How to tell if he's cheating On you! Signs He is Cheating on You! (TikTok Edition)

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  • @jeanellematthews5177
    @jeanellematthews5177 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Wow. Once the trust is lost, the relationship is over.

  • @kia.203
    @kia.203 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    I had a dream my ex was cheating. Turns out, he was lol.

    • @carissahowell
      @carissahowell หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Same thing happened to me. I even jokingly asked him who is blonde girlfriend was in the next town over, after my dream.
      Turns out the girl he was cheating with was blonde and lived in said town.

    • @kia.203
      @kia.203 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @carissahowell omg. Same thing with me to. I jokingly shared my dream with him, and i chuckled afterwards. He didn't. So I became suspicious, and asked. By his actions, I already had my answer

    • @tee_007spice3
      @tee_007spice3 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Had a dream he got someone pregnant… Fast forward 2 years later, turns out.. he did.

    • @RawrLyss
      @RawrLyss 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have these all the time, but recently it was me cheating 🫢

  • @tynaangelici3023
    @tynaangelici3023 หลายเดือนก่อน +287

    He could be cheating with another man. Just sayin.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      😂😂 Shhhh 🤫

    • @krystynaa_
      @krystynaa_ หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jeanellematthews5177
      @jeanellematthews5177 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Seems to be a lot of that going on.

    • @novagalaxy342
      @novagalaxy342 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yup, there's many such cases.

    • @thevenusian1314
      @thevenusian1314 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If he's smart he is.

  • @JazzGaming26
    @JazzGaming26 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Isn't it funny how the second you start liking a man is when he pulls away. That's probably why I don't get attached to anyone anymore.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@JazzGaming26 That's Love bombing babe!!
      go watch my how men manipulate women video

  • @omegaone65
    @omegaone65 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Girlfriends need to quit acting like wives

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oooh my say that again!!!

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      But we all know they want! Most of them claim not want the government involved in their lives, just like “ their boyfriends” tell them too- blissfully not even considering that the government is a part of your life as soon as you come out of the womb…
      They claim marriage is horrible and a contract- but still live as “man and wife” anyway without that “ contract.”
      My thing is if you were really non-traditional you’d move like it- not living together, simply only spending time and going out- not doing performative duties for a person who isn’t your actual legal partner, etc.. but they don’t live like that because they actually do desire marriage. Just can’t get it.

  • @redeemerliveth2589
    @redeemerliveth2589 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    gut feelings, inconsistency, intuition,projection of accusations,

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @jokersharley567
    @jokersharley567 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I caught him telling a woman (hes currently talking to 5...that i know of) which he is also BRUTALLY accusing me of infidelity.
    This woman asked if he lives with anyone....his response " i bought a house 4 years ago and with my 2 kids."
    Weve been together 16 years!!!
    Every one of these resonates
    With his behaviors.
    Working on freedom. My kids and i deserve better.

    • @RochellB46
      @RochellB46 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m so sorry ❤

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well it’s up to you to do what’s right for yourself.

    • @La_anaconda
      @La_anaconda หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awful
      Get out there sis ❤

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You definitely do deserve the world.
      Keep your head up Queen 👑!

    • @RochellB46
      @RochellB46 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AmberColeman-gq1wn yeah she basically said that 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

  • @lashondarochell7584
    @lashondarochell7584 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    The phone is the biggest indicator thay you are dealing with a cheater, they are beyond scared to leave their phone and your presence

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน

      True 💯
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @KarenTski
    @KarenTski 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    A woman can do better detective work. Then the FBI!!

  • @natural3362
    @natural3362 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    And remember ladies, get divorced from cheaters. Give yourself a man that is worthy and deserving of you

  • @natural3362
    @natural3362 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    If a person cheats on you, they don't love you. Love is about compatibility. The reason why they're wiling to go this far to hurt and mock you is because you're not compatible in the first place
    Men that cheat don't know love. Love is a feeling and an action. Different type of love. They're lusting on you. Men that cheat will never know true love

  • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
    @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Notice that most of these women claiming that they have been cheated on are gorgeous? Looks have nothing to do with why a man is or isn't faithful.

  • @elasticheart1245
    @elasticheart1245 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Her advice about BV experience was truth

  • @marilynruiz746
    @marilynruiz746 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Even beyond cheating is that intuitive feeling we women get in our gut, that this man/ individual/ anybody is not right. We should listen to it more often.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I absolutely agree 💯
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @fatnfrail
    @fatnfrail หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    me watching this knowing i’ve been single for 3 years 😂

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂

    • @BENZ_ASMR
      @BENZ_ASMR 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Deadass💯🤣💀‼️

    • @MazzyBrooks
      @MazzyBrooks 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hehe me too 😂

  • @beautifullyblessedandnatur7457
    @beautifullyblessedandnatur7457 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I aways told my ex the moment things change out the blue then you know they are cheating. A partner always know.

  • @neal4444
    @neal4444 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    LMAO😂😂😂😂
    CHEATING IS A LUXURY!!!!....
    Who has time to cheat in this Economy?
    Seriously If you do,Please Enlighten Us😂.

  • @4seasons546
    @4seasons546 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Any shift in the routine is a warning ⛔️

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@4seasons546 True That!

  • @theaslynn2783
    @theaslynn2783 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    The dude at 1:55 is speaking from the cheaters perspective. He's so amused with himself, and it's disgusting.

  • @PaintingbyAnnette
    @PaintingbyAnnette 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    yeah, remember Brad Pit said he didn't like Angelina Jolie when they worked on that movie together. He said she wasn't his type, back when she was everyone's type, before they admitted they were seeing each other.

    • @galaxi407
      @galaxi407 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Now karma came and but him on the arse, he picked what he deserved. Messed with the wrong woman.

  • @ItsQuila280
    @ItsQuila280 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    If he a narcissist he will argue even in the beginning stages

    • @candykis33
      @candykis33 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      OMG!!! This all day. ☝🏾(speaking from experience).

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      True

  • @Melvina1975
    @Melvina1975 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    He would also complain about every little thing I did! If I breathed he complained😢😢😢

  • @oliviagore7067
    @oliviagore7067 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Having an ex-wife, I saw all of these signs too.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for confirming that they are True ❤️

  • @4seasons546
    @4seasons546 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Reading the book 📕 ATTACHED by Amire Levine - apparently the “ avoidant attachment style” is most likely to cheat because they are looking for ways to create distance

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@4seasons546 Absolutely!

  • @Lynn-r7x
    @Lynn-r7x หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    If that man isn't your husband....expect anything to happen. IMO you are single until you are married. My thing is I don't care if a man isn't interested in me anymore. If you wanna talk to someone else go ahead but don't leave me hanging or do all the dramatics. Say what it is and do you. To be honest the best place tbh IMO is the chase phase with men. Let them just chase you as long as they want and then when they get tired and lose interest let them go. You literally get what you would have gotten anyway but without the emotional attachment. There are men who are STILL chasing me and its been 10 years. Its wild. Once they get you is when they lose interest. WELL. I have NO interest in these men anymore. I entertain then at my leisure but overall I have no intention of committing to any of them. My peace and solitude has been beautiful.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! 🫶

    • @danaelaine5684
      @danaelaine5684 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Married men are the main demographic on Tinder 🤦🏼‍♀️ what are you on about?! 😂😂😂

    • @al.hernandez4891
      @al.hernandez4891 58 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Soooo married ppl don't cheat?

  • @RochellB46
    @RochellB46 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    If He is a He then He is probably cheating 😢 I give up

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂 Don't give up
      Am sure not all men cheat

    • @RochellB46
      @RochellB46 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Chommikenya I just got engaged 🤣 I trust my man I just know men can be tempted easy

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@RochellB46 Congratulations 🎉 🥂
      If he gets tempted ,now you know the signs, be shutting it real quick 😂

    • @RochellB46
      @RochellB46 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Chommikenya Yeap !!! & I’ll move my pretty little self on to a better man 🤣

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RochellB46 Love that for you!!😂😂
      I hope ladies can see what's like understanding your value ❤️
      Thank you

  • @CharleneDerbyshire-dt6gc
    @CharleneDerbyshire-dt6gc หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    8 years of wasted time.

  • @KarenTski
    @KarenTski 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Just to let guys know a woman does better investing than the FBI if she thinks you’re cheating

  • @candykis33
    @candykis33 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Not start shaving his back. I died. ☠️😂🤣

    • @traceylennon1204
      @traceylennon1204 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      His whole commentary, let me dying!! 🤣🤣🤣😭

  • @moniquegonzalez9276
    @moniquegonzalez9276 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Men just get a second phone he hides in his shoe or the pocket of his underwear. Another sign is sudden mood changes that has no apparent tigger

  • @JennMartinello
    @JennMartinello 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Remember women may put phones on do not disturb and down because of exit strategies. Not always the sinister.
    That car seat thing is so real!

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I did it because people are always texting me to ask for advice or prayer. Sometimes I just need time to myself.

  • @KnoNow9
    @KnoNow9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    She said, "Some of yall can legitimately qualify for a disability check." 🤣🤣🤣 Took me out because that is so true. They way people ignore all the obvious signs.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Am screaming 😭😭😂😂

    • @bri_is_bre
      @bri_is_bre หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mine fit these details and had a disability check 😮😅😅😂

  • @Asia_B_85
    @Asia_B_85 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The lady at 20 min is exactly correct. I’m not proud of the fact that I met and fell in love with another man at all but I can say that she is spot on. I did all of those things. I used to talk about the guy that I feel in love with to my ex husband all the time. I just couldn’t stop thinking about him. But I wasn’t just talking to him randomly I was seeing this guy every single day. We were talking 24/7 almost. I went on dates with him and literally raced to him every second I could. I told my ex husband about him and we divorced. Before everyone comes for me, my ex husband was cheating lying hiding and doing things really wrong behind my back the entire time I was married to him. Even when I was having our child in the hospital I found out later on he was trying to actively meet up with another woman while I was giving birth and in the hospital with our baby right after. I kept catching him over 16 years and I was COMPLETELY devastated and faithful. It wasn’t until 16 plus years later that I met someone else and just fell in love. We are still together 6 years later and he comes home to me every single day. Every single day he races to me just like I used to race to him. I’m not agreeing with cheating AT ALL. It devastated me. It changed who I was as a person and it probably changed my kids childhoods because I was always sad. But we’re all good now and everyone is happy. She is very very very right tho.

    • @Asia_B_85
      @Asia_B_85 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I really could talk about the signs all day long. I had a lot of them. My ex husband was always too worried about other women to wonder what I was doing when I actually did fall in love with someone else. I can also say our sex life did NOT change at all tho. Not at all we were still sleeping together the entire time.

  • @NurseKayP
    @NurseKayP 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The pH and BV thing is so true. it’s funny cause the man will act like there is something wrong with you then you get rid of him and like magic no more issues 😂😂

  • @novagalaxy342
    @novagalaxy342 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This ish has to be mentally and emotionally stressful for the men and women too. All that to go hookup with others while in a relationship or marriage... pathetic. I understand now why the dating market is trash and dead now. Lots of young people are not dating or getting married nowadays. If a guy wants to date and sleep with lots of women, why be in relationships or marriages? Just be single and honest with yourselves guys, what's the point of all this crap? You're not only deceiving your significant other, you're hurting yourselves as well. This happens because of dishonesty and manipulation, just be honest about everything and end the relationship or marriage. And ladies once you find out he's intimate with other women, don't continue to have sex with him, pull away and break off the relationship. It's not good for your health and your soul.

  • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
    @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    My husband talked me into quitting social media because he thought that I would cheat and then he got an account to talk to other women. So yes. She is correct 💯

  • @Melvina1975
    @Melvina1975 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Mine would send me the same message twice!! I knew he was a piece of work, and both of his phones were always face down, he was doing wayyyyyyyy to much and constantly accused me of cheating when my gut instict knew he was doing all of the cheating

    • @ashleykathryn9038
      @ashleykathryn9038 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He wasn't even good at it 😂 What a loser glad you got away!

  • @SunQueen-d7l
    @SunQueen-d7l หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    🎉if he's NOT $pending, $poiling, posting, bragging & showing u off to the 🌎 world, consistently givin u princess treatment 24/7/365 like russell does ciara. Run 🏃‍♀️ for ur life.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      PERIOD ✨

    • @La_anaconda
      @La_anaconda หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True ❤

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Princess treatment is unrealistic and degrading.

    • @SunQueen-d7l
      @SunQueen-d7l หลายเดือนก่อน

      @absolutelyridiculous6743 that's NOT what shera seven, sherri gaskins, meghan markle, ciara, Beyoncé & all the wm being treated like a 👸 princess & $poiled by their man say!!!🤔

  • @cassandrarobins786
    @cassandrarobins786 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    These piss me off to hear so much!

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He cheating?

    • @cassandrarobins786
      @cassandrarobins786 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Chommikenya I feel like he was, actually.

  • @shaithomas4313
    @shaithomas4313 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Snap chat is true 😂my ex was on snap going crazy 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😩

  • @ellebee9864
    @ellebee9864 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    EVERYTHING that woman said at 20:13 is absolute FACTS!!!! 💯

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for watching ☺️

  • @toniat8278
    @toniat8278 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I just texted w my man. He texted me back w a proposal to another woman that he would remain celibate and stop seeing other women, if she would promise to be one w him. So, I texted him and forwarded his same msg 2 him and asked to make sure she got the msg and we haven’t talked since then. He texted and texted and said this was a girl from he hasn’t seen in 20+ years ago. I just told him he was just waaay too sloppy and messy for me. No contact.
    Ps thx 4 the advice that once he cheats, he doesn’t trust me anymore.

    • @h0rriphic
      @h0rriphic 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Good for you. Life is too short to waste with manipulative man-children.

  • @camellia8625
    @camellia8625 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The older lady with long blonde hair and black glasses with diamontes gave such good examples

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@camellia8625That's Because he wanted to!
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @searching1029
    @searching1029 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Once he cheats he’ll never trust you again😂😂😂no lie! And I’m always the “bad guy”- and 27:00 through the next guy! So funny but true.

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly he worried about if u going to get him back that kills them!

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Truth

  • @SometimeAgo65
    @SometimeAgo65 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    When the dude said They start talking about the person a lot. Yep...so just be discreet and notice how he acts, or how they both act the next time they're around each other. If you all know each other, that is. You can also say something about the person...like Yes I was talking with Shirley yesterday and she's getting back with Bob..just make it up. Watch him freeze up/start asking all these questions about what you just said 😂😂 In reality, we ALREADY know...gut instinct never lies. But make sure it's not your own insecurities ok 😉

  • @KarenTski
    @KarenTski 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    If she asks you about it she knows about it

  • @charris7591
    @charris7591 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Your PH balance will tell it all!!! That’s fact 💯💯💯💯

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ooh yeees!!!
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @KarenTski
    @KarenTski หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    If she asks you about she knows about.

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The dude with the black cap had me rolling!! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @irenehamilton5917
    @irenehamilton5917 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Was always on that damn phone 3 years of wasted time

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Why is it so important for a guy to juggle so many women? What is wrong with him?

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Unfortunately men think that the more women they can pull the more " valuable" they are ( barf )

  • @daffodil4500
    @daffodil4500 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Some of these things aren't true though. Especially the blonde lady who gave the list of 8 things to look out for. Sometimes that's a sign of someone who has disconnected emotionally and mentally from a relationship due to their partner's actions and they're just around until they can leave. Also the whole phone thing is subjective. I don't like my phone being touched point blank period. That is indeed my personal space🤷🏾.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for watching ❤️

    • @daffodil4500
      @daffodil4500 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Chommikenya you're welcome.

  • @ALABRASILIANA
    @ALABRASILIANA หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Just go through his phone, and if thats a problem LEAVE, don't waste time on questions

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly!!!

  • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
    @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My husband was always very hygienic even when he was homeless but he started taking several showers a day. I found that strange.

  • @emilyzoo746
    @emilyzoo746 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The blonde lady at 7:50 just described me when I don’t take my adhd medication 😤🤷🏻‍♀️ aside from the dating profile part.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂say what now!!

  • @tynaangelici3023
    @tynaangelici3023 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    No man in my life.💅🏼 Peacefully single.

  • @lesliebean4594
    @lesliebean4594 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I’d like to make a point on the phone on silent thing at 19:55. Not saying cheaters don’t do that. But, I’ve been self employed for 18 years. I constantly had clients messaging me for appts while trying to tend to other clients. And, often on holidays, and late nights. I’m neurodivergent so the constant calls, texts, and disruptions throughout the day led me to leave my phone on silent. It’s been on silent for years now. It’s not because I’m doing anything shady. I’m just trying to preserve what’s left of my sanity lol

    • @JULISSAGARCIA-g8y
      @JULISSAGARCIA-g8y 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That was my first thought! I always have mine on silent due to client messages at any given time of the day or night.

    • @lesliebean4594
      @lesliebean4594 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JULISSAGARCIA-g8y Thank you for letting me know I’m not alone in this. 😊

  • @ExtraOni
    @ExtraOni หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Okay ladies, you know your kitty best. Id agree with everything but the PH, all that. You have to be very in tune with your own body to know if thats a sign or not. I'll start drinking soda again and get yeast whipped for my sh** diet.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@ExtraOni Understanding your body is very crucial
      But if the PH changes as soon as you get intimate with your partner, sis go get checked for gonorrhea or something

    • @ExtraOni
      @ExtraOni หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @Chommikenya lady, I've been checked for everything 😅 it happens when I'm single, too, since I was 12. Some people have weaker biomes 🥲 I can't handle eating a lot of sugar. What I need checked for is diabetes 🤣

    • @Lokamotive-j2p
      @Lokamotive-j2p หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol that part for me it’s dairy I swear if I consume too much dairy I’m completely screwed.

    • @ExtraOni
      @ExtraOni หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Lokamotive-j2p 🥲 fr fr, I'm glad other women out here have their health in check, and the only thing that can ruin their day is a bad man. But your diet affects your mucosa 😔 and some of us have less resilient bacteria than others... I've found luck with a probiotic suppository. God's speed 🙏

  • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
    @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I often kept my phone on silent because I spent a lot of time at church. 😂 I guess I am untrustworthy 😂

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂😭😭

  • @SoleiltheSun
    @SoleiltheSun หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Baby at this point we don’t give a damn about men cheating we cheat too been cheating and still gonna cheat. It seem that’s the pinnacle of all relationships to the point women can’t focus on shit else

  • @MamaPunkin
    @MamaPunkin หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    16:59 THIS 💡 this is with anything in life, especially in new circles of people. STFU & stop talking so much. Lay back & observe. Your observations will tell you enough 💡✨✨

  • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
    @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My husband and I literally used to share a phone when he started " guarding " his I knew something was up.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for watching and showing so much love ❤️

  • @Load2DeliverLLC
    @Load2DeliverLLC 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I’ve never cheated on any of my ex’s…but If I wanted to start, I need to 1st thank all of these so called influencers in this particular video for giving me ammunition to not get caught! YIKES!

    • @tonitv9991
      @tonitv9991 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      a vagina is its own microbiology,
      a woman will know by the bacterial odor and itchy changes. But ask yourself why you’re willing to risk herpes and HPV.

  • @searching1029
    @searching1029 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    20:20 telling her story story! And I know that’s right!!!!

    • @notyobestie4220
      @notyobestie4220 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She the TRUTH!

    • @ellebee9864
      @ellebee9864 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      EVERY SINGLE THING she said 🎯🎯🎯

  • @timothysturgess5985
    @timothysturgess5985 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I agree with all theses signs! Except there is a one that has and exception, the ph balance one! If you don’t use condoms with your partner then the sign will hold true. BUT IF YOU DO use condoms, then the spermicide lubricant that is on the condom, will throw your ph off! It’s to much to put in the comments, but ladies please look into this information and check the ingredient list on the condom package to see if there are any chemicals used that will cause ph balance issues!

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@timothysturgess5985 Thank you for the input

  • @catherinemuller3277
    @catherinemuller3277 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    All of this is brilliant. On. Point.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @celiashort6246
    @celiashort6246 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    So from these videos, y'all think cheating is an accident, or this person love or respect you. Oh! Ok!

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      They cheat because they want to !!!!

  • @mantiilove
    @mantiilove 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Idk about the ph thing . I noticed when me & my partner have alot of sex at once ph can be thrown off . Sometimes i throw my own ph off by wearing tight panties . My pum pum is very sensitive.

    • @tonitv9991
      @tonitv9991 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      BV is a bacterial infection where you’ll itch and smell fishy. There are tests for it, and it’s actually a big deal
      if you’re trying to get pregnant and don’t want a retarded child.

  • @JiHu-d8c
    @JiHu-d8c 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    The girl at 4:41
    Sis, I appreciate the advice but you should look into some self work.. if you’ve been cheated on multiple times- you’re a bad picker. You’re ignoring early red flags…
    Not saying she can’t give good advice, saying that she likely isn’t taking her own advice. So it’s a red flag within itself. It’s a truth many of us ladies have to embrace. If we have gone through several bad relationships, it’s time to take a break and do some introspective self work. Period.

    • @searching1029
      @searching1029 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Your annoying. She appears to be taking care of herself. Maybe she’s giving advice from past experiences and has already done the self work?

  • @irenehamilton5917
    @irenehamilton5917 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Was always on that damn phone

  • @jirehlozano6257
    @jirehlozano6257 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What if when they touch you; it feels like your skin is burning?🙃

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Listen to your body!

  • @cynthiakila1161
    @cynthiakila1161 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The dude that said “ he would trust u again 😂😂😂

  • @CharleneDerbyshire-dt6gc
    @CharleneDerbyshire-dt6gc หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    it doesn't even come out his pocket won't be allowed to pit it in my hand..just listen to your instincts....also dreamed.....they both even knocked my door....i reply with iv been expecting you.! and I woke up

  • @irenehamilton5917
    @irenehamilton5917 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Wtf exactly my ph balance was way off

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @AnnamagrietDeWet
    @AnnamagrietDeWet 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Some of these signs I've seen due to drug abuse. Very similar. Signs of hiding an important interest or activity

  • @yaab8250
    @yaab8250 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wow not much hope, it's sad really. I can't be asked at this point I need my peace.

  • @AloyImpact
    @AloyImpact หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ….huh that makes sense now.
    He was cheating on me…. Thats just horrible. No wonder we fought, he put me down so much…

  • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
    @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He kept talking about a girl he called " Emerald" I had never met her before but from the way he talked about her she sounded like the female version of him. Since I married my " polar opposite" I was pretty worried.

  • @iamthatiam8894
    @iamthatiam8894 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    From A King 2 A King
    This is The Final War between Good and Evil; Therefore,
    Choose This Day whom will you serve and spend your Eternity.
    REMINDER,
    ALL Sins can be forgiven
    And
    Satan NOR Demons CANNOT take anyone to Hell 4 Hell is a Choice and Free Will.
    God / Good / Life / Heaven
    Or
    Satan / Evil / Death / Hell
    Is Your Choice
    And
    Your Free Will Papi / Mami.
    Glbtq+ are The Fallen Angels aka Sinners aka children of The Devil Yet can still be forgiven and saved from Hell.
    GOD is relationship, NOT RELIGION.
    And
    Christians are the ONLY way to having a relationship with God and becoming a child of God.
    JESUS CHRIST
    is
    The Only Way,
    The Light,
    and
    The Truth.
    John 3:16 tattoo it / engrave it in your heart.
    CHOOSE LIFE!.
    Sincerity,
    GOD's Angel and Warrior.

  • @sethbrolsma516
    @sethbrolsma516 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Funny how women's intuition only kicks in when they're getting cheated on. Their intuition never tells them he's not happy in the first place.

    • @searching1029
      @searching1029 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Oh no, it kicks in. But most of the time, the idiot is working overtime to prove everything is ok-to cover up his infidelity. If that’s not the case then you’re referring to some women who allow the show to continue.

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Not always true. I knew that he was unhappy long before then and wanted to see a marriage therapist. He wouldn't agree to it.

  • @patriciasmith812
    @patriciasmith812 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    What’s wrong with snap chat? I don’t have that app. What does it do?

    • @Christa5683
      @Christa5683 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I don’t have snap either, but it deletes messages after a certain period of time. Short period. So it limits the ability of tracking conversations and inappropriate pictures.

    • @SoWhosGae
      @SoWhosGae หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Christa5683My ex had a vid and pic on his snap. He didn't have a lock on his phone so I saw the notif come up and I opened it. Lo and behold a nude and some other convos with others and he had forgotten to delete the vid where he was cheating on me lol

  • @WaruoVloggz
    @WaruoVloggz หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Umeamua kuanika kikosi ya comrades?😂

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂 kwani wewe ni member 😂

  • @Ceylon727
    @Ceylon727 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Biggest truths of ex lol

  • @iamthatiam8894
    @iamthatiam8894 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Sex is energy
    And
    Sin is energy
    And
    Sins are demons
    When a person has sex outside of marriage, both will share their SINS aka demons.
    Demons aka sins will stay attached to the person"s soul and physical body until the person seeks God's forgiveness.
    Kissing on The Lips has the same effect as having sex.
    SIN IS PAY WITH DEATH
    SIN NO MORE
    AND
    NO MORE DEATH.
    Sincerity
    GOD's Angel and Warrior.

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I was married to the guy who cheated on me. I wasn't the one sinning.

  • @celestecristwell5730
    @celestecristwell5730 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Lady @ 8:00 he's just uninterested

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Period!!!!!
      Ruuuun

  • @Coinstarsilversearcher2
    @Coinstarsilversearcher2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I dont agree with the part if he's cheating he will acuse you of it. I never accused my ex of cheating. Yeah I did like 40yrs. ago and regret it to this day.

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      But that's VERY, VERY TRUE, though.
      He knows he's cheating, but he figures that since HE'S doing it,you MUST be doing it too, just to take the heat off of himself.
      Deep down, he knows he's a dirt bag that doesn't deserve you, but he's too cowardly to leave until he knows FOR SURE that the other female is a "sure thing".
      This sign is CLASSIC!

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Not all men who cheat do this that's why the disclaimer at the beginning.

    • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
      @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Not all women who cheat accuse their men either. This is a generalization.

    • @ellebee9864
      @ellebee9864 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, the main sign of a woman cheating is she SUDDENLY takes the BEST care of her man--cooking, cleaning, sexing....so he won't suspect anything.

  • @iamthatiam8894
    @iamthatiam8894 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Reminder,
    Kissing, sleeping together and having sex before marriage are SINS aka Demons.
    God created marriage 4 ONE time 4 A Lifetime
    even
    If Your spouse passes away You CANNOT remarry again.
    Sincerity
    God's Angel and Warrior.

    • @daffodil4500
      @daffodil4500 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      You can remarry if your spouse passes away. Stop lying to these folks. You cannot remarry if there's a divorce. Death breaks the covenant. The vow LITERALLY says "until death do us part." Lmao

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for watching ❤️

    • @natural3362
      @natural3362 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      If your spouse passed away or divorce, you can marry. The lies won't work. Try harder

  • @ravenkuyt1355
    @ravenkuyt1355 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    am so grateful for your videos. I watch them all because I learn so much from them. Too bad I didn't find this sooner and when I was younger 🇦🇺🫶🇳🇱

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You are so welcome!
      Thank you for always watching ❤️
      The perfect time is now