Wanting them to Love You - How to Move On!
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Sometimes I think the loss we mourn is the POTENTIAL of the relationship, and not the reality of. We hold on to an idealistic hope of achieving the type of relationship that we want, and project that on to our current partner, regardless of incompatibilities that we chose to overlook.
The most important relationship is the one we have with ourself. This is the one we need to build upon first to be capable of cultivating healthy relationships.
Great video ♥️
Yes. It really statys with Loving you.
I went from 100% blaming her for the marriage failing, to realizing it was 50/50, to realizing it was 100% my fault. It is 100% my fault because I allowed and permitted everything that happened to me and was said to me. You decide how others treat you. You decide who you allow into your life. Realizing that is super empowering. Another great video Stephanie! Thank you!
So true! Very well said!👍🏻
Josh....would it be fair to say when you were dating, you ignored either verbal clues or actions that portrayed someone else who was still in her heart ? It is one of the most common thing I discover with divorcing couples.
@@theophilus46 I wouldn’t say that I ignored the warning signs, but I definitely didn’t know what they were warning me of. I didn’t know what narcissism or co-dependency were or what they meant. I genuinely believed that any anger and hate that was coming my way was somehow deserved and that I could make it better somehow. Eventually I reached a breaking point where I bottomed out and didn’t recognize myself anymore. I think I was very naïve to everything that was going on and it was very gutless of me to not have dealt with it properly early on.
@@TheJoshGalt .......thanks.....good reply
Im going through the same thing... your blinded and sometimes we dont see the signs
My ex sends emails even though he doesn’t want to be with me. I finally got the heart to respond and it went like this “I no longer want to keep in contact with a man that has nothing to offer me so thank you for reaching out and please don’t contact me again”. I felt like a boss biatch💯
👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
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Did he reply?
Why did you respond? No judgement. I am guilty of the same... but I always feel defeated when I respond to messages from the toxic person. I know I should go full no contact.
Super star that’s awesome
The hot and cold cycle of a anxious and avoidant attachment “trap” will absolutely scramble your brain. That intermittent reinforcement can really trauma bond you. The FA woman I was seeing was like some kind of drug to me. The beginning is beautiful but the pull away feels catastrophic. The pain and wanting is immense. I appreciate these videos because it is no joke
Since i have been in a relationship with my narcissistic boyfriend i have suffered from severe anxiety, including not being able to sleep , to my heart and my thoughts literally racing… my instinct tells me that he does not love me and never has done and i have seen so many signs that he is cheating on me and lying to me but now it is up to me to take a hard decision and finally leave him 😢
we used to see each other daily and i was only seeing her one day a week by the end of it. literally scrubbed of my dignity man
Wanting to be loved so bad blinds us from seeing what’s really happening. Two years ago my heart was broken by someone I would have done anything for. Now that time has passed, her dumping me was actually a blessing ! I actually learned from this pain. I was a pathetic mess when it first happened. I begged, tried to manipulate, cried bargained ….. a big mess! My whole life fell apart. However, I resolved myself to soldier on. I realized how sad I was and forgave myself for feeling sad and angry because that’s what happens when we are betrayed by someone who you were, truly convinced, loved you. No one is different in this particular space. So for all of those that feel like they are just gonna die, or want to, because some women or man had taken their heart and stepped on it, hang on.. the strength that will come from this hurt -will -scar up and will make you stronger and smarter. We ALL go through this. You are and WILL be loved again, I promise you that!. ❤️👍😁
P.S. …. Make sure, if you are going to post on TH-cam,to read what you have written before you post it!🤣😆😬
Love can be found again regardless of how it get twisted 😌💯
For sure! Eye of the Tiger, man!👍❤️👊
Thanks man it's becoming suicidal for me ! I don't know but some how i am hanging here😢
What happened to me now 😢
With a lot of inner healing, self reflection, education, strength, empowerment, forgiving yourself, patience and transforming your life from negative to positive what seemed like the worst day of your life will in time be celebrated as the best.💛
Love this 🙌🏽❤️☀️
I think this video really just saved me from going insane.
In order to attract the love that you desire, you must take care of yourself first. When you love yourself, accept yourself and put yourself first, everything falls into place. The one thing that blocks you from manifesting a healthy relationship is when you put everyone else before you.
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Wow thank you so much for this reminder 💯👌🙂
Exactly right
I wish I could
After 6 years together he cheated and left for the other women..he betrayed me so harshly and now I see him happy with her and he is engaged to her already .it’s been 6 month I still cry everyday
Me too basically.
Any update sister ?
Karma will get his A$$
We were together 8 years and broke up. Apart for 3 years and ended up getting back together! For a year it was wonderful. I thought she had really changed. I know I had. Therapy, lifestyle changes etc did me a lot of good. But her old habits started coming back and after another 6 months, dumped me thru a FB message again. Always hides behind email, Facebook etc. Can never face anything in person. I have to be done this time. I need to heal and move on for good. People CAN come back, but it is not always going to give you what you want or need ☹
Is she a cheater ?
It's really tough trying to communicate with someone who doesn't want to communicate or work things out with you. This video helped me and many others, thank you.
What I am going through with at the moment 😢
same here
My father passed away in December 2020 which I took really badly as he wasn’t just my dad but a great friend too. Then 2 months later my ex told me that she was leaving me after 22 years together. I’m still trying to get myself back together again but some days are harder than others. I’ve bought my own house now and just need to get back on track. I never knew anything about narcissistic supply or anything on the subject until the last 12 months with counseling. Emotional abuse is real and it does happen to men. I’m proof.
My father passed away in November of 2016 and just a few months before that my ex husband of 15 years suddenly wanted a divorce. It does take time but I promise you will get through it and come out a stronger person from it.
God strengthen you
Unreal how you managed to push through that and not give up. You must have an insane mental strength. i respect that a lot.
I am going through this at the moment. Discarded by my narcissistic wife of 30 years. I know that I am already a better, stronger person because of this. Survivors of the world unite
This is such a good video! I still need to hear this and reminded that even though my ex isn't a horrible person, she chose that her life was better with out me in it. Stay strong my friends, better things are waiting for you!
My ex dicarded me at Xmas, I was absolutely devastated. Suicidal and in shock, I couldn't accept it. Couldnt work sleep or eat. Panic attacks and severe depression. After a few weeks I tried to understand why, the relationship was unhealthy, she was narcissistic mentally and physically abusive, I remembered thinking back, asking myself , why am I in this relationship she gives me nothing and just takes and uses me, so my absolutely despair didn't make sense when she dumped me. I read a lot and spoke to people, I think my reaction to somebody who didn't care or love me was linked to an abandonment trauma I cant mentally remember, my mother suddenly leaving us when I was 13, I was very close to her, I learnt the body can remember the trauma even if the mind cant recall it. My mother basically separated from my father in a few months me and my siblings were living with her again, but that initial shock sticks. That made sense to me cos my reaction to an abusive partner wasn't rational. I felt abandoned. In time I also learnt about Stockholm syndrome and trauma bonds. Still think of her daily but know she isn't right for me. Or anyone to be honest. If you got this far sorry for droning on!!
The abandonment issues that is caused by a parent leaving when you are little really messes you up. Understanding that it is PTSD. I am trying to learn more so I don't sabotage relationships and can deal with rejection without completely falling apart.
@@conniesmokegearsphotograph4829 thanks connie. Thats what happened i fell apart, cos this relationship was abusive and manipulative it felt a thousand times worse and didn't make sense. I was gutted when my previous long term relationship ended but not compared to this one. Take care.
@@JohnSmith-wo7ns it sounds like you really got some enlightenment in your situation. I hope that helped ease the hurt for you. While it's crappy to be treated like that if it's awakened you so that you can move forth and have amazing relationships now, perhaps it was all worth it.
@@conniesmokegearsphotograph4829 thanks connie I wouldn't wish it on anybody. I just had to dig deep and try to understand why somebody who didn't make me happy affected me so much, I was suicidal. I realised I was abused by her, withholding affection, teasing but not allowed to touch, lots of anger and aggression, so I clung to the rare calm nice moments, a meal a nice walk. These were rare. I though to myself I'm like a drug addict wanting a hit from her. After discard I learnt bout Stockholm syndrome and trauma bonded. 7 months on I still have down days and bizarrely miss her but I understand what the relationship was. I cant afford to go thru that again. Thanks for your message. I hope you can make progress on any probs you might have.
"The great relationships will come in facing great change and difficulty because it is within this environment that the deeper and truer nature of people becomes evident. And people will have to choose a greater allegiance within themselves and a greater allegiance to others. This is where great relationships become recognized, cultivated and expressed. No more foolish and indulgent romances here. No more wasting your time trying to have endless pleasure with someone when, in fact, you have nowhere to go together and nothing really important to do together. No more wasting your life on chasing beauty, charm and wealth; having fantasies about yourself and other people; trying to look good, to be accepted and degrading yourself in every possible way to gain the attraction or the admiration of some person. There will be little time for such things now.
While these times are extremely dangerous and hazardous, they provide the optimum environment for you to discover your greater strengths and with this, a set of greater relationships. This is where the greater purpose and meaning of your life can emerge if you can understand your situation correctly and if you learn to engage with your deeper nature and to rely upon it increasingly."
I share this quote with you today in hope that it may stir something deeper inside, something that awaits your recognition and attention. The quote comes from *The Great Waves of Change* - a book of preparation for the difficult future ahead. And as all Marshall Vian Summers books, it is completely free online.
I think the greatest parts of a relationship, beyond the love, is acceptance, understanding and helping your partner. Even for empaths this can be difficult. It is truly a great thing when two people who are up to the task meet and become life partners.
Thank you, Ivan.
I had no clue that my person was having an affair with a married woman he worked with. Nothing with us had changed...sex everyday...doing things together...not a single hint. One morning, He left for work while I was sleeping, I woke up to a picture of him with that woman on my phone. We were never together again from that moment on. I was truly blindsided...unfortunately this is how it can go when your partner is a narcissist. Within 90 days, she was divorced and his wife #5! It was shattering in the moment, but I am truly grateful...lol, he never deserved me. I mean really, has he been married 5 times because he’s a great guy?😉
dodged a bullet on that one. Wishing you healing!
@@blueseptember2174 Yes! I know that I did. I was under his spell then and the out of the blue discard was excruciating. It’s taken 2 years to feel like myself before he took over my life. The funny thing is that, in retrospect, my time with him was the most boring time of my life. He was very into sex, lol, proves how all that oxytocin floating around in your brain can cloud your thinking! Thank you for your good wishes. 🙏🏻🥰
@@texannadeb5005 they all have massive p@rn addictions. It's unsettling to say the least.
right you do deserve better. im ernie nice to meet u
Similar thing happened to me… I was totally blindsided, felt like a fool. The added complication was I had been with her for 22 years and we had a beautiful family and life. That part saddens me.
But when I look at the reality now I can see that we weren’t great. I had used traumatic events (death of both her parents and COVID stress) as an excuse for bad behaviour. I do think being on social media during the lockdowns changed her mentally.
I realise if it weren’t for kids we would of broken up ages ago, and is that someone I really want to fight and cry over?
One lightbulb! People are always disappointed because they keep repeating patterns they don’t realize; it’s themselves that need self reflection.
People definitely show you, tell you, and act out when they want you to move on. All someone has to do is tell me once CLEARLY and I do.
After 26 years together we met at 17 she's calling it a day, thanks for putting my healing into perspective, I know what I have to do.
This video just lifted my spirits 100%
So needed to hear this. You are amazing! Thank you ❤️
I am in the midst of the greatest heartbreak and it’s been made worse because he gave up and I’m desperate to keep trying. Thank you for a little bit of clarity. If he was the right person for me, he wouldn’t have left me. We would still be together if we were perfect for each other. I cannot go back to someone who doesn’t see the value that I have to offer even if it is kind of soul crushing at the moment.
Thanks to you I'm healing every day by watching your videos
Stephanie!!!!! I've so much gratitude toward you!!! You've been such a healing for my heart, inner child, you've helped me mature and become an adult. I'm so thankful!!!! I wish I could see you and tell you in person how much you've helped me in the last 3 months I followed your channel. I'm so grateful. You're at the entire other part of earth from where I'm located so I'm sending you a huge hug full of thanks and love. Thank you for everything!!!
You have saved me
many times by helping me understand what is happening to me and how to deal with it. My gratitude is immeasurable
This is really great! You're helping so many people right now. Such a high vibration soul! Love you!! XX
Thank you for helping me through my journey. I've had to listen to your videos several times to overcome what seemed like rock bottom. Gratitude ❤
Stephanie…this is some of the best advice I’ve come across. Thank you.
Thank you for this video. It is very on point with what happened to me. 12 years of happy relationship then suddenly, just one chat saying 'I can no longer commit'. That's it. I'm on my own for no reason. Thank you for inspiring me to persevere in moving on with life.
perfect timing i really needed this video.
if someone don’t like u they will tell u with their actions they don’t have to say It with words. a narc will not tell u they don’t like u. they want to keep treating you any kind of way. to make themselves feel better
Your videos are so very helpful. You literally speak my life with your words. I pray God will continue to bless you, because your words are golden and they're truly helping me, and so many others I'm sure, to heal.
I am in love with a beautiful and sweet lady who has a fearful-avoidant attachment style and pushed me away. She isn't ready to love and be loved yet after a broken marriage of 15 years. Thanks for publishing this video
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Truly spoke to my heart. I will do just that now that i know it’s over after 16 years of ups and TOO MANY downs.
Time to tighten up my boot straps and move forward
Omg I really needed this... Thank you. My biggest problem at the moment is a part of myself feels like I deserve to be treated like this because I've had such poor boundaries and let this kind of thing happen all my life.
You gotta want it so thankful for your station
You are sooo knowledgeable and giving for sharing this with us. I needed to hear this. Thank you! ❤
I was completely blindsided without any forewarning and I will never forgive her for what she did and, especially, what I’ve discovered what she did before her brutal discard! How is it possible for me or anyone to recover love for someone who has done such horrible things? I don’t think it is! It’s time to move on!
Peter, I literally can feel your pain. I’ve been there. But forgiveness is for YOU and not for her. This is the only way you will truly heal. Forgive her and forgive yourself.
I cant thank you enough for what you do Stephanie! You are so educational and break it down exactly the way I need to hear it. Thank you for being the figure I never had in my life, someone with honest and pure intentions. So thank you for allowing all of us to watch and learn form you. Absolutely Amazing❤
I realized the same thing. However, if that person treated you badly they have the responsibility for what they have done as well!
I so so so needed to hear this. Thank you 🙏🏻
This was so good and insightful! Thank you Stephanie for your amazing videos!
This video is right on time for me.
thank you so much for this video its exactlt what happend to me two months ago,and i felt so guilty about that and now im focusing on myself and learning about myself and this video was exactly what i needed
you understand the situation so goodddd
This was right on time! Funny I wrote a few days ago. Think about what you do want.
Exactly being blindsided by somebody is the worst feeling anybody could ever go through and then on top of that being led on by someone that you have been with for 4 years and gave them many chances and loved them at their worst for them to turn around and do that it's heartbreaking and it takes a while to recover from this happened a while ago but every so often my ex pops up which have no clue why because he clearly doesn't want a relationship nobody should have to deal with that wasn't mad that he chose someone else over me but let's face it it did hurt I wouldn't have done that to him what hurt more is the way he went about it
My bf ghosted after 6 months. I was completely blindsided. It's been about 6 weeks and although I'm healing it's been very rough. I didn't know anything about attachment styles when it happened but since I've learned a lot. Your video is definitely one of the best I've watched. Informative, straightforward. Thank you so very much.
Thank you so much for this amazing message and encouragement!
Thank you for this great video, Stephanie. This is such a great way to look at it as I try to move past a relationship that was one-sided and clearly not the person for me.
You are so welcome!
I like how real you are Stephanie. I love you. 💖
Stephanie, this has been very helpful. I am looking forward to applying it to myself. Thank you for your advice. 🖤
I agree! Great video!!
Another very informative podcast. Thank you. Something that helped jump start my healing process - the Mirror Exercises - was a meditation podcast by Lisa Romano titled ‘It’s not you - it’s your programming.’ While listening to that podcast I literally started crying. After I calmed down I sat down and write out what I was not going to allow in my life anymore. I set some boundaries for me. And so far I haven’t crossed those boundaries. I’ve not let toxic people back into my life just because I was feeling lonely or unloved. I’m learning it’s okay to feel a lone sometimes and that we are never really lonely because there are other people going thru the same thing or something similar. And even tho I never heard my parents, grandparents or sister tell me they loved me I knew they did by them showing me in other ways. Once I could look at my family as people who also had their own trauma issues and they did the best they knew how then it became easier for me to forgive my parents for things that happened when I was little. They thought they were doing something for me to help me and it backfired on them.
Again thank you for helping me learn.
Wonderful video. Sometimes on some days you hear exactly what you need to hear. This was one of those times on one of those days. Thank you so much Stephanie.
Thank you for this video. My relationship will be ending as girlfriend moving away to try “new chapter” in life. This book will close and I need to remember I was enough even though she didn’t feel the same way. Going to keep working on myself. :)
Thank You so much, I needed to hear this...
Your videos are great and have helped a lot.
Oh wow divine timing on this video that I just saw even though it's from 1 year ago 😂 wow just all of it.
"Operating from wounded inner child, *ego*, inner child hurt when they don't want you but at the same time adult self might accept the reality and be ok with it"
This is totally me right now! You putting in to those words is blowing my mind 😊 (and validating me a little)
I mourned my divorce for years and couldn't get out of it until I saw that this person was not a good person. I felt conflicted because I thought that they were a good person. But how can a good person cause so much hurt.
The last point in the video was so on point!!!
This can change someones Life. Thank You Stephanie!!!!!!!!! 💖💖🙌
Thank you Stephanie. I needed this today 🙏
This is so powerful, thank you Coach Stephanie
Wow! Thank you so much for this video. I felt like you were describing my relationship exactly. My wife of 20 years dropped the divorce bomb on me 2 weeks after knee replacement surgery and was still laid up. To say that it was a shock would be an understatement. I was angry, hurt, depressed and a hundred other emotions. However, as the shock wore off, I realized that I had been very unhappy in this marriage for over 10 years but just did not have the courage to pull the ripcord. My ex would never admit she had any part or responsibility for what was bad between us and assigned it all to me. I don't know if she is narcissistic but she sure has many of the traits you mentioned in that regard. The timing of what she did, without any warning at all, was designed to be maximally hurtful. However, like you mentioned, I have been working on myself and dealing with a hurt inner child as an adult now. I have now gotten to the point of being grateful to her for ending it when I did not have the courage to do do. I have been growing and am in a much healthier place without being married to her. She is still in my life somewhat since we have kids and grandkids in common, but I am much more serene now that we are divorced.
I Understand completely. Myself I was married 23years to a women I loved, who was also my best friend and we had 3 beautiful daughters.
7 years ago out of the blue she says she wants to find herself and ''I'm going to give myself 2months to decide if I remained married to you.'' Well you can imagine how that 2months went with that axe hanging over ones neck. For the first month I was in total shock. I could hardly function. Then I started to see past the smoke and mirrors, I started doing a bit of detective work and Of course there was some worm of a man from her Reiki group who had infiltrated her mind and heart and convinced her he was the one. The lies and deceit I uncovered, I could not believe. She even looked directly into our children's eyes and knowingly Lied. It didn't last the 2 months. One evening about week 6, I packed her bags before she got home and when she did get home, I revealed what I now knew and that she could leave and go 'find' herself. She never denied any of it and she has also never accepted any responsibility for her actions. I was in total shock for months. That was the hardest thing I have done in my life and It was so against what I wanted or even wanted to do but I was left with no choice. As time went by I learned of narcissistic behaviour and there were many that matched. Its been a long and rough road to recovery. Even now I feel I have a long way to go.
Recently I came across the videos of 'The Happy Wife School' on you-tube.
I highly recommend you watch them. There are quite a few and all have valuable insights of why women behave the way they do. This has helped me (and many other men) profoundly. To understand what happened, why and to allow me to feel good about myself again.
She highlights how certain actions and behaviours many women employ over time (knowingly or not and it can be many years) have the effect of emasculating the husband, depriving him of his role and identity. Then when this is achieved they no longer want to be in the relationship as, and I quote, ''It no longer serves them'' so you are discarded like a used lolly wrapper.
That says a lot really. There are so many truths uncovered, Check them out.
All the best.
Yes. Exactly. The person who was making the troubles was as you said it "your fault." 100% ...100%. 🙌🙌🙌( relatable too myself.)
Excellent video. Great insight. Wonderful advice.😊
This video helped me so much today! Thank you
I have never been more understood❤ thank you for helping me grow
stephanie _ that was really a great video - really clarifying - can't thank you enough
So Me!!! I so need this!!! Big thank you!! ❤️
People don't fall out of love. Love is a decision!
This is really good advice, that inner child is wounded and its funny I have been sitting by myself saying its not fair like a little child who didn't the toy he wanted. It's tough, because you invest in someone to such and extent, be attentive, giving, listening, tell them you love them and think the world of them. Do all the things you thought and were told the right things to do for someone you love, and little by little not get any of it back, to point where you're barely acknowledged at all its tough. And you do doubt yourself, and say well after all I tried to do to make her happy, that if she couldn't see my value who else will see my value. However, I guess you can't worry about that, you can't control fate, you can only control yourself.
Lots of love, Stephanie ❤️
Thank you so much for pointing out that this wasn’t entirely my fault. He left me after seven years of being together and I’ve been blindsided. He started moving on while we were still together and didn’t even communicate anything to me until the last minute when he was about to breakup. I’ve been taking all the blame since he left and I even said sorry so many times for failing in the relationship. I realized now that he was also accountable- but he never said sorry for just giving up and keeping me blindsided to what was happening. He just said sorry because he was leaving.
Any updates?
Thank you for this video 😓💙
Thank you for this video. You cannot imagine how helpful his has been to me. I have found my sudden divorce, after 24 years of marriage, the most traumatic experience I have ever had to process. Your words guide me to the perspective I need.
Thank you so much I really needed this right now.
This helped me so much. Thank you Stephanie. 💙
Wonderful video
So helpful
Thank you so much 🦋
Thanks for the great advise!
You're really good. Thank you so much!
I'm going through this right now. about to leave very toxic relationship w passive avoidant and dismissive person. we were together for 10 years. he said he doesn't want it but I was chasing him. I couldn't take a no for an answer because I wasn't healed from my past. I just want to be loved and projected that on him. he can't see my value and it's time for me to go. I got a therapist and digging deep what's causing me to feel so negative about myself and I'm discovering new things. and healing. it's painful but I don't want to repeat my patterns of unhealthy relationships. I will heal myself first before I will get into new relationship. it's scary to be single again but it might be so worth it on a long run because one day I will have a true partnership and love.
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I really needed tow atch this. I find Stephanie's videos so helpful. I'm (probably WAS actually) in a relationship with a woman with BPD. I don't think I could handle what I'm going through if I didn't have access to such helpful insights. Kind of saving my soul, if not my life
Your so knowledgeable and on point
Great video, very informative. So true. Thanks
So true! My tactic , after a long time of suffering.
I blamed myself for the marriage failed. She was my world. I need to find someone who wants me and chooses me. Thank you for your video
I got caught up in the twin flame lie mixed with neglect in my childhood and abandonment issues. Even though I knew he wasn’t good for me. l got caught up in the passion not realizing l was attracted to toxicity. I have moved on and he never chose me. I had to choose myself. I allowed myself to block anyone else thinking he was the one. I learned a lot and l forgive myself and him.
You should release a book!!! I would definitely buy a copy! 🤗🤗 Thanks again for this video.
Words of WISDOM!
Thank you. I was surprised at how the marriage of one of my old flames affected me. We're still friends and, although that flame fizzled years ago, I guess I still had hope that maybe we'd rekindle things. I'm so happy for him and it's great to see him happy. But it bothered me more than I thought it would.
I am the one who broke up with him & been struggling for a year to move on
Great sermon! Thank you!!!
17 years and he just ended it outta the blue. I loved him more than anything. I was so consumed in making him happy and building his dream business I don't know who or what I am anymore,
Well said hits home thank you 🙏
My ex took things so personally all the time....wow. This is POWER ful stuff. Wow. So Powerful. WOW!!! Thank YOU! 💖💖💖
I can’t thank you enough for helping me through this
Toni Bandy,You look cute 🥰,Hope you are not with a narcissist…
De beste keuze die ooit is gemaakt...zal blij zijn als ik daarvan ben bevijd.
i was doing okay but today i need to hear this again
Thank you for this ❤
amazinggggggg❤❤❤❤this is a very gooddd pointttt
This Video is spot on where I'm at.