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- Asking someone out is a super difficult, and a lot of the reason why is due to the chance of being rejected. Researches found that physical attraction and seduction is mostly nonverbal. Shocker, no one usually comes out and says they like you. So, how do you decode these nonverbal cues? Let’s take a look at 7 signs someone is attracted to you (and you have no idea)!
Disclaimer: This video is for informative and educational purposes. It’s not a substitute for professional advice, just general guidance. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and always do what is right for you!
Does someone like you but is afraid of rejection. Watch this video to find out: • 6 Signs Someone Likes ...
Writer: Brie Cerniglia
Script Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Krisha Que ( / @macchiusmoriatostudios07 )
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
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Brightside. (2021, March 9). Psychologists point out 8 signs that show if someone is secretly attracted to you. Bright Side - Inspiration. Creativity. Wonder. Retrieved from brightside.me/inspiration-psychology/psychologists-point-out-8-signs-that-show-if-someone-is-secretly-attracted-to-you-801136/
Daniel, F. (2022, January 20). From flushed skin to eye contact: 27 signs that someone’s attracted to you. mindbodygreen. Retrieved from www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/signs-of-attraction
David B. Givens (1978) The Nonverbal Basis of Attraction: Flirtation, Courtship, and Seduction, Psychiatry, 41:4, 346-359, DOI: 10.1080/00332747.1978.11023994
McShan, A. W. (2022, April 25). Top 10 signs of physical attraction between two people. ReGain. Retrieved from www.regain.us/advice/attraction/top-10-signs-of-physical-attraction-between-two-people/
Steber, C. (2021, June 17). 13 unexpected signs someone is attracted to you, according to experts. Bustle. Retrieved from www.bustle.com/wellness/unexpected-signs-someone-is-attracted-to-you-according-to-experts
A bonus one. When someone is attracted to you, did you know their eyes tend to dilate a bit more? Evidence here: ttps://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0040256
So that's why women almost look like they're possessed, that makes so much sense!
@@hellogents8863 This 😂😂😂😂😂
Y'all are really milking us lonely prats. I'm not complaining tho lol.
@@gtgb5680 as long as there are lonely people like us, there will always be views
who cares? she can say something or find a new sap to bother
You're here just because you want to realise that your crush doesn't like you at all. I know... Me too.
🤣🤣
Sometimes, we want reasons to not chase something ;)
💀
@@Psych2go Your voice is very cute!!
Finally I found my people haha
Remember everyone, these are just possibilities and just because someone does these things doesn’t mean they have romantic feelings towards you. It could mean that they are just very comfortable with you.
This is an important comment, especially for us guys who might be on the lookout for these behaviors for the purpose of finding love. One way to make sure the feelings are truly love is to see if the crush does these behaviors with others. The person may just be friendly, but if you are truly their special someone there will be something they will only do with you, and they will do it consistently. And, if in doubt, ask. It’s hard, and it will feel like not knowing is better than being rejected, but it’s a lie. You stop yourself from really living life by keeping yourself stuck like that. Frankly, it’s better to rip the bandaid off as fast as possible because the sooner you get hurt, the sooner you can heal and learn from the experience. Trust that you’ll be fine in a week or two, and look for someone else who loves you back the same way you love them.
For those of you who think you have no hope- I won’t lie, it’s hard and the journey will be harder. Many people will have an easier time than you, but that’s just life. Even if you are playing on hard mode, there are still things you can do to improve yourself- get a better job (make more money) via education (go back to school), dress better, go to a salon for your appearance, take up a hobby and practice it (ladies especially love it when their man has a long term passion for something). If you are poor, you still have a chance, it’s just that your journey will be longer. Trust that as you improve yourself people will take note, even if it takes 10 years instead of 5.
So the entire video is useless? Yeah I knew that lol
Fidgeting isn't a sign of comfort though.
Yep this happens to me, i fall in love and she just think me as a friend, how my heart shatters to pieces... i already move on , it was hard...., i just stop having to do with her, i need time to forget her,
I mean some of These like the fidgeting and looking at you could mean their intimidated.
1. Body language shifts/angles towards you
2. They fidget a lot while near you
3. There's a lot of eye contact
4. They find ways to 'accidentally' bump into you
5. They find ways to touch you
6.They work their relationship status into the conversation
7. They keep in contact with you
Some girl kept making excuses of touching my back because I "stole" a cheeto that someone was giving directly to me, and she also said I stole one of her chicken nuggets even though I never did that and as a matter of fact, she kept trying to steal one of my chicken nuggets.
I do all of these but i don't like her shes just a friend 😭
Everything but the last two
@@C____1-2 lucky
the 5th one bro 💀
Your channel helped me cut off toxic friends and feel better about myself. Love you guys 😭♥️
@Aubrey0606 sure! :) I do have a friend that's stuck with me for about 6 1/2 years, and I am very greatful for him! Hopefully I'll be able to find some new friends as well
Happy to hear that. It must have been really hard for you to do that. How did you cope with the after thoughts?
@@Psych2go it was very hard, I am bullied in school and the two "friends" I cut off were really the only ones I had (other then one other person). Watching these videos helped me realize how bad of friends they really were. To help me with the after thoughts, I just think of how much better I've been feeling without them in my life, and that I still have my life long friend by my side to help me. Sometimes I do still feel lonely, and I with that things had worked out for me, but I know that it was the best thing for me to do :)
GOOD 👍💯🔥😎🔥😎🔥😎🔥😎
Yayy
1. Their body language shitfts towards you 0:30
2. They fidget a lot 0:59
3. There's a lot of eye contact 1:44
4. They find ways to accidentally bump into you 2:16
5. They find ways to accidentally bump into you (LITERALLY) 2:42
6. They work their relationship status into the conversation 3:18
7. They keep in contact with you 3:37
You're welcome
thank u!! \-w-
Me, An Aro/Ace: Oh No 💀
thx, this is for those lazy bumbs like me.
Yeah, pretty sure #7 will never happen for me. Oh well.
@@DHARK1873 Keep searching, keep improving yourself, the time will come.
So about the first sign, body language, I think it's important to keep in mind that just because someone's body is facing towards you doesn't mean they like you. In fact, I almost guarantee most of the time it's just them being comfortable. I know because I am like this, both on the side of overthinking everything someone else does and the side of "I sit comfy in weird ways"
imagine liking someone and they like you back, couldn’t be me
couldn't be me either ;-;
possibly not me either lol :')
now ain't that relatable
Yes
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You used Katarina Claes from “my next life as a villainess” nice. She 100% the perfect model and I love that you used her.
I know!! I saw her so I clicked 😂
@@theaterkidd302 I'm saying! i started laughing out loud 💀
Man she is so oblivious 🤣, it hurts to see , I became aware that I dislike harem cause of this show...cause I used to imagine that many clone Katharina were formed and ended up with everyone just to feel better 😵
@@yuiitodoro7791 I like some parts of the anime, but I agree with you on those points.
@@theaterkidd302 xD thought it was only me
with the help of this lovely channel we can all now realize that the people we like want to be at least 50 miles away from us at all times and with 7 different ways to prove it!
My husband and I were friends that fell in love, but were both scared of saying anything b/c we were kinda clueless about how the other person felt (everyone else knew but us) & didn't want to risk messing up our friendship.
Yeah, we had most of these signs. But my guy is very, very shy, and had problems making eye contact for very long, it was just too intense for him. We'd been engaged for a couple of months before he could look me in the eyes for more than a few seconds! 😆
Chances are he was just watching a lot of porn , pretty common symptom of that is being unable to make eye contact without feeling uncomfortable. I think I've dated someone like that, she was very uncomfortable with me making eye contact and I didn't know why so I didn't push it.
Thats cute
He may be autistic ❤
@@phantomapprentice6749 No, he's never really been into porn. It just doesn't do a lot for him.
It was a combo of things--aside from being painfully shy, at first he was trying very *very* hard to not give away his feelings. And, as I said, looking me in the eyes was just too intense for him. He's outwardly a very controlled person, but his feelings run deep and strong.
that’s so adorable aw
The whole "they face towards you" thing is incredibly funny to me, because I was working with a classmate I was platonically interested in a week ago, and while they were faced towards me and trying to maintain eye contact, I barely looked in their general direction.
Edit: I'm autistic
Damn, bro got ratio'd 💀
@@History_Nurd no
Bro got friendzoned
Rip
RIP LMAO
Not gonna lie whenever i am in dread and i find their videos in recommendation I just click on them to feel relaxed, Amanda's voice is so calming!
This just further proved that I REALLY like my crush and he doesn’t like me back 😬
frfr
same i was slowly crumbling inside watching this
I'm still retaining hope
Edit: She rejected me
Same boat. Sorry about that. We’ll find someone who feels the same way in time 🥺
Its OK he is only 1 out of the 8 billion people. Hope you find someone that cherishes you
Summary guy:
1) Their body language shifts towards you
2) They fidget alot
3) there is a lot of eye contact
4) they find ways to accidentally bump into you
5) they find ways to accidentally bump into you (literally) I. E. Physical contact
6) they work their relationship status into conversation
7) they keep in contact with you
*guide
Thanks for the summary brother
Oh I always took him telling me "I'm a single man blah blah blah" as he wants to stay single 😂
@@heygraey it usually depends on the tone of the person's voice and the context of which they brought it up.
@@doctorvladandhisbluejaysd2802 oh interesting! Thanks
The art in this video is STUNNING!
I used to be afraid of rejection. Now I'm afraid of malicious action. A single false accusation can have catastrophic consequences, and utterly derail somebody's life.
Agreed in my school a single sentence coul ruin my life and no matter how ridiculous it is nobody questions it blind following is a really bad thing
Yes it's bad that things like that can happen, but you shouldn't be paranoid and stop trusting people entirely just because of that.
Indeed, it's the scariest thing I can imagine and honestly it's becoming a crippling fear. I'm thinking about buying a tie clip camera to cover my rear *just in case*
Wdym exactly? Any examples?
YUP I assume no one is out to get me to avoid trouble
Even as a more introverted person, I always look at someone in the eyes when I'm speaking to them or they're speaking to me. It's more of a respectful/courteous thing for me and not so much a sign or indication of attraction.
Sound extroverted to me
@@drowz9825 I’d rather be hunting, hiking, camping or reading books/ playing games than going out with a crowd of people in my spare time. I’ve just realized several years ago that completely shying away from social interaction and potentially projecting a lack of confidence isn’t going to get you far socially or professionally in this world.
@@drowz9825 being an introvert doesn't make u shy why does everyone think that??
@Hey because that’s what introvertednes is?
@@loganbair9562 that's not what introvertedness is, introvert means you enjoy being alone, not that you aren't confident or shy. That's a common stereotype, you need to educate yourself.
The inherent problem with these sorts of things is that everything mentioned could mean nothing. Sitting one way might just be more physically comfortable for that person. People could tell you their relationship status being single cause they are either proud of it or depressed about it. Making time to talk to someone doesn’t mean attraction, ive gone out of my way at various jobs to chat with coworkers cause I was bored n it helps pass time. Some people are more touchy than others, nationality n culture can play into that as well.
Ultimately it’s safer to always opt on the side of caution and assume it’s all inconsequential or platonic, unless directly stated.
Thank you! I have now figured out that not a single person around me finds me attractive!
same
same
Same?
I don’t know, status pending.
Same
Lol same bro s’all good
My crush fits into three of these remarks. Plus, he always notices small things that nobody else notices, like when I wear a new piece of clothing. I have been doing most of these signs towards him; I hope he finds this video, watches it and notices that I do these things a lot around him.
Well, what are you waiting for?
Odds are he isn't going to watch this video unfortunately 😕 don't be afraid to ask him out though! The worst he could say is no :)
You can send him this video 😏
Just go! Any of you two can make the first move!
Or, you know, you could just make an actual move to help things along, instead of hoping for fate's hand or him to start being more bold. You're already seeing these signs in him so why not?
No, seriously, go for it. I didn't when I probably should have. Don't be me.
Even while watching several of these types of videos, my one fear is to be wrong about them, cuz it has happened too often for me that I misread and it becomes awkward when the other person isn't interested at all. I was even called arrogant on one occasion, and that left an emotional scar on me since, which has caused me to not wanting to read into these signs more than I should and just accept them as friendly gestures instead of romantic indicatiors....
I think in practice, always assume they are being friendly.
Because eventually, they WILL make these signs more clear to you.
But for them to eventually open up IF they were into you, you also have to reciprocate their energy up to that point. As in, if they are friendly, be friendly back. If they ever so slightly flirt one day, then ever so slightly flirt back - because they could be testing the waters.
Give them some confirmation, and eventually if they are meant to be, they WILL make it obvious.
Until then, just assume they are friendly would be my advice.
Remarkable person reading this.. It’s going to get better; all it is a season of opportunity to grow and be better than before. Challenging times are meant to strengthen us, not to break us. Success doesn’t define to what happened to us; it is how we choose to deal with our circumstances. The more you grow and develop as an incredible person as you are, the more things will change for the better. Forgive more (for you), be grateful for even the smallest things (we have it way better than someone else), choose love over ego, choose humility over ego (humility is strength), and finally, invest into new skills so that your future self will thank you. Our lives will change forever the more we grow. Be thankful for the challenges for we know something greater is coming. Love you always - Nathalie ✨❤️
Hmmm. I have definitely had a crush on other people.
And I can say with some confidence that no one has had a crush on me.
I can’t with the Bakarina thumbnail 😭🤚😂
I bet even with this knowledge she wouldn’t notice the whole cast’s crush on her 💀🤚
she wouldn't😭😭
Communication is so muddy. I have worked into the habit of saying how I feel and, whether or not it's reciprocated, rejoice in the fact that I told someone incredible what they mean to me. I've met so many women that would laugh at my corny jokes, go out of their way to hang out with me, and touch my arm throughout a conversation, or hold eye contact with me more than others, and it just came out to be that our conversation was really deep or pleasant to them and they were invested or, they were just nice. I'm not the best at reading how someone feels about me and videos like this don't help me much, BUT it does allow me to see others (I like to people watch) and notice budding relationships or attraction between folks. It's nice.
I love how every video has a different art style. Thank you for helping so many people with this kind of stuff. Have a good day everyone 😁
Aww. Thank you! This was done by Krisha, the same person who animated our trauma video. Did you get a chance to watch it? th-cam.com/video/L19rogwrnm0/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=Psych2Go
@@Psych2go no but I will after my eye doctors appointment. I’ll watch it right after :D
The bad thing about this is, it can be totally wrong.. I was definitely 'attracted' to someone I met, but simply in the wrong mood. They were pretty warm toward me, and I realize they liked me. But I just froze anyway. I didn't return their gaze, I kept my stance, etc. It didn't mean I didn't want to talk to them. I think eventually she decided because I wasn't doing some of these things, that she decided I wasn't interested, but I actually was. Too bad such things can happen. Especially when people think they are smarter by follow these 'general guidelines', they are usually 100% wrong, once someone doesn't follow them exactly they'll think that it's scientific somehow, when it's not, it's just a little guideline that doesn't apply all the time.
Y’all, just go for it. When you go up to people 99% of the time they will be nice. People like talking. Ask them about themselves and feed off their answers for other things to talk about. They will ask the same thing back to you out of politeness. That’s the key. They are polite because they are glad to be talking. If that small chance happens where it goes differently (they are passive to you) then that’s in them, that’s fine. Just thank them and continue on. And sometimes people just need a bit more encouragement, they seem cold but if you keep digging you might find something they like and will talk about.
Wow look at this guy with social skills and positive experiences. Couldn’t be me tho
@@villevironmaki4843 not too much a fan of talking to random people i don't know in person. On internet, different 😂 but real life??? Ehhhhhhh
W Man
Alright 1 out of 7. The signs are pretty clear. I'm sensing a lot of attraction here.
Same 😭
Me too
Me 3 out of 7, I remember one time she was sitting besides me and then turned towards me and stared at me for like 10 seconds
Your voice is so soft and calming. Perfect for these kinds of videos
My friends at work always tease me about not having a girlfriend, but little do they know mine’s been with me for 1 1/2 years, and watching this video after seeing it in my recommended always made me reflect on how long my girl has really been into me. Love the content so far, keep it up! ❤️
Awww,really happy for you!
As a person that is shy and introverted, it is very hard just to look someone in the eyes and also it is very hard to bump into people because that just makes it feel awkward but that’s imo because that’s how I am and how I see it
Yeah, same!! I struggle to make eye contact with pretty much anyone, but it's harder when it's my crush. I feel bad cuz the guy I like seemed to want to make eye contact a lot, but I kept looking away quickly when I met his gaze. 😥
I'm shy too, but I always look people in the eyes when I'm talking to them. I feel like it's more polite idk
There was one time when we were in a group activity and my crush is in there. She is near me then, we stared eye to eye for a few seconds i was like "Dafuq you thinking bro" so nervous at that moment and looked at nothing. I also noticed that sometimes, she stares at me then immediately shifts away if i turn to her vicinity. Today, another group activity is held and shes there again. Of course not that awkward eye to eye moment again, this time its normal. We just do the task and shes quite impressed when i wrote a certain answer. But who knows maybe this is just her personality, just like you im a shy and introverted person. Cant openly or approach someone instantly unless im urged or forced to do so or...one time when i kinda have the confidence that i recieved from something. Uh...its alright if she dont like me back if that thing ever happened. I still have another crush in my classroom and shes considerably closer but less cuter...but i still find her attractive and special for some reason. Also one thing i didnt even have any female friends until now and i badly want one but dont have the confidence to talk to one which is annoying 😭😭😭
Also i badly want to call a girl "bro" for some unknown reason LMAO
Fyi the second crush i mentioned, i also think shes the "unpopular" one, like no one really mentions her or ship her with someone. Thus, me having the better chance but screw my shy personality i just cant do the damn thing.
One thing that I find that I do when I have a crush, is unintentional eye contact. I’ll be looking around, say, at the pretty landscape, and suddenly my crush and I are staring at each other. It is never an intentional thing for me, in fact I usually try to look away. (But I do fidget a lot)
This is just a small reminder that not everything is the same for everyone ❤️
Finding if someone likes you is like decoding the cryptic zodiac writing.😂
As an anxious person, if you notice me fidgeting or can't seem to relax please don't think I'm attracted to you, Im just genuinely awkward as a person
I just learned something...
No one is attracted to me.
The, "Pls get a phone." one just KILLED me.
So watching this video has made me realise that I must really confuse the people around me because I do pretty much all of these things with pretty much all of my close friends
1. I’m very comfortable with my friends and will constantly be facing them pr just straight up cuddling them
2. I fiddle a lot anyway even when I’m on my own
3. I don’t really make prolonged eye contact with anyone because it gets uncomfortable after a while but I do look at my friends a lot if passing them
4. I don’t pretend it’s an accident but I always like to talk to my friends so I always do.
5. As I mentioned earlier I will just straight up cuddle my friends and I always touch them
6. I don’t really do this one but eh
7. I like to talk to my friends and will try to keep in contact with them especially if they are very close friends that I like talking to
I have been dropping accidental signals that I don’t mean my entire life
Lmao. Me too. But I’m a girl who’s straight with other girls (some straight some not) I think we all think that it’s platonic and close friendship
Just a story that I thought I should share here, so I was hanging out with my best friend and my crush (my crush and I are kind of ex-best friends ever since we lost contact a few years ago). We were chatting and my friend mentioned that I have a bug crawling on my hair. I nervously asked them to get it off. Now, I don't usually get THAT freaked out by bugs but my crush was getting close to me in order to get the bug off my hair and I started panicking, I could feel my face turning red haha! My friend gave me 'the look' because she knew I'm not very dramatic over little things like bugs. I still can't believe my crush really touched my hair that time and my heart flutters every time I think about it ☺️
That's so cute! I get how you feel at the time 😆
Cute 💓😆
Have you made any progress with him
@@matthewtan614 Nope. I actually don't like him anymore (crazy because I was in love with him for over 3 years). We still see each other, we're friends, and it almost feels like he's the one crushing on me now lol. But I moved on, for good.
@@zagnosewhy didnt you make a move
I would add a few others. It helps to connect with someone you know: like, if you were students who frequently took classes in college years ago, and you remembered how they would go out of their way to support you with what you were doing. Sometimes, the best way to show them that you care is to not only keep in contact with them (In a healthy way, not like a creepy stalker).
Return the favor by demonstrating reciprocity. Listen to them. Show interest in what they have to say. If they mention their family, then find ways to demonstrate that you show respect. Be there for them: in sickness and health, even when communicating virtually via email. Let them know that you are thinking about them without coming off as weird or obsessive. If they demonstrate signs of empathy, like if you've been recovering from illness for a week and the other person wishes for your speedy recovery, then chances are that they care about you.
Just the fact that everything can match up, yet, they don’t like you.
One tip I’ve noticed recently is that if the person that likes you is too shy they’ll have a more confident friend do some of the talking like one girl saying she wants to see what I look like without sun glasses on so her friend that likes me can compliment me on my eyes. It actually happened
I don't know if this counts but someone I grew up with came over for a visit one day and we were having a conversation. She asked me a critical question, like "What do you think of...?" and I answered wholeheartedly with my firm opinion and she was really happy to see that we shared the same view about the topic we talked about.
Literally the next day she asked me if she can come over for another visit and we kept talking.
I moved house and now I live closer to her, which we both find good because we can visit each other, although she prefers to visit me rather than invite me over for reasons I'm not allowed nor want to talk about. Either way, whenever she wants to come over she messages me, I get ready to pick her up and as we walk we always have a conversation.
At some point she asked me another critical question, another "What do you think of...?" and I answered with what was my firm opinion again. This is literally my own opinion about these topics but they lined up so well. Taste in music, interests about movies/series/games/fandoms. I'm a Warhammer nerd and not ashamed to admit it. She doesn't know Warhammer that much so I understand why she doesn't share the same enthusiasm as me. But when she introduced her fandoms to me I was quite interested. All by myself, I would probably have ignored it and kept to my own interests but she showed me around.
Later on, she visited me a few more times, I let her play on my gaming setup, she plays her favourite game that I took the time download for her. Again, on my own I would never have looked at it. But she showed me interesting things and I even started my own game there. At some point I let her use my VR setup, told her about a world she might want to visit in VRChat and when she went there she was so giddy about the selection of Avatars; They were from her favourite game. It was quite adorable to see her jump in excitement.
She tends to feel more like herself around me. Which makes me happy knowing I can be some kind of sanctuary to her.
This story is my favorite! CAN I HAVE THAT TOO, PLEASE!?
@@chocolatefarm5408sorry, we ran out of those a few weeks ago
wow! now i know what *not* to do when someone i like is beside me! thank you
Me realising no one has a crush on me
👁👄👁 "I am fine"
"Really?"
"Yes"
"Okay"
*goes home*
*has mental breakdown*
Sometimes it's better if NO ONE has a crush on you, especially if you're NOT into them. They won't DEMAND that you spend time with them, answer their texts, show interest in them or demand that you go to their house and do PDA and you're free to move on. Peacefully.
@@lynnlitung damn you talking with expirience?
@@sonyaplaysgenshin1636 probs
I feel your pain. Its the same with me too bruh😢😢😔one day i say im fine being single, then other days im like "bruh is love not meant for me or something?" After awhile i honestly stopped believing in it bruh. To me,love exists for others but not me. Only heartbreak and being used seems to be the only crap im given. Sometimes it sucks being nice,but i can never be cold hearted cause its just not in my DNA bruh...
@@uchihaavenger4464oof same :")
Tho my problem is that if something bad happens to someone like a phone is not working or if my classmates heart got broken bc of a break up or smth i act cold bc i dont know how to comfort them so i ignore it or just dont talk to them me being socially akward is the worst thing that happens to me lol ,kinda introverted- thats why im feiendless and loverless lol
Tho online im extroverted because i dont have to do eye contact and i can be myself (my personality is weird) without anyone that ill know for a long time judging me :")
It’s always hard for me to know if a girl is really attracted to me or she’s just being kind
Shoot your shot.
@@Psych2go do you think so ? I always fear rejection … it will affect my self-esteem
if u like the girl, I'd say take your chances! You'd better ask before someone else takes her, and the worst she could say is no ^^
@@jimmyinnit tbh i don’t like when a girl says no to me … i feel like i’m worthless
@@bach556 well I'm not really a professional in this field but if that's the case, I'd say you should work on your confidence more before you re-enter the dating scene
Idk why this video landed in my recommandations but I love the chill vibes
I’d like to point out that this could be a sign of trust and familial closeness. I think we need to stop thinking about “are they sexually attracted to me? “And start thinking “do they love me? “Because they might not love you in a romantic way but they might love you in other ways but that’s equally awesome! Especially as someone who came from a bloodline of a lot of trauma, it means a lot to me if someone who’s not related to me loves me, so you don’t necessarily have to be looking for romantic love here, it’s equally awesome if someone loves you as family.
By the way I’m saying all this because I do a lot of these things as a means of showing trust and when I want to get more lovingly close to someone that isn’t biologically related to me. I don’t trust anybody I’m biologically related to, I would say the only way this could be accurate as if they also talk about their relationship status.
So what exactly is a bloodline of a lot of trauma?
It's not equally awesome for everyone though.
well said
@@pillakilla9122 exactly that. It’s called familial trauma but I call it bloodline because I am no longer allowing myself to decline family is anything related to genetic relatability, as typically also these types of toxic family dynamics pull you in further by making you feel guilty for ever loving anybody else as family so if you’re going to see your best friend later that day they will say “but how about family!? “Or “there’s nothing more important than family “
It helped alot, but it's so different when you fall in love with your best friend and you don't want to ruin the friendship between us. Most of these things happened with the both of us but now we don't even talk that much and I'm still getting mixed signals..
Feels good to say it out.
Thank you and your videos are amazing
Nice video, just a reminder that fidgeting a lot could also be because the other person has anxiety or it's feeling particularly anxious that day lmao
I say that cause my anxiety does that a lot to me i can't stand still for saving my life.
The fact that I act this way with everyone.
1.Body language shifting towards them
-I tend to think that other people might find me unwilling to initiate conversation or that they might think I do not want to be bothered when I do not face them.
2. Fidgeting a lot
- I naturally fidget a lot since my mind may wander elsewhere and grow curious about the place around me.
3. Lots of eye contact
- I was taught as a child that eye contact was a means of showing that you are interested in a conversation with the other person. (It was rude if I did not make eye contact or avoid their gaze.)
4. Finding ways to accidentally bump into you
- To all my friends, I would always try to make occasions which allow me to meet up with them as I enjoy having a deeper relationship through more contact.
5. Finding ways to accidentally bump into you
- When I would like to get to know anyone better, or I wanted to show that I considered someone an intimate friend, I would try to have physical contact with them as it sometimes lightens the mood and makes me appear more friendly with others.
6. They work their relationship status into the conversation
- I often use this point as a way to engage in conversation since sometimes the convo might get stale and awkward, so doing this might get the other person to talk more.
7. They keep in contact with you
- In general, I try my best to keep in contact with everyone I know. Who knows? it may just make their day!
Have I accidentally been misunderstood to be in love with everyone I'm close with......?
Me watching this even though i know that no one is ever going to be attracted to me
Remember The father, the son, and the holy spirit loves you!
Same
I now realize that I do all of these things with people I have no intention on going out with
1:37 friend zoned lol
💀 fr
I would love a video about the Inner Child 😊 it helped me a lot to be happier and feel safer overall
"Yeah again, we can't really be too sure. Maybe she's from Canada and just being polite." - Casually Explained
love the ‘my next life as a villainess’ reference in the thumbnail!
Not me searching the commenting section for people who actually knew the thumbnail(Catharina Claes) ...NOW I CAN REST EASY.
Thanks
Haha sameee!
Bakarina would be the one who needed this video the most since my frustration of her not realizing it is so bad that at the 100th chapter I am screaming for anyone to confess to her already I don't care who!
Sorry about that rant.
What if I'm nervous and only look at them if they're not looking
Just a bit of eye contact scares me even with normal people
Before watching this, I've been told by my uncle to not engage in eye contact, but now after I had watched this, im disappointed with myself... I thought eye contact is a sign of respect, where it means that you have your full attention towards the person your talking to, not because you have feelings for someone
Hey guys, I have watched your videos since like 2019, your videos really helped me through tough days and still do, however, I wanted to ask if you could make some videos surrounding the topic of trans people, early social transition and how to cope, get through tough etc. times
Also, lgbtqiap+ topics in general, that would be great
Thanks for the kind words! For sure, maybe we can find someone to interview on the channel? Do you have any person in mind?
@@Psych2go thanks for replying, I really appreciate you taking time to do so. I've watched some TH-camrs for a long time now, like Miles Chronicles, Noahfinnce and Sam Collins, they are really great at their work from just entertaining and being creative to educating the audience, so I think they would be perfect for this
@@chain.the.sun21 I'm trans and 100% agree!
Looking back now, I can see that there were several people interested in me at various times in life. I had no idea at the time, because of course I didn't know any of these tips. Now I'm old, so I guess these tips won't do me any good anymore, but it still gives me a boost knowing that I once caught a few people's eyes
Your voice is incredible! The whole video I was mesmerized by it! Amazing job on the video btw, it was very informative stuff 👏👏👏
We need a vid about how to deal with/ get over a crush if they don't do any of these things 😅
My crush looks at me. But not in that way. She eyes me with an expression that says, “I know you have a crush on me and I’m not interested” 💀
Oh nah man that gotta hurt frfr
💀💀ouch
It's actually the reverse for me! I'd hardly make eye contact with someone I like when talking with her
The last few years have made it a lot harder to be optimistic about dating. I don't know if it's depression, or being targeted by scammers on a couple sites, but trusting people actually have interest in me has been harder the last few days.
This video makes us all depressed as we all already are. I know, I'm not leaving you out too..
Me and my co-worker have been talking , got her phone number yesterday and she admitted she liked me a lot and said I was cute!. ❤️☺️😊 So we going to school tomorrow together and we have a date! Sometime this week!. , Sit on a hill with blankets and food , talk and cuddle and watch the beautiful sunset!. 🌇 Very romantic. ❤️💯 Finally found someone who actually cares about me!. 😭☺️
bro how is it going? u and her did well?
@leiteninhox9 nah she cheated bro , focusing on myself now! ❤️ working on my relationship with God , workout on my goals and loving myself
@@Enternallordofshadows God bless you bro!
@leiteninhox9 God bless you too brother ❤️ how's it going btw!
@@Enternallordofshadows ehhhh, i just dont know what to say.
listening to this is like getting described personally instead of my crush
You're here to see if your crush is attracted to you. I'm here to see if no one's attracted to me. We're not the same
nah im here because this was recommended to me and im curious to see if anyone has liked me
Darth Skykiller same
Hit like if you're Single
Also remember that people can be fidgeting and not like you. I mess with my hair all the time not because I like the people around me, but because I am anxious.
My classmate is attracted to my friend. I can tell by 3 things. 1. She is around him very commonly especially compared to my other male classmates and I. 2. Her vocal pitch lightens around him. 3. She's always pushing him around.
Thats the one relationship I know of in my class that's straight so it's the only one Imma talk about. Also the other ones get kinda weird...
I finally found love a month ago!
She is amazing btw
After being rejected MANY times
The funny thing is I had no frickin idea
Now I watched this she done all of these things
ALL of them
In stupid
Congratulations brother 😊 hope that your relationship is healthy and awesome as hell
It’s really amazing! Thank you so much!
@@lucas8663. no problem 🐥👍
Congrats on this new journey! How did you guys confessed?
@@Psych2go She actually confessed to me
I know her in TH-cam and irl(She has a yt channel aswell)
And I did a video Called rate me
And there were 1 to 24 numbers(for example let’s say 1 is Best friends,2 is I love you,and 3 is I hate you) she put in All the numbers that were “I love you numbers”
And she is now mine
I can’t believe a channel is 9+ million subs actually talks to their subs that’s very sweet
1 - They're not
Yeah, me and my partner never even told each other We liked each other but we grew closer and then we admitted our love once we had a full understand and trust for one another
The third one is definitely not my thing.. If I look into their eyes a lot that means I couldn’t care less about them romantically..It’s when I always look away that the person should be aware of me and my fondness of them 😅😅
1: I love sitting next to people
2: I have ADHD so I will fidget a lot
3: I make so much eye contact with people
4: I just want to hang out
5: If we are walking together I'm gonna be smudged into you
6: Everyone I know knows that I am single
7: I always want to keep contanct, call and text with people
so what im trying to say is that if I have a crush on someone and i have told no one, you will probably not know :)
But anyways thanks for the video
I watch these to convince myself someone likes me when I never engage in human contact with someone I don’t know extremely well
Attraction is so fickle as hell, as soon as I sense this, I let the relationship _cool_ off. Then engage, and you will maintain a cool head and not overindulge in fantasy and you see the person as they truly are, no honeymoon phase required.
What about the type of people where they're so nervous being near to their crush that, they run or go away from their crush or that they avoid eye contacting because their nervous at lookin at their crush? Something like that. Anyways good video, and no I'm not nervous with a crush of mine.
Ya, I need this. When my crush gets closer I get nervous. But I do stare at him and smile when he's at a distance
“Has this helped you find someone attracted to you?” Nah it’s just helped me realize no one likes me 💀 though that I coulda guessed
I can't sit close to my crushes. I get too nervous, unless I mentally talk myself into inching closer.
Nobody wanted this video but we prob needed it
Here's the thing. When I'm trying to talk with my crush, my legs will twist together and get real tight because I'm kinda nervous. And normally, I'll get so focused on my crush that I'll forget about these videos entirely! If there was a way I could remember, I'm sure I'll get a good idea to see how he feels about me.
This mainly told me how I act in front of my crush. I do literally most if not all of these ;-;
Constantly fighting low self esteem blinds you
When I like someone I tend to crack jokes around them and be really playful.
Catarina being in the thumbnail is perfect for this hahahaha my next life as a villainess supremacy ♡
Imagine one person does all of these actions but they still friendzoning you
Lol
I love your videos, the love one that is. They actually show signs of what I do when I see my crush >_
For me, it's like an endless cycle. I see someone, I make no conversation, I lose feeling, rinse repeat. Then people say something along the lines of, "Oh well you just have to talk to people!" That's funny! Because I really can't!
I think you have an anxiety.
@@vionlanc9883 m a y b e .
@@hellogents8863 courage and determination will solve your problem. ☺️
As a man, I never truly know and just assume the person is being friendly or a bit reckless, that’s how oblivious I am and I don’t even know it
How did you come up with the idea that the characters have leaves on their heads? I've been wondering this for a long time
It's very creative and it looks so cute🥺❤️
And the rest of the artstyle is also very beautiful
It is so cute. I come here most of the time just to watch the adorable animation and art.
Oh someone recently asked us that too. Our very first videos had a leaf.. and it became a symbol of growth!
@@Psych2go ah okay, thanks🥰
Wow so... Either I have a lot of people that like me or I have really nervous friends. Thanks for the signs.
even in the relationships I've had and the crushes that have asked me out, I have been used by most of them... I feel as if I wasn't meant for this world.... Or am I Cursed to be alone? Being a genuinely good person to my partner never seems to be enough and they tend to leave me. Sometimes the "Reason" Happens to be that they feel like I don't deserve them, despite my efforts to show that they are the world to me. My love essentially gets treated like some mystical perfect thing that they dont deserve, and then they dwell on their own problems to show to me that they are "Unworthy" and I lose another person I love. This has happened a lot whenever someone was truly in love. If this didn't occur, they attempted to be manipulative or tried to use me for personal gain. I feel alone, as if I am destined for it. I am afraid to admit that I wish to give up on love entirely..... :(
My crush always keeps eye contact with me the entire time we talk. He's always asking about my drawings, and we've talked about similar interests (we have so much in common it's unbelievable). He's opened up a little about his childhood, but nothing big. He's complimented me before; I wore my hair differently once, and he complimented me on it and he knew how I had it different when others couldn't tell. And when I got a haircut, he said he liked it, then a few minutes later said, "I like your hair even more the more I look at it." But he's complimented a few other people once or twice (one on a necklace, one on a shirt). He'll also say I'm doing a good job or say "wooo go [name]" even if I'm just standing there, and he greets me immediately whenever I come into work. He jokes around a lot with me and has made jokes like "no you can't leave now haha." He's even stopped what he was doing just to open a door for me when he wasn't even leaving, and he's gone out of his way to follow up a joke with just me. He jokes around with everyone though, but to my knowledge he hasn't made jokes like that with them. He doesn't try to touch me at all, but he gives high fives to other people. I'm so confused???
May be he has an intrest in you ...or maybe he likes u as a friend....but we can clearly see that he has best the interest in you....so it will be great to get to know him better.
It's just my thoughts, don't take this seriously , have a great day 💓💓
The feeling of nervousness around someone they like...but people nowadays is really confusing--hard to know them.
Any updates?
@@bartholomewhalliburton9854 I'm about 89% sure he likes me at this point. I'm just in a position where I can't act on it
"pls get a phone" just broke me 🤣🤣🤣
These videos are amazing, you’ve really helped & strengthened the relationship between my crush! Thank you so much Psych2Go! :D