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When Did You Know You Were Getting A Divorce? (r/AskReddit)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ย. 2019
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1:33 he paid off her student loans? God can he marry me? I promise to be super grateful
👏FR👏THO👏
Lol
He was incredibly kind paying off her loans, and financially smart. 100% marriage material.
For real tho? Thats probably why a lot of financial gurus tell you not to pay off spouse's debt for this reason. Most ungrateful b**ch ever! 😡
I would be crying tears of happiness if my husband paid off my student loans. I feel so bad for that guy.
14k gift. "Is that all?" .......
Strange: "That's it?"
Wong: "You wanted more?!"
Would have been kicked out that damn minute, family of hers too. and a lawyer that day
I would cry tears of joy if someone relieved me of debt
@@peachbubble8652 Of course you would! Because that's the only reasonable behaviour EVERYONE should have to such a huge gift! That woman didn't deserve that guy and I'm glad he got a divorce. There's bound to be another woman out there who'd appreciate a guy like him way more than his ex-wife did.
That one got me too. It's not just giving someone a gift, or paying a bill. It's literally giving someone financial freedom, something few people barely ever get close to.
$14k student loans paid off. "Is that all?" WTF is wrong with people?
Feral Gangrel $14k is a lot, the vast mojority of people problably can’t afford that. I know I can’t
14k is substantial and rare. Makes me believe the story never happened.
cuz its not tangible
@Jim Clark - No, what I meant was that it is rare that someone would pay off a 14k debt. Not that student loans of 14k are rare. I should have been clearer.
Dude, if my spouse did that, I'd ask him to marry me again and then go "oh wait we're already married, damn". Hopefully he wouldn't divorce me for being so dumb despite attending college 😂
I am so glad to see so many dads getting custody and getting the kids away from harmful mothers.
I thought the same, especially with so many stories to the contrary flying around. It's sad that it has to happen in the first place, but the most important thing for the children is to be with the parent that isn't shitty.
Yeah women are unfortunately the default option for custody in divorce court. It rarely has anything to do with competence as a parent.
And feminists want women to have default custody, even though they supposedly believe in equality.....
They don’t, they just want special treatment
@@ifbfmto9338 Real feminists don't think that way. Sane people, in general, don't think that way.
@@ifbfmto9338 Technically, it's traditionalist men who think women should be the default, cause they are the ones who set up the faulty system before any major body of women got involved. Especially since they cite the notion that a woman's role is only in the household, hence why they default to giving children to the mother.
If a guy payed off my student debt as a Christmas present I would probably feel like I could never get him a gift that measures up.
@Jose Diaz ,
Thank you Jose, women need to be appreciated.
How to pay him back: Don't open your legs for other men. Don't try to change the guy. Don't nag him for a power trip.
@Jose Diaz Meek: quiet, gentle and easily imposed on; submissive.
Fuck that. I want a partner, not a slave.
Trust me when I say that for most men, loyalty effort and actually caring about him is more than enough. Women have no idea how many men will go through life never feeling truly loved by a woman. We live in times where the emphasis on relationships is always on the woman's feelings and happiness and the man is held responsible for it. But his feelings and needs are an afterthought.
@@niallreid7664 meek doesn't always mean submissive, it depends on context. Meek can mean humble
The one where the girl asked her dad what her moms excuse was this time hit me real hard in the feels
Reminds me of my childhood, but I also can't fathom it
Hope he dates a woman that knows how to care of a child.
"What's her excuse this time?"
... heartbreaking.
Yeah.. :(
Just a tip for dating/marriage: strict no tolerance cheating rule will save you all of this hassle. Hope you'll will find someone who only wants you
exactly! your significant other will keep disrespecting you if you allow them to.
Blake Johnson Or not get married at all. It’s always a lose lose situation for men. What do men gain in a marriage or than access to their spouses p-sleeve? What do women really bring to the table?
@@ProjectChaos77 Do as you wish, high value men can easily play the game
I think we should be more open to non monogamous relationships so that people who want to actually be in monogamous relationships are much less likely to end up with an unfaithful person. Some people are just not meant to be monogamous but still want a life time partner. And I think that both are okay, and it's when people are unmatched where they get hurt.
There ARE red lines. Another is to have an intimate soul-sharing relationship with another. That part is for partners.
My husband didn’t buy me anything for almost 4 years while I bought him a present for every holiday anniversary and birthday and I tried to buy (expensive or name brand) things all the time and he never did anything for me. Her husband paid $14,700 in loans AND bought her other things and she was ungrateful. Wow. She should be married to my husband they’d be perfect for each other.
I know, i cried a solid two hours once just because my husband picked a flower for me and brought it home to make me smile. Can’t believe how shallow and disgusting these women are.
AnnaBean that’s really sweet! But Yes you are right I was thinking the same exact thing.... smh!
Can't you sit down and have a talk with your husband about how you're feeling? I hope he listens because you deserve to be treated just as well as you've been treating him :/ I wish you the best.
Did you talk with your husband about why he didn't get you presents? Maybe he came from a non gift-giving family. In my family, we don't do gifts. We're adults with well-paying jobs, we're not dependent children. If we want something, we go to the store and buy it. I'll informally give presents to my sister and her daughters if I find something interesting in the thrift store (like, American Girl stuff in good condition). My sister might give me things she got for free but doesn't need. But other than that, we don't give each other anything. In fact, I would feel extremely uncomfortable if someone in my family gave me gifts because it's my birthday or a holiday. Could be your husband feels the same.
I understand your situation. However, if you're buying gifts because you're expecting something back, do your husband and yourself a favor. Don't.
A lot of these are sad but “I cleared out of there like a blackjack dealer.” is gold.
My dad took acid and brought his mistress to Thanksgiving
Write a sitcom hun, that comment made chuckle. Your pops sounds cray in that entertaining way.
@Real Life kinda how it was actually, my dad's actually kinda cool my mom too.
I don't know if this is sad or funny but I'm laughing anyway
@@V4Short it is funny me and my sister still laugh about it, at Thanksgiving lol
That is absolutely disturbing...
I got a story of a friend, think its worth sharing.
It was an internet friend, heard he was getting married and congratualated him. He invited her to liston in on a few online rpg thigns we had going on and she sounded very nice.
One day she began PMing me so much that I swore my phone was having a heart attack, claiming that the guy was a phyco, abusive, so on.
Now I knew the guy for about 3 years, meet him at a convention and he is one of the most chill people I have ever meet. Basicly, everything she was discribing to me seemed off from who I knew him as, told her to slow down, send pictures of bruises. Aparently there where a few but then I realized something and said "Send me pictures of real bruises, I can revurse surch these to google." And to that she quieted up, leaving one last message of "I will pay you 50K if you don't tell anyone." Sent screen shots of the entire conversation to friend and told him to GTFO of there before something worse happens.
He began the divorce things about a month after, documenting everything and made sure to set up CCTV home security inside the home without her knowing. Apparently he walked away with everything after she claimed to be abused, she was even polygraphed and failed that. She got a thing saying she couldn't be in a said range of this guy.
A few months later she claimed that he burglerized her home taking about 100k worth of stuff, he still had the home security thing up, was able to prove he was on the couch watching some TV series in a marathon during that time. I think she is now in a phyc ward.
There's fear of loneliness then there's fear of these sort of relationships.
This is why i hardly ever feared loneliness. Im just very careful about who i let into my life and who i let become my partner. Not everyone out there is a good person
If you're a good judge of character most of these wouldn't surprise you. Unhinged and violent people can't hide who they are for very long.
Truth
You can feel more alone with someone who is wrong for you.
The moral of this is if she cheats once, she'll cheat again.
Cough... He too. It goes both ways.
OlyMolly agreed
@@olymolly3637 yea. in fact, men cheat more, statistically
I only ever hear of men being the reason for divorces. This is eye opening
And sad there's a negative bias towards men. I'm sorry to all these men I hope they're happy with other people or alone
What world do you live in? Can't be reality smh.
That's because you only ever hear women's stories
As a rule men try to not show too much weakness and women more often fish for sympathy.
Nqobile Mukuwane right??
This is the shit that makes me TERRIFIED to get into a relationship
The only way to win the game is to not play.
I miss being single. I miss getting to be myself. Definitely enjoy yourself man 💯 go far in life! Treat yourself well! You'll never regret it 👍
You just need to find someone right for you. You have to be upfront and honest in the very beginning how you want the relationship to be. And make sure you want the same things out of life. That should increase the odds of it working out greatly. And have mutual respect for each other. That is what's really going to find you a lasting relationship. Ask them questions, like do you think you would really prefer a monogamous relationship? Why? Do you think we should be honest when we are unsatisfied in a relationship? The number one thing is communicating, you notice in a lot of these stories they either 1. Didn't really talk to each other about being dissatisfied or 2. The woman felt like she just settled from early on. Talk early in the relationship about the before mentioned things and it'll send the message more that you're not just looking for a settle buddy. This may sound like this may come on too strong but trust me, someone who's ready for a long term relationship will be of like mind. Ask them maybe like on the third date or so. If they are still intimidated by then by these questions then it probably doesn't bode well. They may just be protective of thier heart, but you just have to be honest and say hey I'm looking for a serious long term relationship. If they don't want serious then move on.
Lol I didn't mean for this to be so long but I just get sad when I see people discouraged, I'm with my bf of five years and it's only worked cause we wanted the same things and are VERY communicative about EVERYTHING. No matter how hard.
As a man trapped in an abusive relationship - they’re always terrible.
Most of these guys ignore the red flags early on. There are far and few woman worth being in a committed relationship to but they do exist.
The one where he went to the beach ... he realized being himself for the first time in 20 years ... that was good one ...
Yea man that one made the ol wheels turn feel me
3:40 I can't imagine the swirl of emotions when your daughter is disappointed to see you because it was supposed to be her mom, but you totally get it.
Is love really that blind? Or do people just morph/really good at hiding things.
Ikr, the story hits me hard
A combination of both really....during courtship, most people are trying so hard just to not fart after dinner, that most of the important shit goes by the wayside. Later on the important stuff comes out and by then its too late. Also, most people just really do not wanna be alone and build up and fall in the love with their imagined "ideal" of that person...just my two cents
I just recently that the story at 3:40 is most likely how things played out with my ex girlfriend and her family. Her kids live on the opposite side of the country with their fathers. Never made plans to see them. Sometimes she would seem annoyed that one of them was calling her. I quickly discovered that she's a very flaky person. She runs and avoids issues. Tough yet charismatic and confident exterior but extremely broken on the inside. Broke it off after she disappeared on me for 2 days including this past Valentines day.
A common trend here seems to be “not the first affair”.
I’d also coincidentally heard something from another r/AskReddit that I hope to talk about with my final S/O:
Write down 10 things that are “dealbreakers” of the relationship, requiring a divorce. Make it known that you don’t want to be cheated on, yelled at, or whatever else. Communication is key, don’t marry if you have ANY doubt in your mind about the other person. They need to be perfect for you ;)
Holy shit. If someone shot my dog or cat I would go all-out King Kong nuclear warfare on them. The law would not be involved, for they would never resolve that scenario to my satisfaction.
Yup. The police would never find the body.
Totally agree 1 million percent nobody bothers my dog!!!!!
Right?!?!
the one that shot the dog... made me realize just how much i love my own dogs. i hope when i grow up i'm never a toxic, horrible girlfriend. i hope i can make my boyfriend/husband happy, not sad or angry. some people are just trash and i hope i never am.
EDIT: Thanks so much for the encouragement guys. I know I'm way too young now, but when I am at least I'll know that I can try my best to be my best. Thank you all for being so nice to me about it, I hope you have success with your love lives too if you aren't already!
The fact that you're consciously aware of not wanting to be that way indicates you're already on the right track. Just be genuine, kind, compassionate, and a good listener. You'll be fine. :)
@@MidnightSonnet I was about to comment this!
Your profile picture is Shrek...OF COURSE YOU'LL BE AN AWESOME GIRLFRIEND!
Buddy, that shrek picture alone makes you a keeper 😂
@@MidnightSonnet Thanks so much. I hope you will also have success with love (if you're not already)
"so why did you divorce your wife?"
"I drank a grolsch at the beach"
As a Dutchy i can relate to this.
Sometimes a marriage is so weak and deteriorated that a beer is all it takes.
I got an ad for Jared engagement rings...
Hey you need to rebound hard if your one of the people that made the responses
So many "This wasn't her first affair" stories.
Why would you stick around after the first one? Get some self-respect and figure out how to ruin her life.
Was going to flame your comment, but your username makes sense.
No homo but i think i love you
When you deeply love someone and really fall for someone. It’s hard to just let go when you have sugar coated glasses on thinking it could all go away. Making excuses to yourself saying oh it’s different this time etc etc. trust me. Looking back after everything I realize how dumb I was. Still very destroyed by it all after months later. But in the moment everything felt rational. And btw I’m just a normal person, not super clingy or anything just this tends to happen to a lot of people when you put too much trust into somebody and the world and the way you see it after changes in one day.
@@doxive7500 yep, called feelings. I feel you
Doxive you ok bro?
If my husband paid off my 14k student loans I would never expect them to get me another gift again lmao.
Reminds me why I love being single.
I was just thinking this
Ikr
@Bunker Sieben I get that you probably suffered from love and lost faith in it. But let's not get more pessimistic than necessary. Happy couples exist and, no, they don't necessarily are trying to cover up cheating. I grew up with 3 different examples of that (my grandparents and my parents). It's an incredible act of commitment, respect, sacrifices, efforts, time and love to go through life together until one of them dies. But it exists! ^^
Reminds me of my 12 yo friend who was gay to straight to lasexual because no one would date or e date him
@Bunker Sieben Tell that to President Jimmy Carter, who, at 95 years old, has been married to his wife for 73 years bro.
When the little girl said:
"What's her excuse this time?"
That was like a bullet to the heart for how sad it was.
The lady who threw the cat and the one who shot the dog... Oh HELL no! Those poor animals had nothing to do with the arguments. They didn't deserve what they got. If my fiance ever abused an animal, it would be over, and I'd take the damn pet(s). But I know that would never happen, because he loves animals. :)
Looking for this comment. Just horrifying. I hope they are in jail.
Midnight Sonnet
Really makes my blood boil
Do you think he took the cat when he left?
10:35 uh, I haven't unplugged my toaster in like 17 years
You
WHAT?!
Right? Mine is always plugged in😅
I like how you dont have to like to activate the behumblebee's powers👍 that made me like
GOD
This was by far the WORST stories ever
I had absolutely no idea people had such a low self steem
How the hell can people be so selfish!? It honestly baffles me.
All females are selfish and petty.
@@slappy8941 I don't know about that, every human has the potential to be. The difference is if they actually do it.
@@slappy8941 uh oh incel alert!
Slappy Guess that goes for your mother, too.
For my divorce moment it was when, after coming home from a 50hr work week and cooking her dinner and cleaning up for her and massaging her feet which were tired from laying around all day, she called me lazy and said she could do better. So I left so she could do better. Which apparently means gaining 50lbs and living with her mother. Also, she punched me on multiple occasions. And forced me to max my credit card or shed pitch a fit and go ballistic
My dude why would you put up with that?
All of these "second", and "last" affair stories. I don't think I can reconcile.
And what's with all these awful "friends sleeping with their friend's spouses?
When all the witches get the good dudes. *sigh*
Plot twist: You're all witches. Not a single female alive is capable of appreciating a good man.
@@slappy8941 😂 Plot twist not all guys are good dudes, there's a reason why there are more men in jail. You're just salty, who's the witch that broke your heart dude huh.?
Plot twist you're both naive and have some growing to do.
They go for the good dudes because it's easier to manipulate a man who actually loves them.
No good men chose to stay single
These stories make me want to go hug my boyfriend and be nicer to him .....
He said God told him that he had a new wife named "M."
Yeah, phone records showed at least a year back and I found "Margaret."
Our divorce will be final on Oct 28th. They're engaged.
How cowardly of him. Congrats on getting away!
I hope you're doing okay.
Yes.
I'm good. Our 25th anniversary is Monday. It's also is 50th birthday. It's just any old day now. Our divorce hearing is on the 28th. I wish them all the best. She seems to really love my daughter and I'm happy about that.
“God told him”.... disgusting misuse of the Lords name
*Confirmed her second affair * your mistake was staying after the first affair.
My ex was a very boring person & it felt like pulling teeth to get him to talk or hold hands.
I stayed with him cause I was being stalked by a classmate. By high school, I had feelings for another guy & so I left my boyfriend cause I knew I lost feelings for him. He got together with 2 other girls the same week we broke up, both girls were then mutual friends. Hugging, holding hands, kissing. He never did that with me unless I initiated.
It had me wondering if the 3 of them had been lying to me or doing something behind my back the whole time I was dragging myself & my ex trying to better the relationship. I left that whole group, tried to find a new friend circle, and now I only keep in touch with 1 girl from both circles. Even now, I won't hear from her for weeks. We're both busy trying to be adults.
I haven't been in a romantic relationship since my freshman year of high school. My experience with my ex made me believe HS romances were pathetically boring, so I avoided finding a new one or played off any interest. Once I didn't realize a guy had interest in me till after graduating. It's a little his fault for getting the teacher to help him try asking me to senior prom, as at the time it came off as an example teachers usually do to students. Nothing in the moment made me think he was trying to ask me out. I feel kinda bad for not getting the hint, but we didn't have much in common anyway. So it probably wouldn't have worked out either.
It's not fun being lonely.
Seriously, measuring any relationship against a high school one doesn't make sense. Your own immaturity, let alone his, shouldn't be used as benchmarks for the future. Mentally, emotionally, even physically, you will have moved on, grown up, have different expectations. Let that callow idea of what or how a significant other operates go, and get on with your life.
1:59 - you dodged a bullet there. My wife Karen Graham and her also married boyfriend William Earlie of Seaham, England, made false allegations to police to get me out of the way to take money and stuff out of our house and we think they thought if I was in prison it would make it easier to sell our house! Total nightmare to be locked up as an innocent man. Im still traumatized a year later. Police simply believe with *no evidence whatsoever* and as the man your assumed guilty. Nightmare. Needless to say I've divorced her! Guys beware, despite all we know about the basis of justice, it turns out that all it takes is a simple allegation, no need for evidence or reality in such cases.
When she figured to go have a kid without me being a participant
Twice divorced woman here - now very happily married for +10 years with a son, all is well. First husband was an alcoholic which was not a big deal and accepted as normal where I was born and raised in a small town in the North East of England. Wife beating was pretty common too, just something you had to accept and put up with because "men will be men". First husband used to pass out drunk and wet the bed, usually after starting a fight with me. The day he broke my leg I knew it was over. Even one of my parents still thought he was a "lovely lad" and that "there's always two sides to the story". Second husband was a few years younger than me. Very very sweet guy, would never lay a hand on me, so, great! But he wouldn't go out on fun nights out after we married. He would encourage me to go out and have fun with my friends while he stayed at home watching TV. One night I was all dressed up, trying to persuade him again to come out clubbing with me (we were in our late twenties) but he was sitting in his armchair and had his one can of beer in one hand, his freaking tobacco pipe in the other and he was actually wearing tartan slippers. I was 26, he was 22. I wanted to share nights out with HIM. We didn't have children and plenty of income to enjoy ourselves but he refused to go anywhere or do anything. I wanted us to go on a romantic holiday to Greece together but he didn't want to, so he told me to go with my single friends instead. We were just too different and I shouldn't have accepted his proposal of marriage, but I was looking for the opposite of my first husband and thought he was it. Oh boy, that poor, boring man. I had to leave him because I was going crazy. My bad entirely. I hope he's happy now.
Mate I live in the north east of England too and idk where exactly you’re from but in Newcastle that is not normalised whatsoever, that’s just plain wrong
@@katied1692 Hiya hinny! I had plenty of brilliant nights out Doon Toon. I used to go to the Mayfair till the buggers flattened it! I used to live in South Shields. I live on the Isle of Man now.
I don't know how old you are but I'm 47 so when I was first married at age 20 it was a long time ago. Back then it was rife. Mind you my own parents were very much in love and my dad would NEVER allow a man to hit a woman, and my nanna and granda were the same (on my mam's side) but they were the exception. Most blokes of a "certain generation" were of the opinion it was alright to give the wife a few slaps every now and then. Thankfully things have changed over the last 20 years.
Shelly Rourke aye that makes more sense then, I think now it’s much better and the lasses barely take shit no matter what
Dude if my future husband paid off my student loans I'd live with him and cook for him until I die. That's something so rare any husband would do for his wife
The fact that so many women say this, seems to indicate that most men are a financial burden on their women. Don't you think?
10:18
Husband: leaves the toaster plugged
Wife: mad
Husband: argues
Wife: 🤦♀️😡☝️🏹🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🙆♂️
I asked my dad what was the last straw and I got “when our daily screaming got the cops called and made you cry”
I was going to say that the OP should have written the question as, "Divorced men of Reddit: what moment with your wife made you think, "Yep, I'm asking this ***woman* to divorce me", but now I'm thinking they may have done that on purpose...girls would do this petty sh*t, not grown women.
As a kid I used to think grown ups weren't childish. In my teenage years I learned otherwise and now as an adult I'm sure there's no correlation
@@bartvanriel6767 It's funny we call it childishness, when there are plenty of children that don't act this way and plenty of adults that do.
You say this.
But yet most marriages are ended by WOMEN. I say this by age.
Give me the bench-maker husband or the loan-clearer husband. They're both very loyal & very very good at what they do agh I'm mad at the two witches that dumped them.
I feel bad for the guy who paid off his ungrateful wife's student loans. If only she couldve showed her true nature earlier....darn
0:26 “The 800dollar-mobile” sounds like a good nickname for the car lol
I'm confused why is it so important to unplug a toaster?
They used to be a fire hazard
@@nobody46820 thanks
It also saves money on electricity bills. If you unplug anything that's not in use. But I wouldn't date anyone who got that pissed off over something that small.
If someone starts an argument with you about a toaster, it's never about the toaster.
It electroduces you if you dont unplug it when you take it into the bathtub
We were separated and living apart trying to figure things out...then I found out he was living with another woman🤨...that was 10 years ago and I’ve since gotten married to a better man and my real soulmate. I’m actually glad it worked out the way it did because I never would’ve found my true love💕
I'm a single parent. These make me glad I never got married
I believe this demonstrates the importance of dating different people early on in life and getting to know yourself before committing to a long term relationship. People have a list of positive things they look for in a person they believe necessary for a good partner. I learned (the hard way) there’s another list to consider. The negative list. A prospective partner may meet every point on the positive list but if they have one point (crazy) from the negative list, run. Run far. Run fast.
When my husband refused to eat anything I cooked because he thought I was going to poison him. Yes, he had many years of mental health issues. I didn't date for 12 years. 24 years of living with someone who refused they had problems left me drained.
0:30 That is definitely grounds for termination. I've never heard of anybody so ungrateful! That actually made my blood boil
My story: We'd been having difficulties for two years. From time to time, she'd tell me to think of what I'd do if things didn't work out-that I should have a plan just in case. Then on the morning of July 24, 2010, I asked if I could take her out that evening. She said she'd already made plans with a male friend. She then spent about an hour on her speech about me being prepared in case it didn't work out. I just listened as she rambled on. After about an hour, she asked me if I had anything to say. "Happy Anniversary" I said.
Later that day she asked me if I wanted her to cancel her plans so we could go out. I told her to do whatever she wanted. I was done.
Six months after my Dad divorced his third wife he showed up at my 18th with a 'surprise' from his new girlfriend, needless to say my 18th was hell ^^
What surprise?
Surprise as in a baby?
This shit is why I'm single and kinda plan on keeping it that way.
Come on, it's not that bad - you just rarely hear from functional relationships because they are more often doing family stuff rather than whining on reddit.
When she went out of town for the night, and I had a great time with my daughter. It was great not having that nagging kill joy around me.
You know you are getting a divorce when....
You get married
Putting hands on me is one thing. Putting hands on my child its over
Putting hands on you should be over too
Some of these were truly heartbreaking.
Absolutely depressing. I'm losing all faith in finding a good woman. This seems to happen quite often, eh?
That last story reminds me of my best friend who did a similar thing with the GPS phone thing. Asked his fiancee where she had been the night before (and he already knew b/c GPS). she said she had been at her tia's house for a cousin's birthday party. The next weekend night, she was supposed to be at a tupperware party with co-workers. He and drive out to the shop on the corner near where she's been hoe'd up for the night. Not even in the same town as this fictional tupperware party. She texts "I'm leaving the party, I'll be back home in about 30 minutes". When she leaves her side piece's house, me and my buddy are on the corner just waving at her as she drives past.
So when's the Cowbelly Arc where Updoot tries his/her hand at IRL reads?
5:18 was literally my divorce almost word for word.
The beach one is so real.
Omg so many emotional and physical abusive women... I feel so ashamed being female while reading this. I hope the men who wrote those posts don't suffer anymore and that they find a girl who they get along with. I hope the kids are okay too.
I understand how you feel speaking as a woman, but it's not your fault, it's women like them who are at fault and are the ones that's making good women look bad.
When she announced (after living 100% free on my dime for a year while I struggled to pay all of both our bills and living expenses) that she was officially debt-free.
"separated gay woman here" so I feel like answering. I knew it was over when my ex moved to the guest bedroom. Don't ever believe "it's just for alittle while." Its pretty much over. Pretty permanently. I got the best bed in our old bedroom but she did not want to share it with me.
Not sure why you needed to announce that your gay but yeah your right
@@tylerblack9108 ever heard of context? Apparently not.
For me it was probably one Christmas when she told my whole side of the family that she couldn't afford to spend Christmas with them, fucking up the whole thing for everyone, and then proceeding to donating a pretty significant chunk of change to the church, and physically and verbally assaulting me because it's my fault we were broke (we weren't). The moment that made me realize I need to leave right away was a year and a half later, after we had an argument ending with her leaving me a note saying "keep the kids".
Working in mental health facility. Went home for more of the same. One day got home and just stared at my front door, realising being with my partner was more exhausting than being at work.
This makes my heart ache and love my bf even more. I never want things to get crazy like this smh
Gods the one with the woman claiming to be Ace made me SO MAD. It's people like her that cause us actual Asexuals to not be taken seriously.
Does being asexual mean you dont get turned on by anything? Or are you still able to get aroused by yourself just not anyone else?
It means that we don’t experience sexual attraction to other people. Kind of like how a straight person isn’t sexually attracted to the same gender or a gay person isn’t sexually attracted to the opposite gender. We aren’t sexually attracted to either.
Except we can still experience Romantic attraction and such, though there are those who don’t experience that either. That’s called being Aromantic.
I myself am Asexual Biromantic. It just means I am romantically interested in boys and girls but do not experience sexual attraction to anyone.
I recommend googling AVEN (The Asexual Visibility and Education Network) if you want more detailed information. They’re a great resource for those curious about Asexuality.
@@kaiserinkai thanks for explaining, i dont feel sexual when im depressed,lack of libido but i suspect its a hormonal problem that i have and not your disorder, interesting stuff
Right??? It made me so mad
As someone who has dated manipulative “asexuals” in the past, that story made me mad too. You guys deserve to be respected and taken seriously, and I can’t imagine how rough that is when people like that exist. My exes would be happily sexual with me, then claim they were ace, so I no longer got affection. Only to find out they would get off to fanfiction and roleplaying sexually with other people... Great times. 🙄
My younger sibling is actually ace, though. I will protect them with my life.
When she wasn't happy I DIDN'T get cancer
.H...Heisenberg...?
To the man who was hit by his wife 8 days after having oral surgery: I’m sorry, I get it, and I’m glad you got away from her. That is not okay.
A lot of women do get jealous of their young daughters.
Hmm. Rule No: 1 - As a new father with a baby/toddler daughter, ALWAYS greet your wife first when you come home. Ensure that wife knows you put her first. Men who make a fuss over Little Princess, actually set Little Princess up to choose men who are unfaithful. Because Princess KNOWS Mom came along before she did, but she's taking Daddy's attention away from the primary female. Both females somehow pick up on this, regardless of age, and resentment from Wife, and a skewed idea of male/female relationships for daughter is the result.
@@Kayenne54 You're disgusting. Daughters always come first for father's.
It truly bothers me how many people give second chances to cheaters. If they did it once, they’ll certainly do it again.
2:09 Im so happy to hear everything went well here.
Wow reading all these showed me I’m not alone through shit. Much love all
I’ve been divorced twice. The first one only lasted 6 weeks while the second one lasted about 7 months.
Something I noticed from most of these posts and my own experiences, is that for some reason, we keep missing all the red flags slapping us in the face.
It’s only a few weeks AFTER I divorced my second wife that I realised just how manipulative she was. I should have been a lot smarter and ended the marriage a lot sooner but for some reason, I just couldn’t see the red flags until the end.
@Xavier Excalibur yeah once I find the right girl. I’m not gonna let a bad marriage or two hold me back. But I will learn from my mistakes and be much more cautious next time round.
"I love you"
"I settled for you."
"I'm cured."
all the cheating just makes me want to avoid relationships in general tbh
I am sorry for these people but there must have been many warning signs beforehand. Stop marrying these entitled women and men! I hate hate hate cheaters! Its so weak and disgusting.
This is why if I ever be married, I'll wait until I'm rich enough to be able to pay for my wive. Heck even when I'm 40 I can just marry a 20 years old and be her sugar daddy. Like I won't put up with bullshit while I struggle to achieve success.
I lived with a woman in the early 1990s who went out with one of her girlfriends one Saturday. I went out in the yard and laid down patio stones to make a place under the one tree in the yard where I set up an outside table and chairs. When she got home I took her out and showed it to her and she asked, “Why didn’t you do this last Saturday?”
I looked at her in disbelief and said, “BECAUSE I TOOK YOU UP TO SAN FRANCISCO TO SEE A F**KING GIANTS BASEBALL GAME LAST SATURDAY!”
Things did not last too long after that.
Apart from the many, many other times she had been untrue and dishonest, I knew I had to get away when she hid several eviction notices from me, didn't let me know our car was about to be repo'd (I heard it happening outside late at night when it went down, didn't even have to look, just heard the sounds of towtrucks and such taking a car away and knew it was ours), and some other life-ruining things. I learned all of this from someone who was not her, and she had the nerve to act angry at me when I brought it up to her.
The first affair should always be the last affair.
Ugh. Don’t know if I can watch this one. He didn’t want me. Cheated and had an affair.
When she told me that since I got her out of the state we lived in and gave her a baby, that my usefulness was done and now she wanted me to leave so she could fuck around.
This makes me hate people even more...entitled, awful human beings.
This makes me really sad.. I’m getting married and I’d hate for my marriage to get to the point of any of these..
I do hope your marriage is long and healthy.
My mum married a dude with in a year. He beat her right before the wedding. Let alone no one in our family liked him. He made our lives hell for 5 years. Got away tho. Breaking point number... 17? She left a few times in the middle of the night (with me) only on school nights. Finally left for good. He didn't let anyone socialize out of the house. My mum had to keep her head down or get acussed of cheating. She never did cheat. He did. He didn't know how to delete his computer history. I had accidentally deleted a photo I wanted back. Found a crap ton of porn from an ex of his most recent stuff ranging back to before he was with my mum. With his wife before my mum who he had for 20 years. Did I mention his ex was also married?. Yes a horrible 5 years
I have a buddy whose ex said to him while they were watching tv "I even hate the way you breathe"
My story is from the other side: Husband and I joined the Army on "Married Buddy Plan." In Germany, I was washing dishes from the meal I'd made after work--both of us came home from being soldiers all day. He chased our first child into the kitchen because "she might talk during important parts of the show" he was watching. I was about 7 months pregnant, with a big belly between me and the sink. The laundry was going downstairs--he wasn't the one doing the laundry. Hmmm...
Don't get me wrong: I know that men usually get screwed in divorce.
No wonder there’s no good guys left. They’re scarred and scared because of women like these!
The kids being in the middle/hurt is the worst part of these
That first guys friends know how to keep it 💯
1 in every 4 woman experience domestic violence, and 1 in every 5 men. The numbers are not that different. Women can be abusive and manipulative, and men can be victims. I hate that men being abused is something that is often dismissed. One of the scariest things I can imagine is crying for help and no one hearing.
I think there is some under reporting in the abused male stat.
After all, lesbian relationships are the most violent.
*relationship anxiety intensifies*
Is everyone a narcissist these days? Like a textbook, histrionic narcissist. Unreal.