Divorce Lawyers, What’s the Worst Thing a Spouse Did?
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My Dad isn't the greatest guy in the world, but didn't deserve what his 2nd wife did to him. She convinced her adolescent daughter to say he had molested her so she could divorce him and not have to pay him for doing a complete remodel of her house. It was proved in court she was lying and had told her daughter to lie too. Dad told me years later if she'd have just been honest and asked for a divorce he would have said yeah and simply moved out, and not tried to get any money out if her.
Did he take her for all she had?
@@jacob3988 he said he just wanted to get outta there and never have to talk to her again. She was sure a turd.
Same thing with me and my ex. If she would've just come to me, say, "I'm unhappy. I want out." I would've said, "Fine. Let's work on breaking up so it doesn't hurt the kids." But, no, she had to go for 100% for her 0% for me. Kids love me & hate her.
7:30 that cannot be legal right? I mean, I can't believe that you can take a healthy dog to the vet and put it down just because. If there is no medical reason to euthanize it it should be illegal, right?
Regrettably, in most places, dogs/cats are legally regarded as property, so while this is horrifically unethical and immoral, it's _technically_ not illegal in many places. However, if it's done before a divorce is finalized, it proves malicious intent, and can be used to rake the pet-murderer over the coals.
A lot of vets will refuse to euthanize perfectly healthy animals just because of vicious psychos like this.
@@alexisgrunden1556 Good thing most vets are sympathetic and actually care about the animals, and that generally the public will shun and hate on someone who does this to their dog
Hell, it's legal to kill a human fetus and you're worried about a dog?
@@phlushphish793 Good point.
We dont know the age of the dog, or anything the woman might have done to make the dog look in need of 'peace'.
Coworker of mine, well former coworker, poisoned his boyfriends cat, took it to the vet, and had it put down while his SO out of the country for a job.
Because the boyfriend called 2 hours late on their anniversary, due to jet lag.
you best believe i reported that piece of shit to the police, as in the state this occurred, that was a felony offense...
The last one is the best possible outcome.
A former coworker suggested amicable divorce to his wife. She agreed and they parted. Two months after the divorce was final his father died, leaving him millions of dollars, none of which went to his now ex wife.
Stealing your own suns college fund's is a special kind of evil.
That's insane that they're probably thinking "If my kid go's to college and becomes successful they might end up financially supporting my ex". That poor kid's gotta go into debt for college because of his parent.
That's some top level hatred.
@@R_A_3000 and not only that, but it’s not even *her* parents who put money in it.
That story about the husband self destructing his company to get back at his ex: He not only fucked over a person into debt, he also destroyed a lot of jobs and rendered people starving. What an asshole
He did the right thing 🙌
How are there not laws protecting retirement assets yet? At least so that the party can’t be forced to cash out before a full payout eligibility date. A spouse with any sense or basic math ability at all wouldn’t mind that.
Prenup
@@Royalrae13 Always get a pre-nup.
@@noelstar1456 prenups often get thrown out of court, it's useless.
Don't get married, but if you do, get a prenup.
Most lawyers can argue that the spouse was under pressure to sign the prenup, thus getting it thrown out of court.
@@abrahamlincoln4860 Pre-nups should be signed and stamped by a Notary, this deals with the issue of 'contract under duress' claims.
Source: Cousin and his now ex wife, had a pre-nup signed and witnessed by 2 different notaries, and a court officer. His ex wife tried to claim he forced her to sign it, under threat of violence.
The witnesses to the document, all testified, stating she was the one who had been insistent on the pre-nup (at the time she made several times more than he did, but the company she worked for got caught working a ponzi-type scheme and well, she not only lost her job, but since she was aware of it, and failed to report it...she was given the option of prison time, or fines. she paid the fines, and had to liquidate all her assets. My cousin divorced her because of her involvement, that she admitted to after all was said and done.)
@@dreamwolf7302 that's a good thing.
But it's not very likely that somebody will sign a prenup (some might even take it as an insult).
Which is why it's better to not get married in the first place. You can still continue dating without all the legal headaches that come from marriage. (I'm a product of such a marriage).
It's always rubbed me the wrong way that people just ask for shit that's clearly the other spouses in courts because I get dividing up stuff but this is clearly being used to get revenge on a ex partner by taking something they cherish
My Dad tried to do this he tried to get my mom to sell the house because he wanted half even though the house was fully in her name and me and my sister were both still living there he was perfectly willing to put us out on the street just so he can get at my mom
If they took your marriage, you should be petty.
Getting married has got to be one of the very worst decisions any person could ever possibly make. Far, FAR too great a likelihood that the whole friggin' thing is going to go up in flames eventually.
Even without marriage, many states enforce common law so you can still have your assets split after living together for a while.
My uncle buys auctioned off storage units as well. When I was a teenager, during the summers I would help him every day. Up to 10 auctions a day, sometimes we would score several units that would have to be emptied within 48 hours. Just him and I and sometimes my brother or another friend to help us. Many times the person who the unit would belong to would try to approach us and get their stuff back. We would always give them their personal belongings: things like family photos, documents, schooling things, and any toys that belonged to their children. However, there were a few times where they would try getting their stuff back by first verbally assaulting us and trying to block our way to the storage locker. It has gotten to the point where they've had to be removed by the police. And nowadays, if their unit is already in collections and past due, the renter is no longer allowed on the premises. They must first catch up their payment online or over the phone. They're no longer even allowed to catch the payment up in the office since there have been attempts to bypass the office and break through the door to get to their unit. People will get crazy fast once they realize they've lost something they wanted that used to be theirs. I eventually just had to start telling myself that these people have had PLENTY of time to get their financial affairs in order by the time their unit is sent to auction. Takes like half a year for it to get to that point.
2:13 Jesus Christ! It’s one thing to screw over your spouse, but it’s entirely fucked up to screw over your own son
Yup, read a further comment from them that said because of that the exSIL didn't get everything she wanted in the divorce so I guess not all bad
@hasslfoot what the fuck are you on? The spouse literally drained her son’s college fund that OP’s PARENTS (who aren’t well off at all if you were paying attention) have been paying into.
@hasslfoot I really hope that there’s a few typos in that sentence and that not you’re just a terrible person
@@thepurpleman119 Sorry to be THAT guy, but it's *you're.
@@Chuckf66 it’s alright, thank you for correcting me
I mean, why can't the judges reverse things like draining joint accounts? that money isn't all yours! it at least half his/her's so you better pay back half! like wtf, and it should be retroactively by one year, to stop shenanigans like that just before starting the divorce
This is why I'm not getting married. This video gives me another reason why I shouldn't.
Women are all sweet as pie until that ring goes on their finger. Then they change. And not for the better. They turn into shrews.
@@phlushphish793 plz not ur misogyny showing 😬
@@phlushphish793 being misogynistic wasn't my goal, but at least I know what kind of person you are.
@@TheCaptainFatBelly I should take that back. That was only my experience. I have seen many lovely wives. My bad.
@@phlushphish793 there's no back tracking now, I can tell you're only saying that because other people realized you're misogynistic and want to save face.
The Guy who was more worried about his motorcycle than his kids sounds like my biodad. Only it was less Motorcycle and more his cars. Yes, cars. (One race car, the other a classic 1968 Mach 1 Fastback Mustang that was not yet road ready that he was rebuilding.) He got to keep the cars. And that was all he got to keep. He lost the house, my brother and I, and the Dog. He also got to keep his retirement, however, paying his exorbitant lawyer fees since he wanted the most expensive in town he had to pull it early, so he didn't actually get to keep that either. When it was discovered he was an abuser he lost all his friends who went to my mom and backed her. And the classic car ended up getting sold ten years later and he never finished rebuilding it. My brother and I haven't seen him since our great grandma died eight years ago. They divorced in 2001.
Not mess over a spouse, but my divorce attorney told me a story of a couple where the wife wanted the husband to agree to pay her credit card debts before she would allow a separation. In my state if you did not physically reside in a different house or apartment you could not get separated.
So, at the time it had been 8 years of these two spiteful people co-habitating.
My co-worker's soon to be ex-wife him over by accusing him of cheating on her with another co-worker and making false accusations of DV. Meanwhile, she sold off his stuff and banned him from their house (that he was paying the mortgage on). He had to quit his job and is currently living in another state with his family while divorce proceeds.
The irony, the reason(s) for their split up was her refusal to go to dr appts and entitled adult children from her previous marriage trying to mooch off his salary.
My dad shot himself in the foot and mom took full advantage of that. My narcissistic and abusive dad divorced my mom after 30 years together for another woman and thought he could get away scot free . Mom ended up with the house and 50,000 € and my dad ended up 100,000 € in debt
My paternal uncle (my dad’s fraternal twin brother) and his oldest daughter were both the victims of a messy divorce. My uncle got married to a woman years before he met my aunt, and they had a daughter (my cousin)together. A few years after their daughter was born, his first wife divorced him, and thanks to Oklahoma divorce court laws, she got primary child custody. My uncle was only allowed supervised visits during the weekends, so his ex-wife began working unpaid overtime during the weekends to give him as little time to visit their daughter as possible. This resulted in my cousin suffering from severe abandonment issues, which continue to affect her to this day. My uncle was able to move past that by asking his second wife (my aunt) to keep her maiden name, and having their two daughters have her maiden name instead of his last name. He didn’t want to be reminded that he used to share a last name with that sociopath he married first, or that he lost primary child custody to her.
The shrimp in the curtain rods thing made me flash back to a memory of my older sisters running around our apartment on moving day pouring salt in all the corners and food behind the radiators. Years later I learned that the landlord had forced my mother to give up the apartment after my father died so he could rent it for more than what she could afford.
Not the Phoenix Wright thumbnail ✋😭
7:34
Anyone who harms an innocent animal like that deserves a beating and the death penalty.
It's not a divorce but one of the stories on here reminded me of when a friend of mine had her fiancee walk out on her. He acted like everything was normal and only acted weird the day he left her, also left all the bills unpaid and hadn't paid rent in months. She was getting evicted 2 days after he disappeared/left her. Heard he was in another part of Ohio now.
If you're being forced into a divorce you don't want, be as petty and make it as difficult as possible. One of my biggest regrets is not being petty when my wife left me and our 4yr old.
Loss if love clause should be a thing everywhere. You shouldn't get to be a homewrecker and not pay for the home you wrecked.
Just because a couple is in a rocky situation doesn't mean you can nuke it in order to have a bit of fun in bed.
I have witnessed no less than 15 divorces from various people in my life. Only one of them was amicable.
Life lesson, and continuous New Year's Resolution for me: Don't get married. I have 99 problems but a b**** ain't one!
Best advice I’ve been given is always get a strict prenup
Edit: pro tip put in a fidelity clause in your prenup and then agree to an open marriage and end it whenever you feel like it
Lol, the bigger bed story. With my 3 kids, I had to move in with my brother after my ex and I separated, and my ex shows up to let me know that he was going to be at my house that Saturday to pick up my dining room set, and a few other pieces of furniture, to put in the his girlfriends house. Still can’t get over the nerve. It’s been 22 years, and I still have that set in storage. It’s the principle of the thing.
My father refused to work, and because the laws were the way they were at the time, it meant he mostly got out of paying for child support. His mother would give him rent and food money. He did it to punish my mom, who was working her ass off to take care of us kids. I mean, it's not like he was asking for custody, or even partial custody, and my mom didn't ask for alimony. It was crazy. My mom was constantly trying to take him to court, but again, they couldn't compel him to work, therefore little to no child support. I understand that the laws are different now, and I'm glad.
Why does the person who cheated with the spouse get sued instead of the cheating spouse? I don't care about the dude she got with, I want to make her pay
It is so disgusting how evil people can be.
Guy and girl got married. They were both really hard-working and wealthy. Wedding was grand and included a professional wedding planner. Only a month or so later, now wife discovers husband is having an affair - with the woman who owned the wedding planning company.
Obviously wife is suuuuper pissed and immidiately demands a divorce. Husband says 'fine, you can call this lawyer company'. What wife didn't know was that the lawyer company was owned by the husband's mistress. They kept dragging things out, and sent the wife huge bills, essentially draining her of every penny she owned and channeling it to husband's account.
I would never ever use a lawyer that my soon-to-be-ex-husband or partner would recommend that just screams of fishy
My mom once told me of a story of a guy that betrayed his wife with her mother
Lmao now I want to hear the full story
Based
Nice. Niiice.
The more of these videos I watch, the more I think intentionally killing or putting down an animal, where it can be proven it was intentional, should give the same sentence as murder in the first degree of a human being.
That's too grey an area for it to be an actual law. That's because, technically, it's always intentional when an animal is put down. It may not be what some people want to do, but they still have to intentionally decide the animal can no longer live.
You're also ignoring the fact that farmers intentionally kill animals all the time for meat.
@@nix_ There’s a difference between farm animals who are raised to be food, and someone’s pet. You’re intentionally being dense ignoring that. By having the pet microchipped and vet records you’ve established it as part of your family, and going on record saying the animal will not be euthanized unless it would have a horrible quality of life due to severe illness well before such a divorce would allow for a murder charge to be leived.
@@MewtwoStruckBack No, I'm not being dense, it's more than obvious that there's a difference between livestock and pets. I'm saying you would need to be very specific in the wording of such a law. You said 'intentionally killing an animal' you didn't say 'intentionally killing a healthy household pet'.
With your broad wording, you open up the possibility for farmers to be prosecuted for killing livestock. You also allow pet owners who are euthanising their animals with poor quality of life/terminal illnesses to be prosecuted/
You are, again, ignoring the very real concern of specificity. You failing to acknowledge that is you being intentionally dense.
i hate the stories about cheating because everyone tries to make it the man's fault whether they were cheating or being cheated on. Woman cheated on husband without telling the other guy about him? still the guy's fault.
Not a lawyer but a friend at work came in driving a plush car and of course the construction job we were working had a foot of mud around the building. I asked him why he wasn't driving his truck. He said he and his wife had gotten divorced and had to turn in a list of assets to the judge. The judge asked his wife which half of the assets she wanted. She chose his truck and all his fishing and hunting gear. Vindictive to the end.
Bruh this is nothing, my parents are still together and they’ve literally tried to kill each other
Same lmao. Just had their thirtieth.
@@noelstar1456 22 for mine lmao
22:47 "I didn't realize you could cram that many swear words in 3 sentences."
Watch the F word scene in Planes, Trains and Automobiles or a crime drama from Martin Scorsese like Goodfellas or Casino. THEN you'll be impressed.
So the first story tons of men have lost their pention to ex wifes why is it so shocking when the husband gets part of his ex wifes pention
I mean, I don't think the pension bit was the bad bit, I think it was the 'forced to cash out early' bit that sucked.
@@noelstar1456 same happens to men every day
Wow, the one fricking over the kid is awful .
On the last one, did the pharmacist know who the husband was? If he did, that was pretty stupid.
2:15. Yikes. Fricking over a spouse is one thing. Fricking over your own kid is another. Facking failure of a parent.
Honest the 1st one was poetic justice
these stories are the ones that make me afraid to get married, and if i do then never have joint ownership of anything except maybe our home
Nope. It WILL automatically be awarded to the wife because "She deserves to keep the lifestyle she had before marriage." And even a live in GF is a risk if she's crazy, she can call the cops and claim you abused her and they'll take you to jail for the night and even if they don't you still have to leave your own house for her safety. While you're gone that night, she's gotten her drug dealing Chad to move in and change the locks.
14:43 isn't this illegal?
Ok wtf does IANAL mean?
"i am not a lawyer"
@@CuriosityGenesis
Thank you
Fr at first I thought IANAL meant, well you know… and not “I am not a lawyer”
Don´t marry. And if you do, you better have the best divorce lawyer in town on fast dial.
On an unrelated note, people that are about to divorce: TAKE NOTE! These people have that shit figured out.
That last story though, jeez.
Women are not property, they're people.
If a person decides that they don't love you anymore and loves someone else, that is neither an excuse nor justification for brutalizing a third party when you feel like your spouse betrayed you. Any evidence or the complete lack of details aside, it is borderline psychopathic to direct your rage towards the person who didn't cheat on you instead of the person who actually cheated.
If the dad had a problem with with his wife, he should bring them up with his wife, not the poor clown she decided to move on with who may or may not even have been informed or misinformed about her current martial status.
And the fact that some people and/or cops thinks this is a mix of funny or justifiable is also somewhat disgusting as it propagates the problem.
I’m not even surprised that disgusting crap like this goes on all the time everywhere. Humans are broken, greedy, evil creatures that delight in harming others and hoarding unnecessary wealth, and we especially love it when we can do both at the same time.
I bet you like to sleep with married people based on your comment.
If the wife doesn't love him, then she can say it, not go behind his back
The man she cheated on him with should have at least a little common sense if he wants to actually partner with her. "She's coming to me, she cant possibly be in a relationship"
If he attacked his wife, it'd be domestic abuse, much harsher than simple battery
its still frowned upon for a guy to beat the crap out of a woman, so ya have to do the next best thing
Well...
Thanks for the video
You're welcome
@Jason B. Animation no, I was just messing around
Trinston was here. .
hmm
That first one: 'Somehow' pensions are considered marital assets before the divorce.
oh im EARLY.
EARLY
Early?
who cares
@@sn9984 obviously not you lol
1st!
Terrible content