Oh my! I got two offers recently: Offer A, lower pay but the role excites me and i can picture myself growing much better. Offer B, higher pay higher position therefore i expect more stress, more pains, more burnouts. I chose the first one. Though that's around 25% paycut but I chose to live the kind of life that i wanted.
Thank you for sharing your valuable knowledge. It helped me so much I have to make a decision by April 17, 2023. And it revealed aspects that I couldn't break down on my own, and if I didn't watch this video I would not be able to overcome the stress of this decision making...and even after I asked my family or friends for advice it still didn't help me... make a decision that obviously I have to make on my own but I want to thank you so much for sharing this wonderful video because it really did help me the way you explained it, the breakdown of what really matters long term. Sending many blessings your way!
Hesitation is defeat, defeated by your monkey mind, first available one you choose is the right one, once you hear "but" in you mind stop and return to first option. Pay close attention to what i say, it will save you a lifetime of stress over decisions. Key words to remember, first lead, first firm decision, the available, first shown. Remember , what is right for you is the thing that naturally came to be in your life. Spiritual people call it the middle way, the way with no friction. If you live this way your energy will multiply because its no longer spent second guessing. Life is a serious of tests and events that help you become more self aware and self fulfilled, if you second guess you will disrupt the flow and linear prgress. Instead of joy of living and gradually progerssing you will spend it stressing over what ifs.
Thank you Sonal! This is quite eye-opening. I might have 2 offers forthcoming son so I am preparing myself now. I appreciate your sharing this insight. There's more to think about than just money!
I watched all your tutorials, and it is super effective, thus this is true, I got two job offers with the same salary and both have lucrative benefits. I can say, knowledge is important, but enchancing it with strategy can maximize the output.
1. Brand of the company (stamp of credibility) 2. Position composition. Role. 3. Salary aspects. Cash is important. 4. Growth and advance aspects. 5. Opportunity for learning. 6. Manager should give you space to grow. 7. Culture. 8. Rating methodology
"petrified" exactly how I feel, I'm crashing emotionally so hard, I feel like crying every morning because it has become such a hard decision and I'm also very scared of picking the phone and burn the bridge for the first offer I already accepted! all this within 3 months of being laid off from a 6 year job. It has been very hard to navigate.
I'm looking for a new job and i have many offers..its a special feeling since its the first time that i am the on interviewing instead of the other way around.. And i realized that i'm not to good when its time to choose between multiple choices
Hi Sonal, I can't thank you enough for this. I need to take a decision whether to sign the official contract after passing probation or moving forward with another offer. The 8 components are thorough and explained comprehensively!
Thank you SO much for this video. I have had sleepless nights (ish, I am a good sleeper haha). But this way of structuring things helped me a lot. I loved also the wrap-up - hindsight 2020! Another important thing - and my husband also said this - this is a GOOD problem to have!
Sonal..good points. How to handle situation when you already committed/confirmed to one offer but later get another.. You don't want to come across as someone unreliable...!!
Sorry for the delay! I go live with open office hours every Friday here on TH-cam (check channel banner) to answer all questions. Due to the volumes I see here i unfortunately can’t respond to each one, as I work alone. Hope you can join me one day!
@tarunjain: how you have handled this situation? As i have joined one company and same day i have received another offer with better package , Now i am regretting why i have joined company so early.
@@reshupathak3808 I make it clear upfront what my preferences are to both the companies.. Like I am expecting another offer with such & such salary & perks.. That way when I decide to go with one company eventually, my credibility is not lost...
Hi Sonal, great video. I am currently in a situation with two wonderful job offers from two giants companies in the Energy industry. I guess the position composition will play the role in helping me choose.
Big companies are worst to work for as the higher management don't care about you and you will not feel connected with the management , also startups are also too much risky (as many of them vanished quickly) when you're looking for job security. We should need to choose medium range company where your contribution will be seen and appreciated by the management and there is also potential of growth in them.
Thanks for the suggestion! The topic is too narrow for my audience and it would be better to join me live one day with a specific question related to stakeholders in recruitment, so I can help!
Hello. Any advice on a current job being more tolerable/comfortable now and is commission based and a job offered that pays more and pays hourly. But that I will end up working longer hours?? I also am eligible on a list for a future law enforcement agency. But that will take longer.
Thanks for watching! For personalised advice, I go live every Friday to help people with exactly these type of questions. Join me live every Friday at 2 pm CET on #SuperChargeFridays
I wasn't working for 3 months I got a job and 1 week later a temp agency said they had a higher paying job at the same hospital my doctor works. All my friends said go for it. I told the temp agency I can't take days off work at my new job. I asked will this hospital job be a guarantee she said yes. I get to the place and she ask me if I was still interested after I quit my job just to be there. Well!!! She calls me in the evening and said the hospital gave the job to someone else. I have over 4 other interviews but Lost my other job for taking the day off for this temp agency that lied .
@@SuperChargeYourself well thank God I got my job back but the supervisor been on me ever since I came back. But I believe it's more so because I'm not paying him attention due to the fact I feel bad because he was trying to be friends before that happened.
I have an issue i received an offer from HSBC client implementation manager and director GTB sales advisor of trade products at FAB and both is exciting i dont know which to chose
Please give me suggestion I have got offer with lower than market and request to increase the salary and band (position) but they come up with specified salary is final and band is too final.Whether shall i accept the offer with written email . Now one more company approaching but not yet release. What is yoir opnion shall i accept the first offer and wait for second?
I am in the same situation now. The company A which offer me the position i wanted is in third part pay roll. Company B in direct payroll and little higher in pay sclae but the position doesn't excite me much. What should I take A or B
What about location? Rent? Cost of living. What if you have two offers same money but one place is good, the company has a bad reputation but rent and houses are cheaper . The other is busy and dirty and not great but the company has great reputation but the house prices are rediculously high. Which one would you choose. Atm my friend can't at all decide.
Location is indeed a deeply personal decision. I think your friend needs to put all these factors together and weigh them according to their own preferences and priorities. Busy, dirty and expensive.. don’t rank high in my book, but that’s me
Hello and thank you for your comment! Join me when I go live on TH-cam every Friday at 2pm CET and we can get into the specifics of your situation. Hope to see you there!
@sonal i have just joined new It company bt i am not liking environment of new company so i am looking for change of job. can you just explain what precise reason i should give to recruiter while searching for new job. can you make video on such topic if possible
I am holding 2 offer with package difference of 2.5l , I was quite confused which one to choose as i am more inclined towards offer with less package as I can see job stability and company have big group. Have I made good decision as m still regretting not going with Higher pacakge. Please help.
Hi Sonal, Greetings of the Day!! I Appreciate your guidance. I have some career related advices. Regards, Nashet Ali Solutions Architect-Technical, Tata Group
Sorry for the delay! I go live with open office hours every Friday here on TH-cam (check channel banner) to answer all questions. Due to the volumes I see here i unfortunately can’t respond to each one, as I work alone. Hope you can join me one day!
Hello everyon!! I have seen many comments and most of you have endup in situation where you have to choose one offer while holding multiple offers. Can anyone help me how you have handled this situation practically as i am going through same phase. I have already joined 1 company and on same day i have received another offer with better pacakge , this is stressful situation as I cannot negoitiate with current company to revise offer. How i can handle this?
Hi ma’am, Hope you are doing well I have a offer letter from my ex company and I have a e-exit call with HR. How do I negotiate with my current he for salary?
I'm so confused , im in the same dilemma and need your opinion. . I got job offer last week for job A and took the position. This week i got an offer for job B which pays more, about $7k more a year. Job A is a hybrid schedule that works 2 days in the the office while Job B is hybrid schedule but have to work 4 days in the office. Job A has better medical insurance benefits than job B. I was working for job B previously for 4 years so i have seniority there if i take that while Job A is a brand new company. With all those factors said, which one would you take, Job A or B ????
I'm in a bit of a predicament... The recruiter said I had to make the decision to accept the offer by this morning. As I had no other offers at the time I accepted. But now another offer has just come in that I really want... what should I do?
Did you already have an interview with the second company? If so make a list of pro and cons about the two look at salary all that then make a decision
The first lead is the right one. The easy option that show up in your life is the correct option You will learn after years of applying this that life is easier than you thought it is. Is just stubborness and ruminating that makes life difficult.
I've traded with a lot of individuals but I have never come across anyone as good as Mr Jordan blake, just by applying his new strategies I now trade independently.
"Choose the better manager" - helped me A LOT to hear this
Honestly, can’t go wrong with this one! Good luck and thanks for watching!
Oh my! I got two offers recently: Offer A, lower pay but the role excites me and i can picture myself growing much better. Offer B, higher pay higher position therefore i expect more stress, more pains, more burnouts. I chose the first one. Though that's around 25% paycut but I chose to live the kind of life that i wanted.
Here’s to living out life on our own terms. And money; money will come. Time lost to stress and burnout, will never come back! Congratulations!!
I think I am in the same position right now! I hope I could make a wise decision! ☺
@@JalanJalanAjah I chose the lower pay but i feel so alive here. I hope this feeling wont go away soon.
Hey glad to hear that , are you satisfied and happy right now?
I'm exactly in the same situation, I think I will take a pay cut and do the job that excites me, Thank you for this
Love how you explained #3. I got a tear in my eye when you said “when you’re good at your job. Money will come.”
Tears just reveal the truth ❤️
I am holding 2 Job offers currently and this video came at a right time. Thank you so much
Congrats! And glad the video is helpful. Good luck to you
@@SuperChargeYourself Thank you so much 😊
Thank you for sharing your valuable knowledge. It helped me so much I have to make a decision by April 17, 2023. And it revealed aspects that I couldn't break down on my own, and if I didn't watch this video I would not be able to overcome the stress of this decision making...and even after I asked my family or friends for advice it still didn't help me... make a decision that obviously I have to make on my own but I want to thank you so much for sharing this wonderful video because it really did help me the way you explained it, the breakdown of what really matters long term. Sending many blessings your way!
Thanks so much for watching and I’m so glad this helped you. PS: apologies for my late response
I want this kind of problem in my life. I'm hoping to have two/three offers in coming week. This video helped me a ton
Then that’s what will happen, or better. Wish you the best!
I just recently went through receiving two job offers. The most stressful situation i've been in. Hopefully I made the right choice.
We’ll never know! Thanks for watching
Hesitation is defeat, defeated by your monkey mind, first available one you choose is the right one, once you hear "but" in you mind stop and return to first option. Pay close attention to what i say, it will save you a lifetime of stress over decisions.
Key words to remember, first lead, first firm decision, the available, first shown.
Remember , what is right for you is the thing that naturally came to be in your life. Spiritual people call it the middle way, the way with no friction. If you live this way your energy will multiply because its no longer spent second guessing. Life is a serious of tests and events that help you become more self aware and self fulfilled, if you second guess you will disrupt the flow and linear prgress. Instead of joy of living and gradually progerssing you will spend it stressing over what ifs.
Thank you Sonal! This is quite eye-opening. I might have 2 offers forthcoming son so I am preparing myself now. I appreciate your sharing this insight. There's more to think about than just money!
Glad it’s helpful! Thanks for watching!
I watched all your tutorials, and it is super effective, thus this is true, I got two job offers with the same salary and both have lucrative benefits. I can say, knowledge is important, but enchancing it with strategy can maximize the output.
TRUST YOUR GUT FEELING
Always 🙌🏼
1. Brand of the company (stamp of credibility)
2. Position composition. Role.
3. Salary aspects. Cash is important.
4. Growth and advance aspects.
5. Opportunity for learning.
6. Manager should give you space to grow.
7. Culture.
8. Rating methodology
Thanks for watching and the summary!
"petrified" exactly how I feel, I'm crashing emotionally so hard, I feel like crying every morning because it has become such a hard decision and I'm also very scared of picking the phone and burn the bridge for the first offer I already accepted! all this within 3 months of being laid off from a 6 year job. It has been very hard to navigate.
I wish you peace, and hope this video helped a little!
I'm looking for a new job and i have many offers..its a special feeling since its the first time that i am the on interviewing instead of the other way around.. And i realized that i'm not to good when its time to choose between multiple choices
Ma'am, I am your fan no doubt, your last vedio of offer negotiation really helped me!
Thanks much a lot!😊
Hi Sonal, I can't thank you enough for this. I need to take a decision whether to sign the official contract after passing probation or moving forward with another offer. The 8 components are thorough and explained comprehensively!
You’re welcome! Let us know how you move forward!
Thank you SO much for this video. I have had sleepless nights (ish, I am a good sleeper haha). But this way of structuring things helped me a lot. I loved also the wrap-up - hindsight 2020!
Another important thing - and my husband also said this - this is a GOOD problem to have!
Congrats on the offer Karla! And good luck!
Low salary offer but better culture (to learn, grow and excel). How would you choose?
Thank you Sonal your videos are very useful for every working professional.
Sonal..good points. How to handle situation when you already committed/confirmed to one offer but later get another.. You don't want to come across as someone unreliable...!!
I have yet to see her respond to this post…
Sorry for the delay! I go live with open office hours every Friday here on TH-cam (check channel banner) to answer all questions. Due to the volumes I see here i unfortunately can’t respond to each one, as I work alone. Hope you can join me one day!
@tarunjain: how you have handled this situation? As i have joined one company and same day i have received another offer with better package , Now i am regretting why i have joined company so early.
@@reshupathak3808 I make it clear upfront what my preferences are to both the companies.. Like I am expecting another offer with such & such salary & perks.. That way when I decide to go with one company eventually, my credibility is not lost...
You’re the best career coach! Love watching your videos and advice. ❤️
Why thank you Jess!
Your videos have been a great help especially for my daughters. Thank you!
Glad to hear it, thanks for sharing!
Thanks Sonal for the details
Hi Sonal, great video. I am currently in a situation with two wonderful job offers from two giants companies in the Energy industry. I guess the position composition will play the role in helping me choose.
Wish you success !!
Superb Video Ma’am.
Fantastic advice!
Thank you!
Great Video. Thank you so much! 😊
Glad it’s helpful! Thanks for watching
Very good video with very good advice 🙏🏻
Thank you ☺️
Hi Sonal. Great video. Thanks a lot. Do you have a video of how to reject an offer after saying yes??????
this video definitely provided value⭐️
Glad to hear that!
Big companies are worst to work for as the higher management don't care about you and you will not feel connected with the management , also startups are also too much risky (as many of them vanished quickly) when you're looking for job security. We should need to choose medium range company where your contribution will be seen and appreciated by the management and there is also potential of growth in them.
Thank you, thank you a lot
You are welcome!
Thank you for these wonderful tips
You’re most welcome!
I m at the situation in Malta I have decide before 24th September
I took the wrong job offer and it killed me for months but I took it as a learning experience
I hear you Claudia!
Hi sonal nice video at right time
Glad to hear it, thanks for watching
Hi Sonal!
I Really like all your videos. There is a small request. Please make a video on Stakeholder Management in Recruitment 🙂
Thanks for the suggestion! The topic is too narrow for my audience and it would be better to join me live one day with a specific question related to stakeholders in recruitment, so I can help!
Thanks 🙏 for again awesome video. Appreciate it.
Thanks for watching
Thanks for the video
Thanks for watching!
Thank You Madam
Hello. Any advice on a current job being more tolerable/comfortable now and is commission based and a job offered that pays more and pays hourly. But that I will end up working longer hours?? I also am eligible on a list for a future law enforcement agency. But that will take longer.
It's a great learning, if this video might've come a month ago, it would be more helpful for me.
I understand! Better late than never, right? 😃
Thank you for the useful information, however how do pick based on managers and we dont even know or aware completely about them?
Thanks for watching! For personalised advice, I go live every Friday to help people with exactly these type of questions. Join me live every Friday at 2 pm CET on #SuperChargeFridays
Wait, I love your outfit ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing,
Thanks for watching
I wasn't working for 3 months I got a job and 1 week later a temp agency said they had a higher paying job at the same hospital my doctor works. All my friends said go for it. I told the temp agency I can't take days off work at my new job. I asked will this hospital job be a guarantee she said yes. I get to the place and she ask me if I was still interested after I quit my job just to be there. Well!!! She calls me in the evening and said the hospital gave the job to someone else. I have over 4 other interviews but Lost my other job for taking the day off for this temp agency that lied .
This sounds awful I’m so sorry you had to experience it
@@SuperChargeYourself well thank God I got my job back but the supervisor been on me ever since I came back. But I believe it's more so because I'm not paying him attention due to the fact I feel bad because he was trying to be friends before that happened.
Excellent content. Very helpful 👍🏼
Glad to hear it, thanks for watching
Excellent 😊
Thank you sooooo much!!! ❤
You're welcome!!
I have an issue i received an offer from HSBC client implementation manager and director GTB sales advisor of trade products at FAB and both is exciting i dont know which to chose
Literally going through this right now
Good luck!
I received offer from two random companies (neither of them is my dream company), should I give up both offers ?
Not yet
What if you start in one but you get a much better one 2-3 weeks later?
Hello Mam what should we have do when we have 3 job offers in hand ? what criteria needs to be considered ?
Please give me suggestion I have got offer with lower than market and request to increase the salary and band (position) but they come up with specified salary is final and band is too final.Whether shall i accept the offer with written email . Now one more company approaching but not yet release. What is yoir opnion shall i accept the first offer and wait for second?
I am in the same situation now. The company A which offer me the position i wanted is in third part pay roll. Company B in direct payroll and little higher in pay sclae but the position doesn't excite me much.
What should I take A or B
What do you want? Hint: you may have already answered this for yourself, read back your comment out loud!
Whatever you choose, congratulations 🙌🏼
Thanks Sonal for the details. I have one doubt, how to say no (politely) to the offer I have rejected.
I think you just have to do it! Like you said, with politeness. Thanks for watching
What about location? Rent? Cost of living. What if you have two offers same money but one place is good, the company has a bad reputation but rent and houses are cheaper . The other is busy and dirty and not great but the company has great reputation but the house prices are rediculously high. Which one would you choose. Atm my friend can't at all decide.
Location is indeed a deeply personal decision. I think your friend needs to put all these factors together and weigh them according to their own preferences and priorities.
Busy, dirty and expensive.. don’t rank high in my book, but that’s me
Thank you..
Thanks for watching
If I have received offer letter do i have to disclose on call for interviews tht I received.. Or during negotiation process
Hello and thank you for your comment! Join me when I go live on TH-cam every Friday at 2pm CET and we can get into the specifics of your situation. Hope to see you there!
great video
Thank you
@sonal i have just joined new It company bt i am not liking environment of new company so i am looking for change of job. can you just explain what precise reason i should give to recruiter while searching for new job.
can you make video on such topic if possible
I am holding 2 offer with package difference of 2.5l , I was quite confused which one to choose as i am more inclined towards offer with less package as I can see job stability and company have big group. Have I made good decision as m still regretting not going with Higher pacakge. Please help.
Hello! Join me when I go LIVE every Friday on TH-cam at 2pm CET I can totally discuss your situation in better detail!
Hi Sonal,
Greetings of the Day!!
I Appreciate your guidance.
I have some career related advices.
Regards,
Nashet Ali
Solutions Architect-Technical,
Tata Group
Thanks for watching!
Watching from Malta EU
Can you pls guide about and ATS friendly CV pls
Once we get offer from other company if the current company ready to offer the same, what to do
Sorry for the delay! I go live with open office hours every Friday here on TH-cam (check channel banner) to answer all questions. Due to the volumes I see here i unfortunately can’t respond to each one, as I work alone. Hope you can join me one day!
Hello everyon!! I have seen many comments and most of you have endup in situation where you have to choose one offer while holding multiple offers.
Can anyone help me how you have handled this situation practically as i am going through same phase. I have already joined 1 company and on same day i have received another offer with better pacakge , this is stressful situation as I cannot negoitiate with current company to revise offer.
How i can handle this?
Join me when I go live on Fridays (tomorrow), I will help you with this question in real time. 😃
How to respond if HR asked me "Do you have any offer in your hand".
I told them myself from all the stress
Hi ma’am,
Hope you are doing well
I have a offer letter from my ex company and I have a e-exit call with HR. How do I negotiate with my current he for salary?
@Sonal Bahl
I have a whole playlist on negotiation, there’s a lot there to help you. Good luck.
I'm so confused , im in the same dilemma and need your opinion. . I got job offer last week for job A and took the position. This week i got an offer for job B which pays more, about $7k more a year. Job A is a hybrid schedule that works 2 days in the the office while Job B is hybrid schedule but have to work 4 days in the office. Job A has better medical insurance benefits than job B. I was working for job B previously for 4 years so i have seniority there if i take that while Job A is a brand new company. With all those factors said, which one would you take, Job A or B ????
I'm in a bit of a predicament... The recruiter said I had to make the decision to accept the offer by this morning. As I had no other offers at the time I accepted. But now another offer has just come in that I really want... what should I do?
Did you already have an interview with the second company? If so make a list of pro and cons about the two look at salary all that then make a decision
The first lead is the right one. The easy option that show up in your life is the correct option You will learn after years of applying this that life is easier than you thought it is. Is just stubborness and ruminating that makes life difficult.
@@Phantom-ez4zv yep, went with the first and it was definitely the right call :)
Unemployed me watching this!!!😹
All welcome to watch! Your current circumstances don’t define you, remember that.
How much do you charge to read me a book? Asking for a friend 😊
Thank you for reaching out but I don’t quite follow your query.. could you please rephrase?
Despite all the economic crisis (dip) this is the right time to start up an investment
Yeah that's right I think the best way is to invest with a professional, at least it saves the trauma of too much losses
I've traded with a lot of individuals but I have never come across anyone as good as Mr Jordan blake, just by applying his new strategies I now trade independently.