I am a genuine person too. Not all this advice applies to everyone and every situation. I’m not trying to jump through hoops to get a man to choose me. If that’s what it takes I can’t take any more of the mind games.
For real! All these mindgames, literally having to manipulate him into being decent, and for what? Some money maybe? I can make more money at work with half of the effort I'm putting on men. You've got to be kidding me.
@@VixxKong2 lose your self, lose your time, lose your power, lose control, lose your confidence, lose your mind, lose everything thats important to you etc
Do NOT move in with a man without being married first. If he wants you, he puts a ring on it first, otherwise, you are turning yourself into a leased car.
Same here. I’m too straightforward and at peace to even accomodate the goofy behavior and contradictions and mind games. People can stay over there and do that. Life is way too short to be wandering around in a stupid maze of all of these contradictions and mind games.
"Men respect women they know she can walk away"... very very stupid in the way men thinking because every woman can walk away. The one big diffrent is every woman having her own timeline to walk away.... Some have more patience than others, that's all🤷🏼♀️
Exactly judge Mathis wife just divorced him after 39 years ! He says he wants his wife back I'm thinking he knows the alimony that he will have to pay her it's hefty😂
I don't think it's stupid, there's logic to it: if a man knows a woman is too emotionally dependent on him, he'll take her for granted (and possibly for a ride). You can love someone a lot without making them the center of your life, nobody (man or woman) wants a person at their hand and feet like they depend on you to live. There's a gender studies scholar who said "men are raised to love many things, women are raised to love men." Men know that and use it to their advantage. When a man sees that you like him a lot but your life is filled with other important things to you, he'll see that you're not yet another woman who's entire personality and existence is based on having a man next to her. And you guys can grow from the things you BOTH bring into the relationship, not just allll the hard work and effort the woman is putting into keeping some shit relationship alive.
I knew to keep my chastity because it is soul power. Sure, everyone has sexual urges thats natural. I just believed no one should has a right to sex with me until we were married, out of love for Gods law. All kinds of losers talk against that for all kinds of reasons, but truthfully, marriage is holy, sex is sacred. It's not about peoples desires. it's about loving Divine guidance and your future spouse. The grooming of modern society is one big mess.
@nancycole-auguste6614 you can not know or predict what someone else will or won't do in any given situation. I believed the same at one time. But no more. That is idealistic at b est. Naive at its worse. Following your logic 'holy' and 'righteous ' men should have the same standards. But actually so many are self -righteous and hypocritical.
If you say you’re not interested in a relationship, men will set out ti change your mind, only if you’re not sleeping with them yet and you are not always available.
They do it if you're sleeping with them, too. Just make sure sex doesn't automatically equate to connection for you. Not everyone has that ability. Know yourself.
@@Chommikenya If men did that you wouldn't have houses, running water or electricity or any of the things you depend on for survival. Why should men be selfless while you care only about yourselves?
@Hammerhead137 😂😂😂 don't worry; there are women who can do those things, and some women have been riding solo for a very long time, so they already know how to do those things. If we don't, we have brains, too. We'll figure it out. I love this for us. 🎉🎉🎉
OK, so some advice from the past you got a sift through all the bullshit to find the diamond. You have to kiss one or two fives to find the prints. That’s if that’s what you want in life if you don’t want to be in a relationship with a man that’s fine. Do you girls? I’ve been alone for 15 years but I’ve started dating again because it’s a 2 x 2 world, also remember I’m 60 years old so I know now with this information none of this was out in the 80s and 90s I’m dating now. I got the information now. I have the knowledge now I will find excellent man to marry me.❤❤❤
I showed mom what kind of men are available and told her my dating stories. She shook her head in shame by saying "they don't make real men anymore." I don't believe they don't make real men anymore. We have to accept that these ARE the real men. This is who they are, and people like me are finally taking off their rose colored glasses. Women, like me, will lie to themselves aka be delusional for crumbs. I am the only one who can give me unconditional love. I value my peace, and my peace was disrupted because I was dating. I can be called a ran through, leftover woman, an old hag, whatever people project. However, I have my peace and freedom.
People can call us whatever . I don’t care about it. That’s their opinions. I care about my mental health and peace now because it was melting away for ten years and now Im realizing in my 30s I’m drained and won’t tolerate games anymore
@@ysl23addidasq Blessed! Mental health is so d*mn important, and we must do what is necessary to prioritize our self-care and healing. Thank you for sharing this.
@@PointlessPeachesII Have you considered that goes both ways? You think those are "real men" because you chase a small minority of men, and now you have the nerve to decide the rest of us deserve the bad rap just because of the guys you chose to engage with.
@@Hammerhead137 Those are your words, not mine. I didn't say the whole community. There is a saying called "if it don't apply then let it fly" aka use discernment. My discernment is associated with the following in this video, not the entire collective. Any other questions or comments?
Agree with all the points except that men don’t think about you when you leave. If you’re the one who dumped them, best believe they are thinking about you because of that ego.
My ex boyfriend parked on the street outside my house and just sat in his car for a long time. My new bf finally went out and confronted him and asked him wtf he’s doing and he said “just reminiscing about her.” This was like four years after we broke up!
@@christyspeed4995 I moved and quit all social media except youtube and Pinterest so it would be hard for him to track me down at this point. And that happened six years ago so I’m assuming he’s over it by now hopefully 😅
Yeah and she's wrong about men as a whole not being attached to women. How long has her husband been supporting her and he doesn't actually have to? It depends on the dude they all lie differently too and their game is different when it comes to a gold digger they usually have money and they come from money too so men pretend to be rich and simp for her because she makes herself into a target. Women are fully aware that a lot of men are not emotionally attached to women but some of them are too they just won't admit it because there in denial they need womens resources in order to survive and live in luxury because women are like cars in the world of the rich each one has a price tag on them. There investments that help make wealthy men richer...there relationship is mostly transactional. I heard they were both scam artists too.
It's very simple stop making men part of your goals because you aren't part of theirs. Make them pay for your entertainment. Do what they do, not what they say you should do, and stop chasing men.
Exactly 🙄 that narrative makes it seem as though we women are the ones who will magically transform them, which is such a backwards way of thinking. Lol that is not our role. We inspire. We do not play the role of mothers to adult men. If that man has not come equipped, with what it takes to be the kind of man he should be with the woman, he chooses, you are not captain save the day, and you will not do anything that will make that man be different than what he intended to be with you
Real men are never into women 😂 they’re into themselves ! I lost all my inhibitions about men a Christian or not ! They all look after themselves ! No matter what age! So ladies don’t even shed any tears to any men they don’t care !
My mother told me a long time ago to just wait until you get around 40 to 50 years old. See ladies this is when our hormones change and begin to deplete. You have less estrogen and more testosterone. At this time, we begin to have more maternal love and less internal love to give to a relationship. This is when we can operate more on a man’s level. Putting ourselves first basically just not putting up with no crap. No more second chances and no more giving a damn. We begin to operate more like men.
I don't want to be a man lol. Terrible advice waiting until 50 to wait. Just be a woman, sit back, let the man work. You don't work. You just be sincere, respectful and treat yourself and others well. If that man is trash he will fall away like trash. Good men will stay
🎉Nothing is guaranteed; protect urself as best u can. LEGALLY & No emotions, no sex until marriage or at least an engagement 💍 ring, wedding date set, consistent princess treatment 👸or no treatment. Is he helping/ solving ur problems; if not why is he there, what's his purpose?🤔 keep a strong cut-off game, high standards, no 2nd chances to spin the block, for any disrespect/abuse or ghosting. bloc-delete forever are ur superpowers! most of these men 🙄 worthle$$. all that's gone when he leaves u r text messages & stress 😩 😪!for most, breaking up is a huge COMEUP what's the great $ignificant lo$$? put urself money 💰 career, goals 1st. Breaking up was a win 🏆 cus u ain't loss nothing but his negative spirit/energy.
an engagement means nothing if he’s not starting to help pay bills. they need to envest financially before the woman invests too much physically or emotionally.
One guy did this to me and I fell in love. They do this to see who is vulnerable with hopes and dreams and how they can take advantage. Maybe it did not work because he wasn't attractive enough? The one who said it to me, I found super attractive so, my hopes were way up until I quickly saw it was a facade and got out before it was too late. Then, I just got married when I understood how men really are and decided not to waste time like the rest chasing sparks, chemistry, and butterflies.
That’s why I don’t hesitate to embrace being selfish, be quick to move on when it doesn’t serve me, and stand on business because it serves me more than it serves men that I deal with. Life ain’t easy including our dating life.
I knew this since my teen from my Dad, even though he over exaggerated some things 😅😅😅😅. He definitely helped me to move accordingly….if you had a good father, he will definitely tell you truth about men cos he’s a man himself and would never allow his daughters to be hurt in all areas…
In addition to Shera, I would recommend Princella “The High Powered Podcast.” Watch her videos that are six months and older. Start from the oldest live videos if you can. She builds up her topics and goes deeper gradually on the nature of males and uses science to back up her ideology. Now, her newer videos are more focused on women and our own negative behaviors.
At first I thought Princella content wasn’t for me because she says she has no interest in men and I do but then I realized I needed her content ESPECIALLY because I’m interested in men. Although I’ll gladly stay single over being desperate to have a man, I’m still interested in the good ones, where ever they are! 😂
@@dashboard-11 LOL… yes, her message can be very triggering for lots of women. The baseline of teachings is too show women the reality of the majority of male. How women are programmed and conditioned to deal with males in an unnatural way that ends up causing women unnecessary stress and suffering. Ultimately… once women have this knowledge, what are they going to do with it? The reality is that, women hold the key and power on dealing with males and society. However, that would mean radical collective upgraded consciousness and accountability. Which I don’t think the masses of women are truly ready for.
I wish Kevin Samuels had not passed. I wish he was still here to witness what I hope will be reality that would have sent him to the grave. Basically, a half black woman becoming the leader of the "free" world. The man would have died
naw, his viral clips are just him trolling his trolls. he really gives good advice. I used to think the same about Shera Seven until I watched the full content.
Yes or no on one hand in his earlier Pages he was more honest and catered towards both genders but then when there was a business of women bashing he became totally Pro man in every respect
8:23-8:29 I had this figured out as a young teenager. I also figured out that children compromised you, and your ability to make autonomous decisions, when I was 13. We were not taught to look at a man's CHARACTER when looking for a mate, and that to really know a man's character, you have to know him WELL...that takes YEARS. When you REALLY know a man, most do NOT measure up! Most are too undisciplined, and too ego centered, to have OUR best interests in mind.
There are some points in this that are true, like loving yourself, having healthy boundaries, being of good character. But there is also a lot of misleading bs in between, especially everything that has been stated about being emotionally removed from the situation, being 'in control', and all that struggle for power. Yes, you need to love yourself enough to have your own life and to not accept mistreatment and walk away if needed. But no amount of games you play will 'make' anyone love you. Games lead to trauma bonds, and these only work on emotionally unhealthy people. They don't 'love' you when you were able to trick them into a trauma bond - you just play the character of the person who traumatized them in the first place, so now you are the surface to project their trauma with all that entails onto you. And trust me, what trauma entails is not pretty. It's a messy dark void that threatens to devour everything and everyone who comes in contact with it. That's not a dynamic you want to become a part of. Actually, it's nothing short of evil to trick someone into their trauma response and then play with their deepest wound. You don't want that done to yourself, do you? I understand that most women have had horrible experiences with men, which convinced them that they were not lovable and that they had to be someone else or use some tactic in order to 'get' a man. And there is no doubt a huge percentage of men who are just not capable of love. But that's all you truly have to accept - no one who hasn't met themselves can actually meet you. People can only ever meet you to the degree that they have met themselves. And no amount of games you play in order to try to trick a man into thinking he wants you, is able to help the fact that they can not actually want you, because they are not themselves, you are not yourself - how do you think are they supposed to love you for who you truly are, when you don't even show up as who you truly are? That's impossible. Get to know yourself, who you truly are, not the mask you were taught to impersonate - and be brave enough to fully become you. That's the only way you can even allow people to see you for who you are and love you for exactly that. And that's what you want. And you know what naturally comes with showing up in your true colors - the gift of knowing your worth and self-respect. Authenticity. Not bending yourself for anyone, not making yourself bigger or smaller than you are. Not denying what it is that you want - not denying yourself. Because a man you only get because he is for example scared by you saying you want to get married and have children, so you play the cool girl for him who just flaunts through life like a loose leaf in the wind, is not an emotionally grown up man - that's an immature child. And you don't want to waste your precious time on trying to control his moods and tantrums - you want to be happy. Being with a guy like that isn't happiness, it's misery and a constant struggle. But we naturally seek peace. You don't seek struggle, you seek peace. And how do you achieve that? By being at peace with yourself, because you are authentic, because you never deny who you are for anyone. Because you can look in the mirror and say to yourself, I got my back. When you betray yourself, so will others. When you respect yourself, so will others. Don't buy into this whole war between the sexes stuff, ladies. If you fight within and allow this madness into your mind, you invite that into your life. You don't need to betray yourself even more in order to find love - you need to finally once and for all love yourself. Everything else comes naturally.
@@heavenly894 thank you, heavenly ❤️ you know what, I actually think that most of us deep down know these things, but we just haven't learned to trust ourselves enough to just follow our inner discernment. We have on purpose been conditioned to look for guidance outside of ourselves, because when we eventually remember our true guidance within, it's over for all fake systems of fake (inversion of) power, which only work through suppression. Once we stop suppressing our true self, our inner guidance, our innate power, and start living accordingly, a big step into the right direction is done. In the direction of our TRUE life, instead of the sad copy sold to us as such, which actually is a death serving system. The path to life leads through the acknowledgment of the soul, the path to death leads through the denial of it. Through following the intellect (outward focus) instead of the soul (inward focus). We all know these things, we have just been taught to not listen to ourselves.
@@heavenly894 wow crazy, my reply to you has just been deleted. But I always win, so :) Thank you, heavenly ❤️ you know what, I actually think that most of us deep down know these things, but we just haven't learned to trust ourselves enough to just follow our inner discernment. We have on purpose been taught to look for guidance outside of ourselves, because when we eventually remember our true guidance within, it's over for all art ificial systems of art ificial (inversion of) power, who only work through suppression. Once we stop suppressing our true self, our inner guidance, our innate power, and start living accordingly, a big step into the right direction is done. In the direction of our TRUE life, instead of the sad copy sold to us as such, which actually is a death serving system. The path to life leads through the acknowledgment of the soul, the path to death leads through the denial of it. Through following the intellect (outward focus) instead of the soul (inward focus). We all know these things, we have just been taught to not listen to ourselves.
Most of the guys who are underdeveloped emotionally and mentally are just looking for revenge on women for the one girl they gave their all to and broke their heart, or they are looking to replace their mothers. I am not looking for either of those. I am looking for a man ready to take accountability, own up to his mistakes, apologizes, and is ready to have the tough mature conversations that come with being in a relationship. If you’re not there, don’t even ask if we can date. I don’t want it. I’m done dating. I’m just going to focus on God and becoming the best me and I will die alone, but I’m never going to settle for less than I deserve.
Fvck this. I'm not being someone I'm not, playing games, and being a bitch for anyone. I'd rather stay single, keep my peace of mind, and enjoy my life without all of the drama. 😂
I love watching these videos because they make me appreciate my husband even more. Idk who these women are dating, but there are tons of great men out there who aren't like this. Maybe it's because I'm not into looks or money because those can disappear overnight, but my experience isn't the same as the women I see in videos like this. Just like p0rn gives men an unrealistic expectation of what sex is supposed to be like, romance movies give women an unrealistic expectation of what a happy, healthy, realistic relationship looks like.
The girl at 7:11 is undoing all the work of the previous videos. She's basically contradicting them bringing it back to serving a man to gain his love, basically what never works and what gets women exploited.
Lol why does knowing how to treat others do automatically mean you feel like you are betraying yourselves? You can be social and be nice without putting out and getting in your feelings. You do it everyday at work or when you check out at the cash register and little polite interactions you have during the day. Men and people in general are attracted to your vibe and how you make them feel. Being polite make the other person feel important. So that all you have to do really to get someone to like you. Think about it you have some unhealthy men who stalk women for just being polite and wait for her to get off of work which in that case being impolite would have been useful. So carrying yourself in a way that’s makes the other person feel good about you is not going to cost you anything. Using honey is better than using vinegar. You’ve never heard of acting.
Now why did you show a clip of Kevin Samuels lying? He told a woman she was a 5 or a 6 AFTER she told him she thought she was an 8. He lied about simply agreeing with her. 🙄
OK, so my take away from this video is this. DeCenter the man, work on yourself whether physically mentally spiritually get yourself a good therapist. Make yourself the best you can be so game. Can never be played on you. When you elevate your self-esteem everything else elevates… the following comments were from us a brand new 60 year-old who was just starting to date again, thank God I never had to do this crap in the 80s. Love you all.❤❤❤
You must understand your emotions and logic thinking. Having discernment, knowing when your mind is sending you signals to your body....but a woman with a noisy mind can't see or feel herself....know thyself a man with out a vision or purpose will never have discipline or consistency....so a relationship shoud be last on your mind.... let the God in you spark the light within you'll attract anyone ❤
Black woman here all my children are from my marriage. I didn't want to be like someone I knew during my childhood, but there are Bw and Hispanic women with children only after marriage
All these videos are designed to keep us single and unhappy tbh. Just do what's right for you and use your intuition when dating. You'll always be right no matter what. The woman in this video is speaking generally and what she feels is not always the case. Hella toxic forreal.
I agree! I couldn’t be on tik tok. It seems like all people do is complain. No wonder people aren’t getting the results they want. I’m in a relationship and didn’t deal with any of the things people talk about even when dating. A whole lot of people need to do some self reflecting and stop listening to randoms online who are also unhappy and unsuccessful. All of this doom and gloom is too much
that woman at 7:30 is 100% a pick me! As if being kind, understandting, godo to a mam has stopped them from abusing, cheating and taking advantage of women (and girls btw). Who forced child m2rriages unto girls? Men. Who made marital grape legal? Men. Etc. Stop witht the women should cater and listen to men. Thats how you end up lowering the bar..
That theory about saying you don’t want a relationship (if you actually do), is so hilariously bad advice. I know women who tried that and just end up in months-long FWB/situationships. It’ll only work if he actually wanted you.
Because when you start loving yourself and taking care of yourself and doing things thinking about yourself first, People around you start telling you that you're selfish, you're a narcissist b.........
@08:44 to @09:03😂😅 transition is real .. no looking back if it aint real. They didnt know they were making us until we meet the real real genuine person
That poor lady giving the advice in clips. You can tell her she's really been through the wringer. She's probably been in one bad relationship after another...
this are the reality nowadays. gone are the days of our grandfather where man and woman loyal to each others. moral of the society is depreciating. swinging is consider nowadays where previously frown upon.
@@sg5720she is not talking nonsense you're just the one who didn't get it. She said that as in if you give your body to a man early on without him having to put any efforts you're showing you're cheap because anyone can have access to your body without even working for it. Basically she says you don't value yourself because if you respected yourself you wouldn't just let anyone have sex with you.
Simply by the fact that why would you allow someone to have sex with you before marriage, and if you had sex and they r being avoidant just avoid them too and look for the next man ! No time for victim card
I truly desire to see one of these videos without women in it. Let the men speak. They know men better than any woman ever will. When it's a video giving men advice about women, THAT'S our time to shine.
GODS WAY IS THE BEST WAY, NO SEX UNTIL A MARRIAGE, THE SEX IS THE SPIRITUAL GLUE THAT KEEPS THE MARRIAGE TOGETHER, UNWED WOMEN WILL LOOSE OUT.. DO NOT SLEEP WITH THEM....
Sorry but as women we are nurturers and no book or man nor mindset will change that. I don't want to be with a man that doesn't appreciate attention or my efforts. It would be a lie to date a man and pretend that he's not a priority, that's a good time and nothing else. I agree with the bitter one, we live and learn, but what is money in comparison to other things... It's true that some men don't care about anyone or anything but themselves, but that's a psychological, illogical and low self esteem man, because in it's true nature man love and protect and provide. Neither man and woman are in tune if it has to be war and defensive just skip the part of mating.
That last clip loooooord. I understand the 'I feel' statements, that's tgerapy speak specifically for when you're dealing with arguments and disagreements. But to think men are so backward that you have to carefully craft and coax them to treat you like a person is DUMB af and enables this 'they don't understand women' thing and women need to AGAIN figure out a way to appeal to men.
Some of this is just bad advice. Dont play stoopid games dont win stoopid prizes.its that simple. Say your truth and youll be alone for much longer but when you find a person it will be someone who actually aligns with your truth, not someone who had to be snap baited into giving a 💩 about you
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Dating is not for good women who are nice. I’m stepped out of the game.
I second that, just going to do it and run.
Same here I have given up completely
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Facts you will not take out your experiences on me cause I’m not taking mine out on you
Definitely not for us. 😂 Imma let the bad guys and the bad girls fuck each other up, and I'll keep my self to myself.
Decentering men and focusing on oneself does NOT create a narcissist.
FACT!!!!
Men have been spoilt for too long and told that women are their slaves and are there to worship men unconditionally. Rude awakening guys.
Giys are the most selfish and self- centered adolescent out there.
@@Chommikenya BS!!!
@@LeilaniLight11709 It does, I'm the form of you.
Ladies, lets stop trying to turn red flags green!
Are the ladies listening?!
@@ChommikenyaHope so 🙏🏿
🗣️LOUDER! I don’t think they heard you .
Thanks I'll stay single. men play too many games for me. I'm genuine I can't live that way!!
I am a genuine person too. Not all this advice applies to everyone and every situation. I’m not trying to jump through hoops to get a man to choose me. If that’s what it takes I can’t take any more of the mind games.
Play the game or lose.
For real!
All these mindgames, literally having to manipulate him into being decent, and for what? Some money maybe? I can make more money at work with half of the effort I'm putting on men.
You've got to be kidding me.
@@khrisi9410
Lose what?
@@VixxKong2 lose your self, lose your time, lose your power, lose control, lose your confidence, lose your mind, lose everything thats important to you etc
Males are too much work. I will put that time and energy towards my goals, needs and growth.
Do NOT move in with a man without being married first. If he wants you, he puts a ring on it first, otherwise, you are turning yourself into a leased car.
Oooh my nothing but Facts 😊
It still can end up bad. But now you are married to him.
I think we, as women, have had all the harsh truths we can take. Let's free ourself from all of this and enjoy our lives.
Absolutely agree 💯
Thank you for watching ❤️
Word ❤
Single life is so peaceful. I don't have time for all of this.
Same here. I’m too straightforward and at peace to even accomodate the goofy behavior and contradictions and mind games. People can stay over there and do that. Life is way too short to be wandering around in a stupid maze of all of these contradictions and mind games.
"Men respect women they know she can walk away"... very very stupid in the way men thinking because every woman can walk away. The one big diffrent is every woman having her own timeline to walk away.... Some have more patience than others, that's all🤷🏼♀️
Exactly judge Mathis wife just divorced him after 39 years ! He says he wants his wife back I'm thinking he knows the alimony that he will have to pay her it's hefty😂
Also i dont want a love like this. So fake
I don't think it's stupid, there's logic to it: if a man knows a woman is too emotionally dependent on him, he'll take her for granted (and possibly for a ride). You can love someone a lot without making them the center of your life, nobody (man or woman) wants a person at their hand and feet like they depend on you to live.
There's a gender studies scholar who said "men are raised to love many things, women are raised to love men." Men know that and use it to their advantage. When a man sees that you like him a lot but your life is filled with other important things to you, he'll see that you're not yet another woman who's entire personality and existence is based on having a man next to her. And you guys can grow from the things you BOTH bring into the relationship, not just allll the hard work and effort the woman is putting into keeping some shit relationship alive.
Exactly 💯
I knew to keep my chastity because it is soul power. Sure, everyone has sexual urges thats natural. I just believed no one should has a right to sex with me until we were married, out of love for Gods law. All kinds of losers talk against that for all kinds of reasons, but truthfully, marriage is holy, sex is sacred. It's not about peoples desires. it's about loving Divine guidance and your future spouse. The grooming of modern society is one big mess.
Agreed!❤👏
No guarantee. A woman can do that and more and still be fooled.
@@yvonnebaker5174 but it drastically reduces the likelihood of her being deceived.
@nancycole-auguste6614 you can not know or predict what someone else will or won't do in any given situation. I believed the same at one time. But no more. That is idealistic at b est. Naive at its worse. Following your logic 'holy' and 'righteous ' men should have the same standards. But actually so many are self -righteous and hypocritical.
Lol for me, no one has the right. Period! 😂🧙♂️🍀 If I'm being honest though, I never really cared to begin with, so it all works out 🍻
If you say you’re not interested in a relationship, men will set out ti change your mind, only if you’re not sleeping with them yet and you are not always available.
Damn so true. That is why they wouldn’t go away. Lawd. Makes sense 👍🏽💯
Eve and the serpent
They do it if you're sleeping with them, too. Just make sure sex doesn't automatically equate to connection for you. Not everyone has that ability. Know yourself.
The problem is some are chasers and once the chase is over you see their true colors.
Make yourself a priority ladies! This way you get your energy to self. Be selfish 😊
Absolutely!! 💯
@@Chommikenya If men did that you wouldn't have houses, running water or electricity or any of the things you depend on for survival. Why should men be selfless while you care only about yourselves?
@Hammerhead137 😂😂😂 don't worry; there are women who can do those things, and some women have been riding solo for a very long time, so they already know how to do those things. If we don't, we have brains, too. We'll figure it out. I love this for us. 🎉🎉🎉
@@uduvudoo3083 Unlikely.
Project that b.s. back to them. Checkmate! I don't have time for games. I want $$$.
I don’t talk anymore, I just do it. I don’t give a fck about anybody’s feelings and if it don’t benefit me, I don’t want it.
That's the attitude!!!
Thank you for watching ❤️
Me too. Finally honoring me! I don't talk. I just do it
Smart girl❤
I truly don't give a fck
Literally, these advices on how to get men are so useless, why would I want dust??
Exactly, I’m too self-centered to do that.
Too many rules to deal with them, how exhausting.
OK, so some advice from the past you got a sift through all the bullshit to find the diamond. You have to kiss one or two fives to find the prints. That’s if that’s what you want in life if you don’t want to be in a relationship with a man that’s fine. Do you girls? I’ve been alone for 15 years but I’ve started dating again because it’s a 2 x 2 world, also remember I’m 60 years old so I know now with this information none of this was out in the 80s and 90s I’m dating now. I got the information now. I have the knowledge now I will find excellent man to marry me.❤❤❤
Men don’t like Shera because Shera is the truth.
She is amazing
Factual!
I showed mom what kind of men are available and told her my dating stories. She shook her head in shame by saying "they don't make real men anymore."
I don't believe they don't make real men anymore. We have to accept that these ARE the real men. This is who they are, and people like me are finally taking off their rose colored glasses. Women, like me, will lie to themselves aka be delusional for crumbs. I am the only one who can give me unconditional love. I value my peace, and my peace was disrupted because I was dating. I can be called a ran through, leftover woman, an old hag, whatever people project. However, I have my peace and freedom.
People can call us whatever . I don’t care about it. That’s their opinions. I care about my mental health and peace now because it was melting away for ten years and now Im realizing in my 30s I’m drained and won’t tolerate games anymore
@@ysl23addidasq Blessed! Mental health is so d*mn important, and we must do what is necessary to prioritize our self-care and healing. Thank you for sharing this.
@@PointlessPeachesII Have you considered that goes both ways? You think those are "real men" because you chase a small minority of men, and now you have the nerve to decide the rest of us deserve the bad rap just because of the guys you chose to engage with.
@@Hammerhead137 Those are your words, not mine. I didn't say the whole community. There is a saying called "if it don't apply then let it fly" aka use discernment. My discernment is associated with the following in this video, not the entire collective. Any other questions or comments?
@@PointlessPeachesIIyou’re very welcome . I wish the best for everyone !
4:18 truth. Unconditional love only exists between mother and child and even that has a limit when the child grows up.
Wrong. Unconditional love IS. We either align with it or not.
I wouldn't demand anything from a man who doesn't want to give attention nor ask him for flowers, never. Those things are given, not asked.
That's very true
Agree with all the points except that men don’t think about you when you leave. If you’re the one who dumped them, best believe they are thinking about you because of that ego.
❤❤❤ yey!
My ex boyfriend parked on the street outside my house and just sat in his car for a long time. My new bf finally went out and confronted him and asked him wtf he’s doing and he said “just reminiscing about her.” This was like four years after we broke up!
@@mamadoom9724that’s scary. Please be safe!
@@christyspeed4995 I moved and quit all social media except youtube and Pinterest so it would be hard for him to track me down at this point. And that happened six years ago so I’m assuming he’s over it by now hopefully 😅
Dude, if I have to set that boundary and walk away, I walk away for GOOD. If you violate my rules, then you are not the man for me.
I like the back n forth with shera's clips 😂 men won't change, women need to change
I know right, I'm so thankful for Shera. My mother raised me to be this pick me cook and clean nice girl. They are playing in our faces.
Yeah and she's wrong about men as a whole not being attached to women. How long has her husband been supporting her and he doesn't actually have to?
It depends on the dude they all lie differently too and their game is different when it comes to a gold digger they usually have money and they come from money too so men pretend to be rich and simp for her because she makes herself into a target.
Women are fully aware that a lot of men are not emotionally attached to women but some of them are too they just won't admit it because there in denial they need womens resources in order to survive and live in luxury because women are like cars in the world of the rich each one has a price tag on them. There investments that help make wealthy men richer...there relationship is mostly transactional. I heard they were both scam artists too.
@@unicorn73212blah blah blah bs. You lying too 😂
Women have been changing, look how far we have come. 😊
It's very simple stop making men part of your goals because you aren't part of theirs. Make them pay for your entertainment. Do what they do, not what they say you should do, and stop chasing men.
Like Steve Harvey said they need to pay for your time.
I love how you gotta trick them into being decent people instead of them growing tf up and working on themselves 🫠
Exactly 🙄 that narrative makes it seem as though we women are the ones who will magically transform them, which is such a backwards way of thinking.
Lol that is not our role. We inspire. We do not play the role of mothers to adult men.
If that man has not come equipped, with what it takes to be the kind of man he should be with the woman, he chooses, you are not captain save the day, and you will not do anything that will make that man be different than what he intended to be with you
Real men are never into women 😂 they’re into themselves ! I lost all my inhibitions about men a Christian or not ! They all look after themselves ! No matter what age! So ladies don’t even shed any tears to any men they don’t care !
My mother told me a long time ago to just wait until you get around 40 to 50 years old. See ladies this is when our hormones change and begin to deplete. You have less estrogen and more testosterone. At this time, we begin to have more maternal love and less internal love to give to a relationship. This is when we can operate more on a man’s level. Putting ourselves first basically just not putting up with no crap. No more second chances and no more giving a damn. We begin to operate more like men.
Smart advice!
I don't want to be a man lol. Terrible advice waiting until 50 to wait. Just be a woman, sit back, let the man work. You don't work. You just be sincere, respectful and treat yourself and others well. If that man is trash he will fall away like trash. Good men will stay
Hormonal changes YES, maternal feelings and excess oxytocin NO! 57 years old here! I don't love ANYONE MORE THAN I LOVE MYSELF!
I'm 43 and find this too be soo true.
🎉Nothing is guaranteed; protect urself as best u can. LEGALLY & No emotions, no sex until marriage or at least an engagement 💍 ring, wedding date set, consistent princess treatment 👸or no treatment. Is he helping/ solving ur problems; if not why is he there, what's his purpose?🤔 keep a strong cut-off game, high standards, no 2nd chances to spin the block, for any disrespect/abuse or ghosting. bloc-delete forever are ur superpowers! most of these men 🙄 worthle$$. all that's gone when he leaves u r text messages & stress 😩 😪!for most, breaking up is a huge COMEUP what's the great $ignificant lo$$? put urself money 💰 career, goals 1st. Breaking up was a win 🏆 cus u ain't loss nothing but his negative spirit/energy.
an engagement means nothing if he’s not starting to help pay bills. they need to envest financially before the woman invests too much physically or emotionally.
That doesn’t protect you from anything, nor does it prove anything. This old ideal is BS.
That won’t protect you from anything…
And then Have a long Boring Sexless Marriage
Every relationship I was in, the man always brought up marriage. Even after a short period of time which I thought was strange because I never did.
One guy did this to me and I fell in love. They do this to see who is vulnerable with hopes and dreams and how they can take advantage. Maybe it did not work because he wasn't attractive enough? The one who said it to me, I found super attractive so, my hopes were way up until I quickly saw it was a facade and got out before it was too late. Then, I just got married when I understood how men really are and decided not to waste time like the rest chasing sparks, chemistry, and butterflies.
That’s why I don’t hesitate to embrace being selfish, be quick to move on when it doesn’t serve me, and stand on business because it serves me more than it serves men that I deal with. Life ain’t easy including our dating life.
Smart woman ❤
All of this is old knowledge to me. I learned this from my mom at a very young age.
You're a Lucky one
Thank you for watching ❤️
I wish I had someone when I was young to tell me these things I had no clue.
I knew this since my teen from my Dad, even though he over exaggerated some things 😅😅😅😅. He definitely helped me to move accordingly….if you had a good father, he will definitely tell you truth about men cos he’s a man himself and would never allow his daughters to be hurt in all areas…
I am just 18, and I am too smart for this shit ( dating /marriage)
In addition to Shera, I would recommend Princella “The High Powered Podcast.”
Watch her videos that are six months and older. Start from the oldest live videos if you can. She builds up her topics and goes deeper gradually on the nature of males and uses science to back up her ideology.
Now, her newer videos are more focused on women and our own negative behaviors.
At first I thought Princella content wasn’t for me because she says she has no interest in men and I do but then I realized I needed her content ESPECIALLY because I’m interested in men. Although I’ll gladly stay single over being desperate to have a man, I’m still interested in the good ones, where ever they are! 😂
@@dashboard-11I love the way you stated it😊
@@dashboard-11 LOL… yes, her message can be very triggering for lots of women.
The baseline of teachings is too show women the reality of the majority of male. How women are programmed and conditioned to deal with males in an unnatural way that ends up causing women unnecessary stress and suffering.
Ultimately… once women have this knowledge, what are they going to do with it? The reality is that, women hold the key and power on dealing with males and society. However, that would mean radical collective upgraded consciousness and accountability.
Which I don’t think the masses of women are truly ready for.
True and a man that doesn’t have his own house , Will always be codependent and look for a mother figure 😂
Kevin Samuels was a terrible person to look up to.
Yet men look up to him 😢
I wish Kevin Samuels had not passed. I wish he was still here to witness what I hope will be reality that would have sent him to the grave. Basically, a half black woman becoming the leader of the "free" world. The man would have died
naw, his viral clips are just him trolling his trolls. he really gives good advice. I used to think the same about Shera Seven until I watched the full content.
Yes or no on one hand in his earlier Pages he was more honest and catered towards both genders but then when there was a business of women bashing he became totally Pro man in every respect
How I thought he was reasonable!?
I’ve decentered Men after all this info. I’m young woman in her early 20s I’ve never been in a relationship I’m glad
Thank you for watching ❤️
That part, “why would you work in a company without a signed contract⁉️” Don’t commit and give your power away for nothing…..
Oooooh yeees!!!
Miss Tina said best,"what's love got to do with it."
Girl this is on point… when I say I was just talking about this to myself yesterday wow.
Thank you for watching ❤️
8:23-8:29 I had this figured out as a young teenager. I also figured out that children compromised you, and your ability to make autonomous decisions, when I was 13. We were not taught to look at a man's CHARACTER when looking for a mate, and that to really know a man's character, you have to know him WELL...that takes YEARS. When you REALLY know a man, most do NOT measure up! Most are too undisciplined, and too ego centered, to have OUR best interests in mind.
I'm ace and everyday I count my blessings
There are some points in this that are true, like loving yourself, having healthy boundaries, being of good character. But there is also a lot of misleading bs in between, especially everything that has been stated about being emotionally removed from the situation, being 'in control', and all that struggle for power. Yes, you need to love yourself enough to have your own life and to not accept mistreatment and walk away if needed. But no amount of games you play will 'make' anyone love you. Games lead to trauma bonds, and these only work on emotionally unhealthy people. They don't 'love' you when you were able to trick them into a trauma bond - you just play the character of the person who traumatized them in the first place, so now you are the surface to project their trauma with all that entails onto you. And trust me, what trauma entails is not pretty. It's a messy dark void that threatens to devour everything and everyone who comes in contact with it. That's not a dynamic you want to become a part of. Actually, it's nothing short of evil to trick someone into their trauma response and then play with their deepest wound. You don't want that done to yourself, do you?
I understand that most women have had horrible experiences with men, which convinced them that they were not lovable and that they had to be someone else or use some tactic in order to 'get' a man. And there is no doubt a huge percentage of men who are just not capable of love. But that's all you truly have to accept - no one who hasn't met themselves can actually meet you. People can only ever meet you to the degree that they have met themselves. And no amount of games you play in order to try to trick a man into thinking he wants you, is able to help the fact that they can not actually want you, because they are not themselves, you are not yourself - how do you think are they supposed to love you for who you truly are, when you don't even show up as who you truly are? That's impossible.
Get to know yourself, who you truly are, not the mask you were taught to impersonate - and be brave enough to fully become you. That's the only way you can even allow people to see you for who you are and love you for exactly that. And that's what you want.
And you know what naturally comes with showing up in your true colors - the gift of knowing your worth and self-respect. Authenticity. Not bending yourself for anyone, not making yourself bigger or smaller than you are. Not denying what it is that you want - not denying yourself. Because a man you only get because he is for example scared by you saying you want to get married and have children, so you play the cool girl for him who just flaunts through life like a loose leaf in the wind, is not an emotionally grown up man - that's an immature child. And you don't want to waste your precious time on trying to control his moods and tantrums - you want to be happy. Being with a guy like that isn't happiness, it's misery and a constant struggle.
But we naturally seek peace. You don't seek struggle, you seek peace. And how do you achieve that? By being at peace with yourself, because you are authentic, because you never deny who you are for anyone. Because you can look in the mirror and say to yourself, I got my back. When you betray yourself, so will others. When you respect yourself, so will others.
Don't buy into this whole war between the sexes stuff, ladies. If you fight within and allow this madness into your mind, you invite that into your life. You don't need to betray yourself even more in order to find love - you need to finally once and for all love yourself. Everything else comes naturally.
The Truth, and so beautifully stated. Love & Light ❤️
@@19poeticsoul96 thank you, poetic soul :) love and light to you, too.
Perfectly said!❤ thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts on this topic...your wisdom is needed here🙏🏾💐
@@heavenly894 thank you, heavenly ❤️ you know what, I actually think that most of us deep down know these things, but we just haven't learned to trust ourselves enough to just follow our inner discernment. We have on purpose been conditioned to look for guidance outside of ourselves, because when we eventually remember our true guidance within, it's over for all fake systems of fake (inversion of) power, which only work through suppression. Once we stop suppressing our true self, our inner guidance, our innate power, and start living accordingly, a big step into the right direction is done. In the direction of our TRUE life, instead of the sad copy sold to us as such, which actually is a death serving system. The path to life leads through the acknowledgment of the soul, the path to death leads through the denial of it. Through following the intellect (outward focus) instead of the soul (inward focus). We all know these things, we have just been taught to not listen to ourselves.
@@heavenly894 wow crazy, my reply to you has just been deleted. But I always win, so :)
Thank you, heavenly ❤️ you know what, I actually think that most of us deep down know these things, but we just haven't learned to trust ourselves enough to just follow our inner discernment. We have on purpose been taught to look for guidance outside of ourselves, because when we eventually remember our true guidance within, it's over for all art ificial systems of art ificial (inversion of) power, who only work through suppression. Once we stop suppressing our true self, our inner guidance, our innate power, and start living accordingly, a big step into the right direction is done. In the direction of our TRUE life, instead of the sad copy sold to us as such, which actually is a death serving system. The path to life leads through the acknowledgment of the soul, the path to death leads through the denial of it. Through following the intellect (outward focus) instead of the soul (inward focus). We all know these things, we have just been taught to not listen to ourselves.
Girls!!! If he has made a mistake- ... it is too late for him to get our time&attention!!! Point blank!
Honestly who cares what men view anything as, I won’t even engage 😂
Exactly 💯😂😂
And this is why….I give what they give back to me…but be sure, I see who you are and move accordingly….
Move accordingly.....
Hey thank you for watching ❤️
I love the sprinkle sprinkle lady
They are no rules in love. It just is. You are either meant to be or you aren’t. Very simple.
Shera spitting facts I should put it on my water to drink it everyday ⚠️
😂😂 Thank you for watching ❤️
Most of the guys who are underdeveloped emotionally and mentally are just looking for revenge on women for the one girl they gave their all to and broke their heart, or they are looking to replace their mothers. I am not looking for either of those. I am looking for a man ready to take accountability, own up to his mistakes, apologizes, and is ready to have the tough mature conversations that come with being in a relationship. If you’re not there, don’t even ask if we can date. I don’t want it. I’m done dating. I’m just going to focus on God and becoming the best me and I will die alone, but I’m never going to settle for less than I deserve.
@@LiaVargas-p8r yes I second the I would rather die alone than settle for less than I deserve
I am not going to tell a man what I want him to do. Too much work. I am not stroking anything including their ego. I am not their mommy.
That's it I gave up on men, from now on its all about me and what I can do for me. Appreciate the ppl I have in my life and enjoy living single.
Shera is always on point.
Thank you for watching ❤️
These Shera clips are _particularly_ savage😂😂
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Fvck this. I'm not being someone I'm not, playing games, and being a bitch for anyone. I'd rather stay single, keep my peace of mind, and enjoy my life without all of the drama. 😂
Being a bitch is crucial in almost every area of life, not only relationships.
Cause good people are always stepped on.
Thank you for watching ❤️
I no longer listen to nor speak to men outside of a professional setting. So your job thrn leave. I don’t really to XY
What's your view on platonic relationship?
I will never listen to the same sex giving opinions or advice on anything concerning the opposite sex, but I love reading. Y'all be blessed ❣️
Thank you for watching ❤️😂
@@Chommikenya you're welcome 🫂
I love watching these videos because they make me appreciate my husband even more. Idk who these women are dating, but there are tons of great men out there who aren't like this. Maybe it's because I'm not into looks or money because those can disappear overnight, but my experience isn't the same as the women I see in videos like this. Just like p0rn gives men an unrealistic expectation of what sex is supposed to be like, romance movies give women an unrealistic expectation of what a happy, healthy, realistic relationship looks like.
It's not about how a woman makes them "feel". It about who requires the least and let's them get away with the most.
Both are true
The girl at 7:11 is undoing all the work of the previous videos. She's basically contradicting them bringing it back to serving a man to gain his love, basically what never works and what gets women exploited.
I agree. This is what most men want.
True that
And ignores the fact he might be with this other woman because he can take advantage of her without pushback.
Lol why does knowing how to treat others do automatically mean you feel like you are betraying yourselves? You can be social and be nice without putting out and getting in your feelings. You do it everyday at work or when you check out at the cash register and little polite interactions you have during the day. Men and people in general are attracted to your vibe and how you make them feel. Being polite make the other person feel important. So that all you have to do really to get someone to like you. Think about it you have some unhealthy men who stalk women for just being polite and wait for her to get off of work which in that case being impolite would have been useful. So carrying yourself in a way that’s makes the other person feel good about you is not going to cost you anything. Using honey is better than using vinegar. You’ve never heard of acting.
The Filipino chick?
Now why did you show a clip of Kevin Samuels lying? He told a woman she was a 5 or a 6 AFTER she told him she thought she was an 8. He lied about simply agreeing with her. 🙄
If they have to have you play these psychological games, they are not worth it
Women we just have to put self first
Ooh this is the one
Absolutely 💯💯💯
Thank you for watching ❤️
Woman are saving lifes❤
OK, so my take away from this video is this. DeCenter the man, work on yourself whether physically mentally spiritually get yourself a good therapist. Make yourself the best you can be so game. Can never be played on you. When you elevate your self-esteem everything else elevates… the following comments were from us a brand new 60 year-old who was just starting to date again, thank God I never had to do this crap in the 80s. Love you all.❤❤❤
Thank you ❤️
You must understand your emotions and logic thinking. Having discernment, knowing when your mind is sending you signals to your body....but a woman with a noisy mind can't see or feel herself....know thyself a man with out a vision or purpose will never have discipline or consistency....so a relationship shoud be last on your mind.... let the God in you spark the light within you'll attract anyone ❤
no time for this BS because being single is PEACEFUL 😂
Black woman here all my children are from my marriage.
I didn't want to be like someone I knew during my childhood, but there are Bw and Hispanic women with children only after marriage
Just treat them how you would like to be treated.
All these videos are designed to keep us single and unhappy tbh. Just do what's right for you and use your intuition when dating. You'll always be right no matter what. The woman in this video is speaking generally and what she feels is not always the case. Hella toxic forreal.
I was wondering why all these videos kept popping up on yt I’ve never seen it years ago ? Very true it’s designed how you are speaking of .
I agree! I couldn’t be on tik tok. It seems like all people do is complain. No wonder people aren’t getting the results they want. I’m in a relationship and didn’t deal with any of the things people talk about even when dating. A whole lot of people need to do some self reflecting and stop listening to randoms online who are also unhappy and unsuccessful. All of this doom and gloom is too much
Chile I'm single and celibate for 11 years and ain't really missing nothing
Agreed. The advice is coming from a place of hurt and bitterness. But, it’s not an absolute fact
I think it’s from people who were unhealed and didn’t use their intuition in the past so they got burned. But now they know better
All these beautiful women saying give these men a challenge like I’m pretty enough for men to want to take the challenge
If that's you in the photo ...you absolutely are pretty enough to give a man a challenge .❤
You are a pretty girl!
@@mamadoom9724 thank you
@@sophrosyne5900 thank you ❤️
that woman at 7:30 is 100% a pick me! As if being kind, understandting, godo to a mam has stopped them from abusing, cheating and taking advantage of women (and girls btw). Who forced child m2rriages unto girls? Men.
Who made marital grape legal? Men. Etc.
Stop witht the women should cater and listen to men. Thats how you end up lowering the bar..
Lady with the peach lipstick has a point
This video right here 👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you for watching ❤️
That guy in the plaid shirt is cute.
Or you can live your best single life 🥂
Exactly 💯 🥂
That theory about saying you don’t want a relationship (if you actually do), is so hilariously bad advice. I know women who tried that and just end up in months-long FWB/situationships. It’ll only work if he actually wanted you.
The fact that we still talking about men...like why are they still the topic of discussion ?
Because we need to Decenter them 😂😭
@@Chommikenya l love your response
10:03 this bit 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Some men entertain other women because it feeds their ego. They’re insecure and want to see if they still got it
Thank you for watching ❤️
@@Chommikenya You’re welcome 🌹❤️
How the heck did she go from loving yourself is evil? makes no sense
Because when you start loving yourself and taking care of yourself and doing things thinking about yourself first,
People around you start telling you that you're selfish, you're a narcissist b.........
@@Chommikenya bruh -_- imma continue loving myself regardless of what people say
@@ravnidara And that's the point !!
@08:44 to @09:03😂😅 transition is real .. no looking back if it aint real. They didnt know they were making us until we meet the real real genuine person
That transition for sure ❤ I don't mind it at all, I'm less invested and I'm loving who I'm becoming.
This is exhausting.
Thank you for watching ❤️
That poor lady giving the advice in clips. You can tell her she's really been through the wringer. She's probably been in one bad relationship after another...
Men not worth the time they play too many games and I always hate games 💀☠️
this are the reality nowadays. gone are the days of our grandfather where man and woman loyal to each others. moral of the society is depreciating. swinging is consider nowadays where previously frown upon.
I lovee it that man like narcissistic woman
Until they don't.
0:21 bith how are they showing the woman’s reflection
She talking nonsense. She meant the other way. She contradicts herself so much. 🤷🏽♀️
You gave up the goods too early. Usually the i want seggs type is impatient. You make him wait a bit, he shows anger/disappears. Thats the red flag.
By her letting them decide if she's a human. I don't know why she's speaking at all.
@@sg5720she is not talking nonsense you're just the one who didn't get it. She said that as in if you give your body to a man early on without him having to put any efforts you're showing you're cheap because anyone can have access to your body without even working for it. Basically she says you don't value yourself because if you respected yourself you wouldn't just let anyone have sex with you.
Simply by the fact that why would you allow someone to have sex with you before marriage, and if you had sex and they r being avoidant just avoid them too and look for the next man ! No time for victim card
I truly desire to see one of these videos without women in it. Let the men speak. They know men better than any woman ever will. When it's a video giving men advice about women, THAT'S our time to shine.
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GODS WAY IS THE BEST WAY, NO SEX UNTIL A MARRIAGE, THE SEX IS THE SPIRITUAL GLUE THAT KEEPS THE MARRIAGE TOGETHER, UNWED WOMEN WILL LOOSE OUT.. DO NOT SLEEP WITH THEM....
Father Alex is there
Sorry but as women we are nurturers and no book or man nor mindset will change that. I don't want to be with a man that doesn't appreciate attention or my efforts.
It would be a lie to date a man and pretend that he's not a priority, that's a good time and nothing else.
I agree with the bitter one, we live and learn, but what is money in comparison to other things... It's true that some men don't care about anyone or anything but themselves, but that's a psychological, illogical and low self esteem man, because in it's true nature man love and protect and provide.
Neither man and woman are in tune if it has to be war and defensive just skip the part of mating.
3:59
Who’s the girl at the end, I want to listen to her talk more haha
@10:44
just so we are all clear the lady in the thumbnail all the way to the right... is Tyrese Gibson's X wife... ijs...
All good but THESE ARE NOT MEN
lol, I’m glad I’m old and don’t give a fuck
That last clip loooooord. I understand the 'I feel' statements, that's tgerapy speak specifically for when you're dealing with arguments and disagreements. But to think men are so backward that you have to carefully craft and coax them to treat you like a person is DUMB af and enables this 'they don't understand women' thing and women need to AGAIN figure out a way to appeal to men.
FNF 😏🤗❤️💯🔥
Heard a lot of opinions...not truths...but y'all stay influenced instead of living 😊best of 🤞🏿🍀 luck 😄
Thank you! You too!
Not all men are the same.Just like not all women are the same.
Facts!!
9:29 turning love inward toward yourself to fill the voids you were left with is not becoming narcissistic. This lady is speaking total garbage.
@19:44
Some of this is just bad advice. Dont play stoopid games dont win stoopid prizes.its that simple. Say your truth and youll be alone for much longer but when you find a person it will be someone who actually aligns with your truth, not someone who had to be snap baited into giving a 💩 about you
Why are men…