Keep a journal for every time you want to speak to him , and go out for a delicious coffee ☕ and chat to the people there about things not related to him. . .
I have never chased a man in my life and that will always remain. I don't care who that man is or what he has, Iam not chasing no one. My self respect and worth are always stronger than my feelings in any relationship. Yes I do put in effort within my reach but if I see that he ant doing nothing and Iam the only one do something, I step back and let the ship sink, if he man's up and try to stop the ship from sinking that's good if he doesn't that's his problem, the ship sinks and I definitely come out alive and sound with myself intact.
I hate these game men play! If you enjoy each other’s company and have a good time together, can’t we just like be real and in the moment? So sick of psychological games with men!
Alex, I just wanted to let you know that you changed my life when I was going through a difficult period with an avoidant and since watching your videos I have become my own woman and never been the same since
Alex, your idea of making them "come back fast" sounds like one would love that same "not so good a ride" I think the only thing that truly work is " living " real and "being self" completely.
I truly hope one day he will come back to be with me for real. God will help me, I know it. One day I'll be happy again with or without him (hopefully, with him).
You're a good man, Alex. Since you've been married, you're so much sweeter and more understanding. You MUST of found a good one. Very happy for you. And have great success.
P.S. I Definitely Do Not Want To "make him come back." He would be the one who'd need to decide if he wants to be with me or not. Being broken up by someone I thought loved me and who I love would be painful and devastating, not even sure I'd even want to give it another go, wouldn't want to go thru it again. Hurts too much to think about it. Feeling this is time away with and without someone(s) and more. Hurts like nothing else ever. 20 years, 0. Even Myrtle. I just don't know. Can you read my mind? I think you can.
If a break up were to happen, or ghosted, feel I'd need to really think long and hard, weigh pros and cons, what the future with him would be like, whether he'd be exactly the same man or would he change anything about himself. I don't have any professional goals, had my family and a long career. Do enjoy learning and growing, trying new things, activities, maybe travel if possible, live a more healthy lifestyle, but also want to enjoy a peaceful, not harried, go go go lifestyle with someone who I care about and who cares about me. Wondering what the reason for not asking questions is. I'm an open book, have nothing to hide. Would hope that a couple could ask each other anything, share their concerns, thoughts, dreams etc., be each other's best friend. When in elementary, Jr high and high school you're without a life partner, hence the need for a best friend to talk to. Mature adults need and have friends, good friends, great friends, long time friends. But I honestly feel your Best Friend is the person you love and who loves you, looks out for you, is there for you always, and you can talk to about anything and everything. Wonder if anyone agrees with me. Sorry for the ramble, have more but will end this.
Thank you for this advice. He has been distancing himself for a month now, no more morning messages and good night messages and is hurting my heart... he loves me and I love him too but suddenly he changed and he said we have to take it slow I don't really know what he wants in this relationship anymore I love him so much
I don’t want to hurt you but it’s very possible he is interested in someone else. Leave him be don’t contact him and he might come back around. By then you might not want him .
Thank you, we haven't broken up but he has become distant and the energy seems really off. It's a long distance relationship. I pulled away because of his distance and he has now matched this. Will this work
My bf keeps telling me to end our relationship because he said I don't have time for him but the truth is we just talk and chat 24 hours ago. And two days ago we had face time 3 times that day. Then when I accepted his breakup and I use no contact he keep posting about broken hearts and was passive-aggressive to get sympathy from others.
What if he has started making plans for Christmas. He says he will call at our home for a few hours then go back to one of his friends. We split a month ago after 27 years together. He still lives at home, he will spend the day with me but sleeps at friends.
Hi Alex, he makes comments under my social media first, then i follow suit and comments under his, he text me first after a week, then i response. then i wait a week and then text him - should i not respond at all?
Yeah I had the guy come back and was txting me all the time. But not asking me out. So I told him I wasn’t looking for a txt buddy. Anyways, Haven’t heard from him since. Lol
Hi Alex! I am distant from my ex and I do not contact him , but I feel we still love one another. I feel this in my heart! We have had so much pain but now we don’t contact one another. I miss him but I will not contact. I want to talk but don’t know how? Thanks Theresa❤️
Hi, Alex! How about if he is doing everything to me? Time, support etc. we are already 3 yrs. In relationship but one thing he cannot do is that he do not want to have a baby with me. And still do not have plan to shiw me into his parents? What should i do?
Been with a guy 3 years and haven't met his parents yet?? Girl, you may be part of his present but definitely not part of his future. And when he says he doesn't want to have a baby with you, believe him.
Alex, my ex messaged my bestfriend two days ago saying that he saw her on the Bumble dating app and he said to her that he’s sorry her relationship she was in, didn’t work out. Why would he need to do this? They only met 2 times with me there!
Alex please tell that what if he doesn't come back after giving him less attention and stay at distance for some time? Can we perceive that he is interested in someone else?
What if he blocked you on Facebook, messenger and changed his number? It's been 75days already since he turn his back at me but I chased him twice and that's my mistake. The last time I broke NC has been 60 days
So don't make your mistake fir the 3rd time. Stop chasing him. Leave him alone. If he had to block you on social media and even change his phone number, it's so clear he is desperate to break free from you. Have some self respect and do not contact him.
I just dont understand something.If his goal is to be closer to you then why he wants the break up and doesnt talk or ignore or he is selfish?I mean his goal yes is to have the control etc but i don't think he wants to be close to you.He wants to be away from you.I just didnt understand this.He only wants to be close to you when you are happy without him.
Alex, please help, i don’t understand his behavior like sometimes, hes kind and sweet and whenever he will get angry hes saying bad words to me and telling me go with anyone and i dont like you anymore, and after a few days he will come back, i dont his behavior now hes not like before
Hi there, Thank you so much for reaching out to us about this! I know that coach Alex would love to help you with this but in order for him to do so, he would need to know a little more about what you're going through. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
He dumped me today. And told me not to contact him, unless it is work related.. I have to send him a picture of the register everyday.. We stopped chatting like usual months before... Please help
Hi alex ur explication is interesting i dnt hv problm wiz my ex but alwys he blok me n zen whn i ask my friend tel him to dblok n zen he dblok me n he talk to me smtimes he is nice to me whn he did not hve smthing n zen he cme to me but I lve him so much but what a lve at only me is after him so why cn i do at he chase me n zen alwys he cme to me plzz help me plzzzz
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you with this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
Hello, I invite you to watch the replay of my latest free master class "LEARN THE BEST TECHNIQUES TO ATTRACT THE GUY YOU WANT!" Here is the link: www.alex-cormont.com/gtg-webinar-offer08x093jf0n
11 yrs of relationship.my boyfriend broke up with me one month ago.I tried to reach him with different numbers but he blocked me. How can I get him back
I'm so sorry to hear this! Let's book a coaching session so I can know more about what happened and help you through this. www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
WHAT IF I MOVED TOO FAST BECAUSE HE MOVED TOO FAST AND NOW HE GHOSTED ME. I FEEL SHAME THAT IF WE BOTH MADE A MISTAKE MOVING TOO FAST, THAT IM THE ONE BEING PUNISHED WHEN WE BOTH ARE TO BLAME. BUT HE GHOSTED ME WHEN WE BOTH MADE THE SAME MISTAKE?????
WE ARE BOTH CHRISTIANS AND SHOULD UNDERSTAND THE MISTAKE AND MOVE FORWARD. IT IS PAINFUL TO THINK I HAVE TO BE SO PERFECT AND CAN NEVER MAKE AN ERROR OTHERWISE RISKING FATALITY. IM NOT PERFECT. I CAN CERTAINLY TRY TO BE THOUGH.
Makes sense in what your saying. My ex broke up with me after 5 years in sept and has sold out hour ALREADY However still wants to sleep with me and help me on my new house????????? Looking forward to Sunday.
Don't know woman has the energy to put her all into a man/in the Bible it tells you the man is the head so ladies and I'm talking to myself be selfish and take care of you and if you went through a breakup a divorced etc be selfish and take care of you when your king come you'll no you're a queen and I'm talking to both a king and a queen goes both ways but the man is the head not the tail is too many tails out here I don't have the energy zero toleration I will stay single and date myself and number one I put GOD#1 always first🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Hi Alex ....no contact means what ? Just block my sp in all of my social media !? Or if my sp send msgs I don't reply him ..ah !? PLS reply me and clear my doubt Becas I am in a relationship with my sp but now he is not msg him ..PLS reply alex
Mt man left a month ago and I haven't contact him. But when I tried last night, His phone was cut off or changed which was his work phone. So how does it work when you have no way of contacting him.
Hi me break up to my husband is won't that bo is text me and sorry for that and won't com back bo l told him no bo me have kid to gear and she asked for him l have to text him to kids won't talk too him
Hi there! I know Alex would love to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through! I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to learn more details about what your situation in order to give you the guidance you need. I would highly suggest booking a coaching call with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
Hi there! I know coach Alex would love to help you! I would highly suggest booking a one on one coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
Going silent does work. I tried it and within 18 hours he reached out TWICE. When you reply keep it short, girls!
Keep a journal for every time you want to speak to him , and go out for a delicious coffee ☕ and chat to the people there about things not related to him. . .
it is so heartbreaking... if u want the man u love to love u back... the solution is: not to love him
True 😂😂😂
100% lmao!
I have never chased a man in my life and that will always remain. I don't care who that man is or what he has, Iam not chasing no one. My self respect and worth are always stronger than my feelings in any relationship. Yes I do put in effort within my reach but if I see that he ant doing nothing and Iam the only one do something, I step back and let the ship sink, if he man's up and try to stop the ship from sinking that's good if he doesn't that's his problem, the ship sinks and I definitely come out alive and sound with myself intact.
I hate these game men play! If you enjoy each other’s company and have a good time together, can’t we just like be real and in the moment? So sick of psychological games with men!
You can even be in love with someone like that, too much work for something fake
I agree 200%
Agreed
Thank God I am an Indian girl. I don't all these to keep the man committed. Thanks God a lot.
Mee too , sick of that stupid games
Alex, I just wanted to let you know that you changed my life when I was going through a difficult period with an avoidant and since watching your videos I have become my own woman and never been the same since
You are sooooo right. I have done always the wrong things. I can learn so much from you.
Thank you sincerely for your encouragement, advice and care
Motivating. Thank you!
This Alex; is the Very Best video.. And it is the absolute Truth.. Thank you and have a Beautiful Holiday..
PS. Your accent is as Strong as Ever.. 🌞🌞
Thank you so much for watching!
Alex, your idea of making them "come back fast" sounds like one would love that same "not so good a ride"
I think the only thing that truly work is
" living " real and "being self" completely.
I truly hope one day he will come back to be with me for real. God will help me, I know it. One day I'll be happy again with or without him (hopefully, with him).
How emotionally draining on one’s soul 😢
You're a good man, Alex. Since you've been married, you're so much sweeter and more understanding. You MUST of found a good one. Very happy for you. And have great success.
Thank you so much for this support! Deeply appreciate this!
God bless you for this amazing work you do Alex. I appreciate you 🙏
Thank you so much for watching!
amazing video as usual ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Thank you so much!
Don’t reach out to him, let him make contact 1st!!
P.S. I Definitely Do Not Want To "make him come back." He would be the one who'd need to decide if he wants to be with me or not. Being broken up by someone I thought loved me and who I love would be painful and devastating, not even sure I'd even want to give it another go, wouldn't want to go thru it again. Hurts too much to think about it. Feeling this is time away with and without someone(s) and more. Hurts like nothing else ever. 20 years, 0. Even Myrtle. I just don't know. Can you read my mind? I think you can.
If a break up were to happen, or ghosted, feel I'd need to really think long and hard, weigh pros and cons, what the future with him would be like, whether he'd be exactly the same man or would he change anything about himself. I don't have any professional goals, had my family and a long career. Do enjoy learning and growing, trying new things, activities, maybe travel if possible, live a more healthy lifestyle, but also want to enjoy a peaceful, not harried, go go go lifestyle with someone who I care about and who cares about me. Wondering what the reason for not asking questions is. I'm an open book, have nothing to hide. Would hope that a couple could ask each other anything, share their concerns, thoughts, dreams etc., be each other's best friend. When in elementary, Jr high and high school you're without a life partner, hence the need for a best friend to talk to. Mature adults need and have friends, good friends, great friends, long time friends. But I honestly feel your Best Friend is the person you love and who loves you, looks out for you, is there for you always, and you can talk to about anything and everything. Wonder if anyone agrees with me. Sorry for the ramble, have more but will end this.
Thank you 😊
Good content.. question
How do you turn the tables ? How long does this take? I have to get my power back 😒
Thanks God bless you
Thank you for this advice. He has been distancing himself for a month now, no more morning messages and good night messages and is hurting my heart... he loves me and I love him too but suddenly he changed and he said we have to take it slow I don't really know what he wants in this relationship anymore I love him so much
I don’t want to hurt you but it’s very possible he is interested in someone else. Leave him be don’t contact him and he might come back around. By then you might not want him .
Listening from Zimbabwe Africa.
maximum respect
Thank you, we haven't broken up but he has become distant and the energy seems really off. It's a long distance relationship. I pulled away because of his distance and he has now matched this. Will this work
My bf keeps telling me to end our relationship because he said I don't have time for him but the truth is we just talk and chat 24 hours ago. And two days ago we had face time 3 times that day. Then when I accepted his breakup and I use no contact he keep posting about broken hearts and was passive-aggressive to get sympathy from others.
It's funny it's the same on the other side. Then both side are waiting on each other.
You have to make him work for it.
I learned so much already
I'm so glad!
Thank you 🙏
My pleasure. Let me know if you have any topic in mind you want me to do?
Works for situationship ? And if he unfollowed me then ? And how long should you do the no contact ? Till when to keep hope ?
I messed up, I contacted him, and of course he will not respond. I even asked if I could call. He see my texts on whatapp, but would not respond
Will he come back if we only were talking for 1 month, the conversation simply fizzled out but on a positive conversation?
How can you do no contact if you live together with shared kids.
Thanks
Hubby left martialhome after row. .radio silence told me to.put home on market. Any advice.been 2 weeks
What if he has started making plans for Christmas. He says he will call at our home for a few hours then go back to one of his friends.
We split a month ago after 27 years together. He still lives at home, he will spend the day with me but sleeps at friends.
Which kind of conversation you can have with the guy from the first please
Hi Alex, he makes comments under my social media first, then i follow suit and comments under his, he text me first after a week, then i response.
then i wait a week and then text him - should i not respond at all?
❤❤thanks
When is the next webinar
Yeah I had the guy come back and was txting me all the time. But not asking me out. So I told him I wasn’t looking for a txt buddy. Anyways, Haven’t heard from him since. Lol
How does this work when you live together?
Distance? Does this also mean block him on everything
Thank you
Thank you for watching !
Does this work for every guy? What if he pulls away or breakup cause he is scared of committing again and get hurt? Based on his passed experiences?
He blocked me on on socialmedia and Whatsaap...should i should i.do.same
How clould I connect you for personal guidance..
Positive response to long distance relationship 🙂🥰 please Alex
Hi Alex! I am distant from my ex and I do not contact him , but I feel we still love one another. I feel this in my heart! We have had so much pain but now we don’t contact one another. I miss him but I will not contact. I want to talk but don’t know how? Thanks Theresa❤️
How is it going now?
Update, please
Any updates ?
Hi, Alex! How about if he is doing everything to me? Time, support etc. we are already 3 yrs. In relationship but one thing he cannot do is that he do not want to have a baby with me. And still do not have plan to shiw me into his parents? What should i do?
Been with a guy 3 years and haven't met his parents yet?? Girl, you may be part of his present but definitely not part of his future. And when he says he doesn't want to have a baby with you, believe him.
Alex, my ex messaged my bestfriend two days ago saying that he saw her on the Bumble dating app and he said to her that he’s sorry her relationship she was in, didn’t work out. Why would he need to do this? They only met 2 times with me there!
Because he has a crush on your friend and now you are not in the way
Alex please tell that what if he doesn't come back after giving him less attention and stay at distance for some time?
Can we perceive that he is interested in someone else?
Alex he didn't call me still 3 days so what can I do
How long do you not talk to him?
Hi from Malaysia...
How long shell I disappear for a guy
What if he had blocked you until now
so when I decide to distance myself should I block him from seeing my photos
My ex come back no contact worked for me
What if he blocked you on Facebook, messenger and changed his number? It's been 75days already since he turn his back at me but I chased him twice and that's my mistake. The last time I broke NC has been 60 days
So don't make your mistake fir the 3rd time. Stop chasing him. Leave him alone. If he had to block you on social media and even change his phone number, it's so clear he is desperate to break free from you. Have some self respect and do not contact him.
Please help.i‘m married and have a child and he has me under control no matter what.I‘m to mature of playing games😒
I want to have a seat on Sunday sir
what if i blocked him everywhere?
I just dont understand something.If his goal is to be closer to you then why he wants the break up and doesnt talk or ignore or he is selfish?I mean his goal yes is to have the control etc but i don't think he wants to be close to you.He wants to be away from you.I just didnt understand this.He only wants to be close to you when you are happy without him.
Alex if a wife is not communicate with a husband because another man is texting a wife...what is the advice to a husband
😂😂
Alex, please help, i don’t understand his behavior like sometimes, hes kind and sweet and whenever he will get angry hes saying bad words to me and telling me go with anyone and i dont like you anymore, and after a few days he will come back, i dont his behavior now hes not like before
Hi there,
Thank you so much for reaching out to us about this! I know that coach Alex would love to help you with this but in order for him to do so, he would need to know a little more about what you're going through. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
What if he doesn't have social media
He dumped me today. And told me not to contact him, unless it is work related.. I have to send him a picture of the register everyday.. We stopped chatting like usual months before... Please help
Hi, what happened. Are u still working with him,or any personal improvement? I am in this same situation now.
But does this going silent on each other still work after multiple break ups.. ?
Yes of course! Specially if you make your life VERY interesting with new activities :-)
Hi alex ur explication is interesting i dnt hv problm wiz my ex but alwys he blok me n zen whn i ask my friend tel him to dblok n zen he dblok me n he talk to me smtimes he is nice to me whn he did not hve smthing n zen he cme to me but I lve him so much but what a lve at only me is after him so why cn i do at he chase me n zen alwys he cme to me plzz help me plzzzz
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you with this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
I make it 8 months longer Alex 😅 and I still didn’t give him what he wants because of his games and guess what i feel he wants me more 😬…
He wants to go... let us him go
Hi! Alex my husband is left me for 17 Year's now so
What can I do for to get him back.
I'm Tabitha Pora from Papua New Guinea.
Hello, I invite you to watch the replay of my latest free master class "LEARN THE BEST TECHNIQUES TO ATTRACT THE GUY YOU WANT!" Here is the link: www.alex-cormont.com/gtg-webinar-offer08x093jf0n
He never asked questions
He already quite for two months he is not coming back
He is firm😢
Hi Alex how about a man keep yeilling,for 11months,but always saying I'm the one,till the rest of his life ,blah blah so toxic,b
11 yrs of relationship.my boyfriend broke up with me one month ago.I tried to reach him with different numbers but he blocked me. How can I get him back
I'm so sorry to hear this! Let's book a coaching session so I can know more about what happened and help you through this.
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
WHAT IF I MOVED TOO FAST BECAUSE HE MOVED TOO FAST AND NOW HE GHOSTED ME. I FEEL SHAME THAT IF WE BOTH MADE A MISTAKE MOVING TOO FAST, THAT IM THE ONE BEING PUNISHED WHEN WE BOTH ARE TO BLAME. BUT HE GHOSTED ME WHEN WE BOTH MADE THE SAME MISTAKE?????
WE ARE BOTH CHRISTIANS AND SHOULD UNDERSTAND THE MISTAKE AND MOVE FORWARD. IT IS PAINFUL TO THINK I HAVE TO BE SO PERFECT AND CAN NEVER MAKE AN ERROR OTHERWISE RISKING FATALITY. IM NOT PERFECT. I CAN CERTAINLY TRY TO BE THOUGH.
❤️🙏🏼❤️❤️
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How can i do more than no contact if he blocked me on social media??
He will unblock you if you show him that you're moving on :-)
Makes sense in what your saying.
My ex broke up with me after 5 years in sept and has sold out hour ALREADY
However still wants to sleep with me and help me on my new house?????????
Looking forward to Sunday.
You can be my expert any day 😉💋
Don't know woman has the energy to put her all into a man/in the Bible it tells you the man is the head so ladies and I'm talking to myself be selfish and take care of you and if you went through a breakup a divorced etc be selfish and take care of you when your king come you'll no you're a queen and I'm talking to both a king and a queen goes both ways but the man is the head not the tail is too many tails out here I don't have the energy zero toleration I will stay single and date myself and number one I put GOD#1 always first🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
❤
He back for his f Ego
Why can I do wiz him he i control him
I don't understand your situation?
Hi Alex ....no contact means what ? Just block my sp in all of my social media !? Or if my sp send msgs I don't reply him ..ah !? PLS reply me and clear my doubt
Becas I am in a relationship with my sp but now he is not msg him ..PLS reply alex
Mt man left a month ago and I haven't contact him. But when I tried last night, His phone was cut off or changed which was his work phone. So how does it work when you have no way of contacting him.
Why can I do plzz give me a better solution i wait ur answer on Sunday dnt 4gt my name is brinda
If you want an answer fast, you have to book a private coaching
Hi me break up to my husband is won't that bo is text me and sorry for that and won't com back bo l told him no bo me have kid to gear and she asked for him l have to text him to kids won't talk too him
Why cn i do Alex give me way
Hi there! I know Alex would love to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through! I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with him using this link:
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
What if he has moved on with another woman
Hi there!
I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to learn more details about what your situation in order to give you the guidance you need. I would highly suggest booking a coaching call with him using this link:
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
Alex please help me
Hi there!
I know coach Alex would love to help you! I would highly suggest booking a one on one coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
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Thank you for your support!
Control 😅
WOMEN THE WORLD IS OUR NOT THE MEN
Alex he hasn't spoken to me in a month. Is it safe to say that he has no interest in me?
Sometimes it's not about time but about your actions. What can you do different? Don't hesitate to book a coaching with the team or myself :-)
I hate all these games... Women don't play games with someone we like...