[MIL-Baby Saga] Caught MIL Breastfed My Baby Telling Her To Call Her Mumma
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Op gave birth to a baby girl. Op was unable to breastfeed her child so she had to give her daughter Ava formula from a young age. Her controlling know-it-all mother-in-law despised her for it and told her that she was a bad mother for not being able to breastfeed. As a result, op snapped at her and made her cry, angering her husband. When Ava was 1 year old, she spent all her weekends with op’s mother-in-law. Op did not mind since her mother-in-law loved Ava and that gave her time to rest. But then one day op fetched her daughter early from her mother-in-law’s house and she walked in on her mother-in-law breastfeeding her child. In addition, she found out that her mother-in-law was taking hormones that would allow her to breastfeed. Op told her husband and they cut off her mother-in-law. They also found out that she was training Ava to call her mom when op and her husband were not present. The last straw was when op’s mother-in-law continued to secretly fetch Ava from daycare so that she could spend time with her without op’s knowledge. Op exposed her to the family, while her husband got a restraining order from her.
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1st need to charge your MIL with assault & Battery child abuse. She had no right to do what she and your SIL needs to be charged with accessory to the crime...
Yeah
The breastfeeding was bad, the MIL wanting the baby to call her momma was the scariest part.
Both very scary.
MIL needs therapy. She also needs to be kept away from the family.
No shame in being unable to breastfeed! It happens. A fed baby is a happy baby ❤
Yes there is…
I never produced milk with all 3 of my kids. They were all healthy
There's also other issues - I couldn't breastfeed my son because my body temperature was too high. His milk has needed to come straight from the refrigerator his entire 30 years now. My daughter made me lactose intolerant during pregnancy and she required soy based formula and now at 24 she chooses Almond milk.
@@indianheadjerry2622 no there isn’t any shame. If a woman cannot produce breast milk it is not her fault. Are you a parent or mom? If not, SHUT THE F UP. If you are, you’re very misinformed. I trust a doctor over someone random on the internet or even in my own family.
Educate yourself.
Amen!
If my MIL had attempted to do this physical violence would ensue.
I agree
I am glad her husband finally seen the light and did what he needed to. Also thank God Ava is alright and hopefully they will get to find new jobs and get far away from this toxic environment
My oldest sister beat her mother in law up at a family BBQ. She got tired of her bullying and threats😅😅😅😅😅
The MIL should respect boundaries and demanding that her grandchild be breastfed and breastfeeding her grandchild is not acceptable. . Op's husband needs to stand up and defend his wife and stop trying to be a momma's boy. MIL needs to stop being clingy and let the parents raise their daughter.
My family has bottle feed for generations and we’ve all been healthy. Fed is best, no one should feel like a failure for using formula.
I'm am absolutely speechless at the length this grandmother went to. I would be in jail if this happened to one of my children. People are just freaking crazy these days! Smh.....🙄
The husband should have had a spine and taken care of the MIL and protected his family
Exactly! What a mommy's boy.
The reason that the child was having bowel issues is simply because of the rapid, as in daily or every few days, changes in her diet. Mother giving the child formula and MIL giving the child breast milk. You were absolutely correct to stop MIL’s visits.
Listening to this MIL story made my blood boil. Seriously if my MIL ever did anything like that she would never see my child again until my child was older. And if my husband didn't have my back then I would take my child and leave. There is nothing wrong with not breastfeeding, yes breastmilk could be the best but not always.
You would think after the whole family cutting her off she would take the hint that she was in the wrong. But no, she can't comprehend that she's in the wrong and her husband is just as bad for enabling her when he shouldn't have.
@@onepieceisking5493 I know right. She should have told him to grow a pair after the fight they had, instead of giving her the cold shoulder and expecting her to apologize to him mom. I know that being married you gotta pick your battles however when he chose to marry her, she should have always come before the mom. You know what I mean.
The fact that OP was a spineless doormat didn't help either
Wow this story is crazy, how dare that woman do that with her Granddaughter, just wow.
“Clearly your mother didn’t raised you right”
I would be Decking her HARD that her nose is bleeding and she knows her place😤
When someone insults my mother expect me to hulk out!
Wtf is it with people trying to breastfeed SOMEONE ELSES BABY?!?!?!! Seriously?
I truly cannot see why anyone would be disgusted by this. In the Old South, the gentlewomen used to have slave women feed their babies this way. Only thing I'm against is doing it in secret.
@@MrBeevee5 it is 2023 and not back in the slavery days. It is disgusting and out of line. Obviously they knew it was wrong or why do it in secret?
@@MrBeevee5 yeah, well no sane woman wants her old menopausal MIL who has to take pills breastfeeding her child.
@@Carolina0108 If you meant this story, I agree. If back in the day, it was an accepted practice.
@@MrBeevee5 I get what you are saying but still disgusting no matter what time period. Accepted doesn't make it any better. These are only my opinions.
I absolutely HATE the whole 'Breast is best' mentality! Just because OP can't produce milk herself doesn't mean MIL is greenlit to breastfeed her daughter. As long as the baby is fed who gives a s***t?! Also what is it with people like MIL looking down on women for not being able to breastfeed their babies? Formula is just as good and sometimes can be better, so people need to shove this narrow-minded view where the sun doesn't shine and get over themselves... MIL that includes you. As it is regardless of the medical test results the daughter ended up sick because MIL breastfed her and deserves to go to jail for endangering the daughter with her nasty poisonous milk.
Breast is best. But, if you can’t and don’t want to that is also fine. Stop separating us women.
Leslie I totally agree with you, well said!! X
@@nottycm5010 what a stupid comment!
What the actual hell?!? Who breastfeeds someone else's child?? Who the heck breastfeeds until 3 yrs old?? Good lord, kids have teeth. Not being able to breastfeed will not bring about the apocalypse. Good job on restraining order.
I was looking for someone else who seems just as appalled as I am. First off, it's none of the MIL's business. Secondly, MIL is a SICK TICKET for breastfeeding her DIL's child. And until 3 years old? What kind of twistedness is this?
I would NEVER let my MIL ever go near my child if she pulled a stunt like that. Right on with the restraining order. If my hubby didn't back me up, I would be gone and trust we would be bringing up MIL's antics in court. Eff that.
@@Claudia-lq3ns exactly! Totally agree. I would have disappeared and none of them would have access to my baby anymore.
If the parents thought they were doing what’s right for their granddaughter, why offer hush money?
Because they know deep down that it's a fantasy, not reality.
Not breastfeeding is not the end of the world. It doesn't make you a bad mother or less of a woman. You obviously made sure that your daughter is well fed. That's what is important. The cuddles you give her when you or your husband gives her the bottle is also a bonding experience. That's what is going to matter in the end. Your mother in law is an ass hat. Keep doing what you're doing. Sounds like you're doing just fine.
Right I have 5 kids I tried to breastfeed all of them but 2 of them I ended up giving bottles too. They’re grown now and I can assure you they could care less. They care that we loved them not how they were fed
@@amandamartin7020 Exactly.
Oh hell no! Just the title is infuriating me, and I haven't even listened to the video yet. My mother tried a similar thing with me when I had my twins! Unbeknownst to me, when she found out I was pregnant she had her doctor put her on Progesterone because she was going to be "adopting" a baby in 7 months. For those that do not know, a woman can be put on Progesterone which tricks her body into thinking it's pregnant. Then when they stop taking it months later, the body will think she gave birth, and she will start to lactate. It is typically done when a woman knows she will be adopting a baby month's away at birth.
Anyway, my mother had this idea that since I was having twins I would need help with breastfeeding. Like really?! At the time she smoked, drank, was on heavy duty bipolar medication, and she thought she could breastfeed my babies!? She knew had she gone to her regular doctor, he would have said no. So, she found a doc in the town over, lied to said doc and said she was 40 (she was really 55 but did look younger), and paid cash so it would not get charged to her insurance. This was 25 years ago so doc offices weren't very strict on verifying who a patient was if they were paying cash. After I gave birth, she went with me to the breastfeeding workshops the hospital offered. The day we got home from the hospital, she let me in on her plan. I was livid! And was she doing this because she wanted so much to help me? No. She told me that she never breastfed me or my siblings, so she thought I would live the idea of letting her experience it as a grandmother. I told her exactly where to take her breast, and the shriveled up milk inside of them, as they WOULD NOT be anywhere near my children. We didn't speak for about a year. We made up when I found out she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She fully took accountability for her crazy actions, and apologized profusely. She did survive and is now 80, and thankfully NOT trying to breastfeed anymore babies. I do wonder sometimes if taking the Progesterone for 7 months somehow contributed to her getting breast cancer. I hope not. will update my opinion after I listen to the entire saga.
ETA. Yes, while breast milk is always best, there is nothing wrong with formula, as long as you use a top quality formula, as some cheaper ones are sketchy with their ingredients. I contracted salmonella poisoning when the twins were 4 months, and they in turn got it from my breast milk. They both ended up in the hospital, and my son nearly died. I tried to "pump and dump" until we were all healthy again. But, the stress made my milk dry up, so I was only able to nurse my twins for 4 month, and they were on formula for the next 6 months. I breastfed my youngest for 2 years, and all 3 are healthy, happy, perfect, and one would never be able to tell which of my children drank formula. If MIL and FIL thought there was nothing wrong with what they did, why did they beg, demand, and triy to bribe OP not to tell their son. This MIL is certainly off her rocker!
I nominate her WORST MIL EVER! The woman is INSANE. Thank goodness OP's husband finally woke up. His mother is completely NUTS. I can't even imagine taking pills to start breastfeeding again to breastfeed my grandchild! This is the worst thing I've ever heard. I'm outraged and it's not even my baby.
I'm with you. I'm stunned they offered her hush money.
This one infuriated me, but I'm so glad the husband accepted the truth and supported his wife and daughter. And it was very satisfying that they got a restraining order, AND exposed her antics to the community. Obviously MIL knew what she was doing was wrong, because she tried to keep it all on the DL.
I feel horrible for any mother that has to go through something like this. What makes it worse is that the husband lacked the spine to protect his family. OP is a Saint for being patient with him, because I would have left long before some of this stuff was brought to light.
My ex wife couldn’t breastfeed, we formula fed my daughter she is now 16
Totally sick!
You got to have boundaries young lady you can't live an elderly woman that has backward thinking to your future stop giving her information to use against you cut her off of all knowledge on how your daughter is being raised please 🙏😢
Thanks for this story. I have 4 kids in their 20s, and this issue of grandparenthood will, I'm sure, be just around the corner. I have 2 girls and 2 boys. I'm just learning how to be a parent of adult kids. Not that I would ever breastfeed behind one of my kids' back, which is ridiculous!!!! I'm certainly learning from these kinds of stories about adult kids and their partners. Thankyou
I think a good rule of thumb with your adult kids and their partner's is Don't offer unasked for advice. I don't think these Redit's are the place to go to look for how kids and partner's interact with parents. these are mostly disfunctional families.
right my sons are 19 and I would never dream of over stepping like that
When I had my daughter I breastfed her but my milk was not enough even though she got both breasts at each feeding. She would cry and cry and I was at a loss as to what to do. So I asked my Mom what to do and she suggested giving her formula in a small bottle but put a tiny bit of rice cereal in the bottle. I did just that and there was no more crying, she would sleep and I could have a little peace and quiet. My daughter is 40 now and she used the same old school remedies I learned from my Mother.
I did that with my first 3 too, then I found out doing things like that increases the risk of SIDS dramatically, it can also mess up baby's digestive system if they start solids too early
I was formula fed because my mother became ill after I was born and my grandmother had to care for me. I have always been extremely healthy all my life. I am 69 and still working. I loathe the breastfeeding Nazis who try and force mothers to breastfeed. I was lucky and was able to breastfeed all three of my children but I would never have criticised a mother who chose to use formula. There is a lot of nonsense about formula being pushed by ignorant people.There is nothing wrong with formula. It is made to mimic breastmilk as closely as possible. OP's mil is being ridiculous. I would not gave apologisedto her, it only made the mil think that she can do what she likes with impunity. The mil breastfeeding OP's baby is disgusting and out of line.
You can't get arrested for kidnapping when the daycare had permission to give the daughter to the grandmother.
But you can get arrested, and sent to prison for a very long time, for sexually assaulting your granddaughter. And that is exactly what grandma did.
The grandmother knew that son & DIL had disowned her. They refused to talk to her. She knew damn well thar she shouldn't be going anywhere near Ava.
The daycare is off the hook because DIL forgot to update the pick-up list.
It is still KIDNAPPING for grandma to take the child without permission from the parents - which she knew she would never get.
She knew exactly what she was doing & needs to face the reprocutions.
@@susanmcpeak7267 it doesn't matter, she took the kid with permission, whether she personally knew that or not. Cops don't want to arrest people, in most cases, especially a grandma who made a kinda mistake when technically she was "allowed". Trust me, getting arrested can't happen.
Press charges against the MIL & school.
Formula is wonderful. Some parents like op can't breastfeed or just don't want to. And that is totally fine. As long as baby is happy, it doesn't matter what they are eating. Fed is best and you're doing great no matter what
Things like this are why they now push "fed is best" for babies. I dealt with some of this because I pushed myself and delayed my own healing to breast feed my kids for the first 90 days (there are studies about this part) but I really do wish more people had been understanding. I got snide comments from some people when breast feeding and snide comments from other people while formula feeding basically no matter what I did I was a bad Mom did wonders for my post partum depression (the last one got so bad that I ended up trying to self end)
I would get a restraining order against MIL
The audacity of this woman. And her husband (FIL) offering hush money so she wouldn't tell the son. This gets more and more twisted.
What I find shocking is the medical person who was giving her the hormone shot in order to produce milk without finding out what baby she is going to be feeding. 🤷♀️
She was taking hormone pills she got from a "friend"...
Omg with all the stories from MIL this one goes to the top 10
It is a shame that moving far away also keeps Ava from her maternal grandmother as much too.. Her paternal grandmother should never see her again, period!
When I was younger, my mom's mother did this to me. Not the breastfeeding, she tried to get me to call her mama. She tried really hard to get me to call her mama and I wouldn't do it. When she couldn't get me to call her mom, she decided that she wanted me to call her Gammy. She didn't want anyone to know that I was her granddaughter. Being a grandma made her sound too old, so she wanted me to call her gammy instead of grandma. I started calling her by her first name before I was even ten years old. I tried very hard to not be around her after that. If mama and I were at a family gathering or something. I would just make sure that I did not let her get anywhere near me.
Hearing stories like these makes me less sad that my mother in law died before I ever got the chance to meet her.
I had the most wonderful parents-in-law. My MIL was totally loving (Dad, too). I loved sharing time with her, and after 34 years I still love and miss her. You could have been lucky and had a Mil like mine.
My in-laws are amazing.. I tell my husband his parents love me more than him 🤭well, FIL passed away 2yrs ago but my MIL got me playing candy crush with her.. Lol
“He isn’t a mama’s boy…” yes he is… he’s looking for mama’s love more than care for his own family.
Bruce's Mom / MIL = ENTITLED KAREN 💯🔥
OP talks about her husband like they aren't even together
Listening to reddit stories made me understand that maintaining peace also means enabling the indecent actions of the other party. It's kinda embarrassing to learn that just now at 25 but I've always been trained by my mother to 'just do it' or 'just listen' to maintain the peace around my father's side of the family.
Dump this toxic family, and especially your husband who is enabling his mother, undermining your parenting. No excuses.
That doctor should have give OP the option of taking meds to produce milk and not the m-i-l.
Breastfeeding is optimal but the goal is a healthy baby and mom. People who bully women when they cannot or choose not to breastfeed are bullying AHs. Not anyone's business but mom's, and they don't need to justify their decisions to anyone. Was up to Dad in this to take sides, specifically to take his wife's side, and set clear boundaries on his family. OP and her husband needed to shine their spine - they knew what they needed to do but just wimped out on standing up to toxic MiL. OP was wrong to get angry with daycare since MiL was still on the approved list to pick up the child, and there were really no grounds to arrest MiL for kidnapping.
This MIL has totally lost her mind. OP and family really do need to move as soon as they can. Job transfer, maybe? FIL needs to watch out as without Ava, she may loose it and kidnap someone else's child. 😻😁😻
Not being able to breastfeed a baby(ies) isn’t the end of the world. Women around the world either choose not to or can’t. It’s no one’s business and no apologies need to be made to anyone. MIL wouldn’t be able to breastfeed MY BABY because as soon as I found out, she’d be sans both breasts. OP’s husband should’ve shut his mother down immediately. I hope little Ava was tested for communicable diseases.
I think that this woman needs mental health or go to jail.
Mil is delusional and needs treatment for real. And it's good that they're keeping ava away and safe. ❤❤❤❤❤
It’s past time to imprison ur MIL. That’s assault and abuse
The restraining order was for sure something that needed to happen. Mil is sick and needs help. Its to bad she couldn't have been arrested. I don't know what I would have done, my first impulse would have been to knock her into the next state, but then I would have been arrested. As I said she is sick and should seek help.
OP didnt cross the line with MIL, MIL trying to aggregate OP and poke the mama bear
I would of never apologised to MIL and outed her to hubby.
Momma boys always defend their mothers until they truly get to see who the monster inside them is.
And sometimes they still choose to defend their mommys. It's kind of sick. Grow up and be a man.
OP couldn't tell if she had a girl or a boy. Within the first few minutes of this story Ava went from a girl to a boy then back to a girl again. 🥴😭🤣
If her in-laws thought this was normal if her father-in-law thought this was normal then why not tell his son what's the big deal why keep it a secret if it's so normal
MIL thought that you should breast feed until three? Yikes. By then they've had a full set of teeth for years already. Seems like a non-subtle hint from nature that it's time for solid food.
That's when you get her arrested for child abduction
2:13 I cracked up seeing animated MIL sneaking behind the bushes watching OP. 😂😂😂
Nta. Mil needs cut off for a while. Fed is best. Her doing what she did could be considered assault
Leave explicit instructions on who NOT to give your kid to. Immediately NC the woman, and inform husband he's next if he doesn't follow suit.
What the grandmother did was more than kidnapping. Each time she put her breast in that baby's mouth, she was sexually assaulting her. That no one saw it that way will continue to put Ava in danger for the rest of the grandmother's and grandfather's lives. I sincerely hope they managed to move a very long way away, and that the restraining order is made permanent. That grandmother should be serving prison time for sexually assaulting her granddaughter. What the mother doesn't know because she never successfully was able to breastfeed is most times when a woman puts a baby to the breast, she has an orgasm. If that isn't sexual abuse, then I don't know what is.
Wouldn't that be considered a form of sexual abuse?
We have been bottle fed for generations and were healthy as anyone else, probably more health than most honestly
This shows a super large red flag.
First she stalked you before your children ever born and after your children is born.
Second she causes lots of stress to you, while pregnant and ever after giving birth.
Some say stress is bad for the mother and baby, ever while pregnant.
Does your mother-in-law have mental disorders or disease?????
Sometimes you do have the Snoop down to their level when they won’t listen to you and they keep giving you back hand complaints
The fact this didn't stop at her first remark shows a massive failing on OPs husband's part
Edit: Ah he's siding with her, I'm shocked. SHOCKED I TELL YOU
Update 1: Oh for f***s sake people need to drop this 'don't stoop to her level' and 'be the bigger person', that's so damn weak. if someone verbally abuses you or your loved ones they're free game. 'You have to get along for the child', is setting the kid up for failure, by showing her this crap behavior is acceptable. OP needs to stop asking for permission to take her own damn child, and stop trying to appease Bruce's mommy. OP and the baby needs to be rid of all this toxic energy, Bruce can either get with the program or shove off
Update 2: What kinda 'Hand that rocks the cradle' hell have I stumbled into? This isn't just creepy, it's SICK! OP is right, she definitely wants that kid. Also like I said last time....Manbaby's gotta go
Update 3: Nope, him crying like a toddler's not gonna win me over. For all I know one talk with mommy and he's right back to enable her and his dad
Update 4: OP nailed it, when she said she was sure she wanted the baby. She just wants to keep playing mommy, in a peverse sickening way. And fiiiineeeee Bruce's got some worth after all.
Update 5: Given the theme of stories Mr Reddito reads, I saw this coming. MIL was a safety risk. She had to go
what kind of sick f**k sh*t is this!!! MIL & FIL both have serious mental issues. MIL f's up and FIL throws money at the problem to make it disappear. Wonder how many things he's had to 'fix'. And how I truly hate 'don't sink down to their level'. How else are you going to fix the problem. Keeping the peace just shows these people that you are weak and that's they will take full advantage of that. MIL knew what she was doing was wrong as hell but no one every stood up to her until OP. I'm glad Bruce finally pulled his head out of his Mom's b*tt and did what had to be done. Stay strong OP, that restraint order might stop MIL. When and if you can move, run hard, run long, run deep and don't look back!
3? Did she say 3? Age 3? That's so wrong. 2 at most is the age you should stop. 9 months at least is the age you should stop. But even if you formula feed you shouldn't feel bad. The only time you should feel bad is if your child us not eating.
I Would’ve blocked her after seeing what she did.
"Husband doesn't take sides. He doesn't want to choose between me or his mother."
The husband already is a failure for not standing up for his wife and tell his mother to fuck off.
The only ending: "Come on guys, what would you have done?" Call the cops for child abuse, call the cops for violating the restraining order if you see her in places where's she typically doesn't visit.
Seriously, what is it with people nowadays and refusing to get the cops involved? Many of these situations wouldn't have dragged on had the cops been called and charges pressed.
The husband DID take sides ..he stood behind his mother ...until he didn't but he shouldn't have done so to begin with
Had the mother-in-law taken estrogen at the same time, it would have been a disaster. The girl might have been able to develop breasts and get her period in infancy.
If you sunbathing topless you should remember that you are the one that took your top off, if someone sees you through the fence, or from another house, or another tree, etc. it is YOUR issue, your fault. Teen boys will be teen boys, they have been that way since the beginning of time. Talk to them about privacy, but ultimately, if you’re taking off your top in a yard next door to a teen boy, your asking for it. I bet this women was doing it fully aware of the prying eyes. She was either looking for the attention from the boy(s), or was fishing attempting to snag the friends ex-husband.
Of course if you can breastfeeding at least for a few days it gives your baby gut microbes are not only important for the babies health, but also their Neurocognitive Development. Lots of long term peer reviewed studies out there on the subject. If you can't though there is no shame either. I breastfeed my three, and let them self wean, but I NEVER EVER, and would NEVER EVER look down on or disparage mother's who don't. I hate people like the MIL! I'd be getting a restraining order, and suing her into the ground.
Dont get mad at the daycare folks because you didnt inform them 🤦🏾♀️
This MIL IS DEF ONE OF THE TOP. WEIRD/MEAN ONES
Sharing breast milk is normal even in the US. Doing it behind the parents’ backs and confusing a kid with calling yourself “Mom” ain’t normal nowhere.
She is the grandmother, not the mother🤬
She sounds like a real PITA
You let her get away with too much.
You should have given him the ice cold shoulder
OP, your MIL is a total lunatic. It's a shame you had to go through all that. Oh my God, your daughter could have been mentally damaged for life from old granny trying to recapture her youth.
Thank you for all the hard work you put into delivering these stories for everyone. It must take a lot of time to hunt down all these updates. I truly enjoy your content and you're a talented story teller. Keep up the great work ⭐️
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Yes he is a mommas boy and you don't need to ask for your own child . Just tell her your mom is taking you're child for a month .you are the parent not your mother inlaw
My oldest was breast fed for about 6 weeks before I dried up.. he is currently dux of his grade and one of the youngest of his grade too!
My youngest daughter was exclusively breastfed for 18 months before I became pregnant with my last, and while she is only 8, she is starting to struggle.
Breastfeeding has absolutely 100% ZERO affect on the child's educational accedemic abilities in the future.
Hell My mother breastfed me for 2 years and I am as dumb as a post, my partner wasn't breastfed at all given he was a micro premmie over 40 years ago and he has a less than 2% chance of survival, and if he did survive he would have no quality of life.... well he is completely normal today and he is so fricken smart!.... except for the fact his mother never bonded with him, and to this day he is still trying to seek her approval.
Breast feeding is important due to the antibodies that are transferred via the milk.
Still doesn't excuse the mother in law though, weird as hell.
OP getting mad at the staff though is her just being an ass for not wanting to accept her own mistake.
You're half right. It's the colostrum that is produced at the very beginning that transfers antibodies. I doubt MIL had that since she wasn't producing naturally.
The brother "Eric" is an A hole for not looking out for his niece.
3 years old?!?
Absurd!
People are ridiculous.
Seriously, a person can get screened breast milk for their baby...
Not like someone just randomly breastfeeding the baby without permission 😬
People who are in toxic situations and know they’re in them and still choose to stay in them < people who are in toxic situations and know they’re in them and leave
There is no shame by not breastfeeding. My mom couldn't her milk i didn't like so I was put on formula.
I want to puke 🤢 oh no no no
This is NOT normal
Ava already got the colostrum from you
Sharing experience is fine but opinions, that's a hard no. Every baby is different so raise each one as an individual and listen to medical professionals not old wives tales or something someone saw on the internet.
I wouldn’t have apologized 🤷♀️
OP should of got rid of the mama's boy. Such a waste of space.
Did anyone else have Hand that Rocks the Cradle vibe.
I would have protected my child from the get go
Well if he doesn't do anything about it tell him to pack his bags and go live with his mother
oh girl no no no stop putting up with this meddling MIL enough
I have 3 kids and did not produce a ounce of milk.
I think it’s up to the person if they want to keep
Well from what I know because we feed formula to our baby's and they grew up healthy
Keep it a secret🤦♀️