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Bride Kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan

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  • In rural Kyrgyzstan men still marry their women the old-fashioned way: by abducting them off the street and forcing them to be their wife. Bride kidnapping is a supposedly ancient custom that's made a major comeback since the fall of Communism and now accounts for nearly half of all marriages in some parts. We traveled to the Kyrgyz countryside to follow a young groom named Kubanti as he surprised his teenage girlfriend Nazgul with the gift of marriage/kidnapping.
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  • @VICE
    @VICE  ปีที่แล้ว +496

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    • @TheLatiosnlatias02
      @TheLatiosnlatias02 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      VICE has double standards and is in league with US/Israel.

    • @MM-jf1me
      @MM-jf1me ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sounds interesting! I'd also enjoy seeing a followup to this particular documentary, finding the couple married in this show, and seeing what their thoughts are now on bride kidnapping -- it's been over a decade since this documentary first aired.

    • @ma.1749
      @ma.1749 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wtf!!!!! This’s straight up lies!!! I’m from Saudi Arabia there’s 0% of SA in our schools bcuz IT’S NOT MIXED we only have all girls or all boys school

    • @ma.1749
      @ma.1749 ปีที่แล้ว

      This’s shocking how u ppl would shamelessly accuse islam of the things that happens routinely in ur non muslim countries in my muslim country it’s a CRIM to even cat call women even asking for a woman’s number is considered illegal us muslim women feel the safest in our countries unlike the women in western and non muslim countries the statistics of sexual assault are over the roof yet u have the audacity to make these videos against islam i mean we know it’s a propaganda but unfortunately many ignorants believe it

    • @restartlife6722
      @restartlife6722 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      In Islam does not has such kind of kidnapping bro please do not belong your wrong opinion without adequate evidence!

  • @niamhha9014
    @niamhha9014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10314

    “But if the men don’t kidnap, they might never get married”. If the only way for a man to get married is for him to kidnap someone, then that’s a sign that he shouldn’t get married.

    • @lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657
      @lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      Underrated comment

    • @Sahilbc-wj8qk
      @Sahilbc-wj8qk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      You are stupid.
      They are doing what Nature do.
      Like eating meat is natural sex is.

    • @lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657
      @lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      @@Sahilbc-wj8qk what wait i dont understand. Can u elaborate

    • @lzblmvm7113
      @lzblmvm7113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I wanna go there and try this on a girl

    • @jacobgraham8158
      @jacobgraham8158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      @@lloritoshaneerinmitchells.8657 they’re using the logical fallacy that “the natural way is the right way”

  • @beastsw109
    @beastsw109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32663

    Imagine youre a tourist and suddenly you become a strangers wife

    • @nietvoorudus5145
      @nietvoorudus5145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +207

      Beast Sw 😆

    • @kalsanggundha3541
      @kalsanggundha3541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      🤣

    • @three-stripes
      @three-stripes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +813

      This happens to dudes? I get this a lot but I'm pretty.

    • @kennystone1927
      @kennystone1927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4136

      This actually happened to two female tourists a few years back, they got their national embassy involved and were able to return home after about a week.

    • @newElon
      @newElon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1077

      No. They kiddnapp only women they know. Not strangers. Cmon a little bit of common sens. A tradition is something that belong to them and they societies. So they know each other and the plan everything.... well there is a foreigner in the town who look extact like the bride to be... Ouch! Bad for her

  • @augussy197
    @augussy197 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +924

    i cried with the mom whose daughter committed suicide. i want to give her a hug, what a horrible loss

    • @nur4ik14
      @nur4ik14 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      news from the Kyrgyz: now in our state there is no such tradition, all this happened in the past. please google "kyrgyzstan 2024"

    • @paulinadrygulska1947
      @paulinadrygulska1947 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      The mother allowed it to happen though. She allowed the man to kidnap her

    • @Rrrrrrrrrrrr429
      @Rrrrrrrrrrrr429 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@paulinadrygulska1947 sad

    • @b1uezje
      @b1uezje 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@paulinadrygulska1947 yeah, I can only feel so bad, when she's culpable in her own daughter's death. what kind of a parent would let their kid go through something like that.

    • @cesarcorpuz4119
      @cesarcorpuz4119 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@paulinadrygulska1947 No she didn't allowed the kidnapping. It is stated in the video that they event took their daughter on the next day, however their cousins pressured them saying that it is not right to take the bride and because of the pressure they give in and blessed the marriage. It is just sad that tradition is above their religion and law.

  • @darcy9969
    @darcy9969 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1063

    no one's gonna talk about her "friend"? she knew her friend's dream to finish school and become a lawyer yet she lured her into that marriage. And please, the way the grooms men was touching the bride to keep her from moving.

    • @robbieloon9708
      @robbieloon9708 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      fr.so traumatizing and jaw dropping

    • @adheldas6215
      @adheldas6215 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Just horrible

    • @adheldas6215
      @adheldas6215 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      This was just horrible

    • @KaiserTwo
      @KaiserTwo หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They said they would allow the bride to continue their education…

    • @deliciousdan227
      @deliciousdan227 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@KaiserTwo Yes they allow it 🙏🙏thank god!! A woman must be allowed...

  • @trashbag5810
    @trashbag5810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8373

    I love how awkward the interviewer is. Mans is just vibing while he’s witnessing a crime I mean tradition I mean crime.

    • @deleteduser84924
      @deleteduser84924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      epic

    • @ahmeddyasalkhwarizmi8783
      @ahmeddyasalkhwarizmi8783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Nah i think you mean tradition

    • @user-sg8bf2mk4s
      @user-sg8bf2mk4s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +521

      @@ahmeddyasalkhwarizmi8783 crime sis

    • @murrlandmac6340
      @murrlandmac6340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Where u are maybe it’s a crime but to them it’s tradition.

    • @angelrosas2556
      @angelrosas2556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      @Number wa an A tradition that no woman wants to follow, as seen in some of these cases, if they don't believe in these traditions than why would she follow it? Is thet hard to understand? or are you stupid

  • @kalloused
    @kalloused 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10786

    Welcome to Kyrgyzstan where the countries motto is "No means Yes"

    • @FlyingWalnut
      @FlyingWalnut 7 ปีที่แล้ว +356

      Quagmire must be their greatest deity.

    • @TheEnderfang
      @TheEnderfang 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      lol.

    • @damiantorres5707
      @damiantorres5707 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      lol

    • @katiesunnie1460
      @katiesunnie1460 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😳

    • @crymp2057
      @crymp2057 7 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      "No means Yes. Yes means Anal!" - Yale Students
      I swear, just google it

  • @Idke67
    @Idke67 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +698

    The girl being kidnapped and then 3 men holding her, her yelling mom. My heart broke, I felt so helpless like how she was feeling at that moment. Almost cried.

  • @nasmahdi5485
    @nasmahdi5485 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1403

    Every single woman in this video is a victim. Generational trauma is very real, this is a culture that has endured tradition with such commitment that every bright young light inside these girls is snubbed out by it. My heart bleeds for them

    • @nur4ik14
      @nur4ik14 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      news from the Kyrgyz: now in our state there is no such tradition, all this happened in the past. please google "kyrgyzstan 2024"

    • @black-xu8de
      @black-xu8de 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      I am Kyrgyz, but this tradition does not exist now. now someone touches a girl and they'll go to jail

    • @carontorliak2760
      @carontorliak2760 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      ​@@black-xu8dethat is great to hear, what changed in the last few years to make this happen?

    • @bibekrayamajhi7529
      @bibekrayamajhi7529 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@black-xu8de have any kidnapped bride unalived the groom and his whole family by poisoning them for destroying her life? and don't tell me this bullshit tradition does not exist now when this video is just from few years ago

    • @Enoxificatti
      @Enoxificatti 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@black-xu8deWhat laws were implemented in order for this to change?

  • @charlieapples9373
    @charlieapples9373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2549

    How sweet, giving your wife PTSD and a lifelong fear of men right before the wedding

    • @nadiab4585
      @nadiab4585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Frr

    • @hugrantevardome8247
      @hugrantevardome8247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ayee 666th like
      *cums*

    • @oussamabekk1108
      @oussamabekk1108 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      That kind of relationship is Very Haram ... what is he going to say to GoD in the day of judgment ??? This Haram tradition must be stopped .

    • @s9k328
      @s9k328 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@oussamabekk1108 Quran 4:19 "O believers! It is not permissible for you to inherit women against their will"

    • @kudaibergeno
      @kudaibergeno 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There is no suck thing as PTSD in south 😂, it is what it is. It tranformation of tradition

  • @naziur
    @naziur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5790

    "Girls will be happy if they get married crying"
    What utter disgust

    • @hodzal5258
      @hodzal5258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +234

      Seems they can't tell the difference between tears of sorrow & joy.

    • @mandagodin5075
      @mandagodin5075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Right, wrong kinda cryin bruh 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @comfortableconfys7814
      @comfortableconfys7814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      i know rigtht that jiust disgust me

    • @Jobe-13
      @Jobe-13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Naziur Honestly, like wtf.

    • @user-qh9en6fh6g
      @user-qh9en6fh6g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly

  • @nora_xxx3668
    @nora_xxx3668 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    She was absolutely terrified. She didn't consent. I am honestly terrified just watching this as a woman.

    • @froglifes6829
      @froglifes6829 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Unknown00432 nice joke. look at what they just did to the pakestani female students...and a couple years ago a TOURIST was kidnapped..

    • @VienneAtangana
      @VienneAtangana 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      And the way she called out for her mom is heartbreaking

  • @vixaz
    @vixaz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +160

    Her friend pretending to fight back as if she wasn’t agreeing and literally helped her get kidnapped

  • @mjstc7893
    @mjstc7893 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3220

    Poor girl just wanted to enjoy her youth while she could. You can't tell me that "momma" wasn't heartbreaking seriously

    • @vegasfinest702
      @vegasfinest702 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      EA7 it wasn’t you think she had no more fight in her?? Lmao everyone gets married like this there I call it crocodile 🐊 😭

    • @q7851
      @q7851 5 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      @@vegasfinest702 Righttttt....because "everyone gets married like this there" means that every single woman there should accept and be happy with the fact that they're being kidnapped..
      I bet you would want to live there and be kidnapped too, don't you?

    • @5014chizuka
      @5014chizuka 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Momma was on it too. 😢 Evil

    • @gueimem8133
      @gueimem8133 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      12:43 ?

    • @negi253
      @negi253 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      3lizA B33F 30,000 each year from video I saw

  • @eltoxique7550
    @eltoxique7550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4076

    No one gonna talk about the bride's friend setting her up like that....

    • @juhalight5921
      @juhalight5921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No

    • @johnjohn4914
      @johnjohn4914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +242

      BBS Gaming I got you,
      FUCK THAT BITCH

    • @whatabouthedroidattackonth3633
      @whatabouthedroidattackonth3633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      Completely agree - fuck that bitch

    • @omni673
      @omni673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +217

      The betrayal

    • @latinolawdog5067
      @latinolawdog5067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Unless somebody here is from that culture, nobody can really talk about it. You can't speak about things unless you are versed in them. Otherwise you don't know what the hell you are talking about. I can only speak about it from an American perspective, and an American perspective on a Kyrgyzstan tradition is irrelevant

  • @stellar_mxr
    @stellar_mxr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1182

    CRIME IN THE DISGUISE OF TRADITION IS STILL A CRIME. I REPEAT, CRIME IN DISGUISE OF TRADITION IS STILL A CRIME. 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

    • @FreaKaYu
      @FreaKaYu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      🔥🔥🔥🔥🗣🗣🗣🗣

    • @SquidPowder
      @SquidPowder 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      🗣️🗣️🗣️💯💯🥰🔥💯💯🙏🙏

    • @nur4ik14
      @nur4ik14 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      news from the Kyrgyz: now in our state there is no such tradition, all this happened in the past. please google "kyrgyzstan 2024"

    • @shankhbhattacharya2937
      @shankhbhattacharya2937 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely

    • @user-nu4xg2sh3i
      @user-nu4xg2sh3i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      it's "traditional crime" then....

  • @AlisSpark
    @AlisSpark 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

    It's downright scary and sickening just how little empathy these guys have

  • @jamiebw6334
    @jamiebw6334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17720

    it's even scarier when you realize that someone could actually be kidnapping a girl in plain sight with no intention of marrying her and people would just think that it's the tradition.

    • @rossbrunskill5486
      @rossbrunskill5486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1593

      thats what I WAS THINKING like omg how do you differentiate between a wedding tradition and a possible gangrape???

    • @L._.A-06
      @L._.A-06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +506

      I mean I would also consider this actually kidnapping a girl but true

    • @tobiascabrejas5154
      @tobiascabrejas5154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      Probably kidnapping with no intention of marrying is against the law

    • @jamiebw6334
      @jamiebw6334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      Yeah no, that's the thing! It might be difficult to tell whether someone is actually being kidnapped or not

    • @woah5333
      @woah5333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +227

      Does without the marrying part make much of a difference? You mean without her consent right?

  • @Bar_BenEzra
    @Bar_BenEzra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3138

    you know what? my life aint that bad after all.

    • @yousslessboi4377
      @yousslessboi4377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Cj Amen

    • @n0wsinn
      @n0wsinn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Cj a men has kidnapped my daughter

    • @erdenebolor.e
      @erdenebolor.e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lol

    • @n0wsinn
      @n0wsinn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @NatalieListensToMusic K no

    • @n0wsinn
      @n0wsinn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @NatalieListensToMusic K amen has fallen into river in lego city

  • @kedrjack4649
    @kedrjack4649 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    Kyrgyzstan has changed a lot in 2015 after a big scandal. The police stopped ignoring these crimes and imprisoning people. Both on TV and at school they began to tell people that this was a bad custom and to make films about it.

    • @-_Hatred_-
      @-_Hatred_- 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Что за скандал?

    • @Buluntung
      @Buluntung วันที่ผ่านมา

      which scandal?

  • @eswarjuri
    @eswarjuri 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +324

    “If she says yes everybody will think she is desperate to get married!” 💀

    • @babygirleuobg3191
      @babygirleuobg3191 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      That crazy 😂😂

    • @williammuthee2474
      @williammuthee2474 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      based

    • @robbieloon9708
      @robbieloon9708 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      my jaw dropped my saw that

    • @abhijeetkundu2271
      @abhijeetkundu2271 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This so-called kidnapping is just a game. The bride and the groom already know each other and they make the plan. Different countries have different traditions. Indian brides are suppose to be shy and cry before leaving their houses for the groom's. If they don't, aunties talk behind them. I think it is similar in Kirgizstan. Brides are suppose to throw tantrum during kidnapping or aunties will gossip. That girl was also putting a show. But when the food is served, it means the show is over. Girls are just dramatic no matter where they are from.

    • @iselia3086
      @iselia3086 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      @@abhijeetkundu2271i just hope that you be in the position of this brides someday. then you can talk about how fun this “game” is, and the girls are just dramatic creatures.

  • @menikmati789
    @menikmati789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5706

    Imagine being kidnapped and seeing this awkward scrawny hipster staring at you with crossed arms

    • @rachelolivarez5892
      @rachelolivarez5892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      I know right! I think it would make it harder because it’s like,,, you can’t even help me?😔😣😢

    • @eldarhighelfhealermiriella7653
      @eldarhighelfhealermiriella7653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +296

      @@rachelolivarez5892 awkward scrawny hipster: "Nah...im just watching and doing a research"

    • @7lawaneeena
      @7lawaneeena 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@eldarhighelfhealermiriella7653 I am actually curious, did they just stand there

    • @mxlxvducc9098
      @mxlxvducc9098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I also feel sad but
      Damn you guys,they trying to not get involved because its just dangerous

    • @act3finale
      @act3finale 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      I imagine the “kidnapping” where the presenter was witness to was consensual (in the video, the men are seen to instruct the woman how the kidnapping will unfold and that she can beat them if she likes) but she is putting up some resistance to keep the appearances I guess (so that it does not seem to be preplanned to the rest of the community). I cannot imagine the camera crew being willful participants in an actual kidnapping of a stranger as it happens in other cases, just for filming purposes.

  • @gyehegshsh4283
    @gyehegshsh4283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4654

    the whole tradition is the definition of "I'm too scared to get rejected" .

    • @cryostatis3018
      @cryostatis3018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @Ben Shapiro Oh my god you her good. She's so triggered right now oma gawddd. Mr. Shabibo

    • @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf
      @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      @Ben Shapiro women are being kidnapped there you dumbass this isn’t just about feminism this is about basic human rights

    • @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf
      @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @Ben Shapiro then why did that one girl commit suicide because of it? Honestly I didn’t know someone could be this dumb

    • @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf
      @ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @Ben Shapiro tradition or not it’s wrong

    • @AugustasRimke
      @AugustasRimke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ShammaAlshamsi-wo3kf Tradition is number one, law can’t bypass it.

  • @LaurenSonia
    @LaurenSonia 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +178

    That is WILDDDD. Can you imagine you're just going to get some milk and bread and someone just kidnaps you and takes you to their family and tries to marry you in your errand running clothes? I cannot believe this is a real tradition.

    • @phoenixj1299
      @phoenixj1299 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      This is how ancient horsemen married in turkic-Mongol culture. It's awful yes. No wonder why they followed Islam.

    • @user-fw5gp2me9b
      @user-fw5gp2me9b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      do you know it took them so long to convert to islam? like the 17th century. and krygz people barely practice islam cus of the soviet suppression of religion. @@phoenixj1299

    • @THEdeflatedballoon
      @THEdeflatedballoon หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@phoenixj1299 Tell me you only know Islam from the news without telling me you only know Islam from the news:

    • @phoenixj1299
      @phoenixj1299 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@THEdeflatedballoon The fact that you are a Muslim is a proof that you don't know Islam.

    • @froglifes6829
      @froglifes6829 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@THEdeflatedballoon how old was aisha?

  • @iitsmadii
    @iitsmadii 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +404

    It’s heartbreaking when people try and defend “tradition” even when it’s dangerous, disgusting, and harmful. Unfortunately it’s always women and children who are victims of such “traditions”.

    • @Sleviron
      @Sleviron 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Actually it's usually women and children who gets special treatment, while the men die. The one tradition where women gets the downside, some girl is instantly on the comment like "Unfortunately it’s always women and children who are victims" 🤣🤣🤣 That's hilarious

    • @Sleviron
      @Sleviron 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're the reason, the west is failing, eventhough we should be in a gold age right now. Your generation will truly be know as the ones who got everything handed to them, nothing else.

    • @black-xu8de
      @black-xu8de 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I am Kyrgyz, but this tradition does not exist now. now someone touches a girl and they'll go to jail

    • @oussamabekk1108
      @oussamabekk1108 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@black-xu8de AlhamduliLah , that's a GooD thing , That kind of tradition is very Haram Brother.

    • @MajinBuu-oo3vn
      @MajinBuu-oo3vn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@black-xu8deNice

  • @jjgems5909
    @jjgems5909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6566

    That poor mother sharing her daughters suicide story. How awful.

    • @phaokemshanglonghu3965
      @phaokemshanglonghu3965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +279

      i actually ended up showing middle finger at phone screen when she cried...
      she totally listened to society when she should've stood by her side specially when the child said that the man was not a good person.
      but she chose to go with the society. i so much would've wanted to punch her face if she was doing that drama near me.

    • @rae7864
      @rae7864 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

      She got kidnapped, then they found her, AND THEN SHE GAVE HER BACK WILLINGLY. to be raped and held hostage. Then you know he just kidnapped another bride.. Disgusting. Maybe she should have thought twice as a mother doing that to her baby girl.... That poor fucking girl. I feel bad for HER, not the mother that fucking GAVE HER TO HIM.

    • @mermaidtingzzz
      @mermaidtingzzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@phaokemshanglonghu3965 What do you expect to happen when, as was stated in the video, a society works so hard to make girls obedient from the moment they can probably communicate. Peer pressure, cultural pressure, are things that have effected all people at some point to some degree, unfortunatelythe ramifications can be severe and devastating.
      How hypocritical and ignorant of you to imbue yourself with so much superiority when you'd stoop so low as to kick someone while they're down. She's going to feel guilty for the rest of her life, no keyboard-coward has the right to pretend to be more upset about something she actually *has* to survive.

    • @16siko
      @16siko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      The Little Blerdmaid I bet you she wasn’t crying when they took her, a mother should always be protecting her kids at all costs no matter what culture or religion bs you deal with. She let them take her away knowing she didn’t want to, she failed as a parent in my opinion.

    • @EB-wh1rn
      @EB-wh1rn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      You’re wrong. In my country they also used to kidnap brides but nowadays they do it less because they pay a fine for that now, which most of them can not afford, although some pay it willingly. Anyways, you’re wrong about what you said about her mother, she probably didn’t think it was necessary or good for her daughter when they gave her back to the kidnapper. She says in the video, the cousins etc put pressure on them, telling the « it’s tradition ! You’re wrong you shouldn’t take her back ! ». She didn’t develop it but as it was also in my country’s tradition to kidnap brides I can tell you for sure that she didn’t want to give her daughter back but couldn’t do otherwise because she’s a woman and she has to OBEY. So when the male cousins / older men in the family got angry about them bringing their daughter back, when they scolded the girl’s dad for doing so, when they brought up « it’s tradition! » the girl’s dad probably felt ashamed in front of the elder men (cousins, uncles..) and in those societies you HAVE TO respect older men and DO what they tell you to do, the dad probably decided to give the girl back to the kidnaper and the mom couldn’t do anything about it but accept it because SHE IS A WOMAN and she CAN NOT argue with her husband and other men in the family. If she talks back or disobeys she can be beaten or anyways, the men can just bring the girl back to the kidnaper’s house forcefully even if the mother is against. Anyways, I can guarantee you that this mom wasn’t happy about giving her daughter back autherwise they wouldn’t have even brought her home in first place. She just had to accept it because she’s a woman and she can not do anything because men decide and she has to obey. No one can understand her sorrow except those who went through the same thing. That thing happened to my aunt, she was kidnapped and run away but her uncle forced her to get married to her kidnapper whom she didn’t even knew.

  • @Tilly1770
    @Tilly1770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2245

    “Cultural Acceptance doesn’t mean accepting the unacceptable”- Jasvinder Sanghera

    • @mjverostek1278
      @mjverostek1278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Found the Islamophobe.

    • @GBeing-su9br
      @GBeing-su9br 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      if someone would come to kidnap my sis ,daughter i would have stabbed him even if i was a part of the culture

    • @flankerrulz
      @flankerrulz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But who decides what is unacceptable?

    • @Tilly1770
      @Tilly1770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      prashant kalli from the UN International Human Rights Laws
      “Human rights are rights inherent to all human beings, regardless of race, sex, nationality, ethnicity, language, religion, or any other status. Human rights include the right to life and liberty, freedom from slavery and torture, freedom of opinion and expression, the right to work and education, and many more. Everyone is entitled to these rights, without discrimination.”

    • @Threezi04
      @Threezi04 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@mjverostek1278 What aspect of Islam includes kidnapping women?

  • @mayalum5972
    @mayalum5972 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

    The photographer who captured the iconic image of the emaciated child next to a vulture killed himself. I don't know how you can casually watch rape and systemic abuse from a distance without feeling similar levels of guilt and pain.

  • @MiMi-rc1bv
    @MiMi-rc1bv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

    The reporter saying „good luck guys“ to the kidnappers is disgusting 🤮

    • @alexandriagrace711
      @alexandriagrace711 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY

    • @lycan2494
      @lycan2494 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      game is game

    • @-_Hatred_-
      @-_Hatred_- 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Kinda awkward, I'd say

    • @flo-we9wu
      @flo-we9wu 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      to be fair, he is a reporter. any sign that he's in disagreement, i'm sure the groomsmen will be quick to remove him from watching or recording. you have to build rapport with these people in order to capture the reality of the situation. it is obvious that the reporter felt truly uncomfortable with this tradition.

    • @fakeotaku5788
      @fakeotaku5788 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      he was doing it to get footage, at the end he called the practice shitty. You have to understand he’s in a foreign country filming a cultural practice so if he disagreed there, they wouldn’t let him report on this issue. He couldn’t expose this practice for the rest of the world.

  • @valeverga4744
    @valeverga4744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16161

    These are the moments you feel grateful for growing in the place you did

    • @sarahsierra9316
      @sarahsierra9316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +378

      I’m eating your profile picture right now

    • @jasonsucksatfishing
      @jasonsucksatfishing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

      I don’t know, dead goat polo seems fun.

    • @persephone2706
      @persephone2706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +241

      Yeah but people still have the blatant idiocy to cry about all the "oppression" in the west. It's ridiculous.

    • @nadiab4585
      @nadiab4585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      P e r s e p h o n e . A n n I-

    • @NO-ry6ke
      @NO-ry6ke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Why do you have to be grateful? It's obviously supposed to be equal. You don't be grateful when someone do just what they have to do.

  • @dadshoe7607
    @dadshoe7607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3241

    She keep screaming mom, and every time she got more desperate. I thought I was watching a horror movie because this is sick.

    • @elio_fay
      @elio_fay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

      oh no Dude what the fuck is wrong with you?

    • @mothgames9466
      @mothgames9466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @alyssaa.2882
      @alyssaa.2882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      @oh no please say sike

    • @malachityeejl5129
      @malachityeejl5129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @oh no *please say sike.*

    • @sepsa7468
      @sepsa7468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      oh no just stop please

  • @affable.pebble
    @affable.pebble 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +195

    I don't know what is worse, the men seeing nothing wrong with removing someone's bodily autonomy and integrity and not caring about consent, or how other older and supposedly wiser women are playing into this. It's heartbreaking. The sooner this "tradition" goes, the more people's lives will be saved.

  • @shinoaqx9907
    @shinoaqx9907 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I find it a bit strange how she was only against it at the beginning and was totally scared. Shortly afterwards, she was suddenly so happy and agreed with the marriage.

    • @user-dl8oh7qi8e
      @user-dl8oh7qi8e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      It was one because she eventually gave up and found no point in fighting back, or two the nice treats and gestures by the new family around her manipulated her in a way to try and feel happy, almost like a tactic they use when the girl is brought into the place after the kidnapping, Truly disgusting

    • @TheotherKirby
      @TheotherKirby หลายเดือนก่อน

      She gave up cuz she knew she had no choice but to agree to it.
      It's sort of like how people get recruited into cults. They tire you so much to the point where your brain gets all jumbled up so you can't think clearly resulting in you agreeing to join them.

    • @MiMi-rc1bv
      @MiMi-rc1bv หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      She had no choice as she knows what will happen when the cameras are off ….

    • @cookiecat7759
      @cookiecat7759 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      if she comes back to her family she will be shunned by her family and by society. after the kidnapped spend a night at the captor's house, most bride's families refuse to take her back because she's been "tainted" (even if she's still a virgin) and that theres "no point" in taking her back because shes been "taken". she knows that escape is futile and she doesnt want to dissapoint her family. she's given up. women in kyrgyzstan are raised to be complient, obedient, always helping around the house, selfless, etc. women aren't raised to stand up for themselves or to feel they have the power to leave.

  • @stormlah
    @stormlah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3399

    "soooo how did you two meet"
    "at knifepoint"

  • @anticringepill1313
    @anticringepill1313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13566

    Women walks on the street
    Krgystani men: so you've chosen marriage

    • @darlingmis
      @darlingmis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +607

      That's fucked up

    • @shivamsingh-mt6dr
      @shivamsingh-mt6dr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @Yosh065 which is

    • @user-nh5qd3nc5c
      @user-nh5qd3nc5c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@darlingmis Nah it ain't like that anymore, maybe hundred years ago it was happening, but not now. "Kidnapping" is mostly away for a couple to marry each other if parents of girl doesn't give request to the boy to marry their daughter. It is prohibited by law to kidnap and marry someone.

    • @darlingmis
      @darlingmis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      @@user-nh5qd3nc5c Thats still fucked up.

    • @LordDirus007
      @LordDirus007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Seems like more of something for show. Like staged or recreated.

  • @BlueMicrowave
    @BlueMicrowave หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Sadly my mom was kidnapped too. My dad only saw her twice in his life and decided to kidnap her in a car with his friends. The saddest part is that if the woman rejects in our culture by calling her dad/brother to pick her up ,for example, the man´s family side spread it around so that the woman will never be able to marry someone because of the ´´shame´´. It happend in West Europe and my mother was illegally married at the age of 16/17

  • @user-br7bo7jc3x
    @user-br7bo7jc3x 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    As a girl I'm crying with her so much that my fingers are shaking with a blurry vision. Some traditions should be buried with the ancient times please everyone have some human rights and it's against it

  • @newlandsdw750
    @newlandsdw750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5900

    Normal guys: omg I'm so nervous what if she says no?😣
    Kyrgyzstan: omg I'm so nervous what if she *escapes* ?😞

  • @mfhoss9570
    @mfhoss9570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6775

    nobody’s talkin bout the old lady she lost her daughter to a terrible tradition and she deserves to be talked about more

    • @marinapauli8730
      @marinapauli8730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      fr i balled my eyes out that was so sad

    • @mfhoss9570
      @mfhoss9570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Marina Pauli yeah ikr

    • @kaylarae8003
      @kaylarae8003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      She didn't even put up an ounce of fight it's hard for me to feel too bad for the old lady.

    • @mfhoss9570
      @mfhoss9570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Kayla Wingett what time stamp are you talking about bc all of the women that got kidnapped in the video definitely put up a fight

    • @kaylarae8003
      @kaylarae8003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      @@mfhoss9570 no I'm talking about the old lady that lost her daughter. The same lady you were talking about. She didn't fight one bit and just relented right away like "k i guess you have my daughter now." So it's hard for me to feel bad for her.

  • @chloema8747
    @chloema8747 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    I can’t even begin to imagine the fear inside the poor girls head when they get kidnapped. This is so horrible even if it is a so called “tradition”,

  • @user-po6cq3lv7l
    @user-po6cq3lv7l 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I've read that the tradition of bride kidnapping which is widespread not only in Kyrgyzstan but Central Asia in general comes from times when the grooms family had to pay a dowry to the bride which was negotiated with her family who of course wants a high price for the woman. So when the negotiations failed because the price was to considered to expensive the groom's family started kidnapping the woman, marrying her immediately after that to the groom, I think oftentimes rape included. Because afterwards she was considered unclean which meant the price would drop. Afterwards the grooms family knocks on the door of the brides family as thieves with lots of gifts, a sheep etc. as a dowry to appease them and make it easier for them to accept the merging of the families since the groom is now probably the only man willing to marry the unclean woman.
    Since this method proved to be very effective in finding a bride and have her cheaper (bc maybe she is more beautiful, better chef, cleaner etc. than the groom could afford), it became a widespread tradition to first kidnap and marry the woman, then bring the gifts and over time the practice of paying dowry upfront vanished.
    Of course the woman or girl is treated like an object to sell and buy but also as human as she is welcomed to the new family where traditionally she is in a weird position having to prove herself to the family as a good wife to the groom, which is basically being a good servant in terms of cooking and cleaning. And since she fought and cried on the wedding day she now has to accept her life as the wive in the new family with whom a good relationship is now desirable. So she proves herself, the groom and his family has managed to achieve better leverage first over the the brides family to accept the wedding and secondly over the bride to serve as a good wive in their household. She pushes away her trauma and powerlessness from the wedding and tries to achieve a good standing in her new family. Her needs and emotions are not addressed and consequently everybody can make a little fun about the kidnapping, wedding and call it a happy marriage and happy tradition since the now wive fit in and made the best out of it since traditionally she most likely has to live in that marriage for the rest of her life. Even for the wives laughing about the wedding kidnappings even their own helps them accept their own fates and see it as something positive if they don't want to cry about their trauma and life situation for the rest of their life. Also they have learned through their own wedding and marriage that the brides emotions, needs, trauma don't need to be addressed.
    It's a tradition that creates and maintains a clear power imbalance and serves primarily men, but also families, it's patriarchy at it's best.

    • @terrancewood9322
      @terrancewood9322 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please don't use the term "power imbalance" it's cringe, otherwise good post.

    • @brumhelldah917
      @brumhelldah917 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@terrancewood9322maybe you don’t understand what power imbalance means. Guess what? That’s not her problem. Go read and don’t be stubborn 😢

    • @juliee593
      @juliee593 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@terrancewood9322 what else are you supposed to call it when one person has power and another doesn't?

  • @conz000
    @conz000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7498

    I think the worst part is all her family and neighbours just laughing as she's dragged away screaming. Yikes.

    • @erdenebolor.e
      @erdenebolor.e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +559

      They need to stop this stupid tradition

    • @muhhanifbakari2451
      @muhhanifbakari2451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +228

      @@erdenebolor.e yes fuck those tradition

    • @wasup8507
      @wasup8507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      She was happy too

    • @nanduyyy2737
      @nanduyyy2737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep

    • @MADARAUCHIHA-hk7ru
      @MADARAUCHIHA-hk7ru 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@erdenebolor.e make them...

  • @dominioniwo5060
    @dominioniwo5060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13534

    I hate it whenever people use the words "culture" and "tradition" to try and justify cruel practices.

    • @abdu2000az
      @abdu2000az 4 ปีที่แล้ว +314

      Malacki655 2.0 literally!!! A certain belief or an action having a lot of followers or believers doesn’t make it moral or ethical. The what are you gonna do it’s their tradition comments are cancerous

    • @liaevans9776
      @liaevans9776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +199

      But when society normalizes the act, be it cruel or not, then it does become a "tradition" and culture. Same way crazy cults are formed that torture humans.

    • @dumbledoreiscalm5923
      @dumbledoreiscalm5923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same

    • @devvx-fe-gu1d3d0g6
      @devvx-fe-gu1d3d0g6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omag im literally shaking

    • @imtrashimtrash1403
      @imtrashimtrash1403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Malacki655 2.0 as if they were getting away with it freely

  • @npccarol9659
    @npccarol9659 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    i started crying when she screamed for her mom

  • @DarthKillerRecargado
    @DarthKillerRecargado 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I heard this was a common tradition back in the cowboy days at Northern Mexico. My grandma was kidnapped once and had a baby from a runaway guy, she never saw him again, that baby is my aunt and she looks slightly different than my mom and the other siblings

    • @graceg3250
      @graceg3250 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      That’s just rape not forced marriage

    • @ariellll-vb5nm
      @ariellll-vb5nm 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@graceg3250excuse me 'JUST' rape? Are you serious?

  • @Beheaded_3rd_Wife
    @Beheaded_3rd_Wife 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4957

    I don't understand that girl helping those boys to kidnap the other girl... She was supposed to be her friend ?!

    • @user-qd8tc5iq3y
      @user-qd8tc5iq3y 9 ปีที่แล้ว +348

      Yes, she is . But in Kazakhstan and Kyrgyzstan girls think that's better than be forced to have sex with random man

    • @Beheaded_3rd_Wife
      @Beheaded_3rd_Wife 9 ปีที่แล้ว +383

      Саяжан Узакбаева Oh, ok, but I still feel sad for those girls, because as they say in this video there is some girls that ends their lives :/

    • @seyvagraen
      @seyvagraen 9 ปีที่แล้ว +608

      Mlle Chromosome That friend there is what we'd call a "backstabber" here in the western world. That's not a friend.

    • @Beheaded_3rd_Wife
      @Beheaded_3rd_Wife 9 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Mellow Noor that was what I was thinking, but I didn't found a word to describe her without being disrespectful

    • @zatchbeltguy
      @zatchbeltguy 9 ปีที่แล้ว +446

      Mlle Chromosome I feel like the friend was pressured into it. If she refused she would be against tradition which result in people against her. You can tell on her face she did not want to do this

  • @sharnegimbert7397
    @sharnegimbert7397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1121

    'Your a girl, all girls get married.' imagine being kidnapped by a bunch of men, all your family watching and laughing, being held down in a car, and being told that. Jesus.

    • @alana6550
      @alana6550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Random User I hated that to, like wtf

    • @justyouraveragejoe1333
      @justyouraveragejoe1333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Good thing i am man...jesus i cant believe this tradition exist

    • @whenthefirenationattacked2607
      @whenthefirenationattacked2607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Honestly I’d rather die at that point

    • @brownlaytte317
      @brownlaytte317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@aher1560 They're drinking and pushing people to drink. They don't know about Islam as it seems, or they don't care

    • @bigchungus920
      @bigchungus920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aher1560 your religion was created by wife beating, pedophile, coward. Anyone who supports Islam and doesn't support this is a hypocrite

  • @mimansakalita5048
    @mimansakalita5048 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    you have done a great job documenting this but it made me so deeply disturbed because of how raw and real this is. I am sorry I have a sensitive heart, so I could not finish the video. Thank you for bringing this in the light.

    • @oussamabekk1108
      @oussamabekk1108 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I did some research , this practice Does not existe anymore , iT only existed in some small villages in the first place . But now it doesn't , so pls just be happy , and calme you sensitive Heart ❤❤❤.

    • @are-_-esha
      @are-_-esha 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for this, I have a sensitive heart too and my whole week was about to be ruined because of this video 😭

  • @dr.acula124
    @dr.acula124 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    As someone who watches videos with cc enabled, I'd really appreciate if you didn't cover english subtitles of people speaking kyrgyz with the "[speaking foreign language]" cc. Very annoying

  • @ndapooo
    @ndapooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2689

    "I'm dating someone" "no you're not! No one dates"
    This is messed up

    • @onesky4343
      @onesky4343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      That one got me too. She was a beautiful girl I felt so sorry for her.

    • @sonushinobu2050
      @sonushinobu2050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      The fact that I cannot help them makes me sad

    • @daev13k
      @daev13k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Glad the tradition is dead.

    • @callmerespect9177
      @callmerespect9177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@daev13k oh yes ? that such a suck tradition

    • @daev13k
      @daev13k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@callmerespect9177 Tradition is dead. Kyrgyzstan is a wonderful country without dumb tradition. This Video is propaganda. The tradition was never like shown in the Video.

  • @youngeshmoney
    @youngeshmoney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2857

    Normal men: *gets down on one knee*
    These men: hippity hoppity you are now my property

    • @lolerzlost6475
      @lolerzlost6475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      so when these guys do it its "Culture" but when I do it for fun its rape and homicide

    • @natm5005
      @natm5005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh my god is that a Boys reference? Mully/Juicy/Smashing

    • @youngeshmoney
      @youngeshmoney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@lolerzlost6475 ummmm sir💀💀😭

    • @sunrisereconquista7048
      @sunrisereconquista7048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Based

    • @potfdron
      @potfdron 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      *BRITIAN wants to know your location!!

  • @bazil4146
    @bazil4146 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The gaslighting from the family just makes this 5x worse that it already is

  • @ChelOfTheSea11
    @ChelOfTheSea11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Imagine saying to your daughter who’s a child “you’ll get kidnapped like me*

  • @gbengreen449
    @gbengreen449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1678

    The worst part for me is their laughing at the crying and struggling of the “bride”

    • @grubbybum3614
      @grubbybum3614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      The worst part is how the mother whose daughter commited suicide, gave her daughter BACK to the kidnappers. What a fckin idiot.

    • @drubonneau1638
      @drubonneau1638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Grubby bum yeah I was thinking the same thing she acting like it was there fault she committed suicide but if they would have just ignored there “cousins” and took there daughter back she wouldn’t of hanged herself

    • @AsmageddonPrince
      @AsmageddonPrince 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@grubbybum3614 Honestly, when you live within a culture, you think in the terms that culture gives you. She probably really hoped it'd turn out well, only getting a reality check when it was forced upon her.

    • @xcovert6200
      @xcovert6200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cause if they say yes their desperate and if they say no they’re innocent

    • @sdoaiza
      @sdoaiza 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought it was stupid too, but perhaps the pressure is some such it could affect their living?

  • @mx8213
    @mx8213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6459

    Dont call this crime a "tradition" this is absolutely horrifying

    • @captainjackpugh6050
      @captainjackpugh6050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      Just because it’s a crime doesn’t mean it isn’t tradition

    • @thekub32
      @thekub32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@thebasado4524 LMFAO.

    • @patriciaoffer9585
      @patriciaoffer9585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@captainjackpugh6050
      "Tradition" doesn't always mean "far-sighted".

    • @sheikhtom8894
      @sheikhtom8894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The Basado 😂😂👌🏾

    • @TrusttheY
      @TrusttheY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      What a coincidence, krygystans and I share the same “hobby"

  • @Buccey
    @Buccey 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    “You’re crying so you’ll be happy” what kind of logic is that

  • @queenofcats9240
    @queenofcats9240 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I watched a Japanese reality show called Ainori. It’s about Japanese singles who travel across certain countries and fall in love. One of their trips was in Kyrgyzstan. The cast members learned about bride kidnapping and they used this video as an example. They downplayed it and made it seem as if she knew what was happening and was a willing participant. When they showed how she was doing at that point in time (2018) she said that she was very happy and was in love with her husband. Despite her saying that, seeing that happen and hearing her call out to her mom and cry while everyone around her is laughing just really makes me sick to my stomach

  • @anastasijac.r8732
    @anastasijac.r8732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1857

    Imagine getting recorded for the whole world to see during the most humiliating and demeaning moment of your whole life

    • @charliesthill4790
      @charliesthill4790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Ana.C.R And imagine being proud of the kidnapping you just committed just because you think it’s a spiritual event. This is why civilization has rejected religion based government.

    • @ohhimark2065
      @ohhimark2065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      But at the same time this is to spread awareness, they wouldn't agree to record this if the dude and the camera guy had stopped them, so what could they do? They'll just kidnap her again while refusing to record this.

    • @jomangeee9180
      @jomangeee9180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you are an idiot! that was the happiest day of her life

    • @jennam2449
      @jennam2449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The atrocity of this is not the recording of it.

    • @geoffmiller3468
      @geoffmiller3468 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't need to imagine. Just wait til I finally post that shit.

  • @fuego5350
    @fuego5350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1898

    How to visit Kyrgyzstan as a female tourist:
    -Dont visit Kyrgyzstan as a female tourist

    • @testamnt4428
      @testamnt4428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Government: Ah! this tradition is bringing tourism down. Lets put a stop to it.
      Me: Ya'll clowns but thats a win.

    • @cleanbubble7969
      @cleanbubble7969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Just say : "i have hiv"

    • @danielv.6239
      @danielv.6239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      See one way to get this tradition stop is to twist into something similar.
      Where instead of kidnapping, the wife gets picked up in a nice vehicle and she voluntarily gets in. Making the Guy look like the biggest badass in the village and making it go viral.
      Essentially, the man courts the woman so much so to the point she that does want to get married to him. So they both plan it out.
      Then the guy simply arrives to, "steal the bride", but everybody will be in awe as the guy sings a song or something and she voluntarily gets in happily with no assistance.
      The whole town will be like no F*cking way and all the guys will want to do the same as a sort of subliminal dick measuring contest.
      The problem is that she needs to go into hiding until the time they planned out to stop the chance of having some guy actually kidnap her.

    • @sab6637
      @sab6637 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just don't be attractive and be Christian

    • @karennunez9274
      @karennunez9274 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or u can go with a man

  • @afrozamin8757
    @afrozamin8757 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    i don't know if I am over dramatic but I feel like crying seeing the girls scream

    • @YorKnee
      @YorKnee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      congrats you have emotions

    • @cupcake-cx5ov
      @cupcake-cx5ov 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@YorKneeLMAO

  • @kalyps30
    @kalyps30 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    The guy was saying: if she cries, she'll be happy after she married. Imagine if one of these kidnaped brides doesn't cry and is deathly calm. Looks at each of them and promises that none will live to see their wedding day, and does it.

  • @jenlisaisdathing2657
    @jenlisaisdathing2657 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1668

    "Be careful not ro let her run anyway" and then they *laugh* ,
    At this point, im so *disgust*

    • @ericaanderson4130
      @ericaanderson4130 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      JenLisa is da thing me too i’ve heard about this but I didnt actually think they still do this

    • @someon3_like_you
      @someon3_like_you 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Dr Agam You’re saying that as if people WANT to get kidnapped.

    • @me9109
      @me9109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @Dr Agam Your mom didn't wait 9 months for you to come out and say this shit

    • @keela2890
      @keela2890 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dr Agam I’m pretty sure she doesn’t want to be kidnapped

    • @itslilibabes
      @itslilibabes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Dr Agam You're disgusting

  • @srah4767
    @srah4767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4156

    This entire country is one big case of the Stockholm Syndrome

    • @angelplanet_4832
      @angelplanet_4832 5 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      Except the girls are left traumatized, and usually unhappy

    • @jikasay3820
      @jikasay3820 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Heeeeey, wtf I live in this country and how u see it happens in villages and loweducated ppl

    • @kiml1226
      @kiml1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      @@jikasay3820 Just because you see a happening doesn't mean it's good. And what you said wasn't even a proper sentence.

    • @misterdinner3648
      @misterdinner3648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      @@kiml1226 He was saying that it only happens among uneducated people and people in the countryside.

    • @Iskender46teke
      @Iskender46teke 5 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @@kiml1226 Yes Im also from Kirghizistan, but saying that all ppl from the country are bad because of an old tradition done by very few idiots is wrong. Its like 1 to 3% population doing this today. Its sad because its also happened to my aunty when she was young, but my grandparents were able to stop them.

  • @dahoumaria263
    @dahoumaria263 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Iam muslim and i didn't saw any of islamic thing in there traditions
    Iam surprised that there are some people calling themselves maslims and do such a thing in addition to drinking alcohol and .......🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @potatopotatoesbro
    @potatopotatoesbro 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Just got through the first few seconds and it's already so horrible with the animal abuse. I can't imagine the rest of the documentary.

    • @veg2489
      @veg2489 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah :(

    • @eonthinker100yrago8
      @eonthinker100yrago8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Animal abuse? their eating the sheep not wasting it, plus yu eat meat aswell in the west dont you?

    • @lauracontreraslledo188
      @lauracontreraslledo188 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly! Nobody talks about this :(

    • @marklunny
      @marklunny 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eonthinker100yrago8 the game they were playing at the start of the video, idiot

  • @quackss6384
    @quackss6384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3145

    The next episode : husband poisoning in Kyrgystan

    • @marutitoursandtravel5017
      @marutitoursandtravel5017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Yeah!!!! I like it the should do it🤣😂

    • @poisson5846
      @poisson5846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @Melanin Queen shouldn't had kidnapped the lady. Guy got it coming to him.

    • @strawbries
      @strawbries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      i’d love to see that LMAOO

    • @sachinsrivastava629
      @sachinsrivastava629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @yoshikagekira3817
      @yoshikagekira3817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      This should be legal lol

  • @Jon-zy8zd
    @Jon-zy8zd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9194

    **Girl gets kidnapped**
    People around: 😂🤣😅

    • @driftingdruid
      @driftingdruid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +716

      yea, that was the sickening part to watch

    • @Christarfire
      @Christarfire 5 ปีที่แล้ว +490

      In America the response would be 👱🏻‍♀️🏃🏼‍♂️🚔💀

    • @BTSARMY-nk4rz
      @BTSARMY-nk4rz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@Christarfire 🔫

    • @andrealachica7607
      @andrealachica7607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Well they think it’s “traditional” so I bet that other people would even give a damn.

    • @arat2028
      @arat2028 5 ปีที่แล้ว +264

      **Girl gets kidnapped**
      People around : Oh, what a cute couple.

  • @liaxmp5974
    @liaxmp5974 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    15:24 they’re ignoring her and just laughing and smiling :-(

    • @LAla-fu6vc
      @LAla-fu6vc หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      {13:04 13:20 } and The men where laughing too, even the bystanders.. ( 12:50 12:52 )

    • @Hailey-ql5qu
      @Hailey-ql5qu หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Everyone in the video was literally laughing at the scared girl being kidnapped and crying.

    • @matthaiosvlachos3526
      @matthaiosvlachos3526 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      In our culture we must defend and protect our family and sisters particularly at any cost , in their culture they ignore their sister while crying, very strange thing

  • @BUBUBAGELSS
    @BUBUBAGELSS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The first instinct to call for mum is always devastating and heart wrenching to hear. Especially knowing the mum can’t do anything to help out, when there own family members brainwash them into this “tradition”.

  • @ryann5568
    @ryann5568 5 ปีที่แล้ว +789

    "You saw me once and wanted to kidnap me." Imagine saying that nonchalantly to your significant other.

    • @condeuiosandilixtos7858
      @condeuiosandilixtos7858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think he meant he wanted to rape her, but he decided to be polite for the cameras.

    • @susiezyp
      @susiezyp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@condeuiosandilixtos7858 No its about Kidnapping, raping he would get huge Problems wit other family, but kidnapping they tolerate becouse of virgin stupednes. Not that they dont rape every girl they can get without to much trouble afterwords. they have absolutly no feelings and empathy, completly cruel.

    • @Katakagara
      @Katakagara 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just horrible.

  • @aiperikarimova2623
    @aiperikarimova2623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29515

    I'm from Kyrgyzstan. I am Kyrgyz. This is a very wild tradition that is disappearing because girls and women no longer want to tolerate it in our country! And I'm glad of that. They also tried to steal me, but I fought with everyone and still left. I am confident that this cruel tradition will soon disappear.

    • @trxuvaille6788
      @trxuvaille6788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2101

      I'm so happy you fought and resisted pls don't forget that it's not part of Islam itself only a toxic tradition
      Much love from a Muslim South African💞

    • @noraszue261
      @noraszue261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +896

      Thank god you made it. Hope you can live a happy life after this.
      Greetings from Malaysia

    • @firelord1202
      @firelord1202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      U must reserve the tradition.. It is very sweet and unique

    • @kate_wn
      @kate_wn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2041

      @@firelord1202 No, this tradition is disgusting.

    • @ashishshrestha4948
      @ashishshrestha4948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      👏👏😇😇

  • @SpadezyMex
    @SpadezyMex 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I genuinely cannot feel happy for her... I just can't... Her calling for her mom and just accepted her faith bcuz she can't do anything or even if she tried struggling... I'm sure some people there are very nice people but I legitimately feel sick to my stomach that I can't hold back my tears...

  • @Lellamellow
    @Lellamellow 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why would any parent give their child to someone who took her so violently in the middle of the night and did such awful things to her ?

  • @Suomi91
    @Suomi91 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4153

    Whoever came up with this tradition was a lunatic.

    • @Mr-Ad-196
      @Mr-Ad-196 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      Several hundred year ago it was fine but today is the modern day......I was hoping this tradition will end soon......

    • @manar321
      @manar321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +281

      @@sueb2898 no honey islam doesn't force people to get mary or kidnapping.
      it's illegal and forbidden in Islam.
      STOP being racist
      Some of arab follows stuff like this and say it's traditional but it's not,
      Like every place in the world.
      Remember racist person : some of people doesn't represent all.

    • @Mr-Ad-196
      @Mr-Ad-196 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@sueb2898 ahahahaha if Islam is like that I would have many wife by now ahaahahahaha.

    • @salifusadat3002
      @salifusadat3002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@Mr-Ad-196 well are you saying you'd have followed this practices if it were to be said in the Qur'an.

    • @Mr-Ad-196
      @Mr-Ad-196 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@salifusadat3002 hrmmmmm depends.

  • @weinerdrizzle5279
    @weinerdrizzle5279 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1718

    2013: I'm going to go kidnap my wife!
    2033: Why did all the women leave our country?

    • @5014chizuka
      @5014chizuka 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      They’re gonna get their karma. Like China men who can’t find the brides because they’re killing the girl babies.

    • @eveeve5606
      @eveeve5606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @Red October its not even about being western its just knowing what morally good and whats not. This? Not it. Pedophilia is looked down upon and bullshit if you think they dont do that shit just as much in other countries but western countries speak about issues. I wasnt even born in the west but I'm aware of issues.

    • @miaa.hated.
      @miaa.hated. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Red October calm down western culture is different than this brutall culture. Even Saudi Arabia treat girls better than that

    • @dionysusswine60
      @dionysusswine60 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Fun memes. Well we got law against kidnapping brides in 2013. Educate yourself 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @eveeve5606
      @eveeve5606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@dionysusswine60 word? Thats good

  • @kawaiicutie9291
    @kawaiicutie9291 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The fact that nobody in this video really cared about her and just laughed at her for being kidnapped and taken away everyone laughed at her in the whole video which is very sad.

    • @liaxmp5974
      @liaxmp5974 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      And they just smile at her like as if she was a joke and she became a laughingstock to the yurt and village and to the people there also.

  • @lilyprettylamb
    @lilyprettylamb 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    How the hell is someone a bride-kidnapping expert

  • @shentax_error
    @shentax_error 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1024

    *"MAMA"* that one repeated word was truly heartbreaking

    • @sozibrahman8504
      @sozibrahman8504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You might not know but in case of arranged marriage girls cried a lot too. Just like that....sometimes for months

    • @rouvin9213
      @rouvin9213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Red October woah chill dude

    • @acommunist1607
      @acommunist1607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sozibrahman8504 but its not ok to kidnap though

    • @VidoFlash
      @VidoFlash 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rouvin9213 bug off weird guy

    • @rouvin9213
      @rouvin9213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      xepseL thanks for getting that bug off me

  • @merodiiii
    @merodiiii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1619

    we gon ignore the fact that her best friend helped the guys kidnap her..??

    • @JennyJunko1
      @JennyJunko1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Thats some Et tu, Brute shit right there

    • @karu9391
      @karu9391 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      It's so fucked that women help men do this...
      It's absurdly SHIT how women in the groom's family talk to the girls to marry them and that they'll be happy

    • @edsher7679
      @edsher7679 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      It was all staged .
      Both the boy and the girl were dating at that time

    • @junehatter8479
      @junehatter8479 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The friend was being towered over by several men who expressed intent to attack a person

    • @junehatter8479
      @junehatter8479 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@edsher7679 So people who are dating can't abuse?

  • @sizzlinggreenonion
    @sizzlinggreenonion 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    How did you guys get married?
    Them: "Stockholm Syndrome"

    • @Im-fq1mn
      @Im-fq1mn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly ..😢

  • @badtothebone880
    @badtothebone880 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The way she was screaming mom ! Im heartbroken 😢

  • @ru406
    @ru406 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8674

    “All girls must get married”
    “Calm down, you’ll be happy”
    Words cannot describe how thankful I am to not have to go through this.
    I feel so so bad for her.😭

    • @Saidoromo2024
      @Saidoromo2024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Come down you happy 😱

    • @aniyahburks5180
      @aniyahburks5180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TheIntrovertedGiraffe me too😞🥺😭😭

    • @kixi8033
      @kixi8033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      Right? I have no idea what I'd do if I was in that situation. But at least that girl did want to marry that man, even if it wasn't right there and then. I feel worse for the others who are kidnapped by men they don't want and forcefully married and raped.

    • @trashcandatnoobwut2246
      @trashcandatnoobwut2246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Kixi They have no choice but to agree. They are shunned by their entire community if the disgusting ritual is completed and they refuse to play happy families.
      It's either play along or be homeless/honour killed.
      This is beyond vile. Where are NATO when human rights abuses like this take place? The first women is a perfect example of what Stockholm syndrome looks like.

    • @nmasijika7557
      @nmasijika7557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kixi I kill the groom idc self defense

  • @sadpeepolv6185
    @sadpeepolv6185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1490

    The lady that the daughter suicide because she was kidnapped broke my heart.

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      sadpeepol :v Right? How sick.

    • @Predestinated1
      @Predestinated1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      simp

    • @youreactuallyright5168
      @youreactuallyright5168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Pre destinated no stop it’s disgusting

    • @crazybamboo77
      @crazybamboo77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@imok3487 because.
      Internet.

    • @Carnit_asss
      @Carnit_asss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      +Pre destinated
      Here we have another 13 year old who uses the word “simp” without knowing the meaning of it.

  • @user-oo9mk5hr8f
    @user-oo9mk5hr8f 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Beautiful and kind Kyrgyz people ❤❤❤

  • @AbbeyWagner4547
    @AbbeyWagner4547 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I hope she is doing ok now, I hope that bride can give us all a life update

  • @miaxarra
    @miaxarra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2490

    Its not that she had ‘accepted’ her fate when she gave in and ate whatever the mothers had offered. She was exhausted

    • @ploenlindason8004
      @ploenlindason8004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Nope. Everyone can have their own beliefs but no one can force their own beliefs on others in actions that affect them like this. Nations don’t matter. Otherwise, if the man’s tradition is kidnapping the bride, then the bride can say that her tradition is killing the man who kidnapped her.

    • @ploenlindason8004
      @ploenlindason8004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Yunus Hailey You can continue your tradition in a way that affects only yourself and those who wants to be affected. Just because you care about your national identity doesn't mean others in your country do, and they have a right not to subscribe to the identity and abandon the culture. I know I don't care about my country and its culture, and other people in other countries can also choose to feel the same way if they want. No one should be identified by their country anyways, unless they as an individual wants to.

    • @Frej84
      @Frej84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @Yunus Hailey Your tradition is cruel and evil. Every tradition is just an idea that began in the past. Once we used to put black cats in a wooden box, and smash the box and the cat because of superstition. That nonsense was repeated for hundreds of years, and it even lives on today, but the wooden box is now painted and the content is candy. Still utterly stupid. Just because an idea is old, it doesn't make it good. On the contrary, it's stupid not to take old ideas up to revision. That is how a society and a people improve themselves. That is the very reason every country - including yours - has extinct traditions in the first place. Otherwise, we would still perform some stupid nonsense going back to the stone-age, simply because "Well it's tradition".

    • @noahcamiola7995
      @noahcamiola7995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Yunus Hailey shut tf up it’s disgusting

    • @krieger8825
      @krieger8825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Yunus Hailey I don't think that's how you got your whole population from Asian looking people into European

  • @JRedrum
    @JRedrum ปีที่แล้ว +4142

    Her crying for her mom while they’re all smiling and laughing….horrifying.

    • @magnificent8413
      @magnificent8413 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Or may be try to be nice to them after they new that there is a foreigner filming documentary about their culture or She except as custom.
      Even she said its not a right time to get married but what to do. Already happened.

    • @JRedrum
      @JRedrum ปีที่แล้ว +184

      @@lamibrahim9202 that is so heartbreaking to hear… I really hope your culture evolves past this barbaric behavior at some point.

    • @___xyz___
      @___xyz___ ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You really hope their culture evolves... I feel like I've read this phrase somewhere before. May be an adage from the colonial slave trade.

    • @JRedrum
      @JRedrum ปีที่แล้ว +69

      @@___xyz___ the comment I was replying to, where he was laughing at women being literally kidnapped and forced to marry against their will, got deleted. But let me be clear, if hoping that this absolute degenerate, depraved, disgusting “tradition” and the culture that accepts it evolves out of existence makes me a colonizer, I’ll happily wear that label.

    • @daustin8888
      @daustin8888 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@Jooliuspoolius Yeah. Let's show these women the righteous, holy social structure of western democracy that unironically believes a man can turn into a woman lol

  • @darkchild95
    @darkchild95 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Can we get an update on the bride and groom? Whether she got to pursue Law or at the least finished school?

  • @GoodMorningPunPun147
    @GoodMorningPunPun147 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    love does not stem from kidnapping. A consensual, dignified, mature relationship cannot bloom from a couple that was created as a result of violence, not as one where the victim calls for something that was forcibly taken away from her and not one where the girls' screaming, kicking and protests are invalid.

  • @UndergroundTech
    @UndergroundTech 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12713

    And here I thought arranged marriages were bad.

    • @jvlogsyt3253
      @jvlogsyt3253 7 ปีที่แล้ว +513

      Underground Tech they are both awful in different ways

    • @Anna-ez8hf
      @Anna-ez8hf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +832

      I think you guys are confusing arranged with forced. Arranged marriage needs consent from both the man and the woman

    • @liquidsnake4329
      @liquidsnake4329 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stealin' pussies for masturb lol wtf!?

    • @johnandres4958
      @johnandres4958 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Underground Tech
      Ok

    • @karmeeleon
      @karmeeleon 6 ปีที่แล้ว +335

      I feel like the term Arranged is being misunderstood. The process works by both parents of the two bringing the two lovers together. If the two lovers love each other then the marriage proceeds. Nowadays the western thinks arranged is forced when it true meaning isn’t.

  • @jojomakes
    @jojomakes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2999

    5:56 "The West condemns bride kidnapping"
    Yes, we're kinda against kidnapping as a whole sir.

    • @markm2092
      @markm2092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Don’t get me wrong, this tradition isn’t right but he had a point when he said the west doesn’t give a good alternative for them to follow.

    • @moneysittintall3611
      @moneysittintall3611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +326

      @@markm2092 yeah we do, it’s called asking a girl if they want to get married and giving them a choice

    • @markm2092
      @markm2092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@moneysittintall3611 he wasn’t talking specifically about engagement but the entire western model of society and marriage. He was saying the west hasn’t shown themselves to be knights in shining armour, so they aren’t worth following.
      I don’t agree with bride kidnapping or anything like that. But his sentiments about the west aren’t wrong.

    • @novaangelica5096
      @novaangelica5096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      This country is fucked up , old men kidnapped younger women and forcing them to be their brides? And guess what happened after the "wedding"? This is rape and they are child predators , they deserve to be arrested and have their d!cks chopped off

    • @lesscringeymapperdude
      @lesscringeymapperdude 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@novaangelica5096 wrong. this is too kind. they deserved to be hanged. a quick execution that doesnt waste too much money. we will not spend money on scum

  • @StanLee833
    @StanLee833 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The reporter has me rolling on the floor the dynamic is so ironically drastic

  • @NinaNavarro-Perez
    @NinaNavarro-Perez หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    they treated her wrongfully 😢

  • @ShowmikBose
    @ShowmikBose 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4140

    To hell with such traditions. This is torture!

    • @q7851
      @q7851 5 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      @@vegasfinest702 Well, there are MANY other women who would NOT like to be kidnapped as a bride against their will.

    • @vegasfinest702
      @vegasfinest702 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Badr eddin lmao well go change the world lmao there’s a lot of lonely woman everywhere lol who ever makes it to the big time coming from small ass places like this?! Lol who or how many become doctors or lawyers?! Lmao keep it real that’s why she expected and she was dating the guy!!! What the fuck ever go save the world kid go save all the girls over there idiot they can’t help themselves

    • @Studyinginhu
      @Studyinginhu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It is not everywhere. This is not a tradition !

    • @hiddenpotentialaj2153
      @hiddenpotentialaj2153 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      IvyMe no way you’re a woman

    • @Tiffany-ov2jf
      @Tiffany-ov2jf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      DeCiPhErIng GAmiNg every country has its own problems, believe me when I say that you're embarrassing yourself by downgrading others.

  • @not.elise_0545
    @not.elise_0545 ปีที่แล้ว +4315

    I don’t care if it’s a tradition, this is absolutely disgusting. No girl deserves this, even if she wants to be married. the stress and trauma that these men have gave her is awful.

    • @zneytram1432
      @zneytram1432 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@velvet_moon. Facts. Cruel men too

    • @i574k-yk7ht
      @i574k-yk7ht ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @@zneytram1432 no shu1 up.

    • @TripleKmafia
      @TripleKmafia ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@zneytram1432 Nah, just cruel women.

    • @LoopBoop930
      @LoopBoop930 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TripleKmafia 😕

    • @shoppeilava
      @shoppeilava ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@TripleKmafia men and woman, they are both equal 😟

  • @TheOpinionatedVibes
    @TheOpinionatedVibes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dang that bride kidnapping is straight out of hell

  • @TinkerBellTWERKS
    @TinkerBellTWERKS 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    “No means yes , and yes means yes
    That’s our mentality “

    • @FreaKaYu
      @FreaKaYu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😎🤓

  • @srishtymalhotra1187
    @srishtymalhotra1187 5 ปีที่แล้ว +702

    So all these guys will let their sisters be kidnapped like this.
    *GREAT*

    • @Mr-Ad-196
      @Mr-Ad-196 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yeah apparently their tradition is like a double edge sword that also can hurt them. For example remember that one dude that kidnaps some person sister and that dude get revenge by kidnapping the kidnapper sister as well and they gonna be like let call it a even.

    • @timesweeper9778
      @timesweeper9778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      If someone walked to me and said,
      "Look sir I kidnapped your daughter with the intent to marry her but I brought food to celebrate with you."
      I'd just punch him in the nose and call the cops.

    • @Mr-Ad-196
      @Mr-Ad-196 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@timesweeper9778 but Kyrgyzstan its kinda like legal over there........unless you move out there....

    • @kixi8033
      @kixi8033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@timesweeper9778 I'd do way more than punch someone if my daughter was taken with the intent of marriage and rape.

    • @timesweeper9778
      @timesweeper9778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Mr-Ad-196 I was speaking metaphorically. Also technically it's not legal there either. It's a culture thing not really a legal.
      Im just happy I don't live there.

  • @zafaxr
    @zafaxr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1339

    my heart just broke into pieces, when the girl was screaming for her mom.

    • @starcrafter13terran
      @starcrafter13terran 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      looked like her family was laughing and didn't really put up any resistance at all. It's disturbing.

    • @zafaxr
      @zafaxr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@starcrafter13terran they were like "thats how mafia works"

    • @leniarmstrongxxx6222
      @leniarmstrongxxx6222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Zafar Muzawar same i literally cried

    • @zafaxr
      @zafaxr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leniarmstrongxxx6222 yea

    • @natasanatasa8051
      @natasanatasa8051 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      mine also. .

  • @Y2kuntee
    @Y2kuntee หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Imagine seeing someone getting kidnapped and you out here giggling😩😩💀