. www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
I treated him like God.... N now attracted my breakup😢. Attracted the words like i am irritating person.... N very distrbing.... I regret y dint i came across this channel before😢
Alex if you dating some one in second date he said I'm poor you pay for coffee should I pay at the beginning or he should pay? He's the one asked me out
Once, I went on a date and the guy told me "let's by the wine by the bottle, it's cheaper than by the glass"...omg, never ever do this as a man. You don't want to feel like a cheap date. If the guy would have wanted to impress you, he would have borrowed money from his friend. As a side note, you should never date a poor guy anyway....
Alex, the part about your wife tricking you was a bit tough for me to process. 😅 As a coach, myself a bachelorette, I so don't want to trick a man. It would be a turnoff for me if I had to do that. Anyway, I loved the video! #5 was my favourite. It felt fun and alive! ✌️
I know this was a while ago, but it is him that changed the dynamics of your fun relationship by lying to you. It's up to him to repair that damage, not you. If his lie seriously betrayed your trust and he hasn't gone to great links to repair it, I would go on to someone else. Trying to be the same fun girl as before won't work since he'll take that as weakness or stupidity and lose feelings for you.
This is sooo ridiculous! I though I will learn something but this whole approach where the man is the price is just mad to start with. Without diminishing the content of the video- simply realize that the woman is the prize and have some dignity and don’t run behind men like horny desperate puppets- problem solved. I hope someone would start making videos on that topic
1. Be a challenge
2. Teasing
3. Talk to him like he is ur best friend
4. Specific compliment him that boost his ego
5. Avoidant sensational or independent
Thank you so much for watching!
There's so many independent/Avoidant men now. Its hard to find a man who isn't.
What compliment did I recently give him?
In our protest in the city center on Human Rights Day, I told him, "I just love how you led us so strongly and shouted so courageously for our rights!"
And I meant it from my heart!!
I love the way he speaks
Some great tips. 👍
Bottom line is honest communication between both and treating each other with respect.
Great!!! I'm learning alot thanks Alex.
Hi Alex I'm learning alot,,, watching from Zambia.
Thank you so much for your support!
Alex I wanna know it too
I love the fact that you are very hard working and always happy
He is making money coaching duds...why not?
I told the guy we met 4 times, and it develops so slowly, he is not a man of action , that how I felt… and I asked him what is his expectation about our connection . And what he wrote:
What did he write?
Fantastic 5 tools, going to use them tonite ! 😄
I love the way you keep your cool😎
Thsnk you Alex for yur Amazing advice its much appreciated......😅
Thank you so much for watching and for your support!
Alex gratitude..you are very encouraging.keep doing great job🎉
Thank you very much for your kind words and encouragement!
I love your love ❤️ coach very well too understand watching from Papua New guinea 🇵🇬 ❤
Thank you so much for watching and for your support! I appreciate you!
I would say, if you keep treating me so good, I could fall in love.
His challenge to make me fall.
Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video is able to help you!
Thanks for your great tips!
Thank you so much for watching!
Hi from Sydney. AUSTRALIA
Yes Alex, you are doing a great job of motivating and explaining this! 😃
Thank you so much Jeanne!
Bonjour Carrie from Oklahoma City!! Please share ,I love your accent!!
It’s best for a man to say he is falling first, and it be accepted by the lady not met with haste agreement, but held with acceptance and a smile- see what him saying does to you internally and how it makes you feel. Carry yourself in a way that shows tenderness towards his attempt to express his fondness for you.
Ladies- approach with more of a “that makes me feel good to hear ☺️” instead of a ‘jumping in the boat’ ALL INreaction because of excitement.
We must keep our cool so he can be okay with his vulnerability and not retract after being vulnerable….
And if he says he loves you, which should be from him first, it’s okay to say it back as long as it isn’t being said with any further cognitions or fantasies about what it will now bring. Take it lightly and lovingly, which an air of reservation so he can be drawn in rather than pull away
Thanks for providing this insight! Interesting to hear 🤗
Alex we had an argument he called on video off course he like calling me on video I was just looking at him cos I was upset he hung up the call and text me that he will not call me until after 4days 😂I told him to make it 10days he said cool. I didn’t call or text him the next days he started sending me nice pictures of him self and text me that he is sorry 😂 I told him until after 10days he said pls I love you I can’t handle 10days pls forgive me. He called on video this is a guy that accept 10days, ladies don’t pet this men so much they will come back to there sence 😂. You are the best Alex thanks for your good teachings ❤
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!
How do I know if a man is avoidant or sensational? Please Alex explain this.
You have to observe certain specific behaviors. An avoidant man will tend to shy away from emotional intimacy, avoid deep discussions, or walk away as soon as the relationship becomes serious. He may also be distant, not show his emotions, or have difficulty fully committing to the relationship. On the other hand, a sensational man will often be more expressive, enthusiastic and charismatic. He may be very present and show great interest at first, but this can sometimes be accompanied by inconsistency or a constant need for new experiences.
How to talk to avoidant man who always run away?
Thanks Alex, will practice
Great! Thanks for watching!
When i can get the 25 min long video? Thank you
Thanks Alex..I need all your help! Thank you!!
I'm always happy to help!
A specific compliment I would like to give a cute man of similar age: who shows his confidence- it is so impressive because he can approach a woman flawlessly, nicely, and attract her...wow, hott. His confidence is a 10/10.
Charisma can be a sign of Sociopathy or overt Narcissism
I all ways flow your advice i like your coaching but I need to meet you in your privet coach for me thanks alot
I live the way of your thinking , my compliment
Hello Alex, trust me you are the best. I did a tip that you thought us in one of your videos and it worked. Am in a distance relationship this guy is a complicated man 😂 when we stated he was stressing me this time around I challenge in in some things that he will come begging 😂
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!
Wow
Thank you
Respect
I would love to know!
thank you alex for a nice & wonderful advice godbless you always.
Thank you so much for your support!
yes
Thank you so much for watching!
I would love to know how to keep the spice and right communication going in a relationship that has been in motion for over 30 years, since childhood but now work is long distance
Thank you so much for watching! Are you in a long distance relationship with your partner?
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Hello. Thanks for sharing. The distance is only due to road work. The chemistry though is everything better than when first met. We grew up with each other and first loves....
This is helpful
Thank you so much for watching!
Your teasing us for moola Sweety.
The connection time was longer for me to capture from him than his connection to me which occurred faster
Alex, please tell me about the last psychological tool
Do you have any videos on the whole sensationalist vs avoidant thing?
Would like to know Alex. Please tell me
He is independent
I wanner know
Alex I want to know
I love this video
True
Alex, thank you for all of your amazing tips and genuine advice.
Your perspective from a man’s POV really helps too. I always look forward to your videos.
Merci encore, j’apprécie vraiment😊
Thank you so much for your support!
Big thanks
You're always welcome Charity!
This video dropped very timeously..😅 Thank you Alex... I'm in a position where I need this kind of guidance
You're always welcome Madawa!
My ex husband, used to loved me very much; we were married for 33 years but he became very grumpy and I thought that it’s was okay to get divorced, now I regret that decision and I tried to get him back , he was talking good to me until I was begging, now he’s dating someone and doesn’t respond my messages, I’ve been in no contact for a month since I started listening to you and watching your videos, but I don’t know if is going to workout or if is too late for me😢 14:22
Never beg. It's demeaning. I'd pray about this one. You know the Lord Jesus?
Great job
Thank you so much!
Perfect Alex
Thank you so much Pauline!
I want to know the tool please
What is last one??
Me ex has not talk to me in month and half so I seen him and asked him how he was and he told me that it’s not the same as it was with me but he don’t know how to get out of the relationship he’s in I said sorry then I started talking about my seeing my grandkids
Hi Alex
Can you do a program on Online dating - Dos and Don'ts
so what if the man has a bit from both typology… like in the beggining very into new sezation and after very independent …..?!!🤔🤔
I wanna know Alan, pls
Yo Alex, we can tell a guy who's distant that 'we had such great connection I think we'll have fun together', aren't we supposed to just be distant like he's distant as well? I am a bit confused isn't this false hopes that by merely this teasing he will come back😮
Alex u knw lyk i met a guy online kinda long distance , he liked me& i too liked him ...later i come to know he had rebound relationship with me...he distanced himself after his ex girlfriend come back but we sharing friendship i want to know how to win him back
Hi Ranjani,
I would love to help you try to qet him back but I would need to know a little more about what happened between you guys in order to give you advice on this.
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
He just wants sex and he already have sex so what the point. Just go a get a free man out there. thankx
Alex you are so on point thank you for identifying behaviors and personalities we maybe using and familiar too unknowingly.
But I have same goal with everyone. Men train bus to expect them to ghost come back ghost come back.
wawwww !!! i love this
Alax i wane know
Hi there! How can I help you?
Hope you are well! Alex!!!!!!!🙌🏻 Subtle signs he misses you without telling you? I would appreciate it! 💕🙏🏻
My first goal is to see if he is safe
Hi Alex..love from India ☺️
Thank you so much for your support!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert most welcome ❤️
I treated him like God.... N now attracted my breakup😢. Attracted the words like i am irritating person.... N very distrbing.... I regret y dint i came across this channel before😢
I still can't tell the difference of which one he is
Merci
So much fun
Who s coaching you....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you!
Alex if you dating some one in second date he said I'm poor you pay for coffee should I pay at the beginning or he should pay? He's the one asked me out
A gentleman is polite, courteous, provider and support towards his woman.
No way!
Run.
Once, I went on a date and the guy told me "let's by the wine by the bottle, it's cheaper than by the glass"...omg, never ever do this as a man. You don't want to feel like a cheap date. If the guy would have wanted to impress you, he would have borrowed money from his friend. As a side note, you should never date a poor guy anyway....
l really want to no
California
What is the tactic that your wife used?
Assuming you made all the mistakes a woman could possibly do and say, how can you repair or correct it? The guy just pulled away a week ago 😢😥
Alex, the part about your wife tricking you was a bit tough for me to process. 😅 As a coach, myself a bachelorette, I so don't want to trick a man. It would be a turnoff for me if I had to do that. Anyway, I loved the video! #5 was my favourite. It felt fun and alive! ✌️
I don't have a best friend😂
You shouldnt have to play games though.
What if he has lied to you and that fun “best friend” approach I once had with him is now cautious and insecure 😢 Now everything is weird
I know this was a while ago, but it is him that changed the dynamics of your fun relationship by lying to you. It's up to him to repair that damage, not you. If his lie seriously betrayed your trust and he hasn't gone to great links to repair it, I would go on to someone else. Trying to be the same fun girl as before won't work since he'll take that as weakness or stupidity and lose feelings for you.
Bounce. This is not the dude you are trying to invest your time in. Done and run. Next...
Knock the like button out 🤣!
Niceeeeeee 😘😘😘😘😘
How did your wife use teasing?
Rent-free please hehe
Thank you so much for watching!
I gotta know what is that she did she do
I love how sweet you are
Please...I want to know. 😹
I want to know what wife did???
What did your wife do, to get your attention and for you to realize she’s for you???
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❤️❤️❤️
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French man who is a sensationalist who says he is smart,loyal,sensual,kind,adventurous and asked if I am the same
This is sooo ridiculous! I though I will learn something but this whole approach where the man is the price is just mad to start with.
Without diminishing the content of the video- simply realize that the woman is the prize and have some dignity and don’t run behind men like horny desperate puppets- problem solved. I hope someone would start making videos on that topic
I want to hear your wife’s great idea
I wanna know your wife’s secret !!!
Haha thank you!
Gold 🪙
Great!!! I'm learning alot thanks Alex.