They want to and like a child they cannot control their impulses. Which is why they are dangerous. My experience with men has allowed me to know exactly what I need to do to raise my three young boys into GOOD men. The cheating and lying is INNATE in them, it's insane. I am having to have them unlearn these innate behaviors so they don't mess me up like their father and others did.
Do they not think women get bored in relationships too? It's just that men value sexual excitement more than a long term good relationship, which women value more.
That woman talking about appearances, your man will still cheat on you even if you take care of your appearance. She'll probably find that out soon enough lol
I love how so many people blame the women for a man's inability to have self control and self respect. And as for the last guy, yes without a doubt I will throw it all away and keep it pushing. You threw it away first when you mistakingly slipped into someone else's cat, I'm just choosing to leave it in the trash where you put it. Maybe next time, don't throw away a good woman over something that, according to you, holds no value. 😂😂
Im glad the lady at 12:40 said that. Like, its no need for a scientific breakdown. Men cheat because they want to 🤷🏽♀️. Its irrelevant why, he just did. Exactly why being single is better!
The last guy who spoke and said it ain't no big deal, ain't right. There's too many diseases out there to be swapping body fluids with strangers, then bringing that funk back home to their partner. A man or woman who can't be loyal doesn't need to be in a serious relationship.
That last guy - a cheater for sure - because he is refusing the accountability of the man for his action and judges the woman for her feelings of broken trust. You can tell when there is no integrity or honor in a man, when he so clearly puts it out for all to see... Gaslighting at its finest!
They don't have to marry and be in a relationship with women if they want to sleep around,but they want the best of both worlds; To have a wife at home who does everything while they have the time to "explore". As if women don't get bored Idc anymore I don't commit to men They ain't worth it He cheats ,either dump him or cheat back Don't waste your time and precious tears for a male.
He made me sick and him he saying it not such a big deal but I'm 100% sure if his lady or wife was doing the same it would be a deal breaker. If she was casually having a good time with me now an then I doubt he would have this same energy. Smh the nerve.
My ex-husband was the stay at home parent the entire marriage and had the nerve to say the reason he stepped outside the marriage multiple times was because he felt as 'bought his affection'...I'm sorry WHAT? The 6-8 outsized women he lied to like a lawyer, believed every word that slid out of his cheating mouth. Don't be mad all your skeletons kept you from working and you spent my money like it was your own?? He had some nerve. Don't build them up ladies, don't stand by him while he work on themselves; they use you right up and blame you for why they walk away.
This is why I stopped feeling sorry for women who choose to stay in abusive relationships and yes cheating is a form of abuse. You look for reasons to validate why he did what he did- to make it ok , thus you stick around and he continues doing what he wants. Leave a man that harms you on purpose. That’s what I do.
Same. My compassion been out the window. If you want to keep staying with a man who is constantly disrespecting you, then have it. This is why men feel they can get away it, because we as women allow it.......but I guess all to say " I got a man"
I have to say the guy on here in the gray shirt that was talking about truly masculine men are devoted and faithful. I think that’s true. The best guy I’ve ever known in my life as far as romantic interest Is very masculine, very intelligent, Knows who he is, He’s been through years of therapy and is not ashamed of it. He’s a man’s man he can fix pretty much anything he can physically protect himself. He Is honest - so he’s either “committed” in your relationship or he’s not and He’ll make it clear so your not unfairly led on. He’s an excellent lover. He “listens” to a woman’s body and doesn’t just have “a routine” during sex. I wish things would’ve worked out between us. They didn’t.. that’s OK. I still have very fond feelings for him and will always think respectfully of him because he was always respectful to me even though He didn’t see anything long-term with me. I think truly masculine men who have grown and done some soul-searching Would absolutely be faithful to the woman they wanted to be with.
Ive had two truck driver boyfriends and BOTH told me they had like 70 year old colleagues who had cheated on their wives ( married 30+ years ) with some lot lizards. Soooo. Disgusting. 🤮🤮🤮
Ive been cheated on by 95% of guys ive dated. 🙄 The sad thing is women are so jealous of you when you are attractive (ESPECIALLY if you are skinny my gawd) they think you have something they don’t. And while yes, more men may show interest, its rarely genuine and they will cheat on you and treat you like shit. Its REALLY difficult to find someone who likes you for you. So ladies stop hating on pretty women its not any better on this side i PROMISE!!!
@@angelicarcturianmessagesan2830 I think it's not about the ladies It's about the Undisplined Guys you allow into your life friend! And ooh yes women are jealous of good looking women. But is your mam displined enough to block them out?
@@Chommikenya right. I quit dating after i caught the last man sleeping with men. That was the straw that broke the camel’s back im good lol I’ve suffered enough trauma at the hands of men.
You are right in a way because too many people outside the relationship wanna flirt and cheat with the man when he has a beautiful GF/ wife. You become a walking target for humbling tactics and if thhe man is low value / insecure, they will for sure enjoy humiliating you and break you. And they are 99%. They like to see humbled, tamed beautiful women. That's why many beautiful women add taxes when they date/ marry. They be knowing how they treat beautiful women
If you cheat you're immature; you either want to be in a relationship or not. A mature man who is decent, values integrity, trust and respect, knows there is more to life than just sex.
How can you love someone that you don’t respect?cheating is disrespectful. Do you agree? If you respected your partner, you would talk to them and break up with them because you respect them before you go off sexing someone else.
Oh stop… people cheat because they want to. Only one person gave the right answer. Stop analyzing. Also, it’s totally unconscious, which is terrifying. Stop expecting big things from people.
The more I watch and observe things I really see no benefit to even being in a relationship at all anymore. The pros don't outweigh the risks. So if even happy men cheat what is the point lol what are we even doing? I think staying single and getting social interaction when I want and how I want it is probably the best choice I wouldn't even want someone to commit to me. Be free.
I grow up in the church 😂 and i can tell you even their wife lay down their life to them cook, clean ,taking care of them! At end this men who propose As Christian man of God still cheat given the opportunity 😂😂😂! I don’t believe any words they say 😂.
@@Chommikenya Texan explaining this chaos of the English language, to translate for the above. "I grew up in the church. I witnessed the wives in the church who were married do what the church has trained them to do. Cooking, cleaning, taking care of the children, the house, and as well as the men, the training of the helper to be the slave. The Christian men of God will still cheat if given the opportunity. After witnessing all of this, I don't believe the words that come from any man." I hope that helps.
Yes … yes I did let him go . If he needs to choose between me and another woman . Choose her every time . I know my worth and I know I love him enough that I can’t cheat. So if he can … stay there .
Some men do it to 'humble' women. It's really immature. They will try to make you feel bad about yourself. Then they start crying when I block them on everything. 8:55 this is an interesting take on it, and could be very true. It makes a lot of sense.
I have felt insecure, bored and unappreciated, but I’ve never cheated on a partner so I don’t really care as to the why anymore. It’s just a lack of empathy, self-respect, discipline and integrity, so moving forward I will never fully trust a man, especially if they are all really this spineless and gross. 🙄 Not enough of them are dying as lonely as we’ve been led to believe by this so called male loneliness epidemic.😒 Let’s raise those numbers ladies. 😂
People who cheat have issues with honesty and morals. U can't explain away the reasons, they don't matter. People just can't be trusted who cheat. It's a character flaw 🤷🏾♀️
Who cares?!! We keep giving them too much energy. Too much of ourselves. Like stop asking these stupid questions- they’re always going to create competition amongst women. It’s the same old thing. Beauty is subjective. You could be a “8.9, or 10, based on your body or skin tone to some man”… while you’re not as attractive to the next. That woman who you claim is a 4 or 5- might be a 9 to the next man. This is so stupid.
The woman at 14:06 makes me cringe. What is she saying is trophy wife behavior. The thing is is that we all get older, fatter and uglier with age. Constantly being on display for the sake of someone not leaving you isn't love. By all means, if looking good is your main character trait, slay girl. But she just gave men who believe women hit the wall at 40 and should just be replaced by a younger woman permission to act that way with no need or thought for commitment.
First off that's why you don't listen to anyone from the Nation of No Ass, Two Pieces of Bologna for Lips, nor the Artificially filled, Floofed or Poofed. These Pickmeshas will either get you filled, pilled, drilled or unalived if you bother with them or their talking points. There are too many innocent's that get caught up with the amount of verbage spewed from their freaking Pie Holes on Woman's looks. Nobody picks them, not even their Pets. Don't ever listen to these Sie by Yourselves types because they hate whether you're by yourself child free or with children LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE DECENTERING THE MALE AGENDA. Live your best life with those to whom will love you and share that love with others and leave these Doras to whom won't Explore ya' alone with their own Maps😊
As a 48 year old woman, she's not lying, to a degree. I have had 2 kids, gained unnecessary weight during the pandemic and literally didn't recognize myself one day. Now, don't get me wrong, he doesn't look the same either, but we tend to let ourselves go as we age. That doesn't justify them cheating, but women should still keep themselves up to feel good and be healthy. That the only part I agree with.
The thing is some men will live their women not because she doesn't take care of herself to look good for him, but because he believes she is too old and wants a younger model.
Everyone made solid points until that last guy ... like no sir is not just throwing everything away over a lil sex he accidently have ..is a spiritual soul tie he is having with someone else and breaks the wife spirit when she finds out .. its traumatic plus if she was the one cheating he would definitely leave EVERYTHING they worked for over a lil sex ... if it wasn't that serious why do men instantly feel betrayed aswell
You sure right about all them. Bathroom breaks can't even take a decent vacation with him in the bathroom. As soon as we get to the grocery store in the bathroom soon as you're at the restaurant in the bathroom. Turning your phone so nobody can't see what you're texting
You're right and a happy man will get a girl because one could be the secretary and get some of his legal work done or something like that. Another one if he has kids this girl will go pick up his kids from him because he's such a nice guy. Another one could help him out at the church. And oh we just love him. Will do anything for him. He's so kind. So you got women just daunting and and everything after you. So that's another reason what'll make them cheat and then some women don't cook for them. Oh come over my house. I got food for you all. My favorite movie is on come over here. I just lost my husband and blah blah blah and it just keeps going. Auntie, end of the day for me is respect, resp respect and self-control
For the guy who said, are you going to throw away everything for some sex? It's not about that. He disrespect and now he's throwing it away and now we're headed to court so he threw everything away when he decided to make a foolish decision. Let him think about that. And he did that over some sex. So see you in court
U FEEL VINDICATED...😂😂 TRUST ME.. And they can say s***, I did it. You fooled on me. I fooled on him and he showed them too contained. Oh, baby, you really wanna play With Me? I'll show you who you're messing with...🎉Now did I risk us? Yep, I did but did I care nope. I didn't, and that showed him. Oh so you didn't care about us. Oh, neither do. I'm only going to admit that here. But yes, he cheated so I did the same thing band I feel great about it. To be honest because now he knows I won't play. I will go with another man if I want any time.❤❤❤❤
Right? Like if it's no big deal, how would he feel if his wife ch eated on him? Why is it on all these red pill videos they say if your girl cheats, leave/di vorce? Pssh. Cause they know it goes way deeper than "just s e x" That dude made me ill
And all that cheating and sleeping with another woman and then come back and bring you a disease and then turn around and try to blame you and say what you been doing. You know it's just ridiculous and that's what they do
And a lot of young men grew up watching their dad cheat and their uncles, cheat and their cousins cheat and a lot of women knew they were cheating in the family and it just let him get away with it and so the cycle continued
I don't ever want to hear "a man can love you and still cheat on you" bs. Well a man who LOVES his car, cards or Basecaps would never destroy them with a hammer, cut them up or rip them apart. They will protect those THINGS and give it the most care.
Actual saying: They want Kate and Edith too. People: They want their cake and eat it too. Me: Why buy a cake if you can't eat it? I always thought those were two different sayings until my grandmother broke it down. Because what people were saying never made sense to me.
It’s about keeping women in competition. Telling you one looks better, one is uglier, etc etc etc. And ignorant women fall for it. These kind of men don’t respect or see the humanity of women regardless of what role you play. That’s why it’s hard to feel sorry for women who play into this- 8,9,10, 4 or 5. People find different things attractive- smh
And most men just want variety, they feel entitled to it. If he can convince you that the other woman is ugly “ nothing like you”, etc- then that means you’ll stick around and continue to sleep with him thinking you’re better, and then he can still sleep with the other girl and tell her whatever he needs to tell her too.
From watching this video, men have some serious issues with feeling powerful and accomplished. This may sound strange, but maybe men should consider studying the life of the Apostle Paul.
I'm gonna keep it 💯 women get tired too we sometimes want something different but we stay faithful if the relationship is a good one or the man is a good and faithful one ,now if the man is cheating and he has a good one she will eventually get tired and cheat not out of getting back at him but to feel something she's not getting what she deserves. Now here another thing if a man and woman are not married and he or she sleeps with someone else technically it's not cheating that whole girlfriend and boyfriend stuff is made up by man to have control over women out of a false commitment without giving them a real commitment which is marriage and men know that so that boyfriend girlfriend law is null and void you want a faithful woman choose right and marry her if you can't get with that than don't expect the women to just be with you she's not obligated and this goes for both parties if your a woman with a good man that wants to get married and your playing games not wanting to marry him then leave him or her alone so they can find someone that will stop wasting people's time
Women, imagine having to use the same lipstick, wear the same clothes, same hair style, same home decor....every day every year, year after year. Ok so there you are. Men like variety. They are visual creatures. So just as you go shopping and see all the variety of things you can buy, men see women the same.
The last guy makes me laugh don’t break up just because he cheated ok then can I cheat to and we will be a big happy family I forgive you you forgive me that simple it was just sex right lol
And then being a minister, do you have to touch all the women you're not ministering to nobody? You shouldn't be doing all that touching hugging and rubbing everybody. Want to touch, hug and rub and give a kiss on a cheek
My first husband cheated and I did not care because I was already making an exit plan. He was so upset that I did not react. What a ego
That's the way to go about it
Don't be too reactive!!
Sounds like a narcissist
THEY WANT TO. That’s the ONLY reason.
@@LovelyJordy That should be louder 📢
Facts if I don’t want do something I’m not lol 😂
This is the only reason.
They want to and like a child they cannot control their impulses. Which is why they are dangerous. My experience with men has allowed me to know exactly what I need to do to raise my three young boys into GOOD men. The cheating and lying is INNATE in them, it's insane. I am having to have them unlearn these innate behaviors so they don't mess me up like their father and others did.
Do they not think women get bored in relationships too? It's just that men value sexual excitement more than a long term good relationship, which women value more.
They cheat & later say that that sex meant nothing!!! No value!!!
Girl they don’t even think 😂
I'm a woman and I get bored easily
Men think women should just tolerate any sh*t
@@Chommikenya Exactly, but if you cheat it means everything & is the epitome of disrespect.
@@WildAntics13🦧🪇
Bottom line most of them are still mentally children and it makes me happy to be single ❤❤❤🎉🎉
@@Elysian40772 Fact! Or get an emotionally mature one
Some cheat because they never respected her and waited until they found what they really want
Sad Truth!
THATS THE TRUTH😂😂 THEY WANTED TO
@@rubyannafarris934 That one yeeees 😭😂
😂😂😂😂fa× cheating is a choice not an accident
This is a deflection.
That woman talking about appearances, your man will still cheat on you even if you take care of your appearance. She'll probably find that out soon enough lol
She can ask Bey
I was looking for this comment 😂😂 but she'll soon if not already smells like a pickmisha
She must be African
ridiculous.. the most beautiful women in the world have been cheated on too
I already know why men cheat exactly why I’m staying single. 😂
Facts
Because they can . That’s it plain and simple.
PERIOD to that!
I love how so many people blame the women for a man's inability to have self control and self respect.
And as for the last guy, yes without a doubt I will throw it all away and keep it pushing. You threw it away first when you mistakingly slipped into someone else's cat, I'm just choosing to leave it in the trash where you put it. Maybe next time, don't throw away a good woman over something that, according to you, holds no value. 😂😂
@@NeciPooh854 Exactly 💯!!!
@NeciPooh854 Lovelovelove your comment!!!😂
Right I can't stand his ytuße chan
I agree. This man Will not even tolerate his woman talking to a guy and he's there talking about not throwing mariage for sex...tchrrr get out of here
I noticed that it was women that were blaming women for mens actions
They want their cake and eat it too.
It's "Kate & Edith too" , not "cake & eat it too".
@@laquiettamevans7049 oooh really!!!
@@Chommikenya oooooh yeees! Really!
@@laquiettamevans7049 thank you for that !!
All I could hear was cake and eat it 😂😂😭
@@Chommikenya your supposed to eat the cake so it doesn't make any sense so I researched it.
Im glad the lady at 12:40 said that. Like, its no need for a scientific breakdown. Men cheat because they want to 🤷🏽♀️. Its irrelevant why, he just did.
Exactly why being single is better!
The last guy who spoke and said it ain't no big deal, ain't right. There's too many diseases out there to be swapping body fluids with strangers, then bringing that funk back home to their partner. A man or woman who can't be loyal doesn't need to be in a serious relationship.
That last guy - a cheater for sure - because he is refusing the accountability of the man for his action and judges the woman for her feelings of broken trust. You can tell when there is no integrity or honor in a man, when he so clearly puts it out for all to see... Gaslighting at its finest!
Yeah he's the biggest moron
@ssiegreen5292 EXACTLY what I said
I wonder if he’ll be singing the same tune if his lady cheated on him? Would he just look at it like it was just sex and that it wasn’t that deep? 🤔
@@trinart2481 LOL - they never do!!! It's actually funny - they can dole it out, but can't take it when the shoe is on the other foot...
They don't have to marry and be in a relationship with women if they want to sleep around,but they want the best of both worlds;
To have a wife at home who does everything while they have the time to "explore".
As if women don't get bored
Idc anymore I don't commit to men
They ain't worth it
He cheats ,either dump him or cheat back
Don't waste your time and precious tears for a male.
Ex actly this
The last man was such a manipulative gaslighter!
He's but Most women don't leave their marriage because their man cheated
They have that mentally !!
He made my skin crawl. The way he was rubbing his hands together was gross too. He could make a woman think she's loosing her mind.
He made me sick and him he saying it not such a big deal but I'm 100% sure if his lady or wife was doing the same it would be a deal breaker.
If she was casually having a good time with me now an then I doubt he would have this same energy. Smh the nerve.
He’s crazy and on that BS. I bet you he’ll never cheat on his wife. At least he said he never has and never will.
My ex-husband was the stay at home parent the entire marriage and had the nerve to say the reason he stepped outside the marriage multiple times was because he felt as 'bought his affection'...I'm sorry WHAT? The 6-8 outsized women he lied to like a lawyer, believed every word that slid out of his cheating mouth. Don't be mad all your skeletons kept you from working and you spent my money like it was your own?? He had some nerve. Don't build them up ladies, don't stand by him while he work on themselves; they use you right up and blame you for why they walk away.
True. Sorry to hear that. You need to hear an Apology.
The 2nd guy's wondering eyes when his wife asked him the question was like am I safe where is this coming from 😅
It's from Megan at work flirting with him
This is why I stopped feeling sorry for women who choose to stay in abusive relationships and yes cheating is a form of abuse. You look for reasons to validate why he did what he did- to make it ok , thus you stick around and he continues doing what he wants.
Leave a man that harms you on purpose. That’s what I do.
@@AmberColeman-gq1wn are the ladies listening?
Don’t stop feeling compassion for them. But please always encourage them to leave!
Same. My compassion been out the window. If you want to keep staying with a man who is constantly disrespecting you, then have it.
This is why men feel they can get away it, because we as women allow it.......but I guess all to say " I got a man"
No because some will get angry if you tell her to leave their bf.@@Dannniellleee
The problem is, they think they can fix them. Little do they know, they're unfixable!. Unless they WANT to be fixed- which is rare.
I have to say the guy on here in the gray shirt that was talking about truly masculine men are devoted and faithful. I think that’s true. The best guy I’ve ever known in my life as far as romantic interest Is very masculine, very intelligent, Knows who he is, He’s been through years of therapy and is not ashamed of it. He’s a man’s man he can fix pretty much anything he can physically protect himself. He Is honest - so he’s either “committed” in your relationship or he’s not and He’ll make it clear so your not unfairly led on. He’s an excellent lover. He “listens” to a woman’s body and doesn’t just have “a routine” during sex.
I wish things would’ve worked out between us. They didn’t.. that’s OK. I still have very fond feelings for him and will always think respectfully of him because he was always respectful to me even though He didn’t see anything long-term with me.
I think truly masculine men who have grown and done some soul-searching Would absolutely be faithful to the woman they wanted to be with.
Ive had two truck driver boyfriends and BOTH told me they had like 70 year old colleagues who had cheated on their wives ( married 30+ years ) with some lot lizards. Soooo. Disgusting. 🤮🤮🤮
Ew!! Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are!
Thank you for watching ❤️
Ive been cheated on by 95% of guys ive dated. 🙄
The sad thing is women are so jealous of you when you are attractive (ESPECIALLY if you are skinny my gawd) they think you have something they don’t. And while yes, more men may show interest, its rarely genuine and they will cheat on you and treat you like shit.
Its REALLY difficult to find someone who likes you for you.
So ladies stop hating on pretty women its not any better on this side i PROMISE!!!
@@angelicarcturianmessagesan2830 I think it's not about the ladies
It's about the Undisplined Guys you allow into your life friend!
And ooh yes women are jealous of good looking women. But is your mam displined enough to block them out?
@@Chommikenya right. I quit dating after i caught the last man sleeping with men. That was the straw that broke the camel’s back im good lol I’ve suffered enough trauma at the hands of men.
@@angelicarcturianmessagesan2830 Wait what!!!!
That's crazy and I am really sorry you had to go through that!
You are right in a way because too many people outside the relationship wanna flirt and cheat with the man when he has a beautiful GF/ wife.
You become a walking target for humbling tactics and if thhe man is low value / insecure, they will for sure enjoy humiliating you and break you. And they are 99%.
They like to see humbled, tamed beautiful women.
That's why many beautiful women add taxes when they date/ marry. They be knowing how they treat beautiful women
Your right unfortunately, pretty does hurt for ladies AND gents
If you cheat you're immature; you either want to be in a relationship or not. A mature man who is decent, values integrity, trust and respect, knows there is more to life than just sex.
Like some of those guys explained, a masculine guy is devoted and his focus is on his woman only and his purpose.
That last guy saying that it’s no big deal needs to be cheated on so then he will know
Exactly!!!
He sounds like a cheat !
Ladies do it because they 1. Not getting good dangalang 2. Not getting companionship 3. Wealth 4. Cheaters are LAME
So lame!!!!
How can you love someone that you don’t respect?cheating is disrespectful. Do you agree? If you respected your partner, you would talk to them and break up with them because you respect them before you go off sexing someone else.
How can you love someone that don't respect you. 😢
Yep. Cheaters cheat because they choose to and want to.
Period!
Thank you for watching ❤️
I love the perpective of the man that talks about the masculine energy. Devotion is his purpose.
Absolutely 💯
Thank you for watching ❤️
Oh stop… people cheat because they want to. Only one person gave the right answer. Stop analyzing. Also, it’s totally unconscious, which is terrifying. Stop expecting big things from people.
@@19katsandcounting I love this comment A lot!!!
People cheat because they want to.
@19katsandcounting, I agree, you it the bullseye.
No self control and temptations..got it. Same applies to women.
True!!
Thank you for watching ❤️
The more I watch and observe things I really see no benefit to even being in a relationship at all anymore. The pros don't outweigh the risks. So if even happy men cheat what is the point lol what are we even doing? I think staying single and getting social interaction when I want and how I want it is probably the best choice I wouldn't even want someone to commit to me. Be free.
Exactly. I'm not trying to get herpes or AIDS because some guy can't keep his dick in his pants. Casual sex can have permanent consequences.
I grow up in the church 😂 and i can tell you even their wife lay down their life to them cook, clean ,taking care of them! At end this men who propose As Christian man of God still cheat given the opportunity 😂😂😂! I don’t believe any words they say 😂.
Sorry what?? 😂😂😭
@@Chommikenya Texan explaining this chaos of the English language, to translate for the above. "I grew up in the church. I witnessed the wives in the church who were married do what the church has trained them to do. Cooking, cleaning, taking care of the children, the house, and as well as the men, the training of the helper to be the slave. The Christian men of God will still cheat if given the opportunity. After witnessing all of this, I don't believe the words that come from any man." I hope that helps.
Huh??? What are you even saying?
Sorry im Spanish 😂
She basically said, every man cheat. Christian man, men whose women take care of, and any other type of man.
Yes … yes I did let him go . If he needs to choose between me and another woman . Choose her every time . I know my worth and I know I love him enough that I can’t cheat. So if he can … stay there .
Some men do it to 'humble' women. It's really immature. They will try to make you feel bad about yourself. Then they start crying when I block them on everything.
8:55 this is an interesting take on it, and could be very true. It makes a lot of sense.
I have felt insecure, bored and unappreciated, but I’ve never cheated on a partner so I don’t really care as to the why anymore. It’s just a lack of empathy, self-respect, discipline and integrity, so moving forward I will never fully trust a man, especially if they are all really this spineless and gross. 🙄 Not enough of them are dying as lonely as we’ve been led to believe by this so called male loneliness epidemic.😒 Let’s raise those numbers ladies. 😂
People who cheat have issues with honesty and morals. U can't explain away the reasons, they don't matter. People just can't be trusted who cheat. It's a character flaw 🤷🏾♀️
Am glad you said that 💯
Thank you for watching ❤️
Because they want to and they can.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Who cares?!! We keep giving them too much energy. Too much of ourselves. Like stop asking these stupid questions- they’re always going to create competition amongst women. It’s the same old thing.
Beauty is subjective. You could be a “8.9, or 10, based on your body or skin tone to some man”… while you’re not as attractive to the next.
That woman who you claim is a 4 or 5- might be a 9 to the next man. This is so stupid.
@@AmberColeman-gq1wn Right!
Yess!!
Women should decenter men
Yes it is.
The woman at 14:06 makes me cringe. What is she saying is trophy wife behavior. The thing is is that we all get older, fatter and uglier with age. Constantly being on display for the sake of someone not leaving you isn't love. By all means, if looking good is your main character trait, slay girl. But she just gave men who believe women hit the wall at 40 and should just be replaced by a younger woman permission to act that way with no need or thought for commitment.
Absolutely made me cringe too.
First off that's why you don't listen to anyone from the Nation of No Ass, Two Pieces of Bologna for Lips, nor the Artificially filled, Floofed or Poofed. These Pickmeshas will either get you filled, pilled, drilled or unalived if you bother with them or their talking points. There are too many innocent's that get caught up with the amount of verbage spewed from their freaking Pie Holes on Woman's looks. Nobody picks them, not even their Pets. Don't ever listen to these Sie by Yourselves types because they hate whether you're by yourself child free or with children LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE DECENTERING THE MALE AGENDA. Live your best life with those to whom will love you and share that love with others and leave these Doras to whom won't Explore ya' alone with their own Maps😊
As a 48 year old woman, she's not lying, to a degree. I have had 2 kids, gained unnecessary weight during the pandemic and literally didn't recognize myself one day. Now, don't get me wrong, he doesn't look the same either, but we tend to let ourselves go as we age. That doesn't justify them cheating, but women should still keep themselves up to feel good and be healthy. That the only part I agree with.
The Second Gentleman in the car is so wise!!!
The thing is some men will live their women not because she doesn't take care of herself to look good for him, but because he believes she is too old and wants a younger model.
That's crazy !!!
Everyone made solid points until that last guy ... like no sir is not just throwing everything away over a lil sex he accidently have ..is a spiritual soul tie he is having with someone else and breaks the wife spirit when she finds out .. its traumatic plus if she was the one cheating he would definitely leave EVERYTHING they worked for over a lil sex ... if it wasn't that serious why do men instantly feel betrayed aswell
Right!!
Like If it meant nothing why did you do it?
What was the point?
The last dude speaking: is he paying all the bills in the household or is he just a manipulator?
You sure right about all them. Bathroom breaks can't even take a decent vacation with him in the bathroom. As soon as we get to the grocery store in the bathroom soon as you're at the restaurant in the bathroom. Turning your phone so nobody can't see what you're texting
@20:16: Anyone can "Love 2 people at the same time,"
JUST KNOW that man will never be [IN-LOVE] with neither one of those women.
Absolutely agree 💯💯
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I did. Kind of slack off but as narcissistic behavior kind of took all my energy from trying to even get Freddy to look nice.😢
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The white dude with the pink shorts explained it very well.
You're right and a happy man will get a girl because one could be the secretary and get some of his legal work done or something like that. Another one if he has kids this girl will go pick up his kids from him because he's such a nice guy. Another one could help him out at the church. And oh we just love him. Will do anything for him. He's so kind. So you got women just daunting and and everything after you. So that's another reason what'll make them cheat and then some women don't cook for them. Oh come over my house. I got food for you all. My favorite movie is on come over here. I just lost my husband and blah blah blah and it just keeps going. Auntie, end of the day for me is respect, resp respect and self-control
Lady at 11:15 is on point too. It’s not always just the man. Ladies need to grow up too.
Okey!
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18:41 and this 1 too Lord 😍🙏
Second man is on point as to the reason why
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Woman at 14:42 is on point too
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For the guy who said, are you going to throw away everything for some sex? It's not about that. He disrespect and now he's throwing it away and now we're headed to court so he threw everything away when he decided to make a foolish decision. Let him think about that. And he did that over some sex. So see you in court
Oooh absolutely!
3:30 if he isn't screaming "pick me" telling us which men to avoid with no top on showing that he goes gym 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 He's a Secure man I guess! 😂
He takes care of himself and he wants the world to see it 😭😂
What if you cheat back on them how would they feel
😂 Do it and let us know!
U FEEL VINDICATED...😂😂 TRUST ME.. And they can say s***, I did it. You fooled on me. I fooled on him and he showed them too contained. Oh, baby, you really wanna play With Me? I'll show you who you're messing with...🎉Now did I risk us? Yep, I did but did I care nope. I didn't, and that showed him. Oh so you didn't care about us. Oh, neither do. I'm only going to admit that here. But yes, he cheated so I did the same thing band I feel great about it. To be honest because now he knows I won't play. I will go with another man if I want any time.❤❤❤❤
@@rubyannafarris934 No you did not!! 😂😂
A Legend detected 👏😂
He is not gonna take you back
They can always dish it but Can’t take It!
I treat how they treat me.
The guy at the end is a supreme gaslighter
Right? Like if it's no big deal, how would he feel if his wife ch eated on him? Why is it on all these red pill videos they say if your girl cheats, leave/di vorce? Pssh. Cause they know it goes way deeper than "just s e x"
That dude made me ill
Crazy
It’s also in their DNA. It is what it is.
I love how everyone is making excuses the only guy who was valid was the one talking about devotion
And they are conditioned to think it’s what men are supposed to do!
And all that cheating and sleeping with another woman and then come back and bring you a disease and then turn around and try to blame you and say what you been doing. You know it's just ridiculous and that's what they do
Not all men cheat because so many sexual disease are out there, and that is not my slice of cake to deal with.
8:56 Lord more mature men like him 🙏 thank you.
And a lot of young men grew up watching their dad cheat and their uncles, cheat and their cousins cheat and a lot of women knew they were cheating in the family and it just let him get away with it and so the cycle continued
I don't ever want to hear "a man can love you and still cheat on you" bs. Well a man who LOVES his car, cards or Basecaps would never destroy them with a hammer, cut them up or rip them apart. They will protect those THINGS and give it the most care.
Right?! 💯
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We really don’t care, at least I don’t.😂
The REAL REASON MEN AND WONEN CHEAT IS BECAUSE THEY WANT TO. ITS A FUCKING CHOICE
That guy at the end is an absolute clown.
😂true!!
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Actual saying: They want Kate and Edith too.
People: They want their cake and eat it too.
Me: Why buy a cake if you can't eat it?
I always thought those were two different sayings until my grandmother broke it down. Because what people were saying never made sense to me.
English is not my first language so that saying didn't make sense to me too 😅
My mind was the same as yours, why buy a cake and can't eat it 🤷
This is for both men and women.
Yes
The last guy that spoke, let's see how he feels if his woman cheats on him over some sex.
There's something that he'd not getting at home
Like?
Say that to the women in the back who didn't believe me.
It’s about keeping women in competition. Telling you one looks better, one is uglier, etc etc etc.
And ignorant women fall for it. These kind of men don’t respect or see the humanity of women regardless of what role you play. That’s why it’s hard to feel sorry for women who play into this- 8,9,10, 4 or 5. People find different things attractive- smh
And most men just want variety, they feel entitled to it. If he can convince you that the other woman is ugly “ nothing like you”, etc- then that means you’ll stick around and continue to sleep with him thinking you’re better, and then he can still sleep with the other girl and tell her whatever he needs to tell her too.
It's NEVER a WOMAN'S FAULT THAT HE'S CHEATING 😠
it's not your fault he's cheating!!
Keep your head
From watching this video, men have some serious issues with feeling powerful and accomplished. This may sound strange, but maybe men should consider studying the life of the Apostle Paul.
I'm gonna keep it 💯 women get tired too we sometimes want something different but we stay faithful if the relationship is a good one or the man is a good and faithful one ,now if the man is cheating and he has a good one she will eventually get tired and cheat not out of getting back at him but to feel something she's not getting what she deserves. Now here another thing if a man and woman are not married and he or she sleeps with someone else technically it's not cheating that whole girlfriend and boyfriend stuff is made up by man to have control over women out of a false commitment without giving them a real commitment which is marriage and men know that so that boyfriend girlfriend law is null and void you want a faithful woman choose right and marry her if you can't get with that than don't expect the women to just be with you she's not obligated and this goes for both parties if your a woman with a good man that wants to get married and your playing games not wanting to marry him then leave him or her alone so they can find someone that will stop wasting people's time
Women, imagine having to use the same lipstick, wear the same clothes, same hair style, same home decor....every day every year, year after year. Ok so there you are. Men like variety. They are visual creatures. So just as you go shopping and see all the variety of things you can buy, men see women the same.
They do it because they can! 😐
That one lady hit on the nail
Its because they wanted 2
Period
wow guys that's a lot of words you used to say 'we're weak and h0rny'
Hehe
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Yeah, yeah, I don’t care why, to the left, to the left!
I'm not buying the lack of thoughtfulness being the reason for cheating. Spare your energy.
Because they have no self control and self respect
Period!
They need validation- insecurity
Valid point
The last guy makes me laugh don’t break up just because he cheated ok then can I cheat to and we will be a big happy family I forgive you you forgive me that simple it was just sex right lol
😂😂😭😭
@@Chommikenya lol just like that
@@wesleygarcia55 you had me on the floor 😂😭
@@Chommikenya 😂😂😂
Many marriages that "surpassed" infidelity went exactly like this.
wounded feminine energy?? so when you are wounded you turn to a feminine entity?? WTH!!!😂
!!!?
Three reasons men cheat for the first cat when they are neglected at home when they are friend zoned!!
Yeah no. L m a o
You can’t be friendzoned if you’re in a whole relationship
11:16 no girl I know cases where this is NOT true at all
I'm not asking that question
I've got a bigger question
Lies 😂
War he cheated on you because you're a bad chick And it makes him look good. So now he can finally get the girl he want so he used you
The white guy says everything the black says in a long summary.
And then being a minister, do you have to touch all the women you're not ministering to nobody? You shouldn't be doing all that touching hugging and rubbing everybody. Want to touch, hug and rub and give a kiss on a cheek
Everyone cheats because we know we’re not the one for them and vice versa.
Subotage on the relationship you mean!
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I've never cheated. No, everyone doesn't cheat.
EVERYONE does not cheat.
Yep he will cheat with a dude
Eew!!! 😂
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@reealvybes is very handsome