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Bride Kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan

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  • In rural Kyrgyzstan men still marry their women the old-fashioned way: by abducting them off the street and forcing them to be their wife. Bride kidnapping is a supposedly ancient custom that's made a major comeback since the fall of Communism and now accounts for nearly half of all marriages in some parts. We traveled to the Kyrgyz countryside to follow a young groom named Kubanti as he surprised his teenage girlfriend Nazgul with the gift of marriage/kidnapping.
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  • @VICE
    @VICE  2 ปีที่แล้ว +740

    WATCH NEXT: VICE World News spoke to a survivor of sexual assault to find out what more needs to be done to protect and support victims of sexual violence within the Islamic school setting. - th-cam.com/video/ubdOFzXY4C0/w-d-xo.html

    • @MM-jf1me
      @MM-jf1me 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sounds interesting! I'd also enjoy seeing a followup to this particular documentary, finding the couple married in this show, and seeing what their thoughts are now on bride kidnapping -- it's been over a decade since this documentary first aired.

    • @ma.1749
      @ma.1749 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wtf!!!!! This’s straight up lies!!! I’m from Saudi Arabia there’s 0% of SA in our schools bcuz IT’S NOT MIXED we only have all girls or all boys school

    • @ma.1749
      @ma.1749 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This’s shocking how u ppl would shamelessly accuse islam of the things that happens routinely in ur non muslim countries in my muslim country it’s a CRIM to even cat call women even asking for a woman’s number is considered illegal us muslim women feel the safest in our countries unlike the women in western and non muslim countries the statistics of sexual assault are over the roof yet u have the audacity to make these videos against islam i mean we know it’s a propaganda but unfortunately many ignorants believe it

    • @restartlife6722
      @restartlife6722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      In Islam does not has such kind of kidnapping bro please do not belong your wrong opinion without adequate evidence!

    • @enaszaq3051
      @enaszaq3051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      actually inform yourself before assuming something idiotic. The horrid sexual assualt is forbiden and seen as a major sin to do with Islam because you are harming someone's well being. Disrespect to a religion because you cant tell the difference is real ignorant.
      I mean how can the historian be more informed about the reality than you?

  • @valeverga4744
    @valeverga4744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19211

    These are the moments you feel grateful for growing in the place you did

    • @sarahsierra9316
      @sarahsierra9316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +416

      I’m eating your profile picture right now

    • @jasonsucksatfishing
      @jasonsucksatfishing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      I don’t know, dead goat polo seems fun.

    • @persephone2706
      @persephone2706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +257

      Yeah but people still have the blatant idiocy to cry about all the "oppression" in the west. It's ridiculous.

    • @nadiab4585
      @nadiab4585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      P e r s e p h o n e . A n n I-

    • @NO-ry6ke
      @NO-ry6ke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Why do you have to be grateful? It's obviously supposed to be equal. You don't be grateful when someone do just what they have to do.

  • @aiperikarimova2623
    @aiperikarimova2623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32221

    I'm from Kyrgyzstan. I am Kyrgyz. This is a very wild tradition that is disappearing because girls and women no longer want to tolerate it in our country! And I'm glad of that. They also tried to steal me, but I fought with everyone and still left. I am confident that this cruel tradition will soon disappear.

    • @trxuvaille6788
      @trxuvaille6788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2307

      I'm so happy you fought and resisted pls don't forget that it's not part of Islam itself only a toxic tradition
      Much love from a Muslim South African💞

    • @noraszue261
      @noraszue261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +971

      Thank god you made it. Hope you can live a happy life after this.
      Greetings from Malaysia

    • @firelord1202
      @firelord1202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      U must reserve the tradition.. It is very sweet and unique

    • @kate_wn
      @kate_wn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2231

      @@firelord1202 No, this tradition is disgusting.

    • @ashishshrestha4948
      @ashishshrestha4948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      👏👏😇😇

  • @beastsw109
    @beastsw109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36645

    Imagine youre a tourist and suddenly you become a strangers wife

    • @nietvoorudus5145
      @nietvoorudus5145 5 ปีที่แล้ว +233

      Beast Sw 😆

    • @kalsanggundha3541
      @kalsanggundha3541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      🤣

    • @Human.Interaction.Simulator
      @Human.Interaction.Simulator 5 ปีที่แล้ว +876

      This happens to dudes? I get this a lot but I'm pretty.

    • @kennystone1927
      @kennystone1927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4517

      This actually happened to two female tourists a few years back, they got their national embassy involved and were able to return home after about a week.

    • @ogKono
      @ogKono 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1223

      No. They kiddnapp only women they know. Not strangers. Cmon a little bit of common sens. A tradition is something that belong to them and they societies. So they know each other and the plan everything.... well there is a foreigner in the town who look extact like the bride to be... Ouch! Bad for her

  • @sarahirwin8912
    @sarahirwin8912 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +389

    The kidnapper saying "I'm excited!" while they blast music in the van on their way to horrifically traumatize this poor girl turns my stomach. Women and girls aren't objects to be collected at will. I can't fathom living with this fear on a daily basis.

    • @disappeared10
      @disappeared10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      In fact, the Kyrgyz did not have such a tradition and fortunately such cases of bride kidnapping have become rare

    • @chubbyspider4335
      @chubbyspider4335 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not all w0men but many objectify themselves

    • @sarahirwin8912
      @sarahirwin8912 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      ​@@chubbyspider4335 Does that justify a literal kidnapping or any other type of violence?

    • @ShielaAposaga-x4j5x
      @ShielaAposaga-x4j5x 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It’s really terrifying and scary.

  • @stormlah
    @stormlah 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4721

    "soooo how did you two meet"
    "at knifepoint"

  • @Jemicken
    @Jemicken 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20879

    it's even scarier when you realize that someone could actually be kidnapping a girl in plain sight with no intention of marrying her and people would just think that it's the tradition.

    • @rossbrunskill5486
      @rossbrunskill5486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1913

      thats what I WAS THINKING like omg how do you differentiate between a wedding tradition and a possible gangrape???

    • @L._.A-06
      @L._.A-06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +595

      I mean I would also consider this actually kidnapping a girl but true

    • @tobiascabrejas5154
      @tobiascabrejas5154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      Probably kidnapping with no intention of marrying is against the law

    • @Jemicken
      @Jemicken 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Yeah no, that's the thing! It might be difficult to tell whether someone is actually being kidnapped or not

    • @woah5333
      @woah5333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

      Does without the marrying part make much of a difference? You mean without her consent right?

  • @ryann5568
    @ryann5568 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1644

    "You saw me once and wanted to kidnap me." Imagine saying that nonchalantly to your significant other.

    • @condeuiosandilixtos7858
      @condeuiosandilixtos7858 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think he meant he wanted to rape her, but he decided to be polite for the cameras.

    • @susiezyp
      @susiezyp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@condeuiosandilixtos7858 No its about Kidnapping, raping he would get huge Problems wit other family, but kidnapping they tolerate becouse of virgin stupednes. Not that they dont rape every girl they can get without to much trouble afterwords. they have absolutly no feelings and empathy, completly cruel.

    • @Katakagara
      @Katakagara 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Just horrible.

  • @aySeidova
    @aySeidova 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +167

    They broke her life. She was planning for her school and become lawyer. Now it is gone.because they will never allow to her to do that.

    • @requiemzero5208
      @requiemzero5208 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      that's not necessarily true because they wanted to do the marriage the old way; everything else seems to be done normally. She can still get education and finish it as she stated she would. But its very conditional and only depends on the groom's family letting her.
      That possibility being at the mercy of groom's family is why its bad. But the way they treated her, she most likely finished her education.
      That's the saddest and the hilarious part, both families sort of knew each other. It could have been a normal marriage yet there were so many unnecessary extra steps where they themselves think that not everything is actually alright.

  • @jjgems5909
    @jjgems5909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7706

    That poor mother sharing her daughters suicide story. How awful.

    • @Supermaninpyjama
      @Supermaninpyjama 5 ปีที่แล้ว +277

      i actually ended up showing middle finger at phone screen when she cried...
      she totally listened to society when she should've stood by her side specially when the child said that the man was not a good person.
      but she chose to go with the society. i so much would've wanted to punch her face if she was doing that drama near me.

    • @rae7864
      @rae7864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +252

      She got kidnapped, then they found her, AND THEN SHE GAVE HER BACK WILLINGLY. to be raped and held hostage. Then you know he just kidnapped another bride.. Disgusting. Maybe she should have thought twice as a mother doing that to her baby girl.... That poor fucking girl. I feel bad for HER, not the mother that fucking GAVE HER TO HIM.

    • @mermaidtingzzz
      @mermaidtingzzz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@Supermaninpyjama What do you expect to happen when, as was stated in the video, a society works so hard to make girls obedient from the moment they can probably communicate. Peer pressure, cultural pressure, are things that have effected all people at some point to some degree, unfortunatelythe ramifications can be severe and devastating.
      How hypocritical and ignorant of you to imbue yourself with so much superiority when you'd stoop so low as to kick someone while they're down. She's going to feel guilty for the rest of her life, no keyboard-coward has the right to pretend to be more upset about something she actually *has* to survive.

    • @16siko
      @16siko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      The Little Blerdmaid I bet you she wasn’t crying when they took her, a mother should always be protecting her kids at all costs no matter what culture or religion bs you deal with. She let them take her away knowing she didn’t want to, she failed as a parent in my opinion.

    • @EB-wh1rn
      @EB-wh1rn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      You’re wrong. In my country they also used to kidnap brides but nowadays they do it less because they pay a fine for that now, which most of them can not afford, although some pay it willingly. Anyways, you’re wrong about what you said about her mother, she probably didn’t think it was necessary or good for her daughter when they gave her back to the kidnapper. She says in the video, the cousins etc put pressure on them, telling the « it’s tradition ! You’re wrong you shouldn’t take her back ! ». She didn’t develop it but as it was also in my country’s tradition to kidnap brides I can tell you for sure that she didn’t want to give her daughter back but couldn’t do otherwise because she’s a woman and she has to OBEY. So when the male cousins / older men in the family got angry about them bringing their daughter back, when they scolded the girl’s dad for doing so, when they brought up « it’s tradition! » the girl’s dad probably felt ashamed in front of the elder men (cousins, uncles..) and in those societies you HAVE TO respect older men and DO what they tell you to do, the dad probably decided to give the girl back to the kidnaper and the mom couldn’t do anything about it but accept it because SHE IS A WOMAN and she CAN NOT argue with her husband and other men in the family. If she talks back or disobeys she can be beaten or anyways, the men can just bring the girl back to the kidnaper’s house forcefully even if the mother is against. Anyways, I can guarantee you that this mom wasn’t happy about giving her daughter back autherwise they wouldn’t have even brought her home in first place. She just had to accept it because she’s a woman and she can not do anything because men decide and she has to obey. No one can understand her sorrow except those who went through the same thing. That thing happened to my aunt, she was kidnapped and run away but her uncle forced her to get married to her kidnapper whom she didn’t even knew.

  • @gyehegshsh4283
    @gyehegshsh4283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6184

    the whole tradition is the definition of "I'm too scared to get rejected" .

    • @cryostatis3018
      @cryostatis3018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @Ben Shapiro Oh my god you her good. She's so triggered right now oma gawddd. Mr. Shabibo

    • @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf
      @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      @Ben Shapiro women are being kidnapped there you dumbass this isn’t just about feminism this is about basic human rights

    • @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf
      @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @Ben Shapiro then why did that one girl commit suicide because of it? Honestly I didn’t know someone could be this dumb

    • @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf
      @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @Ben Shapiro tradition or not it’s wrong

    • @AugustasRimke
      @AugustasRimke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf Tradition is number one, law can’t bypass it.

  • @mjstc7893
    @mjstc7893 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4550

    Poor girl just wanted to enjoy her youth while she could. You can't tell me that "momma" wasn't heartbreaking seriously

    • @vegasfinest702
      @vegasfinest702 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      EA7 it wasn’t you think she had no more fight in her?? Lmao everyone gets married like this there I call it crocodile 🐊 😭

    • @Shrimpuraa
      @Shrimpuraa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +253

      @@vegasfinest702 Righttttt....because "everyone gets married like this there" means that every single woman there should accept and be happy with the fact that they're being kidnapped..
      I bet you would want to live there and be kidnapped too, don't you?

    • @5014bushido
      @5014bushido 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Momma was on it too. 😢 Evil

    • @gueimem8133
      @gueimem8133 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      12:43 ?

    • @SilverFox_82
      @SilverFox_82 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      3lizA B33F 30,000 each year from video I saw

  • @kawaiicutie9291
    @kawaiicutie9291 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    The fact that nobody in this video really cared about her and just laughed at her for being kidnapped and taken away everyone laughed at her in the whole entire video which is very sad.

    • @liaxmp5974
      @liaxmp5974 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      And they just smile at her like as if she was a joke and she became a laughingstock to the yurt and village and to the people there also.

    • @stanzinangmo7012
      @stanzinangmo7012 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It is very common practice so, now no one gets surprised by the fact of woman being kidnapped. But ofc for someone who never encountered such practices they might be traumatized by this incident.

  • @shentax_error
    @shentax_error 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1461

    *"MAMA"* that one repeated word was truly heartbreaking

    • @sozibrahman8504
      @sozibrahman8504 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You might not know but in case of arranged marriage girls cried a lot too. Just like that....sometimes for months

    • @rouvin9213
      @rouvin9213 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Red October woah chill dude

    • @acommunist1607
      @acommunist1607 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@sozibrahman8504 but its not ok to kidnap though

    • @xepseL
      @xepseL 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rouvin9213 bug off weird guy

    • @rouvin9213
      @rouvin9213 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      xepseL thanks for getting that bug off me

  • @kalloused
    @kalloused 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11645

    Welcome to Kyrgyzstan where the countries motto is "No means Yes"

  • @trashbag5810
    @trashbag5810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9948

    I love how awkward the interviewer is. Mans is just vibing while he’s witnessing a crime I mean tradition I mean crime.

    • @deleteduser84924
      @deleteduser84924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      epic

    • @ahmeddyasalkhwarizmi8783
      @ahmeddyasalkhwarizmi8783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Nah i think you mean tradition

    • @user-sg8bf2mk4s
      @user-sg8bf2mk4s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +619

      @@ahmeddyasalkhwarizmi8783 crime sis

    • @murrlandmac6340
      @murrlandmac6340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Where u are maybe it’s a crime but to them it’s tradition.

    • @angelrosas2556
      @angelrosas2556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      @Number wa an A tradition that no woman wants to follow, as seen in some of these cases, if they don't believe in these traditions than why would she follow it? Is thet hard to understand? or are you stupid

  • @kedrjack4649
    @kedrjack4649 ปีที่แล้ว +1021

    Kyrgyzstan has changed a lot in 2015 after a big scandal. The police stopped ignoring these crimes and imprisoning people. Both on TV and at school they began to tell people that this was a bad custom and to make films about it.

    • @-_Hatred_-
      @-_Hatred_- ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Что за скандал?

    • @Buluntung
      @Buluntung ปีที่แล้ว +12

      which scandal?

    • @wisteriafleur3522
      @wisteriafleur3522 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      If true then I'm incredibly happy to hear that. But what scandal led them to intolerate this tradition, if i may ask?

    • @LalaLa-ze7kv
      @LalaLa-ze7kv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@wisteriafleur3522 I think he is talking about that case when girl got killed in the process. I also recommend y'all to take VICE info with a grain of salt since they like to make scandalous things from each country and present it like it is very common thing when it's not. For 48,500 marriages in 2022 there were 500 kidnappings that year. That thing being illegal cannot be en masse.

    • @luisshorts.
      @luisshorts. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@wisteriafleur3522probably a kidnapping that went really violent or something

  • @niamhha9014
    @niamhha9014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12709

    “But if the men don’t kidnap, they might never get married”. If the only way for a man to get married is for him to kidnap someone, then that’s a sign that he shouldn’t get married.

    • @lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657
      @lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Underrated comment

    • @lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657
      @lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      @Sahil 18bc07 what wait i dont understand. Can u elaborate

    • @laseinko
      @laseinko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +213

      @@lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657 they’re using the logical fallacy that “the natural way is the right way”

    • @lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657
      @lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      @@laseinko i kinda thought that through actually. But its crazy they would think that way. Cause their analogy with eating meat and having sex is ridiculous UwU

    • @nadacolic7775
      @nadacolic7775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      What a disgusting practice

  • @zafaxr
    @zafaxr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1686

    my heart just broke into pieces, when the girl was screaming for her mom.

    • @starcrafter13terran
      @starcrafter13terran 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      looked like her family was laughing and didn't really put up any resistance at all. It's disturbing.

    • @zafaxr
      @zafaxr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@starcrafter13terran they were like "thats how mafia works"

    • @leniarmstrongxxx6222
      @leniarmstrongxxx6222 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Zafar Muzawar same i literally cried

    • @zafaxr
      @zafaxr 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leniarmstrongxxx6222 yea

    • @natasanatasa8051
      @natasanatasa8051 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      mine also. .

  • @dominioniwo5060
    @dominioniwo5060 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15314

    I hate it whenever people use the words "culture" and "tradition" to try and justify cruel practices.

    • @abdu2000az
      @abdu2000az 5 ปีที่แล้ว +341

      Malacki655 2.0 literally!!! A certain belief or an action having a lot of followers or believers doesn’t make it moral or ethical. The what are you gonna do it’s their tradition comments are cancerous

    • @liaevans9776
      @liaevans9776 5 ปีที่แล้ว +227

      But when society normalizes the act, be it cruel or not, then it does become a "tradition" and culture. Same way crazy cults are formed that torture humans.

    • @dumbledoreiscalm5923
      @dumbledoreiscalm5923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same

    • @devvx-fe-gu1d3d0g6
      @devvx-fe-gu1d3d0g6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omag im literally shaking

    • @imtrashimtrash1403
      @imtrashimtrash1403 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Malacki655 2.0 as if they were getting away with it freely

  • @AlisSpark
    @AlisSpark ปีที่แล้ว +551

    It's downright scary and sickening just how little empathy these guys have

    • @kevinfernandez9999
      @kevinfernandez9999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And what about the woman?

    • @Jiruberuto
      @Jiruberuto 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@kevinfernandez9999 what about the woman? you mean the one being forced to get married?

  • @anticringepill1313
    @anticringepill1313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14260

    Women walks on the street
    Krgystani men: so you've chosen marriage

    • @darlingmis
      @darlingmis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +637

      That's fucked up

    • @shivamsingh-mt6dr
      @shivamsingh-mt6dr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @Yosh065 which is

    • @АмантурАскаров-л1щ
      @АмантурАскаров-л1щ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@darlingmis Nah it ain't like that anymore, maybe hundred years ago it was happening, but not now. "Kidnapping" is mostly away for a couple to marry each other if parents of girl doesn't give request to the boy to marry their daughter. It is prohibited by law to kidnap and marry someone.

    • @darlingmis
      @darlingmis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      @@АмантурАскаров-л1щ Thats still fucked up.

    • @LordDirus007
      @LordDirus007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Seems like more of something for show. Like staged or recreated.

  • @mfhoss9570
    @mfhoss9570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7573

    nobody’s talkin bout the old lady she lost her daughter to a terrible tradition and she deserves to be talked about more

    • @marinapauli8730
      @marinapauli8730 5 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      fr i balled my eyes out that was so sad

    • @mfhoss9570
      @mfhoss9570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Marina Pauli yeah ikr

    • @kaylarae8003
      @kaylarae8003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      She didn't even put up an ounce of fight it's hard for me to feel too bad for the old lady.

    • @mfhoss9570
      @mfhoss9570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Kayla Wingett what time stamp are you talking about bc all of the women that got kidnapped in the video definitely put up a fight

    • @kaylarae8003
      @kaylarae8003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      @@mfhoss9570 no I'm talking about the old lady that lost her daughter. The same lady you were talking about. She didn't fight one bit and just relented right away like "k i guess you have my daughter now." So it's hard for me to feel bad for her.

  • @conz000
    @conz000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8070

    I think the worst part is all her family and neighbours just laughing as she's dragged away screaming. Yikes.

    • @muhhanifbakari2451
      @muhhanifbakari2451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      @Lurt Erick yes fuck those tradition

    • @wasup8507
      @wasup8507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      She was happy too

    • @nanduyyy2737
      @nanduyyy2737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yep

    • @joemire
      @joemire 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@muhhanifbakari2451 that's why the Kyrgyz Police tries to stop people practicing this tradition

    • @tarstarkusz
      @tarstarkusz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Remember that when the media says "they're JUST LIKE US!"
      NO, they are not. They are not us and we are not them. Look at how repulsed they are by our traditions and customs and how the guy said the West has nothing to offer but gay marriage and feminism.

  • @ImjustChelsea
    @ImjustChelsea ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Imagine saying to your daughter who’s a child “you’ll get kidnapped like me*

    • @Mariam-zo3ty
      @Mariam-zo3ty 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      i'm not kyrgyz but my country USED TO have a simmilar "tradition" and i remember our nanny (who was an elderly woman) telling me exactly that it freaked me out so much💀

  • @aishwariyasweety2433
    @aishwariyasweety2433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7749

    Her wanting to be lawyer and just passively accepting whats happening to her is just incredibly heartbreaking

    • @michaelmoores2654
      @michaelmoores2654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Why can't she be a lawyer as well? She has plenty of time left and he seems like a nice guy.

    • @testsalv4366
      @testsalv4366 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michaelmoores2654 Plenty of time my ass. I bet you never experienced taking care of a child.

    • @daustin8888
      @daustin8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@michaelmoores2654 I know right?

    • @johner8718
      @johner8718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      She can still be a lawyer in her dreams bro its not all bad

    • @1dumdum664
      @1dumdum664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +396

      @@michaelmoores2654 i dont know about the nice guy part ...

  • @menikmati789
    @menikmati789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6498

    Imagine being kidnapped and seeing this awkward scrawny hipster staring at you with crossed arms

    • @rachelolivarez5892
      @rachelolivarez5892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +246

      I know right! I think it would make it harder because it’s like,,, you can’t even help me?😔😣😢

    • @eldarhighelfhealermiriella7653
      @eldarhighelfhealermiriella7653 5 ปีที่แล้ว +330

      @@rachelolivarez5892 awkward scrawny hipster: "Nah...im just watching and doing a research"

    • @7lawaneeena
      @7lawaneeena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@eldarhighelfhealermiriella7653 I am actually curious, did they just stand there

    • @mxlxvducc9098
      @mxlxvducc9098 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      I also feel sad but
      Damn you guys,they trying to not get involved because its just dangerous

    • @act3finale
      @act3finale 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      I imagine the “kidnapping” where the presenter was witness to was consensual (in the video, the men are seen to instruct the woman how the kidnapping will unfold and that she can beat them if she likes) but she is putting up some resistance to keep the appearances I guess (so that it does not seem to be preplanned to the rest of the community). I cannot imagine the camera crew being willful participants in an actual kidnapping of a stranger as it happens in other cases, just for filming purposes.

  • @eltoxique7550
    @eltoxique7550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5133

    No one gonna talk about the bride's friend setting her up like that....

    • @juhalight5921
      @juhalight5921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No

    • @johnjohn4914
      @johnjohn4914 5 ปีที่แล้ว +241

      BBS Gaming I got you,
      FUCK THAT BITCH

    • @whatabouthedroidattackonth3633
      @whatabouthedroidattackonth3633 5 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      Completely agree - fuck that bitch

    • @omni673
      @omni673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +302

      The betrayal

    • @latinolawdog5067
      @latinolawdog5067 5 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Unless somebody here is from that culture, nobody can really talk about it. You can't speak about things unless you are versed in them. Otherwise you don't know what the hell you are talking about. I can only speak about it from an American perspective, and an American perspective on a Kyrgyzstan tradition is irrelevant

  • @npccarol9659
    @npccarol9659 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    i started crying when she screamed for her mom

  • @lavenderharmony944
    @lavenderharmony944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2581

    This is so disturbing, I really felt for her calling out for her mum, that hurt my heart. 😢

    • @nmiburo
      @nmiburo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same

    • @Chelsea-dq9og
      @Chelsea-dq9og 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      its sick how even the women contribute to the kidnapping

    • @humss5884
      @humss5884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      It’s tradition is not even a tradition it’s devilish

    • @lavenderharmony944
      @lavenderharmony944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It makes you wonder who started these so called f'@*ed up traditions!

    • @humss5884
      @humss5884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lavenderharmony944 probably some devils

  • @worldabominationorworldpea9310
    @worldabominationorworldpea9310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3792

    The worst thing is the fact that those old grandmas besides her are taking it as a some sort of joke even though they've felt the same feeling of being kidnapped without you knowing anything about it before.

    • @cerene11
      @cerene11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      Brainwashing.

    • @anti-logic4537
      @anti-logic4537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I don't think they were married the same way since, as it was mentioned in the video, due to communism such traditional/religious practises were forbidden. Although, I think they actually knew that girl wanted to marry him in the end (since they were already a couple) and she was just pretending to not want to get kidnapped in order to not let others believe that she was desperate to get married by complying from the start (again I'm not entirely sure that is 100% sure about this but, in the end, I think the girl was smiling and accepting the whole thing...)

    • @christiniyoutubesux
      @christiniyoutubesux 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      @@anti-logic4537 your username makes a lot of sense. This is disgraceful.

    • @HelloItsMikkan
      @HelloItsMikkan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @@anti-logic4537 that's called grooming and Stockholm syndrome

    • @kishypishy9947
      @kishypishy9947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Stockholm syndrome?

  • @dadshoe7607
    @dadshoe7607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3505

    She keep screaming mom, and every time she got more desperate. I thought I was watching a horror movie because this is sick.

    • @elio_fay
      @elio_fay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +316

      oh no Dude what the fuck is wrong with you?

    • @mothgames9466
      @mothgames9466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @alyssaa.2882
      @alyssaa.2882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      @oh no please say sike

    • @malachityeejl5129
      @malachityeejl5129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @oh no *please say sike.*

    • @sepsa7468
      @sepsa7468 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      oh no just stop please

  • @BlueMicrowave
    @BlueMicrowave ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Sadly my mom was kidnapped too. My dad only saw her twice in his life and decided to kidnap her in a car with his friends. The saddest part is that if the woman rejects in our culture by calling her dad/brother to pick her up ,for example, the man´s family side spread it around so that the woman will never be able to marry someone because of the ´´shame´´. It happend in West Europe and my mother was illegally married at the age of 16/17

    • @BlueMicrowave
      @BlueMicrowave หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marjorieminority no, im from the caucasus

  • @gbengreen449
    @gbengreen449 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1991

    The worst part for me is their laughing at the crying and struggling of the “bride”

    • @grubbybum3614
      @grubbybum3614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      The worst part is how the mother whose daughter commited suicide, gave her daughter BACK to the kidnappers. What a fckin idiot.

    • @drubonneau1638
      @drubonneau1638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Grubby bum yeah I was thinking the same thing she acting like it was there fault she committed suicide but if they would have just ignored there “cousins” and took there daughter back she wouldn’t of hanged herself

    • @Llamamoe
      @Llamamoe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@grubbybum3614 Honestly, when you live within a culture, you think in the terms that culture gives you. She probably really hoped it'd turn out well, only getting a reality check when it was forced upon her.

    • @xcovert6200
      @xcovert6200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cause if they say yes their desperate and if they say no they’re innocent

    • @sdoaiza
      @sdoaiza 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought it was stupid too, but perhaps the pressure is some such it could affect their living?

  • @ru406
    @ru406 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9082

    “All girls must get married”
    “Calm down, you’ll be happy”
    Words cannot describe how thankful I am to not have to go through this.
    I feel so so bad for her.😭

    • @Saidoromo2024
      @Saidoromo2024 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Come down you happy 😱

    • @aniyahburks5180
      @aniyahburks5180 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TheIntrovertedGiraffe me too😞🥺😭😭

    • @kixi8033
      @kixi8033 6 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      Right? I have no idea what I'd do if I was in that situation. But at least that girl did want to marry that man, even if it wasn't right there and then. I feel worse for the others who are kidnapped by men they don't want and forcefully married and raped.

    • @trashcandatnoobwut2246
      @trashcandatnoobwut2246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Kixi They have no choice but to agree. They are shunned by their entire community if the disgusting ritual is completed and they refuse to play happy families.
      It's either play along or be homeless/honour killed.
      This is beyond vile. Where are NATO when human rights abuses like this take place? The first women is a perfect example of what Stockholm syndrome looks like.

    • @nmasijika7557
      @nmasijika7557 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kixi I kill the groom idc self defense

  • @alee_zhan
    @alee_zhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3849

    My mother was also a victim of this kidnapping, she still tells us how she was mistreated and how my biological father beat her when he was in a bad mood, but thank goodness now we live separately

    • @weissemagierin
      @weissemagierin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      :( I'm so sorry to hear that. ... Your mother might be a strong woman. Most of the victims can't do this. They just give up. Like the girl from the video.

    • @artemkh8944
      @artemkh8944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Was it in the same country or this tradition exists somewhere else?

    • @weissemagierin
      @weissemagierin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@artemkh8944 This tradition existed for example in Georgia too. It still does, but mostly in villages and not often anymore, fortunately. Very rarely. Georgians have developed.

    • @Melko_277
      @Melko_277 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where you from

    • @alee_zhan
      @alee_zhan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Melko_277 Kyrgyzstan

  • @Mystery_Mystery_Season_2
    @Mystery_Mystery_Season_2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    i don't know if I am over dramatic but I feel like crying seeing the girls scream

    • @YorKnee
      @YorKnee ปีที่แล้ว +17

      congrats you have emotions

    • @cupcake-cx5ov
      @cupcake-cx5ov ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@YorKneeLMAO

  • @Bar_BenEzra
    @Bar_BenEzra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3584

    you know what? my life aint that bad after all.

    • @yousslessboi4377
      @yousslessboi4377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @Cj Amen

    • @n0wsinn
      @n0wsinn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Cj a men has kidnapped my daughter

    • @n0wsinn
      @n0wsinn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @NatalieListensToMusic K no

    • @n0wsinn
      @n0wsinn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @NatalieListensToMusic K amen has fallen into river in lego city

    • @excusemei7164
      @excusemei7164 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen to that.

  • @zoeee4939
    @zoeee4939 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15689

    This is difficult to watch..

    • @arjunsridhar46
      @arjunsridhar46 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      ikr

    • @uchihasasuke3973
      @uchihasasuke3973 8 ปีที่แล้ว +491

      Just be thankful you don't live there

    • @nigelnuj
      @nigelnuj 8 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      I never knew how Stockholm syndrome works but now I do. smh if I had a daughter, kidnapping and psycho-ING by other oppressed women is not seduction and romance.

    • @uchihasasuke3973
      @uchihasasuke3973 8 ปีที่แล้ว +376

      Nigel, I wonder where the feminists are in these situations. I mean these video clearly shows that there are women who get kidnapped and are forced to get marry, which is REAL oppression btw , meanwhile in the West you will see feminists claiming that women are being "oppressed" because they can't show their nipples in public. Like WTF?

    • @nancycasas9676
      @nancycasas9676 8 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      Honestly, it is very difficult to watch

  • @quackss6384
    @quackss6384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3357

    The next episode : husband poisoning in Kyrgystan

    • @marutitoursandtravel5017
      @marutitoursandtravel5017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Yeah!!!! I like it the should do it🤣😂

    • @poisson5846
      @poisson5846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @Melanin Queen shouldn't had kidnapped the lady. Guy got it coming to him.

    • @strawbries
      @strawbries 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      i’d love to see that LMAOO

    • @sachinsrivastava629
      @sachinsrivastava629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @yoshikagekira3817
      @yoshikagekira3817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      This should be legal lol

  • @Buccey
    @Buccey ปีที่แล้ว +107

    “You’re crying so you’ll be happy” what kind of logic is that

  • @makailiroberts1193
    @makailiroberts1193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8915

    Wow it got me in tears when she started calling for her mom. This is cruel.

    • @thatmartinlau
      @thatmartinlau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      Your pfp is literally my reaction when seeing this.

    • @realy7392
      @realy7392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Don’t be racist! It’s just a different culture

    • @justanotherarmy8607
      @justanotherarmy8607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +589

      @@realy7392 being racist means not liking someone for the skin color hence the word race what does her not agreeing to the culture have to do with race

    • @kellabdjfoo
      @kellabdjfoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      @@justanotherarmy8607 It's not just skin color, it's the race or country they come from in general (or the circumstance that happened when they were born). but i do agree, not agreeing with a culture has nothing to do with race at all.

    • @ethanzacharylausunhpps7319
      @ethanzacharylausunhpps7319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But after a while she felt ok though

  • @anastasijac.r8732
    @anastasijac.r8732 5 ปีที่แล้ว +862

    The bride looks sick and exhausted, like she's about to cry in every scene

    • @saraduarte2004
      @saraduarte2004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      scareface936 Ew stop being immature please

    • @THELASTREALKING93
      @THELASTREALKING93 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      broadcast star Smh.....Imagine being married to someone for 12 years and then all the sudden they want a divorce. Alimony and half of everything you worked so hard for goes to them....and they didn’t contribute to any of your weath.....that’s scary.

    • @LegendarySpree
      @LegendarySpree 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      scareface936 12 years in a marriage sounds like a good couple to me also it’s better then being forced against your will and shoved into a car by 5 grown men saying it’ll be okay.

    • @meems7519
      @meems7519 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@THELASTREALKING93 ...i dont know. I've heard this arguement made a lot of times and it always confused me. And i always ask them this quiestion-"Do you believe men and women should be given equal opportunities in life,career wise, job wise,etc"
      Because if you dont think that women should be paid the same as men for the same job, then you dont get to make that arguement. A lot of women choose to quit their jobs and stay at home to raise their kids,in which case they are trusting their husbands to take care of them financially.
      Now if the man decided he wanted to divorce his wife, but the wife had not been to work in years cause she was busy taking care of him and his wife, she would not have the financial stability to live a normal life.
      I agree that there are a lot of gold diging women who are terribe people. But the same goes for men. There are men who are terrible people who would do unspeakable things to women(dont deny it, )
      and also, there is also the problem of maternity leave. Do you have any idea what kind of toll pregnancy takes on womens bodies?? And now imagine having to go back to work before youre fully recovered.
      P.S, if she wants a divorce after putting up with him for 12 years, then theres prolly something else to it

  • @ShowmikBose
    @ShowmikBose 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4296

    To hell with such traditions. This is torture!

    • @Shrimpuraa
      @Shrimpuraa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      @@vegasfinest702 Well, there are MANY other women who would NOT like to be kidnapped as a bride against their will.

    • @vegasfinest702
      @vegasfinest702 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Badr eddin lmao well go change the world lmao there’s a lot of lonely woman everywhere lol who ever makes it to the big time coming from small ass places like this?! Lol who or how many become doctors or lawyers?! Lmao keep it real that’s why she expected and she was dating the guy!!! What the fuck ever go save the world kid go save all the girls over there idiot they can’t help themselves

    • @Studyinginhu
      @Studyinginhu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It is not everywhere. This is not a tradition !

    • @hiddenpotentialaj2153
      @hiddenpotentialaj2153 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      IvyMe no way you’re a woman

    • @Tiffany-ov2jf
      @Tiffany-ov2jf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      DeCiPhErIng GAmiNg every country has its own problems, believe me when I say that you're embarrassing yourself by downgrading others.

  • @BigBass63
    @BigBass63 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    A culture of fathers that don't protect their daughters? Shame on their bloodline.

  • @jessicaa.rileyy
    @jessicaa.rileyy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1458

    the way she was calling for her mom is so heartbreaking oh my god

    • @Predestinated1
      @Predestinated1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      you sound like a feminist

    • @theotter7021
      @theotter7021 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@Predestinated1 wtf, how is that

    • @gigifinizio8550
      @gigifinizio8550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      @@Predestinated1 you sound like a dumbass

    • @rainpyramid8021
      @rainpyramid8021 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Pre destinated look at your empty profile. Hahahaha!!!! What a weakling 😂

    • @meems7519
      @meems7519 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Predestinated1 you sound heartless

  • @naziur
    @naziur 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6411

    "Girls will be happy if they get married crying"
    What utter disgust

    • @hodzal5258
      @hodzal5258 6 ปีที่แล้ว +259

      Seems they can't tell the difference between tears of sorrow & joy.

    • @DogGran
      @DogGran 5 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Right, wrong kinda cryin bruh 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @comfortableconfys7814
      @comfortableconfys7814 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      i know rigtht that jiust disgust me

    • @JobKiriaku
      @JobKiriaku 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Naziur Honestly, like wtf.

    • @user-qh9en6fh6g
      @user-qh9en6fh6g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly

  • @charlieapples9373
    @charlieapples9373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3115

    How sweet, giving your wife PTSD and a lifelong fear of men right before the wedding

    • @nadiab4585
      @nadiab4585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Frr

    • @whodis.grant16
      @whodis.grant16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ayee 666th like
      *cums*

    • @oussamabekk1108
      @oussamabekk1108 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      That kind of relationship is Very Haram ... what is he going to say to GoD in the day of judgment ??? This Haram tradition must be stopped .

    • @s9k328
      @s9k328 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@oussamabekk1108 Quran 4:19 "O believers! It is not permissible for you to inherit women against their will"

    • @kudaibergeno
      @kudaibergeno ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is no suck thing as PTSD in south 😂, it is what it is. It tranformation of tradition

  • @Michelle.Leslie
    @Michelle.Leslie ปีที่แล้ว +22

    She would rather unalive herself than be married to you. Let that sink it.

  • @jenlisaisdathing2657
    @jenlisaisdathing2657 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1821

    "Be careful not ro let her run anyway" and then they *laugh* ,
    At this point, im so *disgust*

    • @ericaanderson4130
      @ericaanderson4130 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      JenLisa is da thing me too i’ve heard about this but I didnt actually think they still do this

    • @someon3_like_you
      @someon3_like_you 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Dr Agam You’re saying that as if people WANT to get kidnapped.

    • @me9109
      @me9109 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @Dr Agam Your mom didn't wait 9 months for you to come out and say this shit

    • @keela2890
      @keela2890 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Dr Agam I’m pretty sure she doesn’t want to be kidnapped

    • @itslilibabes
      @itslilibabes 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Dr Agam You're disgusting

  • @bela7668
    @bela7668 6 ปีที่แล้ว +759

    The fact that her friend helped is terrifying, they can't trust anybody

    • @camacho_roman_costume
      @camacho_roman_costume 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But they’ve already been dating. The kidnapping thing is just tradition (staged) You can tell she was faking it

    • @MrBroken030
      @MrBroken030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@camacho_roman_costume Ah okay, so anyone who you are currently dating could just kidnap you and force you into marriage, yeah sure that seems totally reasonable to me.....oh wait, actually thats horrible and yeah sure she was so faking it, what about the girl that hung herself, is she also faking it, man thats some good act she has going on.....i dont like you defending that shit in any way, you should know better.

    • @lilybrown7265
      @lilybrown7265 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I reckon there’s a lot of intimidation and pressure that goes on. Her friend didn’t look that willing to participate and when they were trying to drag the girl out of the car, her friends tried to get hold of her to keep her in and one of the boys forced her hands off her. It’s easy for us to say she helped, but chances are she didn’t really have much of a choice

    • @halfbaked3560
      @halfbaked3560 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      did you watch the whole thing? it´s staged rewatch it you dummy and focus abit more.

    • @bela7668
      @bela7668 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chill, the point is this is a tradition and whether this was planned or not we still cant rule out that a situation like that never occurred

  • @anastasijac.r8732
    @anastasijac.r8732 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2099

    Imagine getting recorded for the whole world to see during the most humiliating and demeaning moment of your whole life

    • @ohhimark2065
      @ohhimark2065 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      But at the same time this is to spread awareness, they wouldn't agree to record this if the dude and the camera guy had stopped them, so what could they do? They'll just kidnap her again while refusing to record this.

    • @jomangeee
      @jomangeee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you are an idiot! that was the happiest day of her life

    • @jennam2449
      @jennam2449 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      The atrocity of this is not the recording of it.

    • @geoffmiller3468
      @geoffmiller3468 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't need to imagine. Just wait til I finally post that shit.

    • @Uchihaayoub
      @Uchihaayoub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Charlie Sthill they just said it's an ancient practise so why it has to do with religion all of sudden

  • @JoseCampollo
    @JoseCampollo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    6:11 western man here, I got some advice. Maybe don't kidnap women, buy them flowers and chocolates. Take them on nice dates, meet their parents. Talk to them, get to know one another, then you can ask them if they want to marry you. You're welcome for this solution to your "we dont have any other way" problem.

    • @christianjakepalma6839
      @christianjakepalma6839 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The thing is the west doesn't have solution to its own problem like lgbt and gay marriages, hiv, divorce etc. For the west its ok, for them it is not.

  • @UndergroundTech
    @UndergroundTech 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12747

    And here I thought arranged marriages were bad.

    • @jvlogsyt3253
      @jvlogsyt3253 8 ปีที่แล้ว +516

      Underground Tech they are both awful in different ways

    • @Anna-ez8hf
      @Anna-ez8hf 8 ปีที่แล้ว +844

      I think you guys are confusing arranged with forced. Arranged marriage needs consent from both the man and the woman

    • @liquidsnake4329
      @liquidsnake4329 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stealin' pussies for masturb lol wtf!?

    • @johnandres4958
      @johnandres4958 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Underground Tech
      Ok

    • @karmeeleon
      @karmeeleon 7 ปีที่แล้ว +339

      I feel like the term Arranged is being misunderstood. The process works by both parents of the two bringing the two lovers together. If the two lovers love each other then the marriage proceeds. Nowadays the western thinks arranged is forced when it true meaning isn’t.

  • @theevbrosuwu3710
    @theevbrosuwu3710 6 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    Bro this actually made me cry she was pleading for her mom this is literal torture

    • @kant.68
      @kant.68 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It was staged. They were dating. But still absurd and goes against the law

    • @expensivegurl1112
      @expensivegurl1112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kant.68 it was staged?

    • @velnias9135
      @velnias9135 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      its ok she was happy in the end

    • @eddyjohnson9683
      @eddyjohnson9683 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@expensivegurl1112 Yes and no. The man said that she's his girlfriend and so they're planning to get married. So it's not like they were kidnapping a stranger. But at the same time, he and his girlfriend said she doesn't know she was going to be kidnapped before getting married (she said she thought she's gonna get married in a different way), so it wasn't staged. It's still a kidnapping.

  • @sadpeepolv6185
    @sadpeepolv6185 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1689

    The lady that the daughter suicide because she was kidnapped broke my heart.

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      sadpeepol :v Right? How sick.

    • @Predestinated1
      @Predestinated1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      simp

    • @youreactuallyright5168
      @youreactuallyright5168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Pre destinated no stop it’s disgusting

    • @crazybamboo77
      @crazybamboo77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@imok3487 because.
      Internet.

    • @Carnit_asss
      @Carnit_asss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      +Pre destinated
      Here we have another 13 year old who uses the word “simp” without knowing the meaning of it.

  • @CodeCube-rv1rm
    @CodeCube-rv1rm ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Bride’s grandma: You’re gonna let her finish school, right?
    Groom’s family: ehe

  • @ndapooo
    @ndapooo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2941

    "I'm dating someone" "no you're not! No one dates"
    This is messed up

    • @onesky4343
      @onesky4343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      That one got me too. She was a beautiful girl I felt so sorry for her.

    • @sonushinobu2050
      @sonushinobu2050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      The fact that I cannot help them makes me sad

    • @daev13k
      @daev13k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Glad the tradition is dead.

    • @callmerespect9177
      @callmerespect9177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@daev13k oh yes ? that such a suck tradition

    • @daev13k
      @daev13k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@callmerespect9177 Tradition is dead. Kyrgyzstan is a wonderful country without dumb tradition. This Video is propaganda. The tradition was never like shown in the Video.

  • @Beheaded_3rd_Wife
    @Beheaded_3rd_Wife 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5179

    I don't understand that girl helping those boys to kidnap the other girl... She was supposed to be her friend ?!

    • @СаяжанУзакбаева-в2ъ
      @СаяжанУзакбаева-в2ъ 10 ปีที่แล้ว +356

      Yes, she is . But in Kazakhstan and Kyrgyzstan girls think that's better than be forced to have sex with random man

    • @Beheaded_3rd_Wife
      @Beheaded_3rd_Wife 10 ปีที่แล้ว +401

      Саяжан Узакбаева Oh, ok, but I still feel sad for those girls, because as they say in this video there is some girls that ends their lives :/

    • @seyvagraen
      @seyvagraen 10 ปีที่แล้ว +625

      Mlle Chromosome That friend there is what we'd call a "backstabber" here in the western world. That's not a friend.

    • @Beheaded_3rd_Wife
      @Beheaded_3rd_Wife 10 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Mellow Noor that was what I was thinking, but I didn't found a word to describe her without being disrespectful

    • @zatchbeltguy
      @zatchbeltguy 10 ปีที่แล้ว +457

      Mlle Chromosome I feel like the friend was pressured into it. If she refused she would be against tradition which result in people against her. You can tell on her face she did not want to do this

  • @Tilly1770
    @Tilly1770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2738

    “Cultural Acceptance doesn’t mean accepting the unacceptable”- Jasvinder Sanghera

    • @mjverostek1278
      @mjverostek1278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Found the Islamophobe.

    • @GBeing-su9br
      @GBeing-su9br 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      if someone would come to kidnap my sis ,daughter i would have stabbed him even if i was a part of the culture

    • @flankerrulz
      @flankerrulz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But who decides what is unacceptable?

    • @Tilly1770
      @Tilly1770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      prashant kalli from the UN International Human Rights Laws
      “Human rights are rights inherent to all human beings, regardless of race, sex, nationality, ethnicity, language, religion, or any other status. Human rights include the right to life and liberty, freedom from slavery and torture, freedom of opinion and expression, the right to work and education, and many more. Everyone is entitled to these rights, without discrimination.”

    • @Threezi04
      @Threezi04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@mjverostek1278 What aspect of Islam includes kidnapping women?

  • @Penpanelopalia
    @Penpanelopalia ปีที่แล้ว +39

    How the hell is someone a bride-kidnapping expert

    • @Roby_G
      @Roby_G 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Countless years of experience

  • @JRedrum
    @JRedrum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4179

    Her crying for her mom while they’re all smiling and laughing….horrifying.

    • @magnificent8413
      @magnificent8413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Or may be try to be nice to them after they new that there is a foreigner filming documentary about their culture or She except as custom.
      Even she said its not a right time to get married but what to do. Already happened.

    • @JRedrum
      @JRedrum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      @@lamibrahim9202 that is so heartbreaking to hear… I really hope your culture evolves past this barbaric behavior at some point.

    • @___xyz___
      @___xyz___ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You really hope their culture evolves... I feel like I've read this phrase somewhere before. May be an adage from the colonial slave trade.

    • @JRedrum
      @JRedrum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@___xyz___ the comment I was replying to, where he was laughing at women being literally kidnapped and forced to marry against their will, got deleted. But let me be clear, if hoping that this absolute degenerate, depraved, disgusting “tradition” and the culture that accepts it evolves out of existence makes me a colonizer, I’ll happily wear that label.

    • @daustin8888
      @daustin8888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@Jooliuspoolius Yeah. Let's show these women the righteous, holy social structure of western democracy that unironically believes a man can turn into a woman lol

  • @eggrat749
    @eggrat749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1134

    The amount of pain in the girls voice as she calls for her mom is heartbreaking

    • @Predestinated1
      @Predestinated1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      you are a feminist

    • @Kastapupasupa
      @Kastapupasupa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@Predestinated1 yeah so?

    • @crimsonnite9291
      @crimsonnite9291 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Kastapupasupa feminists are gay.

    • @dontask8051
      @dontask8051 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@crimsonnite9291 so are you

    • @amexicanfox4384
      @amexicanfox4384 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yara71 so was that comeback

  • @2cul4u10
    @2cul4u10 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1769

    I can't believe this still happens in our world today.....truly heartbreaking.

    • @milanadyldaeva7311
      @milanadyldaeva7311 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Cathleen FLUFFY BONBON ok, to be honest, in Kyrgyzstan there are such a few places, I mean now, that allow THAT. Because even here, kyrgyz people understand that it’s insane and ofc illegal. I don’t mean that it doesn’t happen, because you know assholes always will be around, but now the law is protecting women from that. They are REALLY protecting

    • @shavoniekong492
      @shavoniekong492 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kyrgyzstan isn’t the only place that does, it happens all over the globe especially in less developed countries

    • @dionysusswine60
      @dionysusswine60 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well as u see this video from 2012. We got low against this in 2013.

    • @dionysusswine60
      @dionysusswine60 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No need to worry. This video was made it in 2013. We got law against kidnapping brides in 2013.

    • @ytflashcube7497
      @ytflashcube7497 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes when it was wrong you should leave this. You know this was a sins. You know it is a bad thing. I know some tribes worship satan the way of their traditional. The way of their culture. But this was wrong and you should leave it alone.

  • @sizzlinggreenonion
    @sizzlinggreenonion ปีที่แล้ว +72

    How did you guys get married?
    Them: "Stockholm Syndrome"

    • @Im-fq1mn
      @Im-fq1mn ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly ..😢

  • @miaxarra
    @miaxarra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2593

    Its not that she had ‘accepted’ her fate when she gave in and ate whatever the mothers had offered. She was exhausted

    • @ploenlindason8004
      @ploenlindason8004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Nope. Everyone can have their own beliefs but no one can force their own beliefs on others in actions that affect them like this. Nations don’t matter. Otherwise, if the man’s tradition is kidnapping the bride, then the bride can say that her tradition is killing the man who kidnapped her.

    • @ploenlindason8004
      @ploenlindason8004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Yunus Hailey You can continue your tradition in a way that affects only yourself and those who wants to be affected. Just because you care about your national identity doesn't mean others in your country do, and they have a right not to subscribe to the identity and abandon the culture. I know I don't care about my country and its culture, and other people in other countries can also choose to feel the same way if they want. No one should be identified by their country anyways, unless they as an individual wants to.

    • @Frej84
      @Frej84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @Yunus Hailey Your tradition is cruel and evil. Every tradition is just an idea that began in the past. Once we used to put black cats in a wooden box, and smash the box and the cat because of superstition. That nonsense was repeated for hundreds of years, and it even lives on today, but the wooden box is now painted and the content is candy. Still utterly stupid. Just because an idea is old, it doesn't make it good. On the contrary, it's stupid not to take old ideas up to revision. That is how a society and a people improve themselves. That is the very reason every country - including yours - has extinct traditions in the first place. Otherwise, we would still perform some stupid nonsense going back to the stone-age, simply because "Well it's tradition".

    • @noahcamiola7995
      @noahcamiola7995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Yunus Hailey shut tf up it’s disgusting

    • @krieger8825
      @krieger8825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Yunus Hailey I don't think that's how you got your whole population from Asian looking people into European

  • @TheSamaa1997
    @TheSamaa1997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +680

    "then we gave her back" no wonder why she hung herself, she felt betrayed by her family.. This is heartbreaking on so many levels.

    • @lamonesjr4744
      @lamonesjr4744 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Facts that death is on the parents dam a tradition what about your kid?

    • @catfishsensei4306
      @catfishsensei4306 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah...

    • @noone-io4yj
      @noone-io4yj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ليش كدا؟ ?why is it like that

    • @mombueno884
      @mombueno884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@catfishsensei4306 why not?

  • @twizzy4076
    @twizzy4076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4153

    The mother crying because of her daughter who committed suicide changed the whole vibe of the video for me. I tought that the kidnapping was mostly already mutually agreed on. So it’s very sad that there is still some cases of this happening

    • @sklewafe
      @sklewafe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +383

      when it's mutually agreed upon, that's called marriage, not kidnapping

    • @jumbojumbojumbojumbo
      @jumbojumbojumbojumbo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      3:00 I didn't know that there exists a job like 'BRIDE KIDNAPPING EXPERT' wtf 💀

    • @jeybeElSueco
      @jeybeElSueco 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Can't even begin to describe how i felt about that, so unbelievably sad. :/

    • @natalia.a020
      @natalia.a020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I cried when she was telling her story, it's so heartbreaking. In the other case at least they knew each other but the wedding still interrupted her life plans

    • @samwarner1612
      @samwarner1612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@sklewafe i figured the kidnapping element was like “im going to come randomly get you one day from your home and on that day we will get married” yk “Kidnapping” just agreed on

  • @maxwilliam1063
    @maxwilliam1063 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    As a Muslim, This is Horrible! This is against Islam as the bride needs to give full consent for the wedding to even be planned. Spreading this message and trying to describe Islam and making this religion look bad is the only thing you can do. Repent Now and Ask for Forgiveness or you might all burn in Hell for doing such a disgusting thing. This is disgusting and disgusting, Doing this for a stupid tradition is very stupid. You Dont even follow your own religion and call yourselves Muslims? Shame on you!

  • @Jon-zy8zd
    @Jon-zy8zd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9416

    **Girl gets kidnapped**
    People around: 😂🤣😅

    • @driftingdruid
      @driftingdruid 6 ปีที่แล้ว +734

      yea, that was the sickening part to watch

    • @Christarfire
      @Christarfire 6 ปีที่แล้ว +495

      In America the response would be 👱🏻‍♀️🏃🏼‍♂️🚔💀

    • @BTSARMY-nk4rz
      @BTSARMY-nk4rz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@Christarfire 🔫

    • @andrealachica7607
      @andrealachica7607 6 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Well they think it’s “traditional” so I bet that other people would even give a damn.

    • @arat2028
      @arat2028 6 ปีที่แล้ว +273

      **Girl gets kidnapped**
      People around : Oh, what a cute couple.

  • @kellywaggoner6703
    @kellywaggoner6703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1528

    Her screaming for her mom as everyone looking on just laughs. This made me ill and nauseous!! My heart hurts for these young girls.

    • @patriciaoffer9585
      @patriciaoffer9585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yeah seriously it's weird that people who can string a sentence together at all/most other times can only cackle at her...

    • @azs226
      @azs226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      shes literally crying and everyone is like oh look she being kidnapped hahaha no its not funny

    • @thebasado4524
      @thebasado4524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You are being fooled, she's enjoying it and she is crying tears of joy

    • @patriciaoffer9585
      @patriciaoffer9585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@thebasado4524
      How are your relationships with women?

    • @thebasado4524
      @thebasado4524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@patriciaoffer9585 I have 5 wives but I don't talk to them they're for cleaning and for my dirty pleasures

  • @everevelyn1094
    @everevelyn1094 6 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    The poor girl yelling for her mom just broke my heart! 💔

    • @MrJm323
      @MrJm323 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      "The poor girl yelling for her mom just broke my heart!"
      Look more carefully. .... 10:40 and 12:50 .
      ....She is a pretty good actress though.
      (I'm sure that bride kidnapping is a real and serious issue in Kyrgyzstan; but a great many of them are actually staged by the agreement of the young men and women because the brides' families do not approve of their daughters' choices in fiances. In other words, many of these "kidnappings" are ritualized elopements, and there's no particular incentive on the part of the brides to admit this to anyone -- including foreign film crews. ....The only solution is for civil society groups in Kyrgyzstan to more aggressively promote the idea of grown women being able to OPENLY choose their own husbands and more generally to pursue romantic relationships without being slut-shamed.)

    • @nia5449
      @nia5449 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      her mom is not going to take her away, because its considered shameful and no one else will ever marry her

    • @hax2009
      @hax2009 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know its wrong but it turned me on a little bit. Now before you say anything I am also underage

    • @drmhr8890
      @drmhr8890 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hax2009 ..........😑

    • @hax2009
      @hax2009 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@drmhr8890 If you are not happy about it imagine how I feel and what I have to deal with

  • @stanzinangmo7012
    @stanzinangmo7012 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This tradition was used be followed from where I belong, we are from the Himalayan region of Ladakh in India and this practice is common here. Where they kidnap the women and take her as to marry her to the particular suitor. Before kidnapping the women they check into women background and sees if she's wife material and once they get to know everything, they kidnap her when she's outside in the market place or somewhere outside of her home. They forcefully marry the woman but eventually woman accepts it as her fate and never rebel. Now as the people are getting more educated and socially evolving they no longer practice it and women also don't accept it and fight for themselves. So, here in my region this practice is no longer practiced. Although I can't say it has fully stopped but very few still practice it and its very rare.

  • @sameulroy2757
    @sameulroy2757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +697

    Her friend just betrayed her and her dreams of becoming a lawyer.

    • @zaraaleale4048
      @zaraaleale4048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      So sad.....

    • @kellabdjfoo
      @kellabdjfoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ikr it was terrible

    • @mhmok4684
      @mhmok4684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      This is not even an actual tradition. It was always considered a heavy crime in Central Asia. The actual "bride kidnapping" is when a guy and a girl really love each other, but her parents are against their marriage (because they were planning to marry their daughter to someone else), so the guy takes the girl and they escape together from their parents. People nowadays just misunderstand this tradition and some idiots kidnap girls they don't even know thinking that this was the way of their ancestors. creds from another guy~Edweed

    • @kellabdjfoo
      @kellabdjfoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mhmok4684 i agree!

    • @Rakshay223
      @Rakshay223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mhmok4684 that's what he told in the documentary yeah we saw it too

  • @Suomi91
    @Suomi91 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4389

    Whoever came up with this tradition was a lunatic.

    • @Mr-Ad-196
      @Mr-Ad-196 6 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      Several hundred year ago it was fine but today is the modern day......I was hoping this tradition will end soon......

    • @manar321
      @manar321 6 ปีที่แล้ว +300

      @@sueb2898 no honey islam doesn't force people to get mary or kidnapping.
      it's illegal and forbidden in Islam.
      STOP being racist
      Some of arab follows stuff like this and say it's traditional but it's not,
      Like every place in the world.
      Remember racist person : some of people doesn't represent all.

    • @Mr-Ad-196
      @Mr-Ad-196 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@sueb2898 ahahahaha if Islam is like that I would have many wife by now ahaahahahaha.

    • @salifusadat3002
      @salifusadat3002 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@Mr-Ad-196 well are you saying you'd have followed this practices if it were to be said in the Qur'an.

    • @Mr-Ad-196
      @Mr-Ad-196 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@salifusadat3002 hrmmmmm depends.

  • @sharnegimbert7397
    @sharnegimbert7397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1486

    'Your a girl, all girls get married.' imagine being kidnapped by a bunch of men, all your family watching and laughing, being held down in a car, and being told that. Jesus.

    • @alana6550
      @alana6550 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Random User I hated that to, like wtf

    • @justyouraveragejoe1333
      @justyouraveragejoe1333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Good thing i am man...jesus i cant believe this tradition exist

    • @whenthefirenationattacked2607
      @whenthefirenationattacked2607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Honestly I’d rather die at that point

    • @brownlaytte317
      @brownlaytte317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@aher1560 They're drinking and pushing people to drink. They don't know about Islam as it seems, or they don't care

    • @bigchungus920
      @bigchungus920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aher1560 your religion was created by wife beating, pedophile, coward. Anyone who supports Islam and doesn't support this is a hypocrite

  • @Shunsuka
    @Shunsuka 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    15:35 Man... being a live witness to such a heartless tradition but being there like a guest with good treatment while watching a heartbreaking scene has to be the most uncomfortable and difficult thing to digest.

  • @srah4767
    @srah4767 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4251

    This entire country is one big case of the Stockholm Syndrome

    • @angel_planet
      @angel_planet 6 ปีที่แล้ว +296

      Except the girls are left traumatized, and usually unhappy

    • @jikasay3820
      @jikasay3820 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Heeeeey, wtf I live in this country and how u see it happens in villages and loweducated ppl

    • @kiml1226
      @kiml1226 6 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      @@jikasay3820 Just because you see a happening doesn't mean it's good. And what you said wasn't even a proper sentence.

    • @misterdinner3648
      @misterdinner3648 6 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @@kiml1226 He was saying that it only happens among uneducated people and people in the countryside.

    • @Iskender46teke
      @Iskender46teke 6 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      @@kiml1226 Yes Im also from Kirghizistan, but saying that all ppl from the country are bad because of an old tradition done by very few idiots is wrong. Its like 1 to 3% population doing this today. Its sad because its also happened to my aunty when she was young, but my grandparents were able to stop them.

  • @newlandsdw750
    @newlandsdw750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6513

    Normal guys: omg I'm so nervous what if she says no?😣
    Kyrgyzstan: omg I'm so nervous what if she *escapes* ?😞

  • @not.elise_0545
    @not.elise_0545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4386

    I don’t care if it’s a tradition, this is absolutely disgusting. No girl deserves this, even if she wants to be married. the stress and trauma that these men have gave her is awful.

    • @i574k-yk7ht
      @i574k-yk7ht 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @z Neytram no shu1 up.

    • @LoopBoop930
      @LoopBoop930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jebus Bhrist 😕

    • @bellexbelle
      @bellexbelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Jebus Bhrist men and woman, they are both equal 😟

    • @StarryEyedShepherd
      @StarryEyedShepherd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @z Neytram What girls could you possibly be talking about? Why do you feel the need to justify this disgusting behaviour?

    • @___xyz___
      @___xyz___ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women in the west willingly participate in this kind of play, are paid thousands of dollars, and people of all ages enthusiastically rush to the theatres to watch them be kidnapped on the big screen with their friends. I don't exactly see how this is much different except for the meters of cotton padding the western women receive in order to not have to feel the pea of hurt when putting on their best face for the camera.

  • @MiMi-rc1bv
    @MiMi-rc1bv ปีที่แล้ว +300

    The reporter saying „good luck guys“ to the kidnappers is disgusting 🤮

    • @AlexandriaGracee
      @AlexandriaGracee ปีที่แล้ว +32

      MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY

    • @lycan2494
      @lycan2494 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      game is game

    • @-_Hatred_-
      @-_Hatred_- ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kinda awkward, I'd say

    • @prcgressive
      @prcgressive ปีที่แล้ว +79

      to be fair, he is a reporter. any sign that he's in disagreement, i'm sure the groomsmen will be quick to remove him from watching or recording. you have to build rapport with these people in order to capture the reality of the situation. it is obvious that the reporter felt truly uncomfortable with this tradition.

    • @fakeotaku5788
      @fakeotaku5788 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      he was doing it to get footage, at the end he called the practice shitty. You have to understand he’s in a foreign country filming a cultural practice so if he disagreed there, they wouldn’t let him report on this issue. He couldn’t expose this practice for the rest of the world.

  • @chuucheww
    @chuucheww 6 ปีที่แล้ว +765

    Just imagine walking down the street and getting kidnapped

    • @MonokoKokoro
      @MonokoKokoro 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Just thinking about someone planning your kidnapping is sickening.

    • @starcrafter13terran
      @starcrafter13terran 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Yeah, her "friend" helped set her up.

    • @aylaschannel4205
      @aylaschannel4205 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No thanks

    • @russiaforever7026
      @russiaforever7026 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tase them

    • @susiezyp
      @susiezyp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Just imagine you are frightend every minute to be kidnapped when walking down the street, beeing on a meeting or party or fearing to be kidnapped out of your own home or beeing stuck somewhere and somebody tells you i kidnapp you for my son.
      Or imagine you have girl friend you want to marry, and other guy kidnappes here away (yes they do). Or mother doesent like your boy friend so she arrange kidnapping (by cruel, lazy alcoholic, yes also thos happens).

  • @Willwillrise
    @Willwillrise 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1853

    2013: I'm going to go kidnap my wife!
    2033: Why did all the women leave our country?

    • @5014bushido
      @5014bushido 6 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      They’re gonna get their karma. Like China men who can’t find the brides because they’re killing the girl babies.

    • @eveeve5606
      @eveeve5606 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @Red October its not even about being western its just knowing what morally good and whats not. This? Not it. Pedophilia is looked down upon and bullshit if you think they dont do that shit just as much in other countries but western countries speak about issues. I wasnt even born in the west but I'm aware of issues.

    • @miaa.p0v
      @miaa.p0v 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Red October calm down western culture is different than this brutall culture. Even Saudi Arabia treat girls better than that

    • @dionysusswine60
      @dionysusswine60 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Fun memes. Well we got law against kidnapping brides in 2013. Educate yourself 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @eveeve5606
      @eveeve5606 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@dionysusswine60 word? Thats good

  • @isabellamyers4813
    @isabellamyers4813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    Girl gets kidnapped screaming for help
    All the neighbors and her mom: Tehehehehe 🤭😄

    • @siim605
      @siim605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Encouraged depravity disguised as tradition. It's sad to see people not being better than this.

    • @Pompuriin3
      @Pompuriin3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What If the men were the ones getting kidnapped by women to be their husbands?

    • @siim605
      @siim605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Pompuriin3 It's a pointless hypothetical, because it simply doesn't happen. This tradition is essentially a messed up way to bypass a woman's boundaries and right to choose who they want to be with.
      Women have more to lose and are naturally more cautious about relationships and they're the ones who ultimately make the choice whether they want to be in a relationship with a guy or not.

    • @isabellamyers4813
      @isabellamyers4813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      이수빈 even if it we’re a man it would still be wrong no one should be stolen from their home and forced into a marriage especially when they’re fighting and begging you to let them go

  • @vapinggranny2474
    @vapinggranny2474 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    9:20 the way he comes up to van and waves … “good luck guys” - like a little brother makes it hilarious

  • @amclover8334
    @amclover8334 7 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    "girls will be happy if they marry crying" wtf

  • @aliibilli
    @aliibilli 5 ปีที่แล้ว +633

    It's sad that this is the only reason I know the country's name.

    • @alexandruoncescu6704
      @alexandruoncescu6704 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wa?

    • @fu660
      @fu660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Alisha ayo, issa my country n we have whole lotta good shit. Nowadays we don’t kidnap girls anymore to marry them. We have the best weed in USSR, prettiest nature, best food in da world ❌🧢, if u tryna visit my country imma show u better side of my home country

    • @zeinamat7589
      @zeinamat7589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alisha But put in your mind that not the whole country do that, it’s only about one or two villages in Kyrgyzstan that do that stupid stuff, okay!😊

  • @prashantkunder515
    @prashantkunder515 6 ปีที่แล้ว +988

    The sad part is that the women themselves are supporting such a thing!

    • @LaRedPDX
      @LaRedPDX 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      DaFaQ pRuShUnT
      They literally have no choice. Their lives will be hell, otherwise.
      They’re LITERALLY under mind control. Propaganda and brain washing. Like Stockholm Syndrome.
      Patriarchy and men suppressing women at its finest, as usual. (& I fucking HATE modern-day FemiNazi Liberalism). But it’s just the truth, here. & Stating that truth, isn’t feminism, or Liberal. Have to say that preemptively, before someone gets butthurt by this truth. LOL “It is what it is”. (One of my fav sayings).

    • @Helljumper7200
      @Helljumper7200 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Stop victim blaming whitey!

    • @LaRedPDX
      @LaRedPDX 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women is the plural form of woman BTW, DaFaQ.

    • @wiptide
      @wiptide 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It is called "grooming" of abuse. It is not support. You heard one of wives speaking earlier confronting her husband with his vicious kidnap.

    • @LaRedPDX
      @LaRedPDX 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      wiptide
      It’s especially fucked up because some of these women love the men. They already agreed to/wanted to marry them. They simply didn’t want to be kidnapped! (Can you blame them)?
      & In this case here, the couple had talked about it, and he even promised her he would never do that to her when they were going to be getting married… But he did.
      They literally start their relationship off, by him being an untrustworthy, lying piece of shit who can’t keep his word from the get go. If they don’t think that plants a seed in these poor women’s heads, it does. (Doubt they care)...It is so fucked up.
      *Not only that, but it is disrespectful to the men themselves* !
      Because if you have to kidnap a woman to get her to marry you, then you’re a sorry ass motherfucker LOL don’t you want somebody to marry you because they want to?! Not selling yourself short by forcing somebody?! So really these guys are disrespecting themselves, even more so.
      But are too stupid and engrained in their cultures and heads, too see it. 😔

  • @rayeia
    @rayeia ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "Our cousins pressured us so I blessed the marriage and gave her back" ...so basically it's your fault for not standing up for your daughter like a decent mother. Yet she grieves like she didn't have a choice...

  • @mx8213
    @mx8213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6531

    Dont call this crime a "tradition" this is absolutely horrifying

    • @captainSparrow2025
      @captainSparrow2025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      Just because it’s a crime doesn’t mean it isn’t tradition

    • @thekub32
      @thekub32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@thebasado4524 LMFAO.

    • @patriciaoffer9585
      @patriciaoffer9585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@captainSparrow2025
      "Tradition" doesn't always mean "far-sighted".

    • @sheikhtom8894
      @sheikhtom8894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The Basado 😂😂👌🏾

    • @TrusttheY
      @TrusttheY 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      What a coincidence, krygystans and I share the same “hobby"

  • @jaygarcia8508
    @jaygarcia8508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1859

    This is absolutely heartbreaking. These woman are victims of kidnapping & sexual assault in front of many witnesses but yet nothing is done. My own grandmother was a victim of this crime & it was permitted by her own family. It just absolutely breaks my heart that these crimes are still happening to young women today.

    • @adamferencszi797
      @adamferencszi797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where was your grandmother from?

    • @andrewd4413
      @andrewd4413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Where was the sexual assault in this video? Marital rape is illegal Krygyzstan.

    • @adamferencszi797
      @adamferencszi797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@andrewd4413 kidnap me instead of those girls. I like the dudes in the blue and red shirts respectively 😂

    • @andrewd4413
      @andrewd4413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Adam Ferencszi I'm not from Kyrgyzstan, and I 100% oppose kidnapping women.

    • @adamferencszi797
      @adamferencszi797 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andrewd4413 how about kidnapping men ?

  • @Dominic_Williams_Videos
    @Dominic_Williams_Videos 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1919

    Imagine this, all the these women were kidnapped, they got older with time... and these same older women joining the tradition and still continue doing it to young girls. They know the pain, but they still do it, even tho it happen to them too. And those young girls you saw kidnapped in the video, will eventually get old... and they will do it for their son too. Amazing!!!

    • @Comebackherein2050
      @Comebackherein2050 6 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      I live in this country. older women think that it is necessary that this is a tradition. They do not even think it could be otherwise. The young generation of girls now does not want to be abducted. People who live in the capital are very modern especially the younger generation. in 2013 a law was passed on the illegality of the abduction. Nowadays, there are less and less abductions. But there are still people who think that this is a tradition. The girl and the boy are introduced to the parents before the wedding. If they like each other they marry. We will not be able to become such an open and tolerant country as the United States and European countries. But progress is the younger generation wants to change.

    • @moongirl9893
      @moongirl9893 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Comebackherein2050 I think a solution might the leaving of the younger generations to capital cities at a young age for example for school or work, so they can't abduct the girls. If they have finished school and got married with their consent, they can consider going back to their village.
      Btw I'm Turkish and our language sounds so much alike, but the culture is very different.

    •  6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Because sisterhood is a myth.

    • @lesterthien2330
      @lesterthien2330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @yami bakura you sound feminism

    • @nabildk6954
      @nabildk6954 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      CUZ after they r old all they think of is their boys so they allow it

  • @Lellamellow
    @Lellamellow ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Why would any parent give their child to someone who took her so violently in the middle of the night and did such awful things to her ?

  • @jojomakes
    @jojomakes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3061

    5:56 "The West condemns bride kidnapping"
    Yes, we're kinda against kidnapping as a whole sir.

    • @markm2092
      @markm2092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Don’t get me wrong, this tradition isn’t right but he had a point when he said the west doesn’t give a good alternative for them to follow.

    • @moneysittintall3611
      @moneysittintall3611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +338

      @@markm2092 yeah we do, it’s called asking a girl if they want to get married and giving them a choice

    • @markm2092
      @markm2092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@moneysittintall3611 he wasn’t talking specifically about engagement but the entire western model of society and marriage. He was saying the west hasn’t shown themselves to be knights in shining armour, so they aren’t worth following.
      I don’t agree with bride kidnapping or anything like that. But his sentiments about the west aren’t wrong.

    • @novaangelica5096
      @novaangelica5096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      This country is fucked up , old men kidnapped younger women and forcing them to be their brides? And guess what happened after the "wedding"? This is rape and they are child predators , they deserve to be arrested and have their d!cks chopped off

    • @lesscringeymapperdude
      @lesscringeymapperdude 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@novaangelica5096 wrong. this is too kind. they deserved to be hanged. a quick execution that doesnt waste too much money. we will not spend money on scum

  • @ellie82819
    @ellie82819 6 ปีที่แล้ว +575

    “She was freaked out, she’s eating cookies now though”

    • @otterwoods8881
      @otterwoods8881 6 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Me at 3AM after a mental breakdown

    • @inseut
      @inseut 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@otterwoods8881 ^exactly

    • @lovelyyejilovelyhueningkai5549
      @lovelyyejilovelyhueningkai5549 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@otterwoods8881 same😂😂😂😂

    • @lpbvr
      @lpbvr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@otterwoods8881 LMAO TRUE

    • @expensivegurl1112
      @expensivegurl1112 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@otterwoods8881 me lmao

  • @lyn745
    @lyn745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4341

    I started crying when she sobbed for her mom. I can't imagine what it must be like to go through this; it's atrocious.

    • @MPPG663
      @MPPG663 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd spit on those women. They wouldn't want me as a daughter-in-law by the time I got through with them.

    • @marywanjiku2246
      @marywanjiku2246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      If I'm the mum, that "Husbands" gonads would disappear then he wouldn't need to worry about marriage.

    • @Wattba10
      @Wattba10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      This is deeply disturbing, I'm in total shock

    • @SexRealist301
      @SexRealist301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      It's totally, utterly sick. If I was the girl in that car I would have been trying to gouge their eyes out of their skulls.

    • @sean6992
      @sean6992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That ones not real painting rd just a demonstration

  • @BUBUBAGELSS
    @BUBUBAGELSS ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The first instinct to call for mum is always devastating and heart wrenching to hear. Especially knowing the mum can’t do anything to help out, when there own family members brainwash them into this “tradition”.

  • @youngeshmoney
    @youngeshmoney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2967

    Normal men: *gets down on one knee*
    These men: hippity hoppity you are now my property

    • @lolerzlost6475
      @lolerzlost6475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      so when these guys do it its "Culture" but when I do it for fun its rape and homicide

    • @12abc-p6k
      @12abc-p6k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh my god is that a Boys reference? Mully/Juicy/Smashing

    • @youngeshmoney
      @youngeshmoney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@lolerzlost6475 ummmm sir💀💀😭

    • @sunrisereconquista7048
      @sunrisereconquista7048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Based

    • @potfdron
      @potfdron 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      *BRITIAN wants to know your location!!

  • @Diospectre
    @Diospectre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +748

    It's a good country to start a bodyguard and security service business.

    • @sunscream8502
      @sunscream8502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

    • @thegary9584
      @thegary9584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @øranuto husband quarterly bride bonus

    • @bhoyalcazar9688
      @bhoyalcazar9688 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @jorenprins5947
      @jorenprins5947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @øranuto husband so? The currency is prob also way lower there so you could still live like a king

    • @prokilleridk5924
      @prokilleridk5924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stonks

  • @apoet7738
    @apoet7738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +837

    Bruh imagine being a bride kidnapping expert

    • @user-ej1sb3gq1m
      @user-ej1sb3gq1m 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      imagine running a consulting firm around it

    • @salahaddin1890
      @salahaddin1890 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @supermanprime1281
      @supermanprime1281 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cartel 🤧

    • @rhinobrino9151
      @rhinobrino9151 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lord Nerdecon maybe both?

    • @lexo6987
      @lexo6987 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I cot my degree so what ?