Professional Pattaya Woman Scam Artist Uses "Girlfriend Style" to Extract Cash 💰
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ต.ค. 2022
- Professional Pattaya Woman Scam Artist Uses "Girlfriend Style" to Extract Cash 💰
Today's story was emailed in by Marcel who is a subscriber to the channel, this is a very detailed story explaining how a 41 year old Pattaya women sees an opportunity to use "girlfriend style" on a foreigner to extract cash and hopefully catch this guy for long term financial gains, this type of SCAM is often used on Tourists, the Thai women will do their best to make the foreigner fall in love with them by acting like their girlfriend and making our they love them so they can milk the foreigner dry 😳
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A Thai bar girl once said to me " I have a small business, but I make alot of money "
I still laugh about this.
😂😂😂😂😂
THAT is a different kind of COUGAR😆😂🤣 She saw this dude coming a MILE AWAY...
This was a transactional "relationship" due to him leading with his wallet. She sold him a dream and he became addicted to the attention, drama and of course the 😻.
Of course he new his delusional
There were many red flags which the poor guy unfortunately ignored. Meeting a girl on Thai Friendly for fun was the start of a long list of red flags 🚩🚩🚩
The single most important word every man needs to remember in his relationships with women is, "NO."
I just spoke to Scotland Yard and they have verified to me that all your stories are true and accurate 😂😂
Haha thanks 👮♂️🚨🚔
There is 100% of common theme in all of the stories over all of the channels that do similar content generally speaking the male is a vulnerable a family member has died a long term relationship has broken up or they're at a crossroads in their life I am sure the females have a ranking system for that was the most vulnerable foreigner if you went on to holidays to Thailand and the first time you told them that your mother has just died and that you have broken up with a long-term partner they would know you're emotionally available and you have most likely just came into money you would be like honey to a bee
The other guys but a vulnerable appear to be incredibly egotistical I think they are God's gift to women these guys seem to get manipulated very easily as well
And the third group appears to be the more mature foreigner that cannot believe his luck that he is finally days in the 20-year old again it must bring back memories of nostalgia also a massive hormone boost which is obviously linked to good feelings and the women appeared to take advantage of this I think it's why they want to have sex with you so quickly maybe they're not aware of the biological nature behind this but they know that Ender is all when a meal has not had a new sexual partner in a long period of time and then they have a new New female partner they get a testosterone boost which is linked into feeling youthful again this woman makes me feel so young again something I imagine they say no fool like an old fool
Lots of These women are professional emotional manipulators women talk and apparently entire culture gossip and conversation is very popular which means that the younger women joining this Circus will be getting lessons passed down to them from older women imagine within a year a woman will have so much knowledge on how to trick foreigners into believing there in a loving relationship
And due to the Western nature of the men they want to save his women take them away from it all and show them a better life it's basically a Recipe For Disaster for the males I enjoy people watching and I intend to go and watch this play out in front of my eyes one day I do not plan to engage in it though probably the famous last words before an emotionally bankrupt Man becomes financially bankrupt as well
He paid her to act like she was in love with him and she did her job well. What's the problem?
No Problem Joe, he paid for her services didn't haggle with the price, she got the 74K and then activated "Girlfriend Style" ⏯️ she lied about herself to make out she was a regular normal woman from Pattaya which was hard to believe but in the moment he believed her and due to this blag she managed to get a 20K monthly salary and a 30K leaving present 🎁 plus all expenses paid while she was with him... This type of story happens all the time and men can fall into deep depression, commit suicide and end up in financial ruin but luckily this guy turned on "Detective Mode" and figured out exactly what she was by checking her phone, making a fake profile on Thai friendly etc ... Now if he didn't do this then he could have married her and brought her to Germany where she probably would have fleeced him so it could have turned really badly for this guy but luckily it didn't and lesson learned 👍
@@thaitalkwithdan Yeah, it's like if you regularly go to a bar to get drunk and then become an alcoholic and fall apart. Only yourself to blame.
12:55 - 13:03 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What I’ve learned from your video and out if this story.
I’m an idiot !
You say this guy paid roughly 70.000 TB a month to this beautiful girl and got the best sex of his life for it.
God damn, my white whale Ex spend 5 grand, or about 150.000 TB of my money each month. And I’m almost certain, the service I’ve got from my chubby mistake, wasn’t even close to the pleasure he got out of it.
The lesson to be learned for me:
Find a beauty and pay her well, but don’t get overboard, in return get treated nicely, but never ever get attached.
Stay single my friends !!!
Way too much money for a old one
I agree with your philosophy about women. To that, some people say " if you have something bad to say about me, say it to my face"...to that I say, "As long as you're nice to my face, say what you will behind my back".....the same with these bar girls...be nice to my face and go vomit in the back room 🤣
My white whale cost me $10,000 a month. Plus a house when I left her.
I'd rather hire them in Thailand.
@@cameronrussell9362 I guess we’ll be neighbours soon.
What are you doing for life.?
Play time is pretend time. If it isn't pretend, it isn't play. Pattaya entertainers are professionals. At the end of a movie does he stand up and scream "It was all a lie!" and want his money back? He received plenty of play time for his money, just made a newbie mistake of thinking it was real life.
And it was best 2000 baht I ever spent! 🤣 ahh those condo memories
Haha I can imagine someone thinking "Hey was that me" 👀
she rose from the cracks of the streets and to the cracks of the streets she shall return.
I have been to Pattaya & Bangkok many times. Let me tell you if a girl is real to you is when they don’t need your MONEY & gives you the EVIDENCE for your trust.
If anything ends up with money, just take it as a business transaction for deals. Play along the drama with them.
You won’t lose out.
Stay safe brothers.
Oh Dear! The ultimate , ultimate , ultimation --from pass the parcel Marcel! Good one Dan, very typical though!
Yes, he didn't seem to realise that this kind of story happens all the time and I shared this particular story due to how much detail went into it 👌
**What's Up Dan?!**Love your stuff!** Here's one for ya Dan: Pattaya Bar Girl Motto: **"Me No Study, Me No Care...Me Gonna Marry A Millionare. If He Die, Me No Cry...Me Gonna Marry Another Guy!"** footnote...this Thai Girl motto is based upon 1,000s & 1,000s of Real Stories! 😎
Good one mate 😅
Philippinas seem to be smarter - they all have multiple profiles on multiple sites but under different names and the pictures with different hair, big glasses etc so you cant' match them easy.
Pinoys use different FB names internet is there way of survival
Phillipinos are the intimate girlfriend scammers from what I have researched, their ability to learn the English language very well helps with their trickery 🆘
@@thaitalkwithdan Better to buy a washing machine! --After you've dumped your load in it ,it doesn't follow you around for 4 days!
Nice video Dan. Enjoying the honesty of your Channel. So easy to say the guy was a mug but I believe it just shows it could happen to anyone. Pleased he can now see it for what it was.
I used to visit Bangkok, Pattaya and Samui way back in the early 00’s whilst in my 30’s. Firstly on my own when admittedly I was a little green. Then with friends and finally with my wife. I knew a man (old neighbour) who was probably late 40’s early 50’s and I used to say to him back then “get yourself to Thailand” “like being a kid in a sweet shop” (😬 I know). Anyways I did hear he did eventually visit and sure enough he “found love,” I heard he transferred something like £25K over there and poof it was gone. He went from living in a beautiful bungalow in one of the most expensive parts of the area to what is/was known as the cheapest flats in the UK, Waterloo Walk, Sulgrave, Washington, UK. That was at least 10 years now. I kinda feel some guilt over that.
May as well mention one of our friends who came with myself and another in 2001, just the lads this one. He met a girl in Samui, did the whole corresponding via email thing back then, married her over there (Thia Wedding style), brought her UK , he bought a house mid 00’s and put her on the mortgage. She eventually left him (he probably was difficult to live with so in no way blaming her) at least 10 years ago, uncertain whether she went back to Thailand or somewhere in the UK. Quite a carry on, She’s still on his mortgage. Those are my two “unhappy endings.” for blokes I know. Would love to live out there one day, envious of you my friend.
Keep those videos coming.
So many disaster stories, they are literally none stop over here! If only people kept their money in their banks then no major disasters would happen 🤷
"She eventually left him ... at least 10 years ago" - it is a typical story I guess in many countries, happens often with men regardless of marrying a Thai woman or someone local. A divorce is always a challenging thing to get through...
Page 2 of the dating book
- if wanting to buy a date - 48-72 hours is maximum 🤔
Just came across your channel. I think it's great and you are 100% spot on. Been visiting here since 2015 and been living here (in Pattaya) for the past 2 years. Not interested in any "relationship". I never take the same girl more than once. It's been a good strategy 😉. Keep up the good work. Good stuff!
Thanks 🤝👍 it seems to be the wise man's choice of strategy in Pattaya to ensure they don't get burned 🔥❤️🔥
Agreed big hoss....I understand why some guys want a 3 night stand but I'd rather have a different girl every night...its all one big fantasy life in pattaya
Some use the 3 day rule, but I prefer the 3 hour rule 😁
@Yazz Yep, spot on.....I was in pattaya 6 months ago for 4 days before I couldn't take it anymore...old hags, tons of ladyboys, and just a super hustle vibe that made it feel extra sleazy. Did one bar fine, which was a total disappointment. I don't plan to ever go back to that part of Thailand.
@Yazz 🤣 I heard about the call center reward program. I don't do soapys anymore. They have big huge mirrors everywhere and it ruins my brad pitt fantasy image of myself when I see the real me in those mirrors and see a fat crypt keeper...its horrible 😞
When you fly into "survana boom boom airport", they should have the song playing loud and clear "money can't buy you love!"
she lost any remaining credibility when she stated "2000 baht hand job" LOL
I actually laughed out loud the way Dan delivered that line
It's getting harder and harder to deliver some of these stories 😅🙈 handjobs, amazing boom boom etc... Hard to keep a straight face 😂
@@Paul_in_Thailand so did i. he managed to capture a tone of feigned regret "sorry i give handjob old man"
This is gold, better than some movies. Love you long-time! 🥰
Thai woman treat your kindness as your weakness
This is the biggest problem with most men including myself is about always judging the book by its cover (Beauty). What about the ugly ones with a really genuine good heart?
Thai women I'm very good experience on money and coning people good vlog look to listen to you
She chose Pattaya because it was a nice city. No it isn't. I say that as a resident. It has it's temptations, but being nice is not one of them. Who is paying 2000 B for a 41 year old Thai woman to deliver a HJ? That's the most disturbing thing in this story for me. It should be 800-1000 max. Thai girls are dishonest. Who knew? This tale is not all that bad as things go in LoS. At the end of the day, this guy paid what 74K for month of company and sex? It's not good, not terrible as Anatoly Dyatlov likes to say. For a 41 year old lady, I would call it overpriced, but the guy was satisfied. He was not a massive victim here. It's not as though he bought her a house, pickup and funded her business only to have her "brother" turn out to be her Thai husband and kick him to the kerb. Just as an FYI 40-50K is the going rate for a month of "girlfriend" from a 20-25 year old that would be an 9 in most people's books. 20K should have been enough for a 41 year old lady.
Yeah, like nothing has happened to him that will have any major effect on his life. He overpaid and got ripped off a bit. For A 41 year old, even if she is fit and good looking, better to just go LT for two or three nights, 2400 baht or so a night ( I know prices are up a bit ) and move on. None of this pay by the month nonsense. I couldn't stand being around a woman constantly for a month anyway, especially not a bar girl type.
Now my comment is extra funny 🤣
@@keithd1219 I have to assume the Thai woman made up that price. I have never met anyone who has paid close to that for HJ - and certainly not from a middle aged lady. She probably inflated the price because in her perverse manner of thinking that would make it more justified. Either that or it wasn't only HJ and the price is the only accurate thing. Nevertheless, she is doing well to get that at her age. It could also be that she invented that price to mirror the sum that her German lover was paying daily, so he did not feel as terrible to overpay as well as get cheated on. It's hard to tell sometimes what goes on in the brain of Thai working girls.
Interesting, I agree she either lied about the fee due to what you stated or it was more than a HJ 🤷
@@thecryptostrategist2433 Well as someone who's had plenty of happy ending massages, when the periscope is up, I've had them try to get top dollar for a handy. If they try that I just tell them to forget the whole thing and just leave after the massage but they have tried. I also laugh when they point down and whisper, "ohhhh you want me take care dat too?" And im like "uhhhh yea" and then they giggle like its their first time doing it.
I also make sure they have a shower so I can clean up before and after, which I'm sure they're very happy about after a day of walking around sweating.
A glimpse into my creepy massage sessions 🤣
Great video Danny. You're doing a great service for the world. Please keep it up
i agree and they know it = that you make more money when you dont ask for it - make him love you than give him the heartbreak stories never asking for money directly so the farang wont think he is being scammed as she never asked for money
Oh boy oh boy! We really need a professional psychologist to tell us why it is that so many seemingly clued up men can be such mugs when it comes to Thai women.
My guess is that because in the west, prostitutes are very obviously prostitutes. It's almost "impossible" for western people to understand that someone can act as if they are in love, over long periods of time, simply with some money. Though in some cases, you can read the same stuff with western sugar daddies/sugar babies.
i find the answer in 1001 Geschichte. They name it: bezness. Bezness" refers to a type of scam or exploitation, often in the context of tourism, where someone forms a romantic or friendly relationship with a visitor for financial gain. The term is particularly associated with North African tourist destinations. An example could be a person establishing a relationship with a tourist, appearing genuine, but with the underlying intention of extracting money or other benefits from the unsuspecting visitor.
A 41-year old with 2 grown up kids would have been a total qualifier for me from day 1, plus, no matter how good the _ _ _ is, just don't fall in love.
Especially with a girl you meet in Pattaya 🙃❤️🔥
Bro this shit is hilarious. 😂😭 Simps are undefeated!
Fuck me 74k. I've never paid for a Thai GF. I just couldn't bring myself to throw away money like that. I try and pull them on an app before I land lol Works every time.
OMG she know a simp when she see one. That why I'm sceptical about these dating websites.
Wow, glad this professional bar girl played the long game!
First never take her to your hotel or condo! Always use a separate hotel! Never say to break it up! Just leave when she’s not around! And go to your place! And get someone else!
Remember guys, your leather wallet is worth more than her ham wallet.
Time to rebrand to: "Thai girl talk with Dan"?
I would be stuck if I did that and I don't fancy just talking about Thai women all the times it will drive me nuts 😬 I'm hoping to start travelling soon and doing interviews with people with different types of stories which will be a nice change 👍
Great video great view 👍🇹🇭
Sensational Dan, love your videos
So ,,,if is happy whit is 2000 bth a day and is in ,,say part of paradise ,,,,,,in his country or mine would cost lot lot more than that and would ordinary adventure ,we are adult and nobody put a gun to our head to pay ,,just assume ourself and ENJOY
It's the falling in love part which is the most damaging he thought this woman was "normal" bit niave I know as he met her in Pattaya 😬 he even said himself he had no issue with the 74,000 Baht he paid as he was kind of renting her 🤷 but after that she turned on "girlfriend style" ⏯️ and managed to get 20,000 per month and a 30,000 payment and this guy was going to marry her 🙃 but finally realised she was just a hooker with a blag backstory to rope him in and extract as much as she could 🤷 at least he escaped after he figured out what she was, otherwise it would have cost him a fortune ❤️🔥
People will judge Marcel but this can happen to anyone. The best way to prevent this from happening is only to be with the lady for one night. Wham bam, thank you, ma’am.
The guy is a mug. How many red flags?
One thing to remember with Thai women, the bar lady type at least, no amount of money is ever enough.
Don't think just because you're sending 70,000baht per month that she will be exclusive to you and wont seek money from other methods.
wow sad story. lyer older woman. wow scammed.
All these stories blend into one. Don't know what to make of the OP. The guy was "widowed" so some sympathy points there. Talking of great boom boom I had great boom boom in Bangkok on my way home. Same old story really, met her on Thai Friendly, honest woman who sells food. Been talking to her on and off for months and she sent me photos. Wow, the boom boom was amazing, best Thai woman i've had so far. She never asked for any money other than 20 Baht for the standard visit to the temple, but it turned out that she had worked the bars in Pattaya some years ago, which explained the great boom boom., and when I return in a few weeks, shes ready to give up her job etc etc which basically means i'll be keeping her. That ain't happening and to be honest, from being in Thailand for a while, most of these Thai women don't actually have a lot to offer a relationship, other than some sex, wash you in the shower, and take your clothes down the laundry and a load of pity stories.
Yup! Crap happens! Stay cool 😎 kind and generous!
Wait a second! No sick buffalo involved?! 🤣
Blimey. All that drama. No woman or sex is worth that bs. I am on a dating site but treading very carefully, not kidding myself that I'm a super catch and not falling for anyone trying to throw themselves at me. I'm not so lonely that I will be manipulated.
As long as you know to be careful and recognise the warning signs you will do fine 👌
Hey Dan, another interesting video. I don't see the scam, he paid 74,000 baht for a month of her time. 74,000 Baht = $1,963.22 Dollars, How much time would you get with an escort in the US or UK for that much, one night maybe? As for lying about what she did to get the guy, guys lie all the time about there jobs or how much they earn to get girls. As for her having sex with other guys, he traveled to another country to have sex (him going on thai site and saying he would pay for girl as soon as he got there), I question his moral high ground. He wanted sex, she wanted money, no scam.
--She promised me she'd never mention that 'hand job' by the pool!
Scam = falsified story to extract money 💰 I understand where you are coming from though 👍 she also managed to get 20K per month out of him and a 30K payment when he left to go back to Germany as well as an all expenses paid holiday while he was with her 🤷
Some 40 year old escorts in UK or Australia want 400 dollars an hour. The Asian gals are cheaper, but for overnight still want about 1300 AUD. Seen a few Chinese gals, 700 to 800. LT in Pattaya still very cheap outside of go go bars.
Anything is possible 🤷😬
I hear ya Phil and hopefully you send it in 👌 it's just great to tell these true stories from subscribers as these type of stories may wake people up whonarenin the same situation as the story and it might help them to escape 💨💨💨 before they get rinsed 😬
Hi Dan, thank you for sharing this story. The most sad part of this is, that he had the time of his life during the 5 weeks of holiday. What does this tell us about our western lives? If we are honest, we end up paying for company as well, not in that direct way. western relationships work more "sophisticated". but you end up paying, and if it is only your precious lifetime. And what do we get? No! not now! leave me alone, go sleep alone, don't touch me, don't think of it. i'm not in thre mood, maybe next year and so on ... well, this guy was happy to experience what the women offered, does'nt matter if he paid. He would have been alucky guy getting this experience in the last days of his live and die happily after...we all want the illusion of perfect love and company, but this rarely happens, so enjoy anything that comes by like it was your last day. stay healthy...
Great way to put this into perspective and to give a different viewpoint on the situation 🤝
It's the same everywhere.
Another thing never ever pay it up front pay every day or 3 days max that way they will not walk out or start abusing you till you say get out. then it is bye bye cash/honey some will just leave, money gone you wont see it ever again
You need to call your show. Dangerous Dan
More like Desperate Dan.
😅😅
2000 Baht per day is cheap. - And he lies to himself because he forgot the gifts and the food at the restaurant.
🤦🏻♂️ he let this go waaay too long. as soon as she said the words Dubai and Korea, good-bye.
This: Telling lies and scheming is a way of life for these freelance girls. It's part of their survival mechanism. It's ingrained and rarely can they change their ways. When you discover their lies and scheming, don't tell them anything. Just dissappear, because they will never change. Regardless of how good the sex might be, remember they are just rent a girls. In Thailand you never lose your (bar/massage/freelance) girl, just your turn.
Hi Dan!
Good Morning Roger 🤝
Good morning from Scotland
Good afternoon Gordon 🤝
These women are greedy. But one day their greed will catch up and could lead to their demise.
Having broken English conversation with a Thai girl for longer than 2 days is like falling off your balcony and landing on your head. If you live by the "sword" you gonna die by the "sword".😋
🤣🤣 funny bar girl story i heard from. pattaya bar owner. He had a new girl working who spoke almost no English. She was being trained by another girl how to get guys into the bar. The bar owner was watching this new girl and she kept saying "hey sexy man with red shirt, come into bar", but she said it to every guy walking by, no matter what color shirt he was wearing.
The owner found out that the girls trainer said that to a passing guy in a red shirt but the new girl who spoke very little english heard it and said that to every guy passing by the bar 😄
The same if you can speak, read and write thai LOL
Yes man, I always felt a lack of subjects to discuss with these girls.
You can spend some time taking photos of her in restaurant for example, but what could we talk about in private?
Some of them are willing to talk about their favourite food and we could spend some time watching related youtube videos but it gets boring soon.
What else could we talk about?
Therefore, it was more comfortable just to give her money for a ST and see her go on her business.
And no, I had no urge to spend time with her shopping, it is not only boring but expensive as well 😆😆😆
Hi Dan I have spent more on a hand bag for the wife in my last trip to London enjoy life as I. Have love thialand my favourite winter destination and enjoy everything that is available to indulge
That's your WIFE 😅 so I wouldn't expect anything less but would you spend the same on a woman that's a freelancer or a bar girl 🙃🤷🙈
"adult children"😂😂
Dan. I can give you a few factual stories but I am not sure how sensitive your viewers would be. One is particularly gruesome and can be verified from the info I can give you.. Would you like me to send it to you to review before posting?
Bring it on bro! This can only help people avoid making mistakes in their relationships.
Yes please and I can always change some of the wording so it is a little more tame etc... 👍
Go for it mate
How can I send it to you for you to review before posting? Also I have links to news items both in Thailand and overseas. I dont think youtube will let me put links in, but these are crucial to the story.
Send it via thaitalkwithdan@gmail.com 👍🤝👌
Muppet springs to mind 😂
A fool and his money are soon parted ways.
I almost dropped my iPad from laughing after hearing the part about German language lessons! Sometimes catharsis occurs when we can laugh at ourselves. I hope the author appreciates what a good story he has. Grabben das c*ck!
If people read money number one and fool in paradise , then no one in their right mind would go over ther to tell a story
from another video I saw from you
Wow talk about overpaying
Sorry to sound harsh, but what a fool to go to her after 3 to 4 times catching her out!!!!!! GUYS wake up…… these girls are laughing at you
Ladies are for rent here and they must pay their parents with the money..
Where is the scam here? This guy was ok to pay this 41yo hog 2000b/day. After that it's transactional, you can't reverse that for normal relationship. It's funny if guys think marriage or anything else after that. Just say NO and go forwards or continue to pay her daily.
Women like drama paid or not. Don't go there. Be a MAN and say goodbye if there is a drama. If you like a normal relationship, find a normal lady for that. Bar girls are out forever. They only want someone to take care of them financially. There are a lot of normal women who can do their own money and don't need your money to support them. Affection is enough if you can be the masculine man to them.
Love is blind
I can't understand how soft those westrn men are They are easy target to the Bar girls, and they always play them for fools. They learn after losing their money.
Yes he isn't Robinson Caruso, that sort of things happened for decades in Thailand. Maybe not so bad for some but blokes but I have heard a lot worse he probably got out cheap compared to some I,ve listen too. Thank God I,ve been lucky in that situation. Only once or twice I,ve been in a great relationship over many years of experience. And honestly the most it's hurt is my pride, financially very little 1 time over a 2 year period living on and off while working in Vietnam I was with 1 lady from Buri Ram. But she wasn't to bad never really worried so much about money every day because she worked in a guesthouse cleaning and serving drinks around the pool. I wasn't to concerned about that because we always stayed together while I was there for breaks 4 or 5 weeks at a time then I,d go back and work 8 to 10 weeks at a time in Vietnam. She was pretty up front with me telling me she had met a guy from Germany at the same time or just before she,d met me. So great we were sweet this guy the poor bugger was sending her money every month like 5,000 baht and this was 21 years ago so she was fine bye that. And who knows height of been 1 of three or 4 blokes doing that, Because I,d seen that sort of thing happen 3 or 4 years earlier with some other ladies I,d stayed with gee 1 lady I was with her friend had 6 to 8 blokes sending money at any given time. Like this lady had around 40 to 50 thou baht being sent too her each month. She showed me her wardrobe full of tee shirts from around the world about 10 or 12 different countries. Blokes that had left her things. I suppose she was very convincing for some blokes. That is the only reason I,ll never get caught up sending money to ladies in the entertainment industry in Thailand. That lesson was learnt my 2nd trip 27 years ago. Be very cautious of that fact. Anyway getting back to my lady from Buri Ram, we had a great thing going and like I said I didn't care what she done when I wasn't there. Because I understand her angle. She's Thai they do what they can to survive, and provide for the family. So we went along for about 1 year and 6 or 8 months of doing this. After that time I pretty much knew her 95% and she was right in her element a Thai kmer lady wow very special. She asked me after that time if I thought I could ever think about marriage. I said to her while she had another bloke sending her money and he was about to come after so long to see her, maybe she should sought that problem first. I mean felt sorry for this bloke I,m seeing this lady every 2 months or so staying with her fo 5 weeks at a time and he,s sending money to her, and who knows when I,m away she may have had someone else with her. AL I did was leave her money for the apartment around 3 or 4 thou baht each time. So I didn't care about that. Because I was getting back enough from my time with her. So like I said she told me this bloke was coming to see her in about 3 months time and she hoped I,d understand that. Hey I was okay I,d always had other ladies while I wasn't with her in Phuket anyway. She said to me she thought I was the best man for her to take to her home to meet her family. So I said well you have tell the German man your going to get Married. I,d only once in all my time of being in Thailand before that thought I could possibly marry 1 lady but I,d never been home with anyone else. And that was after 8 years experience. And she's been the only 1 in 28 years or more I,ve gone home with. I remember after 8 months of staying with her I brought her a necklace I think it was around 200 dollars Australian. When I returned after being in Vietnam for 2 months her friend told me she would take it off the day after I left so that other men wouldn't think she had a man taking care of her. So I confronted her about this she said her friend was just jealous which may have been right because a couple of times she,d try to come on to me when my lady was working. That's all cool because that is the working lady way backstabbing was common as long as no one knew. Sorry about the long story but I want people to understand that if they aren't cautious enough they could find themselves in a bad place. So my lady told me she wanted me to take her home. We did that the next time I returned back from Vietnam, great we
Went to her home she made the vital mistake telling her mother there was only 80 % sure of me. So her sister was angry with her and me too, I gave her the money for a dowry she thought it was going to be 100 thou baht her sister told me to leave what I want so 10,000 baht was all I left her family she was upset with me a little but more so with her sister. When we got back to bangkok I gave her another 10,000 and told her that was for the apartment in Phuket and for living until I got back from work and I also knew this other man was going there to see her soon. So I come back after 8 weeks or so and asked her had she thought about her situation and honestly she said yes he,s coming in 4 weeks. So she said when you go back to work I,ll tell him while he is here we have to stop everything. Okay I said to her good luck, she thought I flew to Vietnam. But I just went to Ko Samui for 2 weeks, and I made her choose between us. She couldn't believe I,d put her in that situation, but I had to know if she was genuinely interested in getting married. Hey I,d been home with her that's big in Thailand, so I gave her the ultimatum if she walked with him we were finished. She said why did I do this. Well to find out if she was serious about everything, She cried her eyes out but walked with him. He was wondering what was happening. With the situation at hand, I felt sorry for him because he,d been sending money to her for nearly 18 months or more and I,d been with her all that time. 2 days later he went home she come to me to try to save everything we had but I told her you made your decision live with it. Drama for 3 or 4 days crying outside my room when I,d come home 1 night I had another lady and she told her to go because we were going to get Married. Crazy so I said to her please leave me alone. In the end I went back to work, 3 months later I saw her again. We went to a party at my friend's house and she got really drunk so I had to carry her back to her room. She never hardly got drunk maybe 2 times the whole time I knew her. When we got back to her room she cried and yelled at me to not leave her alone. I was strong headed and never stayed she slapped my face hard, I go to see her the next day she was naked walking around her room cleaning and washing her clothes, just the kmer ladies they are different. She told me did you stay with another lady last night, I said yes she tried so hard to make me feel comfortable around her then she just through everything at me I mean in a lustful way in the end we made love and boy I was so lucky I didn't get her pregnant, I pulled out and finished all over her hair and back, that was her aim she,d told me about 6 months before she wanted children in the next year or so because she was 29 years old and her time was running out. Luckily I dodge the pitfalls and left her. I went back after 2 years or more on holidays after working in Australia. Her friend told me she waited for me up until about 6 months before but she went home afterwards. Never to be heard of again. It's a shame because she was a great lady and 1 of only 2 ladies that I ever thought about marriage with. Like I said I got out cheap compared to some blokes horror stories I,ve heard about. Mine cost barely 2 or 3 thousand dollars. Nothing when you consider what might have been. Sorry about the long story bit you have to understand how these ladies work. Hey but it doesn't mean they are bad they just are trying to make the best of their situation. I,ve learnt far more about ladies from being with Thai, Iao, and especially kmer ladies, then I would from western ladies any day and I appreciate that and respect that bye.
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@@mmaranta785 I can Elaborate on what particular thing, please excuse my ignorance about your suggestion. Cheers 🍻
I'd leave as soon as finding hise se.x.y photos on the phone sent to somebody.
So much simping in this story.
He knew she was a freelancer he should treat it as short term.
Is that a borderlands t shirt?
These pattaya girls are professionals, whether they work in a bar or not.
31 years old. Too much money, too little brain.
Cmon if you want a LT your pay around 2000 Bt X 30 days = 60000 Bt remember 2 St and she is not stuck with you all day, and another thing if she gets period out of action for a while add meals drinks and entertainment, massages, clothes etc . Stay single and enjoy when you want, buy a girl lunch if you must.
He enjoyed his vacation. Stop whining and move on…
not rare at all - con artist - glad he escaped lol
- this guy has been the architect of his own defeat (with his stupidity) - giving all those chances and not standing his ground...sorry mate but you're getting 'limited sympathy' on this one!
People say that one needs to pay for a thai woman etc., I've never with the 8 times beeing in Thailand and sometimes for several months paid for any woman I have had in the range of 50 hookups in thailand without paying...like everywhere else there are women who are bored, lonely and horny...it is a matter of flirting with enough of them until you can spot it, works like a charm every time, and of course not being around the tourist areas but places where there are less farangs if any, in that way you're exotic and that levels your game 50 percent just there.
btw the word Arkansas is pronounced “Arkansaaw”
Good Morning from Canada 🇨🇦! Love your videos. May I please ask, what should one look for in a genuine Thai partner that would indicate that this person is NOT/was NOT a bar girl, prostitute, scam artist etc..??
Thanks for all the information as always!
Justyn
No offense intended, have you ever been to Thailand?! Why would you want a Thai lady?, what do you think Thai women offer that Burmese, Laos or Cambodian women don’t?
There is no such thing as a genuine girl the closest you will get to a genuine woman is if she’s in her 50s and 60s so pretty much an older unwanted by Thai standards woman
@@lifeasithappens plenty of decent middle class Thai women out there, the tourists never get to meet them, and even if they did, unless you live here they aren’t interested. What do these tourists have to offer these women, they already have a well paid job, house car, family and friends, why should she give all that up and fly half way round the world to a farang country with a guy she hardly knows?
Thanks Justyn, I would look for someone who is down to earth, honest, lives a simple life and where money is clearly not her motivation in life, if you find a woman like this then she certainly is not a bar girl, freelancer or a Maddam 👌
@@athitaya6898 No offense taken my friend 😊. Yes, I have been. For the better part of only a month actually and travelled mostly in the south. Due to so many negative videos about Thai women, I kept to myself for the most part.. This question was more so to shine some positive light on the fact that there is more to Thai women than the internet may suggest.. Such tips may help people like me in opening up to more people when traveling to Thailand.. that’s all ❤️
Well, if a woman MUST "rent out" her (steaming) "cooter", she might as well get top Peso for it....
I spent 200000 bath on 1 girl in 4 weeks and I don't care.... I work oil and gas industry...... I respect thai lady... they work for money.... if you where a beautiful lady... what would you do ????????
Well, this man is
Very lucky never got married and for the money he got a good deal everybody pays you play you pay that’s the rules
Guys get real entertainment and pleasure is not cheap so you pay as you play you are a special as long as you spend money when the money stops you can kiss them goodbye
74k bath. how many dollars is that. aud. or. usd. self enjoyment. fun. luxuary.
Just under 2000 Dollars 👀🔥
1 beeeeeellliion dolahs !