Pain makes you stronger,tears makes you braver,and heartbreaks makes you wiser, so thank the past for a better future.😊Never cry for that person who doesn't know the value of your tears😊.Never give up.great things take time.👍😊Namo buddha.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
This is a Buddhist monk from Mahamevnava buddhist monastery of Sri Lanka. Buddhism is the greatest gift Sri lanka received from india. Thank you and love you indian brothers.❤️
This is the most powerful video I have ever watched.Since two years,I was fighting to let go some people in my life and I got the right answer in this 8 minutes of video out of hundreds of videos I watched in two years. 1.Nothing is Permanent 2.Suffering is not holding you.You are holding suffering. 3.You have to let go everything at some point of your life 4.So,Let go at the right time Namobudhhya
I am holding on to someone that had destroyed my life for past 5 years and I suffered a lot a lot from that circumstances. I tried to let go but it keep bouncing back into my mind. Guess it's my own mind that refused to let go permanently and that causes my suffering until I am diagnosed with terminal illness.
I didn’t seek but god (ok TH-cam) somehow show me the videos I needed the most from this channel. Because of your speaking’s I’ve become happier and I feel so much lighter. I will keep rewatching this. Thank you again.
I’m a Buddhist. Even being a Buddhist living here in the US, I tend to forget this teaching. This is a basic teaching to all Buddhists. I had a high monk reminded me this: Forgive Forget & Let Go. If not, you will live with a heavy heart. I just went through a breakup. Very painful. I shall remember an important teaching to Forgive, Forget & Let you
Literally tears flowing down from my eyes.Its not easy to let go of some people from our life but nothing is permanent.We have to let go of them at some point of time sooner or later.
I am Catholic but in the last 24 hours Buddhism teachings about love vs attachment has uplifted me and I immediately released my grasp on the man I was foolishly clinging onto. The effect I felt was immediate relief and joy. Thank you 🙏🏻
I went through breakup 1 week ago, it was more of one sided love that I had. Anyways I needed to move one. Best decision I took, because he was not emotionally connected. It was his decision to be not connected. But i knew i had to let him go, for my inner peace. And i let him go, peacefully. Thankyou for this beautiful video, Namo buddhay🌼
I’m going thru the same thing . He broke up with me in my bday too, saying he lost feelings. I was the one trying to fix it. All he said was that “we could try”. The break was terrible we didn’t even establish it correctly we would text and idk why when I had to be dry or actually text back for him to miss me.. Says later he broke up with me officially theu text . A couple days later he texted “heyy “ because according to his bsf, he was just checking up on me. Saying no matter what we’d still be friends .Hw said that days later bc he could live with that, but i couldn’t, possibly imagine being friends when I was still deeply in love with him. I told him I needed a month. A month I’d no contact to figure out whether we should be friends, get back together or just never talk to each other again. That day will be June 29th and my feelings like every now and then I would still cry over it and him. And sone days i wouldn’t even think of him. Other days guys would talk to me and I’d entertain it but some times I would just be reminded of him it’s a crazy cycle . And my time b4 we have to talk again is coming up soon. Please give me some advice
@@martiangurl8086 Don't go to him, believe ur gut feeling. Life is too short to follow wrong person nd wrong vibes. There are good people, give them priority. Good people maybe your family members, friend or anyone you really care about. Dont waste your energy into this relationship. You will be fine after two months. Just block all of his contacts or just dont reply. You are brave, dont repeat the mistake i did, dont go, he is not worth of you.
I understand and I wish i was able to do it like you. he always treated me as an option but still I'm not able to let go. worst part he just ghosted me after I addressed my concerns to him.
@@25jenkim people do wrong things(ghosting as in ur case) because of their own reasons But we must not let that affect our values nd inner self Leave them nd u will be more happier nd healtheir Break the pattern of thinking about them slowly You have better nd beautiful purpose to serve in ur own life Fullfill that💗 Good night dear🌝
Your blissful words really calm my mind. Due to heart attack my beloved father passed away within 15-20 mins. We can't do anything, it was so fast. It's so painful to let your beloved person go, it's the most hard part of life. I really love to hear your voice and lessons. It gives me strength to overcome this situation. Nothing is permanent. I have to let my father go. I think he is now free from all the earthly pain and sufferings.
We are sentenced to death the day we are born!! The only difference is the time frame we, each one brings to earth! Pls console yourself as much as it is hard to accept, but have solace, thinking of the times you father has harnessed your life to be a good adult and cherish the great memories lived! It is of importance to dedicate to develop your mind thru’ meditation which will be easier then to release ! I lost my beloved father when I was 16. Your father will be still with you in spirit until the next solid birth is established! All is subject to impermanence as Sadhu said!! 🙏🏼
people tend to be socially attached to others, thanks for reminding that suffering comes from clinging to others, the more we hold on to things or people the more we suffer, accept nothing is permanent and learn to let go, thank you for this reality
Sadly, if you're not attached to others, society is afraid and suspicious of you, especially if you're a woman. The media is quick to write ' lone wolf, loner' etc.
"The more you hold on , the more u will suffer"... Thank you and everyone behind this video💜 What i learned is its better to be alone than being with people so that there is no one to hurt me.... God bless u who read this and everyone 💜🙏🏽💫
Yes like mahinda family and all politicians destroyed sri lanka.. the failed nation because of buddist people did.. they never respect or followed buddha..
Its so difficult for me to let go but when i starting to listen and watch the video i realized im wasting my time to those people hurting me today.. i hope i will be strong, more braver and be wise.. namo buddha🙏🙏
This is beautiful! Buddhism seems so advanced compared to other religions.... they discuss really pertinent realities, that I never hear other religions addressing...
@@pravachan4355 stop with your propaganda lol, it’s never going to become true no matter how much you shill sanatana dharma Brahmins still seething after 2500 years
@@madukanidesh1918 the terminology is different. The word is Moksh for Nirvana. It all depends on the Guru you follow , how much knowledge is imparted.
Having just been through an extremely painful divorce, 15yrs of my life now ONLY memories. This quality of content is literally a life saver. Thankyou so much.
Wow. Same thing for me. Was with my ex husband for 16 years. He ended our marriage abruptly and left for a woman he was having an affair with. Been alone for 15 years now. I am done with that.
This is so true! Let go, don't waste your energy on things that are out of your control, instead enjoy and focus on what you do have and are within your reach to make you feel better and move along. Live and enjoy life day by day. I don't let anything bother me and sometime somethings are harder to let go, but I've realized, it gets you nowhere and nothing but stress, white hair and wrinkles, 😆,why bother, just let go and make the best of your situation. Doesn't have to be perfect. I belive I've achieved inner peace. It just clicked one day and I stopped wasting energy on things not worth expanding it towards. I dwell on problems for very short periods and move along. It's hard, but once you can do that, you'll feel so much freer and relaxed. I wish inner peace to all, much love.💕
Ten Wholesome Ways 1. No killing 2. No stealing 3. No sexual misconduct 4. No lying 5. No abusive speech 6. No slander 7. No enticing speech 8. No greed 9. No anger and 10. No ignorance/delusion/attachment
Who can do it? Remember, 1. Heaven is a free gift, it can't be earned or deserved. Romans 6:23 2. Man is a sinner. Man can not save himself. Ephesians 2:8-9 3. God is merciful and doesn't want to punish us, but God is just, must punish sin. Matthew 5:48 4. God sent His Son, Jesus Christ to die on the cross , His death paid the penalty for our sins, and purchase our place in Heaven. John 1:1 &14, 20:28, Isaiah 53:6. 5. Only saving faith, trusting Jesus and Him alone for salvation. Not temporary faith, not mere head knowledge. James 2:19. Acts 16:31
@@praisetheLord2377 What are you even doing here buddy? Do you search for other religions just o preach yours in their comments? Your comment makes absolutely no sense given the context of this video and OP.
This is true but people in positions of power do not follow this. Some Lawyers, Land Valuers, even some Trustees. Even having Facts, & evidence with out using money to fight them, they still get there ways. Thanks Paul Armstrong N.Z
I have gone through so much in my life and faced so many things and still facing it I loved every word u spoke about letting go thank u 4 your kind words 💖
I love these videos too and Iwatch them everyday. Even if we read and understand the Bible very well we get that same kind of peace. That's my experience. If we read what Christ has said we get that peace. He also says exactly what this monk preaches. Jesus is the prince of peace and that is true.
@@cynthialobo1500 Do you know? The time period difference between Buddha and Jesus is approximately 500 years. Buddha lived and taught in India during the 5th century BCE, while Jesus lived and taught in Israel during the 1st century CE. Which means Buddha lived and taught the dhamma ~500 years before even the birth of the Jesus Christ. :)
@@cynthialobo1500 Theres no harm in listening to other scriptures and doing good. I take a leaf out of the gospel of the Good Samaritan. In the gospel it says even the priest passing by just walked away. Who did their duty was finally a Samaritan. Similarly if we do good by listening to good messages I don't think it's a sin. I face this dilemma but am sure our Lord & savior Jesus understands.
I am going through tough time at the moment, sad, depression. I am crying while making this comment. I am suffering because I didn’t let go like you said. Thank you.
Your video popped up less than 5 minutes after I had prayed for release from my past …. Past experiences, past choices, past people and past losses. Your message is a soothing balm for this heartache and brings me closer to releasing this toxic energy. Namo Buddha
Letting go is so important for our inner peace. Grateful for your deep wisdom. We only have control over our own emotions and everything in our life is temporary .
I have done several wrongs in my life, I have brought all the sufferings in my life myself. But I am sorry for what I have done, I am in deep repentance
@@2dimensionsmusic You cannot change the past but you can do good now. Be the best possible human being you can become and let go of the past. We all make mistakes but to realise that and correct yourself is an important learning experience in life. Wish you a peaceful and happy life ❤️
@@lakshmiillangasinghe2799 please wish me so that I can reconcile with my husband, I cannot live without him. My daughter and I are suffering without him
Someone cheated on me and walk away from my life ..instead blaming me for it..she knows i still love her..but she preaching me time will heal everything..she is the one who made me to suffer and preached me before dumping me.this video really made me to realise not dwell in that memories rather let it go of her from you..thank you
I have lost so many things in life, worried and suffered because of that.This lecture by the compassionate Hamudhuru helped me to realise everything is impermenent and how we should let it go.
This is one of the best, and the most needed videos I had seen in a while. I really needed to hear these words. Letting go. I keep thinking about this woman who is a friend of mine, I developed feelings for her, and those feelings are not returned. She is seeing someone else, but I keep hoping she would eventually realized that I am here. But, she won't. That's the reality. I need to let her go from my life, and move on. That is sometimes the hardest thing we can do, but it is necessary. I will keep this video in my favorites list. Thank you.
Didn't expect anything watching this... and without realising I have just discovered a new mindset and reality that I never experienced before.. thank you.. so much
I am so grateful for your channel. I love to learn the Buddhism culture. It's so peaceful and joyous!!! I have a couple friends that have a property whenever I go there I feel such a strong peacful positive energy. My friends share much wisdom with me over tea and great conversation. The culture intrigues me so much I long to learn!! Again thank you!!! Namaste 🙏
Great words, the more l care for people the more l suffer, their suffering becomes mine,but it's so difficult to let go l pray to the almighty to give me inner strength to move on.
Thank you for this video. My father passed away almost 5 years ago and I have gone through a lot of heartache and anger because of his other daughters (that much bad blood I refuse to call then my sisters) and I get signs from him all the time. I think he lead me to this video. I have been missing him more in the 5th year of his passing and the pain is just as bad as the day he left. He is still doing his duties as a dad and guiding me in his own way and I believe he is the one who brought me to this video which was a suggestion. Thank you for your words, I will save this video to keep reminding myself to let go of the hate, pain and anger.
When you hold on to anger you suffer not the people who harmed you. The best way to overcome such situations is to practise loving kindness ( meththa) meditation. It will make you a peaceful person in the end. At the beginning it may be hard but if you keep at it life will be very peaceful. All the best 💗
This one made me cry. I am in therapy at 56 and learning to heal after a lifetime of emotional abuse and abandonment by my mum. I now see that my core values; honesty, fairness, trust, integrity and respect are poles apart from my mum but also my brother. To let go of my rage and hurt, to break that trauma bond, to forgive myself, to find peace and “who I am” is so difficult but therapy and finding your videos alongside are such a positive healing pathway for me. Thank you 🙏
I genuinely agree with what you are saying, I have been watching these videos for a while now and they have really helped me to get my thoughts together, hoping that you are well and happier than you have been in the past, Nammo Buddhya. 🙏.
Thank you for the teachings. I still at times go through some sadness of losing my mother in 2022, if I look at it today and even she was here alive she would be sick and sad. I would also have trouble caring for her so the word out of control and fading away well said. I started to watch your channel and the teachings of Buddhism it is very inspiring with relief. Thank you!
Truth is always simple. I am learning how to let go, it becomes one of the most critical skill as life passes. In my experience, letting go simply happens when I accept a situation, person as they are, easier said than done.. the knowledge you shared helps the process. Thank you 🙏
You have such a calmness in your posture and your face that itself soothes. You have a nice smile. Everything you said makes sense. I had always high respect for buddhism when it comes to religions. I would say that it is only Buddhism among the religions I know that reminds me there are good things in religions. Not saying other religions do not have good things. I have just started into meditation to learn and experience something new. Probably it is time to learn more about Buddhism. I think these two go hand in hand.
It's true that how our output towards worldly inputs can determine our happiness or unhappiness. Letting go is not the hardest part. The tricky part is to manage residual thoughts as thoughts are beyond our control too. They resurface time to time when the mind is not busy with day to day life.
Your videos have really helped me 2015 was been bullied at work giving me stress and depression which led me to trying to take my own life twice ending up in intensive care twice .wish I'd have seen your videos sooner ,you are a lovely man and thank you for sharing your videos with us all 🙏
Teacher, I look forward to your teachings on life/people...this is the missing piece I have always been searching for; not many people will stop and speak the truth
Hello sir,I am not very good in english.but still trying to write in english.when I listen your words I am heal from inside and at the same time I am trying to learn English when I listen your words, voice.sir people hurt me all the time because I have a birth mark on my face.when people see I am confident they heart me more .I lose my hope but after listen u I feel that people are here to hurt us.but we have to no how to overcome.thank you.🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is that special much needed sermon which changed my thinking pattern. I have started practicing mindfulness after listening to this. It leaves me peaceful and happy. But then , it is very hard to practice as mind keeps wondering all the time. The moment you realize it ,mind has already slipped away from your grip and wondered thousand miles away from you. Most venerable sir , is this really what happens when you start practicing it? Namo Buddaya 🙏
Lovely video and important message. It's important to try and give people real actual steps on how to let go. What process can be followed as a helpful blueprint to let go. First step is realizing you have to let go but then what are steps2-+?? Maybe meditation? Processing the loss, recreating a healthy happy story about your reality etc....etc .... The actual things one can do would be great to hear from all.
Wow! I am so grateful to hear about your advice. Recently I had been going through some internal suffering. "Let it go . The more you hold on, the more you will suffer . Realize the reality of impermanent. Let them fade away, Let them go away" Following your teaching now I am trying to maintain my own inner peace within me. Thank you, please take my respect. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏
Yeah sir you definately right. We cannot control everything. I should be more happier and I am deserve to happy. These month I was not satisfied myself and a lot of anger and point of the negative view. Buddha only can make me feel relax and calm down. Whatever other people is doing bad thing on me I should more tolerant.
Vandami Bhanteji 🙏💐 Thanks for sharing........Yes....This happens due to attachment towards things, people & situations . If we are not attached ,we don't try to hold . METTA to all dear people
How so true! I do let go of many things, toxic people and people who are connected to a toxic person. And amazing feeling of letting go I am in so much peace. And material things doesn’t impress me. True one won’t suffer if you let go. Any negative let go. Thank you thank you thank you. A million times. Yes inner peace is always achieve once you let go. Yes nothing is permanent . Holding on to negative emotion leads to suffering. Nothing I can say but have a blessed day.
It took me years to let go of situations and people to whom I hold so dearly, but the uncontrollable circumstances made me realize these are inevitable..The process was painful and is still painful but the load is now comfortable to carry, slowly and gradually I am quite sure I will get to that point of total self liberation, un-effaced by the peripheral disturbances, sure and secure with my inner peace.. Thank you Buddhism for these supplementary approaches that helped me overcome the toughest states.. With so much self awakening, I now as well understand that I Hold nothing and nothing holds me and one day I shall leave this world alone, a particle, a period, void of attachments. I am me and I am free. All is well..
Thank you so much for taking the time to reflect on this! I must admit I've never thought and reflected on the aspect you shared about how much control we have on our reaction in relation to whatever it is that we experience. I'll be the first to admit in most such cases I would either complain about a situation and worry or if I reacted badly/ angrily give my self justification and excuses that I reacted that way only because of the situation made me. What you shared as the first point about how nothing in life is in our control except for how we react to those situations is something I should reflect on and perhaps something I should remind myself daily. I once again walk away with a precious message. Theruwan Saranai!
Your words always comfort me & there is truth in every word you say,if we can practice those things ,happiness will naturally come into our lives..thank you so much for this valuable video 🙏🙏🙏❤️
So true & touchy .. its so soothing to listen to your clips.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏.. yet people are so wicked, ruthlessness, selfishness.. many more if to write ample available..
I found the answer i was looking for after nights of anger, hurt, rage, suicidal thoughts, shame, embarrassment and other terrible feelings of no longer reaching out to my ex. I have accepted there will never be an attempt to reach out on my part and i accept that my ex would never reach out to me. Ive been sick trying to forgive myself for my mistakes...nothing is permanent..NOTHING!!! The longer you hold on, the longer you suffer. Its simple, not EASY but simple. This video has saved my life!! Thank you
Who wants to go let them go, who wants to come in ur life and accept you, just be with them. All temporary situations. Be strong 💪 and steady. Enjoy every moments and situations.
Yes true, everything is impermanence in our lives The more we hold on we are the ones are sufferings Everything will be fading someday oneday So everyday we do our best the fullest Thank you Sir 🙏💟
I believe you have found inner peace, no matter the chaos that goes on around, that's the greatest treasure anyone could hv, and is worth holding on to !! Thank you !!
Accepting the pain can be the hardest part of our lives and to digest it but eventually makes us stronger and let's us move on in our lives. Nammo bhuddaiya 🙏
Recently i had an encounter where i had to control myself in a situation that made me want to speak out and say something about the way another person was acting towards their children but i knew the outcome was only going to be met with a brick wall at aome point and i had to let go of my anger during the whole encounter. I feel like i did wrong by not trying to make a change but im also proud of myself for keeping it in. The world is completely out of our control, but nothing is permanant and i know those kids will make it like many other children. Im trying not to hold on but thinking about how insufferable people are takes control. Thank you buddha bro.
The universe must have placed this video on my screen at the perfect time. I was actually feeling very down and depressed until viewing this video. A man who I've been seeing/dating appears to be fading out of my life. I've been coping with sadness and depression as romantic relationships have been a challenge for me in this life. This video couldn't have come at a better time. I just need to let go. Let go of the situation, let him fade away if that's what's meant to be. Thank you.
Teaching everything when devotees are in need,at the correct time,this channel is very helpful... May everyone be good,and happy... Thank you very much everyone behind this work... God bless u all and ur loved ones... 🌸🍃😊
Pain makes you stronger,tears makes you braver,and heartbreaks makes you wiser, so thank the past for a better future.😊Never cry for that person who doesn't know the value of your tears😊.Never give up.great things take time.👍😊Namo buddha.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks a lot ❤️ Much needed!
@@aartikrish a
INDEED TRUEEE. HUHU
🙏 Amen ❤
Wow amazing teaching ⚾
”The more you hold on to the things,The more you will suffer"...well said👍
True let go and be at your peace 🕊️
@@dolly12128it's ok🙂
impermanent or temporary
that is why make them pay, plan well and take actions.
He saved me from going to depression. Thank you so much
This is a Buddhist monk from Mahamevnava buddhist monastery of Sri Lanka. Buddhism is the greatest gift Sri lanka received from india. Thank you and love you indian brothers.❤️
@@kalanaviraj7540 You should not speak of Indian brothers. We are all humans on this earth. Regardless of birthplace
It's why I never get depressed .
Agreed
Budda's wisdom th-cam.com/video/uhyyGzXt7PM/w-d-xo.html
“Suffering happens when we cling onto the things that are out of our control”. Thank you 🙏
"Nothing is permanent "
"The more we hold on to the things, the more we suffer "
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what is yours will always be yours and what is gone was never yours.... namo Buddha 😊♥
That's realy true and we should realise it earlier
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But it's so hard to realize that
@@rajlaxmidigge596 exactly ;-)
@@revathiwarrier9624 yes but time heals everything ;-)
This is the most powerful video I have ever watched.Since two years,I was fighting to let go some people in my life and I got the right answer in this 8 minutes of video out of hundreds of videos I watched in two years.
1.Nothing is Permanent
2.Suffering is not holding you.You are holding suffering.
3.You have to let go everything at some point of your life
4.So,Let go at the right time
Namobudhhya
I am holding on to someone that had destroyed my life for past 5 years and I suffered a lot a lot from that circumstances. I tried to let go but it keep bouncing back into my mind. Guess it's my own mind that refused to let go permanently and that causes my suffering until I am diagnosed with terminal illness.
That is perhaps a circular reasoning: since we don't let go, we couldn't realize impermanence.
@@ginny-iris That long suffering chewed up your immunity day by day,until your body can't hold on.
@@aubreysun3377 Right..it's a permanent wounds in heart
When is the right time to let go ?
I didn’t seek but god (ok TH-cam) somehow show me the videos I needed the most from this channel. Because of your speaking’s I’ve become happier and I feel so much lighter. I will keep rewatching this. Thank you again.
I love this monk.....he is so soothing to listen to......and so wise.
also good looking
"Let them go away, dont hold on
The more u hold on, the more will u suffer " ✨
Pain doesn't makes you stronger. Trauma doesn't makes you stronger. It made you weak and gives you sleepless night. YOU MADE YOURSELF STRONGER.
By letting them go
Thank you. Agreed.
You can not imagine how much I needed this, I am in tears 😢.Thank you so much . I wish you a happy life.
Right
@yasminele7745 you are not alone 😊
I’m a Buddhist. Even being a Buddhist living here in the US, I tend to forget this teaching. This is a basic teaching to all Buddhists. I had a high monk reminded me this: Forgive Forget & Let Go. If not, you will live with a heavy heart. I just went through a breakup. Very painful. I shall remember an important teaching to Forgive, Forget & Let you
At the moment I’m writing this reply with a heavy heart. It’s our own mind that we should take control of.
Hi,
Literally tears flowing down from my eyes.Its not easy to let go of some people from our life but nothing is permanent.We have to let go of them at some point of time sooner or later.
I love Hindu and Buddhist teachings! So peaceful
I agree with you!
Actually hinduism teaches to curse people. They curse even their gods.
Agreed!
I am Catholic but in the last 24 hours Buddhism teachings about love vs attachment has uplifted me and I immediately released my grasp on the man I was foolishly clinging onto. The effect I felt was immediate relief and joy. Thank you 🙏🏻
I went through breakup 1 week ago, it was more of one sided love that I had. Anyways I needed to move one. Best decision I took, because he was not emotionally connected. It was his decision to be not connected. But i knew i had to let him go, for my inner peace. And i let him go, peacefully. Thankyou for this beautiful video, Namo buddhay🌼
I’m going thru the same thing . He broke up with me in my bday too, saying he lost feelings. I was the one trying to fix it. All he said was that “we could try”. The break was terrible we didn’t even establish it correctly we would text and idk why when I had to be dry or actually text back for him to miss me.. Says later he broke up with me officially theu text . A couple days later he texted “heyy “ because according to his bsf, he was just checking up on me. Saying no matter what we’d still be friends .Hw said that days later bc he could live with that, but i couldn’t, possibly imagine being friends when I was still deeply in love with him. I told him I needed a month. A month I’d no contact to figure out whether we should be friends, get back together or just never talk to each other again. That day will be June 29th and my feelings like every now and then I would still cry over it and him. And sone days i wouldn’t even think of him. Other days guys would talk to me and I’d entertain it but some times I would just be reminded of him it’s a crazy cycle . And my time b4 we have to talk again is coming up soon. Please give me some advice
@@martiangurl8086 Don't go to him, believe ur gut feeling. Life is too short to follow wrong person nd wrong vibes. There are good people, give them priority. Good people maybe your family members, friend or anyone you really care about.
Dont waste your energy into this relationship. You will be fine after two months. Just block all of his contacts or just dont reply. You are brave, dont repeat the mistake i did, dont go, he is not worth of you.
I understand and I wish i was able to do it like you. he always treated me as an option but still I'm not able to let go. worst part he just ghosted me after I addressed my concerns to him.
@@25jenkim people do wrong things(ghosting as in ur case) because of their own reasons
But we must not let that affect our values nd inner self
Leave them nd u will be more happier nd healtheir
Break the pattern of thinking about them slowly
You have better nd beautiful purpose to serve in ur own life
Fullfill that💗
Good night dear🌝
@@nancysonavane3638 you’re so right dear. I am going through the same issue as your were, one sided love. But unable to let go n break up. Advice
අනිත්ය බව මෙනෙහි කරමින් අතහැරීම පිළිබද මනරම් දේශනාවක් කළ ඔබවහන්සේට මේ ජීවිතයේදීම උතුම් චතුරාර්ය සත්ය අවබෝධ වේවා 🙏 සාධු 🙏 සාධු 🙏 සාධු 🙏
Your blissful words really calm my mind. Due to heart attack my beloved father passed away within 15-20 mins. We can't do anything, it was so fast. It's so painful to let your beloved person go, it's the most hard part of life. I really love to hear your voice and lessons. It gives me strength to overcome this situation. Nothing is permanent. I have to let my father go. I think he is now free from all the earthly pain and sufferings.
Sorry for your lost! Your father will always be with you.
Invoke more Blessing to him to attain supreme Nibbana.
Mine too . My father passed away a week ago .
We are sentenced to death the day we are born!! The only difference is the time frame we, each one brings to earth! Pls console yourself as much as it is hard to accept, but have solace, thinking of the times you father has harnessed your life to be a good adult and cherish the great memories lived! It is of importance to dedicate to develop your mind thru’ meditation which will be easier then to release ! I lost my beloved father when I was 16. Your father will be still with you in spirit until the next solid birth is established! All is subject to impermanence as Sadhu said!! 🙏🏼
May he attain supreme bliss of nirvana
I am watching it few days after break up and it is sooo good. It helps watch multiple times in normal speed
Cry, feel sad and than find your peace
people tend to be socially attached to others, thanks for reminding that suffering comes from clinging to others, the more we hold on to things or people the more we suffer, accept nothing is permanent and learn to let go, thank you for this reality
Sadly, if you're not attached to others, society is afraid and suspicious of you, especially if you're a woman. The media is quick to write ' lone wolf, loner' etc.
"The more you hold on , the more u will suffer"...
Thank you and everyone behind this video💜
What i learned is its better to be alone than being with people so that there is no one to hurt me....
God bless u who read this and everyone 💜🙏🏽💫
Yes I agree
God bless you too 🙏
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True..i agree that so very much.... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
The glow and calmness on his face, makes me wonder he really has discovered inner peace!
" The more you hold on,
the more you will suffer "
Exactly true 🙏
සබබං පහාය ගමනීයං🙏🙏🙏
Yes like mahinda family and all politicians destroyed sri lanka.. the failed nation because of buddist people did.. they never respect or followed buddha..
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Its so difficult for me to let go but when i starting to listen and watch the video i realized im wasting my time to those people hurting me today.. i hope i will be strong, more braver and be wise.. namo buddha🙏🙏
It's not easy for so many people.
it helped me i have been reading buddha teaching for a while trying to detached who have hurt me
It’s so beautiful how nothing is permanent.. no people, no pain, no joy!! That’s the beauty of life.. I love my life and every minute of it 😌🙏🏻
This is beautiful! Buddhism seems so advanced compared to other religions.... they discuss really pertinent realities, that I never hear other religions addressing...
This is the same principle as Vedant. It is taken from Hinduism, or correct name: Sanatan Dharma.
@@pravachan4355 my brother vedant doesnt talk about niwana, patichcha samuppada or karma but budhdhism do.
@@pravachan4355 stop with your propaganda lol, it’s never going to become true no matter how much you shill sanatana dharma
Brahmins still seething after 2500 years
@@madukanidesh1918 the terminology is different. The word is Moksh for Nirvana. It all depends on the Guru you follow , how much knowledge is imparted.
when people discover Buddhism they come to the Three Jewels The Buddha,Dharma,and Sangha
Having just been through an extremely painful divorce, 15yrs of my life now ONLY memories. This quality of content is literally a life saver. Thankyou so much.
Keep going on ❤️❤️ I feel you..
I just had my 14 year marriage end. I did not want it. I am STRUGGLING to let her go. I loved her so much 😢
@@timizo691hope it’s better now
Wow. Same thing for me. Was with my ex husband for 16 years. He ended our marriage abruptly and left for a woman he was having an affair with. Been alone for 15 years now. I am done with that.
Stay blessed every thing happens for a reason God has better plans for you
This is so true! Let go, don't waste your energy on things that are out of your control, instead enjoy and focus on what you do have and are within your reach to make you feel better and move along. Live and enjoy life day by day. I don't let anything bother me and sometime somethings are harder to let go, but I've realized, it gets you nowhere and nothing but stress, white hair and wrinkles, 😆,why bother, just let go and make the best of your situation. Doesn't have to be perfect. I belive I've achieved inner peace. It just clicked one day and I stopped wasting energy on things not worth expanding it towards. I dwell on problems for very short periods and move along. It's hard, but once you can do that, you'll feel so much freer and relaxed. I wish inner peace to all, much love.💕
You changed my life....from going to depression . Thank you Sir 🌹🙏 Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏
Ten Wholesome Ways
1. No killing
2. No stealing
3. No sexual misconduct
4. No lying
5. No abusive speech
6. No slander
7. No enticing speech
8. No greed
9. No anger and
10. No ignorance/delusion/attachment
Who can do it?
Remember,
1. Heaven is a free gift, it can't be earned or deserved. Romans 6:23
2. Man is a sinner. Man can not save himself. Ephesians 2:8-9
3. God is merciful and doesn't want to punish us, but God is just, must punish sin. Matthew 5:48
4. God sent His Son, Jesus Christ to die on the cross , His death paid the penalty for our sins, and purchase our place in Heaven.
John 1:1 &14, 20:28, Isaiah 53:6.
5. Only saving faith, trusting Jesus and Him alone for salvation. Not temporary faith, not mere head knowledge. James 2:19. Acts 16:31
@@praisetheLord2377 What are you even doing here buddy? Do you search for other religions just o preach yours in their comments? Your comment makes absolutely no sense given the context of this video and OP.
This is true but people in positions of power do not follow this. Some Lawyers, Land Valuers, even some Trustees. Even having Facts, & evidence with out using money to fight them, they still get there ways. Thanks Paul Armstrong N.Z
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@@praisetheLord2377please keep your bigotry and hatred in your home. Adults are talking.
I have gone through so much in my life and faced so many things and still facing it I loved every word u spoke about letting go thank u 4 your kind words 💖
This is not motivation. Put it to good use.
I'm a catholic child.. but i saw this and clicked.. now i feel an inner peace after your speech..Thank you..
you can also let go of beliefs
Same here
I love these videos too and Iwatch them everyday. Even if we read and understand the Bible very well we get that same kind of peace. That's my experience. If we read what Christ has said we get that peace. He also says exactly what this monk preaches. Jesus is the prince of peace and that is true.
@@cynthialobo1500 Do you know? The time period difference between Buddha and Jesus is approximately 500 years. Buddha lived and taught in India during the 5th century BCE, while Jesus lived and taught in Israel during the 1st century CE. Which means Buddha lived and taught the dhamma ~500 years before even the birth of the Jesus Christ. :)
@@cynthialobo1500 Theres no harm in listening to other scriptures and doing good. I take a leaf out of the gospel of the Good Samaritan. In the gospel it says even the priest passing by just walked away. Who did their duty was finally a Samaritan.
Similarly if we do good by listening to good messages I don't think it's a sin. I face this dilemma but am sure our Lord & savior Jesus understands.
I am going through tough time at the moment, sad, depression. I am crying while making this comment.
I am suffering because I didn’t let go like you said. Thank you.
Your video popped up less than 5 minutes after I had prayed for release from my past …. Past experiences, past choices, past people and past losses. Your message is a soothing balm for this heartache and brings me closer to releasing this toxic energy.
Namo Buddha
Letting go is so important for our inner peace. Grateful for your deep wisdom. We only have control over our own emotions and everything in our life is temporary .
I have done several wrongs in my life, I have brought all the sufferings in my life myself. But I am sorry for what I have done, I am in deep repentance
@@2dimensionsmusic You cannot change the past but you can do good now. Be the best possible human being you can become and let go of the past. We all make mistakes but to realise that and correct yourself is an important learning experience in life.
Wish you a peaceful and happy life ❤️
@@lakshmiillangasinghe2799 please wish me so that I can reconcile with my husband, I cannot live without him. My daughter and I are suffering without him
@@2dimensionsmusic I hope everything is fine now if not yet may God bless your journey and your family in this life.
Someone cheated on me and walk away from my life ..instead blaming me for it..she knows i still love her..but she preaching me time will heal everything..she is the one who made me to suffer and preached me before dumping me.this video really made me to realise not dwell in that memories rather let it go of her from you..thank you
Time will heal
I have lost so many things in life, worried and suffered because of that.This lecture by the compassionate Hamudhuru helped me to realise everything is impermenent and how we should let it go.
This is one of the best, and the most needed videos I had seen in a while. I really needed to hear these words. Letting go. I keep thinking about this woman who is a friend of mine, I developed feelings for her, and those feelings are not returned. She is seeing someone else, but I keep hoping she would eventually realized that I am here. But, she won't. That's the reality. I need to let her go from my life, and move on. That is sometimes the hardest thing we can do, but it is necessary. I will keep this video in my favorites list. Thank you.
What a compassionate being, I can see the light and love radiate from him ❤
Didn't expect anything watching this... and without realising I have just discovered a new mindset and reality that I never experienced before.. thank you.. so much
I am so grateful for your channel. I love to learn the Buddhism culture. It's so peaceful and joyous!!! I have a couple friends that have a property whenever I go there I feel such a strong peacful positive energy. My friends share much wisdom with me over tea and great conversation. The culture intrigues me so much I long to learn!! Again thank you!!! Namaste 🙏
This is not Indian btw
It's Srilankan😄
This is a Sri Lankan Monk. If you come to Sri Lanka you can get good knowledge of Buddhism.
Great words, the more l care for people the more l suffer, their suffering becomes mine,but it's so difficult to let go l pray to the almighty to give me inner strength to move on.
He speaks so calmly & puts his points across in a simple way. He looks so peaceful while smiling all the time. I aspire to emulate his beliefs
A young man, so calm, so full of wisdom. I think we all must practice what these monks teach us.
Thank you so much!! You helped me a lot to accept the reality of life...yes our reactions matter...everything is impermanence....
Thank you for this video. My father passed away almost 5 years ago and I have gone through a lot of heartache and anger because of his other daughters (that much bad blood I refuse to call then my sisters) and I get signs from him all the time. I think he lead me to this video. I have been missing him more in the 5th year of his passing and the pain is just as bad as the day he left. He is still doing his duties as a dad and guiding me in his own way and I believe he is the one who brought me to this video which was a suggestion. Thank you for your words, I will save this video to keep reminding myself to let go of the hate, pain and anger.
You must believe...We must believe......
When you hold on to anger you suffer not the people who harmed you. The best way to overcome such situations is to practise loving kindness ( meththa) meditation. It will make you a peaceful person in the end. At the beginning it may be hard but if you keep at it life will be very peaceful.
All the best 💗
Also look into Shadow Work... ❤🌹
This one made me cry. I am in therapy at 56 and learning to heal after a lifetime of emotional abuse and abandonment by my mum. I now see that my core values; honesty, fairness, trust, integrity and respect are poles apart from my mum but also my brother. To let go of my rage and hurt, to break that trauma bond, to forgive myself, to find peace and “who I am” is so difficult but therapy and finding your videos alongside are such a positive healing pathway for me. Thank you 🙏
I genuinely agree with what you are saying, I have been watching these videos for a while now and they have really helped me to get my thoughts together, hoping that you are well and happier than you have been in the past, Nammo Buddhya. 🙏.
Thank you for the teachings. I still at times go through some sadness of losing my mother in 2022, if I look at it today and even she was here alive she would be sick and sad. I would also have trouble caring for her so the word out of control and fading away well said. I started to watch your channel and the teachings of Buddhism it is very inspiring with relief. Thank you!
Truth is always simple. I am learning how to let go, it becomes one of the most critical skill as life passes. In my experience, letting go simply happens when I accept a situation, person as they are, easier said than done.. the knowledge you shared helps the process. Thank you 🙏
You have such a calmness in your posture and your face that itself soothes. You have a nice smile. Everything you said makes sense. I had always high respect for buddhism when it comes to religions. I would say that it is only Buddhism among the religions I know that reminds me there are good things in religions. Not saying other religions do not have good things. I have just started into meditation to learn and experience something new. Probably it is time to learn more about Buddhism. I think these two go hand in hand.
If you want to learn more about Buddhism I suggest you read Digha Nikayha the long discourse of Buddha
Mediation comes from hinduism urf santana dharam and read geeta khud hi answer mil jayeenge
Wow thanks very much dear
Thanks for the advice
It's true that how our output towards worldly inputs can determine our happiness or unhappiness. Letting go is not the hardest part. The tricky part is to manage residual thoughts as thoughts are beyond our control too.
They resurface time to time when the mind is not busy with day to day life.
Thank you very much Guruji! I have learned good lesson on how to let go the bitter past...and live happily...
True wisdom! I'm really thankful to Lord Buddha and all the spiritual teachers! ❤
Reverent sir, may you have the noble bliss of supreme buddha!!! නමෝ බුද්ධාය!!! තෙරුවන් සරණයි!!! සාදු! සාදු!! සාදු!!!
🙏🙏🙏 පින්වත් ස්වාමීන්වහන්ස, ඔබවහන්සේ නිදුක් වේවා, නිරෝගි වේවා!!! මේ ගෞතම බුදු සසුන තුලදීම උතුම් චතුරාර්ය සත්යය අවබෝධ වේවා!!!
You have not taken the truth or insight. Don't cycling into a person itching. It is dhamma that we should try to understand.
I heard you at the right time thanks for sharing your wisdom 🙏🙏🙏
Your videos have really helped me 2015 was been bullied at work giving me stress and depression which led me to trying to take my own life twice ending up in intensive care twice .wish I'd have seen your videos sooner ,you are a lovely man and thank you for sharing your videos with us all 🙏
Such wisdom from a young monk. Thankyou very much for opening my eyes to a better quality life, one that has no attachment but is fulfilling. ❤
Thank you for this. I’ve been grieving my dad for a few months now and this really helps me 🙏🏻❤️
Teacher, I look forward to your teachings on life/people...this is the missing piece I have always been searching for; not many people will stop and speak the truth
One word: POWERFUL! 🙏💜
I listen to this daily, it's helped me be calm and put my life into perspective.
You are so wise, and calming.
Thank you so much for your videos ❤
Hello sir,I am not very good in english.but still trying to write in english.when I listen your words I am heal from inside and at the same time I am trying to learn English when I listen your words, voice.sir people hurt me all the time because I have a birth mark on my face.when people see I am confident they heart me more .I lose my hope but after listen u I feel that people are here to hurt us.but we have to no how to overcome.thank you.🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is that special much needed sermon which changed my thinking pattern. I have started practicing mindfulness after listening to this. It leaves me peaceful and happy. But then , it is very hard to practice as mind keeps wondering all the time. The moment you realize it ,mind has already slipped away from your grip and wondered thousand miles away from you. Most venerable sir , is this really what happens when you start practicing it? Namo Buddaya 🙏
Lovely video and important message. It's important to try and give people real actual steps on how to let go.
What process can be followed as a helpful blueprint to let go.
First step is realizing you have to let go but then what are steps2-+?? Maybe meditation? Processing the loss, recreating a healthy happy story about your reality etc....etc .... The actual things one can do would be great to hear from all.
Wow! I am so grateful to hear about your advice. Recently I had been going through some internal suffering. "Let it go . The more you hold on, the more you will suffer . Realize the reality of impermanent. Let them fade away, Let them go away" Following your teaching now I am trying to maintain my own inner peace within me. Thank you, please take my respect. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏
A very calm person. His thoughts and talks are amazing.
Yeah sir you definately right. We cannot control everything. I should be more happier and I am deserve to happy. These month I was not satisfied myself and a lot of anger and point of the negative view. Buddha only can make me feel relax and calm down. Whatever other people is doing bad thing on me I should more tolerant.
Your valuable sermon is keep my mind calm and every worries fade away. God bless you
Vandami Bhanteji 🙏💐 Thanks for sharing........Yes....This happens due to attachment towards things, people & situations . If we are not attached ,we don't try to hold . METTA to all dear people
Best thing happened to me today is listening to this ❤
How so true! I do let go of many things, toxic people and people who are connected to a toxic person. And amazing feeling of letting go I am in so much peace. And material things doesn’t impress me. True one won’t suffer if you let go. Any negative let go. Thank you thank you thank you. A million times. Yes inner peace is always achieve once you let go. Yes nothing is permanent . Holding on to negative emotion leads to suffering. Nothing I can say but have a blessed day.
It took me years to let go of situations and people to whom I hold so dearly, but the uncontrollable circumstances made me realize these are inevitable..The process was painful and is still painful but the load is now comfortable to carry, slowly and gradually I am quite sure I will get to that point of total self liberation, un-effaced by the peripheral disturbances, sure and secure with my inner peace.. Thank you Buddhism for these supplementary approaches that helped me overcome the toughest states.. With so much self awakening, I now as well understand that I Hold nothing and nothing holds me and one day I shall leave this world alone, a particle, a period, void of attachments. I am me and I am free. All is well..
Thank you so much for taking the time to reflect on this! I must admit I've never thought and reflected on the aspect you shared about how much control we have on our reaction in relation to whatever it is that we experience. I'll be the first to admit in most such cases I would either complain about a situation and worry or if I reacted badly/ angrily give my self justification and excuses that I reacted that way only because of the situation made me. What you shared as the first point about how nothing in life is in our control except for how we react to those situations is something I should reflect on and perhaps something I should remind myself daily.
I once again walk away with a precious message.
Theruwan Saranai!
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Your words always comfort me & there is truth in every word you say,if we can practice those things ,happiness will naturally come into our lives..thank you so much for this valuable video 🙏🙏🙏❤️
So true & touchy .. its so soothing to listen to your clips.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏.. yet people are so wicked, ruthlessness, selfishness.. many more if to write ample available..
I found the answer i was looking for after nights of anger, hurt, rage, suicidal thoughts, shame, embarrassment and other terrible feelings of no longer reaching out to my ex. I have accepted there will never be an attempt to reach out on my part and i accept that my ex would never reach out to me. Ive been sick trying to forgive myself for my mistakes...nothing is permanent..NOTHING!!! The longer you hold on, the longer you suffer. Its simple, not EASY but simple. This video has saved my life!! Thank you
Thank you for your advices. It helps me a lot after a break up last year of my greatest love. 😢
Who wants to go let them go, who wants to come in ur life and accept you, just be with them. All temporary situations. Be strong 💪 and steady. Enjoy every moments and situations.
More Triple Gems Blessings to U Ape Hamuduruwane..
Yes true, everything is impermanence in our lives
The more we hold on we are the ones are sufferings
Everything will be fading someday oneday
So everyday we do our best the fullest
Thank you Sir 🙏💟
Literally lord buddhas dharma is so beautiful and peaceful,that is why i love buddhism soo much...
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What beautiful words and a wonderful explanation. I’m not a Buddhist but I definitely enjoyed your description and will watch more.
Im christian but his explaination very calm my mind and my thought as well.
Thank you 🙏
So relieving, it's like setting the soul Free, thanks for this videos
I am a great devotee of you. So motivating. It really calms the mind. You are a wonderful guru. Thank u.
No one I have every watched has ever put such calming caring emotion into explaining how to let go
What a bliss to live in the internet era where we have access to these amazing teachings to overcome our pains ☺️😇🙏🏼
Thank you for this wonderful learnings… it is helping me to cope🙏
I believe you have found inner peace, no matter the chaos that goes on around, that's the greatest treasure anyone could hv, and is worth holding on to !! Thank you !!
Bhante, thank you for your priceless teaching. Your demeanor is peaceful and calm.
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Namo Buddhaya🙏 Theruwan Saranai🙏
I am writing this in golden words on the canvas of my mind. Namo Buddhay!
True teachings of Lord Buddha narrated in a simple way easily understood by ordinary laymen.
Thank you
I was meant to hear this again
God bless you
Accepting the pain can be the hardest part of our lives and to digest it but eventually makes us stronger and let's us move on in our lives. Nammo bhuddaiya 🙏
Very clear explanation. I'm Namo budhaya.please give in Tamil laungue also.
Recently i had an encounter where i had to control myself in a situation that made me want to speak out and say something about the way another person was acting towards their children but i knew the outcome was only going to be met with a brick wall at aome point and i had to let go of my anger during the whole encounter. I feel like i did wrong by not trying to make a change but im also proud of myself for keeping it in. The world is completely out of our control, but nothing is permanant and i know those kids will make it like many other children. Im trying not to hold on but thinking about how insufferable people are takes control. Thank you buddha bro.
The universe must have placed this video on my screen at the perfect time. I was actually feeling very down and depressed until viewing this video. A man who I've been seeing/dating appears to be fading out of my life. I've been coping with sadness and depression as romantic relationships have been a challenge for me in this life. This video couldn't have come at a better time. I just need to let go. Let go of the situation, let him fade away if that's what's meant to be. Thank you.
Teaching everything when devotees are in need,at the correct time,this channel is very helpful...
May everyone be good,and happy...
Thank you very much everyone behind this work...
God bless u all and ur loved ones...
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