When I was broken hearted someone told me. Quote: If you can love the wrong person this much, imagine how much you can love the right one ❤️ I hope this helps 😊
Pay attention to what we call love these days: Sometimes people don't really love you, they just love how you love them and use that to make you feel loved. They enjoy your presence and feel comfortable around you, but there will come a time when they will get bored of you and you will realise that it wasn't love but they were in it with you for fun, and you NEED to do the hard part of Moving on.....
Working on ourselves and doing things that we love doing - having a life outside of the past relationship - will help us to move on from the wrong person. And maintaining those actions whether in a relationship or not, is always great for oneself and will attract the right partner for the long term - when we also have a life and interested outside our our relationship - single or not. Whoever is watching this, I pray you have a prosperous and fulfilling life overall! 😘❤️
Thanks - Nathalie! I appreciate it. Personal Development is one of the best things you can do for yourself - because, we as human beings, we’re supposed to embrace growth! So make sure you find your Purpose in life - whatever it might be, and work on it daily, and continue to make progress, because progress is - really the key to happiness. But don’t do it for any girl or guy, make sure you’re doing it for yourself - and just be happy! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
It's been 2 weeks since we broke up. As much as she's made it clear that she wants to move on from me, there's always been a part of me that thinks that we'll try and find a way to get back together. But I realized that it's taking a toll on me mentally because she was all that I was thinking about and I still felt strongly about her, that I forget that I had a life of my own. 😂 Some nights I cried myself to sleep and waking up sad, wondering what I would've done differently.. I was literally a mess! But after watching this video yesterday, I did exactly what Jessica had said (completely cutting her off) and focusing on myself more, I seem to enjoy being in my own space. 🙂💌 I learned that self love is more important than giving out love. Yes, I know that it's just been 2 weeks and I haven't completely gotten her out of my system, but forsee myself living life a lot better with peace of mind. Thank you Jessica 🙏
It's ok to cry.. don't stay there to long. Move on go on your life.if she can leave easy like that means she's not the one in the first place. We give to much for the person we love and forget to love ourselves. This is what I have learned. Learned to love yourself before you can love somebody. God remove that person out of your life. Because he has a plan for you. Me as well needs to move on. I need to stop and breathe.
I can't thank you enough for sharing these tips. They are so helpful. Surely, there is a man for every woman and a woman for every man. No one deserves a one-sided relationship.
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
thank you Jessica for your advice, you just made me realize the importance of ending this 1 year old relationship of mine. She would always tell me that she is busy. When I video call her, she would shout at me and tell me to not call her while she is busy. She no longer has time for me, she no longer calls me, for checking up on me, but she always has time for her friends and for her male besties. You just made me realize the importance of freeing myself from this mental slavery. I have just deleted her numbers and I have blocked her on facebook. I now feel much more better, I feel free. Thank you, its me Believe Motloung from South Africa, in Pretoria.
You've just talked about me here, point by point you outlined exactly what I have been through.The biggest lesson I learned is; Time heals everything. With time, we get over people and situations. My mantra is: No matter how painful it is, it too shall pass.
You must have a PHD in Interpersonal Relationship Counseling.This was powerful reinforcement to finally let the remnants of my prev relationship go.Been 7 yrs,and I have been still calling her every 4- 6 mo's. You really brought enlightenment in clarifying the next thing i need to do to let my Ex go once and for all.Thank you,this was so what I needed to hear.❤️🙏
10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
These are hard truths. Heartbreak creates a void in your life and the universe hates a void. Make sure you feel the emptiness with positive affirmation. Much love to all who go through heartbreak.
I loved this video and needed to hear this! I’m in the process of moving on from someone I considered the love of my life. I had to let go for myself because I didn’t feel valued, so I chose myself.
@@JessicaOS hey Jéssica i would like to ask you something, i was talking to a girl then from one day to another she said she thought she was ready for a relationship and then she's not
Don't force relationships or friends.. Don't accept it as a consolation prize. If you aren't good enough for him. Why does he want to be friends with you? Repurpose , rebuild
im going through a heartbreak at the moment. its been almost 2 months now, sometimes i forget about her but as soon as i see any of her close friends calling my phone, i begin to go into that state of trauma. i can feel my heart beats faster and faster. i hate to listen to love songs now. i cant normally go outside from my house cos we stay in the same area. sometimes i need someone to talk to but it seems no one really understands what im going through. i just watch motivational videos on tiktok to calm my nerves done and keep me going. its not easy for me. i pray time comes quick to heal me completely. im a music producer and sometimes i cant even work. a lady whom i cared and loved for all these years could betrayed me these way..wow..i never saw this coming. thanks Jessica. i think God knows best.
Bro God will surely see us through ok, my now ex broke up with me yesternight, this is a fresh heartbreak i'm experiencing now. But I believe we'll pull through with God being on our side bro
@@mistygeezofficial I'm also in the same position with u. My life is totally a mess right now. Is been 4years of my life have no peace. I finally developed an anxiety. I'm always watching motivational speech. I have only my sisterto talk to but I feel like sometimes she gets tired to listen to me. If anybody can be there for me just to talk please inbox
These are the last days people basically ain't s*** I've moved on from having faith in relationships I don't give a s*** ANYMORE I'm gonna do me and me only If any chick loves me more than I love her I'm not going to lie to her and keep her holding on I'm going to let her know ain't nothing happening At least I ain't going to leave her in the fantasy world let some other MF do it
This hurts so bad. I really love him so much and I hate the idea of him being with another woman. It makes my stomach ache. This hurts so bad. I know I’ll make it to the other side of this pain 😣🙏🏾
@@jennykerekes5105 girl I’m still wrapped up in to be honest! But his narcissism is making it easier to walk away! I know I deserve better 🙏🏾 now I’m starting to feel bad for the next woman if he doesn’t heal first.
Don't worry baby gal The only way to move on is to get time and travel I promise you that u will come back home when you are healed and forgot everything Sometimes on your journey of travelling u may get a chance of finding a new love I mean someone who can understand u and your value
You are so easy to listen to. Soothing voice and very articulate in your expressions. This was pleasantly educational. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.
A lot of these types of situations are the result of unmet needs from your caregivers as a child. We subconsciously want to right the wrongs in our youth and many times we find a partner that has the characteristics of that parent figure (typically Mom or Dad) in the person we are dating so we can get that love/affection/attention/praise etc we didn't get from that parent figure. So we try to do it with the person we date. This is a form on co-dependance and it's not healthy at all. Go get some therapy, figure out your wounded inner child and do the work required to make you a healthy individual who's ready for a relationship. Until you do the work, you'll never be ready for a healthy relationship.
Mrs, Jessica, what should I tell a person who is really in love with me and I love her too. Buh I'm a student and don't wanna enter a relationship right now and I don't wanna lose her too
@@princewilliams9079 no problem..just don't let your fear of losing the one you love be the reason you get into a relationship. Hope you guys make it work 👍
Sometimes there are no physical abuse or any of the abuses you mentioned. Sometimes it's just the person you love so much place their family members above you in that situation you have to let them go, because love is not enough, complete loyalty is everything.
Whenever Jessica brings up a subject she's always nailed it right in. I have yet to read a comment where someone said Jessica is wrong. Seriously I have yet to see that. Everything the girl said is something most of the time a woman did or do to a man. The man always give himself away to a woman whom he loves so much and what the woman did; ruin that freedom.
Being in a "friend zone" is the most unhealthy position to put yourself in . Its impossible to just be a friend to someone you love without an eventual emotional dilemma. Women dont seem to understand this concept.
I'm going through a divorce. Went through my husband's phone, and he was texting another female. Heb is a narcissist from verbal, financial, and emotionally once physical. Why am I'm so hurt? Why I'm not happy to know? Why I what this to be a bad dream? I am so confused about love? I ask God to show me a sign. Now that I have it, I am scared to lose him. This is crazy to me. The process is so early that I wish I could push time forward.
This is what was needed for me!!! These feelings I have are making me crazy. I just want to move on without thinking about this person who I allowed in my life and destroy it. I feel like relationships aren't for me anymore and I feel like I caused all of this although I didn't!!! I hate this awful feeling
This is my state of position. After all the plea for many days now, today she just told me, " she's not interested anymore". I've wept inside of me. I'll be fine
Thanks again Jessica...your always on point and your such an inspiration and motivator...this is really useful and something to consider...and also on my part where the kids are Involved ....will take much from this
Hey .thanks for the advice but jess there's this girl am into but she seems not interested we've been good friends till I opened up and told her I love you she seemed like she knew it but she just told me to let things flow the way they're Am now confused is she interested or not.i actually don't know what to say or do next should I stop being her friend for some time or I just let her be ..
My name is TOMMY I am from Tanzania, I have a girl i Real love her and I have a feelings that i never done any women, this girl made me changed a lot, from my old habit, i left all women deleted all my girlfriend numbers all because i see her as my future wife, but the issue comes i can not move on even if she told me she has someone in her life and i real love her. Pleas help me how can i do to make her change her mind.
Welldone Jess. I’ve been there before but I cut all means of communications with her and it worked like magic. I’m a happy man now ... many thanks for sharing xxx
Well I've been controlled by my girlfriend well ex girlfriend now and I told her and I'm now at the pothat I will never ever find love because I don't want to I'm just going to enjoy life I hope this was no6harsh or anything like that
How would I cut communication if my ex stay in the same flat... I can't move from my current flat because it's to close to my university and sometimes I go late in night for studying... In simple I can still meet up with her in the life or any place in my flat 😓😓😓 ????
I can't even drink alcohol because I don't want to go dark. I am glad I am watching your videos. I need to move on. I have so many ladies that want to date me but I am still screwed up from her.
Great tips! If you’ve been cheated on, don’t close off your heart to love - learn from it, and move on! (I know it’s easier said than done) You’re not the first person whose trust have been betrayed, nor will you be the last. It’s ok, it’s part of life. Just work on yourself before you get into another relationship, and you’ll be much smarter, and more alert this time - and you’ll be able to recognize the red flags a lot quicker when things are not going the way they’re supposed to. And remember, what doesn’t kill you - can only make you stronger! Cheers! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
I'm in so much pain. we grew together, from being the worst version of ourselves to being awesome humans. I worked so hard to make sure she becomes every mans dream only for her to leave me now 😭.... I've seen so many breakups but never knew it hurts this much. I cry so much even as a man. I cry at work, home and even in church. I want the pain to go away, I can't handle it. I am at the verge of depression 😢. I just want to stop feeling this way😢😢..
I’m glad that when I was dating, I moved on from someone who requited and mutually loved and respected me and instead, eleven years later, I found better in my only lifelong husband Frank.
Wow Jessica, u r such a breeze wow. I've been listening to u all year n still get those Ahaa moments, thank u soooo much for not holding back because shuuùuu u really r showing us(me personally) blind spots from a female's perspective. May God increase yo well of knowledge n wisdom, big love to thee Jess.💚💚💚...Oh Yeah!!!
3 days now and it feels like am losing it tbh.I am tempted to text and apologize for the 1000th time.Let me see how far am gonna get with this heavy heart.
Thank you for the kind words and the advice Jessica. Your videos are really helping a lot of people around the world than you can imagine, I'm truly glad that I've run into this particular video. I hope you continue sharing such videos which really help us heal emotionally and mentally. I wish you success and more love❤️
Leaving a toxic relationship is not easy that worth it 😪😪. I really loved my ex fiancée we were suppose to get married 2024 May .. but anyway she had her own plans 😪 I wish her the very best in life
Hi Jes. Iv bin in this situation...disrespected emotional abuse...cheating and lied too. Our daughter is turning 5 dis year....n it's kind of complicated to be in no contact..
Omg! after God the creator we have Jessica. Thanks God for this beautiful soul called Jessica, Jessica is a physical and a mental healer. The concepts why we're living today or the purpose of us being alive is defined by Jessica every second, minute, hour, day, week, month, year, decade and I hope and believe she will live to see a century. God's love on Jessica os, God bless you.
I'm Anthony from Sierra Leone. I've loved her with everything within me though we're on a distance relationship. She has been cheating on me about four times now and I've been forgiving her all these while but the fourth one got me upset than the three times. She got to the point that she denied me to the guy she has been cheating on me with and also denied she has nothing to do with the same guy in same town she's living. What will I do sister Jessica?
Just recently brokeup with her and she has found somebody else. Its hard to let go 'cause we're 5 months pregnant and i'm just worried about my baby boy, i didn't want him to be born with his parents apart😭😭
I'm so upset with my self I have the women of my dreams and I'm in love with my ex 😩 and now that I'm trying to find happiness and peace and ex is being the the person I away wanted her to be and I'm so confused
I like every little word or advice she always shares,she thought and shaped me so much untill i subscribed to her channel now I'm better knowing a differences between love and nonsensical e.t.c
This video is pointing its 10 fingers at me. My relationship is toxic I know it myself anytime I made an attempt to quit and move on p3 then my heart become heavy with sleepless only thinking about her and eventually I will fall prey into the toxication again. I hope this tip will give me the edge to flee and take a bold decision for my on good
It's a waste of time; a dent on the self esteem and a heavy burden on the mental health. If it didn't work out then it's not meant to be, bro! There are billions of beautiful people on this planet earth! And I'm absolutely sure there's someone waiting to meet you; to love, respect and cherish you! Goodluck with the search my brother 🤗
When I was broken hearted someone told me.
Quote: If you can love the wrong person this much, imagine how much you can love the right one ❤️
I hope this helps 😊
Thanks
Thanks
Thank u❤️
It's help a lot thank you
wow.....that is beautiful
Don’t be where you are tolerated, be where you’re celebrated 🔥
This point REALLY HIT... I wanted to even type this reply..
God bless u for being positive all the time
So what if you’re the one causing the trouble.. you should be tolerated too?
@@dredalisixtus9538 😆😆😆😆
@@dredalisixtus9538 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Pay attention to what we call love these days:
Sometimes people don't really love you, they just love how you love them and use that to make you feel loved. They enjoy your presence and feel comfortable around you, but there will come a time when they will get bored of you and you will realise that it wasn't love but they were in it with you for fun, and you NEED to do the hard part of Moving on.....
This is it
Very very true
🙌🙌
I wonder if this is how he l felt. It hurts so much
True ✌️
"Do not go where you are tolerated, go where you are celebrated."
I love this lines 👍👍👍
Until you meet someone who matches your energy a lot of people will make you feel you ask for too much....
Working on ourselves and doing things that we love doing - having a life outside of the past relationship - will help us to move on from the wrong person. And maintaining those actions whether in a relationship or not, is always great for oneself and will attract the right partner for the long term - when we also have a life and interested outside our our relationship - single or not. Whoever is watching this, I pray you have a prosperous and fulfilling life overall! 😘❤️
Hloo Lazo grt comment! Kip it up
@@juniortheruralfarmerjunior6962 Thank you! Hope you’re doing well! :)
Thanks - Nathalie! I appreciate it.
Personal Development is one of the best things you can do for yourself - because, we as human beings, we’re supposed to embrace growth!
So make sure you find your Purpose in life - whatever it might be, and work on it daily, and continue to make progress, because progress is - really the key to happiness.
But don’t do it for any girl or guy, make sure you’re doing it for yourself - and just be happy!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
time heals all
Hey Nathalie, thanks for reminding me this.
She said she need a break about a month ago now she came back looking for validation. I'm long gone
Distract yourself. Don't remain in your quiet space. Find new hobbies, make new friends.
It's been 2 weeks since we broke up. As much as she's made it clear that she wants to move on from me, there's always been a part of me that thinks that we'll try and find a way to get back together. But I realized that it's taking a toll on me mentally because she was all that I was thinking about and I still felt strongly about her, that I forget that I had a life of my own. 😂 Some nights I cried myself to sleep and waking up sad, wondering what I would've done differently.. I was literally a mess!
But after watching this video yesterday, I did exactly what Jessica had said (completely cutting her off) and focusing on myself more, I seem to enjoy being in my own space. 🙂💌 I learned that self love is more important than giving out love. Yes, I know that it's just been 2 weeks and I haven't completely gotten her out of my system, but forsee myself living life a lot better with peace of mind.
Thank you Jessica 🙏
I really wish i can move on as well
How’s it going now man?
It's ok to cry.. don't stay there to long. Move on go on your life.if she can leave easy like that means she's not the one in the first place. We give to much for the person we love and forget to love ourselves. This is what I have learned. Learned to love yourself before you can love somebody. God remove that person out of your life. Because he has a plan for you. Me as well needs to move on. I need to stop and breathe.
@@GG-cl9ww sighs..
How you doing now?? 😊
I can't thank you enough for sharing these tips. They are so helpful. Surely, there is a man for every woman and a woman for every man. No one deserves a one-sided relationship.
No one at all
Got heartbroken some hours ago.
This video came in when I needed it the most..
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
thank you Jessica for your advice, you just made me realize the importance of ending this 1 year old relationship of mine. She would always tell me that she is busy. When I video call her, she would shout at me and tell me to not call her while she is busy. She no longer has time for me, she no longer calls me, for checking up on me, but she always has time for her friends and for her male besties. You just made me realize the importance of freeing myself from this mental slavery.
I have just deleted her numbers and I have blocked her on facebook. I now feel much more better, I feel free.
Thank you, its me Believe Motloung from South Africa, in Pretoria.
Get up from the table when love is more longer being served.
You've just talked about me here, point by point you outlined exactly what I have been through.The biggest lesson I learned is; Time heals everything. With time, we get over people and situations. My mantra is: No matter how painful it is, it too shall pass.
It's absolutely true. Peace be with you!
Great video 📸
Ur right
Move on even if it hurts to your core - don’t let anyone get to your self-love and step over your dignity.
How?
You must have a PHD in Interpersonal Relationship Counseling.This was powerful reinforcement to finally let the remnants of my prev relationship go.Been 7 yrs,and I have been still calling her every 4- 6 mo's. You really brought enlightenment in clarifying the next thing i need to do to let my Ex go once and for all.Thank you,this was so what I needed to hear.❤️🙏
Wish you well on your journey. Take care
Never offer your friendship as a consolation prize
10 things to quit for all Strong Men:
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business)
4. Not prioritizing your health
5. Wasting your precious time
6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it)
7. Chasing meaningless relationships
8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
9. Wasting time by scrolling social media
10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
This is good insight !!
These are hard truths. Heartbreak creates a void in your life and the universe hates a void. Make sure you feel the emptiness with positive affirmation. Much love to all who go through heartbreak.
I loved this video and needed to hear this! I’m in the process of moving on from someone I considered the love of my life. I had to let go for myself because I didn’t feel valued, so I chose myself.
You got this!
@@JessicaOS hey Jéssica i would like to ask you something, i was talking to a girl then from one day to another she said she thought she was ready for a relationship and then she's not
Don't force relationships or friends.. Don't accept it as a consolation prize. If you aren't good enough for him. Why does he want to be friends with you? Repurpose , rebuild
im going through a heartbreak at the moment. its been almost 2 months now, sometimes i forget about her but as soon as i see any of her close friends calling my phone, i begin to go into that state of trauma. i can feel my heart beats faster and faster. i hate to listen to love songs now. i cant normally go outside from my house cos we stay in the same area. sometimes i need someone to talk to but it seems no one really understands what im going through. i just watch motivational videos on tiktok to calm my nerves done and keep me going.
its not easy for me. i pray time comes quick to heal me completely. im a music producer and sometimes i cant even work. a lady whom i cared and loved for all these years could betrayed me these way..wow..i never saw this coming. thanks Jessica. i think God knows best.
Bro God will surely see us through ok, my now ex broke up with me yesternight, this is a fresh heartbreak i'm experiencing now. But I believe we'll pull through with God being on our side bro
@@mistygeezofficial I'm also in the same position with u. My life is totally a mess right now. Is been 4years of my life have no peace. I finally developed an anxiety. I'm always watching motivational speech. I have only my sisterto talk to but I feel like sometimes she gets tired to listen to me. If anybody can be there for me just to talk please inbox
These are the last days people basically ain't s***
I've moved on from having faith in relationships
I don't give a s*** ANYMORE
I'm gonna do me and me only
If any chick loves me more than I love her I'm not going to lie to her and keep her holding on I'm going to let her know ain't nothing happening
At least I ain't going to leave her in the fantasy world let some other MF do it
Jessica, I'm telling you this with heavy eyes, you've given me hope today and for that I'm thankful.
God bless you.
This hurts so bad. I really love him so much and I hate the idea of him being with another woman. It makes my stomach ache. This hurts so bad. I know I’ll make it to the other side of this pain 😣🙏🏾
How are things? You spoke my exact thoughts :(
kita..
So sorry 👏
@@jennykerekes5105 girl I’m still wrapped up in to be honest! But his narcissism is making it easier to walk away! I know I deserve better 🙏🏾 now I’m starting to feel bad for the next woman if he doesn’t heal first.
Don't worry baby gal
The only way to move on is to get time and travel I promise you that u will come back home when you are healed and forgot everything
Sometimes on your journey of travelling u may get a chance of finding a new love I mean someone who can understand u and your value
You are so easy to listen to. Soothing voice and very articulate in your expressions. This was pleasantly educational. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.
Don't get too attached in the first place. Just have fun
A lot of these types of situations are the result of unmet needs from your caregivers as a child. We subconsciously want to right the wrongs in our youth and many times we find a partner that has the characteristics of that parent figure (typically Mom or Dad) in the person we are dating so we can get that love/affection/attention/praise etc we didn't get from that parent figure. So we try to do it with the person we date. This is a form on co-dependance and it's not healthy at all.
Go get some therapy, figure out your wounded inner child and do the work required to make you a healthy individual who's ready for a relationship. Until you do the work, you'll never be ready for a healthy relationship.
Until u value yourself and love yourself first, broken heart will hit u hard. Hi Jess and keep soaring. ❤️❤️❤️
Mrs, Jessica, what should I tell a person who is really in love with me and I love her too.
Buh I'm a student and don't wanna enter a relationship right now and I don't wanna lose her too
Be up front without tell her exactly what you asked in this comment... No need to lie or put it any other way besides the truth
@@Dazed8nconfused thanks🙏
@@princewilliams9079 no problem..just don't let your fear of losing the one you love be the reason you get into a relationship. Hope you guys make it work 👍
You can love someone and care about them but always love yourself no matter what even if they walk away.
I am going it through now but u've opened my mind thank you🙏
Sometimes there are no physical abuse or any of the abuses you mentioned. Sometimes it's just the person you love so much place their family members above you in that situation you have to let them go, because love is not enough, complete loyalty is everything.
Whenever Jessica brings up a subject she's always nailed it right in. I have yet to read a comment where someone said Jessica is wrong. Seriously I have yet to see that. Everything the girl said is something most of the time a woman did or do to a man. The man always give himself away to a woman whom he loves so much and what the woman did; ruin that freedom.
You just made my day, especially when I was down. Thanks for spreading positivity
I absolutely agree! Never settle! Thank you Jessica 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Being in a "friend zone" is the most unhealthy position to put yourself in . Its impossible to just be a friend to someone you love without an eventual emotional dilemma. Women dont seem to understand this concept.
Deep deep, just like what I'm going through about now.. how did the algorithm know to send me this lol 😆 🤣 😂... Thx jess great guidelines
Aswear😂...algorithm be doing the most😂😂💔
Thank you Jessica! This was the message that I needed to hear. You are appreciated more than you probably know.
hi Jesse, i’m so glad you posted this video today, it was just on the right time….thanks so much, i think i’m being relieved 😊❤️😊
I'm going through a divorce. Went through my husband's phone, and he was texting another female. Heb is a narcissist from verbal, financial, and emotionally once physical. Why am I'm so hurt? Why I'm not happy to know? Why I what this to be a bad dream? I am so confused about love? I ask God to show me a sign. Now that I have it, I am scared to lose him. This is crazy to me. The process is so early that I wish I could push time forward.
This is what was needed for me!!! These feelings I have are making me crazy. I just want to move on without thinking about this person who I allowed in my life and destroy it. I feel like relationships aren't for me anymore and I feel like I caused all of this although I didn't!!! I hate this awful feeling
Watched a video of when to say I love you. Then watched one about how to get out of friendzone. Now watching how to move on 💔
This is my state of position.
After all the plea for many days now, today she just told me, " she's not interested anymore". I've wept inside of me. I'll be fine
-- Never love a woman who doesn't love and respect you back.
Thank You Jessica ❤️this came at the right time
Thank You 🫂
This is so helpful. Just ended my relationship of six years. It was a roller coaster relationship.
3 years and I know I'll heal gradually, I can't completely put an end to our communication because of our son but it's well.
Thanks again Jessica...your always on point and your such an inspiration and motivator...this is really useful and something to consider...and also on my part where the kids are Involved ....will take much from this
WHEN ITS TIME TO MOVE ON ALWAYS MAKE IT A POINT TO FIND A WOMAN THAT IS WAY HOTTER THAN THE CHEATING , LYING EX !
NO !
Thanks, I really needed this. My unexpected breakup is like a week fresh!
Hey .thanks for the advice but jess there's this girl am into but she seems not interested we've been good friends till I opened up and told her I love you she seemed like she knew it but she just told me to let things flow the way they're
Am now confused is she interested or not.i actually don't know what to say or do next should I stop being her friend for some time or I just let her be ..
He actually lose interest in me,he said it’s more or less pitying than loving, guess what I still beg him to stay. Bt deep down it’s killing me
My name is TOMMY I am from Tanzania, I have a girl i Real love her and I have a feelings that i never done any women, this girl made me changed a lot, from my old habit, i left all women deleted all my girlfriend numbers all because i see her as my future wife, but the issue comes i can not move on even if she told me she has someone in her life and i real love her. Pleas help me how can i do to make her change her mind.
Welldone Jess. I’ve been there before but I cut all means of communications with her and it worked like magic. I’m a happy man now ... many thanks for sharing xxx
lol no joy these days o breakfast just day roll ny how these days
Well I've been controlled by my girlfriend well ex girlfriend now and I told her and I'm now at the pothat I will never ever find love because I don't want to I'm just going to enjoy life I hope this was no6harsh or anything like that
How would I cut communication if my ex stay in the same flat... I can't move from my current flat because it's to close to my university and sometimes I go late in night for studying... In simple I can still meet up with her in the life or any place in my flat 😓😓😓 ????
I can't even drink alcohol because I don't want to go dark. I am glad I am watching your videos. I need to move on. I have so many ladies that want to date me but I am still screwed up from her.
Wow, I feel this...
Thank you Jessica.
i didn't know I'm this clever i did almost everything she said when i was broken hearted, and trust me i moved on so quick.
For the first month she was super into me. Then this month she hardly ever puts any effort in. I understand she’s busy but it hurts me. 😢
Thank you Jessica...I so needed this
Very true "go away with your friendship if you can't love me" 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you very much for the advice given. I must say you are very good at this and you are right on target. Keep up the good work. 😊
Jessica I so love your channel. You have really helped my life. You're a blessing to our generation.
Hello madame Jessica, thanks. I have been following you for a while.its been helpful
Great tips! If you’ve been cheated on, don’t close off your heart to love - learn from it, and move on! (I know it’s easier said than done)
You’re not the first person whose trust have been betrayed, nor will you be the last. It’s ok, it’s part of life.
Just work on yourself before you get into another relationship, and you’ll be much smarter, and more alert this time - and you’ll be able to recognize the red flags a lot quicker when things are not going the way they’re supposed to.
And remember, what doesn’t kill you - can only make you stronger! Cheers!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
I'm in so much pain. we grew together, from being the worst version of ourselves to being awesome humans. I worked so hard to make sure she becomes every mans dream only for her to leave me now 😭.... I've seen so many breakups but never knew it hurts this much. I cry so much even as a man. I cry at work, home and even in church.
I want the pain to go away, I can't handle it. I am at the verge of depression 😢. I just want to stop feeling this way😢😢..
U deserve 2 mill of subcribers. Tx u for raising me up, from the dead... horayyyy🎉😮😮😊😊😊😊
I’m glad that when I was dating, I moved on from someone who requited and mutually loved and respected me and instead, eleven years later, I found better in my only lifelong husband Frank.
Wow Jessica, u r such a breeze wow. I've been listening to u all year n still get those Ahaa moments, thank u soooo much for not holding back because shuuùuu u really r showing us(me personally) blind spots from a female's perspective. May God increase yo well of knowledge n wisdom, big love to thee Jess.💚💚💚...Oh Yeah!!!
3 days now and it feels like am losing it tbh.I am tempted to text and apologize for the 1000th time.Let me see how far am gonna get with this heavy heart.
How u doing now
@khaljey8982 how you doing now
I'm in an abusive relationship with the U.S.
I'm planning to leave and seek love and respect in Ghana.
Thank you for the kind words and the advice Jessica. Your videos are really helping a lot of people around the world than you can imagine, I'm truly glad that I've run into this particular video. I hope you continue sharing such videos which really help us heal emotionally and mentally. I wish you success and more love❤️
Thank you Jes
Leaving a toxic relationship is not easy that worth it 😪😪. I really loved my ex fiancée we were suppose to get married 2024 May .. but anyway she had her own plans 😪 I wish her the very best in life
Thank you very much Jess, my situation right now 🙏🙏
Hi Jes. Iv bin in this situation...disrespected emotional abuse...cheating and lied too. Our daughter is turning 5 dis year....n it's kind of complicated to be in no contact..
What I do is I cry over it and then I move on
This is so true Jess I really appreciate the information...
Omg! after God the creator we have Jessica. Thanks God for this beautiful soul called Jessica, Jessica is a physical and a mental healer. The concepts why we're living today or the purpose of us being alive is defined by Jessica every second, minute, hour, day, week, month, year, decade and I hope and believe she will live to see a century. God's love on Jessica os, God bless you.
Marry someone who loves you, not the one you love may God give me the desire of my heart 😢💔🙏
Sorry can I know you more than this
JESSICA, You've got wisdom in your words....Keep up the Job you are doing!
I'm Anthony from Sierra Leone. I've loved her with everything within me though we're on a distance relationship. She has been cheating on me about four times now and I've been forgiving her all these while but the fourth one got me upset than the three times. She got to the point that she denied me to the guy she has been cheating on me with and also denied she has nothing to do with the same guy in same town she's living.
What will I do sister Jessica?
Just recently brokeup with her and she has found somebody else. Its hard to let go 'cause we're 5 months pregnant and i'm just worried about my baby boy, i didn't want him to be born with his parents apart😭😭
The relationship has really affected me badly and didn’t bring any good to me buh any time I want to leave I think about her and go back help me out
She left with my kids...2 boys and a girl.. Ive tried to get in touch with them, but no ways. What do i do please?
Thank you so much for the heads up.
U are really helping us
You said some real real things you were right on point!!!💯
It's painful to think someone loves you but end up realizing they were toiling with you.
Thanks my best teacher, you are talking to me here may God bless you
God bless you Jessica you are there to save many souls
I'm so upset with my self I have the women of my dreams and I'm in love with my ex 😩 and now that I'm trying to find happiness and peace and ex is being the the person I away wanted her to be and I'm so confused
I like every little word or advice she always shares,she thought and shaped me so much untill i subscribed to her channel now I'm better knowing a differences between love and nonsensical e.t.c
I’m sorry to confess that I’ve lost myself trying to be with her 💔💔
I totally agree with all you say Jess.
I have been watching your videos and i must say you really wonderful.
This is so so touching and powerful. Just what i needed.
This video is pointing its 10 fingers at me. My relationship is toxic I know it myself anytime I made an attempt to quit and move on p3 then my heart become heavy with sleepless only thinking about her and eventually I will fall prey into the toxication again. I hope this tip will give me the edge to flee and take a bold decision for my on good
It's hard but someone gotta do it. Fortunately that someone is you. Do it when there's still time. I did it
It's a waste of time; a dent on the self esteem and a heavy burden on the mental health. If it didn't work out then it's not meant to be, bro! There are billions of beautiful people on this planet earth! And I'm absolutely sure there's someone waiting to meet you; to love, respect and cherish you! Goodluck with the search my brother 🤗
Praying for you ❤️
Very true all you said in this video Jessica, happy to be a follower of your videos. Thanks for the video 🙏
Yes I deserve better! To anyone reading this trust me you are worth more then you know. Someone will treat you as such. Don’t give up!
Oo my jess again from 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 learnt more