or try to act like so many filing for divorce means the issue with women is that they're insatiable instead of what the heck is wrong with men that so many women that wanted to spend their lives with them end up running away from them.
They been doing that since the government stepped in and it’s actually a blessing the system can only handle so much dysfunction eventually this flame will go out of control good riddance to patriarchy it’s done nothing but support women for rich men’s gains. Fuck the state and Amazon or who ever benefits.
So true. Society has sold the BS to women that getting with a man who hates you and offers no help with life but adds on more chores, is more likely to dehumanise you and reduce you to your age and looks, is more s3xually degenerate and could bring STDs and other women drama and other children drama, offers no emotional support, and is more likely to unalive you is what is missing from your life. Women are much better off forming more robust social networks with other women and make more likeminded friends than investing in men in any shape or form. Even in marriages if a woman falls sick the husband is 4x times more likely to abandon her and for critical illnesses like cancer it is 6x times more likely. Men are the real sla*ve masters who never fail to bring down a woman constantly for her looks, her age, and extract endless unpaid work and make sure they build their success on a woman’s free labor. Marriage is the last legal form of sl*avery for women. Only very few women will get in good marriages. For most women, marriage will be h*ell on Earth.
You are partially right. But even if a man hates women in general he will still try to get into relationships with women or be vio*lent towards women. They never leave women alone. Whereas a woman who hates a man, stays far away from men.
I've noticed that a lot of men's reactionary complaints about feminism is just men seeing their own behavior reflected back at them through women and the menz don't like it lol. That's why they rely on double standards
@@tanishawilliams7495 keep milking that one good black man okey doke very very far away from me. You can search for your unicorn BM in your own time, just count me TF out of that tomfoolery. Thank you!
@@mysteriouscliche I guess that burns you up to see black people happily married. So let me continue Angela Bassett (beautiful black woman) and Courtney B. Vance (A black Man) have been married now for more than 25 years. Now get mad 😘😉✌️
I was about to comment the same thing! They are shouting from the roof tops, trashing women all over the internet and still have the audacity to blame women for their “loneliness crisis”. No thanks, I don’t need that mess in my life.
And these are the same men that tell you youre bugging the hell out when you ask. "Babe are you happy? Do you want to end this because your energy is off..." They hit you with the "nah you're buggin stop being paranoid we good. Its all on your head" 😒🤦🏽♀️
They think we're fools, but women are finally starting to wake up. The men are snitching on themselves 😂 Also Princella AKA "The Queen Maker" for President 🤸♀️ 👑🥳
I have decentered men for the entirety of my life. Many women should lead lives like that because it's more fulfilling than having to deal with men like this.
I have done this for my adult life as well. people have typically asked "whats worng with you?" and treated me like im defective (being that Im a straight woman who doesnt date). now, the truth about men is coming out and people arent questioning me so much.
@@Priscilla_Boyeyou are not speaking truth. Happiness is with a good husband who loves you, who is patient, kind, and communicates well with you. Someone who YOU were created for, to be their helpmate. Stop usurping the truth and falling into the trap of the modern world and social media. The Most High created men and women to function a specific way - together, as one unit. There is a reason why society has women thinking like this, and I'm confused as to how people can't see what's going on.
@@fruit032can you speak on why a man can hate a woman that they insert their penis into, even create a life with? If you're a man, be helpful like a brother or father figure and inform them about how men think.
He wont leave, he’ll take it a step further and give her a shut up ring. Then be shocked when she wakes up and files for divorce years later. Then he’ll tell everyone its her fault, and she didn’t value marriage, when he didn’t value her as a person.
Some advice: don’t cook for them, clean for them, or be any kind of homemaker for them until they put a ring on your finger. Do not give them wife energy when they’re barely giving your boyfriend energy. And if you know you would never want their parents or siblings as in-laws, that’s your sign right there that they’re not the one. Having in-laws that hate you will eventually lead to divorce. Don’t put yourself through that. Live in your love and your light.🖤🌸🖤🌸
There is something mentally wrong with dudes. Wasting a woman's time and being fake. You really have to have poor character and morals to treat someone like that.
@@gravityclarityyall are shitty as well but you dont hold accountability. Yall call a man gay as an insult then go look for a gay friend to talk shit with. Yall don’t even like yourselves
A lot of "straight" men are attracted to female anatomy but don't like women. They may or may not be attracted to male anatomy, but they are romantically attracted them. Also, they talk about how we women will monkey branch. I suspected they were telling on themselves.
im being trained as a psychotherapist and MOST of the abusive men my (male) mentor has worked with have opened up about being “down low”. they don’t like women at all and that’s why they abuse them. they only put up with women bc women are impressionable, highly empathetic, and sexually objectified so it’s easier to manipulate women and also use them as sex objects. however they cannot stand women and have a deep rooted hate for them. it also makes men feel less than or not alpha enough if they sexually engage with other men so they’ll claim they are “straight” and truly believe it but deep down most of them like men not women. they will use women because they are easy to manipulate and look good on their arm which makes the dude feel better than other men (which is who he really actually wants to impress) and the women gives constant access to sex and empathy!
That’s crazy because once I get tired or start to dislike someone I don’t even want to be around them. I don’t want them touching me and don’t want to talk to them. Smh this is sad.
Right! It does not feel good, to me, to be around people I strongly dislike. I'd rather be with people I do enjoy spending time with or be alone. Both options are better than willingly choosing to be around anyone I abhor.
Men switch up too easily. One minute you are the girl of his dreams, the next day he’s complaining about you to everyone, wishing you leave. On the prowl for the next women he’s going to fall in and out of love with. While treating you’d like sh*% hoping you would leave. This was confirmation ❤
They are the true moody ones. Females are never moody. But when the time DO comes when the emotional lid is about to fly off it's mostly rage due to the female always needing to surpress every feeling.
This goes back to last year where a girl was exposing how men can have sex with women they hate. There was a comment made by a guy expressing how men can have hate sex, which is when a guy can still have sex with you even though he hates you. He explained how it's pleasing seeing a woman being controlled and dominanted. This is how they can dislike you and stick around, they're sticking around to have sex.
yep. it’s being said that some men view sex as a weapon. they really don’t want women to enjoy it. they just want use our body and be done with us. that’s why some really don’t care about whether or not we climax. they don’t care.
Today I was thinking maybe I should start dating again as I haven't been touched in over 2 years. Not even a hug. This video made me get over that real quick.
That is why dogs and cats exist. They will happily hug and give you emotional support and even spiritual support. Plus dogs and cats will not hurt you the way men will. And if you adopt, the dog or cat will hold you to higher esteem and love than these men ever could.
Too bad. What happened to female intuition? Aren't you supposed to use your female intuition instead of social media to make your decisions? 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ Winter is coming for you women and you're the ones bringing it on. Good luck. Lesbian marriages divorce far more often than heterosexual and gay marriages. And you're still taking advice from each other. Big mistake. But farewell. ✌🏾
I’m in the same boat. I haven’t been touched or hugged by a man in over 2 years at some point I want to date. But the dating pool is just way too messy. Smh 🤦🏾♀️
@@opticalraven1935exactly my childs father is so mad I left him and thinking about giving my child up for adoption to s healthy family and financially stable family instead of me having to keep a baby I didn't want on there first place but had because my mother and family told me to keep it and they would help me 😢 and he barely has helped with raising her or anything barely comes to get her now and I won't be struggling to take care of a child on my own cause my kids father doesn't want to step up
All my exes hated me because I was better than them, but stayed to suck my energy and maintain access to me to elevate their status by using me as their arm candy.
Exactly. Just this. He was obsessed with me but wanted to compete with me in the same breath. Then he put distance between us randomly and I dumped him. Don’t play me like that, I’m not your toy. Bye
I feel like I have to comment this every day . No one chooses to date a demon. Demons just wear a mask and are fake until it doesn’t help them anymore. Demons know that if they announced they were demons off the jump, they would never get a girlfriend.
@@briannadickson2884 That’s true because men see other men as the most important beings, they only value what other men tell them, even more if that man is wealthy or has something else that he desires. They might act like they are not easily influenced and intelligent beings but as long as it’s a fellow man who spreads the word of the devil, they will blindly follow it. So a man who has a whole friend group is more dangerous than a man with only one friend. If he has a couple of friends, he will be competing with all of them and constantly comparing their wives to you in his head, eventually building resentment.
Ah, someone else DID say this. That's what really clued me in on the way men tend to act well before I found channels like these. My own father abandoned me before I was even born - cheated on my mother while she was pregnant, surprise surprise. He's actually become a better person since then, but I wish he'd been a better person back then too.
@@kitsunephantom6155 same here. My dad also used DV on me and my mom while i was a child. Now he is married in italy to someone else, he acts better with her. Also my mom invested in him, bought things for him and he took it for granted, while the his now wife keeps him on his toes, he never disrespects her. That was a wake up call for me, now i have lots of trauma bc of him and dont want to marry or have kids.
Man, they really keep adding to the reasons why we've stopped dating them in general. All I have to do is look at social media when I get lonely & then I'm like, "You know what? Nevermind."
Bruh, I downloaded a dating app in a moment of loneliness and 5 hours later it was uninstalled and I realized I just needed to eat something and my brain got the wrong cue 😂
It is the same being childfree. Whenever I think about wanting a kid, I go to my sisters house where I listen to kids screaming all day and I go home to a nice quiet house LOL.
I am glad more women are realizing that if a man does not love you and respect you, then you must leave; do not marry him! If a man does not love you, he is capable of literally anything. Only love seems to make them aware of a woman’s humanity and increases their empathy for her. Also, you cannot make a man love you. It doesn’t matter how beautiful you are or how sexy you are or how well you can cook and clean. He either loves you or he doesn’t, and if he doesn’t then you must leave!
Facts, the problem is men fall in and out of love so fast. One minute they love you next minute they don’t. No women is exempt. I’ve had so many men “love” me, treat me like a godesss, buy me ANYTHING… then one day out of no where… his mask slipped off and it’s a different, evil man. Then I’m left wondering where did I go wrong. It’s happened too many times with too many men to know that’s it’s a male issue
@@colorfulsin Love does not work that way. Those men never loved you. This is a good way to test that love: do not sleep with them. Once s3x is off the table, the men will not feel the need to pretend so their true selves show up quickly. If you already don't sleep with them, make sure to let them know your boundaries and what you would like out of the relationship. Then, ask him what he expects to get out of the relationship and see how he responds. One other tip, if a man says he loves you, ask him what he means by that. Love means different things to different people. For him to tell you that he loves you, then he must have considered WHY he felt that he was in love with you. If he hesitates for too long or looks confused or he says something like "you know what love is," then you know that he put no thought into those words and love means nothing to him. That is when you RUN!
No…the realization that women don’t realize how much more emotionally strong we are and that we have the upper hand is crazy. The problem is that we know so much and do so little to benefit ourselves
They aren’t protectors either- The people that protect women are other women- it’s our friends, mothers, sisters or random women on the street that will help us 9/10- men just stand there and watch, or walk away or laugh
@@kiaragay3259u guys are not emotionally strong u r all deluded and never had to face any actual real life adversity,u r all coddled up in your own small circles and expect a man to come in and pay for your life style and protect you without u actively trying to put forward any efforts
The deeper issues with this level of immaturity is they are admitting you don’t like your own company and you don’t have the ability to stand on your own two feet emotionally or mentally. To stay in a relationship with a woman you hate is the depiction of your desperation to not be alone. Truly sad and ridiculous.
This is just funny to me because I remember knowing the shadow side of Men as a seggs worker and being judged by girlfriends and wives who we've been telling they don't like for years. The reason he's with you is because you most likely cook, clean, suck good, have a safe place, and go half on bills with him.
Thats not their shadow side. That's their normal. They don't have what it takes to live their shadow. The shadow is not evil. This is a result of neglecting your shadow and not being your entire self.
Its funny. This is THE example that shows that men crying over women initaiting divorce over 60% of the time are disconnected from reality. A lot of these men are fine staying with their partner being unhappy ,waiting for a replacement or just being hatefull about their partners to their friends... Women seem to choose their happiness more, they seem to braver, rather choosing to be alone than dealing with these feelings. These men are children . Men seem to need a partner in a different way( the men with this attitude)
I literally saw somewhere that men will start to do things to make the woman leave him so he doesn't look like the bad guy. That's why when they always bring up the divorce rate initiated by women, I side eye them.
So true and yet society has sold the BS to women that getting with a man who hates you and offers no help with life but adds on more chores, is more likely to dehumanise you and reduce you to your age and looks, is more s3xually degenerate and could bring STDs and other women drama and other children drama, offers no emotional support, and is more likely to unalive you is what is missing from your life. Most males will leave you only if another woman is on the horizon and sometimes not even then. Women are much better off forming more robust social networks with other women and make more likeminded friends than investing in men in any shape or form. Even in marriages if a woman falls sick the husband is 4x times more likely to abandon her and for critical illnesses like cancer it is 6x times more likely. Men are the real sla*ve masters who never fail to bring down a woman constantly for her looks, her age, and extract endless unpaid work and make sure they build their success on a woman’s free labor. Marriage is the last legal form of sl*avery for women. Only very few women will get in good marriages. For most women, marriage will be h*ell on Earth.
Or they will 1. "separate" but never file. 2.Say they want a divorce but never file. 3. Ask dor the divorce, but never file. Men are very lazy. Going down to the courthouse to stand in line, lawyers, pay fees etc. They just dont want to do it. But they have All the energy to cry and complain about Being divorced.
OR most men stand to lose a lot of money between child support and alimony so they decide to stay with a woman they can’t stand in order to not be financially castrated. Terrible tradeoff but I understand the reasoning. Women generally stand to lose nothing in divorce and in fact end up being the recipient of alimony and child support in most cases so of course they don’t mind “choosing happiness” because it doesn’t have a HEFTY price tag attached to it. Just a different perspective that may help some of you all see things from the other side.
They dont leave because they are opportunists. Something you do or have is beneficial to them bums. You are their lifeline. As soon as someone else comes along who can mirror what you do for them then they're gone.
THIS is why I have NEVER spared a man’s feelings. Even as a child I knew it was something off about that gender. I knew I never wanted a male child. I knew I didn’t understand why they were, the way they were. Sinister in a lot of weird ways, how do you want or expect a group of ppl to genuinely love you, but you secretly hate the ones you want to love you?!?! Like wtf.
I never wanted a male child either I don't know I just found them to be difficult To understand they're just a foreign species ninety nine percent of them. If I would've had a male son then I would have just loved my having a Sunday scary. That's all I'm saying cause you don't know what they're gonna turn out as and if the father is horrible if they're gonna be like their father. And sometimes I don't know if the fathet was horrible. And it's a way after one is too late. Quick fact my narcissist husband never wanted should have been a red flag.
I told a guy I was saving myself for marriage he took it as a personal challenge… 6 months in he threw in the towel… turns out he didn’t like me that much and I wasted his time … 🤣 … more like you wasted your own time…. what part of “marriage” do you not understand??? 😂
For this reason, I don't even tell them that unless I see things could potentially lead somewhere, because they will make it their life's mission to break you. I keep that on a need to know basis. Man, 6 months? He hung in there longer than most. 😂 I'm sure you saw all the red flags during that time, too. Personally, I could not have a man lingering around, trying me for 6 months. He would become a pest at that point.
So what happens when he stays around, marries you and then after marriage and intimate relations, he realizes that he didn't actually care about you? He just wanted the challenge. Isn't it better to get it all out of the way before marriage, so you can see what he'll do after he's (conquered) you?
Patriarchy and society in general be telling us since birth... that we need men. What did you expect? And God help them, if they were raised in the church... be understandable and merciful those who are still stuck in the plantation and 1950s bs-land.
I Was Called bitter. Having abandonment issues… And literally By Men. BY MEN. All Bc I ✌🏾🏃🏾♀️. I ran from 90% of my relationships W Men! Intuition! My Intuition! Dear GOD Ladies, When You ask Yourself “Why?” Just run!
I had an epiphany and decided to stop dating in my early 20s. Having a Y chromosome carrier in your life is not as important as people make it out to be.
I been know this because I experienced it's not with an boyfriend but with my ex-husband, the shit that he did when I gave everything and was submissive, left me at hospital to myself to take a nap while I was pushing out my twins with only doctors in the room and he know I was terrified of giving birth and did even more worse, I walk away and been on my own ever since my daughters were babies. Now we here 8 years later 😊
My boyfriend left to get food. I asked him to bring me some because the nurses weren't allowed to bring any but allowed the mothers to eat their own things. I was so hungry. He said he would bring me something soon. The restaurant was two hundred yards away from the hospital. He stayed for 2 hours eating his meal and didn't bring me any. I asked why and he said "You didn't send me any money online." He didn't even ask, but also I was giving birth to his son... I guess he didn't think I was worth ten euros. I tried talking to him during the rest of the labour but he kept scrolling through his phone talking to someone and wouldn't reply. It was probably the wife I found out he had 1,5 years later. He kept complaining that he was tired and eventually I just said he should go home (he lived one mile away) so he could sleep and I would call him when things would progress. I ended up giving birth on the double quick and he missed it. For some reason I still pity him but I pity myself more. He ruined that beautiful day for me. I gave our relationship my best try and ended up seeing that I was nothing but a hole for him. What an animal.
Same ! It’s been 2 years since I left my husband, felt like I was in a horror film. I was having nightmares that he would kill me an my daughter. I’m so thankful that God removed me from that demon !
Quite a few of My exes idealized me and hated me at the same time. I realized it years later as I’ve stayed single. There’s no reason to be in relationships with a horrible man if this is what you’re going to get. They wonder why so many of us are literally deserting them. They wonder why we don’t want to have children with them. They are showing us publicly why we don’t need to couple them, and why we are right to not couple with them.
Exactly why have mini hims walking around, we birth the very men we hate and we birth precious girls to get chewed up and spat back out if they are not careful enough. One can never be too careful with men, they are temperamental.
This is not in just heterosexual relationships but all male relationships. If gay men think they are exempt, they are kidding themselves. Men who are users, will use anyone they can get their hands on until they are ready to settle down, come out or whatever they deem appropriate for their lives at the moment. It has nothing to do with being honorable or having the confidence to leave a relationship, it is all about convenience and if they have another body to leave you for, point blank periodt! So, when you suspect your man isn't happy, cheating or doesn't seem like he likes you, get out immediately and ignore his excuses. Let him live with himself until he can find his happiness internally.
They know better than us…that’s why they are willing to be quiet when they are the DL partner. They know they are only being used as a jump off…but since most men are physical in nature, they are ok with sex only relationships.
6th year decentering men ..I’m 34 now. Learned a lot, and went from timid shy, always staying in my comfort zone & living through men to willing to take risks learning and try new things
Invest money energy and time into yourself. Heal trauma, seek therapy, learn yoga, learn about your ancestry, declarer, make your space a healing space, read. Etc. be selfish,
I’m literally on the same path! 😀 It’s been so liberating. I just turned 33 and I’ve been single for 5 years after ending an engagement. I was fed up with the 50/50 scam that turned out to be 80/20. The only thing he did was pay 50% of the bills and nothing else. Before that relationship I suffered from narcissistic abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, mental abuse. Pretty much, any type of abuse. Being single, I skip the calamity. I’ve de-cluttered my life, started my business, invested some of the money and now I travel with my friends whenever I want. If I do decide to date again, it’s going to take God, himself, to say “He’s the one.”
Maybe being an introvert is what has saved me years of heartache, but I give a dude 4 weeks to show himself. Never once has my intuition failed that I should walk away and just move on. I listen, break up, and then just go about my business. I think PART (as in a small piece) of this problem is that too many women delude themselves about the person they’re with, seeing his “potential” instead of operating with cold hard facts. Or maybe some women are so traumatized that their EQ is out of whack. But it shouldn’t be this hard to just walk away from someone who treats you like TRASH. What is going on????🤔🤨🤨🤨
I just had to do this. I was seeing a guy and I noticed myself ignoring red flags and low effort, I noticed I was starting to do the work to and he was barely giving anything back. I checked myself quick and texted him and ended things- I’m not interested in dealing with this again. I’m glad I was able to monitor myself and end it immediately rather than spend 3 years on this guy slowly going insane
I can’t tell you how many times I told one of my exes “if you’re not happy just leave” because for a while there he wasn’t ever acting happy, always seemingly in a bad mood, & I’d ask him what’s wrong & everytime he’d, WITH AN ATTITUDE, say some bs like “ain’t nothing wrong with me what’s wrong with you”, like I just never knew what “side of the bed” he was gone wake up on each day.... & yet he REFUSED to leave.... I literally had to move out of my apartment to get him to leave me alone & even that didn’t work, he’d show up at places he knew I’d be, then finally he got locked up & is now in prison (he shouldn’t be though) & that’s what FINALLY got him to leave me alone.... & he still calls me. Like I really don’t get what’s wrong with males.... they actually have something wrong with them. The VAST majority of them are so extremely immature it doesn’t even make sense.
He wants you to bail him out and wait for him now. If you go back to him then there is no hope for you. Use this time to move on girl, everything happens for a reason
I tell all of my ex this at the start of the relationship, if you find someone else you like just leave me, ironically I’m the one that initiated all the break ups 🤷🏾♀️
It may not the be the majority, but it's not a small minority either. You'd be surprised. Just like most criminals if they have brain cells do their crimes as secretly as possible. A lot of men pretend to be normal guys and do their dirt in secret as well. You wouldn't ever see that side of them because you are not in a relationship with them. @@JohnDoe-nm5le
It's these same hateful demons that kill their girlfriends and wives when they try to leave or kill them after they've already left. Even though they hated them, they still cant handle the rejection when you leave or even if you express that you want to leave or they get an inkling (they paranoid) that you want to leave.
They snitching on themselves. 🤣 I love it! Now we have evidence of their bs and now we can leave them alone permanently. These are the same pos who then get mad why women are divorcing their ungrateful stoopid @$$es.
1:22 this man spoke the truth. It just doesn’t apply to girlfriends; some men hate their wives like this. A ring on your finger is no guarantee of lasting love and affection. All women need to have a rock solid sense of their own worth and set firm boundaries.
When people show/tell you who they are, believe them‼️ I wish more women put themselves first because baby, men have no problem putting their wants and needs above anyone and everyone🤷🏾♀️
Black men are the loudest about it this, most definitely. Also, biracials with a black dad are vocal like this too. We're finding out more and more though, that men in general feel this way. Women all over the world have are dealing with a lot of the same things from men.
Like I love men but sometimes it just gets too much. I have a guy friend who's complaining to me why he doesn't get any girls when he literally has the worst humour and always talk so dirty to me. He's quite toxic too. He tried to pursue me but I said nuh-uh. Dude gotta work on himself
8:03 with the additional circumstance that women who are abused could also lose their lives if they leave abusive men. Whereas the men who are finding it difficult to leave their women, because...they are afraid of drama? P.S. I am not excluding that there are psycho women who will actually murder their men just because he left her, but that thread are just men who don't have the ⚽️⚽️ to just break up.
So true. Even if a man hates women in general he will still try to get into relationships with women or be vio*lent towards women. They never leave women alone. Whereas a woman who hates a man, stays far away from men.
If a lady, has to ask for something that should be automatic in a relationship, it's basically OVER. You don't need closesure from a coward. He's not going to be a man about it anyway. Today is the day, you stop letting someone get comfortable with disrespecting you.
@@bro918 1. Honesty 2. Regular conversation (it should not be a chore to talk with a partner about a general day or an irregular day. Open communication is important) 3. Kindness (probably seems standard, but I'm talking about having a kind demeanor and countenance. Everyone has bad days, so we can not all be at an 8 on the happy scale, but generally, that's what you want) 4. Interest (this is a piece of conversation. There should be interest in you as a person, not what you can do. If there is not, what are they there for?) 5. Shared interest (you both should have at least one shared interest. Something you can do together) 6. Care (think of this as kindness and interest have a child together. It's more empathetic than interest and more specific than kindness. It's about investment in your worries, ailments, and anything else you are concerned about. If you are sick, they should be invested almost as if they were sick themselves. Think about how you feel when a friend is going through something. If you go through something, your partner should care just as much if not more.)
Where he gone go? Especially if every member of his family sick of him and done kicked him out already. Only desperate women stay with these types. Age doesn't matter. Race doesn't matter. Location doesn't matter. They're everywhere needing a place to sleep. They couch hop until they tricks a woman and she lets him move in. They don't want the women they NEED a roof. And y'all it's about to get cold here in the south and tax season is right around the corner too. Be safe ladies because they're coming in droves.
And yet if a woman trys to leave before hes ready to let go the woman risk physical abuse and possibly death. Stay single! And if you can't do that, stay independent! If you cant do that, stay child free! If you can't do that, at minimum stay connected to someone. Even if its just one person, related to you or not. Good luck out there.
The fact that the tweet has that many likes is very alarming. I advise women to please recess from men, at least for right now. Me, I’m over men period. My experience with men, I’ve lost all of my twenties trying to please a man. It’s gonna take another day of Noah before I start dating men again. It’s truly sad.
This is going to sound weird but I like that you included some men talking about this in the Tiktoks because I think a lot of people put too much pressure on women to deal with the terrible behavior and habits of some men. "Oh just choose better" or "oh just use clairovoyance and read minds" when in reality while there are things that can lessen the chance of interacting with terrible people there's no 100% effective way and sometimes people are really good at hiding it and switching it up. I also think it's important for at least some men to speak on this because no this isn't some intrinsic immutable property of a man to behave this way. It's not some biology and the excuse that "boys will be boys" isn't going to fly. Like we are talking about men not sharks and I think blaming everything on instincts or biology is actually cutting them some undeserved slack. It's like saying "oh, well you can't help what you are so it's really the fault of the people you hurt for expecting anything different." There's a difference between being literally incapable of doing better and just choosing not to and I would argue men tend to choose not to. So no women aren't wrong for expecting better.
Lmao wmn aren't doing anything to better themselves, so why should we? Before anyone in the comments says "but we're going to therapy". Lmao men never asked you to do that but y'all sure love to assume what men want.
@@palesamogorosi8939 maybe ask men what we want, instead of assuming we want ambition boss babs that are in therapy. That's not bettering yourselves, asking us how we want you to be better, is the Answer and vice versa.
@@berrymckockiner5883Men have been saying what they want since the dawn of time by their actions. “Fit, Friendly, Submissive” is the running phrase. None of that has to do with a woman’s personality, charm, charisma, compatibility, etc. asking a man how you can be a better woman seems counterintuitive. The common asks are “can you cook, can you clean, have sex w me anytime I want, respect me as the authority, don’t talk too much, don’t be combative.” Women are asking men to 1. Stop hurting us (physically, mentally) 2. Realize you also have emotions (besides anger and rage) 3. CARE- be a partner and be engaged. Overall, treat us like a human being. And I do agree with therapy for all. Therapy helps you to become a more well rounded individual, giving you the tools and ability to handle life’s stresses and understand your triggers. I find that most men struggle with being able to explain themselves and are avoidant in conversations that need to be had. They are disengaged and oblivious to many of the things happening right in front of them with their partner.
Those types of guys are so confused. They want you to break up with them until you do. Once you break up with them, they either chase you down because they don't have your replacement, they still want you as an option or because they spent so much time looking down on you that you actually breaking up with them hurts their ego because how could someone as lame, ugly, boring, average, whatever and etc break up with them.
*sigh* I'm tired. At the end of my parents marriage, my father noted the year he feel out of love with my mother. He initiated it. My mum said the love she had for my dad simply changed. It's horrible for a child to know that their parents don't love each other. It's a horrible environment to be in. If I ever get around to it, if I ever find a good man and ever have a child I would want them to know that their parents love each other. Otherwise, it's just heavy and painful.
@@TheCoffeeCat They continuously abuse elderly women in nursing homes... Can't trust them to handle dead female bodies for a certain reason... can't trust them as doctors while performing surgery on unconscious women... the list goes on & on. They don't care where they stick it. It's so disgusting.
Yeahhh.... was with someone like this for years. He hated my guts to high heaven. One day I realized 'this man would literally leave me for dead if it came to it'. Haven't dated since.
This was the icing on the cake for me. I was already disliking them and not wanting to date but this has sealed that. I never want to be put in this position this is so sad. I feel so sorry for the women who have no idea that their men feel this way about them 💔
Men will settle for the woman that they don’t want, if they can’t be with the woman that they really want. To them having access to some pum pum, is better than not having any pum pum. It doesn’t mean that they want you though. This is why it’s stupid for women to pursue men and ask them out. If they wanted you, they would’ve made a move in the first place, especially if you’ve made your interest obvious. Just because they go out with you, or get with you afterwards doesn’t mean they want you, they just settle since they don’t have to put any effort into pursuing you. Men (even shy men) will always pursue what they really want.
You know what, at this point I suggest everyone starts taxing their interactions with men just to make sure having you around is what he really wants 😂 Kind of like a monthly subscription to access you and your time You want my number €100 You want to take me out €200 You want sexual exclusivity €1000 You want me to cook for you twice a week and do your laundry? €1000 You want a child? Better research those surrogate prices fam 😂 People will stop wasting your time when you attach an price to it. I guarantee you the number of men stringing people along would drastically decrease. I say this as a happily married woman 😏
Yeah those threads are started from men with deep seeded women issues. We are in a time where men think it's a flex to disrespect your partner. I'm ready for the rapture cause I'm over it. Can we hear God's voice, so he can set us all straight on what he has been trying to do with us. Cause this is getting insane.
God, are you serious? God that blamed Ever (a woman) for all the sins of the world? That banished humans from the garden of Eden, just because a she wanted to learn more and he wouldn’t teach her. Please consult your beliefs because one of the biggest institutions of misogyny is Judeo, Christian and Islamic beliefs.
@beepbopboop7727 Yeah, I'm as serious as a heart attack. It was so rude. At least let the lady know; don't just leave. I'm not religious at all. I stopped that at 12. I'm Spiritual, it fits me best because I can question whatever I want, and it doesn't put me in a box. I've never been happier.
@@beepbopboop7727you can look at it how you want. God also condems sex before marriage for a reason. Too many of us women live with a man who isn't our spouse then we wonder why we are broken. We need to think before we act. Giving up your body will not make a man love you. There's a lot that God talks about women but you want to twist it.
@@beepbopboop7727God didn't blame Eve, He confronted Adam about the situation because he was given the authority. Adam ate the fruit even knowing he shouldn't. Adam then, when questioned by Him, blamed Eve. And isn't funny how til this day, some men are quick to blame women for all their problems but never look at themselves...smh
Also if you are listening to T.D. Jakes, saying BW are mean and aggressive, listening to Iyanla and T. Perry tell you to accept less, following feminine channels claiming to teach you how to be more of a woman, or allowing any man to show you that he clearly does not like or respect you, please rethink how you value yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@andreablossom3929 Check out his Father's Day sermon chastising women. His message should be directed toward solutions to create families in the BC. Not saying either side is perfect.
These men are cowards. The fact that they would like a post like this and then turn around and just not be honest with the woman that they're being intimate with is insane. It's like leave them alone and let them grow old together and take each other out!
@KFontLab at first I used to wonder why they just wouldn't shut up, because they hate nagging so much with this is what they're doing. But then I see what's happening to them in the end, and I'm like you know what I'm glad they came out talking so much, because women are finding out things that their grandmothers had even told them at one time. All we can do is live our best life and be happy. And if time ever comes for desperate measures, we know how to create a community where it looks like where Wonder Woman came from. But not them, they're devious and they will hurt each other. And if we have a man in our midst, the only one that we're keeping around is the one that knows how to control the rest, and there's always just that one!
I have never even dated a man and my experiences with them have been utterly traumatic so far. I say with ease that 90% of men out there are huge red flags in every way possible. They are so damn manipulative and childish. I see red flags even in some months of friendship, don’t understand how this guys are actually able to get a girlfriend. It’s sickening. And it goes the same for both straight or gay men btw.
Girls we have the upper hand, thats what i am taking from this thread tbh. They wanna be transactional we can and will give them transactional. We will need eachother anyway, whether we are w them or wo them. Its all the same. They just made our options clear.
I had a man go through the whole narcissistic cycle with me to the point of discard. And I went. we were just dating so I had no emotional bond. He was enraged when I wasn't on the shelf where he left me. Then he hoovered and stalked
I tell all of my ex this at the start of the relationship, if you find someone else you like just leave me, ironically I’m the one that initiated all the break ups 🤷🏾♀️
It’s because they hate themselves. How you treat others is ALWAYS a reflection of how you feel about yourself. When you have that level of resentment towards your girlfriend it’s because you resent yourself. That’s why they lack dignity and integrity, because they don’t respect themselves, let alone anyone else. Same reason why they don’t want to be alone-they don’t like themselves and thus hate their own company.
True if you date a guy with low self steem you will never be able to love him because the moment you show him love he gonna think "only a not good enough person would love someone like me. Cant she see im worthless is because she is even more worthless than me". And then they stay just to use the benefits. Is the best way to find a partner is choosing someone with healthy self steem that will accept the love of others and give love back. Is when you know you found a real man. (Not a man child or a feminine era one, not a narcissist and so on).
@@TestoTudoAZguys view sex similarly as well. They will shame a woman for performing sexual acts he most desires because it reminds him he sees women as less than and disgusting. They then project that shame onto women because they convince themselves the way porn has conditioned them to view sex and gender is “natural”
Also, that one tweet where he made fun of the woman checking on him to see if he's okay and offering to talk if he needs is just sad. Part of the reason these guys are so demonic is that they don't talk about what they're going through or they trauma-dump and don't intend on changing. If it's not one thing, it's another with them. I don't see the percentage in real men. I'll stick to fantasy men. They're clean, safe, and don't disappoint.
That's why you should only have a man to USE him! Take everything that he has. Most of all DO NOT LOVE a man. Tolerate him as long as he is of financial benefit to YOU!
They are so immature and codependent.. just break up with your girlfriend. I bet if they girlfriend break up with them they gonna go cry in the corner.😒 They doing too much.
I really realized that my guy was a liar. I always hot anxiety about him. I put too much energy into it. His mood switched up on me. I feel he does not like me anymore. Im looking for his replacement.
These are the same men confused why 80% of women file for divorce
THE EXACT SAME ONES
Boom! There you have it. There is no confusion. They choose to avoid the truth.
or try to act like so many filing for divorce means the issue with women is that they're insatiable instead of what the heck is wrong with men that so many women that wanted to spend their lives with them end up running away from them.
Their solve for that is to make it harder to divorce , trying to get rid of no fault divorce.. okkkaaayy then even MORE reason never to marry.
They been doing that since the government stepped in and it’s actually a blessing the system can only handle so much dysfunction eventually this flame will go out of control good riddance to patriarchy it’s done nothing but support women for rich men’s gains. Fuck the state and Amazon or who ever benefits.
So they keep exposing themselves. Good.
And now we are all watching and listening
Aren't you glad
I'm lovin it. For those that aren't quite getting it.
yeah i wouldn't have known some of these things is they hadn't said it lmao. Good for us women.
Let's watch the roaches out themselves...#age of aquarius
Men will use you to upgrade themselves. The fact that they don’t have the balls to leave baffles me.
Yes opportunists.
Because they would die alone. They are to scared to be alone
So true. Society has sold the BS to women that getting with a man who hates you and offers no help with life but adds on more chores, is more likely to dehumanise you and reduce you to your age and looks, is more s3xually degenerate and could bring STDs and other women drama and other children drama, offers no emotional support, and is more likely to unalive you is what is missing from your life. Women are much better off forming more robust social networks with other women and make more likeminded friends than investing in men in any shape or form. Even in marriages if a woman falls sick the husband is 4x times more likely to abandon her and for critical illnesses like cancer it is 6x times more likely. Men are the real sla*ve masters who never fail to bring down a woman constantly for her looks, her age, and extract endless unpaid work and make sure they build their success on a woman’s free labor. Marriage is the last legal form of sl*avery for women. Only very few women will get in good marriages. For most women, marriage will be h*ell on Earth.
They don't leave because they won't have their free maid/cook/sex doll to use anymore.
But remember, we should submit to them because they have superior logic and leadership
Now a lot of women are starting to treat men the same way we get treated they are MAD!!!!
You are partially right. But even if a man hates women in general he will still try to get into relationships with women or be vio*lent towards women. They never leave women alone. Whereas a woman who hates a man, stays far away from men.
I've noticed that a lot of men's reactionary complaints about feminism is just men seeing their own behavior reflected back at them through women and the menz don't like it lol. That's why they rely on double standards
BIG mad!!!
I just laugh and move in silence.
@@tanishawilliams7495 keep milking that one good black man okey doke very very far away from me.
You can search for your unicorn BM in your own time, just count me TF out of that tomfoolery. Thank you!
@@mysteriouscliche
I guess that burns you up to see black people happily married. So let me continue Angela Bassett (beautiful black woman) and Courtney B. Vance (A black Man) have been married now for more than 25 years. Now get mad 😘😉✌️
after this why we need to care about male loneliness epidemic ?
I was about to comment the same thing! They are shouting from the roof tops, trashing women all over the internet and still have the audacity to blame women for their “loneliness crisis”. No thanks, I don’t need that mess in my life.
Never cared
Never did, never will
It’s not “loneliness” it’s dearth of supply. They’re all parasites that can’t get a host.
@@attitudeproblem6462 True!
And these are the same men that tell you youre bugging the hell out when you ask. "Babe are you happy? Do you want to end this because your energy is off..." They hit you with the "nah you're buggin stop being paranoid we good. Its all on your head" 😒🤦🏽♀️
True, they lie and pretend because they haven’t found the replacement yet and because they don’t have the balls to end it.
And then you go through the phone
Like I said ….. they are WEIRDOS , truly demonic beings
They think we're fools, but women are finally starting to wake up. The men are snitching on themselves 😂 Also Princella AKA "The Queen Maker" for President 🤸♀️ 👑🥳
Truth
Ladies remember. You don’t need to explain the reason why you want to be single. You don’t owe anyone an explanation.
I have decentered men for the entirety of my life. Many women should lead lives like that because it's more fulfilling than having to deal with men like this.
That’s the only way to have pure happiness and peace of mind.
I have done this for my adult life as well. people have typically asked "whats worng with you?" and treated me like im defective (being that Im a straight woman who doesnt date). now, the truth about men is coming out and people arent questioning me so much.
@@JG-jn2nnI have sisters who act like they are superior. In 5-10yrs they will realize they are doing all the giving and gotten nothing.
@@Priscilla_Boyeyou are not speaking truth. Happiness is with a good husband who loves you, who is patient, kind, and communicates well with you. Someone who YOU were created for, to be their helpmate. Stop usurping the truth and falling into the trap of the modern world and social media. The Most High created men and women to function a specific way - together, as one unit. There is a reason why society has women thinking like this, and I'm confused as to how people can't see what's going on.
@@fruit032can you speak on why a man can hate a woman that they insert their penis into, even create a life with?
If you're a man, be helpful like a brother or father figure and inform them about how men think.
He wont leave, he’ll take it a step further and give her a shut up ring. Then be shocked when she wakes up and files for divorce years later.
Then he’ll tell everyone its her fault, and she didn’t value marriage, when he didn’t value her as a person.
Correct. All of this.
Bingo 🎯
Or that she wasn’t “traditional” enough, or whatever.
"They like using our bodies" - and they like having a cleaner/house keeper. And that's it.
If you haven't met someone better yet, enjoy being single.
Exactly.
Some advice: don’t cook for them, clean for them, or be any kind of homemaker for them until they put a ring on your finger. Do not give them wife energy when they’re barely giving your boyfriend energy. And if you know you would never want their parents or siblings as in-laws, that’s your sign right there that they’re not the one. Having in-laws that hate you will eventually lead to divorce. Don’t put yourself through that. Live in your love and your light.🖤🌸🖤🌸
There is something mentally wrong with dudes. Wasting a woman's time and being fake. You really have to have poor character and morals to treat someone like that.
Then they cry and complain why people are leaving them
@Arifumii they'll lie and say, "She left for no reason" when there's a list of reasons.
They just keep proving to us how horrible they are.
@@gravityclarityyall are shitty as well but you dont hold accountability. Yall call a man gay as an insult then go look for a gay friend to talk shit with. Yall don’t even like yourselves
you have to have no life to treat someone liek that and most of them don’t.
A lot of "straight" men are attracted to female anatomy but don't like women. They may or may not be attracted to male anatomy, but they are romantically attracted them.
Also, they talk about how we women will monkey branch. I suspected they were telling on themselves.
Redpill theory is nothing but projection
They’re emotionally gay
That's an interesting take on it. 🤔
i agree
im being trained as a psychotherapist and MOST of the abusive men my (male) mentor has worked with have opened up about being “down low”. they don’t like women at all and that’s why they abuse them. they only put up with women bc women are impressionable, highly empathetic, and sexually objectified so it’s easier to manipulate women and also use them as sex objects. however they cannot stand women and have a deep rooted hate for them. it also makes men feel less than or not alpha enough if they sexually engage with other men so they’ll claim they are “straight” and truly believe it but deep down most of them like men not women.
they will use women because they are easy to manipulate and look good on their arm which makes the dude feel better than other men (which is who he really actually wants to impress) and the women gives constant access to sex and empathy!
One of the best thing about modern social media is finding out how men REALLY feel about us
It’s been amazing, extremely shocking and painful- but it’s so relieving to finally understand everything that’s confused me for years
❤
That’s crazy because once I get tired or start to dislike someone I don’t even want to be around them. I don’t want them touching me and don’t want to talk to them. Smh this is sad.
Right! It does not feel good, to me, to be around people I strongly dislike. I'd rather be with people I do enjoy spending time with or be alone. Both options are better than willingly choosing to be around anyone I abhor.
Men switch up too easily. One minute you are the girl of his dreams, the next day he’s complaining about you to everyone, wishing you leave. On the prowl for the next women he’s going to fall in and out of love with. While treating you’d like sh*% hoping you would leave.
This was confirmation ❤
They are the true moody ones. Females are never moody. But when the time DO comes when the emotional lid is about to fly off it's mostly rage due to the female always needing to surpress every feeling.
Ik this all to well just went through it and unfortunately had kids.
They don't switch up. They just stop pretending when they think they've got you stuck and when they're around other men
idealisation, devaluation cycles
@@user-sm6od4tx2pnever? 😂 I know you live in your fantasy land all day
This goes back to last year where a girl was exposing how men can have sex with women they hate. There was a comment made by a guy expressing how men can have hate sex, which is when a guy can still have sex with you even though he hates you. He explained how it's pleasing seeing a woman being controlled and dominanted. This is how they can dislike you and stick around, they're sticking around to have sex.
Wow!
Exactly!
yep. it’s being said that some men view sex as a weapon. they really don’t want women to enjoy it. they just want use our body and be done with us. that’s why some really don’t care about whether or not we climax. they don’t care.
Meanwhile Denzel Washington and his beautiful black wife have been married for years. 😘✌️
And I heard that when a man really loves a girl he doesn’t even wanna have sex w her cause he actually value u. It’s the Madonna-whore complex.
Today I was thinking maybe I should start dating again as I haven't been touched in over 2 years. Not even a hug. This video made me get over that real quick.
That is why dogs and cats exist. They will happily hug and give you emotional support and even spiritual support. Plus dogs and cats will not hurt you the way men will. And if you adopt, the dog or cat will hold you to higher esteem and love than these men ever could.
girl go get a hug from a friend. do NOT date for attention/affection
Too bad. What happened to female intuition? Aren't you supposed to use your female intuition instead of social media to make your decisions? 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Winter is coming for you women and you're the ones bringing it on. Good luck. Lesbian marriages divorce far more often than heterosexual and gay marriages. And you're still taking advice from each other. Big mistake. But farewell. ✌🏾
@@Tdawglove What's even the purpose of dating then?
I’m in the same boat. I haven’t been touched or hugged by a man in over 2 years at some point I want to date. But the dating pool is just way too messy. Smh 🤦🏾♀️
But yet they want to “scare” women into getting married and have children with them. And then get mad when women choose to be single and childfree.
Because married men make more money overall and get higher “societal perks”
@@galaxylucia1898So? I'd rather be broke than with an asshole that harms me and hates me.
@@opticalraven1935exactly my childs father is so mad I left him and thinking about giving my child up for adoption to s healthy family and financially stable family instead of me having to keep a baby I didn't want on there first place but had because my mother and family told me to keep it and they would help me 😢 and he barely has helped with raising her or anything barely comes to get her now and I won't be struggling to take care of a child on my own cause my kids father doesn't want to step up
All my exes hated me because I was better than them, but stayed to suck my energy and maintain access to me to elevate their status by using me as their arm candy.
It’s a sad reality
yup!
they feed on our joy like dementors
AVADA KEDAVRA !!! 🪄
Exactly. Just this. He was obsessed with me but wanted to compete with me in the same breath. Then he put distance between us randomly and I dumped him. Don’t play me like that, I’m not your toy. Bye
I feel like I have to comment this every day . No one chooses to date a demon. Demons just wear a mask and are fake until it doesn’t help them anymore. Demons know that if they announced they were demons off the jump, they would never get a girlfriend.
Amen!!!
When they say "pick better" I just roll my eyes. THEY BOAST ABOUT LYING TO US TF
I've noticed a relation between them and how many friends they have. The fewer, the more focused.
@@briannadickson2884 That’s true because men see other men as the most important beings, they only value what other men tell them, even more if that man is wealthy or has something else that he desires. They might act like they are not easily influenced and intelligent beings but as long as it’s a fellow man who spreads the word of the devil, they will blindly follow it.
So a man who has a whole friend group is more dangerous than a man with only one friend. If he has a couple of friends, he will be competing with all of them and constantly comparing their wives to you in his head, eventually building resentment.
That's The reason why "They" are just misogynist scaredy cats
Men have a hard time leaving? They dont have a hard time leaving their kids
Ah, someone else DID say this. That's what really clued me in on the way men tend to act well before I found channels like these. My own father abandoned me before I was even born - cheated on my mother while she was pregnant, surprise surprise. He's actually become a better person since then, but I wish he'd been a better person back then too.
@@kitsunephantom6155 same here. My dad also used DV on me and my mom while i was a child. Now he is married in italy to someone else, he acts better with her. Also my mom invested in him, bought things for him and he took it for granted, while the his now wife keeps him on his toes, he never disrespects her. That was a wake up call for me, now i have lots of trauma bc of him and dont want to marry or have kids.
Man, they really keep adding to the reasons why we've stopped dating them in general. All I have to do is look at social media when I get lonely & then I'm like, "You know what? Nevermind."
Right???!!!!
😂
Bruh, I downloaded a dating app in a moment of loneliness and 5 hours later it was uninstalled and I realized I just needed to eat something and my brain got the wrong cue 😂
😂😂
It is the same being childfree. Whenever I think about wanting a kid, I go to my sisters house where I listen to kids screaming all day and I go home to a nice quiet house LOL.
I’m a horror movie fan. But all the true horrors happen in real life. 🤯
True
We don’t need to celebrate Halloween! It’s scary enough out here 😂
@@tarahbruno3793lmaooo!!!!! For real! 😫😩
they are dementors seeking happy women @@Priscilla_Boye
Exactly me too and yes it’s actually scarier!
I am glad more women are realizing that if a man does not love you and respect you, then you must leave; do not marry him! If a man does not love you, he is capable of literally anything. Only love seems to make them aware of a woman’s humanity and increases their empathy for her. Also, you cannot make a man love you. It doesn’t matter how beautiful you are or how sexy you are or how well you can cook and clean. He either loves you or he doesn’t, and if he doesn’t then you must leave!
Facts, the problem is men fall in and out of love so fast. One minute they love you next minute they don’t.
No women is exempt. I’ve had so many men “love” me, treat me like a godesss, buy me ANYTHING… then one day out of no where… his mask slipped off and it’s a different, evil man. Then I’m left wondering where did I go wrong. It’s happened too many times with too many men to know that’s it’s a male issue
@@colorfulsin Love does not work that way. Those men never loved you. This is a good way to test that love: do not sleep with them. Once s3x is off the table, the men will not feel the need to pretend so their true selves show up quickly. If you already don't sleep with them, make sure to let them know your boundaries and what you would like out of the relationship. Then, ask him what he expects to get out of the relationship and see how he responds. One other tip, if a man says he loves you, ask him what he means by that. Love means different things to different people. For him to tell you that he loves you, then he must have considered WHY he felt that he was in love with you. If he hesitates for too long or looks confused or he says something like "you know what love is," then you know that he put no thought into those words and love means nothing to him. That is when you RUN!
@@gazellehelene5380 That's great advice. Thanks!
Men are incapable of love
Your comment and this thread alone is my ultimate guide to dating. Thank you
That realization that men are the weak ones is crazy
No…the realization that women don’t realize how much more emotionally strong we are and that we have the upper hand is crazy. The problem is that we know so much and do so little to benefit ourselves
@ TheCoffeeCat, exactly why they’ve been gaslighting us for centuries. They really believed we won’t us our brains.
They aren’t protectors either-
The people that protect women are other women- it’s our friends, mothers, sisters or random women on the street that will help us 9/10- men just stand there and watch, or walk away or laugh
@@kiaragay3259u guys are not emotionally strong u r all deluded and never had to face any actual real life adversity,u r all coddled up in your own small circles and expect a man to come in and pay for your life style and protect you without u actively trying to put forward any efforts
@kiaragay3259 thats not really the case, but if it makes you feel better, sure.
The deeper issues with this level of immaturity is they are admitting you don’t like your own company and you don’t have the ability to stand on your own two feet emotionally or mentally. To stay in a relationship with a woman you hate is the depiction of your desperation to not be alone.
Truly sad and ridiculous.
weak asses
yea they’re codependent little toddlers replacing their mothers with fuckable therapist houseslaves aka their girlfriend
Pathetic even
It's cowardly.
Its why men tell single women all the time to enjoy being a single cat lady bc they themselves can’t bare to be single and happy with a couple cats.
This is just funny to me because I remember knowing the shadow side of Men as a seggs worker and being judged by girlfriends and wives who we've been telling they don't like for years. The reason he's with you is because you most likely cook, clean, suck good, have a safe place, and go half on bills with him.
Facts
While he spends his money on sex workers.
Thats not their shadow side. That's their normal. They don't have what it takes to live their shadow. The shadow is not evil. This is a result of neglecting your shadow and not being your entire self.
Ladies please take this as a lesson to STOP with the girlfriend nonsense. Men who are not ready to be husbands should HAVE TO PAY for sex, period.
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Single until married!
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boomers invented the concept of girlfriend to string women along, it doesn't exist
there are no conjugal rights outside of marriage
That's why I will stay single and keep my peace ❤
And you will be happier while us make center women keep trying and getting victimized by their demonic ashes
Same
🎶"Happiness is being single."🎶-- an old reggae song from my childhood, but never knew the name.
Its funny. This is THE example that shows that men crying over women initaiting divorce over 60% of the time are disconnected from reality. A lot of these men are fine staying with their partner being unhappy ,waiting for a replacement or just being hatefull about their partners to their friends... Women seem to choose their happiness more, they seem to braver, rather choosing to be alone than dealing with these feelings. These men are children . Men seem to need a partner in a different way( the men with this attitude)
I literally saw somewhere that men will start to do things to make the woman leave him so he doesn't look like the bad guy. That's why when they always bring up the divorce rate initiated by women, I side eye them.
So true and yet society has sold the BS to women that getting with a man who hates you and offers no help with life but adds on more chores, is more likely to dehumanise you and reduce you to your age and looks, is more s3xually degenerate and could bring STDs and other women drama and other children drama, offers no emotional support, and is more likely to unalive you is what is missing from your life. Most males will leave you only if another woman is on the horizon and sometimes not even then.
Women are much better off forming more robust social networks with other women and make more likeminded friends than investing in men in any shape or form. Even in marriages if a woman falls sick the husband is 4x times more likely to abandon her and for critical illnesses like cancer it is 6x times more likely. Men are the real sla*ve masters who never fail to bring down a woman constantly for her looks, her age, and extract endless unpaid work and make sure they build their success on a woman’s free labor. Marriage is the last legal form of sl*avery for women. Only very few women will get in good marriages. For most women, marriage will be h*ell on Earth.
This ere the ones chasing hoes and the complain that we cheat and did them dirty 😂😂
Or they will
1. "separate" but never file.
2.Say they want a divorce but never file.
3. Ask dor the divorce, but never file.
Men are very lazy. Going down to the courthouse to stand in line, lawyers, pay fees etc. They just dont want to do it.
But they have All the energy to cry and complain about Being divorced.
OR most men stand to lose a lot of money between child support and alimony so they decide to stay with a woman they can’t stand in order to not be financially castrated. Terrible tradeoff but I understand the reasoning. Women generally stand to lose nothing in divorce and in fact end up being the recipient of alimony and child support in most cases so of course they don’t mind “choosing happiness” because it doesn’t have a HEFTY price tag attached to it. Just a different perspective that may help some of you all see things from the other side.
They dont leave because they are opportunists. Something you do or have is beneficial to them bums. You are their lifeline. As soon as someone else comes along who can mirror what you do for them then they're gone.
Correct.
Golddiggers they are golddiggers
THIS is why I have NEVER spared a man’s feelings. Even as a child I knew it was something off about that gender. I knew I never wanted a male child. I knew I didn’t understand why they were, the way they were. Sinister in a lot of weird ways, how do you want or expect a group of ppl to genuinely love you, but you secretly hate the ones you want to love you?!?! Like wtf.
womb envy
Look at how they made the world……
Truth.
I never wanted a male child either I don't know I just found them to be difficult To understand they're just a foreign species ninety nine percent of them. If I would've had a male son then I would have just loved my having a Sunday scary. That's all I'm saying cause you don't know what they're gonna turn out as and if the father is horrible if they're gonna be like their father. And sometimes I don't know if the fathet was horrible. And it's a way after one is too late.
Quick fact my narcissist husband never wanted should have been a red flag.
You're making a very broad generalization. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I told a guy I was saving myself for marriage he took it as a personal challenge… 6 months in he threw in the towel… turns out he didn’t like me that much and I wasted his time … 🤣 … more like you wasted your own time…. what part of “marriage” do you not understand??? 😂
Mfn idiots
Haha good job
For this reason, I don't even tell them that unless I see things could potentially lead somewhere, because they will make it their life's mission to break you. I keep that on a need to know basis. Man, 6 months? He hung in there longer than most. 😂 I'm sure you saw all the red flags during that time, too. Personally, I could not have a man lingering around, trying me for 6 months. He would become a pest at that point.
Good for you. You are very strong-willed. That's the only way to be as a woman. You have to be firm, or men will walk all over you.
So what happens when he stays around, marries you and then after marriage and intimate relations, he realizes that he didn't actually care about you? He just wanted the challenge. Isn't it better to get it all out of the way before marriage, so you can see what he'll do after he's (conquered) you?
I know at least 2/3 of my exes hated me but stayed for convenience. Gonna stay single from here on out!
Have you considered the possibility that you're just a hateable person?
Ask yourself why you had 3 whole ex's that dislike you, maybe you're doing something or let me guess..... you're perfect
@@berrymckockiner5883 you're telling on yourself. Or, let me guess, she just choose wrong?
@@irresistiblechocolatebonbo5935 lmao you're telling on yourself, y'all have zero accountability.
Choose better ladies ☺️
@@berrymckockiner5883 I don't choose of any you degenerates. Thank fuck
I feel sorry for women who have No idea who men really are......when they show yall ever single day. Im beginning to think yall be under a spell
Patriarchy and society in general be telling us since birth... that we need men. What did you expect? And God help them, if they were raised in the church... be understandable and merciful those who are still stuck in the plantation and 1950s bs-land.
And the entire society vilifies and gaslights women, and tells everything from male narcissistic point of views
We are under a spell but we are slowly waking up and I’m glad!!!
Yep
Then they complain about having standards.
They gave you ladies the playbook. Just listen carefully...
So much for Alpha males.
I Was Called bitter. Having abandonment issues…
And literally By Men. BY MEN.
All Bc I ✌🏾🏃🏾♀️. I ran from 90% of my relationships W Men!
Intuition! My Intuition!
Dear GOD
Ladies, When You ask Yourself “Why?” Just run!
Yes, and I am bitter with abandonment issues BECAUSE of men. Starting with my "dad",
I had an epiphany and decided to stop dating in my early 20s. Having a Y chromosome carrier in your life is not as important as people make it out to be.
How long has it been
@@roxy4325 6 years.
@@TweSunshine good gosh what a blessing!
Haven't been with a man since my early 20s. Didn't want a guy then.
I been know this because I experienced it's not with an boyfriend but with my ex-husband, the shit that he did when I gave everything and was submissive, left me at hospital to myself to take a nap while I was pushing out my twins with only doctors in the room and he know I was terrified of giving birth and did even more worse, I walk away and been on my own ever since my daughters were babies. Now we here 8 years later 😊
Men don't respect submissive. They want it, but the Don't respect it.
My boyfriend left to get food. I asked him to bring me some because the nurses weren't allowed to bring any but allowed the mothers to eat their own things. I was so hungry. He said he would bring me something soon. The restaurant was two hundred yards away from the hospital. He stayed for 2 hours eating his meal and didn't bring me any. I asked why and he said "You didn't send me any money online." He didn't even ask, but also I was giving birth to his son... I guess he didn't think I was worth ten euros.
I tried talking to him during the rest of the labour but he kept scrolling through his phone talking to someone and wouldn't reply. It was probably the wife I found out he had 1,5 years later. He kept complaining that he was tired and eventually I just said he should go home (he lived one mile away) so he could sleep and I would call him when things would progress. I ended up giving birth on the double quick and he missed it. For some reason I still pity him but I pity myself more. He ruined that beautiful day for me. I gave our relationship my best try and ended up seeing that I was nothing but a hole for him. What an animal.
Same ! It’s been 2 years since I left my husband, felt like I was in a horror film. I was having nightmares that he would kill me an my daughter. I’m so thankful that God removed me from that demon !
@@northstar2621What a bastard!
Quite a few of My exes idealized me and hated me at the same time. I realized it years later as I’ve stayed single. There’s no reason to be in relationships with a horrible man if this is what you’re going to get. They wonder why so many of us are literally deserting them. They wonder why we don’t want to have children with them. They are showing us publicly why we don’t need to couple them, and why we are right to not couple with them.
like splitting behaviour
nice until you say no
then you're XYZ
well sir - you just proved me correct, in saying no?
Exactly why have mini hims walking around, we birth the very men we hate and we birth precious girls to get chewed up and spat back out if they are not careful enough.
One can never be too careful with men, they are temperamental.
And they say there's a male loneliness epidemic and no girl wants to date them
Sir???😭
This is why I got divorced my ex husband hated me but didn’t want to leave me. When I left him he was shocked
Good for you for leaving.
Same
This is not in just heterosexual relationships but all male relationships. If gay men think they are exempt, they are kidding themselves. Men who are users, will use anyone they can get their hands on until they are ready to settle down, come out or whatever they deem appropriate for their lives at the moment. It has nothing to do with being honorable or having the confidence to leave a relationship, it is all about convenience and if they have another body to leave you for, point blank periodt! So, when you suspect your man isn't happy, cheating or doesn't seem like he likes you, get out immediately and ignore his excuses. Let him live with himself until he can find his happiness internally.
They know better than us…that’s why they are willing to be quiet when they are the DL partner. They know they are only being used as a jump off…but since most men are physical in nature, they are ok with sex only relationships.
The reason they stay in a relationship or not happy with is because they are getting services. They have to find a replacement server.
6th year decentering men ..I’m 34 now. Learned a lot, and went from timid shy, always staying in my comfort zone & living through men to willing to take risks learning and try new things
Invest money energy and time into yourself. Heal trauma, seek therapy, learn yoga, learn about your ancestry, declarer, make your space a healing space, read. Etc. be selfish,
*de-clutter
I’m literally on the same path! 😀 It’s been so liberating. I just turned 33 and I’ve been single for 5 years after ending an engagement. I was fed up with the 50/50 scam that turned out to be 80/20. The only thing he did was pay 50% of the bills and nothing else. Before that relationship I suffered from narcissistic abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, mental abuse. Pretty much, any type of abuse. Being single, I skip the calamity. I’ve de-cluttered my life, started my business, invested some of the money and now I travel with my friends whenever I want. If I do decide to date again, it’s going to take God, himself, to say “He’s the one.”
@@Autumn-zd9nqI'm telling u sis, Jesus gonna have to come back himself for this🤣🤣
@@cosmiccrush22Jesus is the only man for me at this point. I'll be a nun.
Maybe being an introvert is what has saved me years of heartache, but I give a dude 4 weeks to show himself. Never once has my intuition failed that I should walk away and just move on. I listen, break up, and then just go about my business.
I think PART (as in a small piece) of this problem is that too many women delude themselves about the person they’re with, seeing his “potential” instead of operating with cold hard facts. Or maybe some women are so traumatized that their EQ is out of whack.
But it shouldn’t be this hard to just walk away from someone who treats you like TRASH. What is going on????🤔🤨🤨🤨
I just had to do this.
I was seeing a guy and I noticed myself ignoring red flags and low effort, I noticed I was starting to do the work to and he was barely giving anything back.
I checked myself quick and texted him and ended things- I’m not interested in dealing with this again.
I’m glad I was able to monitor myself and end it immediately rather than spend 3 years on this guy slowly going insane
I can’t tell you how many times I told one of my exes “if you’re not happy just leave” because for a while there he wasn’t ever acting happy, always seemingly in a bad mood, & I’d ask him what’s wrong & everytime he’d, WITH AN ATTITUDE, say some bs like “ain’t nothing wrong with me what’s wrong with you”, like I just never knew what “side of the bed” he was gone wake up on each day.... & yet he REFUSED to leave.... I literally had to move out of my apartment to get him to leave me alone & even that didn’t work, he’d show up at places he knew I’d be, then finally he got locked up & is now in prison (he shouldn’t be though) & that’s what FINALLY got him to leave me alone.... & he still calls me. Like I really don’t get what’s wrong with males.... they actually have something wrong with them. The VAST majority of them are so extremely immature it doesn’t even make sense.
He wants you to bail him out and wait for him now. If you go back to him then there is no hope for you. Use this time to move on girl, everything happens for a reason
I tell all of my ex this at the start of the relationship, if you find someone else you like just leave me, ironically I’m the one that initiated all the break ups 🤷🏾♀️
I would question your equivocating a mentally unstable stalker who went to prison with the majority of men.
Omg this is literally like the exact life I had as well. Like step by step.
It may not the be the majority, but it's not a small minority either. You'd be surprised. Just like most criminals if they have brain cells do their crimes as secretly as possible. A lot of men pretend to be normal guys and do their dirt in secret as well. You wouldn't ever see that side of them because you are not in a relationship with them. @@JohnDoe-nm5le
It's these same hateful demons that kill their girlfriends and wives when they try to leave or kill them after they've already left. Even though they hated them, they still cant handle the rejection when you leave or even if you express that you want to leave or they get an inkling (they paranoid) that you want to leave.
This is why it’s honestly better to just stay away from them right now.
This is a bad time in history for women to be spending time with men
It's frightening that they'd say this online for everyone to see.
They snitching on themselves. 🤣 I love it! Now we have evidence of their bs and now we can leave them alone permanently. These are the same pos who then get mad why women are divorcing their ungrateful stoopid @$$es.
They know most women are ignorant and ain’t go anywhere because they just as desperate and lonely as them. Pick mesha don’t care 🤷🏽♀️
It's a blessing actually
1:22 this man spoke the truth. It just doesn’t apply to girlfriends; some men hate their wives like this. A ring on your finger is no guarantee of lasting love and affection. All women need to have a rock solid sense of their own worth and set firm boundaries.
They’ll get the new girl and start to get bored with her too … they think it’s the women but it’s actually factually JUST THEM, they are the problemo
When people show/tell you who they are, believe them‼️
I wish more women put themselves first because baby, men have no problem putting their wants and needs above anyone and everyone🤷🏾♀️
Notice how these are black men????😢😢
Black males Suckkkkk REAl bad , I can’t stand them
Yyeeeepp 😔 again and again and again
Always
Black men are the loudest about it this, most definitely. Also, biracials with a black dad are vocal like this too. We're finding out more and more though, that men in general feel this way. Women all over the world have are dealing with a lot of the same things from men.
Lol looks like a lot men going to be alone if they dont act right..
If? It's in their nature to not act right.
Like I love men but sometimes it just gets too much. I have a guy friend who's complaining to me why he doesn't get any girls when he literally has the worst humour and always talk so dirty to me. He's quite toxic too. He tried to pursue me but I said nuh-uh. Dude gotta work on himself
@@Arifumikomabt won't work on themselves the issue it's them
@@eprahs1right
F em!
8:03 with the additional circumstance that women who are abused could also lose their lives if they leave abusive men. Whereas the men who are finding it difficult to leave their women, because...they are afraid of drama?
P.S. I am not excluding that there are psycho women who will actually murder their men just because he left her, but that thread are just men who don't have the ⚽️⚽️ to just break up.
Men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid that men will k!ll them.
So true. Even if a man hates women in general he will still try to get into relationships with women or be vio*lent towards women. They never leave women alone. Whereas a woman who hates a man, stays far away from men.
If a lady, has to ask for something that should be automatic in a relationship, it's basically OVER.
You don't need closesure from a coward. He's not going to be a man about it anyway.
Today is the day, you stop letting someone get comfortable with disrespecting you.
Can you give some examples of something that should be automatic?
@@bro918
1. Honesty
2. Regular conversation (it should not be a chore to talk with a partner about a general day or an irregular day. Open communication is important)
3. Kindness (probably seems standard, but I'm talking about having a kind demeanor and countenance. Everyone has bad days, so we can not all be at an 8 on the happy scale, but generally, that's what you want)
4. Interest (this is a piece of conversation. There should be interest in you as a person, not what you can do. If there is not, what are they there for?)
5. Shared interest (you both should have at least one shared interest. Something you can do together)
6. Care (think of this as kindness and interest have a child together. It's more empathetic than interest and more specific than kindness. It's about investment in your worries, ailments, and anything else you are concerned about. If you are sick, they should be invested almost as if they were sick themselves. Think about how you feel when a friend is going through something. If you go through something, your partner should care just as much if not more.)
This is why we should walk away when things get sketch. Don’t hold on too long. Pay them dust.
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Yup, there are better men out there.. i learned my lesson.
It’s true, you gotta leave early at the first sign of something being off, no benefit of the doubt, just leave
@@jenbodhi1133 Why blame us when we're just following the examples you set for us?
Where he gone go? Especially if every member of his family sick of him and done kicked him out already. Only desperate women stay with these types. Age doesn't matter. Race doesn't matter. Location doesn't matter. They're everywhere needing a place to sleep. They couch hop until they tricks a woman and she lets him move in. They don't want the women they NEED a roof. And y'all it's about to get cold here in the south and tax season is right around the corner too. Be safe ladies because they're coming in droves.
I want to cry, laugh and I can't 💀. This is tooo damn valid! 😂
Males dont leave. This is why women file for divorce more than males.
Yup, and then they complain that women initiate divorce. They probably didn't like her anyway. Just didn't want to lose the benefits.
And yet if a woman trys to leave before hes ready to let go the woman risk physical abuse and possibly death. Stay single! And if you can't do that, stay independent! If you cant do that, stay child free! If you can't do that, at minimum stay connected to someone. Even if its just one person, related to you or not. Good luck out there.
The fact that the tweet has that many likes is very alarming. I advise women to please recess from men, at least for right now. Me, I’m over men period. My experience with men, I’ve lost all of my twenties trying to please a man. It’s gonna take another day of Noah before I start dating men again. It’s truly sad.
Same, and I also advise that women must stay away from men right now
This is going to sound weird but I like that you included some men talking about this in the Tiktoks because I think a lot of people put too much pressure on women to deal with the terrible behavior and habits of some men. "Oh just choose better" or "oh just use clairovoyance and read minds" when in reality while there are things that can lessen the chance of interacting with terrible people there's no 100% effective way and sometimes people are really good at hiding it and switching it up. I also think it's important for at least some men to speak on this because no this isn't some intrinsic immutable property of a man to behave this way. It's not some biology and the excuse that "boys will be boys" isn't going to fly. Like we are talking about men not sharks and I think blaming everything on instincts or biology is actually cutting them some undeserved slack. It's like saying "oh, well you can't help what you are so it's really the fault of the people you hurt for expecting anything different." There's a difference between being literally incapable of doing better and just choosing not to and I would argue men tend to choose not to.
So no women aren't wrong for expecting better.
And toxic and parasytle partners manipulate you into staying with them.😣
Lmao wmn aren't doing anything to better themselves, so why should we?
Before anyone in the comments says "but we're going to therapy".
Lmao men never asked you to do that but y'all sure love to assume what men want.
@@berrymckockiner5883what are you trying to say? What exactly is your point?
@@palesamogorosi8939 maybe ask men what we want, instead of assuming we want ambition boss babs that are in therapy.
That's not bettering yourselves, asking us how we want you to be better, is the Answer and vice versa.
@@berrymckockiner5883Men have been saying what they want since the dawn of time by their actions. “Fit, Friendly, Submissive” is the running phrase. None of that has to do with a woman’s personality, charm, charisma, compatibility, etc. asking a man how you can be a better woman seems counterintuitive. The common asks are “can you cook, can you clean, have sex w me anytime I want, respect me as the authority, don’t talk too much, don’t be combative.” Women are asking men to 1. Stop hurting us (physically, mentally) 2. Realize you also have emotions (besides anger and rage) 3. CARE- be a partner and be engaged. Overall, treat us like a human being.
And I do agree with therapy for all. Therapy helps you to become a more well rounded individual, giving you the tools and ability to handle life’s stresses and understand your triggers. I find that most men struggle with being able to explain themselves and are avoidant in conversations that need to be had. They are disengaged and oblivious to many of the things happening right in front of them with their partner.
Those types of guys are so confused. They want you to break up with them until you do. Once you break up with them, they either chase you down because they don't have your replacement, they still want you as an option or because they spent so much time looking down on you that you actually breaking up with them hurts their ego because how could someone as lame, ugly, boring, average, whatever and etc break up with them.
*sigh* I'm tired. At the end of my parents marriage, my father noted the year he feel out of love with my mother. He initiated it. My mum said the love she had for my dad simply changed. It's horrible for a child to know that their parents don't love each other. It's a horrible environment to be in. If I ever get around to it, if I ever find a good man and ever have a child I would want them to know that their parents love each other. Otherwise, it's just heavy and painful.
I’m wales Uk, men are know to have sec with Sheep! SHEEP!!!!!!!! and it has been going on for Centuries 🤦🏾♀️ men ☕️ stay safe, be single y’all
They stick it wherever. Watermelons, too
@@TheCoffeeCatA teacher in school told me when she was growing up it was the chickens
@@TheCoffeeCat They continuously abuse elderly women in nursing homes... Can't trust them to handle dead female bodies for a certain reason... can't trust them as doctors while performing surgery on unconscious women... the list goes on & on. They don't care where they stick it. It's so disgusting.
@@Lisette121GOOD LORD! Not the chickens 😱
@briannadickson2884 that exactly was our reaction.
And people look at me with pity eyes because I choose to be single 14+ years now. 😅 its murky out here
Yeahhh.... was with someone like this for years. He hated my guts to high heaven. One day I realized 'this man would literally leave me for dead if it came to it'. Haven't dated since.
Glad you made it out safe
This was the icing on the cake for me. I was already disliking them and not wanting to date but this has sealed that. I never want to be put in this position this is so sad. I feel so sorry for the women who have no idea that their men feel this way about them 💔
Men will settle for the woman that they don’t want, if they can’t be with the woman that they really want. To them having access to some pum pum, is better than not having any pum pum. It doesn’t mean that they want you though.
This is why it’s stupid for women to pursue men and ask them out. If they wanted you, they would’ve made a move in the first place, especially if you’ve made your interest obvious. Just because they go out with you, or get with you afterwards doesn’t mean they want you, they just settle since they don’t have to put any effort into pursuing you. Men (even shy men) will always pursue what they really want.
You could flip the genders and its no different from what redpillers say. Men and women hate eachother
The pathology is terrifying.
I'm boycotting men
Same
Every single day, I thank God I am single 🙏🏽and sip my herbal teas while laughing at these XYs 😂🌱🍵
You know what, at this point I suggest everyone starts taxing their interactions with men just to make sure having you around is what he really wants 😂
Kind of like a monthly subscription to access you and your time
You want my number €100
You want to take me out €200
You want sexual exclusivity €1000
You want me to cook for you twice a week and do your laundry? €1000
You want a child? Better research those surrogate prices fam 😂
People will stop wasting your time when you attach an price to it. I guarantee you the number of men stringing people along would drastically decrease.
I say this as a happily married woman 😏
So basically you wanna be an escort? If that’s the case you may need to humble yourself and lower those prices!! 😂😂😂
@@kccharles21Why? So your broke ass could afford it?
@@kccharles21 You’re in female spaces Charles. Go build a house or fight a war 🤗
And yet women wonder why men dislike them. lol
@@JohnDoe-nm5leImagine disliking women but still trying to forcefully engage with them while throwing temper tantrums when rejected. Lol.
They get mad when we say decenter them, but they want to be decentered. GO figure.
This explains the high rise in DV cases. Too many beautiful young women being cut down by the men who hate them.
Yeah those threads are started from men with deep seeded women issues. We are in a time where men think it's a flex to disrespect your partner. I'm ready for the rapture cause I'm over it. Can we hear God's voice, so he can set us all straight on what he has been trying to do with us. Cause this is getting insane.
Amen!
God, are you serious? God that blamed Ever (a woman) for all the sins of the world? That banished humans from the garden of Eden, just because a she wanted to learn more and he wouldn’t teach her.
Please consult your beliefs because one of the biggest institutions of misogyny is Judeo, Christian and Islamic beliefs.
@beepbopboop7727 Yeah, I'm as serious as a heart attack. It was so rude. At least let the lady know; don't just leave. I'm not religious at all. I stopped that at 12. I'm Spiritual, it fits me best because I can question whatever I want, and it doesn't put me in a box. I've never been happier.
@@beepbopboop7727you can look at it how you want. God also condems sex before marriage for a reason. Too many of us women live with a man who isn't our spouse then we wonder why we are broken. We need to think before we act. Giving up your body will not make a man love you. There's a lot that God talks about women but you want to twist it.
@@beepbopboop7727God didn't blame Eve, He confronted Adam about the situation because he was given the authority. Adam ate the fruit even knowing he shouldn't. Adam then, when questioned by Him, blamed Eve. And isn't funny how til this day, some men are quick to blame women for all their problems but never look at themselves...smh
Also if you are listening to T.D. Jakes, saying BW are mean and aggressive, listening to Iyanla and T. Perry tell you to accept less, following feminine channels claiming to teach you how to be more of a woman, or allowing any man to show you that he clearly does not like or respect you, please rethink how you value yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes, Imagine T. Perry became a billionaire by promoting struggle love.
T.D. Jakes said that? 😮
@@andreablossom3929 Check out his Father's Day sermon chastising women. His message should be directed toward solutions to create families in the BC. Not saying either side is perfect.
@@guinealove3744I'll look into that.
T.D. Cakes has been exposed as a power b0ttom, so we need not listen to his opinions on women.
These men are cowards. The fact that they would like a post like this and then turn around and just not be honest with the woman that they're being intimate with is insane. It's like leave them alone and let them grow old together and take each other out!
Exactly.. Cowards and extremely immature.
@KFontLab at first I used to wonder why they just wouldn't shut up, because they hate nagging so much with this is what they're doing. But then I see what's happening to them in the end, and I'm like you know what I'm glad they came out talking so much, because women are finding out things that their grandmothers had even told them at one time. All we can do is live our best life and be happy. And if time ever comes for desperate measures, we know how to create a community where it looks like where Wonder Woman came from. But not them, they're devious and they will hurt each other. And if we have a man in our midst, the only one that we're keeping around is the one that knows how to control the rest, and there's always just that one!
In other words we women should not be giving a f and still they would have problem because they hate them self how would they love us 😂
They never had good intentions. So I'm not surprised. They're disgusting. Stop dealing with them and you'll be much happier.
I have never even dated a man and my experiences with them have been utterly traumatic so far. I say with ease that 90% of men out there are huge red flags in every way possible. They are so damn manipulative and childish. I see red flags even in some months of friendship, don’t understand how this guys are actually able to get a girlfriend. It’s sickening. And it goes the same for both straight or gay men btw.
Use your God given intuitions. See through people.
Girls we have the upper hand, thats what i am taking from this thread tbh. They wanna be transactional we can and will give them transactional. We will need eachother anyway, whether we are w them or wo them. Its all the same. They just made our options clear.
Make them pay most of the bills and expenses among other things. Has to be give and take.
I had a man go through the whole narcissistic cycle with me to the point of discard. And I went. we were just dating so I had no emotional bond. He was enraged when I wasn't on the shelf where he left me. Then he hoovered and stalked
I tell all of my ex this at the start of the relationship, if you find someone else you like just leave me, ironically I’m the one that initiated all the break ups 🤷🏾♀️
Did you find someone better?
The thread was diabolic
Sinister. Machiavellian. Lowdown.
Questioning mens intentions, as you should. As soon as they start talking, you should be listening attentively to find out what they want.
“This is the real pandemic “. The scream that I scrumpt!😂
They don’t care if women live or die.
thats not true
Women have been lied to
By Disney, by everybody! Toy companies, production companies, clothing companies even!
We wanted to pay for happiness to see and they delivered.
It’s because they hate themselves. How you treat others is ALWAYS a reflection of how you feel about yourself. When you have that level of resentment towards your girlfriend it’s because you resent yourself.
That’s why they lack dignity and integrity, because they don’t respect themselves, let alone anyone else. Same reason why they don’t want to be alone-they don’t like themselves and thus hate their own company.
True if you date a guy with low self steem you will never be able to love him because the moment you show him love he gonna think "only a not good enough person would love someone like me. Cant she see im worthless is because she is even more worthless than me". And then they stay just to use the benefits.
Is the best way to find a partner is choosing someone with healthy self steem that will accept the love of others and give love back. Is when you know you found a real man. (Not a man child or a feminine era one, not a narcissist and so on).
@@TestoTudoAZguys view sex similarly as well. They will shame a woman for performing sexual acts he most desires because it reminds him he sees women as less than and disgusting. They then project that shame onto women because they convince themselves the way porn has conditioned them to view sex and gender is “natural”
Also, that one tweet where he made fun of the woman checking on him to see if he's okay and offering to talk if he needs is just sad. Part of the reason these guys are so demonic is that they don't talk about what they're going through or they trauma-dump and don't intend on changing. If it's not one thing, it's another with them. I don't see the percentage in real men. I'll stick to fantasy men. They're clean, safe, and don't disappoint.
That's why you should only have a man to USE him! Take everything that he has. Most of all DO NOT LOVE a man. Tolerate him as long as he is of financial benefit to YOU!
They are so immature and codependent.. just break up with your girlfriend. I bet if they girlfriend break up with them they gonna go cry in the corner.😒 They doing too much.
Guys will feel like this and still beg u not to leave them
I really realized that my guy was a liar. I always hot anxiety about him. I put too much energy into it. His mood switched up on me. I feel he does not like me anymore. Im looking for his replacement.
Another one that hates you
From now on they should even pay to approach us!
When you think you trippin' but you not! Wiiiiiilllllldddddd