The Divorce Expert: 86% Of People Who Divorce Remarry! Why Sex Is Causing Divorces!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 มิ.ย. 2024
- James Sexton is America's top divorce lawyer, and bestselling author of romantic advice books 'How to Stay in Love' and 'If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late'.
00:00 Intro
02:02 I Am A Divorce Lawyer
02:37 How Many People Divorce
08:51 The Dynamics Between Gold Diggers And Millionaires
12:33 What's Prenups? And The Legalities Behind Marriage!
17:14 The Perfect Prenup
18:56 Disagreements Over Prenups
26:48 Are Prenups Legal?
28:34 The Most Shocking Prenup (Don't Get Fat)
29:59 Appearance As A Measure Of Love In A Relationship
32:33 Prenups With Fidelity & Cheating Clauses
37:30 Are Prenups On The Rise?
39:39 Are People Fake Happy?
44:18 Stop Comparing Your Relationships To Others
50:44 How To Prevent Divorce
55:25 "Happy Wife, Happy Life"
01:02:59 Is Sex The Biggest Cause Of Divorce?
01:07:53 Fixing The Marriage
01:09:36 Who Cheats More?
01:10:02 Who Wants More Sex?
01:13:05 Most Shocking Deceit
01:14:18 Why Husbands Like To Sleep With The Nannies
01:16:36 Killing To Get Out Of A Relationship
01:22:17 Have You Ever Cried?
01:24:29 Love And Loss
01:37:01 Seeing Relationships As Chapters
01:40:55 Have We Been Sold An Idyllic Lie?
01:44:34 Is Money The Biggest Cause Of Divorce?
01:48:59 Can You Hide Money?
01:50:16 You Are Liable For Debts
01:51:49 Winning The Lottery And Keeping Quiet
01:53:20 LGBT Rights & Divorces
01:59:19 Are Open Relationships The Answer?
02:02:00 Is Cheating Okay?
02:05:44 Should We Get Married?
02:13:14 Last Guest Question
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You couldn't even make it through the intro without blaspheming the Lord Jesus. If you really think you should be publicly blaspheming then be bold and do the same to Islam's Muhammad.
your a joy to listen too and love your content!
Love the new lighting and depth of field. I love listening to this guy and have seem him multiple times. In a way it seems strange because I am still deeply in love with my wife after 27 years together. It is a multicultural marriage with a 20 year age gap but if anything it has gotten better over the years. Perhaps it is because I pay attention to the things he talks about and continue to hone my relationship skills despite being together for so long.
Man, you have the most interesting and engaging podcast I've watched. Very great work bud!!
One of your most enlightening and thought provoking guests yet so far. Successful, long term relationships are far and few between. Personally? I would never even attempt such a tumultuous endeavor. Great speaker. Great discussion. Wonderful channel. ❤
For a divorce lawyer, dude is giving better relationship advice than relationship coaches. Great episode.🙌🏾
This guy's a legend lol!
Yup 👍
What book is it & what's the name of the lawyer author pls? TY
He’s was performing…hug your dog and smell him😭
@@Dmode-pq6gf yeah got ridiculous towards the end lol. NGL
This guy said something really profound. "The reason why I never wanted to be famous is because the praise of strangers never really appealed to me" Let that sink in
Yet still did it anyway
And you'd have to deal with fans constantly approaching you in public.
That's why 'famous' people should hold on to friends they made before they became famous
@artvandelay3922 Did he do it...or his career did it without his consent... some decisions we never know they will put us in the public eye... that's why some actors choose to leave the industry.. because the fame is too much... and some are famous but live such quiet lives, only to pop up, make a movie and disappear again...
Profound? When something sounds good but lacks in logic it is often referred to as sophistry. Another term that can be used is 'specious reasoning', which refers to statements that appear plausible on the surface but are actually flawed - in this see case his actions or inactions in this regard bely his truths.
Interesting video content, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Not sure you've picked up on it yet, but a woman's love is utilitarian. She'll will never love you for who you are. Only for what you can do for her; how you make her feel. It appears your utility in her life has come to and end. Once you grasp this concept you'll understand the meaning of "You can love them, or you can understand them. But you cannot do both."
My husband leaves me notes on my computer before he leaves to work. I put notes in his lunch. His coworkers laugh but I can’t imagine my life without him
That screams insecurity and that you constantly need reassurance. What you gonna do if your partner gets bored of writing these notes, have a melt down?
This is so sweet!
That’s really nice….realizing early that it’s the little things will take you far.
@@imconfused1237 No silly, its the little continuous gestures that solidify a partnership. Think of how all other animals that form solid couples do small bond reinforcing gestures on a daily basis, oftentimes several times a day (grooming, chatting, cuddling and on)! Nature itself tells us these little gestures go far and are important!
@@imconfused1237 say you don’t understand how women operate without saying you don’t know how women operate lol.
The sound bites in this podcast episode are pure gold! “Tradition is peer pressure from dead people” 😅😅
Tradition is advice from people who've learned through the pain so you don't have to.
@@bv3635 With as much respect that you can get from my response, I disagree. WISDOM is advice from people who have learned thru pain so you don't have to.
Tradition is important as a guide.
Peer pressure is from God through the Bible. It's not man made.
G. K. Chesterton said tradition is the democracy of the dead. It is saying we value their opinion and experience and wisdom. Not that we need to do everything their way. But that they at least get a vote.
My ex-husband had an airtight prenup. I signed it because i loved him and our chances for the future.
He was more than generous in our divorce. I will always be grateful to him for that and so much more.
you loved him and your chances for the future; what happened, are you happier because the marriage failed, and he was generous in the divorce, you rather just be grateful for the generosity rather than stay together?
Yet you still divorced him? Wtf
you can have appreciation without hostal emotions , does not mean the emotional ties worked , smart loving lady All the Best to you
Men pay child support and alimony more than if it was court ordered according to a research.
@@slayer7682 Just a suggestion. Is it possible that you openly attack cases of peaceful divorce cos you believe in Disney type marriages only and want to punish anyone who dares to break it for you?
I thought, "I'm not going to enjoy this talk about cheating and divorces"... OMG! This has nothing to do with that (well, it does, obviously). There's SO much more to this conversation! So much empathy, so much love and care... I've loved every single second. Plus, his communication skills are superb. Thanks!! ❤
This is by far my favorite episode of your podcast so far. James moved me to tears with his candour and his unwavering faith in love despite all the (ugly) divorces he witnessed. I would like to thank you for showing men who wear their vulnerability and emotion as a badge of honour. This takes true courage and they are incredible role model for young men who can witness what real masculinity is all about.
THIS! ❤
Really glad to hear this one resonated with you so deeply! Thanks for sharing 🙏
Masculinity has its positives and negatives. It doesn’t mean one is real and the other is fake.
This man is a parasite. Divorce lawyers of his type are about the assassination of the other party.....he never once spoke about fallout about children and his responsibility to suitably balanced post split. It's a win at all costs.... hence protracted, expensive and exhausting for both parties. I wonder if he thinks about the 4 deaths on the other side. It was glossed over. What about his work in hospice? I expect behind the tears over dogs and marital lessons learned he's probably somewhat troubled.
Agreed!
“It is so brave to love.” So many quotable moments…this conversation is one of my all time favorites.
Me too!😊
I’ve been brave and burned down several times…makes you want to only love yourself! I like this lawyer..he actually emotes!
Yes, you are so right!! James Sexton was brilliant though at first I was skeptical. As I continued to listen I realized some things about myself. He shared so much information and I know it would have made me stop and think about my own relationships, but I’m hearing it now and it’s okay. Excellent conversation Steven and James🥰. I recommend this episode to anyone thinking about marriage or partnership…it opened my eyes!!!
He has another interview as equally profound with minimal duplication. Idk if it’s allowed for me to post the channel, but it was 9 mos ago. This guy has a lot of unique and interesting things to say. Worth listening to both interviews in full.
I was posing the video just so I could write down some ( most) of his thoughts
That last question 😢 I lost my father recently and I can relate to a father who is never said “I love you “ to me as frequent when I grew older. When I graduated with from Uni, I expected my mom to cry but it was my father that did. That moment gave me pause and told me something about him that I’ll never forget, Love isn’t just a word, it’s a verb, a strong action we all take.
Take time to appreciate those who love you 🙏🏽💙
Words are air. Action, behavior is what matters.
Love is an action verb.
Read King Lear.
MEH, not daring to word you love is a sign of pride and arrogance.
Sinful!
Of course action matters a lot. But words are spells. It has POWER. It can make or break minds. So you DO have to WORD your love if you want it to make a positive impact on your loved ones.
Don't bs me with "action matters more", it's just cowardliness.
Imagine how better his and your day would be if he tried to voice all that love for you. Yeah.
@@Zilma-jm8sz Demanding words and not appreciating action is narcissism and a warning sign.
Excellent interview. I've cried and laughed while watching it. I was married twice. Now a widow. Agree with EVERYTHING he said.
Everything? It’s 2 hrs long
@@illMonk-xm2xdI suppose every message!
He is such a good storyteller. Passionate, empathetic with a wit. And he is not afraid to show emotion. Love this conversation.
That's why he's a persuasive, successful lawyer
If I were on a jury I bet I'd be voting his way... 😅
He srsly really is that good, I'm so here for it
An actor
@@virtualtraveler2024I’m that passionate when I speak of certain things that trigger, he just happens to be an attorney earning a decent living.
There is another interview with him on Soft White Underbelly channel. Thats a good one too
I am an old man who has lost everything and everyone I've ever loved, but I'll never stop loving for as long as I live. Thank you for this reaffirming episode. It really touched my heart.
Love is all there is. It’s brave to choose love above all else. ❤
There is ALWAYS someone or something to love. I have also lost everyone and everything, except Love, so I love, love, love, love, love every moment. It is really nice. I wish you well.
@@ClaireCelticMysticLove to you. 🎉
@@AT-eu4zu❤
I am so jealous of you. You had someone to love, and you still have. I have had very few people that I have loved and think that they were worth loving. People are definitely very disappointing. You trade you care, honesty for lies and world of hurt.
Love how this man speaks so freely and in such an authentic way. He is being so real and I just it love how raw he is being in this conversation.
If you are a fan of James Sexton, the first hour and 21 minutes are things he said in other people podcast. But! The iteration is a must. But!!! after that mark, you get into an hour and 22 minutes.... EVERYTHING is Pure Gold. AMAZING!!!! What Wisdom. Thank You. WOW.
Lawyers are better than therapist. Almost got a divorce about 7 years ago and a meeting with a lawyer taught me more than all the sessions of therapy we went to. Oddly enough, we stuck it out and have building strong once again.
That's beautiful. Congrats 👏
Agree.. my sessions with my lawyer are so calming - they serve facts in a world filled with so much misinformation.
Is your lawyer a relative? Lawyers don't make money counseling clients
Therapists in particular lock women into their beliefs. I have very few therapists I admire.
Try meeting with a Catholic priest, they are smarter than lawyers.✝️They will blow your mind.
That point about dad never saying he loved you hit home for me. My Indian dad is not particularly affectionate with words but growing up we moved a lot and he would always choose the place with the best school districts, one time having a 2 hour commute to work each way to ensure my sister and I had the best education. When we hit financial struggles, My parents forewent all their vacations for 15 years to pay for our college and told us they expect us to pay it forward for our children. Dad has never said ‘i love you’ but he doesn’t need to! His actions are so loud. I’ve had friends lecture me about how parents HAVE to say it and I found this condescending and annoying. Just because it happens to you doesn’t mean this is how everyone expresses love
This is incredibly wise.
@@Caroline-ez8ls, it is incredibly normal in Asian society.
Also the reason why Indian community has less divorce rates than most countries. It’s changing to worse year over year due to western influence. At least so far, Asian parents would pay for their children’s education with blood and kidneys if they have to (in sprite). Better than expecting unskilled uneducated 18 year old to take a huge loan and ask them to clear it or ask rest of the society to take burden of it.
“You have infinite capacity for love” - Profound statement,❤
My Dad never said it, but he definitely showed it, and that’s what matters.
My husband and I are celebrating our 10th anniversary next month! 🎉🎉🎉 18 years together later this year. And 5 children from 7 to 9 months (after losing our first precious girl 👼🏽).
Life is full and abundantly blessed. ❤
❤👏👏👏
Congrats and God bless 🎉
"Money talks, but Wealth whispers." Brilliant!! The most profound interview I've heard in awhile. Eyes wide opened.🙏🏼
So wonderful to see a hard nosed lawyer who has witnessed so much divorce yet still has the capacity to feel and express joy and love.
What a guy ❤
RIGHT!!! Its the empathy and perspective that makes him so much different than the typical lawyer, esp one that specializes in divorces
I didn't expect to get emotional while listening to a divorce lawyer. The way this man talks about love is incredible. Great content, as usual.
Me too. This was exceptional because this man knows what love means... He really does
I saw another interview with him previously and it made me go buy his book. It was EXCELLENT!!
Truly!
Hey manulina how about getting a divorce and marrying me
What's your plan
@@jontyrhodes4155 ahaha
First of all I want to congratulate you on a beautiful conversation of such a complex topic. It was done and spoken with so much respect, love and grace. James is just amazing, real, raw and vulnerable. Thank you both you moved me to tears.
Wow, is that not what I thought this was going to be about! After listening to this entire interview, I came away with a renewed love of life and also love of my wife! Bravo!
One thing is certain: we all die one day. But if you have someone to comfort you, to hold your hand and you can be there for them. "What a worthy pursuit!"
That is something to remember.
That's an emotional way to think about life and death. Either way, we came to the world alone and will leave alone. That's more factual.
Or you can have someone who doesn’t know how to behave in public sneering, being controlling, and low voice yelling at you while you’re trying to enjoy yourself; so you have to pinch the skin on the back of their arm until they behave.
@@Tunsmandieeww a pessimist. Eugh brother eugh 😂. It's not too emotional, it's purpose. Love like many things can carry us through life. You know the points between birth in death. Also to put the nail in that coffin of your born alone and die alone. Most people are usually born to a loving mother. And if you're lucky, die with those you love or protecting them. 🤠
@@MatthewHanson1Cut the shit with your fairytale...what he said is true
@@FindTheTRUTH337Your picking skills are bad...
"I get misty-eyed at marriages as much as anybody, and not just for future business purposes." - Glad he clarified that.
I has a delicate sense of humor 😅
😂
I wanna know what percentage of SECOND marriages end in divorce!
@@MatthewElvey 60 to 70%
50 % or more. I want the stats on 3-4th marriages.
This is the first divorce lawyer with the biggest heart I have ever witnessed! He said so many things I have been feeling forever! I sure can relate to him and hope to read his book very soon.❤
Why have I never seen this guy before? He is one of the most wise people I've ever heard.
I first saw him on "Soft White Underbelly." Highly recommended!👍
"I have an infinite capacity for love, no matter what I lose, cause we are losing all, all the time, but that's not a reason to not to love" one of the best episodes so far!
that sounds stupid
@@stereo-soulsoundsystem5070I mean if that’s all you can say to give your opinion, that’s says a lot
I agree!
@@stereo-soulsoundsystem5070 stupid is as stupid talks haha (yes, you. the quote up there is just wonderful and if you think its stupid, you probably are a kid or have really no clue about how life works)
I had to STOP the video to cry, make tea, ponder, cry, savor and survive the truth of that one sentence, "I have an infinite capacity for love, no matter what I lose." I had to sit and allow the healing, the washing-clean, pouring light transmission directly from the Heart of God through my Soul;
I lost my mom at 5,
my dad at 11,
my mind at 16,
my hope at 19,
my homes, every year, all my life, always moving on,
seeking what love could do to heal my heart and shine through me, in a healthy way,
my adoptive father at 52, (to porn, heart attack; true, it is a thing, he was 64), + 3 months later, ...
my lil 27-yr.-o. Sis (to Heroin + flesh-eating bacteria someone shot her up into a hole due to that; true; frightening),at 52,
my adoptive mom at 56,
my family home of 51 years at 59,
my willingness to accept any traces of abuse and disrespect at 50.
I am now 60. I leave a wake of shock behind me, as I address any lack of loving, because I know what love is, and I carry and share it freely. I deserve and accept nothing less. I had no idea what respect was until Ger Lyons (gerlyons.net) helped me heal all my confusion, in 14 years of training in Celtic Mysticism;
Ger Lyons Global Healing Events.
(He's Irish, and he knows.)
I am so grateful for this sharing.
The wisdom, the profound truths, the laughs that were equally healing, the sweetness of the truth about Love from a man who has seen marriage fail solely due to the failure of loving, never of Love, this is everything.
I am bowing to this exchange.
You both are making the world a better place.
I have already Subscribed.
Love has never failed.
Aloha, Claire
This guy never fails to be a remarkable guest on any podcast. His dialogue and insights are thoughtful, poignant and colorful.
There's more? I'm finding it all. This guy knows what's up
He's missing a crucial factor in couplings...
YIN YANG
@@007nadineL No he isnot. Those who marry do have yin yang, but life changes, new people come into the scene, people have problems, drinking, gambling, sexual dysfuntion...
@@nt4081exactly
Yeah, he had a great interview on a the Financial Diet with Chelsea too
As someone that has never married but am engaged, I hope to never go through a divorce. His view on pre-nups was such a 'be kind to yourself and the person you love' sentiment though.
The best podcast I have ever watched! You are such an amazing interviewer as you allow your guests to talk without constant interruptions. You actually listen, which in turn allows your audience to listen. This guest is the first person on a podcast where I think I just fell in love with his soul, such wisdom, vulnerability, and heart ♥️
I love how he stepped back and addressed the term "gold digger", which is used to shame women. Men say "of course an older man with a fortune is entitled to a young woman", well that woman offers service with value in the dating marketplace, why is she always expected to give everything for free. Add to that, her "value" in the marketplace supposedly depreciates with time. Again, why should she give her best years to some old dude for free? If the roles were reversed the men would say "it's only logical" and anyone giving resources up for free is an "emotional loser."
@@12xenn45 yes... and? These men go into the relationship for her kind heart you think? They'd feel butterflies if she was 200 lbs and 55 but had a sweet personality?
Look, men don't like "gold diggers" because these women think logically and act like men's equals, expecting compensation for what they bring to the table.
Men expecting everything from women for nothing is a big problem in todays society. They would not settle for such terms themselves but expect the women to do so. Most likely think of women as "emotional" and "inferior" because they have been able to manipulate the majority consistently into giving up resources for free using lies.
Gold digger men exist too.
Imagine if we could marry away and if it doesn’t work we win the lottery.
@@12xenn45it's a transaction
The court system is terrible and now men know this. So now they don’t marry. Because they know they will get cleaned out. lol. Call it what you want. Suckers no more. Here a thought. Humans aren’t biologically meant to be married and “death do you part” wasn’t for 40,50,60,70 years. Why you say. Because humans used to die very young. Peace out.
Even as a single person who has never been married, I found this interview so interesting and insightful. James is a brilliant guest.
same. i've been single all my life. been battling severe poverty in my youth living in homeless shelters, struggling just to get to school, having to deal with a single parent that's mentally ill, later on i've had to deal with very abusive and toxic workplaces, to developing 2 chronic illnesses into my 30s, and still dealing with them in my 50's and losing the single parent and friend i had my entire life. i watch this video for entertainment value, because i know, i guarantee, i will never experience any of this. and thank goodness. this level of stress would end me. he gets so emotional...is it because of money loss? its clearly not because she was cheating on him. the word love is thrown around for some reason.
Loved what he said when I first heard him on SWU and after this interview I love him even more. It has seriously brought so many things to light that have helped me in my 24 years married experience and the downfall it’s been on for the last 8 years. Yet, I find myself loyal to a fault. And as so many chose comfortability over the fear of the future, for now. The last of our three daughters graduated last year so no more saying I’m staying for the kids. My husband and I have a lot of work to do. And now that he’s physically handicapped and will soon lose his left leg to the knee, I feel enough love for him to stay and take care of him, for now. He’s always been the strong one in the relationship and now it’s my turn to give him that grace and forgiveness. For him and myself. ❤
My father was a Vietnam vet and a bad alcoholic. How in the world did this gentleman muster the confidence to become one of the best attorneys in NYC??
This was a wonderful podcast!!
He knew the alcoholic Vietnam vet loved him. Maybe that's how.
Some people use their negative life experiences to become the best version of themselves and don't remain victims of any negative experiences they have had.
Married 20+ years, and I still love her. Marriage is beautiful. It's not always easy, but it's worth it.
Relationships can be beautiful.
Whatever legal status is imposed on them does not matter
@@jezalb2710 👍
Exactly.
Well I did it twice - marriage is fantastic if you can have a good one, but the chances of that nowadays are slim. The way society is today is not conducive to a marriage lasting…..
@@rufdymond Dating apps and social media has allowed people to cast a much wider net on potential mates. The better more perfect one is just around the corner...
Statistically its like walking up to a roulette wheel and picking one number and winning on the first spin. Just because you won doesn't mean that gambling is a good idea.
“Whoever discovered water, it wasn’t a fish.” This guy drops so many little quotes and insights from his experience that rly make this a great conversation. Incredibly smart, witty, and grounded.
I divorced after 13 years of marriage. To be sincere, at the bottomless pit of every failed marriage is dishonest communication. If we can be 100% open and create an environment for that to continue without judgements, many marriages will be saved.This is pure enlightenment. Thank you.
Thank you. The logic side of me jump in joy listening to this segment. 😊 I enjoyed his analogies and examples: fish in water, his old dog, pet peeve on happy wife talk, empty barrel is the loudest, celebs are not as what they projected, his take on love from both side (fairly), what is normal, sex, small gesture of courtesy, little notes or daily praise is far more precious than a necklace, preventative maintainance, he resolute the cases with an engineer approach, purpose, love is a loan, pain, health, etc. South Paw here as well
Perfect marriages or relationships don't really exist; each one is special. What works for one person might not work for another. But I've come to realize that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years back, my wife and I were close to getting divorced because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to make things right. It was hard, but we got through it.
I truly understand the importance of your words, and I genuinely want to find happiness too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart at the moment, I can't imagine my life without her; my love for her is big. I really want her to return, and I'm fully committed to making it happen. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to mend things
Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
You definitely should
@@Newtonwilson-yw4kgsounds like white magic 🥴
As we age, companionship becomes more important than sex. Compatible sharing of interests is key. And mutual respect. Love is the wish for others to be happy. Our culture has become a grab bag of me me me. Sadly.
Nope. We don't want laydees in our lives any more.
Porn has a lot to do with it.
"As we age, companionship becomes more important than sex."
Why do so many men then resort to pr0n? Like in honesty, this is deal breaker for so many women.
That is the BEST definition of love I have ever seen!!
👏👏👏
Not if you've been in a sex starved marriage
“Tradition is peer pressure from dead people.” This guy is a modern day Oscar Wilde. Pithy, funny, iconoclastic, and profound. Fantastic interview! ❤
This is the best relationship discussion I think I've heard. If a couple were to listen to this during their courtship and again prior to marriage it would solve so many problems. Maybe make it an anniversary date to get away and listen to it every year. Excellent interview.
I cried like a baby listening to this. Cannot believe I learned so much from a divorce lawyer. Thank you for bringing in him for this discussion.
I love listening to him. (There are other interviews of his on u tube).
Me tooooo! So DEEP and so TRUE!
SAME! ❤
As a man, I can say nothing about this made me want to cry .. that is bizarre to me.
@@edwardk3 This should help you understand Edward. Ready? ----> Not everybody on the planet is the same as you.
I want to put a warning out to all those who stumble on this amazing episode and are about to listen to it during the work day; wait until after work. It's so full of wisdom, but also it'll bring you to tears if you've ever loved a dog. I've had to cancel a meeting because I'm a mess rn. What an incredible 2 hours.
Yes, totally agree!
My dog turns 16 next month and I wouldn't trade him for any puppy in the world. He hit the nail on the head. I love this little guy more and more every day.
Im in a cafe and now crying
He’s articulate, animated and a great story teller.
This is hard conmen to right because genuinely this guy is absolutely brilliant and has many gems of knowledge.. but one thing he hasn’t figured out is that a lot of the time saturating yourself into your work and career and not developing your own partner connection because you are too caught up in your career is the reason so many successful people don’t actually have good chemistry and connection with there partners.. take a fucking step back for a second and put some energy into your partner
I don’t think that I have enjoyed a better interview. This guest was the most intelligent, articulate, and insightful person that I have heard speak about relationships.
Thank you for sharing.
Wow the last question about love and the love for our children and the joy of sacrifice- he’s very inspirational
“It’s a game we can’t win and we just keep playing it.” Cheers to all of us who keep playing may your heart never grow weary.
🎯
I feel we win when both are happy together and push through all struggles together.
@@CNGSanetaRose so true. Winning is not a destination. That's just a wrong assumption people make. Winning, like happiness, is in the journey.
Now HERE is a man who truly knows how precious life and love IS...
The same man who calls himself a weapon and a chainsaw because he has broken up marriages and hurt so many people it drove many of them to süicide, he has some useful information but don’t embellish him.
does he tho? He's a lawyer.
Betrayal betrays trust.
No trust = No relationship.
Yeah, ok, this guy earns the big bucks because he has charisma out the ears. Damn good interview!
"My beliefs don't require that you believe them" is one of the best things I've heard recently so much so that it puts so many things into perspective. Thank you!
And sadly he also had to acknowledge the fact that, "your beliefs may require that I believe them..."
I haven’t gotten there yet in the episode but it’s so true! It makes me so sad a lot of people cannot talk to someone that disagrees with them. My dad is very liberal and my mom is very conservative, I’m so happy I grew up getting to hear both.
My husband and I don’t always agree on politics or religion. But we both find each other really smart and genuinely love hearing how the other one thinks, even if we think about the topic in a different way. I’ve never felt judged for my beliefs with him. I’ve never judged him for his beliefs. I love hearing a new, well thought out perspective from my husband. It’d be so boring if we thought the same way about everything.
@@Olivia-bl8ez It’s so true but I haven’t found many people in my life who can be so secure in their skin and beliefs that they can hear what others have to say without getting offended over it.
So happy you two found each other and can be your true selves around each other.
@@imnotdavidxnsx Yes at times but not always. I categorise my beliefs and my personal beliefs don’t require validation from others but my social beliefs might because I would to find people who believe in the same things as I do.
@@zunairaakbar1214 hopefully your young and your friends can grow into it. Or maybe you can be the catalyst. I’m sure your friends are great but maybe keep your eye out for more open minded friends too lol. Most people are not to the extreme with things, just gotta find them. Best of luck ❤️
Been married for over 40 years. Thoroughly enjoy being in love with my husband. We both work on being the best version of ourselves, physically, mentally and emotionally and never take one and other for granted.
Thats amazing. Did you ever have doubts about him or were you two ever close to divorcing?
This is some of the best advice for a marriage , your comment here.. Very wise
Very true🙏🙏🙏
@@blueburdie6953 those doubts are more a modern day thing where social media/dating apps give you more options. Thinking that you can do better. That wasnt around 40 years ago
This is excellent. Show up as your best self. If you fail, try again. This reminds of something I once heard, "Never compare yourself to others, only compare yourself to who you were yesterday." ❤
How important is sex when you over 60? I imagine the priority drops a lot compared to under 50.
I have watched this podcast 3 times and can't get enough of it. This is by far my most favorite and I've been watching for quite a while. Please continue to bring this kind of thought provoking conversations to the community.
37:32 'White teeth but rotting gums' mad underrated line right there
This guy is the ULTIMATE RELATIONSHIP prophet! He’s a lawyer, psychologist, and counselor 😮
Who is also divorced! Prophet my behind!
@@mbach003he’s human!!!
@Zazezoo def not a prophet and not qualified to give relationship advice fs
All good lawyers experienced law is a small part it people negotiate understanding people and getting ahead of the game 😊
@@mbach003you have to go through things and experience it to be qualified to talk about it and advised. I wouldn't want someone advising me about marriage if they haven't gone through it. I wouldn't want a virgin to advice me about marriage.
The best part of this interview is James talking about His dogs and the love of his pets. The love of his mother. Speaking about hearing her voice again for the first time after she past 8 years ago. How his dad pulled out an old video and them hearing her familiar voice. His perspective of love. Very beautiful outlook. How we forget how important it is to love someone or our pets. How heartbreaking it is for us but having the joy of them makes us feel alive, how important it really is to have love.
I was sobbing at work through that section of the interview. 🤦🏻♀️
Lawyers know how to tug at your emotional strings
Wow what a guest I’m only 55 minutes in and I’m thoroughly enjoying this conversation
I almost didn't watch this because of the thumbnail and subject matter, but I am glad I did! James Sexton brought me to tears, but for all the right reasons. Fascinating, funny and emotional with a lot of wisdom. Thank you.
It's an incredible feeling to love, but the hurt from losing that love can ruin you.
word!
And this can be true whether or not you signed a marriage contract. If a long, monogramous relationship that meant something ends.
@nirradical? That's exactly when a person gains the opportunity to learn how to "turn their pain into purpose". Never allow a broken heart to destroy you. Take that pain and use it as the "fuel" to achieve great successes in your future. ❤
Welcome to life without a fence.
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I'll never forget in 2007 my boyfriend of 2 yrs at the time got into some legal/family trouble. When we returned from a vacation we headed to his parents house. At one point his parents asked me, "Why are you with him when he did this" (it was a minor legal infraction (weed). I looked at them across the table and listed 10 great qualities in their son and the last thing I said was "and... I love your son; through good and bad/thick and thin... no matter what." Their rebuttal was, "And what would your father think of this?" And I laughed and laughed and I said, "He would laugh... if you don't believe me call him up and ask him" We are still together... 18+ yrs and still going. ❤❤ I have no plans of ever finding another because no one can compare to him. ❤
sounds like you love him more than his freaking father.
That's beautiful 💚
That was absolutely beautiful. Hang on to each other because that type of love is extremely rare in our materialistic society.
Thanks for sharing this was heart warming
@@marleeravenscroft7848truths! 😢. It’s a shallow world!!🌎.
This podcast is a public service. Anyone considering marriage or thinking about ending one should listen to it. It’s the best relationship coaching I’ve ever encountered-WOW! Simply the best ever. Thank you, Steve, for this opportunity, and thank you, Dr. Sexton, for generously sharing your wisdom and knowledge with all of us. That was great!
HOW do people NOT Sub? Your content is unique in that you have many guests which others do not....I love hard science and there are (of course) podcasters who feature others in science fields....but YOUR PREPARATION and insights...your QUESTIONS/COMMENTS more than often bring out NUANCES of previously explored topics which were NOT offered in the other podcasts. Consequently, your content (were it to ONLY feature hard science) is a huge adjunct to the data. YET you are not limited in the fascinating individuals you HOST. Well done. I am quite certain I subbed after listening to PARTS of TWO podcasts...as I was delighted at the differences in YOUR podcast. Your guests, your team and you provide such useful content. THANK YOU ALL.
The man when spiralling lashes out at the wife, while simultaneously needing and demanding her emotional nurturing.
Also when women are working less they are expected to keep the house. When she becomes the major bread winner she gets a resentment because the husband doesn't pick up on the house/kid duties because he thinks it's beneath him. So what is beneath him is expected for the wife. It's a major factor in losing attraction
No, women by their very nature are hypergamous.
A maturity issue
I would say your attitude is a major factor. It is an epidemic, actually.
Women need to be held accountable for their choices. I know it is difficult. But we must do it. Our society depends on it.
Truth
@edwardk3 So, let's take a shortcut instead of a long and tedious talk of why you're angry at women... What did that woman do to you?
Left you? Ignored? Cheated?
It can be his personality. I married someone who was less attractive, older, but who loved me unconditionally. I am so glad I did.
I too and I would always marry my loving darling :-) . His love is the biggest gift in my life.
Same with me. I’m loved forever.
I didn't marry, but was with my partner for 28 years. He was 23 years older, no oil painting and for those thinking gold digger, he was bankrupt.
This maybe one of the first attorneys I actually like. Good realistic commentary on relationships.
Im very impressed by his clarity, no wonder he's successful
I, being almost 66 and married for 42 years, strongly believe that althoug mariage is seldom a bed of roses and there are many issues along the way and we did think of having a divorce several times, we could, as a couple, survive those hard times by staying respactful, honest and sincere. We never scolded each other nor did we get abusive or cheat. We did yell at times of course and slammed the door harder than neccesary. And now in our "old" age, still being together, we enjoy each others company, accepting our differences because the memory of the past was not ruined by abusive behavior. I am glad we overcame those times because althoug I do not believe in the concept of "a" soulmate, I do feel he and I are now soulmates.
Love your channel!
I think this is what is missing from a lot of modern marriages - the tenacity to work through conflict, and conflict that can last YEARS! I’m not talking about cheating or abuse obviously. I was lucky enough to have a 10 year relationship throughout my 20s and although it ended when I turned 32… I had enough perspective to know that there were years where we weren’t getting along.. and then years that we were as close as anything. The perspective to see that a rough patch does not mean failure all the time. I’m so glad you got to find your soulmate.
Never heard what you should never hear an say no too getting married.
Awe that's so wonderful! Good for you two! ❤
@@winkA1....also dancing in the kitchen in your socks. 😁
This episode was insightful. But one question remains, sure many people need sex but what happens when there's just no way to make time (in between financial & health crisises or kids, lack of privacy , hormonal changes, responsibilities,just living life and doing other better things together and more) just because you're not having sex it's not just being a roommate Because a roommate wouldn't do all the things that a spouse (regardless of gender) does for you "from earning money,taking care of kids,sharing chores, supporting each other in hard times like health/financial issues and more) even without the sex.
- So are people just supposed to ditch their spouses because of changes in their libido?
Because as people get older while some people keep the sex life, others are happy without the sex life too (I've asked people that are fine being romantic but not necessarily having sex for years), and only thing that annoys some of those couples is that people think they can't be happy without sex so they end up feeling forced to question if something is really wrong with them. There are also asexuals. Imo main question people should ask before marriage even before pre-nups is how important is sex to them and what happens when changes happen.
My husband flirts with me nearly every day. Every single time makes me feel incredibly special. This fall we will be married 9 years. We both had a previous marriage that ended in painful divorces. We knew what we each wanted in a relationship. Just because my first marriage ended in divorce doesn’t mean all marriages are bad.
Yeah just don’t look in his phone. Be blissfully ignorant.
@@StannTheCaddy that’s cute but no, I fully trust him and vice versa. Of the many sporadic times one of us has had to jump on the other’s computer or phone, no hiding, flinching or weirdness, and that’s because we take care of our relationship. The fact that there is this expectation is for cheating to occur is pretty sad, but we raised the bar on ourselves and knew what we didn’t want to experience again from our previous marriages.
@StannTheCaddy im sure you don't cheat 🫣
@@StannTheCaddymy boyfriend and I have been using each others phones since we got together. I never snoop, and I don't know if he does but I don't care if he does. There is nothing to hide. And I trust he doesn't either. I think making a boundary to never use your partners phone is a major red flag. Any weirdness about it outside of planning a pleasant surprise for your partner is a red flag. If this relationship I'm in goes south... and I ever moved on, I would not date someone who has that boundary
@@kathydoe9287this seems like a bot response lol
What a heartfelt interview. I learned much about love, traditions, and James’ passion for life and love. Great storyteller.
That’s a good one : money talks, wealth whispers. True.
I think we IDEALIZE someone and get tunnel vision. Then the honeymoon phase fizzles out and see the reality and flaws. Love is valuable, but so is empathy. The secret to a long relationship is not love….it’s empathy. That’s the truth. ✌️💫✨
I try to wake these men up! I’m like listen up! I’m flawed and you are so show me your bad side! Let start there! 😂😂. It’s not working out for me as they hide it. I want to show mine. That scared some off! Too much trauma but I’m working hard to fix it
I don't think we idealize that other person. I think we fantasize about them meeting our desires and needs. We get caught in getting to that destination without really fully knowing who we're on that journey with.
@@maggieobrien3354this, we fall in love with the idea of them. Then when we see the real them and they aren’t living up to our imaginary standards of who we think they are the problems start. It’s even worse as you get older and start to change (because we all do in some way). The picture we have in our head doesn’t fit this “new” person and instead of understanding where the changes come from we fight and try to claw the person back wether we actually liked them or not. Every year I ask my husband what kind of cake he would like for his birthday. I know he likes a certain kind but tastes change and he might have had a new flavor he now prefers over what I had gotten him before. A good example his mom made him a lemon cake every year for his birthday because she was convinced it was his favorite (which it had been in childhood). He told me his favorite was chocolate. So I got him a chocolate cake. It was a few more years in and I finally told his mom his current favorite and she was shocked. Why? Because he was no longer fitting the image she had of him in her head.
We have to give each other space to grow and learn how to rediscover each other as we age. If we don’t then after 20 years you’re siting in a house with a stranger because you didn’t take the time to see them for who they are only who they were.
You’re 100% correct. Empathy is the doorway to fixing many problems. It’s the antidote to criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling and contempt (the 4 horsemen of relationships). Humans are complicated, we tend to get lost and drown in negative emotions..when those negative emotions linger too long it causes dissonance between two people who love each other and convinces them that they don’t.
EMPATHY, my friends..it’s hard but it is a choice ❤
I have to respectfully disagree. At least in my marriage I didn't idealize I truly believed he was whom he pretended to be for 5 years before we married. Together 3yrs before engagement married 2 yrs after that. It was absolutely wonderful. We talked about everything and made all kinds of decisions and plans about what we wanted our marriage to be. Within months after the wedding I didn't recognize him or his behavior, so in the tradition we'd established I tried talking lovingly to him about it. I was flabbergasted when he admitted he said all of those prior things to convince me to marry him, But now that we're married I have to accept him for who he truly is. I said but if you're not the person I fell in love with why would you think it's ok to be someone totally different. He tried convincing me he didn't mean it the way it came out and i guess I rationalized how he could be wonderful for 5 years, maybe he was just stressed. I definitely had the newlywed blues and doubted myself. So I developed OCD trying to constantly make sure everything was perfect at home, that I was doing everything right exactly as we'd agreed it would be. The perfect working wife. Slowly it became evident that standards, boundaries, requirements, only applied to me but as the man of the home he could do whatever he wanted. I met countless versions of him most frequently, Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. I was always off balance, traumatized, exhausted and criticized. 21.5 years later, kids are gone I can't do the tornado any longer
This had me sobbing. 😢 My dog is now 12.5, totally blind and deaf. I empathise so much with everything he said. I dread losing my boy. When my last dog died I said "never again" and here I am knowing I'm going to have my heart broken again. 💔
I'm so sorry. 😢💔 Sending hugs, love and light to you. Keep loving on animals though; they need us ❤❤
That is why, after my last dog was gone , I made the decision NEVER to get another....
Its okay ... animals are here to touch our spirit for a short time, death is inevitable... cherish the moments and be greatful.. nothing wrong with getting a new pet thats how the experience goes.. ❤❤❤
You are supposed to always have a younger dog by the time the other is older.. issue solved
@dertythegrower dirty I find u everywhere man, it's just not cannabis related this time 😂
Would not have expected to break down and cry several times watching an interview of a devoice lawyer … The part about our relationship with dogs really got me. ❤ As someone who’s been married for 34 years since turning 24, this interview really resonates with me.
I love this lawyer's common human sense and practicality. Going to Audible now to buy his book.
It feels like you can do absolutely everything right in a relationship and there's still a chance that your spouse will betray you and cheat on you. It's terrifying.
It’s true. The older I get, the more I see it happen. It seems nearly all marriages have infidelity at some point and they ether are unaware, they stay together, or they divorce. It’s actually human nature to stray from that which is safe and familiar to something new and therefore exciting. Even more cheating happens during dating. It’s just a part of life unfortunately.
The chance decreases when you have God at the centre of the relationship.
@@fruitsarelife7073 I've started to feel this way too. But it's hard to find a Christian woman who doesn't want children
You can decrease the risk substantially if you select for agreeable personality traits instead of the 15 other things that evolution made you want because it maximizes our ancestors reproductive success (the only thing evolution “cares” about.)
What exactally does it mean to have God at the center of your relationship?
At 1:34:00 I’m totally crying at a cafe. I’ve been divorced, I’ve lost a dog and nothing has touched me like this episode. Thank you.
Jeremiah 29:11 Jesus christ has amazing plans for you and your future💕
@@serenamorrr7921 ?? Jeremiah is the old testament. Jesus was not even born yet
Ooh! What café? Was it a chain or like a local place? What did you get?
Also, I'm happy for your healing 😌 And I'm sorry for your losses 😢
What did your parents say about him before and after the marriage?
@@lorellgingrich6603 I want you too cook a bit on this answer bud. John 1 -" in the beginning, was the word, and the word was with God, and the word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made."
Do you think before he was born into this physical world Jesus never existed? Bruh, did you ever sit and think about all this?
What an amazing man. So intelligent, honest and perceptive of feelings of others… it was an honour and pure joy to spend the two hours with him.
It all starts with good, truthful and honest communication.
Marriage is what holds two people together while they fall in and out of love. One of your best podcasts yet!
nah only men hold two people together 😏 Women are the ones filing for divorces
Are you committed or not? You need a paper to keep you together maybe shouldn't be
Sounds like a prison? Why would you need to a paper or government license to hold two people together especially if one party is unwilling?
Why do you need to hold 2 people together when they fall out of love?
By love, do you mean the butterflies of the first couple of months? Or is it something more? If it's the latter then you're not supposed to fall out of love, but understand that with time love changes, and stay there regardless of the change. But if you fall out of love? Why stay?
Inpulsive people will act impulsively in most cases, thinking people will think it thoroughly either way. It's about the kind of person you and your partner are, and the importance of thr relationship to you, not some paper that says you are together..
@@Rev3rence I think you answered your own question, "with time love changes". What I meant by the quote is that a marriage contract gives you pause to stop, think, and work on what you have had together. It gives more incentive to do this. Without it, impulse is much more likely. This does not mean it's a prison or you can never get a divorce. Another thing, just to mention, marriage gives you the right to make medical decisions for your partner, should you need to; plus property rights.
Been married for over 30year’s and we still celebrate our first date anniversary every year. He sent a beautiful bouquet to my business last month on our 34th dating anniversary. We renewed our vow’s on 25th anniversary. My Grandmother always said, take care of the little things and you’ll get through the big things! Continue to date each other and continue to develop yourself. I married my best friend!
nah.
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What a conversation! I could not stop listening. The insights were so profound. I love the fact that despite being in this sort of environment, James Sexton has remained so grounded and real. It was plain brilliant. Thank you!
Great Podcast ….undoubtedly one of the best and well rounded conversations across any social media platform. I don’t fully agree with every single word but I can appreciate and ponder every single word.
I bet you have never had someone on your podcast whose thoughts rolled of their tongue as quickly as his did. He is truly an expert. Excellent podcast. So authentic. So down to earth.
WORD. His analogy game is god-tier! I'd be terrified to be opposing counsel.
Even faster at 2x the speed lol
Well, no, he’s just rehearsed everything a lot. If you listen to him in other interviews you’ll see.
@@okayrachelmae I see your point. I have never heard him before. Thank you for letting me know.
@@judy-annmcneill1037 anyone who is interviewed a lot - Jordan Peterson et al you will notice they say the same things, sometimes in a different way over and over again. If one thinks about it, it's only to be expected if they are interviewed so many times. I don't mind if they say the same things because often there is so much wisdom that we need to listen to them repeatedly to take it all in.
This is one of the BEST conversations that I've witnessed in my 43 years of living. Sitting here at work listening, I cried so much throughout. This has definitely given me a total different outlook on love, life and it has also shown me how much I take things and people in my life for granted by simply assuming that there's always tomorrow. When in reality there really may not be a tomorrow.😪 Phenomenal conversation! Thank You!🔥❤
I am so happy to hear I am not the only one deeply touched by this exchange. Thank you for expressing yourself so beautifully, Mrs. Sherron09. I am realizing how I know tears are the way the body releases cortisol, the stress hormone, and if we are crying watching this, it is healing places where we were holding onto stress about loving, so this truly is the healing diary of a CEO! It healed me. I feel refreshed now.
Yeah, I shed a tear 😢 at the dog bit
I absolutely love you. I've been with you since day one and I feel like your extreme talent in making your guests feel comfortable enough to show tears and talk about the most vulnerable parts of themselves. You do your research , but I also think you truly appreciate what they have to say and what is learned by us, your collective, but also what YOU learn! What a great job you have, and what a great job you're doing!! Namaste and congrats on your huge success (how many MILLION subs??!!) Woohoo❤
The discussion in the section of love and loss was beautiful and emotional and connecting. Be grateful with what you have this moment. ❤
I’ve been married for 36 years. He said so many things of value I had to stop and write down. Steven this is my favorite interview I’ve seen you do. I wish I had watched this before I got married. I will share this with my grandkids before they get married. Bravo 👏!
James Sexton is an incredible speaker! He has a ton of interviews....look up his Great White Underbelly interview he's the best!
38 years married here. This talk was amazing!
Don't !!!
He's missing so much....
@@malhunt7 Soft White Underbelly?
@@cp6fr it's another TH-cam channel..like Diary of a CEO.
As a doctor, I hear stories from patients all the time. Cheating is one of them. STI testing is huge.
Where's the fun in cheating on your spouse and you get an STI and then give it to your spouse. Cheating is playing Russian Roulette with your health and your spouse's health.
My R.N. Sister knew my husband was cheating when he absolutely insisted on silver nitrate drops in our newborn’s eyes
This is my favorite episode in your entire library! Much love!
What a touching and informative conversation. Not exactly what I expected but totally appreciated. I cried too. Been married 42 years, happily. Even so, I miss the feeling that new love brings. I also know how often I take my relationship for granted and need to renew the love I have within my marriage. Sometimes I think that if my husband predeceases me, THEN I will realize how much I loved him. But currently I don’t feel the love as intensely as I once did. And this conversation has helped me feel the desire to get a bit of those feelings back before one of us no longer exists. Thanks. Well done interview. ❤
Love everyday like it's the last.
God bless you and I agree with you
My ex-husband definitely had a 'maid with sexual privileges'. Getting a divorce was the biggest gift I ever gave myself. The thought of getting remarried makes my stomach turn.
I often argue with my wife because I like to cook, really. And do household stuff while listening to podcasts. It's like meditation. But she doesn't like it because she thinks it's her duty. I even cook better than her, honestly. So there we go. Not everyone is the same.
My first marriage was like that as well. My second is fantastic. A true partnership where together we can do and accomplish way more than as individuals and we enjoy adventures together. It’s not perfect but the good far outweighs the bad. Was 9 years between my separation of my first wife to my 2nd marriage.
Please stay single. Dont ruin another mans life. Uve done enough
@ChispinRodz Exactly! Well said.
@@DavidKaiser-ox8hd"she doesnt like it because she believes its her duty" Society teaches women that this is what they are supposed to do. To take care of others. It can be hard to go in against this programming and to take better care of yourself and accept help. She might also be scared to loose you if she doesnt do things for you. You sound like a great husband shes a lucky woman.
Aww, what a conversation. No one says this sort of stuff any more, and it's so needed. Thank you. 🥰
Damn, that was good. I didn't want to pause it, so I had to watch it in one go. Each interview is also a huge time commitment to watch. And I come away from most of your interviews with that impression. Perhaps one reason many people watch and enjoy this channel but don't subscribe is because we worry that doing so is likely to result in an increase frequency of watching your interviews and thus an even greater use of our time... Part of what makes your interviews so great is also what makes them a huge time commitment for those who watch. It's an internal struggle.
Thanks!
Married 43 years. Have had faced many challenges . God has given us so much grace!!!😊
Fellow experienced divorce lawyer here (Pennsylvania and New Jersey). In this video fellow divorce attorney James Sexton delivers a great conversation, filled with wisdom and insight. Terrific interview. One of the best interviews in the history of this channel.
o you conider his information is accurate with your experience?
@@MarHeredia-vm4yl yes.
would you advise the passport bros movement (banging a bunch of women overseas with no commitment) or to get married in America?
@@TravelingGringo-gj4wc the fact that you even asked that question tells me you should join the passport bros movement...
Love this interview! Great questions, great conversation! Thank you!
Yeah bud-dee! Subscribed last week, so glad. Like many of the comments, you have GREAT guests with a wide and varied background. Thank you so much 🤗
James Sexton is brilliant. I could listen to him endlessly. I feel smarter for having listened to this. ❤️♾
Good point! I feel all riled up, in a great way, ready to LOVE, some more,
and full of appreciation for the cathartic healing journey we all just took together watching this and listening to true wisdom! Well done, Steven and James.