My PARENTS kicked me out when I was 18 and I was HOMELESS. 10 years later they went BANKRUPT
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- My PARENTS kicked me out when I was 18 and I was HOMELESS. 10 years later they went BANKRUPT
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Squatters rights are some of the absolute biggest bs in any law system
Yeah, they are a joke.
In general, I think tenancy/land rights are twisted af.
If you are doing things legally, they heavily favor landowners.
If you are not doing things legally, then they heavily favor squatters.
Is it so damn hard to get this stuff right?
Its actually a good law to prevent empty houses owned by rich people who dont give a crap. But you need to give the owners enough time. 30 days is literally nothing. What if you go on a long vacation or travel around the world?
@@realglutenfreeI disagree, I don't think it's a good law in the slightest. The solution to that is to raise the cost of having these empty properties (or -- in an extreme circumstance, say you can't own them), not to encourage criminal behavior.
I doubt this will change anytime soon. Politicians either own property, or they have varying levels of friends who do. Some who might be less inclined to continue their contributions if anything changed :)
They make sense but left unchecked they are some of the stupidest laws ever
Nobody should be able to trespass, invade your space and linger like a parasite
@@realglutenfreeor get hospitalised
Ok so your parents come into your house and claim squatters rights since it's just word against word and the police can't do anything. At the same time they also get jobs which means they'd have to leave the house at some point. As soon as they leave the house, call a locksmith and change the locks, and then throw out their stuff. Like what are they gonna do? If it's word vs word and they're not in the house and are without a key, then what can they do?
yes if it is word against word, why didn't the parents call a locksmith and have the locks changed and put their son out to sleep in a tent again?
Would have been illegal. You can't evict someone without proper legal notice, and if they're claiming residency, that has to be disproven through the courts first before an immediate eviction would have been possible. Going through standard eviction proceedings was the faster and easier option.
@@LIscariot The police would've done nothing.
@@redguy2312 Never count on the police being on your side, and furthermore it doesn't matter what the police do because a lawsuit doesn't involve them
@@LIscariotwait, wouldn't it be the opposite though? Wouldn't the courts require evidence of their residency? Or can you just walk up into ANY PROPERTY, say you lived there for a month, and just take the property?
Also the parents were broke, they couldn't afford bringing it to courts while having to get jobs and a place to live + keep the place.
the US and their obsession with kicking thier kids out 18 always baffles me. just say you dont love your kids.
This is almost unimaginable to people in eastern countries like India etc etc
That's the thing, OP's story is the exception and not the rule. The vast, vast, vast majority of parents don't do that. It's just that that's when they have the legal right to do so.
Please don’t bunches in with these monsters there is a woman in China who was abandoned as a baby adopted made enough money and bought our best friend an apartment a parents come out of the blue and ask her to buy their son an apartment she said no talking to about there’s a law that says oh well biological parents have the right to sue the kids for support but as support nothing
@@Mrfunny663vnb83Not just eastern countries. In Europe this also isn't a thing. Except when the children move out to a dorm close to their uni ofc, but then they're leaving on their own accord, not cuz they're getting kicked out. In the Netherlands a lot of students move back in after studying too, since getting a house as a young adult is almost impossible right now.
Oh, I'm not from us but my father dreamed of kicking me out once i turned 18... In a foreign country i haven't yet learned the language of and have no friends in. Thank goodness my mom stepped in. I thought its a norm to kick children out like that... Glad to hear it isn't.
always remember folks the words " I was afraid for my life" while in your own house is a pretty dope defense
Or the South Park reference they're Charging Us Ned. 🏁
is it a joke or fr?
@@corncobbob2326Yeah, I knew someone who had a crazy ex who was stalking her and hanging around her apartment. Her feeling so scared that she got a gun and security system was really helpful when she filed for a restraining order.
@@EDV8ZR1Come on down to South Park and meet some friends of mine.
Both parents claim to be child free. And…neither got snipped or their tubes tied.
Me: *Visible confusion.*
Both parents wanted to be child-free
@@inquisitivefeline…yes? What’s your point
The issue with women getting their tubes tied is that doctors often value a mans opinion over a womans. I talked to my doctor about it but they told me "My Husband might want kids one day" the very husband who doesnt exist. My brother wouldnt get snipped because he heard sex doesnt feel the same after. I think its a toxic masculinity issue for them. 🙄
@@Littlereddevil94 keep yapping into the void
@@Littlereddevil94cope harder
“Took 18 years of their lives.”
Now I wasn’t there of course, but I’m pretty sure OP wasn’t twisting their arms from beyond our mortal plane, forcing them to conceive him.
His birth was their doing. The first chance they got, they abandoned him.
He doesn’t owe them anything.
Thank you. Parents always wanna say you owe them because they raised you. As if EITHER of you had any other choice.
Facts
If I were the grandparents, the second they called me I would have told them, "I wouldn't be so smug if I were you. One post on social media telling the world what you did to him would kill your business in seconds. He doesn't want to do that because he's trying to be the bigger person, but I have no problem doing it if you ever pull this bullshirt again. In fact, you better pray I live a long, long life because you don't want to know what I have planned for my online obituary. Or what business it's going to be linked to. Sleep tight, mother forkers."
This story further reinforces the saying "Every children deserve parents, but not every parent deserves a child"
I do believe people need a license to breed.
The government thought citizens need a license to Drive, get married, practice law and carry a weapon why not a license to breed
@@user-fw7fj3df5r weapons and vehichles are man-made and are something that you wouldn’t be able to get nor need if they weren't produced. You can’t stop people from reproducing, it's a natural part of human biology. And if they still do it illegaly, what are you supposed to do next? There's already so much debate around pro-life, imagine starting to abort children because of a governmental decision. Or if you put them up for adoption, there's just going to be 1000x more homeless/family-less children.
If this is a joke lol but if not I think they should do some sort of are you a fit parent inspection a year but I don’t think license is necessary @@user-fw7fj3df5r
there is a special place in hell for these parents
Agreed. I hate parents that aren't exactly abusive (physically and such) but still end up as bad parents and plain assholes.
thats terrible i cant imagine my parents doing that to me
magine im too much of a disappointment
Couldn't OP use the verbal agreement against them by kicking them out after a week saying to the police they verbally agreed to leave and are now lying?
It's still he said she said. You need hard evidence.
@@jordanwardle11tbf, having a cop there as a legal witness of your eviction notice is pretty good. Considering they would have on record that you tried to evict them x weeks ago but claimed you were lying. Calling again 2 weeks later as a normal eviction notice period would be. Might help, but probably a waste of police resources. Its best to go to court for that.
@@lightshow366 sure, but they would also have on record that they told you to go to court
@@jordanwardle11 yet they dont need hard evidence to prove theyve been there a month?
@@PairOfSocksGaming being moved in, keys, address changes. Just enough to cause doubts. And since its again, a he said she said. It needs to go through the courts.
Such toxic problematic entitled parents. They threw their son out at an age where he was barely ready financially and socially. Didn’t give a damn. Years later when he’d got better income, bought his own house they arrive out of the blue gate crashing and trying to play happy family. If these demons were my parents I’d change the locks 🔒 and throw their stuff outside, hide the keys 🔑 and leave them to sleep outside.
Legit wondering how the "father" ended up so bad when the grandparents are nice.
So the story says that he lives in the US. There's this tool you can usually just purchase for about 500$ called a "Glock 19" that he could use to convince his parents to vacate his house.
Yup!
Your honor, they were armed with a kitchen knife and I feared for my life
the way i would've put locks on both the pantry and fridge
the way i would've changed the locks as soon as they left the house the first time
I would have put laxatives and worse in everything in the pantry and fridge!
@@dexine4723 I like your brain
@@butmermaids7443 Aand... attempted murder or something?
Why some parents are so bad if they dont want child they didn't had to f#ck without protection the kid never asked to be born
Accidents happen. Protection is never 100%. But yeah they shouldn't have had their kid
@@christinahicks978 The dad could've gotten snipped or mom could've gotten her tubes tied.
I suppose they just expected him to magically manifest a career and stable job at the age of 18.
And when they lost their jobs they expected their neglected progeny to have an onze of sympathy for their plight and house them.
The sheer fucking audacity. He should have given them his old tent and let them sleep outside.
@@crowfather0249it's a lot harder than that for people without kids. You basically get treated like a child with no bodily autonomy
When parents need parenting
Listening to this has made me so unbelievably angry
not happy to hear some kid had it easier than you?
@@mgntstr schlawg can you make up bait better next time
I was angry on behalf of the reddit poster. It's a horrible story
The calendar thing is amazing. The parents are a whole other story.
I can wholeheartedly say if I was in OPs situation and my lousy bums of parents came and took over my house while refusing to leave, they wouldn't have ever left it. They'd be buried under it.
ugh. i came here for karma, but the parents are doing just as well as they were before they went all-caps BANKRUPT. :/
if you're here for justice, you will find none.
Yeah, it’s a pretty bitter sweet ending. No karma came, they learned nothing, and got to everything that had before back.
@@A-Warthog-cc1wm yeah. on the other hand, OP isn't getting harassed anymore.. that's good, at least
I originally heard this story, I often thought of why doesn’t OP do anything or retaliate, but from what OP is mentioned, they are the types that if you push them, they will push back 10 times harder. Meaning that if OP did something bad or sabotage the business they do something five times is worst to OP because from what he said he had the experience where if he did some thing they do something back to somebody even more horrible so that’s why he didn’t try to lock the doors on them or toss them out because they are the types that think that they can do what they want to people but heaven for bid the repercussions of their actions. I’m just hoping it all honesty that those parents don’t come back in to Opie’s life because I have that feeling that when the father or mother passes guess who’s going to be pounding on the door saying that they need money for X funeral because they don’t wanna be bothered by paying for a burial or cremation.
This is why I would personally have protection on me at all times idgaf who it is it get out or catch these hands.
Turn off the gas. Turn off the electricity. Turn off the water. It's amazing how fast they leave. When they complain ,say that's how you want your house and you don't mind living this way.
You're nicer than me. I would have disappeared them.
Karma is a cruel thing sometimes. So it’s best to enjoy the irony
send them to canada, i heard they treat homeless, elderly and mentally ill very well.
I'm always surprised how in America, people just kick out there children.
The OP should have yelled at their maternal grandmother for not giving a damn about OP being homeless
i would never sell a house to go live for rent anywhere. I would install cameras and a good security system to stop anyone from breaking in again but i would never move out.
It sucks op didnt get justice, i hope their business fails and no one helps them
Ring makes cameras that connect to their app that you can just put on a window sill, not a full blown instalation but it does the job. Pretty sure they'd think twice about opening a window again if an obvious camera is staring them down as they try. If you do end up moving you wont have to deal with deinstalation and can install them immediately at your new place
Sue for maternal grandfathers inheritance lol
A verbal agreement holds no validation when it comes to rental agreements
Installing cameras is cheap. Also, install a combination safe, so that you can keep your spare keys (and guns/money/spare credit cards) inside.
@StoryLounge, I love this voice narrator hope to keep hearin it
All children deserve parents but not all parents deserve children.
Your word against their's can be used against them just as it was against them. Second they left, change the locks and get rid of their belongings.
Today on, "Why did my kid put me in a home and leave me to rot?".
I wouldn't wish these parents on my worst enemy.
theres always something wrong with some stories where its like OP always has to prove something but never the other party. Accusation of abuse? OP has to prove they didnt do it. People claim theyve been living there for a month. OP has to prove otherwise, i dont think thats how it works. Im 99% sure if this was real the parents had to prove they were there for a month no if ands or buts
They had a chance.....when they got to court.
Why's it so hard to understand?
I would've gone to the media about them.
See that's why I love my state
The law here says that unless squatters live on a property for 6 years and have been paying the land taxes the whole time then the owner may use deadly force to remove them.
Honestly, this kind of story sucks: OP suffered from their parents and actually tried to show his family what it was like, but because one side still favors them they essentially get to continue on with the toxicity where OP could have easily died….
I really wanna believe in Karma, but with stories like these it’s hard to say that…still glad OP is better now, and that’s what matters
God I wished I had grandparents like that. My entire family abandoned me in AZ after CPS took me away from my mother and my estranged father was granted custody of me via courts/CPS in upstate NY when I was 14. I was locked out of the house with my underwear on the front lawn at 16 and homeless "because I didn't listen" I was on the other side of the country in a strange state I didn't know my way around and nobody to turn to. It was before Facebook and cell phones or else I would have looked for my step dad. It was devastating.. especially after the entire CPS/foster home ordeal as well. My mom actually cared about me, but she wasn't perfect and messed up. My estranged father was a control freak with anger issues. I've lived a transient lifestyle since and can't seem to figure out how to get and afford my own place or a car. I wasn't taught anything about cc or how to live. I was just scapegoated and punished until I was locked out. I was stealing food and eventually got arrested and they tried to release me back into his custody at 17 where he could be an absolute toxic narcissistic control/power freak. A toxic warden. He scared me in a deranged loose cannon monster kind of way. Eyes all bulging and stomping towards me like an angry ape bucking and physically intimidating me. I'm also an only offspring. Life has been tragic and lonely for me and I'm still lost in my early 40s. 😢 You were blessed with angels for grandparents and demons for parents. God bless you.
They would have needed to sleep with one eye open during that mess had it been my home.
I literally don’t understand parents who are “you’re 18. Get out of my house.”
That’s not parenting, that is familial abandonment. Being a family means being there when times get tough.
I don’t spoiling or enabling but when it really counts.
Plus his parents? I fully believe they are narcissists because any sane person would, to the best as their abilities, raise their children with empathy and teach them the tools needed to be independent and successful
Bro is Remy Buxaplenty🤣🤣
Steal their keys and squad in their new home just for the F off it while having a backup ready
Nope i give absolutely 0 F's what the law says, i come home and one is trying that BS.....6 feet PERIOD! YES i'll go to prison but society won't have to worry about them doing it to anyone else......YOUR WELCOME! One is not take my stuff PERIOD!
this story made me feel particularly violent
this story pissed me off so much!
Unfortunately, when you can't pay the bills it's time to consider enlistment.
"i don;t know officer i just knew two people where in my house..one was holding something that looked like a gun..please send someone to help!"
best way to get rid of Squatters
also adding onto this a 12g shotgun tends to get people to leave your house rather fucking quickly..so long as your in the usa that is
It’s not all about money it’s about love
just throw them out and say that there was no proof that they were there for 30 days and they can’t go against you because they be bankrupt
File for restraining order and you should have gotten a friend or something rented a room to him and then had him treat your parents like shit then tell your time
OP often spend weeks away from home and he does not has cameras? I mean what?
You still have to prove you've been squatting there in some fashion, at least in Australia, not sure about the states - This is proved by having a flow of mail, bills or some other paper trail that proves you've been using it as your home for, at least in Oz, two years. Without it, your "I have squatters rights!" don't mean squat. A lot of odd inconsistencies with the story, too.
There's legit no way that it could go;
"These people are trespassers in my house, they BROKE in, the house is in my name, and they're not welcome!"
"We have squatters rights! There was a VERBAL agreement!"
Police: Oh, well I guess we'll just f*ck off then.
At that point you could just break into anyone's house, set up a little bit and say you're legally there, sue me.
the description of the crappy studio doesnt sound as bad as i have it tho completly different not serious situation
did u know in most countries if a place is deserted y the owners not sold or anything just left to rot anyone can claim the land and house as their own by going to the council stuff. if they come back filing for their house back as long as u kept payments up and made it cleans again and shown signs of keeping it that way you own it without buying the property or anything just electric water and simple stuff.
unless the owners payoff the council with a promise of a slice from the property sale they can squeeze out of this ILLEGAL squatter who so rudely occupies their property🤯🤯
@@mgntstr as i said left to rot so like an owner who left their dog to die now doesn't own the dog maybe the neighbor has taken care of it and if their is enough proof to be provided that they left it for ages without any way of keeping it clean like i said they now own it. if the original owner tries to file a case after they cant since it was already confirmed that it was forgotten and left and if they want it back they will have to pay for the renovations done to it and all the other crap. so it would not be trying to get it back. that's why if u see any vids on yt they'll usually see if the council is ok with this and papers are made. if u don't do that the owner and council could be very harsh on damage to property so all ways claim before use when doing this.
Unrelated to the story, but I love this version of "fallen down" from Undertale. Anyone here know what it’s called?
problem with karma is that sometimes they favor rude or evil people that cheats and ruining other people's lives over hardworking and kind people who are trying to live a honest life or help others. I hope that this kind of similar thing doesn't happen to obut we can't stop it from repeating or happening to many people.
Should have looked at the comments to save myself time, there isn’t a happy ending to this one.
6:56 I would've changed the locks when they were out
Give their addresses to the local booty warrior 😂
8:31 Woah, woah, woah… Greek flag parkour?
This squatters law thing is, so faulty and has many loopholes. There should be an official document that can't easily be copied, that should be signed if you are to let someone live in your house for more than 30 days. If someone can lie, with just; keys, mail redirection, plain words e.t.c
Then it's clear this law was made without a lot of thought. As per many other laws in the USA.
i.e the anti abortion law, that was made without the consultation of any medical professionals, which results in; women in need of an abortion because of a non viable fetus and thier lives in danger have to fight in court for a common medical procedure. What a great country!
He is a dumb loser for not knowing they’re gonna pull this drama on him. I mean, it’s their grandparents’ house.
I’ve heard this story before. 🍿 😎
Sue them for damages
Missed your chance to smoke them legally when you called the cops, handle your own shit and you have fewer problems
nah bro u should've enjoyed your parentsz sadness as little more lmao
Squatters right need to go because wtf
Squatters rights is bull
My dude Karma does not exist, let me just say two people I know are living a mighty fine life, who are quite atrocious to say the least, and the ones they did it to me, well It is not the worst life, but I barely scrape by. It has been over 10 years. I been doing everything I can to try and get some form of better income and nothing.
What is the parents second business called
may i recommend the use of the second amendment to the united states constitution as a means to defend against unwanted intruders?
Get a house in a gated community
Sorry guys I'm in the middle of the video but I couldn't help it but say that his parents had to leave on March second which is dr. Seuss' bday and the day before my bday
Can someone please tell me the name of the bgm please?
It's a slowed + reverb version of Fallen Down Reprise from Undertale
17:15 Bro cheated!
Are these made up stories ? I say that some of these things just dont seem real. About the house i dont know why he didnt have a securit system in place,or his grandparents. When he got the house. His parents were something else. I just know things should have been better.
Please, Please. Enough with the terrible minecraft game. It hurts. 🤕
Well people now know about your parents so i guess the public knows now cause of your vid
Cameras help.
I think that karma did come for them when they were bankrupt and now its already passed.
OP could also be dealing with some form of trauma which could be why he is single and it could affect his kids in a negative way (e.g giving them too much, being over involved in their lives etc...). He is even still monitoring their behaviours.
I think that God gave OP the chance to either help them or not and OP chose not to. I dont think that God would punish him for not helping but he also wouldnt get any additional blessings. Remember that God is always forgiving us for the things that we do wrong
OP should have made therapy with them a requirement for them to stay even if it was a bluff so that he can understand their reasoning better, maybe build a proper relationship with them or if they cant build anything then atleast he would be able to fully move on
dumb
what the fuck
throwing out ur kid after they turn 18 should be illegal like when they are 20 and already have a good paying job so they dont have to sit in a car all day and work just to get enough for an apartment
A true environmentalist rides a bicycle everywhere
These fucking stories are heartbreaking. I’m a trans woman and my interactions with my family have not been very good at all since coming out to them at 19 during the pandemic. I also wound up leaving because I knew I could not be myself in that house. I even made the arrangements to do so in secret or otherwise under false pretenses before I came out to them because I knew that if they knew I was planning to be out for good and why, they would forbid me from doing so. Which would leave me at greater risk than if I had just made the arrangements in secret. Those arrangements kept me from ever having to be homeless, and fortunately I had already gotten into universities and mostly attended off of scholarships and loans anyway (my family didn’t have much money at any point after 2008 for us to be able to afford anything out of pocket). If either of those things weren’t true, I’d have spent winters in a tent on the side of the road somewhere with nowhere else to go too. And as it turns out, I actually had a wellness check called on me and was checked into a hospital with suicidal risk only a few days after moving out (it was the Sunday before Biden’s inauguration and school actually started back again that week). The fucking stress of the whole situation still makes me make financial decisions I probably wouldn’t make otherwise to this day. I’m also naturally empathetic, and the words chosen to tell this story communicated the anguish to me very well + the music and background video lighting sets the mood very effectively, so like I was saying before these stories are hard to hear. Honestly idk why I still even bother listening. I guess just so that it can be true for the universe that someone did care about them and their story enough to listen to their voice. I hope OP is doing better these days. Not that I think I could be of much help even now since I graduate this month but I don’t have any work lined up even after months of searching and my lease ends on the 28th, but if there’s any way I can make the situation any better for anyone else who might be struggling, reply to me I guess. That goes for OP or anyone else that might be interested
So, everyone knows these stories are totally fake right?
Stories like these are possible especially in the world we live in today. There's no harm in believing these are real so I might as well believe it happened.
Not every single one but most .
These stories are fake
U have to be on alert always. This is extreme but it is ur house. Act and stop letting them stay.