How to Heal your Broken Heart| Buddhism In English

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  • @hsmint
    @hsmint ปีที่แล้ว +1122

    1)If you need to cry, is ok to cry. Crying release pressure.
    2) Find a person to share your sorrow. The person should not give hateful comments about your ex partner as that will build up the hatred further.
    3) Always reflect and recollect that one day you will be parted and separated with all the dear people in your life. Alot of people don't like to think about this when they are in a relationship. However, being aware that we have limited time with our loved one(s) will enable one to give the fullest love and compassion.
    4) True love will never break your heart, but attachment will.
    5) If you need to heal the wound, you need to reduce touching it. Therefore, reduce the amount of attention you give to past memories.
    6) No matter how terrible the situation is, it will change one day. You will be ok one day.
    7) Know that this experience will make you stronger.

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA ปีที่แล้ว

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song th-cam.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/w-d-xo.html

    • @qb6989
      @qb6989 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wow! Thank you for this!

    • @marktodd4479
      @marktodd4479 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      #3 is so very helpful. I experienced the most absolutely devastating losses of my life 2 years ago. I did treasure them and many many times while laying in peace with them I felt such gratitude for the moment and for them. The loss is unbearable and I don’t know about others but life is of no use or holds zero attraction to me anymore and I just remain in this maya because of others depending on me

    • @meghnac78
      @meghnac78 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And what happens when the terrible situation happens over and over again? When life gives you nothing but misery and heartache as soon as you think you are okay?

    • @myversionoftruth
      @myversionoftruth ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you very much. 🙏

  • @anudiaz6914
    @anudiaz6914 ปีที่แล้ว +1602

    When you are heartbroken cry,forgive ,learn from your expeiences and let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.🙏

    • @LilB.
      @LilB. ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well said..

    • @moulinyan
      @moulinyan ปีที่แล้ว +2

      how u do u cry

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA ปีที่แล้ว

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song th-cam.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/w-d-xo.html

    • @prema1009
      @prema1009 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      But I am struggling 😫. My mind says I need to forget and move on... but very difficult to practice

    • @kimberleyjane2338
      @kimberleyjane2338 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@prema1009 Very difficult and especially when you realize that your needs are not their priority or their problem.

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    "True love will never break your heart, but attachment does"

    • @sich_verstehen
      @sich_verstehen ปีที่แล้ว +28

      But aren't we all attatched to our loved ones?

    • @nickkaysay
      @nickkaysay ปีที่แล้ว +28

      ​@@sich_verstehen yes, but all of our attachments bring us suffering. We fear of losing what or who we cherish, we feel sad and devastated when we actually lose it, we get used to the temporary feeling of happiness, that when it's over it breaks our heart. All of us should learn to let go and understand that all things that appear, sooner or later will disappear. Including the bad things. Hope I could help you❤

    • @jselenatan9834
      @jselenatan9834 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, I needed to hear this.

    • @bankingtricks614
      @bankingtricks614 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @tararathnayake7582
      @tararathnayake7582 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We attach to people without even love, when we love there is always an attachment. No matter at the end, attachment makes us suffer. Love without any attachment make us free

  • @benazir4425
    @benazir4425 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    Anyone going through a tough time hold on guys You're not alone😊 ( may Allah make it easy for you all) and remember this too shall pass!

  • @ChezzzyChez
    @ChezzzyChez ปีที่แล้ว +210

    I love your quote of “let your tears water the seeds of your happiness.” 🙂thank you

    • @catherinesmith932
      @catherinesmith932 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes great words! Thank You

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA ปีที่แล้ว

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song th-cam.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/w-d-xo.html

    • @nigithat7803
      @nigithat7803 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True words. It help me... Over come more tension, pressure.... 🙂

  • @Basira_Anwary
    @Basira_Anwary 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The soul usually knows what to do to heal itself.
    The
    challenge is to silence the mind.

  • @jeandaniel4277
    @jeandaniel4277 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    I lost my son 27 years old in an accident two months back ,I am so broken and search for motivational talks. I listen to your speeches and there is a temporary relief I still need to hear more on losing a loved one. You are a great preacher teacher and don't talk about religion but only truths . Thank you.

    • @artaleasham4105
      @artaleasham4105 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I feel sorry for your loss. Try to keep yourself on your daily tasks. Cleaning, going to the grocery store, work. Things like that. If you can't find something to do, then take a walk around the park/maybe even jog. It doesn't have to be fast, just moving is good. Keep yourself busy.
      It's okay to cry at any given time of your day. So what if people see you! You're human. You are allowed to cry. Anyone can understand what you are going through. The most important thing is to give yourself time to mourn, but also to keep yourself moving. Try some yoga/sports.
      Trust me, out of anything that can help, movement is it. Your brain will release dopamine and that will make sure your body will be more calmed. The movements will also make you tired, wich in turn makes it easier to fall asleep and the tiredness will make it harder for your mind to wander. The best thing is to push your body as hard as it can go, but it's not ideal to do this every time. Especially if you're a beginner at anything, try to take it one step at a time, and it's okay to take breaks.
      This won't heal your wound, but it can help be a band aid until it gets better, bit by bit. I hope you can give it a place someday and be happy again all the way! And remember. You are never alone. If you want to talk to someone about it, there might be talking groups you can go to/or a psychologist. Don't be afraid to talk to lots of your friends too! Everything will help to give it a place.

    • @rangerwhite5165
      @rangerwhite5165 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Best wishes to you and I hope you find peace. I can't imagine how horrific that would be.

    • @sunshineshining4167
      @sunshineshining4167 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hope you are fine now.

    • @user-sj9lf2bi1y
      @user-sj9lf2bi1y ปีที่แล้ว

      Cheer up! 🌸🍀

    • @Save-INDIA
      @Save-INDIA ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That is what budha has taught in his Dhamma….. he teaches way of life which is useful for each and every individual…. He says ,, don’t expect too much,,, attachment’s brings suffering,, expectations brings suffering, be compassionate, be kind , he says 1) there is suffering 2) there is reason for suffering 3) you need to understand the cause of suffering 4) find out solutions or healing for that suffering bz it’s in your hand to reduce your pain and suffering by kindness and compassion for others…..,, then he shows 8 fold pathways to follow for life then in the prayers itself he says….. 1) be away from lies 2) be away from hurting animals 3)be away from addiction, alcohol 4) make your character stronger 5) don’t do robbery…………, so beautiful BUDDHA had taught us……..2500 yrs ago…….. so simple and so true…………

  • @manjulapaul5065
    @manjulapaul5065 ปีที่แล้ว +389

    The way you talk with a smile on your face that's very beautiful 😍👌 ❤️

  • @deiagraham5510
    @deiagraham5510 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    #2 True Love will never break your heart, but attachment Will!! NEEDED TO HEAR THIS!!😮

  • @toou332
    @toou332 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    i am muslim but i am inspire of this man🙂

    • @wellplatedsabu
      @wellplatedsabu หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here❤

    • @Swanselm
      @Swanselm 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Are you allowed to do that?

    • @lilbitotrble
      @lilbitotrble 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is a demonstration of your wisdom to consider another's perspective. You are an enlightened being (IMHO) .

  • @ramyag1043
    @ramyag1043 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Iam Christian girl but I always follow your videos.

  • @yashodaraabeysinghe5437
    @yashodaraabeysinghe5437 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    "When you are heart-broken, cry, forgive, learn from your experiences & let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness"

    • @freidapaynor1641
      @freidapaynor1641 ปีที่แล้ว

      been 2yrs and the tears hasnt dried up.

    • @vanshikadixit5892
      @vanshikadixit5892 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where we can purchase this uniform? He wearing.

    • @yashodaraabeysinghe5437
      @yashodaraabeysinghe5437 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vanshikadixit5892 it's called 'robe'..Sri Lanka..but you can't just buy a robe & just wear like a uniform..First you have to become a monk..it's quite a process..

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Or turn it into a beautiful painful song th-cam.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/w-d-xo.html

    • @twilit
      @twilit ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vanshikadixit5892lol it’s not a fashion

  • @ankitanandi5594
    @ankitanandi5594 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    I am getting addicted to this channel..at the end of every talk I get tears...namo budhdhaya 🌸🌸🌸

    • @doroteotimtim8854
      @doroteotimtim8854 ปีที่แล้ว

      Listening to your words of wisdom makes me feel content with your understanding about how people can get together platonically. Never stop preaching about love and lasting relationships...

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes you are right i watched all videos waiting for next one👍👍👍

    • @PRASHANTSINGH-sh2hn
      @PRASHANTSINGH-sh2hn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are u heartbroken?

    • @tharmab4658
      @tharmab4658 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏

    • @sophiafara5997
      @sophiafara5997 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i have fat tummy

  • @katherinelydon7306
    @katherinelydon7306 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Crying is truly the best way to heal. No shame in crying. It reveals the depth of love you felt for that person.

  • @ewelinak1575
    @ewelinak1575 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    After my heart was broken for 4 years ago I went through spiritual awakening. It was a blessing. I would do it again and again. I'm a new person- real me and I love myself unconditionally and every single thing around me. The best gift ever

    • @shivanimallik656
      @shivanimallik656 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Hey ...can you please share your experience about spirituality... I'm going through a heartbreak now.. it's really tough for me...but I'm seeking help from yoga meditation and god.. I feel like I'm going to make it my routine...but still I get sudden anxiety attacks specially in morning... I'm just begging God to take the pain away.

    • @ewelinak1575
      @ewelinak1575 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@shivanimallik656 Dearest friend
      It takes time to find your own strength. It took me 4 years- greatest years of my life too be where I am now. No one can help you with the pain. Take it as a great lesson from life. There is always happiness on the other side. It will shape you. Nothing takes forever. You must know that you are responsible for your life and choices. All the reasons you will recognize later. There is always something to see positive. Start to seek the truth of life. We are supposed to be happy in this life and happiness is a choice. I know you will make it and wish you all the best

    • @blindjedi4139
      @blindjedi4139 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m glad you found your happiness, I started mine about an year ago, I know it’s a long journey worth taking.

    • @timbolrey5814
      @timbolrey5814 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤

    • @MariaGonzalez-cn4kc
      @MariaGonzalez-cn4kc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💕 stay strong

  • @Iamvaishnavi23
    @Iamvaishnavi23 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I don't have any person to share anything. I have only me . I don't have friends. I have my family who will never understand anything. I can't cry because everyone is always around me . I feel horrible

    • @bhumikamahajan761
      @bhumikamahajan761 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Make personal diary and write down anything what you want to share someone

    • @RPSKLM
      @RPSKLM 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My sister the same but she passed out last year I saw it what I missed ...so u can share with my mom mam maybe u will be comfortable

  • @chandramunasinghe4017
    @chandramunasinghe4017 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    We lost our eldest daughter 26 years ago...when she was 11 years...I am still struggling to overcome our loss....by listening to yr dhamma talks....i feel bit light hearted ....thanks ..Namo Buddhaya

    • @ro_boat
      @ro_boat ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My condolences to you 😢 and yours! I lost my sister and brother-in-law to a speeding driver in March 4th 2017. I miss her soooo much.

    • @ro_boat
      @ro_boat ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel your pain and your are not alone!

    • @anomakahawandala6816
      @anomakahawandala6816 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Nothing is permanent "

    • @anjou6497
      @anjou6497 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ⚘️💜

    • @Eddieangelj2288
      @Eddieangelj2288 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sending you love and strength, our loved ones never ever leave us, I ask the angels to bring you peace and signs of eternal life. May peace be with you and your family brother 🙏❤

  • @dianmar8717
    @dianmar8717 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I am a Muslim, from Indonesia. I like your channel. The way you present is calm, come out from your pure heart. and logical

  • @alexishoggan2098
    @alexishoggan2098 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    3 times I have been through this and now I know I was attached not in love I'm 41 and now I'm learning to love myself

  • @Kk-yn7dk
    @Kk-yn7dk ปีที่แล้ว +8

    we never heal we just learn to live with it

  • @djjess9553
    @djjess9553 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My 23 year old son is going through a heartbreak,i hope he watched this ..we all been through it..i wish him the best

  • @tejasmeshram7128
    @tejasmeshram7128 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Some one cheated me in horrible way. Someone used to tell me that she can't live without me. She found new option, so she left. I'm crying since 1 months. I was unable to eat anything. I felt like empty and heavy. My weight decreased to 41 kg. My tooth broken. I never thought I would be cheated like this. She showed highest level of cruelty to me. Because she found handsome guy. I came to know this world is unfair and cruel.
    After listening to you, I feel better. You're very inspiring. Thank you so much 🙏 Master 💙 I'm grateful to you ❤️ from bottom of my heart 🤍
    Namo Buddha🙏
    My tears came out🌼🌼🌼

  • @FeCadacio
    @FeCadacio ปีที่แล้ว +267

    Reverend, I'm a Catholic but since I started subscribing this channel through your enlightenment I learned a lot and I got a lot of improvement. Thank you so much 🥰

    • @sraddhayoga1
      @sraddhayoga1 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I am also a Catholic and knowing about Buddhism has made me know another point of view that complements my way of seeing life. Greetings from MEXico.

    • @JoelPit
      @JoelPit ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm a minister, and I'm here as well. I've been searching the Bible for dating advice there is none how did the basic instruction before leaving earth leave this out. Marriage is of earth and not of heaven and so must be dating. We are only responsible for our sinful responses

    • @mumtazessa4270
      @mumtazessa4270 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi thank u so much how much said was very good

    • @iaber1698
      @iaber1698 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JoelPit mmm, well, the 10 commandments are all of earth and not of heaven. As far as I am concerned, the bible offers advice to humans, who all live on earth.

    • @honestchileshe7098
      @honestchileshe7098 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Am also a catholic but I learn alot

  • @angelique2653
    @angelique2653 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Thank you so much. My beloved husband passed away three years ago. After 33 years very happy marriage. I am healing slowly, slowly. I am blessed to have known such love.💚💙💜🙏🙏🙏

    • @itaylor9404
      @itaylor9404 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@swastikmohanty7370 thanks for the encouragement, God'sblessing

    • @sunilrai5776
      @sunilrai5776 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏

    • @krishnaraog3528
      @krishnaraog3528 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May God give you strength

    • @priyadharmasena6067
      @priyadharmasena6067 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are a lucky person

    • @georgeandre389
      @georgeandre389 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Happy for you that you got a wonderful husband thank God

  • @skygazer6898
    @skygazer6898 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I grew up in an abusive environment and have spent most of my adult life on my own. When I bought a puppy Labrador, I never knew my life would be transformed so drastically. I enjoyed getting out and walking her for hours on end, even meeting and chatting with other dog walkers. I loved coming home from work and being greeted by my best friend, I just loved her so much. Lucy got cancer and I had to have her put to sleep, to say it has turned my life upside down is an understatement. It has been 5 years and I miss her so much and feel like I don't want to be here anymore without her. I am so broken hearted without my girl. I have lost family and close friends but nothing has been so painful as losing my beautiful Labrador, Lucy. I truly loved Lucy and my HEART is BROKEN

    • @Happiness-qj3ry
      @Happiness-qj3ry ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My 1st furkid pass away 2 years back and my whole world died. I can't accept it at all. My second furkid came to show me love and always there for me. I am happy with my furkid. You may consider to adopt a furkid and give a lovely life. Lucy may come in another furkid. I am feeling it right now

    • @freestyle7951
      @freestyle7951 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It would be therapeutic to adopt a pet and bring back the sweet love and companionship that animals add to your life. Lucy will always be your first love and you can rescue an animal who needs You. Let go and love again. Your life will be a gift to share with an animal who is starving for the love and security you have to give. Love again ...Live again. You can do it.💕

    • @leesanderson6885
      @leesanderson6885 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Time has come for that pain to be healed. Could you go and get a little rescue doggy? You can heal that little doggies heart. And he will heal yours. Lucy would hate for you to be so broken for so long. Its time to heal your sadness. Xx

    • @artaleasham4105
      @artaleasham4105 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand what you mean. In my life I have had a lot of animals and I still remember every one of them. Once a year I have a day to remember them. It's on pet's day. I make some sort of prayer and just try to let them know I still love them and that I hope that I will meet them again someday.

    • @skygazer6898
      @skygazer6898 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Happiness-qj3ry I cant think of adopting another dog. no,

  • @kirivrahimi8156
    @kirivrahimi8156 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    If you love someone don’t you automatically become attached to that person, because you love each other you share your life with them and you want to spend as much time as you can with them so I believe that it would be virtually impossible not to feel the pain once they are gone. Thank you❤

  • @msmotivation6040
    @msmotivation6040 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    True love will never break your heart but attachment does.

  • @angelinegeorge275
    @angelinegeorge275 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Im am a christian but your talks n lessons of life n philosphy are universal n can b applied by people from all walks of life. U have a very calm n peaceful appearance . Im learning from u n i can apply these lessins in lifev to anyone who is in need of advice. Thank u n please continue with your good work. Amen!

    • @amyherr9018
      @amyherr9018 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here Christian God bless!!!

  • @yourfutureisnow6480
    @yourfutureisnow6480 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I always say nothing is guaranteed and certain with others. If you love someone, just love them and enjoy the times you have with them. Don't take things so seriously. Always have other outlets to express yourself.

    • @melissathomas2314
      @melissathomas2314 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!❤I needed to hear this today

  • @STNNurseMikey1990
    @STNNurseMikey1990 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm noticing those past memories come up in waves. The moment I notice the process it pops, but there is fear to even let them dissolve and allow peace!

  • @borange588
    @borange588 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I broke up with my first love and my selfish actions that were fueled by the attachment led to it ending very badly. She was the one and only person who truly understood me. But it ended so badly, I'm struggling to forgive myself. I wish I could change it. But the past is the past and there's nothing I can do to undo the damage I have caused. However, these great teachings are giving me hope and some direction into healing and moving on with my life. Thank you

    • @EduverseAca
      @EduverseAca 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same thing happened with me.😭 I cannot forgive myself 😭😭😭

    • @DarkWolfWRX
      @DarkWolfWRX หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just broke up with the woman I thought would be the one. We were not together a drastically long time. But I failed and let my anxieties from a prior relationship push her away and in the break up hurt her more with my actions. I tried so hard to get her to understand I will work on my anxieties. But she just couldnt give it another shot. I have never been so depressed in my life.

  • @brandyfuller515
    @brandyfuller515 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Gosh just found you on TH-cam and im so happy I did!! Im greiving really bad!! I lost my two children 22 years old son and 21 year old daughter 4 and 5 years ago thank you for being you

    • @mariianicababaPT
      @mariianicababaPT ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤️ you deserve to by happy in this life… for you and for your children ❤️

    • @atuldwivedi3959
      @atuldwivedi3959 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can feel your pain. I did lose my mom when I was 13 and after one year I did lose my grandmother. Don't lose hope. Your son and your daughter are watching you from heaven and discussing how brave their mom is ❤

    • @Dreamdr
      @Dreamdr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i feel really sorry abt u 😢❤

    • @brandyfuller515
      @brandyfuller515 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Dreamdr thank you im so lost

    • @barbaraseidel4342
      @barbaraseidel4342 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @kashishagarwal7575
    @kashishagarwal7575 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sometimes, heartbreaks are not becoz of the love of our life, sometimes it is by the people who love us. Sometimes our first heartbreak is by our family whome we loved the most in our lives. And its really veryvery painful when your own family doesn't trust u. And it breaks u the most to the extremities.
    But as said that we should try to forgive things and take experiences to not repeat the same, which is the only thing we can do.🤞🙌

  • @jcd3869
    @jcd3869 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "Cry, forgive, learn from your experiences, and let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness".

  • @Swadheenta06
    @Swadheenta06 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    1. Someday we have to seperate ourselves from everyone we loved
    2. True love can never break your heart, it's done by attachment

  • @thefutureisnow209
    @thefutureisnow209 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Also true love never breaks your heart bc true love doesn’t leave. Thank you for this beautiful video. ❤

  • @kimberlydavis5034
    @kimberlydavis5034 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I haven't been able to grieve and heal. My heart is broken in many pieces. I'm always busy trying to help others. I was taught that crying is a sign of weakness. I always had to put everyone else before myself. I need time to myself. I need to be by myself to recharge my mental, emotional and physical being. I need time to myself to be able to grieve and heal. I haven't been able to do this in over 30 years because I had to but myself on the back burner and be a caretaker for everyone else my whole life. Now I have to work on self-care and work on myself. Thank you for these encouraging teaching lessons. I appreciate your kind compassionate words and understanding.

    • @rubytuesday7653
      @rubytuesday7653 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kimberly , it's like you broke out of my brain and wrote about me🥀. I'm broken. I'm all alone. No friends, No family, No Church Family,No Neighbors. It's like I don't exist.

    • @rubytuesday7653
      @rubytuesday7653 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've been crying allot......I can't stop.

    • @beatleme2
      @beatleme2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rubytuesday7653 feel the same since my wife of 13 yrs passed 8 1 23 -hope you're doing better

  • @thearomunlocker3781
    @thearomunlocker3781 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🙏🙏🥰
    I'm Buddhism from Cambodia 🇰🇭🙏🥰

  • @RobinLahoe-pj2uq
    @RobinLahoe-pj2uq ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am a heart broken mother which my daughter who pass away thank you for advice and may God bless . ❤

  • @shereenmehmood906
    @shereenmehmood906 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness 🙏🏽

  • @bevm8446
    @bevm8446 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    The way you deliver the speech with a smile on your face is priceless, gracious and calm, you touch my heart so deeply with your words of wisdom. තෙරුවන් සරණයි

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a creep..move on.

    • @jinmi3670
      @jinmi3670 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah right.. it's not monotonous.

  • @janjust4205
    @janjust4205 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    When your heart broken. Cry, forgive, learn.
    Let your tear water the seeds of your future happiness.

  • @thyservant2310
    @thyservant2310 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    forgiveness and acceptance is the key, let go of what you must 🤗

  • @mrhotot
    @mrhotot ปีที่แล้ว +10

    We ended up 8 years of our relationship. Ending up couldn't have hurt me but she cheated on me which hurt me alot. If she was really not interested on me then she could have told me. People ending relationship to, not working out get less hurt than those who get cheated. It cuts so deep. It's been more than a year. Still can't find way to get on my track. It complete made me lost. It hurts so much. God should show her karma. Thank you for everything we share.

    • @Jessie-im3jr
      @Jessie-im3jr 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I hope you're doing alright now

  • @debbie6533
    @debbie6533 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think about him every morning before my day starts and before I go to sleep every day. it's true love. Crying is good but limit it. As I know when I cry too long, I always get very very sick for weeks. I think I will burn a candle and meditate instead. Acknowledge it but limit it

    • @ovz197
      @ovz197 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's true. I'm in the same situation. Hope things will get better soon! Stay safe.

    • @debbie6533
      @debbie6533 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ovz197 God bless, be safe, be well❤️

    • @ovz197
      @ovz197 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@debbie6533 Thanks a lot

  • @MeenAk.
    @MeenAk. ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Your messaged reached me at the right time. I am suffering from this heartache from two months. Somehow recovered but not fully. Today am again into same old past thoughts. Staying in the middle of life when u have no one around u kills. But i have learnt to stay away frm people.Thank you ur video was quit helpfull.🙏

    • @nirmalasanjiv7624
      @nirmalasanjiv7624 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

    • @arlene-is-here
      @arlene-is-here 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too. It is somewhat comforting to know other people share similar heartache

  • @sliceoflife1111
    @sliceoflife1111 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    True love will never break your heart, but attachment will ❤

  • @governessenglish2680
    @governessenglish2680 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Have no words to thank you Ven . Thero. I am a Buddhist...but the way you present all these facts is very interesting , heart touching an logical. More over your smile wipes our sorrow away for a moment ... තෙරුවන් සරනින් ඔබවහන්සෙට උතුම් වූ නිර්වාන දොරටුව වැඩි ඈතක නොවේවා!! Namo Buddhaya !!

  • @marciadesouza3314
    @marciadesouza3314 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Thank-you! So...much for talking about "Broken-Hearts"💔. My sister was very, very sick, was taken to Hospital and was ill-treated badly and was killed by giving allergic tablets. That death is extremely hard to get over with. I trust in the Lord everyday, taking one day at a time. I am asking for your prayers 🙏 😌.

    • @trevordamien1550
      @trevordamien1550 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh Ma’am I am so deeply saddened about ur v unpleasant experience that you had to undergo with ur dearest sisters tragic death! I understand ur dilemma as I’m suffering immensely been a guy n the youngest of the family. I lost my dearest darling Mom whom I looked after for past 10 years all by myself. My darling Mom left me all alone in this world! I’m emotionally down, fallen and my mind is frozen too. Pl accept my deepest sympathies on ur great loss.

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@trevordamien1550 Trevor dear ♥ . Thank-you, so very much for being in touch with me. I am really sorry to hear about your mum and your circumstances and you tell me your the last one in the family 👪 it's really heart ❤ breaking. I understand how you must feel. With my sister's death and that they took her life was too much to bear, cause, it was done in front of my eyes. Every, memories of my sister breaks me down completely. This is something, I cannot forget and will never forget. I am sure you must feel the very same. I Sympathise with you. Trevor. The day my sister was killed 😪 😢 I turned to the "Lord" praying day and night. I cried too so...very much. I cannot explain. I can't believe that the hospital's would do such a thing. I am so.....very sorry for taken her to hospital. They ill- treated her and then took life. I am living with a broken💔heart and so must you Trevor. I long, really long to be where my sister is, and I am sure you must feel too. Tc Trevor be in touch whenever you need too. I Love ❤ 😍 💖 you. Don't worry, God will take care of us we hope😘♥️🌹

    • @chanpisethsuos1306
      @chanpisethsuos1306 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sending prayers ❤

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@chanpisethsuos1306 Dear chanisethsuos1306. Thank-you! So...very much for your prayers for us. I hope God will bless 🙌 you immensely. I will think of you, when, I am Praying. Thank-you!❤🕯❤😘

  • @MissiJade
    @MissiJade ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you for this very important message. I have lost my Mother, my spouse and my 23 year old sister all in tragic circumstances. I held on to my tears and lived in solitary for four years. I now understand that my loved ones would want me to live my life. Finding sincere support is difficult when you are without any family support however I am grateful that I am focusing on the good memories and myself now and anyone who has experienced multiple losses, my heart is with you. Your teachings have taught me so much. I am so grateful ❤

    • @flaviacogo5627
      @flaviacogo5627 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry about that 😢

    • @dinethmaaponso8873
      @dinethmaaponso8873 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      sorry to hear that, but they will be proud of you💟

    • @fear_less_2020
      @fear_less_2020 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I pray your heart heals very soon. Losing them is tragic but God will give you strength and peace very soon. Your loved ones want you to lead a happy life. Please live your life to the fullest. ❤

    • @rosalielopez9138
      @rosalielopez9138 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Courage !
      Dont give up !

    • @MissiJade
      @MissiJade 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for your beautiful messages of support. I feel so grateful that you have taken the time to write these. I wish you all happiness and good health. ❤️‍🩹

  • @catherinesmith932
    @catherinesmith932 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow that was real enlightenment for me! True Love never breaks your heart. I see that in my life.

  • @jamess8175
    @jamess8175 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Such profound wisdom is only taught by the supreme Buddha. Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @renukadave7273
    @renukadave7273 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Namo Budhdhay, Master. 🙏
    So nicely explained..!
    Feel your love and compassion for mankind in each of your words.. 🙏
    Lucky to have such Guru 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sutharmian
    @sutharmian ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thank you for sharing Buddha's wisdom ❤️🙏 !

  • @so_shruti
    @so_shruti 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ‘’True love will never break your heart’’. That hit home. Guess I haven’t found true love yet…always heartbroken 💔

  • @carolinetoppari7090
    @carolinetoppari7090 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have learnt my lessons and cried my eyes balls out, neither ami perfect but i have learnt my lessons and lifes lesson, trust is harder now for me, im finding it hard to trust anyone.

  • @belovegems
    @belovegems ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Let the tears water the seeds of your future happiness 🙏

  • @pratikshanagose21
    @pratikshanagose21 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dimple vale prabhuji Thank you for this lecture Hare Krishna
    Nmo Budhay
    Hari Bol🙌🙌🙌

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes sir,
    I am experiencing a broken heart. But it isn't about losing a girlfriend, but it is about my life. Life ingeneral.

  • @mimikoo5197
    @mimikoo5197 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Whenever I feel down, after listening to your sharing of Buddha's wisdom, it always made me feel very touched n very humbled. Thank you.

    • @gilasharonhari-divasongs7010
      @gilasharonhari-divasongs7010 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have strated to listen to you.thank you.you always help

    • @genegomes3394
      @genegomes3394 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are blessed to have you. Thank yoy for yoyr comforting talks.

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thank you so much. Your words bring light, peace and confidence. 🙏✨✨👏

  • @nilanisiriwardena5019
    @nilanisiriwardena5019 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    THE TRUTH. EXPLAINS EVERYTHING. AS A BUDDHIST I AGREE WITH YOUR ADVICE. GREAT.

  • @STNNurseMikey1990
    @STNNurseMikey1990 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Attachment/aversion feels like one of my biggest blocks to freedom. Through my practice I am noticing old patterns after a recent breakup, and merging with them means the suffering is immense. There is an attachment to merging with these patterns here.
    I appreciate the timely reminder of impermanence. But through reflection a lot of pain is here from identifying with the one who wasn't able to give as much love as he wanted to, for whatever reason. Mainly shame. and there is merging with tremendous guilt.
    So this was a bitter sweet video for me. Started off with an opening, then a contraction, then this comment.

  • @abhijitha7246
    @abhijitha7246 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your words bring peace and confidence.🌟

  • @seethakalahasthi1821
    @seethakalahasthi1821 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So beautifully u have explained...the last sentence is a perfect punch line.I adore your way of speaking.

  • @bestrongandloveyourself2370
    @bestrongandloveyourself2370 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    These advices are very helpful! Thank you so much! 🙏☺️

  • @dr.lucifer5678
    @dr.lucifer5678 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have been going through this since 2 and a half year, I didn't find any person to share with, whomsoever I share, they just advice, start judging, I just cry out evry day to remove the pressure!!🥺...with a hope to get healed one day❄️

    • @piyushmandal5647
      @piyushmandal5647 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here 😖🥺😭

    • @dr.lucifer5678
      @dr.lucifer5678 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@piyushmandal5647 🥺Hope you overcome your situation soon...
      I hope all the positivity in the world to clear out all the mess which is troubling you...
      May god bless you to the fullest, heal you to the highest...
      -your well wisher, who is also trying to overcome the depression...🥺🙂

  • @CL-jb9nd
    @CL-jb9nd ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Dear teacher, thank you so much for your teachings. They are so wise and so helpful and they give me a lot of peace in mind. I am so thankful for your sermons! 🙏🏻☺️

  • @happydays3678
    @happydays3678 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you. It's hard to feel love without attachment. I will look at your other video which explains more. Beautiful words, thanks again. 🙏❤

  • @arupabanerjee2854
    @arupabanerjee2854 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You have a peaceful way of explaining things..your smile itself gives peace...thank you so much Sir..Namha Buddhhaye.🙏🙏

  • @BigBBigTrees
    @BigBBigTrees 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love seeing all of us from around the world, all learning from the same video. I hope everyone is healing well.

  • @divinelove2513
    @divinelove2513 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Right now I'm feeling exhausted. How a person ignore someone like that.His ignorance literally broke my heart lot of pieces..my brain always said that stop don’t text him but my heart don’t listen my mind..

    • @Rsri-pc4ld
      @Rsri-pc4ld 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Battle with my heart and brain . Yep brains says stop texting him but my heart start to text 😢. Hw u feeling now .

    • @divinelove2513
      @divinelove2513 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Rsri-pc4ld right now I'm feeling okay..i would like to suggest you pls don’t text him, if you text him he will never understand your feeling
      So be yourself and live your life🧡🧡🧡

    • @Itspeti
      @Itspeti 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm with you. How can someone tell you they love you, spend great moments together and drop you like you're just a piece of trash? I'm trying to be strong and not text or call moving on. Praying we both heal and find our one true love 🙏🏽

  • @manishamotivates
    @manishamotivates ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Life is of impermanence. So, are heartbreaks. Grateful for this motivation and reminder.

  • @sandamali8173
    @sandamali8173 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pinwath swamin wahansa our children always hearting us how can we heal our heart from a heart breaks we cannot bear that pain. I also addicted this channel. You are great reverent rev. May the Noble Trple Gem bless.May you attain nibbana🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @elizabethboland2091
    @elizabethboland2091 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Agree...
    When you are heartbroken:
    Cry.
    Forgive.
    Learn from your experiences.
    Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness. 🙏

  • @wh2204
    @wh2204 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you for this video.. as a muslim I amazed by the words.. it helps me to calm down, feels like he speaks to me privately heart to heart.. I feel touched and heard

  • @malshaabeysekare7357
    @malshaabeysekare7357 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Apart from thinking this is religious based discussion.. this whole idea can make me calm down.. it does everything isn't it! Thank you so much. I love the peace you just delivered.

  • @kapilafavorites
    @kapilafavorites ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Noma Buddhaya! My humble respect to you sir! I am in pain. Thanks 🙏 for your session.l ❤️l

    • @jamess8175
      @jamess8175 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wish you well! Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Dreamdr
      @Dreamdr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope u will be okay soon❤

  • @talesbywije
    @talesbywije ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My heart felt like getting water to a parched dessert when listening to this, thank you so much.

  • @Bornto-serve786
    @Bornto-serve786 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Your voice and guidance not beings light in my life but they are the way that welcomes the new me each time I recorrect and regrow myself ❤️❤️❤️❤️..
    I'm a Muslim from kashmir

    • @madhuachpal503
      @madhuachpal503 ปีที่แล้ว

      S²l ll lol
      Lol lol lol è1

    • @fortnitenoob9828
      @fortnitenoob9828 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Inshallah I’m Muslim too thinking off converting to a Buddhist ♥️

    • @Bornto-serve786
      @Bornto-serve786 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No need to convert Islam is beautiful too..
      Learn from every guru and hold on too one dignity ❤️ gudluck

    • @hasintan6112
      @hasintan6112 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Govthama Buddha" he is a teacher ,,no problem who you are. your male, female,islamic,catholic,hindhu or non religion ,,, you can leran how to staying happy ,without suffering.
      ( my little friend mariya also from kashmir but i can't find her, great god help her❤️🙏😔)

  • @lydiamartinez1912
    @lydiamartinez1912 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My husband died last year from Congestive heart failure 30years married & the pain is still there inside of me it took so long to find him & im always grieving for him & the memories are still there inside of me prayer has helped me so much with my Grief

    • @shitikigriffin6314
      @shitikigriffin6314 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I lost my husband to heart failure to in 2001 together for 24 years

    • @Anotherhumanexisting
      @Anotherhumanexisting 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This reminds me that all relationships, short or long, cause pain in the end.

  • @pranamum3109
    @pranamum3109 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes. You are correct.In family relationships it is painful.🙏🏻💐

  • @shatveekareddy3497
    @shatveekareddy3497 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    great monk gave buddha teaching to modern generation in easy way in simple and depth , thanks a lot ,namo buddhaya

  • @maheshab7042
    @maheshab7042 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Venorable thero,
    What you have said is very true. I have experienced same situation. Its been 4 years. Still I couldn't overcome my pain
    This video will be a big help for me

  • @christrinder1255
    @christrinder1255 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you so much for the blessings you’ve given us in this video……..crying isn’t something I usually do although I’m a woman….I have cried over the last 24 hours… as much as when my husband died 3 years ago….. I was too much attached to a person "………my daughter and granddaughter were my strengths and support me whilst I come to terms with it…..the world is a wonderful place….and tomorrow the sun will shine again…💖💖💖

  • @moonshine7429
    @moonshine7429 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    12:01 let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness ❤❤❤

  • @uttamtisso4808
    @uttamtisso4808 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really like your advice. Even though my wife had left us leaving her two children. But i have change my life.

  • @treesdeschout1190
    @treesdeschout1190 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Every day YOU encourage me with Your wise and helpful lessons, to give up our expectations and attachment 🙏❤️

  • @henashree9159
    @henashree9159 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks 😔❤️ I don't know why I'm not able to heal..but IDK why I cried listening to you and your advice..I felt someone has cared for me 😔

    • @Dreamdr
      @Dreamdr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i hope u r doing okay dear 😢❤ everything thing will be okay soon ❤

  • @chrisjohnston1988
    @chrisjohnston1988 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, that’s perfect 👌🏻. Just back from the temples in Thailand. Life has become more peaceful since. We were blessed by five Buddhist monks on samui at the temple.
    I’ve been looking for you, there you were. Peace and happiness to you and all of your people. X

  • @sutraandseed4078
    @sutraandseed4078 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have been blessed by Lord Buddha today.
    He has heard and answered my prayer for help.🙏🏻
    Thank you Brother.💞

  • @shank1321
    @shank1321 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Right message at the right time.. soo grateful that I had a chance listening to your speech! Namo Budhaya 🙏🏽

  • @teresadockery7018
    @teresadockery7018 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cry is helping to remove all your pressure. Either men or women.❤

  • @adventureseekerKe..
    @adventureseekerKe.. หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, this helps a lot. The thing I did is I became too attached to the person, to the point I had so much fear in letting go & the fear made me go back to him so many times. I still considered going back to him this time, calling him saying let's talk & work it out again....But this time I promised myself I will not go back because the person got so used to it and started taking me for granted .... So hard to do it... But I cannot fail myself again...

  • @hariharen5784
    @hariharen5784 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "LET YOUR TEARS WATER THE SEEDS OF YOUR FUTURE HAPPINESS"👌👌👌👌👌

  • @rotelco1
    @rotelco1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is one of the most practical sermon i have ever heard on overcoming grief.

  • @nethmikumburegama7294
    @nethmikumburegama7294 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It always feel very peaceful to listen to these videos in this channel. As a buddhist i have listen to many darma deshana. But this channel makes me feel better everytime somehow differently. ♥️නමෝ බුද්ධාය!

  • @rathananaga160
    @rathananaga160 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now no broken heart healing problem,,,,I m strong now

  • @AlrizSusulan
    @AlrizSusulan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    times are really tough for me at the moment, it seems and endless pain, sorrow and loneliness that i confront in a daily basis. i just came out from a 10 years Relationship with my wife. thank you so much for this inspiring words teacher. it encourages me to reflect in life that to love is not to be attach nor to own the person that you love. iv learned to forgive and let go, at least ive done my part to fixed things up but as you have said teacher, something are not beyond are control and in life all is impermanent. sending love and comfort to all who have heavy hearts around the world. peace and love in this life journey❤❤❤

  • @puja7776
    @puja7776 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    An amazing motivational video. Especially the last quote...
    Namo Buddhaya.🙏