To all you in this comment thread, don't worry, I was in your exact position too a year ago and now I'm heading towards my dream life. Don't give up, the night gets darkest right before the dawn, dare to become a better you in every aspect and witness magic happen ✌🏼🌟☀️...
Yes, I do that. Because he is married! And this crush is irrational, since I only spoke with him a couple of times. I usually see him only a couple of seconds a day, when I glimpse at his table in the cantine. It is sufficient to give me heartache . I hope I get over him soon.
The last few days I have been thinking about her we were friends as kids we basically grew up together I have not seen her for years until a month ago I saw her and I could not stop thinking about her then I watched this video I think she dosent like me back i have been lied to by who? Myself she the only girl that makes me happy but I guess I'll be forever alone as no girl likes me I fucking hate my self I hate this fucking world edit: im going insane i cant stop thinking about her shes the only thing in my mind rn i wish her but idk if i can get her i i dont know anymore part of me wants to think she likes me back but part of me want to think she dosent guess i got the devils haircut
@@Lunamoon__8I don't know why but I found it funny so I decided to write it. The first time I looked at your profile picture, I didn't know it was a mermaid's tail in the bathtub or the sink over there. I thought this was a squatting guy in a plaid shirt with something very long (probably an arm) sticking out of his anus. I feel a little guilty for this association but I wanted to share this thought. Have a nice day.
Thanks so much for creating this amazing channel! It has helped me through some very hard times! Congrats on 9 mil! 🎉 1. 0:20 - They’ll do things you like to be around you more 2. 1:07 - Their pupils dilate 3. 1:35 - They somehow know things about you that you’ve never told them 4. 2:11 - You catch them staring at you 6. 2:37 - They try to find out your relationship status 7. 3:06 - They seem nervous around you Some advice I’ve found helpful: People in high school (and in life in general) may lead you on, cheat, etc. The point is to just remember how important you are. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do. You will find a great person for you, one day. Life is hard. People are going to judge you, but don’t let that stop you. Let your light shine. You are loved. Be kind. Keep moving forward. : )
TIMESTAMPS!! ❤ 1) 0:20 They’ll do things that you like to be around you more 2) 1:07 Their pupils dilate 3) 1:36 They somehow know things about you that you’ve never told them 4) 2:12 You catch them staring at you 6) 2:38 I don’t know why but it skipped They try to find out your relationship status 7) 3:05 They seem nervous around you
The last one is so true. I get very nervous when my crush interacts with me. My cheeks instantly become red my body temperature rises and I start saying some dumb things😅
Man I've got this bad crush on this guy at work and this helps a little bit. I just wish I could read him better though. We have small talk all the time, smile at each other when ever we pass. He's even asked me to get a coffee with him sometime, which I'm still waiting on trying to make that work lol. I just hope it's a genuine thing I've got.
same here, except we have crappy timing and are never single at the same time ....till now. I feel like everything in this video is me, I just wish it was him too lol
Update! We went on that coffee day, it was short because of work that day and it was fantastic. We talked about all sorts of nerdy stuff and things we had in common, but the last subject was about religion. He's a southern baptist and I grew up with out any religious grounds. Next day we both avoided each other sadly, but we talked it out (it was emotional). We decided it be best to stay friends for now.
@@blitzgundam4084 aw glad to hear it. I am agnostic and my hubby is practising islam. It is a reason why I will be leaving w our 3 sons next month. It takes up so much of their time having to get washed ritually and going to pray in the mosque. Now I can not imagine christianity being that time consuming for kids but maybe some people know of ways to do that. So yeah religion can cause big issues if not for the other partner it can for the children.
1) 0:21 they will do things you like to be around you more 2) 1:06 their pupils dilate 3) 1:35 they somehow know things about you that you have never told them 4) 2:11 you catch them staring at you 5) 2:37 they try to find out your relationship status 6) 3:05 they seem nervous around you lol idk what'd i miss but ok
Remember, men can be attracted to you but not want anything more. There also a lot of factors around their lives too and why they might not ask you out or even friendzone you (for now for even as a whole) when you tell them you feel the same way.
Yeah my ex best friend and my crush broke up and when I showed him my face he called me beautiful so when I came out to him and told him that I liked him he said he’s not ready to try again for a long time due to what my ex best friend did to him. But I asked him will in the future will you try to date me? He said it might be a possibility. Or maybe he’s not sure.
Yeah, my crush kind of had most of these, but when I told him I like him he friend-zoned me. I think it might also be because of some internalized homophobia, but I'd rather not assume.
The world would be better if everyone can just walk to the people they like and tell them straight up. Stop waiting for your crush to read the signs because they might just miss all of them.
Trueee but that would mean rejection like yes you realised you have a crush on this person but you have to develop some kind of bond before you confess
My highschool story(a little long) Like in my highschool there was a really cute guy..So one fine day I was having my exams and so according to roll number I was sitting with my crush's male best friend, I remember when I kept my head down on the table my crush who was sitting a little far away from me (in another column)did the same so he was basically mirroring me and I was like OMG😯 and his best friend who was sitting with me he was continuously looking and observing both of us left and right and I could actually see that he was mirroring me and this happened for four times in 3 days he was mirroring me all the time my crush even teased me in a healthy & funny way for my wrong answer in paper after the exam was over and I couldn't think that whether he likes me or not but I think I am too late to think about it now and I was so happy but now my high school has ended😭♥️ •For those who know why he did that pls leme knowww...but it's late🥺💕 Thank u for reading my story so patiently ❤️
@@palaksri7908 Maybe your crush already knows about you hitting on him through his friend, who might have (secretly) noticed your gesture before and told him about the same. So in order to confirm that, he might have done the same thing as you for 3 consecutive days. Just my thought.... 🤷🏻♂️
@@palaksri7908 we live in a world with internet so it's not over There's definitely something, believe me. Even if it's not, by the way he acts, I can assure you he's not gonna hurt you if you try. Maybe he's not sure of his feelings so you need to make him think about them more. When I was in high school I felt weird about a friend after I had a dream we got together. Then he started texting me and I fell in love lol. Now we're together for 4 years, probably getting engaged soon 😬
I remember a girl who constantly talked to her parents about wanting to be in my company (I heard about from my parents whose friends her parents are), and now that she heard of my recent break-up from my ex-partner, she approached me via Instagram and asked if I would like to see her. We are going to go spend some time in a local coffee shop next week. Wish me luck 😎
@@ChocolateMilk..nah! Coffee can even help preventing some cardiac issues and dementia. Even more important: coffee is delicious. It's the highlight of the day! When I see it seeping hot and dark into my cup, my heart beats a little faster and my pupils dilute. Guess I've got a crush on coffee. ❤ Oh, but no worries, I'm not jealous. ;-) Hope your date worked out as you wished for, @Ackotoctoc!
We were together but I broke up with him because I wasn’t in the right mindset to be in a relationship at the time. It hurt him, but he said he understood. Ive always liked him since the first day I saw him, even if it was just a little bit at first. We started to talk again as friends a few months ago. Now my feelings are resurfacing and I feel as if it’s not my place to interfere with his love life considering I broke up with him and think I should just let him move on. Then he messaged me asking if I liked this guy that’s one of our college mates and I totally denied it because ofc I like him instead and me and this other guy are just friends. However, he started being really rude and calling him names and I’ve no idea why. It was really strange. Then he told me that he and this girl were talking and I was like “cool” because it’s not my place to say wether I approve or disapprove of what’s going on in his love life that’s up to him. Once I’d convinced him that I didn’t like the other guy, he asked if I had a crush on anyone else. I told him that I was talking to someone because I was and I told him who it was. He then started making fun of him and kinda came off as passive aggressive in a way. I sensed it in the way he was talking about him. He was asking me questions like “could he beat me in a fight?” And I found it so odd. I don’t really like him anymore because it feels like he won’t let me move on and he keeps teasing me and being kinda flat out rude to me for no reason now. If I’m allowing him to move on he should be able to let me too. I know I broke up with him but he knew the circumstances I was in. He’s changed completely and it’s actually kind of sad in a way.
If I was you I would 100% appreciate this kind of guy. Its so obvious that he’s still into you which is super sweet considering you were the person who broke up. Guys will never like their ex even if they were the main person who called it off and mistreated the other party let alone the other party having broke up with them. you say he’s changed and it’s sad? guess what hun ppl grow from their pains. Time makes ppl grow and build a relation with their inner pains. Some become silent and Mute . Some become mean and brutal because life has been mean to them. I think a guy like that whose still putting effort and whose wanting to ensure what your relationship status is despite you having dumped him, is someone worth treasuring. I swear you wont find better. Men are fucked up I dont know how you’ve landed with a nice guy like this. If you have any regrets of breaking up and think you’re in better circumstances then you were before I dont see why you shouldn’t show him you appreciate how much he cares and how much he’s sticking around for you. he seems to be a real sweet guy.
@@missb8904 I did appreciate him. He was a really sweet guy. I know I hurt him and I’m prepared to deal with the consequences of that and I have taken responsibility. I always thanked him for being there for me even after I did that to him and told him that he’s one of the kindest people I’ve met. It’s just that I think he’s with the wrong crowd because now he’s kinda cocky and rude and stuff(not just to me but to everyone) and I hate seeing him like that. I’m not sure if he’s being that way because he wants to fit in with them or merely because he just happened to change but it really confused me. He and I are friends now because he’s talking to a girl and I don’t want to meddle in their relationship since I think they’ll be good together. It’s just that as his friend, I worry about him. I ask if he’s okay but he always says that nothings up. I cant stand the thought that I potentially hurt him so deeply without meaning to. I strongly feel that we were in a sort of right person wrong time situation and if I could go back and rethink about wether I’m in the right mind to be in a relationship before dating him I would. Then he would’ve never been hurt. However, I’ve made the decision that I’ll leave him to go his own way now. After seeing what happened before I don’t think I could put him through that again. He gave me his all and I wasn’t ready for it. There’s nothing I can do about it now though apart from let him heal and get on with his life because I can tell he has so very much to offer to many others who would suit him better and treat him better than I ever could. Thank you very much for your advice though, I appreciate it
@@kageyamasponytail3486 You're just toying with him. He OBVIOUSLY still wants to be with you otherwise he wouldnt be talking to you and asking if you have any crushes. If you still have feelings for him then you need to tell him, otherwise you need to leave him alone and remove yourself from his life completely so he can move on. I don't blame him at all for being rude to you because you toying with his heart and giving him mixed signals by continuing to talk to him.
meanwhile me who literally ignores the person that I have a crush on, NEVER making eye contact with them, never trying to start a conversation, and bullying them in a friendly - sarcastic way. I guess I always get scared that I'm gonna get rejected so I just act like I feel nothing
@@egertroos-qh7hw I actually don't know. I believe I've been single for so long that being on my own gives me joy now. and sharing my life with another person (basically a relationship) scares me. I just wanna kill my feelings so instead of flirting I choose to ignore the person
+Psych2GoTv *Thanks for the signs of latent limerence* - what happened to #5? 0:19 (1) Doing things ye like to be frequenter around you 1:05 (2) Dilated pupils 1:35 (3) Knowing undisclosed things about yourself 2:10 (4) Frequent staring (5) *???* 2:36 (6) Inquiry about relationship stratus 3:03 (7) Nervousness
You know it’s a real crush, when it hurts. And not because something happened, but because of the thought of it happening or the idea of you not helping enough. You know you really care when the idea of him being hurt legitimately hurts you and makes you feel empty. Crushes and love aren’t fun… but it’s completely worth it.
They may not want to lead you on. If you still want them as friends, you could reassure them by doing friendly activities in groups rather than trying to get them to meet-up one on one.
I'm very worried of this point too. I got caught by my crush that I kept staring at him a lot of time. Hope he'll just ignore it and I wisb the teachers won't find out......
I love this channel and all it's content. You guys have helped me understand myself and my feelings more than I can explain. I was also wondering if you could do a video on Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria? It's affected my life for years and I'd love a video on it. (Apologies if there already is one, I just can't find it, thanks in advance)
When I watch this kind of videos about crush signs, I watch it not because I want to know if someone is into me or not I watch it because I want to know if I'm the one with the signs instead 😌
This is a perfect representation of my crush and I. Its pretty obvious we like each other but none will say it. My crush will stare at me for a while, and when I look at them, they'll look away. Its no secret that my crush likes me and I like them.
I'm moving on from my crush and this video popped out of my feed. There are many signs that it's pretty obvious that my crush does this everytime we see each other. One thing I can't forget is that I saw him looked at me and pretends that he's not just by looking the other way. Another thing, I remembered that me and my bff talked things but suddenly I was shocked because he was just behind my back pretending to be talking to someone, and then when I saw him behind my back, he suddenly moved out of the room. 😳 Is it really a sign that my crush likes me back too?! 🤔 Well i don't want to assume things but it's the signs that are accurate everytime we meet each other. Anyways, thank you @Psych2Go for the detailed explanation. 💖 Hope me and my crush gets interaction becus we never talk.
I know it might be hard, but give asking your crush out a shot if you still have the chance. Just because it is unlikely doesn't mean it's impossible, right? Well, I'm saying this because the impossible became possible for me. My crush likes me back, however I realised too late as she had move elsewhere. Now I regretted not asking my crush out when I had the chance. We've only ever talked twice so who knows...
I am very good at hiding my feelings, normal thing, since i hide my anger, and yes, i have several big brothers, thats why i have anger issues, so i adapted and overcome the feeling thing.. but the last one and the Looking at the crush thing.. yeah, can't help it.
My crush who is genuinely attracted to me and ig you can say ‘interested’, is a shy person. We both rated each other “a 10/10” as she called me “cute” several times although she considered me a “friend”, always talks about me with her friends; Her friends tell me that she likes me, and BEYOND more! Some potential dead giveaways she did was: 1) She asked “Want me to put on makeup to impress you?” as I said “No, you look absolutely gorgeous the way you are.” as she became very flattered. 2) Whenever her friends would tease her asking if me and her were “together”, she would get extremely shy, nervous, and often whisper something to her friend(s). 3) She sometimes used to ask for my opinion what I thought about her appearance (also when she told me other people told her negative things about her). 4) She would sometimes flirt on 1:1 call when there were NO DISTRACTIONS (none of her friends in her presence). 5) She gave me various compliments ranging from APPEARANCE to SKILL. 6) She CONSTANTLY asked if I LIKED her although she would tell me that she only considered me a “friend” right after although she was showing these signs. Due to the mixed signals and repeated mixed patterns, I decided to cut off ALL contact for two-ish months. After, she decided to randomly start talking to me again during 3rd period, and complimented me saying “How is he so good?!” + “Nick, can you teach me please? Pleaseeee.” And MUCH MORE SIGNS.
them: *looks back at me frequently* me: *notices and faces towards them* them: *grins extremely widely, then makes a strange sound, similar to a warcry* me: *does the same thing* both of us: *laughing* friendship?
I’m literally doing Edebles by the river tomorrow with my crush. I’m dying not telling them. But I love the unspoken flirting. If we say anything actual, it’ll make it awkward.
@@nyxunderhill6437 I'm being serious. If this person truly means anything to you and, let's just say, you kissed? Would you not rather remember every last piece of that moment than it be a vague fumble? And same for them. It shows how much you respect them also. Its a shame you feel the need to take edibles to be with them. The other problem is if you need to use in order to have confidence to be with them at what point do you say enoughs enough? Please don't think I'm lecturing, I'm not but I've been where you are and I regretted it. Either way I hope it goes well.
why pay for a therapist when you can go in here 👁👄👁 edit: y’all I want a therapist but at the same time I don’t. ✨ Edit 2: can u guys stop attacking me like bro I was literally just making a joke.
he literally blushes when he talks to me and stares up to me often, it‘s so freaking obvious but he still thinks love is dumb and that stuff. aaaaa man why cant you be more grown up, you‘re friggin 15, not 7!
*i'm so confused* when i told him he has a cute keychain, he gave it to me without hesitation AAAAAAAA but whenever we talk thru chat, he's like uninterested or what like he doesn't exert an effort to continue our convo idk anymore
*Never let one failure from the past hold you back in the future* 👉🏻 *MUST READ FOR YOU* “As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not. He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. ‘Well,’ trainer said, ‘when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.’ The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.” *I LOVE YOU* 💝❤️
Every time someone stares at me, I know. You aren’t keeping any secrets buddy, the person who liked me was really nervous around me, and it was so easy to find out that they had a crush to the point where I learned within the first weeks of school, I didn’t like her though, she only liked the thought of me, not the real me, and either way she was awkward and I was literally 10 years old at the time.
I would say only 2 apply to my crush, but then I realized about two months ago he got me this really nice birthday gift and I loved it and didn't question it that much until... now that I realize... HOW DID HE KNOW? So I was in a shop the week before my birthday looking at that exact object, (even hugging the object) but I didn't buy it because I didn't bring my money with me, I was just passing by the store. And a little while later (the day of my birthday) that exact object was now sitting in my hands wondering how did he know. I told NO ONE about my interest in stackable Japanese cat plushies and somehow he knew...
Psych2Go these past few years sucked thank you for making these kind of content i cant be more proud of myself bcuz i finally had a normal mental health break and got out of bed finally and focused on the things i love,school is still rly exausthing bcuz of my mom but only 1 more year and im moving out
This video helped a lot. I’m trying to find out if my guy friend has some sort of interest in me. He’s very stoic and quiet, and literally only has guy friends-he doesn’t really have any friends who are girls, except for me. Yet, whenever we’re around each other, he kind of lets go of his stoic side and becomes more sweet and affectionate. He’s not a touchy person, but whenever we sit next to each other he sits close to me and brushes his shoulder and arms next to mine. Sometimes he walks across just to say hi to me or get my attention. He sings around me, and he just brightens up whenever I’m around. My friends have noticed how he acts differently around me too, but I’m type of gal who has low expectations in a lot of things, lol. I can’t base off how he treats other girls because he really doesn’t talk to any other girl. He always comes up to me and asks me how I’m doing and sometimes pats me on the shoulder or back for comfort-and he’s not an affectionate person at all. He’s always helpful to me and engaged with me when talking, but I don’t want to mistake this for him being a friend. Any ideas? I like him and would be interested, but I just don’t want to misread these interactions with him. I do plan on telling him my feelings eventually but I’m kind of waiting…
I can't wait to come home and see my crush again. I missed him a lot. He is a really polite guy so, I can't tell when he is trying to flirt or is genuinely being nice. I'm dying to tell him my feelings. It's so hard!! UPDATE: I forgot all about this comment! Also, he's my boyfriend now. He asked me out a while back and we've been dating ever since
I just had a pretty bitter friendship break up over this exact thing. My friend wanted more, but chose to be passive & just flirt for 2 yrs. I'm a natural flirt with EVERYONE, and I have been told I'm "nice & polite". So your comment really made me stop. I'm an extrovert & find if ppl hide behind coded, passive language or action. It's a RED FLAG for s sh*tty communication style. My Q for u. Why not just tell him how u feel, or has it only been a short time?
Ok 1st. Congrats on hitting 9.8 million subs! 2nd. I hope you will feel better than amazing in the future :) And last but not least: you're channel is so incredible :3
When she said "Time to enter the Chess Club", i immediately felt like Psych2Go was spying on me 💀 My crush seems to be interested in Chess (somewhat) ever since i got transferred into her division and started playing Chess with everyone during Recess. Extremely relatable when i think about her actions.
If you are nervous about him remember you want to seem the best you can for him bc you put him up on a pedestals when you really don’t know him remember yall are just friends right now so if you want to stay calm pretend you guys are just friends
My highschool story(a little long) Like in my highschool there was a really cute guy..So one fine day I was having my exams and so according to roll number I was sitting with my crush's male best friend, I remember when I kept my head down on the table my crush who was sitting a little far away from me (in another column)did the same so he was basically mirroring me and I was like OMG😯 and his best friend who was sitting with me he was continuously looking and observing both of us left and right and I could actually see that he was mirroring me and this happened for four times in 3 days he was mirroring me all the time my crush even teased me in a healthy & funny way for my wrong answer in paper after the exam was over and I couldn't think that whether he likes me or not but I think I am too late to think about it now and I was so happy but now my high school has ended😭♥️ •For those who know why he did that pls leme knowww...but it's late🥺💕 Thank u for reading my story so patiently ❤️
staring for sure! I think it was our second date with my current boyfriend. we were watching Stranger Things and I was lying down on the couch (resting my legs on his thighs). every now and then he started at me and when I looked at him (because I could see he was staring at me), he said, "...I was making sure you aren't sleeping" yeah sure.
Uhh!! I too have a major crush on one of my classmate... honestly speaking she is very preety, she has a different charm, she prioritises everything in her life family frnds everything ... Sometimes I do want to confess her but guess she would turn me down .... So I'm taking it slow and steady....but I love to spend time with her.... I'm your dogla
She rarely acknowledges my existence. And I don’t think I’m her type. The complete opposite actually. But she’ll always be the most beautiful girl in the whole universe to me. It’s not about appearance, but her essence as a person. She’s very kind, caring, nurturing, silly in her own way. In term of being dumb, I think we can take turn on that one. She has her flaws too. But that only makes her more real and beautiful. A bit bossy, but she’s always the coolest person to me. We could live in a cave and I would be content as long as I get to be around her. Though I kinda accept that it’s an unrequited love already. I don’t think I’ll ever be good enough for her. (:
i appreciate your admiration to this beautiful lady. but i advice you to move on if you know you don't have a chance to her, and you do MATTER. maybe you feel like you don't, but we never really lost our VALUE we just stopped looking unto it. now, you may not matter to her, but to somebody out there you do. don't feel discouraged because you don't think that you're enough! there's always something better ahead!! soon enough you'll find her the woman who'll accept you just the way you are. :) cheer up, you still matter! maybe not now for smbdy but someone/thing from UNIVERSE.
@@jilyyyyy. Thank you for your encouragement. I think it’s a bit less painful when I’m finally learning to accept reality as it is. However, loving her makes me want to be a better person. To grow in the process as well. Maybe it’s not meant to be, but I’ll always be grateful to have known her. I am happy when I know that she’s happy and loved correctly by someone else too. She’s scared of the dark, of any thunderstorm. She’s good with slipper in hand when it comes to spider and other insects. She gets sick way too often. But I know there’ll be someone to be there for her, to keep her safe. Hey, it’s really nice talking to someone who is kind. Thank you again for your advice. I really appreciate that. 💟
@@Imari3 You seem to know a lot about her. Honestly, try and ask her out. If you're already accepting that it's not meant to be then a no wouldn't matter, surely? But a yes would be wonderful. Though, if she's already seeing someone else, then I'd leave her be since that'll just lead to a no or an uncomfortable relationship. If you do try, then good luck. :)
@@albread6684 ahh, it is a bit complicated, my friend. So *ahem*… I did some research. And I think there’s someone she’s interested in. And he’s way too cool. Good personality too. And they have good chemistry together. She cares about him a lot too. Me, I feel like the insect that she’s about to hit with her slipper. But thank you so much, Al. You have cool username and cool pfp too. 💟
@@Imari3 ha im speechless. [lol you kind of made me cryyy :((] soon you'll met the woman deserving of your love and her love as well. surely you know a lot about her i agree in asking her out though, still it's with your decision, sometimes we just let the person live, fall in love until it all pass. but have you asks your heart what is she to you, that why she matters so much? that what would you do to the feelings you feel? to keep it hidden or to confess without any regrets? regardless of whatever reason is you do you. im jsut bwhaha so impressed by what you said it's like YOU DESERVE someone who'll love you like you do to her (or maybe more than that). you seemed like a caring person! also it seems like she's a good influence to you as well, truly and really we have to go through some process want it or not. hehe thank youuuuu more for sharing your experiences! you're very kind and a caring person too! well i wish you goodluck for the rest of your journey! don't forget to pray! [if you're that religious :) ]
Everyone’s all “I want them :(“ and not WHY someone might hide how they feel. Like, idk, knowing the other person just isn’t ready, or you’re not ready, and just trying to make a friendship work ‘cause you care about them more than what type of relationship you end up having
I have a little problem: I feel like my friend likes me more than just a friend (actually I'm pretty sure about it). The thing is, I see him just as a friend and I don't know, how to behave around him...I do feel comfortable around him, but I don't have feelings for him. I know, I should be honest with him but I can't seem to find the right words to face him, because I don't want to hurt his feelings...Do you have any advice?
Maybe try to talk things out? But to talk things out u will have to becareful of ur words and try to make him understand and agree to some of his words like "I understand it's hard when someone doesn't like u back but I think to should let go there is going so much more opportunities" before u talk things out make sure he is comfortable with what ur going to talk about
I’m in the same situation but with a stranger. However, I KNOW he likes me. He confessed to me at lunch yesterday but they had to leave as he was confessing so I didn’t have time to say anything. Now I don’t want to get his hopes up. I don’t even know his name, I also don’t recall seeing him, like at all. I’ve heard them talking about a crush before and I feel really bad. I overheard his friend saying “he is in LOVE with this girl, like he’s obsessed” I just thought they were talking about someone else as I’ve never had anyone confess. I know id like my crush to give me a chance but I don’t want to be in a one sided relationship because obviously, I don’t feel the same. I’m the quiet kid so I’ve been basically rehearsing what I’ll say. I would have school in like an hour but because of the hurricane over in Florida and me living a few states away, I can’t go. (Home room starts at 7AM, and my school had called and said they’re closed) It’s supposed to rain all day starting soon. I’m really anxious to go back on Monday because I don’t know if he’ll try anything again then or not.
@Mental Notes I know I just don’t want to make him upset and then have him and his friends hate me or something. If I make him visibly sad I will think about that for the rest of my life. I’m the type of person to accidentally step on a bug and lay awake thinking about it at night.
1:35. This is true because Someone that I have been suspecting having a crush on me, recently was in a room alone with me. She asked me, “you like history right?” (And I love geography and history) and my inner brain was like: how does she know, because I never told her? And so I was like “yeah?”
I have had a number of introverts over the yrs passively hint they like me. As an extrovert I find it off putting when ppl rely on passive behaviour to communicate b/c it's a RED FLAG for me when someone can't communicate & they need to hide how they feel in coded ways. Introverts may find extroverts exhausting... well constantly having to be mentally "on" trying to decipher passive wants from others is EXTREMELY exhausting too!
I understand that. You really called me out there 😅. I do that I am really awkward at communicating and usually I try hint and passive behavior because I don't want to be too forward or I'm not comfortable enough to be upfront. Honestly I find extroverts exhausting sometimes but at the same time it's ironic because when someone does the same to me I can't understand. I'm good at hiding how I feel but not good at telling if someone feels the same way about me
@@JaneJn-e5cMy intention was never to "call out" anyone per se. 😜 I am personally working on healthier communication styles, and I can't help but notice how many comments there are by introverts who normalize toxic communication b/c they say they're shy. Being Shy shouldn't be used to normalize & excuse the maladaptive traits we all possess within us. It should empower us to look for ways to grow! Would u agree? Something I've noticed and it's frustrating. Introverts will often demonstrate the same behaviours they say they don't like in others. I find it very confusing & the dbl standard is straight-up annoying to be held to a different standard.
@@jonathanse8977 no I agree. It shouldn't be normalized if someone is shy there shy but yeah it should empower us to grow and try. Toxic communication is not very good and neither is miscommunication. Yeah you see that's what I particularly don't like about myself that I demonstrate the same behavior I don't like in others. I don't like it it's hypocritical of me. I can understand why that's annoying. What I meant by calling out was that you said something that made me notice my behavior but yeah 👍
I agree with you 100%. I'm sick of some self-professed introverts having lousy communication methods. It's like why can't someone choose to be more straightforward instead of playing all these lame, toxic games? Sigh 🙄🙄 I am an introvert myself but I try to be clear in my communication. Hopefully to prevent misunderstandings. But it seems I encounter introverts who are just terrible communicators. I think it would be nice to meet more extroverted people. I find that extroverts with good social skills are cooler to hang with. Also, I hate it when an introvert uses their "introvertness" as an excuse. Feels like they expect you to do EVERYTHING and yet they give NOTHING in return. And hey, I get it, I don't expect a lot from others but seriously? Can't you try a bit harder than that at least to make an effort in a social situation....
@@jonathanse8977 btw how have these introverts "passively hinted" their interest to you? Can you pls give examples? And how would you like to be approached by someone? Do you usually go out with other extroverts? Asking so I can hopefully avoid the pitfalls 😆😀
Why are these videos released at 3:30 in the morning, lol. Oh well, that's usually when I have mental breaks anyways, so good timing for some of the videos.
Ur lucky ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ lol at first ig he liked me too because he was toooooo obvious but now I made him my brother so he still gets jealous though when I talk abt any other boi or any girl like that girl is soo pretty he's like idc I don't like anybody
A very nice guy I’ve met a short while ago just keeps staring/looking at me and being around me, he walk after me or slowly moves my way when we’re standing in a circle in our group. I don’t know if he’s just being nice and thinks that we’re good friends of if there’s something more behind it.. he’s genuinely nice and someone I like to be around :)
i caught my crush staring at me and he avoids eye contact whenever we talked 🤣🙈💖 and he sit beside me while there are plenty of sits in a room🤣🙈 fyi, this just happened today🙈🤣💖💖💖
Did you get a chance to watch our previous video with the 3d animation?
Yes and it's amazing lol
Yea and it was pretty incredible tbh lol
Yeah and it was awesome
Of course ❤
Yes🥰
its that time of the day where you watch stuff like this just to make your self feel a bit better
It's the time of the day to give yourself a little hope that's never gonna come true :')
True
Yeah before the vid my hopes are high and after i am depressed
To all you in this comment thread, don't worry, I was in your exact position too a year ago and now I'm heading towards my dream life. Don't give up, the night gets darkest right before the dawn, dare to become a better you in every aspect and witness magic happen ✌🏼🌟☀️...
AGREE
Here's a big one that someone has a crush on you.
They completely ignore you like the plague! That's what I do.
lmao got that right, too bad she's my classmate and i have to see her everyday and i can't just refuse her when she wants to hang out with me :')
Hahahhaahahah im dying, that clears out a lot... Thank u for the insight
@@hoovy1163 so what are u waitin for ?!😄
@@sadia2395 she is already in a relationship with someone else
But its fine now, i got over it
Yes, I do that. Because he is married!
And this crush is irrational, since I only spoke with him a couple of times.
I usually see him only a couple of seconds a day, when I glimpse at his table in the cantine. It is sufficient to give me heartache . I hope I get over him soon.
Someone: does anything nice
Me: is this flirting???
Someone: flirts
Me: is this someone doing something nice?
I can feel it bro...
But never happening 2 one....
EVERY. SINGLE. TIME 😂
no but we have the same brain 😭
fr
They might be Canadians
Me watching this thinking my crush might like me. But then I am realizing these are things I am doing
Haha, yeah. I realised I do all these too but then started to realise that my crush kinda does it right back
Even the pupil thing.. 😳
LMAOOO REALL
I got everything but the pupil thing but just bc his irises are black
SAME😭
I'm just watching this video to see, how much I am into my crush. Almost every sign fits to me.
Samee especially the stalking one
Exactly 😭😭😭
I came here to see if my crush likes me, but I think I found out I like my best friend 😅😶
extremely true🤣🤣
The last few days I have been thinking about her we were friends as kids we basically grew up together I have not seen her for years until a month ago I saw her and I could not stop thinking about her then I watched this video I think she dosent like me back i have been lied to by who? Myself she the only girl that makes me happy but I guess I'll be forever alone as no girl likes me I fucking hate my self I hate this fucking world
edit: im going insane i cant stop thinking about her shes the only thing in my mind rn i wish her but idk if i can get her i i dont know anymore part of me wants to think she likes me back but part of me want to think she dosent guess i got the devils haircut
i want him so bad
And I want her so bad…
same
Same
Sammeee😭😭😭
@@Lunamoon__8I don't know why but I found it funny so I decided to write it.
The first time I looked at your profile picture, I didn't know it was a mermaid's tail in the bathtub or the sink over there. I thought this was a squatting guy in a plaid shirt with something very long (probably an arm) sticking out of his anus. I feel a little guilty for this association but I wanted to share this thought.
Have a nice day.
Thanks so much for creating this amazing channel! It has helped me through some very hard times!
Congrats on 9 mil! 🎉
1. 0:20 - They’ll do things you like to be around you more
2. 1:07 - Their pupils dilate
3. 1:35 - They somehow know things about you that you’ve never told them
4. 2:11 - You catch them staring at you
6. 2:37 - They try to find out your relationship status
7. 3:06 - They seem nervous around you
Some advice I’ve found helpful:
People in high school (and in life in general) may lead you on, cheat, etc. The point is to just remember how important you are. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do. You will find a great person for you, one day. Life is hard. People are going to judge you, but don’t let that stop you. Let your light shine. You are loved. Be kind. Keep moving forward. : )
Thank you for the advice!
Thank you for the support!
Thank you for the words, sir :)
I can't really get out of the displayed time......5 months??
Thanks! :D
Ummm I stare at everyone in my class (while day dreaming of gaming ;v;)
Couldn’t have said it better ❤
TIMESTAMPS!! ❤
1) 0:20
They’ll do things that you like to be around you more
2) 1:07
Their pupils dilate
3) 1:36
They somehow know things about you that you’ve never told them
4) 2:12
You catch them staring at you
6) 2:38 I don’t know why but it skipped
They try to find out your relationship status
7) 3:05
They seem nervous around you
Holy-
Idk man.
Maybe my crush does like me..
But he’s in a relationship…
Where the 5 at??
@@fishytuna89 it wasnt in the video
@@Castiel_Chuuya.irl.fr. Tea???
@@fishytuna89 they skipped it in the video srry
The last one is so true. I get very nervous when my crush interacts with me. My cheeks instantly become red my body temperature rises and I start saying some dumb things😅
I start grining and laughing all the time, when he's making jokes but also when nothing's funny ...
Today i suddenly just started sweating so hard and my cheeks became red and i was super stressed😅
Well, I'm sorry about that.
My cousin told me that I shake and blush, I also noticed that my words speed up and it goes awkward
I can’t be by them without talking gibberish and turning into a tomato 💀
Man I've got this bad crush on this guy at work and this helps a little bit. I just wish I could read him better though. We have small talk all the time, smile at each other when ever we pass. He's even asked me to get a coffee with him sometime, which I'm still waiting on trying to make that work lol. I just hope it's a genuine thing I've got.
Any update
same here, except we have crappy timing and are never single at the same time ....till now. I feel like everything in this video is me, I just wish it was him too lol
Just jump. En enjoy.
Update! We went on that coffee day, it was short because of work that day and it was fantastic. We talked about all sorts of nerdy stuff and things we had in common, but the last subject was about religion. He's a southern baptist and I grew up with out any religious grounds. Next day we both avoided each other sadly, but we talked it out (it was emotional). We decided it be best to stay friends for now.
@@blitzgundam4084 aw glad to hear it. I am agnostic and my hubby is practising islam. It is a reason why I will be leaving w our 3 sons next month. It takes up so much of their time having to get washed ritually and going to pray in the mosque. Now I can not imagine christianity being that time consuming for kids but maybe some people know of ways to do that. So yeah religion can cause big issues if not for the other partner it can for the children.
1) 0:21 they will do things you like to be around you more
2) 1:06 their pupils dilate
3) 1:35 they somehow know things about you that you have never told them
4) 2:11 you catch them staring at you
5) 2:37 they try to find out your relationship status
6) 3:05 they seem nervous around you
lol idk what'd i miss but ok
Bro I think you missed somethig
No it's just that 7 is a more attractive number so they just skipped number 5@@animodev2099
Now I'm glad that I have dark brown eyes
Me realizing my crush does not have these signs:
Cries
My crush only has the fourth sign lol
@@Moon_Sh0t_X1 it's a good start
@@sithgamer3859 ty
I don’t have any crush.
Not that I’m complaining or anything, my options are pretty bad right now.
@@dabigfreeze don't worry! someone may pop up out of nowhere! a few days i was in the same place and now i am FALLING for them
“You catch them staring at you” No, they catch me staring at them! 😂
LOL, Same
SAMEEEEE
True😭😭😭
Same as well
Remember, men can be attracted to you but not want anything more. There also a lot of factors around their lives too and why they might not ask you out or even friendzone you (for now for even as a whole) when you tell them you feel the same way.
maybe man do want more but are scared.
Yeah my ex best friend and my crush broke up and when I showed him my face he called me beautiful so when I came out to him and told him that I liked him he said he’s not ready to try again for a long time due to what my ex best friend did to him. But I asked him will in the future will you try to date me? He said it might be a possibility. Or maybe he’s not sure.
Yeah, my crush kind of had most of these, but when I told him I like him he friend-zoned me. I think it might also be because of some internalized homophobia, but I'd rather not assume.
Preach. Just because you have a crush on someone doesn't mean anything HAS to happen. Sometimes a crush is just a crush.
@@alireza2847I can relate
Watched the video hoping I’d find things my crush does. But the only thing this video does is affirm the things that I do lol
The world would be better if everyone can just walk to the people they like and tell them straight up. Stop waiting for your crush to read the signs because they might just miss all of them.
its not that easy
I wish I could tell him straight but I can't 😭
And I guess he notices me staring at him . . .
@@veunxn Especially when you get rejected EVERY SINGLE TIME
Trueee but that would mean rejection like yes you realised you have a crush on this person but you have to develop some kind of bond before you confess
@@eveart9148 Hahaha only your friends will notice it
It’s these subtle hints that that give it away but it can be hard to notice. Thanks for this Psych2go and congrats on 9 million 🎉🎉
My highschool story(a little long)
Like in my highschool there was a really cute guy..So one fine day I was having my exams and so according to roll number I was sitting with my crush's male best friend, I remember when I kept my head down on the table my crush who was sitting a little far away from me (in another column)did the same so he was basically mirroring me and I was like OMG😯 and his best friend who was sitting with me he was continuously looking and observing both of us left and right and I could actually see that he was mirroring me and this happened for four times in 3 days he was mirroring me all the time my crush even teased me in a healthy & funny way for my wrong answer in paper after the exam was over and I couldn't think that whether he likes me or not but I think I am too late to think about it now and I was so happy but now my high school has ended😭♥️
•For those who know why he did that pls leme knowww...but it's late🥺💕
Thank u for reading my story so patiently ❤️
@@palaksri7908 Maybe your crush already knows about you hitting on him through his friend, who might have (secretly) noticed your gesture before and told him about the same. So in order to confirm that, he might have done the same thing as you for 3 consecutive days.
Just my thought.... 🤷🏻♂️
@@AJ_Nineteen90 ummm okayy
@@AJ_Nineteen90 thankkkuuu
@@palaksri7908 we live in a world with internet so it's not over
There's definitely something, believe me. Even if it's not, by the way he acts, I can assure you he's not gonna hurt you if you try. Maybe he's not sure of his feelings so you need to make him think about them more.
When I was in high school I felt weird about a friend after I had a dream we got together. Then he started texting me and I fell in love lol. Now we're together for 4 years, probably getting engaged soon 😬
I know I'm not the one someone would have a crush on, but I'll watch the video anyway
Saame
I remember a girl who constantly talked to her parents about wanting to be in my company (I heard about from my parents whose friends her parents are), and now that she heard of my recent break-up from my ex-partner, she approached me via Instagram and asked if I would like to see her. We are going to go spend some time in a local coffee shop next week. Wish me luck 😎
Coffee is bad for the health.
@@ChocolateMilk..nah! Coffee can even help preventing some cardiac issues and dementia.
Even more important: coffee is delicious. It's the highlight of the day! When I see it seeping hot and dark into my cup, my heart beats a little faster and my pupils dilute. Guess I've got a crush on coffee. ❤
Oh, but no worries, I'm not jealous. ;-)
Hope your date worked out as you wished for, @Ackotoctoc!
I hope it worked out for yall!
how was it?
@@leiteninhox9 she just wanted to be friends
We were together but I broke up with him because I wasn’t in the right mindset to be in a relationship at the time. It hurt him, but he said he understood. Ive always liked him since the first day I saw him, even if it was just a little bit at first. We started to talk again as friends a few months ago. Now my feelings are resurfacing and I feel as if it’s not my place to interfere with his love life considering I broke up with him and think I should just let him move on. Then he messaged me asking if I liked this guy that’s one of our college mates and I totally denied it because ofc I like him instead and me and this other guy are just friends. However, he started being really rude and calling him names and I’ve no idea why. It was really strange. Then he told me that he and this girl were talking and I was like “cool” because it’s not my place to say wether I approve or disapprove of what’s going on in his love life that’s up to him. Once I’d convinced him that I didn’t like the other guy, he asked if I had a crush on anyone else. I told him that I was talking to someone because I was and I told him who it was. He then started making fun of him and kinda came off as passive aggressive in a way. I sensed it in the way he was talking about him. He was asking me questions like “could he beat me in a fight?” And I found it so odd. I don’t really like him anymore because it feels like he won’t let me move on and he keeps teasing me and being kinda flat out rude to me for no reason now. If I’m allowing him to move on he should be able to let me too. I know I broke up with him but he knew the circumstances I was in. He’s changed completely and it’s actually kind of sad in a way.
If I was you I would 100% appreciate this kind of guy. Its so obvious that he’s still into you which is super sweet considering you were the person who broke up. Guys will never like their ex even if they were the main person who called it off and mistreated the other party let alone the other party having broke up with them. you say he’s changed and it’s sad? guess what hun ppl grow from their pains. Time makes ppl grow and build a relation with their inner pains. Some become silent and Mute . Some become mean and brutal because life has been mean to them. I think a guy like that whose still putting effort and whose wanting to ensure what your relationship status is despite you having dumped him, is someone worth treasuring. I swear you wont find better. Men are fucked up I dont know how you’ve landed with a nice guy like this. If you have any regrets of breaking up and think you’re in better circumstances then you were before I dont see why you shouldn’t show him you appreciate how much he cares and how much he’s sticking around for you. he seems to be a real sweet guy.
@@missb8904 I did appreciate him. He was a really sweet guy. I know I hurt him and I’m prepared to deal with the consequences of that and I have taken responsibility. I always thanked him for being there for me even after I did that to him and told him that he’s one of the kindest people I’ve met. It’s just that I think he’s with the wrong crowd because now he’s kinda cocky and rude and stuff(not just to me but to everyone) and I hate seeing him like that. I’m not sure if he’s being that way because he wants to fit in with them or merely because he just happened to change but it really confused me. He and I are friends now because he’s talking to a girl and I don’t want to meddle in their relationship since I think they’ll be good together. It’s just that as his friend, I worry about him. I ask if he’s okay but he always says that nothings up. I cant stand the thought that I potentially hurt him so deeply without meaning to. I strongly feel that we were in a sort of right person wrong time situation and if I could go back and rethink about wether I’m in the right mind to be in a relationship before dating him I would. Then he would’ve never been hurt. However, I’ve made the decision that I’ll leave him to go his own way now. After seeing what happened before I don’t think I could put him through that again. He gave me his all and I wasn’t ready for it. There’s nothing I can do about it now though apart from let him heal and get on with his life because I can tell he has so very much to offer to many others who would suit him better and treat him better than I ever could. Thank you very much for your advice though, I appreciate it
@@kageyamasponytail3486 you seem very mature about it. I respect that
@@kageyamasponytail3486 You're just toying with him. He OBVIOUSLY still wants to be with you otherwise he wouldnt be talking to you and asking if you have any crushes. If you still have feelings for him then you need to tell him, otherwise you need to leave him alone and remove yourself from his life completely so he can move on. I don't blame him at all for being rude to you because you toying with his heart and giving him mixed signals by continuing to talk to him.
Thank you for always helping me out! You guys are always there when I need it the most ❤
Happy to help!
@@Psych2go ty too
@@Psych2gothere’s a girl at my job who I suspect has a crush on me because her voice gets higher when every she’s anywhere near me
I consistently love the animation for these videos. Mad props for the content creators here on this platform 😊💕
Truuuue
Nothing is more pleasurable then typing CRUSH on youtube..and reading comments on every video.....finding people's like you...
meanwhile me who literally ignores the person that I have a crush on, NEVER making eye contact with them, never trying to start a conversation, and bullying them in a friendly - sarcastic way. I guess I always get scared that I'm gonna get rejected so I just act like I feel nothing
Why
@@egertroos-qh7hw I actually don't know. I believe I've been single for so long that being on my own gives me joy now. and sharing my life with another person (basically a relationship) scares me. I just wanna kill my feelings so instead of flirting I choose to ignore the person
@@rururue One girl was hot and cold towards and got angry when I asked her who she likes and she doesnt want to answer
these videos are a must-watch for delulu people like me
+Psych2GoTv *Thanks for the signs of latent limerence* - what happened to #5?
0:19 (1) Doing things ye like to be frequenter around you
1:05 (2) Dilated pupils
1:35 (3) Knowing undisclosed things about yourself
2:10 (4) Frequent staring
(5) *???*
2:36 (6) Inquiry about relationship stratus
3:03 (7) Nervousness
Yea it went from 4 to 6
You know it’s a real crush, when it hurts. And not because something happened, but because of the thought of it happening or the idea of you not helping enough.
You know you really care when the idea of him being hurt legitimately hurts you and makes you feel empty.
Crushes and love aren’t fun… but it’s completely worth it.
so useful ! I've been so confused by my feelings with my male best-friend lately. this really helped a lot ! again , thank you so much.
This helped me ask out my crush who liked me too! Thanks for the help!
Nice one
so happy for u
The good ending
Well that ended 😢
I am gonna just chill solo
I like how my friend and I are nervous around eachother
Ignore them it's cute and it's a wonderful feeling
Omg Same
U GUYS ALWAYS COME IN TIME
how do they do that?!
@@hansolothebest8107Mind reading
They read our minds lol
Daw, I love how adorable (and helpful) this is, thanks!
What if hes avoiding me cause he knows i like him? 😢
I'm also worried about this fact 😐
Then accept it and move on. It’ll take a while but you can do it.
I think it's the same for me 😭 I avoid him bcz I think he knows that I like him and so he avoids me bcz he knows that I like him lol but not sure😭😭
They may not want to lead you on. If you still want them as friends, you could reassure them by doing friendly activities in groups rather than trying to get them to meet-up one on one.
I'm very worried of this point too. I got caught by my crush that I kept staring at him a lot of time. Hope he'll just ignore it and I wisb the teachers won't find out......
Me watching this hoping not to get caught, but also knowing I'll forget and do these things anyways.
I love this channel and all it's content. You guys have helped me understand myself and my feelings more than I can explain. I was also wondering if you could do a video on Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria? It's affected my life for years and I'd love a video on it. (Apologies if there already is one, I just can't find it, thanks in advance)
That would be a great episode. Thanks for bringing RSD to my attention, I had no idea it was a thing!
i’ve been trying to force this reality for too long. i’m over it
When I watch this kind of videos about crush signs, I watch it not because I want to know if someone is into me or not
I watch it because I want to know if I'm the one with the signs instead 😌
This is a perfect representation of my crush and I. Its pretty obvious we like each other but none will say it. My crush will stare at me for a while, and when I look at them, they'll look away. Its no secret that my crush likes me and I like them.
If my crush sees this I'm dead💀
At the very least your crush will realize you can’t spell!!
@@tonymurray814 bro everyone misspells sometimes
@@tonymurray814 can you sleep now
It's the Internet of course people are gonna misspell we're not perfect dumbass@@tonymurray814
I'm moving on from my crush and this video popped out of my feed. There are many signs that it's pretty obvious that my crush does this everytime we see each other. One thing I can't forget is that I saw him looked at me and pretends that he's not just by looking the other way. Another thing, I remembered that me and my bff talked things but suddenly I was shocked because he was just behind my back pretending to be talking to someone, and then when I saw him behind my back, he suddenly moved out of the room. 😳 Is it really a sign that my crush likes me back too?! 🤔
Well i don't want to assume things but it's the signs that are accurate everytime we meet each other.
Anyways, thank you @Psych2Go for the detailed explanation. 💖 Hope me and my crush gets interaction becus we never talk.
It sounds like they like you too. I wish you good luck 💛
Your crush sounds pretty relatable to younger me lol, shame though it was years ago she wasn't interested in relation ship with me anyway.
seems like he likes you , but isn't brave enough or he is too shy to express his feelings .
Also hes not sure if you have crush on him or not
I know it might be hard, but give asking your crush out a shot if you still have the chance. Just because it is unlikely doesn't mean it's impossible, right? Well, I'm saying this because the impossible became possible for me. My crush likes me back, however I realised too late as she had move elsewhere. Now I regretted not asking my crush out when I had the chance. We've only ever talked twice so who knows...
I am very good at hiding my feelings, normal thing, since i hide my anger, and yes, i have several big brothers, thats why i have anger issues, so i adapted and overcome the feeling thing.. but the last one and the Looking at the crush thing.. yeah, can't help it.
This lady has the most soothing voice!
My crush who is genuinely attracted to me and ig you can say ‘interested’, is a shy person. We both rated each other “a 10/10” as she called me “cute” several times although she considered me a “friend”, always talks about me with her friends; Her friends tell me that she likes me, and BEYOND more!
Some potential dead giveaways she did was:
1) She asked “Want me to put on makeup to impress you?” as I said “No, you look absolutely gorgeous the way you are.” as she became very flattered.
2) Whenever her friends would tease her asking if me and her were “together”, she would get extremely shy, nervous, and often whisper something to her friend(s).
3) She sometimes used to ask for my opinion what I thought about her appearance (also when she told me other people told her negative things about her).
4) She would sometimes flirt on 1:1 call when there were NO DISTRACTIONS (none of her friends in her presence).
5) She gave me various compliments ranging from APPEARANCE to SKILL.
6) She CONSTANTLY asked if I LIKED her although she would tell me that she only considered me a “friend” right after although she was showing these signs.
Due to the mixed signals and repeated mixed patterns, I decided to cut off ALL contact for two-ish months. After, she decided to randomly start talking to me again during 3rd period, and complimented me saying “How is he so good?!” + “Nick, can you teach me please? Pleaseeee.”
And MUCH MORE SIGNS.
them: *looks back at me frequently*
me: *notices and faces towards them*
them: *grins extremely widely, then makes a strange sound, similar to a warcry*
me: *does the same thing*
both of us: *laughing*
friendship?
I’m literally doing Edebles by the river tomorrow with my crush. I’m dying not telling them. But I love the unspoken flirting. If we say anything actual, it’ll make it awkward.
Be careful. Edibles totally break down all walls for me.
If you really want to value your crush. Be sober with them.
@@steph7960 lol
@@nyxunderhill6437 I'm being serious. If this person truly means anything to you and, let's just say, you kissed? Would you not rather remember every last piece of that moment than it be a vague fumble? And same for them. It shows how much you respect them also. Its a shame you feel the need to take edibles to be with them. The other problem is if you need to use in order to have confidence to be with them at what point do you say enoughs enough? Please don't think I'm lecturing, I'm not but I've been where you are and I regretted it. Either way I hope it goes well.
@@steph7960 bro I’m a stoner. I just enjoy Edebles. Plus they’re vegan so it’s rare my friend can have them
why pay for a therapist when you can go in here 👁👄👁
edit: y’all I want a therapist but at the same time I don’t. ✨
Edit 2: can u guys stop attacking me like bro I was literally just making a joke.
Bc they don’t have nor claim to be a team of professionals and never recommended being a replacement for real therapy
Always opt for a therapist if possible. Even psych2go recommends it.
Lmfao I think this channel shows you that you do need therapy 😅
What a dumb statement
If this helps you u clearly dont need therapy. Because this is not therapy, not even close.
he be giving so many mixed signals so much that i started watching a TH-cam video about it
he literally blushes when he talks to me and stares up to me often, it‘s so freaking obvious but he still thinks love is dumb and that stuff. aaaaa man why cant you be more grown up, you‘re friggin 15, not 7!
*i'm so confused* when i told him he has a cute keychain, he gave it to me without hesitation AAAAAAAA but whenever we talk thru chat, he's like uninterested or what like he doesn't exert an effort to continue our convo idk anymore
This vid literally came into the right moment of my life 🥴
*Never let one failure from the past hold you back in the future* 👉🏻 *MUST READ FOR YOU*
“As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not.
He saw a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away. ‘Well,’ trainer said, ‘when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.’
The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.”
*I LOVE YOU* 💝❤️
Thanks for sharing such an insightful metaphor
Yes sir, I do need something like this since I'm paying attention to ppl who are into me.
Excellent
For you 😃💯
Bruh that completely discribes me when I'm around my crush. I just love her so much.
Every time someone stares at me, I know. You aren’t keeping any secrets buddy, the person who liked me was really nervous around me, and it was so easy to find out that they had a crush to the point where I learned within the first weeks of school, I didn’t like her though, she only liked the thought of me, not the real me, and either way she was awkward and I was literally 10 years old at the time.
I would say only 2 apply to my crush, but then I realized about two months ago he got me this really nice birthday gift and I loved it and didn't question it that much until... now that I realize... HOW DID HE KNOW? So I was in a shop the week before my birthday looking at that exact object, (even hugging the object) but I didn't buy it because I didn't bring my money with me, I was just passing by the store. And a little while later (the day of my birthday) that exact object was now sitting in my hands wondering how did he know. I told NO ONE about my interest in stackable Japanese cat plushies and somehow he knew...
um yeah he likes you 😭
Thanks for the video!!!
Im really confused about this guy and i think this video helps a lot.☺️
Psych2Go these past few years sucked thank you for making these kind of content i cant be more proud of myself bcuz i finally had a normal mental health break and got out of bed finally and focused on the things i love,school is still rly exausthing bcuz of my mom but only 1 more year and im moving out
wish you all the best!
@@jilyyyyy. thank you,you too dear^^/p
THESE VIDEOS BE GIVING ME TOO MUCH HOPE
This video helped a lot. I’m trying to find out if my guy friend has some sort of interest in me.
He’s very stoic and quiet, and literally only has guy friends-he doesn’t really have any friends who are girls, except for me.
Yet, whenever we’re around each other, he kind of lets go of his stoic side and becomes more sweet and affectionate.
He’s not a touchy person, but whenever we sit next to each other he sits close to me and brushes his shoulder and arms next to mine. Sometimes he walks across just to say hi to me or get my attention. He sings around me, and he just brightens up whenever I’m around.
My friends have noticed how he acts differently around me too, but I’m type of gal who has low expectations in a lot of things, lol. I can’t base off how he treats other girls because he really doesn’t talk to any other girl. He always comes up to me and asks me how I’m doing and sometimes pats me on the shoulder or back for comfort-and he’s not an affectionate person at all. He’s always helpful to me and engaged with me when talking, but I don’t want to mistake this for him being a friend.
Any ideas? I like him and would be interested, but I just don’t want to misread these interactions with him. I do plan on telling him my feelings eventually but I’m kind of waiting…
I can't wait to come home and see my crush again. I missed him a lot. He is a really polite guy so, I can't tell when he is trying to flirt or is genuinely being nice. I'm dying to tell him my feelings. It's so hard!!
UPDATE: I forgot all about this comment! Also, he's my boyfriend now. He asked me out a while back and we've been dating ever since
I just had a pretty bitter friendship break up over this exact thing. My friend wanted more, but chose to be passive & just flirt for 2 yrs. I'm a natural flirt with EVERYONE, and I have been told I'm "nice & polite". So your comment really made me stop. I'm an extrovert & find if ppl hide behind coded, passive language or action. It's a RED FLAG for s sh*tty communication style. My Q for u. Why not just tell him how u feel, or has it only been a short time?
Wish you the best
@@ah-ah-achoo Thank you
Dam, I wish I had a crush
Jeez I almost want to get a crush so I can understand what that feels like and relate to people.
Ok 1st. Congrats on hitting 9.8 million subs!
2nd. I hope you will feel better than amazing in the future :)
And last but not least: you're channel is so incredible :3
Thanks for the kind words and support!
@@Psych2go np :)
When she said "Time to enter the Chess Club", i immediately felt like Psych2Go was spying on me 💀 My crush seems to be interested in Chess (somewhat) ever since i got transferred into her division and started playing Chess with everyone during Recess. Extremely relatable when i think about her actions.
If you are nervous about him remember you want to seem the best you can for him bc you put him up on a pedestals when you really don’t know him remember yall are just friends right now so if you want to stay calm pretend you guys are just friends
I don't think he likes me guys 💀💀💀
Yeahhhhh I'm in the same boat
Same😂
Yep samee
Same situation 🤧
Same y'all💀😂😂
Yaaaayyyyyy I finally realized that I'm truly in love with her and she is completely NOT
My highschool story(a little long)
Like in my highschool there was a really cute guy..So one fine day I was having my exams and so according to roll number I was sitting with my crush's male best friend, I remember when I kept my head down on the table my crush who was sitting a little far away from me (in another column)did the same so he was basically mirroring me and I was like OMG😯 and his best friend who was sitting with me he was continuously looking and observing both of us left and right and I could actually see that he was mirroring me and this happened for four times in 3 days he was mirroring me all the time my crush even teased me in a healthy & funny way for my wrong answer in paper after the exam was over and I couldn't think that whether he likes me or not but I think I am too late to think about it now and I was so happy but now my high school has ended😭♥️
•For those who know why he did that pls leme knowww...but it's late🥺💕
Thank u for reading my story so patiently ❤️
Bro I am goated at hiding feelings because I have no problems with blatantly insulting them
For no reasons at all, he knows a lot things that I've NEVER TOLD HIM AT ALL and I DON'T EVEN POST ON SOCIAL MEDIAS NOR TELLING ANYONE ABOUT IT.
I always been good at hiding my feelings for someone i like
I STILL CANT DECIDE IF MY CRUSH LIKES ME BACK AHHH SHE GIVES HINTS THAT SHE DOESN'T LIKE ME BUT ALSO HINTS THAT SHE DOES LIKE ME AHAHHH
How long has this been? Have u ever talked abt past relationships/ whats attractive as an opener to have a more real convo?
staring for sure!
I think it was our second date with my current boyfriend. we were watching Stranger Things and I was lying down on the couch (resting my legs on his thighs). every now and then he started at me and when I looked at him (because I could see he was staring at me), he said, "...I was making sure you aren't sleeping" yeah sure.
That's very Cute for you both
I haven't had the time to realize how much I really am into *that* person, lol, this video was an eye-opener for sure!
Uhh!! I too have a major crush on one of my classmate... honestly speaking she is very preety, she has a different charm, she prioritises everything in her life family frnds everything ... Sometimes I do want to confess her but guess she would turn me down .... So I'm taking it slow and steady....but I love to spend time with her....
I'm your dogla
What is the current situation? :")
@@krzyslan3684 well you see ! We are seeing each other .... Though it is now sort of long distance ...
thank you for this, i’ve been really into this guy and this helped me out 🙂
She rarely acknowledges my existence. And I don’t think I’m her type. The complete opposite actually. But she’ll always be the most beautiful girl in the whole universe to me. It’s not about appearance, but her essence as a person. She’s very kind, caring, nurturing, silly in her own way. In term of being dumb, I think we can take turn on that one. She has her flaws too. But that only makes her more real and beautiful. A bit bossy, but she’s always the coolest person to me. We could live in a cave and I would be content as long as I get to be around her. Though I kinda accept that it’s an unrequited love already. I don’t think I’ll ever be good enough for her. (:
i appreciate your admiration to this beautiful lady. but i advice you to move on if you know you don't have a chance to her, and you do MATTER. maybe you feel like you don't, but we never really lost our VALUE we just stopped looking unto it. now, you may not matter to her, but to somebody out there you do. don't feel discouraged because you don't think that you're enough! there's always something better ahead!! soon enough you'll find her the woman who'll accept you just the way you are. :) cheer up, you still matter! maybe not now for smbdy but someone/thing from UNIVERSE.
@@jilyyyyy. Thank you for your encouragement. I think it’s a bit less painful when I’m finally learning to accept reality as it is. However, loving her makes me want to be a better person. To grow in the process as well. Maybe it’s not meant to be, but I’ll always be grateful to have known her. I am happy when I know that she’s happy and loved correctly by someone else too. She’s scared of the dark, of any thunderstorm. She’s good with slipper in hand when it comes to spider and other insects. She gets sick way too often. But I know there’ll be someone to be there for her, to keep her safe. Hey, it’s really nice talking to someone who is kind. Thank you again for your advice. I really appreciate that. 💟
@@Imari3 You seem to know a lot about her. Honestly, try and ask her out. If you're already accepting that it's not meant to be then a no wouldn't matter, surely? But a yes would be wonderful.
Though, if she's already seeing someone else, then I'd leave her be since that'll just lead to a no or an uncomfortable relationship.
If you do try, then good luck.
:)
@@albread6684 ahh, it is a bit complicated, my friend. So *ahem*… I did some research. And I think there’s someone she’s interested in. And he’s way too cool. Good personality too. And they have good chemistry together. She cares about him a lot too. Me, I feel like the insect that she’s about to hit with her slipper. But thank you so much, Al. You have cool username and cool pfp too. 💟
@@Imari3 ha im speechless. [lol you kind of made me cryyy :((] soon you'll met the woman deserving of your love and her love as well. surely you know a lot about her i agree in asking her out though, still it's with your decision, sometimes we just let the person live, fall in love until it all pass. but have you asks your heart what is she to you, that why she matters so much? that what would you do to the feelings you feel? to keep it hidden or to confess without any regrets? regardless of whatever reason is you do you. im jsut bwhaha so impressed by what you said it's like YOU DESERVE someone who'll love you like you do to her (or maybe more than that). you seemed like a caring person! also it seems like she's a good influence to you as well, truly and really we have to go through some process want it or not. hehe thank youuuuu more for sharing your experiences! you're very kind and a caring person too! well i wish you goodluck for the rest of your journey! don't forget to pray! [if you're that religious :) ]
Everyone’s all “I want them :(“ and not WHY someone might hide how they feel. Like, idk, knowing the other person just isn’t ready, or you’re not ready, and just trying to make a friendship work ‘cause you care about them more than what type of relationship you end up having
I was so happy when I realized my crush does a lot of the things on the list, he even asked my friend if I had a lover❤
I didn't see my crush in a while, so when I saw them I had the biggest grin and I felt stupid cause they saw me 😣
Dont worry bro it either made her feel weird or just happy that someone smiled at them
#4 : beware of stalkers and harassers who could also stare at you to mistake them with people who really are into you 😈
Fairly certain my long time friend is not stalking/harassing me so I’m ok
Same for #3 (knowing things you didn't tell them)
Oh god-
@@poseidon808 But what about someone you just met and know nothing about ?
I have a little problem: I feel like my friend likes me more than just a friend (actually I'm pretty sure about it). The thing is, I see him just as a friend and I don't know, how to behave around him...I do feel comfortable around him, but I don't have feelings for him. I know, I should be honest with him but I can't seem to find the right words to face him, because I don't want to hurt his feelings...Do you have any advice?
Maybe try to talk things out? But to talk things out u will have to becareful of ur words and try to make him understand and agree to some of his words like "I understand it's hard when someone doesn't like u back but I think to should let go there is going so much more opportunities" before u talk things out make sure he is comfortable with what ur going to talk about
@@Suantak223 That's a good advice! Thanks for taking your time ❤️
@Mental Notes Yes, you're right...I should be honest with him and try to talk it out. Thank you ❤️
I’m in the same situation but with a stranger. However, I KNOW he likes me. He confessed to me at lunch yesterday but they had to leave as he was confessing so I didn’t have time to say anything. Now I don’t want to get his hopes up. I don’t even know his name, I also don’t recall seeing him, like at all. I’ve heard them talking about a crush before and I feel really bad. I overheard his friend saying “he is in LOVE with this girl, like he’s obsessed” I just thought they were talking about someone else as I’ve never had anyone confess. I know id like my crush to give me a chance but I don’t want to be in a one sided relationship because obviously, I don’t feel the same. I’m the quiet kid so I’ve been basically rehearsing what I’ll say. I would have school in like an hour but because of the hurricane over in Florida and me living a few states away, I can’t go. (Home room starts at 7AM, and my school had called and said they’re closed) It’s supposed to rain all day starting soon. I’m really anxious to go back on Monday because I don’t know if he’ll try anything again then or not.
@Mental Notes I know I just don’t want to make him upset and then have him and his friends hate me or something. If I make him visibly sad I will think about that for the rest of my life. I’m the type of person to accidentally step on a bug and lay awake thinking about it at night.
Many people are having crushes on me, and it's getting anoying, but also the fact their age differnt is so much that I always reject them...
My best friend, likes my crush and already made the first move, and now their always chatting, and it's obvious he likes her.
Perfect timing!
Hey! I love this channel's content! It's sooo helpful! Keep it up!
watching this and expecting that someone likes us.. Then proposing her just to get rejected💀
THESE ARE ALL 100% ACCURATE, I DO ALL OF THESE AROUND THE PERSON I LIKE 💯💯💯
1:35. This is true because Someone that I have been suspecting having a crush on me, recently was in a room alone with me. She asked me, “you like history right?” (And I love geography and history) and my inner brain was like: how does she know, because I never told her? And so I was like “yeah?”
I have had a number of introverts over the yrs passively hint they like me. As an extrovert I find it off putting when ppl rely on passive behaviour to communicate b/c it's a RED FLAG for me when someone can't communicate & they need to hide how they feel in coded ways. Introverts may find extroverts exhausting... well constantly having to be mentally "on" trying to decipher passive wants from others is EXTREMELY exhausting too!
I understand that. You really called me out there 😅. I do that I am really awkward at communicating and usually I try hint and passive behavior because I don't want to be too forward or I'm not comfortable enough to be upfront. Honestly I find extroverts exhausting sometimes but at the same time it's ironic because when someone does the same to me I can't understand. I'm good at hiding how I feel but not good at telling if someone feels the same way about me
@@JaneJn-e5cMy intention was never to "call out" anyone per se. 😜
I am personally working on healthier communication styles, and I can't help but notice how many comments there are by introverts who normalize toxic communication b/c they say they're shy.
Being Shy shouldn't be used to normalize & excuse the maladaptive traits we all possess within us. It should empower us to look for ways to grow! Would u agree?
Something I've noticed and it's frustrating. Introverts will often demonstrate the same behaviours they say they don't like in others. I find it very confusing & the dbl standard is straight-up annoying to be held to a different standard.
@@jonathanse8977 no I agree. It shouldn't be normalized if someone is shy there shy but yeah it should empower us to grow and try. Toxic communication is not very good and neither is miscommunication. Yeah you see that's what I particularly don't like about myself that I demonstrate the same behavior I don't like in others. I don't like it it's hypocritical of me. I can understand why that's annoying. What I meant by calling out was that you said something that made me notice my behavior but yeah 👍
I agree with you 100%. I'm sick of some self-professed introverts having lousy communication methods. It's like why can't someone choose to be more straightforward instead of playing all these lame, toxic games? Sigh 🙄🙄 I am an introvert myself but I try to be clear in my communication. Hopefully to prevent misunderstandings. But it seems I encounter introverts who are just terrible communicators. I think it would be nice to meet more extroverted people. I find that extroverts with good social skills are cooler to hang with.
Also, I hate it when an introvert uses their "introvertness" as an excuse. Feels like they expect you to do EVERYTHING and yet they give NOTHING in return. And hey, I get it, I don't expect a lot from others but seriously? Can't you try a bit harder than that at least to make an effort in a social situation....
@@jonathanse8977 btw how have these introverts "passively hinted" their interest to you? Can you pls give examples?
And how would you like to be approached by someone? Do you usually go out with other extroverts?
Asking so I can hopefully avoid the pitfalls 😆😀
Me watching this because a girl looked at me for 0.0002 milliseconds:
hey! i have a phobia of vomiting, (emetophobia) and it is very misunderstood. could you do a video on it? love your channel!
I'm watching this with hope that I can relate or think of someone but *crying in a corner coz no one has a crush on me & I hate people*
Watching these to know, what I should avoid around them - thanks guys, I will now hide better than ever
Why are these videos released at 3:30 in the morning, lol. Oh well, that's usually when I have mental breaks anyways, so good timing for some of the videos.
Are you watching from Canada?
@@Psych2go new mexico united states
I my god that means my crush likes me back thanks and also congrats support you from when you were having 1m subscriber💜
Lol lucky u I tied my crush rakhi some days agoಥ‿ಥ
@@marceline_6332 so sad.......
@@marceline_6332 actually many girls have crush on him but he likes me😇
Ur lucky ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ lol at first ig he liked me too because he was toooooo obvious but now I made him my brother so he still gets jealous though when I talk abt any other boi or any girl like that girl is soo pretty he's like idc I don't like anybody
Thank you for being such a long time fan. How do you feel about our content nowadays?
Hi. Thank you for the hints. I recently subbed to the channel and I'm enjoying the content a lot. Keep it up!
A very nice guy I’ve met a short while ago just keeps staring/looking at me and being around me, he walk after me or slowly moves my way when we’re standing in a circle in our group. I don’t know if he’s just being nice and thinks that we’re good friends of if there’s something more behind it.. he’s genuinely nice and someone I like to be around :)
Outside of a few people I meet on dating apps, I’ll never know what it’s like for someone to have a crush on me
I used to read articles like this in teenage magazines and comics years ago. 🙄
And are you still reading them now?
i caught my crush staring at me and he avoids eye contact whenever we talked 🤣🙈💖 and he sit beside me while there are plenty of sits in a room🤣🙈
fyi, this just happened today🙈🤣💖💖💖
Bro i sit next to a girl and this same thing happend
@@FireRams_arisinglion why are you commenting that on everyone who’s just posting a comment? it’s so stupid, the shit people do