World Peace Starts At Home | Julie Schwartz Gottman | TEDxVeniceBeach

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  • Using the findings from The Gottman Institute’s studies of love and diplomacy, world-renowned relationship expert Julie Schwartz Gottman tries to understand how to create peace in the world by dissecting human communication. She finds that, no matter the argument, successful diplomats and couples are those who listen to each other and work to find a solution or middle ground. As she creates more peace in the home through the work of the Gottman Institute, she hopes to also generate more peace in the world. For more, visit www.gottman.com/. The co-founder and President of The Gottman Institute, Dr. Julie Gottman co-created the international clinical training program in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. A highly respected clinical psychologist, she is sought internationally by media and organizations as an expert advisor on marriage, sexual harassment and rape, PTSD, domestic violence, gay and lesbian adoption, same-sex marriage, and parenting issues.
    The author of five books, Julie is the co-creator of the immensely popular The Art and Science of Love weekend workshops for couples. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @genevaelyse1918
    @genevaelyse1918 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What I've learned from this talk is that we really need to be diplamtic when it comes to our relationships. You can't thrive while being anxious and angry. Wish I was born in a family that being calm during arguments was a core value. Instead, I grow up in a family where my dad used to constantly scream and cut people off because of his bad childhood and my mom was very neglectful. she was always looking for a way to escape from her responsibilities as a mother. But I'm happy that I'm healing and I'm learning to become a secure person.

  • @JMac-dy6hq
    @JMac-dy6hq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful talk. Love the idea of 'good enough' ' relationship. In no way do I want to live up to someone looking for perfection.

  • @BergenAndAssociates
    @BergenAndAssociates 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for this clear talk about finding connection when there is difference. About making it right by caring and empathy. I love it...great to be thinking about as we move towards Peace Day/Remembrance Day/Veterans Day. Peace in the world (macro level) starts with us all working towards and finding peace in the home (micro level). Your work is so important!

    • @OmPrakash-vt6lw
      @OmPrakash-vt6lw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rightlly said. Starting it with ourselves is the best approach to solve complex issues of world

  • @MaryHernandez-lq8kq
    @MaryHernandez-lq8kq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the boat farm story💕💞

  • @TellSamyra
    @TellSamyra 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good information!

  • @apindersingh1483
    @apindersingh1483 ปีที่แล้ว

    Intelligent lady thanks so much for the information

  • @jeniferludwig5743
    @jeniferludwig5743 ปีที่แล้ว

    Choose peace over the need to be right

  • @midoann
    @midoann 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the easy to understand and effective bagel and now with the invasion of Ukrainian and people sad brings the need to star peace at home too.

  • @anamoisinho7628
    @anamoisinho7628 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing!!!

  • @Kaeltott
    @Kaeltott ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤

  • @Rebeccakisosondi
    @Rebeccakisosondi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If the only problem in your marriage is messy versus clean you have no problems

  • @aperson2020
    @aperson2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good lord. Yeah the man stands by his wife and then the mom gets pissed of. I was a sandwich between my mom and my wife for 20 years. They could have ripped each arm of mine to have their way. Finally i had to tell them to grow up or you both will lose me and that's what happened. Now I'm in peace. Really.
    Here's my simple suggestion and challenge for peace. Pledge that you will do no harm to people or Planet from this day forward. Mean it and practice it and promote it. That will be the end of war, poverty, hunger n suffering. No research no PhD. Just the common man and woman to act to change the world to bring world peace.

  • @divinedivinity499
    @divinedivinity499 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ONE EARTH WORLD
    ONE CONSTITUTION
    ONE DEMOCRACY
    ONE ELECTION