Does He LOVE YOU! (Signs he's into you and he loves you)

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  • @marib1881
    @marib1881 หลายเดือนก่อน +262

    When a Man loves you....., Baaaabbbbyyyyyy.... He will leave NO ROOM for questions, you here me.... NONE! He is very loud with his actions. And leaves you with only security within the relationship with everything he does in that relationship with you. If you have to question anything... its not and never was anything serious. You are a placeholder. Leave and Move on fast and not slow.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      You hear that 🫵

    • @Bdiamondz
      @Bdiamondz หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe he's being a placeholder for the woman ....it can go both ways.

    • @marib1881
      @marib1881 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @Bdiamondz True. I'm just speaking to the POV though.

    • @sesethuntaphane3933
      @sesethuntaphane3933 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, girl... I hear you, and I'm listening to check on mine.

    • @saluuud
      @saluuud หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😆😆😆@ "...fast and not slow"!

  • @sarahsmile2883
    @sarahsmile2883 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    Normalize women focusing on their divine purpose which is NOT a man and then god will send him in when we are ready .

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Absolutely agree!!!
      You focus more on you and build you!

  • @strawberrysmoofie
    @strawberrysmoofie หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    You’ll never really KNOW a man loves you until you’ve been genuinely loved by a man before. It’s really difficult to tell without that, but as soon as you meet a man who pours into you? Hoooo child, the bar will be raised so high

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I absolutely agree 💯
      And hey thank you for watching ❤️

    • @JiHu-d8c
      @JiHu-d8c 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yeaaaaaasssssss this is so true. You know what love feels like. And honey, it feels great. It’s precious.

  • @AriaColeccionistaDeCanciones
    @AriaColeccionistaDeCanciones หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    God first. Any man second.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      PERIOD!!!!!!!!
      Thank you for watching 😊

    • @ninashirley432
      @ninashirley432 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen

  • @geremymason5936
    @geremymason5936 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    Take it from a man that fell in love with a woman, he should want to see that you are ok, even if there’s no gain for him. That’s unconditional love. It may seem a little extreme, but a man that is truly in love with you will want you to be happy, healthy, and thriving, even if it means he gets nothing from it. He’d honestly be willing to let you go from his life if he felt like he wasn’t adding any value and especially if he felt like he was causing you harm. He should take an interest in you and know your likes to do things that matter to you. He will not use things that you told him in moments of vulnerability to use as manipulative tactics against you. He should put forth an honest effort to see you smile and to show you how much you mean to him. He should also be able to be vulnerable with you so that you know what’s going on with him. He should also be able to express why he loves you outside of himself. The last segment was correct - it should not be what you do for him, but why he loves you as a person. A man that loves you will be willing to go to the ends of the earth and stretch himself thin just to show you how much you mean to him. And don’t get convenience confused with sacrifice. A man that sacrifices for you loves you.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      This is incredible
      Thank you 😊

    • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
      @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Chommikenya 😔🥺😭 Thank you for sharing. Can a man be in a relationship for 10 years, propose marriage twice then when rejected fall out of love but stay around for the kids and occasional inner course with his baby's mother. Then me another and secure (lady b)her before officially releasing the BM without taking time to heal in between relationships? Can a man just drop some they are "in love with" for another person?

    • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
      @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And what about the saying "what one woman won't do, another one will" line. Does that still apply when man is truly in love? Or i mean "loves a woman"? There is a difference.

    • @geremymason5936
      @geremymason5936 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 I don’t separate the two when it comes to romantic relationships. There is a difference between loving someone (platonic, familial, etc) and being in love with someone (romantic) but I’m specifically talking about romantic relationships with this post.

  • @Ang-iz5hv
    @Ang-iz5hv หลายเดือนก่อน +163

    Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words, in ANY relationship.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@Ang-iz5hv Louder please 📢

  • @ItsAuntieKaren
    @ItsAuntieKaren หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    A man can only truly love when he is driven by the Holy Spirit.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Am Glad you said it!!!
      Thank you

    • @PeanutBugger
      @PeanutBugger หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Based and Christ-pilled 👍

    • @marciebaker9816
      @marciebaker9816 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Pleeeease

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marciebaker9816 You disagree? 😂

    • @christinacreates2393
      @christinacreates2393 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about people who aren’t Christian? Muslims don’t love their wives?????? What about Buddhist people? They can’t demonstrate deep true love for their partners????
      🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @Tresdrole123
    @Tresdrole123 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    You don’t need to watch a 24 minute video to know whether or not a man loves you. If he loves you, you’ll know.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      EXACTLY 💯

  • @GertrudeNgovi-g9t
    @GertrudeNgovi-g9t หลายเดือนก่อน +128

    The fact that you're watching this video
    He definitely doesn't love you
    Run ...
    You will eventually find better.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      😂😂😂 PERIOD

    • @chewie6988
      @chewie6988 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Plot twist. I am a guy watching this to make sure I am doing right by the person I love. 😂

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@@chewie6988 you're a good man!!😂

    • @Maskman_original
      @Maskman_original หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂 stupid

    • @cro8sandy
      @cro8sandy หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Why do they ask for number when they don't like you

  • @colorfulsin
    @colorfulsin หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    Sorry but this is exhausting. Men should just date each other

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I absolutely agree 💯

    • @namimindyaw1201
      @namimindyaw1201 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Exactly. 😂😂😂

    • @OrganicallyYahs
      @OrganicallyYahs หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      They already do

    • @jimmie8101
      @jimmie8101 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's still just as confusing. Trust me.

    • @nemotheo1629
      @nemotheo1629 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I told someone am opting out coz it's just a never ending rules and you are never sure for real why do I have to go through all this ?

  • @koyankrumah9857
    @koyankrumah9857 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Isn’t everyone else tired of men and their games? Why come after me if you have no intention of doing right by me? Enough of the science behind men and their behaviours or lack of! It’s tiring and I am tired of hearing it!

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I know right!!!
      It's just like let them go date they fellow men!!

    • @djshockafrica4330
      @djshockafrica4330 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This!

    • @Mynameshelenbtw
      @Mynameshelenbtw หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂 yes. Like just forget it!!

    • @briasworld8
      @briasworld8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🤷👏💅

  • @ishabellanamthrak1015
    @ishabellanamthrak1015 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    There is no formula.... people love each other or don't. Be yourself.😊

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes
      Be yourself!!
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @marisolrivera5255
    @marisolrivera5255 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    A man who loves you won't have you questioning and committed and vulnerable find ways to be around you and leave no room for any other. He respects you physically emotionally and spiritually.

  • @CJN5787
    @CJN5787 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    It also means HE doesn't love himself.....RUN

  • @marisolrivera5255
    @marisolrivera5255 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Actions speak louder than words how a man's treats you

  • @lauramckiernan3213
    @lauramckiernan3213 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Yeah, alot of men do all that and they are into you in the beginning, but dont confuse being into you with wanting a relationship.

    • @nikicarter2048
      @nikicarter2048 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Remember gaslighting an love bombing an manipulation

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Love bombing!!

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lauramckiernan3213 exactly. That love bombing bullshite

  • @lissa2046
    @lissa2046 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Damn I aint never been loved😂😂😂

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂It's not that serious babe.....

    • @Laceeadventuretime
      @Laceeadventuretime หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Same sis 😭

    • @alchemizedsoul12
      @alchemizedsoul12 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      give that love to yourself ❤

    • @UnknownUnknown-yl1lt
      @UnknownUnknown-yl1lt หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same here😒

    • @catherinemuller3277
      @catherinemuller3277 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Laceeadventuretime Me, too... It's okay. We will practice self love. We are God's daughters and worthy of love.

  • @MelissaChildofGod378
    @MelissaChildofGod378 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    This truth right here. NOT GOING TO TELL YOU 'YOUR CRAZY AND DELUSIONAL' when your telling him how you feel

    • @TheSweetie223
      @TheSweetie223 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THAT PART !!! thats what im going through currently & just ended it today. I couldn't take that shit no more. I was bout ready to pew pew his ass so i have to remove myself. Can't talk to him about shit not even my day at work without him brushing it off or making it seem like im complaining because i had a bad day. Girl i hate this mutha fcka. Just writing about him is triggering me

    • @TheSweetie223
      @TheSweetie223 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's literally the human squidward from SpongeBob.

  • @TiffieB-
    @TiffieB- หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    😂 @ 8:41 He said “He won’t let you know about his other wives because he really respects you.” That sounds crazy!!

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@TiffieB- listen to that again 😂😭

    • @GB_008
      @GB_008 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Chile! 😂 He was just another diaspora dusty.😅🤭

  • @nikicarter2048
    @nikicarter2048 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Basically when a man really love a woman. He has the same emotions an respect for you like you do him. Or someone that you was really into. Women act like this all the time.. but males dont return the same love back. Instead they take advantage an dog the girl just because she loves him. 😢

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true!!
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @natural3362
    @natural3362 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    When a man loves you, he won't cheat. A man rather die to protect his women and cheaters rather be with someone else and he doesn't care whether you're hurt or not, he only cares about himself
    So please divorce any cheaters. Have self worth. You owe it to yourself, the only one that has been there for you in time of hardship
    Don't let any men mock you.cheating is a mockery on you and your marriage

  • @marisolrivera5255
    @marisolrivera5255 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    A man would love you at your best and at your worst and still accept you .

  • @Thrivegrl24
    @Thrivegrl24 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    So what this video is confirming is my man my man my man my man lovesssssssss meeeee.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      PERIOD GURL 💞

    • @tnt3929
      @tnt3929 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@Thrivegrl24 Right! Mine definitely does...but I already knew that.😁

    • @KL31NGR055
      @KL31NGR055 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here. I can't believe this is actually happening! ❤

    • @UnknownUnknown-yl1lt
      @UnknownUnknown-yl1lt หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Must be nice..I'm happy for you sis💕

  • @Freakymum1645
    @Freakymum1645 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Modern dating advice for men is to treat women that he really likes with indifference and rudeness. Just saying.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That's toxic masculinity

    • @Freakymum1645
      @Freakymum1645 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Chommikenya yes, and that’s bad. Thanks for your agreement.

  • @nahjacutler
    @nahjacutler หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    2:11 I dont take trauma dumping from a guy as a sign he's into me

    • @EasyBreezie
      @EasyBreezie หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Guys that trauma dump do this with ALL women. Lmao I don’t take that as a special sign either.

    • @cecee3480
      @cecee3480 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Don’t. I’m a dancer and I hear men’s problems all the time. They will pay me (a stranger) to talk about problems and gain pity before they go see a therapist. They don’t want actual help but for a woman to be like awww want me to make you feel better and justify their behavior and life choices.

    • @ba8501
      @ba8501 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I was about to say that lol

  • @fatouleigh2968
    @fatouleigh2968 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Watching this video makes me miss my late husband. He was a real man and manifested all these positive behaviours. He loved me and I love him.❤

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I love to see this ❤️
      May He rest in peace 🕊️
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @xoxobutterfly
    @xoxobutterfly หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I give up 😢 im just so exhausted

    • @Laceeadventuretime
      @Laceeadventuretime หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same 🥲

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Let's start prioritizing ourselves now

    • @shakirasmith6454
      @shakirasmith6454 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Laceeadventuretime off topic, but you are gorgeous! ❤❤

    • @Laceeadventuretime
      @Laceeadventuretime 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@shakirasmith6454 thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shineepropertyof5hinee
    @shineepropertyof5hinee 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    If you have to ask if he likes/loves you already have your answer x

  • @روايةبانغتان
    @روايةبانغتان หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Puting a ring in your finger before putting a babie in you belly... Good point

  • @namimindyaw1201
    @namimindyaw1201 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    lol. The only comment I agree with is the one who says women are carried away by what men say.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You disagree with the rest?

  • @goddessgoldglow
    @goddessgoldglow หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I can listen to these men all night

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Watch as many times as you want 😄
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @Isak.a
    @Isak.a หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    The man they are talking about is in ladies friendzone

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      😂how did you know?

    • @HealingbeginswithU
      @HealingbeginswithU หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      If this is not the truth! These are also the men that they don't want, but want them to love like this, and in turn have issues with reciprocation. That is people in general.
      The high is not being chased, but being ignored.

    • @ariesjae6436
      @ariesjae6436 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

    • @lillyflower7501
      @lillyflower7501 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen

    • @lpsglitterpaws8536
      @lpsglitterpaws8536 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg! You are sooooo right!!!! 😮

  • @artisticagi
    @artisticagi 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    0:34 if you are seeking effort, then run!

  • @bonnie2057
    @bonnie2057 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    i believe the mens opinion they should know as men what a man feels what a man thinks

  • @Iamkrystamarie
    @Iamkrystamarie 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    PAUSE. What is sick is I’ve witnessed men do all of these things mentioned in this video as well the “he’s not that into you” video at the same time🙄 bruh atp we need to do monthly lie detector test. My head hurts😬

    • @bates839
      @bates839 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly

  • @gabriellacindyxoxo
    @gabriellacindyxoxo หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    always forgive is not love but no slef respect

  • @serenitygilles7064
    @serenitygilles7064 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Good stuff guys! The painful truth we NEED to hear 💖

  • @petitcoeur-q6r
    @petitcoeur-q6r 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Yep that ex never truly loved me - definitely always"too busy" so he didn't care about me. He left me and discarded - I was used. A place holder was what I was. They were never in love at all - so good luck in them finding the "one". They never listened to what I said to them - never been vulnerable - so they never trusted me. Avoidants are never going to let their guard down - only for the "right" person apparently - a magical woman that doesn't trigger them and just does what they want and say with no arguing.
    They never wanted to be around me - they never wanted me around - only for their convenience.
    I was not valued - he didn't treat me right. Them saying "I love you" is bs.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you know better now!!
      Thank you for watching ❤️

    • @petitcoeur-q6r
      @petitcoeur-q6r 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Chommikenya yep sure do - his actions are more important than empty words and promises :)

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      👏🏽🙌🏽

    • @ndshen
      @ndshen 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Listen to his actions

  • @ninashirley432
    @ninashirley432 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Weak men are also more focused on money and how they look in the mirror!

  • @nafisaxolmatova1814
    @nafisaxolmatova1814 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I am married, yet have twin daughters 😢 we had a fight because of his family members were rude and disrespectful to me, I moved to my parents house with daughters one month ago. All he did was just few phone calls telling me that I was wrong and should be more patient and serve to this family ( yeah we live together with his family ) I said I am going to divorce him, he refused said he loves me and his daughters but in reality in this month he never came to see me and daughters. Asked him to send girls warm clothes as summer is ending but he said he didn’t know where it is 😢 I don’t know why I should such a man in my life if he is not going to anything to keep his family

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Wishing You the best in making the right choice that you feel is best for you and your daughters ❤️🌹Much love 🫶
      Thank you for watching ❤️

    • @ndshen
      @ndshen 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Divorce him. You deserve better.

    • @nafisaxolmatova1814
      @nafisaxolmatova1814 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ChommikenyaThanks for understanding 😢 I don’t see my future with him

    • @nafisaxolmatova1814
      @nafisaxolmatova1814 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ndshenThanks for support 😢 sometimes not everyone understands why you have to cut people from your life

    • @Time4change111
      @Time4change111 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Pray dear, this is a hard time for you and your girls, please pray, you deserve protection, respect and you are not maid, you are God's daughter. Please go to the Heavenly Father in your spirit and speak openly with him and allow God to miniter to your heart. Call upon Jesus Christ of Nazareth and allow him to heal you and guide you as the Holy spirit and you guardian Angels guide you. Pray for everyone, including yourself, forgive and let Father lead you with love to the best decision while wsking God to heal your husband and his family dear. God bless ❤ 🫂​@@nafisaxolmatova1814

  • @VictoriaHerizon
    @VictoriaHerizon 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Lmfao if he truly loves us, you wouldn’t watching this shit lmfao.

  • @SatumainenOlento
    @SatumainenOlento หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great video! Extremely well done compilation!!! ❤❤❤

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for watching 😊

  • @mamadara2146
    @mamadara2146 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Before we got married, my man always had a reason to meet in the afternoon. he often suddenly appears in front of my workplace. and send texts regularly and patiently wait for replies without getting angry (I'm too busy at work sometimes). He always sticks around.

  • @VeeKayGreenerGrass
    @VeeKayGreenerGrass หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    There's a difference between love and affection. Love isn't feelings.
    The woman talking about happiness: happiness comes from within yourself, nothing to do with someone making you do it or doing it for you. Happiness is an individual inside job.
    The man listing social media posting: I honestly don't like men I'm dating posting me, nor do I post them. Our first photos will be wedding photos 😅

  • @Baaaybeeeh
    @Baaaybeeeh หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    We don’t need you to love us. Romance and love is a distraction and it’s unnecessary. We need men to provide for us, be faithful to us, cover us, defend us, and father our children. We need nothing else.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As women we don't need love?!

    • @VeeKayGreenerGrass
      @VeeKayGreenerGrass หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love isn't feelings, yet most describe it as feelings.
      Most men are not capable of love.

    • @rosaclick1995
      @rosaclick1995 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Those things are what love is.

    • @Baaaybeeeh
      @Baaaybeeeh 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Chommikenya I guess I could have been more clear. To rephrase, love and romance are not the same, but they are used interchangeably. The provision, faithfulness, covering, defending, and fathering that’s love. We need love in that way. In my opinion.

    • @Alixir1228
      @Alixir1228 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      We don't need love, but we want it.

  • @Nunyabuiznesss1111
    @Nunyabuiznesss1111 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I am a woman and I prefer getting this information from the men rather than the women. I feel like only men can really give you tools when it comes to what men want and how men think.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Absolutely agree 💯
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @RitaDSouza-lw5gp
    @RitaDSouza-lw5gp หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm just waything from God to be.Done..the.decission ony life

  • @ElevateYourWorth
    @ElevateYourWorth 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’m just here to point out. I cannot stand seeing people driving down the road recording stuff for social media. I could give a crap less if a man loves me, but is inconsiderate on the road of his life my life in the lives of others because he rather be recording videos for content. So they can get likes click and view on social media. Good human beings don’t put the lives of others- at risk for this kind of stuff.

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    9:22 idk about every single day. Is it necessary?
    @10:55 if we truly love someone we don't wanna hurt them! Bingo! We don't wanna worry them!
    @11:25 when we really love someone we take on their problems too without even trying.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @cherryb5244
    @cherryb5244 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    These guys only exist in books for me.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I hope you understand you deserve exactly what you read on those books
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @KeishaMs
    @KeishaMs หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Ok are there any good single men in these comments? Hi, Im Keisha.:) LOL

  • @andriavinithalobo5813
    @andriavinithalobo5813 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    3:58 so trueee!
    Thats necessary

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you genuinely concerned?!
      Hey Thank you for watching ☺️

  • @jovialjae
    @jovialjae หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    8:26 "He lies to you"......"he will hide his wives" i sure hope this guy is trolling because...WHAT???🥴

    • @corimoon3360
      @corimoon3360 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      This is why we must always watch who we listen to and take advice from. 😂

    • @VeeKayGreenerGrass
      @VeeKayGreenerGrass หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nah. He is African.😂

  • @Blackgirlmagicbeyou
    @Blackgirlmagicbeyou หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This is so true

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      💯
      Thank you for watching

  • @nla5307
    @nla5307 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    These men feel like liars to my spirit.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      In 2024 you trust men?? 😂 In Nella rose voice!
      Thank you for watching ❤️☺️

  • @LipstickLoco86
    @LipstickLoco86 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    These people are just spewing out their own philosophies...and the rest is common sense. 😂

  • @AryonaSamoto
    @AryonaSamoto หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My family and all the men in my life always sacrificed me(even crimes committed against me, I was sacrificed). I don't trust anyone anymore to believe that the men described in this video actually exists.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It can be difficult to trust anyone really.....
      You need to start healing yourself from past traumas

    • @AryonaSamoto
      @AryonaSamoto หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Chommikenya from what I've seen and heard, it's not worth it. I'm better off alone.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AryonaSamoto EVEN BETTER!!!

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same. I don’t trust ONE.

    • @TheCakediva08
      @TheCakediva08 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They exist. I have one

  • @themadcreative
    @themadcreative 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    imagine he's watching this too and using these tips to manipulate you

    • @galaxylucia1898
      @galaxylucia1898 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      True, but ppl can only fake it for so long.

  • @amandamoore8421
    @amandamoore8421 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    So they say watch his actions. he drove an hour to watch my first dance show, because he knew it was important for me. Came up to me after with flowers. I said let me go change into my regular clothes and I’ll come find you.
    He left!!?? and started driving back home without saying goodbye… so what do his actions mean??

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Let's hear what people have to say about that?! 😂
      You should ask him why he left.

    • @amandamoore8421
      @amandamoore8421 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Chommikenya asked him to stay, he came back and said only 30 minutes. I asked if it was ok to go back with him. (We both had to go back same direction) he was hesitant but agreed.
      Something about needing to go home and watch the stock market (crypto/fx etc) (hobby)
      He can’t stay with me. I said just drop me off and then you can go home and do your thing…
      He could have told me his plan at the start instead of not saying anything. 😂

    • @dolcesweet5173
      @dolcesweet5173 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      It could be that he’s doing just enough/ aka “ the bare minimum”. Or he actually needed to watch the stock market. But since you posted this question it means your gut knows what the answer is which is you know he’s doing the bare minimum.

    • @shantimindproductions5585
      @shantimindproductions5585 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      He's got someone else.

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@shantimindproductions5585 this is what I was gonna say. This man in a whole other relationship and needs to hurry back home before she starts getting suspicious

  • @GENRTS
    @GENRTS หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Trauma dumping is not a green flag

  • @jenster29
    @jenster29 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Love bombing can also seem like 'effort'

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Actually yes!
      Thank you for the input

  • @gabriellacindyxoxo
    @gabriellacindyxoxo หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    not always , remember trauma n avoidant attachtment etc

    • @EternalflameC.L.
      @EternalflameC.L. หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Heal those before entering relationship no excuses

    • @Alixir1228
      @Alixir1228 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Those kind of men cannot love properly so who cares? Still feels like crap with them.

  • @RitaDSouza-lw5gp
    @RitaDSouza-lw5gp หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Becouse I in Trutfull way I don't know But I had surrender the boundry bettween.me and any.one who is not for me

  • @maggiemcnally2087
    @maggiemcnally2087 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Listen to these men

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    20:07 -20:18
    20:20 -20:43

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    23:26 -23:41

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The most important part of the video.

  • @Wazey-by8lv
    @Wazey-by8lv หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Needed this 💜💜💜

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it 😊

  • @gabriellacindyxoxo
    @gabriellacindyxoxo หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    no love language is different , not evrryone can say i love u words of affirm

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    20:44 -20:56

  • @cocochanel4936
    @cocochanel4936 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน

      My pleasure! ☺️

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    22:05 -23:24

  • @Melvina1975
    @Melvina1975 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    What if he's a narcissist doing these things??

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Then listen to your body. It always tells you to leave. Through, sickness, headaches, cramps, irregular cycle lack of sleep, lack of appetite, sudden body odor never experienced before. These are also signs. Listen to your body and observe the narc closely.

    • @cecee3480
      @cecee3480 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He’s cheating. If you aren’t okay with that then you have to leave.

    • @cha9165
      @cha9165 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Run

    • @nonai7897
      @nonai7897 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Narcissists are never worth it!! RUN

    • @nikicarter2048
      @nikicarter2048 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@KurosakiLuvar01yes a male stressing you will cause all these things

  • @missellz7630
    @missellz7630 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Put it this way my man loves me I’m not on here for confirmation on if he loves me or not I’m on here for entertainment that’s how you know a man loves you, you don’t have to watch videos to know 😂😂💯

  • @Laceeadventuretime
    @Laceeadventuretime หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Exactly!!!!

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for watching 😊

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    23:44 -24:38

  • @cocoaocean
    @cocoaocean หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Many layers of relationships. Men asking for love is offensive. When a man behaves in duty, that's the gold standard. Love is for our children. A dutiful man allows love for those that depend on us. A man in his feelings about sentiments of "love " is a thief. Media set this "love " show going and nothing has been loving ever since. When a man doesn't love me I still make him useful. I cant respect a man hinged on love for the opposite sex. Duty to her though is deeper. When he loves his children its better than with me. Taking that "love " and not connecting to God instead is so distorted. Why are.grown adults still needing so much while duty is neglected? Its so corny and destructive to those that really deserve love, our children. Instead, the dodo bird man wants that or he's in his feelings or worse. 😢😢

  • @RitaDSouza-lw5gp
    @RitaDSouza-lw5gp หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I aways ask God Will in my situations in my life so i.leave each everthing in the hands of God even i dont know any person.in thats Groupseven i dont know dep .whater

  • @ninashirley432
    @ninashirley432 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    What about the guys that hang out with couples, 😂
    Or much younger girls ! Red flag 🚩

  • @DashaTheDivineDivah
    @DashaTheDivineDivah หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Smh...
    Wow...
    That is all

  • @MiSpotHealing
    @MiSpotHealing หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3:30 💯🎯💯

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @Angelitaasmr
    @Angelitaasmr 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow thanks guys!

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    12:21 it's called love bombing come on now!!!! 😩

  • @RitaDSouza-lw5gp
    @RitaDSouza-lw5gp หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very true

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    14:15 who is that and what video is that? It says Homilia.

  • @genanunez8170
    @genanunez8170 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes AMEN

  • @MrPeterISABELLA
    @MrPeterISABELLA 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    What if a man treats you how he feels about himself

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      In a good way or a bad way?

    • @MrPeterISABELLA
      @MrPeterISABELLA 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Chommikenya meaning if he sees himself as a low life he treats you as he sees himself.....

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@MrPeterISABELLA ooooh absolutely 💯
      They treat you according to how they feel about themselves & other factors of course

    • @MrPeterISABELLA
      @MrPeterISABELLA 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @Chommikenya thankyou for your brilliant work....women need women like you...we have all been badly broken via pathological men.

  • @ninashirley432
    @ninashirley432 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What about the guys that have different women on social media 😂
    Serial dater‘s become serial cheaters .

  • @Deeliciousss
    @Deeliciousss 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is all BS!!!

  • @aquiliaringwood6532
    @aquiliaringwood6532 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    @ninashirley Where are the resources to help you break away from UNREQUITED LUV? I'm being treated to believe that I am busted and disgusting. I don't ever feel special. Not ever

  • @Ang-iz5hv
    @Ang-iz5hv หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    That last clip described my ex husband. Such a turd.

    • @Chommikenya
      @Chommikenya  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Glad you let that turd go 😂
      You deserve the Best 💞

    • @KeishaMs
      @KeishaMs หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Not a turd😂😂

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    21:05 -21:56