@@beepboop0707 wtf I didn't get a single notification for this. Seems like I'm not alone with being alone (that makes perfect sense). Anyway, I missed to screenshot the 420 :'(
The fear of missing out starts in highschool because everytime you were off for a day or out for a while youve missed 3 fights, half the faculty having a mental breakdown and a fire in the science lab
That is actually true, the ONE time I was absent at school was the day one of my classmate found a praying mantis in the school yard (praying mantis are very rare to find).
Yeah it sucks, I was sick one day for school and they had a band play outside on the field .. Everyone kept talking about it and hyping it up after and I died inside
Well same, I had more fun at LAN-Parties that in other Parties, since its all about getting drunk and listening to shitty music, and meeting (mostly) annoying people there...
@@hotcoldman777 assert dominance and be the annoying drunk one. You get to have the time of your life and before you realise how much you’ve embarrassed yourself and ruined your reputation the hangover will kick in and you’ll have forgotten about all of last night. Works a charm for me every time
@@majaquinn I’m 3months late but somewhat agree expect for me I talk to like two people outside of my immediate friend group and the next day the hang anxiety kicks in and i’m like “OMG I WAS SO EMBARRASSING LAST NIGHT” but in reality I had a completely normal convo with them.
why even think about doing or dont doing? youll regret that also. You will also regret regretting thinking about doing or not doing, and you will also regret wasting time thinking about what you should do or not do.. and youll also regret not wasting time doing it.
Lower your expectation even more, death isn't the end, your expectation is that you will die slowly and painfully as you watch your family and friends also die slowly and painfully.
She looks just as good as when she was on the Tudors. She is the kind of beauty I have to look away from because it just hurts too much to stare at the sun before the solar eclipse is complete. She's a golden diamond, is what I'm saying.
@@NewEraaG resolution: a 1080x1920 grid of pixels (dots of color), 1080 pixels tall and 1920 pixels wide framerate: 60 fps (frames per second), a frame being an image, so 60 images quickly shown every second to make it seem like the video contains moving things
Bruh he should upscale to 4K60fps for that sweet extra bitrate!! Also LeMagic, rendering refers to actually making the video into a watchable mp4 or avi or other video file, from the editor that he uses, 1080p refers to 1920x1080 screen resolution (1920 pixels wide and 1080 pixels high), 60fps means there are 60 images (frames) per second being shown in the video.
dude- you could get paid to watch over people and make sure everything is normal. you could be a chaos regulator that presents crazy shit from happening. Any parent going out of town who wants to make sure their kids don't do anything crazy would instantly want you- "norma man" to just chill with them.
Candy doggo: That reply made me laugh so much... Thanks for sharing & thinking outside the box 😊 We always need more outside-box-thinkers, & that was excellent...
Nothing is more depressing then playing games on your PC alone and then checking your friend snap story and seeing that they’re all together hanging out
The thing with FOMO is it literally hits you directly in your anxiety centre and hits it very hard. This is most worst when you're an anxious and insecure person. My own experience I learned from was that I was very insecure about my friendships and was always doubting if people really liked me. My brain would find any little reason to think people don't like me (Not being invited to go get food or drinks, not being invited to play a game with your friends or them going into a different voice chat) and use all those small reasons to slam on my anxiety centre and until I basically had a panic attack if my friends were all going to meet up without me. This took A LONG time to deal with and the most important part was just being more confident in your friendships and yourself as a person that you're worth of having those friends. When I understood that I not only was less anxious and had less FOMO. I had the strength and confidence leave toxic friendships I had with people.
Too bad that helps nothing if they actually hate you. Sure statistically unlikely but look where I am. Let me tell you, whatever physical injury I ever had does not get anywhere close to getting yourself hyped up and think positively then have some of those key facts develop in either the worst case scenario or finding you were a covert optimist and somehow things could get even worse (e.g. "I don't think they see me as a friend" vs "they just used you and tell it to your face"). Make no mistake that's powerful advice but leaves you with absolutely no defense if your "unfounded" fears do come true
@@Mordecroxthats so true, it happened to me also it really damages your ability to even want to be atound people let alone open up and be friends, but what I've learn is that you have to have your own thing going on your own adventures if we manage to make this as a central theme of our lives than people can come and go and it doesn't concern us that much
@@melmonsmith9306 having high expectations causes suffering. So if we lower our expectations we will be more pleased with life because we worry less and expect less.
@@ElCampeador99 Ehhh, it's kind of a long shot from the definition of stoicism and only a small example from the many different appliances to the word. In that sense it's a little different to a baseball bat... For an example
@@thatman6916 Hey, how are you? I'm sincerely hoping that you gave life a chance to prove you wrong at some point in those last two years! It can look super grim sometimes, or even most of the time, but in this situation we need to remember that there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. Even if sometimes, it's just before going inside another tunnel right away! Also, if your life is always leading you inside tunnels, try stopping at some point, and see if there's not another set of tracks nearby! Cheers pal,
Damn !! At 4:45 that Thanos turning into dust is from my photoshop tutorial. I have seen that pic couple of times before over the internet and now here. Everytime i see it, it makes so happy !! it's a different kind of success, it's the meme success !!! i love it.
@Preacher Blackout Yeah but if you define missing as not scoring, then the quote is kinda true. I like the quote because I never try to do anything and usually the worst that can happen is just a bit of awkwardness.
Dad of the Year instead what i fear most is when i actually get invited to something 3 times out of the year. “did i use that same excuse last year? i don’t feel like texting back.”
I say find things you want to do yourself and do them. Example: I don't do superficial relationships, so I have few friends. I don't get invited to do many things, seeing as how those friends are all back in my hometown or away at a college like me. Therefore, since I like science, reading, and history, I decided to start visiting local museums. It's awesome, you should give it a try.
Same here. Very freeing though. It’s not like I don’t enjoy that stuff anymore, I do. But unlike 18 yo me I don’t constantly chase it and feel like a loser when I have nothing to do. I stay productive until I get a chance to have fun and then I’ll have more fun than younger me anyway bc I don’t give a shit if I’m the coolest guy there TLDR; being desperate and overthinking makes you miserable and won’t get you anywhere
trumpetperson11 I have friends who are twins. And they haven’t been talking to each other for a few years. And they make desperate birthdays. Tough choices.
5:47 this is so true because when i stay home for a week, my friends say "I" missed out and they tell me who came, what they saw, do, etc but when i'm there none of that stuff happens
In my experience, the biggest limiting factors are your ability to see opportunities and your courage to take them. Dont make special occasions reliant on outside forces.
I feel like that's because when they describe what happens, they leave out all the other boring shit that also went on, and you get this false impression that the whole event was fun.
What I learned from this is that everything sounds cooler than it is, and in your imagination everything you miss out is so amazing but if you don't miss something out you realize how blatant it is.
Here’s my version to avoid the fear of missing out, I hope it can help some of you: 1- set your resources. We all have 24hours in a day, a budget, and obligations. 2- set your priorities. What is really important for you (this has to be personal and not influenced by others)? Your family/friends might be most important, your career, etc. Basically, what do YOU really want. 3- set your needs. We all have to sleep (for me it’s 8 hours per day, like if your plan involves me sleeping less, I’m out. Yet it might be 4 hours for some people). 4- Cross reverence the information from step 1, 2, 3 and establish what you can realistically accomplish. For example, this party looks cool, but I don’t like going to clubs and I don’t appreciate this crowd of people. So I prefer using my money to go to the movies. 5- allow yourself time and budget for exceptional experiences. Like, I never tried a threesome with German exchange students, but maybe tonight is a good night to try. 6- be content with your decisions, be happy for the present, and hope the future will not suck. On that, I wish you all a happy life.
Threesomes are probably the most overrated thing in the history of human kind. Also a great example of fomo. So if you pass on that don't let porn and fomo fool you, you won't miss much. Playing video games instead that night would keep money in your pocket and will bring you more fun. Cheers.
Mrs Ice truck killer 😂 It’s good to know, then again... it’s hard to know how awkward a threesome with language/cultural barriers will be until you’ve realized how awkward it is while being super awkward while trying not to look awkward in the awkward threesome, awkwardly wishing you would be home with your cats.
Brandon Munoz - It actually is cringy because this kid likes a video because he's easily impressed by a lame joke. That's like being at a party and yelling "this is the best party ever" it just has that awkward vibe to it, so no, it's not being thrown around loosely here. All forms of having fun are cringe if you wanna get real here.
Hello. So, I wore your "Is she into you?" T-shirt on my first date (finally), and found it very helpful as a reference guide throughout the experience. Although it was kind of awkward having to take my VR goggles off every time I needed to see where we were at in the experience. Results were inconclusive, but will keep you posted when the next update gets released.
@@beasthaven1571 I think it comes from an emptiness that is located within you. That you cannot fill in with girlfriends, parties, and whatever the fuck. I'm 32 now and even though I'm single im becoming much more comfortable within my own skin. It was a hard road though and I had to force it. Discipline is freedom remember that. You know what you have to do in life to be better but it's hard. It's the hardest road to take.
It could also be the same with nostalgia. I've heard a lot of my friends saying they wish they could back the 'good old times ''when they were 16, but was 16 actually a great time or is it just romantisized? Like, being a teenager is still very stressful with expectations, homework, and not being taken seriously. At least when your are an adult you don't have to ask for permission to do things and you can buy yourself your own things and don't have a curfew. There's good and bad thing everywhere, I guess its just perspective that determines your FOMO or regrets.
for most people in this context, being 16 is the same things as being on the beach. while being an adult is the same as being in the ocean. there is not an immediate safety to return back to, and you have to pay attention to your actions the entire time to not fall under. when you are a teen, this feeling isn’t there, plus that is a wild time in a lot of peoples lives. therefore i’d say there are many more contributing factors.
@@rooknado true, but then again some teenagers are forced to grow up fast too. Some teenagera dont have homes or families or safety net so they are forced to act like adults without being treated like one :/
IF you have money when you are an adult, often you simply don't have time to do things you like. You have much more stuff to worry about than just homework, all that makes everything so stressful that i don't even want to do the shit i used to love when i was a teenager.
@@rebeccasanchez3651 Well, in general younger age is clearly a period with much less responsibilities, that's not romanticizing. While teenagehood is stressful for sure, it's really nothing compared to what adulthood can and will be for most people. I mean, just being a parent, which means you are responsible for more than just yourself, is obviously more stressful than being a teenager, when you're not even entirely responsible of just yourself yet. You are also right, adults have far more actual freedom - but dont forget that it comes at a much, MUCH steeper cost. Food doesnt get in the fridge by itself anymore, nor the roof over your head, if you get what I mean.
Damn, this is eighth comment I've seen along the lines of "assuming I actually have friends, lol." That's kinda sad. Is isolation and loneliness that big of a problem among today's youth...? Not like I'm any different.
@@YhurHurt I literally cannot make a friend to save my life. I don't know how people do it. I'm not even that introverted. I'm quite bubbly, i just can't seem to solidify my acquaintances into friends. I guess that's just one of them things.
@Antonio Medeiros Please don't associate that kind of vocabulary with investing. That nonsense is strictly with those crypto people. Don't say they're one and the same. Normal investment conversations never have that kind of dialogue literally ever. Crypto people just like throwing money at random gold pieces and hoping for the best while yelling silly words like "FUD" or "FOMO" every two seconds.
Ppl without this fear 😂 It can only exist when person is not sure in themself hence their choices, creating "grass is always greaner somewhere else (where I am not. When I get there it sucks, so it's, again, greaner elsewhere)". 5:40. Such ppl are always on the search but never finding, while in reality -they're realy missing out on things that actually Are good for them. Bcs they don't trust themselves. I met quite few of such ppl in my life. Also they're inevitably cheaters at some point, romanticly or otherwise. Still sad about your situation? 😉
Next to his cursor there's a small black square with digits on them, they tell the vertical and horizontal position of the text. This black box is used in photoshop
That happened to my friend and I felt so bad for him we started a whole new world and grinder all the way to beating the ender dragon with him. Teens are weird lmao
I tell people that my extreme pessimism about literally everything that could ever happen is just a smart strategy of always expecting the worst, so that the worst thing that can happen to me is that I will be right. In reality I probably just need a psychologist.
@daytonharper6967 nope. I go to the gym all the time. Train martial arts a lot. It helps but it isn't a solution. I guess I wouldn't know how much it helps unless I stop, which I don't plan on doing.
*you are literally the man that caused me to start animating!* I’ll he hitting 10ksubs tomorrow in 7 months and I wanted to like you know. THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤️❤️
Game of Thrones is also a shining example of what's wrong with prime time television nowadays. It's a show for degenerates, full of pointless violence, sex, nudity, incest (yikes), profanity, and the list goes on. You literally have every reason not to watch it.
I love this. Essentially, you shouldn’t feel bad about your benign past decisions despite what your head tells you, and you should be trying to find new exciting experiences, while understanding that it’s not always going to be mind blowing.
0:45 "its very unlikely that 2 of your 3 friends have the same birthday" me who has 3 friends out of which 2 are twins: *sweats nervously* how did he know
idk man, entry salary is like 60k if you're decent. After I graduate Imma keep living the sad life for a few years while saving and investing most of my salary so I can get into the real estate business in the meanwhile. Hopefully, I can retire by 25-26 with enough passive rental income
But for real tho, relating to what he was talking about at the end, things that might sound exciting when I weren’t there, often would’ve been boring or unenjoyable if u were there
It might be that negative people drag people down so it's less fun, but another thing I've noticed is that people love to exaggerate. Even when you were there, people will tell stories to others that weren't there and they will make it sound much better than it actually was, probably to impress the other people. I don't like that behaviour at all, I only like the truth. Which is that life has no point unless you find something that makes you happy.
I clicked this video as soon as it popped up on my phone notifications because I was afraid of missing out on watching this. Edit: This comment just reached 666 likes, i'm going to hell.
I have to lower my expectations... Not a bad video, but I had some hope that it would bring some kind of solution to it, but it's true, and it sucks XD So, it was a good explanation, but I already knew.
@@gamingtruble525 I think the solution to fear of missing out is acknowledging that whatever you're doing at the moment is probably more important than what you're missing out in otherwise you wouldn't be doing it.
“Failure is a trickster with a keen sense of irony and cunning. It takes great delight in tripping one when success is almost within reach.” -Napoleon Hill
I beat my wife but then I realized it was my dog, but by the time I realized I had already messed up and I knew that there was n going back I had made a grave mistake and it was a matter of time before I met my demise. I took the last moments of my life to realize just how pathetic I really was, but just thinking about my life choices doesn't change them. My shadow is the only one that walks beside me, he is the only one by my side, do I regret my life decisions? The sad answer to that question is yes, but there is still hope for you. There is a world before you, do what you want with it. Make changes, do everything like it is the last thing you will ever do. Socialize, do things for others that you know nobody would do for you. And eventually, that will change. Others will support you, others will be there for you. Do your labour and your hands shall be rewarded. And don't beat your dog.
I have a similar theory (and experience). My dance group and I went to Slovakia (we are from the Czech Republic) to a dance party. Once our friend and a member of the group wanted to go, but he couldn't (he had another event). And so we went without him. The party in Slovakia was quite OK, but it was not the best party I have ever experienced. After a while, we all met again, even with a friend who couldn't go. When he asked us: "How was the party in Slovakia?", everyone started that it was a terrible pity that he could not go and it was the party of the year. I looked at them a little surprised and confused, because this party without this friend wasn't nearly as good as the parties before. Everybody was drunk and nobody was dancing... so... nothing special. This made me think that every party you weren't at would be thrown at you as "the best ever", and the participants would tell you that "it's a terrible pity you couldn't come, you lost the best party in all of humanity!", when that's not really true. To be precise, after this event with that friend who cant come, I began to notice that all the members of my dance group say that about all the parties. So you practically never miss anything.
Thank you, you've helped since I've been going through what is probably a really petty crisis about not being able to go to this museum (which is already supremely far away) that has a limited time event ending in mid January. I definitely over hyped myself for something ultimately unrealistic. This is a genuine thank you, I already feel better.
This helped me quite a lot with how I think about my uni live. I'm a dumb dude, naturally I need to take less class in each semester to cope with my stupidity. But not my friends, they're no genius but they're above average, they're able to take as many classes as they want each semester and accumulate more points than I do. Before, I was struggling on how to keep up with them, but now I'm able to take my time, thinking that there's no need for me to be hard on myself to keep up with someone else. What matter is that you're happy with what you have, and move at your on pace. Sure you'll graduate a little bit later than them, but hey, at least you're not stressing yourself out trying not to but fail anyway.
You aren’t stupid you just learn different, legitimately everyone has the capacity for learning and focus unless a disorder prevents it. So when you find out what motivates you and helps you focus the most you’ll be able to zone in easy.
I feel that, everyone in my friend group has graduated Uni except for 1 other friend and I. He stopped, but I decided to keep on going. Im so unmotivated all the time by academia, even though I have 10 credit hours this semester, and I’ve been trying to get a bachelors for 7 years now… sometimes I wish I could go back in time and decided to be in the trades
A personal experience of mine, I never really had any friends since 13, and became a complete hermit since that age. A few years ago i made a wonderful group of online gaming friends. And having those wonderful moments with them made me feel alive in a way i completely forgot was even real, and they werent even IRL friends. So this made me question how much better IRL friends must be and gives me FOMO of all that ive been missing out on thanks to mental illnesses
Just become either an AI or half-AI cyborg and then speed up your perception of time You’ll see the galaxies collide and then the end of the Universe in no time flat To you, anyway To everyone else eternity will have passed and they’ll be dead
This actually hit me really last summer because I was at home doing nothing while I heard everyone going to Coachella and doing all these cool stuff I felt awful and little depressed idk why all of a sudden people are talking about this could’ve used this earlier
"my presence stops cool things from happening" Sounds like me. Every time I'm somewhere, life there gets... Boring. It's like I attract boredom. I hope I'll be able to break that, but so far it still seems to work.
"Let's say you've been invited to a friend's birthday"-
What are you talking about?
420 likes
True
@@beepboop0707 wtf I didn't get a single notification for this. Seems like I'm not alone with being alone (that makes perfect sense). Anyway, I missed to screenshot the 420 :'(
Friend?._.
Right? Lol
So sick of this guy always bragging about having 3 friends.
JoeOfCourse 600th like. You’re welcome
He's a lucky guy
L
That's 4 more friends than me.
Actually, I don't even have -1 friends I have √(-1) friends, because they are all imaginary.
Wasn't gonna watch this video, but I didn't wanna miss out.
Broady Broadhurst but you missed out on pretty cool words. If you watched the video, it wasn’t very important
Meta comment 😂
🤔
Lmao so meta, because it's true 🤣🤣
Bastard you got me
The fear of missing out starts in highschool because everytime you were off for a day or out for a while youve missed 3 fights, half the faculty having a mental breakdown and a fire in the science lab
That is actually true, the ONE time I was absent at school was the day one of my classmate found a praying mantis in the school yard (praying mantis are very rare to find).
Yeah it sucks, I was sick one day for school and they had a band play outside on the field .. Everyone kept talking about it and hyping it up after and I died inside
@@orangejuice8881 happening to me rn
Bro a girl who got me suspended got jumped while I was suspended and I was so mad I missed it but I was elated at that divine justice in action
To be fair though, there were a lot of fires in the science lab.
I feel like our depressions are now synced.
Careful. You're getting awfully close to getting sued by Apple. They're probably working on that as we speak.
manictiger wtf 😂
Same
Lmfaooo
Just like our periods
“So, basically you’re able to stop cool things from happening by being there?” I felt that 😩
Me Too
YES it feel like that
Michael Skinner Such confidence! Could you spare me some?
Michael Skinner I felt that 😢
You’re the blitz
Who else gets afraid of missing out but also doesn’t want to actually do anything
LoanLeaf ayyye 🙋🏻♀️
*Me*
Aka me
Thats pretty sad
Yeah, it's like you make yourself sad by expecting everyone to include you but not doing anything to initiate that inclusion.
Not gonna lie, finding out a boring regular party was actually a LAN party sounds amazing.
Well same, I had more fun at LAN-Parties that in other Parties, since its all about getting drunk and listening to shitty music, and meeting (mostly) annoying people there...
@@hotcoldman777 assert dominance and be the annoying drunk one. You get to have the time of your life and before you realise how much you’ve embarrassed yourself and ruined your reputation the hangover will kick in and you’ll have forgotten about all of last night. Works a charm for me every time
@@majaquinn It's for people like you that we are planning to build a colony on Mars. Get your suit ready, you'll receive a call soon
@@majaquinn I’m 3months late but somewhat agree expect for me I talk to like two people outside of my immediate friend group and the next day the hang anxiety kicks in and i’m like “OMG I WAS SO EMBARRASSING LAST NIGHT” but in reality I had a completely normal convo with them.
I was going to make it 667 likes. Almost ruined this perfect number...
"Do it or dont do it. You wilm regret both." - Lao Tzu
I regret not doing much more than doing. By doing, I walk away with a lesson.
why even think about doing or dont doing? youll regret that also. You will also regret regretting thinking about doing or not doing, and you will also regret wasting time thinking about what you should do or not do.. and youll also regret not wasting time doing it.
@@fidgetyrock4420 Were you high making this post?
@@sebastianlee6695 high or not, man got a point
@@sebastianlee6695 be high or dont be high. You will regret both
You can tell he thinks he is so funny with that intro.
And he's correct.
rubysauce you can hear him trying not to laugh
Agreed!
That intro was hilarious, watched it several times . He trying not to laugh was the best part of the video xD
We're all expecting a sponsor.
Its fucking up our expectations and its great
I think its intentional.
Idk man 1 gig up and down sounds pretty good to me
It's hard to get any better. I guess he ment 1 meb up/down, but that would be literally unusable.
I was just about to comment, doesn't 1 gig symmetrical EXCEED all possible expectations? :D
@@GLITCH_-.- I'm not sure you got the joke in the video ;d
@@orangepeelpls I guess no.
All these fools bragging about laying pipe each weekend when I'm out here laying fiber
I remember going into exams with my lowest expectation being death. By using this, I was usually content that I ended up with some sort of grade.
dang yeah
Lower your expectation even more, death isn't the end, your expectation is that you will die slowly and painfully as you watch your family and friends also die slowly and painfully.
Well when I'm going to an exam death isn't really a "low" expectation
@@gamingwithyoty7725 exactly especially if that exam was a power system protection
damn xD
His obsession with natalie dormer is both hilarious and well placed.
Especially with him saying his fav character on GoT would probably die anyway
she's gorgeous. a fuckin goddess
She looks just as good as when she was on the Tudors.
She is the kind of beauty I have to look away from because it just hurts too much to stare at the sun before the solar eclipse is complete.
She's a golden diamond, is what I'm saying.
@@jlupus8804 Her beauty is insufferable. :) Oe shorter version she is insufferable.
Too bad for him she’s mine
>The party is actually a bunch of students playing Counter-Strike drunk
That sounds dope tho
that sounds great, but the other dude is playing starcraft, maybe they got bored to fast and are now all playing different games to pass the time
Ayyy we play games drunk all the time 🍻💯
LAN party sounds so much better than awkwardly talking with no hobby
Fun when you're about 15 years old.
Or when you are 37 and contemplating dropping your kids off at school and never coming back.@@bwebb90
The man that makes glorified PowerPoint presentations renders his vids in 1080p 60fps. I lowkey love that.
Whats rendering to 1080p 60fps?
1080p is probably one of the best video qualities and 60fps is a very smooth video quality..
@@NewEraaG resolution: a 1080x1920 grid of pixels (dots of color), 1080 pixels tall and 1920 pixels wide
framerate: 60 fps (frames per second), a frame being an image, so 60 images quickly shown every second to make it seem like the video contains moving things
Bruh he should upscale to 4K60fps for that sweet extra bitrate!!
Also LeMagic, rendering refers to actually making the video into a watchable mp4 or avi or other video file, from the editor that he uses, 1080p refers to 1920x1080 screen resolution (1920 pixels wide and 1080 pixels high), 60fps means there are 60 images (frames) per second being shown in the video.
Neeeeeeeeerrds!
This just sounds like pessimism with extra steps
oh
Ooh la la, someone's getting laid in college
Vala di da🤷
@@quillfeather8947 I feel missing out because I am not able to get the reference
@@Dark-le3bn Rick and Morty slavery reference
Friend:"Hey! What's your super power"
Me:"I make things uncool by just being there."
LOL
dude- you could get paid to watch over people and make sure everything is normal. you could be a chaos regulator that presents crazy shit from happening. Any parent going out of town who wants to make sure their kids don't do anything crazy would instantly want you- "norma man" to just chill with them.
Candy doggo and thats how you make money from being uninteresting. 💵
Candy doggo: That reply made me laugh so much... Thanks for sharing & thinking outside the box 😊 We always need more outside-box-thinkers, & that was excellent...
MrPaceTv why would he ask you that
Moral of the story
Just go and ruin everything, if you can’t have fun, they can’t have fun either
grandpa is that you?
Don't get me wrong, this is a really funny comment, but this hits waaaay too close to home for me and I hate it
sounds like my ex wife
thats how loneliness works
i am the 1000th like
Just leave social media. Trust me you won't miss anything.
Nobody likes me on social media, but I bang chicks and super social outside of it.. lmao
@@fidgetyrock4420 r/ihavesex
You know that youtube is a social media website aswell?
@OMEGA LOL just google all social media websites.
@Maycon Cruz ikr
Nothing is more depressing then playing games on your PC alone and then checking your friend snap story and seeing that they’re all together hanging out
And then seeing that you got unfriended whilst you weren't watching
This
😅 so relatable wtf
oof that hit way too hard
Sooo true :(
Expect nothing and you'll never get disappointed.
Kratos
So, no more Deltarune?
Toby Fox
you could wake up expecting nothing and get robbed on the way to work
"I expected nothing, but I was still disappointed"
Kratos daddy
"Computer science and engineering party" Woah there buster you actually expected *girls* at that party?
Tis
He didn't say "live action" girls.
Anime parties ftw...
Everyone brings their own waifu pillow and onahole
There will be girls, girls that try vert hard to act like men to look tough, but still girls.
At least the engineers are some of the nicest and most genuine people you will meet on the campus.
The thing with FOMO is it literally hits you directly in your anxiety centre and hits it very hard. This is most worst when you're an anxious and insecure person. My own experience I learned from was that I was very insecure about my friendships and was always doubting if people really liked me. My brain would find any little reason to think people don't like me (Not being invited to go get food or drinks, not being invited to play a game with your friends or them going into a different voice chat) and use all those small reasons to slam on my anxiety centre and until I basically had a panic attack if my friends were all going to meet up without me. This took A LONG time to deal with and the most important part was just being more confident in your friendships and yourself as a person that you're worth of having those friends. When I understood that I not only was less anxious and had less FOMO. I had the strength and confidence leave toxic friendships I had with people.
Too bad that helps nothing if they actually hate you. Sure statistically unlikely but look where I am.
Let me tell you, whatever physical injury I ever had does not get anywhere close to getting yourself hyped up and think positively then have some of those key facts develop in either the worst case scenario or finding you were a covert optimist and somehow things could get even worse (e.g. "I don't think they see me as a friend" vs "they just used you and tell it to your face").
Make no mistake that's powerful advice but leaves you with absolutely no defense if your "unfounded" fears do come true
@@Mordecroxthats so true, it happened to me also it really damages your ability to even want to be atound people let alone open up and be friends, but what I've learn is that you have to have your own thing going on your own adventures if we manage to make this as a central theme of our lives than people can come and go and it doesn't concern us that much
i knew i had to watch this video or else id spend the rest of my life worrying about what i missed by not watching it
tomatoanus my boy tomtatoanus
Oof
the real meta comment
The only 3 friends thing had me shook. I was like that was funny and then I realized, I only actually have 3 friends
I was like damn this dude has more friends than I do
@@soaphope3398 i got you beat, 2 meh friends and one super long distance
At least you have friends.
were you rEaLlY sHoOk
@@gh0stykins i bet he was
This man just explained Stoicism for the average stick figure.
Seneca’s De Ira ~ if anybody would like to do further reading on this topic
M A R C U S A U R E L I U S
Please explain how what you just said makes sense
@@melmonsmith9306 having high expectations causes suffering. So if we lower our expectations we will be more pleased with life because we worry less and expect less.
@@ElCampeador99 Ehhh, it's kind of a long shot from the definition of stoicism and only a small example from the many different appliances to the word. In that sense it's a little different to a baseball bat... For an example
“reality is often disappointing”
Not often
I repeat
Not often, every fucking time😒
S'all good, man!
deep
@@thatman6916 facts
@@thatman6916 Hey, how are you? I'm sincerely hoping that you gave life a chance to prove you wrong at some point in those last two years! It can look super grim sometimes, or even most of the time, but in this situation we need to remember that there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. Even if sometimes, it's just before going inside another tunnel right away! Also, if your life is always leading you inside tunnels, try stopping at some point, and see if there's not another set of tracks nearby! Cheers pal,
"You're able to stop cool things by being there" LMAO what an insight
Thanos : *reality can be whatever I want*
Also Thanos: *reality is often disappointing*
Conclusion: Even Thanos suffers of compulsive self-sabotage
Let's face it. Thanos wants AntMan up his butt.
@@basicnpcc Sounds like a Buzzfeed article
@@basicnpcc no I dont
Damn !! At 4:45 that Thanos turning into dust is from my photoshop tutorial. I have seen that pic couple of times before over the internet and now here. Everytime i see it, it makes so happy !! it's a different kind of success, it's the meme success !!! i love it.
Cheese
This is epic. Subbed.
This is mildly wholesome
Not even verified
@@popsilog7636 they didnt apply
"its highly unlikely that two of your three friends have the same birthday."
My two best friends are 8 minutes older and 5 minutes younger than me.
That was a really great story. Thank you for sharing.
that was a great story don't listen to this guy.
Triplets?
@@beybladeguru101 triplets with no other friends
"'You miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take'- Wayne Gretzky"-Michael Scot
But if you don't take them, how would you ever miss?
*finger to forehead*
@Preacher Blackout Yeah but if you define missing as not scoring, then the quote is kinda true. I like the quote because I never try to do anything and usually the worst that can happen is just a bit of awkwardness.
So, uh, Alexander Hamilton?
@Madison Blaine "you take one hundred percent of the shots that you don't miss"
-Bill Cosby
Imagine being afraid of missing out.
This post was made by introvert gang.
Dad of the Year instead what i fear most is when i actually get invited to something 3 times out of the year. “did i use that same excuse last year? i don’t feel like texting back.”
@justin rogers I think that's a bit low. I have been invited 5 times this year.
I sometimes imagine It
Posted by ambiert gang
haha
being introverted makes it worse
More like the introvert private club
Well I never get invited so therefor I have no fear of missing out because I have no idea wth i'm missing...
I say find things you want to do yourself and do them.
Example: I don't do superficial relationships, so I have few friends. I don't get invited to do many things, seeing as how those friends are all back in my hometown or away at a college like me. Therefore, since I like science, reading, and history, I decided to start visiting local museums. It's awesome, you should give it a try.
STOP COMMENTING ON EVERYTHING I WATCH WTF
Except social media exists
Oh yes a fellow comrade and ASMR
Pretty normal stuff for a guy running an asmr TH-cam channel
Life has been so uneventful the last 5 years that I honestly cant remember how it feels to miss out. Guess I just dont care anymore idk
Same here. Very freeing though. It’s not like I don’t enjoy that stuff anymore, I do. But unlike 18 yo me I don’t constantly chase it and feel like a loser when I have nothing to do. I stay productive until I get a chance to have fun and then I’ll have more fun than younger me anyway bc I don’t give a shit if I’m the coolest guy there
TLDR; being desperate and overthinking makes you miserable and won’t get you anywhere
mood
Do you want a hug bud? You sound like you need some one to give you warmth
love u bro lets kiss mwah mwah mwah kissy kissy uwu
I'm kinda the same, don't know if this is bad or not, feel like i'm loosing human emotions. lol
This video has such a good sponsor.
yas i buy his stupid thing before is no bad
"It's unlikely that 2 of your 3 friends have their birthday on the same day"
✓ I'm in this post and I do not like it.
I share a bday with a homeboy
Xx
Clean tick
@@sofakingraw4149 yourself doesn't count
trumpetperson11 I have friends who are twins. And they haven’t been talking to each other for a few years. And they make desperate birthdays.
Tough choices.
5:47 this is so true
because when i stay home for a week, my friends say "I" missed out and they tell me who came, what they saw, do, etc
but when i'm there none of that stuff happens
I start to wonder if either
A) I'm no fun and I'm a party pooper
B) they (friends) make this shit up so you'll hang out with them
C) a mix of both
@@hollowhoagie6441 Can't tell
In my experience, the biggest limiting factors are your ability to see opportunities and your courage to take them. Dont make special occasions reliant on outside forces.
I feel like that's because when they describe what happens, they leave out all the other boring shit that also went on, and you get this false impression that the whole event was fun.
Tf is a friend
What I learned from this is that everything sounds cooler than it is, and in your imagination everything you miss out is so amazing but if you don't miss something out you realize how blatant it is.
facts!!
Look at Mr. Humble brag here having friends.
Here’s my version to avoid the fear of missing out, I hope it can help some of you:
1- set your resources. We all have 24hours in a day, a budget, and obligations.
2- set your priorities. What is really important for you (this has to be personal and not influenced by others)? Your family/friends might be most important, your career, etc. Basically, what do YOU really want.
3- set your needs. We all have to sleep (for me it’s 8 hours per day, like if your plan involves me sleeping less, I’m out. Yet it might be 4 hours for some people).
4- Cross reverence the information from step 1, 2, 3 and establish what you can realistically accomplish. For example, this party looks cool, but I don’t like going to clubs and I don’t appreciate this crowd of people. So I prefer using my money to go to the movies.
5- allow yourself time and budget for exceptional experiences. Like, I never tried a threesome with German exchange students, but maybe tonight is a good night to try.
6- be content with your decisions, be happy for the present, and hope the future will not suck.
On that, I wish you all a happy life.
Threesomes are probably the most overrated thing in the history of human kind. Also a great example of fomo. So if you pass on that don't let porn and fomo fool you, you won't miss much. Playing video games instead that night would keep money in your pocket and will bring you more fun. Cheers.
Mrs Ice truck killer 😂 It’s good to know, then again... it’s hard to know how awkward a threesome with language/cultural barriers will be until you’ve realized how awkward it is while being super awkward while trying not to look awkward in the awkward threesome, awkwardly wishing you would be home with your cats.
That's 👌
luls,german exchange student jajaja
@@mrsicetruckkiller150 how do you even get to that point, just curious
Bold of you to assume that I'd be invited to anything..
Tristan Williamson my friends hung out without me on halloween
@@elmocino It's because you'll eat all mah damn candy up.
"So, in other words, you're able to stop cool things from happening by being there?"
That friend is savage.
"2 of your 3 friends"
Haha good one. Three friends. more like 1 that I pretty much only talk to over whatsapp.
Ricky FeelsBadMan
Haha friends. I don't care. I have my cat. And when she ignores me I just look at other cats on Instagram.
Ricky whats app
Same. Lets be youtube friends
wanna talk someday man?
opening joke alone warrants the like.
Ugh *cringe*
T R U T H What’s ‘cringe’ is you throwing the word around, and with “ugh” to boot.
Brandon Munoz - Ew you're even cringier
Brandon Munoz - It actually is cringy because this kid likes a video because he's easily impressed by a lame joke. That's like being at a party and yelling "this is the best party ever" it just has that awkward vibe to it, so no, it's not being thrown around loosely here. All forms of having fun are cringe if you wanna get real here.
@@RedPlaystationController Oh , I get it now. You're just extremely lame and likely self-conscious. I see.
“One gig up one gig down” absolutely golden
That is so connected, that is jacked.
What does that mean?
@@arinaa4809 upload and download speed
@@pushpithageeganage7992 thanks
Hello. So, I wore your "Is she into you?" T-shirt on my first date (finally), and found it very helpful as a reference guide throughout the experience.
Although it was kind of awkward having to take my VR goggles off every time I needed to see where we were at in the experience.
Results were inconclusive, but will keep you posted when the next update gets released.
"This video has been made possible by....."
*_M E_*
@4:59 OMG he's using animation! Casually explained is getting hi tech! The future is now.
I had girlfriends, partied, and had hookups during my 20’s but its never enough. You always think you have missed out regardless. Atleast I do.
Y was it never enough
@@beasthaven1571 I think it comes from an emptiness that is located within you. That you cannot fill in with girlfriends, parties, and whatever the fuck. I'm 32 now and even though I'm single im becoming much more comfortable within my own skin. It was a hard road though and I had to force it. Discipline is freedom remember that. You know what you have to do in life to be better but it's hard. It's the hardest road to take.
@Hernando Malinche I am lonesome right now dude. When you are young you think things are going to be better but not necesarily.
@@franciscofeest6691 but u said u had gfs how can u be single like fuck didnthey already break up with u wow! (No offence or anything lol)
@Hernando Malinche lol incel
It could also be the same with nostalgia. I've heard a lot of my friends saying they wish they could back the 'good old times ''when they were 16, but was 16 actually a great time or is it just romantisized? Like, being a teenager is still very stressful with expectations, homework, and not being taken seriously. At least when your are an adult you don't have to ask for permission to do things and you can buy yourself your own things and don't have a curfew. There's good and bad thing everywhere, I guess its just perspective that determines your FOMO or regrets.
for most people in this context, being 16 is the same things as being on the beach. while being an adult is the same as being in the ocean. there is not an immediate safety to return back to, and you have to pay attention to your actions the entire time to not fall under. when you are a teen, this feeling isn’t there, plus that is a wild time in a lot of peoples lives. therefore i’d say there are many more contributing factors.
@@rooknado true, but then again some teenagers are forced to grow up fast too. Some teenagera dont have homes or families or safety net so they are forced to act like adults without being treated like one :/
IF you have money when you are an adult, often you simply don't have time to do things you like. You have much more stuff to worry about than just homework, all that makes everything so stressful that i don't even want to do the shit i used to love when i was a teenager.
@@rebeccasanchez3651 very good point it still applies
@@rebeccasanchez3651 Well, in general younger age is clearly a period with much less responsibilities, that's not romanticizing. While teenagehood is stressful for sure, it's really nothing compared to what adulthood can and will be for most people. I mean, just being a parent, which means you are responsible for more than just yourself, is obviously more stressful than being a teenager, when you're not even entirely responsible of just yourself yet.
You are also right, adults have far more actual freedom - but dont forget that it comes at a much, MUCH steeper cost. Food doesnt get in the fridge by itself anymore, nor the roof over your head, if you get what I mean.
You're giving us an example based on the assumption that we have friends
Damn, this is eighth comment I've seen along the lines of "assuming I actually have friends, lol."
That's kinda sad. Is isolation and loneliness that big of a problem among today's youth...? Not like I'm any different.
I mean, I literally have no friends, dropped out of high school because of it. Now I have no friends at home, which is the choice I made.
adamiscoolization Ew go away
Bryan Merrill yup it is mate. Dont know where to make them at this point
@@YhurHurt I literally cannot make a friend to save my life. I don't know how people do it. I'm not even that introverted. I'm quite bubbly, i just can't seem to solidify my acquaintances into friends. I guess that's just one of them things.
Fear of missing out is actually a real thing and you can call it FOMO for short.
No FOMO
no, that's
Fear
Of
Moldy
Onions
Either way it makes me cry.
@Antonio Medeiros Please don't associate that kind of vocabulary with investing. That nonsense is strictly with those crypto people. Don't say they're one and the same. Normal investment conversations never have that kind of dialogue literally ever. Crypto people just like throwing money at random gold pieces and hoping for the best while yelling silly words like "FUD" or "FOMO" every two seconds.
We The Animals hahaha
Perfect timing. I wasn't able to go with my friends today....
Cause they didn't invite me
Wow, you have friends? Lucky
Plot twist: they were never real
I hate that feeling dude!
3:28 that is so deep... “the timeline will still be the same anyway”, so true on so many levels
wait im bouta go to college did i fuck up
@omegon3782 2 years later do you feel likebyou f****d up?
Who else doesn’t have to worry about this because they have no friends 😎
This is something to be proud of
Ppl without this fear 😂 It can only exist when person is not sure in themself hence their choices, creating "grass is always greaner somewhere else (where I am not. When I get there it sucks, so it's, again, greaner elsewhere)". 5:40.
Such ppl are always on the search but never finding, while in reality -they're realy missing out on things that actually Are good for them. Bcs they don't trust themselves. I met quite few of such ppl in my life. Also they're inevitably cheaters at some point, romanticly or otherwise. Still sad about your situation? 😉
OG Fight night Ha loser
LOL
You miss out on having friends then D:
4:56 Wow, paint animations. You've really outdone yourself in this video.
oh gawd lawl he goes over the ticks on the line
uuh aktually, thats a program called Pixelmator 🤓
@@AbrahamMast it's photoshop
Next to his cursor there's a small black square with digits on them, they tell the vertical and horizontal position of the text. This black box is used in photoshop
When you are scared of your friends beating the ender dragon without you.
damn this was me when we started a server
My friends did do this... and the Wither...
Top 10 suicide causes
FR
That happened to my friend and I felt so bad for him we started a whole new world and grinder all the way to beating the ender dragon with him. Teens are weird lmao
I tell people that my extreme pessimism about literally everything that could ever happen is just a smart strategy of always expecting the worst, so that the worst thing that can happen to me is that I will be right. In reality I probably just need a psychologist.
u gotta hit the gym, big boost on attitude
@daytonharper6967 nope. I go to the gym all the time. Train martial arts a lot. It helps but it isn't a solution. I guess I wouldn't know how much it helps unless I stop, which I don't plan on doing.
*you are literally the man that caused me to start animating!* I’ll he hitting 10ksubs tomorrow in 7 months and I wanted to like you know. THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤️❤️
nice, I haven't even started animating yet
@@CasuallyExplained lol
@@CasuallyExplained we all know you main King K Rool because of his annyoing projectiles
@@CasuallyExplained Lol, comedy at its best
"Slowly records dragging image across the screen with a mouse"
I'm not gonna lie. Some of your casual explanations(like this one) really do calm my mind when i cant wrap my head around things. Good on you sir!
“game of thrones, my favorite character would probably die”...
mood
RIP my favourite lower than average sized appendage.
Wait...
WILL*
whats funnier is as of season 6 hes not wrong either
Game of Thrones is also a shining example of what's wrong with prime time television nowadays. It's a show for degenerates, full of pointless violence, sex, nudity, incest (yikes), profanity, and the list goes on. You literally have every reason not to watch it.
Bryan Merrill i mean i watch it because i wanna see who how it ends but ya i guess you got a point
I love this. Essentially, you shouldn’t feel bad about your benign past decisions despite what your head tells you, and you should be trying to find new exciting experiences, while understanding that it’s not always going to be mind blowing.
0:45 "its very unlikely that 2 of your 3 friends have the same birthday" me who has 3 friends out of which 2 are twins: *sweats nervously* how did he know
I have a Degree in CS with a specialization in Artificial Intelligence. 3:12 really hit me hard as its all true.
@winter ride heh, i'm not in college but have done a few courses- very relatable
@winter ride Besides, CS is goddamn cool!
idk man, entry salary is like 60k if you're decent. After I graduate Imma keep living the sad life for a few years while saving and investing most of my salary so I can get into the real estate business in the meanwhile. Hopefully, I can retire by 25-26 with enough passive rental income
@@user-rf4vc7mt4d good luck
But for real tho, relating to what he was talking about at the end, things that might sound exciting when I weren’t there, often would’ve been boring or unenjoyable if u were there
It might be that negative people drag people down so it's less fun, but another thing I've noticed is that people love to exaggerate. Even when you were there, people will tell stories to others that weren't there and they will make it sound much better than it actually was, probably to impress the other people.
I don't like that behaviour at all, I only like the truth. Which is that life has no point unless you find something that makes you happy.
I think it's normal to have no friends now
Kinda hard to have friends whem you can barely leave the house and when you so you have to wear a mask lol
@epic redditor like us
Its not normal never was never will be.
@epic redditor
Your username is literally "epic redditor"
Kinda ironic that you say that lol
Dude I have 3 friends, that means I'm above average now :D
Casually Explained: "This video was my possible by me"
*Nord VPN did not like that*
Mentions a sale in video about "The Fear of Missing Out". Perfect example
I have to study machine learning for my AI module of my degree, I can assure you, you aren't missing out.
what else in AI actually works? you wanna come back to Prolog?
What exactly are you learning python? Does it live up to the hype?
Me to bro...currently working on backpropagation
Web makes a little less money but it is easier and more interesting
Okay
The ability to stop cool things from happening by being there sounds like a great superpower to not have.
Was this a puberty reveal video? Cus your voice is sounding thicc
he's JacksFilms
He sounds like Elon Musk at the start
@@fortitude120 wha?
@@ThaThree He legitimately is
mahad it’s jacksfilms
I clicked this video as soon as it popped up on my phone notifications because I was afraid of missing out on watching this.
Edit: This comment just reached 666 likes, i'm going to hell.
I have to lower my expectations... Not a bad video, but I had some hope that it would bring some kind of solution to it, but it's true, and it sucks XD
So, it was a good explanation, but I already knew.
@@gamingtruble525 I think the solution to fear of missing out is acknowledging that whatever you're doing at the moment is probably more important than what you're missing out in otherwise you wouldn't be doing it.
This is a robbery give me your likes
@@urtheguyfromthehamburgertrain I subscribed, and hit that bell. Now make content so I can like you more.
My rule of thumb for going out is, even if you don’t wanna go that much, just go for an hour, and if you want to leave after, then leave.
“Failure is a trickster with a keen sense of irony and cunning. It takes great delight in tripping one when success is almost within reach.”
-Napoleon Hill
Can't miss out when there's nothing to miss
I'm lonely send help
I sent it, but I got the wrong address, they had a great time thou....
I beat my wife but then I realized it was my dog, but by the time I realized I had already messed up and I knew that there was n going back I had made a grave mistake and it was a matter of time before I met my demise. I took the last moments of my life to realize just how pathetic I really was, but just thinking about my life choices doesn't change them. My shadow is the only one that walks beside me, he is the only one by my side, do I regret my life decisions? The sad answer to that question is yes, but there is still hope for you. There is a world before you, do what you want with it. Make changes, do everything like it is the last thing you will ever do. Socialize, do things for others that you know nobody would do for you. And eventually, that will change. Others will support you, others will be there for you. Do your labour and your hands shall be rewarded. And don't beat your dog.
@@Trentjans based doomer, gonna make it
*sendinghelp.exe has stopped working*
Wubba lubba dub duub!
"You're not missing out anything if you go, but miss out on everything if you don't." - Man of Knowledge
"When a freshman in computer science says powerful connections, what he really means is 1 gig up and 1 gig down." 1:52
I'm dead lol
I go by the rule that 90% of my worries won’t happen.
what about the other 10%?
@@Akeirbuah *We don't talk about that here*
The Fear of Missing Out; the nr.1 reason that prevents people from committing suicide
"Expect nothing and you will never be disappointed"
-Kratos 2018
"Breaking Bad, already got my own recipes" 😂
I have a similar theory (and experience). My dance group and I went to Slovakia (we are from the Czech Republic) to a dance party. Once our friend and a member of the group wanted to go, but he couldn't (he had another event). And so we went without him. The party in Slovakia was quite OK, but it was not the best party I have ever experienced.
After a while, we all met again, even with a friend who couldn't go. When he asked us: "How was the party in Slovakia?", everyone started that it was a terrible pity that he could not go and it was the party of the year.
I looked at them a little surprised and confused, because this party without this friend wasn't nearly as good as the parties before. Everybody was drunk and nobody was dancing... so... nothing special.
This made me think that every party you weren't at would be thrown at you as "the best ever", and the participants would tell you that "it's a terrible pity you couldn't come, you lost the best party in all of humanity!", when that's not really true.
To be precise, after this event with that friend who cant come, I began to notice that all the members of my dance group say that about all the parties. So you practically never miss anything.
thanks for the testimony brudda.. appriciate it
Austrian perspective: Get drunk as often as possible, something fun will eventually happen.
Yeah, it's called cirrhosis.
How will getting drunk often make fun things happen? I'd just get sacked from work, crash my car and throw up on my keyboard.
Is it just me or did Casually Explained sound like he just hit puberty? His voice changed a lot
New mic maybe? But yeah I hear it man
yeah wtf
I think that was Internet Historian dude.. That voice sounds like his.
FOMO: exists
Quarantine: I'm about to ruin this man's whole career
Whitney D its more of a beautiful blessing.
Meme doesn't really fit well, cause that would be a rather good thing.
Hah! No one's getting invited to anything anymore!
I have no fear of this
You get to figure it out
@@DogeDELUX that's the joke tho
Thank you, you've helped since I've been going through what is probably a really petty crisis about not being able to go to this museum (which is already supremely far away) that has a limited time event ending in mid January.
I definitely over hyped myself for something ultimately unrealistic.
This is a genuine thank you, I already feel better.
printf("where are the line breaks man
");
Wait, yeah he left that out. He also didn't specify namespace, is that just not necessary?
Kaleb Bruwer namespace is C++ that code was in C.
And you say nothing about "int mylosttuition = gone"? Didn't realize gone was an integer lol.
@@Zequicete it is, he initialized it to 0 earlier in the code
@@grayson9151 C has a main function? I must admit I don't know any C.
If you have fear of missing out, then you will be in fear forever because you will ALWAYS be missing out on something else.....no matter what cha do
This helped me quite a lot with how I think about my uni live.
I'm a dumb dude, naturally I need to take less class in each semester to cope with my stupidity. But not my friends, they're no genius but they're above average, they're able to take as many classes as they want each semester and accumulate more points than I do. Before, I was struggling on how to keep up with them, but now I'm able to take my time, thinking that there's no need for me to be hard on myself to keep up with someone else. What matter is that you're happy with what you have, and move at your on pace. Sure you'll graduate a little bit later than them, but hey, at least you're not stressing yourself out trying not to but fail anyway.
You are the Real MVP
Your friends always seem more popular and better than yourself.
You aren’t stupid you just learn different, legitimately everyone has the capacity for learning and focus unless a disorder prevents it. So when you find out what motivates you and helps you focus the most you’ll be able to zone in easy.
I feel that, everyone in my friend group has graduated Uni except for 1 other friend and I. He stopped, but I decided to keep on going. Im so unmotivated all the time by academia, even though I have 10 credit hours this semester, and I’ve been trying to get a bachelors for 7 years now… sometimes I wish I could go back in time and decided to be in the trades
A personal experience of mine, I never really had any friends since 13, and became a complete hermit since that age. A few years ago i made a wonderful group of online gaming friends. And having those wonderful moments with them made me feel alive in a way i completely forgot was even real, and they werent even IRL friends.
So this made me question how much better IRL friends must be and gives me FOMO of all that ive been missing out on thanks to mental illnesses
Andromeda merging with milky way :( ultimate missing out.
Why you do this? :(
Just become either an AI or half-AI cyborg and then speed up your perception of time
You’ll see the galaxies collide and then the end of the Universe in no time flat
To you, anyway
To everyone else eternity will have passed and they’ll be dead
Vsauce would like a word with you
😣
This actually hit me really last summer because I was at home doing nothing while I heard everyone going to Coachella and doing all these cool stuff I felt awful and little depressed idk why all of a sudden people are talking about this could’ve used this earlier
"By 'powerful connections' they meant one gig up and one gig down." You actually made me laugh, not just blow air out of my nose.
Me too 😂😂
One of the sole reasons I don’t ever go on Instagram is because you can always see what people are doing at their BEST moments.
"Breaking bad, already have my own recipes" legit the best part😂
2:24 "As a person who goes to gym a lot but you can't tell" Made me spill my drink on my keyboard
While I'm watching this video, my *(obviously real)* friends are missing out on this deep type of content
The reality of going out rarely meets it's expectations.
"my presence stops cool things from happening"
Sounds like me. Every time I'm somewhere, life there gets... Boring. It's like I attract boredom. I hope I'll be able to break that, but so far it still seems to work.