My body is just constantly in a state of fight/flight/freeze when I’m around him. I feel happy when I get to spend time with him because he actually pays attention to me and showers me with love when we’re in the same room but I’m also extra anxious around him because in the past he’s gone thru my phone and started fights over completely innocuous texts I send with my mom or stuff I react to on fb, and he’s started full on fights and accused me of cheating when I’m not doing anything of the sort. But when I’m not around him (I live 2 hours away so I only get to see him 4 days out of a month) I get very depressed because it’s like I don’t exist when we’re not in the same room. He doesn’t show me any affection when we’re apart, doesn’t compliment me at all, gets annoyed when I say I miss him/love him, gets angry at me for having panic attacks, etc. And he won’t say anything at all about selfies I post of me and him being happy and in love, but he’ll go compliment other women on fb/instagram, tell them how great they look (most of them are half naked), and when I’ve told him how that makes me feel he gets angry and yells at me and says we should break up because I’m accusing him of cheating. So I don’t look at his social media anymore and I don’t text him as much anymore because I honestly don’t feel like it gets me anywhere other than anxious and depressed. He’s even said in the past “well since you like talking so much about how you wanna kill yourself, why don’t you just go ahead and do it?” He’s also physically a*used me and SA’d me, so he’s basically as bad as my a*usive exhusband. Sad thing is that nowadays I feel happier when I don’t have to interact with him or he doesn’t pick up my calls. It means I can do what I want and have time to myself.
@@TooBrokeToAffordCoffee this guy sounds very unfaithful and toxic. Please consider leaving him if you guys are not already married. You deserve someone who encourages you, loves you, and respects you. May God find you a good man who treats you right
@TooBrokeToAffordCoffee From my experience, LEAVE HIM ASAP!!! I was in a relationship like that for 3 1/2 years, and he abused me physically, mentally, and emotionally. He did everything you mentioned and then some! What he's doing is manipulating you, gaslighting you, and abusing you. Anyone who cares about you will care about your feelings. A faithful, loving man will not be commenting on half naked chick's on ig because they will be happy and satisfied with you. Since you're in a long-distance relationship, I would say it's safe to assume he's cheating on you. Again, I'm speaking from experience. Do yourself a favor and research narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) here on YT. Sounds like you could be codependent. I battle with codependency as well. It's nothing to be ashamed of. It's a learned behavior to trauma. Research and love yourself, know that you ARE worthy of love and respect ❤. I wish you all the best. God bless you 🙏
I’m going through almost all of these because I have to live with my father, but he always makes my body go into survival mode😭 So I can attest this is true☝️
The problem was I was veryyy attracted to his natural scent. My body responded to him as if we were one, in every way. That's why it was so hard to let go.
And hormonal birth control can change our preferences when it comes to body scent in men! There are even small studies being done now confirming what some women have said about this!
@@ZaZa-nm6swGenetic potential for making a good mix with your genetics in terms of a healthy child is just that, a potential. Been there. Had the kid to prove it. Child very, very healthy and clever and physically ahead of the curve etc. Mental health on the guy turned out to be less than stellar. Time will tell how much that influenced/influences our child.
Some signs: - His presence literally makes you want to vomit or makes your stomach acid go crazy - You gain weight (cortisol and stress levels going up). Can’t seem to lose it no matter how much you diet and exercise or how healthy your lifestyle seems. - Try to have sex and no matter what he does you are unable to get wet. Your body will clam up and won’t let him in. - Kisses are weird a dry. His lips are stiff like kissing a corpse or it feels super forced. - The thought of having a kid that looks/acts like him or has his morals or DNA makes your skin crawl - You get night terrors or can’t sleep well - Your stomach feels intense terror when he is around - You can smell his sweat and it absolutely turns you off (when you are compatible his smell should agree with you) - Your hair falls out or starts getting grey - The thought of his body fluids (semen, blood, tears, sweat, saliva) grosses you out. - Yawning. If you can’t stop yawning like crazy whenever you run into him or you are expending time together. And is not a good yawn like when you are sleepy and relaxed, rather it just comes out of nowhere as the instinctual reaction whenever you see him… take note. Animals instinctively yawn whenever they are around a predator. You don’t have to think he is one, you can adore his company…. but your body will know. It will yawn to keep you awake and give you extra oxygen in case you have to escape. Constant yawning anytime you see him is your body alerting you that you actually feel restless / endangered. Is not a deal breaker but certainly something good to keep in mind.
Fa× men are scress casers😂😂I got vitiligo after almost 2 weeks into dating this guy. He was using me as the side 🤦🏾♀️after I ended with him my vitiligo went away. I ended it with him ßecause his suga mama sent me a crazy te×t defending him & then threatening him. Grateful we nvr had s£×
- getting random flu 🤧 - body aches - frequent cramps, legs/arms - rabdom headache - hair thinning /falling - you mo longer stand what you used to like about him
I used to get UTIs and yeast infections all the time when I was with my ex. I tried everything. Diflucan, monistat, coconut oil, etc. He was cheating, too. When I broke up with him, I stopped having both and haven't had one in almost 15 years! Your body really will reject someone who isn't meant for you.
When you have sex with someone, you ARE blending your aura with theirs and merging. And some men dump their unprocessed emotional crap into women and their anxiety and stress and sickness, and some women die taking that on. You also take on their KARMA. Do NOT hook up!
@caroljenny7701 this is absolutely true. I also feel like just making eye contact, touching someone can transfer energy as well. My grandmother never liked being touched even accidentally in public places and she always tought it's her stress. She was an absolute light and people adored her to a point she was harassed. I'm woman people *love* to be around. Many say things like "after being sad/ moody/ depressed, I feel better after spending time with you. I also have this "don't touch me" attitude and I tought it was something wrong with me. But recently, I eventually understood that this is me subconsciously protecting my own energy literally. Today, I don't even make eye contact: I don't want unwanted energy on me.
Absolutely... This is it. I had taken a break from dating for almost 15 years, the first guy I got to date was just recently out of 12 year relationship (they never married) after she just up and left him. His nephew had died in an accident in nature while he was in his care. He wasn't happy with his station in career... I was losing weight. Mind you, I'm already slim and athletic. I had to let him go as he was the only major change in my life...
@@irinaivanovic9792grow up, a condom won’t stop soul-ties. This is a spiritual act that CAN cause your body to react if it is not in alignment with the other.
My body definitely wanted my husband. He got me pregnant after 1 month of trying & I was always told by doctors I was infertile lol! But I’m having the most unrisk uncomplicated pregnancy first time. God is good 😊
But not always. If you are like me who is bipolar with a mood/anxiety disorder; OCD, C-PTSD, ADHD/Autistic, getting "butterflies" or ANXIETY doesn't always means the guy isn't right for you. So BE CAREFUL when listening to videos like this. You could very well PUSH OFF A GOOD GUY simply because YOU have an ANXIETY DISORDER; AUTISM; C-PTSD, etc....work on YOURSELF FIRST. Don't worry about finding THE RIGHT MAN. Be praying to YaHU'aH the CREATOR for a RIGHTEOUS MAN, and while you wait, make sure YOU ARE A RIGHTEOUS WOMAN.
There's different kinds of butterflies in my experience, there's anxiety and then there's excitement. Very important to have the ability to tell which is which. I get excited about meeting a new person that seems really cool, and it's resulted in some of my best friendships.
My body rejects people if i feel 1.anxious 2.shamed 3.drained/fatigue 4.uncomfortable 5. Can't be myself 6.they bring out something inside me that i hate 7.awkward 8. Contempt 9. Hard, the conversation doesn't flow nicely 10. Hurt 11. Have the huge urge to get out of that situation 12. Can't remember so many things 13. Nervous 14. Dirty / I'm disgusted at their energy latched on my body and i shower a lot to clean myself I'll also can't think clearly because their energies are hurting me. I'll also feel like I'm attacked because they use my explanation against me
I was in a relationship where my period would just stop for months at a time, and I would experience hot flashes, depression, premature gray hairs, dry skin, as if I was going through menopause. I was 30. When we broke up, after a few months, my period regulated itself, and gray hairs slowed, and my skin improved all on its own, and my depression began to lessen.
No way!!! It's crazy how sometimes we don't listen to our bodies. We think that there's something wrong with us & the whole time it's the people we are allowing in our lives Am really sorry you had to go through this!!
When you ßreak up with someone it's like a weight has ßeen lifted off your shoulders. I started dating this guy in May. We made it official in June. I ßled for a whole month. Then July I ßled for almost 2 weeks. I'm like wtf is going on? Ofc i went to my doc. They said everything is fine. I ßroke it off with him last month. He was fake understanding 😂then he ßlamed everything on me. Then he said no you're still my gf. Nope he's pschyco. He messaged me today outta nowhere saying he still 💜s me ßut it doesn't seem like I feel the same way 🤦🏾♀️he posted on his faceßook he's ßetter off single. He ßlocked me on IG & unfriend on faceßook. Then added me ßack. Smh men try their ßest to run game. He ain't runnin me😂😂😂😂
His touch made me feel gross. He would rub his fingers up and down my leg and it felt so repulsive - not to mention he was doing it with his nails. I would push his hands off of me and tell him he had to rub me the way ‘I’ wanted him to, or don’t touch me at all. He eventually got it right, but he resented me for speaking up for myself. Typical narc behavior.
Omg- same! He would touch me and literally make my skin crawl! It was a light, light, light touch and it tickled. I HATED it! (I had been tickled a little bit by other guys and I liked it... but this wasn't the same. This was super irritating and wierd and I hated it.) I told him GRAB HOLD! Don't just tickle! He resented that I told him what to do. (He didn't SAY he resented it, but he pouted about it so I could tell he was upset.) He then started recoiling at MY touch. He said I touched him too strong. Thinking back on it, it seems sus that he would suddenly start complaining about how I touched him AFTER I complained about how he touched me. But still, I tried to touch him lighter, like he asked. Then every time I did, he would giggle. I hated that stupid little giggle. He sounded like a wierd little clown. I couldn't tell if he was being spiteful and trying to get me back for telling him his light touch annoyed me, or if he was genuinely also feeling the same wierd ass energy I was. All I know is that we were NOT meant to be together.
I experienced this severely with a man, could not even enter me. My whole body would tense because of the pain. I thought it was due to menopause. I met someone else and there was no problem whatosoever.
We women would be impossible to trick if we all, collectively and individually, started listening to our intuition, our gut, our instinct, our higher self. This is our superpower. This is why all fascists, oppressors, dictators begin by suppressing woman. A truly empowered woman is invincible.
If you follow this to it’s logical conclusion then you won’t be having sex before marriage at all. Or at all. In my faith, the women who are following their highest calling, the ones who are the most advanced in their spiritual lives and as people, are cloistered nuns.
Yessss! I’ve thought about this for so long… really thought young women would be different now & not so focused on men, marriage, & having babies; as well as changing their bodies with surgery & their faces with chemicals :/
The reverse is also true. I met my now husband and on our first date he smelled sooo good. I was like "what calone are you wearing?" He wasn't wearing any. I feel happier and safer just being cuddled up against him, and am sad when one of us has to go out of town. We now have an absolutely beautiful baby. And he is such a great dad he is 100% involved and is so cute with our baby.
I've noticed acne, wrinkles on the face, depression, headaches, insomnia, grey hair, loss of interest in things i like etc. I don't like the presence of most men.
I have heard of cases where a couple try to have a child and are unable. Doctor exams show everything is normal and reproductive system is normal. Couple splits up and when with new partners have no problem having children. I think this is more common than reported.
A new science study showed that the egg choses the sperm that can impregnate her. In contrary earlier believes. She choses the best quality sperm and can even purposely reject all of them.. so maybe because of that.. the egg didnt like any of his sperm.. incompatible
Of course cheating lying is a problem but men with bad habits are a problem too. If he smokes, drinks, do drugs that you don’t know about. If he’s eating bad foods or not using clean hygiene products. Not to forget bad spiritual energies. Whatever toxic things a partner is doing does affect us. Especially if the person hates you but still sleep with you.
-I didn’t like the way his hands felt in mine , felt sweaty and awkward -when he cuddled with me his weight gave me headaches and felt awkward -When I went to his house for the first time I had a severe allergy attack that night the worst I ever had my nose and throat were burning cause his house was filthy. I was allergic to his pets but he ignored me and said I was just coming down with something it wouldn’t be his house when it totally was that made me sick - kissing him felt strange and I felt my body reject him subltly - I had a strong gut reaction that I couldn’t shake off whatsoever I knew something wasn’t right with him I couldn’t explain. I knew I had to get out this guy was not for me And when I tried to explain the feeling I had he didn’t understand and brushed off my concerns like they were nothing and made me feel wrong for leaving him . He didn’t want me to use my better judgement or think for myself all cause he wanted to be with me . Ladies Don’t ever date a man who purposefully makes you doubt your woman’s intuition. It’s the biggest red flag
@@Zeta-r6w I broke up with him months ago but yeah it was a lot of gaslighting from him. He did a complete 180 after and was completely rude and disrespectful He told me “ I would apologize for hurting you , but I don’t believe any of this will hurt you” he was an asshole
Loss of hair Loss of energy Depression Body changes(in a not so pleasant way) Yeast infection/BV More periods or less(then normal) Anger Sadness Loss of genuine happiness After sex completely drained Addictions Basically pay attention to yourself and notice that your body mind spirit will let you know.
As a female and a mom of a young daughter, I feel great to see that women all over are waking up to their inner wisdom and intuition. It feels good to be part of that rise of consciousness. 🎉❤️🔥
Every time my ex=husband and I had sex, which was not often, I got a full blown vaginal infection plus yeast infections. I went to the doctor about every 2 months. I danced on eggshells in fear because he was a threatening narcissist. It imploded my immune system and it almost killed me, as in the surgeon sent me home to die. Being with the wrong person and/or marrying them can cost you your fortune and your life. It is a serious matter.
When my ex gave me a vaginal infection, the doctor prescribed antifungals for my bf too. It was 2 tablets. I made him take it infront of me because i didn't trust him to take it if i wasn't checking. I had to take more than that and i had to take suppositories. Of course he complained about having to take it. Pos
Even Google gave this explanation for this phenomenon: "The mind and body have a strong connection, and sometimes physical symptoms can indicate a toxic emotional environment. People in unhealthy relationships may experience physical symptoms like pains, anxiety, and memory or speech issues. Stress can also lead to physical symptoms like headaches, stomach upset, sleep problems, chest pain, and muscle tension".
Funny thing is that I get these symptoms from my job…when I’m on vacation I’m good but when it’s time to go back to work I start to break out, aches n pains, headaches ect…😂😂
Omg gosh, we're in the same situation right now... my coworkers definitely noticed after vacation. Now that I'm back to work, I just had a fever recently and headaches. I guess I'm really stressed at work and with their presence.
This happened to me when living with a granny. I gained 30lbs. Always tired. She zapped the energy from me. Multiple eye infections. Once I left, lost 15 lbs right away
I remember being with my ex and having night terrors/sleep paralysis after not having them since childhood. And I mean every single night. He was a dark man energetically. But I am so Divinely protected he caught 2 STDS from sleeping unprotected with "ladies of the night ". Yet all my tests came back negative and he couldn't understand why. I finally told him I forgive him and released him. Now I found my souls match and have grown exponentially physically, emotionally, mentally and most importantly spiritually
I am a mother of a daughter and I never had this kind of important conversations with my own mom or aunts. I basically had to find out the hard way. The importance to listening to your body and gut as women is difference between life and death.
Toxic family can also have the same impact & can throw your future relationship radars off. Anyway my mom is a manipulative narcissist of the worst kind. About 10 years ago I started to develop vitiligo (white skin patches) on my body which spread a lot more on my hands in the last year. At the start of this year had a big falling out with her and have finally gone no contact. And lo and behold after a few months of not dealing with her BS, I looked at my hands one day and noticed that all the white patches have started to disappear and my melanin started coming back and filling in!!! Other people noticed as well. The woman was causing me so much stress it was causing an autoimmune condition that was turning my skin white. So t’s just not worth maintaining relationships with these type of destructive people. Family or not!
I'm on the same exact boat as you. It sucks because I feel like being in an abusive relationship with her my whole life has made me blind to other people treating me badly. I just had my eyes opened a couple of months ago, I finally fell out of love with my mom and can finally see what's wrong with the other people around me too. Finally feel free.
Nobody says when a man's body rejects a woman.. he doesn't get or stay hard for her. Gets slandered , thanks he has something wrong with him. Then gets hard for another woman that he is comfortable with... He may have a tremble or shake in his hands or brain fog around her. Unusual tiredness after sex lasting days. Many similar for men also .. Just not many men are willing to reject the feeling of what their body tells them. but an emotionally intouch man will have these same symptoms This video helped me understand my own past experience while having major trust issues in general made me more emotionally sensitive connecting to anyone physically. And im a man
Men have limbic brains too so, it doesn't surprise me. We all have been taught to dismiss our instincts. Especially men have been laughing at "women's instincts". Good for you. Pay attention to your body signs.
Yea it definitely happens to men bc me and my fiancée pass each others energy and we feel it and call it out when it’s happening. It’s so strong that he can feel the energy just walking inside or pulling up!
Wow! I told a female associate that I am allergic to my guys sperm. She laughed and said I have never heard of this before. Because like the lady said Everytime I was with him my body was telling me something I just did not know at that time. I am so glad that this subject is being discussed for awareness.
If your histamine levels are too high, this will happen. You probably will also have severe bloating and red weals/ welts on your skin if you get a scratch.
They are called soul ties! Not just with a partner, but as well as with family members, friends, places and things we see and hear/taste/touch. Everything and everyone carries a positive and negative energy which most people aren't aware of it. Energy is highly contagious! Your body and soul speaks to you ALL THE TIME! Pray, fast and ask God for healing.🙏❤️🙏
I got severe period cramps when I started dating and was intimate with a new guy. I don’t normally get any cramps at all. I also got flu-like symptoms out of nowhere. My body literally turned against me. Another man I dated I ended up with a uti. I dumped both of them. I would have to do a fast to cleanse my body and spirit from these men.
I dated 2 sociopaths 5 years apart, but didnt know until i was leaving them. With the first one, i gained 15 pounds almost as soon as we started hanging out even before i liked him or things got romantic. After being together for like 6 weeks, i got a flu and was sick for almost 6 weeks. We moved in together after a year, and within a year of living together i lost 70 pounds, broke out in hives once, had an allergic reaction that made throat shut down 80%, had food poisoning twice where i was sick for 6 weeks. This was all during covid when we were on full lock down. The doctors were baffled and checked for auto immune disease and tons of allergy testing. I told the doctor my body is rejecting my ex and im sure all this will stop when i leave him. And it immediately did. The 2nd sociopath was my friend for a year before i started to look at him romantically. The first night it was like my feelings changed for him, we sat and watched the stars for hours,just talking, and the next day i had Sciatica and couldn't walk, and I'd never had Sciatica so i didnt even know what was wrong. 2 weeks later he asked me to be his girl and 4 weeks later i started to get hives atleast twice a week. After being with him for 8 months, the smell of his skin and bodily fluid started to disgust me and i started to get period pimples around my chin, even though they weren't due yet for that part of my cycle. The idea of sleeping with him started to gross me out so i stopped. A month later,i had a seizure for the first time ever. And then had 2 more, each one was 1 week apart. I had 2 ct scans and tons of testing done and there were no results... doctors found nothing. But by the 3rd Seizure i recognised this as a pattern in comparison to the last time this stuff happened with the ex. In fact, this extreme reaction by my body is what made me realise that this Prince Charming must be a worst sociopath than my ex. I blocked and deleted him from everything, washed my sheets to get rid of his smell and after 2 weeks my body released 10 pounds. And i never had a seizure again. The day i blocked my ex was the day i met my husband. And my body knew the difference immediately. I felt light, calm and energized like a purring cat and really happy... smiling till my face hurt in our first conversation. Our bodies keep the score ladies.❤ Always believe yourself and listen to your intuition. She's louder the more you listen. That Prince Charming DVed and tried to unalive the girl after me. Believe your body the first time ❤
Wow thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry you had to go through hell twice but I’m glad you were able to recognize the love of your life and soul soon after! Wishing you healing!
This is true for ANY relationship, family, friend, partner it's true. For me it was friends and family. Now I'm introverted, shy and anxious. But I have felt for at ease and comfortable around grown strangers than ppl I'm supposed to be close to. I'm always nervous, or uncomfortable, migraines too, always drained or exhausted during/after interaction. Even after Spending years and forcing myself to acclimate being around these ppl ( I had 0 choice) at best, I was always on eggshells or constantly feel like my personal space is violated, and uncomfortable/unwilling to talk about or share personal information, space or things. Heck from the day I MET these ppl I KNEW consciously and unconsciously I did NOT LIKE THESE PPL OR WANT TO BE AROUND THEM. The reason I chose to ignore it was because I felt bad for disliking ( damn near hating) ppl - family at that- for "no reason". Trust me they gave me PLENTY of reasons. But for anyone reading this, don't wait fir ppl to give u a reason to leave ( it will cost to much) if u dislike someone or don't like being around them for "no reason" just leave, I guarantee there is one, don't find found what just go
Wow my hair started falling out when I was with my ex, I never had any energy even having a shower seemed like such an effort. Once we broke up my hair has grown bk and i'm full of energy
I felt “butterflies in my stomach” once in my life. I can’t remember what the cause was-what I do remember is that it was the most uncomfortable thing I’d ever felt. I didn’t like it at all 😂
This isn't always about the man himself necessarily but low level chronic infections people carry, or the environments they live/work in. Either way though, if your health is affected, always choose vitality. Another one to look out for is if you suddenly start getting painful periods when you didn't before. When he ejaculates inside you, that's when infections can make their way to the uterus. I remember a guy who afterwards I used to look really puffy in my face. He had some bad breath so either oral biome infection or gut infection. Remember, don't judge the guy himself. Humans get lots of infections and will carry them from the past, it doesn't necessarily indicate cheating. However the more a guy sleeps around, the more likely he is to be carrying infections, and I don't just mean sexual ones, but on the skin, mouth, gut which we pick up from kissing. The older he is the more exposure he's had but exposure can also be from being young and promiscuous or just bad luck. Ladies, this is WHY religions and cultures had prohibitions around sex. Especially before antibiotics, people literally became infertile and or died.
Yes please remember, even gingivitis is contagious. A man who does not look after himself WILL NOT look after you! Consider this: we really dont treat other people any better than we treat ourselves. Kindness is always a good cosmic investment, but also, how you treat others is your way of "broadcasting" how you want to be treated. If they don't get it, and don't comply, don't bother with them. They will just try to drag you down to their standards, which they have no right to do. A man can't give you germs he doesn't have. If he's nasty and unhygienic, he will gIve you diseases. Don't have a relationship with a plague rat. Report him to the CDC (lol) and move on... Question a guy closely about the healthcare he gives his pet, if he has one. And if he has kids, is he paying support? Does he know their health status? Does he take them to the doctor, dentist, or optometrist? If not, get rid of him. He won't care for you any better than the pet or the kids. Don't date "Patient Zero".
I love love love this video! Every single woman needs to know this (we all know this already) BUT in 31:50 min of a video and NOT ONE SINGLE MENTION OF NIGHTMARES. Or, like some weird ass dream triggering some inner child insecurity or a weird scenario that you wouldn’t normally find yourself in yet here your dream is vividly stating this. Every single time I have a weird dream when I’m newly seeing someone it usually means that it’s not going to work out, whether it’s them or me!
Woke up from a nightmare and found this video suggested.... Yeah it's definitely a sign I can't ignore, scared to go back to sleep. And I very very rarely ever get nightmares.
This is so real. While my husband was having an affair I could not kiss him, his natural scent turned me off and sleeping next to him with his snoring became completely unbearable ! Then again, he says he cheated BECAUSE he could sense my aversion to him & lack of intimacy 🤷🏾♀️😅
@@MzDoctorStrange2ureally?! Well sending you love & healing energy Sis. I’ve completely restricted my body/sex from him for the past two years & I’ve never had more clarity or felt as empowered as I do now. Sooo much growth. He on the other hand was diagnosed with Cancer last year 🥹🤯 True Story. Should I do a full story time?? I’ve grappled with second hand embarrassment & internalized shame keeping HIS dirty little secret but I think it may be liberating to tell my story if it resonates with other women. ❤
There are studies that suggest microbiomes and scent are big indicators of compatibility. When there's physical compatibility on that deep of a level, both partners stay healthy and cheating will not happen since that deep connection is what keeps both partners engaged and protective of eachother's health. It's also indicators of whether you will be able to conceive easily if you choose to and the health of the child. This is why online dating and hookup culture isn't a good idea for many people. It takes away the energy and scent check that happens within 5 seconds of meeting someone in person. Some people get so desperate when swiping online that they bypass the red flags and signs of incompatibility
I was raped , It was 10 years until I finally realized I was raped , but I was dating that man and I made these excuses , I felt disgusted every time he touched me , I cried and he made me sick , I also cheated as an excuse to leave them . How he raped me , he got me drunk and slept with me , I was barely 19 and I thought I consented when I legitimately had rejected him in order to coerce a relationship. When I said outloud describing that moment , I admitted he raped me and I broke down crying for several days because it finally made sense
@@zandrashoffner4134 I didn't because it took me several years to figure out plus he has children now .. I'm not taking a father from his kids, he loved them last I saw . Plus I don't know where he is any ways . Imagine telling those children their daddy was a rapist that took advantage of a nieve 19 year old girl that just graduated high-school and he was closer to 22. Plus he could just say I consented and regretted it later .
I know that this is a total fact. My first husband had such an effect on me that I was sick to my stomach and had headaches all the time. And as soon as I got into my car and drove away, never to return, the sick feeling in my stomach and head immediately left me (while I was driving down the road)! I don't know if this is spiritual, physical, emotional, or what, but I know that it's a fact! My body even rejected a baby by my next husband who I found out had only married me for a green card! Sometimes your body will do for you, what you won't do for yourself!!!!
Anxiety. Weird thing we ignore. It’s NOT butterflies. It’s your body saying run! It’s that gut feeling. Don’t overcome, push past it, run before you’re “in love”. Your body WILL reject them and if you stay, the break up will be earth moving cause you knew and ignored yourself.
I think there's some truth to this...I remember Inwas dating this one guy and I used to get panic attacks with him...never had one in my life before...I used to have a lot of sleepless nights too...once we parted...the next man I got with, I slept like a baby...
100% Facts! Preach! This video needs to go viral for ALL women to watch. This is God’s gift to women to ensure women are protected from marrying the wrong man for them. God wants women to marry the correct man for them. God does this to ensure children are born from 2 parents who truly love one another and who will not abandon each other or their children. Women need to listen to their God-given intuition and their bodies regarding men! I can even smell it in a man’s pheromones. Women have heightened perceptions, because God entrusted women with the protection of themselves and children.
UTI and yeast infection are very real when you're body rejects them. Listen to your body loves ❤️ Your body is home and you are the advocate who gets to dwell and live within your body.
This video is accurate. Just sleeping next to him in the beginning, I would wake up drenched in cold sweat. And also, I never had a UTI until I met him. Edit: I think this is worth a mention. I once dated a guy and every time he came over to my house, it was like a Tasmania Devil just entered my home and when I would sleep with him, I would feel completely depleted, hollow inside myself. I would feel completely empty as if he snatched something energetic from me. As soon as he would leave, I would be under my blanket for days comforting myself. I’m older and wiser now, and I know exactly what that was. He was toxic and stealing my youthful energy.
Women are *vessels,* and we take in whatever a man is. When my husband and I separated, I became happy, lost weight, and all my physical symptoms went away. My whole body was telling me I was better/happier/healthier without him. We need to listen to our bodies. Thank you for this 🌹
Awe! 😂I saw a sitcom like that of an old married couple. He complained he couldn't sleep if she wasn't in the bed with him. It made me laugh but my mom swore it was true.
My ex had that with me and he's been having insomnia his entire life. I on the other hand had that for a couple of times, but over time that changed. Up to a point, where I had a hard time falling asleep when he was there, while he was sound asleep, basically as soon as his head hit the pillow 😅
This also goes for food: itchy skin, breakouts, weight gain, brain fog, eczema/dermatitis, joint pain and even when you’re eating or drinking something, your throat will contract. Our bodies know before we do 💯!
Remember the " medical model": is based on the male anatomy. This is why I prefer female doctors. In my personal experience Indian women are often the best doctors because many believe in " holistic health".
I believe In my almost 60 years, I've my body has been correct when I've been bothered by a man's smell. I've gotten ill, stomach aches and headaches. After I split up I always found out the guy was terrible. it. There was a study examining the armpit smells of humans. Apparently, the armpit smell is related to a person's immune system (HLA). People are attracted to those with compatible HLA systems and repelled by those with HLA incompatible with them. This may be natural way to create the best genetic pairings as HLA also influences sexual preferences.
I'm going to story dump on you here: I have gotten pregnant by a man who my body rejected. The intercourse that led to me being pregnant was not voluntary per se on my end. I cut him off immediately afterwards. But little did I know, I was pregnant. So when it was time to make a decision, I summed up all my courage and decided to look how the thought of having this baby feels (I was 2.5 weeks pregnant at the time). And I felt this huge wave of love and affection and adoration for my baby. It was a picture perfect pregnancy and birth. My daughter has never been sick other than you standard flu, she is objectively beautiful, incredibly intelligent, empathetic and people are generally touched by her. And I'm over here baffled because I hated (still do actually) EVERYTHING about this man. From his smell to the way his voice sounds. And yet, this picture perfect person was the result of this rather unfortunate experience. Wild.
This also goes for family and friendships. I met a girl last year in college that I somehow didn't like that much at first (which is not like me at all because I usually get along with everyone especially on a surface level). But after a few weeks she tried to get closer at every single occasion. We started taking more and she told me that she feels a bit lonely because she has no one to connect with. The empathetic people pleaser inside of me thought "well why don't you invite her into your friend group" so I did. She started always calling me, talking for hours on the phone, it was a lot of fun and we spend a lot of time together after uni. Suddenly I started getting panic attacks, crying out of nowhere, throwing up, constant migraines, stomachaches, anxiety, my lymph node's started swelling out of nowhere,I was unable to leave my bed on some days and didn't attend uni anymore. I had this overwhelming urge to climb under a rock and never get out again, so I deinstalled all of my messenger apps. I thought that maybe I am just depressed because I still didn't work through my childhood trauma or that I simply am way too introverted or something like that. After a while I started spending more one on one time with another friend who told me about all the things the first friend did and said about me behind my back (some of them even right in front of me, I just ignored them because I didn't want to cause a scene). I started cutting that friend out a little more each passing day. And suddenly when it was holiday season and I didn't have to see her anymore my symptoms went away. They just started to come back when I had to go to a concert we bought the tickets to a year before. This was when it fully clicked and I understood that she was indeed the cause for my health problems. I haven't seen her since the concert nor talked to her and had so much time to spend with myself and other friends, even people that I just met and I realized how good it feels to socialise and that I am actually really good at it. It's not the world overwhelming me it was her constant presence. This is something which I wouldn't have guessed at all because for this entire year she really worked on isolating me from my friends and even family so that she was the only person I got to spend time with and since this already felt too heavy I thought that maybe I am just not that social. I feel so very detoxed from her right now and as if I can finally see clear again. Forever very thankful for this experience, I will surely not let this happen again.
All of this would be avoided if we listend to the teachings of the Bible. All this sleeping with just anyone will cost us not following the laws statues and commandments will cost us everything the Bible warns us about we do then look shocked 😳 😮💨🥴
You bible thumpers don't even know your own book. The absolutely insane stuff in your religious texts are not things to aspire to or conduct your lives by. Any time one of you says this kind of thing, it gives brainwashed and crazy.
The way ‘she’ would STANK a day or two after we would do the deed. Like, I could smell myself through my clothes and felt so unclean. BV was my bff for months and I couldn’t understand why. Tried showering before hand, even asked him to stop smoking and drinking as much. Walked away from him because he refused to commit, he came back around a new, sober, non-smoker, mature person a year later…..literally no issues now.
I really needed this comment. I'm experiencing the exact same thing. Your story is the last kick I need to go through with what I've been subconsciously feeling for a while now. This is generally my person, just not now. He is not there yet. And if he truly IS my person, it'll be when some work has been done beforehand.
When a man's presence gives you peace that is an actual " high value man". If he is just a source of anxiety he is extracting value from you and no SANE woman wants that.
Also, I would like to add, that the reason WHY your body will reject a man when he is not for you, is because, your subconscious body IS YOUR PHYSICAL BODY. This is something I learned while I was learning how to heal from trauma. Trauma is actually stored in the fascia, which is the web that weaves together our physical bodies! In order to heal trauma, you actually have to SHAKE it out of your body through trembling! And the reason for this? Because our subconscious mind IS OUR PHYSICAL BODY. 👏👏👏
Sometimes it's psychologically easier to suppress our feelings than face what's there. I knew it was time to leave my fiance when I kept feeling sick and depressed having to continue being around him and we definitely weren't doing anything physical anymore. I was really young (both of us were 20) and didn't want to admit our four year relationship wasn't forever. He wasn't abusive, but he wasn't a good partner for most of the relationship. I felt guilty at the thought of leaving because he didn't have a great family and we were together since high school. He isn't a bad person and to his credit he essentially told me it was okay to break up and he didn't want to keep me from anything. I do hope he's doing well and has been able to find close connections outside his family.
This is all true. I had chronic debilitating pain for almost two years, to the point that it felt like I was walking on knives and my muscles were literally tearing themselves apart, and I’d gone to doctors and many other places to try to heal it. The pain completely disappeared about two months after breaking up with my ex. Not to mention extremely irregular period issues. It took a year longer for that to regulate again, and I had never had issues before him. Another time I was talking to a guy who seemed like he was everything I was looking for, and he was enthusiastically into me. I couldn’t sleep or eat for weeks even though things were good with him. I felt completely empty after being with him for the first time. Tiny comments would send me into extremely dark places. He was a self described narcissist, I found out. Luckily, that only lasted a short amount of time. If I had spent more time with that person, I could reasonably see myself not making it out alive.
This is gold, I stopped dating years ago. Even man I have been with made me sick . Client that was criminals I would get in car accidents . PT’s that hurt my body . Girls that have stolen from me. I don’t mess with people anymore! 😂
I got hectic acne. The worst acne in my life, face red and cystic. 5 years on the acne scars are still there, acne left within a year after the relationship finished.
Waiting until marriage to “sleep” with someone will save all these assaults on you body and mind. The clues are right there, the answers are right there but people just want to stumble in the dark.
True that matters too but also imagine you wait till marriage only to discover you are now tied to a person who makes you sick forever (because some dont reveal their true selves until they think they got you) when it would’ve been easier to walk away. Im not condoning pre marital s£x but im just saying every positive has a negative and vice versa
Some of them just need to use protection and get their partners tested BEFORE sex. Your flesh is traitorous but if you watch their actions it’ll show they’re not right for you
I felt all of these things with my ex. When i finally trusted my intuition, he had cheated, was actively stealing money, amongst other things... listen to your intuition
I have been wracking my brain over this chronic UTI and i NEVER had one till i met him. I literally got in a car accident and hit a deer the same day we were moving in together. This weight will NOT come off and my skin will not stop breaking out when i hadnt had a pimple for years! I cant sleep around him and the smell of his breath is now making me sick and his touch makes my skin crawl! But the weird thing is, the beginning it was so good. Why does this keep happening? Happened with my ex too. My vag literally swollen shut and went to 6 doctors to figure it out and now i have hypertonic pelvic floor. I'm starting to think im allergic to men altogether!
Let's clarify- if he is actually actively doing things to try to keep you safe, then you will feel safety in his presence. If you don't feel safe, it's because he's not facilitating safety. You know when you're being used by a man in ways you're not comfortable with. It's better to accept it and act accordingly rather than to desperately fight it because you're making his behavior mean something about you. My sister, if he's using you, the reason isn't because you're lacking something-the reason is because he's a jerk.
Major hint: you have to make them wash it and wash it very well before they put it anywhere near you. They are very dirty they have dirty external parts. We are clean. Our parts are self cleaning.
100% CORRECT. You have to be brutal and tell a man he is NOT "just fine" the way he is. If he's not willing to wash, then he doesn't belong with you. I have had 3 stinky guys, same nasty underarm smell. I never wanted them to put their arms around me because I did not want their B. O. On my clothes. Some men think waaaay too much of themselves. I should never have put up with it.
@Freakymum1645 then that's on you if you know the dude is dirty lol. It's even in your name "freaky". You like it dirty? 🤣 Be fr. "We are clean." Is bs. You know damn well majority of y'all aren't. Especially being on OF and having high bodycounts. Lol
@Freakymum1645 then that's on you if you know the dude is dirty lol. Be fr. "We are clean." Is bs. You know damn well majority of y'all aren't. Especially being on OF and having high bodycounts. Lol
My body and soul would feel heavy like carried a 100 pounds blocks on my shoulders and my heart. Broke up 3 times each time same feelings than i decided no more manipulation from taking him bac( he is a covert narcissist). I honestly felt light same day he moved out of my house.
This has happened to me so many times... not just with potential partners... The worst thing was with a "friend", every time after I met her I felt sick, had migraine & twice my circulation stopped afterwards & I just passed out.. Listen to your bodies, Ladies ❤
Some people might not want to hear it but ohh well. What you feel in your heart and mind after being with the wrong person is called conviction. Your spirit is convicting you as the bible says not to engage in fornication, or sex before marriage. Its a sin, so your spirit is feeling that this is wrong and it manifests to the physical, your flesh body. The flesh is weak. There is a reason why sex is reserved for AFTER marriage, because it weeds out the losers who only want your body. And our bodies are and should be temples of God , and any decent person would know this. And the dirty feeling is the spirits that are also on them. S,E,X is spiritual exchange. be carfull who you intertwine yourselves with as you make unhealthy souil ties.
@seabreeze4559 I know sex is marriage and a blood convenient is broken, but it is fornication if you don't intend to marry that person and make a public Decree to families of your intentions on marriage.
I cant sleep around him Feel drained ALL the time Cannot sleep with him at all it's painful My stomach churns anytime he pulls into the driveway. I struggle to put on any weight I broke out in hives a couple of times I had multiple cavities since meeting him which i never experienced before 😢
If he smokes weed and u started to do it with him...i can tell u that was y'all bond y'all didn't have anything for real...ask me how i know 😒 cuz the minute i said hey i don't really like being high it's not me oh baby the relationship was just over he started leaving to smoke with his friends hardly ever saw him, open deep conversations were gone cuz when sober we actually really didn't get along with each other and he stays high and i don't so 😒
This, but its happening with my mum. I don't like her touching me and I feel weird whenever she comes around. Idk, might be because she always left me with all kinds of people as a baby and as a child.
As a baby and child you need the safe feeling from your mom and skin touch, her leaving you with random people made you feel unsafe but also it made her not reliable, not trusted because baby's long for their mum and her constantly leaving you, the one you trust the most, is very damaging and gives trust issues. Who else is the one you should be able to trust the most? What happens if that person that you should trust the most as a helpless baby that can't defend herself, leaves you all the time.. you stop trusting her, its a deep deep trauma. Might influence your other relationshios
I have experienced all these negative reactions in every relationship I've been in with a man... and turns out it's because I've been suppressing my queer identity for years. Feminine energy has the opposite effect, and makes me want to be the best version of myself
Same! No workarounds worked: not beautiful men, not kind and caring men. No matter how much feminine energy they had expressed as their looks or their personality, they were still men. It wasn't until I let myself fully express my love for a woman until I felt that I was not even getting 10% of what I needed before. The richness of a relationship with another woman cannot be compared to anything any man can ever offer me.
This is important to note. Some people are not attracted to men and have buried it so deeply they don't even know. It makes me really sad that there are people who deal with this.
Biggest sign for me: you feel happy and RELIEVED when you leave their presence for a while.
I strongly agree with you ‼️💯💯💯
BOOM!
My body is just constantly in a state of fight/flight/freeze when I’m around him. I feel happy when I get to spend time with him because he actually pays attention to me and showers me with love when we’re in the same room but I’m also extra anxious around him because in the past he’s gone thru my phone and started fights over completely innocuous texts I send with my mom or stuff I react to on fb, and he’s started full on fights and accused me of cheating when I’m not doing anything of the sort.
But when I’m not around him (I live 2 hours away so I only get to see him 4 days out of a month) I get very depressed because it’s like I don’t exist when we’re not in the same room. He doesn’t show me any affection when we’re apart, doesn’t compliment me at all, gets annoyed when I say I miss him/love him, gets angry at me for having panic attacks, etc. And he won’t say anything at all about selfies I post of me and him being happy and in love, but he’ll go compliment other women on fb/instagram, tell them how great they look (most of them are half naked), and when I’ve told him how that makes me feel he gets angry and yells at me and says we should break up because I’m accusing him of cheating.
So I don’t look at his social media anymore and I don’t text him as much anymore because I honestly don’t feel like it gets me anywhere other than anxious and depressed. He’s even said in the past “well since you like talking so much about how you wanna kill yourself, why don’t you just go ahead and do it?” He’s also physically a*used me and SA’d me, so he’s basically as bad as my a*usive exhusband.
Sad thing is that nowadays I feel happier when I don’t have to interact with him or he doesn’t pick up my calls. It means I can do what I want and have time to myself.
@@TooBrokeToAffordCoffee this guy sounds very unfaithful and toxic. Please consider leaving him if you guys are not already married. You deserve someone who encourages you, loves you, and respects you. May God find you a good man who treats you right
@TooBrokeToAffordCoffee From my experience, LEAVE HIM ASAP!!! I was in a relationship like that for 3 1/2 years, and he abused me physically, mentally, and emotionally. He did everything you mentioned and then some! What he's doing is manipulating you, gaslighting you, and abusing you. Anyone who cares about you will care about your feelings. A faithful, loving man will not be commenting on half naked chick's on ig because they will be happy and satisfied with you. Since you're in a long-distance relationship, I would say it's safe to assume he's cheating on you. Again, I'm speaking from experience. Do yourself a favor and research narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) here on YT. Sounds like you could be codependent. I battle with codependency as well. It's nothing to be ashamed of. It's a learned behavior to trauma. Research and love yourself, know that you ARE worthy of love and respect ❤. I wish you all the best. God bless you 🙏
Some of these symptoms are also dealing with "family" and "friends", not just romantic relationships. It's the familiar energy your body pick up on.
I’m going through almost all of these because I have to live with my father, but he always makes my body go into survival mode😭 So I can attest this is true☝️
Am really sorry!
Much love ❤️❤️
Thank you for watching ❤️
You're so right I developed allergies so bad i couldn't hardly eat and it was toxic family not even a man
Yep!!👍👍
Body memory
Disliking their natural body odor. A hundred percent 💯
The thing is , it's unnatural
I did until after he cheated.. so not sure if that's just me.
The problem was I was veryyy attracted to his natural scent. My body responded to him as if we were one, in every way. That's why it was so hard to let go.
And hormonal birth control can change our preferences when it comes to body scent in men! There are even small studies being done now confirming what some women have said about this!
@@ZaZa-nm6swGenetic potential for making a good mix with your genetics in terms of a healthy child is just that, a potential. Been there. Had the kid to prove it. Child very, very healthy and clever and physically ahead of the curve etc. Mental health on the guy turned out to be less than stellar. Time will tell how much that influenced/influences our child.
Some signs:
- His presence literally makes you want to vomit or makes your stomach acid go crazy
- You gain weight (cortisol and stress levels going up). Can’t seem to lose it no matter how much you diet and exercise or how healthy your lifestyle seems.
- Try to have sex and no matter what he does you are unable to get wet. Your body will clam up and won’t let him in.
- Kisses are weird a dry. His lips are stiff like kissing a corpse or it feels super forced.
- The thought of having a kid that looks/acts like him or has his morals or DNA makes your skin crawl
- You get night terrors or can’t sleep well
- Your stomach feels intense terror when he is around
- You can smell his sweat and it absolutely turns you off (when you are compatible his smell should agree with you)
- Your hair falls out or starts getting grey
- The thought of his body fluids (semen, blood, tears, sweat, saliva) grosses you out.
- Yawning. If you can’t stop yawning like crazy whenever you run into him or you are expending time together. And is not a good yawn like when you are sleepy and relaxed, rather it just comes out of nowhere as the instinctual reaction whenever you see him… take note. Animals instinctively yawn whenever they are around a predator. You don’t have to think he is one, you can adore his company…. but your body will know. It will yawn to keep you awake and give you extra oxygen in case you have to escape. Constant yawning anytime you see him is your body alerting you that you actually feel restless / endangered. Is not a deal breaker but certainly something good to keep in mind.
Well well well......
Thank you!
No, this comment right here, though!!!!!!! Hits every nail on the head
Long runs of general bad luck as well, as a spiritual repurcussion. Including accidents happening more frequently, and long term dwindling finances. ❤
Fa× men are scress casers😂😂I got vitiligo after almost 2 weeks into dating this guy. He was using me as the side 🤦🏾♀️after I ended with him my vitiligo went away. I ended it with him ßecause his suga mama sent me a crazy te×t defending him & then threatening him. Grateful we nvr had s£×
- getting random flu 🤧
- body aches
- frequent cramps, legs/arms
- rabdom headache
- hair thinning /falling
- you mo longer stand what you used to like about him
I used to get UTIs and yeast infections all the time when I was with my ex. I tried everything. Diflucan, monistat, coconut oil, etc. He was cheating, too. When I broke up with him, I stopped having both and haven't had one in almost 15 years! Your body really will reject someone who isn't meant for you.
Sorry about that! And thank you for the Input ❤️
Dudes ruin our ph and sex pushes germs into urethra too . Staying celibate if not married is the best .
Cheaters spread around not only diseases but other peoples microflora and makes sense why you got infections.
Girl speak that truth!!!
Oh wow, I just got a uti and I’ve never had one in my 37 years of living and I not long ago found out I’m pregnant.
some people have evil forces attached to them, and it could be God protecting you from these individuals.
That not being able to fall asleep at their house is facts!!!!!!!
When you have sex with someone, you ARE blending your aura with theirs and merging. And some men dump their unprocessed emotional crap into women and their anxiety and stress and sickness, and some women die taking that on. You also take on their KARMA. Do NOT hook up!
Not true if you use condoms. 🙄🤷🏼♀️
And not all of us “hook up.” I never have.
@caroljenny7701 this is absolutely true. I also feel like just making eye contact, touching someone can transfer energy as well.
My grandmother never liked being touched even accidentally in public places and she always tought it's her stress. She was an absolute light and people adored her to a point she was harassed.
I'm woman people *love* to be around. Many say things like "after being sad/ moody/ depressed, I feel better after spending time with you.
I also have this "don't touch me" attitude and I tought it was something wrong with me. But recently, I eventually understood that this is me subconsciously protecting my own energy literally.
Today, I don't even make eye contact: I don't want unwanted energy on me.
Absolutely... This is it.
I had taken a break from dating for almost 15 years, the first guy I got to date was just recently out of 12 year relationship (they never married) after she just up and left him. His nephew had died in an accident in nature while he was in his care. He wasn't happy with his station in career... I was losing weight. Mind you, I'm already slim and athletic. I had to let him go as he was the only major change in my life...
You are correct. Even with condoms it's not a food idea because of your energy field is intertwining with the other person. Ya'll stay safe
@@irinaivanovic9792grow up, a condom won’t stop soul-ties. This is a spiritual act that CAN cause your body to react if it is not in alignment with the other.
My body definitely wanted my husband. He got me pregnant after 1 month of trying & I was always told by doctors I was infertile lol! But I’m having the most unrisk uncomplicated pregnancy first time. God is good 😊
So happy for you gurl ❤️
Congratulations 🎉❤️❤️
Congratulations!❤
How old are you?
So happy for you! Hope you and baby have a safe delivery! 🫶🏾
Congratulations 🎊 on your baby, your husband is the one❤
“ BUTTERFLIES IN YOUR STOMACH” is not LOVE IS YOUR BODY TELLING YOU RUN AWAY ….ITS ANXIETY ….HE IS NOT SAFE TO BE AROUND .
Exactly we have been fooled with this for years
But not always. If you are like me who is bipolar with a mood/anxiety disorder; OCD, C-PTSD, ADHD/Autistic, getting "butterflies" or ANXIETY doesn't always means the guy isn't right for you. So BE CAREFUL when listening to videos like this. You could very well PUSH OFF A GOOD GUY simply because YOU have an ANXIETY DISORDER; AUTISM; C-PTSD, etc....work on YOURSELF FIRST. Don't worry about finding THE RIGHT MAN. Be praying to YaHU'aH the CREATOR for a RIGHTEOUS MAN, and while you wait, make sure YOU ARE A RIGHTEOUS WOMAN.
Ah, that explains what happened to me.
There's different kinds of butterflies in my experience, there's anxiety and then there's excitement. Very important to have the ability to tell which is which. I get excited about meeting a new person that seems really cool, and it's resulted in some of my best friendships.
yeah I never had that feeling, it's an ANXIETY flight or fight response
My body rejects people if i feel
1.anxious
2.shamed
3.drained/fatigue
4.uncomfortable
5. Can't be myself
6.they bring out something inside me that i hate
7.awkward
8. Contempt
9. Hard, the conversation doesn't flow nicely
10. Hurt
11. Have the huge urge to get out of that situation
12. Can't remember so many things
13. Nervous
14. Dirty / I'm disgusted at their energy latched on my body and i shower a lot to clean myself
I'll also can't think clearly because their energies are hurting me. I'll also feel like I'm attacked because they use my explanation against me
Thank you for this 🫶
Exactly this!
I was in a relationship where my period would just stop for months at a time, and I would experience hot flashes, depression, premature gray hairs, dry skin, as if I was going through menopause. I was 30. When we broke up, after a few months, my period regulated itself, and gray hairs slowed, and my skin improved all on its own, and my depression began to lessen.
No way!!!
It's crazy how sometimes we don't listen to our bodies. We think that there's something wrong with us & the whole time it's the people we are allowing in our lives
Am really sorry you had to go through this!!
He wasn't the one
When you ßreak up with someone it's like a weight has ßeen lifted off your shoulders. I started dating this guy in May. We made it official in June. I ßled for a whole month. Then July I ßled for almost 2 weeks. I'm like wtf is going on? Ofc i went to my doc. They said everything is fine. I ßroke it off with him last month. He was fake understanding 😂then he ßlamed everything on me. Then he said no you're still my gf. Nope he's pschyco. He messaged me today outta nowhere saying he still 💜s me ßut it doesn't seem like I feel the same way 🤦🏾♀️he posted on his faceßook he's ßetter off single. He ßlocked me on IG & unfriend on faceßook. Then added me ßack. Smh men try their ßest to run game. He ain't runnin me😂😂😂😂
He was a warlock his spirit was dark and he probably wanted you for rituals.
Pray get deliverance.
Wow!! That is so powerful. It's like your body doesnt even want to be "youthful" around him.
This is easy to see when a woman divorces, her skin gets better, she starts to glow up by leaving the guy. This is serious ladies!!
His touch made me feel gross. He would rub his fingers up and down my leg and it felt so repulsive - not to mention he was doing it with his nails. I would push his hands off of me and tell him he had to rub me the way ‘I’ wanted him to, or don’t touch me at all. He eventually got it right, but he resented me for speaking up for myself. Typical narc behavior.
They want to hurt you. That’s the point. Don’t let him ❤
@@moonlightstargem1006 I got the point and I been left his ass in the dust. Just sharing my experience.
Ew 🤦♀️
Omg- same! He would touch me and literally make my skin crawl! It was a light, light, light touch and it tickled. I HATED it! (I had been tickled a little bit by other guys and I liked it... but this wasn't the same. This was super irritating and wierd and I hated it.)
I told him GRAB HOLD! Don't just tickle! He resented that I told him what to do. (He didn't SAY he resented it, but he pouted about it so I could tell he was upset.)
He then started recoiling at MY touch. He said I touched him too strong. Thinking back on it, it seems sus that he would suddenly start complaining about how I touched him AFTER I complained about how he touched me.
But still, I tried to touch him lighter, like he asked. Then every time I did, he would giggle. I hated that stupid little giggle. He sounded like a wierd little clown.
I couldn't tell if he was being spiteful and trying to get me back for telling him his light touch annoyed me, or if he was genuinely also feeling the same wierd ass energy I was.
All I know is that we were NOT meant to be together.
My skin is crawling just reading this!
Vaginismus or any other form of pelvic floor hypertonicity and vaginal pain absolutely counts as a symptom of this.
I experienced this severely with a man, could not even enter me. My whole body would tense because of the pain. I thought it was due to menopause. I met someone else and there was no problem whatosoever.
i have this its so frustrating.
@@mariahzalera2123 great. Now I'm trying to figure out if I just have vagismus in general or if it's the shitty men I've encountered. 😂😂😭😭
Omg 😮😮😮😮 I was looking for someone to speak about this
Also miscarriages
We women would be impossible to trick if we all, collectively and individually, started listening to our intuition, our gut, our instinct, our higher self. This is our superpower. This is why all fascists, oppressors, dictators begin by suppressing woman. A truly empowered woman is invincible.
Shout out to Afghanistan...
💯 and to each other
If you follow this to it’s logical conclusion then you won’t be having sex before marriage at all. Or at all. In my faith, the women who are following their highest calling, the ones who are the most advanced in their spiritual lives and as people, are cloistered nuns.
Yessss! I’ve thought about this for so long… really thought young women would be different now & not so focused on men, marriage, & having babies; as well as changing their bodies with surgery & their faces with chemicals :/
I was born into a family of narcissists. Consequently, I have had health problems my entire life. I stayed with those people way too long
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Facts
Those narcissists tend to cause a lot of autoimmune problems.
@@psychicrenegade Yes
Me too.
The reverse is also true. I met my now husband and on our first date he smelled sooo good. I was like "what calone are you wearing?" He wasn't wearing any. I feel happier and safer just being cuddled up against him, and am sad when one of us has to go out of town. We now have an absolutely beautiful baby. And he is such a great dad he is 100% involved and is so cute with our baby.
Congratulations honey ❤every woman deserves a man she’s wild about
Girl, yes! Drop a ray of sunshine in this comment section because the comments are gloomy. 😂
I recently heard that smell attraction is an indication of compatibility.
@@nemicouture only genetic compatibility tho, not personality wise, you can't smell a personality
@fran791 lol, that's true. But I really like his personality, and i like his character.
Agree with all these women, I couldn’t even cuddle , I felt so uncomfortable, my body was telling me something the whole time..
Thank you for watching ❤️
I've noticed acne, wrinkles on the face, depression, headaches, insomnia, grey hair, loss of interest in things i like etc. I don't like the presence of most men.
I got headaches and I noticed my hair was greying out of control.
I have heard of cases where a couple try to have a child and are unable. Doctor exams show everything is normal and reproductive system is normal. Couple splits up and when with new partners have no problem having children. I think this is more common than reported.
Could that be a sign the body is rejecting all that!?
Hey thank you for watching ❤️
genetic incompatibility
A new science study showed that the egg choses the sperm that can impregnate her. In contrary earlier believes. She choses the best quality sperm and can even purposely reject all of them.. so maybe because of that.. the egg didnt like any of his sperm.. incompatible
Of course cheating lying is a problem but men with bad habits are a problem too. If he smokes, drinks, do drugs that you don’t know about. If he’s eating bad foods or not using clean hygiene products. Not to forget bad spiritual energies. Whatever toxic things a partner is doing does affect us. Especially if the person hates you but still sleep with you.
So true!
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Mine is acne, hyperpigmentations, irregular/late period, anxiety, change of sleep pattern and headaches
Mine too
That anxiety and headaches are serous hold up my whole day
Check your thyroid please. And I say this seriously.
Acne is diet...n stress
Acne can be POC yeah
-I didn’t like the way his hands felt in mine , felt sweaty and awkward
-when he cuddled with me his weight gave me headaches and felt awkward
-When I went to his house for the first time I had a severe allergy attack that night the worst I ever had my nose and throat were burning cause his house was filthy. I was allergic to his pets but he ignored me and said I was just coming down with something it wouldn’t be his house when it totally was that made me sick
- kissing him felt strange and I felt my body reject him subltly
- I had a strong gut reaction that I couldn’t shake off whatsoever I knew something wasn’t right with him I couldn’t explain. I knew I had to get out this guy was not for me
And when I tried to explain the feeling I had he didn’t understand and brushed off my concerns like they were nothing and made me feel wrong for leaving him . He didn’t want me to use my better judgement or think for myself all cause he wanted to be with me .
Ladies Don’t ever date a man who purposefully makes you doubt your woman’s intuition. It’s the biggest red flag
Why did you stay ?
gaslighting
@@Zeta-r6w I broke up with him months ago but yeah it was a lot of gaslighting from him. He did a complete 180 after and was completely rude and disrespectful
He told me “ I would apologize for hurting you , but I don’t believe any of this will hurt you” he was an asshole
@@peacecCHoly shit, that is rich!!! Woww.
Loss of hair
Loss of energy
Depression
Body changes(in a not so pleasant way)
Yeast infection/BV
More periods or less(then normal)
Anger
Sadness
Loss of genuine happiness
After sex completely drained
Addictions
Basically pay attention to yourself and notice that your body mind spirit will let you know.
i lost a lot of weight after i moved out. very stressed when we lived together and it was hard to lose weight.
The Holy Spirit will always give you warnings.
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If you are a Christian you shouldn't be sleeping outside of marriage
We gotta respect our temple/body that houses the Holy Spirit who tries to guide us around the mess
Sex before marriage is a sin. If it was GOD, those warnings would have popped up before you started fornicating.
As a female and a mom of a young daughter, I feel great to see that women all over are waking up to their inner wisdom and intuition. It feels good to be part of that rise of consciousness. 🎉❤️🔥
Thank you for watching ❤️😊
Every time my ex=husband and I had sex, which was not often, I got a full blown vaginal infection plus yeast infections. I went to the doctor about every 2 months. I danced on eggshells in fear because he was a threatening narcissist. It imploded my immune system and it almost killed me, as in the surgeon sent me home to die. Being with the wrong person and/or marrying them can cost you your fortune and your life. It is a serious matter.
When my ex gave me a vaginal infection, the doctor prescribed antifungals for my bf too. It was 2 tablets. I made him take it infront of me because i didn't trust him to take it if i wasn't checking. I had to take more than that and i had to take suppositories. Of course he complained about having to take it. Pos
True.
Wash better. 😂😂😂😂
This is serious
@@tylarwolf1193hahahahahaha 😅
Even Google gave this explanation for this phenomenon: "The mind and body have a strong connection, and sometimes physical symptoms can indicate a toxic emotional environment. People in unhealthy relationships may experience physical symptoms like pains, anxiety, and memory or speech issues. Stress can also lead to physical symptoms like headaches, stomach upset, sleep problems, chest pain, and muscle tension".
Right on 🙆🌱
Funny thing is that I get these symptoms from my job…when I’m on vacation I’m good but when it’s time to go back to work I start to break out, aches n pains, headaches ect…😂😂
Omg gosh, we're in the same situation right now... my coworkers definitely noticed after vacation. Now that I'm back to work, I just had a fever recently and headaches. I guess I'm really stressed at work and with their presence.
@@jnjrisseyeah. I eventually quit all of my issues disappeared. Stress is weird.
Omfg my old jobs and old bf used to make me feel exactly like this 😅🤣
You're not supposed to be working those jobs then
Same, i am feeling anxiety thinking of going back to work.
This happened to me when living with a granny. I gained 30lbs. Always tired. She zapped the energy from me. Multiple eye infections. Once I left, lost 15 lbs right away
This describes living with my old roommate for me. Once I started living alone I had peace.
Real love will BOOST your immune system. The point here is to find one man and stay with him in marriage for the rest of your days.
I remember being with my ex and having night terrors/sleep paralysis after not having them since childhood. And I mean every single night. He was a dark man energetically. But I am so Divinely protected he caught 2 STDS from sleeping unprotected with "ladies of the night ". Yet all my tests came back negative and he couldn't understand why. I finally told him I forgive him and released him. Now I found my souls match and have grown exponentially physically, emotionally, mentally and most importantly spiritually
That’s a beautiful thing ❤ Glad you’re in a good place now. Feeling so complete is such an amazing feeling 😊
I started getting sleep paralysis too and started getting SA’d by entities and even pulled out of the bed by one.
@mamadoom9724 yes their actions open the door for those energies and entities. Always protect your energy
@@mamadoom9724 marine spirits, surviving witchcraft talks about them
I am a mother of a daughter and I never had this kind of important conversations with my own mom or aunts. I basically had to find out the hard way. The importance to listening to your body and gut as women is difference between life and death.
Toxic family can also have the same impact & can throw your future relationship radars off.
Anyway my mom is a manipulative narcissist of the worst kind. About 10 years ago I started to develop vitiligo (white skin patches) on my body which spread a lot more on my hands in the last year.
At the start of this year had a big falling out with her and have finally gone no contact. And lo and behold after a few months of not dealing with her BS, I looked at my hands one day and noticed that all the white patches have started to disappear and my melanin started coming back and filling in!!! Other people noticed as well. The woman was causing me so much stress it was causing an autoimmune condition that was turning my skin white.
So t’s just not worth maintaining relationships with these type of destructive people. Family or not!
I'm on the same exact boat as you. It sucks because I feel like being in an abusive relationship with her my whole life has made me blind to other people treating me badly. I just had my eyes opened a couple of months ago, I finally fell out of love with my mom and can finally see what's wrong with the other people around me too. Finally feel free.
Toxic work environments will make you sick as well. We just have to be intuned with our bodies to notice.
Nobody says when a man's body rejects a woman.. he doesn't get or stay hard for her.
Gets slandered , thanks he has something wrong with him.
Then gets hard for another woman that he is comfortable with...
He may have a tremble or shake in his hands or brain fog around her.
Unusual tiredness after sex lasting days. Many similar for men also ..
Just not many men are willing to reject the feeling of what their body tells them.
but an emotionally intouch man will have these same symptoms
This video helped me understand my own past experience while having major trust issues in general made me more emotionally sensitive connecting to anyone physically.
And im a man
Thank you for watching ❤️
Interesting good to know
Men have limbic brains too so, it doesn't surprise me. We all have been taught to dismiss our instincts.
Especially men have been laughing at "women's instincts".
Good for you. Pay attention to your body signs.
Yea it definitely happens to men bc me and my fiancée pass each others energy and we feel it and call it out when it’s happening. It’s so strong that he can feel the energy just walking inside or pulling up!
Wow! I told a female associate that I am allergic to my guys sperm. She laughed and said I have never heard of this before. Because like the lady said Everytime I was with him my body was telling me something I just did not know at that time. I am so glad that this subject is being discussed for awareness.
You're not alone, I had this experience too!
You aren’t alone. I found out I’m allergic to all semen.
Me too
Same but only with my ex... I couldn't stand him at late stage of the relationship lol
If your histamine levels are too high, this will happen. You probably will also have severe bloating and red weals/ welts on your skin if you get a scratch.
They are called soul ties! Not just with a partner, but as well as with family members, friends, places and things we see and hear/taste/touch. Everything and everyone carries a positive and negative energy which most people aren't aware of it. Energy is highly contagious!
Your body and soul speaks to you ALL THE TIME! Pray, fast and ask God for healing.🙏❤️🙏
Thank you for the input & for watching ❤️
I got severe period cramps when I started dating and was intimate with a new guy. I don’t normally get any cramps at all. I also got flu-like symptoms out of nowhere. My body literally turned against me. Another man I dated I ended up with a uti. I dumped both of them. I would have to do a fast to cleanse my body and spirit from these men.
So these signs are real !!!!
Thank you for watching ❤️
It’s normal to get heavier periods when having sex regularly. Your womb is preparing for a baby!!!
Did your cycles return to normal after you separated yourself?
How long did u do the cleanse for
I dated 2 sociopaths 5 years apart, but didnt know until i was leaving them.
With the first one, i gained 15 pounds almost as soon as we started hanging out even before i liked him or things got romantic.
After being together for like 6 weeks, i got a flu and was sick for almost 6 weeks.
We moved in together after a year, and within a year of living together i lost 70 pounds, broke out in hives once, had an allergic reaction that made throat shut down 80%, had food poisoning twice where i was sick for 6 weeks. This was all during covid when we were on full lock down.
The doctors were baffled and checked for auto immune disease and tons of allergy testing.
I told the doctor my body is rejecting my ex and im sure all this will stop when i leave him. And it immediately did.
The 2nd sociopath was my friend for a year before i started to look at him romantically.
The first night it was like my feelings changed for him, we sat and watched the stars for hours,just talking, and the next day i had Sciatica and couldn't walk, and I'd never had Sciatica so i didnt even know what was wrong.
2 weeks later he asked me to be his girl and 4 weeks later i started to get hives atleast twice a week.
After being with him for 8 months, the smell of his skin and bodily fluid started to disgust me and i started to get period pimples around my chin, even though they weren't due yet for that part of my cycle.
The idea of sleeping with him started to gross me out so i stopped.
A month later,i had a seizure for the first time ever. And then had 2 more, each one was 1 week apart.
I had 2 ct scans and tons of testing done and there were no results... doctors found nothing.
But by the 3rd Seizure i recognised this as a pattern in comparison to the last time this stuff happened with the ex.
In fact, this extreme reaction by my body is what made me realise that this Prince Charming must be a worst sociopath than my ex.
I blocked and deleted him from everything, washed my sheets to get rid of his smell and after 2 weeks my body released 10 pounds. And i never had a seizure again.
The day i blocked my ex was the day i met my husband. And my body knew the difference immediately.
I felt light, calm and energized like a purring cat and really happy... smiling till my face hurt in our first conversation.
Our bodies keep the score ladies.❤
Always believe yourself and listen to your intuition. She's louder the more you listen.
That Prince Charming DVed and tried to unalive the girl after me.
Believe your body the first time ❤
Wow thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry you had to go through hell twice but I’m glad you were able to recognize the love of your life and soul soon after! Wishing you healing!
Birth control also messes with you hormones and pheromones and you can actually pick the wrong partner.
It’s absolutely poison from the patriarchy 😢 don’t take it ladies
Interesting 🤔
bit of a myth actually
This is true for ANY relationship, family, friend, partner it's true. For me it was friends and family. Now I'm introverted, shy and anxious. But I have felt for at ease and comfortable around grown strangers than ppl I'm supposed to be close to. I'm always nervous, or uncomfortable, migraines too, always drained or exhausted during/after interaction. Even after Spending years and forcing myself to acclimate being around these ppl ( I had 0 choice) at best, I was always on eggshells or constantly feel like my personal space is violated, and uncomfortable/unwilling to talk about or share personal information, space or things. Heck from the day I MET these ppl I KNEW consciously and unconsciously I did NOT LIKE THESE PPL OR WANT TO BE AROUND THEM. The reason I chose to ignore it was because I felt bad for disliking ( damn near hating) ppl - family at that- for "no reason". Trust me they gave me PLENTY of reasons. But for anyone reading this, don't wait fir ppl to give u a reason to leave ( it will cost to much) if u dislike someone or don't like being around them for "no reason" just leave, I guarantee there is one, don't find found what just go
Its from God For us women God knew What and Who He Created
Ladies love yourself your body will keep you safe
You better PREACH ❤
Amen 💖
You mean the Goddess?
Wow my hair started falling out when I was with my ex, I never had any energy even having a shower seemed like such an effort. Once we broke up my hair has grown bk and i'm full of energy
Energy vampire...
I know that feeling
If they express *any* discomfort when you talk about your knowledge of psychopathic behavior/signs, run for the hills girl.
Butterflies is a RED FLAG 🚩
True
Yes alarm bells. Central nervous system is picking up on the spiritual signal
I felt “butterflies in my stomach” once in my life. I can’t remember what the cause was-what I do remember is that it was the most uncomfortable thing I’d ever felt. I didn’t like it at all 😂
1000%
See I always thought they were a good thing. Like a good fluttery, anxious feeling.
This isn't always about the man himself necessarily but low level chronic infections people carry, or the environments they live/work in. Either way though, if your health is affected, always choose vitality. Another one to look out for is if you suddenly start getting painful periods when you didn't before. When he ejaculates inside you, that's when infections can make their way to the uterus.
I remember a guy who afterwards I used to look really puffy in my face. He had some bad breath so either oral biome infection or gut infection.
Remember, don't judge the guy himself. Humans get lots of infections and will carry them from the past, it doesn't necessarily indicate cheating. However the more a guy sleeps around, the more likely he is to be carrying infections, and I don't just mean sexual ones, but on the skin, mouth, gut which we pick up from kissing. The older he is the more exposure he's had but exposure can also be from being young and promiscuous or just bad luck.
Ladies, this is WHY religions and cultures had prohibitions around sex. Especially before antibiotics, people literally became infertile and or died.
Men have terrible hygiene even when they're not promiscuous, which just takes the threat loose men bring to a whole new degree.
Yes please remember, even gingivitis is contagious. A man who does not look after himself WILL NOT look after you! Consider this: we really dont treat other people any better than we treat ourselves. Kindness is always a good cosmic investment, but also, how you treat others is your way of "broadcasting" how you want to be treated. If they don't get it, and don't comply, don't bother with them. They will just try to drag you down to their standards, which they have no right to do. A man can't give you germs he doesn't have. If he's nasty and unhygienic, he will gIve you diseases. Don't have a relationship with a plague rat. Report him to the CDC (lol) and move on... Question a guy closely about the healthcare he gives his pet, if he has one. And if he has kids, is he paying support? Does he know their health status? Does he take them to the doctor, dentist, or optometrist? If not, get rid of him. He won't care for you any better than the pet or the kids. Don't date "Patient Zero".
look into pathogenic cancer
I love love love this video! Every single woman needs to know this (we all know this already) BUT in 31:50 min of a video and NOT ONE SINGLE MENTION OF NIGHTMARES. Or, like some weird ass dream triggering some inner child insecurity or a weird scenario that you wouldn’t normally find yourself in yet here your dream is vividly stating this. Every single time I have a weird dream when I’m newly seeing someone it usually means that it’s not going to work out, whether it’s them or me!
Woke up from a nightmare and found this video suggested.... Yeah it's definitely a sign I can't ignore, scared to go back to sleep. And I very very rarely ever get nightmares.
@@Leyliarey11 follow that! I dunno. I don't like it either bc its always so bizarre. Just a sign.
BV.
Reoccurring BV.
Yup
been there!
All the time
Yup 😅 it's sick I think that's because they cheat aloooooot
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This is so real. While my husband was having an affair I could not kiss him, his natural scent turned me off and sleeping next to him with his snoring became completely unbearable ! Then again, he says he cheated BECAUSE he could sense my aversion to him & lack of intimacy 🤷🏾♀️😅
Same exact situation
@@MzDoctorStrange2ureally?! Well sending you love & healing energy Sis. I’ve completely restricted my body/sex from him for the past two years & I’ve never had more clarity or felt as empowered as I do now. Sooo much growth. He on the other hand was diagnosed with Cancer last year 🥹🤯 True Story. Should I do a full story time?? I’ve grappled with second hand embarrassment & internalized shame keeping HIS dirty little secret but I think it may be liberating to tell my story if it resonates with other women. ❤
@@queennubianuniverse most cancer is pathogenic, likely from an STD in his case
There are studies that suggest microbiomes and scent are big indicators of compatibility. When there's physical compatibility on that deep of a level, both partners stay healthy and cheating will not happen since that deep connection is what keeps both partners engaged and protective of eachother's health. It's also indicators of whether you will be able to conceive easily if you choose to and the health of the child. This is why online dating and hookup culture isn't a good idea for many people. It takes away the energy and scent check that happens within 5 seconds of meeting someone in person.
Some people get so desperate when swiping online that they bypass the red flags and signs of incompatibility
Definitely true!!
I was raped , It was 10 years until I finally realized I was raped , but I was dating that man and I made these excuses , I felt disgusted every time he touched me , I cried and he made me sick , I also cheated as an excuse to leave them . How he raped me , he got me drunk and slept with me , I was barely 19 and I thought I consented when I legitimately had rejected him in order to coerce a relationship. When I said outloud describing that moment , I admitted he raped me and I broke down crying for several days because it finally made sense
I'm so sorry honey, I hope life lead you to the right path, much ❤️
I hope u file a police report 🚔🚓☹🙁
So sorry to hear this.
@@zandrashoffner4134 Sometimes that's more traumatizing.
@@zandrashoffner4134 I didn't because it took me several years to figure out plus he has children now .. I'm not taking a father from his kids, he loved them last I saw . Plus I don't know where he is any ways . Imagine telling those children their daddy was a rapist that took advantage of a nieve 19 year old girl that just graduated high-school and he was closer to 22. Plus he could just say I consented and regretted it later .
I know that this is a total fact. My first husband had such an effect on me that I was sick to my stomach and had headaches all the time. And as soon as I got into my car and drove away, never to return, the sick feeling in my stomach and head immediately left me (while I was driving down the road)! I don't know if this is spiritual, physical, emotional, or what, but I know that it's a fact! My body even rejected a baby by my next husband who I found out had only married me for a green card! Sometimes your body will do for you, what you won't do for yourself!!!!
Women should not fight miscarriages. That's the body telling you that the man's dna is no good.
Anxiety. Weird thing we ignore. It’s NOT butterflies. It’s your body saying run! It’s that gut feeling. Don’t overcome, push past it, run before you’re “in love”. Your body WILL reject them and if you stay, the break up will be earth moving cause you knew and ignored yourself.
I think there's some truth to this...I remember Inwas dating this one guy and I used to get panic attacks with him...never had one in my life before...I used to have a lot of sleepless nights too...once we parted...the next man I got with, I slept like a baby...
Ooh my Goodness I can't believe someone decided to put this together... Thank you so so much. The body just knows ❤
Thank you for watching ❤️
100% Facts! Preach! This video needs to go viral for ALL women to watch. This is God’s gift to women to ensure women are protected from marrying the wrong man for them. God wants women to marry the correct man for them. God does this to ensure children are born from 2 parents who truly love one another and who will not abandon each other or their children. Women need to listen to their God-given intuition and their bodies regarding men! I can even smell it in a man’s pheromones. Women have heightened perceptions, because God entrusted women with the protection of themselves and children.
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This is what I am experiencing 😮. Depression, anxiety, can't sleep, brain fog, painful periods, headache's etc.
Omg I cant believe I didn't see this.
This just comes to show how people are completely detached from their selves
speaking of signs, i've had full body chills watching this the whole time. this is on point.
Mental Health is so real. - Protect your health and wellbeing it is super important.
That's true 💯💯 The body speaks to you first. Great topic!
Thank you for watching ❤️
UTI and yeast infection are very real when you're body rejects them. Listen to your body loves ❤️ Your body is home and you are the advocate who gets to dwell and live within your body.
Well said ❤️
Thank you 😊
Add cavities too - never had them before my ex and now have several fillings. They will make you ROT from the inside out.
Kissing and saliva transfer. Plus if he stressed you out maybe you were eating more sweets than usual.
😂😂😂 DAMN
Yuck.... omg yeah 🤢 am grossed out now I am even scared to let any man touch me
wait this happened to me but I never made the connection 😭
Cavities are actually contagious, my teeth were so much better before I met my ex 😭
This video is accurate. Just sleeping next to him in the beginning, I would wake up drenched in cold sweat. And also, I never had a UTI until I met him.
Edit: I think this is worth a mention. I once dated a guy and every time he came over to my house, it was like a Tasmania Devil just entered my home and when I would sleep with him, I would feel completely depleted, hollow inside myself. I would feel completely empty as if he snatched something energetic from me. As soon as he would leave, I would be under my blanket for days comforting myself. I’m older and wiser now, and I know exactly what that was. He was toxic and stealing my youthful energy.
Thank you for watching ❤️
Made me think how powerful our bodies are.
Women are *vessels,* and we take in whatever a man is. When my husband and I separated, I became happy, lost weight, and all my physical symptoms went away. My whole body was telling me I was better/happier/healthier without him. We need to listen to our bodies. Thank you for this 🌹
This.
My fiance is my sleeping pill 😂
I just need to know he's home to snore away my life
Same😂😂😂
Awe! 😂I saw a sitcom like that of an old married couple. He complained he couldn't sleep if she wasn't in the bed with him. It made me laugh but my mom swore it was true.
@@Rachael.Moreland. it is true 🤣 Something about feeling safe and knowing everybody is home and where they're supposed to be.
My ex had that with me and he's been having insomnia his entire life. I on the other hand had that for a couple of times, but over time that changed. Up to a point, where I had a hard time falling asleep when he was there, while he was sound asleep, basically as soon as his head hit the pillow 😅
@@insanelysane8296 just because you were good for him doesn't mean he was good for you 🤷🏻♀️
This also goes for food: itchy skin, breakouts, weight gain, brain fog, eczema/dermatitis, joint pain and even when you’re eating or drinking something, your throat will contract. Our bodies know before we do 💯!
True True!
Thank you for watching ❤️
Remember the " medical model": is based on the male anatomy. This is why I prefer female doctors. In my personal experience Indian women are often the best doctors because many believe in " holistic health".
So powerful to be speaking about this!!! The body is so wise....
So wise!!
Thank you for watching ❤️
I believe In my almost 60 years, I've my body has been correct when I've been bothered by a man's smell. I've gotten ill, stomach aches and headaches. After I split up I always found out the guy was terrible. it. There was a study examining the armpit smells of humans. Apparently, the armpit smell is related to a person's immune system (HLA). People are attracted to those with compatible HLA systems and repelled by those with HLA incompatible with them. This may be natural way to create the best genetic pairings as HLA also influences sexual preferences.
immune histo compatibility complex IHCC
I'm going to story dump on you here: I have gotten pregnant by a man who my body rejected. The intercourse that led to me being pregnant was not voluntary per se on my end. I cut him off immediately afterwards. But little did I know, I was pregnant. So when it was time to make a decision, I summed up all my courage and decided to look how the thought of having this baby feels (I was 2.5 weeks pregnant at the time). And I felt this huge wave of love and affection and adoration for my baby. It was a picture perfect pregnancy and birth. My daughter has never been sick other than you standard flu, she is objectively beautiful, incredibly intelligent, empathetic and people are generally touched by her. And I'm over here baffled because I hated (still do actually) EVERYTHING about this man. From his smell to the way his voice sounds. And yet, this picture perfect person was the result of this rather unfortunate experience. Wild.
@@insanelysane8296 Are you still with him? 🤔
This also goes for family and friendships. I met a girl last year in college that I somehow didn't like that much at first (which is not like me at all because I usually get along with everyone especially on a surface level). But after a few weeks she tried to get closer at every single occasion. We started taking more and she told me that she feels a bit lonely because she has no one to connect with. The empathetic people pleaser inside of me thought "well why don't you invite her into your friend group" so I did.
She started always calling me, talking for hours on the phone, it was a lot of fun and we spend a lot of time together after uni. Suddenly I started getting panic attacks, crying out of nowhere, throwing up, constant migraines, stomachaches, anxiety, my lymph node's started swelling out of nowhere,I was unable to leave my bed on some days and didn't attend uni anymore. I had this overwhelming urge to climb under a rock and never get out again, so I deinstalled all of my messenger apps.
I thought that maybe I am just depressed because I still didn't work through my childhood trauma or that I simply am way too introverted or something like that.
After a while I started spending more one on one time with another friend who told me about all the things the first friend did and said about me behind my back (some of them even right in front of me, I just ignored them because I didn't want to cause a scene).
I started cutting that friend out a little more each passing day. And suddenly when it was holiday season and I didn't have to see her anymore my symptoms went away. They just started to come back when I had to go to a concert we bought the tickets to a year before. This was when it fully clicked and I understood that she was indeed the cause for my health problems. I haven't seen her since the concert nor talked to her and had so much time to spend with myself and other friends, even people that I just met and I realized how good it feels to socialise and that I am actually really good at it. It's not the world overwhelming me it was her constant presence. This is something which I wouldn't have guessed at all because for this entire year she really worked on isolating me from my friends and even family so that she was the only person I got to spend time with and since this already felt too heavy I thought that maybe I am just not that social. I feel so very detoxed from her right now and as if I can finally see clear again. Forever very thankful for this experience, I will surely not let this happen again.
All of this would be avoided if we listend to the teachings of the Bible. All this sleeping with just anyone will cost us not following the laws statues and commandments will cost us everything the Bible warns us about we do then look shocked 😳 😮💨🥴
well things like sodomy still count even when it's a man with a woman, people don't wanna know
You bible thumpers don't even know your own book. The absolutely insane stuff in your religious texts are not things to aspire to or conduct your lives by. Any time one of you says this kind of thing, it gives brainwashed and crazy.
The way ‘she’ would STANK a day or two after we would do the deed. Like, I could smell myself through my clothes and felt so unclean. BV was my bff for months and I couldn’t understand why. Tried showering before hand, even asked him to stop smoking and drinking as much. Walked away from him because he refused to commit, he came back around a new, sober, non-smoker, mature person a year later…..literally no issues now.
I’ve never heard of a man changing for the better like this. He better treat you like a goddess and keep you safe
I really needed this comment. I'm experiencing the exact same thing. Your story is the last kick I need to go through with what I've been subconsciously feeling for a while now. This is generally my person, just not now. He is not there yet. And if he truly IS my person, it'll be when some work has been done beforehand.
When a man's presence gives you peace that is an actual " high value man". If he is just a source of anxiety he is extracting value from you and no SANE woman wants that.
Also, I would like to add, that the reason WHY your body will reject a man when he is not for you, is because, your subconscious body IS YOUR PHYSICAL BODY. This is something I learned while I was learning how to heal from trauma. Trauma is actually stored in the fascia, which is the web that weaves together our physical bodies! In order to heal trauma, you actually have to SHAKE it out of your body through trembling! And the reason for this? Because our subconscious mind IS OUR PHYSICAL BODY. 👏👏👏
Sometimes it's psychologically easier to suppress our feelings than face what's there. I knew it was time to leave my fiance when I kept feeling sick and depressed having to continue being around him and we definitely weren't doing anything physical anymore. I was really young (both of us were 20) and didn't want to admit our four year relationship wasn't forever. He wasn't abusive, but he wasn't a good partner for most of the relationship. I felt guilty at the thought of leaving because he didn't have a great family and we were together since high school. He isn't a bad person and to his credit he essentially told me it was okay to break up and he didn't want to keep me from anything. I do hope he's doing well and has been able to find close connections outside his family.
You can also get frequent, extreme migraines.
This is all true. I had chronic debilitating pain for almost two years, to the point that it felt like I was walking on knives and my muscles were literally tearing themselves apart, and I’d gone to doctors and many other places to try to heal it. The pain completely disappeared about two months after breaking up with my ex. Not to mention extremely irregular period issues. It took a year longer for that to regulate again, and I had never had issues before him.
Another time I was talking to a guy who seemed like he was everything I was looking for, and he was enthusiastically into me. I couldn’t sleep or eat for weeks even though things were good with him. I felt completely empty after being with him for the first time. Tiny comments would send me into extremely dark places. He was a self described narcissist, I found out. Luckily, that only lasted a short amount of time. If I had spent more time with that person, I could reasonably see myself not making it out alive.
Am glad you said it ❤️
Thank you for watching 😊😍
This is gold, I stopped dating years ago. Even man I have been with made me sick . Client that was criminals I would get in car accidents . PT’s that hurt my body . Girls that have stolen from me. I don’t mess with people anymore! 😂
I got hectic acne. The worst acne in my life, face red and cystic. 5 years on the acne scars are still there, acne left within a year after the relationship finished.
Waiting until marriage to “sleep” with someone will save all these assaults on you body and mind. The clues are right there, the answers are right there but people just want to stumble in the dark.
Problem is finding a man who will do that too. I got lucky with mine as we were both teens when we met and were each others first everything.
True that matters too but also imagine you wait till marriage only to discover you are now tied to a person who makes you sick forever (because some dont reveal their true selves until they think they got you) when it would’ve been easier to walk away. Im not condoning pre marital s£x but im just saying every positive has a negative and vice versa
@@Wonderer888 oh yes that is very true too. Definitely adding to my luck that we didn’t have those issues as well.
what if we're allergic to his semen? anyone know of a medical test for that?
@@Wonderer888 some women wait until marriage and are allergic to his semen, my worst nightmare
When it happens to you and then the person leaves and you are 100% better immediately it only takes that one time. You are forever a believer. ❤
I felt this way with my ex husband. I always felt sick, without being physically sick and I always felt anxious around him
My eye wouldn't stop twitching. Once I stopped talking to him to twitching stopped
Oh, my goodness! This is truly a thing!!!
Twitches all over the body too.
Omg this happened to me!!!! Only realizing this now that when I broke up w my ex, I stopped having my eye twitch
Some of them just need to use protection and get their partners tested BEFORE sex. Your flesh is traitorous but if you watch their actions it’ll show they’re not right for you
I felt all of these things with my ex. When i finally trusted my intuition, he had cheated, was actively stealing money, amongst other things... listen to your intuition
My body totally rejected my ex.Thank God I am out of this relationship.
I have been wracking my brain over this chronic UTI and i NEVER had one till i met him. I literally got in a car accident and hit a deer the same day we were moving in together. This weight will NOT come off and my skin will not stop breaking out when i hadnt had a pimple for years! I cant sleep around him and the smell of his breath is now making me sick and his touch makes my skin crawl! But the weird thing is, the beginning it was so good. Why does this keep happening? Happened with my ex too. My vag literally swollen shut and went to 6 doctors to figure it out and now i have hypertonic pelvic floor. I'm starting to think im allergic to men altogether!
Run girl! Save yourself.
surviving witchcraft 101
Let's clarify- if he is actually actively doing things to try to keep you safe, then you will feel safety in his presence. If you don't feel safe, it's because he's not facilitating safety. You know when you're being used by a man in ways you're not comfortable with. It's better to accept it and act accordingly rather than to desperately fight it because you're making his behavior mean something about you. My sister, if he's using you, the reason isn't because you're lacking something-the reason is because he's a jerk.
Major hint: you have to make them wash it and wash it very well before they put it anywhere near you. They are very dirty they have dirty external parts. We are clean. Our parts are self cleaning.
100% CORRECT. You have to be brutal and tell a man he is NOT "just fine" the way he is. If he's not willing to wash, then he doesn't belong with you. I have had 3 stinky guys, same nasty underarm smell. I never wanted them to put their arms around me because I did not want their B. O. On my clothes. Some men think waaaay too much of themselves. I should never have put up with it.
Self cleaning? But somehow y'all still be stinking down there.
@@ElGhostPresents yes, only after one of you all been visiting, lol.🤭 normal is naturally clean, lol.
@Freakymum1645 then that's on you if you know the dude is dirty lol. It's even in your name "freaky". You like it dirty? 🤣 Be fr. "We are clean." Is bs. You know damn well majority of y'all aren't. Especially being on OF and having high bodycounts. Lol
@Freakymum1645 then that's on you if you know the dude is dirty lol. Be fr. "We are clean." Is bs. You know damn well majority of y'all aren't. Especially being on OF and having high bodycounts. Lol
My body and soul would feel heavy like carried a 100 pounds blocks on my shoulders and my heart. Broke up 3 times each time same feelings than i decided no more manipulation from taking him bac( he is a covert narcissist).
I honestly felt light same day he moved out of my house.
This has happened to me so many times... not just with potential partners... The worst thing was with a "friend", every time after I met her I felt sick, had migraine & twice my circulation stopped afterwards & I just passed out.. Listen to your bodies, Ladies ❤
Some people might not want to hear it but ohh well. What you feel in your heart and mind after being with the wrong person is called conviction. Your spirit is convicting you as the bible says not to engage in fornication, or sex before marriage. Its a sin, so your spirit is feeling that this is wrong and it manifests to the physical, your flesh body. The flesh is weak. There is a reason why sex is reserved for AFTER marriage, because it weeds out the losers who only want your body. And our bodies are and should be temples of God , and any decent person would know this. And the dirty feeling is the spirits that are also on them. S,E,X is spiritual exchange. be carfull who you intertwine yourselves with as you make unhealthy souil ties.
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Speak that truth 🗣
fornication doesn't mean that, it means perversion look it up
sex IS marriage see leah jacob
@seabreeze4559 I know sex is marriage and a blood convenient is broken, but it is fornication if you don't intend to marry that person and make a public Decree to families of your intentions on marriage.
I cant sleep around him
Feel drained ALL the time
Cannot sleep with him at all it's painful
My stomach churns anytime he pulls into the driveway.
I struggle to put on any weight
I broke out in hives a couple of times
I had multiple cavities since meeting him which i never experienced before
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I think is because sometimes guys have really bad habits. My exboyfriend was alcohólic and pothead and when around him i would addopt these habits
A lot of these also sound like stress responses
If he smokes weed and u started to do it with him...i can tell u that was y'all bond y'all didn't have anything for real...ask me how i know 😒 cuz the minute i said hey i don't really like being high it's not me oh baby the relationship was just over he started leaving to smoke with his friends hardly ever saw him, open deep conversations were gone cuz when sober we actually really didn't get along with each other and he stays high and i don't so 😒
@@lala5061 same happened to me too. We already broke UP but he one Day told me to have a drink so I would not be that boring.
This, but its happening with my mum. I don't like her touching me and I feel weird whenever she comes around. Idk, might be because she always left me with all kinds of people as a baby and as a child.
As a baby and child you need the safe feeling from your mom and skin touch, her leaving you with random people made you feel unsafe but also it made her not reliable, not trusted because baby's long for their mum and her constantly leaving you, the one you trust the most, is very damaging and gives trust issues. Who else is the one you should be able to trust the most? What happens if that person that you should trust the most as a helpless baby that can't defend herself, leaves you all the time.. you stop trusting her, its a deep deep trauma. Might influence your other relationshios
Swapping fluids with anyone tends to cause infections, sorry...
I have experienced all these negative reactions in every relationship I've been in with a man... and turns out it's because I've been suppressing my queer identity for years. Feminine energy has the opposite effect, and makes me want to be the best version of myself
Same! No workarounds worked: not beautiful men, not kind and caring men. No matter how much feminine energy they had expressed as their looks or their personality, they were still men. It wasn't until I let myself fully express my love for a woman until I felt that I was not even getting 10% of what I needed before. The richness of a relationship with another woman cannot be compared to anything any man can ever offer me.
This is important to note. Some people are not attracted to men and have buried it so deeply they don't even know. It makes me really sad that there are people who deal with this.
I had two ectopic pregnancies with my ex and hsd to have a tube removed. Ladies protect your womb