How I Convey High Value Every Time (As an Average Guy)
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- Value is literally the most important factor in being attractive, which is why I made an entire course on it:
www.toddvmaste...
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Not the flashiest infield approach ever, but I really think it's a good lesson in subtlety and value. Hopefully you enjoy it and learn from it. The entire interaction, including the texts to get her on a date, are at www.toddvmasterclass.com which is at a huge discount for a very limited time!
Thanks master
Todd you're my personal hero! Would higly appreciate (and I bet my life the community too) if you'd make a 'tutorial' of how to get threesomes or 2 girlfriends or 'impossible' stuff like that
Is the Value Masterclass link broken? I purchased but after logging in and clicking Enter Program, it takes me to Todd V home page
the video infield just proves that its easier than most people think if you actually go out of your house and practice
of course maybe just maybe in the west young women are more confident and ok with their sexuality which makes it a bit easier than in most part of the world but in the end its about being detached emotionally about the outcome and screening her if she meets your criteria or not (qualifying)
Todd is one of the best in my opinion even better than natural lifestyles because there are technical mistakes that need to be addressed if the client or student wants to go beyond numbers game (talking with 1000 and getting in bed let's say 5 of them)
being yourself is just relying on luck has nothing to do with persuasion or being professional
watched his free program on his website highly valuable even if its free and practical as well
I literally come from watching the infield on hooking-up sets in your Daygame program and this was like a natural follow-up to the topic, except you look a bit older now and your voice has changed with time, nevertheless, you're still rocking it 💖
High value behaviors:
0:47 Speak in a relaxed manner, don't make a big deal of talking to a beautiful girl
1:25 Stay loose, in the moment, present
1:55 Speak authentically, offer value to the conversation
3:03 Pass the hot girl shit test, take risks, be ok with her being offended
4:35 Cocky/arrogant frame
5:29 Convey high value elements of your life naturally
6:04 Take risks, polarize, make it man to woman
6:28 She will laugh and blush at simple things if she's convinced you're high value
6:49 Say what you do for a living without trying hard
8:47 Misinterpret questions as compliments, show you can handle yourself in the world
10:04 Tease
10:50 Screening for logistics, make time constraints to ease pressure
12:21 Casual tone, not a big deal, used to talking to girls like her
12:42 Humble brag covertly, assume the close
13:24 Is she concerned about how you perceive her, tease to inject fun and emotion
14:13 No Instagram
15:00 Qualify her, pretty face not enough, identify why you like her beyond her looks
16:35 Do not make her your first priority, have a life outside of her
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
@@michaelmclaughlin7399 why laughing and crying?
Thanks G
So mechanical. Impossible to not be in your head.
@@ceeIoc how its not that complicated
Todd is a really good person. Once I met him in the Bungalow Santa Monica. I told him that I watched his videos regularly. He was nice and asked me if I need help. As he was middle of coaching I let it go.
Thanks Todd.
That's so cool. Todd help me a lot too and Happy you showed him the respect. Have a good day my guy
Haha that's awesome that he asked you if you needed help, I've never heard of any "e-celebs" offering to EXTEND an interaction with a fan.
That’s awesome. Bungalow was great vibes when I stopped there. It definitely had a moment like 5-6 years ago. Is it still popular?
He was gonna rizz you up
I swear to god, Todd's carrying the pick up community on his back!
The thing is he’s a pick up artist without using pick up lines. He’s a goat
Does anybody know who the girl is?
It's cuz of the idea of formats he came up with. Such a legendary moment for those that have stuck with technical game. You come up with your own authentic line, but at the technical correct way, and structured a line correctly. All in the moment. To me that's Todd's secret ninja style LOL
You're totally right.
Absolutely. All other puas talk bulshit and perished .only Todd is still going strong
That infield was going so well even the homeless person picked up on your value.
lol
A homeless person would pick up on anyone's value other than other homeless people
@@victor4692 It's a joke pekkerhead. Calm down
PU never died. Theres no excuses, when pick up was banned a few years ago it gave people an excuse to give up in dating. But Todd has kept this alive
It’ll come back. Online dating is too saturated and hot girls still prefer to be approached in person. I actually just got with an rsd mentor recently. Now that I’m financially set. I need to complete the rest of my life. I don’t want to settle.
...banned ?
Society is too skeptical and gaslights dating coaches that they're "manipulative". Like, they are literally some of the best people to ask advice from when you're insecure, have bad social skills, or just aren't hitting it off with women. Society calls it being fake, but the reality is, you're gradually being the better version of yourself.
@@TheSongofSaya fax
@@palnagok1720apparently approaching women in public with the intentions of dating has been banned 😅
The problem is, Todd is not actually “average” by definition. He’s a successful entrepreneur and world traveler, which already sets him apart from most “average” men. Average looks, yes. But that’s about the only average thing about him 😂
Yup. Instead of conveying value most guys should focus on actually having value.
Most single guys with a salaried job can afford two overseas trips per year. Four days in Paris can be done for under 3k. And anyone can set up a side hustle and be an 'entrepreneur'.
@@nicholasbailey6236 successful as in wealthy. He also has a lot of online clout and has been featured on talk shows. He is not average at all. Average is Joe who lives in Kansas and sells insurance and makes 50K a year
Yea, you can appear to be of x value but if you're looking for anything more than just short term hookups then having stuff going on is important@@lucasinator
@@nicholasbailey6236 Again most average guys don't do what you're describing
Not having instagram is about the highest value thing an individual can do for himself.
But women nowadays live online. If a woman cannot comprehend not having social media - that’s a potential red flag for the future. Sure you can meet sure have sex maybe even sexual relationship but a girlfriend wife etc big nope for me. You will be losing to her phone most of the time 😂
Todd you are literally the best. The thing I like the most about your channel is as a guy who isn't looking to sleep around or pickup lots of girls, all your advice still applies. I am looking for a serious monogamous relationship but you have now put me in the frame where I genuinely feel like I can demonstrate value and choose whoever I want, as opposed to settling for whatever comes my way. Not red pill, not blue pill, but the Todd pill!
This is priceless! Amazing subtle interaction with A LOT to learn from with the best possible breakdown.
Todd is the living proof that you don't need to be flashy or over the top to be successful in game.
Great infield as usual. Your analysis is of course useful and beneficial with gaining better understanding what you do in a set and why. However, I'd love for you to teach how to generate the verbal game that you do. Spotting the verbal elements in someone's set and being able to generate similarly effective content in real time are very different things, with the latter being 100x more difficult. I feel that even VGA, as good as it is, provides merely a general introduction into verbal game structure but missing 95% of what's actually practically needed to generate the kind of verbal competence that you possess.
you will notice n a lot of footage he uses similar lines because if you do a lot of approaches, you will see similar situations pop up. think about lines you hear all the time and think up responses for those lines in future also in the evenings think about your approaches and how you could have done them better, don.t get down on yourself about them just make a note for the future. learning improv can also help and just keeping your eye open for things you can misinterpret.
Attracting a women deals with inner strength of a soul. It’s directly associated to strength of each individuals heart. The inner light that luminates a soul is the true reflection of a man’s outer being. If the inner being is weak, deceased, sinful, and lost then the outer being reflects weak immune that leads to low value, weak, low frame men.
We human beings are created by Allah and Allah Is light. He luminates his light to every human soul (heart) until dooms day. Every heart is tested on a yearly basis and given strength or weakness from its previous years based on its purity on earth.
For example, when a man indulges in a lot of illegal sexual intercourse the inner being weakens as a result his outer frame becomes weak, non alpha year by year and his immune system, brain strength, heart strength weakens. Man dreams of becoming high value man by going to the gym or practising pickup through dating coaches in the process he is darkening his heart and mind, getting weak year by year.
Research on Quran, human creation, purpose, soul purification, inner light, soul at state of obedience, soul desiring nothing.
Masterbation, sex, impure wealth, unhealthy food, bad diet, not fasting all of this leads to spritisum disease weakening of a soul.
So no matter how strong a man looks on the outside, a women can see through a mans inside strength and choose you as a partner or not on that basis. Focus on 7 years of self purification, religious devotee, spiritual soul and heart purification then eventually when time comes you will attain a higher value keeper girl for long term relationship which leads to marriage and a happy sinless life. Otherwise, remain a loser for life following these fake money milking so called Puas cashing out from weak diseased souls. ☺️
A pure soul that looks normal on the outside scores a 10/10 girlfriend or wife whereas a weak six packed man soul can’t score a 6/10 for life except for maybe (one night stands) out of lust. lol
Deceptive pick ups are short term and has no long term changes to a man. He goes back to his weak inner frame which is reality of his life.
Real success is purify and devotees to god then when time comes you attain a pure spouse or a companion for life who is as pure as you!
It’s not your money, look that decides your success with women. It’s your non desire for women and being pure from sins that leads to successful strong alpha women for marriage ! Period.
Regards
Awliya Muhammad Musthakeem Ali
Todd, this is the first real-life scenario analysis that I've ever seen among the YTube dating channels. Well done! It makes it *so* much easier to see the flow when you show the entire interaction and point out the different sentences, reactions, and reasons that you said what you said. Very well done! I will watch your other videos to see if you do this again. IMHO, the dating space needs much more real-life content like this. The classic books and even the new books are helpful, but there is nothing like watching a real interaction as it unfolds. Thank you for your work.
Take a drink when Todd says "You have the most expressive face"
Quit drinking and get some more sleep and you will become more healthy and attractive Todd! Also, wear sunscreen every day, med-spf and for sensitive skin works best! It will clear your face up and make you ageless. Thank you for another excellent and informative video. Can't wait to get out there and apply some of this.
lol, i was gonna say this
Don't use sunscreen, just eat more red meat and less processed food.
@@railanderabsolutely use sun screen
so you bash him and then mentioned a little positive comment, why you hating bro?
I have a feeling he's deliberately not trying to be stereotypically attractive, as it helps with his message. Hopefully it won't affect his health in the long term though.
He's older & shorter but he still makes it work... Thats game!
what i love about todd is that he gives very practical advice! Now more then ever men need guidance.. it's much more difficult for the general average guy out there
LMAO Todd not giving his instagram bc it goes to his dating coaching job
Todd: Hey What's up?
Also Todd: You see what I did there? I placed the Hey just before the what's up to indicate to the girl that it doesn't matter what the order is but what matters is how the words are ordered. It's true that sometimes the up and What can be a little intimidating, but adding that question marks takes the pressure away and demonstrates that I am not afraid to walk away.
Yes. And his carefully calibrated breathing pattern assures her that he is indeed a land-dwelling organism. No catfish here!
made my day
so much for some box
Yeah he’s very good at analyzing the nuances he finds most important. But probably most important thing to learn is not trying to try and copy how he is and what he does but to let us know the frame of interaction that is welcome to other people, talking to women or not.
Hey Todd, I haven't watched your videos in a long time but that's because they helped me in a fundamental way to achieve my dream girl and generally be a very cool guy that is instantly popular anywhere i go. I just understood your energy at some point and my life unfolded very advantageously from there on. Your videos are still very good and informative, but I got most of the concepts nailed down and I will continue building my life with my gf, I think by placebo the energy also improved my looks objectively but thats a different (speculative) topic. Thank you for the effort!
Todd still putting out new infields, thats why he is one of the GOATs of the game
Another video that gives tones of value to all gamers who are willing to keep advancing their game. More snippets like this Todd. Thank you!!
Genius insights! So much value in 1 video, entire philosophy even! xD
Todd is proving in this recording that with right game you can fix a date with a girl that’s much taller than you.
The girl can be tall, you just cant be short lol
@@rbenoit1978 Todd V. is 5"7'.
@@rbenoit1978i've known girls who were attracted to me who were quite tall im talking 5'11 plus and im average height so its possible as long as u got everything else handled
@@rbenoit1978 Todd is shorter than her, and is often shorter than the women he is successful with in his videos
@@Cmez872 Todd is shorter yes, but he isn't a "Short Dude" as in like 5'4"
It would be helpful that you add the full uninterrupted set to the end of each video (obvs still silence personal details).
Blackpillers: Looks and height are all that matter
Todd: *posts this*
While I agree let’s not forget that you can have the best conversation and then she flakes.
This is a good example no doubt but results will vary.
In my experience. Instagram could be she just need a new follower and not a real close🤦🏽♂️
What a f ing legend you are, you are the definition of a winner
And your body language is so inviting, relax and opened. So important. Thank you for demystifying the difficulties of talking to strangers, mainly women and to not put them on a pedestal… doesn’t have to be difficult. We’re all humans.
Again, thank you Todd.
Hey Todd I watched your The System Program and took notes, now I will apply it to my life
"I don't do Instagram, I find it too addictive".
We have a God, his name is Todd!
If you can tell a girl you're a crypto investor and still get laid, that's the ultimate flex.
I think this might be footage from a year ago, when crypto was still "cool"
Why? Invsting now in crypto is the most easy thing to do to get rich.
@@robbertag808 you clearly need to watch any video from Coffeezilla to realize most of crypto is hype and scammers
@@robbertag808 30% tax bro
@@robbertag808No you're just betting that the next sucker will pay more for what you bought. It's a gamble, crypto has no real world value.
I f**king love the cover picture of this video, so funny!
Love you Todd, your manifestos gave me a ton of value when I was having the most success like 8-9 years ago, appreciate you!
Vocal tone and speed were very good. Body language had some insecurity.
Could you try this just for the lads who don't have land, and x amount of thousands in the bank? I have a funny feeling she wouldn't have been so interested if you worked on a building site? Or does working in a building site, only give you enough value for a not so "valuable" woman?
Thanks for the help so far, you've made my dating 400% better! 💯👌🏼👊🏼
you think women just want good "games" from men? a man should NOT choke on the red pill.
Telling a girl that you "invest" as a career is just you literally telling her you are rich but don't work lol
Every word, every gesture speaks about your value!!!
Value means not material things... value means a healthy person that is a promiss to good future.
Love your comment!
@@clark.w4695 thanks
as well! love high value
Dang my guy you do this very well. I know it didn’t happen over night there must been a bunch of trails and tribulations on the way to get here. Congrats
Todd says 'fair enough' quite often.
Ive got to question your interpretation of her "nervous laugh" being because of (soley) her perceiving you as high value. Because She was backing away from you the entire set. That body language does not match her thinking you would be an advanatge to her life.
Did you get a response or any further with her?
This is exactly what I saw. He stepped her direction and she stepped away. She also wanted to give her instagram and not her number. Instagram is easy to ignore and block...if a woman creates distance between you and her, it's not a good body language sign. However, that wasn't a long interaction and I think women need some time to warm up enough to feel comfortable and not back away. A woman who has her legs crossed is displaying a defensive posture. But what i did notice was that she asked questions too. Even if women are trying to be nice in talking to a man she isn't interested in, I don't believe she is going to do anything to further extend the amount of time talking to someone she doesn't like or have interest in. It's always complex. I also do not believe that a 24 year old woman is super excited to go date a 40 year old guy when she damn well can go get many guys her age. What I will say is that Todd did a good job of seeming relaxed and making eye contact. This stuff is NEVER for all situations. Remember that you can never say or do the right thing for the wrong woman no matter how good of game you have and that's perfectly ok! Good Luck out there!
This one video is pretty much an action plan for any kind of day game interaction. Now I just need to come up with a nice wrap for my boring but not a completely uninteresting lifestyle so I could convey a high value. Appreciated.
This was interesting, but I'm more interested in if you are really buying farmland?
9:09 - she hesitates with her left foot and automatically goes into locking them(which means her conscious mind was hesitant for a split sec, but her subconscious mind was 100% into Todd and she anchored herself into this interaction, by locking her feet. Also, it shows that she hearing about his job/business, his age and everything else, for her those were solid signals he is high value, because to most women older men are instinctively high value, and if they back it up you 100% in their... well, it will depend on you of course ;) ).
High value = betabuxx
I am brand new but I can tell you, this guy knows his shit. This man has TALENT
Ut just great man! Great teacher, learned tons from you
Foreign women consider America to be a high status country so that was a High Value win for Todd since he's an American citizen. Also New York is considered one of the best cities in the world and Todd went out of his way to tell her he's from New York. He was essentially DHVing the whole time. No different from a guy talking to a girl telling her he works with Chris Brown and Drake
Not how it works bud. Lol being an american citizen doesnt automatically make you appear higher value than a women just cuz she's visiting from outside the country. If that was the case every average frustrated chump would be cleaning up with tourists. If you look dorky, trashy, boring, unspectacular her default impression of you won't be positive. You would have to influence her opinion through your conversation and expressions
@@PeterParkerwonyou could look however you want if you’re Sean O’ Pry
Personally, i think all American guys in foreign countries should say NYC, Miami or LA. Even Canadians.
A healthy bank account and plans to increase income are certainly of value too.
it's important to mention something other than crypto when asked what you invest in. crypto alone usually conveys that you are broke and don't kno wwhat you are doing with money.
Pretty good stuff! Thanks!
Thanks for explaining the sequence of the interaction; very insightful!.
I note also your body language & stance here are good. You're standing to her side - not front or in any way that physically blocks her movement - guys mess this up sometimes if they're not aware.
I love how you answered the age question too! I'm going to steal that! : )
Todd loves the word elegant lol
Dear Todd, Thanks for helping. Before 2021 I' m in depression because when ever i visited any place i saw only couples. I got into depression for an year and couldn't focus on anything. But then i saw ur videos and slowly came out of depression because unlike other pua coaches ur content is 100% of what works real time and hence it helped me a lot in interactions with women
Same situation like me brother. I ended up getting a woman thanks to Todd lol. I got married and now I have a 4-month old baby.
congratulations @@whereeveritgoes
omg, my hero, granny todd
Great video. If you're stuck in your game, consider doing a boot camp. I recently did a boot camp and it changed my game and I'm having way more success since. Thanks Todd!
The Agassi racket in the back ! So historic
Totally didn’t think you were 40. 💪🏽
Going hard outside Harrods!
hes good at it, i can be good when im in a high energy mood and women really respond well but its hard maintaining that, im moody, borderline depressed anxious etc so i only have some monents where im in a goid mood and thats when my game is great
asking for insta is usually a light brush off or she wants to check you imo
Dude. I have SO many things going against me, I don’t even know where to even start. I was aware that not having social media could be looked at as bad, but now I’m really worried.
Hey there, please don’t allow this to change who U truly R! she’s 24yrs old he’s 40 yrs old trying to act like a 24yr old, even this age will tell U this is ok & U be better off for not being part of this fake world 🫣Stay grounded& honest 🤨😉the right girl will come& U will B more appreciative of what life has put in your life than the fake cites always looking happy when deep down we all know this is a tough life, & we have our bad days 🥴🤔we all know how life really is!😉😜stay true to U✌️🦋
Great video and breakdown!
Thanks Todd!
I'm in contact with one guy who didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, and while he says happy that he finally managed to get one.
He says he's will feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, still has bitterness in him because of how he feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth or didn't have the traditional dating timeline like people are normally expected to do.
Yet people and society still think men have it better than women do when it's more common for men than for women to still be single or to have never been in a relationship by a certain age or decade.
It should be obvious as to why it's more common for men than it is for women to reach a certain age or reach a certain decade on to have always been alone and to have never had a romantic sexual partner before.
I definitely feel them because I feel my situation was similar to his it which I didn't have a girlfriend until late in life.
oh poor soul. he didnt go through divorce leaving all real eatste and half his belongings and his to his tradewifu
Same here 36 and still nothing.
@@vdl3984 unfortunately I'm going to assume you mean that you're still single as in you've never dated or never had a girlfriend before
@@nobodysperfect06 You assumed correctly.
@@vdl3984 cases like you piss me off and make me angry because it's a reminder that they are male-dominated
What about body language? If I ever have my legs crossed or leaning on one leg like Todd did here I feel weak, I feel low value.
this channel is gold
Just have this video on TH-cam, over and over again. It’ll click eventually. Just value here
And then she ghosted him lol But good performance Todd! haha
Most guys will end up having a conversation with her in less than 2 minutes. So what?
I mean he said he'll show the texts which lead them to meet. So they probably met
Instagram is a double-edged sword...
How is the camera guy not spotted lol
I really liked this video I was overthinking and interaction with a girl that I had that I'm interested in and I believed I had fumbled horrifically. but seeing todd here told me it wasn't so bad since it looked something similar to this
ME with my note book taking notes
But how can a 40 year old guy who's not super tall and super attractive pick up a beautiful 23 year old?! Impossible! 😅😅😅
I have a question Todd: Why didn't you try a disqualifier like when she mentioned her age like you could have said something like "You are cute but you are kinda too young for me I dont know if we will get along" with a smirk kind of line since she's a hot girl and she doesnt hear that often from guys? Hope you answer me. I view you as a mentor and want to learn from you. Also is there a reason you didnt give her a hug at the end? Thank you Todd!!
fr a hug!? After that momentum, just no. Physical contact sure, like when taking his phone back or just after a light touch on the arm while reaffirming plans
Crypto investor 😂 thanks for the video mate! Love your content
Lol he tried to AMOG Todd 😆
Here to say the thumbnail wins everything
I would like to see Todd use the wealthy/well-traveled cards less. Money is too strong of an attractor
Yes, he spoke value on top of the relaxed attitude he had which is good. But when throing out buzzwords "investor", "buying and" " I can help you in the major cities", all of this is conveying money.
Since Todd is at the Pinacle of being an artist, I wonder what his rejection rate in day game openers.
God this guy is quick on his feet (as in thinking).
'You don't have instagram, that's weird'..................
Nope it's not, being an Instagram addict is sad !
Keep calm and carry on.
Getting more & more experienced with time 😅
Thanks man!! A ton of value. How did you learn to manage your emotions like that? cool like ice.
I love seeing the infield
what about your body language , Todd? I think you are mirroring her, but looks a little bit jittery towards the end? but I think that's totally okay, but should one eleminate this ?
Yeah, that’s how we played the game in the streets of Gotham decades ago, you had seconds to meet the girl on the subway or the street, gotta be quick. Humor and quick wit will pay off. Waz up LES!
insane analysis bro. i understand and can do most of this but some arent automatic, like not getting exited or reactive/ sold when she gives in a bit.
the problem i find is that maybe this while might be easy to do short term, is it the same process to convey it long term when you get more challenging questions? because i have a normal job for example, not a great social life despite i have friends and i'm not successful in life.
thanks Todd this is a video made for study not just to watch for fun.
this is for a hookup/one night stand. Long term you can't casually "lie".
to me she seemed not interested n just wanted an IG follow. And not having IG doesnt mean you're not popular, wtf, it means you're a grown man who has a life.
I’m curious how someone would approach me, I don’t like compliments at all or people commenting on my appearance in an obvious way.
Yesterday a cashier asked me if I just came from work. I thought that was such a good way to start a conversation. In my opinion he was kind of putting me down a little bit like I looked like I just got off work but also he’s probably gonna find out where I work or what I was doing today and other things. By the way I was not dressed like I just came off of work I had a T-shirt and pants
Wait, what? You don’t go to work in T shirt and pants? That’s crazy😂
Tom Torero came from the lover frame ,when girl asked what he did he would joke and say he was homeless etc didn't tell them too much about his job
Can you please do a video on what is and how to seed, and how to know when the emotions are going up to escalate or close
I think the most interesting thing from this video was his nonverbal cues were solid. and tonality was great, but there was no physical touch. I guess I would’ve just expected some thing on the outro.
Got the update Todd. I’m animated like you at 8:02 when I do game. Does it make my results worse?
Man left her without giving hug lol
She kinda shut you down bro trying to put you off to the insta when you asked for her number. Just sayin ;)
I don’t need to know, coz I’ve watched too many videos and done zero approaches . It’s my fault.
Todd , u should adopt the old dad frame instead of comming off as being closer to her age
At the risk of sounding low value
What about a girl of a different culture and a language I do not understand…
Lol
Maybe she changed me
Like Bruce Willis in that movie assassin as he was
You do realize that you came across as a high-value guy because she's 23 yo European girl and you're a rich American, right?
"I'm Todd, I'm from New York!"