How to Create Sexual Tension in 60 Seconds or Less
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ค. 2024
- Most guys struggle to create sexual tension EVER, let alone 60 seconds. Learning this will put you at a massive advantage in game.
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📑Outline
00:00 - Intro
00:20 - Sexual relevance
01:30 - Uncertainty
02:00 - Validation
02:20 - Investment
02:50 - Resistance and Rejection
03:50 - Opener 1
06:30 - Opener 2
09:40 - Line 1
13:50 - Line 2
16:15 - An important note…
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This is much needed. I feel bad for men that were given the wrong information about women (from mostly women) that "the key to a woman heart is to be her friend first". They only say that in the moment because the bad boy they tried to change didn't change for them.
agree, also if you set yourself in the friend zone even if you're attractive, it's hard to change their mindset of he is my friend
Agreed and most women take a long time to make them comfortable its a friendzone route which may take a year to get into a relationship
The friend thing is totally bollocks. Happened to me once when my crush told me that I was her 'best male buddy'. I was so brainwashed from the videos that you mentioned that I actually thought this was going good for me😂.
@@user-lm6pg5ug5q i got tons of female friends they single im single we have casual sex no feelings best thing ever
What do you mean with “this”? This video?
another playful sentence to use after some attraction has been built is: "what I am going to do with you?" told at the right time with a smirk, ladies melt when they hear this sentence...
Damn underrated af this comment
Right off the bat I let a woman know what I’m thinking. Usually it’s with a look. I used to waste time trying to start up a conversation, breaking the ice, etc. but now I’m at a place where I just want to cut through the BS.
My ex showed me through her reactions what worked the best and this manly straightforward stuff just works the best.
Whoaaa a FORMULA. I don't think anybody's done this before. I can get my head around this and use it in interactions in the moment. LOVE these tactical breakdowns!
Great to see sexual tension broken down into those factors.
Interesting to experiment with the lines to see the aspects working live.
I really believe Todd is the best in this TH-cam section of teaching game. So articulate, straight to the point, great examples including real life footage . Yet it always surprises me that he only has 250k subs..maybe that’s why many men struggle cuz only so few are interested in developing their game while other don’t know how to behave around a woman
His far superior to Corey Wayne
@@southeastmissourihypnosisf8418 you just argued with OP, by agreeing with OP... thats crazy bro.
In my experience, most men are ignorant and too arrogant to want to learn how to actually talk to girls.
Ex: I’ve been learning from Todd and RSD max when he was with RSD since I was 17. When I was 19 I was working at this pizza place and saw one of my co workers seemed to get a girl in the line smiling. I asked “why didn’t you go for the number?”
He replied, “I don’t think she was interested.” I replied “bro seemed like she was a little interested all you had to do was pursue a little bit.” He ignorantly and arrogantly replied, “bro I think I have a little more experience than you dude I don’t need your help.”
I then asked his body count and turned out he was a 30 year old virgin and I was 19 with more than 10. But I could see that he was too prideful to take my advice, so I just let him be ignorant and said good luck loser 😂 in the end.
I can't decide if I love you or hate you?
Her: why?
Me:...*oh sh*t, they ddnt prepare me for this*
😆😆😆
Top notch content. Top notch editing. Todd, I hope you're paying your editor fairly. hehe
Although all those effects and inserts could be slowed down a bit in some sections, otherwise it can be distracting.
Todd's working on production for sure. New videos look fresh, even the thumbnails are getting better.
And great video editing
I wonder did he master the editing himself? Or somebody does it for him… his is around 40 now so probably not easy to learn all these editing tricks when you are not so young
@@Jaa_morant I'm almost sure that he hired a professional video editor and this guy does his work well. It's a pretty thorough job
@@victorb7578 probably. Honestly I prefer putting a phone in a pocket and just listening to Todd while going somewhere. There is no much need in visual effects for me personally. I feel he maybe should do them for the first minute just to hook those who are new to his channel and then after 1 minute they will stay anyways cuz by that time they will realise he s giving value.
Todd's doing a bang up job with his videos! I've been out of the dating game for several years and need some brushing up. I'm 65 and hope to meet women 1/3 to 1/2 my age, now that means I better really brush up, maybe scrub hard.
I’m 58 and thinking maybe two thirds my age. It’s hard to get serious candidates on dating apps. Where do you go?
To get a woman 1/3 your age at 65, you're going to need to move to a different country...
One of the best if not the best video I've seen that explains sexual tension in a way that makes sense and most people can understand. Fantastic breakdown!!!
Good information quality edits 💯💯Thank you for your contributions to the sphere Todd.
I remember once saying, "It looks like we've become aware of each other's existence. Maybe we should do something about that." Of course, that only works if she's noticed you and made no secret of it.
yea thats too much of a mouthful, maybe you can simplify it? i had to read that twice to even understand what you were saying
This video was absolutely amazing! so much content, so much info, and you gave good examples...Todd thank you for the video and for sharing
i love the way u articulated yourself thru this video, earned a sub. here for knowledge
It comes down to how you say it also, voice, tonality, eye contact etc.
I usually create that kind of tension talking asking the girl's sign during the conversation and somehow implying that it's not a good sign for a relationship or to hookup with or whatever. By experience I find it to be a frame that girls tend to accept a lot cause usually they like that topic, and it tends to make them validate themselves to you proving that they're sign is good. Of course it helps if you know at least a little bit about that topic, but trust me, it works wonders!
Love that this dropped right before me going out.
And you decided to stay home?
@@androiddevice6102 no
Todd is a person. I respect that.
"A girl could reject, anything, technically." Actually, I have proven this.
😂
great one bro
High value effect added to video was cool
Shit is so complicated bruh. How did 100 billion humans had sex without a single youtube tutorial ?
This is the new era of mating my guy. Women are more pickier and has more options than any other generation in human history, us men have to have advance game or you won’t get any pussy. Having little game ain’t going to cut it no more.
Lmao
go ahead and click off this video then
Hahahahahahaa it’s not there are a lot of bullshit women out there. Some will just love you it’s rare but it happens
Indeed haha
In my opinion, if she likes you shouldn't have to do all this. Running game only works on low value women that are easy. Operate with a sense of urgency and close the deal.
1. Hey what's your name?
2. You look beautiful.
3. Where are you going/I'm going to (sorry I can't talk because I'm busy doing something more important than talking to you)
4. Get number.
5. Exit.
Todd is an Einstein of game
Very helpful ❤
Too much games. I will stay single 😂
Haha i think the same although all people say this doesn't mean every girl should be like that i got bad feedback by following people say what about how to contact girls
I think woman should understand that boys which are playing obvious games with them are simply manipulating them. BUT on the time, women which are not super attraktive and showing me to easy that they are attracted to me, I am also not attracted to them. So I want the same game too. It’s ridiculously difficult.
Ok more for me👍
What do you say if they answer: why won’t we get along? Or to the second line if they ask why?
Todd excellent video!!! One question,can these lines specifically work great for texting as well?
So is a tshirt really better than a shirt for pickup?
What do you say after she asks why to the we won’t get along line
jokes aside i listen this guy in 2019 and 20 i really level up my game so well. but those skills are not becoming natural easily you need to review time to time
Hey so ive been noticing my interactions have been a little to platonic and feels like they lack direction even when going well, what program would you say is best for me to look into?
The system.
Also learn to show premise/intent early in the set. Learn some lines like.
You look cute.
You're adorable.
You have a cute smile.
I love you hair.
Etc
Yep, The System systembytodd.com was designed for exactly this issue, which is one of the absolute most common sticking points guys have.
About uncertainty and investment;
Did "the system provide" formats and exercises/examples?
Theres a good place in heaven waiting for todd
Where come from these clips out there ?
Thanks for sharing, Todd. I'm curious to know why do you think if you told her she's cute in a relaxed way she's gonna be sure she can have you? Doesn't seem obvious to me. Following this logic, why even approach her at all, cause it's a clear sign you want something from there.
Todd you were kinda meek and boring back when you were with RSD but you've grown to be imo the best PU teacher and PUA in the game today, you're the main guy I pattern my game after mostly then everyone else
What's an actually good/playful "reason" for the "not getting along" line when the girl asks "why do you think that?" ? I can't really think of a good reason, everything that comes to mind feels like it's going to have a negative undertone and a negative effect on the overall mood of the conversation.
-We're too similar
-Too much awesome in one place
-Just a feeling I get...
-We could be very distracting for each other
etc etc etc
@@ToddVDating Okay, these are really good, thanks!
"Hey, i noticed you looking at me, and I'm just letting you know its going to take a lot more to get me to take my pants off"
try that, and God willing
you will end up catching a case
Brilliant as always!
Mystery said that he watch at game from scientific perspective, BUT TODD GAME is real scientific perspective))
Investment and rejection are so called mediator variables. If you redesign your model and make investment and rejection mediators your model will be even better at explaining sexual tension.
Excellent breakdown of sexual tension
So many good nuggets in this video; however, you have to filter through the extra 10 mins of superfluous word salad to extract the best stuff
What camera are you using if I may ask? The quality is phenomenal
Arriflex has some pretty dope cameras. The older ones uses film. I doubt you can afford it. Oh, wait, the camera Todd is using? I've no idea!
It gets to a point for me that all this just im becomes too much work and I’d rather play video games than play American ninja warrior with these hos feelings
This is a great channel…. Thanks
I should’ve learned this video before I went to the club, I’m a fast learner
Todd, this great but can you give some examples of common responses she could give you and your comebacks for the last two openers?
That second line requires some good confidence
Good video
Legendary
make her laugh, be bold, get comfy and speak slowly and with a deep voice, body language reinforcing your confidence, be flirty, NEVER let an OPPORTUNITY scapes you guys! If you miss it you may lose the girl, sometimes she creates the opportunity for you to grab it.
I agree though Make her laugh is the hard part
Lol at the end chad keep wining.
This is so true!! I'm a very sexual person but my ex constantly asked for sex without any foreplay or tease or anything. I had to reject him multiple times and that just made me lose interest in it even more.
So I asked a woman in a store her opinion on soap sponges. She laughed , smiled and said I don't know much about them. Then she asked me about paper towels and I gave her a definite solid recommendation . We said a few other words briefly and then I smiled and said very casually "since I'll probably never see you again I'm safe so if you don't like my recommendation its no skin off my nose." To this she instantly said " well I work at XXXXXXX and asked me where I worked. I told her and then we parted . I'm going to wait a while and then drop by where she works but I'm having trouble thinking how to explain it. Any ideas ?
where did she work?
A local Quick Mart
Jus drop in then
the more u overthink it the more problemtic you’ll find it
She’s clearly interested if she told you where she works. Attraction does have an expiration date though I’d say you go in there tomorrow and be clear about your intentions
Would this also apply to latinas and blacks ladies?
How do you attract a girl you see regularly already without showing premise? Because showing premise creates the opportunity for rejection it makes more sense to passively attract her first, but what is the most efficient and effective way of doing that?
Talk to her like you do to a girl you're not interested in. Tease her and be playful.
Just be fun to be around, but also make sure you don't simp. Tease her a little, make fun of something she says or does every now and then. Don't be an ass, it a dangerous game.
th-cam.com/video/uAZ7F_rBxAc/w-d-xo.html
I play a game where I tell the girl I noticed her checking me out. The confusion it creates takes down the normal bitc* shield.
Lol I like that
If she wasn’t checking you out, then it creates no confusion
@@jdrumz321ify well it’s a good thing I’m not approaching you 😀…but seriously yeah I get it…we’re dudes we’re logical and deductive thinkers…it’s harder to throw us off. Thank god i never have to approach a dude
Do these things work for women who are over 40? 50?
Is it possible to create doubt in a relationship. Seems like that would suggest traditional relationships can't have tension
At least a guy that don't seams strange, thanks!
By accident agreed
These videos are sometimes too technical (for me). Is there a forum where I can explore these topics in more depth? I'll have to watch the video more than once with a notepad 😅
Then watch them with a notepad. If you purchased Todd’s products, study the content & go out regularly, the. These videos won’t seem that technical anymore.
Bruh not gonna lie somtimes these guys make this sht over complicated too the point we’re it’s like why even bother??
that’s why I watch denmo he keep it real
@@Cornhop I just asked if there's an online community somewhere, and you're here shaming me for not buying something I can't afford. Gfy
Remember, there is technical game and natural game. Todd teaches mostly the technical side.
But the natural side is more loose , free flowing and alot of the technical aspects fix themselves when you get in the zone.
I think Todd’s material is best for guys that are already going out and working on smaller technical sticking points. Although he does cover everything. It’s just a detailed version.
Very few men have natural ability with women. So there is no market for those men as they don't seek out this content.
It's all about being a responsible assertive dominant strong man that's a leader being to nice with out boundaries is to boring for women. Fellas know when to walk away from women that aren't interested being pursued for a relationship getting rejected is hard life goes on even when placed in the friend zone. Keep in mind women are comfortable with men that are assertive dominant more than being overly nice to them as women get older their smv value in the dating market decrease also don't be the clean up man fitting the bill for another man's kids and irresponsibly.
:) nice vid but i prefer the nice guy lines. The other lines you mentioned are too funky /spicy: here in italy girls would be like "what does this guy want??"
Julien was good max was good but Todd actually went deep
I owe thy Todd, the good life
Hey Todd I’m talking to a girl that just got out of a five year relationship but she wants to take things slow and get to know each other as friends first because things are moving too fast. How do I approach this situation
Don’t listen to that bullshit. She’s lying. Women always rebound so much faster than men and get ready to check out a lot earlier. Meaning she’s had time to get over him. Go after what you want and realize you’re worth it no matter how it goes.
She will steer you forever if you allow friends zone. It sounds like she’s curious but not interested in you. Pull away
How can it moving too fast... if you are only getting to know each other as friends.
lol. you're the "gay friend" then. if that's what you want, then go. lol.
Bro she has options, that what she means by taking things slow. Go get you some options too and see her 1 time a week and do that to every option as well.
How would you respond to "I don't know why I should even care" shit test?
Pfff.. I never thought man would think like this and explain eachother 'how to get' whomever they want.. I would get crazy when I would think like this.. It seems like when a guy acts like this, he will never show his true authentic self.. Only playing games with (himself) thinking like these are the ways to aproach her. Just be yourselves!
Would you use "you and I wouldn't get along" as a cold approach opener? Because you're not supposed to know anything about her when you open.
Saw “180 beats” on the video and pressed play. Heart rate was never mentioned lol but was still a great video.
It is all about mind games, learn how to play the game gentlemen
Great fucking ending. I want to know how to get myself to the point where I don’t worry about money and be valuable enough to be worthy enough to the market place for getting myself to that point. And if the amount of effort that requires to get there is being more obsessive to the point of not dating, not training, and not doing hobbies like taking classes to learn to play in a band. Maybe even family. I guess my question here is what is the reality and practicality of having this career long term and how much does it take if I’m at a stage of 2 clients a month?
Top, classy video, huge value, looks like Todd came back to his stunning old style, please tell me that finally Todd gave up with that bullshit called "online dating"
Tinder is the modern mental asylum.
@@Lewisevans1618 worse
@@jamesg1974a you got that right 👍
Movie name?
-I can't decide whether to like or hate you
-Why would you hate me ?
-Yyy
Good👍
Hmm, this will be useful. I'm trying to attract this new girl I have a really great vibe with, but she's giving hella mixed signals. I'm worried about being too explicit too suddenly. 🤔
How do you do it with a girl you’ve been with for 7 years?
Start exhibiting massive change. Improve yourself. Workout. She'll wonder why. Only after a year or 2 where everything about you has improved, tell her it was so she would think you had a cute butt ;]
What's your take on alcohol/substances and game?
My personal take is; use a bit of alcohol, not too much (alcohol sweet spot), as training wheels, get rid of it when you're far enough to do without. You can learn completely without too, but it'll be hard mode. And don't do drugs.
Very hard to be out in social situations without consuming. Not drinking at all gets flagged as aberrant behavior.
I agree and I disagree. Yes it would seem weird to the girl you're talking to, but just like you can tell her that your friends are in the club nextdoor or a friend went away with another girl, you can tell her you already had some drinks. It's not hard to get around the objection if she mentions it. If she offers me a drink, I'll just take it of course because I do drink still, but if I didn't, then I'd tell her I've had enough already or something, acting like I've already had a couple of drinks and need to work tomorrow or something@@jfkst1
@@jfkst1Nah, if you're a teenager maybe, but if you're grown up, no one cares, also a light beer does nothing to you most of the time so that also works
@@Beerend I play on super hard mode: going out alone AND not drinking.
"bcs i'm a big nerd" HUSAUHSUHASU you got a spark on me
What I’m noticing is that if the conversation is man to woman, and if most of your exchanges are push-pull, everything covered in this video is almost guaranteed to happen
You and I may not get along
I can’t decide weather I love or hate you
Thank you Todd 🙏
Whst do you say if she says why do I care
For me it’s more of a natural you have it or don’t. Both people hormones have to be balanced and looking. Creating sexual tension or forcing it is just weird.
The biggest struggle I have with you and I are not gonna get along as a opener is the girl is gonna ask why? I know nothing about her and the line will seem canned.
Ask her star sign and go with that
Why is this so complicated? I tried to pay attention but nothing registered!
What to do to pickup the overwhelming amount of ‘light-duty liberal’ professional women in Manhattan? They have these over-sensitive radar for anything misogynistic or misogynistic-adjacent like cockiness or negging?
The short answer is if a professional liberal, white collar Manhattan chick feels you are attractive, then all that political crap goes out the window, it's just another layer of shit tests for the attractive man. Of course, Im thinking in the context of one night stand corporate girl you meet at the bar. Just don't fixate on her political beliefs as she may feel her SJW committments are reality--just use ammused mastery, treat her like a chick. Instinct of millions of years of evolution will win out. I've been with these left wing artsy or liberal professional types, and deep down they're still just chicks. Just run solid game lke what you see on this channel--you'll slay.
Somewhere between a W2 salary of 180k/yr and then making 5k/day trading stocks, I lost interest in women.
pmo
Oh by the way Todd Sergio SOROKIN is missing for some time know. It’s probably u in disguise so maybe drop some videos there some time soon.
However I realise u ve uploaded everything u for from that classes and footages, so maybe there is that
Part 2 for men?
Lol 180BPM is literally sprinting heartrate 😂 like full out sprinting that can only last 1 min max.
have these videos actually been working for guys
Bro was tryna make a type beat 😂😭😭
the only thing to remember is that sexual tension depends on reciprocating from the other person.
Welp i messed up with my coworker. Had a very basic platonic conversation, she seems to avoid me 😞.
Mode One
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