The SUBTLE ART Of Being A Challenge For A Man! (DRIVE HIM CRAZY!)

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  • @ayshamusa9070
    @ayshamusa9070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    The best way to go about it is just when he feels you are all in...disconnect a little...do not show desperation even if you are desperate...neediness creates resistance...its not easy if you really like a guy but trust it works every time

    • @vhayashi7369
      @vhayashi7369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep it teaches this in the book The New Rules by Fein and Schneider. Also The Toxic Dating coach and SheraSeven teaches this also on TH-cam.

    • @lanapalij4014
      @lanapalij4014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Neediness pushes me away from people, every time!

    • @ah3738
      @ah3738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am taking this advice this time and putting it in to practice!! I go too hard too soon and burns me evertime. Haha 🤭

    • @marthamatemwa1550
      @marthamatemwa1550 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am following your lesson almost two months now, from Namibia

    • @rororo3615
      @rororo3615 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marthamatemwa1550🎉

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    If you want to be in the feminine role, be the receiver and chooser. This polarity is needed if you want him to stay in his masculine role of giving and courting.

  • @krissyaguilar1814
    @krissyaguilar1814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I’ve finally learned that You do not give a man everything that he wants and needs , they are like children they need to have rules , if not they can burn down the house !

  • @bebeindatrap
    @bebeindatrap ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This is one of the most valuable videos ive seen. Just fall in love with life and being a woman.❤️

  • @michellemcnary4415
    @michellemcnary4415 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I am in a relationship and dont feel like I over give. If anything I don't give enough. I lean way back and let the man come through and then appreciate when they do.

    • @francesrobinson-xm6xf
      @francesrobinson-xm6xf ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi alex ,always great advice...plenty of Love from the cayman islands ❤

  • @sylviarogers8473
    @sylviarogers8473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Mercie
    As a woman I was taught to be about my exciting life n the man is only a compliment to it. It is how I live my life n men are in abundance n in process of chosing the best one that matches my life style n that can keep up with me n my life style🎉

  • @valerieknapp3968
    @valerieknapp3968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Looking for all that I never feel guilty when a man pays for anything thank you

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I don't think having alot of ideas keeps the man. Rather, being a vital and interesting person with a full life. What is true is men like uncertainty. Most definitely.

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Tell him No and ignore him and don't always be available or show too much interest.

    • @effatsharmin8389
      @effatsharmin8389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or you mean fake it when you like it

    • @juanitagonzalez8333
      @juanitagonzalez8333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly!

    • @tatimazca5841
      @tatimazca5841 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly, not until he earns it or you are in a serious relationship. Most men are emotionally unintelligent so unless you found an unicorn who's real, decent, have good values/reputation, gives you all attention, doesn't push you, makes you feel comfortable, don't get invested. Be aware of narcissist though! They may seem that way in the beginning so educate yourselves about it, hard to find out about their reputation until is too late, so learn to recognise the traits.

  • @pinkrose5833
    @pinkrose5833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If the man love challenges ,,the woman need to confident and independent ..thank you Alex i love your tips videos

  • @worldtour4437
    @worldtour4437 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for being supportive n wonderful, Alex🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @karyna2824
    @karyna2824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have always been inspired by the illustrious French courtesans and for me, these fascinatig woman give us an invaluable
    key to "keeping the love and romance" alive----They have been my mentors and it works!!!!!!

  • @fishstickbio594
    @fishstickbio594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You should coach all men that females do NOT desire to be a challenge …..only narcissists will play the cat and mouse game …..time is too precious for silly mind games …..if a man wants a challenge he needs to be in a sport team instead .

    • @andiea7358
      @andiea7358 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This!!

    • @GoddessBlessYou
      @GoddessBlessYou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Surely you don't think you're speaking for all women everywhere--only narcissists would think that. And, do you also call the game of life a silly mind game? Maybe you could think of these relationship moves as dance steps instead of silly mind games. Maybe you could think of a challenge as offering a man a firm handshake instead of a limp dishrag handshake. Maybe you could think of the cat and mouse game as a source of amusement and pleasure instead of a sign of narcissism. Or maybe you need life to be deadly serious, to be totally straightforward and comprehensible--but please don't think you speak for all women everywhere. How narcissistic.

    • @miche111z
      @miche111z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@GoddessBlessYou playing hot and cold games is manipulative and is signs of narcissism. Get over yourself.

    • @aselyne5631
      @aselyne5631 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@miche111z Exactly, playing hot and cold is manipulation, i like this guy alot but he told me he likes a challenge, so am going to dead it completely because i dont have time to play hot and cold games, mind you this is a guy i never payed attention to at all and he made sure i noticed him, its silly, but he fine i wont lie

    • @mareecrook2162
      @mareecrook2162 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

  • @su5329
    @su5329 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Guys who want to chase are players. You can't trust them. Greetings from a woman with dating experience and now married with an reliable man.

    • @GoddessBlessYou
      @GoddessBlessYou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not all of them.

    • @aselyne5631
      @aselyne5631 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sadly true

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Courting and pursuing is masculine role

  • @MelissaKellyHerStunts
    @MelissaKellyHerStunts ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ive had guys get intimidated by my job and that i am so passionate about it

  • @yuktiarora7105
    @yuktiarora7105 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are the best coach and consistent too

  • @gshilps
    @gshilps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m sorry. But this is crap advise. I get that women need to have our own lives and priority ourselves first. Secure grown up men won’t respond to games!! They know their worth n stand in it. And if a man needs these games to engage and stay engaged, that’s a red flag that he’s either not ready or don’t have the skills.

    • @sarahjaneross2918
      @sarahjaneross2918 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep. Those men are alphas... they're a minority.

  • @RosieMewan-fg5it
    @RosieMewan-fg5it 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alex I think you are first person to come out with this love coaches I love ❤️ I think I learned a lot from you always watching you from Papua New guinea 🇵🇬.

  • @tsegeredatesfaye735
    @tsegeredatesfaye735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear ALex yes i need healthy relationship

  • @asmrmusic1676
    @asmrmusic1676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I click straightaway every time you post. Your videos are life changing

    • @tasha3556
      @tasha3556 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true Alex

  • @thithonguyen886
    @thithonguyen886 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These information are really useful, thank you Alex. You are doing great job.

  • @staywellandstrong4199
    @staywellandstrong4199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Instead of an alarm clock ringing: This advice should awaken us -

  • @agika7777
    @agika7777 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How long we have to play this game?? We doing it 5 months back and forth??

  • @symmaify
    @symmaify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    this is only possible if he atleast likes you and doesnt ignore you

    • @DeshaunExitRealty
      @DeshaunExitRealty ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well yeah. This is why it's amazing advice - it weeds out the time wasters.

  • @titareopell4737
    @titareopell4737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ok I am now a challenge.And oOh am I worth it.I have tons of ideas.

  • @mylife2022
    @mylife2022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am looking for "the one", is there such a thing?.
    Thank you for your advice, I'm doing all of those things 😊, he confused for sure, I'm older, I have a really active social life, I blew his mind by talking about the division of the middle East by the French and British after the fall of the Ottoman empire, the look on his face was one of pure lust, I'm super smart, cool, and beautiful 😍

    • @effatsharmin8389
      @effatsharmin8389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Take your time. Be patient. Keep looking. Don't be hard on yourself. I believe in "the one."

  • @eac-guy7272
    @eac-guy7272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Some men don't want that challenge. They say it's too much trouble. They want it easy

    • @amoralavenezolana1
      @amoralavenezolana1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Then is not the right guy 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @liztowers2058
      @liztowers2058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep...those men are called low value. Not worth a woman's time. No effort no girl. How it goes lol

    • @krissyaguilar1814
      @krissyaguilar1814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@amoralavenezolana1 yep 👏🏻

    • @louly7457
      @louly7457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@amoralavenezolana1 I guess it’s the opposite , because if you are in constant challenge with a man you will lose yourself you won’t be yourself 100% with him just to impress him.
      Real love will accept you fully..

    • @mvelo787
      @mvelo787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Those are boys then

  • @karyna2824
    @karyna2824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your "tips" which are so akin to the courtesans I am always looking for GREAT LOVE

  • @YouAreWorthy408
    @YouAreWorthy408 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need to receive and I will 💫

  • @wednytjirimuje6702
    @wednytjirimuje6702 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I soo love your teachings.. thanks alot

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your support! I deeply appreciate you!

  • @JaniceEsoma-oo5wq
    @JaniceEsoma-oo5wq 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this advice😢.. been dating seeing every weekend then sometimes i felt neglected so i must do this.. hope it works

  • @kristenbroad7749
    @kristenbroad7749 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi from Australia

  • @angelinasamson6996
    @angelinasamson6996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes looking for a companion
    Looking for share my life’s experiences with

  • @AB-sf2dd
    @AB-sf2dd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Is it too late if you’ve shown your cards, shown you really like him - then you pull back - will that work?

    • @effatsharmin8389
      @effatsharmin8389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think it depends on his age, personality, and his experience. He might surprise you. You can find out a real gem. Good luck.

    • @GoddessBlessYou
      @GoddessBlessYou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Of course it works. It's not too late to change the dance steps and shake things up.

  • @charp558
    @charp558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow very powerful information. Thank you 🙏

  • @lihong9389
    @lihong9389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes. I am convinced. You are so sweet.

  • @MercyYawe
    @MercyYawe 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am watching from Papua New Guinea, Pacific islande❤

  • @aahmonddelite690
    @aahmonddelite690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Will this work for a man you've known for 20+ years?

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We are designed to make it work forever ...💞

    • @phutz_mash1467
      @phutz_mash1467 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      20+ I think it will be like rebranding in a business ,only if the two are for it .
      …for example are you both willing to learn new things ,hobbies ,new activities ,bedroom activities and add some spice to the old way of doing things …things that are interesting and fun to you…playfulness

    • @angelinasamson6996
      @angelinasamson6996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Anything is possible, believe that it will and put healthy boundaries in place . ❤️

    • @HK80sbabii
      @HK80sbabii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolutely!! Stop texting/calling him first, don’t message right after you go out, he’ll get confused and want to chase. Once you start the behavior you can’t revert back that’s the catch. Good luck

  • @sepidehamouzegarasli9208
    @sepidehamouzegarasli9208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So powerful Alex, thank you so much!!💓💓💓

  • @hillarybrown6813
    @hillarybrown6813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heck Yes!!! You are freaking awesome!!

  • @tatimazca5841
    @tatimazca5841 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If he doesn't treat you like a princess and want to spoil you (not necessarily with things), reserve your attention for someone who does. Be aware of narcissist though, they may spoil you in the beginning and you might get confused.

  • @kimgordon3695
    @kimgordon3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Luv'd this one Alex! Sad I missed the live chat, but I'd say I'm not looking... I bring the relationship 😉 it's up to them to join me. Bonvive

  • @saminakhalid6269
    @saminakhalid6269 ปีที่แล้ว

    Plz tell me how can we restart a relationship with the same person in a different way.

  • @leahwambui5608
    @leahwambui5608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have really helped me

  • @theresadomen9185
    @theresadomen9185 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a new your chanel I love your advice Alex watching from siargao Island

  • @sisamkelemzinyati9900
    @sisamkelemzinyati9900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Alex .. Can you please drop the link here sir... Thank you

  • @cherylnegus2441
    @cherylnegus2441 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🌺Fantastic!! 🌺
    🌺 I love hearing every single valuable advice from #AlexCormont 🌺🌻🌼🌺🌻🌼

  • @KA-ub4rc
    @KA-ub4rc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you from Trinidad and Tobago

  • @crispinadavid2369
    @crispinadavid2369 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi from the Philippines. I m watching

  • @lintitamoularai776
    @lintitamoularai776 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Linda from Greece

  • @sunshinendirt
    @sunshinendirt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a man I am interested in, its been a few months and he has gone cold on me, not contacting me as much, sometimes not responding to texts for days. He gives me excuses about being in a relationship, but he tells me I am the most beautiful girl in town, and wants to take me on dates, pay for stuff etc, but won't commit to me.

    • @s.a.6326
      @s.a.6326 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      All red flags! 🚩

    • @candiespossible7379
      @candiespossible7379 ปีที่แล้ว

      Red flag one, he said he’s in a relationship… move on. You’ll appear thirsty.

  • @margaretthorpe9548
    @margaretthorpe9548 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im Margaret from Jamaica 🇯🇲

  • @1011Mercy
    @1011Mercy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am looking for good relationship

  • @NamugangaSawuda
    @NamugangaSawuda 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alex am on saudah Uganda thx alot man

  • @99xseax99
    @99xseax99 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you thank you thank i know what I'm gonna do 😊

  • @jerrybizuneh5457
    @jerrybizuneh5457 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yes i am looking for relation

  • @ce.379
    @ce.379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Merci Alex 🙌

  • @amytiffanyhemingway
    @amytiffanyhemingway ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you Alex! ❤

  • @dannibritton333
    @dannibritton333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Spot on💯

  • @nightbreeze6264
    @nightbreeze6264 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    True Alex, Doen Under

  • @cocoaocean
    @cocoaocean ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your advice 😊

  • @jacinta8642
    @jacinta8642 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My Partner is 55yr old male All his friends are 30yr / 40yr old females I am not jealous But I'm find this a bit creepy, ???? Can any one advise or has anyone experience being in a similar situation????

  • @HK80sbabii
    @HK80sbabii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Useful tips!

  • @mariacristinahairdresser
    @mariacristinahairdresser 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't know how world was build in France but family here in Romania was buid by wemen who sacrificed everything . Time, beauty , career. They gave everything and received rewards very late in life. You are describing all the toxic and superficial wemen i see around. These wemen and men always wanting exciting and adventure are monsters . They build nothing . Always sleeping around , manipulating, dating on tinder, desperate to fulfill their void . I am so sick of this dark psychology crap. What will do when your man can't make money or it is in a difficult situation? What will he do when she is exausted and lose her looks for kids ? They will just get bored of eachother and go for someone else more fresh?

  • @yvonnebaker2574
    @yvonnebaker2574 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, I'm looking for a relationship. CHICAGO

  • @sobster123
    @sobster123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Alex he is makes me happy and excited 😆

  • @cindyperez1066
    @cindyperez1066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve tried this and it’s not working. 😌

    • @RubGoddess
      @RubGoddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wrong person maybe

  • @tasha3556
    @tasha3556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very true Alex

  • @annapugh9262
    @annapugh9262 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yes , GREAT LOVE 🙏🌻❤️

  • @naluchachimanda66
    @naluchachimanda66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow,, just timely

  • @margaretthorpe9548
    @margaretthorpe9548 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes Alex im looking for great love ❤️

  • @YF-ey7uq
    @YF-ey7uq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I became cold, i changed my whats app profile pic so far. I need more tips ok how to confuse him

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video was able to help you!

  • @traceyboogyman2625
    @traceyboogyman2625 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes I want love

  • @SbongileMavuso
    @SbongileMavuso ปีที่แล้ว

    From south africa

  • @AndiPandi1979
    @AndiPandi1979 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex, I just love you. 💗

  • @karolpavlin3871
    @karolpavlin3871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am looking for a exclusive relationship

  • @lenalewalker6192
    @lenalewalker6192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's not hard if you have a life.

  • @joudisall6474
    @joudisall6474 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are the best!

  • @nuamkim745
    @nuamkim745 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I did that but he never go after me 😢😢

  • @ChristieRain
    @ChristieRain 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ideas for unique and fun dates? GO

  • @VanessaWJ007
    @VanessaWJ007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm looking

  • @jacquelinedavis1604
    @jacquelinedavis1604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looking for great love

  • @sisamkelemzinyati9900
    @sisamkelemzinyati9900 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it❤️

  • @virgovirgo2562
    @virgovirgo2562 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes ✋

  • @patriciaviii
    @patriciaviii 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes

  • @kittycat9994
    @kittycat9994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello

  • @KeriMartin-wv3qw
    @KeriMartin-wv3qw 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m looking for amazing love

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for watching! Hopefully my videos are able to help you with this.

  • @gladlycastle264
    @gladlycastle264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking for great Love...Philippines

  • @dianesurrett7379
    @dianesurrett7379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alaska 💜⚓

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
    @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yea ❤

  • @vforsejrv7801
    @vforsejrv7801 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes yes❤

  • @lenalewalker6192
    @lenalewalker6192 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    All the above

  • @gabriellacindyxoxo
    @gabriellacindyxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💎

  • @mariadelamercedcharro1047
    @mariadelamercedcharro1047 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want a comitment there years and being taken for granted 5:38 5:44

  • @lalanuraeiz3314
    @lalanuraeiz3314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But i saw some comment like 'she is only receiving, she is so entitled. Man will lose feelings' what is your opinion regarding this?

    • @amoralavenezolana1
      @amoralavenezolana1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We are 👸 in a pedestal don't forget that
      A high value man will pursue you and adore every step of it

    • @effatsharmin8389
      @effatsharmin8389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't know

  • @mariadelamercedcharro1047
    @mariadelamercedcharro1047 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please Alex help me 0:46

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi there,
      I know Coach Alex would love to help you with what you're dealing with! I would highly suggest you book coaching call with him so he can know your situation a little more.
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @MessanKafui
    @MessanKafui 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good evening Alex my name Is kafui I for Togo

  • @Mymultitube7
    @Mymultitube7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @annabanzon313
    @annabanzon313 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you prove your French origins? 😆

  • @MoonLitOcean26
    @MoonLitOcean26 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nyc