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We are all here but for a while on this tiny blue blip called earth. It is our prime responsibility to tend our own garden: that of the inner self, while tempering the ego. You're starting to sound like that pre-Socratic philosopher, Heraclitus with your point on things being in flux, changing; the illusion of stability. Heraclitus was the first to articulate what we now call moral relativism. As much as I would like to think self-healing is essential, it is, I also know not all wounds heal. And that's ok, if you're willing to live with the costs and consequences. Funny, this lesson is born out of Frodo in the LOTR, carrying a stab wound for the rest of his life. It's called reality.

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Beware of the (CON) in confidence. The CON-man ...

I find it so fascinating you speak candidly on the centrality of feeling as a young immigrant woman in a settler-colonial/digital culture that's predicated on materialism, exponential growth, resource extraction, technology, sensory overload, over-stimulating the base chakra as a constant, the hegemony of the eye (I) and not feeling that you're a woman in the least bit, all the while. That's a powerful truth, unnerving, but true. I definitely feel where you're coming from. In a society as such that I have only briefly sketched, efficiency is what counts. Getting as much stuff done in little time at minimum costs at the behest of employers. Emotions are irrelevant. Like I said, I'm glad I just subscribed. Keep making more videos like these, perhaps, you should start jutting down your thoughts. It'll make great writing. Speaking as a poet myself❤🌻

Other TH-camrs would refer to what you're talking about with two penetrating syllables: self-care🙂 I appreciate this 'self-help' video for its own sake rooted in deeply personal experience and to some extent, in praxis. You bring out the power of breath and gratefulness🥰🙏 I'm a newcomer here, glad I found you

I hope the ones who are ready to stand in their worth, find your video.

Realistically, how often do you think about these things? I want to cultivate these types of conversations with people but it seems tough to start them

this made me happy

Hello my friend 🎉🎉🎉 Very nice sharing ,♥️🌹👍

Thanks for this ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

"Be intentional with your choices and see the value in other people. Really, that's all that the formula is."

This is great, thank you

wow this was really beautiful and inspiring. ❤️

@3:50 The recent conflict I had was from a manager who was coming from a place of intentionally trying to provoke me...I have an appointment with fate (HR) tomorrow to determine my destiny.

“We’re all the natural by-product of what has happened in our life”- so true 🙌🏼

You've clearly done some invaluable inner work. Thank you for this little piece of eloquency!

Great upload as always! Would love a video on how we need each other as well, I definitely feel that’s something that needs to be talked about more!

i agree with this wise way of thinking i think we should be able to choose the best way we can be Each and every moment that is and its hard but its the best thing ❤ for me whenever i feel too confused i go meditate for 11 minutes and doing all this for years and reading about different science topics including the many therapy styles i think just like you now and this is very good for health ❤❤

Thank you sooo much. I am in a very difficult time right now and this video really helped me.

this was super helpful <3

I am in a sort of Very Shitty Especially Crappy Real Bad sort of place at the moment. It's been hard getting through the day and my way of feeling things out really wasn't working, it got too overwhelming and too large too fast and I wasn't able to be there with it at all. I have therapy and friends and journaling and whatnot but truly it is So hard to not run from a feeling like that. This helps I think. I'll be trying this out. Thank you <3

thank you for this vid <3 you're amazing

I look forward to your uploads. If you were ever to write a book I’d be the first to buy it!

beautiful video ❤❤ the last thing youve said "Theres nothing fixed about this life" i feel this this is true i was reading today a certain biology book about how biology is flexible and biology is life and thats why what you said is true And if life is not fixed then life is a mystery when we live a certain mystery we can never totally control we should instead accept it and accept it with love for oursleves and others ❤

What a beautiful video! Thank you for putting this out there for the world to hear (and me by chance), it’s definitely necessary.

Join me in Seattle - it's almost Canada! ❤

Those are great points, and you should also add skills and experience. Especially nowadays employers look if you have some experience doing the tasks at hand, or they won't hire you. you need Canadian experience, a lot of businesses won't train you anymore like they used to do. So I encourage you guys to go out and do voluntary work in your field, or do an internship to gain experience. The qualities she listed are important to have, but a company will not hire you only based on that.

REAL this vid is awesome✨

Alot of women, dont have the luxury to work or study. Or do anything outside the norms of aociety. Some women dont even acess to their own money, it is stolen by their partners,bfs. Etc.

You remind me of a trad wife gal who was popular about a year ago. Anyways, it's so messed up that we humans have to "process" our emotions, bla bla bla. I don't see any other animals having to do that. I think I'm emotionally trapped at the age of trauma, 2 1/2 years. I will spend the rest of my days working out my trauma. I'm now near the end of life snd have only just discovered these ideas. I'll quit here.

great video i like those methods and i feel they work very well thnks for sharing with us

Yes they are. I went to Asia to marry a more traditional girl. Women in the West have made life crazy and will be childless, sadly.

as a former hiring manager, i approve this message

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Step 1: List your gender as non-binary Step 2: Claim to be a minority worked for me!

You really need to watch Revolver of Guy Ritchie

The move to push women into the workforce was encouaged by the ownership class, powerful men. Its a sick reality, both parents working to barely pay the bills of an unaffordable life, and the kids suffer. I had 2 workaholic parents and there were costs to that. True freedom is for people to be able to pursue their true passions without submitting to a dehumanizing labor system. True feminism or just bare human rights is having economic freedom for all.

Sahel chetori? Your video popped up. The best "job" is anti-capitalist activity

Service mentality (Slave) = opposite of entrepreneur (Master) mentality. Choose wisely, one could end up in a lifetime job, the other could end up you being a billionaire. You don't need a job, you need money. Never get into Slave mentality, you'll never become a rich person.

Your advice is solid. Been having serious anxiety since i graduated and it has been more than half a year without a job. Mostly bc im not putting in the effort anymore. Interviews have been a focus of my anxiety this year and it makes me break down. I know it looks very trivial, but it's just what's happening. Your advice has been very eye opening though. Turning this away from it being about me and more what can be done for others is a very eloquent way to put it. Im no longer crying now, my heart is soothed and mind is calm and recuperating. Thanks for being non judgemental too, i heard no point where you look down on us. Thanks for lifting us up

im a dude And i agree with you I think all our mental issues is just poeple not knowing the facts about who they truly are and how the body works Less mindfulness means confusion ❤

Quit whining. Women can make their own money and don't need men for anything but sex, which they can get anytime. Things aren't like they were for most of history where women needed men for all sorts of things, so women are going to have to define their place in the artificial world. This is uncharted territory. Everything you ever wanted. You are now the masters of your own destiny without men to stop you. So, good luck. Let's see whatcha got.

You're a VERY wise and insightful girl! Keep Rockin'!❤

Oh my God. I have kids in your age group. Are you looking for a spouse? I’m looking for another daughter-in-law.

I haven't finished the video, but I kid you not the way I have needed this video. !!!! I am not in Canada, I am in the US, but I needed something like this video for the past few weeks. I am trying to find a (any) job as an undergrad student and it is both daunting and difficult. Thank you for putting any type of advice on this out there for people like me. ❤ EDIT: Yes to the follow-up video!!! I loved all the advice you gave. I even downloaded some apps for more strategic job hunting in the next few days. Thank you for being transparent, spcifically about not being a good fit for every position. I am not great at high paced environmwnrs because of my anxiety, but I can do almost anything in a slow-moderately paced workspace. Lots of love your way. ❤❤❤

Ive learned to really truly love and appreciate my ego in a way i never knew possible. The level of compassion ive cultivated for myself has been what has allowed to embrace all my shadows, invite them all to the tea party. I have witnessed a few aspects of my ego either totally dissolve or integrate. But I am grateful for the friendship i have made with my own being. How i treat myself is the standard for how i am treated by others. I have lost many friends due to this. But i wouldnt have it any other way. I take things less personally, also less reactive and able to view things with a lot more openness, curiosity and neutrality. Befriending your shadows is a big part of the work of befriending the ego. I know that there is a lot of teachings and information in the spiritual world about annihilating the ego. How terriyfing the language! When you build trust and care towards your ego, there is more of a willingness to let go. But trying to force anything in my experience will not get you very far. Like you said, it will show up in other ways.

girl i'm genuinely so happy for you!! you give off a good friend energy <3