Me too, I lose interest. Its an incompatibility: Men gain interest in absence, women lose it. These days I am more concerned about my own interest and satisfaction than trying to gain his interest and affection. I grew up.
I do this naturally with guys I don't like and they always miss and chase me but I do the opposite with men I do like and they always run! Thanks for this video, it really solidified it for me
So true! 10 months no contact rule I let him feel that he wasn't good enough for me and he came back this Christmas but right now he needs to start from step 1 and he needs to earn it. Thanku Coaches!
I AM THE PRIZE!! I broke up with him first, 6 days later I asked to meet up again and talk things out. It was at that moment I thought we could try again. He straight up said no. I’m a highly sensitive person, and I was codependent in this relationship (big mistake). But I never lowered my value for him, my standards were always high and he knew it. Yet he still walked away. In the end I just hugged and said “this is for the best, and I won’t forget you”. 3 weeks passed. No sign of contact. And honestly I realized him coming back won’t change a thing. Won’t take away what he caused. This is for me. I’m moving on.
@Amanda1994 yea I agree, when you break up with someone, stick to it. Going back to them shows you have no self respect and they don't respect you. But when u walk away n won't look back, they will come back and respect you more
When i newly came in a relationship with a guy, he used to be so possessive, loving and caring and i took that for granted because i just came out of a toxic relationship and it was hard to love and this was completely my mistake i know but after sometime when i thought he is the one and i started to care for him, he pulled back and now i love him and he doesnt but i want him back what should i do now
Some guys are lame, they only value those who do not care about them. It makes me realized these guys are unappreciative and immature. A guy who truly loves you will accept both your perfection and flaws. Can you imagine marrying yourself to a man who do not give you value because you are a good woman and care for him a lot? That's stupid. Love should be both reciprocated between two couples and not one sided. Give and Take. To conclude, no need to manipulate nor waste time to immature guys. Find someone who do appreciate you and not take you for granted.
I am the prize. When I met my now-husband, there were 3 or 4 other men asking me out. He was just one of a number of options for me. Because I love my life. It’s fun to be me. And I love people. And they felt that. They felt my enthusiasm and excitement about the adventure of life itself. That’s what drew them in. I’d take dance classes with gal pals I would look forward to, go to lectures or readings I was interested in, travel to amazing places with my family of origin or for work… attend theater groups or join them, go to concerts… or volunteer in the bell choir at church - who does that? A bunch of blue hairs and a hot little number. So, when I ran into these fellows - it was just between adventures and I’d have refreshing things to say. I got to pick my husband out of a stable of good men. He stood out as great and had things I wanted more than anything: the kind of relationships with his family I wanted to create for mine. He wasn’t the richest competitor. Or the most adventurous. But he had my top priority and was most proud of his family. He showed them off and puffed up to share them with me. That was more endearing than riches or adventure ever would be - and I knew he’d value me if I joined his family. So, after a few years of getting to know him, we got married and started my dream family. The life I’d prayed for. Little did I know what challenges they would bring. Lol. I’d been through times I was like women this guy describes - kind of lonely. Maybe coming across as desperate… but I worked hard and was capable of learning so I got my dream job and it brought a lot of fulfillment and joy. When I spoke of the joys, and of people I admired, it attracted more of those into my life. I got the guy I wanted who wanted to step up for me. We have the family I prayed for. Love your life. Take adventures. Don’t let the guy be your only or most valuable adventure or priority in your life. Explore ways to deepen and strengthen other types of positive relationships in your life. I asked my grandma at lunch one day, who’d lived exactly the type of life I’d hope for, for advice about “how to get a guy to like me”. She’d gotten not just one dream man to spend a lifetime with, but after he widowed her, she got another! And spent almost 30 years enjoying her 2nd husband as much as she’d loved her life with her 1st for 45. She gave the best advice: “Don’t.” She said, bluntly. “Just enjoy your life and the right man will be attracted to that, one who’ll love that kind of life, too. The right guy will notice and won’t let the opportunity to meet or impress you pass him by.” That was that. Don’t worry about it. If he’s not beelining to my door, he’s not the right one for me. Because you want someone who’ll cherish you. Life is hard work enough, let alone bending over backwards to hook the kid of guy you might not be right for and feel miserable with him until divorce does you part. Get to living a life you sincerely enjoy and even in the lonely times, hold out for somebody who truly cherishes you - who wouldn’t forgive himself for letting the opportunity to meet you pass him up. That’s the lifetime you want, a lifetime you can cherish together. Not just a dandy trophy you had to flatten yourself to win over. Get involved in classes, activities or experiences you are interested in and feel positive about. That will attract men who want positive ones in theirs, and are willing to offer that for you, reciprocally. If you’re the hottest number in your life, he’ll have to compete with *you* just to be in it ;o) let alone an arm full of other suitors. One poor guy never even got another date. The schedule just didn’t open up whenever I was in town at home, he wasn’t. But he kept calling for 6 months trying to find times to get together. I genuinely liked him a lot, but it never would have worked out for us because we have different values, so I feel it’s for the best. Had I been entangled with him, I’d never have met the guy that made my dream come true. Hold out for the guy that musters the guts to come to you. He’ll have something to offer and ask if he can bring you something: a drink, a dinner date, a white water rafting trip? He’ll act like it’s a pleasure to share with you, because it will be. You won’t have to pull teeth. That diminishes you. If you hold out, you’ll stand out as having higher standards for yourself than other women, and that will be so attractive he’ll stand in line to compete. Keep your dance card full (even if it’s just dates with yourself for a spa day or evening out with friends) and only find a slot or few each month to fit him into your life… until he’s earned more access by attending to you with consideration for a few months at least. Then surprise him with tickets to your next adventure or invite to a family BBQ and make sure he feels cherished to be included in your life as he’s made you feel in his ;o)
I AM THE PRIZE , if he wants me then he's going to have to miss me and beg for me back with a big apology , high value love only. 3 months NC because he's taken me for granted 😁💕👑
Even if you go no contact doesn’t mean he will contact you. Even if you had some amazing memories! . A weak man will not appreciate a good woman no matter what she does… once you realise that you need to move on. No amount of no contact can change these type of men they like the control and usually move onto the next woman that will let them sleep with them with no strings attached. It is not until these men have hard lessons that they change and some never do. The problem with thinking that no contact will bring them back can bring a sense of false hope concentrate on yourself and the right person will come along …if they do truly love you and they have truly changed then perhaps but in the meantime don’t hold your breath 😅
Right again, Alex. Ladies, always be prepared to tell a badly-behaved man to take a long walk off a short pier. Then you can run after him alright-- and push him off.
He can miss you as much as possible, but if he doesn't act upon it and put in the proper effort, it's worthless. That's the real test. It's the tough times that test out the relationship and how they truly feel.
Since a couple months ago, I learned that my boyfriend is clueless about the dating process. I’m his first long-term relationship. He is a real gentleman who is happy to pay for the dates, but he seriously needs HELP with date ideas. So I will make suggestions and give him a choice: Take me here or take me there… we will both be happy because I’ll feel like a queen, and he won’t feel like an idiot 😂
This ghosting behavior & lack of interest you have shown me yesterday it means this is no going to work out between you and me. This is no the first time you have done this ghosting. It shows a lack of respect and consideration towards me . I’m looking for a serious meaningful relationship based on honesty ,authenticity, and respect . Your actions speak louder than words. Wish you the best
Ps. Broke up with him in March 1 with this message. And he never replied me back. Till today no news from him. But he still in my what’s app. We didn’t block each other.
I think this is great advice. After putting in too much effort in my relationship I’ve decided to take this advice. I’m now focusing solely on myself, if it doesn’t work then it only means he’s not the right guy for me and if it’s not him then I will find someone better.
It's the ego that kills the relationship..Me,I will tell him what I feel and what I want towards him and I will never chase!!Now,it's all up to him what they're gonna do about it😏
Thank you Alax I was with my exhusband for 20years he always busy me for long time in 2021 I said enough with evil man I'm so happy know with my three boys every woman should be stand for are self
ThanknyoubAlex for being there for us, pure souls whose only sin is loving someone more than ourselves.. not an obssessive love, but truely and sincerely love them. Thank You again.
Alex, you are so right. I don't contact my love and he gets nervous and asks me about 5 times what I have been doing and have I been talking to any other man. And he always tells me how much he misses me. And that he needs to know what I am doing when we are not together. Merry Christmas Alex.
You are absolutely right about everything. I spent years in my twenties chasing but when I stopped and worked on myself, I focused on my fitness and mental state. And would never initiate conversation first just because I was more focused on myself and my kid. That was when I met my husband.
We met on a chat group then lost contact..now hes so busy with church work ..but tonite ive learnt so much . Will keep you posted where our relationship goes thanks Coach
Covid has made things harder....and I have also made a mistake when it comes to love....us Italians are hopeless romantic''s and my man says he loves me but has no time to call or message me and now I found the answer of what I was doing wrong through your advice Alex
I like the way you talk the way you explain things and the way you give best of best advice 😘....can't stop watching your videos every single day when I wake up your amazing Alex!🥰
Thank You Very Much Alex! You're a great teacher for every wan. Look Alex! I'm a Princess & will remain my reign. I'm not chasing after no man, he chases me. I'm focusing on the positive, no one's perfect. We work on ourselves. No one can point fingers because 3 fingers point right back. You give out great strength Alex!
There’s someone who texted and called me every single day for 7 months and now he doesn’t text or call me for 3 days. So I went no contact… until he contact me first.
❤I love your channel even though am broken I strongly believe to heal and get back on track soon .thanks Mr Alex God bless u so much for being an angel to us 💋🔥
Thank you for being here Alex. I love your coaching style, I get so much out of your videos. I’m not a man, so I had no clue. Thanks to you, I’m learning. Love it!
Honestly! I stumbled into your channel. I am so happy I did. Your advice has given me a lot if food for thought. You ‘ve answered all my questions. Coming from Haitian American woman I like the French accent. 😊
Thank you Alex you have taught me so much!💗 My boyfriend works a lot & he really doesn't have much time for me... He also lives over 2 hours away. Last night I told him that I need someone that will carve out time for me bc I deserve the world. He texted back I know... Now I'm waiting to see if he puts in any effort. If not? I'm totally done with him.
Yes, you are right. Men these days want the woman to ask them out! Men should reach out to women to initiate for the first few times and then it can be reciprocal.
@lbrar7173 Gemini actually said to me after 4 dates, "you can ask me out too". Pisces ignored the red flags, he love-bombed, said all I wanted to hear.. 7 months in - felt like he needed a Mother @ 52, with 3 ex Baby Mamas. I know right, WTF was I thinking?? 😂😂 had been celibate 3 yrs before him.. After 14 mths no contact- he called twice this week. I didn't answer. Done w games. He lost a good one & needs to do his Shadow Work- if he ever will. Not my circus. Life's returned to normal 🙏 he'll be dealing w some Karmic & not learning his lesson. C'est La Vie🙄😁❣️
I AM THE PRIZE!! Just broken up after calling to see him few days ago, as I needed to collect my few belongings from his apartment, also needed to talk as things were left unsaid after 5 weeks apart. Him saying will be a long time before I enter a relationship again!
So TRue...ALEX!!!! I was just telling my best friend today alot of times in dating we shoot our ownselves in the foot but the way we behave with men and forget about how truely things make us feel, rather in beginning of a relationship in meeting or even in one that been in long time... smh..🙄🙄🙄🙄😐😐. We have to have more dignity for ourselves ladies and truely believe we are the prize and act like it, not in a stuck up princess way though.
Alex - can you maybe do a session on long distance relationships? Many of us are caught in these situations since the pandemic started and the challenges are completely different than if you are within touching distance from a man! Not possible to have dates! Or anything else... Also, time zones bring about more challenges! And if he is a very important and busy man it makes it more challenging! Please advise! Thank you for the wonderful channel!
Thank you Alex, I am so grateful for listening to you advice and now I do going to enjoy x-mas with the people who I really love ❤. Have a Happy Holidays to everyone
@@FrenchRelationshipExpertI guess i Discovered your channel some few months ago..but now I am hooked.. amongst all of your video's this took home for me..I jots down the key pointers every time i listened to your videos...like today I have learnt..that I should create reminisce-able moments every time we happen to be together.. keep teaching us Alex.. am your student who is ready and willing to learn ..much love from Nairobi Kenya East part of Africa...bisses!!
I’m so tired of these mind games, I miss those time where I like you , you like me, let’s make it work. The reason why many people are single is because when men realized women’s value they are no longer interested
After 2 weeks of disappearance during which my friend did not even read my messages without having a problem with me, he has told his friend that he broke up with me!!! He didn’t even talk to myself about it!!! We had a very romantic relationship. I am shocked. And I think nothing can solve this, not even no contact. I must let go.
One in a trillion Alex☺️🥰😍 you definitely is so genuinely authentic. Veryyy nice looking on top of it, its sort of unbelievable. I know you do this because you actually really care. No other reason because I know it's not about money I feel your passion of this 😘😘😘
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank you handsome. I have not dated in 18 years and I turned 41 years old this month. It's terrifying to even think about stepping one toe out there so I can't express how much I appreciate this type of information. Happy Holidays to Your ultimately sexy self, and all of whom has your love including us ladies 😁🥳🥰🎄🎉💐💝💙💯😇😇
The less we , women, give the more we get provided we have made every minute with our loved once memorable beyond imagination.. Good Luck Everbody, Merry Christmas
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Guys miss us when they don't hear from us. Okaaaay but I don't miss him when I don't hear from him. I detach. My feelings go cold, then dead.
Big turn off, they are so dumb.
Big facts i be like okay I’m a dime what u want do another will period ghost me don’t text me back again I want reply
I noticed this when he start pulling away i lose interest pretty quick.
Facts ❤
Me too, I lose interest. Its an incompatibility: Men gain interest in absence, women lose it.
These days I am more concerned about my own interest and satisfaction than trying to gain his interest and affection. I grew up.
I do this naturally with guys I don't like and they always miss and chase me but I do the opposite with men I do like and they always run! Thanks for this video, it really solidified it for me
Thank you so much for the comment and for watching my video!
Ditto
I am the prize
I AM THE PRIZE ! I AM THE QUEEN. Ignore him a lot. Works like a charm. Men are so crazy this way.
So true! 10 months no contact rule I let him feel that he wasn't good enough for me and he came back this Christmas but right now he needs to start from step 1 and he needs to earn it. Thanku Coaches!
Love this!
How did you do it? I get a week in & answer for him or text him. I try again.. it last 2 weeks then I get weak😭 Omg
Bravo!
10 months no contact omg UR SO STRONG, the most ive done is 6 months and tbh we only spoke again cus i reached out to him.
Thanks for the good advice..you are so handsome to watch..i love your face and voice..haha
The moment that I realized that I'm getting ugly because of stress for over thinking I definitely 🏃
I AM THE PRIZE!!
I broke up with him first, 6 days later I asked to meet up again and talk things out. It was at that moment I thought we could try again. He straight up said no. I’m a highly sensitive person, and I was codependent in this relationship (big mistake). But I never lowered my value for him, my standards were always high and he knew it. Yet he still walked away. In the end I just hugged and said “this is for the best, and I won’t forget you”. 3 weeks passed. No sign of contact. And honestly I realized him coming back won’t change a thing. Won’t take away what he caused. This is for me. I’m moving on.
@Amanda1994 yea I agree, when you break up with someone, stick to it. Going back to them shows you have no self respect and they don't respect you. But when u walk away n won't look back, they will come back and respect you more
When i newly came in a relationship with a guy, he used to be so possessive, loving and caring and i took that for granted because i just came out of a toxic relationship and it was hard to love and this was completely my mistake i know but after sometime when i thought he is the one and i started to care for him, he pulled back and now i love him and he doesnt but i want him back what should i do now
“It’s not what Hollywood and Disney teach you, that’s why I am here” 😃 that was awesome!
Actually!!💯🎯❤
RAW🤣🤣💯
7 months no contact, he contacted me few days ago and said he thought about me and missed me so much. Baby steps again!
Some guys are lame, they only value those who do not care about them. It makes me realized these guys are unappreciative and immature. A guy who truly loves you will accept both your perfection and flaws. Can you imagine marrying yourself to a man who do not give you value because you are a good woman and care for him a lot? That's stupid. Love should be both reciprocated between two couples and not one sided. Give and Take.
To conclude, no need to manipulate nor waste time to immature guys. Find someone who do appreciate you and not take you for granted.
💯❣️
He pulled away because he is chasing others so...
Agree
Very well said
*Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.*
We can find better than this :-) Let's be positive
😂
Well said.
I disagree, not everyone is going to hurt you. No way…
I am the prize! 🏆
I am a challenge & will not initiate the first contact. Love it 🦋 🦋
I am the prize.
When I met my now-husband, there were 3 or 4 other men asking me out. He was just one of a number of options for me.
Because I love my life. It’s fun to be me. And I love people. And they felt that. They felt my enthusiasm and excitement about the adventure of life itself. That’s what drew them in.
I’d take dance classes with gal pals I would look forward to, go to lectures or readings I was interested in, travel to amazing places with my family of origin or for work… attend theater groups or join them, go to concerts… or volunteer in the bell choir at church - who does that? A bunch of blue hairs and a hot little number.
So, when I ran into these fellows - it was just between adventures and I’d have refreshing things to say.
I got to pick my husband out of a stable of good men. He stood out as great and had things I wanted more than anything: the kind of relationships with his family I wanted to create for mine.
He wasn’t the richest competitor. Or the most adventurous. But he had my top priority and was most proud of his family.
He showed them off and puffed up to share them with me. That was more endearing than riches or adventure ever would be - and I knew he’d value me if I joined his family.
So, after a few years of getting to know him, we got married and started my dream family. The life I’d prayed for.
Little did I know what challenges they would bring. Lol.
I’d been through times I was like women this guy describes - kind of lonely. Maybe coming across as desperate… but I worked hard and was capable of learning so I got my dream job and it brought a lot of fulfillment and joy. When I spoke of the joys, and of people I admired, it attracted more of those into my life.
I got the guy I wanted who wanted to step up for me. We have the family I prayed for.
Love your life. Take adventures. Don’t let the guy be your only or most valuable adventure or priority in your life.
Explore ways to deepen and strengthen other types of positive relationships in your life. I asked my grandma at lunch one day, who’d lived exactly the type of life I’d hope for, for advice about “how to get a guy to like me”. She’d gotten not just one dream man to spend a lifetime with, but after he widowed her, she got another! And spent almost 30 years enjoying her 2nd husband as much as she’d loved her life with her 1st for 45.
She gave the best advice: “Don’t.” She said, bluntly.
“Just enjoy your life and the right man will be attracted to that, one who’ll love that kind of life, too. The right guy will notice and won’t let the opportunity to meet or impress you pass him by.”
That was that. Don’t worry about it. If he’s not beelining to my door, he’s not the right one for me. Because you want someone who’ll cherish you. Life is hard work enough, let alone bending over backwards to hook the kid of guy you might not be right for and feel miserable with him until divorce does you part.
Get to living a life you sincerely enjoy and even in the lonely times, hold out for somebody who truly cherishes you - who wouldn’t forgive himself for letting the opportunity to meet you pass him up. That’s the lifetime you want, a lifetime you can cherish together. Not just a dandy trophy you had to flatten yourself to win over.
Get involved in classes, activities or experiences you are interested in and feel positive about. That will attract men who want positive ones in theirs, and are willing to offer that for you, reciprocally.
If you’re the hottest number in your life, he’ll have to compete with *you* just to be in it ;o) let alone an arm full of other suitors.
One poor guy never even got another date. The schedule just didn’t open up whenever I was in town at home, he wasn’t. But he kept calling for 6 months trying to find times to get together. I genuinely liked him a lot, but it never would have worked out for us because we have different values, so I feel it’s for the best. Had I been entangled with him, I’d never have met the guy that made my dream come true.
Hold out for the guy that musters the guts to come to you.
He’ll have something to offer and ask if he can bring you something: a drink, a dinner date, a white water rafting trip?
He’ll act like it’s a pleasure to share with you, because it will be. You won’t have to pull teeth. That diminishes you.
If you hold out, you’ll stand out as having higher standards for yourself than other women, and that will be so attractive he’ll stand in line to compete.
Keep your dance card full (even if it’s just dates with yourself for a spa day or evening out with friends) and only find a slot or few each month to fit him into your life… until he’s earned more access by attending to you with consideration for a few months at least.
Then surprise him with tickets to your next adventure or invite to a family BBQ and make sure he feels cherished to be included in your life as he’s made you feel in his ;o)
❤❤❤
Wow, what valuable advice! Thank you!!
Thank you! This is beautiful sound advice!❤
THANK YOU 🎉❤
Great points made.
SO VALUABLE
I AM THE PRIZE , if he wants me then he's going to have to miss me and beg for me back with a big apology , high value love only. 3 months NC because he's taken me for granted 😁💕👑
Even if you go no contact doesn’t mean he will contact you. Even if you had some amazing memories! . A weak man will not appreciate a good woman no matter what she does… once you realise that you need to move on.
No amount of no contact can change these type of men they like the control and usually move onto the next woman that will let them sleep with them with no strings attached.
It is not until these men have hard lessons that they change and some never do.
The problem with thinking that no contact will bring them back can bring a sense of false hope concentrate on yourself and the right person will come along …if they do truly love you and they have truly changed then perhaps but in the meantime don’t hold your breath 😅
you are describing a narcissist, he’s not talking about them 😂
Fabulous Comment.. exactly 💯 ❤
Very nice and different perspective. Somwtimes i get confused ab what some dating experts told us ...
It’s been over 2 weeks NC. I will not reach out, I will take this to my grave if I have to 😂
Ha me too
Hahaha me too
Just ignore him
On sweet baby Jesus😭
@@fionanoroozi6858this & disappearing is my favorite act
Right again, Alex. Ladies, always be prepared to tell a badly-behaved man to take a long walk off a short pier. Then you can run after him alright-- and push him off.
Love your statement 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol lol😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Distance or space make the mind wonder and that's why people miss each other.
28 years together ❤️ I am the prize
I love how he says " Izzz it what you want? Izzz it?!" 🤣 No Alex we don't want to suffer
He can miss you as much as possible, but if he doesn't act upon it and put in the proper effort, it's worthless. That's the real test. It's the tough times that test out the relationship and how they truly feel.
I am the prize and he definitely needs to work from scratch to get me again. ❤ I am the prize!
You are such a good man , standing on behalf of women , advocate women ‘s rights in a roman relationship
I'm always happy to help you guys out!
He loves confidence but it scares him and fear is stronger emotion than love . So ladies he will miss you, but eventually not reach to you
Thank you, the guy I was talking to literally giving me the exact hint you're telling us here. I need to be patient and just let
It be.☺️
Since a couple months ago, I learned that my boyfriend is clueless about the dating process. I’m his first long-term relationship. He is a real gentleman who is happy to pay for the dates, but he seriously needs HELP with date ideas. So I will make suggestions and give him a choice: Take me here or take me there… we will both be happy because I’ll feel like a queen, and he won’t feel like an idiot 😂
This ghosting behavior & lack of interest you have shown me yesterday it means this is no going to work out between you and me.
This is no the first time you have done this ghosting. It shows a lack of respect and consideration towards me .
I’m looking for a serious meaningful relationship based on honesty ,authenticity, and respect .
Your actions speak louder than words. Wish you the best
I'm so sorry to hear this!
Ps. Broke up with him in March 1 with this message. And he never replied me back. Till today no news from him. But he still in my what’s app. We didn’t block each other.
Coward behavior from his side
I think this is great advice. After putting in too much effort in my relationship I’ve decided to take this advice. I’m now focusing solely on myself, if it doesn’t work then it only means he’s not the right guy for me and if it’s not him then I will find someone better.
How did it work out for you? - since your comment was a year ago.
I am the prize!!!! This video came just in time for me 💕
I am the prize! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Yes you are!
Be like your self be confident and have self love
Create memories with him
I am the prize. Came along your channel and am addicted. Watching from Kenya. I followed your advice and it worked. Thank you Coach Alex
It's the ego that kills the relationship..Me,I will tell him what I feel and what I want towards him and I will never chase!!Now,it's all up to him what they're gonna do about it😏
I AM THE PRIZE!!! ❤️. Thank you Alex. Gigi
thank you! the no contact rule made him think what he lost and came back
You're always welcome!
Thank you Alax I was with my exhusband for 20years he always busy me for long time in 2021 I said enough with evil man I'm so happy know with my three boys every woman should be stand for are self
he actually SAID that I was too good for him. I freaked out and did everything to convince him of the contrary.
I am the prize!!!!! I AM THE PRIZE!
This is a good one. Yes, we’ve been lied to!!
I like your being straightforward, Alex. No sugarcoating.
I love you Alex your coaching is amazing
Thank you so much. for watching!
ThanknyoubAlex for being there for us, pure souls whose only sin is loving someone more than ourselves.. not an obssessive love, but truely and sincerely love them. Thank You again.
I am working on myself, I am very strong, and I am the prize. 🏆
Alex, you are so right. I don't contact my love and he gets nervous and asks me about 5 times what I have been doing and have I been talking to any other man. And he always tells me how much he misses me. And that he needs to know what I am doing when we are not together. Merry Christmas Alex.
Be careful with such a behaviour from any man either its because lack of trust or narcissistic behaviour. very on the edge if stalker behaviour :)
Playing games!!!! Nope!
Pls Don't make him anxious
Yeah I enjoy being my self..❤😊
Omg, this guy is amazing.
I wish I watched these videos earlier 😩
I blocked him in Whatsapp already, but I miss him so badly 😢
Unblock him but don't initiate contact.
I am the Prize. Thank you Alex
Thank you for reminding me that I am the prize!
Gee!!!
I love you, Alex!!!!
You're smart, tender, hot AND know what you're saying.
A million thanks, dear.
AND a big hug too.
God bless you.
You are absolutely right about everything. I spent years in my twenties chasing but when I stopped and worked on myself, I focused on my fitness and mental state. And would never initiate conversation first just because I was more focused on myself and my kid. That was when I met my husband.
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So humbly put...and beautifully said😍
Thank you so much!
Infact I wished I started watching u already long time ago. But is not too late I will definitely value myself
We met on a chat group then lost contact..now hes so busy with church work ..but tonite ive learnt so much .
Will keep you posted where our relationship goes thanks Coach
Alex 🥰 you have known everything for so long , it's great that you still remember everything you 🥰 telling us
Covid has made things harder....and I have also made a mistake when it comes to love....us Italians are hopeless romantic''s and my man says he loves me but has no time to call or message me and now I found the answer of what I was doing wrong through your advice Alex
Being a hopeless romantic is not a mistake
Yes we are😄
Look at what he's not doing. I would (hard as it is) pull back. Get in your assignment and be your best self. Praying for you!
Covid didn’t do anything, you guys believing the lies of dr Fauci and the mainstream media are the ones who did it to yourselves
thank you so much u got no idea how much u have helped me today thank you
I'm so happy to hear this! I'm always glad to help.
I like the way you talk the way you explain things and the way you give best of best advice 😘....can't stop watching your videos every single day when I wake up your amazing Alex!🥰
Thank you so much for your support! I'm always happy to help!
I am the biggest prize for him and everyone else. He's so obssessed with me cause i am the biggest prize for him.
Thank You Very Much Alex! You're a great teacher for every wan. Look Alex! I'm a Princess & will remain my reign. I'm not chasing after no man, he chases me. I'm focusing on the positive, no one's perfect. We work on ourselves. No one can point fingers because 3 fingers point right back. You give out great strength Alex!
I've watched so many dating coaches but you're the only one who's actually helped me
There’s someone who texted and called me every single day for 7 months and now he doesn’t text or call me for 3 days. So I went no contact… until he contact me first.
Did he contacted you? I have the same problem
I am the prize! Everything you say is true.
Yes you are! You are the prize!
❤I love your channel even though am broken I strongly believe to heal and get back on track soon .thanks Mr Alex God bless u so much for being an angel to us 💋🔥
i am the prize! thank you!
Thank you for being here Alex. I love your coaching style, I get so much out of your videos. I’m not a man, so I had no clue. Thanks to you, I’m learning. Love it!
Thank you so much for watching! I deeply appreciate this!
I am the prize and he is foghting for me. He will cone foreard very soon with all the good things i deserve. If not him, it will be someone better ❤
Exactly! Thank you so much for your comment!
This is from Fiji 🇫🇯. Thank you for your advice. It's so helpful and very effective. Love it and I enjoy listening to your advice. 🙂
Honestly! I stumbled into your channel. I am so happy I did. Your advice has given me a lot if food for thought. You ‘ve answered all my questions. Coming from Haitian American woman I like the French accent. 😊
Thank you so much for your support and for watching! I appreciate this!
Thank you Alex you have taught me so much!💗 My boyfriend works a lot & he really doesn't have much time for me... He also lives over 2 hours away. Last night I told him that I need someone that will carve out time for me bc I deserve the world. He texted back I know... Now I'm waiting to see if he puts in any effort. If not? I'm totally done with him.
Same boat sister!
Hmm lemme guess... you left him
Thankyou
I am the prize ❤
Unfortunately, most guys are using the same tactics on women too. They wait for women to reach out to them first 😂
I’ll be in the grave sleep PEACEFULLY before I reach out to a man first.
He will never hear from me again 😂. His loss
Yes, you are right. Men these days want the woman to ask them out! Men should reach out to women to initiate for the first few times and then it can be reciprocal.
@lbrar7173 Gemini actually said to me after 4 dates, "you can ask me out too".
Pisces ignored the red flags, he love-bombed, said all I wanted to hear..
7 months in - felt like he needed a Mother @ 52, with 3 ex Baby Mamas.
I know right, WTF was I thinking?? 😂😂 had been celibate 3 yrs before him..
After 14 mths no contact- he called twice this week. I didn't answer. Done w games. He lost a good one & needs to do his Shadow Work- if he ever will.
Not my circus. Life's returned to normal 🙏 he'll be dealing w some Karmic & not learning his lesson. C'est La Vie🙄😁❣️
Women should simply make men work for us. Let them
Conquer
Your voice... makes me go gaga as well as well as what youre talking about! ❤
Thank you so much for watching!
"I love your grandma but she doesn't give you the right advice" 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
I AM THE PRIZE!! Just broken up after calling to see him few days ago, as I needed to collect my few belongings from his apartment, also needed to talk as things were left unsaid after 5 weeks apart. Him saying will be a long time before I enter a relationship again!
So true . It’s the reality of relationship that works always.thanks.🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think what you are saying makes perfect sense its unfortunate but all that you are saying is true
Yes your right be strong and do something you want for your self and make priorities your self..
You have done a few great videos... I really enjoyed them! Thanks lots!!!!! you are best!
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate this!
So TRue...ALEX!!!! I was just telling my best friend today alot of times in dating we shoot our ownselves in the foot but the way we behave with men and forget about how truely things make us feel, rather in beginning of a relationship in meeting or even in one that been in long time... smh..🙄🙄🙄🙄😐😐. We have to have more dignity for ourselves ladies and truely believe we are the prize and act like it, not in a stuck up princess way though.
Can you talk about husband and wife living together with no communication please
Alex - can you maybe do a session on long distance relationships? Many of us are caught in these situations since the pandemic started and the challenges are completely different than if you are within touching distance from a man! Not possible to have dates! Or anything else... Also, time zones bring about more challenges! And if he is a very important and busy man it makes it more challenging! Please advise! Thank you for the wonderful channel!
Yes please!! This topic hits my situation as well
I’m in the same situation
Same here !
Trueee
Same
I’m not perfect but
“I AM” a good woman and the prize. . know yr worth ladies.
Merry Christmas, Coach Alex! Merci beaucoup. Thank you very much for your videos, they remind me how strong I should be
Merry Christmas Ann! Thank you so much for your support and I wish you a happy new year!
I am the prize !! 💯🎯
Thank you Alex, I am so grateful for listening to you advice and now I do going to enjoy x-mas with the people who I really love ❤.
Have a Happy Holidays to everyone
I'm always happy to help Galina! Merry Christmas to you too!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpertI guess i Discovered your channel some few months ago..but now I am hooked.. amongst all of your video's this took home for me..I jots down the key pointers every time i listened to your videos...like today I have learnt..that I should create reminisce-able moments every time we happen to be together.. keep teaching us Alex.. am your student who is ready and willing to learn ..much love from Nairobi Kenya East part of Africa...bisses!!
Now I’m finished myself too with this relationship. NC ever again!😃
I am the price!!!👸🏻
Exactly!!
Merry Christmas alex,thank you.
Merry Christmas! Thank you so much Alex!
I’m so tired of these mind games, I miss those time where I like you , you like me, let’s make it work. The reason why many people are single is because when men realized women’s value they are no longer interested
Too many options now. Can meet the best girl and still be thinking he can get better.
After 2 weeks of disappearance during which my friend did not even read my messages without having a problem with me, he has told his friend that he broke up with me!!! He didn’t even talk to myself about it!!! We had a very romantic relationship. I am shocked. And I think nothing can solve this, not even no contact. I must let go.
Merci Alex! Your knowledgeable advise is precious.
Wishing you an abundance of all small and big things in 2022!🥂🍾
Yayyyy! I am the prize. I am a jewel of inestimable value ❤
Yes you are! Thank you so much for watching!
One in a trillion Alex☺️🥰😍 you definitely is so genuinely authentic. Veryyy nice looking on top of it, its sort of unbelievable. I know you do this because you actually really care. No other reason because I know it's not about money I feel your passion of this 😘😘😘
I love yo help you ladies out! I hope you have a happy holidays Tiffany!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank you handsome. I have not dated in 18 years and I turned 41 years old this month. It's terrifying to even think about stepping one toe out there so I can't express how much I appreciate this type of information. Happy Holidays to Your ultimately sexy self, and all of whom has your love including us ladies 😁🥳🥰🎄🎉💐💝💙💯😇😇
Hey! ❤️ Thanku for your advice. Can you make a video on long distance relationship and how to keep him attracted in long distance relationship please.
This is the best Christmas gift ever!
Im always listening to you Alex. love from Philippines
Thank you so much for your support!
Thank you Alex! You're such a great coach!🙏🏼
You are most welcome!😊
This is powerful!💥
Thank you so much for watching!
I love the way you explain!.very detail!...Merry Christmas and Happy New Year,..
Merry Christmas Charlene!
Thankz ❤️❤️❤️ for your good advice about love ..
Thank you so much for watching!
The less we , women, give the more we get provided we have made every minute with our loved once memorable beyond imagination.. Good Luck Everbody, Merry Christmas
I am the prize.You are amazing! THANKS😊