HOW TO GET YOUR BABY TO SLEEP THROUGH THE NIGHT BY 3 MONTHS

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  • In this video, I discuss how to get your baby to sleep through the night by 12 weeks. These are all the steps I took, and I hope it can help your baby as well!
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  • @Likethetacosauce
    @Likethetacosauce 3 ปีที่แล้ว +534

    Any other dad's here watching these types of videos?😅

    • @melvynsetia56
      @melvynsetia56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah

    • @whistlingbirdsmusic
      @whistlingbirdsmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Oooh yeah . Im the night watchman and caregiver dad for my 3month old baby during night time. I bottle feed her with formula while her mother sleeps with her elder sister. I do the thing every 4 hours at night. I normally pause feeding for every 30ml in order to burp. That is a comfort to her and fells asleep as soon as she gets enough milk. Unless she would end up crying 😫😫😫😫 or wide opened eyes 😳😳😳😳 in the middle of the night.😖😖😖😖
      So my fellow dads take your time to feed while burping out the air which is trapped.
      Im my babys case she easily sleeps more than 6 hours at night without demanding for milk. When she finally gets it she find it difficult sucking milk and begins twisting her body as if she couldnt burp. So the assumption is the air(gas) was produced by her self in her tummy as she was starving and its actually not the trapped air while sucking milk.
      So i decided not to starve her more than 5 hours at night and continue her regular feeding schedule even at night whether she demands or not. Finally it worked for me.
      So at night, 5hrs mark is my deadline where she gets free milk without a demand.

    • @AzNFiR
      @AzNFiR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It’s 5AM... I wanna sleep so bad haha

    • @AMT008
      @AMT008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yup, 5am and looking all over TH-cam for solutions 🤣🤣

    • @whistlingbirdsmusic
      @whistlingbirdsmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@AMT008 you ll have to wait till the karma ends bro 😥😥.

  • @surlespasdondine
    @surlespasdondine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +624

    just for any moms out there: At 3 months it's completely normal for a baby to still wake up and nurse.

    • @shreelaxmi1000
      @shreelaxmi1000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      At 3 months and beyond.. up until 2 years!

    • @surlespasdondine
      @surlespasdondine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      psn_mm156 yes!!!!

    • @ClaudiaOuda
      @ClaudiaOuda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      More than normal, actually essential to keep the milk going, I know 2 ladies who's milk diminished by 6 months because baby slept 8-9 h and they didn't pump

    • @gemmacotter89
      @gemmacotter89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yes and also reduces risk of SIDS :/

    • @rominaurlich5951
      @rominaurlich5951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      My baby wasn’t normal then she sleep all night since she born lol

  • @Lilymay2017
    @Lilymay2017 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Wish I saw this video when my little guy was born. He slept 12 hours straight by the time he was 8 weeks old.
    Main things I implemented was a darkened room, sleeping in crib, love to dream swaddle, no Paci, no rocking, just put straight in crib fully awake, and a bedtime of 5 pm - 5 am.
    Things were going great! I had gone back to work part-time (25-28 hours a week, Fridays off)
    Right when he hit 5 months, he got hit hard with teething/growth spurts. His schedule went off the rails for a month and I was in tears because I was not used to being sleep deprived.
    Now we’re at 6 months and he still wakes up once a night but we’re working on trying to drop that night feed. I just learned to enjoy by baby and stopped stressing 24/7 about his sleep schedule. It’ll all fall back in place with time.

  • @juliathomas95
    @juliathomas95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    1. consistency
    2. sound machine
    3. curtains
    4. swaddle
    5. naps no longer than 2hrs
    6. pausing
    7. no awake baby in the crip
    8. dream feeding

    • @fayebeedill
      @fayebeedill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This here is what has been working for us too. The dream feeding during the night is what helped immensely!

    • @marketahoppova8779
      @marketahoppova8779 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Also, adding warm bath or wiping body with warm cloth helps them to relax and sleep longer.

    • @Hgsquaredd
      @Hgsquaredd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wait. What’s pausing? 😅

  • @mimadominicnyamweya8799
    @mimadominicnyamweya8799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    Every mom should watch this! sleep deprivation can lead to postpartum depression, irritability and impatience... this is just the best video

    • @vickybabe765
      @vickybabe765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This it’s so trueeee

    • @Lisa-ih7fk
      @Lisa-ih7fk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don't want my baby to sleep 12 hours, I'd be happy with 4! My boy wakes every 1-3 hours and has since day 1, he's almost 10 weeks 😴

    • @agatabrzo
      @agatabrzo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol. Ask her how long did it last. It was just a phase, not a miracle.

  • @japan8o826
    @japan8o826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    I talked with my baby about trying these tips, he proceeded to crap himself and now he just pretends to sleep until I close my eyes. Your guys results may vary

  • @Sam-qt5ff
    @Sam-qt5ff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Just for other moms, it’s actually a sign of a healthy (young) baby that they wake frequently to feed or to be settled. This actually protects against SIDS as they do not get into as deep of a sleep. Please read into this moms. It’s such a short time of sleep deprivation, and as a mom of multiples, believe me, I know how hard it can be! You’ll make it through

    • @tylergriffin4436
      @tylergriffin4436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      This video is dangerous. Wakefulness in babies is completely NORMAL and VITAL.

    • @Almay20
      @Almay20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah I was wondering… aren’t they supposed to wake up and eat?

    • @tootynuggets
      @tootynuggets 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@tylergriffin4436 The video is not dangerous. This lady has a baby who can sleep long stretches at night and she is sharing her routine that could help other moms. Some babies aren't ready at 3 months, some are. With my baby, I started identifying his sleep wake windows starting around 6 weeks old. I used it for a baby led routine (operative word is routine and not schedule) and he is now 4 months and able to sleep usually 830pm to 6am because he is developmentally able to do so. He does not wake to feed. He has cycles of deep and light sleep and during his light sleep, he soothes himself and wiggles a little bit as soon as the cycle passes he falls back to a deep sleep. This, too, is completely normal. He is also a light napper and only takes 45 minute naps 5x a day because his circadian rhythm is still developing. Babies at his age need roughly 5 hrs of nap time during the day, so he is only getting 3.75. 4 month olds need between 12 and 15 hrs of sleep in a 24 hr period. My baby, during the day, feeds every 2.5 to 3 hrs and gets all his calories in then.
      When he has a spurt, he wakes up a little earlier to feed and ends up having an extra bottle during the night because that is what he needs to grow. But, when the spurt ends, he settles back to this normal routine.

    • @sylvanafow1340
      @sylvanafow1340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@tootynuggets amen! My baby sleeps about 9 hours every night since around week 8. He wakes up feeling well rested and hungry. I spoke with his pediatrician and asked if I should be waking him up to feed and he said to not do it. That he will wake up when he is hungry (said his digestive system is maturing. Hence, he does not need to eat every two hours) and that rest is just as needed for development. Also, babies don't know how to move from one sleep cycle to rhe next, that's why (not always) they kind of wake up, but if you give it a minute, they will move onto the next. Then, they will learn to do it just like we do. Many times, we rush to pick them up and feed them thinking that they are hungry. Most of the time, we are just waking them up (babies even cry in their sleep) and making them upset.

    • @HarrietD-ph7bw
      @HarrietD-ph7bw ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Okay. Everybody here needs to read Healthy Sleep Habits by Dr. Weissbluth. He explains that frequent night waking BEFORE THE AGE of 3 months is protective against SIDS. However, once the circadian rhythm is established, the function of frequent night wakings changes to be socially motivated, not biologically. There are genetic and social factors at play, yes, but the perpetuation of night waking is motivated by parent response.

  • @steffanyramos2181
    @steffanyramos2181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    My almost 4 month old goes to sleep around 10 pm & wakes up around 8:30 am , I didn’t have to put him on a schedule or nothing, he did it on his own 😭💙

    • @cloclo5290
      @cloclo5290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That sounds amazing 😅 I have to be up at 4am tho due to work

    • @yejin1950
      @yejin1950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same to my baby girl she did it on her own 😭❤️

    • @nkbrxoxo9994
      @nkbrxoxo9994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Luckyyyy uuu !!! 😎👌🤪🥲

    • @gabbytarlue1561
      @gabbytarlue1561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s awesome. My son is also about the same month. He gets his last feeding by 9 and by 10 he’s sleeping. On a good night he usually wake up at 9am but when I’m tired I’ll push him until 10. I usually make him take a nap when I’m tired or need time to get things done

    • @tamikaqueeley599
      @tamikaqueeley599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s a blessing. My 5 month has been giving me in between 4-6 hours. 😞

  • @alexissabbagh5974
    @alexissabbagh5974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    The baby time is so short. By my fourth baby I threw a schedule expectation out the window. My last two were breastfed. I don’t know how breastfeeding moms are able to nurse and also get their babies to sleep in their own bed. The only way either of us get sleep is with her on my chest and dream feed on demand. Letting her cry even a few minutes at night causes her to fully wake up and takes longer to get her back to sleep. Good job for the mommas that are able to somewhat keep their pre pregnant schedule but for those mommas that can’t just know it passes fast and don’t stress. Your baby will be grown and gettting married in the blink of an eye. 💗

    • @LovesDarkBlue
      @LovesDarkBlue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So are you co sleeping then? I’m a first time, single, breastfeeding mom and my baby will NOT stay asleep when I put her down. She screams right away but will sleep for HOURS if I’m holding her or if she’s on my chest but then I can’t sleep with her like that...

    • @korab.23
      @korab.23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you. My son is also fully awake once he gets to full-on crying and then it's an hour and a half or more. I can usually wait him out if he's restless or stirring but crying leads to being awake.

    • @ciscokidd08
      @ciscokidd08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Pumping and bottle feeding at night really helped with that! Also, my baby has zero nipple confusion.

    • @peach1187
      @peach1187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Love it. I dream feed baby from 3 am on and off till we wake up. I suggest side nursing!! My babe won’t awake ..he just fusses and then I offer boob. We both fall asleep again EASY

    • @abigailloar956
      @abigailloar956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah ive taken more of a loose approach with my little man. If he cries it really wakes him. Takes 2 hours to get him back down and he loves a good snuggle and breast feed for sleep and he wont want that someday so i just enjoy it.

  • @mindyobusiness7302
    @mindyobusiness7302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I literally watch this video once a week. You have helped me SOOO much! My 2 month old went from waking up every hour to sleeping 6 hr stretches during the night. I seriously can’t thank you enough!

    • @saundhm1
      @saundhm1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you buy the swaddles?

  • @Virgoae
    @Virgoae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    My daughter is 15 months and still doesn’t sleep through the night😩😂😭moms don’t stress if your baby doesn’t sleep through the night. They will -eventually! Just enjoy them being a baby💕

    • @thisiskarime3781
      @thisiskarime3781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      THIS! my baby sleeps between 4-6 hours through the night and she’s one month. I’m very interested in sleep training her however I also feel like I should just worry about enjoying her while she’s a baby because she will end up sleeping through the night on her own.

    • @Sam-qt5ff
      @Sam-qt5ff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My ‘baby’ started sleeping through the night at 30 months..no longer a baby! She’d get up for a comfort nurse time to time. Totally natural. Now she’s the best sleeper out of the kids! Full 12 hours every night.

    • @Chfhfh
      @Chfhfh ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this statement. My son is sleeping 4 hours and I’ll just have to take it lol

  • @MostarBeauty
    @MostarBeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My six month old still wakes up to feed twice a night (1am &5am) which is normal. New parents shouldn’t expect their baby to sleep through the night by three months. That is expected between 6+ months when babies are old enough. I’m so angry that there is so many people and terrible marketing especially on the Internet - TH-cam. Every baby is different and has different needs. Each baby has his or her own pace for feeding and frequency same for sleep. Some babies sit at 4-6 months some sit 6+ months because each baby is working on a specific set of skills for him or her at the right time. And every milestone for your baby will come at the right timing. There’s no need to worry. And babies don’t need a whole lot of baby gear and stuff. Can we just go back to basics?
    That is great you feel proud your baby slept through the night but it’s TOTALLY MISLEADING to new parents (I am a first time mom) I am still underslept, breastfeeding with mono, and I am not complaining. We wanted our babies, our babies are not to blame for us being tired.

  • @marcelapleitez4433
    @marcelapleitez4433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I'm a nanny and this is pretty much the techniques I use to put the baby to sleep. Now hes 7 months but he started to sleep thru the night since hes 3 months. And the naps ufff definitely consistency is the key!

  • @Yooncelebtarot
    @Yooncelebtarot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just wanted to let you know that I followed your tips... bought the two books you recommended and my son sleeps through the night since three months for 11 hours. He is still doing it at 5 months so thank you.

  • @rebecaacevedo2048
    @rebecaacevedo2048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Blacking out his room, and moving him to his crib at 4months. Definitely has been a game changer! My baby sleeps 12 hours straight, plus two naps during the day❤️ great video!

    • @thebeautywriter244
      @thebeautywriter244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please help me!! I have a week old newborn and i need help sleep training now or for later? How did you do it??

    • @rebecaacevedo2048
      @rebecaacevedo2048 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Starskyy first month was definitely hard especially while i was breast feeding. He would wake up every 2-3 hours to feed. At 3ish months i started putting him to bed at the exact time each night, fed him before bed, rocked him a little bit till he was a bit tired (still awake though) and put him down. Let him sooth himself, usually he would cry 5-15 min. And sleep close to 6-8 hrs at night by then. At 4 months i moved him to his own room , with black out curtains. I believe that helped stretch out his sleep to 11-12 hours for sure. With two naps a day, but he only naps if its in a dark room though 😭 hope it helps! 🙏🏼

    • @thebeautywriter244
      @thebeautywriter244 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rebecaacevedo2048 thank you so much

  • @zalovestory1
    @zalovestory1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I actually attend to my baby every time he wakes up after 7pm, (usually he wakes every 3-4 hours for feeds). I never knew that I can try to stretch out the feeds, I’m so glad I watched this I will definitely try this. My son is sleep trained so he will definitely sooth himself back to sleep for a little longer if I don’t go in and feed him. Thank you so much!!!

  • @blueh7991
    @blueh7991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She titled her video this way to get many views. It's impossible from a medical side of view to let a 3 months old to sleep through out the night on a daily basis. Let a lone is flat out unhealthy to not feed during the night at least once. This baby will have many issue as he grows up unfortunately! Hope you all well. Just keep doing what's best for the child and don't be selfish.

  • @millakalcheva155
    @millakalcheva155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Go girl! Good for you for doing it the first time around! I’m due in March with my second and will be doing this, I was not brave enough with my first and had to do a gentle cry it out when he was 10 months old which was REALLY hard for me and him so totally agree with you that you need to help them build that up slowly. Moms out there that coddle their babies for years not helping them self soothe, that’s what bothers me now that I know the truth!

  • @katarinamijic4377
    @katarinamijic4377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My baby is four months and sleeps through the night! I never did any sleep training other than making sure we start our bed time routine at 7p and I let him drop night time feedings on his own

    • @tootynuggets
      @tootynuggets 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here! At 6 weeks my boys sleep wake windows emerged so we worked with him on a baby led routine. He's 4 months now and is forming a pretty consistent schedule of 830pm to 6am sleep. Sometimes he wakes a little earlier if his last feed of the night before is farther away from his sleep time.

  • @corinachakalian8914
    @corinachakalian8914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This is exactly what I need to be watching at 3 am with my 3 week old 😂 thank you for posting!

  • @AshJ2203
    @AshJ2203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Thanks for this. My baby is about to turn a month old in a few days and I wanted to try to start somewhat of a schedule here in a couple weeks or so. Right now I’m just in survival mode but I have 3 other kids so it’s important that I start trying to get into a routine when he’s ready. Right now he is up for 4-6 hours straight at night from about 6pm till midnight and it’s been rough no matter what I do he won’t sleep at all in between those times. When he finally does fall asleep he sleeps well but it’s been a struggle having to be up at 7am to get my kids ready for school. I just remind myself everyday that he’s only this little for such a short amount of time and to embrace it.

  • @Nicolelelagreen
    @Nicolelelagreen  4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Please THUMBS UP this video if you liked it! It will be able to help more people!

    • @emilyfrias9915
      @emilyfrias9915 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      NicoleandRichie hi can i seelink for the swaddle.?

  • @ninarechin2531
    @ninarechin2531 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In regards to the sound machine, keep in mind of how loud the volume is because you dont want it to be like a concert in the room and you dont want to possibly damage their hearing in the long run. A good swaddle/sleep sack is definitely key to sleeping comfortably. When we moved our girl into her own room at 4m and put her in a sleep sack, it was a game changer. She started sleeping through the night by 6m. We loves the Halo sleep sacks first and then we got the larger Burts Bees sleep sacks on Amazon.

  • @rosarioortiz93
    @rosarioortiz93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I'm a second time mom, and I just learned this time around, that babies have about a 45 minute sleep cycle. Meaning that after 45 mins, they sort of wake up, whine a little, but if given about 5 minutes they will fall back to sleep on their own and have a good 1.5hr to 2hr nap, or longer depending how old they are. Of course if baby is full on crying then nap time is over. lol

    • @tootynuggets
      @tootynuggets 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My baby hasn't grown out of the 45 minute naps just yet. He sleeps GREAT at night. We have been trying to "protect" his naps but he never soothes past 45 minutes. He just starts nibbling his finger and singing in his crib for us to come get him lol

  • @michaybester3301
    @michaybester3301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This has been the most helpful sleeping video ever!!! Thank you so much!!! My baby is only waking once through the night the little soothing tips were a game change!!! Love your content I’ve shared your video to all my mom friends 💕💕

  • @BabySleepTeam
    @BabySleepTeam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You've got some amazing tips to get your little guy sleeping for 12 hours by 3 months of age. Thanks so much for sharing x

  • @ketchness
    @ketchness 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything I researched you essentially mentioned in the video. It’s a really good informative free video that should be shared EVERYWHERE!
    I didn’t do the cry it out because I just couldn’t do it man! Respect to any mum that can, but implemented a lot of things like what you mentioned and my goodness the difference in sleep was magnificent!

  • @jellib.110
    @jellib.110 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved Bringing up Bebé and Babywise as a young mom. Now I'm preparing to sleep train my 5th baby and still using the Babywise method that's worked beautifully for me for the other children. I will say that my 4th baby was my hardest to get to sleep through the night but I'm convinced that it was because I waited until she was 3 months old to do it. Younger babies are easier to train.

  • @beans9499
    @beans9499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That question why does everyone ask that question " Do they sleep through the night " well most newborns dont so what do you think ??

  • @amberkeathley6838
    @amberkeathley6838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Extremely helpful video! My little guy is 7 weeks old and I’ll definitely be implementing these tips. Ordered the swaddle! Thank you for the code! 💙

  • @madisonburke3588
    @madisonburke3588 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great tips! I’m gonna implement some of these into our routine and see how it helps. I enjoyed your video thank you for sharing your experience and Jace is ADORABLE!!!

  • @natalymejia3484
    @natalymejia3484 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautifully explained. You gave enough details yet kept it precise and short. I will start implementing all these tips asap with my almost 3 month old baby boy!!

  • @ashleeciballos4396
    @ashleeciballos4396 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm still pregnant but wanted to know as much as I can before bringing baby home and this video was SO helpful!

  • @lunna8380
    @lunna8380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am doing a lot of the things mentioned in this video and my baby is 8 weeks doing 2 feedings at night😄 will continue to work on him sleeping through the night. Thank you Nicole!

  • @TeachSmartWithFay
    @TeachSmartWithFay ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re incredibly well spoken! Thank you for this video

  • @nimoarab7137
    @nimoarab7137 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video, I watched it so many time! Thank you for all the information! Used so many of your tips💗!!

  • @markysophia9367
    @markysophia9367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have to say, I was a little skeptical about the pause (love the book too), but I decided to implement it from day 1 since we got home, and it is very useful. It is not even a minute usually. He is 6 week old and only wakes once at night. Love your routine schedule and your whole, philosophy, very close to what I do and it works for me too :) Thanks for your ideas! I’ll try the dream feed!

  • @sabeenasingh3303
    @sabeenasingh3303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I highly agree with the "pause"

  • @happilyeveralien
    @happilyeveralien 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing your experience and giving advice with openness, and without claiming you have the answers for everybody. It’s just rare, and I’m glad you can release the pressure for moms out there by reassuring that every child is different. And I’m sure people are helped through your experience 😊

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so so sweet, thank you! I really appreciate your kind words:)

  • @krystynachen
    @krystynachen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    So lucky my son has been sleeping through the night since birth. He’s 3 weeks on Friday

    • @HollyBadger56
      @HollyBadger56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tell us your secrets!!!!!!

    • @krystynachen
      @krystynachen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Holly Hob sidelying nursing, bedsharing on the floor with a huge Japanese futon bed, and elimination communication (potty training from birth)

    • @KG-kk3ef
      @KG-kk3ef 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I thought you are meant to feed your baby every 3 hours. I wake my baby up to feed when she was a new born. She is 6 weeks today.

    • @krystynachen
      @krystynachen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@KG-kk3ef I didn’t wake my baby. He nursed when he woke up. Or dream fed. He’s 5 months now

    • @mrs.kimminjungjeonpark5872
      @mrs.kimminjungjeonpark5872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How about feeding the baby every 3 hours? I woke my baby every 3 hours. She's 2 weeks old now.

  • @soniachen2005
    @soniachen2005 หลายเดือนก่อน

    VANTASTIC information. Thank you

  • @treesuh587
    @treesuh587 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just wanted to let you know this and video and a few things mentioned in the Raising Bebe book (which I hadn’t heard of before watching your video) has helped me and baby sleep through the night for the first time in 13 months. Thank you!

  • @angelicabeasley3609
    @angelicabeasley3609 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My daughter is 3 weeks old and I’m DEFINITELY going to try these tips out!

  • @AA-hw5nm
    @AA-hw5nm ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your tips and sharing. I believe you have one child. The struggle is very real when there are siblings in different ages.

  • @ninarechin2531
    @ninarechin2531 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah, so after the 8 week newborn stage, i think it's okay to start pausing at every single cry. Around 3m you should start to learn what each cry means, if they are hungry, teething, in pain, need a diaper change or if they are just fussy and want a snuggle. Self soothing is good for babies to learn, it teaches independence at an early age. Just wait a few seconds and listen to the cry and determine if they need you, and you will also learn what each cry means by doing this.

  • @andreagaytan9849
    @andreagaytan9849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Prepping for second baby! Love your tips and research thank you.

  • @katekarmody9343
    @katekarmody9343 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My baby has been sleeping for 8-13 hrs every night since beginning of month 3 😊

  • @sondermusic4476
    @sondermusic4476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the opening! Although it’s sad to see so many TH-cam moms having to defend themselves before their video even starts....? Great info thank you!

  • @marie-leonieweidner
    @marie-leonieweidner 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did Babywise with my 2 Children and we looved it!!

  • @jastallion45
    @jastallion45 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    new dad with a 2wk old, 5am up watching this video :) .... great video.

  • @JanaeCrawford
    @JanaeCrawford 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you for this. Very informative definitely going to look into getting those books 😊

  • @gabriellareneelugo
    @gabriellareneelugo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

  • @MDMJ89
    @MDMJ89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you thank you for the tips ! And how you explained it i was searching for this kind of methods and is okay to start from 3 months , i will try it and update you ❤️

  • @christinaking3333
    @christinaking3333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was informative my sons are 1month and I’ll have to come back to this

  • @ciaraanderson6709
    @ciaraanderson6709 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So helpful! Will try to implement some of these ideas with my 6 week old☺️

  • @georginacarter1979
    @georginacarter1979 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video, she speaks a lot of sense!!

  • @irockstar7744
    @irockstar7744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is soooo good! Great information!. I did takingcarababies and I agree with everything you said and we basically did the same thing to get my little guy to sleep through the night.. good job mama!

    • @staciemcquade4207
      @staciemcquade4207 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amberlyn same here!! Loved this video. We did the same with our baby and was also sleeping 12 hours by 3 months old 🙂

  • @jaquelinm
    @jaquelinm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome tips girly!

  • @didik7777
    @didik7777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another awesome video! keep up the effort because this is...wait for it...great content! Love watching you guys and thanks again for sharing your family with us...and Jayce too! He is getting so big and lovable!

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh I'm so glad you enjoyed!! Thank you, he sure is!

  • @hollythomson442
    @hollythomson442 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great video. Really great advice esp when you are talking about pressing and waiting for a few moments to see what sort of cry your baby has. Sleep training isn't just for your baby to get them to sleep but a GREAT WAY OF YOURSELF LEARNING WHAT SORT OF CRY THEY HAVE . yes babies need alot of cuddles and holding but there is a massive difference between crys and sleep is one the most important part of your babies development.

  • @brandi92y
    @brandi92y 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the advice and tips. ☺️

  • @PageDanielle
    @PageDanielle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Moms on Call is where it’s at!! This was a total game changer for us 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @Faithfuljudy
      @Faithfuljudy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      what do u mean on call? I don't know how I'm gonna work again lol

    • @tawnyb1560
      @tawnyb1560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Judy Tirado it’s the book name ‘moms on call’

  • @kriscaldwell4476
    @kriscaldwell4476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Nicole! My baby is 12 weeks now and just started sleeping through the night 830-5 am since 10 weeks ish but everything you’ve done I have done based off readings. I haven’t read the Bebe book (just heard about it from my daughters volleyball coach and now your video). Thank you for confirming that I am on track for good routine and sleeping habits! I am huge on routine and scheduling because I truly believe it works best for our family. Love your TH-cam channel, awesome job. ☺️

  • @RealEstateJana
    @RealEstateJana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YES! We followed this same approach (same books!) with the addition of "Cherish the First Six weeks" and we also found that around 10-12 weeks our son was sleeping through the night (we continued a "dream feed" until about 12 weeks by then he was so sleepy he wouldn't even be interested in eating. (I was exclusively breast feeding) He is now 7 months old...no sleep regressions, sleeping 7:30pm-7am. We have had to make adjustments as he has changed and grown (sometimes adding an extra nap and feeding if he wakes up early from naps) Hard work to keep yourself on track (we wake him up each morning at 7am) especially when you want to sleep in! We have travelled extensively and been thrown "off schedule" on travelling days, but by keeping the same routines (Sleep - Eat - Play) and giving him the same sleeping cues, he has always re-adjusted well :)

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So awesome! I love hearing that this worked for so many other moms as well. It's confirmation that it works well and babies are growing healthily. I agree, not easy, takes work and consistency. God bless you and your family!

  • @barnabaslearning2835
    @barnabaslearning2835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love you’re video. The lighting is really good and your baby is so cute! I hope to get my own channel up and going soon. Parenting is fun but hard work!

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! You are definitely right about that!

  • @stephaniehipolito8804
    @stephaniehipolito8804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    WOW I was trying to get my baby to sleep in my arms while watching this and I put him in his bassinet and he started crying. I paused and tried letting him cry for about 3 minutes and then tried the soothing tricks. He fell straight to sleep in his bassinet!!!!

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Woo hoo! You have no idea how happy that makes me :)

  • @Shawnkaysal
    @Shawnkaysal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 6 months expecting and I hope this works. Thank you sooooo much! 💕

  • @asformeandmyhouse4463
    @asformeandmyhouse4463 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️🎉Happy Birthday Jace!!! 🎉♥️

  • @studiospot1
    @studiospot1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video! Very informative...good tips

  • @saraitos6870
    @saraitos6870 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just tried it last night and it worked wonders woke up only once for a feeding And it worked well she slept so good thank you !!

  • @KafeteriaFood
    @KafeteriaFood 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this video. I am due in April and this was so informational AND digestable! Thank you soooooo so much for sharing your knowledge.

  • @katherinewinkler8847
    @katherinewinkler8847 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is exactly what I was looking for !

  • @audreychapina
    @audreychapina 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video thank you for the information 💕

  • @Misuneverse
    @Misuneverse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I naturally would wait to see if my baby was just whining or if he really needed me. If he continued to cry and it got louder, I would then pick him up.

  • @celindagonzalez390
    @celindagonzalez390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you alls videos! Definitely my favorite TH-cam momma! You've helped me through my first baby's training!!

  • @amrqz
    @amrqz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this video! I am a ftm, and baby is 3 weeks old today! Your tips were very insightful; I never really thought about how certain actions can cause particular habits so quickly! Definitely want to implement some of these. Mahalo from Hawaii!

  • @theblankpages7561
    @theblankpages7561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’d like to add that as a sleep consultant myself if you go to AAP guideline sleeping through the night is anywhere from 8-12 hours. Your baby is technically sleeping through night at 8 hours so pat yourself on the backs if they are and for those whose aren’t don’t worry they will eventually. Also BEWARE the first 2-4 weeks don’t push a schedule because they still need to be waking up to feed until the reach back to their birth weight every 2.5-3 hours on average. Talk to your pediatrician at the 4 week if it’s okay to let them sleep until they wake up hungry.

    • @jennymacias7304
      @jennymacias7304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve also been told by pediatrician that 5 hour stretches is considered sleeping through the night for newborns

    • @theblankpages7561
      @theblankpages7561 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jennymacias7304 Take what pediatrician says with a grain of salt they aren’t certified in sleep just pediatric with basic knowledge of other things unless specifically have the credentials for it. APP guidelines are the national standard. And by newborns what age specifically ?....because any newborn baby younger than 4 week should NEVER go 5 hour straight with out food. 3 hours is the absolute MAX I let them sleep especially if previous feeding was a rough one. And by 3 hours I start it from the time they start eating not from when they go back to sleep

  • @dezyandco5855
    @dezyandco5855 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My baby goes to bed no later than 9:10pm until 6-7am in the morning. She sleeps the whole time. I do have to wake her up if she sleeps longer than 7am to eat (this way it doesn’t mess up her eating schedule). She takes 2-3 naps during the day, but lately she’s only been taking 2 naps a day. Long naps, around 1-2hrs sometimes longer

  • @audreyb.7255
    @audreyb.7255 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the video ill start to try that !

  • @geraldomagellajunior
    @geraldomagellajunior 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, thanks

  • @kunmiodueke
    @kunmiodueke 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing! ❤️

  • @cindygreen3038
    @cindygreen3038 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just watched the video 1 hour ago. I usually rock my baby to sleep. I simply put the white machine full blast (usually I play at mid volume) I watched for babe to get sleepy and put her down with her pacifier, she wined a little, so I did rock her a just for like 20 secs put her back down and left her to sleep. She is still sleeping! I have been rocking her for 20 minutes to fall asleep and this is a game changer. I hope it continues 😩. Thank you for the tips!

  • @RahiiChan
    @RahiiChan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just wanted to say that your methods are really on point! I am studying Art Therapy and we learned in "developmental psychology" all the things about observing the baby, don't feed to sleep e.t.c
    Out Prof told us a story he experienced with a patient that he had the problem to always fall asleep while crying because his parents desperately wanted to bring him to sleep while he was just crying for something else as a baby.
    You are doing a great job and you are a wonderful considerate mom! ❤️ God bless you and your family.
    Love from Germany

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Wow great confirmation from actual research, I appreciate you sharing that with me

  • @ialeclaudino4548
    @ialeclaudino4548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best video I have ever watched 🤗

  • @alexandreasaunders9300
    @alexandreasaunders9300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this. I’m pregnant with baby number two and I’m so glad I did this with my first who is now 15 months. All of my friend’s still have to lay down with there kids and sleep with them. It’s a lot better to start these things in the beginning.

  • @ajmuzz22
    @ajmuzz22 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ..Excellent presentation.. 15 day old baby here. Your logic is spot on sister!
    Thank You for sharing your process..

    • @hollyjoc97
      @hollyjoc97 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re a little young to be on TH-cam!! 😉😙

  • @susiezv7296
    @susiezv7296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for all great advice !:)

  • @sintheeuhb
    @sintheeuhb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even if it may be hard to follow the same guidelines you still give me hope that it does get better thank you so much for this video love y'all so much🙏🏼

  • @mamas_on_a_budget
    @mamas_on_a_budget 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Expecting mom! Love this advice. I was planning on using baby wise but having these other tips is super helpful.

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad!

    • @BUTTERFLYAMBASSADOR
      @BUTTERFLYAMBASSADOR 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Nicolelelagreen first time mom super excited ! Is there any difference with genders for sleep training ? I am having my first girl in September

  • @fionnmaccumhaillsmammy296
    @fionnmaccumhaillsmammy296 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Things will change my 9 month old is teething and waking constantly but keep it up and enjoy the sleep I would even cuddle to sleep for naps while you can as you’ll be kept busy when they start crawling and will want your own space

  • @amandaaguirre8387
    @amandaaguirre8387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    YES! I’m a first time mom and due in March. This is the philosophy I was planning on implementing for our babygirl and I can tell a lot of my other mom friends didn’t really agree with it but having a schedule/routine has always been so important for my husband and I so I wanted to consider that when raising our daughter. Great video!

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes! Just like adults, schedules and routines affect babies bodys and minds as well!

    • @cpg86259
      @cpg86259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      NicoleandRichie Actually the research does not support this. Babies sleep needs are not the same as adults or even toddlers. Yes babies do recognise patterning but there is no good evidence for ‘sleep schedules’ under 6 months and night waking helps keep breastmilk supply up in the early months and is thought to be protective against SIDS.
      But good for you, your baby is sleeping well and that means you are getting a good sleep too 😊

    • @JoeBidensdirtydiaper
      @JoeBidensdirtydiaper 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cpg86259shut up

  • @laurengriffins9459
    @laurengriffins9459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! Such a great video! I watched it twice, one time with my husband. Tried it once and already seeing the results! Baby had only one night feeding (dad fed him and I pumped), and woke up once more but after comforting him he went back to sleep. Mama is feeling energetic today!

  • @SleepyBedtimeOasis
    @SleepyBedtimeOasis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I admire this video!

  • @DrivenWTHN
    @DrivenWTHN 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So helpful!

  • @laurahausam168
    @laurahausam168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So I only got to 17:40 on ur video and so glad you made this...Im almost 35 weeks pregnant and very nervous but nervous because I want to have a “schedule” for my baby when it’s appropriate. I have worked with infants in the daycare and realizing now that I’ve done the “pause” and observe just didn’t realize it. I want to have consistency for my baby which will help with our family.

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! Consistency and a schedule will help both baby and the family transition. Good luck to you

  • @deandranicolevalencia7591
    @deandranicolevalencia7591 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You, Much Needed My Baby Just Turned 3 Months Last week Friday. His Sleeping Schedule is All Over the Place.

  • @thejoshuatreelocationsstation
    @thejoshuatreelocationsstation 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great info ty!!

  • @tootynuggets
    @tootynuggets 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here is the DL about the tips in this video --
    Some babies are ready to sleep through the night at 3 months, some arent. Every baby is different. The baby in this video was ready and the routine the mom had with the baby could be tips to help you. However, if they don't work for you then your baby isn't ready and THAT'S OKAY :D And, I think a big contributing factor is breast fed vs bottle fed babies. Bottle fed babies consume more at once than breast fed babies so breast fed will often wake up more for more feeds. This of course doesn't mean start bottle feeding just to try to get longer sleep. It is just another variable. Also, breast milk vs formula changes everything. Formula is slower digesting. Combine larger quantities with slower digesting and you have a baby that is satiated for longer.
    My babies sleep wake cycles started to emerge around 6 weeks old. We worked with him on a baby led sleep routine (not schedule. ROUTINE). He is 4 months now and has 5x45 minute naps a day, then sleeps from usually around 830pm to 6am. His last nap has him waking up around the 7pm mark when we bathe him, feed him, and read a book. He is formula fed and has 6 bottles a day, every 3ish hours. If he is going through a spurt, he sometimes wakes up earlier and wants an extra bottle.
    Official sources state that by 4 months, your baby can developmentally sleep at least 8 hrs straight without needing to eat and that is completely normal. But, so is still waking every few hours!

  • @dvo1060
    @dvo1060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Takin cars babies helped me so much!! He’s sleeping 8hours at 8 weeks old

  • @roshandacummings3423
    @roshandacummings3423 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can’t do 3-5 minutes, my little one goes into fury cry in 40 seconds but I am absolutely going to implement the shake, belly, and rocking methods. Drowsy is hard to come by without the pacifier but I’ll try again and again! Oh lord, wish me luck. Our now 4-month old slept beautifully up to 3 months and this last month has been impossible (5x a night!)