Hang in there. Stay brave. You can do it. Be gentle with yourself. Stay strong. It is hard. I am sorry. If I could do it again I would have left sooner. Right away. Time lost.
I love coach ryan. He is the best at explaining how we feel and how the avoidants are. He is excellent and he makes me laugh. Thank you for explaining all of that. Let me tell you, so many people don t lnow that. To the point that some people don t know that it exists😅😅😅❤
I just passed this period with an old friend that I thought I know him since 15 years ago... After 2 months of relationship this year and 2 vacations together.. He pulled me away when I asked to see each other next time... Very painful... NOW I am better but I still see his potential...
They are never worth it, if you google online only 1% of avoidant relationships ever last, these type of relationships are like narcissistic relationships
The universe will keep repeating the same experience in your life until you learn and understand why it repeats. Choose you and love yourself more and don’t let anyone bring you down ❤
I actually did the dumping, I discarded the avoidant before she even got the chance to discard me. I did that because I am relatively secure and do have strong boundaries. Even then it’s still extremely difficult because of that perceived potential. The thing about that though, it was never really her anyway, she was mirroring me, so all that love and intimacy and affection was never her at all really, she was copying me. Just that she couldn’t keep that up and 3 months into a seemingly perfect relationship she ran out of energy, she could no longer keep it up and collapsed emotionally. 4 days later I abruptly ended it but it’s been so hard because the mind is do very sneaky and cons us into believing it was real when it absolutely wasn’t. Avoid the avoidant at all costs, that’s what I’m here learning to do.
"The thing about that though, it was never really her anyway, she was mirroring me, so all that love and intimacy and affection was never her at all really, she was copying me." I have just recently realized this about my DA GF too....she always seems exhausted...the only time she seems to have any energy at all is when I'm away traveling....I come back home and the first 2 days are great....lots of s*x, touching, smiles, laughter....then the slow fade....
@ ….what I noticed in retrospect was a particular look on her face as if she was trying something new for the first time, as if to say “Oh this is new and different, I’ve always wondered what this might feel like”….just that it somehow wasn’t real, it wasn’t natural, wasn’t coming from her heart. How long can you keep that up ?
@cspace1234nz these are such great comments! Really helpful. I noticed the expression you mention on my partners face too, like a kid with a new toy, buy I couldn't place it. Thanks for the accurate description
Intermittent reinforcement fools us, but yeah, the "potential" is a scam. Actually, the whole avoidant at the dating phase is a scam - hang up and don't give them your info 😅
I left him as I realized I was in constant pain. Yes! Potential! But he believes he has no potential and I can’t hold up the sky by myself. I went into no contact although it is painful and I keep “hoping” he’ll come around. The longer we are in no contact, the more relieved I am.
Your videos are very helpful! I am out of a 13 year relationship with an avoidant after I voiced my boundaries/needs and was met with “I don’t have the mental energy for a relationship”. If it wasn’t for your pep talks I still wouldn’t understand this person and be holding on to what they could be.
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back. If you are still interested in his service You can hit him up on WhatsApp +2348114476566
Always ask yourselves « if you met them and the version that they are with you today, would you want to date them? ». If the answer is no then you are holding on to a version of them that will never come back because it never really existed (no triggers in the beginning). You can still love them but let them go. Don’t let them drag you down with them.
My FA girlfriend discarded me 5 months ago. We dated for 16 months and she boomeranged on me twice in that time frame. My anxious attachment skyrocketed. I became unrecognizable to family and friends. Lost myself trying to please and walk on eggshells so she wouldn’t leave. She ended up jumping into a new relationship with a guy I know. The betrayal I feel is like nothing ive ever experienced. It feels like the pain will never end. And seems like I never mattered, she moved right on and seems like she now found her person. It has driven my self worth through the floor. Like Im not good enough, not worthy of love and commitment. These people are like a nuclear bomb with a pretty exterior. I wouldn't wish this pain on my worst enemy.. Well, maybe on her, that she experience a taste of her own medicine
@justinmcquade690 your story is exactly the same as mine, she jumped back too her ex, 3 months later after I done no contact, she came back to me again, only to leave me 3 months later for the ex... And then you guessed it, 3 months later she was back pleading forgiveness writing love letters and putting herself Infront of me, I took her back again... 10 months now we lasted and wow can you believe it, out of no where, she's gone back too her ex... She's left me broken and devastated every time..... I believe she's narcissistic, we must heal now and do no contact again 🙏🏽
Omg, that's SOOOOO painful. Hmmm...I know it's hard not to think about her, the relationship, every minute of the day, especially if she was attractive. I am sending you love vibes so the woman of your dreams come to you quickly! You need to heal.
Same happened to me, just with a man. Now he wants me back. I hope I can keep my cool and stay away, even though I still love him. The earlier discard almost killed me, I have spent months in bed 😔
@user-lt3yb4fm6q 💔 I hope you can keep your cool too.. I cannot imagine if my ex wanted me back. Its one thing to say "Id never take them back, they hurt me too bad" When it's not a possibility. Then, when it becomes a reality..... whew! You deserve better
@@cspace1234nz We don't know the details. She may have wanted and been told that this would evolve into a relationship but that her avoidant just needed "time" or some $hit. They keep people at a distance and never communicate their real needs/intentions and are confusing to understand. It may be that she finally realized it was never going to evolve into something more. In general though, I agree: if you're wanting a commited relationship state that from the beginning and never allow yourself to get into a situationship.
@FraggMental1 18 years.. how can they throw that all away. Why am I so codependant. She's betrayed me 4 times during too, we have 2 kids.. why can't I turn off my damn heart for this person. I've never broken our vows, I've never forsaken her. She's never even had to work since she's been with me. I put my heart and soul into this relationship only to be tossed away over and over again
I miss my ex avoidant from time to time. Especially when I see her pop up on mutual friends social media. I miss the good times. I wish I knew what I do now thanks to your videos. I broke up with her after her slow pull away. But I was so tired of my feelings not being considered. I was going through cancer treatment and she never asked how I was. It was always about her. I loved her with everything I had, but I was giving away parts of me that I needed.
Yes, severe avoidants never ask how are you if you go through hard times. They just are defect, emotionally stunted, usually severe child neglect and absent parenting. You cannot fix them, its a unilateral rel you could as well have with an object, never any reciprocity. Heal and best wishes to find better partner soon!
Yea. That's the apex - realising that every bit of energy spent on them is not mutual. Nothing advocating for the constant drain, esp if you're aware that this energy is _needed_ elsewhere! Time to cut your losses and move on.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
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I really needed to see this as I have been waiting for him to be the person he was in the beginning. I held out hope we could get back there but after watching this I just don't know that we can. He is such an amazing kind hearted person and I've seen the side of him not many get a chance to experience. I fell hard for him but I realize his relationships have only ever been surface level. I have to really work on my boundaries.
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back. If you are still interested in his service You can hit him up on WhatsApp +2348114476566
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back. If you are still interested in his service You can hit him up on WhatsApp +2348114476566
Why wasting your energy with hunting someone who doesn't like you back? As if there weren't billions of things out there that are fun. Music, food, dogs, libraries full of books, theatre, sports, beer, languages.
You can lead a thirsty horse to the water but you can't make it drink. Keep on with your lives. They don't worth the effort. They never did. If your absence doesn't bother them, your presence never mattered to them. So let them go. It's their loss
Lmao I had shared fantasy phase with a MARRIED avoidant recently. I just tried to be friends with her and it got out of hand, turned into a mutual limerent affair type thing, and she ran away when I asked for clarity on the relationship. Q.Q It's been 2 months now. Thanks for this.
Very good video and very acurate. I am 2 years in the healing process and just now I see my ex for who he is in reality. I was seeing his potential too much but without him expressing feelings, communicating any issues, lying, going to toilet with his phone every time (he was long term addict in recovery), making me insecure where there was female friend around, belittling me in front of female friend etc. I'm anxious or preoccupied, now I know, thank God for his departure, it could kill me. It broke my heart but it didn't broke me. I'm successfully healing all my issues and gratefull for this experience coz because of this I know who he really is and I do not want to have these people in my life.
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back. If you are still interested in his service You can hit him up on WhatsApp +2348114476566
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back. If you are still interested in his service You can hit him up on WhatsApp +2348114476566
Coach, you have no idea how much your videos have helped me get through. Thank you
I'm grieving the loss of the relationship. It pains me so much how he discarded me ruthlessly. I know he's not the man I thought I loved. 💔
Hang in there. Stay brave. You can do it. Be gentle with yourself. Stay strong. It is hard. I am sorry. If I could do it again I would have left sooner. Right away. Time lost.
Thank you.
I love coach ryan. He is the best at explaining how we feel and how the avoidants are. He is excellent and he makes me laugh. Thank you for explaining all of that. Let me tell you, so many people don t lnow that. To the point that some people don t know that it exists😅😅😅❤
…it’s extremely difficult, harder than most breakups because of all the subtle deception that went on which is really hard to get to the bottom of.
I just passed this period with an old friend that I thought I know him since 15 years ago... After 2 months of relationship this year and 2 vacations together.. He pulled me away when I asked to see each other next time... Very painful... NOW I am better but I still see his potential...
They are never worth it, if you google online only 1% of avoidant relationships ever last, these type of relationships are like narcissistic relationships
To anyone reading, most avoidants never do understand, there’s no potential most of the times trust me
The universe will keep repeating the same experience in your life until you learn and understand why it repeats. Choose you and love yourself more and don’t let anyone bring you down ❤
True❤
I actually did the dumping, I discarded the avoidant before she even got the chance to discard me. I did that because I am relatively secure and do have strong boundaries. Even then it’s still extremely difficult because of that perceived potential.
The thing about that though, it was never really her anyway, she was mirroring me, so all that love and intimacy and affection was never her at all really, she was copying me. Just that she couldn’t keep that up and 3 months into a seemingly perfect relationship she ran out of energy, she could no longer keep it up and collapsed emotionally. 4 days later I abruptly ended it but it’s been so hard because the mind is do very sneaky and cons us into believing it was real when it absolutely wasn’t.
Avoid the avoidant at all costs, that’s what I’m here learning to do.
"The thing about that though, it was never really her anyway, she was mirroring me, so all that love and intimacy and affection was never her at all really, she was copying me." I have just recently realized this about my DA GF too....she always seems exhausted...the only time she seems to have any energy at all is when I'm away traveling....I come back home and the first 2 days are great....lots of s*x, touching, smiles, laughter....then the slow fade....
@ ….what I noticed in retrospect was a particular look on her face as if she was trying something new for the first time, as if to say “Oh this is new and different, I’ve always wondered what this might feel like”….just that it somehow wasn’t real, it wasn’t natural, wasn’t coming from her heart. How long can you keep that up ?
@cspace1234nz these are such great comments! Really helpful.
I noticed the expression you mention on my partners face too, like a kid with a new toy, buy I couldn't place it.
Thanks for the accurate description
@@user-lt3yb4fm6q yeah keep learning in order to avoid avoidants in future
Intermittent reinforcement fools us, but yeah, the "potential" is a scam. Actually, the whole avoidant at the dating phase is a scam - hang up and don't give them your info 😅
I left him as I realized I was in constant pain. Yes! Potential! But he believes he has no potential and I can’t hold up the sky by myself. I went into no contact although it is painful and I keep “hoping” he’ll come around. The longer we are in no contact, the more relieved I am.
Your videos are very helpful! I am out of a 13 year relationship with an avoidant after I voiced my boundaries/needs and was met with “I don’t have the mental energy for a relationship”. If it wasn’t for your pep talks I still wouldn’t understand this person and be holding on to what they could be.
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
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Always ask yourselves « if you met them and the version that they are with you today, would you want to date them? ». If the answer is no then you are holding on to a version of them that will never come back because it never really existed (no triggers in the beginning). You can still love them but let them go. Don’t let them drag you down with them.
My FA girlfriend discarded me 5 months ago. We dated for 16 months and she boomeranged on me twice in that time frame. My anxious attachment skyrocketed. I became unrecognizable to family and friends. Lost myself trying to please and walk on eggshells so she wouldn’t leave. She ended up jumping into a new relationship with a guy I know. The betrayal I feel is like nothing ive ever experienced. It feels like the pain will never end. And seems like I never mattered, she moved right on and seems like she now found her person. It has driven my self worth through the floor. Like Im not good enough, not worthy of love and commitment. These people are like a nuclear bomb with a pretty exterior. I wouldn't wish this pain on my worst enemy.. Well, maybe on her, that she experience a taste of her own medicine
I had an FA ex gf. I know exactly how you feel.
They are horrible people. Once you internalise that truly you will heal.
@justinmcquade690 your story is exactly the same as mine, she jumped back too her ex, 3 months later after I done no contact, she came back to me again, only to leave me 3 months later for the ex... And then you guessed it, 3 months later she was back pleading forgiveness writing love letters and putting herself Infront of me, I took her back again... 10 months now we lasted and wow can you believe it, out of no where, she's gone back too her ex... She's left me broken and devastated every time..... I believe she's narcissistic, we must heal now and do no contact again 🙏🏽
Omg, that's SOOOOO painful. Hmmm...I know it's hard not to think about her, the relationship, every minute of the day, especially if she was attractive.
I am sending you love vibes so the woman of your dreams come to you quickly! You need to heal.
Same happened to me, just with a man. Now he wants me back. I hope I can keep my cool and stay away, even though I still love him. The earlier discard almost killed me, I have spent months in bed 😔
@user-lt3yb4fm6q 💔 I hope you can keep your cool too.. I cannot imagine if my ex wanted me back. Its one thing to say "Id never take them back, they hurt me too bad" When it's not a possibility. Then, when it becomes a reality..... whew! You deserve better
This video unexpectedly answered so many of my questions about my situationship….I so needed this. Thank you.
…if it’s a so called situationship what do you expect, seriously ?
@@cspace1234nz I’m sure you have been in one too if you are watching his videos. Have a great day.
@@cspace1234nz We don't know the details. She may have wanted and been told that this would evolve into a relationship but that her avoidant just needed "time" or some $hit. They keep people at a distance and never communicate their real needs/intentions and are confusing to understand. It may be that she finally realized it was never going to evolve into something more. In general though, I agree: if you're wanting a commited relationship state that from the beginning and never allow yourself to get into a situationship.
Damn, this is exactly where I'm at. It's hard to let go.
Same
Same here... keep strong bro
@FraggMental1 18 years.. how can they throw that all away. Why am I so codependant. She's betrayed me 4 times during too, we have 2 kids.. why can't I turn off my damn heart for this person. I've never broken our vows, I've never forsaken her. She's never even had to work since she's been with me. I put my heart and soul into this relationship only to be tossed away over and over again
I miss my ex avoidant from time to time. Especially when I see her pop up on mutual friends social media. I miss the good times. I wish I knew what I do now thanks to your videos.
I broke up with her after her slow pull away. But I was so tired of my feelings not being considered. I was going through cancer treatment and she never asked how I was. It was always about her.
I loved her with everything I had, but I was giving away parts of me that I needed.
Yes, severe avoidants never ask how are you if you go through hard times. They just are defect, emotionally stunted, usually severe child neglect and absent parenting. You cannot fix them, its a unilateral rel you could as well have with an object, never any reciprocity. Heal and best wishes to find better partner soon!
Yea. That's the apex - realising that every bit of energy spent on them is not mutual. Nothing advocating for the constant drain, esp if you're aware that this energy is _needed_ elsewhere!
Time to cut your losses and move on.
@ thank you ☺️
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
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Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I really needed to see this as I have been waiting for him to be the person he was in the beginning. I held out hope we could get back there but after watching this I just don't know that we can. He is such an amazing kind hearted person and I've seen the side of him not many get a chance to experience. I fell hard for him but I realize his relationships have only ever been surface level. I have to really work on my boundaries.
I really needed this right now. I’m in this exact position. I just can’t seem to let go
This video described my last 4 years. She is now my ex and it's been really hard. Been 4 months. Thank you
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
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I know it is now 39 years after and i still suffering from the pain
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
If you are still interested in his service
You can hit him up on WhatsApp
+2348114476566
How true it is!! Hope about his change doesn't help at all, this video does really help to put healthy boundaries!!
Potential vs the reality. Always a necessary if difficult distinction to understand. It’s always been very difficult for me. Videos like this help.
Why wasting your energy with hunting someone who doesn't like you back? As if there weren't billions of things out there that are fun. Music, food, dogs, libraries full of books, theatre, sports, beer, languages.
I needed to hear this message.
Great advice. I hear you. I will respect myself.
You can lead a thirsty horse to the water but you can't make it drink. Keep on with your lives. They don't worth the effort. They never did. If your absence doesn't bother them, your presence never mattered to them. So let them go. It's their loss
@frankiesheart6016 love it! Thank you for the reminder! We really need to love and value ourselves more but I understand it’s a daily struggle
Lmao I had shared fantasy phase with a MARRIED avoidant recently. I just tried to be friends with her and it got out of hand, turned into a mutual limerent affair type thing, and she ran away when I asked for clarity on the relationship. Q.Q It's been 2 months now.
Thanks for this.
Very good video and very acurate. I am 2 years in the healing process and just now I see my ex for who he is in reality. I was seeing his potential too much but without him expressing feelings, communicating any issues, lying, going to toilet with his phone every time (he was long term addict in recovery), making me insecure where there was female friend around, belittling me in front of female friend etc. I'm anxious or preoccupied, now I know, thank God for his departure, it could kill me. It broke my heart but it didn't broke me. I'm successfully healing all my issues and gratefull for this experience coz because of this I know who he really is and I do not want to have these people in my life.
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
If you are still interested in his service
You can hit him up on WhatsApp
+2348114476566
Sooo true!
Thank you . I really needed this information.
Oh my gosh, how do you know this stuff? FA is reaching out like crazy.
Thank you so much🙏
Focused on me!
My dear, I understand how you feel about your situation but I’m still going to tell you that this is not the end of time, because so many of us especially we the ladies. So many of us lie in bed and scroll through social media after a breakup. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little spying. But absolutely none of that is helpful. I’m still going to still explain more to you about my situation with my man is a long story but I’m still going to cut it short to your understanding my dear. I was in a relationship with my man for the past 6 years and both of us were planing for the marriage and both of us were excited about that, but one day he left home a came home late and he was angry and I asked him what is wrong he didn’t answer me I was so confused about that he suddenly changed at that moment and the next statement to comes out of his mouth I’m not interested anymore I was dying inside me at that moment and he left me just like that and move to another state. I was crying because it really hurts but I was still having this mindset that everything is going to work out for me. And one faithful day I came across a video on the TH-cam channel tarot reading and I was watching the videos on daily basis but not knowing that there is a solution to my problems. Later that night I was sleeping I received a message on my phone from a lady that lives in Croatia that there is this man that can help me with my situation at that moment I was nervous and she told me everything about this great man she told me that if I need his help to I should hit him up on his WhatsApp and I did whole and behold my story changed and the other the week my ex text me I was so happy and now my man is back to me and we are back together and we are getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Dr. Felix he was the one that helps to bring my man back.
If you are still interested in his service
You can hit him up on WhatsApp
+2348114476566
Well secures are married to each other…so…
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Im done with women, period !!! Nothing but a bunch of selfish users who only think if their own needs, and always looking for something better 😶