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- Are you feeling a bit down on yourself lately, because you do not feel like you are good enough? Whether it's looks, charm or value, we are here to give you a little ego booster today. You might be more attractive than you think!
These points are supported by science so that adds a bit of educational fun to it.
6 Signs of Unspoken Attraction • 6 Signs of Unspoken At...
Writer: Dylan Swanepoel
Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Celine
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
0:27 you connect with others
1:04 you keep fit
1:57 you influence others
2:44 you are passionate
3:12 the halo effect
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Couple years
2 or 3 years now
Probably more than a year
2 years
At least a couple months now and I'm glad I did
Thank you, now I know that I'm unattractive. Always knew, but now it's backed up by science!!!
Same, but at the same time i like to not be attractive because it keeps away toxic and annoying people.
You are looking at the video through the bias of you being down on yourself (which I'm quite good at myself) and thinking you're unattractive. I know it's like impossible to look at yourself objectively, I would base any elements of self image on a youtube video, with all due respect to psych2go, which is a great channel, but they have to speak in generalities.
You and me both. 0/5 - Perfect score!
Awww I feel bad for you :(
Ikr???🥳🤸
(😢)
I never clicked on a video so fast
Same lol
Likewise
I was hoping for good news too
Same
Me too haha
Now that I know I’m extremely unattractive, the video really opened my eyes.
I'm curious to understand more about how the video opened your eyes to feeling unattractive.
Its ok, some people are not your people, i have found that leaning into these feelings you will find a reflective point, you want to have meaningfull reflections and since you steer towards outward reflections as a focus, you will find to reinforce and bypass your true feelings, if you gravitate towards more of you and what you like, you will meet those who reflect this back to you, its all a matter of trying hard to be noticed by the people you think are beneficial to your state of being, yet you must first start to engage in true self acceptance, and sadly in our modern society being sensitive and kind is often shunned, but the beauty is truly inside forgiving yourself for notknowing how to be you yet, but just as you want to be a part of these people they will reflect basicly in simple terms, that they are not your people, because you are you and they are they, stay safe and be kind to yourself! you are awesome!
@@Psych2go Look I know I am not the one you responded to but the reason why it makes me feel less attractive is that I am not for sociable in IRL at least so a lot of these comes out as negative especially when I don't go outside my house much.
@@shiningvictory7060 I mean one needs someone to attract in order to be attractive, whether friend or partner. Even online, gotta talk to people to attract people. I prefer solitude and doing my own thing, so I am consciously unattractive :P
@@shiningvictory7060all of these are kind of centered on the act of socialization. "If you're happy and connect to others then they are more likely to be perceived as attractive," can sum up the video nicely.
The thing is, there is no finding a mate without looking for one.
Another way to sum up this video would be, "make friends! Find your passions! Talk to people! Then you will be more attractive to more people." They can't find you attractive if they don't know you exist. Most can't find you attractive unless you are friends first (trust building is a significant part of it).
You don't gotta be an extrovert, you can also do it online.
All of this makes me think the adjective, "attractive," for the common person is overblown. All you gotta do is take care of yourself and make friends then you will be seen as a potential partner by someone. Even if that usually happens in secret, it's still happening.
While I always hope that I am physically attractive, I think it’s the sweetest thing whenever someone says that I’m really easy to talk to/they feel like I really get them. It’s nice to know this is a good thing and not I exude “therapist” vibes 💀
That's a wonderful compliment! What do you think makes you approachable and easy to talk to?
@@Cleetus_Nevalackin You've raised a very important point here but in the same vein, impressing societal expectations upon ourselves isn't going to do us any good either. I understand where you're coming from in saying this as I've suffered from very bad cases of acne and it still haunts me today as I enter adulthood.. but if there's something that can tank your societal charisma: enthusiasm, being genuine and well spoken will be your best bet fam 💙💙
You’ll forever be in the “friend” category.😂😂😂
@@wavelength3278 you’d think that, but I’ve amassed so many partners/failed relationships cause ig the people around me confuse genuine interest in interpersonal relationships as flirting? We traumatized out here, it happened a lot in high school where a friend who I thought was JUST A FRIEND was like “I like you” and cause I needed therapy (I’m in therapy) I just said “okay” and that was the start of basically all my romantic endeavors
@@belle-mariephan918oof that would be a nightmare for me, if my friends say that to me it would kinda hurt me a lil bit cause they are only my friend cause they want to date me and not a platonic relationship, and I wouldn’t know what to say in that situation too 😭
1. You connect with others
2. You stay fit
3. You influence others
4. You are passionate
5. The halo effect
crazy
man thats crazy
@@ok-ky1nswhy is it crazy
None of those signs for me except staying fit.
thats okay@@PerceptionVsReality333
Remember guys: there's a lot more to being attractive than having certain physical features. Being healthy, being nice, being hygienic and dressing well
Dressing well is more so a physical factor.
@@asrield2032 In a sense yes. However depending on the situation dressing well contributes to others view of you as a person more then you looks. Most obvious example is how you dress for a job interview. You can have nice clothes that still doesn't match the dress code of said work place and you might have less chance of getting employed.
If you put thought into what you wear then others will notice that you don't just dress well, you dress with purpose. And this goes for both having nice clothes for parties and job interviews, but also clothes that last in rain and snow outside. Having the right clothes for the right moments in life is a very underated thing imo (i know because i'm a lazy dresser by heart lol). But this does NOT mean you have to wear the most expensive clothes. If you find a nice, put together fit at a second hand or buy something cheaper online it will work just as fine as new clothes from a fancy store. Most of the time it's actually how it fits that influence your look the most, especially when it comes to tuxedos, business dresses and suits.
Well as long as the color scheme isn't the Joker, but that could be fun at a halloween party!
@@ouwle6618I am not reading that💀
@@X_Entity_X Did some spacing to make it easier to read, but it's up to you if it's interesting. It takes less time to read my comment then watching the entire video, so if you don't have the energy or interest in the subject what are you doing here? Not that the comment in question was directed specifically towards you...
@@ouwle6618 yeah no I just saw that and thought it’d be funny(dream reference)
I always kind of figured I was emotionally attractive because I always became the center and glue of the friend circles and would also usually be called the father of the group because everyone always felt safe and comfortable around me. That also meant people opened up to me more and would always ask me for my opinion and advice. I also just have a natural "huggable" aura according to a lot of friends who would open up when we would have deep talks and that always made me feel happy. I also have been getting a lot more compliments lately not just because I started going to the gym but because im a lot more confident and have started to also clean myself up with how I dress and present myself. I also post regularly when im at the gym and apparently that has motivated a handful of my friends to start as well and they love to tell me that they thank me for posting pretty much daily because its their motivation to get fit and be healthy. Lastly I would like to say thank you for the video, it really did help me understand a lot of things, its going to strive me to continue to do the things im doing and to keep pushing to be a better person so that those around me can also slowly begin to feel more confident about themselves because its always better when you pick each other up.
I'm happy for you😊😊
I used to be like you, but then I closed myself to the world (I guess quarantine didn’t help) and now I’m very isolated
But I believe those qualities are innate, once you absorb them, and I’m trying to go back to my old self.
I think it’s important for people to know that we all have a light, and even if we seem to lose it, we can get it back
@@ruipac22 I believe in you, I also think that they’re still in there you just need to open yourself up again and I’m all for it. Good luck and I hope things get better for you! I know quarantine didn’t help me either but once you get with the right people and into the lifestyle you want things just begin to click and fit in so well like puzzle pieces 🧩
@@ruipac22 I wish you success. I was painfully shy as a child and young adult and have grown into someone who enjoys connecting with others and having deep conversation. I never would have expected it, even in high school.
That was so wholesome to read. ☺️ I am glad you are doing well. It encourages me to do my best as well.
Introverts rn:
Trait 1 = Failed.
Trait 2= I do exercise but 😢
Trait 3= Not really (sad).
Trait 4= I barely have any hobbies but when I do express I feel like I'm bragging.
Trait 5= Well people ignore me even when I'm talking to them.
Can my self esteem be any lower 💀
💀
Bruh you described me entirely, at least i exercise more lately
“I’m ugly, I’m tellin’ ya. My proctologist, he stuck his finger in my mouth.” 😂
-Rodney Dangerfield
🗿
I feel you, bro. Well, I'd say to spend more time around people who do listen to and take genuine interest in you, because people who don't listen just tend to bog things down anyway. That means they're unattractive! And I'm sure you can see why. And otherwise, you're not bragging as long as you're not putting anyone down. You're allowed to talk about your interests! It might feel awkward, but it gets easier over time, and around the right kind of person, it feels natural and not so awkward anymore. I hope this helps ❤
Timestamps
1). You connect with others 0:24
2). You keep fit 1:03
3). You influence others 1:46
4). You are passionate 2:22
5). The halo effect 3:09
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I farted
@@enlightenedappledrink it🍺
Ty
@@penance8717what the actual fuck
What are these comments
Holy crap I’m in the complete negative of all of these. I push people away, let people walk all over me, and never share my passions. I actually do a lot to take care of my body, but I have a chronic illness working against me so I always look unfit and unhealthy. At least with the first three I have something I can work on, so it’s good to know! Going to keep working on myself until I get there!
Its ok, some people are not your people, i have found that leaning into these feelings you will find a reflective point, you want to have meaningfull reflections and since you steer towards outward reflections as a focus, you will find to reinforce and bypass your true feelings, if you gravitate towards more of you and what you like, you will meet those who reflect this back to you, its all a matter of trying hard to be noticed by the people you think are beneficial to your state of being, yet you must first start to engage in true self acceptance, and sadly in our modern society being sensitive and kind is often shunned, but the beauty is truly inside forgiving yourself for notknowing how to be you yet, but just as you want to be a part of these people they will reflect basicly in simple terms, that they are not your people, because you are you and they are they, stay safe and be kind to yourself! you are awesome!
i love the oshi no ko references, especially since that's how the "main" character worked but she lied to everyone and herself so she started to believe it but people found attraction in that
0:27 you connect with others
1:04 you keep fit
1:57 you influence others
2:44 you are passionate
3:12 the halo effect
im clinically ugly damn
This is a cool perspective. People often see the word "attractive" and assume it's only/mainly about how hot/pretty/handsome/sexy others are to you or you are to others. To attract is to draw something or someone in. Being attractive is a whole range of things that, when combined, can describe what draws people to you. Often we can focus so much on whether we meet the beauty standards to be attractive that we forget the other aspects. All are important and feed into the overall impact. It's cool seeing this take on it. It's why you can find someone conventionally attractive (physically) but not feel attracted to them because of other reasons.
Well I guess I'm just ugly
Being unattractive doesn't mean you're ugly, you're very pretty/handsome
I think the thing that makes me attractive is that I don’t put labels on people .. if I see someone new at work/school I will approach them and talk to them about anything.. ask if it’s their first day and go from their .. regardless of who you are I will give you a chance and try to get to know you as a person …
That's a wonderful quality to have! I mean who doesn't like an open-minded, approachable, and inclusive person, that's very attractive and lovely.🥰❤
I'm actually shocked that people consider attractive individuals "more trustworthy." Personally, attractive people are almost always the ones who betray me the hardest. They probably think that they can get away with it though because they're attractive. I don't trust conventionally attractive people at all. And usually their personality is incredibly stale 😂 Luckily though, I'm someone who finds personality to be the determining factor of how attractive someone is.
While I don’t want to discount your experience I would encourage you to try and suspend some of your initial apprehensions with conventionally attractive people, sometimes because of previous experience our brains will put people in boxes or mark them off just because of past experiences preventing something beautiful from blossoming. All to protect ourselves
bullshit, they still have to be 6' chads I'm sure
@@djmohab2 I think the 6 foot thing is so stupid. Literally who gives a sh- about height?? My only requirements are a sense of humor and someone who's nice to animals and customer service workers (and me obviously). I've had people tell me they think that I date people that aren't attractive because that way I know they'll do whatever I want because they won't want to lose me. That's the most toxic and disgusting assumption I've literally ever heard.
@@MorgueInTheVoid damn, I'm sorry for judging you wrongly
@@djmohab2 It's okay, I don't blame you. There's so many women that have a whole list of requirements and expectations, which makes it nearly impossible for them to ever be happy in love. On top of the fact that they're the same type of women that will be offended if a man shows up with a list too and they don't meet that man's requirements. It's so egotistical, I don't understand why people can't just accept that no one's perfect and if they can't see that they themselves aren't perfect, they should not be expecting a "perfect" partner.
Glad to know most of my self confidence and leadership got ripped away due to childhood trauma 😍
I'm sorry to hear that. Have you explored or considered seeking support to work through the impact of childhood trauma on your self-confidence and leadership?
@@Psych2go Somewhat, I'm trying my best to work through it but it's hard. Thanks for asking! ❤️
@@sam_does_stuff read no more mr nice guy might help
You got me to watch this video even more after seeing those Oshi no Ko references. It was worth the watch. Thank you so much!
Glad you enjoyed it! :)
This video is on point!
Two things to notice.
1) People are generally more anxious than before, so you might not feel the closing up and talking so directly.
2) Excersize were always fun, I used to like training, though some people look better than me without training. I end up disliking it, when I tried so hard to improve myself. Never forget that excersize is fun. If you are so good in it, you will get into a team and become a professional on some level, but after 5-6 attendance nearly everyone could tell if you into this or not.
Great insights! How do you personally find the balance between enjoying exercise and the pressure to constantly improve?
@@Psych2go Thank you for your comment. Your question was about finding a balance between the joy of training and the continuous challenge of performance. Here is my answer. Balance can only be achieved in the long run. We shouldn't be too strict with ourselves because there are good and bad days, sad moments, illnesses, and external factors beyond our control. I try to plan for a year and set daily, weekly, and monthly tasks within that. Of course, not with such precision, but I try! I've noticed that the constant desire to do can lead to burnout quickly, and despite our achievements, we can still feel sad. Let me give you an example. If I sleep six hours every day, by the third or fourth day, I'm already making mistakes, which sets me back and overall makes me feel worse than if I had slept two hours more each day instead of working. Because of this, for the next two days, I wander around unmotivated and tired, and somehow find myself again by Saturday. If I had slept eight hours each night, the time spent sleeping would have been lost, but my momentum would have lasted until the end of the week. It's like the race between the hare and the tortoise-walk slowly, live longer. There are weeks when, due to work or unexpected events, I sleep less and can't focus, but then I rest, and looking back at the week, the balance is maintained, even if I slept 6 hours one day and 10 hours another: it averages to 8 hours. The same goes for training: long-term goals and the short-term goals leading to them. Better slow than fast, and it must be accepted that there will be months when you miss out. But if you push yourself too hard to train in a month when it's not a true passion, competition, or calling for you, you are over-disciplining yourself, which lowers your own quality of life. There will be months when you'll do better. Overall, I can say that balance is found in self-awareness and setting a sufficiently long time frame.
I always wondered why everyone kept telling me exercise was fun. Then I got my feet xrayed. Turns out I have super flat flexible feet and that's why I'm always in consistent pain. There is no easy cure 😁 I have to relearn how to balance and walk and have to consistently correct my posture for the rest of my life if I want to be able to stand up or walk for more than 15 minutes at a time without pain.
@@drstevenanthony3077 Glad, they have sorted out and you are headed to the right direction!
I’ve never felt so exposed about my personality!!
Unsubscribed
pppffffft get real.
and i've never felt so ugly after watching this video!!
IKR?!?!?!
Bfr 💀
I guess one would say that I am a relatively attractive guy. Since that I do most of the things on the list here at the slightest.
Of course the real attraction comes from the person within. Especially when it comes to having confidence in their own skin and being a great person!
Beautifully said!
Validation is always nice. I suppose there's a few things I let slip recently that I should start working on again.
Thanks, Amanda and company! 😊
You're most welcome!
@Psych2go why does the voice keep changing pls and also do attractive people get compliments?
@@sussybaka8669who else would get compliments
Wow this just confirmed I’m ugly as heck…why do I even try😩😵💫
I know 😢
I love how you used characters from Oshi No Ko as prime examples for this video
😂🎉
Just do it pio pio!
They used chainsaw man too
I’ve never heard of the Halo Effect! I’m learning something new every time I come to this channel. Thank you! I am very glad that I’ve subscribed 🧡🧡
Happy to help! Thanks for supporting our work!
Thank you for adding the subtitles. ❤❤
Oh. No wonder I constantly feel unattractive. Depression makes it very hard to oractice or exhibit any of these traits, in my experience.
Literally, it’s been almost 3 years since I’ve felt any real connection with anyone
Yes, it is. I watch many of these attractiveness videos and the only thing that is consistent between all of them is self confidence. Since depression makes you lose your self worth and your love in your interests, it is very clear that depression makes someone very unatractive.
Wow I think so because I'm got passion about my hobbies . Thanks 👍
I like that Pieyon on the thumbnail 💪😂🔥
I guess I’m not attractive
doesn’t mean you’ll never be tho
You’re cute bro.
@@Unknown21312 Ty
Me too
Something I very much appreciate about this channel is that it always seems like whenever I'm experiencing an issue in my life, I look at this channel and see a video about the same stuffm this has helped me quite a lot in my life over the last year
The most attractive thing is when someone looks outwardly, at others to help them through the tough times. People will see this and gravitate toward this in turn.
That's a powerful observation. It seems like your focus on others and their well-being is a magnetic quality.
You get a lot of attention!
i love the oshi no ko details throughout the video
I've been asked throughout my life, "you really don't know how pretty you are, do you?"
Ask I could say was my grandma once told me "pretty is as pretty does".
So, I never cared if anybody thought I was physically attractive. I did however, cared very very much of people thought I was attractive inside.
I've always tried to be kind, loving, tolerant, fair, open minded and accepting of all the differences each of us have inside of us.
As a gamer, society isn't ready to accept our kind, so I must hide my power level in order to not scare them away.
This video has explained to me why I feel invisible out in public, thanks!
Its ok, some people are not your people, i have found that leaning into these feelings you will find a reflective point, you want to have meaningfull reflections and since you steer towards outward reflections as a focus, you will find to reinforce and bypass your true feelings, if you gravitate towards more of you and what you like, you will meet those who reflect this back to you, its all a matter of trying hard to be noticed by the people you think are beneficial to your state of being, yet you must first start to engage in true self acceptance, and sadly in our modern society being sensitive and kind is often shunned, but the beauty is truly inside forgiving yourself for notknowing how to be you yet, but just as you want to be a part of these people they will reflect basicly in simple terms, that they are not your people, because you are you and they are they, stay safe and be kind to yourself! you are awesome!
Great confirmation that I am unattractive. Some of the things that are described here as being attractive qualities have only ever really made me feel ostracized by others. 1 - I try to connect to people on a genuine level, but most only want superficial and shallow interactions. So I tend to be ostracized by that. 2 - I have always been some level of fit, has never made any difference that I can see. 3 - People don't want to interact with me, probably because I am neurodivergent and it makes them uncomfortable, so I doubt I influence anyone. 4 - My passions are generally considered odd and weird, so I generally get more ostracization by sharing them. 5 - IF, someone does decide to come talk to me, it is generally short-lived. I don't seem to fit social norms, and I gave up trying to twist myself to fit those norms just have no real change in outcome.
I love watching someone talk passionately about something they really love. It’s admirable if one could specialize in something & become super knowledgeable on that subject. They could persuade others to learn about it as well.
At my last job, I was all of these things and respected. not just because of my position. However, I've never thought of that respect as attractive. Even off times, mostly breaks, a lot of the girls and even guys asked me about my workout. So, I would say borderline on that subject. As for if others attract towards me yes and no more toxic people tend to draw to me only some positive people do. The ratio would roughly be 4/1 respectively. I think it's just the city I live in, Vegas has scummy people.
I tried this with the hottest girl in the bar. I said "hi, I influence and connect with others and walk five miles a day". She said "but your old and fat and ugly and bald".
I said "I"m also poor".
Thank you rando video for making me feel like garbage ❤
Thank U for CRUSHING whats left of my self esteem.......
i love the art from various animes from this channel, its so cute. thank you for being awesome
I needed this rn
Loved the Oshi no ko references(and also pieyon in the video XD)
Since school started a amazing girl has joined our class. She was really kind and loved to talk with everyone. And since i like talking, she always comes to sit with me becuase she really likes me being attractive as in this video. I listened to every sentence she said, she's really sweet
i love that you put screens of Oshi no Ko during this video ❤
So while I embody all of these 100%(even when I dont want to), there are two key differences that Ive noticed.
1. My social success comes from ME approaching THEM. A lot of friends have told me that when they initially saw me, they assumed my personality was negative or that i was self centered. I also got the word "Intmidating" a lot. But when i approach them, obviously im all smiles and jokes and they then feel comfortable.
2. This is a little personal, but I cant seem to keep a lot of people around. Specifically in romantic feilds. I can always attract, make them laugh and (Im told) Im a natrual flirt, but as soon as i show my deeper side, it scares them off.
I started automatically reading this comment like the rest of them, and the longer it went on, the more I thought to myself, did I write this whole falling asleep or something??
I kno how you feel.
I also noticed that I can heavily influence how often I see my friends.
If I hit them up, they are almost always down to meet.
If I don't, I can also not see them for weeks or months (without it impacting our relations).
So I like to take initiative and plan activities with them whenever I haven't seem them in a while.
I was always wondering why people were always talking to me at school. This vid helped me understand so much now!! 👍👍🙌
Glad we could help! It's great that the video provided some clarity for you! What other specific insights from the video resonated with your own experiences?
Exercising and working out helped me feel more confident. I finally feel like I've achieved my trifecta of mental, physical, and spiritual fitness.
I love how this video wasnt just about looks but about personality traits a person have within themselves and its thanks too the man upsfpr blessing me too be attractive not just physically but also spirituality ❤❤❤
Thank you! I was so bullied in middle school that in the first year of highschool i lost all my confidence. I'll be starting college in 2024 and i got a little confidence boost from this video cuz i got all the things (guess my bullies were just jealous of me)
Good luck on starting fresh in college. It's usually much better than high school since there's typically more mature people around who don't care as much about silly, petty things that high schoolers bully others for. It's a great place to start anew and connect with others without the baggage of people knowing you from before.
When Psych2Go puts non-physical traits to make you feel better about yourself, but you don’t have those either
Great work on the subtitles alot better and very personal and nicely paced, keep it up
Having self esteem is another attractive trait! I’ve been working on trying to get mine up so I can be more confident :)
I'm late, but hey, it's anoher video. This relates to me so well. I'm deeply insecure, despite being confident and usually looking at innocent and happy and such. But thank you, and this has made me a little more confident. Still a bit of time until I can fully appreciate myself though!
You got this!
@@Psych2go thanks. :)
That’s interesting. I don’t do any of these often, but yet I am still attractive! 🔥
It seems like your natural charm shines through! What do you think are the key elements that contribute to your innate attractiveness?
I watch your videos just for your voice......its so soothing. 🤍
Going into the video, I wasn't expecting myself to be one of these individuals, and well, my expectations were met. At least now I can try to work on these things. What stuck with me the most from this video is being enthusiastic, because I used to be like that when I was younger but I don't think that's uncommon for kids anyway. Well, thanks for making this video it was very nice to watch!
Wellp, I love it when I’m right xD literally everything here was not the case and since I’m always telling people in my surroundings that I don’t look good and they deny because well, my self esteem is already low as hell so yeah, very nice video, gave me the confirmation I needed, to know I’m not attractive. I’m not muscular at all, I don’t have any self esteem, I don’t show any sort of self love whatsoever, I don’t attract people around me like a magnet and just to shoot the nail in the coffin, in my 20 years of life there was exactly one individual who fell in love with me, problem with that is that I to that time was so damn dense that I didn’t even give it any sort of try or anything despite literally knowing she had the doki dokis for me, conclusion of this, in the span of 20 years there was one singular individual who fell in love with me, the whole rest of the time no one ever had anything for me and I’m always in the friendzone before even knowing each other properly. I will definitely die alone xD
Listen man. Life’s hard as fuck. It’s unforgiving as all hell, and will make you feel like shit quite a bit. But, you will only die alone if you don’t do anything to change that. As hard as it is, believe me I’ve been there, you gotta put in the effort if you want to change all these things in your life. You need to go out there and make the change you want to see in your life. If you’re searching for love, or friends, they’re not gonna come knocking on your door. You gotta go find it. Your self-esteem will always stay low, as long as you wallow in it. You need to kick those intrusive thoughts in the face, and break through these chains that you believe bind you. And if you can’t do it alone, maybe consider consulting a therapist. That’s what therapists are for. Hopefully anything I said can help you. I truly wish the best for you man! I hope you can make the decisions you need to better your life! You got this man! Stay strong and keep your head high! 💪
Think about who you were and what you were doing when someone was attracted to you. What are you doing today that is attractive? 🧲
@@curseofsasuke honestly, I have no idea what exactly was different back then, I was less confident, looked even worse than I do now… super nice that you try to help me, I really appreciate it and although I’m really thinking about it, there is literally nothing from back then that was better about me than now, it was more the opposite I think
I thought that exact same thing at 20 & then at 21 I found someone who wanted to marry me so hang in there life can surprise you. You don't know who you're going to meet so stay open & willing to talk to folks & you just might find the right person when you least expect it.
@@kieleleron85768 nice to hear, even tho I’m not really searching anymore since I kinda gave up xD
I klicke Don the video because I thought it might be interesting but I guess I can now say that scientifically and objectively I’m not attractive which is a statement that not everyone can say and back up xD
Ok real talk now, thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate it, unfortunately I’m absolutely introverted so talking to new people kinda scares me but I will try my best to heed your advice
Hey, 90th comment! I guess one thing I know that I have in the bag is intelligence. I don't mean to sound like im saying that im the smartest person i know or anything, just that I like to learn and I do it often, about almost anything. Science, in all it's forms, has always been my favorite subject, ever since I was a little kid. I wish I could keep that passion more often when it comes to my classes in college though lol.
It seems like every time I watch you psych2go I find something new about myself which has boosted my confidence alot. Thank you so much pysch2go keep it up :3.
Ps i think the most attractive trait i have is my ability to be so nice to everyone and it seems like i was the person to go to for like some comforting talk or general talk.
Now i have obvious and unobvious signs that im unattractive. I rate my look at 3 or 4 max out of 10, and not a single unobvious signs i have. Thanks to post this vid, this could help me killing my hope to my crush, shes way too good for me, yeah it sad, but this is the reality.
Only the first one fits me, usually I don't really make friends, friends make me (phrasing 🤔) and I easily talk to pretty much anyone. So I'm a fifth attractive, let's goo
Women who have a good relationship with their grandparents or elders in general attract me.
Love the aesthetic of this video!
never thought i needed that last line you saidd hahaha thank youuuu
I have had experiences where strangers would sit beside me on the bus and begin to tell me about their life without me asking. I think it’s because they think I’m a Christian (I actually am). Many strangers have asked me before and in my country Christians tend to be nice people so they probably saw in me.
Physically, I think I'm objectively ugly, personality wise, I'm not the most attractive person ever. However, this video upped my confidence a bit.
For some reason, people and animals seem to like me, I don't even do anything, they just seem to flock to me, and I've noticed that a lot of them even try imitating me.
I used to find this annoying because I like being alone most of the time, but now I see their intentions from a different perspective, and it makes me like people more.
When things start mirroring you, that's a very good sign they like you. This may mean that they want a romantic relationship with you or they want you guys to be friends. in any case, they want more of you. If you want them back, great, kudos to you for being an interesting human!
@@leandrooliveira3070 Thanks :) I hope that most of them don't want a romantic relationship with me because they're family members, but I wouldn't be opposed to being friends.
What's your dynamic with people like?
@@nooneneedstoknowmyname lol I believe they just want to be friends in your case haha. I hope 😶🌫️
And could you please explain better what you mean by dynamic with other people? I don't understand your question. Do you mean how people react to me and I to them?
@@leandrooliveira3070 Haha.
Yeah, like how do you get along with people and how do they act around you?
Oh my God I love this voice😭😭❤️❤️
I love this channel.
watching Psych2Go vids is like rubbing salt in the wound for me and yet i still do it
real
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, and I appreciate your honesty. I'm curious to understand more about what aspects of the videos are causing distress for you. Our aim is to bring awareness and positivity, so if there's a way we can better achieve that, I'd love to hear your thoughts.
Great now I can be 100% sure I'm not attractive 🎉😂
thanks for getting my hopes up for no reason
awesome video!
I used to attract people without trying, people always coming up to me trying to be "friends" while not even knowing how to be one really. it started to get really annoying especially when alot of the people that wanted to be around me were either toxic or very VERY dumb to the point where it was just migraine inducing so i made it my goal to do everything possible without coming off like an ass (in most cases at least) to keep people away from me, now it's like second nature to me and i don't even have to try and keep em away, its been so serene these past couple years
How do you do it, if you don’t mind sharing? ✨
@@PrincessJayEzenot be ugly 😂
@@JacobDaDJfirst of all rude, second of all they were asking how they didn't attract so many people to them. I don't get why people these days are so mean
@@JacobDaDJ First of all I was asking the person who initially made the comment not you. Secondly what you said didn’t even answer my question you legit troll 🧌 because that’s not what I was asking.
Lastly, hopefully you can use your own answer/ “advice” and muster up the confidence to show up on social media as yourself and not hide behind a picture of a cartoon character. 😳🥴😅😂😂 Like the audacity lol that’s very embarrassing for you smh 🤭😂😂
@@sam_does_stuff first of all, don’t put a picture of what you look like on the internet if you’re not willing to be judged. Also, it’s true that physically attractive people tend to be more attractive to other people even if they’re passionate about something or whatever. People have always been mean, the internet just gives us a medium to express it better. Also, did you make your profile picture? Cause that shit looks hideous
This video was supposed to help but it crushed me further lmao
Great oshi no ko reference!!!
Thank you!
GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS MORNING, THIS TOPIC IS ME HAVE A BLESSED DAY AND HAPPY THANKSGIVING TEE 🙏💯🙏💙💪 PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS
First of all, I saw Disney’s The Hunchback of Notre Dame multiple times, and while I may share a similar personality as Quasimodo, I don’t think I’m as ugly as he is.
Secondly, the most creative thing that I’m doing with my lifestyle is creating a webcomic, which almost everyone is curious to know more about.
This was a very uplifting and reassuring video to start my day
Thank you for the subs ❤ it helps a lot to stay focused on the videos!
No problem 😊
me watching this damn well knowing i aint going to tick any of these boxes
2:54 Har Har? 🐻🐰🐥🦊
I guess this helps answer some questions I’ve had, but in an unexpected way. I wondered if people approached me or stared at me or talked to me because of my appearance. But if it’s other qualities that make people drawn to you and tell you their life story, then it can be an attraction that isn’t about a nice physical appearance . So, now it makes sense that what I see in the mirror isn’t much, especially now at this age. Also my ability to do what’s mentioned in the video varies drastically with my mood. In my head, I’m thinkingb”stay away” but I’m smiling like a kid.
i’m all over the place. But I get the message. A good personality is attractive and depression robs you of that, too.
Great Video! 💛
After watching this video I can confirm that I am indeed unattractive.
As an introvert
I am definetly not attractive🙃
i love the oshi no ko inspired clips >
Haha, example: You, The narrator keeps us into the video mainly cause of your voice.
It is a very soothing and reliable type of voice. 💯
I've been told that I make other people "feel comfy" and that I'm very unassuming and genuine. I think I just own my weird self so happily that it makes others feel ok to be their weird selves, which I think is a very attractive trait!
0:04 canon event..
Intriguing. Thanks for the info. As always 😄
You got me with the Oshi no Ko reference
Its official. I'm unattractive
oh I'm unattractive 😭
Thank you so much ❤❤❤
These videos helped to raise my self esteem alot^^
You're very welcome! ❤❤
Always a pleasure to pass by and hear all the things I am not