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@@CUSELİSFANand I have a lot of work to do with my work and I will be able 😜😜😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 😮J
@@saraw6710Tks Sara I love your comment. I am celibate for years and it's getting easier and I don't do it deliberately, takes a lot of self control a strong moral believe. I haven't met anyone that I felt a connection and I avoid dark places. Lol
What a nice toxically positive statement. Just that it goes completely out the window when a woman decides to mess you up through false accusations, biased divorce and alimony laws. I admire your optimism though.
I agree with this gentleman. While it's natural to be attracted to others, we also have the ability to choose not to cheat. This is why both men and women need to hold themselves accountable. We have a choice.
Widowed for 12 years now. Tried dating for awhile and was totally unprepared for how aggressive and angry men are now days. Came close to being assaulted in the parking lot by my date as he walked me to my car following a meetup. I have been berated and bullied on dating websites by men I have gracefully turned down, because our interests were not aligned or distance was an issue. They will not take no for an answer. I have accepted the fact that I am better off alone. Sold my house, everything I owned and have been living in the south of France for a year now. Never been happier!
@@williamclayton9566 I have not met a woman, who didn't have at least few similar experiences like this woman. No matter how much you love to blame women for being abused, it doesn't change the fact, that the abuser is to blame.
Perhaps you're going for the wrong guys. And as women get older, their dating value will diminish. Sadly, it is the world we live in sis. From a guy expert is seduction skills
That is very true. It is so hard to watch a podcast from Bill Maher, because he just can't listen to anyone else than himself for longer than 30 seconds and even shorter if he disagrees.
He totally listens and you can see the cogs spinning in his brain as the speaker is explaining. as opposed to a person who already has a deciding agenda where they try to steer the conversation to said agenda.
Women are not told about the dangers of marriage and the harm they face from a male partner. We have been sold on the fantasy wedding followed by happily ever after; however, the movies never get to the reality of what comes after the wedding which is the reality that most men want their woman to mold herself around his interests and friends and to forget her aspirations. In fact many men are not comfortable with their wife’s friends or family. It is stressful to have to consistently divide yourself between your husband’s expectations and the expectations of friends, family and work. It is astonishing that more women don’t go off the rails under the stress of taking care of everyone. Any woman who has an attentive and loving partner is extraordinarily lucky because it is a rarity.
The truth and root cuase of this is The Bible states that women are NOTHING without a man. The only thing that makes us valuable is the man we are chained to. Afterword the indentured slavery begins. He owns your health and well being, he owns your uterus. he owns your ability to even be taken seriously.
As a woman, after my 2nd failed marriage, I accepted that it’s not in the cards for me to have a happy successful marriage and that marriage for me is not worth the cost/benefit ratio.I’ve been single for the last 7 yrs and able to finally focus on things that matter to me.
I hear you, sister. Happily enjoying my sons and grandchildren without any care about their narcissistic father. I travel and learn foreign languages and I engage in politics and taking care of my health and wellbeing.
Yes ladies, unfortunately men benefit more from marriage. I hate to sound so utterly pessimistic but in my case this is true. Sometimes I wish I had a companion but then I remember all the many sacrifices I would have to make of my time and my personal space. I snap back into reality real quick! lol
More women should spread awareness against getting married! Clearly, it is a patriarchal ploy to control and enslave women! And this is an unnatural and abnormal concept to begin with!
“Truth exists independently wether it supports your ideology or not” - this is something we have to keep reminding ourselves and each other about because there is a war on truth and science.
there is this saying in Poland: "Truth is like an a55hole -- everyone has one". Example: there are medical doctors, scientists, dieteticians who claim eating eggs is good for you. And there are medical doctors, scientists and dieteticians who claim it is bad for you. Both camps have a plenty of sciences behind their backs. Plenty of research papers. Like tons. And this is easy topic like, you know, eating freaking eggs. You really think it won't be possible to find a scientist (Dr Robert Sapolsky from Stanford University comes to mind) who is also an evolutionary psychologist and will have exactly opposite opinions? Starting with being Marxist (Dr. Sapolsky is marxist). So... for every scientist stating A is true I can find you a scientist claiinng A is false. And that's the only thing that is true in science. Because, as you noticed, science is part of the ideological wars. Scientist are humans, not only with their own opinions and values that can be opposite from those of their peers, but also, as humans, they can be bought. Research can be bought. Like easily. If you make science your god you are always complacent too, you are hugely manipulated. Money talks. Democratic think tanks pay to scientists well. Republican think tanks pay to scientists well. Corporations pay scientists so well they were able to scientifically state for decades smoking cigarettes is safe. You are not trusting science. You are trusting people with opinions who are very well paid for. By whom is always the most important question. Who pays this guy? A think tank? A podcast producer with certain demographic interested in hearing certain "truths"? Where does his money come from? Dr Gad Saad here is net worh $54 milion!!! 54 milion dollars. Who pays him that is the only question you need to know to understand HIS science. The whole system is corrupt to the core and we need a revolution!
Populism and polarisation on the rise in like every western country... and we know the nondemocratic nations try their best to archieve just that. How is the media not picking up on that... SPECIALLY in the US I mean oh god I'm happy to live in Berlin
@@Darth_Bateman why do you say that? Don't take comment into account that are overly emotional and/or visible uneducated(haven't watched the video even). If you do that then there are really great comments in this section :pppp
I’m not sure why the TH-cam algorithm put this video in my suggested, as I’ve never heard of you or watched a single clip. Then when I saw it was basically 3 hours long I ALMOST passed on watching, but something told me to watch. Boy, am I THRILLED I did! What a fascinating man, and an equally fascinating discussion! Bravo to both of you!
This whole channel is fantastic. We need more grounded discussion that isn't wrapped up in hysteria and politicizing these conversations because there can't be productive discourse if all we ever hear from are people on radical ends of the spectrum. Those people radicalize others, whereas these discussions create more neutral ground oriented around actually exploring the issue together, gathering information, and assessing with what remains grounded in factual basis-not what "feels" right, but what is objective and strives for correctness over ego.
You can never go back now, you’re an addict like the rest of us! So often over the years I’ve thought to “just dip into one of Steven’s podcasts for 15 mins” . Three hours later I’m still here! 😄
This a beautiful example on how you can have an intelligent conversation without agreeing on the subject while also being respectful to both parties involved.
Part of the reason why it's so civilised, might also be that Steven isn't necessarily disagreeing with his guest personally. Just for the sake of the podcast, he is playing the devil's advocate every now and then.
If a man or a woman finds a compatible partner - both healthy physically emotionally mentally spiritually then they do not need other partners. We were together 35 years, deep, loving, adventurous life.
I know my husband was diagnosed as being self-destructive due to his drug and alcohol abuse problems before we were married. Because he was treated and stopped, I assumed he was “cured”. Nothing was further from the truth! He simply projected that self-hate onto me. He tried to eliminate me financially and physically, and participated in every kind of abuse of the institution of marriage we were in that he could. It’s taken me all of the subsequent years to recover from this. Never, never get involved with a self-destructive person! They will destroy you, as well.
Definitely 😁 true & I never been married nor pregnant ever in my life, but been Targeted by groups of people & Definitely 😁 was with self destructive men & saw the patterns after a while & was Divinely guided away from them because I saw plenty of examples of where it could lead & I said oh hell Nah 🚫 Bahaha 🤪 NOPE 😂 Definitely 😁 NOT 🚫 doing trauma repetition with anyone nor being miserable with another person,although they still destroyed my life, I let them go & rebuilt my life & headed & see the patterns so clearly & when I see it everywhere, I say oh hell Nah 🚫 Bahaha 🤪 Definitely 😁 NOT 🚫 doing that
Agreed. Though he missed an opportunity when he failed to ask the professor to define Communist/Socialist/Marxist and how that applies to Kamala Harris and then allowed more biased discourse before attempting to apply a little brake pedal.
Ignác Semmelweis, Hungarian 🇭🇺 medical doctor, "The saviour of mothers", has a university named about him! en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ignaz_Semmelweis en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ignaz_Semmelweis
HAHA. I fit so much of this description, I am a 5'10", 37 year old woman, starting my PhD. I do not make education nor height a limiter in my dating pool.... but so many men I have met do not seem to like that I am taller, more educated, or make more money. I'm totally happy with a short king that has drive, is honest, loyal, communicates, and open to growth.
I lived in desparate confusion for 28 years until he died. He thought I was cute when I was desparate. Now I am free and live with two beautiful cats and I'm happy.
ABSOLUTELY. The most dangerous in my life, the one who sabotaged me in numerous ways. And, he was always depressed, secretive, lived a separate, secret life. Excellent ACTOR. 💔
The vast majority of husbands are not like that. The whole reason for forming a female-male bond is so that the male can protect and provide and the women nurture and multiply. So framing it like that makes you believe that most husbands are bad for wives, and that is factually untrue. Was it not for men protecting and providing for women, then human-kind would have gone extinct, hundreds of thousands of years ago.
I am going through a divorce with one and he shared all those behaviors. It is sickening what they are capable doing to the person/people they "love". On the bright side, my son said I look younger today, so it is clear I am getting healthier away from him!
As a survivor of domestic violence at the hands of my ex-husband, I thank you PROFOUNDLY for this! Dear Dr. Saad, THANK YOU for your work and your effort and attention to this subject. I cannot even express this in this comment. I will be using this wisdom in my decision making going forward. Please never stop. Bless you. - Karinna
Good morning how are you? I just want to Ask a question? Your husband just woke up , triggered by a saying or a behavior and beat you for no reason ? I really understand how someone hurt the person he loves ?
@@Nissa_Kr Hello i'm not in that situation i really want to understand how, why , what kind of abuse a women Can be suffered by his husband and why a man does that for a women hé prétends to be in love. If you don't mind what kind of abuse do you suffer?
@@patricedenis42because for infantile person its easy to relief all their pain and unsatisfaction in life at someone who's weaker or dependent. And you can always find a reason to justify your bad actions. I deeply understand it cause we always tend to be abusers when we are in a position of power. You have to put efforts to not be unfair to someone you have power over.
13:06 THANK YOU. I went into my work with prisoners for many reasons, one of them being my own experience with severe abuse. I was quite literally enslaved by an older man at 14, and because I’ll never be able to ask my abuser “why?”, I went into prisoner work. I’ve come out the other side understanding human behavior better than I ever have, and I’ve been able to let go of 90% of my anger that’s been holding me back. Wanting to study bad things doesn’t mean you are in favor or support bad things. I get accused of trauma bonding with offenders just because I see them as human beings (because they are). I have matured so much because of my experiences. I even joke about “all my friends are murderers” because I’ve met some wonderful people on the inside. What people don’t realize is these horrible things that happen in society ALL come from everyday humans. A true monster is EXTREMELY rare. There’s only ONE person I had to refuse to work with, but otherwise, I was treated with the utmost respect by those on the inside (including their families). And on that note, they ALL have families, jobs, dreams, regrets, betrayals-just like you. They’re ALL just like you and I, and we’re ALL capable of hurting others. Until we can end the cycle of abuse, the pain will continue, and it is my firm belief that the only way forward for us ALL is through compassion. No one is immune to the human condition. No one.
I had an ex-boyfriend that never bothered to be full time employed like I was. He also would sometimes drink too much and I suspect he did light drugs. Toward the end my respect for him as a human being was long gone and I found myself hitting him sometimes because I knew I could get away with it. He wasn't a mean drunk and he didn't want to end the relationship and go back to his mom's house. Even just on the social aspect being with him was like having a rock keeping you down. Financially it was a disaster. Emotionally he was also a drain, a downer and I would stay longer at work not to go back to him. I ended everything eventually when something finally made me wake up and smell the coffee. But to this day I still remember how easy it was to lift my hand and hit him and feel no guilt. Do I condone violence? Hell, no. I hate the husbands I know who hit my friends. So why did I hit this ex? Cause I could do it with no punishment. Hard realisation to swallow. But that's what it was. I'd get angry and frustrated and a good slap made me feel momentarily better. It's just scarily easy to do bad things. Some of us would never cross that line. But lots of people would.
So eliminating abusive as well as well meaning yet willfully naive/ignorant parents would prevent majority of abuse. Put surveillance inside of ALL churches, where majority of child SO's BLEND in. Force young adults to take parenting schooling. And refresh testing and requirements every stage of their offsprings development. Separate predatory abuse inclined from the rest of society to live amongst themselves, isolate to a dedicated island , with completely separate internet, networks, banking, media, etc. IDK how do we end the Abuse you mention? Men will Never stop, Abusers will never stop, women will never stop willingly, who are abusers.
That "Moral Compass" that some people would follow and some won't follow is called "The Ten Commandments", e.g. You shall not Kill, You shall not commit Adultery, etc. The Ten Commandments of God are like the Traffic Lights and Road Signs. Not stopping on Red Lights and not following Road Signs can create Chaos and Accidents on the Road. The same as not following the Ten Commandments of God. It can create Stress, Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Hatred, etc. There are only two places that LawBreakers can end up: In Hospital or in Jail.
I resisted podcasts for a long time. This podcast and only a couple others can keep my interest. He's a fabulous interviewer! The long I've watched Steven the more I recognize how create his team is and we'll he is at listening and being present.
yeah there were some aspects of the convo I felt the professor was over-speaking, esp the topic around 2 hours 14 mins. Humility of ancillary subjects is important. Sociology is a separate science that needs to be taken seriously, however it's more related to the Economic Sciences than Evolutionary.
I agree though I think Steven could have pushed harder. I think he missed a good opportunity by not asking the professor to define Communist/Socialist/Marxist (which is what he equated Kamala Harris to). Where do people get the idea that Socialist = Communist? They are not the same and there are many European countries with Socialist govts. that have a much higher standard of living than we have here in the U.S. and certainly most other places in the world.
@@watchtheduck1yeah I lost all respect I had for Gad. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that “smart” people can be so fucking stupid. And even falling for the brain dead “cackling Kamala” term.
@@watchtheduck1many socialist governments are based on communist principles and follow Marxist ideas as well as totalitarian ideas with limited free market (instead they allow government approved corporations) and limited freedom of speech. A number of governments in South America, Africa and even Europe are examples of this. The European model of socialism that some Americans love to push is the Scandinavian model, fully embraces the free market economy, capitalism, individual liberty and self sovereignty within a democratic government set against the backdrop of a monarchial tradition. We should not want to emulate the destruction of the marxist socialist state.
We definitely don't have any communist party's and governments in Europe. We have free health care and relatively cheap education and some welfare programmes. But no one wants to a communist state. We are for free markets and democracy.
Absolutely brilliant conversation, loved it. No fear in being cancelled, no glorifying of toxic behaviour. well balanced and interesting. Steve doesnt pretend to know ot all and asks the questions we would too. Big plus, he lets each guest speak!!!
I have had two failed marriages and decided to risk making myself vulnerable again because I knew I deserved happiness I’ve now been with the most wonderful man for the past 16 years It did take us 8 years of keeping separate households before I was confident with combining our households and getting married though In saying that I can see how being single has its advantages and marriage isn’t for everyone
This conversation should be mandatory in all schools to be heard and discussed. Thank you Steven for inviting the professor and sharing this video with everyone!
I actually learned most of this in my human sexuality and anthropology classes in college. But yeah you're right, it should be incorporated more into public school education.
I can see your point but relationships in any regard, offer the greatest opportunity for growth of our own character, whether the relationship is good or bad.
Truly amazed at Steven’s charismatic way of making it clear that he absolutely was interested in his guests views but does not necessarily agree with his entire philosophy. Well done Steven
I third this comment. It’s very clear that while the guest was able to make distinctions and examples that made sense in the evolution of human behaviors he identifies with Trump to such a degree that all the science in the world that he has given so much of his time to didn’t matter.
The first 10 minutes of the podcast, clearly mentions this conversation is based on evolutionary reasoning and yet the amount of people in these comments feeling triggered is amazing
Thank you!! You have restored my faith in humanity. This comment section is insane. I can’t believe the stupidity of people 🤯 it’s actually really depressing!
😭🥹❤ thank you for sharing this. I pray for this very thing for my children everyday. May they use the loving discernment and wisdom they were forced to learn “too early” as they become adults. It seems the further their father is from them, the better they do in life.
@@didntchaknow as long as you've reinforced in them to believe in themselves and to respect others, they'll do fine, but if their father is as you say he is, he will haunt and hound you guys, you have to be prepared by having a solid career, legal papers, a good lawyer and police that you are friends with. He will want all of you to doubt you can live independent of him.
Omg thank you for sharing this!! This makes me proud. As a mother to a teenager, I’ve tried to reinforce mental strength in him when it comes to his dad’s wants and desires for him. I always let my child choose his life path unlike his dad. I think he has learned a lot from my guidance. Hoping it sticks with him. 🙏🏽
Dr Gad Saad, first time I am introduced to him. In this conversation he has stimulated my mind, he has challenged my thinking, in fact my mind has never been taken this far. I also think the story of Honey badger (Ratel) fearless animal, was needed. I will have this podcast on repeat 👏🏾 Thank you Steven for introducing us to these legends 👊🏾
Do you mind sharing what secret? I hope all is well btw. I’m single and got out of a 15 year on and off “trauma bonded” relationship as they say. I refuse to settle just bc I don’t want to be lonely. I really hope all abused women find the strength and courage to leave bc this is not the life we are supposed to live.
I love how he is confident enough to ask questions until the slowest person in the room gets it. When he clearly doesn’t know the answer. Yet is so likable, you can’t judge him or see him in a negative light. Rare and brilliant combination for hosting a show with a large audience. You just can’t help but love him.
Untill after 2h45m.. Oh man I love this episode so much untill he starts strongly endorsing Trump for "speaking out" yeah bro that was like 7 years ago cool, now he's just a polarising populistic real danger to Democracy but here Dr. Saad is saying he would vote 10x for Trump, bruh That man is a proven criminal, saying that the law is fake/acting not independent and a real friend of Putin. Proving he has low political education. I will just stop there and remember the actual good content untill then. But man that ruined the aftertaste....
He’s had guests on before who have answered the same questions before, he knows the answer. He just wants everyone to be on the same page. I also know non-native English speakers listen to the podcast so I’m guessing him asking what certain words are helps them out
I knew immediately that the answer was a step parent. For many years Dr. Laura begged, begged biological divorced parents not to remarry until their kids grew up.
My instinct as a separated Mum is to absolutely, under no circumstances bring another Man into my home because of the boys. I do not understand women who are brave enough to do it. I cannot afford to risk it, three boys would be annihilated by a step dad.
@@Footplanet34 That’s not a guarantee; there’s plenty of great step parents out there who are even better than children’s biological parents. It’s about vetting them patiently before letting them into your own and your children’s personal lives.
@Footplanet34 that is ridiculous. There are fabulous step parents around, and it comes down to how you form the relationship with them too. Kids need parental guidance and role modeling from both sexes, and it doesn't hurt for kids to learn their not the world's most important person.
@@Footplanet34I’m 40 yrs old and the best thing my mom ever did for me was give me my stepdad. We butted head when I was a teenager but it would happen if it was my bio dad because of…..puberty. I was a widow with a 6yr old son, remarried. He is 12 now and if I died tomorrow I can go in peace because this man loves him and that is the best feeling in the world.
Hands down one of the most erudite, scientific and eloquent podcasts about the most critical topics of our times. Loved Dr Gad's untempered and undiluted reasoning and the fluidity with which he backs his statements. The podcast was well done and transitioned smoothly between topics. The last 1 hour was powerful! 😊
He lost me when he turned a serial liar, traitor, sexual preditor, and international criminal into a honey badger just doing what a honey badger does. Dr. Saad didn't do his homework.
@Amuliask Wow! I love ❤️ the way you write. Most great writers are readers. What are you reading at this moment (by choice)? Which modern book have you appreciated the most to the point whereas you would mot hesitate to read it a second or third time?
@Amuliask Ever saw a talented artist's work, heard a beautiful voice or song, or saw an ice skating performance or ballet performance so beautiful it nearly brought you to tears? That feeling my friend encapsulates the power of your writing style. I have never read a YT comment written at a doctorate level. Thank you for sharing your advanced intellect with me and the world.
We should’ve had the Last question first and it would’ve saved many a lot of time. The guest didn’t answer the question just started talking about honey badgers….typical right wing obfuscation when they don’t have data or evidence. Quite possibly Stephen’s worst guest in a recent line of Wingnuts. I’m Rapidly losing interest in the podcast, which is sad.
Well, what you are experiencing is cognitive dissonance, basically, science vs your left wing ideology. Clean your brain from this fashistic feces and watch again. Maybe you can learn sth. @@RandomUser25122
Yeah, I liked Steven’s ability to push back, and I really wish intersex would’ve been brought up in terms of biological markers, because being intersex sort of dismantles the idea that there is either biological females or males - when there is in fact those who are in between the two.
Intersex was an old fashioned term used before we found out that disorders in sexual function affects either the large ovum carriers or small oven carriers. Male or female.
“Imagine the level of pathological narcissism that you must experience where you say: the need for me to reaffirm my identity supersedes the rights of women” 2:24:18 ‘nuff said 😤💯
Womens rights are illusionary, women can't physically enforce rules, meaning the only way they have rights is because men agree that they do. If men disagree suddenly. They don't anymore. IE. See most of the middle east in the 80s
@@Aronoel31You know you can not make accurate blanket statements on generalizations like this. I'm a Trump supporter and can say your assumption is totally wrong. But it's difficult to have a fruitful conversation if you're going to come from this position.
Even I ‘unhesitantly’ say this is one of the most intellectually stimulating and open minded conversations I’ve heard in DOAC. I stuck through the entire 3 hrs because I know this is important. Thank you Steve. 🙏🏻
@@rissaroybal I was amazed at how much I both agreed and disagreed with him. However, he lost my respect at the end of the interview with his despicable language regarding Kamala Harris (not because I think she is beyond reproach but because she is very obviously not a “moron” and his calling her that only reflects poorly on his ability to have a coherent dispute) and his lack of understanding of his own personal biases.
@@sherylkalatharaHowever, for you to be completely honest and not hypocritical, you must acknowledge that the interviewer was challenging him in a very biased and with a critical assumption for an extended period of time. I'm not surprised that the guest raised the anti so to speak to put him in his place.
@@chrismilligan3511 Quite the contrary, the interviewer remained calm and deliberate. His questions were excellent and delivered with empathy; hence why his demeanor and language didn’t change while the other man’s language and delivery became increasingly coarse and his temperament fiery. Perhaps because his biases match yours, you have a perception of hostility. Mine was shown in this segment.
Steven you are the best interviewer on TH-cam. You are so measured and in control during the entirety of the interview. This man went off the rails at the end and you kept control of the interview while still allowing him to show who he truly is. I’m so proud and hopeful that young people today are so empathetic and compassionate to others on their individual journeys.
OMG! Thank goodness I listened to my insticts and never remarried or brought a new partner into our family home. Dr. Gad has just validated that decision I made long ago.
@@BrandonMlotshwawas about to say that...I realised that for myself sometime ago that everytime I did something based on validation, I went back to start zero...it's like we forgot invention...you can have your own invention of decisions and choices..
I also think what he meant to say about being a tall educated woman was that our looks and intellect alone weeded out 85% of the dating opportunities of which men were uneducated themselves, week minded, intimidated, low self esteem. Which means we dodged the ones which could have been domineering and controlling. The abusive types.
Thank you. I’m 5’10” with a Masters degree and over 40. I took all he said with a grain of salt. Huge generalization. Plus now that I know his political views, I’m wishing I hadn’t watched any of this interview.
@@deborahday1786 I’m not offended by his views. He just puts to much of an emphasis on sex being the end all the bees all. lol. And that’s what a lot of men do. Where women, not just tall ones want a quality and diverse of interest in a relationship as well as protection and good genes. Educated and intelligent is good genes. Being capable of thinking beyond the tip of their penis. We dodged the animalistic controlled ones.
@@Saavys yes 19 years. I had 2 years of singleness in my 20s by choice because my high school sweetheart past away. I always was asked out. I have gotten asked out throughout my marriage many times as well, if people don’t know me and my husband. I’ll add that I’m 46 and it still happens.
He is definitely saying it’s the woman’s choice. I’ve found that to be correct. We eliminate those who don’t meet our standards… and if we have gotten to a place in life where there are very few men who exceed our status, it definitely narrows the field. Women have a very hard time dating down while men have almost no preference in a woman’s status (intellect/socioeconomic)
I live in that same purity bubble. Time and time again, I am stunned by people's behavior because I would never, in my wildest dreams, do what they do.
This explains alot! 😂 My ex was Kenyan. One time on new years eve, we ran out of 🍾 about 10 minutes shy of midnight. He ran about a mile to the nearest grocery store, bought more 🍾, & ran back home before the ball dropped at midnight. 🤣🤣🤣
My HS bf and I were engineering majors. I went on finish and work and industry and he kept failing classes due to him constantly playing video games. I broke it off once I realized we grew apart and I didn’t want to be with a man child. After we broke up he stalked me for 3 months and assaulted me at gunpoint. He nearly killed me. The most dangerous time for a woman is when she leaves or while she’s pregnant. Very sad.
Exactly! Infidelity suspicion is not the main cause according to the data here in Brazil at least. Most deaths happen because the guy doesn’t accept being left, even when he’s a cheater himself.
I am scientist working with indigenous people in South America, there are cases of polyandry, that is one woman married to several men. This is in traditional hunter- gatherer societies, where having more than one husband is super practical, as your family simply has more food if more than one man is out to hunt for you. Both polygamy types are parallel present in such cases. In these societies, jealousy is an unvalued feature of male behaviour, as well as male biological paternity is far less relevant, a man raises kids even together with other men, it is irrelevant in such families who the biological dad is. These societies are more rare but they do exist even today. In the case I know more about, the husbands did not have to be brothers. The fact that hunter-gatherer societies are more like to show this pattern, also speaks to evolutionary relevance, since all human societies have been hunter-gatherer tribes at some point in time.
Glad you brought it up. I am from a continent where polyandry was also acceptable in some sub-cultures, yet this guest speaks as if he has scoured the world and came to an absolute conclusion that spans the entire globe and human species.
This is the best one EVER! Its important and refreshing to hear different perspectives even if you don’t agree with the angle. We are humans with different upbringings and life experiences, and that shapes our thoughts! Beautifully original!! 🙌🏽
The fact that I knew instantly the answers to raised questions proves to me how much attention I pay to these podcasts. Thanks for these meaningful conversations!
1:22:45 'Kindness and intelligence are universal traits equally desired by both men and women." - yet, there's so little of either to be found in today's world...
DESIRE is the key word. Many people desire but they themselves are not kind. Hypocrisy is a very human trait. Can dish out but can't take it. Can desire but can't give it. Sadly it becomes a sadistic cycle.
I came across this interview w months after its release: I have told 3 people about it and I intend to replay the whole or portions of it again and again. I love this interview: God bless you Stephen for having the wherewithal to read Dr. Saad's books and to have him on your show. Please continue the good work that you do. Ileen from Canada.
We can see what happens with couples when they get older; often the woman being overworked, overwhelmed, working outside of the home and taking on child bearing, child rearing, cooking, cleaning, washing, housework, shopping and the mental load start hitting the wall. And as a result she begins to resemble his mother rather than his mate. This is when his desire for her starts to wane and then pending infidelity and divorce. I also advise women to not overwork themselves when they can hire help. Also don't marry a man than cannot afford to hire help and only wants Her to take on all of the household load.
This is the exact reason I divorced early. It wasn't a soft place for me and I didn't want to be haggard at 40. I knew if I took care of myself I could live the life I wanted. ❤
Also advise men to step up and participate in the housework, the shopping, the cooking, etc.. Many can’t afford to hire someone, and, some that can afford it, don’t want to spend money on something they can do themselves. It’s so interesting that the onus is always on the woman and the man skates.
It’s also deeply unattractive for a woman to have a parasitic man-Child to have to support, without reciprocation. I don’t fancy over grown boys either, so the disaffection is mutual.
Great conversation! Even if you disagree with some parts, the professor is superrrr smart and articulates his thoughts well and Steve did a great job pushing back and playing devils advocate! I watched the entire 3 hours and could’ve watched more. Thanks mate!
Me and my husband, 38 and 39 years old . Married for 20 years, together for 22. Both last born. Only one’s in both our families to leave our home town. Both married first out of our siblings. Waited longest ( 12 years ) before having our own children. Usual peaks and troughs of life but very happily married and constantly work to grow together and learn new things …..lots from your fabulous pod cast ❤ Hope this information can help with your research. Keep up the good work Stephen ……as long as you enjoy it!! your service is very much appreciated!!
You survived for this long because you left your home.Out of my 3 siblings I am only one who still have family.I left when I was 20 and this saved me.Meantime my siblings still trying to emotionally fixed my mother.
54:40-54:50🎯 is the reason many men try so hard to “humble women” and/or sabotage them when they’re elevating in life. Insecure people believe that if their partner levels up, they themselves will no longer measure up. “I have to keep her beneath me in order to keep her.”
My husband does that ten million fold...my life is trying to find glimpses of who I was...and I'm trapped financially and I listened and humbled myself so he could take over everything including my finances as I lost my confidence in my calling...my work...trying to climb back up but feel it might be too late...
Yes that’s what my husband said and that’s what his father showed him! As my husband told me, end in the end it will happen what I want, I was out! My love for him died! Something I didn’t want but it happens after I saw the truth!
Just one of many good bits: "Science is the highest form of play". This was expressed in such a humble way, replied to, then quickly considered in an even more humble way. Thank you both for this excellent conversation.
I can't believe he has that many different types of friends and still calls them friends. I would never be friends to someone who cheats on their spouse.
I was surprised as well. I had a group of all-male "friends" from university (I'm female in an engineering field with few women). I liked them, they were smart, driven and outgoing. I got invited to party with them as if I was one of the boys. After witnessing how they cheated repeatedly on their girlfriends in parties, and how everyone seemed fine with it, I lost all respect and stopped hanging out with them. The last straw was one of them hitting on me drunk when he had introduced me to his girlfriend and future wife barely a few hours before.
@@belenlg5978that's standard behavior for lots of men. We've buried the ability to navigate the war of the sexes. Trying to use rules and regulations to scrub clean human behavior.
Love this episode. What makes Steven's podcast so intriguing is that Steven often comes from the perspective of a "student". He invites so-called experts in their perspective field, and he just fires one questions after another. It's Steven's natural "curiosity" that makes his "conversations" so engaging. This feels different when you listen to an expert interviews (or have a conversation) with another expert. I love the "evolutionary" psychology take on why we behave the way we behave/think. Just one observation. Since the last born baby has higher chance to explore ideas, I wonder what the effect is when most parents only have 1 child these days.
Am like others surprised that I watched the whole interview. It did not feel like 3 hours. Thank you Steven and team. After listening to your interviews, I have been more motivated to live healthy. Your Podcast has literally had health benefits to my life. You and your team are making a difference in this world 😀
I can't remember when was the last time I watched an entire interview from the very beggining to the end in a single watch. Absolutely top tier content. Love your work man, amazing guest, it was a pleasure to see!
Major respect to this guest for being unapologetically true to himself, his genuine beliefs, and also scientific truths. That’s becoming more and more rare.
His genuine beliefs are hateful and Nazi-like. He’s the kind of person his family fled from. He’s been on the receiving end yet still can’t help but literally fawn over the fascist trying to destroy America
That and when he calls Harris a Communist while all the way through the conversation he's a stickler for precise terminology. Disagree with her policy all you want but calling her a Communist is objectively ridiculous.
I disagree with a good amount of his personal views, but I enjoyed you picking his brain. There is no doubt he is an Intelligent man with some interesting perspectives.
I loved it! Well done for inviting him! I might not agree with every single thing he said or thought, but it was a very compelling and though provoking listening experience.👋
@@Stellar76 Yep. He him self spoke about that level of self awareness and ability to adapt, but he was speaking to him like he was 10 at times. I found it annoying.
@@afroaffirmation I noticed that! He also tried to throw Steven off-balance whenever pushed by bringing up something that only someone with a niche interest would know enough about to even have an opinion on. He's clever, but not near as clever as he thinks he is...
Oh, it's so refreshing to see a conversation where you see some moments when people are disagreeing at the same time as they look with admiration to the other person!
I really enjoyed this interview Dr Gad is an extremely interesting guest and I will be watching this interview again to pick up on anything may have missed thanks to you both
As a 23-year-old male who has been in a committed relationship for two years, I can confidently say that the idea that all men are “dangerous” or “hardwired to cheat” is a massive oversimplification. While there may be some evolutionary factors that influence male behavior, sure. Human actions in relationships are shaped by a much more complex blend of biology, psychology, social norms, and personal experiences. In my case, I have no intention of ever betraying or leaving my partner. This is my third serious relationship, so I’m not just viewing things through the lens of a “honeymoon phase” - I’ve experienced heartbreak before and know what it’s like to be in different stages of love. It’s important to avoid generalisations that paint all men with the same brush, especially since many of us are fully capable of being faithful, respectful, and committed in relationships. Attributing male behavior solely to biology or isolated statistics ignores the impact of culture, personal choice, and individual circumstances. Such stereotypes can distort discussions around gender roles, relationships, and what it means to have healthy behaviors. Human behavior, after all, is far more nuanced than these generalizations suggest.
I agree, but all of this rationalization goes off a window because so many women dealt with bad men, and other men who defend bad men. Personal experience goes first and honestly it's a privilege to speak from a position when you never deal with abuse personally and heard only from other sources.
@@its_all_in_the_feeling8448 Lol, well, I'm in my 30s, and I agree. The guy in the video is a grifter. He has a Ph.D. In marketing, not evolution, and he’s selling a book… go figure. This is obviously just a self-promo tour for selling his book.
Yeah you're 23 and so idealistic, especially about yourself. Your mid life crisis is ahead of you, I genuinely hope you stay true to younger self. Good luck.
This just reminded me of something. Me and my husband just finished reading The 21 Former Doctor Secrets by Rachl Morgan. Everything starts with health!
As a university professor and social scientist-protect this man!! I have been “alone” and overtly and covertly shunned in academia for 25 years. Thank you for this interview.
Hence don't approach guys, go about your business. I say this 10mins after I was approached by a gorgeous girl on the bus, that I wanted to approach as soon as she came to the bustop before we boarded. She asked if I believed in God 😂, I was so disappointed thinking she was my future wife....whcih she could've been. Mind you business guys
I didn’t like that this guest’s reaction saying it was night + the men were probably drinking. He should watch the one of the NYC woman walking to work in the morning. It was actually worse becuz they were aggressively serious, very rude + persistent. As a very young woman in the late 80s I was groped, grabbed, stopped, yelled at to SMILE, hit-on then called a B for saying no. Hands running up my inner thigh becuz I was walking down subway stairs, hard things pressed up against me on crowded trains, touching, groups of guys talking about which one would come over + grab my butt. It was daily + all I was doing was going to work. So those videos are enraging. Want a GF? Be funny sweet + sincere. And kinda cute in ur own way. That’s The Key.
I love the bit about modulation and the “beautiful woman” example. It was so so important to add this for context. But let’s be clear. This does play into “me too”. That woman was being harassed while she was trying to mind her own business and get from A to B. Now if that’s a universal woman experience, and it’s bothersome, makes us feel unsafe, of course we’re going to take issue with it
14:25 the fact that every woman knew the answer to this and a smart man like Steven had to think about it speaks volumes…. Also reflects why men were so confused at women choosing “the bear” - truly astounding how out of touch men are to women’s reality
I'm a women and I chose the man. You can reason with a man, you can't with a bear. The women who chose a bear seem out of touch to me. Masculinity is protective, toxic femininity has erased true Masculinity and we are left with weak men who use violence as a form of control
This has to have been THE best interview/conversation you've ever done, imo. Thank you both for your respect, intelligence, thoughtfulness, and purity. Respect! 💙 from Tasmania, Australia 🇦🇺
36:40 I love that Steven does not hesitate a second to ask for the definition of "cadaver". A highly success and knowledgable person that has no problem with being perceived as "uneducated" for not knowing a word. He is just comfortable in the discussion being curious and asking things. He really wants to understand the topic. Much appreaciation for that man!
I was thinking the exact same thing when Steven asked the question about the cadaver. It humanizes him in the sense that we are aware he knows a lot and having the vulnerability to ask questions most would assume he knows. I enjoyed that exchange!
Him being so extreme in his views on American politics (especially when he himself isn't even American) towards the end of the conversation kinda soured me on what was otherwise a fairly interesting conversation
@thistles nope, you did not address my question so your comment is not helpful. I am looking for a video where she says that she is a Stalinist, Leninist, and Marxist. That is the claim. If you can't stick to the topic, I would appreciate not hearing from you.
@@mikeeinstein1 I don't know of an instance of her saying she's that combination using those words, but her background, her policy propositions, and her word choice clearly broadcast that she is. I didn't interpret his statement as a claim of something she literally said, so I wouldn't call it a lie, and it hardly discounts everything else he says. If that's your standard, you must only talk to birds. If you want to gatekeep the replies to your comment, maybe the comment section isn't the place for you.
It’s an honour to have such a distinguished gentleman as a fellow Canadian, Dr. Gad Saad. I listened to the entire interview and found it pleasing, informative, interesting… thank you both for your honest sharing and your respectfulness toward each other.
At 2hr ish and after mark. One thing that needed to be said is, if someone with robust science can group demographics to something that feels hurtful or offensive, it is not the truth that is offensive…it is the weaponising of the truth is the issue. No one gets to the crux of the matter, so they explain around the issue. Also history has taught us that some experts will falsely present scientific fact at the destruction of groups of people intentionally. To think in the way Dr Gaad is explaining of accepting fact , requires an evolutionary enlightenment of mankind. His points though valid, are in abstract isolation of the society he shares it with. He needs to apply the staircase concept when explaining it to a broader society, and just say grow a pair because that statement in itself indicates ignorance.
Started off well, with objectivity, data and scientific statistics and devolved into subjective opinion towards the end. I enjoyed it even if I find some of his views questionable or antiquated.
Those were my thoughts exactly. I loved hearing him talk about science, but the longer the podcast went, the more I started to pick apart his biases. It is clear that he does not like Muslims, which is understandable given his background. He thinks he is being "neutral" but what he thinks about them slips through the cracks. I found myself disagreeing more and more with him the more he spoke, and it's not that his opinions do not have scientific bases, but that there is a clear bias on what he is choosing to present, and the ideas that he is choosing to follow. Additionally, he seems to be pro-patriarchy, which is neither here nor there, but I would also like to hear the opinion of a woman in his field, because it seems like what he's saying is "things have been like this forever, so we should not go against that", however, that does not address the fact that women have always experienced a disadvantage under such a system, and just like capitalism and certain religions: everything in theory is great, but not so much in practice. Again, because we devolve into human bias. An additional observation I have is that this guy certainly thinks the rest of the population is as smart as he is, when he needs to understand that his IQ is way above the average, and holding people to his own standards of understanding, empathy, respect, intellectual capability, etc.; is very naive and frankly dangerous, especially when talking about freedom of speech and its consequences, which was definitely addressed, but not resolved, in the podcast.
You have a point with what you said about freedom of speech and the danger it poses if not regulated as we have to bear in mind that most of the population isn't highly intelligent to have nuanced or contextual discussions and most of the population doesn't have the high level of understanding and empathy to allow unregulated freedom of speech
What he says about Muslims is true he said where he is Jewish or not! Wow! I can also say the same and have same beliefs about Jews and claim they are true and valid! What scientist he is!
@@henriettahardiment-vu6yv I am sorry to hear it. It is said that the reason is unconscious to form a new family, but it still hurts. I hope you are able to forgive him and know you are worthy of much love!
Amazing guest! I don't think I ever sat all the way through a 3 hour podcast before. I have learned so much from Dr. Gad Saad without him going in depth. My curiosity has been sparked!
So grateful for your show! Your 7miion are so deserved. You respect your guests, you let them speak, you don’t constantly interject like so many podcasts. You are curious and you e maintained your focus on knowledge and expanding ours w amazing guests and you haven’t diluted w celebrities and the distractions of fame. THANK YOU SO MUCH! ❤❤❤ you’re a gem online.
Steven. You never cease to amaze me with your interviews. Amazing work. I found the whole discussion fascinating. Although I didn’t agree with some of the things mentioned, your technique allowed me to understand how he arrived at his way of thinking. Really interesting man to interview.
@@bobthebuilderhecanbuildit with the attitude she have towards man she better steer clear of men. no discent person wants to deal with the emotional baggage of his new partner, and this is exactly what her next man will have to deal with, because she cant grow up unfortunatly
My awe for Dr Saad as an academic turned into awe for Steven as a podcast host during the conversation’s hard-right turn into politics. It struck me as hypocritical that someone who fled persecution and describes himself as a free-speech absolutist except when directly inciting violence to others would openly defend the president’s actions on January 6th, 2021. I thought Steven did an exceptional job pushing back with questions and grateful that we got to see another side of Dr. Saad. This is a great episode nonetheless and serves as an important reminder that no one is perfect and everyone should determine their own opinions.
Do you even know what happened on Jan 6th 2021 as opposed to parroting what the media says about it. Were you there? If a person’s political views matter so much to you, you’ve already lost in the ability to learn science. The truth is independent of your ideology.
Right? He also seemed very concerned about laws and following them while clearly supporting a convicted fellon, like wtf?! Also Trump undeniably called to violence when saying "grab them by the P@=€y"(one of many examples). This DR has a selective memory to say the least and a deficient moral compass...
American Presidential politics seems to be a blind spot for Dr. Saad. Trump's character flaws are in direct conflict with what Dr. Saad says he values. The only thing he defended Trump over was the fact that he's a loose cannon and therefore might be 'scarier' to dictators around the world.
Thr feedback at the end is so deserved, Steve does such a great job at having a good open conversation with evry guest (except Boris, but it only shows how remarkably good the dialog all the rest of the time is)
This showed me that he still doesn't understand the majority of women. We just want a emotionally available, non-lazy man. That's it. Just pick up your shit and don't gaslight me. That's all. The money is just a bonus.
I felt this way when he said men have been taught by radical feminiat pressure policy to not approach women. I'm like... no one ever said don't approach PERIOD it is the asshole behaviour we don't want
Speak for yourself and your culture. That doesn’t apply to 90% of the women in the world. They have no choice but to seek a protector. What you’ve stated for yourself is so high on the Maslov’s hierarchy of needs. The western women are high up there. Rest of the world is trying to survive
Apparently “toxic masculinity” is just the “primal urge for paternity certainty”… the funny thing is that the statistics of father abandonment do not reflect this desperate desire to raise their child… Oh! Today we have DNA tests! Time to evolve! 😂😂
That was one of the things I disagree with him on. For someone who kept talking about modulation, he sure talked about masculinity like it's black and white. It's a matter of degrees. Nobody ever said a fireman going into a burning building to save someone is toxic. The guys in the video who kept approaching the lady walking down the street alone, in his words, they're "@$$holes." I think the difference is pretty obvious to.
Some people are misunderstanding the husband statistics. While true that around 55% of all female homicide victims (in the US) are killed by an intimate partner (not necessarily husband), this makes it sound like a huge percentage of men are inherently dangerous to their partners. It ignores the fact that the VAST majority of women will not be homicide victims to begin at ~0.002%. Compared that to 20% who die of heart disease. So I would say the deli vendor is more dangerous to women than their husbands.
@@barrettfrancis1278 That's a huuuuge amount. The women who go into relationships are naive especially with so much information today. Especially if living together. You should never go into a sleeping lion's den unarmed
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Any results on the happy marriage test. My partner and I are both first born, my sister and her husband are both second born.
@@CUSELİSFANand I have a lot of work to do with my work and I will be able 😜😜😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
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Why the are taking so quickly!!
I lost el interest!!
“People should have a moral compass and self control” - that’s what separates the good from the bad.
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.....or the 'human' from the 'animal'. 😉👉
@@saraw6710Tks Sara I love your comment. I am celibate for years and it's getting easier and I don't do it deliberately, takes a lot of self control a strong moral believe. I haven't met anyone that I felt a connection and I avoid dark places. Lol
Doesn't work like that if you're poor you see your family for die u will be less moral to get wealth
What a nice toxically positive statement.
Just that it goes completely out the window when a woman decides to mess you up through false accusations, biased divorce and alimony laws.
I admire your optimism though.
I agree with this gentleman. While it's natural to be attracted to others, we also have the ability to choose not to cheat. This is why both men and women need to hold themselves accountable. We have a choice.
No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who desires everyone else all the time . Men and women are simply not compatible
Sooooooooooo true.
Agree. That is how we are different than animals. Reasoning and choice.
Self control is so important in all aspects of one's life because it requires discipline.
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Widowed for 12 years now. Tried dating for awhile and was totally unprepared for how aggressive and angry men are now days. Came close to being assaulted in the parking lot by my date as he walked me to my car following a meetup. I have been berated and bullied on dating websites by men I have gracefully turned down, because our interests were not aligned or distance was an issue. They will not take no for an answer. I have accepted the fact that I am better off alone. Sold my house, everything I owned and have been living in the south of France for a year now. Never been happier!
Common denominator? YOU.
@@williamclayton9566 lol are you being facetious? She writes about how men are just hateful, and you went and proved her point...LOL
@@williamclayton9566 I have not met a woman, who didn't have at least few similar experiences like this woman.
No matter how much you love to blame women for being abused, it doesn't change the fact, that the abuser is to blame.
@@williamclayton9566 no...men
Perhaps you're going for the wrong guys. And as women get older, their dating value will diminish. Sadly, it is the world we live in sis.
From a guy expert is seduction skills
The number thing that I like about your content?? You let your guests fully answer without cutting them off! TY.
That is very true. It is so hard to watch a podcast from Bill Maher, because he just can't listen to anyone else than himself for longer than 30 seconds and even shorter if he disagrees.
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He totally listens and you can see the cogs spinning in his brain as the speaker is explaining. as opposed to a person who already has a deciding agenda where they try to steer the conversation to said agenda.
Women are not told about the dangers of marriage and the harm they face from a male partner. We have been sold on the fantasy wedding followed by happily ever after; however, the movies never get to the reality of what comes after the wedding which is the reality that most men want their woman to mold herself around his interests and friends and to forget her aspirations.
In fact many men are not comfortable with their wife’s friends or family. It is stressful to have to consistently divide yourself between your husband’s expectations and the expectations of friends, family and work. It is astonishing that more women don’t go off the rails under the stress of taking care of everyone. Any woman who has an attentive and loving partner is extraordinarily lucky because it is a rarity.
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So true!. This happens in relationships too.
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The truth and root cuase of this is The Bible states that women are NOTHING without a man. The only thing that makes us valuable is the man we are chained to. Afterword the indentured slavery begins. He owns your health and well being, he owns your uterus. he owns your ability to even be taken seriously.
As a woman, after my 2nd failed marriage, I accepted that it’s not in the cards for me to have a happy successful marriage and that marriage for me is not worth the cost/benefit ratio.I’ve been single for the last 7 yrs and able to finally focus on things that matter to me.
Im heading exactly where you are❤
Same here. I’ve been single for twenty years and I’m happy.
I hear you, sister. Happily enjoying my sons and grandchildren without any care about their narcissistic father. I travel and learn foreign languages and I engage in politics and taking care of my health and wellbeing.
Yes ladies, unfortunately men benefit more from marriage. I hate to sound so utterly pessimistic but in my case this is true. Sometimes I wish I had a companion but then I remember all the many sacrifices I would have to make of my time and my personal space. I snap back into reality real quick! lol
More women should spread awareness against getting married!
Clearly, it is a patriarchal ploy to control and enslave women!
And this is an unnatural and abnormal concept to begin with!
“Truth exists independently wether it supports your ideology or not” - this is something we have to keep reminding ourselves and each other about because there is a war on truth and science.
there is this saying in Poland: "Truth is like an a55hole -- everyone has one". Example: there are medical doctors, scientists, dieteticians who claim eating eggs is good for you. And there are medical doctors, scientists and dieteticians who claim it is bad for you. Both camps have a plenty of sciences behind their backs. Plenty of research papers. Like tons. And this is easy topic like, you know, eating freaking eggs. You really think it won't be possible to find a scientist (Dr Robert Sapolsky from Stanford University comes to mind) who is also an evolutionary psychologist and will have exactly opposite opinions? Starting with being Marxist (Dr. Sapolsky is marxist). So... for every scientist stating A is true I can find you a scientist claiinng A is false. And that's the only thing that is true in science. Because, as you noticed, science is part of the ideological wars. Scientist are humans, not only with their own opinions and values that can be opposite from those of their peers, but also, as humans, they can be bought. Research can be bought. Like easily. If you make science your god you are always complacent too, you are hugely manipulated. Money talks. Democratic think tanks pay to scientists well. Republican think tanks pay to scientists well. Corporations pay scientists so well they were able to scientifically state for decades smoking cigarettes is safe. You are not trusting science. You are trusting people with opinions who are very well paid for. By whom is always the most important question. Who pays this guy? A think tank? A podcast producer with certain demographic interested in hearing certain "truths"? Where does his money come from? Dr Gad Saad here is net worh $54 milion!!! 54 milion dollars. Who pays him that is the only question you need to know to understand HIS science. The whole system is corrupt to the core and we need a revolution!
Well said. ❤
@@paulb7207this is easily the most sensible thing that will appear in this comment section.
Populism and polarisation on the rise in like every western country... and we know the nondemocratic nations try their best to archieve just that. How is the media not picking up on that... SPECIALLY in the US I mean oh god I'm happy to live in Berlin
@@Darth_Bateman why do you say that? Don't take comment into account that are overly emotional and/or visible uneducated(haven't watched the video even). If you do that then there are really great comments in this section :pppp
I’m not sure why the TH-cam algorithm put this video in my suggested, as I’ve never heard of you or watched a single clip. Then when I saw it was basically 3 hours long I ALMOST passed on watching, but something told me to watch. Boy, am I THRILLED I did! What a fascinating man, and an equally fascinating discussion! Bravo to both of you!
your initution knew and wants the best for you.
This channel almost always has subjects and interviews interesting to me.
I love this channel and watch it all the time!
This whole channel is fantastic. We need more grounded discussion that isn't wrapped up in hysteria and politicizing these conversations because there can't be productive discourse if all we ever hear from are people on radical ends of the spectrum. Those people radicalize others, whereas these discussions create more neutral ground oriented around actually exploring the issue together, gathering information, and assessing with what remains grounded in factual basis-not what "feels" right, but what is objective and strives for correctness over ego.
You can never go back now, you’re an addict like the rest of us! So often over the years I’ve thought to “just dip into one of Steven’s podcasts for 15 mins” . Three hours later I’m still here! 😄
This a beautiful example on how you can have an intelligent conversation without agreeing on the subject while also being respectful to both parties involved.
well, it's an example...
Here both men are mature, have a purpose and are in the glare of limelight but a fair point
What a pointless comment!
@@bmclaughlin01 its a "you go, girl" comment.. lol..
Part of the reason why it's so civilised, might also be that Steven isn't necessarily disagreeing with his guest personally. Just for the sake of the podcast, he is playing the devil's advocate every now and then.
This man has cracked the code on how to have a top tier podcast.
Rarely do I find myself coming back to a 3hr video several times a day 😂. Kudos!
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I didn’t even realise it was 3hrs long 😂 I was way to intrigued and interested. Great video
Same here. I always finish his videos. I have never done that on their channels, I usually fast forward or abscond completely
I think one trick is to having a handsome accent.
It's taken me 3 days. But, I will keep coming back till I finish this video.
If a man or a woman finds a compatible partner - both healthy physically emotionally mentally spiritually then they do not need other partners.
We were together 35 years, deep, loving, adventurous life.
Amen❤
Maybe... Also, my mouth is super compatible with Pizza, but I couldn't eat Pizza every day for the rest of my life without going nuts.
Anything to help you sleep at night 👌🏾
I know my husband was diagnosed as being self-destructive due to his drug and alcohol abuse problems before we were married. Because he was treated and stopped, I assumed he was “cured”. Nothing was further from the truth! He simply projected that self-hate onto me. He tried to eliminate me financially and physically, and participated in every kind of abuse of the institution of marriage we were in that he could. It’s taken me all of the subsequent years to recover from this. Never, never get involved with a self-destructive person! They will destroy you, as well.
Definitely 😁 true & I never been married nor pregnant ever in my life, but been Targeted by groups of people & Definitely 😁 was with self destructive men & saw the patterns after a while & was Divinely guided away from them because I saw plenty of examples of where it could lead & I said oh hell Nah 🚫 Bahaha 🤪 NOPE 😂 Definitely 😁 NOT 🚫 doing trauma repetition with anyone nor being miserable with another person,although they still destroyed my life, I let them go & rebuilt my life & headed & see the patterns so clearly & when I see it everywhere, I say oh hell Nah 🚫 Bahaha 🤪 Definitely 😁 NOT 🚫 doing that
i love how Stephen has the humility to ask for clarity on any potentially difficult terms in service of his audience.
👍💯 really good listener
Agreed. Though he missed an opportunity when he failed to ask the professor to define Communist/Socialist/Marxist and how that applies to Kamala Harris and then allowed more biased discourse before attempting to apply a little brake pedal.
Finally an actual scientist!👏 That woman with her tabloid "tradwife-math" with her ridiculous romantic-novel claims was a shame to this podcast! 😒
Ignác Semmelweis, Hungarian 🇭🇺 medical doctor, "The saviour of mothers", has a university named about him!
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ignaz_Semmelweis
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ignaz_Semmelweis
I appreciate that he does that often.
HAHA. I fit so much of this description, I am a 5'10", 37 year old woman, starting my PhD. I do not make education nor height a limiter in my dating pool.... but so many men I have met do not seem to like that I am taller, more educated, or make more money. I'm totally happy with a short king that has drive, is honest, loyal, communicates, and open to growth.
Just out of curiosity, what is a “short king” in your perception… 5’10” and below? 😄
You're hot.
You didn't have the same prospect when you were in your 20s. You attract weak men now who just wants mommy.
and 9 inch 🎉
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I'm 5'8 (woman)
A "short" guy is 5'6-5'8.
“A trap is only a trap if you don't know about it. If you know about it, it's a challenge.”
― China Miéville, King Rat
Love this quote - thank you for sharing. Hope you are a nice day.
Oh that it were that simple 😂
Nothing is a crisis, everything is a task - RFK Jr. (and probably someone else but I heard him say it)
@@sammmuelspaul1946 there's a Chinese proverb that has the words for "crisis" and "opportunity" always paired together
This guy in the video with white hair is a conartist
I lived in desparate confusion for 28 years until he died. He thought I was cute when I was desparate. Now I am free and live with two beautiful cats and I'm happy.
Me, too!
❤❤ Me too
cats are the best.
ABSOLUTELY. The most dangerous in my life, the one who sabotaged me in numerous ways. And, he was always depressed, secretive, lived a separate, secret life. Excellent ACTOR. 💔
Sounds like a covert narcissist to me.
A woman has to be extremely careful in the man she chooses for marriage.
The vast majority of husbands are not like that. The whole reason for forming a female-male bond is so that the male can protect and provide and the women nurture and multiply. So framing it like that makes you believe that most husbands are bad for wives, and that is factually untrue. Was it not for men protecting and providing for women, then human-kind would have gone extinct, hundreds of thousands of years ago.
This is what we should be teaching our daughters @Foxie770
I am going through a divorce with one and he shared all those behaviors. It is sickening what they are capable doing to the person/people they "love". On the bright side, my son said I look younger today, so it is clear I am getting healthier away from him!
As a survivor of domestic violence at the hands of my ex-husband, I thank you PROFOUNDLY for this! Dear Dr. Saad, THANK YOU for your work and your effort and attention to this subject. I cannot even express this in this comment. I will be using this wisdom in my decision making going forward. Please never stop. Bless you. - Karinna
Me too@@Nissa_Kr
Good morning how are you? I just want to Ask a question? Your husband just woke up , triggered by a saying or a behavior and beat you for no reason ? I really understand how someone hurt the person he loves ?
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@@Nissa_Kr Hello i'm not in that situation i really want to understand how, why , what kind of abuse a women Can be suffered by his husband and why a man does that for a women hé prétends to be in love. If you don't mind what kind of abuse do you suffer?
@@patricedenis42because for infantile person its easy to relief all their pain and unsatisfaction in life at someone who's weaker or dependent. And you can always find a reason to justify your bad actions. I deeply understand it cause we always tend to be abusers when we are in a position of power. You have to put efforts to not be unfair to someone you have power over.
Domestic violence is not always because of infidelity it’s more often because he is a bully or taking out his frustration on the woman
Exactly
My father was incredibly narcissistic and controlling, the violence was a form of control over all of us.
I think your attaching your personal experience to the rest of humanity in a vehement manner.
He didn't say always.
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13:06 THANK YOU. I went into my work with prisoners for many reasons, one of them being my own experience with severe abuse. I was quite literally enslaved by an older man at 14, and because I’ll never be able to ask my abuser “why?”, I went into prisoner work. I’ve come out the other side understanding human behavior better than I ever have, and I’ve been able to let go of 90% of my anger that’s been holding me back. Wanting to study bad things doesn’t mean you are in favor or support bad things. I get accused of trauma bonding with offenders just because I see them as human beings (because they are). I have matured so much because of my experiences. I even joke about “all my friends are murderers” because I’ve met some wonderful people on the inside. What people don’t realize is these horrible things that happen in society ALL come from everyday humans. A true monster is EXTREMELY rare. There’s only ONE person I had to refuse to work with, but otherwise, I was treated with the utmost respect by those on the inside (including their families). And on that note, they ALL have families, jobs, dreams, regrets, betrayals-just like you. They’re ALL just like you and I, and we’re ALL capable of hurting others. Until we can end the cycle of abuse, the pain will continue, and it is my firm belief that the only way forward for us ALL is through compassion. No one is immune to the human condition. No one.
Wow!
I had an ex-boyfriend that never bothered to be full time employed like I was. He also would sometimes drink too much and I suspect he did light drugs.
Toward the end my respect for him as a human being was long gone and I found myself hitting him sometimes because I knew I could get away with it. He wasn't a mean drunk and he didn't want to end the relationship and go back to his mom's house.
Even just on the social aspect being with him was like having a rock keeping you down. Financially it was a disaster. Emotionally he was also a drain, a downer and I would stay longer at work not to go back to him.
I ended everything eventually when something finally made me wake up and smell the coffee.
But to this day I still remember how easy it was to lift my hand and hit him and feel no guilt.
Do I condone violence? Hell, no. I hate the husbands I know who hit my friends.
So why did I hit this ex? Cause I could do it with no punishment. Hard realisation to swallow.
But that's what it was. I'd get angry and frustrated and a good slap made me feel momentarily better.
It's just scarily easy to do bad things. Some of us would never cross that line. But lots of people would.
So eliminating abusive as well as well meaning yet willfully naive/ignorant parents would prevent majority of abuse.
Put surveillance inside of ALL churches, where majority of child SO's BLEND in.
Force young adults to take parenting schooling. And refresh testing and requirements every stage of their offsprings development.
Separate predatory abuse inclined from the rest of society to live amongst themselves, isolate to a dedicated island , with completely separate internet, networks, banking, media, etc.
IDK how do we end the Abuse you mention?
Men will Never stop, Abusers will never stop, women will never stop willingly, who are abusers.
That "Moral Compass" that some people would follow and some won't follow is called "The Ten Commandments", e.g. You shall not Kill, You shall not commit Adultery, etc. The Ten Commandments of God are like the Traffic Lights and Road Signs. Not stopping on Red Lights and not following Road Signs can create Chaos and Accidents on the Road. The same as not following the Ten Commandments of God. It can create Stress, Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Hatred, etc. There are only two places that LawBreakers can end up: In Hospital or in Jail.
Beautifully said, thank you for all you've done and for what you continue to do.
This is one of the rare times I watch a 3hr videos without getting bored……this was a great guest you had Steven
Thanks mate
He is also a skilled orator with a great ability to explain these ideas to non-scientific people.
I resisted podcasts for a long time. This podcast and only a couple others can keep my interest. He's a fabulous interviewer! The long I've watched Steven the more I recognize how create his team is and we'll he is at listening and being present.
Totally agree on this! New professor to follow!!
Thank you for sharing this interview in spite of political references. I hope people open their minds and vote RED.
Thank you for pushing the professor and not just agreeing with everything.
yeah there were some aspects of the convo I felt the professor was over-speaking, esp the topic around 2 hours 14 mins. Humility of ancillary subjects is important. Sociology is a separate science that needs to be taken seriously, however it's more related to the Economic Sciences than Evolutionary.
I agree though I think Steven could have pushed harder. I think he missed a good opportunity by not asking the professor to define Communist/Socialist/Marxist (which is what he equated Kamala Harris to). Where do people get the idea that Socialist = Communist? They are not the same and there are many European countries with Socialist govts. that have a much higher standard of living than we have here in the U.S. and certainly most other places in the world.
@@watchtheduck1yeah I lost all respect I had for Gad. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that “smart” people can be so fucking stupid. And even falling for the brain dead “cackling Kamala” term.
@@watchtheduck1many socialist governments are based on communist principles and follow Marxist ideas as well as totalitarian ideas with limited free market (instead they allow government approved corporations) and limited freedom of speech. A number of governments in South America, Africa and even Europe are examples of this.
The European model of socialism that some Americans love to push is the Scandinavian model, fully embraces the free market economy, capitalism, individual liberty and self sovereignty within a democratic government set against the backdrop of a monarchial tradition.
We should not want to emulate the destruction of the marxist socialist state.
We definitely don't have any communist party's and governments in Europe. We have free health care and relatively cheap education and some welfare programmes. But no one wants to a communist state. We are for free markets and democracy.
Absolutely brilliant conversation, loved it. No fear in being cancelled, no glorifying of toxic behaviour. well balanced and interesting. Steve doesnt pretend to know ot all and asks the questions we would too. Big plus, he lets each guest speak!!!
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I am glad you go deeper into what he is saying! You let him speak a lot yet asked him to speak with more real life context and that was great.
I have had two failed marriages and decided to risk making myself vulnerable again because I knew I deserved happiness
I’ve now been with the most wonderful man for the past 16 years
It did take us 8 years of keeping separate households before I was confident with combining our households and getting married though
In saying that I can see how being single has its advantages and marriage isn’t for everyone
This conversation should be mandatory in all schools to be heard and discussed. Thank you Steven for inviting the professor and sharing this video with everyone!
Along with teaching INTEGRITY in dating!
I actually learned most of this in my human sexuality and anthropology classes in college. But yeah you're right, it should be incorporated more into public school education.
Nothing needs to be mandatory...
@@mindtheprivacyi mean knowing how to read is basically mandatory
I agree.
"The Ones that did have the self awareness, never came up." Brilliant Steven.
An excellent example of the way stats don’t show the complete picture.
The more I learn about relationships, the more I don't want to be in one
Same. Thank you, I don't want to get cheated on or watch my man watch other women. I'd rather be single.
Same, I feel really discouraged rn because of this
Absolutely same.
But, the professor is in a beautiful relationship. To be honest I lost trust what he told , after I heard his position about Trump ..
I can see your point but relationships in any regard, offer the greatest opportunity for growth of our own character, whether the relationship is good or bad.
Those men didn't think they had a chance. Their goal is to harass.
I disagree. They hoped they had a chance.
Truly amazed at Steven’s charismatic way of making it clear that he absolutely was interested in his guests views but does not necessarily agree with his entire philosophy. Well done Steven
I also do agree so much to this comment
I third this comment. It’s very clear that while the guest was able to make distinctions and examples that made sense in the evolution of human behaviors he identifies with Trump to such a degree that all the science in the world that he has given so much of his time to didn’t matter.
Steven, absolutely great job maintaining focus and neutral process of interviewing. You have a unique skill/blessing.
“Purity Bubble” the irony, or is just me??? 😳🥹 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
18 18:23 beautifully said
The first 10 minutes of the podcast, clearly mentions this conversation is based on evolutionary reasoning and yet the amount of people in these comments feeling triggered is amazing
I know. It’s interesting to see the very emotive based responses, even before they have obviously listened to it.
The comment section is worthy of being studied on its own.
The incels are getting triggered because they know he's calling them out.
Thank you!! You have restored my faith in humanity. This comment section is insane. I can’t believe the stupidity of people 🤯 it’s actually really depressing!
@@jule3480 so have you seen these 5 milion years of our species history? Or is it based on a story someone told you?
My dad tried to destroy all of us by sabotage but failed because of inner strength taught to us by my Mom
Love this
Your father was trash.
😭🥹❤ thank you for sharing this. I pray for this very thing for my children everyday. May they use the loving discernment and wisdom they were forced to learn “too early” as they become adults. It seems the further their father is from them, the better they do in life.
@@didntchaknow as long as you've reinforced in them to believe in themselves and to respect others, they'll do fine, but if their father is as you say he is, he will haunt and hound you guys, you have to be prepared by having a solid career, legal papers, a good lawyer and police that you are friends with. He will want all of you to doubt you can live independent of him.
Omg thank you for sharing this!! This makes me proud. As a mother to a teenager, I’ve tried to reinforce mental strength in him when it comes to his dad’s wants and desires for him. I always let my child choose his life path unlike his dad. I think he has learned a lot from my guidance. Hoping it sticks with him. 🙏🏽
Dr Gad Saad, first time I am introduced to him. In this conversation he has stimulated my mind, he has challenged my thinking, in fact my mind has never been taken this far.
I also think the story of Honey badger (Ratel) fearless animal, was needed.
I will have this podcast on repeat 👏🏾
Thank you Steven for introducing us to these legends 👊🏾
You have no idea how right you are. I was married 15 before I found out that he was hiding a terrifying secret and my life was in danger…..
Do you mind sharing what secret? I hope all is well btw. I’m single and got out of a 15 year on and off “trauma bonded” relationship as they say. I refuse to settle just bc I don’t want to be lonely. I really hope all abused women find the strength and courage to leave bc this is not the life we are supposed to live.
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sooooo what was the secret?
Woman are in the most danger when they are leaving or leave. First hand experience.
I love how he is confident enough to ask questions until the slowest person in the room gets it. When he clearly doesn’t know the answer. Yet is so likable, you can’t judge him or see him in a negative light.
Rare and brilliant combination for hosting a show with a large audience. You just can’t help but love him.
Untill after 2h45m.. Oh man I love this episode so much untill he starts strongly endorsing Trump for "speaking out" yeah bro that was like 7 years ago cool, now he's just a polarising populistic real danger to Democracy but here Dr. Saad is saying he would vote 10x for Trump, bruh
That man is a proven criminal, saying that the law is fake/acting not independent and a real friend of Putin. Proving he has low political education.
I will just stop there and remember the actual good content untill then. But man that ruined the aftertaste....
Yes! Steven Bartlett is the best!
I think a lot of the time he knows the answer but asks the question for the audience
He’s had guests on before who have answered the same questions before, he knows the answer. He just wants everyone to be on the same page.
I also know non-native English speakers listen to the podcast so I’m guessing him asking what certain words are helps them out
@@thenon-gaapbillionaire3306 True. But he got comment on both pros and cons re Trump without escalating tension which I thought was quite adroit.
I knew immediately that the answer was a step parent. For many years Dr. Laura begged, begged biological divorced parents not to remarry until their kids grew up.
I remember this, too!!!
My instinct as a separated Mum is to absolutely, under no circumstances bring another Man into my home because of the boys. I do not understand women who are brave enough to do it. I cannot afford to risk it, three boys would be annihilated by a step dad.
@@Footplanet34 That’s not a guarantee; there’s plenty of great step parents out there who are even better than children’s biological parents. It’s about vetting them patiently before letting them into your own and your children’s personal lives.
@Footplanet34 that is ridiculous. There are fabulous step parents around, and it comes down to how you form the relationship with them too. Kids need parental guidance and role modeling from both sexes, and it doesn't hurt for kids to learn their not the world's most important person.
@@Footplanet34I’m 40 yrs old and the best thing my mom ever did for me was give me my stepdad. We butted head when I was a teenager but it would happen if it was my bio dad because of…..puberty. I was a widow with a 6yr old son, remarried. He is 12 now and if I died tomorrow I can go in peace because this man loves him and that is the best feeling in the world.
Hands down one of the most erudite, scientific and eloquent podcasts about the most critical topics of our times. Loved Dr Gad's untempered and undiluted reasoning and the fluidity with which he backs his statements. The podcast was well done and transitioned smoothly between topics. The last 1 hour was powerful! 😊
He lost me when he turned a serial liar, traitor, sexual preditor, and international criminal into a honey badger just doing what a honey badger does. Dr. Saad didn't do his homework.
@Amuliask Wow! I love ❤️ the way you write. Most great writers are readers. What are you reading at this moment (by choice)? Which modern book have you appreciated the most to the point whereas you would mot hesitate to read it a second or third time?
@Amuliask Ever saw a talented artist's work, heard a beautiful voice or song, or saw an ice skating performance or ballet performance so beautiful it nearly brought you to tears? That feeling my friend encapsulates the power of your writing style. I have never read a YT comment written at a doctorate level. Thank you for sharing your advanced intellect with me and the world.
Thank you for pushing back at the end there. I appreciate you more as an interviewer and journalist because of this.
Yes!
We should’ve had the Last question first and it would’ve saved many a lot of time. The guest didn’t answer the question just started talking about honey badgers….typical right wing obfuscation when they don’t have data or evidence.
Quite possibly Stephen’s worst guest in a recent line of Wingnuts. I’m Rapidly losing interest in the podcast, which is sad.
Well, what you are experiencing is cognitive dissonance, basically, science vs your left wing ideology. Clean your brain from this fashistic feces and watch again. Maybe you can learn sth. @@RandomUser25122
Yeah, I liked Steven’s ability to push back, and I really wish intersex would’ve been brought up in terms of biological markers, because being intersex sort of dismantles the idea that there is either biological females or males - when there is in fact those who are in between the two.
Intersex was an old fashioned term used before we found out that disorders in sexual function affects either the large ovum carriers or small oven carriers. Male or female.
“Imagine the level of pathological narcissism that you must experience where you say: the need for me to reaffirm my identity supersedes the rights of women” 2:24:18 ‘nuff said 😤💯
THE ONLY SMART COMMENT , MUY BEUNO
Sperm and money- these will always be the primary motivation for men over women…whether they admit it or not.
This is the ethos of Trumps followers.
Womens rights are illusionary, women can't physically enforce rules, meaning the only way they have rights is because men agree that they do. If men disagree suddenly. They don't anymore. IE. See most of the middle east in the 80s
@@Aronoel31You know you can not make accurate blanket statements on generalizations like this. I'm a Trump supporter and can say your assumption is totally wrong. But it's difficult to have a fruitful conversation if you're going to come from this position.
Even I ‘unhesitantly’ say this is one of the most intellectually stimulating and open minded conversations I’ve heard in DOAC. I stuck through the entire 3 hrs because I know this is important. Thank you Steve. 🙏🏻
It was great until he started plugging Donald Trump.
@@rissaroybal I was amazed at how much I both agreed and disagreed with him. However, he lost my respect at the end of the interview with his despicable language regarding Kamala Harris (not because I think she is beyond reproach but because she is very obviously not a “moron” and his calling her that only reflects poorly on his ability to have a coherent dispute) and his lack of understanding of his own personal biases.
@@rissaroybal thanks for letting me know... ugh, so much for the bit on morality. I'll stop listening now and save myself some disappointment.
@@sherylkalatharaHowever, for you to be completely honest and not hypocritical, you must acknowledge that the interviewer was challenging him in a very biased and with a critical assumption for an extended period of time. I'm not surprised that the guest raised the anti so to speak to put him in his place.
@@chrismilligan3511 Quite the contrary, the interviewer remained calm and deliberate. His questions were excellent and delivered with empathy; hence why his demeanor and language didn’t change while the other man’s language and delivery became increasingly coarse and his temperament fiery. Perhaps because his biases match yours, you have a perception of hostility. Mine was shown in this segment.
Steven you are the best interviewer on TH-cam. You are so measured and in control during the entirety of the interview. This man went off the rails at the end and you kept control of the interview while still allowing him to show who he truly is. I’m so proud and hopeful that young people today are so empathetic and compassionate to others on their individual journeys.
OMG! Thank goodness I listened to my insticts and never remarried or brought a new partner into our family home. Dr. Gad has just validated that decision I made long ago.
If you seek validation you are not content with your decision.
@@BrandonMlotshwawas about to say that...I realised that for myself sometime ago that everytime I did something based on validation, I went back to start zero...it's like we forgot invention...you can have your own invention of decisions and choices..
I'm so glad he validated my choice too. It was very hard to articulate without sounding trauma bound
@@angelacarswell3690 what?
That’s why these conversations are so important it gives people the chance to know they are not alone
I love how the professor isn't scared to speak as himself and swears 😂❤ it's refreshing
I also think what he meant to say about being a tall educated woman was that our looks and intellect alone weeded out 85% of the dating opportunities of which men were uneducated themselves, week minded, intimidated, low self esteem. Which means we dodged the ones which could have been domineering and controlling. The abusive types.
Thank you. I’m 5’10” with a Masters degree and over 40. I took all he said with a grain of salt. Huge generalization. Plus now that I know his political views, I’m wishing I hadn’t watched any of this interview.
@@deborahday1786 I’m not offended by his views. He just puts to much of an emphasis on sex being the end all the bees all. lol. And that’s what a lot of men do. Where women, not just tall ones want a quality and diverse of interest in a relationship as well as protection and good genes. Educated and intelligent is good genes. Being capable of thinking beyond the tip of their penis. We dodged the animalistic controlled ones.
@@jenniferflower9265 Are you married?
@@Saavys yes 19 years. I had 2 years of singleness in my 20s by choice because my high school sweetheart past away. I always was asked out. I have gotten asked out throughout my marriage many times as well, if people don’t know me and my husband. I’ll add that I’m 46 and it still happens.
He is definitely saying it’s the woman’s choice. I’ve found that to be correct. We eliminate those who don’t meet our standards… and if we have gotten to a place in life where there are very few men who exceed our status, it definitely narrows the field. Women have a very hard time dating down while men have almost no preference in a woman’s status (intellect/socioeconomic)
I live in that same purity bubble. Time and time again, I am stunned by people's behavior because I would never, in my wildest dreams, do what they do.
As a Kenyan, I'd like to apologise for Kenyans winning the Boston marathon sooo many time. 😂 Great conversation as always!
This explains alot! 😂 My ex was Kenyan. One time on new years eve, we ran out of 🍾 about 10 minutes shy of midnight. He ran about a mile to the nearest grocery store, bought more 🍾, & ran back home before the ball dropped at midnight. 🤣🤣🤣
@@amostlyagreeableopinion4005 very reliable people Kenyans 😂😂
Correct from another Kenyan 😂
As an ethiopian I'd like to point out that we win a few here and there as well. You guys can't have all the fun!
@@ezanageressu4741 😂 healthy, neighbourly competition. Keeping it in East Africa.
My HS bf and I were engineering majors. I went on finish and work and industry and he kept failing classes due to him constantly playing video games.
I broke it off once I realized we grew apart and I didn’t want to be with a man child. After we broke up he stalked me for 3 months and assaulted me at gunpoint. He nearly killed me.
The most dangerous time for a woman is when she leaves or while she’s pregnant. Very sad.
Is he in prison now?
@@ClaireGreen-wd2gm
No, police chased him down and once they were about to take him into custody he took his own life.
@@ethxo6734 even better
@@ethxo6734 I wish you a peaceful life! I can imagine the horror.
Exactly! Infidelity suspicion is not the main cause according to the data here in Brazil at least. Most deaths happen because the guy doesn’t accept being left, even when he’s a cheater himself.
I am scientist working with indigenous people in South America, there are cases of polyandry, that is one woman married to several men. This is in traditional hunter- gatherer societies, where having more than one husband is super practical, as your family simply has more food if more than one man is out to hunt for you. Both polygamy types are parallel present in such cases. In these societies, jealousy is an unvalued feature of male behaviour, as well as male biological paternity is far less relevant, a man raises kids even together with other men, it is irrelevant in such families who the biological dad is. These societies are more rare but they do exist even today. In the case I know more about, the husbands did not have to be brothers. The fact that hunter-gatherer societies are more like to show this pattern, also speaks to evolutionary relevance, since all human societies have been hunter-gatherer tribes at some point in time.
Very interesting, thanks for sharing.
Thank you for sharing it with us! ❤ valuable information 😊
Makes perfect sense!!
Thank you. Very interesting as a counterpoint🙏
Glad you brought it up. I am from a continent where polyandry was also acceptable in some sub-cultures, yet this guest speaks as if he has scoured the world and came to an absolute conclusion that spans the entire globe and human species.
This is the best one EVER! Its important and refreshing to hear different perspectives even if you don’t agree with the angle. We are humans with different upbringings and life experiences, and that shapes our thoughts! Beautifully original!! 🙌🏽
The fact that I knew instantly the answers to raised questions proves to me how much attention I pay to these podcasts. Thanks for these meaningful conversations!
I'm proud of you!
Such a refreshing subversive conversation. Not everything has to confirm your biases. I love it.
He is definitely confirming someone's bias
That kind of thing ought to be status quo level shit. Hardly subversive.
The clip is 3hrs, was posted five hours ago but someone already has an opinion which was commented 4hrs ago. Lols
You don't have to listen very closely to hear Gad's biases.
They are always out there in the sunlight making lots of noise.
@@thatomalebo5338 look at this person online and biases not just this podcast
1:22:45 'Kindness and intelligence are universal traits equally desired by both men and women." - yet, there's so little of either to be found in today's world...
Right. ❤
But this guy would vote for Trump?!?! Where’s the “kindness” in that? #GrabHerByThePssy.🤔
Give me Kind Kamala any day!! #KamalaWalz2024
Agree!!
DESIRE is the key word. Many people desire but they themselves are not kind. Hypocrisy is a very human trait. Can dish out but can't take it. Can desire but can't give it. Sadly it becomes a sadistic cycle.
That hit me.
Thankfully cannot relate, people around me are very kind, empathic and supportive both emotionally and physically 🥰
I came across this interview w months after its release: I have told 3 people about it and I intend to replay the whole or portions of it again and again. I love this interview: God bless you Stephen for having the wherewithal to read Dr. Saad's books and to have him on your show. Please continue the good work that you do. Ileen from Canada.
We can see what happens with couples when they get older; often the woman being overworked, overwhelmed, working outside of the home and taking on child bearing, child rearing, cooking, cleaning, washing, housework, shopping and the mental load start hitting the wall. And as a result she begins to resemble his mother rather than his mate. This is when his desire for her starts to wane and then pending infidelity and divorce.
I also advise women to not overwork themselves when they can hire help. Also don't marry a man than cannot afford to hire help and only wants Her to take on all of the household load.
This is the exact reason I divorced early. It wasn't a soft place for me and I didn't want to be haggard at 40. I knew if I took care of myself I could live the life I wanted. ❤
Also advise men to step up and participate in the housework, the shopping, the cooking, etc.. Many can’t afford to hire someone, and, some that can afford it, don’t want to spend money on something they can do themselves.
It’s so interesting that the onus is always on the woman and the man skates.
God forbid if the woman is a housewife, the husband would taunt her saying, 'you are a housewife, managing house is supposed to be your work.'
@@fizawhipnexusmy husband says those things 😢
It’s also deeply unattractive for a woman to have a parasitic man-Child to have to support, without reciprocation. I don’t fancy over grown boys either, so the disaffection is mutual.
Great conversation! Even if you disagree with some parts, the professor is superrrr smart and articulates his thoughts well and Steve did a great job pushing back and playing devils advocate! I watched the entire 3 hours and could’ve watched more. Thanks mate!
Me and my husband, 38 and 39 years old . Married for 20 years, together for 22. Both last born. Only one’s in both our families to leave our home town. Both married first out of our siblings. Waited longest ( 12 years ) before having our own children. Usual peaks and troughs of life but very happily married and constantly work to grow together and learn new things …..lots from your fabulous pod cast ❤ Hope this information can help with your research. Keep up the good work Stephen ……as long as you enjoy it!! your service is very much appreciated!!
Beautiful ❤
He'll cheat on you when you get to be around 50. Mark my words.
You survived for this long because you left your home.Out of my 3 siblings I am only one who still have family.I left when I was 20 and this saved me.Meantime my siblings still trying to emotionally fixed my mother.
I love that you two still learn together ♡
the longer I listen to Gad Saad the more I fall in love w/ his clearvoyant spirit and clear analyzing of many societal appearances
So a husband hates infidelity so much that he would kill his wife, but he treats his wife like he wishes she were gone. What an odd event.
It's Narcisism and malignant 😢
Not really but go off.
That sums up my marriage to my ex husband
That’s marriage in s nut shell !
@@SWOTHDRA Did you watch the video? Or just go straight to comments to be quarrelsome?
I love the host’s intellectual precision and being unafraid to ask the tough questions!!!!
54:40-54:50🎯 is the reason many men try so hard to “humble women” and/or sabotage them when they’re elevating in life. Insecure people believe that if their partner levels up, they themselves will no longer measure up. “I have to keep her beneath me in order to keep her.”
My husband does that ten million fold...my life is trying to find glimpses of who I was...and I'm trapped financially and I listened and humbled myself so he could take over everything including my finances as I lost my confidence in my calling...my work...trying to climb back up but feel it might be too late...
There are also women who think "I'm making more money. I can do better than him." I've seen that play out and destroy families.
@@reneedwards7801Yes, and there are also women who are saying, I’m making more money and I’m bearing nearly all the domestic and parenting weight.
Or maybe you just picked poorly and try to pass the blame of your poor choices in a partner onto the man.
Yes that’s what my husband said and that’s what his father showed him! As my husband told me, end in the end it will happen what I want, I was out! My love for him died!
Something I didn’t want but it happens after I saw the truth!
Dr Saad, Thank you! Meaningful connections. This was a fulfilling 3 hours!
Just one of many good bits: "Science is the highest form of play". This was expressed in such a humble way, replied to, then quickly considered in an even more humble way. Thank you both for this excellent conversation.
I can't believe he has that many different types of friends and still calls them friends. I would never be friends to someone who cheats on their spouse.
I was surprised as well. I had a group of all-male "friends" from university (I'm female in an engineering field with few women). I liked them, they were smart, driven and outgoing. I got invited to party with them as if I was one of the boys. After witnessing how they cheated repeatedly on their girlfriends in parties, and how everyone seemed fine with it, I lost all respect and stopped hanging out with them. The last straw was one of them hitting on me drunk when he had introduced me to his girlfriend and future wife barely a few hours before.
@@belenlg5978that's standard behavior for lots of men. We've buried the ability to navigate the war of the sexes. Trying to use rules and regulations to scrub clean human behavior.
If your mates all cheat.... You cheat too
He's a zionist. Ethics are not his forte.
@@belenlg5978I think the host wants to cheat ? Or has a p@rn addiction. He recently always having these type of podcasts. Hopefully not the case
Love this episode. What makes Steven's podcast so intriguing is that Steven often comes from the perspective of a "student". He invites so-called experts in their perspective field, and he just fires one questions after another. It's Steven's natural "curiosity" that makes his "conversations" so engaging. This feels different when you listen to an expert interviews (or have a conversation) with another expert. I love the "evolutionary" psychology take on why we behave the way we behave/think. Just one observation. Since the last born baby has higher chance to explore ideas, I wonder what the effect is when most parents only have 1 child these days.
Agreed. He’s so refreshing this way. He’s the Joe Rogan of the softer, smarter class
This was a treasure to have such an amazing Doctor/ Professor on your channel. Thank you
Am like others surprised that I watched the whole interview. It did not feel like 3 hours. Thank you Steven and team. After listening to your interviews, I have been more motivated to live healthy. Your Podcast has literally had health benefits to my life. You and your team are making a difference in this world 😀
I can't remember when was the last time I watched an entire interview from the very beggining to the end in a single watch.
Absolutely top tier content. Love your work man, amazing guest, it was a pleasure to see!
Major respect to this guest for being unapologetically true to himself, his genuine beliefs, and also scientific truths. That’s becoming more and more rare.
His genuine beliefs are hateful and Nazi-like. He’s the kind of person his family fled from. He’s been on the receiving end yet still can’t help but literally fawn over the fascist trying to destroy America
Agreed! ❤
True science!
Except at the end 2:50 ish where he went on an emotional rant about why crazy people are good with nuclear buttons
That and when he calls Harris a Communist while all the way through the conversation he's a stickler for precise terminology. Disagree with her policy all you want but calling her a Communist is objectively ridiculous.
I disagree with a good amount of his personal views, but I enjoyed you picking his brain. There is no doubt he is an Intelligent man with some interesting perspectives.
You disagree with science. Sounds illogical to me.
@ can you read? I said I disagreed with some of his OPINIONS. Was not talking about referenced facts.
I loved it! Well done for inviting him! I might not agree with every single thing he said or thought, but it was a very compelling and though provoking listening experience.👋
The professor is in teach mode even during this interview. I love how he quizzes Steven. Love this interview.
I disliked it. There’s a time and place for everything. He could be a little quieter and gather more. Not humble at all.
@@Stellar76 Yep. He him self spoke about that level of self awareness and ability to adapt, but he was speaking to him like he was 10 at times. I found it annoying.
@@afroaffirmation I noticed that! He also tried to throw Steven off-balance whenever pushed by bringing up something that only someone with a niche interest would know enough about to even have an opinion on. He's clever, but not near as clever as he thinks he is...
Oh, it's so refreshing to see a conversation where you see some moments when people are disagreeing at the same time as they look with admiration to the other person!
I really enjoyed this interview Dr Gad is an extremely interesting guest and I will be watching this interview again to pick up on anything may have missed thanks to you both
As a 23-year-old male who has been in a committed relationship for two years, I can confidently say that the idea that all men are “dangerous” or “hardwired to cheat” is a massive oversimplification. While there may be some evolutionary factors that influence male behavior, sure. Human actions in relationships are shaped by a much more complex blend of biology, psychology, social norms, and personal experiences.
In my case, I have no intention of ever betraying or leaving my partner. This is my third serious relationship, so I’m not just viewing things through the lens of a “honeymoon phase” - I’ve experienced heartbreak before and know what it’s like to be in different stages of love. It’s important to avoid generalisations that paint all men with the same brush, especially since many of us are fully capable of being faithful, respectful, and committed in relationships.
Attributing male behavior solely to biology or isolated statistics ignores the impact of culture, personal choice, and individual circumstances. Such stereotypes can distort discussions around gender roles, relationships, and what it means to have healthy behaviors. Human behavior, after all, is far more nuanced than these generalizations suggest.
I agree, but all of this rationalization goes off a window because so many women dealt with bad men, and other men who defend bad men. Personal experience goes first and honestly it's a privilege to speak from a position when you never deal with abuse personally and heard only from other sources.
Sorry but at 23 you have no idea what you’re gonna do 🤷🏾♀️
@@its_all_in_the_feeling8448 Lol, well, I'm in my 30s, and I agree. The guy in the video is a grifter. He has a Ph.D. In marketing, not evolution, and he’s selling a book… go figure. This is obviously just a self-promo tour for selling his book.
Yeah you're 23 and so idealistic, especially about yourself.
Your mid life crisis is ahead of you, I genuinely hope you stay true to younger self. Good luck.
@@its_all_in_the_feeling8448
This just reminded me of something. Me and my husband just finished reading The 21 Former Doctor Secrets by Rachl Morgan. Everything starts with health!
Thanks for sharing that
Im checking it out now
omg I know that book
props to Dr.Rachel she is amaizing
Thankss
As a university professor and social scientist-protect this man!! I have been “alone” and overtly and covertly shunned in academia for 25 years. Thank you for this interview.
Why were you shunned?
I'm sorry to hear that
Your success is due to interesting topics.
Voice, charismatic personality are great also but your topics always grab me.
Same! I'm a psychology professor as well, and I LOVE evolutionary psychology! 💞
Except that he's a terrible person and shouldn't be respected at all. Do some more research.
Only half way thru so far, and already a ton of valuable information. Very interesting conversation! Thank you for this!
That aggressive approach by men on the street is frightening. Doesn't matter what they say. It's frightening.
smh
Hence don't approach guys, go about your business. I say this 10mins after I was approached by a gorgeous girl on the bus, that I wanted to approach as soon as she came to the bustop before we boarded. She asked if I believed in God 😂, I was so disappointed thinking she was my future wife....whcih she could've been. Mind you business guys
Good god @@femz6438 you thought she might have been yr future wife based on sexual attraction? Eek
I didn’t like that this guest’s reaction saying it was night + the men were probably drinking. He should watch the one of the NYC woman walking to work in the morning. It was actually worse becuz they were aggressively serious, very rude + persistent.
As a very young woman in the late 80s I was groped, grabbed, stopped, yelled at to SMILE, hit-on then called a B for saying no. Hands running up my inner thigh becuz I was walking down subway stairs, hard things pressed up against me on crowded trains, touching, groups of guys talking about which one would come over + grab my butt.
It was daily + all I was doing was going to work. So those videos are enraging. Want a GF? Be funny sweet + sincere. And kinda cute in ur own way. That’s The Key.
@@LLynneM smh, missed the point completely
I love the bit about modulation and the “beautiful woman” example. It was so so important to add this for context.
But let’s be clear. This does play into “me too”. That woman was being harassed while she was trying to mind her own business and get from A to B. Now if that’s a universal woman experience, and it’s bothersome, makes us feel unsafe, of course we’re going to take issue with it
14:25 the fact that every woman knew the answer to this and a smart man like Steven had to think about it speaks volumes…. Also reflects why men were so confused at women choosing “the bear” - truly astounding how out of touch men are to women’s reality
Exactly. I knew the answer the second he asked.
@@honeylavender1122 Based on how he describes his upbringing it seemed incredibly disingenuous.
I'm a women and I chose the man. You can reason with a man, you can't with a bear. The women who chose a bear seem out of touch to me. Masculinity is protective, toxic femininity has erased true Masculinity and we are left with weak men who use violence as a form of control
He knew the answer, they ALL know the answer. They are not dumb, they just play dumb to get women to labor for them in the name of “love”.
THEY KNOW.
yes, including this guest @honeylavendar1122
Great episode!!!! You’re such a great interviewer and conversationalist.
This has to have been THE best interview/conversation you've ever done, imo. Thank you both for your respect, intelligence, thoughtfulness, and purity. Respect!
💙 from Tasmania, Australia 🇦🇺
36:40 I love that Steven does not hesitate a second to ask for the definition of "cadaver". A highly success and knowledgable person that has no problem with being perceived as "uneducated" for not knowing a word. He is just comfortable in the discussion being curious and asking things. He really wants to understand the topic. Much appreaciation for that man!
I was thinking the exact same thing when Steven asked the question about the cadaver. It humanizes him in the sense that we are aware he knows a lot and having the vulnerability to ask questions most would assume he knows. I enjoyed that exchange!
Those not afraid to ask are smarter.
Him being so extreme in his views on American politics (especially when he himself isn't even American) towards the end of the conversation kinda soured me on what was otherwise a fairly interesting conversation
@@mikeeinstein1look at the policies she endorses.
@thistles nope, you did not address my question so your comment is not helpful. I am looking for a video where she says that she is a Stalinist, Leninist, and Marxist. That is the claim. If you can't stick to the topic, I would appreciate not hearing from you.
@@mikeeinstein1 I don't know of an instance of her saying she's that combination using those words, but her background, her policy propositions, and her word choice clearly broadcast that she is. I didn't interpret his statement as a claim of something she literally said, so I wouldn't call it a lie, and it hardly discounts everything else he says. If that's your standard, you must only talk to birds.
If you want to gatekeep the replies to your comment, maybe the comment section isn't the place for you.
@@thistles I stopped reading your comment after the first sentence.
So you don’t like freedom of speech. Got it.
It’s an honour to have such a distinguished gentleman as a fellow Canadian, Dr. Gad Saad. I listened to the entire interview and found it pleasing, informative, interesting… thank you both for your honest sharing and your respectfulness toward each other.
At 2hr ish and after mark. One thing that needed to be said is, if someone with robust science can group demographics to something that feels hurtful or offensive, it is not the truth that is offensive…it is the weaponising of the truth is the issue. No one gets to the crux of the matter, so they explain around the issue. Also history has taught us that some experts will falsely present scientific fact at the destruction of groups of people intentionally. To think in the way Dr Gaad is explaining of accepting fact , requires an evolutionary enlightenment of mankind. His points though valid, are in abstract isolation of the society he shares it with. He needs to apply the staircase concept when explaining it to a broader society, and just say grow a pair because that statement in itself indicates ignorance.
Started off well, with objectivity, data and scientific statistics and devolved into subjective opinion towards the end. I enjoyed it even if I find some of his views questionable or antiquated.
Those were my thoughts exactly. I loved hearing him talk about science, but the longer the podcast went, the more I started to pick apart his biases. It is clear that he does not like Muslims, which is understandable given his background. He thinks he is being "neutral" but what he thinks about them slips through the cracks. I found myself disagreeing more and more with him the more he spoke, and it's not that his opinions do not have scientific bases, but that there is a clear bias on what he is choosing to present, and the ideas that he is choosing to follow. Additionally, he seems to be pro-patriarchy, which is neither here nor there, but I would also like to hear the opinion of a woman in his field, because it seems like what he's saying is "things have been like this forever, so we should not go against that", however, that does not address the fact that women have always experienced a disadvantage under such a system, and just like capitalism and certain religions: everything in theory is great, but not so much in practice. Again, because we devolve into human bias. An additional observation I have is that this guy certainly thinks the rest of the population is as smart as he is, when he needs to understand that his IQ is way above the average, and holding people to his own standards of understanding, empathy, respect, intellectual capability, etc.; is very naive and frankly dangerous, especially when talking about freedom of speech and its consequences, which was definitely addressed, but not resolved, in the podcast.
Totally agree, well said
I hated that he started using the alpha beta red pill lingo - it was also a red flag when he mentioned Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson 😬
You have a point with what you said about freedom of speech and the danger it poses if not regulated as we have to bear in mind that most of the population isn't highly intelligent to have nuanced or contextual discussions and most of the population doesn't have the high level of understanding and empathy to allow unregulated freedom of speech
What he says about Muslims is true he said where he is Jewish or not! Wow! I can also say the same and have same beliefs about Jews and claim they are true and valid! What scientist he is!
I have found that fathers abandon their children in favor of stepchildren and new children with a new spouse.
I have seen this many times including my own father.
@@henriettahardiment-vu6yv I am sorry to hear it. It is said that the reason is unconscious to form a new family, but it still hurts. I hope you are able to forgive him and know you are worthy of much love!
Really baby haaan?
Such a narcissist😂
The data says that the risk of infanticide increases when step parents enter the home. Primarily male stepparents.
@@Diana-ik2vrforgive!?😂
Amazing guest! I don't think I ever sat all the way through a 3 hour podcast before. I have learned so much from Dr. Gad Saad without him going in depth. My curiosity has been sparked!
So grateful for your show! Your 7miion are so deserved. You respect your guests, you let them speak, you don’t constantly interject like so many podcasts. You are curious and you e maintained your focus on knowledge and expanding ours w amazing guests and you haven’t diluted w celebrities and the distractions of fame. THANK YOU SO MUCH! ❤❤❤ you’re a gem online.
Steven. You never cease to amaze me with your interviews. Amazing work. I found the whole discussion fascinating. Although I didn’t agree with some of the things mentioned, your technique allowed me to understand how he arrived at his way of thinking. Really interesting man to interview.
Thank you Steve for pushing back on some of your guest’s statements and ideas!
Wow, what a great podcast. I have learned alot and also got confirmed many things. Thank you so much 👍🏼❤️
As a survivor of domestic whose ex was telling everyone I was cheating... Yeah, I'm steering clear of men from now on.
so you are basically saying if my ex cheated on me that means all woman are cheaters so i should stay away from woman?
Pick better
Jk, but seriously you got the worst of the litter. To swear off all men is understandable but isn’t doing yourself any favors
@@bobthebuilderhecanbuildit with the attitude she have towards man she better steer clear of men. no discent person wants to deal with the emotional baggage of his new partner, and this is exactly what her next man will have to deal with, because she cant grow up unfortunatly
Wise lady
My awe for Dr Saad as an academic turned into awe for Steven as a podcast host during the conversation’s hard-right turn into politics. It struck me as hypocritical that someone who fled persecution and describes himself as a free-speech absolutist except when directly inciting violence to others would openly defend the president’s actions on January 6th, 2021. I thought Steven did an exceptional job pushing back with questions and grateful that we got to see another side of Dr. Saad. This is a great episode nonetheless and serves as an important reminder that no one is perfect and everyone should determine their own opinions.
Do you even know what happened on Jan 6th 2021 as opposed to parroting what the media says about it. Were you there?
If a person’s political views matter so much to you, you’ve already lost in the ability to learn science.
The truth is independent of your ideology.
My thoughts exactly 👍
Thank you, Alexander. Well said💫
Right? He also seemed very concerned about laws and following them while clearly supporting a convicted fellon, like wtf?! Also Trump undeniably called to violence when saying "grab them by the P@=€y"(one of many examples). This DR has a selective memory to say the least and a deficient moral compass...
American Presidential politics seems to be a blind spot for Dr. Saad. Trump's character flaws are in direct conflict with what Dr. Saad says he values. The only thing he defended Trump over was the fact that he's a loose cannon and therefore might be 'scarier' to dictators around the world.
Thr feedback at the end is so deserved, Steve does such a great job at having a good open conversation with evry guest (except Boris, but it only shows how remarkably good the dialog all the rest of the time is)
Amazing how 3hrs just went by! One of the best discussions I've ever listened to. Kudos to both of you
This showed me that he still doesn't understand the majority of women. We just want a emotionally available, non-lazy man. That's it. Just pick up your shit and don't gaslight me. That's all. The money is just a bonus.
I felt this way when he said men have been taught by radical feminiat pressure policy to not approach women. I'm like... no one ever said don't approach PERIOD it is the asshole behaviour we don't want
Speak for yourself and your culture. That doesn’t apply to 90% of the women in the world. They have no choice but to seek a protector. What you’ve stated for yourself is so high on the Maslov’s hierarchy of needs. The western women are high up there. Rest of the world is trying to survive
Western women are not majority of the women
Most women are not actually attracted to the traits they think/say they are.
Also, pleasant to the senses and hygienic.
The subtitle doesn’t do the actual content justice because it really was a fascinating look into biology and human behaviour. Excellent video!
Can you blame a woman for talking about toxic masculinity when you also say the most dangerous person she will ever meet is her husband
Apparently “toxic masculinity” is just the “primal urge for paternity certainty”… the funny thing is that the statistics of father abandonment do not reflect this desperate desire to raise their child… Oh! Today we have DNA tests! Time to evolve! 😂😂
Definitely not.
That was one of the things I disagree with him on. For someone who kept talking about modulation, he sure talked about masculinity like it's black and white. It's a matter of degrees. Nobody ever said a fireman going into a burning building to save someone is toxic. The guys in the video who kept approaching the lady walking down the street alone, in his words, they're "@$$holes." I think the difference is pretty obvious to.
Some people are misunderstanding the husband statistics. While true that around 55% of all female homicide victims (in the US) are killed by an intimate partner (not necessarily husband), this makes it sound like a huge percentage of men are inherently dangerous to their partners. It ignores the fact that the VAST majority of women will not be homicide victims to begin at ~0.002%. Compared that to 20% who die of heart disease. So I would say the deli vendor is more dangerous to women than their husbands.
@@barrettfrancis1278 That's a huuuuge amount. The women who go into relationships are naive especially with so much information today. Especially if living together. You should never go into a sleeping lion's den unarmed