Parents treated me 2nd best to my sister for the last 8 years so I exploded
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- Parents treated me 2nd best to my sister for the last 8 years so I exploded
author: u/Black-sheep-B-Boy
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I am shocked, the girl didn’t even hit double digits yet and she’s already entitled to a car, 2 birthdays, and a phone. And a birthday cake. I’d say she still has a very small chance to have a normal life, but considering she’s threaten self harm to get what she wants and her mother basically enabling her daughter, she’ll be in a mental hospital for almost all her young life.
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dude her entire family basically hates her
Not to mention an apartment, apparently... What is life coming to, fellow sane humans??? Please tell me...
anyone who thinks genetics don't matter, this is the cast for all. mental is hereditary. but people think they can roll the dice and avoid any consequences. and sometimes it skips a generation. so just because someone born into a mentally whacked out family thinks they have escaped, guess again.
I've heard this whole saga. Op deserves so much better. Hopefully he continues to heal from all he's been through.
He definetly deserves to heal but his two parents most certainly don't deserve forgiveness.
Rslash?
All kids deserve parents, not all parents deserve kids
I occasionally forget my birthday, cause my family never remembers, so now my birthday is just another day of the year to me, don't care about it anymore.
Same here. Oct 14th is mine and my nephew that lives in another state FaceTime me within 2 minutes of my birth time and during our conversation he said HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNTIE. I was dumbfounded and ask if his auntie was near him and which one. He was shocked like are you being sarcastic or silly? When he saw my expression he knew I forgot my own birthday 🥳
Damn I had such a traumatic experiences as a child surrounding my bday. So as an adult with kids we party! I always ensure my kids do whatever they want and get whatever they want( within reason and budget) I've never given the other kids anything on the others bday. 😢😢😢 Celebrate your birthday beautiful it's a milestone that you only get once. Your worth it. Just start small. ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Ngl bro I cried on my last birthday
@@user-fw7fj3df5ryo birthday buddies lets go
@@user-fw7fj3df5rgotta always love your nephew and nieces cause they will always show the love. My aunts know that I love them with all of my heart and that they are basically my mother figures
I think i've heard this and it was horrible how they treated them on their birthday
I feel really bad for both the OP and the little sister. While yes, the little sister is spoiled, it's not her fault she was raised the way she was, and she's clearly struggling a lot because of it.
thank you, i was looking for this comment it's the parents' fault not the sister's
nah 9 year old doing self harm is crazy
its real lol. my nephew was like that. he tried to ran away from us and get in the car with stranger because he wasnt allowed to eat mcdonalds
Dont worry this is all a lie lmao
Yeah it happens. I tried suicide at 8 😅
Def not like in these crazy stories, but it does happen
OP deserves everything he has as an adult without his parents and so much more. He deserves those 8 years back and caring parents and a sister who isn’t a total brat. I would like to say though, it’s not the sisters fault. She was raised to where she gets everything she wants. She mentally couldn’t handle her brother getting a whole day because of his she was raised. Don’t hate on the kids. Hate on the parents for raising such a brat.
Stories like this reinforces 2 things. Restrictions on who can become a parent, and to never ja e more than one child.
You can have more than one child if you don’t favour one child over the others.
Ever heard of only child syndrome?
This comment thread OP is a liberal
I will say, IQ does not mean your smarter, it just means problem solving and information retension is just easier then someone with a lower IQ. There has been many instances of people with lower IQs being more successful then higher IQ individuals cause they work hard to bridge that gap and higher IQ people who know their IQ tend to slack cause the misinformation on what having a high IQ implied.
100% agree. As a college graduate, I can assure you that there are a ton of dumb people who have both graduated from and work in colleges and universities. Higher IQ doesn't exempt one from doing low IQ things.
Say IQ again 😂
Yeah, also people assume things about you if they know your IQ. Because I have been harassed and berated by people before because I didn't know something even though I have a higher than average IQ. It's why I usually avoid the topic entirely and lie to people saying I don't know mine when asked; additionally, I had people assume I was being narcissistic about it also when I told them when they asked as well. Like, just because I learn quicker than average doesn't mean I know everything.
Sorry about the rant. I just am unable to talk to anyone about it because no one knows about it being a problem.
@@nighthawk0317 Having a high IQ is a problem for a lot of OTHER people. It's often better to keep quiet about being clever. In traditional, pre-industrial societies, being clever made you dangerous. Priests and teachers looked out for clever boys and sent them away to be abused by men in funny clothes and forced to memorise yards of meaningless drivel until they were safe to count rich people's money for them. Families could usually cope with clever girls but if they could not, nuns could deal with them.
Had a client like this when I worked in care. This poor girl's family ruined her sense of reality, giving her a completely warped view of the world. She was literally proven to be the most important character in the room at all times by the way they ab*sed OP. If she's really lucky, they'll slowly detach her from her mother and make headway on connecting her with consequences and reality. It's just never going to work while Mom is there waiting to grab her and tell her she's the princess.
I’ve heard of this whole saga of a story before and I feel bad for OP everytime! This poor guy deserves EVERYTHING in the world and then some cause of how their parents favortism caused them to not only neglect them as a child, but also raised a brat of a sister to the point said bratty sister VANDALIZED THEIR CAR AND CLAIMED THAT SHE WILL COMMIT SELF HARM JUST CAUSE SHE DIDN’T GET HER WAY FOR ONCE!!!
Considering how the sister was acting, why risk having her come to OP's 19th birthday party? Clearly the therapy wasn't working since she threw a fit.
She shouldn't have been released from the hospital.
The only advice I can give OP is to close down the posts on this story and take his time to heal. As for his sister, the best thing he can do about that situation is to do nothing. Just let his parents deal with the monster that they created and also file a restraining order on her. Last thing I'd recommend is change your phone number, email, and home and ask your grandparents not to tell anyone about your new information.
I would second that. For OP to feel he has to respond to every idiot on Reddit must be like having his own Alex Jones. The Sandy Hook kids' parents don't enjoy being targeted and vilified daily by every shock jock in the business.
You can’t put a restraining order on your own CHILD who is a MINOR and under YOUR GUARDIANSHIP.
@@katherinedupoise4604 Actually you can. I have a family lawyer and he told me that you can get a restraining order on a minor. Also that's not OP's child, that's his little sister.
Well then who is supposed to take care of her then if they file a restraining order on her?
@@katherinedupoise4604 I was talking about the brother for the restraining order, not the parents!
Pretty sure the sister is a sociopath....
My 7 year.old sister has a mine complex with all my stuff, and I remember that about 2 years ago, it was my default to check under her pillow if smthn was missing
I have actually heard that story that the op was talking about about and it’s a sad situation
That’s just depressing. So much damage that he took a break from Reddit. With a chance of never returning…
No surprise when idiots were dogging him about ages and other BS. Those were Redditors who wanted to "expose" him.
@@lindah3803ngl that did sound sus.
but in the end of the day we can't know the truth for sure, and that's okay
Some people should simply not procreate
Sounds like they were both abused. They both have to recover from their parenting
And I think *_MY_* sister is entitled…
God, love you sis, didn’t realize how lucky I am to have someone who just doesn’t talk to me as opposed to blowing out candles and DESTROYING A FUCKING CAR!
He needs rest and peace Hopefully He can help from his grandparents
The OP deserves so much better, and i truly hopes he can recover fully.
In other news, who eats gummy bears with mashed potatoes?!
I’ve heard this story before, but only the original post. This is my first time hearing about the updates, and all I can say is, holy crap.
On second thought I thought the sister was the one having the unplanned pregnancy 💀
i would have told the employee's to not bring out my 18th birthday cake and that they could eat it even if it was the worlds tasties cake cause i dont care how my parents spent on that cake if they are going to continue this bs im just gonna screw them over with that single thing and i wouldnt tell my parents until they wonder where the cake is and then when they question why i did it id explain to them in detail why none of them especially that spoiled brat of a sister didnt deserve even the crumbs of the cake and i would say this whilst trying not to throw a plate at them for being such incompetent parents FOR 8 YEARS.
@Black-Sheep-B-Boy, I hope your 20th birthday is better than your previous ones, also if your sister does go to the party’s, act like she isn’t there, then laugh at her being mad
IQ does not mean anything.
its literally just a number.
it does not say you are smart or stupid.
it was a test anitially made by rich people to say they were smart
The first IQ test was developed by Alfred Binet in 1904 after the French Ministry of Education asked a group of child psychologists to devise a means to tell in advance which children would do better if educated outside mainstream schooling.
source: trust me bro
t. Brainlet
Have a niece that if she weren't in my family, she could be as bad as OP's sister. My mom and grandma were both bad about it as was my brother but Nowhere near as this enabling. She has 2 sisters with a slightly larger age gap who also love her and lightly spoil her (both are adults now but she's 8 now). She got kicked out of school cause she beats the kids up cause she's larger (not weight, height, we're a very tall family) and other than her sisters on her moms side, she has 2 brothers and 2 sisters from my brother's family.
I feel bad for OP his sister is a spoiled brat and the parents are bad parents no matter the reasons why they choose the sister as the golden child it’s horrible and I hope OP has a better future
OP's parents literally created a monster.
This is sad😢 I really really hope they know they have God to run to 🙏
I heard this story a few days ago, is this a reupload?
27:30
Contradicts the beginning of this video.
He said he got some B's and C's but is saying now a D and C average
As if most stories are true
Even with all the plot holes, people are *still* eating this ridiculous story up 🙄😂
@@Mitsubachi2529 While it's true that the story is most likely fake, what happened isn't THAT ridiculous.
CBA to watch the entire thing but couldn't It just be his grades went down lol happens all the time
@@Sethoshini95 I'm biased because I pretty much take everything on reddit with a grain of salt 😂
Vile parents.
I heard this story before
How convenient he says he can't come back to update again after people point out things wrong with it xD
WAIT SHES 9 ?
Mash potatoes and gummy bears?!!!
9?!?!?
She blew first on his birthday, he got to do it after her 😂 it’s literally his birthday and a two year old cries all the time and probably won’t even remember
Could tell it was fake as soon as he got his sister's age wrong and then said "Well I'm not good with numberssss :
I'm sorry everyone but i completely agree! If you have an answer for every doubt people bring up & trying to make everyone believe you, it sounds even more fishy. The extent they go to to try proving is real just smells wrong, not to mention the slip up of most of the little details... if they had just stuck to the original post but the longer & more dramatic, "soap opera-esque" it became with the mom being arrested? Boarding school where they find candy to give her when she's having a tantrum?? Disapproving the narcissism diagnosis & then saying they had a convo with their dad about it being wrong??? Hahaha no wonder he said he won't be back, it took WAAAAY to much effort to try & fix the b.s. as it was! 😂😅😝
@@Hostilebyrd Right? Even as fiction, it's a poorly written story 😂
I feel horrible for the sister
17:23 yeah she sounds like Eric
11:18 the diamonds are so tempting
Damn talk about resting a demon spawn
Btw what music is that in the background
Its always the youngest regardless the gender😂
Guys I swear I’m not crying after this story 😅
18:13 why Eric cartman😫💀
My little brother is like this but toned down a couple notches. Anything that I have, he at least has to play with, or see, or touch... or destroy... I had just got a new mouse because I had my old mouse for like 5 years. I unbox it, test it out, grab a snack, and it's gone. IT HADN'T BEEN 30 MINUTES! Guess who I see in the living room, with it in pieces... MY. LITTLE. BROTHER. I took one of his toys because he should know better. Not destroying it, taking it for like 10 minutes... Guess who gets in trouble. ME. I HAD JUST BOUGHT, A 130$ GAMING MOUSE, AND HE BREAKS IT, I GET IN TROUBLE? (It was my OWN money) I'm back to using my old mouse that I've now had for like 6 years. Even though my mouse is a chonker, it's never broke, and has been a handy mouse. I'm still salty about my other broken mouse though. (I didn't even get my money back from my parents.)
This isn't even the only story I have btw. I have PLENTY more. Just as a quick bonus story, I remember one time I went to make myself some pasta. It was those microwaveable mac&cheese bowls. It was the last one. I come out from my lair after have enjoying my first and only meal of the day when I see him... Standing there... MENACINGLY! He's mad because I ate the last mac&cheese bowl and BITES ME. THIS LITTLE FUCKER BIT ME. Guess who got yelled at?
A. My little brother
B. ME.
If you said A... You are wrong.
Have you ever found/posted the reddit post that OP mentionned at the end?
I don't have this type of experience at all but if my parents did what happened to you I'd go disowning them
Im suprised that the parents dident buy her a car💀💀💀
bro doesn't ur lil brother blow out the candles? what was he like too with ur sister
Edit: Shit i forgot that was another story
My friend used to live in McAllen, Texas and it is the most obese city in the U.S. Now what I am about to tell you is traumatizing, if Ms. Princess Sunshine loved junk and she was fat, she might go ahead and live in McAllen. Also the fact that she loves junk and wants stuff from you and others all the time gives me a feeling she might be a robber in the future. I think you should tell this to your dad/mom, that is concerning
I'm not going to lie I have a feeling the only reason that the grandparents did anything for the OP was due to the fact that he is literally the son of the eldest child which is a course understandably his dad And that's what kind of pisses me off here because like these people can't fucking say that they just thought that the OP was okay with this bullshit lifestyle of his parents constantly turning his cake pink and putting his sister's name on it come on dude they knew what the hell was going on this whole entire time The same thing goes for the damn grandparents it's not until they really saw how screwed up this shit was for the sake of not looking bad in front of a group of people at a restaurant that's what happened there That's what made the grandfather and the grandmother realize oh shit we need to put her foot down cuz now we're in front of people we can't let this go on I think that's what really happened in this story in all honesty this whole entire family just sounds terrible because I know for a fact if I was related to the OP I would have voiced my concerns a long time ago I don't give a shit of people don't like me in the family no more I'm not going to let him go through that hell like literally somebody should have stuck up for him a long time ago instead of being scared of being shunned from the family are no longer being like just because I hate to say it OP's dad had a little bit of power to make certain family members not be looked at in a good light anymore because the very moment he decided to twist the words of what was really going on in their situation of course understandably Grandpa would have just been like oh okay I guess my oldest maybe he's telling me the truth and everybody else is just full of crap yeah I'm sorry I agree with OP I don't like pac mentality at all
much of this story doesnt make sense ,also some major plot holes in the age difference between the kids ,and the boarding school episode ....yeah OP u were right you need to spend some time away from reddit
then everyone clapped.
I remember this from am i the jerk!
My family never had celebrate birthdays with big party traditions. I don't remember having one. But probably because I hate desserts. I hate too overly sweet soft things. My birthday cake is a nice 3 pieces of lamb chomps or something similar usually.
Ngl I don't believe this post. He got the ages wrong, timeline wrong, even the grades he graduated in school.
Plus the behaviour for the ages and the familial reactions seem off.
Yo your sister is just cartman
17:20 💀
Yo the story stolen. The original story has the sister as a brother. They just change brother to sister.
I remember this story from redditor
Bro wen i was 9 i had respect for mi bigger siblings
Also im the joungt and i get the best tratment
21:44 so she tried to kill herself?
I know this from am i the jerk
So sad bc they stole op entire childhood. I’m studying counselling and not expert yet but the situation accounts for 80% of the entitlement. But the re must be some psychopathology bc this behavior is not typical for the age group. Which might I turn explain - not excuse - parents indulgence because they were coping with the situation.
I know this story is fake because he called "little miss sunshine", and no 18 year old knows this old movie 😂 especially a guy
An Oscar-winning film from 18 years ago? Obviously you need to have one foot in the grave to have seen that.
@faithlesshound5621 my comment still stands. No young man is watching little miss sunshine from almost 20 years ago
@@RudOby You think young men only watch manly stuff, like war and sharks?
@faithlesshound5621 not such a movie, I don't see it
12:58 lol it’s kinda giving Poppy Moore, but *worse*
2$ k 💀💀💀
WHAT MC SHADERS!?!??? Plz!!!!!
I feel like yes you should spoil kids a little but this is horrible
W grandpa
I'm in the comments and I'm scrolling them like their videos cuz I thought they were other videos
Bro mine was worse i had to do EVERYTHING in the house while my parents and my lil sibilings (they were twins a boy and a girl) out for party play world everywhere and when i wanted to meet my friends my sibilings screamed they want to go to cinema or anywhere else my sibilings could even beat me up when they are mad bc when i fought back my parents came with threatening: they'll kick me out or anything else or they gave my sinilings sticks or smth else and they stood there watching them. I cloudnt lock my room my sibilings could use MY PC that my friends bought me. My sister downloaded a Virus and then said its not true my parents belived her and yeah if i could id put a foto of my arm in here so yall wont be saying its fake but i cant so wanna write email is in my profile not my name obviosly
Does anyone realize that this just copied am I the jerk on TH-cam because this video was 4 months ago but am I the jerk on TH-cam video was a year ago
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i lold so hard on the moment with candy. Its like my nephew who triend to run away from village (we were all together there is the summer) to the city, which is 12 hours away by car because he wasnt allowed to eat McDonalds junkfood
Inmagen that your sisier get call arie comint
Everything on reddit is fake..
(Very long) It makes sense of why the sister did all that. This is a little scienctifcul of children they are very similar to a spung or a Game in it's starting faze (Alpha or Beta IDK) but children learn SUPER fast from the Invierment they LIVE with most commonly with parents but sometimes other people as well but children do a copy and paste affect of what they live in or how they were raised and import it into the brain and usually lives off the idea or belief that they have imported in their mind (For me example I had/have a fear of bees not because of I'm elugick to them but when I was young I got stung near my left eye making it look like it was in a cartoon when a character got stung but anyways even though I
Had a perfect recovery My parents told me to never be close to a bee so I grew a large fear of bees even though I know why it happened and such I still have the fear that was put in my head from my parents now that was to protect me) but it shows if usually parents keep doing one action over multiple times It can be around 5-10 time for a child to have that belief stuck in their head or moulded into their body. I'm 17 almost 18 but even now I know that I would and I still do things that was completely different from any thing I saw from any other child/Teen.
barely started but OP holding grudges as far back as when the sister is 2 years old? damn that's a long time. maybe this is written after everything had happened so his memories got a bit colored, but damn if it was me and i love my baby sis i would like yes sis let's blow out the candles together, simply because she's a baby. maybe his parents asked him to do it in a bad way? that's no good. you always remind siblings to do things together. never single one out.
everyone in this story including the op is going to hell tbh
Why the OP?
@@hughg.rection1421 Because she believes everyone is going there, including us viewers.