Grandma Left Me Massive Inheritance, Family Attacks Me Out of Envy - Accuse Me of Manipulating Her

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    OP's Grandma Mary passed away, and at the reading of her will, the OP was shocked to learn that Grandma Mary had left them her entire estate, including all her money. The rest of the family was furious, accusing the OP of manipulating Grandma Mary and stealing their inheritance. The OP went into hiding at a motel to avoid their family's anger. The family reported the OP to the police for theft, but the lawyer who handled Grandma Mary's will confirmed that the OP was the rightful inheritor. The police released the OP, but warned them to avoid contact with their family. The OP was emotionally drained and hurt by the family's betrayal.
    Later, the uncles who accused the OP were arrested for wasting police time. The family begged the OP to use some of the inheritance to bail them out, but the OP refused, realising their family's betrayal was unforgivable. The family tried to reconcile, but the OP was furious and decided to cut all ties. The OP took their inheritance, packed up, and moved to a new state, blocking their family's numbers. The OP expressed gratitude for the support from the Reddit community and advised others to stand up for their rights and surround themselves with genuine care. The OP was determined to use the inheritance to build a better life and looked forward to a brighter future.
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ความคิดเห็น • 416

  • @Pharaohgodcomplex
    @Pharaohgodcomplex ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Money never changes people. It reveals who a person really is

    • @abuabdoalwaheed9967
      @abuabdoalwaheed9967 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I always say that, it just brings the inside out

    • @adventureoflinkmk2
      @adventureoflinkmk2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Money... money never changes.

    • @frankieki
      @frankieki 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup, this comment said after a very famous Farrah Gray Quote: “Money doesn't change who you are; it magnifies who you really are.”

  • @timeladyinsanity
    @timeladyinsanity ปีที่แล้ว +213

    My grandparents had a clause that if you contest and are found to not be in the right you lose your share of inheritance and have to pay all lawyers fees

    • @deborahpowell7791
      @deborahpowell7791 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      my granny had the same in her but if they did contest it all they got was 1 dollar

    • @priceprice_baby
      @priceprice_baby 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yeah, my parents are well and truly alive but said they have a clause that if we fight over it it goes to Charity

    • @sharonhaun4014
      @sharonhaun4014 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sounds like a great plan! Still in the fight over it. They don't deserve it. My ex-husband's stepsisters when their mom died or fighting over one of her dresses in the bedroom and ripped it before she even been buried

    • @francinetitherington4060
      @francinetitherington4060 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My Mum Stepdad did too. My stepbrother backed off once he was told that by the attorney.

  • @TheTweetybird1122
    @TheTweetybird1122 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    The family calling cops shows you exactly why gma Mary left op the inheritance

  • @MoriacMumma7
    @MoriacMumma7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Looks like Grandma Mary could see all the phonies in her family so left it all to the one person who was open & honest.

  • @jlyle51
    @jlyle51 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Your grandmother probably seen into your heart. And liked what she seen.

  • @risingrat5491
    @risingrat5491 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    You know.. if one elderly death causes your whole family to fall apart, it means that your family never was whole and that elderly person spend their whole life holding up every one like in “grandma” cage.

  • @christineb629
    @christineb629 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    OP's grandmother wasn't holding this family together. The thought of her money is what had everyone getting along, and sucking up so they get a better inheritance. But, I am glad Grandma knew better and saw through them all. Also, you can tell by OPs personality in her writing, that had the family just shut up during the reading, OP probably would have split the inheritance without a second thought.

    • @tracygardner6318
      @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Agree

    • @markgoodwin6266
      @markgoodwin6266 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      👍

    • @robertx8020
      @robertx8020 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So EVERYBODY was showning love was 'sucking up to her ' but OP showing love was 'true love?
      Really? Not a single person of this large family loved her?
      I call BS and feel OP was jsut her golden GC

    • @claudeyaz
      @claudeyaz ปีที่แล้ว +9

      OP thought the same...read the post again. She was expecting the updates when she made the first post.. "MY HARD EARNED INHERITANCE," line. Exposed them.
      Wow impressive. Hope granny felt the love though

    • @claudeyaz
      @claudeyaz ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@robertx8020 I agree. If the story is real. OP exposed themselves when she literally followed the usual reddit advice BEFORE hand, and had made the first post. She was expecting the whole situation. And the reddit post would have been useful if her family was smart and not made upstoriea. But hired a lawyer..It made her "look innocent," but this whole story smells.
      The "hard earned inheritance," comment...plus the "I have learned that..learned that..lesson of,: stuff?
      Very scary post

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    There’s no such thing as talking things out with your family they’ve shown who they truly are OP

    • @robertx8020
      @robertx8020 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True BUT..eventhough she was 'so close' to her GM she never makes clear if she even wanted to spend 1 cent towards the funeral
      Don't no why GM gave everything to OP either ...she must have secretly hated them all

    • @swansonskull3154
      @swansonskull3154 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@robertx8020most likely she saw each of their characters and ultimately decided the one who deserved it was the one who wasn't in it for the money but because she cared for her own well being near the end of her life

    • @robertx8020
      @robertx8020 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@swansonskull3154 Yes that's possible

  • @bagdadbob3391
    @bagdadbob3391 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You did the right thing. Had they been civil and understanding I'm sure you would have helped them out. They deserve NOTHING. Best of luck.

  • @stevetalley5800
    @stevetalley5800 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I'm glad you didn't give those greedy vultures a dime! They wouldn't do anything for their own grandma. And had the audacity to file false charges on you. Grands was the backbone of the family. Enjoy your inheritance and don't look back!

  • @mbyerly9680
    @mbyerly9680 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Funeral costs are usually charged to the estate if there is much of an estate. Often, someone will foot the bill so the funeral isn't delayed, then the cost will be submitted to the estate. The bonds OP sees being broken have always been broken. The grandmother was the duct tape that held the family together.

    • @jonathanmckay1070
      @jonathanmckay1070 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      My thoughts exactly, they're probably always fighting and never really forgave eachother. But she was the duct tape to this Chaos of a family. Sometimes ppl think it's this waay. When it was that way along. But she was shielded and

    • @annkupke4263
      @annkupke4263 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Some people buy their funeral arrangements ahead of time so not to bother the family. My dad died and he did not prepare so we had to payback my grandma estate when she died. My aunt still tac on it when she sells properties of the estate. Only her kids and her benefitted. We are still not getting any money. I refuse to sign any paperwork nor claim taxes cause I have not recieve no money. When she dies I am going to celebrate. She is an evil woman and her husband is just the same. Her daughter uses foster kids as a means for income.

    • @jennilynne1977
      @jennilynne1977 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My grandpa prepaid his and my grandma's funeral, so when both of them passed away, my mom and uncles didn't have to pay for anything.

    • @superdave8248
      @superdave8248 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have no idea where this story is taking place. And in the US, each state has their own unique flavor of estate management. I can't claim to be an expert of the field in even one state.
      But generally speaking, if you have property you need a will. That will, will layout all of your wishes including funeral expenses. Now with Grandma well aware she was sick and likely dying, I have to scratch my head if no will was in place. If there is a will, why is anybody fighting other than poorly handling their grief on the passing?
      Now, assuming no will is in place, an administrator can be setup to run the estate. Generally speaking if the family of heirs can't agree to who that can be, the estate sits in limbo until either (1) an agreement is reached on who will administer the estate or (2) somebody does it once they legally can. I don't know if every state in the US is the same, but in mine if no decision has been reached within three months of the person passing, the first one who shows up at the clerk of court is the winner or loser depending on your point of view.
      Now, the estate pays for the funeral if there is any money left. Funeral expenses is priority number one I believe. So even if the family pays for it out of pocket, the estate will still need to cover that expense before the estate is settled. Now, estates without wills cover financial assets. Generally speaking not physical assets like homes. These generally can be brought into the estate only if (1) everybody agrees to it (recommend getting that in writing) (2) the property is needed to cover the bills.
      The short of it all is that if you have minors involved if you own physical property, you need a will.
      Generally speaking, inheritance goes like this. Children, grandchildren, great grand kids, etc. No children? Then parents. No parents, then siblings. From siblings it goes to nieces and nephews. So unless the grandkids are next in line, there is nothing to really argue about. Their cut is likely to be so small as to be hardly making it worth while to even be involved. The more inheritors the more diluted the estate gets (without a will).

    • @Ladywizard
      @Ladywizard ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@superdave8248 There was a will... original post said they were all getting anxious about "the reading of the will" which doesn't really happen?

  • @CoCo-Five
    @CoCo-Five ปีที่แล้ว +112

    The fact they called the police and had OP arrested based on a false crime was enough for me to cut ties with all of them. The police probably went after the family because they knew they messed up when the lawyer showed up. I'm so glad OP decided to leave and start her life without any of them.

    • @michaelplunkett8059
      @michaelplunkett8059 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Go after them for filing a false police report.

  • @heidiproctor5503
    @heidiproctor5503 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    My Grammie recently passed and we are dealing with greedy green eyed family members too, I had hoped she’d be able to spoil herself longer on this earth. Inheritance is a family ender.

    • @Mr.Reddito
      @Mr.Reddito  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      tell people this happens in real life

  • @vickichavez9956
    @vickichavez9956 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I feel so sorry that OP had to go through the heartache of grandma passing and her family being greedy and hateful

  • @rwamchubb7977
    @rwamchubb7977 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I took care of my mom after my dad died . I got everything, my brothers said i deserved it all. My sisters of course contested. They were out of the house the longest and never around unless they needed money. Family ya can't live with them and ya can't live without them

  • @saxitopau1528
    @saxitopau1528 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Well the grandma could have done worse with her inheritance.
    She could have mirrored the man who declared that his wealth only be distributed 21 years after the death of his last surviving grandchild.
    The man who did this died in 1919, the money was finally distributed in 2011

    • @dubiouscollector9763
      @dubiouscollector9763 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bruh, his family had to be ass

    • @MalikEmmanuel
      @MalikEmmanuel 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wellington Burt!

    • @anonmouse15
      @anonmouse15 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I liked the guy who chose names at random from the phone book.

  • @pkolakoff4
    @pkolakoff4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My mom always said you don't know families true colors till someone is dying or has died I found that out first hand.

    • @dorothyfoust
      @dorothyfoust ปีที่แล้ว +2

      true... my siblings showed who they are...not pretty

  • @sheliawaymon9023
    @sheliawaymon9023 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Make your grandma proud, take that money and live a wonderful life and get some education once you decide what you want to do in life . Good luck 👍

  • @paulahowlett1043
    @paulahowlett1043 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Money turns people into vultures. You see their true self

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m happy OP is moving on with her life and has blocked them all

  • @shadewolfe1231
    @shadewolfe1231 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I keep getting hung up on random “flaws” in these stories. For example, the argument about everyone chipping in to pay for the funeral. That should come out of the estate…. Like, why would that even be up for discussion? It’s not like they have to wait until after the funeral to read the will…

  • @fantaseagrl7787
    @fantaseagrl7787 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This happened to my mom and her cousins when her aunt died. The money and possessions ruined their friendship. Unfortunately something like this shows who people really are....

  • @eliasnilsson6604
    @eliasnilsson6604 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "Inheritance" is a rusty dagger thrust into most families. A rusty dagger that brings out peoples ugliest faces. Im glad my family have a bit of tradition to sort out part of inheritances ahead of time to avoid conflicts later and for everyone to be able to focus on the right things when the time comes.

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I’m so sorry everything you went through OP deaths and marriages, bring out the worst in people

    • @CocoCece08
      @CocoCece08 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know how you feel. My aunt's family (I'm estranged cause I married a technician, not some dude with money) asked me to go to her funeral. I said no since they only wanted to save face. Best decision ever made.

  • @MrAnthon2
    @MrAnthon2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My grandmother was the same way in my family. This is the one on my mother's side. Mine has been gone awhile now and i still miss her

  • @coolmom999999
    @coolmom999999 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My Aunt is suing her own granddaughter because my grandfather signed the house over to her to go to medical school. My aunt got the entire contents of the house plus his IRA, but the is not enough for her. My niece ended up moving out of state to get away, but it is still in the courts.

  • @philg3914
    @philg3914 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    My brother and his kids did something similar when our mom passed. All i cared about were the cast iron skillets I used to help her fix homemade biscuits in and my niece *tried* to horn in on those AFTER they ransacked the house literally a couple of hours after she passed away.
    I have little doubt that if that kind of money were involved - this would be my brother. But mom wouldn't have left him out in the cold. so...
    I broke ties after the funeral. It's been 13 years... not one peep from them.
    I've heard other family horror stories from friends where a family death caused the vultures to descend. :(

  • @mikelawrence3108
    @mikelawrence3108 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Reminds me of my family, my mom was the glue to my family, when she passed, fight over what little inherentance there was (few hundred dollars), constantly fighting and everyone going their own way, some haven't made contact in the last 6 years

  • @MelanieCravens
    @MelanieCravens ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As far as I know, being arrested doesn't take away your inheritance. I don't know what the family thought that would accomplish.

  • @kiwikiwibun
    @kiwikiwibun ปีที่แล้ว +9

    for the OP, its quite simple they want money, tell them to shut up, be entitled! then ask them to discuss when everybody cooled down, if theres just any hint of spiked distress just call it off. even as her mom, since even granny totally entrusted everything to OP, thats really a wise decision of her since only her mourns.

  • @lynnechapman6204
    @lynnechapman6204 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I hope that OP finds her peace and lives a good life.

  • @rubintartt7723
    @rubintartt7723 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Inheritance and money will show people real colors believe or not. I also went through the same thing when my mother passed away.

  • @paularichard1204
    @paularichard1204 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Family fortunes can be wonderful or they can be the worst thing ever. OP's grandmother left the money to the one who SHOWED how much the grandmother was loved and SHOWED her concern for the grandmother. As the old saying goes, "Talk is cheap."
    My story doesn't involve millions, maybe a couple of thousand and some jewelry, but it caused a rift between my family and my godmother. My mom's sister (let's call her H) told my mom and me (64 year-old female), on the day of my 16th birthday, that she was giving me an antique Cameo dinner ring and that she had named me executor of her estate. Well, my godmother (call her Z) overheard this and was livid -- if you don't want to hear something you won't like, then don't eavesdrop on private conversations. Z was mean to H during their visit to my parents' home and on the trip back to their home town -- she was also upset with her mother and the other two aunts that had come with her because they thought it was a good idea (H had talked with the aunts - her sisters, actually - and her brothers about what she had planned and they all supported it). H died when I was about 31. As executor of the estate, I had to make the arrangements for the funeral, put her money into an account that allowed her brothers access so they could pay property taxes and do some upkeep to her home until it could be sold. Yes, the money WAS left to me. NO, I did NOT go overboard with the funeral expenses -- she was a person who lived frugally and did not want an elaborate funeral. And, NO, I did NOT keep any money when I moved it into the account that gave my uncles access. I got two other rings, a few books, and furniture -- the house was put in my uncles' names so they could sell it. Z stayed angry with H and me long after H's death. The reason H named me executor and put my name on her bank accounts was that Z had manipulated her father's brother and her own parents into naming her as their sole heir (cutting out her brothers and sisters from her parents estate and her cousins from their fathers estate). H knew I would do what was right with the money and not go too far nor skimp too much with the funeral arrangements. Z approached me the day of H's funeral telling me she hoped I spent the rest of H's money as frugally on myself as I did her funeral and that I did NOT deserve any of H's money NOR the rings I got. Z never apologized for the things she said to me, my mom, or H; but I forgave her as did my mom. I did learn that the LOVE of money is the root of evil due to that experience.

  • @LindaSmith-vq1br
    @LindaSmith-vq1br ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The first lawyer joke I was told by a lawyer was “Where there is a will, there is a lawsuit “. Sigh…..

  • @thewriter2050
    @thewriter2050 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Either I know OP (and her family) or this story is a crazy coincidence...down to the names...😧

    • @jenniferhunter3751
      @jenniferhunter3751 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @elisejackson2854
      @elisejackson2854 ปีที่แล้ว

      Small world. Was it in the news?

    • @thewriter2050
      @thewriter2050 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Elise Jackson I don't think so...

    • @anonmouse15
      @anonmouse15 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Attacking each other like starving wolverines about inheritance is a proud tradition in many families.

  • @rosecarrejo3940
    @rosecarrejo3940 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good for you OP. Live life that your Grandma would be proud of you living Blessings to you

  • @latonyalee4730
    @latonyalee4730 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OP did the right thing and cut ties with her toxic family... I'm glad you've moved on with your life and left the leaches behind!!!

  • @user-dl1cf4xr6t
    @user-dl1cf4xr6t ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Same happened in my family, but there was no millions to get. Just an old house.
    My dad and his siblings didn't see or talk to each other for 20 years now...

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If your family hates your guts because you got the money block them all they need to honor the wishes of your grandmother even if they don’t like the outcome, it’s not like you’re some gold digger or some man after her money

  • @beverlyalexander5966
    @beverlyalexander5966 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is alot like my family. When my Mother passed in 2015 things with my kids relationship with each other are not as it was ,
    my Mother kept them together I don't have my Mother's way of keeping the peace between my kids. She was our backbone, counselor, mentor and lord how we all miss her. I have tried to tell them that grandma would be disappointed in they and it last a month or two. 😢

  • @jesscadrod4218
    @jesscadrod4218 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for bringing back the peace!!

  • @hvymax
    @hvymax ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OP should sue the police as well. Double your money!!!

  • @rinkevichjm
    @rinkevichjm ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Grandma united all the family by giving the granddaughter all the money.

  • @wendythompson1529
    @wendythompson1529 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My father got a divorce from my step mother when I was in my late 20s. I am in my late 50s now. He passed away 5 years ago. I was the original witness to his will in that it was meant to be divided equally amongst my brother, half sister and I. Somehow my ex step mother and half sister got everything. My brother and I were not even invited to the funeral nor given any info on it. People can be really fucked up....

    • @Neuzahnstein
      @Neuzahnstein 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds strange

  • @Odd_Interaction
    @Odd_Interaction ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish OP the best if luck. Money usually causes more family issues than most people understand.
    Some people think that they have a say on their parents or grandparents money.
    They absolutely do not, it was Grandma’s money to do with as she wished.
    Don’t give in, it will never solve any family issues that came up.
    Because they believe you cheated them out of their “fair” share of someone else’s money.
    Sounds like it is time for you to charge your family for lying to the police and having you arrested.
    If you do not fight back it will only get worse.

  • @nathan3252
    @nathan3252 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where ever you go never tell anyone about your full wealth. The greater the wealth the more they will want to get some of it. The less they know the more genuine they will be.

  • @VictoriaLavender
    @VictoriaLavender ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Entitlement is a crazy thing! We had a Trust, flat out everything to surviving spouse kind. Step son lost his mind! I had to walk and move away.

  • @rdbuckels
    @rdbuckels ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OP should have told them about splitting it up between everyone, but when they tried to get her arrested, she gave their payouts to charity. Just to mess with them. Then move away like she did. 😂

  • @betterlatethannever7337
    @betterlatethannever7337 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    OP, your grandmother knew what she was doing.
    Honor her wishes.
    Use the money she left to make a better life for yourself.
    And learn to love yourself the way she did.

  • @castironmarshmello7430
    @castironmarshmello7430 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My MOTHER had nothing to leave and they (30+family members) went after me like a dog in heat. Brother, sisters their kids and grandchildren. My life has never been the same , since I laid my mom to rest. Panic attacks, PTSD, AND Anxiety diagnosed. All because I would Not abandon my OUR MOTHER AND GRANNY at the end of her life. That's been a couple of years, but I AM FINISHED WITH THE WHOLE DAMN GROUP. SAVE 2. IT WAS 10 SIBLINGS ABOUT 2O NIECES AND NEPHEWS PLUS THEIR CHILDERN. Freedom from TOXIC RELITIVES IS A VICTORY WELL WON. GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME, even when I could bare no more✝️‼️FAMILY CRAP SMELL THE WORSE‼️

    • @jenniferhunter3751
      @jenniferhunter3751 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Say cut the hell off 😡 whew my emotions are all over the place with this one 😭

  • @onepieceisking5493
    @onepieceisking5493 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Reminds me of how my dad's family completely fell apart after his mom passed away. I was six when she did and was the only one of my sisters that knew her. I used to be very close to two cousins on that side of the family but after she passed away those relationships broke. Now my dad's father doesn't want anything to do with anyone and refuses to leave New Mexico for anything not even for the funeral of his oldest son. He's also made it clear that he doesn't want to be family. My middle sister was asked if we had any grandparents left, she told them biologically we have one left but relationship wise, no we don't. The only one close to him is one my dad's sisters and we're pretty sure it's just for the money. The only family I'm close to is my mom's side of the family minus her disowned brother.

    • @sacredseraphim3987
      @sacredseraphim3987 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same thing for me but it was my Grandfather. Almost exactly like yours with a few differences. It's so sad to think about. Unfortunately my grandmother was just like your grandfather. The one who was close to her was my Uncle and that was because he used her for free room and board. Glad to know this wasn't unique even though it sucks.

    • @onepieceisking5493
      @onepieceisking5493 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sacredseraphim3987 so sorry to hear that. It does suck when a family just shatters. Specially when you have only one grandparent left and they don't want to be family. He was also very abusive to my dad when he grew up, part of why I actually don't want anything to do with my dad's father.

    • @annkupke4263
      @annkupke4263 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am estranged from a younger sister. She was rude to my current fiancée when I introduced her to him. I am also estranged from my stepmother that raised me. She catered to my sister and never helped me out when I needed her. I seen her only when my sister went to visit her son and grandkids at my moms house. Well this year she kicked my nephew out and he doesn't want anything to do with her. I need to tell him it is. A blessing cause she uses people for her gain. She never went and picked me up if I needed to go anywhere due to car issues, never helped me out financially yet was jealous of my MIL AND VISITING HER OR DOING THINGS WITH MY INLAWS. I GOT DIVORCED AND I HAVE NOT TOLD MY STEPMOTHER ABOUT IT. ALSO I REFUSE TO BE AROUND HER WHEN SHE TRIES TO QUESTION MY RELIGIOUS FAITH.

    • @marleneperry6972
      @marleneperry6972 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, people these days... money has become an evil vessel. My family lives nearby a coal Co. so becuz there were mining on our land we were supposed to get a certain %. But greedy relatives manipulated it away from my grandmother and used it on themselves, karma came back in my family having more educated individuals unlike their family. They do not have one educated individual since they stole all that $ since.

  • @thomasaitken7495
    @thomasaitken7495 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Unfortunately I have a similar story. My grand parents died last year (October and December). I don't know if they left much in the way of inheritance, I never really cared about that kind of thing, but the youngest of my aunts managed to get a power of attorney and took everything left behind. 2 properties and then some. All she ever did was get black out drunk, disappear for weeks on end, abandon her son who literally ended his own life. This has been nothing but drama since it happened.
    I wanted to forgive her for the way she treated me in the past, and my faith will have me do that anyway. But I know I will never have to see her again and I don't soo much as care one bit. I only dread when my parents die I will have to go through the same with my sister. She is every bit as much the same type of person. Any time my mother tries to reconcile with my sister, it always becomes about money that my sister needs. My mother pays her light bill, helps her get a car, and it's never enough to satisfy my sister.
    I'm unfortunate that I have to live with my parents. Medical issues, lack of work, bad luck and decisions. Once my parent pass I will become homeless so my sister can get her half of everything.

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You need to start planning now. You need to see what you can do to earn money and get yourself out of this mess. Make sure there is a will so you can at least get half. Make sure that you, not your sister, get power of attorney or let the lawyers handle it. Remind your parents of what happened when your grandparents died if you have to and tell them that their last act of care for their children is to get this sorted out.

  • @MichaelClark-uw7ex
    @MichaelClark-uw7ex ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so true, I've seen families completely destroyed over inheritances.

  • @Sienna6164
    @Sienna6164 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Their reactions show why OP was left all of the money.
    And for those in the audience, if you want to know who a person or people really are, give them $500 to fight over.

  • @pak-man7429
    @pak-man7429 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The cops made themselves look like idiots for trying to arrest someone based on rumors and hearsay. With a minimum of investigation, they would have realized what was happening.

  • @monicasalyer8875
    @monicasalyer8875 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Big big hole in the story: If the family didn't know where the OP was staying, how could they have sent the cops to have her arrested?
    Because you KNOW if the family knew wherebshe was, they wouls be banging on that door themselves.

  • @Muney-hl9jh
    @Muney-hl9jh ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Wow, just wow. I have nothing to say about how I feel about this family, enraged is an underestimate of the anger I feel towards this toxic greedy family. OP was the only one who truly felt love for her grandma as a person and not as a free bank account to dip into. My suggestion to OP, get a new phone number, the family might try and call you from a different number to call you.

    • @bcase5328
      @bcase5328 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't delay in set up your will naming a nationally recognized charity as beneficiary if you die (before writing an new will). And after you have it, let that information slip to the in family gossip. And continue to distance yourself from your family. They need time to come to their senses. You need time to moan and heal from the lost. Don't give them money. Don't make any big decisions. Don't spend much more then your need to be safe, but be safe. You need time to sit with the changes (without others in your ear).

    • @betterlatethannever7337
      @betterlatethannever7337 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I had to sever ties with my family for 8 years or so to get them to quit looking at me as an ATM.

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad Uncle got arrested and what a nerve to ask Opie to get them out of jail. Those uncles deserve to be arrested

  • @barbaraharris7602
    @barbaraharris7602 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Greed and selfishness often surfaces at family deaths. My brother, sister and myself have always known that we would never fight over my parent’s estate. We did not. There was nothing they had that was worth fighting with them over. Watching our parents and their brothers and sisters after their parents death, learning by their example how to do things correctly. Their were no fights or coldness. My family has always been completely amazing.

  • @susanpendell4215
    @susanpendell4215 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They were shocked because they are full of themselves and believe that they should just get something because they're related. Some people never grow up, stop to think of anyone else but their own selves, that's why. Your will means that you get to decide who get's your stuff when you're gone, period. Other don't get to decide what is YOUR WILL. "Fair or unfair" a person decides what goes to who. After all it was her stuff. We can't contest a person's will as it is theirs to begin with. We can only ask if we can have something if someone else doesn't want or need it. BUT we can't force nor should we cooerse someone to give us anything. What you might do is give everyone a piece each, that is something that they like to remember her by, that is if they won't sell it for money. You don't owe them anything. Your grandma was wise in that she chose you, because you aren't the materialist, like your other relatives.

  • @karinaashmon
    @karinaashmon ปีที่แล้ว

    Block them all. Have grandma's lawyer call a meeting and serve them all restraining order against them

  • @sherrischweigl6860
    @sherrischweigl6860 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Once the matriarch of the family passes, so does the closeness of the family whether money is involved or not.

  • @tonkatonka8024
    @tonkatonka8024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Think I would be bothered about family if I got that amount of money.
    They showed their true colours so tough

  • @davidmarion3119
    @davidmarion3119 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoy what your grandma left you and knows her loves you

  • @dshsdjkl
    @dshsdjkl ปีที่แล้ว

    You did the right thing cutting ties with that horrible family. They were like vultures circling around your poor grandma just waiting for her to pass to try and get a nibble of the inheritance

  • @yaff1851
    @yaff1851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The sad thing is that good old guilt tripping would have worked with OP.

  • @tracyrieonhall7434
    @tracyrieonhall7434 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would've got the money and moved to an entire different state far far away from that greedy family

  • @sherlocksteve9109
    @sherlocksteve9109 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OP should retain the lawyer and sue for false arrest. Even if they arrested her uncles, she's got a right to sue for false arrest and be compensated for it.

  • @danrossell6375
    @danrossell6375 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who is the executor of Grandma's estate? I presume her lawyer. Get what you need from the estate to give grandma a decent funeral and get it taken care of. All the relatives are responsible for their own actions and can face whatever consequences are coming their way.

  • @denisebrown7680
    @denisebrown7680 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope OP lives her best life!

  • @bcrouch2626
    @bcrouch2626 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It does it even when there is almost nothing and it's disgusting and hurts going through it

  • @shadicusivxxradicus2253
    @shadicusivxxradicus2253 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Greed can bring out the worst in others. It's even more brutal when family is involved.

  • @iyaayas
    @iyaayas ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OP should give each family member 2 pennies and a note stating how dumb each member is.

  • @winniethepoohandeeyore2
    @winniethepoohandeeyore2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unless she had preplanned prepaid funeral arrangements with little to no out of pocket costs her funeral costs comes out her estate.

  • @Leco070
    @Leco070 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can OP not sue the department for false arrest? I’d imagine some kinda civil rights were violated here.

  • @susanpendell4215
    @susanpendell4215 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Instead of an extravegant funeral, which she can't see, everyone bring something that means something to them that they would like to gift her and place it in the coffin with her. Not flowers because they die, but maybe something made of clothe, or jewlery, just something that doesn't rot, not money either, but something nice. Pharoahs were buried with their belonging, and this would be just a last I love you for her. You had a great grandma and what they should of learned from her was how to love, because her god wasn't money.

  • @Datrebor
    @Datrebor ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know if my grandmother on my mother's side had an actual will or not. Most of my aunts and uncles except for one aunt attack like vultures and took everything she had no matter whom it was supposed to go to. My sister and I was promised a few small things, but we got nothing. In fact one uncle took her car but charged his sister the upkeep for it, till my father said that it was wrong, so he put it up on blocks. I kept in contact with the one aunt that didn't try to take everything, but lost contact with her too. Now they all have passed away never talking to them sense about 78. Now it is just my 2 brothers and sister left. It scares me to the point of a full-blown panic attack just thinking about either of them passing on. I'm 62 and each one is 4 years older than the other. For some reason I seem to be in the worst condition of the lot. I'm permanently disable with a messed up back and I have Parkinson's Disease that I've had for about 7 years and it has taken its toll on my health, suffering from severe depression and anxiety.

  • @davidmarion3119
    @davidmarion3119 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hood for you you go girl

  • @tatersalad5149
    @tatersalad5149 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This young woman had it right all along. Her grandmother was full of wisdom. She knew her kids and they proved their metal or should I say lack of it when their mother was sick and they never comforted her, helped her or would even change her diaper. She knew what her children had turned into and gave the inheritance to the one person who cared for her and loved her. Her granddaughter. Their greed and evilness came out when they received none of the inheritance.

  • @PuppyKatt
    @PuppyKatt ปีที่แล้ว

    Take the money, etc. and RUN, leaving the toxic monsters to each other.

  • @bakaichigo
    @bakaichigo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Plot-Twist A: _Grandmother Mary actually knew what the rest of the family would be like and gave it all to her as a way to give her a new life free of their toxicity._ lol well written!

  • @kathy2929
    @kathy2929 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you content. The only issue this the miss pronounced words. Great video.

  • @gcarr1089
    @gcarr1089 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hope OP keeps the young members of the family in mind as she never mentioned anything nasty done by them. Her grandmother would have wanted her to help them in their time of need, but she should also keep in mind the parents could manipulate them to get at the money.

  • @raewalker6539
    @raewalker6539 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes it does. Money brings out the worst out of everyone.😢

  • @theplaintech
    @theplaintech ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My cat is my family. Everybody else is toxic relations.

  • @lisawatson1982
    @lisawatson1982 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just make sure if you ever marry get a prenup so they get nothing of your money if things don’t work make sure there’s no loop holes

  • @Rummagelady86
    @Rummagelady86 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so sorry that happened. Just want to let you know not everyone is like that. I took care of my Mom for 19yrs my brother lived 600miles away and worked full time he helped as much as he could.
    After she passed, as executor he was supposed to split everything 50/50 instead he gave Me everything the house. her van. And And the bank account and small life ins. He is my little brother but he is huge at being a brother and I love him.

    • @neil999ish
      @neil999ish ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your brother sounds like a great one. Have read on a post, where the brother took his share ignored sister and blew it, then demanded his sister give him the house and money from her inh. to house his family. The sad part he still wanted nothing to do with the sister.

  • @paulaoshinski2991
    @paulaoshinski2991 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sue the police for wrongful arrest and the family for defamation

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What kind of funeral does she want in the world? That’s what they should respect I can see having a nice funeral for someone that’s special but also not everyone can chip in and I also see the sister’s point of you she would not want them to spend that much money on a funeral. .

  • @TriciaT2407
    @TriciaT2407 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This story is very familiar to a situation I know except that the sole beneficiary of the man's estate was his grandson. He deserved it as he was the only one who genuinely enjoyed spending time and doing stuff for his grandpa even without receiving gifts. The rest just kept smiling and waiting for him to die. Most people were glad they got nothing.

  • @ladyloki2398
    @ladyloki2398 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There’s nothing like money to bring out the vultures in a family!

  • @oumryeternity7871
    @oumryeternity7871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would have shared them 1/3 of the inheritance and split that equally amongst them, would have bailed out my uncle and kept 1/3 of the inheritance safe to never spend and keep it for my old age.
    The 1/3 thats left i would use it to treat myself and do what ny grandma did when she was alive, give birthday and Christmas gifts but not too expensive.
    That way at least some family members would not be angry and would have kept the ties as my grandma probably wish.
    You don't pay evil with evil.

  • @troymalone8711
    @troymalone8711 ปีที่แล้ว

    She'll have more money when she sues the police for false arrest.

  • @antoinettebates244
    @antoinettebates244 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My Grandmother did the same thing..My Mother was an only child and she was PISSED!! SO No winning this!!

  • @elverraharris6269
    @elverraharris6269 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s because now they want to guilt you into giving them the money. They know you’re not the bad girl.

  • @susanfarley1332
    @susanfarley1332 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A death in the family can bring out the hidden worst in people. Greed rears it's ugly head.

  • @danielkelley18
    @danielkelley18 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stand up proud and don't give any of them any money or the house or jewelry it is all yours,your grandma saw who each of them were

  • @taytay8732
    @taytay8732 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would sue the family for the false accusations when they called the cops

  • @fatstacks89
    @fatstacks89 ปีที่แล้ว

    This story is so real I can't help but think of my own family it's pretty sad I've seen this happen

  • @NPRYRS
    @NPRYRS หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mr. Reddito, i love your tantrum animation 😭😂😅🤣💯‼️❗