Signs You're Dating A Narcissist - Do This To Outsmart Them Before it's Too Late! | Dr. Ramani

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  • @quinnrivera5075
    @quinnrivera5075 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Only way you win in a relationship with a narcissist is to go no contact with said narcissist.
    Nothing else works.

  • @reneegardner2286
    @reneegardner2286 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Easiest way to tell:Actions and words won't match. Simple as that. Had a covert narcissist move in with me recently as a new roommate. Within 2 months she went from perfect to the worst

    • @gabrielaguilhen6231
      @gabrielaguilhen6231 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Exactly! They promise you the world but their actions don’t show anything

  • @SheilaDay-k6q
    @SheilaDay-k6q 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    I am not in a relationship. However, I will remember what I have learned from you. My peace of mind and freedom to live as I please are ultimately most important to me. Narcissists are a waste of time. They have little to nothing to offer and who needs the games? Never again. Even though it was only over the Internet and I continued living my life, I wasted some time listening to this person. Thanks for your invaluable information on narcissists.

    • @justasimplesomeone
      @justasimplesomeone 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Warn others if you can. Somehow! Without implicating yourself!

  • @caralee2617
    @caralee2617 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    I would say the first sign will come from your own gut feeling which will send signal to your body telling you that this person doesn't make you feel comfortable being around him/her. The fact that you are already asking this question should alert you to be careful. Something will feel off and you won't know what it is exactly. Covert narcissists can act very charming in the beginning but there will be often also present underlying sense of superiority about them.
    That sense is actually deriving from them feeling insecure about themselves, so they tend to quietly degrade others in order to feel better about themselves. On the other hand if covert narcissist feels that you are above his league, he will act like your servant, trying to please you - almost annoying in a way. But make no mistake. If you decide to stay in a relationship with him, he will downgrade you and abuse you like all the others. Because in his mind, if you love him, he thinks you are unworthy of him.
    Covert narcissists hate themselves so if someone loves them, than they think this person is worth less than them and that they can do better. Other sign to look for is any kind of judgment towards others. If he criticises other frequently, he will more likely criticise you as well once he gets more comfortable around you. Pay attention to how he treats people that are dependent on him as well. Narcissists hate those especially if they can't get anything of of that for themselves.
    Additionally I got to know about my narc husband bad ways when I reach out to a private detective MetaspyHub@gmail. com for help he did a perfect work for me I can see everything he’s doing on his device.

  • @tlotus3032
    @tlotus3032 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Needed to hear this just now. Hard to love someone when you remember the horrendous gaslighting 😮 Ty!! 😊❤

  • @kaleidojess
    @kaleidojess วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    They project a lot of their faults onto you (partner). That's what my ex would do call me "lazy" when I have been working 7 days a week this year.

  • @barbpace-lamb
    @barbpace-lamb 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Merry Christmas ALL

  • @FoxSleeping
    @FoxSleeping 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    All narcissists have addictions. The very definition is an addiction to self and supply. 10:34

  • @Allenwatts-y9n
    @Allenwatts-y9n 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +58

    Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)

    • @JessicaAnotii
      @JessicaAnotii 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.

    • @Allenwatts-y9n
      @Allenwatts-y9n 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?

    • @JessicaAnotii
      @JessicaAnotii 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.

    • @JessicaAnotii
      @JessicaAnotii 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.

    • @Allenwatts-y9n
      @Allenwatts-y9n 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
      I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤

  • @NorinneWong
    @NorinneWong 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Bless you Dr. Ramani stay well & strong. You are a luminous light essential to this world. Joy to you & yours year-round!

  • @BeckaHearts
    @BeckaHearts 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Great advice thanks dr

  • @justasimplesomeone
    @justasimplesomeone 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Please try to warn others somehow - without implicating yourself!
    We must! But it’s not so easy!

  • @markohart691
    @markohart691 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dr Ramani is one very intelligent woman. Thank you Dr Ramani for the incredibly insightful wisdom you share. The number of people you have helped must be literally countless. Thank you for the help you gave me. ❤

  • @Plumduff3303
    @Plumduff3303 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I was played it hurts when you realise it was all lies.

    • @jenniferwingo5430
      @jenniferwingo5430 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sure does but you will heal and grow from it. Awareness is everything.once you see it you can't unsee it. Your discernment will be razor sharp. Yes it hurts but in time you will say hey that girl was right.

  • @rachelrobator2879
    @rachelrobator2879 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I never heard it put like that .. happens to me ALL the time ..
    That Freeze Response kicks in .. 😢

  • @brianhill6842
    @brianhill6842 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Would an example of gaslighting be telling me he wanted to do life with me and then weeks later when I tried to remind him it meant a lot to me he said, “do life with you? What are you talking about?” He also would show off my FB profile at work but then he didn’t want me to tag him on FB because he has work people and family he didn’t want to know his “business.”’ He discarded me after 8 months and it’s been awful.

  • @IzabelaWaniek-i1x
    @IzabelaWaniek-i1x 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for great observations and brilliant advice. ❤

  • @Loveblastall
    @Loveblastall 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I like the way u ask great question, I love ❤the way u allow her to complete answer/reply 👍🏽🙌

  • @tonifonseca9178
    @tonifonseca9178 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I have gone to a few counselors ..😢 and i keep picking with my bad picker.. and did counseling for years

  • @Red-hot-sonic-fan
    @Red-hot-sonic-fan 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you

  • @Injamamulmallick-mw8nt
    @Injamamulmallick-mw8nt 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    0:51 that's what has happnd to me exactly 💯💯💯💯

  • @maurition49
    @maurition49 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is amazing

  • @mihaela255
    @mihaela255 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Too late for him, not for me.

  • @pacmanne88
    @pacmanne88 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you 🙏