You want to live in a happy, jolly reality. Happy, giggling. everything's funny. When is the last time you laughed till you cried? If the answer is not today, something's tripping balls. You should be laughing till you cry, till you piss your pants everyday. For real. Piss your pants. Laughing. Daily. 😂
"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone." ~Robin Williams
The dangerous thing about romantizing loneliness is that you think you are getting better when in reallity you are just not being triggered or challenged... what normaly happens to people that insolates themselves is that they start losing social habilities and become less tolerant, so they cannot form normal relationships with others.
I understand what you mean but at the same time learning to not only be alone- but accept it & enjoy it was one of the most challenging things I’ve ever done in of itself. Being alone causes you to reflect and learn about yourself which is not easy to do when most of us try to constantly distract ourselves from our flaws/ unwanted thoughts. Indefinite periods of loneliness are definitely not healthy either, but I think a temporary time to force yourself to know yourself & grow is beneficial.
I don't think this is perspective of how much one particular asceticism practice needed for everyone, this is rather about what do you really actualize right know. As for this particular one it may be challenging for one human being and like hedonistic self indulgence for others Every one on a scale somewhere In seclusion you have luxury not to read and comprehense so jibberingly awkward text as this one
@jamillescruggs6916 No, I never force anything, if the people I'm with have not a lot in common with me, then it's OK, I move on till I find people I'm comfortable with. I never pretend to be someone I'm not.
I remember being scared of people leaving me, now I thank god for all the space that they left for me to enjoy myself without having to accomodate their needs. Such a blessing.
"Through years of struggling with depression, I realized that to love myself, I had to embrace solitude. Now, I cherish my alone time, finding joy in simply being with myself. Work is fulfilling, but coming home to spend time alone is where I find true contentment."
As a younger person (21) one of the most valuable things I’ve learned is that more people need to learn to be alone. Too many young people get right into a relationship instead of being in a relationship with themselves. Our relationship with ourselves should take priority, and we should not be in a romantic relationship with someone else until we learn to fully love ourselves. There’s so much self exploration to be done, and I find it logistically difficult for someone to do so while in a romantic relationship. There’s a huge difference between loneliness and being alone, that of which many people fail to understand. Being alone is a state of being, loneliness is an emotion. You can be alone and feel lonely, but you can also be with people and feel lonely. Friends are great, but are you your own best friend? Do you show up for yourself like you’d do for a friend? If not it’s probably best for you to take some space to yourself. Being my own best friend has been a brutal yet extremely rewarding process. I don’t need others to fulfill me and comfort me, I can do it myself. I will say it’s not easy to learn to be alone and learn to value your solitude, however just because it’s hard doesn’t mean we shouldn’t be doing it. Humans are social creatures yes, but we’ve become too reliant on the presence of others. Independence and your relationship with yourself has become undervalued.
Embrace your solitude, take this time to get to know yourself. Be silly by yourself, try new hobbies. When’s the last time you’ve taken a walk, with no music? ✨
You’re very enlightened. I wonder if you’re neurodivergent. I learned I am too this year at 33 and I had an epiphany. I realized I had been battling myself for years on the person I think I should be and the person I really am. I am learning myself and hopefully I accept it someday to be happy. I am searching for fulfillment as well and I realize it’s not in material possessions, social circles, money and titles. I don’t know why you don’t have more subs and views. You are speaking some really enlightened 5th dimensional stuff. Most people are stuck in the matrix. I am still battling that myself. I did read you can be in the 3rd dimension (the matrix), the 4th dimension, and 5th dimension simultaneously. I believe that. I am battling myself. More people need to hear your message. It’s a reason why I found your channel. I’m glad I did. This is some real stuff. I am actually the happiest alone, no judgment, no pressure, no social rules. Just me being my most authentic self.
No, because I totally agree. The past year I've spent pretty much alone. There were like 2 months were I had to integrate myself into society, but except for that, I isolated myself. When I tell you that my whole sense of self is flipped, it's honestly scary. I'm just now reaching the point where I feel compassion for all the flaws or weaknesses I found within myself, while at the same time trying to focus on expanding my strengths. I've never felt so in touch with myself or so clear about who I am and precisely what I'm capable of. My values have made a 180 and my mindset shifted with them. Once I get back into the real world, things won't be the same.
Exactly how I feel 100%. I know people say the less time socializing the harder it’ll be later on, but I feel so prepared for when that happens. I’ve actually become more confident and aware & I feel it will be so much easier and genuine because I’ve learned so much. Thanks for watching!
I think those vidoes found me. I was so confused and tired of everything and your vidoes were like a deep wisdom from within that I was looking for. Please never delete your videos. They make me think so much (in a good way) and they help me so much. I want to come back to them whenever I forget on what I should focus in life. I hope beautiful things happen to everyone watching this video. Sending love and peace. ❤️
I really loved this video. I hope this week alone gives me clarity and peace and eventually some internal insight. Tonight it’s just tight and lonely though..😖Thoughts racing, can’t sleep, emotional.. but it gets a little quieter with each passing day. As a mother, as a friend, a daughter, a sister, a woman .. I’m always giving and thinking of others. Since the age of 18.. it’s a huge part of how my soul was grounded to this earth and this reality. I think… I’m afraid of what I’ll find within sometimes, but i think .. I’m finally ready to seek JUST ME out from within me. BIG appreciation for your content. It always scratches an odd brain itch. ❤
I’m alone for the first time in a long time for the week. It’s been .. difficult. I left a serious relationship on … hold. I deeply appreciated this video. The first day of alone WAS depressing and lonely and terrifying… but the days have gotten better… it was nice to see the title of this video tho. Lemme stfu and get watching tho.
I’m so sorry to hear, but just know we’ve all been there & remind yourself it’s completely normal to feel how you do. Accepting loneliness isn’t easy but it will definitely get better over time, good luck and rooting for you ❤️
I honestly want to live alone. I loved living alone, in peace, with all my hobbies and being able to do whatever I wanted whenever. Now I'm completely alone but in horrible living circumstances and it's depressing af.
This is wonderful. I think it’s dangerous to believe the propaganda about socializing. One way I see it’s biased is bc it’s so pushed by western capitalist interests and often talks about health and as a one size fits all prescriptive notion. All things are individualized. We are all in different stages of growth, learning, and resting. I think you realize this all, I’m reflecting on these potent thoughts myself. Intent is important. Ability to self-reflect is important. Unfortunately, or hilariously, people like to police others on endeavors that don’t affect them (another sign of propaganda lol), try to be expert on things that they are ignorant of, or validate their own experiences through authoritative instruction. Your insight is illuminating.
For one year... Lol I've worked freelance and have been alone most of the time since 2017. That's 7 or 8 years. Of course I go out with friends from time to time, but it's not really for distraction. It's because I still keep in touch with family, and also with friends. And every time I talk to them, I feel like I have an obligation to tell them how much fun I had been having, instead of reality, which is that most of the time I'm alone, either working, cleaning my house, or just watching content that I find engaging. I have to go out with people, go to events, so that I have stories to tell, so that I can put on a facade that I'm constantly living this super exciting life. Because otherwise, they look at me like I must be so pitiful. You're living all alone? You even work alone? You don't even go to an office where you meet the same people you hate, to do work you hate, five days a week? That must be a wretched life! Like, they can't imagine a life where one is not constantly surrounded by people. They think it must be terrible, and I must be incredibly lonely, and living such a horrible life. I don't, and I enjoy my solitude. But I can't explain to them why exactly I enjoy my alone time, because I can't put it into words. And to avoid their pitiful gaze, I force myself to socialize so that I can prove to them that I'm not pitiable at all, even though I'm by myself 80-90% of the time.
Ive been very alone for about 5 years and at first I used to cry alot and tell my therapist that I really wanted to have friends and a boyfriend. Now Im very grateful for that solitude. I needed to be alone to change and to evolve.
For me it was the total opposite I always thought I loved being alone and when I had the opportunity to actually be isolated I had all these plans for self growth and I was excited but instead I sank into the biggest depression of my life it was truly awful.
When I was 15 I started doing a lot of acid I got caught at school and shocked my whole family, went to an alternative school, we only stayed in one class room it was for 3-4 months and I would just come home and lay in my thoughts and I figured so many things out about myself that i was hiding from I even got close to god during this period and mostly spirituality and being sober made me see everything so much more clear I would work out in my room and at this time I would not have social interaction but I feel like that was the best 3 months i have ever experienced but im 18 now and is scary to me how the best i ever felt was when i didn't have contact with anyone
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You want to live in a happy, jolly reality. Happy, giggling. everything's funny.
When is the last time you laughed till you cried?
If the answer is not today, something's tripping balls.
You should be laughing till you cry, till you piss your pants everyday. For real. Piss your pants. Laughing. Daily. 😂
"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone."
~Robin Williams
The dangerous thing about romantizing loneliness is that you think you are getting better when in reallity you are just not being triggered or challenged... what normaly happens to people that insolates themselves is that they start losing social habilities and become less tolerant, so they cannot form normal relationships with others.
I understand what you mean but at the same time learning to not only be alone- but accept it & enjoy it was one of the most challenging things I’ve ever done in of itself. Being alone causes you to reflect and learn about yourself which is not easy to do when most of us try to constantly distract ourselves from our flaws/ unwanted thoughts. Indefinite periods of loneliness are definitely not healthy either, but I think a temporary time to force yourself to know yourself & grow is beneficial.
I don't think this is perspective of how much one particular asceticism practice needed for everyone, this is rather about what do you really actualize right know. As for this particular one it may be challenging for one human being and like hedonistic self indulgence for others
Every one on a scale somewhere
In seclusion you have luxury not to read and comprehense so jibberingly awkward text as this one
Have you ever tried to force social connection? It actually makes loneliness worse. You will do everything for the wrong reasons.
@jamillescruggs6916 No, I never force anything, if the people I'm with have not a lot in common with me, then it's OK, I move on till I find people I'm comfortable with.
I never pretend to be someone I'm not.
There is a huge difference between being alone and loneliness. So don’t use the two interchangeably.
I remember being scared of people leaving me, now I thank god for all the space that they left for me to enjoy myself without having to accomodate their needs. Such a blessing.
"Through years of struggling with depression, I realized that to love myself, I had to embrace solitude. Now, I cherish my alone time, finding joy in simply being with myself. Work is fulfilling, but coming home to spend time alone is where I find true contentment."
As a younger person (21) one of the most valuable things I’ve learned is that more people need to learn to be alone. Too many young people get right into a relationship instead of being in a relationship with themselves. Our relationship with ourselves should take priority, and we should not be in a romantic relationship with someone else until we learn to fully love ourselves. There’s so much self exploration to be done, and I find it logistically difficult for someone to do so while in a romantic relationship.
There’s a huge difference between loneliness and being alone, that of which many people fail to understand. Being alone is a state of being, loneliness is an emotion. You can be alone and feel lonely, but you can also be with people and feel lonely.
Friends are great, but are you your own best friend? Do you show up for yourself like you’d do for a friend? If not it’s probably best for you to take some space to yourself. Being my own best friend has been a brutal yet extremely rewarding process. I don’t need others to fulfill me and comfort me, I can do it myself.
I will say it’s not easy to learn to be alone and learn to value your solitude, however just because it’s hard doesn’t mean we shouldn’t be doing it.
Humans are social creatures yes, but we’ve become too reliant on the presence of others. Independence and your relationship with yourself has become undervalued.
I love your videos. You are a pure rush of gold
Embrace your solitude, take this time to get to know yourself. Be silly by yourself, try new hobbies. When’s the last time you’ve taken a walk, with no music? ✨
You’re very enlightened. I wonder if you’re neurodivergent. I learned I am too this year at 33 and I had an epiphany. I realized I had been battling myself for years on the person I think I should be and the person I really am. I am learning myself and hopefully I accept it someday to be happy. I am searching for fulfillment as well and I realize it’s not in material possessions, social circles, money and titles.
I don’t know why you don’t have more subs and views. You are speaking some really enlightened 5th dimensional stuff. Most people are stuck in the matrix. I am still battling that myself. I did read you can be in the 3rd dimension (the matrix), the 4th dimension, and 5th dimension simultaneously. I believe that. I am battling myself. More people need to hear your message. It’s a reason why I found your channel. I’m glad I did. This is some real stuff. I am actually the happiest alone, no judgment, no pressure, no social rules. Just me being my most authentic self.
No, because I totally agree. The past year I've spent pretty much alone. There were like 2 months were I had to integrate myself into society, but except for that, I isolated myself. When I tell you that my whole sense of self is flipped, it's honestly scary. I'm just now reaching the point where I feel compassion for all the flaws or weaknesses I found within myself, while at the same time trying to focus on expanding my strengths. I've never felt so in touch with myself or so clear about who I am and precisely what I'm capable of. My values have made a 180 and my mindset shifted with them. Once I get back into the real world, things won't be the same.
Exactly how I feel 100%. I know people say the less time socializing the harder it’ll be later on, but I feel so prepared for when that happens. I’ve actually become more confident and aware & I feel it will be so much easier and genuine because I’ve learned so much. Thanks for watching!
I think those vidoes found me. I was so confused and tired of everything and your vidoes were like a deep wisdom from within that I was looking for.
Please never delete your videos. They make me think so much (in a good way) and they help me so much. I want to come back to them whenever I forget on what I should focus in life.
I hope beautiful things happen to everyone watching this video. Sending love and peace. ❤️
I really loved this video. I hope this week alone gives me clarity and peace and eventually some internal insight. Tonight it’s just tight and lonely though..😖Thoughts racing, can’t sleep, emotional.. but it gets a little quieter with each passing day. As a mother, as a friend, a daughter, a sister, a woman .. I’m always giving and thinking of others. Since the age of 18.. it’s a huge part of how my soul was grounded to this earth and this reality. I think… I’m afraid of what I’ll find within sometimes, but i think .. I’m finally ready to seek JUST ME out from within me.
BIG appreciation for your content. It always scratches an odd brain itch. ❤
Loved every minute of this video! New sub ❤
I’m alone for the first time in a long time for the week. It’s been .. difficult. I left a serious relationship on … hold. I deeply appreciated this video. The first day of alone WAS depressing and lonely and terrifying… but the days have gotten better… it was nice to see the title of this video tho. Lemme stfu and get watching tho.
I’m so sorry to hear, but just know we’ve all been there & remind yourself it’s completely normal to feel how you do. Accepting loneliness isn’t easy but it will definitely get better over time, good luck and rooting for you ❤️
This video almost made me cry 😅
I honestly want to live alone. I loved living alone, in peace, with all my hobbies and being able to do whatever I wanted whenever. Now I'm completely alone but in horrible living circumstances and it's depressing af.
This is wonderful. I think it’s dangerous to believe the propaganda about socializing. One way I see it’s biased is bc it’s so pushed by western capitalist interests and often talks about health and as a one size fits all prescriptive notion. All things are individualized. We are all in different stages of growth, learning, and resting. I think you realize this all, I’m reflecting on these potent thoughts myself. Intent is important. Ability to self-reflect is important. Unfortunately, or hilariously, people like to police others on endeavors that don’t affect them (another sign of propaganda lol), try to be expert on things that they are ignorant of, or validate their own experiences through authoritative instruction. Your insight is illuminating.
What world do you live in that you can afford to be alone? Are you living in the wilderness somewhere?
Kinda 😂, pretty rural, lots of nature
@@Sagethis Ah. Fair enough 😅 Sorry that's a pipe dream most places
@@Sagethisah, I'm kinda jealous 😅
For one year... Lol I've worked freelance and have been alone most of the time since 2017. That's 7 or 8 years. Of course I go out with friends from time to time, but it's not really for distraction. It's because I still keep in touch with family, and also with friends. And every time I talk to them, I feel like I have an obligation to tell them how much fun I had been having, instead of reality, which is that most of the time I'm alone, either working, cleaning my house, or just watching content that I find engaging. I have to go out with people, go to events, so that I have stories to tell, so that I can put on a facade that I'm constantly living this super exciting life. Because otherwise, they look at me like I must be so pitiful. You're living all alone? You even work alone? You don't even go to an office where you meet the same people you hate, to do work you hate, five days a week? That must be a wretched life! Like, they can't imagine a life where one is not constantly surrounded by people. They think it must be terrible, and I must be incredibly lonely, and living such a horrible life. I don't, and I enjoy my solitude. But I can't explain to them why exactly I enjoy my alone time, because I can't put it into words. And to avoid their pitiful gaze, I force myself to socialize so that I can prove to them that I'm not pitiable at all, even though I'm by myself 80-90% of the time.
Ive been very alone for about 5 years and at first I used to cry alot and tell my therapist that I really wanted to have friends and a boyfriend.
Now Im very grateful for that solitude. I needed to be alone to change and to evolve.
being alone is a curse my friend
You can be alone without feeling lonely. If you haven’t experienced that yet, then yes it is a curse
Bro your channel blowing my mind
I think I neened to hear that. Thank you
For me it was the total opposite I always thought I loved being alone and when I had the opportunity to actually be isolated I had all these plans for self growth and I was excited but instead I sank into the biggest depression of my life it was truly awful.
From the words of the late great kevin samuels "life is about people thats why we share this whole entire planet with 8 billion people"
When I was 15 I started doing a lot of acid I got caught at school and shocked my whole family, went to an alternative school, we only stayed in one class room it was for 3-4 months and I would just come home and lay in my thoughts and I figured so many things out about myself that i was hiding from I even got close to god during this period and mostly spirituality and being sober made me see everything so much more clear I would work out in my room and at this time I would not have social interaction but I feel like that was the best 3 months i have ever experienced but im 18 now and is scary to me how the best i ever felt was when i didn't have contact with anyone