Introverts vs Extroverts When They Travel
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Anything I forgot that introverts or extroverts do while traveling?
Hi
hi
Actually you forgot the part where... nvm this is really accurate
Sleeping...
Or pretend to sleep so that people will leave them alone...
(Talking about introverts, obviously.)
Introverts doesn't always travel, but when they do, they don't.
As an infp: it even feels weird to listen to music or watch a movie at the plane if a stranger is beside you!! 😂👀
💯😂
Because everything is very personal to us, so we don't want strangers to see how we awkwardly enjoy ourselves because we believe it will look and sound annoying and we don't want to be an inconvenience to other people.
Totally agree, that's why I prefer to watch movies at home, as opposed to the cinema.
A fellow infp agrees
@@jackcolson4745 that's very accurate 💯
The Fi dominant function is actually annoying sometimes..
For the record, an INTJ would use their laser eyes to stop the annoying kid. The death stare works every time.
Is it possible to learn this power?
I tried, didn't work. Is it my small eyes? It is, isn't it?
Yes it indeed works
That child was bugging me as if it was kicking my seat whilst I watched this. I guarantee you that my laser eyes will be beaming right through their soul.
-INTJ
I have no eyebrows, making my death stare even more powerful
«He’s basically been doing leg presses against my seat for 6 hours”😂😂😂😂😂
I generally talk directly to the child and they settle down, but if it ever happens that they won't obey I'll ask a stewardess to switch my seat with that of the parent.
@@leamubiu i can see why, but then sitting next to this kid? :P
@@Agynessdin I'll update you if it ever happens, but I'm thinking that getting within elbow range opens up some options.
@@leamubiu ooh I like where ur thinking goes
The kid kicking your seat thing is so horrible yet relatable. Like, people, LEARN HOW TO BE PARENTS! (I wish more parents these days would care enough to teach their kids how to be respectful to others).
I went to the cinema bfore and there was a lot of jumpscares lol I kept accidentally kicking the front seat without realising it
@@cringyhuman3210 please don't do that in the future. You could ruin someone else's experience.
@@claire4710 It is important to be good and respectful to others but it isn't important to make good experiences with entertainment and the song I feel good came to my mind lol
@@claire4710 This experience you talk about doesn't last forever
@@sokol2629 the movie also doesn't last forever. It is common sense to not kick other people's chairs when you are in public space. The fact that you don't understand this much is crazy. If you don't want to respect others, please do go to such places. Book a private room or something.
Haha 😆 OMG I literally have thought to myself "Do I accidentally have any weapons on me?" while going through security. The self-consciousness is real!
I swear I checked my handbag 5 times before the flight but I still ended up with a can opener and a lighter. (I found them while unpacking. Went through security without any problem 😅)
Me TOO!!!
I went on a flight not too long ago, and as a woman I keep pepper spray attached to my purse at all times without even thinking about it. I went through security and they were like “we have to confiscate that, it’s a weapon”. I felt so naked without my pepper spray lol. That was also really awkward though cause I’m my head I was thinking “they don’t think I was purposefully trying to bring a weapon right?!”
Me too! Lol!
Hahaha Wait! I just realized by watching the first few seconds of this video is it starts out with "You think this innocent looking dude is gonna be sneaking a bomb through in his lapatop".... Moments later... innocent quiet guy: "Do I have an illegal weapon in my pocket that I don''t remember putting there?" HAAHA I am dying with laughter when I realized the combo of that. And also realizing my attention span is zip apparently not to have caught that the first time.
You know it’s a losing battle when even headphones fail to protect you😂
LOL true
100%
oh no the horror!
If the headphones don’t work, then bring a hoodie. A level 2 defense mechanism will hopefully tell let people know, that you aren’t in the mood and that they should go away.
Being an introvert and living in Europe is such a great combination. I'm German and I think our culture is a great habitat for introverts. Silence is very much appreciated, we don't talk easily to strangers, we like our personal space not be invaded and take care not to invade that of others,...
It's hard to be an introvert living in the US. I'd fit right in in the UK or some other European countries.
Well that’s mostly in northern countries but here in Spain there’s so many more extroverts (or at least it seems like that to me) so yeah not very nice for introverts like me (INTP) lmao
@@cocorose5231 As an italian INTP, I understand you.
@@lisagd22 people in the UK are actually quite friendly and like small talks, you might need to look further north!
@@SpotlessMind871 Hmm, maybe Finland then. 🙂
Had a kid kick my seat in theater, and when he pushed his feet through the cushions, I grabbed them and held onto them. I refused to let him go (since I asked three times for him to stop), saying that I'll let him go when the movie was over (movie was an hour and a half long). It wasn't until staff threatened to escort me out that I let him go. His family moved elsewhere and he started kicking the person's seat. She doused him with her whole soda (it was practically a two litter cup). It was hilarious 😂 The family left, and someone bought her a replacement soda as a way of saying thanks. Yeah, can relate to the chair kicking
👍Nice idea
What a legendary experience! Wish I could’ve been there to see it, lol 🤣
Who are you? What's your mbti?😂😂😂
Amazing job 👍🏼😂
Good for you and good for the soda lady!
"I grabbed them and held onto them" youre a legend my man
Wow I'm literally traveling right now. That timing is crazy haha. Also that's super accurate, I love it lol. I'm a military kid so I'm used to traveling a lot
His videos is always on time for me😂😂
Lol I just traveled on a plane yesterday, it's perfect timing for me too
Oh man, wow
The anxiety by passing the metal detector door, the annoying turbulent extrovert kid, and take luggage in face is so relatable XD
Yes
Yeah that hit close home to me too.. I even get stressed and anxious about leaving shops thinking "I hope I didn't put anything in my pocket that could possibly set of the alarms at the door".. 😂
I’m an INTJ. My husband is an ESFJ. Every travel experience is about stopping him from over sharing with strangers. Ugh!!!
Wow, you took on an ESFJ? I bet you love the attention though, little FI….
"Where to?"
"Home. Take me home, please." XD
Great video! :) Love your sense of humor!
I like to travel, but by the end, that's me. One time, my mom and I were coming home from Italy and all kinds of things went wrong, so it ended up taking us like 20 hours to get to our home airport. By the time I was getting on the last flight, the flight attendant greeted me and all I could say was "Is this flight going to my airport?" At least my dad picked us up, so we didn't have to deal with a cab driver.
The thoughts while going through the metal detector remind me of the "don't act suspicious" thoughts when you leave a store without buying anything.
I thought I was the only one who felt like that!
As an introvert, when I want someone to quit talking to me.....I simply make my affect go flat. I give short, boring responses that don't provoke further conversation. Sure, I'll be friendly, but I'll make my personality seem as boring as watching paint dry. Eventually, people get bored and give up. It works most of the time on the people that don't understand why I'm wearing headphones.
As an ENFP, I am such an ambivert. So I relate with EVERYTHING in this video lol.
Same!!
#same
Yup same, ENTP here. Except the child kicking thing, Imma burst on his mom if she doesn't stop him.
Same 😂
We be like that😂
As an introvert I’m willing to think that I robbed a bank without even being aware
Same
I felt my stress levels escalate just watching this and I'm not even going anywhere anytime soon...
Same 😣
Same here
I'm going on an introvert trip tomorrow. Protip: When you go traveling, don't bring an extrovert. Looking forward to being a boring loser in a whole other country!
Ah man, this was so harsh! I’m sure you are not boring or a loser! Have a good trip!
As an introvert with an extrovert best friend I can confirm they are indeed like that but sometimes it's fun to join (when they don't end up leaving you for their new friends)
While on a trip with a group of friends, I told them all to leave me at the hotel so I could have an hour alone. The one friend decided we should all be in the same hotel room, and then added another person once we got there. 6 people, that I was constantly with. No, give me my alone time.
Omg that doesn’t sound like a great time lol I need some alone time. As much as I love going places I usually go with family and rip to my alone time 😭
@@whisperingwooper1763 It wasn't, I ended up telling the friend that wanted more the merrier, I wouldn't travel with her anymore. She wasn't very happy about it, but her and I don't mesh when traveling.
That is why I insist on my own room. Respite = Sanity.
@@antoinettenovella1630 Oh, I do now! After that trip, never again!
Oh my god this kind of kids are so freaking annoying. As an introvert it already takes extra effort for me to tell them not to ( i always do so though) only to have their parent either being completely unable to discipline them or telling them off just once and then focus on their phone or fall asleep. And then i keep telling the kid to stop and have random passengers saying things like ''oh relax it's just a kid, stop being like that''. And that is the moment i stop being an introvert and i'm having a verbal fight with them (mother+kid+annoying passenger(s)) daring them to swap places with me or shut up and mind their business. This is absolutely not based on a real life incident that happened to me a couple years ago and that i still get elevated blood pressure whenever it comes to mind.
"Home... Take me home, please."
- Every Introvert Ever
This was basically just me (the introvert) and my husband (the extrovert) flying from LA to NY. The “let’s go get a drink and let loose” part at the end was so spot on, it was a little freaky.
This is so cute. Poor introvert 😆 your acting's been so great Frank! Doesn't feel like they're the same person
"Do I have an illegal weapon in my pocket that I don't remember putting in there?"
It's so me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
As the Introvert/INTJ, the hour by hour itinerary, print out of airport layout with bathrooms clearly marked, emergency backup numbers for taxi and uber companies, also motel/hotels in the area, in case delays, cancellation and over bookings but then I'm just a very anxious person and having all that keeps me calm. I don't travel often.
I'm an INFJ, but same. I'm even memorizing all the signs via an online 360° tour of the airport I'm going to and marking all supermarkets, pharmacies, and doctors in the area near the place I'll be staying. I need to absolute control of everything, even mere possibilities.
I don't know which is better ... the writing or the acting. Love your skits.
as an intp i love to put on my headphone and listen to music when i travel, unless there's someone not too loud i can engage in a nice discourse with. lol
Same I can usually just put my headphones on and listen to music although a seat to myself would be amazing! It never happens much to my disappointment lol
I am watching an extravert's Livestream right now, as he tours through Disney world... He is just like that, he can turn around and make a friend and party 🥳. As an introvert, I feel enough socialization just on streams, that I'm fine with not talking to anyone or leaving my house for the rest of the day.
“You do you” lol! I forgot that phrase, love it, and can’t wait to have the chance to use it on family. Unfortunately, the opportunity to do that could arise at anytime…🙄😅
I like how good you are at making both sides look ridiculous lol
As an INFJ who has been forced into so many social situations, I’ve acquired a certain set of skills to survive the discomfort of travel that may help others if they also hone them: 1) The RBF 2) The blank stare. 3) Sarcasm. 4) Let the face show every emotion. These usually provide a greater amount of silence and solitude in crowded situations by making you appear unapproachable or as poor entertainment for talkative people. There are strong extroverts who will not notice any of these and may even admire the sarcasm, though. The research continues.
My dad is an INFJ and he does all of these same things as well. But unfortunately, he is an extrovert magnet. People just gravitate to him no matter what he does to stop it. That’s how he ended up with my mom. She was one of the intrigued extroverts that stuck around.
@@flutterwinkle I think most INFJs are extrovert magnets. They sense we are good listeners, but don't realize we aren't always in the mood to listen.
The strong extroverts are my kryptonite. I'm too nice and end up getting stuck with them for at least 30 minutes. 🤣 I'm not good at cutting off the conversation and ask questions so I seem interested but really I want to run away. 🤣🤣
1000% related to the security check. I have never owned a gun nor known anyone who owns a gun, yet I'm pretty certain that one will show up on my person during every security check I go through.
Did not relate asking the kid to stop kicking my seat. If someone is kicking my seat, I immediately accept that as a part of my in flight experience because asking them to stop is horrifying.
I'm always afraid I accidentally packed my pocket knife, no matter how well I remember deliberately leaving it at home
Same
That and the anxiety of forgetting something. Did I bring my ID? Did I turn off the oven?.... The horror.
Oh man! I felt for the introvert in this one! I think, since the seat right next to be is empty, I would just scoot over one seat so I don't feel the kid behind me kicking me.
If I was the mom of that kid, you best believe I would tell him to stop kicking the seat in front of him. And knowing what kind of mom I am, that kid would stop because he would know I follow through with any discipline I promise.
So did my mother. If I dared kick the seat in front of me like that, I would have been the one in pain and deservedly so.
"Do i have an illegal weapon in my pocket that i don't remember putting there?"
Dude, you don't know how much i relate to this, except my irrational fear is "Did someone slip drugs into my pocket/luggage when i wasn't looking?"
Slight correction: *Introvert VS American Extrovert
The introvert is quite globally relatable but the Extrovert is indeed very representative of some American tourists abroad...
As always, thank you for your videos!
Well, there are enough Extraverts here in DE who love to chew your ear off. I mean, as an INFP I am very well capable of doing the same, however, there are several prerequisites that must be fulfilled for that to happen. One of them is that the other person shows genuine interest, otherwise I'd rather stay silent.
@@Robidu1973 Yep, I'm the same exact way haha (also an INFP)
I'm an INTP with quite high Ne and I'd say it'd be fun staying with an extrovert all day like that, even though I would need to be hospitalized after.
Hi fellow INTP 🖐 well.. It could be fun for a couple of hours but the WHOLE day, please no 🙅♀️ the last time I spent 5-6h with 2 extroverts I had a hard time to remember my name, seriously... My brain was completely off
In deadly, critical condition
I’m an INFJ and it’s relatable. All though I do watch how people interact as well.
“Where to?”
“Home, take me home.”
Me after a long day
This sketch is like me being an ambivert: just two my personalities having a conflict inside me
This is one of the funniest skits I've seen, so many perfect moments, I just wish this was a tv show so I could watch these characters more! Hollywood needs to step up their game, Frank literally has better chemistry with Glasses Frank than most actors I've seen and the comedic timing and realistic introvert (representation, let's go!) are gold, and the special effects of the kid kicking the seat unfortunately is literally not much shabbier than some low budget film effects lol.
That introvert has clearly spent alot of time around his extroverted identical twin because he keeps talking out loud instead of internally. Lol
As an INTJ this is exactly how i feel about flying
Antisocial monster-in-the-making, with every ignored kick of the seat. lol
I wanna travel on that plane. It was pretty empty! The introvert could've changed seats no problem! I like that the introvert wondered if he accidentally packed an illegal weapon! Hilarious! 🙌💜😂
When I leave a store without buying anything, I'm always half-expecting the security guard to grab me and say I stole something. 😁
@@lisagd22 I know the feeling.😆
That happened to me once. The plane was half empty. It was heaven 🥰
The child kicking the seat 😂😂😂 pure gold
I’ve taken the MBTI many times over the years and always get ENFJ, which always baffles me. I related so hard to the introvert in this video! I’m really good with small talk & can appear very friendly & at ease in social situations, but I’m not sure how much of that is learned masking behavior, because I’m usually internally screaming and suffering unless I’m with people I’m very comfortable with, or basically alone. Anyway, I always enjoy your videos, keep up the great work!
"Do I have an illegal weapon in my pocket that I don't remember putting there???" 😂😂😂 EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.
Let's go baby! No sitting in a hotel room, just partying and exploring
I once went on a camping trip and had a concealed knife spork thing, and I brought that same bag through the security check with me...
super embarrassed and still sad that the security had to throw it away, I liked that knife.
1:05 Mike Tython That Little Brat!
I love how in all these sketches the extrovert is basically just an ENFP :D
I feel seen.
As an introvert....is this an accurate representation of an extrovert? It looks so unbelievable for me lol
I just came back from a trip with extroverted friends, it is useful to have the mix, i have to say 😂
FJ, this is your funniest video so far! I love how it's like a story. And HOW do you do such a great extrovert? Oh, yeah, years of practice!
My thoughts exactly...
Best TH-cam comment of the day award 🏅🏅
I pressed on the video notification the moment i saw it😭 and it made me realize how much of an introvert i am i cant
Ah, the soft "No." at 2:27 says it all.
Frank you have such a great chemistry with yourself both as bros and cupple 😂😂😂
And aliens 😂
@@marleenstukkien5384 🤣🤣🤣
"HOME, just take me home, please" that's me all the time when I'm not home lol
Petition for Frank James to make a video about 16 personalities when they are drunk.
i love frank as an extrovert even if it's fake ihfijjsofse he's so funny
As an ambivert, both sides described me perfectly 🥴 You killed it
I personally as an extrovert just sleep on the plane the whole time and wake just before landing and get home and sleep more
As a doctor I'm offended by the doctor joke 😂😂
This. This is why I don't travel anywhere I can't drive to in less than two hours.
So accurate for me! Thank you. I needed that laugh after today.
Am I the only one who would be so caught up in their own world, that they would accidentally sing along to the music and only realise that way too late when the people near by startet staring at you? And because you have absolutely no social skills, the moment just becomes even more awkward. So you just sit still for the rest of the flight thinking of how embarrassing that was...
1:46 the moment you ask yourself : is this really happening? could it get any worse?😂🤣
great video 👍
You know what would be interesting in my opinion? A video about stuff like depression and other disorders for each type: how prone they are to it, how do they go through it, which ones have it the hardest to combat it etc.
So hard...
I think someone needs to create an introverted airport...
Or at least separate boarding areas and sections of the plane. That would be great--the extroverts could be extroverty together and the introverts could sit quietly, not talking to anyone and not feeling like there's anything wrong with that.
@@lisagd22 and a common area, so people who are traveling together can stay together...
Extrovert: LET'S GO, BABY!!!
Introvert: famous last words...
I think my favorite part of this was trying to figure out why these two guys were travelling together in the first place 😂❤ I always forget I'm watching just one Frank. This one really felt like two different actors...and I love them both!!
Watching this 1 day before I'm going makes me more scared as an introvert
When you're a kind polite respectful and reserved extrover :
God, even the extrovert dresses like my brother-in-law! So funny! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That extrovert is a maniac😂
I was dying at the ‘meet everyone on the’ flight!
Do I have an illegal weapon in my pocket? Exact thought every time
HAHAHAAA when he sang "I do my hair toss check my nails" 💀
A window seat and a large parka with a massive hood comes in handy for completely hiding from the passenger next to you.
Introvert : I relate to the security part 😬 being checked. The seat kicking, the luggage falling
I'm such an introvert 🤣 why do we have to always get the kids sitting behind us? 😅
I’m a road trip girl. INTJ - eight to ten hours in a car by myself. Couple hours staying with friends. Sleep. Back to the car by myself, listening to comedy and music, taking the backroads. It’s a beautiful thing. Flying sucks.
This reminds me of the weird space of having ADHD but also being introverted so you sometimes talk too much, sing to yourself, fidget and can't stay still but you would rather not do any of those things and be quiet and by yourself. I even annoy myself sometimes.
best sketch yet, honestly, if I wasn't already subscribed, this would have gained you a fresh sub
introvert understand that unwanted pressure
“Quiet guys you gotta look out for”....so much for being decent : )
“Do I have an illegal weapon in my pocket that I don’t remember putting there?”
… maybe.
1:26 Frank you gotta admit that singing voice was lit
Better than Lizzo 😌👌
Sound exactly like her 😭 👍
Imagine an introvert at a Boston airport and the Denver airport
1:07- I've heard of stories of parents that let their children do whatever they want and don't have authority or care about their kid being an asshole. Those people who do that are failures as parents.
1:30- Extroverts listen to Lizzo? God help us.🤦♀️
2:30- And I dream to be a flight attendant, Lord give me strength.
As the introvert awakens from the horrifying nightmare, he makes a note in his dream journal:
• Cancel plane tickets
Seeing the world? Soooo not worth it
*asks the stewardess for duct tape*
For social-distancing purposes.
😂😂😂
Oh man. After a flight or long hours of travelling within my country, I need a nap. I love entering hotel rooms and exploring the room first though.
“Bro we can party with him, won’t that be fun?!”
Introvert: “no that is NOT HOW THIS WORKS” 😂
Omg. Totally nailed it again!
I felt the chair kicking.
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This could be Barney and Ted especially the taxi scene🤣🤣