Conversation Topics That Lead to Sex (Ranked)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ส.ค. 2024
- Have you ever been friendzoned? How about had a date that just didn't go anywhere? Most guys simply don't know how to make a conversation "man to woman" in nature. As a result, their conversations with women end up being boring and going nowhere. Picking the right conversation topics is an easy answer for this that doesn't even require a lot of skill.
For more on what to say in any situation, check out verbalgameacad...
1:16- Personal Interest & Hobbies
2:45 - Travel
4:02 - Movies & TV
6:10 - Work & Career
7:50 - Current Events
8:40 - Food & Drink
9:30 - Music
10:57 - Family & Friends / Personal Anecdotes
12:35 - Dreams & Aspirations
14:34 - Past Relationships
16:39 - Physical Affection Preferences
18:15 - Desires & Fantasies
18:53 - Boundaries & Comfort Levels
22:28 - PDA
23:25 - Risqué Conversational Games
24:32 - Future Adventure Projections
25:28 - Sexual Teases
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Watching this while on my way to a first date 😂
me too
How did it go
Update us
Check out Dan Bacon
Spoiler: The guy she ditched you for was not watching this on the way to her apartment 😅
I liked that he backed to record outside, brings up the good old days
My balls ache for you bro.
Food is more than a 3rd party topic I'd say. If you can cook, this is a good avenue to get her to your place for a future date and set up it up right there and then.
Yeah but you don't have to talk about it
Dating is so... complicated.
It is not complicated, it is nuanced. The more you know about people and what we do/what we want, you can learn to form conversations that lead to building lasting relationships.
@@PhysIXjuk3it’s very complicated. If you are not just looking for someone. And if you are dating many girls for sex or just practice every girl at some point starts to become just someone.
I'm 28 and dating is hardcore to understand, im introvert so i will stay and suffer till death 😂
it sucks
1) stay away from topics that indicate you have money like travel or don’t be surprised if you attract gold diggers
2) if your looking for a LTR you are going to want to get to deal breakers right away and politics for many of us will be a deal breaker.
But then again gold diggers are perfect for a one night stand. Remeber the song "Money for Nothing and the Cheeks for free"?
No wonder my chatting goes nowhere.
Thank you for these insights.
Value baby! 🥳
"Damn, that's crazy". ;)
...well rizza , a tip for you.. no chatting but FLIRTING...check out Dan Bacon .
The father of modern PUA community.He has the balls to carry the whole community in his shoulders 👏🏼
No he is not. Erik Markovik is the father of PUA.
No you are both wrong.
😂
It is Ross Jeffries who is the father of PUA.
Dating is a stressful chore. Pretty much a lot of faking and manipulation to get sex or food or ego boost.
Yeah, I never understood how it's fun for some people.
Bro among us and gta sound effects 😂
back when people didn't kiss on the first date, there wasn't as much hatred in break ups. Just something to consider if you want to be truly joyous and patient about finding the right person
Could’ve used this 2months ago before getting friend zoned on a date😂
You now know for the next one ✊
Probably not gonna nail it on first go anyway.
Not to be a jerk, but if you care about one outcome of one date months later: That's problematic. Date more. If you combine aloofness with evaluation/ improvement you'll find success.
It’s not too late to use this information for your next date 😉
@@AudiFanPK well said 💎
4:14 your editor skills did come a long way 😄 nice to see
It looks like Todd probably hired a new editor. I agree, that person is doing a good job.
@@ZombieRommel don't crush my illusion man. He did it by himself! That's why he is so high value to me!!!11!
Haven't watched pua in for ever, but this was honestly good 👏
Thanks man
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
@@peterwilliams6361look at you guys helping each other. That’s brotherhood, supporting your fellow brothers in need. Keep up the good works guys🙌
@@user-er9hv4pl2ubest of luck brother🤞
The OG Todd always blessing us with his wisdom. Side note: Todd you’re looking fit and lean, keep it up 🤙
Thank god this man didnt leave the industry 6 years ago. I would've gone crazy
She wouldn't shake his hand at first, but twenty minutes later, she was kissing him. In-fucking-credible. I'm going to go out on a limb and come to the conclusion that this man was undoubtedly fairly attractive to her as well, therefore rendering this information useless to me, awesome.
It's so wild. We're taught "everybody's equal" and "you just gotta find the right person". All you spicy senaritaz out there have no idea the grind it took your man to be "the right person" and meanwhile you're just hot and alright to be around
lol. A man who's been through the grind will not go for the 'just hot and alright' girls. He will need something else. Also, why would you believe there aren't women who go through the grind? there's plenty of them actually, and proof abounds that women are having better game at growing and evolving, since they seek advice, seek support, discuss a lot, take breaks from dating and understand emotions better.
@@iceshadesyou had to go and ruin a funny post
@@iceshadesMen don’t want women who been through the grind. They don’t want a friend they want a traditional woman
@@CommanderTexasthat part. Nobody except simps want ran through women.
your standards are so low 😂 gl actually enjoying your a relationship
Hi Todd,
Thank you for sharing these valuable advise for interacting with women. You are really inspiring. I watched two of your videos before going out and I had an amazing night interacting with women (no sec though, I'm not there yet).
First I interacted with two lesbians and teased her on their homosexuality. I already knew one of them who told me she was married and showed me picture of her husband and family. Then I ft I wasn't going anywhere.
I then looked around and looked for the most attractive women in the Pub. There were two blinds. I thought about what you said:"It doesn't matter how it's going to turn out, I'm going to project my high value vibe".
I approached them as they were sitting and used my vampire lesbian joke (look up online). It made them laugh and I continue engaging. It turned out that one of them was a customer of mine in my coffee shop. We had a very good laugh about it. I was very connecting with her (maybe too much). They even bought me a drink and asked me where I was going after the Pub. In the end I scared her too much as (I think), I was projecting a too confident and introspecting vibe. Or was an amazing experience as they were really impressed to meet a man who has balls to approached two girls.
Your teaching are great and helped me a lot. Now I can see where you can improve.
- Your student should first focus on becoming alpha male before learning the techniques.
- You should develop a total philosophy that covers everything. I was a little bit Tipsy, that's why I was inspired and could talk to them. You should think and talk about alcohol.
I would be very interesting in meeting you in your London Boot camp and see the master at play.
Thank you for your inspiration Mate!
What to say to lead to sex: Ask questions to get to know her better and LET HER TALK THE MOST AND LISTEN TO ASK FOLLOW UP QUESTIONS. Validate her, tease her, and don’t hesitate. Men tend to talk themselves right out of sex.
Holy crap I've been away from this channel for a while but the production value is probably the greatest I've ever seen for Todd. I remember when the entire video would literally just be Todd talking straight into the camera. Now he has b-roll and memes very cool
Yep, all the money he's made from all the guys he's gotten to watch his videos has definitely paid off for him, literally. I just wish his advice would actually work.
@@fuzzypanda1684 Bro I've been using Todds advice for like a decade now. He is one of the best. I have a PUA playlist and I had a ton of videos from him and Julien. I actually taught game for a while. What are you struggling with bro
I talked to this girl in the gym a couple of times, and the last time I mentioned this tv show, Supernatural and as soon as I mentioned I saw that she was more interested in me. I came home and then I saw that she followed me on IG. She even asked me out. We dated for a while. But that's just 1 example... and he is right, talking too much about tv shows, movies, hobbies will get nowhere 98% of the time. Todd is probably the coach that makes the most sense on yt. Great content!
Carry on my wayward son. 🤠👍
Wait, what? You said that you talked to her about a TV show, which made her MORE interested in you, which lead to her following you on IG, asking you out, and dating you. Then you say that talking too much about things like TV shows, the thing that led to her pursuing you, will get you nowhere?
Um, I think the algorithm of this bot has malfunctioned.
@@fuzzypanda1684 I was trying to say that it happens, rarely, but it happens. And if you are gonna talk about a tv show talk concisely and in a fun way.
Good thing he thinks these topics lead to sex because they dont lead to relationships at all
Great vid! You left out creative visualization games and personality tests where you interpret their answers. The cube game. IME there is absolutely nothing better for a 1st date. Women LOVE it. I added "body of water" to it, which represents your attitude towards your sexuality, this is a huge improvement if I do say so myself. You want to make some small talk first... interests, hobbies, travel, etc. briefly, using mirroring behavior and with an eye toward if she's genuinely interested. Once a basic rapport is established ask her to play the game with you, I've never had any resistance to this. Practice your game or test with friends as much as possible, the high point of this game is showing that it actually works and reveals your beliefs and personality for both of you. It creates a connection with another person very quickly and provides hours worth of quality material to talk about. Mystery was a fan of palm reading, that seems pretty hokey but I can see it working for some folks. I think it can be a turn off for those who don't believe in such things and it doesn't come off all that masculine. OTOH you don't want to whip out the full Meyers Briggs either.
Very useful and informative this video. I'm not a fan of the Gen Z/TikTok editing, though.
Todd - You rock. Very articulate, great advice, entertaining presentation. A very real public service. Appreciate it...:)
In all honesty, it doesn't matter what topics you talk about as long as you can make a woman laugh, as long as you don't play things too safe. However, I agree with all of aspects of each topic Todd analyzed. You can still talk about those topics as long as they can turn into laughter, but don't linger on them for too much.
I honestly am insanely passionate about music, so I think I can expand that a little more as I know I can pour emotions through this subject. But good to know that I shouldn't linger this topic for too long either.
Bro you gave so much gems in this video for free! God bless you! Subbed 🍻
Poor mind talk about people, average minds talk about places, great minds talk about ideas
Todd, I think you need to change it from pua to pick up engineer cause damn bro you be gettin into the weeds and highest levels of details on every piece lol great job
Speak what to do first, what not to do last.
Man i wish i had Todd's pick up skills. Dude is insane.
This is actually very solid guidance
Very informative, thank you
I’d say I’m decent with women. But this is my first time listening to this guy and it makes a lot of sense in ways I haven’t considered.
Although I agree with most of the ranking, I believe the topics are also subjective to each individual situation, particularly based on how you two met and how much you have talked before. Sometimes I can just skip to sexual topics or sexual teasing in the first half hour without looking like I have an agenda or being too foward. Or sometimes when the girl is moving back to her hometown in a few days or the next day, you almost always have a shortcut to sex.
And most importantly, this is not that common, but depending on the girl's level of insecurity, the "boring topics" will not move toward sex but can make her more comfortable with you. You can still make playful teasing while doing so. Just be aware to not stay in these topics for too long.
I wonder what Chat GPT would come up if I trained it on all your previous content and field videos :D
ToddGPT automatic texting bot
I’m glad to see you Todd and happy for you to have lost all the weight too, but more importantly I like that you knew how to play the TH-cam game and figured out to make a subtle comeback. Keep on and keep going
Does Todd have a non-black tshirt?
Todd on every topic "This may or may not work".
Her at the start of the interaction "This may or not work"
So what do i have to talk about, can you make a video on what to talk
This one is really good. Useful
Thank you for the new concepts and categories. I'll have to go out today and use these
Todd was a tremendous help to me in 2023. He got me through a year of online dating to where I finally met a decent attractive person.
What if your goal is to see if you can friends before having a romantic relationship?
Thank you for this list! I have a 2nd date this weekend for a picnic and I want it to go well. I had her laughing a lot on the first date.
If you can be playful and joke around, and have fun, any topic can build tension.
Her: Do you like parties?
Meh: “hell no. I hate them…
Oh hey, want to come to this party at my house next Friday?”
Her: What do you think about PDA?
Meh: “hate it. Don’t touch meh.”
2 mins later… I touch her hand… “oops! What are you doing?!” 😉
Love that the Toddfather is ranking all these convo topics!
The norms, customs, laws and beliefs in this country cripple men from the most effective topic of conversation to lead to sex and that is sex, because we’re told that it’s inappropriate, harassment, a form of disrespect, etc., because that’s what Americans believe even though it’s irrational and makes no sense. So, it’s no wonder that guys end up in these generic conversations that lead them to the friend zone because those guys are trying to follow the rules that America laid out.
Hey man got heaps of value from this video. This is an area I've always struggled at.
The effects on top of your voice Todd, are fuckn rejuvinating😂😂
thanks Todd this was really good
Subscribed immediately after he said avoid current events. 😂
Thank you. Very helpful ❤
When talking about past relationships goes badly and kills the initial vibe, that can be a good thing because it indicates deep incompatibility
To much to think about here and complicated, just have fun and if you gel things should arrive in a happy place, if not next, also don't think you cant friend zone her.
Games are fun if they make you feel alone together in a crowd.
I like the Care you put on shooting these videos...i actually don't even need them (thx to u btw) i just like beautiful work
Excellent. One thing: it's "intimacy."
Ok so talk about nothing eat and go home got it
😂
Yeh he talks to fast too
These days, where people need help about how to talk to each other
Value your little man more. Don’t devalue your worth as a a man. When you carry yourself and respect yourself, you will find your wife. Praying will help.
Music AKA Dance is emotional. You do know what they say about good dancers.
I have all of your courses including the old ones that you canceled for sale. Can you please tell me which course should I start with as I am a beginner?
I appreciate the content and the breakdown. However, the emphasis on intimacy or sex seems misplaced.
At the end of the video, you mentioned the progression from dating, to sex, to relationship. Maybe I’m old-fashioned, but I find the last two parts out of order. I’ve always believed it should be dating, relationship, then intimacy.
Women today are too quick to jump in the sack. I’ve declined or withheld sex frequently. I use dating as a form of selection/elimination. Many women are eliminated right away, a few will get friend zoned, only the exceptional will proceed towards anything more.
Value yourself and don’t value anyone who holds no value.
Thanks for the info!
I have all of your courses including the old ones you canceled for sale. Can you please tell me in what order I should start the courses? I'm still a beginner. (I am now starting at valentine university 2.0)
Thank you, Todd!
Can you give some examples of future adventure projections? Maybe make a video on it?
Todd can you give more examples of the Drinking games "Questions" on you ask me and I'll ask you and Never ever have I. Can you give us specific questions. What's all that about with tattoos?
Well, you said we should avoid the "boundaries" discussion for a while, what if she later tells you that she's totally against premarital intercourse!!
My father said if you ever go to a movie theater or Netflix and chill watch a horror movie. She will hold you tighter and lead to her subconsciously seeing you as a protector.
Just a reminder that if she likes you, it doesn’t matter what the topic of discussion is. I use it as a test to gauge how much interest she has in me.
Stay Focused!
I'm age 60, is your advice the same or does it change with age? Seems the 'bad boy' is attractive to younger women, while a 'nice guy' is sexy to older women, no? BTW, I'm 6'1" blue eyes & outgoing, but I'm 50 lbs overweight, so yes, diet is my #1 focus, thx!
Dude. Really? To women, "nice guy" = weak = doormat. Most women assume this automatically about all men who just are reasonably polite and civil.
You're post basically says you're a sitting duck for women looking for a bailout. They will see you as an ATM. Or the "dinner guy" or "taxi guy" or "fix my plumbing guy" or "way h my kid(s) while I go fuck Tyrone guy."
You need to watch a lot of R P and dating videos first, so women don't use you for a doormat.
No, women don't sleep with "nice guys" unless they think it's time to settle and think you are ready pickings. Good luck.
Trust me your blue eyes don't mean shit 😂 I laugh when white guys say this type of shit 😂😂 they lack deeper identity so they truly believe delusions like this
do low carb/atkins and you'll lose the weight in 3-4 weeks. and yes the same advice holds 100%% I am 58
Similar age here. Women still want fun. Bad boy is OK but it can't be your whole identity. #1 value add for these older women is alluding to some kind of rental income in a non-duschy way. ""Ooops there is paint on my hand," (from fixing something for a tenant today.) Financial security makes them feel safer with you but if you have nothing they may also just smash and dash. Women!
Testing to see if Communist You Tube deletes this comment, too.
amazingly good advice. thank you Todd, will put to use
Food and Drink? For me it is definitely NOT a 3rd party topic.. It is a ME topic lol. First Date.. I cook dinner. Usually Pizza because you really can't go wrong WITH pizza and just about EVERYONE loves pizza. Cooking pizza for dinner does not include going to frozen section and "picking one out" and throwing it in the oven to warm it up.... HELL NO! Fresh vegies and meat, slap out the dough... NOTHING frozen. A pizza that you could go to a restaurant and get... only without the restaurant :) I don't do the whole cook dinner "together" thing either... when she gets there or I go get her, it is already done and ready to go... or it's in the oven and be ready in 15 minutes or so.
Food... is ONE thing that EVERY FUCKING BODY has in common.... no matter WHAT. YOU will have FOOD in common with ANY date you have had, are having, and will have. No matter WHO they are, what CLASS they are... You and her WILL have FOOD in common.... because EVERYONE eats and everyone has an EMOTIONAL reaction to FOOD, usually your favorites. A little secret.. people eat with their EYES first, way before it even gets close to their nose or mouth, their eyes are already "eating" it. Because good food is an EMOTIONAL experience if done right.
And if you do it right.... the ME topic becomes a WE topic because if you do it right... she will be talking about that PIZZA long after the date ends.
If you can create and serve food that is on par or stomps "restaurant" food... then don't go OUT to eat... bring her IN to eat at YOUR restaurant :) And cooking is absolutely NOT "rocket science" and for the most part/most of the time... you do not even COOK the food... because usually the food cooks ITSELF with no help from YOU. You just throw it together and let it COOK. A steak... cooks itself, you just flip it... A pizza cooks ITSELF, you just throw a bunch of crap on top of a disc of dough and throw it in oven and it does its thing.... Amazing how many people cannot even cook boiled water....
If you know how to make Strawberry Shortcake... the usual sliced strawberry sitting in a sugar water solution until it thickens up... had a chef ask me if I know how to make it... I'm like ya... he told me to go make some but use orange juice instead... WTF your NUTZ! Make some but use OJ instead... that was the only thing he told me so I made it and instead of sugar water solution, I did sugar/OJ solution with strawberry slices in it.... and .... OMFG!!!! Just get some OJ and pour into a bowl and add sliced strawberry and add sugar to your preferred sweetness and let it sit or help it along by forceably "stirring" it with a fork to help infuse the strawberry into the "solution" faster.... and pour over the cake... you will never go back to traditional strawberry shortcake EVER again :)
If you can serve food to equal or rival a resturant, absolutely SKIP the restaurant and bring her IN for dinner... and Food/Drink is not a distant 3rd party topic or "maybe" some "value" for later, it can absolutely become CENTRAL to the whole thing and... from a simple pizza you can explore what else she likes and figure out what to serve next time :) If you want something more "social" or "public".... you can do that AFTER your "private" dinner :)
I’m on my way to your place to eat pizza and strawberry shortcake…😂…two of my favorite things…always! 😍🙌
@sweetsimpleslowlife2709 CANT go wrong with PIZZA! :) One perk of cooking in restaurants. You kind of learn how to cook.... if you aren't in the SAME one the whole time ;). Diners, steak houses, Italian, Chinese (scratch Chinese), pizza places. One of the diners made pretty much everything from scratch... meatloaf, soups, their own breading mixes, pies and peeled/boiled/milk/butter/salt&pepper mashed potatoes :). And with all the stuff to make their stuff... almost can make anything with what they had. We even got #1 diner in Arkansas from MSN food&drink with no advertising, only word of mouth. I never had title of "chef" but I have worked with a few :)
Find someone with whom your sense of humor clicks. If you cant laugh at life and its ups and downs then..., well, good luck. If you can each share a laugh and your senses of humor to some degree and you each kind of understand each other you are a good match that can support each other 💘 You dont have to be stand up comics or have each other rolling on the floor. Nobody wants to hang out or go home with a negative Nancy/Nick.
I tried the question escalation game with a girl from tinder that I was talking to on Instagram. It is so effective that it feelt like cheating 😂
Like a funny TV show if it applies to something happening right there in the moment.That's a good topic
Helpful.
Most women keep circling back the conversation to career and work - how do you get out of that topic?
In the US they only care about how much money you have. Just don’t date American women and you won’t have this problem and you won’t need all these techniques. The more I watch these videos the more I’m grateful for having moved to Brazil
@@anthonym.3781 this is such a low iq generalization bro
leave her
If the girl keeps coming back to career and work, it's probably because of one of these:
She is trying to get a guage on your ambition and income or potential income. (A girl may just want to know you have at least some ambition to make a living. If she's a golddigger, it will show up quick. Dump her.)
She may be proud of her job and income and wants you to ask. If she's a boss bitch, big red flag.
Most people, and especially women (like 90% of everybody), can't carry their end of the conversation. This may be her floundering and trying to hold up her end of the conversation, but not knowing what else to say.
In all cases, it means you probably have not sexually escalated, which you should do within ten minutes maximum. Better if you have a classy way to escalate the first 0 to 30 seconds, then back off, then escalate more later.
You want to make it clear you're there because you're considering taking her to bed, not be her gay bff. Women usually decide the first 30 seconds if she will sleep with you, sometimes before you say hello.
So a girl circles back to "What do you do?" My suggestion is be somewhat vague and turn it into an escalation or playful, to outlandish.
"I'm a student. I'm actually studying all about life.". Drop your voice, slow down, move closer do you're only talking right to her, almost in her ear. "But I know nothing of beautiful women. Would you teach me?"
Or you say, "This and that. Some day I may have to get a real job. But it lets me slip out at lunch sometimes." Lean in and wiggle your eyebrows, drop your voice. "Do you go back to the office more relaxed after a nooner?"
Or you can say,"Are you a bad girl who slips out to go with me to the track Wednesday afternoon,?"
If she chastises you about a nooner, say, "What?! Oh! You're a dirty girl, you're thinking about S E X. I was thinking about the buffet at the Such and Such Resort Hotel on Fridays .they have bourbon bread pudding and I can get a 1:30 tee time. Do you play? Are you going to be a dirty girl on the course and seduce me on the 16th hole to keep from losing?"
Or, "Okay, I'll tell you the truth, but you can't tell anyone. I'm an alien. But the good kind. I'm actually a grad student here working on my thesis, "Earth Girls Are The Hottest." Would you like to help with my research?"
Then you can get more outlandish as you go. "Lots of people think the girls on Zulwisky are, but that's just because they have three tits. One on the back for dancing.
I prefer slender girls with perky breasts. My premise is perfect, perky ones have a direct connection from their nipples to their doo-dah."
Do you think you can manage from there?
Music?????!!!!! He is right... he DON'T know much about MUSIC! "It is sort of emotional right? People do have emotions about music and do have feelings about a certain song so it is KIND OF about you and her but fundamentally it is a 3rd party topic."
Ok... IGNORE EVERYTHING HE SAYS ABOUT MUSIC!!! Because.... he said it... he don't know shit about music.
MUSIC is not "sort of emotional"... music IS EMOTION!!! The lyrics themselves stir emotion and the music itself stirs even more emotion. Music is the physical embodiment OF emotion. And... most people get VERY EMOTIONAL when 'lost" in music. There is absolutely ZERO LOGIC involved with "music"... sure it is all logic when figuring out the notes and the timings and the key of the piece or the words to it... sure... that is mostly "logic" but once you know that logical stuff of it... you practice it... sing it... play it... weather it be in your head or physically playing it on a instrument... you begin to disconnect with that "logic" and instinct/muscle memory begins to take its place and when you no longer THINK about it, no longer have your BRAIN actively engaged in the process OF playing/singing it.... then and only then can EMOTION begin to enter the "music" and the music begins to play YOU rather than YOU playing the music.
If you want to see DEEP emotions and the kind of DEEP emotions that a person has... you only need to see that person lost in their "music"... and you can tell a LOT about what they are about when you see what emotional attachment they have with the music they like. And... the thing about music... they can be 100% opposite of your musical likes and it is not a deal breaker because they don't NEED you to be invested into their "music".... Mom/Dad were married for 50+ years and were polar opposites on music choice... Dad loved classic rock and Mom was pure country and they actually ended the marriage the way marraige is SUPPOSED to end... and is the last line in your vowes. Till Death do us part!
If you find you have similar taste in music... GO FOR IT because that alone opens a door into the soul. If you find they are opposite taste in music.... you have something to "tease" her with :) It is a WIN WIN either way :) lol.
A musician can make an audience laugh, excited, cry, sit on the edge of their seat in suspense... and do it all within a SINGLE song if he so chooses.... let that sink in a bit....
Hey I tried to buy verbal game academy but my transaction was declined. So could please give me a link to a secure site
The following MenTaL Box perspective that looks deeper into male character development:
Dignified Man vs Undignified Man/Red Pill Mindset:
A Dignified man will make his money honestly not hurting anyone in the process, and will not bait outwardly beautiful women into his orbit that will not love and respect him for his character. He falls from time to time, but always has a conscience if any of his actions hurt others in the process.
An Undignified man will make his fortune and power play even if it is unethical and hurts others in the process. He will also keep outwardly beautiful women in his life as trophies, not seeing their inner beauty. He will not see the depth of character in himself or anyone else, and have a lack of conscience in how his actions affect others.
Todd, I don't understand what's the point of picking the topic that leads to sex... I could talk about whatever.
All that matters is if the girl is attracted to me and if she goes with me to another location.
There's no point in brining up sex because it's going to happen anyway.
Yeah, that's an extremely stupid thought process. Talking about sex could be your only saving grace in seeing if you're getting laid or not.
@@Something-Waffle only if you're autistic and don't know how to ooze sexual energy without talking about it.
Why would she be attracted to you?
She's going to be more attracted to you if the "chemistry" is there. She's more likely to feel that the chemistry is there if you've had a light, fun, teasing conversation with emotional spikes and some sexual content than if you've had a logical, job interview type conversation with her.
The decision to sleep with a man is a mainly emotional one. This video from Todd was all about the sort of conversational topics that are more likely to get the right sort of emotional feelings for her.
I agree with you 100%. Your vibe, tonality, flow with words, frame in general is what will attract her. As you mention once the attraction is there see will eventually happen. The fact that you bring the sea topic doesn't translate into escalation. You can be flirtatious and inspire the topic as she might understands it.
Bulletpoint/timestamp guy, hit me
You want the editor job?
Past relationships is the grenade you need to ruin an otherwise good date.
Never discuss them.
Keep it ambiguous it's something that Europeans practice and it's not a bad idea people don't like the truth they like comfort and soothsayers.
Todd forgot to talk about financial status. That def gets her interest. " What square metrerage is your house?" was a recent one here, lol :-)))))
This town is just my imagination and all my friends are just the different ways it is to be me. And the goal of the game is to get them to like each other so we can all do something important together. But I don't know what it is yet and besides they don't even get along. 😮💨😢
Great video 👍
You said do thing close to your home. Have you ever been to Rhode island before. Lol.
It may have value for an average Joe, but... I always have been very passionate about common good and politics, and I find few things more boring, than "traveling" (let's be honest, it's mostly plain tourism). What I mean, being yourself is most important. So, if you are interested in current events and could not care less, where did she go to overpay for food, more power to you.
"Stories of what happened at after parties", I've never been to an afterparty, I kind of hate parties because I enjoy my alone time and don't drink.
Brilliant ❤
My hero
I am like the most logical person ever socially, coming from computer science, so this explains why I've never got anywhere close to this stuff and am so bad at flirting. Also I generally don't keep track of stories from places I've been and things I've done I'm a very point to point do thing then thing person so I don't generally have any stories to tell or at least I can't conceive of a way to turn things I've done into stories, also I generally mute my own harsher emotions, I mean I am passionate, but not in a way that motivates me to wax poetic. Also my PhD major is going to be political science XD I just know how to never get a girl I guess
my go to topic: Sex
jk just create inuendo on normal conversations. you'll be fine boys
it's actually a lot harder to keep a girl than to pick up one
The lighting here makes todd look grey
Todd couldn't boundaries and comfort levels be used as a disqualifier then??
Todd, my dating has really taken off. I have my own place and recently have been given an opportunity to move cities in with my dad.
I don't want to give up my dating life to save up $40,000 over 2 years. But... it could help me jump start a business or something. I am 30 years old and have made all my bills. Could you make a video on the magnitude you think a man's dating life will be affected by moving back in with parents, and how to navigate it if you do, and if it is really worth it. I can live comfortably here but not really save that much at all. The cities would be from stl to Charlotte. Thank you