After My Mom Passed My Dad Ditched Me, Now 30Yrs Later His Mistress Called & Beggs Me For Money
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ส.ค. 2024
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Story :-
OP (36F) is a primary school teacher at her local school. Her mother died in a hit-and-run accident when OP was 7. Her father abandoned her after the incident. Her paternal uncle and his wife raised OP. OP now lives with her husband (39M) and son (3M).
A couple of years ago when OP and her husband had just returned from their honeymoon, the couple paid a visit to OP’s uncle and aunt who raised her, for a family dinner. Op’s real father (65M) had shown up after years. He congratulated the newly married couple but was unapologetic about abandoning OP. He feels OP should understand his reaction to his wife’s death and let it go. He mentioned that he had remarried twice and now he lived with his third wife (41F). A month after the family dinner, OP’s father suffered a heart attack and needed money for coronary artery bypass surgery. He had a very unhealthy lifestyle and didn’t have insurance either. His wife reached out to OP and begged for money. OP used her emergency fund to give them half of the amount they needed. OP’s husband wasn’t very happy about it as OP was pregnant.
Now, Op’s husband needed a tumor removed. Owing to illness OP’s husband had to take a break from work which was unpaid. OP managed household expenses. OP asked her father for the money back since he had a shop that was doing good. OP explained that since she had provided money for his surgery even though she barely knew him he should return the favor. OP’s father refused to help saying he was old and needed money for his “old age”. Furthermore, he said that he wasn’t the one who asked, his wife did. OP’s husband had to take a medical loan and OP regretted spending her emergency funds.
Twist: OP’s father owned a DIY supplies shop through which he was laundering money. His wife was oblivious to this and therefore asked for help, but they were actually well-to-do. OP’s father cheated his friend, Howard (61M) for money. He was aware of the situation and contacted OP to expose him. OP and Howard wanted revenge. Howard provided OP with evidence. OP blackmailed her father without revealing Howard contacted her. OP’s father gave her twice the amount of money she needed.
In further updates: after receiving the money OP anonymously tipped the authorities anyways. He got arrested.
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Don't ever lend or give money you can't afford to lose and never expect it back
Heart attack? That is impossible. He would have to have a heart for that to happen.
😂😂😂😂
This ...but why did she give her momey to a STRANGER in the first place?
@@robertx8020 I have no clue. Maybe to prove she was better than him. I didnt need convincing, but ppl who are supposed to care for you tend to make you feel as if you should do more. Like of she was generous he would all of a sudden see how horrible he was.
@@nimisilverbird1239 Sounds like a plausable option
NTA Op need to take care of her immediate family and found family friends. Her father made his choice, leaving her all those years ago.
I would not be surprised to find out that the driver who killed OP's mother was her father. After all, her mother was ready to leave him so he had nothing to lose and this sort are of the 'if I can't have you no-one will' mindset.
Yeah, without evidence, there is no telling, but that was one of the first things that popped into my head as well.
@@eolhinforest7736me too
I thought the same right away
If this was my father I would have told him to pass off
if I were op I won't entertain my father at all after he abandoned me after years he has no right to call from my help at all sometimes family is your worst enemy at all you are a family when they needed some thing from you especially money at all I don't want that kind of people who is kind and user tobe in my life at all
This is why you make contracts when you lend money out
Her father got what he deserved
She spent the money before consulting her husband or thinking about her son’s future for a man that showed her he didn’t care what happened to her as a little child?!
If it wasn't specifically stated to be a loan at the time you can't legally expect to get it back...
Your right anyone could figure out it was a gift
I would have let dad pass
Loan to family, such a great history of family repaying those...
Your child is never a burden
I'm glad op father and his ex wife get what they deserve
Mr Reddito, what I've noticed in most of these stories is that the people seem to lack common sense. The overall thing is that they need to vent which is fine, but the underlying question is they are looking for validation for aiding the toxic people in their lives. I mean it's common sense to me that if your father abused you, and neglected you, why would you even contemplate giving when you know they don't care about you. I'd pray for them but nowhere in the bible does it say lay down and tell them to abuse me some more. You've dug yourself out of the mess they left you in, are you really trying to show them that you matter. Those family members that push you towards helping them don't get it, that's why God gave each of us a separate and complete brain. When you say no, mean it.
You know I have come to the conclusion that most of his stories are fiction, thus why they forgo logic for drama, but they can be fun.
It’s not an issue of common sense in the normal way, it’s trauma responses. It can take a lot to really come to terms with how your brain and emotions work is not correct. This was her normal while developing as a kid.
@@amandarose4469 I agree. Most of these are just revenge fantasies. This story was at least somewhat believable until the updates. With each update it gets more and more ridiculous.
Op need to sue them for her money
That was not a father, that was a sperm donor, and a poor example of one.
It's a good thing she took after her mother instead of that horrible excuse for a man.
OP owed him less than nothing for the way he neglected and abused her, it's difficult for me to even comprehend how a father, or anyone for that matter, could treat a seven year old girl that way.
Utterly disgusting!
Dad would have kicked the bucket!! He abandoned me and that's the end of it!! Dueces!!
OMG this has made me so angry
Omg🤦🏽♀️😡
Wow she saved his life i know because I had to have triple bypass myself or I would be a gone myself. I'm sorry his dads wife should get a job to pay her back.
The wife is a true gold digger, she can't even spell JOB...
Pretty sad that the school knew about the Blatant neglect , abuse and didn't Do anything about it!! SHAME ON ANYONE WHO KNEW AND DID NOTHING!! Thank God for her aunt and uncle !! I'd have never helped him after what he did. And his new wife can go jump off a bridge with him !! I hate when people blame their crappy behavior on drugs and alchol !! It's still you who does the evil things and still you who will pay as you should! Op Should have listened to her husband. People don't really change much, What is trash always trash !! I know i'm so sorry that o p had to learn the hard way.
I would call the police a soon as I found out the fake goods. So that way I wouldn’t go down with him.
Did you tell him it was only a loan to get the surgery yes or no because if you didn't you can expect it back
I stopped the video before the 1st update just to comment that I am HOPING AND PRAYING that OP sues her Dad and stepmother for the money and if she's in the US has him arrested for child abandonment neglect and abuse. I'm really hoping he gets what's coming to him.
I bet the dad ran over his wife because she was going to leave him. He is that type of narcissist to pull that off.
You know that’s what I thought she was going to find out from OP father friend! I just knew it and then was let down! 😊
@virtualshoppers6633 I don't think thay would be something his friends would know. But I hoped that would be what happened. Doesn't meant he probably did run her over.
Why are so many of these OPs such doormats?
And dang! Then OP became a criminal??? Yeah I have no empathy for this OP.
Did you tell him it was only a loan to get the surgery yes or no cuz if you didn't you can expect it back
That was one nasty toilet in the jail cell, I pay attention to detail…
General question
Why, in most stories ..there will be 'a knock on the door"
None of them have a doorbel?
OP 👍
Why? Why did you go, why did you take care of the boy? Are you truly believing a narcissist?. I'm with Adam, you were looking for acceptance.
Expectations!!! Should not have helped them!!?
Naw, should have did this before the divorce. Her settlement should have been seized as fruit of poison tree😠😡
Jail is at least a roof over his head + food
Did you tell the old guy about his new soon to be wife??? OP????
NTA but I can't help think maybe her dad had something to do with her mom's death. She was ready to leave him and all of a sudden she was killed it makes you think
THAT MOFO WOULD'VE DIED BUT I SURE AS HELL WOULDN'T HAVE SPENT ONE DIME OF MY HARD EARNED MONEY TO HELP HIM OUT HE'D BE ON HIS PWN AND I WOULD CONTINUE TO LIVE MY LIFE IN PEACE
Girl you did great job and father needs to go jail for the wrong
She should have 1st spoke to her husband before giving her money away. I know part of it was a ego trip giving her father money.
You’re absolutely Not the A-Hole ~~ sorry to have to say this but God sees the good in you. Let Him deal with your dad. God Bless 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Lol you gave money to a person that couldn't be bother with you
You made a mistake OP geez
A metaphysical surgeon is going to have to remove Karma's foot from OP's father's rear end.
I am a little sorry for Toby. Any news about him?,Did he leave his mother?
OP should have said something sooner so the house and everything Janet got would have been seized.
Why, why, why would she give her deadbeat dad money for ANYTHING! Maybe I'm just mean. I woulda said: "STFU before I REALLY hurt your feelings." I'm not just being a keyboard gangster, I've cut a few ppl off & shut other ppl down, w/ a quickness.
The answer would be NO!
I would leave my father in that hospital. After all the years of being in-and-out of my life, getting in my face and criticizing me for my beliefs, I have had enough of him.
Absolutely no way he gave up any right to called father
You can pick your friends, job, and where to live; but you can't pick your family. Sometimes, you just need to cut ties
I would have sued my dad and his wife for the money I spent on his surgery
A year ago I'd have done exactly what his daughter did. However, I was diagnosed with breast cancer, had to undergo chemo treatments that poison your body for months. Then I had a bilateral mastectomy with axillary node biopsy. And if all that hasn't killed me, I have to do 26 radiation treatments and permanently wear an arm compression device. I had the most wonderful friends and family, but it was during this time I went back to my Christian roots. God has left me here for a reason, maybe make sure my daughter is taken care of and my dogs. I'm really trying to not judge anyone like I did before, because it just makes me miserable. I forgive not to make the person feel better, but I do it for myself and my peace of mind, knowing I've done what I could. Keep the stories going Mr. Reddito, and God Bless!
I'm perplexed, did she really expect him to help her?? He abandoned her??
Your dad got what he deserved 👍🤭😀🤩🥰😃👏
Hey op at least you kept him from being homeless hehe
I don’t think he got enough karma
Karma: often capitalized : the force generated by a person's actions held in Hinduism and Buddhism to perpetuate transmigration and in its ethical consequences to determine the nature of the person's NEXT existence.
I don't know when karma became so instant. Perhaps it's possible to live many life times contained in one life span?
Because ppl not of that culture always hijack it and try to change it to suit them.
It's misused. Many would rather call it "karma" instead of acknowledging the possibility of Divine Retribution, which IS often enacted in THIS life.
If the concept of Divine Retribution is too much to accept, then call it 'the consequences of one's actions and decisions."
At least he'll have 3 hots and a cot.
So you never thought this was a scam, if i came to you with a sob story you'd probably be easily persuaded. This man never gave a damn about you, but you just went into your hard earned money and helped someone who would step over you if you were lying in the road.. am praying for you.
Why were you bothering with your sperm donor let it go no contact
No he did not get more than enough.
I haven't been this satisfied about a demise since joffrey died in game of thrones. The father was a rare malignant narcissist, no conscience, cold to anyone unless he took things,tried to get people to pity him for selfish gain and treated his daughter like shit while spoiling gold digging heartless wife. Very happy op was able to find happiness in the end
Seriously dude I don't understand why the original poster gave her father the money begin with just because his so-called new gold digger wife was crying out that he was going to die cuz I'm not going to live I was in that situation I would have told her look one I don't give a damn if he lives or dies because he abandoned me for you and your kid so of anybody needs to take care of him it's you then it would have gone click and block that's it all over social media anywhere that I can possibly get harassed by this woman her family and that piece of shit family as well which would be the dad in that situation maybe that's just me but in all honesty if the original poster wants to teach your kids the idea of showing others kindness she needs to understand there's also a time to show them that there are certain people you don't show kindness to when they haven't given it back to you and they haven't learned it at all sorry to say at the same time she has nobody else to blame for being in a financial hold except herself in the final update she is able to get that money back and she's able to sue the crap out of her father his wife and leave these people on the streets I do feel bad for the child in that situation but I hate to say it the original poster's family is far more important
Block the phone numbers hello
? So you who said that because she was a teacher she was supposed to be virtuous? My real question is this: why? Does this mean they aren't human? I mean everyone is human, and it seems that all humans are flawed because no one is a clone. If we as humans are flawed how then can we as humans sit in judgement of one another. I understand that we have societal norms, but each is an individual and react individually to certain situations that occur in life. Yes I expect teachers and others to be special but I also see them as flawed humans. The degree of flaws is the question. Am I right?
how did janet get your number?
why would you even contemplate giving these people money?
janet is nothing to do with you
and your father would not have even known who you were or cared either
he neither deserves your time , money or consideration
fathering a child is usually easy...but parenting and raising that child is where a man becomes a father and earns the love, trust and respect of the child!
this man did none of those things
its a fine line between kind and naive (you wont get thanks from him for it)
i dont think dads wife deserves to be called gold digger...i think she put her and her kids security first...... as any parent would
(15.54) i bet your dad refuses to help!
really not shocked
nta but you are so naive
anyone with an ounce of common sense and knowing the fathers history could see that giving money over was so wrong
do not report your fathers crimes. leave alone. after you you also committed blackmail!
Although what OP went through was bad she was not any better by using blackmail to recover her money. Karma works both ways
sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do...
is blackmailing a thief and abuser as worse as blackmailing that person?
I would say the first one is worse and eventhough OP should not have done it, her dad was way worse!
No your not the Ahol it's your father 😂😄😃🥰🤩🙃😘🎛️😀
This whole story, blah blah blah
I'm sorry you are in the position you are in, but think you should have listened to your husband. First mistake, you let yourself be pulled in by a man that left you sitting out in the cold., And when he sees you he doesn't recognize you. He's shown you in every way that you don't mean anything to him. Why would you trust a man who did that? As soon as you helped him he discarded you again. when you needed help he laid it at the feet of his woman. All you did was put more stress on you. Being kind is one thing, but being a floor mat is something else all together. You were and are blessed, don't throw it away.
She is playing the victim and being criminal for a petty revenge, I would argue that she's no better than her father after that.
OMG! I thought I was the only person who thought OP had mentioned anything else about when she was seven……..she didn’t focus on the fact that she beaten the odds.she is a teacher, she has a nice husband, she has a child but most of all she had a auntie and uncle that was there for her! There are so many kids out there that don’t get half of that and the proof was Toby! Lets thank God for your blessings. Even with all that said OP father would have never got a penny from me especially because I was pregnant! OP was also wrong because she didn’t disclose this information to her husband. IMO because she thought she was going to get pats on the back!
She did ONE thing to someone who (debatable ) deserved it
compaired to a father who abused his kid for years and then abandom it ..steal from ppl ..steal from OP ..tricked many ppl..ext
And for some reason that is the same level?
I would disagree
@@virtualshoppers6633 So because she ended up good her abuae was not as bad or we should ignore it?
Right!
Her dad was a pc of sh*t
@@robertx8020 To me she just proved that she's a bad person capable of bad things.
@@HauggyfulNO, she proved herself HUMAN, and even the best of humans are capable, when pushed far enough, of doing unsavory things. I don't fault her at all.
The saddest thing about this story is that there is no NHS and people do not get health care as a human right.
She spends all the emergency money leaving them and her son vulnerable and says she's proud cause she "forgave" her dad 🙄🙄🙄, dumb is too mild for her
Im laughing at OPs pain. I hate weak ppl.
I'm not surprised that you love abusers
.... Why does this guy choose to look like that?
PLOTTING 4 STATE 2 GIVE. “””. FULL. “””. REFUND AFTER STATING PAYMENT WAS A LOAN 💵 . UNTIL APPROVAL 4 TREATMENT. BEING BROKE AUTOMATICALLY GIVES FATHER 100%. FULL TREATMENT PAID 4 WITHOUT HAVING 2 EVER PAY BACK. THEY HAVE BEEN PLAYING YOU FROM DAY 1
yeah, but the father was not broke, and OP did not know that until she went to him to ask for her money back for her husband's surgery.
Your Caps-lock button seem to be broken 😋
Are you making up these stories because I find it funny that everyone has so much money or someone always going to college. Damn I know life can be hard but this shit is getting out of hand now.