@@nunyabiznes33 what's the point in revenge tho? We don't really feel the need to do anything if there is no positive outcome or some form of gaining information from it, revenge would just be a distraction, plus we'd have to interact with said person and we aren't known for being talkers
@@Ravennie7171 pretty much. INTJs have Fe blindspot. They are literally designed not to give a 💩 when a person directs something at them that would hurt many people's feelings. If anything INTJs are the ones to hurt the feelings of others without giving 2 💩. Emotional empathy is not really an INTJs thing. An INTJs Ni-Fi loop is more connected to their own goals and internal feelings not the feelings of others. This means INTJs are more likely to have hurt feelings when they didn't accomplish their own personal goals. This hurts the feelings of an INTJ much more than what any person can say out loud.
I feel more shocked that a person is even capable of saying such a thing than offended or upset by their words, make a mental note that this person is an *Idiot TM* and then just get on with my day.
I’m an INFP, and I constantly run scenarios through my head of how I would react if somebody was rude to me or said something that hurt my feelings. I imagine myself being cool and acting like it wouldn’t bother me, but in reality I’d probably just cry and walk away lol
I've been looking online for other INFPs to relate to and I am very different to almost every other INFP ever I am a self proclaimed master of roast comebacks
Very true.... although i won over crying to some extent- a just give a bitter smile and walk- no sprint away- but my most embarrassing moment is when I recall that when i am spacing when my friends are gossiping among themselves and I just start hitting my head- you were not cool enough!!!! Oh dear you could've avoided that!!
@@lakobosros2326 oh yeah 😂😂 but such witty (which are not always witty somehow) remark is only possible for me when the person is someone I don't care about- or rather the thing that person said is a fact and not a comment, but if such comment etc are coming from near and dear ones- well the reactions depends upon how near the person is
Me, an INTJ: "Well that felt suspiciously like an emotion. Better turn that off immediately." My spouse, also INTJ: "Let us never speak of this again." Our kid, an ENFP: "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU TWO?"
but they can turn off emotions, can't they? esp. if angry they go way low on the empathy scale, or are you saying they are just hiding it? @@dacksonflux
@@mercedesmcvey1776, now I am wondering if I am INTP or just a weird INFP I can feel a hurricane of emotions but then I am like "Eh? Why do I even bother? Is it logical to feel that?" once I had caught my unusual behaviour (which is hard for me) Next action is to change my behaviour or continue with current one Last time I was crying to add more drama, because I don't know how to act in society and I thought that it would fit the situation, considering my knowledge, that I got from media But it's impossible to turn off an emotion completely Oh and also Si cringing about things later 😅
@diversion8329 Maybe try a different test. Sometimes, one is not as accurate. I took the real or original one with over 200 questions and got a score so they can add to their statistics, and use the data. I heard the Keirsey one is flawed a little.
@diversion8329 you do sound more like INTP, which is similar in many ways but extremely different in a few. INFPs strongest function is INTP weakness, and INTPs' strongest function is the weakness of INFPS.
I love how the ESTP was at a baseball game, likely arguing with an opposing team’s fan. Trust me I know a lot of them and a baseball game scenario has happened irl 😂
Thing about INTJ is there's a possibility you did get under our skin, and "let's move on" would still be the plan.🤣 We just won't let anyone know you got under our skin because that's too much info, and that's dangerous. The skit only being 4 seconds makes so much sense.
My inner critic learned from the absolute best, so when that person criticizes me it’s extra fun, bc they say the same things as the voice in my head, but it just reaffirms that other people feel the same way, which makes my inner critic that much worse
ENTP and I relate to that 😁 what I think of myself is by far more important than what they think in reality. And I m too harsh on myself, I know. I am aware of that. The only time am external factor or human will hurt me, is when what they say confirms the ugly thing I thought of myself already 🙈 jeez why being an ENTP makes me feel so understanding with the thoughts and emotions of these infjs? I feel like I'm home
INTJ here. It’s not that we don’t feel emotion or don’t get hurt. It is that we would rather be tarred and feathered than reveal that to the person who hurt us. Or to almost anyone else for that matter. So if an INTJ allows themselves to be vulnerable in front of you, know that it is a sacred trust, and if you betray us it will never happen again.
@@alexeysaranchev6118 yeah we INTJs are unforgiving. When someone is rude I'm gonna respect how he respects me and even if he's bettering himself I will always have it in mind how he was.
I have no idea what to do in the moment… but if it’s really bad, I’ll tell someone off in the most cold, direct way possible… after mentally preparing myself with some lines and the possibility of a fist fight
As an INTP, when somebody offends me: I always fight back and the comeback is perfect OR I mess up/stutter/take-a-while-to-load, get embarrassed and think of a good comeback at 3am, two years later. There is no in between.
I'm an INTP too, but when ppl offends me, I don't usually come up and confront them becuz i feel like it's just a waste of time to talk to ppl like that really. I don't want to waste my energy on someone who literally had nothing good to do in their life than offending ppl for fun. I definitely fight back in my mind tho, since I'm not rly good at talking to ppl and I don't like to talk :v Edit: honestly most of the time I don't even realize they're offending/bullying me, cuz I don't feel like it's hurting my feelings at all-
Same, I go ENTP mode in those situations, when it looks like I'm not even slightly frustrated by them nor take them seriously while making them feel dumb, they get so frustrated and lose it Lost a 15 year old friendship once, that guy was becoming one of those annoying ENTJs, so no regrets
@@absamelo1185 tbh, it depends on the case for me too. In my best moments and in my natural habitat, I go full ENTP, bursting with comebacks, facts, bombarding the opponent like a machine gun. A lot of times, I'd go silent. Maybe do the "INFP approach", and bottle everything up until I burst. When I've been bossed around, I can go full INTP-style ENTJ, if I find weakness. At other times I can go all "therapist" ExFJ approach. In an annoyingly a lot of cases, however, I just mess up, or think of a comeback much later when it's too late. (Sorry for using types to describe, but I feel like that's the best way people can get an idea)
Unfortunately I deal with it in an unhealthy way sometimes. I’ll basically either reply to them sarcastically or ghost the person and not talk to them until they talk to me, but because I held everything inside I end up blowing up on them and saying hurtful things back. I try not to do that though
@@BiyondoBāsudei omg samee. like i don't mean to, but I unconsciously did it. And I'll feel guilty, super guilty. Then, I'll cry and blame myself about how bad I was to the other person.
Oh, so that sketch was about crying, oops 😅. I thought it was picturing an INFP going far-far away from whatever hurt their feelings. I deal with rudeness towards me the same way each time - just walk away silently like a punched cat
As an INTJ this is the "at the very moment" reaction but after getting home and alone we'll rethink about that thing and how we could've replied to revenge
And we will make a mental to never help this person or be nice to them about anything ever. After we have plotted the revenge we will never bother to do of course.
When we see ourselves in the mirror it is the best way to hurt us. Ignorance is bliss seems to float inside our heads for a split second and then we feel bad for thinking it and for trying to cover up we are being hypocrites.
It's not really hypocrisy... it's that because our minds are so active we keep on evaluating our thoughts and choices to make the best possible outcome...so that's why we always appear contradictory...lol
I feel so conflicted with this one! 🤣 I much prefer people to at least be honest if they dislike me - but I also know that there are things you just don't say to others, myself included.
@@verahu5846 Really wish I'd known that before I told my INFP boyfriend (who I was madly in love with) that I needed some space 😭 I literally meant that I just needed some space... you know, like you INFPs need space sometimes
When as the INTJ you become the consultant to someone who wants to confront and argue back in an insult type situation but you end up acting like the attorney telling their client to just remain calm.
As an INFJ it is so hard to have heavy conversations with INTJs bc they don’t show any outward emotion, even if they do happen to feel some. Meanwhile I’m a complete mess, made all the worse by the fact that I’m the only one reacting
As always, you know how to describe an INFJ perfectly, with your characteristic sense of humor and your silly but sincere laugh that could not be missing from this video. have a great weekend Frank 😎
When a friend hurt my feelings we were among other friends so I decided to hide my hurt the best I could while being really pissed on the inside and then I angrily rode my bike home (lol) and then shot her a mess how she had hurt my feelings and she was shocked, because she said it's difficult to know what gets under my skin since I rarely talk about relationship stuff . This was a while back, I'm much more open now with friends. But before I came across as a robot to them apparently.
As an honorary INFJ, that is so on point. I would've totally overanalyze my own feelings even if I'm the one who felt hurt, even if its nobody's fault.
ENFJ and INFJ are so on point. Either psychoanalyzing the other person or being overly self-critical…the overthinking in general for both is so accurate!🤦🏾♀️
As an ENFJ that was scarily accurate. If someone hurt my feelings I automaticly start analysing them and figuring out their hardships in life, and suddenly I feel sorry for THEM
Omg you have no idea how related that made me feel being an ENFJ is so hard at these times where at the end of the day holding grudges seems like an only option for me
It is soooo accurate 😭 I have a really hard time staying focused on my own feelings and not switching into empathy mode and putting myself in their shoes And right now I'm feeling that way exactly because of what the INFP in this video does 😂 I asked my INFP boyfriend for space and he flew away into outer space It's spooky how on point this is
Damn, INTP! Logician took the wrath of their feelings, turned them sideways, then shoved them up somebody's candy ass! Great job, Logician! Your feelings are valid!
Intp makes me sooo damn turned on r u intp? If u are come feed me some of your cold jokes as long as ur bed revealing your inner self I'd letchu hurt me yes ugh igh
As an ENTP I will admit that actually hurting my feelings is very complicated and I’m not sure that I could even teach someone to do it because I don’t fully understand it myself. It has been done though!
@@kigasan4395 Palpatine! Now I’m curious, did getting betrayed and thrown down that shaft more surprise and intrigue you or hurt your feelings? My guess is the thought that Vader really is just an overly sensitive wuss probably went through your mind 😎👍🏼
@@aminapm9798 years ago something like that happened to me. Like a series of shifting pressures came crashing down. I just needed to pray a lot and get my heart and mind right again. Sort of like I actually needed it because I was holding in too much pressure without realizing it was becoming too much.
I'm an INTP but I literally love how INTJs react. They don't give a damn. My best friend (an INTJ) just says "Thank Youuuuu" when someone insults her. On the other hand, me, making the one who insulted me rethink their whole life and leave them crying till I think it's enough. Now that I see it, I'm sorry. 💀
I’m an INTP 😂 so right on. Just recently I had someone mock me. I had made a critique of an upcoming movie that appeals to idiots and someone mocked my opinion and said they’re excited to see the movie. And my reply was, “you seem to be the audience they’re shooting for.” And I laughed. 😂🤷♀️
INTJ wouldn't admit his feelings were hurt just like that (unless he's sarcastic, but you never know). But it's true that we don't show emotions but rather talk about them in a rational way. It seems more like psychiatrist's description of a patient than like, you know, actual emotional response. What is really sad about it is, that people think it's okay to hurt INTJ because we are emotionless anyway. While, inside us there's so, so much.
one of many reasons i love INTJs!! i totally get that! and whoever thinks it's ok hurting someone because of this, can go feck themselves! imma kick their shins for you! with love, an INTP
For me I don’t really think people think I am emotionless, but if someone does something and I know confrontation won’t help because they will not change either way and it is a waste of energy, I just won’t say anything. But on the other hand I can subconsciously feel myself pulling away from that person because their conversation and friendship doesn’t seem as intellectually stimulating or any fun, either, because they just kind of suck to be around at that point.
Oh, it exists, it's just really lazy and hibernating most of your life, but when it wakes up for five minutes once in a year, it's a drama queen like no other! 🤦♀️
ENFJ here And I must say your impressions are always on point I just cannot imagine that anyone could be mean for no reason at all Ps: congrats on 1 million🥳 you truly deserve it
It's a common misconception that bullies are typically bullies due to their own insecurities and sense of inferiority. I've read/heard that most bullies attack others for the opposite reason. They hate those who they deem as inferior and they want to keep them in their place. Pack animals will often ostracize of kill the weak individuals in their group in order to insure the group's survival. As someone who was the singled out "weak" individual in the pack, I think that is the mechanism at play, but maybe I'm wrong.
I’m an INTP and the last time my feelings were hurt, I talked it out, understood their behaviour and helped them getting over it, since they were feeling bad about it, even though it was clearly just because of the circumstances and they didn’t intend to hurt my feelings. I really cannot recall a moment when someone actually tried to hurt my feelings.
Someone hurt my feelings I forgave them whatever, however they did it again and now I'm not talking to them. But I can't remember why though...I just don't feel like being friends with them anymore...
INTP when someone hurt my feeling or try to . I usually let them be for some time because i realise some people say some things they don’t mean to when they flustered and then if they want to talk again they approach me because why would i , i dont cling to people i cling to places.Having conversation and rationalising everything, navigating them through out they feelings and then everything is fine . Though some thing do get stuck because of overthinking but its not that hurtful its just there for future references
As an INTP I can honestly say that yes, that is how I respond when my feelings are hurt, even if it wasn't meant to be an insult, I will retaliate. Also that one about Wikipedia with "citation needed" is priceless! I got to add that to my inventory!
As an INFP, I feel called out by the accuracy LMBO it really does feel like that when someone I feel close to and care about suddenly wants space. I start wondering if I'm a burden. Not even just that but if they need space because they're upset, I automatically wanna help and I (even though I shouldn't) feel useless if I can't help...and I love quality time so there goes that too.
INTJs will have the same reaction whether we immediatly forget about it or start plotting a vengeance that will ruin your life, your close ones lives, your relatives lifes, and your friends lives But don't worry, it only happens if you really go too far (It's really far)
As an intj that has executed a plot. I can safely say I have no idea of the possible impact of the plot to the person in terms emotionally n mentally However when a plot has been executed you won't even know it is ongoing or who it is from. Or maybe I just love to cook slowly who knows
INTP here, When people insult me I would usually ignore them or say nothing while I specify (in my thoughts) all the reasons this person is • wrong in all possible sense • why it would be a waste of time to even help this person see how wrong they are • what the hell made the person to focus their attention on me in the first place 3 years later I would have the perfect verbal response ready! And I would imagine myself back in that situation and give my reply Boom!
You are so DEAD on with that! My husband is an INTP through and through and that is EXACTLY what he would do and then get mad that he did not think of it in the moment 😂
This reminds me of a line from Sense and Sensibility (slightly paraphrased here): "She agreed to it all, for she did not think him worthy of rational opposition."
"I want you to lie to me and stick to the lie forever" Literally me. I don't want to be told after the break up or whatever the truth because I'll be hurt that you lied to me, but I don't want to be told the painful truth at the beginning because I'll be hurt by that truth, so I want you to lie to me and always lie to me about that and never tell me the painful truth, then I will be always happy, and oblivious to the painful truth.
As an INTP . . . this comment made me realise a possibility for why I seem to make INFJ friends? I do not like lying and do my best to avoid being in situations where I may need to, however in the rare instances where I _do_ lie, I will _take it to the grave._ So this is the perfect situation lol. There's only one instance where I've done this intentionally (it was actually to spare someone's emotions). It's been years. I've never told them and I never will.
This is so interesting. As an infj i would prefer when people tell me the truth. I might freak out about it but the freak out is less dramatic compared to the feeling of knowing you lied to me but not sure why and then finding out before you tell me and then you telling me the truth confirming my sensitivities that you were indeed lying. I feel more insulted that you think that i didnt know you were lying. I have been patiently waiting for the truth the whole time. I think thats what hurts my feelings most. Just be honest so we can enjoy doing other things now. Not interested in those psychological games.
Depends on what it is, if I know I did nothing wrong then it won’t affect me at all but if they are right then I will beat myself up over it and possibly start crying even on the spot instead of waiting till I get to my room if it gets bad enough. Many times I just leave if I get sad like that (obviously can’t really do that if in public), also in those moments it is hard to explain to others what I am thinking about for some reason
INFJ Here I was in a situation like this. I introduced my date to my best friends and they did that whole, "He seems nice" bit but made sure to say that he seems like my total opposite and that his personality is really flat compared to mine. I told them that's nice of them to try and be supportive but paint drying has a more exciting personality and I already know it's not going to work out with him. Within the week he asked me to marry him. Second week he had me meet his whole family and told them all he was going to marry me. We dated for three months lol. When it came to my friends. I'd tell them what I thought honestly about their partner but also accept them if it makes them happy. If their person is toxic and let's them hurt them over and over again I separate myself. I'll be their friend when it inevitably fails. Won't even say I told you so.
INTJ here (so maybe that explains the question), but why would you continue to date someone when you know it's not going to work out? Seems like a waste of time and energy.
ENFP on point. I also very often don't remember if it was a dream or reality. And INFP is hilarious, I even have photos like that of my husband traveling without me 😁
As an ENFP I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been scarred by a dream and been angry/scared of someone for almost a full day just because they did something weird in my dream. Also my mum is an ESFP and the picking on faults was so accurate it hurt 😂😂
I'm an INFJ and this is exactly how I reacted to my mother lying to me about something that would've hurt my feelings. Except, I don't lie to people and I tell them the truth no matter how hard it is. It's difficult to do that and later on I apologised to her cuz I understand why she did it but... It hurts more when you find out later. So I'd take the ugly truth than the pretty lie.
Exactly! At least I know where I stand and you know where you stand when we’re honest with one another. People often conflate honesty with harshness and that’s not the case. I usually present the situation then ask if that were you, would you want to know? If they say yes, they know. If they no, they have an idea. LOL.
" you're so dumb a zombie in [call of duty: cold war zombies] will consider your brain a low calorie snack". I love INTP nerdy insults 😂 ENTJ was very specific. Weirdly enough, it happened to me before. It's really funny how others thinking that they got you while you really didn't get what they are trying to do or say, and then they end up being more peeved by your reaction 😂 It's not that I don't have feelings, it's just I really received you words in a different format. ESFJ was really hilarious 😂 he kept his feelings until his wedding, oh man 😂😂
Yeah I loved the INTP part too, not sure why he mentioned Cold War specifically though, literally any COD game that had zombies would have worked ( so any Treyarch game and most Sledgehammer ones)
@@FrankieAmadeian. Hating on Vanguard is the most commonly-held opinion in the community tbf, that isnt only INTPs that do that. I (ISTJ) havent bought either of them, I kept playing MW 2019, which was a highly divisive game in it s own right but I actually liked it, will see how the MW2 beta (damn the Activision marketing lol) goes once I get access to it tomorrow. Also the MWR servers are still going pretty well on PS4, I have even managed to play some full Gun Game matches on it yesterday, might be the nostalgia of a new MW game being about to release for those that didn’t preorder like me
This is so accurate to my ISFJ husband that my jaw dropped before I started laughing. I often find ISFJ stereotypes don't account well for men of the type since the majority are women. But this one was dead on.
I feel attacked! 😆 Every time my significant other would say they need space, I basically just yeet myself as far away as possible, crying the whole way 😂😭
I love how whenever this Timmy character is brought up in any of the comedy sketches ever everyone says he’s always a butthole jerk yet we never get to see anything else about him. Makes you wonder what personality type he could be and if he could actually make an appearance in a video 🧐
I love the song choice for the INFP part of the video, SOMEONE PLS TELL ME THE SONG IT LITERALLY PLAYED FOR LIKE 5 SECS BUT I NEED IT IN MY PLAYLIST NOOOWWWWW
I'm INTJ and what he said in the sketch is what goes on in my mind, I would never say such a thing out loud. I would brush it off like nothing happened externally but in my head, I would either keep cursing that person or try to bury it deep in my memory so that it never surfaces. 😆
Me an INTJ has experienced people apologizing to me after I walked away or don’t respond. It’s like gaslighting them into believing they were in the wrong without saiyan anything.
As an ENTP this is frighteningly accurate bc last time someone insulted me I literally said “aw Cmon, not even a bit creative? Please I’ve heard that one so many time now, and I thought I was special 😼” you know us too well lol
Ok as an ISFP here is what usually goes down when my feelings are hurt: I generally play it cool, don’t same much at all as I take time to internally process what has just happened. Then at home I’m gonna play it over and over in my head and act out the conversation and i what I should have said in the moment. I might get another persons opinion on if it’s something that I should let go or if I’m right to be offended. Then I may avoid that person at all costs for the next several day weeks months or years depending on how badly offended I was. If it was done by someone I truly care about I will talk to them about it straight up, but if not then it’s later days to you 👋. And then one day when the time is just right I will completely lay out everything between me and that person and say here is how badly you offended me and why I don’t vibe with you anymore. At that point the person will either say sorry and we will move on with our lives being better friends or we will be officially done with each other. I have seen this exact situation play out in my life a few times.
I remember one time when my husband brought another woman into our house. She was around my age and just recently widowed. His sisters started being so good to her and I was just kicked to the curb. The final straw came when my husband started telling his dad he wanted to marry her as well being married to me and his dad was okay with it and started citing Biblical instances of men with multiple wives! I was floored! I was so ANGRY and HURT! We were married when I was eighteen and he got my virginity as a wedding gift.....Then I woke up the next morning, realized it was a dream, and I had to deal with my frustration for a full fifteen minutes so I would not take it out on him. The most ironic thing is that this is a true story. -ENFP
INFP was hilarious and I cringed a little. INTP: “zombies would call your brain a low calorie snack” is my favorite comeback. As an ISFP I hope to use it without tears in my eyes. 🙏🏼
I'm an ISFJ and this is so relatable. I could be angry and hide it for a long time till I am no longer able to hide it. Then I'll tell you "We need to talk". And then I'll pour it all out. People get surprised at how long I can keep stuff hidden.
Same for me! I often hope things will get better or all come out in the wash. But if it doesn’t, then I’ll have to talk about it and people can be surprised how long I have felt that way. (ISFJ)
The INFP one was a bit confusing because when I am hurt I silently push the other person away and if they don't get the hint to leave me alone then "I just need some space" is the last straw. Edit: Although if it's an internal process rather than actually posting stuff online then you nailed the INFP haha!
ESFP is so spot on. I get so highly specifically shady and hurtful, give a full analysis and critic of every moment of their life while pouring poison into every two words, craft and apply a plan to destroy them leaving no traces while getting a good view of their demise, and then be like "ok I hate you rn, let's drink something and laugh about it, it's just gonna be a funny story in a few days".
Meanwhile My ENTJ Aunt, "I'm deeply offended you haven't written me 3 thank you notes as thanks for your birthday present and mailed them to me, telling me 'thank you' in person isn't good enough. I feel so unappreciated."
Frank James, you should do: -16 personalities in a reality tv show -16 personalities in the same household (I think it would be better if there was more interaction between the different mbtis, people would wanna find out how others would react to their mbti) -ENTP
infp, most of the time when i get sad i just hide that im upset and give them space..but im still sad and i worry about if they dont like me and dont wanna be around me
@@elliecassar1881 I hope you’ve found a way to get through the sadness and not beat yourself up. I’m always trying new things and remembering how MBTI works helps me not take so much so personal.
@@SarahPerine im more spiritual at the moment, but my kind friends help me feel better so thats pretty good for now im working on staying calm when others imtimidate me
I don’t know if you’ve ever had a more accurate depiction of an INFP than this video. I literally cringed at myself because I’ve definitely done that 💀😂
I think one of the things that people miss about ENTJs is that they're actually very passionate and emotional people. They mostly have one emotion, but they express it very strongly. It's anger. When my ENTJ gets his feelings hurt, he deflects hard. He'll turn a person's insult into a lecture on all of the ways that person is a failure and how it connects to the broader scope of society and that person's future prospects. He is very certain about his assertions.
ENTJs have Fi inferior. Anger is often how they express their feelings when triggered. ENTJs are much more sensitive than people would believe. If you attack Fi inferior it's a good way to make them your enemies where they might even seek revenge. My father was ENTJ. While he didn't care much about the feelings of others you did not want to attack his Fi. On the flip side if you make their Fi inferior feel good and hold ENTJs in high esteem, they can become the most generous people around. ENTJs often want to be good people but due to Fi inferior they fear they are not. This is where that anger dynamic lies.
It's not mostly just one emotion. What... They got plenty emotional depth and complexity. They just struggle to regulate this healthily. But it comes with age as they mature and work on themselves.
@@Noelciaaa The one emotion they often express outwardly though is anger. Internally their Fi can be feeling all sorts of things. Having an ENTJ father myself she's not wrong (maybe she didn't word it entirely correct but anger is often the main way they express the turmoil that is their feelings). ENTJs are actually quite intense people and anyone who's lived with one for years knows their emotion goes beyond anger but that is the emotion they tend to exhibit. Being coached and trained by an ENTJ father as an INTP I literally experienced it.
@@mrod8578 that's true but that's if you're not close enough to them. most people will just get to experience anger but if you get to be a part of their inner circle, you will see that many of them are actually quite gentle souls. But it may be different for you since it's your father, one that doesn't sound entirely healthy. I only experienced them as friends and a partner... But it really sucks to be coached by your father like that instead of supported and appreciated. I know that feeling :'D, though he has a different type. I hope things are better for you now. it's strange, i don't know what it is but each of those i meet seems to open up to me unusually fast. we have that instant connection. i don't know if that's an entp thing or what. i think they're fascinated by that Ne and then find comfort in my quite well-developed Fe (and are mildly amused by my Ti-isms in an eyeroll worthy way XD). I somehow instinctively know how to act as to not to step on their Fi on accident while still being able to engage in friendly banter and playful teasing (all of them had great sense of humor, heh). And then tell it straight to them if they'd messed up somewhere while interacting with people. This while they hold me accountable and are the biggest supporters in me getting my life together and not falling into the typical xntp procrastination traps, self-doubt etc.
Intj yep - always prided myself on being able to not hold grudges/bitterness. The only person that I'm still angry at after years is my kindergarten teacher because she actively slighted me for knowing the things she was trying to teach the class.
Lol!! That’s hilarious!!! You’d think she would be happy she had it easy with you. I’ve worked in a kindergarten class and kids like you were my favourite: low maintenance, non glue eaters. I have a kindergarten memory of our kindergarten teacher’s power tripping 8 year old daughter SPANKING one of my friends!! Even at 5 years old I knew she was being stupid and she shouldn’t be doing that. This ENFP is still resentful after many, many years.
How about that? You had my teacher, Miss Pully Ear, in kindergarten too. She would sink her nails into my earlobe and pull me about, the sadist. What a cruel intro to the education system. Really makes an INTJ gifted child want to learn, right?
Im actually kinda the opposite. As an intj I do not like my quality of not being able to hold grudges or unpleasant memories cos I feel like im being taken advantage of
@@lamewater772 Yes, that resentment at letting things go I have felt from time to time along life's path when people have sneakily done things to sabotage me, pretended their harming was an accident or thought I did not know who was the hidden catalyst of a malicious act meant to do me damage. But in time the realization came this is a moral universe though we cannot see its broad scale operation. A Spiritual Slamback eventually overtook transgressors. To clarify, to try even to hold a grudge required ENERGY I did not want to waste. To store the details in my wet computer, i.e. brain, required effort, as did conjuring up the feelings of anger and betrayal to fuel the memory afresh and to retain a dark hope for an opportunity for payback... which revenge required that I keep that foe on my radar in order not to miss an opportunity that might arise. Realized this grudge savouring meant allowing some mean-spirited, soul-tainted, impure, low character I wanted no contact with, would not risk saving if they were drowning, to take up rent free space in my head! Why allow a freeloading evil character to occupy any of my thoughts, take up room in my grey matter? Moreover, as each saboteur gradually encountered poetic justice, nemesis, 'karma' if you will, I took my cue from a chill saying: 'If you shoot the devil in the back, and the devil turns around and smiles, what would you do then?" When news has reached me of the misfortune that befell scofflaws and lowlifes who deliberately struck out to harm me, I have even measured some of their boomerang punishments as excessive. Hearing and seeing did not make me gloat, but instead wish the whole negative cause-effect cycle never happened, that the sufferers had been better persons, and not the engineer of their own misery. As Willy Shakespeare described the process, the harm intender gets "hoist by his own petard", blown up by his own bomb. No need to fault yourself for not grudge hoarding...but I do know what you mean, from having to explain to confused questioners why I am not angry when "You SHOULD be angry! What are you going to do?" Is this 😎 reaction of the mature INTJ not the reason why the negative stereotype intensifies about our robotic, feelinglessness? Big nope to that criticism says I. The feelings are felt but they are mastered, REINED under control... the whole point of the metaphysical device the Four Horse of the Apocalypse which poetic images relate in capsule form the four stages of the fall of empires when feelie-feel humans let loose their galloping emotions. Stay well, The Absolute Being. In your spiritual journey, you are on the right path.
@@lamewater772 My absolute pleasure! Nice to cross paths with a kindred spirit. Life will throw you challenges to test your mettle. Nonethe- less, remember it is not the INTJs and INTPS and other emotionally REINED IN human beings who enslaved themselves as forelock tugging serfs to MALE-State and as well imprisoned their minds in the crippling chains of arcane irrational superstition as frightened worshippers of MALE-religion, symbolized as the First Horse of the Apocalypse, then when they could no longer stand the repression and onerous taxation, with equal EMOTION violently turned against what they formerly revered in idolatrous obeisance and societal compulsion bullied those around them to do likewise, then pendulum swung to extripate and expunge from their nation the very two overriding influences they previously aligned with (eg. French Revolution wildly targets nobility, rulers of State, and priesthood, rulers of Church, then uses guillotine to pluck heads like grapes at harvest time, as predicted Revelation 14: 14-17 in the Word of God's depiction of the Reign of Terror in France during the time when monarchs round the globe slept uneasily at the prospect of their own restless populace's rebellion. This violence and chaos magnificently repeated itself in Russia with the attack on the White Palace. Like the expedient tool, the head harvesting guillotine, the SICKLE emblem emerged to begin the harvest of humanity when the Red Russians and White Russians hammered out their ideological differences. You will have noted the hammer and the sickle emblematic of the 'isms' of communism/socialism. If you are a student of history, you will also know this delusional take on the 'solidarity' of the industrial workers of Russia's metropolises and the agrarian peasantry of the countryside resulted in the incarceration in Gulags with consequent slow death by forced labour and starvation of millions of Russians as an ongoing effect of feelie-feel types feeling their superiors in power made bad decisions, therefore must be killed, like the regnal Romanoff family. This imperial family, like France's royal dynasty leading to Louis XIV, fell out of favor with the nation's public long before their execution by Bolsheviks in July 1918. Little did Russian feely-types realize when they turned against Nicholas II, after a series of his unpopular decisions ... little did they forsee wiping out the monarchy --- murdering man, woman and children --- would unleash a worse evil that lead to 6-9 million Soviets 'harvested' during Stalin's repressions, although contemporary Russian official sources like to sanitize history by including, by neatly tucking away the count of slaughtered brotherhood with civilian war dead. "In 2017, the Russian historian Igor Ivlev put Soviet war dead at 42 million people (19.4 million military and 22.6 million civilians). So there you have it, First Horse of the Apocalypse, rigid self-absorbed, selfish, self-centred, absolutist MaleChurch&MaleState, one masculinist hand washing the other masculinist hand, operating on purest WHITE lofty, godly principles (seen from their myopic perspective 🙄, the "divine right of kings" belief sanctioned by clergy who know what God the Divine wants) incredibly believed across cultures right to Japan's divine Emperor Hirohito, hence invasion of China in the Sino-Japanese War and subsequently Dec 7 1941 Pearl Harbour bombing massacre, followed in the inevitable cycle by the Second Horse of the Apocalypse, the Red steed aptly the colour of blood, signifying the bloody harvest of humanity, not only the demise of feelie-feel protagonists but millions of what these subhuman power-craving aggressors like to call 'collateral damage', the innocent peace-loving people who simply want to live their best life in a non-hostile environment. When the chaos, rampant evil, destruction, and rotting corpses become too much, male ideologues give rise to the Black Horse, the Third in the quartet, the foursome of malignant narcissist political dynamics, the repressive, all-powerful, cruel, extreme level of control and power relished by men under a truly totalitarian regime, as his-story records in the evil genius leader of the Nazi regime, in the stupid, disastrous enforced ideologies of Trotsky, Lenin and Stalin, whose arrogant, unrealistic, incompetent governmental systems impact society and the people who live in it with death, despair and 'blackness' of Fascism, Nazism, Communism. With your ear to the ground, like a skilled reconnaissance scout, The Absolute Being, you can hear the beat of those hoofs/hooves long before the nightmare equines appear to human view. The Fourth Horse leads, is in front now, and regrettably none of the previous lessons (Russia under monster Putin aggrandizing its lost "power" in a seven month killing spree) seems to have taught specie homo sapiens how to respond intelligently, to manage EMOTION, to resolve the problems created by the sticky mess of Feelie-feel types (my coined descriptor) dragging down global society. Keep a cool thought and Godspeed. 🙋♀️ from aptonym/nom de plume/nom de guerre 'Pearl' (given name modern English 'new name' Margaret of Revelation 2:17), 'Word of God' thus Elizabeth of Revelation 19: 12-13, and cryptic surname the name equivalent of those who became "king of kings, lord of lords" unfailingly throughout history. If like any advanced INTJ you like pattern resolution and solving the unknown, there is a tell, a clue in the colours of the 95CE prophesied flag of my homeland, my livery colours described Rev. 19:13, WHITE linen dipped in blood/RED, bearing as foretold Revelation 22: 2 "the Leaf of the Tree for the healing of the nations", thus 🇨🇦. Who were the first healers that men's wars necessitated? These ancient time surgeons were conscripted from what humble occupation? To confirm your own answer, what colours did they advertise their stock and trade in when they set up shop? Really nice text-conversing with you. My words typically fall as described Matthew 13:1-23, the Parable of the Sower, seeds wasted on inhospitable, inarable ground. You, by contrast, already have spiritually grown and will continue to produce on your spiritual journey through Life. Farewell, TAB.
It’s funny, I cannot remember anyone actually hurting my feelings. If the observation is correct I agree, if it’s not I’ll rebuff it with analysis and move on. INTJ
Thank you for an INTJ response that I can actually relate to! All the ones talking about the INTJ actually being sad deep down are baffling to me. If the observation is correct then I have no problem admitting it. If it is not why would I care? It doesn't bother me if other people are wrong.
I know right? I mean, I’m sure it must have happened, and it was probably related to people purposely excluding me from things, but I just don’t remember.
@@lightair797 Same here, L&A. Years of merciless self-reflection and deep introspection results in having an appreciation for CRITICISM. To be criticized comes as a gift. If the flaw-finder (insulter) is accurate in evaluation, the insight gifts to us an incentive for self- improvement. On the other hand, if the insulter is being mean-spirited, attempting to undermine and assault our core values, the personality traits we live LIFE by, Revelation 20:12 - 13, then the critiquer is ignorant and words are false. If the latter, like any falsehood sent my way, it is snuffed out, warded off, encounters a wall, is ignored. Why, in context of what is logical and rational, would someone's evaluating LIE hurt the hearer of it? Either way the criticism proves a GIFT, for it either points out our blindspot ... which is a good thing, or points out an insecure basher, a liar plain and simple, best removed from our lives, no looking back, no trying to change that Negativity, just 'moving on' to Positivity. Is that how you see it, L&A, the reason why 'moving on' is the characteristic INTJ reaction?
this is so true, like me, an ISTJ, when people say "mean" stuff, instead of getting hurt, I'd be silent and keep introspecting myself for hours, days, weeks, sometimes even months later.
My sister is an ISTP... and that is accurate. Combine that reaction with what the INTP would say. And my INTJ dad- you described him to the T! He gets mad about something, then forgets / leaves it behind shortly after. But I can't find what type I'd most likely relate to... but overall wonderful video!
Well... we can't keep still. Especially a small plane with many ppl is terrible. I can see ISTP fidgeting around and doing stupid things to get over boredom and people being everywhere... Which resulted in someone else getting upset and telling them off somehow.
@@Akkarri It's so cool that an actual ISTP, being yourself, answered with a rational reason as to why an ISTP could've gotten heckled at on the plane. Well, that person who got upset needs to be more understanding. Planes can get stuffy and boring, especially if it's a long haul of a flight 😅
@@isabellarose6514 haha I'm sure if that's the case, then ISTP would be filed for attempted murder which would do more than just "hurt his feelings" 😅 but seems plausible!
Flight attendant asked me to turn of my Nintendo DS as we were going to land. I know the reasons for putting away things before landing and only needed a minute or two to get past a certain level before I could save and turn it off. I told them I'd turn it off in a minute well before landing and by the time they come back it will be put away. They didn't like that answer, wanted it off immediately. I continued to argue while playing, blood pressure rising due to the stupidness of the flight attendant for a non issue. Back of my mind knowing, they have all the power and if they wanted they could end up with me in cuffs, charges and possibly never being able to fly that airline again. Logic prevailed; but jokes on them, I just closed the lid, game still running, finished the level after the wheels touched down, driving to the gate. It only took a minute or two to finish, as I said.
ESTP usually exemplifies Se insanity, but showing the ESFP going full force was fantastic. Also always satisfying to see the equally extravagant ESxJ passive-aggressiveness conveyed.
The ENTJ one is spot on!!! D*mn! It did happen to me! Not a bully, but the confusion when I realized someone tried to hurt my feelings. No one has ever tried to bully me. They know better.
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0:00 INTJ
0:04 ISFP
0:12 ENFJ
0:24 ESTP
0:40 INTP
1:00 ESFP
1:16 ISTP
1:27 ENFP
1:50 ENTJ
2:01 ESFJ
2:29 ISTJ
2:51 ENTP
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3:39 ESTJ
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first reply, which is cool
Wow Frank James adding his own time stamps !! Appreciated
Thanks for the timestamps
Is this in the order of the most popular personality?
After hurting so many feelings, here we are at receiving end… why people don’t behave in mature way like we do 0:00 INTJ
INTJ: "Anyway, moving on..."
INTJ inside: *starts hatching a convoluted revenge plot that takes 10 years to complete*
Not exactly. Taking a revenge waste too much energy, as an INTJ I would rather invest this energy in my own career or interest.
@@lucy4614 think of revenge more as a sideproject. 😂
@@nunyabiznes33 what's the point in revenge tho? We don't really feel the need to do anything if there is no positive outcome or some form of gaining information from it, revenge would just be a distraction, plus we'd have to interact with said person and we aren't known for being talkers
@@CezarWasTaken get your hencemen to do it for you. 😋
Intj here. Revenge is boring. Schadenfreude, however, is exhilarating.
I like how INTJ just like: Oh, how cute. You're trying to make me feel bad.
"The only person who can hurt my feelings is me. And I'm good at it, so move away"
It is more like, all possible replies to said insult would just have me interaction with this person who I don't like anyways
O kawaii koto
@@Ravennie7171 pretty much. INTJs have Fe blindspot. They are literally designed not to give a 💩 when a person directs something at them that would hurt many people's feelings. If anything INTJs are the ones to hurt the feelings of others without giving 2 💩. Emotional empathy is not really an INTJs thing. An INTJs Ni-Fi loop is more connected to their own goals and internal feelings not the feelings of others. This means INTJs are more likely to have hurt feelings when they didn't accomplish their own personal goals. This hurts the feelings of an INTJ much more than what any person can say out loud.
@@The_Rusalka (ತ_ʖತ)-†
The INTJ is SO accurate.
I'd be like: "yeah haha whatever" and avoid that person for the rest of my life 😭
Yep! For all eternity, they're dead to us!
Really? I tend to stop caring after a while.
I've done that. XD
Same.
I feel more shocked that a person is even capable of saying such a thing than offended or upset by their words, make a mental note that this person is an *Idiot TM* and then just get on with my day.
I’m an INFP, and I constantly run scenarios through my head of how I would react if somebody was rude to me or said something that hurt my feelings. I imagine myself being cool and acting like it wouldn’t bother me, but in reality I’d probably just cry and walk away lol
Yes me too XD
-Fellow INFP
LOL Every INFP in the world XD (yes, me :v)
I've been looking online for other INFPs to relate to and I am very different to almost every other INFP ever
I am a self proclaimed master of roast comebacks
Very true.... although i won over crying to some extent- a just give a bitter smile and walk- no sprint away- but my most embarrassing moment is when I recall that when i am spacing when my friends are gossiping among themselves and I just start hitting my head- you were not cool enough!!!! Oh dear you could've avoided that!!
@@lakobosros2326 oh yeah 😂😂 but such witty (which are not always witty somehow) remark is only possible for me when the person is someone I don't care about- or rather the thing that person said is a fact and not a comment, but if such comment etc are coming from near and dear ones- well the reactions depends upon how near the person is
Me, an INTJ: "Well that felt suspiciously like an emotion. Better turn that off immediately."
My spouse, also INTJ: "Let us never speak of this again."
Our kid, an ENFP: "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU TWO?"
That actually sounds more like INTPs. They like to pretend they can "turn off" their emotions.
but they can turn off emotions, can't they? esp. if angry they go way low on the empathy scale, or are you saying they are just hiding it?
@@dacksonflux
@@mercedesmcvey1776, now I am wondering if I am INTP or just a weird INFP
I can feel a hurricane of emotions but then I am like "Eh? Why do I even bother? Is it logical to feel that?" once I had caught my unusual behaviour (which is hard for me)
Next action is to change my behaviour or continue with current one
Last time I was crying to add more drama, because I don't know how to act in society and I thought that it would fit the situation, considering my knowledge, that I got from media
But it's impossible to turn off an emotion completely
Oh and also Si cringing about things later 😅
@diversion8329 Maybe try a different test. Sometimes, one is not as accurate. I took the real or original one with over 200 questions and got a score so they can add to their statistics, and use the data. I heard the Keirsey one is flawed a little.
@diversion8329 you do sound more like INTP, which is similar in many ways but extremely different in a few. INFPs strongest function is INTP weakness, and INTPs' strongest function is the weakness of INFPS.
I love how the ESTP was at a baseball game, likely arguing with an opposing team’s fan. Trust me I know a lot of them and a baseball game scenario has happened irl 😂
Bro called me out 💀 I'm goin to a football game tonight to likely get in an argument lmao
Lol but the estj was at a stand up improv🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mattperciful8970 soooo.. how did it go?
Randy must be an ESTP, he can't help but get into fights at Little League games.
That dominant Se the ESTP has probably makes it correlate with sports, probably arguing with another person in a baseball game.
Thing about INTJ is there's a possibility you did get under our skin, and "let's move on" would still be the plan.🤣 We just won't let anyone know you got under our skin because that's too much info, and that's dangerous. The skit only being 4 seconds makes so much sense.
Absolutely right! -INTJ
You people are the ultimate psyco Villains
I have been called a "Rug-Sweeper" like it's a dirty word, because I just want to move on without confrontation, or often, conversation.
@@JessicaKennedy367 wow, that's so sad, I'm really sorry for you, Rug-Wheesper
In two- twenty years it suddenly ruin my whole week: but for now, they're just being weird.
TIMESTAMPS!!! :)
0:00 - INTJ
0:04 - ISFP
0:12 - ENFJ
0:25 - ESTP
0:40 - INTP
1:00 - ESFP
1:16 - ISTP
1:27 - ENFP
1:50 - ENTJ
2:01 - ESFJ
2:29 - ISTJ
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3:39 - ESTJ
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@°Eda but INTJ one》 being useful
@°Eda but INTJ one》 its called "helping" i think you should try it too
@°Eda but INTJ one》 maybe it was posted before fj's comment
@°Eda but INTJ one》 ok
What's your MBTI? I want to know what MBTI do timestamps :)
I’m an INFJ and my perspective is “You can’t hurt my feelings. My inner critic is much worse than anyone external could ever be.” 😂
same here
My inner critic learned from the absolute best, so when that person criticizes me it’s extra fun, bc they say the same things as the voice in my head, but it just reaffirms that other people feel the same way, which makes my inner critic that much worse
Same hahah
Same
ENTP and I relate to that 😁 what I think of myself is by far more important than what they think in reality. And I m too harsh on myself, I know. I am aware of that. The only time am external factor or human will hurt me, is when what they say confirms the ugly thing I thought of myself already 🙈 jeez why being an ENTP makes me feel so understanding with the thoughts and emotions of these infjs? I feel like I'm home
INTJ here. It’s not that we don’t feel emotion or don’t get hurt. It is that we would rather be tarred and feathered than reveal that to the person who hurt us. Or to almost anyone else for that matter.
So if an INTJ allows themselves to be vulnerable in front of you, know that it is a sacred trust, and if you betray us it will never happen again.
The INTJ is so accurate. When someone "hurt" my feelings I'm just ignoring them and moving forward.
And remembering it 12 years later
@@alexeysaranchev6118 yeah we INTJs are unforgiving. When someone is rude I'm gonna respect how he respects me and even if he's bettering himself I will always have it in mind how he was.
@@notube3766 I’m a bit of a grudge-holder myself
I'd keep it in mind and plot the absolute best revenge comeback for this very opportunity 10 years later
I have no idea what to do in the moment… but if it’s really bad, I’ll tell someone off in the most cold, direct way possible… after mentally preparing myself with some lines and the possibility of a fist fight
I'm an INTP, and I can confirm that I fight back when I'm made fun.
As an INTP, when somebody offends me: I always fight back and the comeback is perfect OR I mess up/stutter/take-a-while-to-load, get embarrassed and think of a good comeback at 3am, two years later.
There is no in between.
I'm an INTP too, but when ppl offends me, I don't usually come up and confront them becuz i feel like it's just a waste of time to talk to ppl like that really. I don't want to waste my energy on someone who literally had nothing good to do in their life than offending ppl for fun. I definitely fight back in my mind tho, since I'm not rly good at talking to ppl and I don't like to talk :v
Edit: honestly most of the time I don't even realize they're offending/bullying me, cuz I don't feel like it's hurting my feelings at all-
Same, I go ENTP mode in those situations, when it looks like I'm not even slightly frustrated by them nor take them seriously while making them feel dumb, they get so frustrated and lose it
Lost a 15 year old friendship once, that guy was becoming one of those annoying ENTJs, so no regrets
@@lahiruerangafile That's exactly how I'd describe it lol
@@absamelo1185 tbh, it depends on the case for me too.
In my best moments and in my natural habitat, I go full ENTP, bursting with comebacks, facts, bombarding the opponent like a machine gun.
A lot of times, I'd go silent. Maybe do the "INFP approach", and bottle everything up until I burst.
When I've been bossed around, I can go full INTP-style ENTJ, if I find weakness.
At other times I can go all "therapist" ExFJ approach.
In an annoyingly a lot of cases, however, I just mess up, or think of a comeback much later when it's too late.
(Sorry for using types to describe, but I feel like that's the best way people can get an idea)
I'm an INFP and I have a roladex of responses that are tied to the severity of the hurt feelings. But crying almost always happens no matter what 😅
same here😅
I can cry a river for reading a novel
Unfortunately I deal with it in an unhealthy way sometimes. I’ll basically either reply to them sarcastically or ghost the person and not talk to them until they talk to me, but because I held everything inside I end up blowing up on them and saying hurtful things back. I try not to do that though
@@BiyondoBāsudei omg samee. like i don't mean to, but I unconsciously did it. And I'll feel guilty, super guilty. Then, I'll cry and blame myself about how bad I was to the other person.
Oh, so that sketch was about crying, oops 😅. I thought it was picturing an INFP going far-far away from whatever hurt their feelings. I deal with rudeness towards me the same way each time - just walk away silently like a punched cat
Coming from an INTP, don't worry about hurting my feelings. You can't hurt something that doesn't exist.
:']
accurate. im also INTP
Same
True
fellow INTP and tbh I know I have feelings, but it's exceedingly hard to hurt them because I never actually know what they are alsdkjfla
As an INFP who listens to the genre of music played on the background while soaking in my sadness, this hits hard 🤣🤣🤣
Same hahahahahah...... :')
the soft music as you reminisce 😩LOL
i was not expecting to hear a lo fi kpop song in a frank james video lol
@@mochid5568 Adele's songs hit perfectly hard... 😭😂
I'm an INTP that does that...
As an INTJ this is the "at the very moment" reaction but after getting home and alone we'll rethink about that thing and how we could've replied to revenge
fr this actually happened which was 3 month ago
Ture 🥲
True. Even though It hurts I don't show it. And when I feel hurt I plot revenge. But I never get my revenge either couse I am too board 😂
And we will make a mental to never help this person or be nice to them about anything ever. After we have plotted the revenge we will never bother to do of course.
Exactly
INFJs know being a hypocrite hurts way worse. There’s no possible way we can be hypocritical. 😤😄
When we see ourselves in the mirror it is the best way to hurt us. Ignorance is bliss seems to float inside our heads for a split second and then we feel bad for thinking it and for trying to cover up we are being hypocrites.
It's not really hypocrisy... it's that because our minds are so active we keep on evaluating our thoughts and choices to make the best possible outcome...so that's why we always appear contradictory...lol
True, it will bug me way more once I know the person was being a hypocrite.
I feel so conflicted with this one! 🤣 I much prefer people to at least be honest if they dislike me - but I also know that there are things you just don't say to others, myself included.
Stick to the lie for ever 🤣
The INFP one is hilarious 😂😂😂
I'd over exaggerate whenever someone says "I need some space"
Lol I have an INFP friend and that's so true! 😭🤚
yup. lol. it's an entire kdrama up in the mind lol
Same here😭 “I need some space” to me literally means “I don’t like/need you anymore” and that kills me hahahaha
@@verahu5846 same😭
@@verahu5846 Really wish I'd known that before I told my INFP boyfriend (who I was madly in love with) that I needed some space 😭 I literally meant that I just needed some space... you know, like you INFPs need space sometimes
Time stamps:
0:00 INTJ
0:05 ISFP
0:13 ENFJ
0:25 ESTP
0:41 INTP
1:01 ESFP
1:17 ISTP
1:28 ENFP
1:51 ENTJ
2:02 ESFJ
2:29 ISTJ
2:51 ENTP
3:06 ISFJ
3:40 ESTJ
4:08 INFP
4:37 INFJ
As INTJ this is actually accurate. Like people have legitimately gotten mad at me for not reacting to their insults
Same. I don't react and they get mad. Then they keep going bc they want a reaction out of me.
When as the INTJ you become the consultant to someone who wants to confront and argue back in an insult type situation but you end up acting like the attorney telling their client to just remain calm.
So true!!!! I don't mean to make them feel more angry, but it seems I am better than them irritating people
I get mad at my INTJ friend for not getting mad. It's so frustrating. Lol
As an INFJ it is so hard to have heavy conversations with INTJs bc they don’t show any outward emotion, even if they do happen to feel some. Meanwhile I’m a complete mess, made all the worse by the fact that I’m the only one reacting
Wow, that guy in the background was biking circles around the ENTP! Absolutely love this sketch Frank, great job as always! :)
haha thanks
Haha I would insult them too
As always, you know how to describe an INFJ perfectly, with your characteristic sense of humor and your silly but sincere laugh that could not be missing from this video. have a great weekend Frank 😎
I think he is infj
Just search it up
I'm not sure but I think he is
I'm one too
He is.
I'm an INFJ too and I agree
"You can only hurt my feelings if I let you hurt my feelings." ISFPs feel more emotion than they let on, they just do a masterful job of hiding it!
We're so good at it we often don't even realize we're doing it.
When a friend hurt my feelings we were among other friends so I decided to hide my hurt the best I could while being really pissed on the inside and then I angrily rode my bike home (lol) and then shot her a mess how she had hurt my feelings and she was shocked, because she said it's difficult to know what gets under my skin since I rarely talk about relationship stuff . This was a while back, I'm much more open now with friends. But before I came across as a robot to them apparently.
Very true , i always hide it
As an honorary INFJ, that is so on point. I would've totally overanalyze my own feelings even if I'm the one who felt hurt, even if its nobody's fault.
Absolutely
How are you an "honorary INFJ?"
The analysis would go on for days IRL 😂
@@Stickz0816 by knowing your type and studying yourself for a lonnggggg time i guess 🤷🏻♀️. Also older age may apply 😂
Lol, same @liza
ENFJ and INFJ are so on point. Either psychoanalyzing the other person or being overly self-critical…the overthinking in general for both is so accurate!🤦🏾♀️
Random person: *Insults INTP*
INTP: "Ah, yes.. Time for the destruction of your entire being. Are you ready?" 🌚
_readies nuclear football_ 🥸👌
ISTP - so accurate. So many occasions where I’ve just stacked on threat on top of threat increasingly more aggressive so I get my point across.
Yeahh sometimes violence is the only answer - ISTP
I threaten violence when I get a math question wrong. -ISTP
At this point it is my only retaliation to a insult is to violently threaten them.
"I don't know what hurts more, your lies or the fact that you've shown my own hypocrisy" was well done 🤣🤣
As an ENFJ that was scarily accurate. If someone hurt my feelings I automaticly start analysing them and figuring out their hardships in life, and suddenly I feel sorry for THEM
Omg you have no idea how related that made me feel being an ENFJ is so hard at these times where at the end of the day holding grudges seems like an only option for me
It is soooo accurate 😭 I have a really hard time staying focused on my own feelings and not switching into empathy mode and putting myself in their shoes
And right now I'm feeling that way exactly because of what the INFP in this video does 😂 I asked my INFP boyfriend for space and he flew away into outer space
It's spooky how on point this is
Yes man , it's so fing accurate
Damn, INTP! Logician took the wrath of their feelings, turned them sideways, then shoved them up somebody's candy ass!
Great job, Logician! Your feelings are valid!
Gahdamn. 💀
Intp makes me sooo damn turned on r u intp? If u are come feed me some of your cold jokes as long as ur bed revealing your inner self I'd letchu hurt me yes ugh igh
I enjoyed that! Tho im an INTJ😅
I had to watch that part twice. So great!
Except when we're feeling vulnerable and we just clam up and fight back the tears (yes, we are capable of those)
As an ENTP I will admit that actually hurting my feelings is very complicated and I’m not sure that I could even teach someone to do it because I don’t fully understand it myself. It has been done though!
Very true
@@kigasan4395 Palpatine! Now I’m curious, did getting betrayed and thrown down that shaft more surprise and intrigue you or hurt your feelings? My guess is the thought that Vader really is just an overly sensitive wuss probably went through your mind 😎👍🏼
As an entp, i oncr had a mental breakdown because i made one tiny mistake. And yet, i never actually cry when i get hit, or actually insulted.
@@aminapm9798 years ago something like that happened to me. Like a series of shifting pressures came crashing down. I just needed to pray a lot and get my heart and mind right again. Sort of like I actually needed it because I was holding in too much pressure without realizing it was becoming too much.
@@robmangeri777 Would he just have the Chicken Robot sketch going and only be able to think "Stormtrooper."?
I'm an INTP but I literally love how INTJs react. They don't give a damn. My best friend (an INTJ) just says "Thank Youuuuu" when someone insults her.
On the other hand, me, making the one who insulted me rethink their whole life and leave them crying till I think it's enough.
Now that I see it, I'm sorry. 💀
I’m an INTP 😂 so right on.
Just recently I had someone mock me. I had made a critique of an upcoming movie that appeals to idiots and someone mocked my opinion and said they’re excited to see the movie. And my reply was, “you seem to be the audience they’re shooting for.” And I laughed. 😂🤷♀️
INTJ wouldn't admit his feelings were hurt just like that (unless he's sarcastic, but you never know).
But it's true that we don't show emotions but rather talk about them in a rational way. It seems more like psychiatrist's description of a patient than like, you know, actual emotional response.
What is really sad about it is, that people think it's okay to hurt INTJ because we are emotionless anyway. While, inside us there's so, so much.
Those last two sentences... thank you.
Amen!
Yes!!!
one of many reasons i love INTJs!! i totally get that! and whoever thinks it's ok hurting someone because of this, can go feck themselves! imma kick their shins for you! with love, an INTP
For me I don’t really think people think I am emotionless, but if someone does something and I know confrontation won’t help because they will not change either way and it is a waste of energy, I just won’t say anything. But on the other hand I can subconsciously feel myself pulling away from that person because their conversation and friendship doesn’t seem as intellectually stimulating or any fun, either, because they just kind of suck to be around at that point.
As an INTP: How can you hurt something that doesn't exist?
Oh, it exists, it's just really lazy and hibernating most of your life, but when it wakes up for five minutes once in a year, it's a drama queen like no other! 🤦♀️
With me, it's more of an "Oi! how did you somehow manage to snipe my metaphorical inner child through a locked basement window?" _🤨_
As an ENTP: inventing it and then destroying it
@@danielemaggio6999 that's a great description
ENFJ here
And I must say your impressions are always on point
I just cannot imagine that anyone could be mean for no reason at all
Ps: congrats on 1 million🥳 you truly deserve it
tanks!
I second that remark! ENFJ 2 and 4 (As my 2 and 4 are the same enneagram score from multiple tests taken.) I'm not taking 2w1 when 4 is higher than 1.
I agree with this.
I'm an ENFJ, and I always feel more sensitive than most.
lol rarely do I see an ENFJ on here so holla fam ❤️
It's a common misconception that bullies are typically bullies due to their own insecurities and sense of inferiority. I've read/heard that most bullies attack others for the opposite reason. They hate those who they deem as inferior and they want to keep them in their place. Pack animals will often ostracize of kill the weak individuals in their group in order to insure the group's survival. As someone who was the singled out "weak" individual in the pack, I think that is the mechanism at play, but maybe I'm wrong.
As an INFP who always relates to your sketches, this one had me (quietly) cackling even louder than usual 🤣
honestly same
I’m an INTP and the last time my feelings were hurt, I talked it out, understood their behaviour and helped them getting over it, since they were feeling bad about it, even though it was clearly just because of the circumstances and they didn’t intend to hurt my feelings.
I really cannot recall a moment when someone actually tried to hurt my feelings.
You really have an adult attitude. I think that's great.
Someone hurt my feelings I forgave them whatever, however they did it again and now I'm not talking to them. But I can't remember why though...I just don't feel like being friends with them anymore...
INTP when someone hurt my feeling or try to . I usually let them be for some time because i realise some people say some things they don’t mean to when they flustered and then if they want to talk again they approach me because why would i , i dont cling to people i cling to places.Having conversation and rationalising everything, navigating them through out they feelings and then everything is fine . Though some thing do get stuck because of overthinking but its not that hurtful its just there for future references
i tried to do that but she didn't understood.
the INTJ was too relatable for how monotone he was
-INTJ
0:00 intj
0:05 isfp
0:12 enfj
0:25 estp
0:40 intp
1:00 esfp
1:16 istp
1:28 enfp
1:50 entj
2:00 esfj
2:29 istj
2:51 entp
3:06 isfj
3:40 estj
4:07 infp
4:37 infj
As an INTP I can honestly say that yes, that is how I respond when my feelings are hurt, even if it wasn't meant to be an insult, I will retaliate. Also that one about Wikipedia with "citation needed" is priceless! I got to add that to my inventory!
Wow I am married to an intp and I never knew they were into revenge, except for that silent treatment thingy, is that revenge?
As an INFP, I feel called out by the accuracy LMBO it really does feel like that when someone I feel close to and care about suddenly wants space. I start wondering if I'm a burden. Not even just that but if they need space because they're upset, I automatically wanna help and I (even though I shouldn't) feel useless if I can't help...and I love quality time so there goes that too.
INTJs will have the same reaction whether we immediatly forget about it or start plotting a vengeance that will ruin your life, your close ones lives, your relatives lifes, and your friends lives
But don't worry, it only happens if you really go too far (It's really far)
Definitely!
Yes, grudges are something I keep for decades
Yep
Vengeance from an INTJ can't possibly be that scary, right?
As an intj that has executed a plot.
I can safely say I have no idea of the possible impact of the plot to the person in terms emotionally n mentally
However when a plot has been executed you won't even know it is ongoing or who it is from.
Or maybe I just love to cook slowly who knows
INTP here,
When people insult me I would usually ignore them or say nothing while I specify (in my thoughts) all the reasons this person is
• wrong in all possible sense
• why it would be a waste of time to even help this person see how wrong they are
• what the hell made the person to focus their attention on me in the first place
3 years later I would have the perfect verbal response ready!
And I would imagine myself back in that situation and give my reply
Boom!
I relate (INFP)
You are so DEAD on with that! My husband is an INTP through and through and that is EXACTLY what he would do and then get mad that he did not think of it in the moment 😂
This reminds me of a line from Sense and Sensibility (slightly paraphrased here): "She agreed to it all, for she did not think him worthy of rational opposition."
This.
I'm a INFJ. I mostly rethink how I could have done better in the situation and not let my feelings get the best of me.
As another INTP, I'm happy to see someone else like me:D
The ENFP one was hilarious ! Also, the fact that you choose relevant backgrounds for each type is so cool !
Ofc we would get mad about a dream lol
As an enfp who'd dated other enfps I've experienced this 🤣.
But the quick shift of focus is also on point.😂
"I want you to lie to me and stick to the lie forever"
Literally me. I don't want to be told after the break up or whatever the truth because I'll be hurt that you lied to me, but I don't want to be told the painful truth at the beginning because I'll be hurt by that truth, so I want you to lie to me and always lie to me about that and never tell me the painful truth, then I will be always happy, and oblivious to the painful truth.
As an INTP . . . this comment made me realise a possibility for why I seem to make INFJ friends? I do not like lying and do my best to avoid being in situations where I may need to, however in the rare instances where I _do_ lie, I will _take it to the grave._ So this is the perfect situation lol. There's only one instance where I've done this intentionally (it was actually to spare someone's emotions). It's been years. I've never told them and I never will.
This is so interesting. As an infj i would prefer when people tell me the truth. I might freak out about it but the freak out is less dramatic compared to the feeling of knowing you lied to me but not sure why and then finding out before you tell me and then you telling me the truth confirming my sensitivities that you were indeed lying. I feel more insulted that you think that i didnt know you were lying. I have been patiently waiting for the truth the whole time. I think thats what hurts my feelings most. Just be honest so we can enjoy doing other things now. Not interested in those psychological games.
As an INTP, the INTJ is actually the most relatable for me.
Can confirm that the ISTJ one is true. Keep the hurt emotions in check while hopelessly overanalyzing whatever the other person said.
Depends on what it is, if I know I did nothing wrong then it won’t affect me at all but if they are right then I will beat myself up over it and possibly start crying even on the spot instead of waiting till I get to my room if it gets bad enough. Many times I just leave if I get sad like that (obviously can’t really do that if in public), also in those moments it is hard to explain to others what I am thinking about for some reason
🙋🏻♀️
Yes absolutely
My dad is an ISTJ and I can confirm that he is exactly like this
@@edi0157 felt this. It doesnt help that i am very sensitive
INFJ Here
I was in a situation like this. I introduced my date to my best friends and they did that whole, "He seems nice" bit but made sure to say that he seems like my total opposite and that his personality is really flat compared to mine. I told them that's nice of them to try and be supportive but paint drying has a more exciting personality and I already know it's not going to work out with him.
Within the week he asked me to marry him. Second week he had me meet his whole family and told them all he was going to marry me.
We dated for three months lol.
When it came to my friends. I'd tell them what I thought honestly about their partner but also accept them if it makes them happy. If their person is toxic and let's them hurt them over and over again I separate myself. I'll be their friend when it inevitably fails. Won't even say I told you so.
INTJ here (so maybe that explains the question), but why would you continue to date someone when you know it's not going to work out? Seems like a waste of time and energy.
@@IzzyKawaiichi maybe because its not going to work with anyone 🤷🏻♀️
@@mounikasampangi3589 true
ENFP on point. I also very often don't remember if it was a dream or reality. And INFP is hilarious, I even have photos like that of my husband traveling without me 😁
True. I've come to learn not to act on the foul mood that may or may not have been caused by a dream.
Don't you can know what was a dream and what not? O.O (I can and I'm also ENFP)
As an ENFP I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been scarred by a dream and been angry/scared of someone for almost a full day just because they did something weird in my dream.
Also my mum is an ESFP and the picking on faults was so accurate it hurt 😂😂
I'm an INFJ and this is exactly how I reacted to my mother lying to me about something that would've hurt my feelings. Except, I don't lie to people and I tell them the truth no matter how hard it is. It's difficult to do that and later on I apologised to her cuz I understand why she did it but... It hurts more when you find out later. So I'd take the ugly truth than the pretty lie.
Exactly! At least I know where I stand and you know where you stand when we’re honest with one another. People often conflate honesty with harshness and that’s not the case. I usually present the situation then ask if that were you, would you want to know? If they say yes, they know. If they no, they have an idea. LOL.
Yep, so true. Also what Frank said... if you lied than I better not find out and you better take that ish to the grave.
exactly
Spot on, exactly like that, always ! +1
INFP one was so funny, the music, the edits 😂
Do you know the name of the song by chance?
@@wilbertsledge3454 same I need the name of the song
It kind of sounds like crush but I could be wrong
@@wilbertsledge3454 A Mirage by I’MIN
@@yunoeverdeen7454 Thank You :)
" you're so dumb a zombie in [call of duty: cold war zombies] will consider your brain a low calorie snack". I love INTP nerdy insults 😂
ENTJ was very specific. Weirdly enough, it happened to me before. It's really funny how others thinking that they got you while you really didn't get what they are trying to do or say, and then they end up being more peeved by your reaction 😂
It's not that I don't have feelings, it's just I really received you words in a different format.
ESFJ was really hilarious 😂 he kept his feelings until his wedding, oh man 😂😂
Yeah I loved the INTP part too, not sure why he mentioned Cold War specifically though, literally any COD game that had zombies would have worked ( so any Treyarch game and most Sledgehammer ones)
@@edi0157 INTPs are very specific too the point where even INTJs get annoyed
INTPs also tend to enjoy Cold War zombies over Vanguard zombies because Vanguard is fucking trash.
Source: im an INTP
@@FrankieAmadeian. Hating on Vanguard is the most commonly-held opinion in the community tbf, that isnt only INTPs that do that. I (ISTJ) havent bought either of them, I kept playing MW 2019, which was a highly divisive game in it s own right but I actually liked it, will see how the MW2 beta (damn the Activision marketing lol) goes once I get access to it tomorrow. Also the MWR servers are still going pretty well on PS4, I have even managed to play some full Gun Game matches on it yesterday, might be the nostalgia of a new MW game being about to release for those that didn’t preorder like me
@@edi0157 hey man i was just makin a little joke you didn't have to write half an essay
ISFJs talking about what's bothering them years later 🤣😭 so true
Indeed
This is so accurate to my ISFJ husband that my jaw dropped before I started laughing. I often find ISFJ stereotypes don't account well for men of the type since the majority are women. But this one was dead on.
Im an intp i would fail to think of a comeback and just sit in silence thinking of various ways i could inflict suffering onto them
INTJ - If I had a lack of control over my emotions, this would actually make me feel something.
I feel attacked! 😆 Every time my significant other would say they need space, I basically just yeet myself as far away as possible, crying the whole way 😂😭
I want someone to think about me as much as ESTJ thinks about Timmy
I love how most of the personalities just feel genuinely hurt, try to turn it around or deny feeling hurt. Meanwhile ISTP is surely planning revenge.
I love how whenever this Timmy character is brought up in any of the comedy sketches ever everyone says he’s always a butthole jerk yet we never get to see anything else about him. Makes you wonder what personality type he could be and if he could actually make an appearance in a video 🧐
I love the song choice for the INFP part of the video, SOMEONE PLS TELL ME THE SONG IT LITERALLY PLAYED FOR LIKE 5 SECS BUT I NEED IT IN MY PLAYLIST NOOOWWWWW
I'm INTJ and what he said in the sketch is what goes on in my mind, I would never say such a thing out loud. I would brush it off like nothing happened externally but in my head, I would either keep cursing that person or try to bury it deep in my memory so that it never surfaces. 😆
Haha! today my crush answered me with a voice tone slightly different from her normal tone and I’m already considering giving up on her… - INFP
Plot Twist: It was morning voice; she just woke up.
@@a-s-greig 😂😂 I wish it was
As an ISFP, this is literally what I like to convince myself of. It's not true at all
Me an INTJ has experienced people apologizing to me after I walked away or don’t respond. It’s like gaslighting them into believing they were in the wrong without saiyan anything.
As an ENTP this is frighteningly accurate bc last time someone insulted me I literally said “aw Cmon, not even a bit creative? Please I’ve heard that one so many time now, and I thought I was special 😼” you know us too well lol
So true🤣🤣🤣
Ok as an ISFP here is what usually goes down when my feelings are hurt: I generally play it cool, don’t same much at all as I take time to internally process what has just happened.
Then at home I’m gonna play it over and over in my head and act out the conversation and i what I should have said in the moment. I might get another persons opinion on if it’s something that I should let go or if I’m right to be offended.
Then I may avoid that person at all costs for the next several day weeks months or years depending on how badly offended I was. If it was done by someone I truly care about I will talk to them about it straight up, but if not then it’s later days to you 👋.
And then one day when the time is just right I will completely lay out everything between me and that person and say here is how badly you offended me and why I don’t vibe with you anymore. At that point the person will either say sorry and we will move on with our lives being better friends or we will be officially done with each other.
I have seen this exact situation play out in my life a few times.
As an isfp I agree too
I remember one time when my husband brought another woman into our house. She was around my age and just recently widowed. His sisters started being so good to her and I was just kicked to the curb. The final straw came when my husband started telling his dad he wanted to marry her as well being married to me and his dad was okay with it and started citing Biblical instances of men with multiple wives! I was floored! I was so ANGRY and HURT! We were married when I was eighteen and he got my virginity as a wedding gift.....Then I woke up the next morning, realized it was a dream, and I had to deal with my frustration for a full fifteen minutes so I would not take it out on him. The most ironic thing is that this is a true story. -ENFP
So did you ever forgive him?
@@MsWill813 Yes 🤣
You forgot the part where the INTJ makes a long and convoluted plan to get their revenge.
Not that I ever did that.
Lol 😄 accurate.
INFP was hilarious and I cringed a little. INTP: “zombies would call your brain a low calorie snack” is my favorite comeback. As an ISFP I hope to use it without tears in my eyes. 🙏🏼
I'm an ISFJ and this is so relatable. I could be angry and hide it for a long time till I am no longer able to hide it. Then I'll tell you "We need to talk". And then I'll pour it all out. People get surprised at how long I can keep stuff hidden.
Same for me! I often hope things will get better or all come out in the wash. But if it doesn’t, then I’ll have to talk about it and people can be surprised how long I have felt that way. (ISFJ)
ENTJ was accurate James! And had me laughing, keep up the great work! (Also LMAO to the space skit!)
- ENTJ
song at 4:22 is A Mirage by I’MIN!!
As an INTJ if someone hurts my feelings, I move on pretty quickly. This is accurate.
I love the ENTJ stereotype, because it's kinda right. It would take a while for me to even realize someone was trying to hurt my feelings lol
The INFP one was a bit confusing because when I am hurt I silently push the other person away and if they don't get the hint to leave me alone then "I just need some space" is the last straw. Edit: Although if it's an internal process rather than actually posting stuff online then you nailed the INFP haha!
Your MBTI sketches always made my day.
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@@weirdfairy thanks for correcting, english is not my first language though
ESFP is so spot on. I get so highly specifically shady and hurtful, give a full analysis and critic of every moment of their life while pouring poison into every two words, craft and apply a plan to destroy them leaving no traces while getting a good view of their demise, and then be like "ok I hate you rn, let's drink something and laugh about it, it's just gonna be a funny story in a few days".
Loved all of them! I actually remember a time that my ENTJ actually *was* offended that someone thought he had feelings to offend. Scary accurate. 🤣
Meanwhile My ENTJ Aunt, "I'm deeply offended you haven't written me 3 thank you notes as thanks for your birthday present and mailed them to me, telling me 'thank you' in person isn't good enough. I feel so unappreciated."
Frank James, you should do:
-16 personalities in a reality tv show
-16 personalities in the same household
(I think it would be better if there was more interaction between the different mbtis, people would wanna find out how others would react to their mbti)
-ENTP
infp, most of the time when i get sad i just hide that im upset and give them space..but im still sad and i worry about if they dont like me and dont wanna be around me
Yes it becomes a new deep exploration into “what else is wrong with me?!”
@@SarahPerine true due to me also having horrible self esteem
i respond to sadness different now but very similar to a year ago still
@@elliecassar1881 I hope you’ve found a way to get through the sadness and not beat yourself up. I’m always trying new things and remembering how MBTI works helps me not take so much so personal.
@@SarahPerine im more spiritual at the moment, but my kind friends help me feel better so thats pretty good for now
im working on staying calm when others imtimidate me
@@elliecassar1881 I’m really happy you found something supportive and great friends🙌🏽
The INFP was priceless 🤣🤣🤣
INTJ is too reliable LOL (except that when we come home we endlessly think at what hurt us)
This. No reaction because you can't let them see you hurt. But alone... yikes.
Ni-Fi loop.
It'll get better with time
@@aspiemba4672 yeah I know, that’s why I said “when we come home”
@@kimquim2803 I didn’t know this was an example of loop, interesting
I don’t know if you’ve ever had a more accurate depiction of an INFP than this video. I literally cringed at myself because I’ve definitely done that 💀😂
The poor istj didn't even retaliate he just self reflected 😢
I think one of the things that people miss about ENTJs is that they're actually very passionate and emotional people. They mostly have one emotion, but they express it very strongly. It's anger.
When my ENTJ gets his feelings hurt, he deflects hard. He'll turn a person's insult into a lecture on all of the ways that person is a failure and how it connects to the broader scope of society and that person's future prospects. He is very certain about his assertions.
ENTJs have Fi inferior. Anger is often how they express their feelings when triggered. ENTJs are much more sensitive than people would believe. If you attack Fi inferior it's a good way to make them your enemies where they might even seek revenge. My father was ENTJ. While he didn't care much about the feelings of others you did not want to attack his Fi. On the flip side if you make their Fi inferior feel good and hold ENTJs in high esteem, they can become the most generous people around. ENTJs often want to be good people but due to Fi inferior they fear they are not. This is where that anger dynamic lies.
It's not mostly just one emotion. What... They got plenty emotional depth and complexity. They just struggle to regulate this healthily. But it comes with age as they mature and work on themselves.
@@Noelciaaa The one emotion they often express outwardly though is anger. Internally their Fi can be feeling all sorts of things. Having an ENTJ father myself she's not wrong (maybe she didn't word it entirely correct but anger is often the main way they express the turmoil that is their feelings). ENTJs are actually quite intense people and anyone who's lived with one for years knows their emotion goes beyond anger but that is the emotion they tend to exhibit. Being coached and trained by an ENTJ father as an INTP I literally experienced it.
@@mrod8578 that's true but that's if you're not close enough to them. most people will just get to experience anger but if you get to be a part of their inner circle, you will see that many of them are actually quite gentle souls. But it may be different for you since it's your father, one that doesn't sound entirely healthy. I only experienced them as friends and a partner... But it really sucks to be coached by your father like that instead of supported and appreciated. I know that feeling :'D, though he has a different type. I hope things are better for you now.
it's strange, i don't know what it is but each of those i meet seems to open up to me unusually fast. we have that instant connection. i don't know if that's an entp thing or what. i think they're fascinated by that Ne and then find comfort in my quite well-developed Fe (and are mildly amused by my Ti-isms in an eyeroll worthy way XD).
I somehow instinctively know how to act as to not to step on their Fi on accident while still being able to engage in friendly banter and playful teasing (all of them had great sense of humor, heh). And then tell it straight to them if they'd messed up somewhere while interacting with people. This while they hold me accountable and are the biggest supporters in me getting my life together and not falling into the typical xntp procrastination traps, self-doubt etc.
Intj yep - always prided myself on being able to not hold grudges/bitterness. The only person that I'm still angry at after years is my kindergarten teacher because she actively slighted me for knowing the things she was trying to teach the class.
Lol!! That’s hilarious!!! You’d think she would be happy she had it easy with you. I’ve worked in a kindergarten class and kids like you were my favourite: low maintenance, non glue eaters.
I have a kindergarten memory of our kindergarten teacher’s power tripping 8 year old daughter SPANKING one of my friends!! Even at 5 years old I knew she was being stupid and she shouldn’t be doing that. This ENFP is still resentful after many, many years.
How about that? You had my teacher, Miss Pully Ear, in kindergarten too. She would sink her nails into my earlobe and pull me about, the sadist. What a cruel intro to the education system. Really makes an INTJ gifted child want to learn, right?
Im actually kinda the opposite. As an intj I do not like my quality of not being able to hold grudges or unpleasant memories cos I feel like im being taken advantage of
@@lamewater772 Yes, that resentment at letting things go I have felt from time to time along life's path when people have sneakily done things to sabotage me, pretended their harming was an accident or thought I did not know who was the hidden catalyst of a malicious act meant to do me damage. But in time the realization came this is a moral universe though we cannot see its broad scale operation. A Spiritual Slamback eventually overtook transgressors.
To clarify, to try even to hold a grudge required ENERGY I did not want to waste. To store the details in my wet computer, i.e. brain, required effort, as did conjuring up the feelings of anger and betrayal to fuel the memory afresh and to retain a dark hope for an opportunity for payback... which revenge required that I keep that foe on my radar in order not to miss an opportunity that might arise. Realized this grudge savouring meant allowing some mean-spirited, soul-tainted, impure, low character I wanted no contact with, would not risk saving if they were drowning, to take up rent free space in my head!
Why allow a freeloading evil character to occupy any of my thoughts, take up room in my grey matter? Moreover, as each saboteur gradually encountered poetic justice, nemesis, 'karma' if you will, I took my cue from a chill saying: 'If you shoot the devil in the back, and the devil turns around and smiles, what would you do then?"
When news has reached me of the misfortune that befell scofflaws and lowlifes who deliberately struck out to harm me, I have even measured some of their boomerang punishments as excessive. Hearing and seeing did not make me gloat, but instead wish the whole negative cause-effect cycle never happened, that the sufferers had been better persons, and not the engineer of their own misery. As Willy Shakespeare described the process, the harm intender gets "hoist by his own petard", blown up by his own bomb. No need to fault yourself for not grudge hoarding...but I do know what you mean, from having to explain to confused questioners why I am not angry when "You SHOULD be angry! What are you going to do?"
Is this 😎 reaction of the mature INTJ not the reason why the negative stereotype intensifies about our robotic, feelinglessness? Big nope to that criticism says I. The feelings are felt but they are mastered, REINED under control... the whole point of the metaphysical device the Four Horse of the Apocalypse which poetic images relate in capsule form the four stages of the fall of empires when feelie-feel humans let loose their galloping emotions.
Stay well, The Absolute Being. In your spiritual journey, you are on the right path.
@@lamewater772 My absolute pleasure! Nice to cross paths with a kindred spirit. Life will throw you challenges to test your mettle. Nonethe- less, remember it is not the INTJs and INTPS and other emotionally REINED IN human beings who enslaved themselves as forelock tugging serfs to MALE-State and as well imprisoned their minds in the crippling chains of arcane irrational superstition as frightened worshippers of MALE-religion, symbolized as the First Horse of the Apocalypse, then when they could no longer stand the repression and onerous taxation, with equal EMOTION violently turned against what they formerly revered in idolatrous obeisance and societal compulsion bullied those around them to do likewise, then pendulum swung to extripate and expunge from their nation the very two overriding influences they previously aligned with (eg. French Revolution wildly targets nobility, rulers of State, and priesthood, rulers of Church, then uses guillotine to pluck heads like grapes at harvest time, as predicted Revelation 14: 14-17 in the Word of God's depiction of the Reign of Terror in France during the time when monarchs round the globe slept uneasily at the prospect of their own restless populace's rebellion. This violence and chaos magnificently repeated itself in Russia with the attack on the White Palace. Like the expedient tool, the head harvesting guillotine, the SICKLE emblem emerged to begin the harvest of humanity when the Red Russians and White Russians hammered out their ideological differences.
You will have noted the hammer and the sickle emblematic of the 'isms' of communism/socialism. If you are a student of history, you will also know this delusional take on the 'solidarity' of the industrial workers of Russia's metropolises and the agrarian peasantry of the countryside resulted in the incarceration in Gulags with consequent slow death by forced labour and starvation of millions of Russians as an ongoing effect of feelie-feel types feeling their superiors in power made bad decisions, therefore must be killed, like the regnal Romanoff family. This imperial family, like France's royal dynasty leading to Louis XIV, fell out of favor with the nation's public long before their execution by Bolsheviks in July 1918. Little did Russian feely-types realize when they turned against Nicholas II, after a series of his unpopular decisions ... little did they forsee wiping out the monarchy --- murdering man, woman and children --- would unleash a worse evil that lead to 6-9 million Soviets 'harvested' during Stalin's repressions, although contemporary Russian official sources like to sanitize history by including, by neatly tucking away the count of slaughtered brotherhood with civilian war dead. "In 2017, the Russian historian Igor Ivlev put Soviet war dead at 42 million people (19.4 million military and 22.6 million civilians).
So there you have it, First Horse of the Apocalypse, rigid self-absorbed, selfish, self-centred, absolutist MaleChurch&MaleState, one masculinist hand washing the other masculinist hand, operating on purest WHITE lofty, godly principles (seen from their myopic perspective 🙄, the "divine right of kings" belief sanctioned by clergy who know what God the Divine wants) incredibly believed across cultures right to Japan's divine Emperor Hirohito, hence invasion of China in the Sino-Japanese War and subsequently Dec 7 1941 Pearl Harbour bombing massacre, followed in the inevitable cycle by the Second Horse of the Apocalypse, the Red steed aptly the colour of blood, signifying the bloody harvest of humanity, not only the demise of feelie-feel protagonists but millions of what these subhuman power-craving aggressors like to call 'collateral damage', the innocent peace-loving people who simply want to live their best life in a non-hostile environment.
When the chaos, rampant evil, destruction, and rotting corpses become too much, male ideologues give rise to the Black Horse, the Third in the quartet, the foursome of malignant narcissist political dynamics, the repressive, all-powerful, cruel, extreme level of control and power relished by men under a truly totalitarian regime, as his-story records in the evil genius leader of the Nazi regime, in the stupid, disastrous enforced ideologies of Trotsky, Lenin and Stalin, whose arrogant, unrealistic, incompetent governmental systems impact society and the people who live in it with death, despair and 'blackness' of Fascism, Nazism, Communism.
With your ear to the ground, like a skilled reconnaissance scout, The Absolute Being, you can hear the beat of those hoofs/hooves long before the nightmare equines appear to human view. The Fourth Horse leads, is in front now, and regrettably none of the previous lessons (Russia under monster Putin aggrandizing its lost "power" in a seven month killing spree) seems to have taught specie homo sapiens how to respond intelligently, to manage EMOTION, to resolve the problems created by the sticky mess of Feelie-feel types (my coined descriptor) dragging down global society. Keep a cool thought and Godspeed. 🙋♀️ from aptonym/nom de plume/nom de guerre 'Pearl' (given name modern English 'new name' Margaret of Revelation 2:17), 'Word of God' thus Elizabeth of Revelation 19: 12-13, and cryptic surname the name equivalent of those who became "king of kings, lord of lords" unfailingly throughout history. If like any advanced INTJ you like pattern resolution and solving the unknown, there is a tell, a clue in the colours of the 95CE prophesied flag of my homeland, my livery colours described Rev. 19:13, WHITE linen dipped in blood/RED, bearing as foretold Revelation 22: 2 "the Leaf of the Tree for the healing of the nations", thus 🇨🇦. Who were the first healers that men's wars necessitated? These ancient time surgeons were conscripted from what humble occupation? To confirm your own answer, what colours did they advertise their stock and trade in when they set up shop?
Really nice text-conversing with you. My words typically fall as described Matthew 13:1-23, the Parable of the Sower, seeds wasted on inhospitable, inarable ground. You, by contrast, already have spiritually grown and will continue to produce on your spiritual journey through Life. Farewell, TAB.
It’s funny, I cannot remember anyone actually hurting my feelings. If the observation is correct I agree, if it’s not I’ll rebuff it with analysis and move on. INTJ
Y'know, I bet _I_ could hurt your feelings. 😏
-INTP
Must depend on the person. I know some sensitive INTJs, but they don't display it'
Thank you for an INTJ response that I can actually relate to! All the ones talking about the INTJ actually being sad deep down are baffling to me. If the observation is correct then I have no problem admitting it. If it is not why would I care? It doesn't bother me if other people are wrong.
I know right? I mean, I’m sure it must have happened, and it was probably related to people purposely excluding me from things, but I just don’t remember.
@@lightair797 Same here, L&A. Years of merciless self-reflection and deep introspection results in having an appreciation for CRITICISM.
To be criticized comes as a gift.
If the flaw-finder (insulter) is accurate in evaluation, the insight gifts to us an incentive for self- improvement. On the other hand, if the insulter is being mean-spirited, attempting to undermine and assault our core values, the personality traits we live LIFE by, Revelation 20:12 - 13, then the critiquer is ignorant and words are false. If the latter, like any falsehood sent my way, it is snuffed out, warded off, encounters a wall, is ignored.
Why, in context of what is logical and rational, would someone's evaluating LIE hurt the hearer of it? Either way the criticism proves a GIFT, for it either points out our blindspot ... which is a good thing, or points out an insecure basher, a liar plain and simple, best removed from our lives, no looking back, no trying to change that Negativity, just 'moving on' to Positivity. Is that how you see it, L&A, the reason why 'moving on' is the characteristic INTJ reaction?
all of your infps are SOOO ACCURATE
this is so true, like me, an ISTJ, when people say "mean" stuff, instead of getting hurt, I'd be silent and keep introspecting myself for hours, days, weeks, sometimes even months later.
Same here. The hard part is our great memory doesn’t let us forget about the hurtful words.
Me an Infp thoroughly enjoyed the Infp part! If anyone asks for space we will go to a lot of places 😂
My sister is an ISTP... and that is accurate. Combine that reaction with what the INTP would say. And my INTJ dad- you described him to the T! He gets mad about something, then forgets / leaves it behind shortly after. But I can't find what type I'd most likely relate to... but overall wonderful video!
I'm an INFJ and I was involved with an ENFP. That was their exact reaction to a perceived rejection. It was so dumb and insecure.
INTJ could not be more accurate. When someone close hurts my feelings , I just stare at them then walk away.
How did ISTP get their feelings hurt... on a plane?
That's the real question I need answers to 😆
Well... we can't keep still. Especially a small plane with many ppl is terrible. I can see ISTP fidgeting around and doing stupid things to get over boredom and people being everywhere... Which resulted in someone else getting upset and telling them off somehow.
Maybe the ISTP pushed someone out the window.
@@Akkarri It's so cool that an actual ISTP, being yourself, answered with a rational reason as to why an ISTP could've gotten heckled at on the plane. Well, that person who got upset needs to be more understanding. Planes can get stuffy and boring, especially if it's a long haul of a flight 😅
@@isabellarose6514 haha I'm sure if that's the case, then ISTP would be filed for attempted murder which would do more than just "hurt his feelings" 😅 but seems plausible!
Flight attendant asked me to turn of my Nintendo DS as we were going to land. I know the reasons for putting away things before landing and only needed a minute or two to get past a certain level before I could save and turn it off. I told them I'd turn it off in a minute well before landing and by the time they come back it will be put away. They didn't like that answer, wanted it off immediately. I continued to argue while playing, blood pressure rising due to the stupidness of the flight attendant for a non issue. Back of my mind knowing, they have all the power and if they wanted they could end up with me in cuffs, charges and possibly never being able to fly that airline again. Logic prevailed; but jokes on them, I just closed the lid, game still running, finished the level after the wheels touched down, driving to the gate. It only took a minute or two to finish, as I said.
Relating to almost ALL of the Introverted ones! 😅😂😭 Which means you did an awesome job at this video, FJ!! 💪🏻✨️✨️
ESTP usually exemplifies Se insanity, but showing the ESFP going full force was fantastic. Also always satisfying to see the equally extravagant ESxJ passive-aggressiveness conveyed.
The ENTJ one is spot on!!! D*mn! It did happen to me! Not a bully, but the confusion when I realized someone tried to hurt my feelings.
No one has ever tried to bully me. They know better.