8 Subtle Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think

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  • Most people can get a good gauge of how attractive they are based on the compliments they get from others, how many relationships they’ve had, how popular they are on social media, and so on. But did you know that this isn’t always an accurate representation of your own attractiveness? Also, if you are curious, find out if you're compatible with someone here: • 7 Signs of an Incompat...
    Credits:
    Writer: Chloe Avenasa
    Script Editor: Rida Batool & Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera
    Animator: Evelvaii
    TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References:
    • Feynman, R. P. (2007). ‘What Do You Care What Other People Think?’: Further Adventures of a Curious Character. Penguin UK.
    • Lammers, W. J., Davis, S., Davidson, O., & Hogue, K. (2016). Impact of Positive, Negative, and No Personality Descriptors on the Attractiveness Halo Effect. Psi Chi Journal Of Psychological Research, 21(1), 29-34.
    • Burkley, M., Burkley, E., Stermer, S., Andrade, A., Bell, A. C., & Curtis, J. (2014). The Ugly Duckling Effect: Examining Fixed Versus Malleable Beliefs About Beauty. Journal of Social Psychology. 32 (5); 466-483
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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9021

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    • @owens.studios
      @owens.studios 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

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    • @tireddaily
      @tireddaily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

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    • @Syinergy_13
      @Syinergy_13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

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      All of them. I need to go to sleep.

    • @kokichi2743
      @kokichi2743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      all the ones in april 2020 - june 2020

  • @briannadaly7320
    @briannadaly7320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21131

    “When strangers look at you.”
    Yea the baby in the grocery store definitely thought I was hot

    • @PankajJain-hx4dl
      @PankajJain-hx4dl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1210

      Thanks for making me laugh.

    • @R.R_Rinren
      @R.R_Rinren 3 ปีที่แล้ว +674

      I'm dying lmao-

    • @mireillelabeille9962
      @mireillelabeille9962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1225

      Hello in fact babies stare at the people they find beautiful !

    • @ppthroat
      @ppthroat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      XD

    • @walinut6443
      @walinut6443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      @@mireillelabeille9962 Exactly!

  • @mirzafathiar
    @mirzafathiar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17790

    i went here to stroke my ego not to feel even uglier

    • @wolfiegamerhowls4
      @wolfiegamerhowls4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      HAHHAHA
      YES

    • @barbie3444
      @barbie3444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Same 😔😔😔😔

    • @HufflepuffsPanda
      @HufflepuffsPanda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 This is exactly what I was thinking oh my gosh best comment

    • @plutoprojectarts
      @plutoprojectarts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      i came for hopeful validation and was only hurt further lmao

    • @linaariawati4424
      @linaariawati4424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Mirza F Taher SAME 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @applesanimated853
    @applesanimated853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    Shrek closing book: Like thats ever gonna happen

    • @isimpfortoomanypeople5223
      @isimpfortoomanypeople5223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That, my friend, is an underrated compliment.

    • @suicidalalien6298
      @suicidalalien6298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also Shrek: What a load of... *flushes toilet*
      Some.... BODY ONCE TOLD ME!

    • @PeterPeter20
      @PeterPeter20 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL

    • @ComiccollectorGamer
      @ComiccollectorGamer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I Don't know how but the older I Get the more my friends Get into Relationship's start Dating someone or Get married and I believe I'm Gonna Die single

  • @Daze-qi1hl
    @Daze-qi1hl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +833

    "you don't get a lot of compliments"
    Me: suddenly I'm ✨ attractive✨

    • @jakeblitzcoffie4859
      @jakeblitzcoffie4859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Can relate.

    • @niharikahande2857
      @niharikahande2857 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ Y/N you an army?...i am one 😁💜

    • @Neo-Reloaded
      @Neo-Reloaded ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If you don't get compliments, it doesn't mean you're hot or ugly. I've met lots of beautiful women and I haven't complimented them. A compliment says more about the person who gives the compliment than about you. Some people just want to be nice, others are simps.

    • @Daze-qi1hl
      @Daze-qi1hl ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Neo-Reloaded true. Though I've gotten a lot of compliments on my hair

  • @inxious227
    @inxious227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17722

    "When strangers look at you"
    Me: They're judging me. They're deeeeefinitely judging me.

    • @delali2005
      @delali2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +570

      Thats how I feel😅

    • @wenousagi6213
      @wenousagi6213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      SAME OMG

    • @GrugFan
      @GrugFan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      same

    • @existenceisafarce._.172
      @existenceisafarce._.172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      Me: Do I have a wedgie :0

    • @jakobjohansen7640
      @jakobjohansen7640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +353

      Did my period finally arrive? Is my fly open? Is my hair messed up? Do I look fat in this jacket? Am I covering my bum?
      -thought that run through my head

  • @hisoh31
    @hisoh31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27136

    “You don’t stay single for too long”
    Me: *been single for too long*

    • @thebeast8281
      @thebeast8281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +492

      By looking at your pic youre beautiful!

    • @kericwu
      @kericwu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      False perception. I think some ppl are just oblivious to others' feelings

    • @infinity7647
      @infinity7647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +597

      Me: Always been single

    • @eddi2565
      @eddi2565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +770

      *NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP*

    • @lydialindgren9223
      @lydialindgren9223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +320

      I have a friend who I view as very attractive but she’s never really been in a proper long term relationship before. I think the reason a lot of people are single for a longer amount of time is because they choose to not be in a relationship. Either because they don’t find anyone they’d want to be in a relationship with or because they just don’t feel like being in a relationship at all. The right people will show up in different places in time, and one of them will probably the long lasting love of your life

  • @swoonoverwrtings
    @swoonoverwrtings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +530

    "stranger looking at you"
    There judging you. They hate you. There annoyed with you.

    • @Untitledmemo
      @Untitledmemo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Me:

    • @overheaven8684
      @overheaven8684 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      W hating

    • @i_EatWafflesYumm
      @i_EatWafflesYumm ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Mine is always “they’re reading your mind” and I always have immediate internal panic as my thoughts start to bully me.

    • @fatalisnox5344
      @fatalisnox5344 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't think so to be honest, I'd rather think they admire something on me or that they didn't even actively notice me.

    • @kris7592
      @kris7592 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@i_EatWafflesYumm 😅

  • @powerchimp
    @powerchimp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    I was walking down the street this morning feeling confident after watching this video. Everyone was looking at me and it made me feel like a handsome prince! They weren't looking at my face though, so I thought they were just being shy.
    Until I got back home and saw my Jeans' zipper was still open...

    • @MJ-zt4xc
      @MJ-zt4xc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Oof 😂💔

    • @leonrussell9607
      @leonrussell9607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      You must have an absolute monster down there

    • @Verde4755
      @Verde4755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@leonrussell9607 some people really can see the bright side of everything huh...

    • @lorelaim1963
      @lorelaim1963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh lawd-

    • @mikioni
      @mikioni 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @javabucket561
    @javabucket561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15643

    ‘You don’t get a lot of compliments’
    Wow, I’m a supermodel.

    • @marze6292
      @marze6292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +324

      Wow I'm an ugly person
      (I'm saying that I get alot of compliments for my green eyes lol)

    • @fredk4745
      @fredk4745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +260

      When you're male:

    • @martinsvoboda4488
      @martinsvoboda4488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      I havent laughed for a week. Until now. Thank you

    • @afoxcatartvideos4877
      @afoxcatartvideos4877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@marze6292 I was what

    • @marze6292
      @marze6292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@afoxcatartvideos4877 uh? I don't understand sorry

  • @brucewayne7896
    @brucewayne7896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3567

    “When strangers look at you”
    So that guy in the white van thought I was cute?

    • @hrumi8748
      @hrumi8748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      😂😂

    • @Lilyium
      @Lilyium 3 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      Imagine if the guy in the white van doesn't even want to look at you ...

    • @mewouneqqq3691
      @mewouneqqq3691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂🤣😂

    • @Hero0fT1me
      @Hero0fT1me 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Definitely

    • @boyyouneedholywater9796
      @boyyouneedholywater9796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      man you be geting out their

  • @yukiminamoto6423
    @yukiminamoto6423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    'People may think you are attractive if they wanna get close to you'
    Me: nah, they just want to get homework answers

    • @awddfg
      @awddfg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      *_True, or try to copy off me, in which I'd rather just give them the wrong answers._*

  • @liv-og9tc
    @liv-og9tc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    This is what I’ve realized a while back is that sometimes the insecurities we see in ourselves when we look in the mirror don’t even cross anyone’s mind when they are talking with you. So don’t worry about it so much just be yourself and you’ll find someone will find you attractive.

  • @shreya1766
    @shreya1766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16860

    Nobody:
    Me: *comes here to get even the tiniest bit of validation*

  • @luxdavid2.027
    @luxdavid2.027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3195

    Conclusion: I'm not attractive

    • @willow2069
      @willow2069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      people call me cute but ive never been in a relationship and literally have 1 friend

    • @Im_in_theTardis
      @Im_in_theTardis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@willow2069 same except no one calls me cute ahaha 😂
      (ha...)

    • @Im_in_theTardis
      @Im_in_theTardis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Tayebz Tayebz :3 Same.. Which is why quarantine was the best thing thats ever happened to me lol

    • @kericwu
      @kericwu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Everyone is attractive in a way

    • @k13sha93
      @k13sha93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Join the club

  • @small_trash_gremlin_4651
    @small_trash_gremlin_4651 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Lmao the only thing that applied to me was the no compliments part 😅😅😅

  • @ananya905
    @ananya905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The fact that people in real life see us as what we look like in photos is killing me and I am crying

    • @Jefferywoodshoodie
      @Jefferywoodshoodie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they actually see how you look in the mirror

    • @galactic_mapper
      @galactic_mapper ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jefferywoodshoodie neither nor. Like I actually think they see us mixed (I mean they see us how we look in mirror but also in photos)

    • @Jefferywoodshoodie
      @Jefferywoodshoodie ปีที่แล้ว

      @@galactic_mapper bffr 💀💀

    • @Jefferywoodshoodie
      @Jefferywoodshoodie ปีที่แล้ว

      @@galactic_mapper they don't even see us how we look in photos 😹

    • @galactic_mapper
      @galactic_mapper ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jefferywoodshoodie no. They see too

  • @coolkiyo8727
    @coolkiyo8727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4657

    "A lot of people stare at you"
    **Me with anxiety and I feel like everyone is looking at me on public and it makes me uncomfortable**

    • @hiichbinanna5794
      @hiichbinanna5794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Accurate

    • @meganssabode
      @meganssabode 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      H_nta1 M_st3r *me, a person that looks extremely gay*

    • @ryugoe9595
      @ryugoe9595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      There are alot of strangers who stare at me but not because they find me attractive but something else. Plus I'm ugly as heck.

    • @joyaera
      @joyaera 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is exactly what I'm thinking T.T

    • @Michaelhehe
      @Michaelhehe 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me

  • @dogeseddy5513
    @dogeseddy5513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14071

    Video: * appears in my recommended*
    Me: *dont do that. Dont give me hope*

    • @CVSavagepersona
      @CVSavagepersona 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

      Wow this is relatable
      Sadly

    • @Phantom_8522
      @Phantom_8522 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@CVSavagepersona exactly vrooo

    • @CVSavagepersona
      @CVSavagepersona 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Phantom_8522 you listen to xxxtentacion
      I know a vro when i see one

    • @Phantom_8522
      @Phantom_8522 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@CVSavagepersona yes i do lol

    • @aueng7314
      @aueng7314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Dont give me hope just to crush it again

  • @Nolandoyourshit
    @Nolandoyourshit ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I usually think people stare at me because I’m ugly and they’re looking at me with disgust. Now I’m not sure about anything any more.

    • @Zoey5374
      @Zoey5374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don’t know if this will help, but this is just kinda how I look at things in general. For starters I’ve NEVER seen anyone and thought they looked bad, sure I’ve seen people I know or even that I don’t know and might notice they look tired or worn out but I don’t think they look bad. Everyone looks great, beauty is a very subjective thing and to me I view it as everyone is human, I never think about how others look (sometimes might compare to myself but quickly quiet those thoughts in my head). Another thing as well is how I think others view me. I try to think of how others would view me if they don’t know me based on how I unconsciously notice things about others. I don’t pay much attention to others looks so I assume most people just see me passing by and don’t think much about it, or if they do then I’d assume they’re probably noticing just simple things like commonly at school I have an instrument (or two) in my hands in the afternoon and it’s usually a bass clarinet or tenor saxophone so fairly large and noticeable. And I’d assume they might notice just the odd thing that might stand out passing by, outfit, facial expression, how you carry yourself, but even if they notice these things it’s probably self consciously so they’re not doing it on purpose and probably overall have a neutral opinion. Honestly I’ve always been a bit of an optimist, so I view the world as until you get to know the other person your opinion of them is going to be mostly neutral. Just think of how you view others you don’t know, and reflect that thinking onto how others may perceive you without knowing you. I also see it as even though people might seem popular or good at something doesn’t mean they aren’t insecure. I used to feel like I had nothing overly special about me I was just ‘normal’. Now I’ve come to realize that even now that I have something that I’m very passionate about (music) and have put myself out more in the community (through a local youth group) I haven’t really changed, I’ve just become more confident and sure of myself and I feel like that helps me feel like I have more personality than I used to (I used to think my personality was very bland, but it was just I didn’t open up and talk as much and was insecure and worried of judgement). I really hope this helps! This was just how I view the world around me from an optimistic point of view of a now (usually) fairly confident high schooler!

  • @animechildofgod1580
    @animechildofgod1580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Physc2Go:"Think about your most attractive freind."
    Me:*Thinks about my most attractive freind.*
    Physc2Go:"Do you always gush about how attractive they look?"
    Me"YES!"
    Physc2Go:"No,probubly not!"
    Me:😅

    • @audreydanielle03
      @audreydanielle03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same 😂

    • @sugarinslovak
      @sugarinslovak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me:*thinks about my most attractive friend and immediately realises doesn't have friends*

  • @tootles._5660
    @tootles._5660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2875

    “And strangers may stare at you bc your attractive“
    The old men in public:👁👄👁
    Edit:Daddy chill with all the likes it’s just a true fact-

    • @ceciliaruiz1409
      @ceciliaruiz1409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      xD

    • @soumam.2130
      @soumam.2130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      i- 💅😌🧚‍♀️

    • @elianamoored7975
      @elianamoored7975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Bro IK it’s creepy but at the same it’s nice to get attention 😏

    • @tootles._5660
      @tootles._5660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      CottageFlowers 😭I mean ya but-

    • @suchadream2mee
      @suchadream2mee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      and those 9 year olds that stare you out-

  • @kimberlysharkey8164
    @kimberlysharkey8164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4660

    The only one I relate to is no one giving me compliments.

    • @user-zg3gh8xg9v
      @user-zg3gh8xg9v 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      Here's a compliment:

    • @kimberlysharkey8164
      @kimberlysharkey8164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@user-zg3gh8xg9v Lol

    • @kennywennyboo
      @kennywennyboo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I am so sorry :(( ur stunning amazing beautiful gorgeous pretty unique sweet and much more

    • @kimberlysharkey8164
      @kimberlysharkey8164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@kennywennyboo Aww thanks! Same to you 😁

    • @kennywennyboo
      @kennywennyboo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@kimberlysharkey8164 your very welcome and aww thank you! ✨

  • @BlueShift2000
    @BlueShift2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "You don't stay single for to long"
    I am single for about... 21 years. I must be really atractive to other people

  • @marijetazoricic1115
    @marijetazoricic1115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When others stare at me I'm be like: What did I'm do wrong tell me! Am i ugly? Oh yeah they are judging me... Again... I'm so embarrassed 😳

  • @coffeetiramisufatcake
    @coffeetiramisufatcake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3724

    “You don’t get a lot of compliments” the reason why is because I’m ugly.

    • @reeree8981
      @reeree8981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      I compliment my ugly friends more

    • @WaiterLess
      @WaiterLess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Ramen Noodles don’t call them ugly :(

    • @reeree8981
      @reeree8981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Weeb i just said I compliment my ugly friends more.... I never called anyone ugly

    • @catsare2cute943
      @catsare2cute943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      Ramen Noodles u literally just called ur friends ugly again-

    • @reeree8981
      @reeree8981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Black Listed ohhh I understand now whoops

  • @BlindStarLily
    @BlindStarLily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Listening to this made my heart basically stop because a lot of these apply to me. People tend to talk to me a lot and, despite being introverted, I make friends surprisingly easily. I feel like it may have been amplified this year because, after quarantine, I felt the need to stop looking like a burlap sack doll of muffins in a baggy hoodie and have been taking much better care of myself. It’s honestly really trippy to realize I might be pretty because I’m blind and can’t really tell if I’m good looking or not. Of course, I’ve felt my face before and have a general idea of my appearance, though people tend to fight about what color my eyes are, I don’t really have a concept of weather or not that’s pretty, y’know?
    I’ve had people describe what I look like to me before, but it’s typically a friend or family member like my dad, grandma, or seatmate in one of my classes, so I’ve always thought being told I’m pretty was just someone being nice. I’m feeling a little high now thanks to this video and I think I’ll walk with my back straight and my chin up today.

  • @wackyboss5560
    @wackyboss5560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Pros: I am 15 and have a jawline of steel and good facial features
    Cons:I'm 4'10
    And to this day I still doubt im gonna get a girl

    • @FPS.bhargav
      @FPS.bhargav 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me to I also have jawline , high cheek bones and my height is 5'9 but still I don't get girls cuz I ignore them

    • @orangepeel7413
      @orangepeel7413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@FPS.bhargav no, u dont get girls cuz ur name is “Aimbot oP”

    • @FPS.bhargav
      @FPS.bhargav 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@orangepeel7413 it's my online name bruhh -__-

    • @b1llnotfound751
      @b1llnotfound751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same...

    • @madarad9344
      @madarad9344 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Become a femboy

  • @veronis
    @veronis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5876

    *"strangers stare at you"*
    ah yes they must be thinking why is that person walking like a newborn giraffe

    • @dilemma8558
      @dilemma8558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

      I relate to this on a spiritual level

    • @arvindsharma-cx4qf
      @arvindsharma-cx4qf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      😂

    • @alienqueen3324
      @alienqueen3324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Lmao me

    • @nazifirfan5198
      @nazifirfan5198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      i find it very anxious having that feeling

    • @hearteyes6811
      @hearteyes6811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      *I'm in this comment and I don't like it*

  • @user-hi6zk1wg9z
    @user-hi6zk1wg9z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20658

    Let’s be honest, we all clicked on this video because we wanted to feel better about ourselves. ;-;

    • @sallifadhl7395
      @sallifadhl7395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +846

      Yup, the more I watched the more I realised how ugly I am🙃😅

    • @ilana5456
      @ilana5456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +419

      yes but it didnt work

    • @yee3133
      @yee3133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Ilana facts😪

    • @jeonghanieyooo
      @jeonghanieyooo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      H-how you know bro

    • @zara_945
      @zara_945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Facts ;-;

  • @phoebemoon3198
    @phoebemoon3198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These videos helped my self esteem a lot over the past few years. I adore the cute little animations!! 🥰

  • @smokahontous1
    @smokahontous1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this! Thank you so much!!

  • @mcguandique
    @mcguandique 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3726

    "others may act differently towards you"
    My insecure ass: that's because they pity me

    • @melonmastermind2854
      @melonmastermind2854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@rebeccaeverett8957 I apologise if this sounds mean in anyway but I don't think what you said was the best response. Maybe you weren't trying to be mean, but it came out that way. I'm assuming that you don't know Selena in real life, so what you are saying isn't right. Try to think about how what you say can be viewed. I'm not trying to be hurtful in anyway, I just want to support people who may need it.

    • @melonmastermind2854
      @melonmastermind2854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Selena, I'm sure that you are attractive. I've heard someone say that the most insecure people are the most beautiful. Remember that no matter what, you are stunning! I know I'm just a random person on the internet but I wish you the best! Have a nice day/night!

    • @rebeccaeverett8957
      @rebeccaeverett8957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Vannah Melon oh!!! I just realised I commented it on the wrong comment! 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @melonmastermind2854
      @melonmastermind2854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rebeccaeverett8957 Oh, I understand! Have an incredible night/day!

    • @audreyxx4783
      @audreyxx4783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@melonmastermind2854 you're such a nice person. We need more people like you in this world

  • @heddawigsnes1767
    @heddawigsnes1767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4474

    “strangers stare at you”
    me: green haired living in a small town

    • @Jade45224
      @Jade45224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      HEY WHO SAYS YOU CAN’T BE CUTE AND HAVE GREEN HAIR 😆

    • @Marsinstars
      @Marsinstars 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I’m androgynous, so they stare.
      And sometimes ask whether or not I’m a boy or a girl, like I can’t hear them.

    • @Nightmarewolf13
      @Nightmarewolf13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lol relatable but I wear "animal ears" (Yes I'm a furry) and I dye my hair green sometimes

    • @liznotreally
      @liznotreally 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bruhhhhh, same! 🤣

    • @mintzy5874
      @mintzy5874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I mean Deku from MHA has green hair and is a fecking BUNNY

  • @humanforeverr
    @humanforeverr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love her quiet, soothing, beautiful voice.

  • @GioiaFede
    @GioiaFede 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks, that hella helped! so nice of you

  • @GraveChick
    @GraveChick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4683

    Beautiful people: I'm so ugly.
    Me who is ugly: ArE yOu SuRe AbOuT ThAt

    • @hyperfixationcentral6200
      @hyperfixationcentral6200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @Cila DelaCroix 😑 my mom is a very attractive women and is been asked out my strangers on the regular, yet she is so insecure, she thinks she's too skinny, just because you think someone looks attractive, doesn't mean jack shit to them, if they perceive themselves one way, that how they perceive themselves, their actual looks have little to nothing to do with what they're insecure about.

    • @just_lex1626
      @just_lex1626 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I doubt your “ugly”. Take care of yourself and don’t put yourself down

    • @imanina9995
      @imanina9995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      HAH! you're that beautiful person. Im the ugly one HAHAHA

    • @HylianKirbo
      @HylianKirbo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Cila DelaCroix You seem to hate pity, and arrogance. With a fine dash of overestimation of yourself.
      And finally, faking, of course.

    • @randomdudeintheinternet1589
      @randomdudeintheinternet1589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Cila DelaCroix so basically I am a dumb bitch ;-;

  • @polyethyleneangel
    @polyethyleneangel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1847

    I clicked on this for a confidence boost.
    It didn’t work.

    • @chubatulajamir6385
      @chubatulajamir6385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Same🙂

    • @sirbilliam3455
      @sirbilliam3455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I only related to the very first one, and not relating to number 2 made me think, "yep I knew I was right about myself."

    • @elizabethstrukel544
      @elizabethstrukel544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @Haitakaz
      @Haitakaz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same, couldn't relate

    • @emilygeorge4085
      @emilygeorge4085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Even though I can’t see you. Ur good looking. Period

  • @user-if3vw7mg1x
    @user-if3vw7mg1x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everybody is beautiful in their own way, some are beautiful and some are too beautiful, but we all are beautiful just the way we are and we ain't need to look a certain way to feel pretty, cause getting negative compliments for my looks, makes me feel more beautiful and helps me to love myself more than ever ❤️

  • @beautyofexistence2063
    @beautyofexistence2063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    basically the purpose of this video is to build unwanted over self confidence we all honestly need over anxiety in almost every situation. Thanks psych

  • @billyk8397
    @billyk8397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3075

    The only sign I related to was no one giving me compliments lmaooo

    • @joeyjointjebaiter1275
      @joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Same. And strangers stare at me

    • @rioisnotokay-ipromise-6115
      @rioisnotokay-ipromise-6115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Hey guess what, to that person reading this, yes you, your gorgeous and beautiful and great and awesome and amazing and inspirational and deserve the world, I don’t even have to know you to know that. Keep it up!

    • @watershan_11
      @watershan_11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same 😂

    • @rioisnotokay-ipromise-6115
      @rioisnotokay-ipromise-6115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Alec Lu not necessary, most of the people who don’t get much compliments deserve the most compliments. That’s my motto! It’s seriously simple to not have to know them, they seem nice and I love complimenting people here and there! And if you have nothing else to do then insult people, then leave. This is a place for peace.

    • @somedude5581
      @somedude5581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same with me. People stare at me, and it creeps me the fuck out.And I don't get compliments either.

  • @ethereal8277
    @ethereal8277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4379

    what I imagine people are thinking when they stare at me:
    "why she look like that 😗"

    • @sihamsihamsihamsihamsihamsiham
      @sihamsihamsihamsihamsihamsiham 4 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      What I imagine people are thinking when they stare at me: “why she look like tht 🤢”

    • @ayeshacampbell2400
      @ayeshacampbell2400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      ✨What I imagine ppl think when the look at me: omg she's so tiny I could fit her in my teacup😙✨

    • @Idk-ue9cf
      @Idk-ue9cf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      People at my school: Stares at my friend because she attractive
      People at my school: Stares at me because I make evil nun and chungus jokes and has a weird obsession with drawing cancer zodiac sign along with smiley faces and the word checkmate

    • @purplepachi9191
      @purplepachi9191 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Feathered Alpha you are one of a kind in mankind

    • @sophia-tj1ck
      @sophia-tj1ck 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Idk-ue9cf You're gorgeous inside and out

  • @oldsoul6696
    @oldsoul6696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn ittttt!!! 🙀 except for 4 and 8 all rest of the points are TRUE for me.
    And "attractiveness can be intimidating" was an eye opener for me. I do feel like I find it hard to make friends with other women. I had a job where I noticed that fellow teachers started wearing makeup after I entered. And I do feel fellow women and friends see me as a threat often. I had no idea why before now.

  • @rein5414
    @rein5414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3248

    *3: Strangers Stare At You*
    The kids that stare at me for no reason at public places: 👁👄👁

    • @elodie3180
      @elodie3180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Relatable XD

    • @emilykirby5320
      @emilykirby5320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      If you were unattractive, those kids staring at you would tell you for sure. Kids are brutal

    • @rainrarity3256
      @rainrarity3256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Same they look at me then hide 😔

    • @lemonzest6571
      @lemonzest6571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg same! I dunno, maybe it’s the blood...

    • @emilykirby5320
      @emilykirby5320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If_only_I_was_a_potato _I_would_rule_the_world huh???

  • @Sle3plessNights
    @Sle3plessNights 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14468

    Me before watching: haha I'm ugly
    Me after watching: haha I'm still ugly

    • @popkernel2872
      @popkernel2872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +263

      I feel you bro 😭I feel the exact same thing

    • @kookiesandcream5930
      @kookiesandcream5930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Yeah, me too :,(

    • @Adrian_Estando
      @Adrian_Estando 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

      Cmon y’all!! We’re All Beautiful!
      On the inside.

    • @popkernel2872
      @popkernel2872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      @@Adrian_Estando that hit hard lol😢👌🤣

    • @abbysworld05
      @abbysworld05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I feel ya even though I’ve been in a relationship since June 8th, I still feel ugly because he didn’t make the first move and nobody made the first move for me EVER and he’s my second boyfriend so I hope he’s my soulmate

  • @IJ21523
    @IJ21523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "People are surprised by your insecurities"
    I have a story on this.
    First year highschool and I became friends with a girl called, Prisha. A few weeks in and it's P.E. In the girls changing room I said to her, "I wish my ears were smaller." She said something along the lines of, "Wait, really? I'd kill to have some of your features like your ears!"

  • @Reecetrex
    @Reecetrex 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The “passing by compliments” part might explain something, and yes I always think they’re insincere. That gave me some hope! Thank you!

  • @sapphira31
    @sapphira31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2797

    Being single or in a relationship isn't a sign of attractiveness.

    • @theblackbeauty4415
      @theblackbeauty4415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      People kinda judge u based on ur looks when they first see u..... before u talk to them

    • @ursaresnik4078
      @ursaresnik4078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      The black Beauty i’m 20 and in my first relationship and i consider myself pretty. trust me if you’ve never been in a relationship that doesn’t mean you’re unattractive. someday you will find someone who appreciates you for you.

    • @rafaels.2350
      @rafaels.2350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It doesn't necessarily means you are attractive, but struggling to find someone to date is a sign of unatractivenes. Usually guys have to make the first move anyway, but if you're always being reject, this is a sign, and when I say "always", I don't mean 1 successful attempt after 5 rehections, because this happens quite a lot for normal guys, but when you try 10, 15, 20 times and nothing...well, bad news

    • @ursaresnik4078
      @ursaresnik4078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Rafael S. i used to look horrible one guy said i look like a cow’s asshole and now i’m dating a model. i got rejected many times in the past. things turn around if you’re going through puberty don’t worry things can change. if someone told me that a few years ago i wouldn’t have worried so much.

    • @MoltenLqva
      @MoltenLqva 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rafael S. ...yep I was right

  • @toph2548
    @toph2548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4344

    I seriously realize just now that i'm not attractive because none of this happen to me. I just laughed tho

    • @BT-iq2qf
      @BT-iq2qf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      Oh my god HAHHAHHAHHAHA me too, i cried but laughed

    • @Liquurz_
      @Liquurz_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      same xD

    • @kaylastrickland8191
      @kaylastrickland8191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Saaaaame 😅

    • @ubitchesaremysons6897
      @ubitchesaremysons6897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Shut up. U are attractive and thatz a fact

    • @jomoma0944
      @jomoma0944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That’s a mood

  • @bilqismutiarasari7035
    @bilqismutiarasari7035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "strangers staring at you"
    Me: anxiousness activated TnT

  • @chickennuggetpaw
    @chickennuggetpaw ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Friendly reminder:
    On the one about people easily warming up to you, if anyone reading this is insecure about their looks and thinks people don’t warm up to them easily because they’re not pretty enough, try to look at it in a different way! There very well could be another reason- for example, for me, social anxiety causes me to act very awkward and nervous in social situations, so people can easily pick up on that and may opt to just leave me alone. Don’t jump to conclusions thinking people are avoiding you because of your looks! People that do that are vapid anyways, and could be missing out on a friendship with a very lovely person just because they refuse to talk to you because of some surface level reason. I know how easy it is to get caught up in how you look and start worrying what other people think, and I really hope you can get out of that spiral. It hurts so much to think people could be judging you for something you have no control over. Just do yourself a favor and don’t assume people think you’re ugly when they look at you. And try to find ways to make yourself feel more confident, like a nice hairstyle, or smelly-good perfume. These things sort of help me with my worries, and I hope they can help someone else too.

  • @abby5495
    @abby5495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1855

    I was feeling confident until they said “you probably dated a lot of people”

    • @kat-hj7mq
      @kat-hj7mq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Yeah that one got me too lol

    • @sunnishae5047
      @sunnishae5047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      My count so far is 0.

    • @thewildhealer541
      @thewildhealer541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      I know I'm good looking. Still at 0 dates because I grew up with crippling social anxiety and lack of confidence.

    • @gandalainsley6467
      @gandalainsley6467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sunnishae5047 same

    • @mwohaseyo2133
      @mwohaseyo2133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@thewildhealer541 yeah me too but I don't think I'm good looking...Idk why...even if some people say that I look good, stare at me etc, I still think I'm ugly

  • @sleepyym713
    @sleepyym713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The title gave me false hope and after watching the vid i can now confirm that it did indeed brutally crush my tiny bit of confidence left

  • @kanchanm6351
    @kanchanm6351 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The first and last pointers are so suitable for me😂

  • @ATMAL0K4
    @ATMAL0K4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3044

    "everyone struggles with low self esteem sometimes"
    .....sometimes???

    • @mtreesgt4401
      @mtreesgt4401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      i can’t even take a selfie of myself 😩😂😂😬

    • @mehreen_syed__
      @mehreen_syed__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      All the times*

    • @aribobaboba
      @aribobaboba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@mtreesgt4401 this is because you are smart...

    • @salamvs5644
      @salamvs5644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You mean always 😑 literally 🙂

    • @rainsolosmud9196
      @rainsolosmud9196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I read this comment as soon as they said that

  • @yourlocalweirdo8810
    @yourlocalweirdo8810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5342

    “When strangers look at you“
    *Laugh in social anxiety*

    • @Jasmine-ov6ep
      @Jasmine-ov6ep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😂😏

    • @kqyl33
      @kqyl33 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

    • @connerstewart7155
      @connerstewart7155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      strangers stare at me cause i’m a guy with long hair

    • @nerrahh
      @nerrahh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      it’s terrifying

    • @Thomas.jefferson
      @Thomas.jefferson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@connerstewart7155 hit me up mate

  • @FluffySylveonBoi
    @FluffySylveonBoi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't get many compliments directly, but I sometimes hear someone say "This other person I talked to said you are cute/nice/awesome" and it always makes me so happy that this is what others think about me and tell their friends.
    I get more direct compliments on internet chats though, as the partial anonymity allows people to express more without having to talk to someone directly and they are also very dear to me, because I often see myself as not very attractive or special.

  • @FeliciancellaAnimation
    @FeliciancellaAnimation หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    0:42 1. You dont get alot of compliments
    1:02 2. When you do, it feels insincere
    1:30 3. Strangers stare at you
    1:52 4. People gravitate towards you
    2:11 5. Others might act differently around you
    2:37 6. People are surprised by your insecurities
    3:02 7. Others tend to have strong feelings for you
    3:26 8. You have alot of dating prospects

  • @amira_6363
    @amira_6363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4984

    "You don't stay single for long"
    *me being single for 23 years and The last time someone confessed was ages ago.*
    *update:* 26 years old and still single.

    • @justthatgirl-ct4jo
      @justthatgirl-ct4jo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Marry me

    • @svasianfilipiname6603
      @svasianfilipiname6603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Lol don't count your baby and childhood years as being single! That's cheating!.. Yes I know technically, you didn't have anyone but you weren't really supposed to. You should start counting on the years you actually TRIED getting a date hehe.

    • @softwarearena7592
      @softwarearena7592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very Relatable ...

    • @amira_6363
      @amira_6363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@svasianfilipiname6603 I never tried, I am so shy and guys never approach me lol

    • @amira_6363
      @amira_6363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@justthatgirl-ct4jo 😂

  • @this2941
    @this2941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3002

    When stangers stare at me i think they're judging me

    • @nelliebellie2222
      @nelliebellie2222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Oml same 🤣🤣

    • @anumburney5098
      @anumburney5098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      lol BIG same!

    • @TwelvetreeZ
      @TwelvetreeZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Tbh I'm often looking at someone because I think they're cute or have a nice outfit, but I'm too awkward to tell them

    • @QueenSonora
      @QueenSonora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Well when you're looking at someone in public, what are you usually thinking? :)

    • @jadas8686
      @jadas8686 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @gracietrey8079
    @gracietrey8079 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this totally helped, like a lot
    thanks guys

  • @hereigoagain5050
    @hereigoagain5050 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So true! I don't get complements because I'm AMAZING! They are so blinded by my beauty they have to look away.

  • @haneen2402
    @haneen2402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2085

    “ You don’t stay single for too long “
    Me who never dated anyone in my whole life.

    • @jayamilapersson4030
      @jayamilapersson4030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Have you made an efford to find anyone?
      I lost my virginity by being raped, and after that I was afraid of men more or less knowingly I put up guards towards men, i didnt have sex willingly until I was 30years old, after that Ive meet six or seven really nice guys and a few really bad ones too Im 37, obese, Intovert( like last six years Ive been home alone like in quarantee( only go out to buy food or, medical appointments, and visit my parents) with no job, but lots of hobbies, and creative thinking is my middle name, Im a booknerd with glasses. But there have been ppl who wanted my number just because I walked by and apparently glowed to them( I think that I was probably sweaty)

    • @tatertots43
      @tatertots43 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@jayamilapersson4030 I'm sorry that happened to you. I am in a somewhat similar situation, and I'm wondering if you have any advice for getting over the fear of men?

    • @tatertots43
      @tatertots43 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The point about being intimidatingly attractive also applies to whether or not you are single. A lot of people don't try to get a date with someone they consider out of their league, so don't get too down!

    • @Adriftinasea
      @Adriftinasea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Plot twist: commenter is only 16

    • @mkchristner
      @mkchristner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ashley Bogdan I’ve been hurt a lot over the years, to the point that this is probably the true reason why I am currently single. I don’t trust people very easily at all anymore, I get plagued with the thoughts that deep down they only care about themselves and I only matter to serve and satisfy them. I am so tired of being hurt and f’ed over. I see my brother- he is truly a great genuine caring person, a wonderful father, and husband to his wife. He has been my reminder in life that good men can actually exist. It’s hard because our painful experiences can F with our mindsets, and I try to not let other people’s mistakes cloud my judgement towards new people because it’s not fair for them obviously. While it is so hard to trust after all the hurt, I try to bear in mind there are technically some really good people like my brother, so keep an open (but still cautious! Lol) mind!

  • @Rose-tp1uw
    @Rose-tp1uw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2587

    me: *thinking i'm attractive.* The video : *think again*

    • @tabithiajones2511
      @tabithiajones2511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      me: thinking im unattractive. The video: yeah you right

    • @emillymlambo3604
      @emillymlambo3604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@tabithiajones2511 😭😭😂right

    • @weliveinasociety4629
      @weliveinasociety4629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      honestly, this video just solidifies my point that I'm-best case scenario-incredibly average looking lmao

    • @JAF2991
      @JAF2991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@weliveinasociety4629 and that's good enough my man, that's good enough.
      Attractiveness is mostly confidence.

    • @hyperkon9807
      @hyperkon9807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Video is telling you to think that you're more attractive than you think🤗

  • @pyscho3886
    @pyscho3886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even though ive been building my muscles and doing more face care routines, i still had i little tiny bit of insecurity in me, this kinda helped thankyou😁

  • @Thiccwicca
    @Thiccwicca ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok this really helped me realize maybe I'm not as bad as I think I am, maybe I just don't like people who always compliment me as much as I like people who don't, but that may just be because they're shy/jealous. That's why I always seem to get a lot of compliments by people I don't really compare myself with

  • @danimiles2948
    @danimiles2948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2375

    video: "people stare at you"
    me: "only because they've never seen someone so ugly and they can't help but stare"

  • @jamespatricia1425
    @jamespatricia1425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1886

    "Strangers stare at you"
    My social awkwardness is shaking

    • @GrungoFuzz
      @GrungoFuzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Serahh Social same

    • @galaxymew5138
      @galaxymew5138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      MOOD

    • @speakeasy9280
      @speakeasy9280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My social anxiety is SHOOK

    • @twilightlight_
      @twilightlight_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would have a panic attack if strangers were staring at me.

    • @galaxymew5138
      @galaxymew5138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@twilightlight_
      I would've been like: "Is there something on my face or something..?"

  • @lychiiii
    @lychiiii ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG THANK YOU FOR USING THE RIGHT PUSAB FONT

  • @onechampion4128
    @onechampion4128 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for trying to cheer me up

  • @daneelh95
    @daneelh95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1524

    "1. You don't get a lot of compliments"
    I must be the most attractive person in the world then

    • @alexawinter9193
      @alexawinter9193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Not more than me
      I don’t even get wished on birthdays

    • @obedient_maiden_of_Albedo
      @obedient_maiden_of_Albedo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ^ i relate

    • @ashusingh1281
      @ashusingh1281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Imaoooo same!🤣🤣

    • @wittykittywoes
      @wittykittywoes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The only compliments I get are for my ugly dresses, from a girl who pities me :)

    • @pepsiprita5746
      @pepsiprita5746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YOUR AMAZING 😤💓💖💯

  • @weiss731
    @weiss731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32856

    I clicked instantly to make myself feel better i guess

    • @laureleiwolf
      @laureleiwolf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +787

      Same 💀

    • @pissticho
      @pissticho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +410

      Same yo

    • @Longerade
      @Longerade 4 ปีที่แล้ว +436

      I think thats the sense of this video :D

    • @sailorsirius859
      @sailorsirius859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Ditto lol

    • @jakatak5764
      @jakatak5764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +361

      I don't think im attractive at all and none of these signs click with me

  • @DavidPFrodob
    @DavidPFrodob 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This blew my mind, thank you

  • @imoralista
    @imoralista ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I literally receive compliments all the time. Never thought i would be that disappointed about that, lol

  • @katarinateofanov
    @katarinateofanov 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2258

    Turns out I'm not more attractive than i think.

    • @roossieyes4789
      @roossieyes4789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      😂 same here sis

    • @roossieyes4789
      @roossieyes4789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@kristoffersparegodt420
      Ffs dont hit her with that line 😂😂😂
      Edit: he deleted it but he said that shes a lil to young to wery about it 😂👌

    • @somebodylikesbacon1960
      @somebodylikesbacon1960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@kristoffersparegodt420 How would you know the age of someone on the internet, and who are you to gatekeep worrying about one's own appearance?

    • @buaybuay1857
      @buaybuay1857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kristoffersparegodt420 you're beautiful 😂😂👋

    • @joeyjointjebaiter1275
      @joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Strangers stare at me and i never get compliments from anyone. Doesnt really sound like im too attractive :/

  • @ActualRiot
    @ActualRiot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3200

    “Have several people confessed their feelings for you?”
    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
    no.

    • @patriciogaming8029
      @patriciogaming8029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      I agree, this was a very good joke

    • @birrovirro
      @birrovirro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      oh god. feels bad man

    • @kidskits4767
      @kidskits4767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂

    • @KevinEontrainer381
      @KevinEontrainer381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Ikr this channel obviously don't know their audiences

    • @cat01010
      @cat01010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love you

  • @sevenbelledays7800
    @sevenbelledays7800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:06 That's me... everyone is always telling oh you're so pretty oh you look cute today, and i always get that when i don't even take time to look good that day and when i actually do, almost no one tolds me anything 💀. Also i'm a big introvert i'm an INTJ and people always want to talk to me or work with me , and i'm like: Wtf, i'm not even that friendly.
    thanks for boosting my confidence 🤣

  • @ArcaneJudge
    @ArcaneJudge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I get stared at often, and most times in public people come to me to ask me questions, or directions. I never think much of these things because they usually don't hold a conversation and I tend to keep to myself. However, there are a few times where i've gone to get a haircut and beard trim only to notice the stylist doing my hair stutters or gets nervous afterwards when i'm paying, saying I look completely different. When more than one person tries to talk to me at one time, I focus on whoever started first or is saying thr most important thing (related to job or personal life) and I feel bad because sometimes I turn back to find the other person walked off.

  • @AnneliesvanOverbeek
    @AnneliesvanOverbeek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2151

    “Do people often confess their feelings for you?” Yes of course, Indian men in my Instagram DMs....................

    • @alwaysbeingcalledaweeb772
      @alwaysbeingcalledaweeb772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      You’re lucky... I don’t even have that much

    • @its_himm_
      @its_himm_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @@alwaysbeingcalledaweeb772 don't worry I'm here " can I see bobs?" "Bobs please??" " Vag please" source: Indian men

    • @laavanyanair2530
      @laavanyanair2530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Ugh same..and I'm Indian too 😅
      Honestly though, I genuinely want to disown those 'bobs and veganers' 🤢

    • @stellamusa7715
      @stellamusa7715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This is soo accurate
      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
      Being 13 sucks

    • @theblackbeauty4415
      @theblackbeauty4415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I want a bf or a person who likes me..... But no one except a few do... People tend to stay away due to my dark skin colour(I am wheatish tho... U know wheatish +a bit of a chocolate shade)

  • @ianejesus7011
    @ianejesus7011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5164

    Me: entered the video feeling a bit of hope.
    Also me: *leaves the video crying in ugly*

    • @dashrxq
      @dashrxq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      SUBTLE
      Why this have 13 likes???????????

    • @dw6530
      @dw6530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same 😂😂😂

    • @ianejesus7011
      @ianejesus7011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @Raman New yes, but I think that it's just angle and make up bc in real life I'm not pretty 🤷‍♀️

    • @maciejkleszczynski9808
      @maciejkleszczynski9808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@ianejesus7011 Just make sure people you like see you from this angle

    • @ianejesus7011
      @ianejesus7011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@maciejkleszczynski9808 I'm going to take that joke serious 🤣

  • @javierfrinzfranco4318
    @javierfrinzfranco4318 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    her content makes us feel more confident and believed more in our self

  • @toottoot2756
    @toottoot2756 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is *SO* nice and helpful.
    I used to think I was atractive

  • @kohei3542
    @kohei3542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2849

    *RANDOM PERSONS STARING AT ME*
    No one:
    My Social Anxiety: *STONKS* 📈
    Edit: OMG This is my first time that I got lots of likes, thank y'all🥰😘

    • @jewelj3069
      @jewelj3069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same😬

    • @rubylee4704
      @rubylee4704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      *stonks* lololol my Asperger’s does that too

    • @char1746
      @char1746 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Through the roof i would say

    • @savenlevenz5141
      @savenlevenz5141 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kshskkajsjsy same

    • @allytrevino6
      @allytrevino6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      me: -drinks water in class-
      my social anxiety: omg every things ur a freak and they’re gonna stare, quick put ur mask back on or somethin

  • @amandasi8967
    @amandasi8967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3016

    Is this reverse psychology for people who are unattractive to boost their confidence? Lol. If so, damn. I’m hurt.

    • @lastank3736
      @lastank3736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Same

    • @sweetnina6747
      @sweetnina6747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @ashe_xox
      @ashe_xox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @vf_hs7204
      @vf_hs7204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @TheUKNutter
      @TheUKNutter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Mel M That is just sexist. How is that rude and disrespectful? You’re judging people based on their gender which is just wrong. Should I, a guy, just put on a wig, say I’m a girl and say you have nice tits for your own reaction?
      So sexist

  • @shaynehumphries903
    @shaynehumphries903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "when strangers stare at you"
    Crippled me knowing exactly why I'm being stared at

  • @yipyip3173
    @yipyip3173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Strangers look at you"
    I've been getting angry by this and turns out they like me

  • @anubisd613
    @anubisd613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2324

    Me: looks at the mirror
    Mirror : breaks in dust

    • @DeltaBlazin
      @DeltaBlazin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Me: **Looks at the mirror**
      My reflection: **breaks itself**

    • @golden6919
      @golden6919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Me: looks in mirror
      Also me: oh wait, I don't get mirrors.

    • @coldburns
      @coldburns 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      you're all so attractive that the mirrors fell apart purely at the sight of you!

    • @official_karmastudios5413
      @official_karmastudios5413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It does feel like that here and there...

    • @suii_lyy
      @suii_lyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Damn, your mirror just blipped

  • @vevendi
    @vevendi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8073

    Me: I'm not attractive at all
    This video: you're right

  • @kaitlynharding9293
    @kaitlynharding9293 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    love how none of these things happen to me except the one that people don’t complement me

  • @kevindrdrill
    @kevindrdrill 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm sorry, but this voice is so soothing and just brings a sense of comfort 😌 thank you kind woman

  • @pommedeter7407
    @pommedeter7407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So here’s the thing. I think i’m not that attractive for most people, but I’m very attractive to myself ( not in a weird way lol ) so i’m very happy about how I look, it’s just like I want, exept of course for a few details but really nothing much. I say this because I have noticed that this is not the case for most people I have encountered’ whether they are conventionally attractive or not, almost all of them have shown a desire to look different or at least not being satisfied in the way their badly looks. I’m lucky I don’t have that ;) and at the end of the day, I really don’t care about being attractive to others, I like by body ( again, not in a weird way ) as it is and isn’t very interested in dating anyway

  • @mleak1076
    @mleak1076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2408

    Strangers: *watching me walk down the street.*
    Me: "I must be attractive."
    Also me: *a stain in the back of my pants.*
    (Edit: didn't expect this comment to get so many likes, I appreciate it though. Thanks.)

    • @dripbeicy9113
      @dripbeicy9113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      **YELLS FROM ACROSS THE STREET** "FREAK!!"

    • @jayniejurado9969
      @jayniejurado9969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      also me: my fat titties

    • @nyakitty5172
      @nyakitty5172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@jayniejurado9969 at least yours don't shrink

    • @jayniejurado9969
      @jayniejurado9969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nya Kitty lmaoooo

    • @Beelzebubby91
      @Beelzebubby91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nya Kitty I feel that on a SPIRITUAL level

  • @eldritchhorror9747
    @eldritchhorror9747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3943

    Alternate title: how to trick yourself into thinking you're attractive.
    (edit:Damn you guys are harsh on yourself.I was just making a joke. I guarantee you,you look better than you actually think you do. It's been proven strangers see you 20% more attractive than you see yourself bc they don't see the flaws you see in yourself bc the best parts about you distract them from the flaws. Hell i swear i have wonky eye's but i don't give a sh*t. bc i know my hair is f**king sick.)

    • @zeniaferoz6680
      @zeniaferoz6680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      u r right 😂

    • @alaya3322
      @alaya3322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Fr

    • @pizzapeasant6419
      @pizzapeasant6419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      I came here for that but this video just confirmed that I'm ugly lol

    • @user-dp9ky9io3t
      @user-dp9ky9io3t 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      U dont have to call me out like that😂😂

    • @hiramcastillo9049
      @hiramcastillo9049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah, it didn't work for me tho

  • @sapphiretotten8285
    @sapphiretotten8285 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I sent this to my friend who needed this

  • @farzanabaig2479
    @farzanabaig2479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can relate to all the 8 situations 😍 it means I really am ATTRACTIVE 🤯😎😂💟
    Thanks!!

  • @milo1862
    @milo1862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1521

    wow, so apparently i'm ugly and everyone hates me
    edit: oh damn, this comment got over 1k likes and I didn't even realize until now, it's always the stupid comments that you don't even think before posting that get tons of likes lol

    • @Trump-a-Tron
      @Trump-a-Tron 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      u wish ppl paid enough attention to hate you

    • @choutzuyu8915
      @choutzuyu8915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      i dont hate you, i send you a virtual hug

    • @milo1862
      @milo1862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@choutzuyu8915 thanks

    • @siento_diegopiedra
      @siento_diegopiedra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      JAJAJAJAJAJAA

    • @amanda-nt3nn
      @amanda-nt3nn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same :)

  • @bewithyou9976
    @bewithyou9976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2235

    Here’s the truth: you’re more attractive than you think because you’ve never seen your own face ... just photos and reflections.
    This video was obviously targeted at already “conventionally attractive” individuals but you can be more beautiful simply by smiling often and carrying yourself with good posture.
    No, no one has ever been lost in my eyes nor have I ever been in a relationship, but I’m becoming more beautiful as I change my habits and become healthier and happier.

    • @idkidk-lh5ip
      @idkidk-lh5ip 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Agreed

    • @BaileyZKerr
      @BaileyZKerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Yeah I feel like this video might actually be harmful for some people who already don't feel good about themselves

    • @Penelope416
      @Penelope416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Beautifully spoken.

    • @luigigellado3759
      @luigigellado3759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Wholesome❤️

    • @molkala2084
      @molkala2084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Couldn’t have phrased it better❤️

  • @karizzma14
    @karizzma14 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow thanks that actually helped me out a lot. 😀

  • @Cromartie
    @Cromartie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pretty sure 3 is actually from them being confused what gender I am depending on how I look lol

    • @nerrahh
      @nerrahh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      gender fluid?

  • @popee593
    @popee593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2385

    “Think of your most attractive friend”
    Me: *i don’t have any friends*

    • @MyLifeAsMylee
      @MyLifeAsMylee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Oof I felt this one

    • @brian_Austin27
      @brian_Austin27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oof-

    • @juliagulia8200
      @juliagulia8200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Samesies

    • @eumorphavonobscura2753
      @eumorphavonobscura2753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      It's okay! Friends take up all that extra time you could be reading or watching your favorite shows. They require a lot of energy with their conversations, texts and going... outside. Just be your own best friend! You'll have lots in common! No concerns about talking behind your back! The talking to yourself will keep those other FAKE friends away! Yay, I'm helping others! Oh, better stop before they try to friend me.

    • @popee593
      @popee593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@eumorphavonobscura2753 aww thanks I was just joking but I love your support